I'm chamar.....and a kshatriya girl proposed me... even though I likes her a lot...I denied her to initiate any relationship .... because there is high risk of my death and even though we succeed.....the relation between our family will be troublesome.
Caste discrimination nhi karte iska kya matlab hai ki dusre jaati ki ladki se shaadi kar lein? Apne jaisa log se hi shaadi karenge na? Muslim Muslim se kare, Hindu Hindu se kare, ek jaati ka ussi jaati se kare. Sab aapas mein shaadi karenge to na Hindu bachega, na Muslim, na caste, sab khichri ban jayega, ye kaisa diversity jaha sab koi ek jaisa hi hai😂
SC ..,st me to utna nhi ...but jo obc samaaj hai ...wo aisa predict krte hain ..jaise wo khud brahman ho....sbse jyada Puja paath ,karmkand ,,dharmik bhawnayein rakhne wale OBC hi hain......To inke beech castiesm to hai..
Most atrocities done on scst are by obcs (yadav, rana ) and thakurs. Obc also include some rajputs and brahmins too. Obc never experienced actual caste discrimination like untouchability that scst did.
Many General Castes especially the Brahmins haven't got rid of their casteist feelings even if they have converted to other religions then how can marrying in different castes/religions will remove casteism ?
You are literally telling people to turn their backs on their ancestors, their blood, and their land. Why would anyone forget that they come form a prestigious line of rulers, thinkers, and philosophers
@@sorenutpal6091 Then how can marrying in different castes/religions eradicate casteism ? If we blindly believe whatever Babasaheb has said is infallible then we are no different than the blind devotees of LENIN/STALIN/MAO-TSE TUNG etc
@@HDB41 naah, thinkers hote to printing press, calculus aur physics west ki jagah idhar janam leti. Anyways, I was born Brahmin, but I have given up on it, including my surname!
No, in Annihilation of caste he mentioned, caste system is coming from hindu religion itself. To Annihilate the caste, have to annihilate the religious notions behind it. If you Annihilate the religion that will automatically annihilate the Casteist. I think, if govt of India ban all caste related religious notion. That will be one of the positive step.
OBC, SC and ST me shadiya hoti he pr Max. Love marriage hoti he pr usme bhi economic conditions bhi aajati he ki achchi gov. Job he to hi ghar se support milta he. kabhi kabhi to uske bad bhi oppose hi krte he.
I am in obc category. Maine jitna apne samaaz ko dekha hai obc ka upper cast se shaadi na karne ka main reason insecurity hi hai aur obc generals pe trust nhi karte. Aur sc st se shaadi na karne ka main reaso unhen neecha samajhna (discrimination) hai.har cheez me baraabar maan lenge par shaadi k liye sc st neech ho jaate hain. Aur other obc cast me shaadi na karne ke reason social difference hai aur obc me bhi categorisation hai. Like kuch yadavas ye maante hai ki hum khatriya the ya chandravanshi hai toh baakiyon se better hain aur baniyon ka ye manna ki hum vaishya the sudra nhi.
My guess is that religious hegemony is at play here. That is to say most of the people in all the castes are religious and therefore as a virtue of it they not only believe in the prevailing caste system but also practice it conciously. Secondly, unfortunately there is a caste divide within a caste cateogry also (again i think it is a result of religious hegemony). Eg Dalit, Maha dalit..
@@akshayde tbh most atrocities are done by them only or leave it even a sc dont marry another caste sc bro ,i discovered it that chamar think thyer are above bhangi and pasi and all they dont marry,yahan ke system dekh ke normal log pagal ho jaye
@@mandakinijha1116 its the system that is ingrained and conditioned.. like robots. and the castes you mentioned dont even get education and develop the mental tools to break out of that system. beause it they do, they will also be crushed by those above and below them. like robots everybody kind of just goes on.
