SIGNS YOU'RE KINDA MAYBE NOT STRAIGHT

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  • Watch me think back to the signs I missed while growing up, that may have hinted to me being part of the LGBT+ community!
    ** These are just my experiences, they maybe a little stereotype and it in no way means you are not straight 100% **

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  • @katsooo5923
    @katsooo5923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3266

    My love life is non-existent so it makes it harder for me to recognize my sexuality

  • @joenuts5361
    @joenuts5361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +667

    I’m uncomfortable talking to both genders

    • @jashavier5931
      @jashavier5931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same TwT

    • @mars5709
      @mars5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Saaammmmeeeee

    • @Bluddiestblud
      @Bluddiestblud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too

    • @arby6922
      @arby6922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Maybe your bi? :3

    • @phia._.
      @phia._. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Dude, sameee. That’s why I have 1 girl friend and 1 boy friend. It’s balanced 😂 (notice the space between girl friend and boy friend)

  • @daintyzombie
    @daintyzombie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    Who else be in middle school and keep thinking i think i am- nooo mmm- yeahhh- wait nahhh- sure lets try- nahhhh

    • @DietDrKelp-ty3fh
      @DietDrKelp-ty3fh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Meeeee. I just don’t understand anymore. I was obsessed with trying to get this girls’ attention at the beginning of the year, but I never got butterflies when talking to her like with my guy crushes. She’s the closest thing I’ve ever come to a girl crush. One of my friends (she’s a girl too) tried to kiss me after school every day in second grade, so she was actually my first kiss 😳 I felt really awkward thinking about it, and I was kind of ashamed (I never had a problem with girls liking girls, but at the time, I had a crush on a guy), but now that I think about it, the idea isn’t that bad. I don’t understand myself.

    • @taylor.-.8653
      @taylor.-.8653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      for the past couple months I’ve been think abt girls like sexually and me being in a relationship with one but I still think this way with a guy and I’m so confused with myself rn I keep telling myself it’s just a phase but I also think it’s not and I’m just a mess :)

    • @DietDrKelp-ty3fh
      @DietDrKelp-ty3fh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      vernonchew haha SAME. The girl I was talking about that I never got butterflies for, I think I actually do like her. I don’t even know what’s happening anymore.

    • @taylor.-.8653
      @taylor.-.8653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Diet Dr. Kelp the hard part is that it’s so confusingggg I’ve never had feeling for a girl but I can see myself with one and think sexually abt girls but have never had feeling for one so I’m just so confused with myself plus if I am bi I’m so scared to come out to my family I’ve already been thinking about it and it scares me just thinking abt it

    • @DietDrKelp-ty3fh
      @DietDrKelp-ty3fh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      vernonchew same! I’ve never had feelings for a girl, but still have fantasies and stuff. My family is religious and they don’t really like anyone who is attracted to the same gender in any way, so I don’t really think I’ll ever come out (if I really am bi).

  • @holasoydora9741
    @holasoydora9741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    I feel so confused if I'm bi some one help

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Sarah Vsco Unicorn what kind of video would help you? :)

    • @holasoydora9741
      @holasoydora9741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Aisha-May's Way I would say a how to know your bisexual vid or something like that

    • @livliv3961
      @livliv3961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sarah Vsco Unicorn would you date a female

    • @holasoydora9741
      @holasoydora9741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Estelle Subliminals YEAND A GUY

    • @mila-qd2ki
      @mila-qd2ki 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Search about "compulsory heterosexuality". That may help you

  • @t0m239
    @t0m239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    I played with barbies and I’m gay.
    I am a boy tho.

    • @maddiepaddy2608
      @maddiepaddy2608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      I'm a girl, and had a crush on barbie

    • @naomifox2961
      @naomifox2961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Maddie Patty thats just signs of loneliness 🤣🤣🤣

    • @maddiepaddy2608
      @maddiepaddy2608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@naomifox2961 no, I went to school and had lots of friends. I often played barbies with my sister

    • @toewsheggedal5788
      @toewsheggedal5788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cool

    • @melindagacha7238
      @melindagacha7238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Barbies are fun tho dont blame you

  • @evenings.2452
    @evenings.2452 4 ปีที่แล้ว +817

    My first kiss was girl too 😂 I didn't even know what the hell was lgbt. In first grade we used to go to the girls bathroom and kiss on the damn lips! Like wow hold up 😂🤔

    • @__illia__
      @__illia__ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      When I was in 2nd grade, I kissed my friend Audrey on the lips. Didn’t realize that I wasn’t straight until 8th grade. IT TOOK SIX YEARS.

    • @nyxcal
      @nyxcal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      A Potato WTF SAME. In 2nd grade I kissed a girl and didn’t know I wasn’t straight until 8th grade.

    • @angeldemon9740
      @angeldemon9740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      For me i dud it too but on my bday at my party..

