Stop Over Analyzing / Relationships Anxiety
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ย. 2024
- Over analyzing relationship issues is the cause of relationship anxiety. But it's really a symptom of not living your own life to the fullest. If you want more info on getting the loving relationship you're looking for, sign up at modernlove.life...
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When you spend too much time over analyzing relationship issues, it can often be a sign that you are over invested in someone else's opinion of you more than you are in your own opinion of yourself.
That's not to say that the other person's opinion is meaningless or that you shouldn't care about how they feel or what they think.
But when you are over invested in their opinion, it means that you often don't care enough about your own opinion of yourself or that you do not have enough going on in your own life to the point that you have to invent things to blow out of proportion.
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This was exactly the video I needed to watch. I'm going into 2020 with a goal building of a loving relationship with someone. I have been nervous about being too eager and coming off as desperate, but I think I got the confidence boost I needed from this. I've worked on myself for so long, and I plan to let the world see it too!
I can feel the confidence you have there, ayame 吹雪 :-) All the best on your journey.
I’m one of the biggest overthinkers when it comes to my previous relationship but lately I’ve been doing good and I haven’t reached out to him in weeks. Today he put something of mine that I left at his place in my mailbox. I feel terrible because he is seeing someone new and I’m afraid this means he wants to close this chapter for good.
HI Cinella, Don't let anything like that create a story that doesn't have solid evidence. What is important in the end is your connection as a person and not any form of material things that would link the bond between the two of you. All the best.
Hi Clay obviously I'm making all the mistakes even while I know what not to do🤦🏻♂️but I'm back on the friend path. She is in a rebound or I pray it is she is taking it slow and its a complete opposite of any relationship she ever had is it a rebound or is my chance lost. She told me in my face that she still loves me and she is not in love with the new guy but she is starting to gro to love him please this is my future wife what do I do please please help! 😭😭😭
So I'll try to keep this short. My ex and I were an active no contact for a few months and it's been a bit tough to get through because she is in a rebound relationship. We were friendly with each other and getting along great but about two weeks ago she decided to cut contact off with me completely because her feelings felt off and she felt confused. I obliged and I've left her alone completely but now she seems angry at me because I chose to leave her alone. I'm going to leave her alone until things cool off but she's been very hot and cold and I really just can't figure out what she's playing at this point.
Hey Evin, it seems like your ex is at the Riding the Dragon phase. you can learn more about this phase through our video over here >> th-cam.com/video/_kkoGM1Vid0/w-d-xo.html
Hi clay, I've been having trouble trying to approach my ex recently, when I ask her how she's doing she always replies with good or ok. How do I connect with her on an emotional level if there isn't anything out of the ordinary?
Hey, NF, It seems like your ex is still hesitant to open her doors for communication. This is what we call the Test Drive phase. You can learn more about the said phase through this video. >>> th-cam.com/video/tMV9NiR8e2U/w-d-xo.html
My ex and I broke up a month ago and she’s dating a friend of mine now. We dated for 7 months. He’s very similar to me. Is this a rebound and what’s some good advice? Thanks
Hey Tyler, On a superficial level, it may look like a rebound relationship. but like what you have said, your friend is very similar to you, so it may seem like she is not over you completely. the best advice that we can give is for you to work on your healing, learning and practicing the Advanced Relational Skills so you would stand out against the other guys that she is seeing with. :-)
Clay Andrews thank you very much for your reply. I have actually inquired about a coaching call potentially soon
Hey Clay, I’m following your ex solution guide. I’ve been in active no contact for about a month and working on the relational skills. If I am over analyzing and anxious about the first text or initial contact am I really ready to be texting my ex? Thank you for the guide and your videos, they have been amazing.
Hi Kevin, If we are still over-analyzing or getting anxious, it must be that we are still at the Attachment phase. WE may need to work on further in our Acceptance and awareness. At the same time our self-esteem and confidence and learn to detach from any form of outcome. :-) Also, you mentioned that you are one of our ESP course members, so if you have subscribed to our exclusive community, please post your questions inside the community so our team and other members can share their thoughts and you get the much-needed support on your journey. :-) All the best.
Replied to your email you sent me. When you get time get back to me. Thank you.