Main thing is to do simply registered marriages i.e. court marriages- don't call pandits/purohits. Don't donate in temples run by brahmin priests. Don't call brahmins for funerals/naming of your children. Don't attend thread ceremonies of brahmins. In short boycott brahminism as much as possible. This will not eradicate casteism fully but surely create cracks in brahminism. The last point maybe difficult to follow especially if the person involved in thread ceremony is your colleague/neighbour/relative/boss etc. But I think you can follow the other points. Mere intercaste/interreligion marriages are not the solutions nor are religious conversions the solutions.
Intercaste marriages will not destroy casteism. Many general caste men marry reserved caste women. Yet those men will proudly declare that they have married lower caste women- as if they have done some favour to those women! Forget it Manoj Vajpayee has married in different religion (not a different caste but a totally different religion) yet he openly calls himself a Brahmin!
Why should he not call himself Brahmin?😂 I don't get your point. If her wife says she is from a particular religion and she is proud of that, good. Doesn't the same goes for him. I think you are the type of person who appreciates a sc/st being proud on what they are but if general are doing the same it's wrong. 😂
OBC and ST SC got their social structure and shape it by being inspired by the so called upper caste as in back of time they were prosporus and wealthy so the lower class people were slowly taking notes getting inspired and trying to mimic them to become the part of the so called society and its standards as set by so called upper class And why this would have happened because the lower class was not allowed to study and have their own thoughts so what left for them to learn from the so called upper class and the so called standard set by them and this was the reason slowly OBC STSC become as they are now and think they should be marring in the caste only otherwise society and log kya kahenge
Inter caste, inter religion, inter race etc marriages will always harm the minority community. The reason why Parsis still exist in the world is because they marry among themselves, if they will support inter religion marriage then they will get assimilated into the wider hindu population. Same goes with Muslims, if Muslims will intermarry on the basis of religion, they too will be subsumed by the Hindus. Similarly, intermarriages based on caste only harms the upper castes cause they are the minority among the castes.
also lets say hypothetically this person is correct then too in any case a secular reform is needed which we can easily see popular media isnt providing a chance for this discourse also if this person is against caste and want to help a certain community reform he should talk to them not you.
Pehle caste bhoolni padegi , phir sirf marriage hogi Jab tak khud ko seggregate karne ke liye identity dete rahoge tab tak discrimination jagrut rahegi Like when someone asks to which category do you belong , one should answer that I DONT KNOW the only thing i know is that i am a human Humans are so fearful of being ignored that they give to themselves a particular identity , 'just not to be ignored by a fellow human ' It's my opinion that application of cosmetics by women is because they want to stand out from the rabble and doesn't want to be ignored Call me sexist or whatever you want It applies to all attention seekers
If Inter caste marriages does not happen then there's casteism well and alive is not a nuanced argument. There's a cultural differences between castes and people have their own preferences. Its like saying that if a white person does not marry a black person in America then he/she is a racist which is a ridiculous accusation. People have got their own personal preferences and it may or may not have to do with discrimination.
people confuse preference with discrimination, sure if it is happening in random patches- it is a preference. But if you see that trend en masse, then saying that it is not discrimination is just cowardice
According to the National Council of Applied Economic Research, 95% of Indian marriages happen within the same caste. Preferences are individualistic. When the majority of the 140crore ppl in the country share the same "preference", which is deliberately taught and is forcefully enforced, it is discriminatory & detrimental to everyone involved. This purity obsession is a sickness that hides behind words like culture and merit.
@@aswathyl1286 95 percent consists of many castes. The upper caste population is like only 15 percent of the Indian population. I've seen people from LC who vehemently are opposed to inter caste marriage cuz they are very tribalistic and see their culture as superior. For instance a jatt will never marry outside of his caste. You can't blame brahmins really when all the caste prefer their own when it comes to marriage. Doesn't matter if they are UC or LC and it's for the same reason. Indians are very tribalistic and caste oriented.
@@aswathyl1286 Do you think majority of Americans are racists as well? Inter racial marriages are not common at all in the US. In fact there's data showing that the majority of people in the world tend to marry within their race/culture. Do you think the majority of the world population are racists?
@@vv6533 Why be defensive & disingenuous when you could just sit back & reflect on this? There is absolutely no threat to you if you do that, unlike the dissenters of this system. Try. In the US, the whites are the majority~59, the blacks & Hispanics~13 &18% of the ppln. Even then there's abt 19% interracial marriages. In India, DBA to Savarna ppln is around 80-20%, where interracial marriages happen ~5%, which are mostly happening among the lower castes. Caste/Varna system is a tailor made, vertical hierarchy, based on purity of birth. The brahminical system has a ladder pattern of hate, false dignity, division & insecurity. In a country where daily caste based honour killings & atrocities happen, to claim that this particular homegrown evil is somehow a natural and innocent happenstance, is just simply dishonest. It can't even be equated with racism since it operates in the shadows & in secrecy. Casteism works because it makes everyone complicit in it, not just the Brahmins. Relax and read up on it, because there's really no serious pushback to your hegemony outside of social media. Maybe try to engage with it with an open mind. Have some guts. Or not. But this is all the time I have for you.
I'm chamar.....and a kshatriya girl proposed me... even though I likes her a lot...I denied her to initiate any relationship .... because there is high risk of my death and even though we succeed.....the relation between our family will be troublesome.
Just flee to another city, if it's feasible for both of you
"Humare gaon mein casteism zero percent hai. Bas koi intercaste marriage nahi karta!" 😂😂
It’s not a laughing matter Badar
@@beactivebehappy9894 I was laughing at the irony. Did u get it?
Got it👍😊... Ye bhi to casteism ka ek type hai ye unko koun samjhaye🤦
Caste discrimination nhi karte iska kya matlab hai ki dusre jaati ki ladki se shaadi kar lein? Apne jaisa log se hi shaadi karenge na? Muslim Muslim se kare, Hindu Hindu se kare, ek jaati ka ussi jaati se kare. Sab aapas mein shaadi karenge to na Hindu bachega, na Muslim, na caste, sab khichri ban jayega, ye kaisa diversity jaha sab koi ek jaisa hi hai😂
Antithetical statements 😀
Great discussion,on caste ,
SC ..,st me to utna nhi ...but jo obc samaaj hai ...wo aisa predict krte hain ..jaise wo khud brahman ho....sbse jyada Puja paath ,karmkand ,,dharmik bhawnayein rakhne wale OBC hi hain......To inke beech castiesm to hai..
As an obc I approve to this statement 😂. They are so obsessed with trying to show them as higher caste.
@@itsankit1507 I can confirm that
So true dude mere bhaiya ki wedding hone wali thi but saamne wale obc the unhone mana kar diya.
@@itsankit1507as an OBC i second that, it's all insecurity
I’m obc and u r 100% right
Most atrocities done on scst are by obcs (yadav, rana ) and thakurs.
Obc also include some rajputs and brahmins too.
Obc never experienced actual caste discrimination like untouchability that scst did.
Saying OBC are more responsible for casteism is like saying Mogambo's henchmen are more responsible for violence than Mogambo.
2:00 true that things happen but mostly when boy is of low caste , when the girl is of upper caste
Many General Castes especially the Brahmins haven't got rid of their casteist feelings even if they have converted to other religions then how can marrying in different castes/religions will remove casteism ?
You are literally telling people to turn their backs on their ancestors, their blood, and their land. Why would anyone forget that they come form a prestigious line of rulers, thinkers, and philosophers
Even if they become atheist, they don't lose their Brahmanvadi mindset
@@sorenutpal6091 Then how can marrying in different castes/religions eradicate casteism ? If we blindly believe whatever Babasaheb has said is infallible then we are no different than the blind devotees of LENIN/STALIN/MAO-TSE TUNG etc
@@HDB41 So they should keep on continuing caste based discrimination?
@@HDB41 naah, thinkers hote to printing press, calculus aur physics west ki jagah idhar janam leti. Anyways, I was born Brahmin, but I have given up on it, including my surname!
No, in Annihilation of caste he mentioned, caste system is coming from hindu religion itself. To Annihilate the caste, have to annihilate the religious notions behind it. If you Annihilate the religion that will automatically annihilate the Casteist. I think, if govt of India ban all caste related religious notion. That will be one of the positive step.
OBC, SC and ST me shadiya hoti he pr Max. Love marriage hoti he pr usme bhi economic conditions bhi aajati he ki achchi gov. Job he to hi ghar se support milta he. kabhi kabhi to uske bad bhi oppose hi krte he.
SC ST mai nahi hoti bro
Hamare yaha Aise marriage me Bhayanak lafde hote hai 😓
I am in obc category. Maine jitna apne samaaz ko dekha hai obc ka upper cast se shaadi na karne ka main reason insecurity hi hai aur obc generals pe trust nhi karte.
Aur sc st se shaadi na karne ka main reaso unhen neecha samajhna (discrimination) hai.har cheez me baraabar maan lenge par shaadi k liye sc st neech ho jaate hain. Aur other obc cast me shaadi na karne ke reason social difference hai aur obc me bhi categorisation hai. Like kuch yadavas ye maante hai ki hum khatriya the ya chandravanshi hai toh baakiyon se better hain aur baniyon ka ye manna ki hum vaishya the sudra nhi.
My guess is that religious hegemony is at play here. That is to say most of the people in all the castes are religious and therefore as a virtue of it they not only believe in the prevailing caste system but also practice it conciously.
Secondly, unfortunately there is a caste divide within a caste cateogry also (again i think it is a result of religious hegemony). Eg Dalit, Maha dalit..
I think Arjun wants to put words into your mouth, that backward communities are more castiest than General Category.
Woh bhi by 3%.
@@akshayde tbh most atrocities are done by them only or leave it even a sc dont marry another caste sc bro ,i discovered it that chamar think thyer are above bhangi and pasi and all they dont marry,yahan ke system dekh ke normal log pagal ho jaye
@@mandakinijha1116 its the system that is ingrained and conditioned.. like robots. and the castes you mentioned dont even get education and develop the mental tools to break out of that system. beause it they do, they will also be crushed by those above and below them. like robots everybody kind of just goes on.
Main thing is to do simply registered marriages i.e. court marriages- don't call pandits/purohits. Don't donate in temples run by brahmin priests. Don't call brahmins for funerals/naming of your children. Don't attend thread ceremonies of brahmins. In short boycott brahminism as much as possible. This will not eradicate casteism fully but surely create cracks in brahminism. The last point maybe difficult to follow especially if the person involved in thread ceremony is your colleague/neighbour/relative/boss etc. But I think you can follow the other points. Mere intercaste/interreligion marriages are not the solutions nor are religious conversions the solutions.
this is not possible bro,everybody is deep into religion,everybody loves god and priest are clever so
@@mandakinijha1116 Loving & Respecting God need not lead to Casteism.
Best solution is separate country for Dalits
Intercaste marriages will not destroy casteism. Many general caste men marry reserved caste women. Yet those men will proudly declare that they have married lower caste women- as if they have done some favour to those women! Forget it Manoj Vajpayee has married in different religion (not a different caste but a totally different religion) yet he openly calls himself a Brahmin!
Why should he not call himself Brahmin?😂 I don't get your point. If her wife says she is from a particular religion and she is proud of that, good. Doesn't the same goes for him. I think you are the type of person who appreciates a sc/st being proud on what they are but if general are doing the same it's wrong. 😂
This is, I mean caste system is also issue of our country Nepal
OBC and ST SC got their social structure and shape it by being inspired by the so called upper caste as in back of time they were prosporus and wealthy so the lower class people were slowly taking notes getting inspired and trying to mimic them to become the part of the so called society and its standards as set by so called upper class
And why this would have happened because the lower class was not allowed to study and have their own thoughts so what left for them to learn from the so called upper class and the so called standard set by them and this was the reason slowly OBC STSC become as they are now and think they should be marring in the caste only otherwise society and log kya kahenge
descriptive statistics and inferential statistics are two different things, people.
I think one of the reason might me repulsion or resistance
Vimoh...pl get some better informed persons in your discussions, so that such discussions can bring out more authentic point(s) of views
Inter caste, inter religion, inter race etc marriages will always harm the minority community. The reason why Parsis still exist in the world is because they marry among themselves, if they will support inter religion marriage then they will get assimilated into the wider hindu population. Same goes with Muslims, if Muslims will intermarry on the basis of religion, they too will be subsumed by the Hindus. Similarly, intermarriages based on caste only harms the upper castes cause they are the minority among the castes.
also lets say hypothetically this person is correct then too in any case a secular reform is needed which we can easily see popular media isnt providing a chance for this discourse also if this person is against caste and want to help a certain community reform he should talk to them not you.
Pehle caste bhoolni padegi , phir sirf marriage hogi
Jab tak khud ko seggregate karne ke liye identity dete rahoge tab tak discrimination jagrut rahegi
Like when someone asks to which category do you belong , one should answer that I DONT KNOW
the only thing i know is that i am a human
Humans are so fearful of being ignored that they give to themselves a particular identity , 'just not to be ignored by a fellow human '
It's my opinion that application of cosmetics by women is because they want to stand out from the rabble and doesn't want to be ignored
Call me sexist or whatever you want
It applies to all attention seekers
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If Inter caste marriages does not happen then there's casteism well and alive is not a nuanced argument. There's a cultural differences between castes and people have their own preferences. Its like saying that if a white person does not marry a black person in America then he/she is a racist which is a ridiculous accusation. People have got their own personal preferences and it may or may not have to do with discrimination.
people confuse preference with discrimination, sure if it is happening in random patches- it is a preference. But if you see that trend en masse, then saying that it is not discrimination is just cowardice
According to the National Council of Applied Economic Research, 95% of Indian marriages happen within the same caste. Preferences are individualistic. When the majority of the 140crore ppl in the country share the same "preference", which is deliberately taught and is forcefully enforced, it is discriminatory & detrimental to everyone involved. This purity obsession is a sickness that hides behind words like culture and merit.
@@aswathyl1286 95 percent consists of many castes. The upper caste population is like only 15 percent of the Indian population. I've seen people from LC who vehemently are opposed to inter caste marriage cuz they are very tribalistic and see their culture as superior. For instance a jatt will never marry outside of his caste. You can't blame brahmins really when all the caste prefer their own when it comes to marriage. Doesn't matter if they are UC or LC and it's for the same reason. Indians are very tribalistic and caste oriented.
@@aswathyl1286 Do you think majority of Americans are racists as well? Inter racial marriages are not common at all in the US. In fact there's data showing that the majority of people in the world tend to marry within their race/culture. Do you think the majority of the world population are racists?
@@vv6533 Why be defensive & disingenuous when you could just sit back & reflect on this? There is absolutely no threat to you if you do that, unlike the dissenters of this system. Try.
In the US, the whites are the majority~59, the blacks & Hispanics~13 &18% of the ppln. Even then there's abt 19% interracial marriages. In India, DBA to Savarna ppln is around 80-20%, where interracial marriages happen ~5%, which are mostly happening among the lower castes.
Caste/Varna system is a tailor made, vertical hierarchy, based on purity of birth. The brahminical system has a ladder pattern of hate, false dignity, division & insecurity. In a country where daily caste based honour killings & atrocities happen, to claim that this particular homegrown evil is somehow a natural and innocent happenstance, is just simply dishonest. It can't even be equated with racism since it operates in the shadows & in secrecy. Casteism works because it makes everyone complicit in it, not just the Brahmins.
Relax and read up on it, because there's really no serious pushback to your hegemony outside of social media. Maybe try to engage with it with an open mind. Have some guts. Or not.
But this is all the time I have for you.