    • @angelinaevora3469
      @angelinaevora3469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      In 1st grade I kissed this girl and she would kiss me back and now I'm like damn I was gay back then 💀

    • @lanayankum9458
      @lanayankum9458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I did that in kindergarten

  • @idkwhattoputhere7950
    @idkwhattoputhere7950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    When I was little I was obsessed with painting rainbows everywhere when I was 6, I said it’s for the “rainbow people”

    • @Soph-TV
      @Soph-TV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I just remember something.
      every single freaking day in pre-kindergarten I would draw rainbows at the crafts table.
      *every freaking day*

    • @venusgxcha
      @venusgxcha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lolllll rainbow people lol

    • @lilygriffiths5430
      @lilygriffiths5430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol I made my old usernames rainbow something and I even named my teddy rainbow, i didn't know what lgbt was tho haha

    • @Jen_TheSnail
      @Jen_TheSnail 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh.., you Little sweet gay baby! 🏳️‍🌈

    • @fluffylemon8665
      @fluffylemon8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s wholesome

  • @ainbraybaker207
    @ainbraybaker207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    I be mad confused I tell myself *"I'm straight I'm straight I'm straight"* but I dont feel like I'm straight(im sorry if its confusing)

    • @helenfaith1508
      @helenfaith1508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      SAME like I feel like I’m in the middle like I don’t wanna say I’m bi cause I don’t think I am but I don’t think I’m straight either

    • @juliamyburg8935
      @juliamyburg8935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@helenfaith1508 same though it's rlly confusing

    • @aelvenus
      @aelvenus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@helenfaith1508 this is EXACTLY how i'm feeling but i'm pretty sure i'm straight??? but then again

    • @helenfaith1508
      @helenfaith1508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      the Best what’s that I’ve heard of it but I’ve never heard anyone explain it?

    • @theBest-cy8op
      @theBest-cy8op 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@helenfaith1508 well it means your mostly straight but your open minded to dating and stuff with the same sex :)

  • @sherry3705
    @sherry3705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    Don't know if I'm bi-
    A girl said she liked me and now I can't get her out of my mind and idk what to do because I think I'm straight but idk 😢

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Latté Studios that’s okay! Just tell her the truth, that you aren’t sure 😊

    • @horrificreader4084
      @horrificreader4084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Sameeee
      I was confused about my sexuality and I think she’s pretty but I just said I was straight because I had no idea. I think I’m bi though, but I like masculine people (girl or boy). It’s still confusing because I’m really masculine myself and there’s not a lot of masc on masc relationships out there. I have too much time to think in quarantine lol.

    • @simplygracie2552
      @simplygracie2552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I say give her a shot, get to know her better and if you don’t like her, tell her your not interested

    • @keizyarmy6821
      @keizyarmy6821 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hhh keyword u think u're straight 😂😂

    • @yeetplayzroblox211
      @yeetplayzroblox211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@horrificreader4084 Hey, if your attracted to masculinity you might be androsexual, I don't know much about it so this might not be accurate, however you can look into it if you want.

  • @hm8351
    @hm8351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Part of realizing I'm bi was being worried other girls would think I was flirting or had a crush on them besides them not having a reason to think I was anything but straight. And the time i had a crush on a girl and a boy at the same time in kindergarten but repressed the hell out of the crush on the girl because I was raised catholic with the mantra "girls like boys and boys like girls".

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hailey Calder ugh yessss right ?!

    • @mars5709
      @mars5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Y'all had crushes in kindergarten?!??!?!!?!??!?!??!!!?!?

    • @uraveragehypochondriac64
      @uraveragehypochondriac64 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same! I labeled my crushes that were girls people I liked but not that way

    • @_vxl0z_188
      @_vxl0z_188 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well,this summer I came out vu and my mother said to me that it’s not acceptable in our religion (I’m orthodox)and we talked for 1hour ant this and now not long ago,i had a dream with a girl that was like flirting with me and started to like her and all,and if I tell my mother that I’m really bi I’m scared that she will kick me out of the house 😔

    • @Kiwi-np3sy
      @Kiwi-np3sy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm also catholic, I found it really difficult to figure it out. I think the reason I didn't find out my sexuality till a month ago was because I though it would be a sin or I thought I would go to hell for it and it didn't help that my family are not the biggest fan of LGBTQ+. I've thought I was straight my whole life and I've realized recently, that the reaosn I didn't find this out earlier was because I felt pressured to be straight because all my family is. Btw I'm Pansexual (foind this out 1 week ago, I've been flip flopping between sexualities but I think this one actually does suit me),I had my first crush on a girl when I was like 5? I get really worried that my friends that are girls will think I have a crush on them so whenever I say that I love them I always have to put platonically at the end, lmao. With that being said, without my friends I wouldn't have found out my sexuality and I'm so thankful for that. My one friend was the one who reassured me before I found out my sexuality that God will love me no matter what, that he will love me no matter what my sexuality is/who I'm attracted to, in this case it's everyone. I feel like that's what pushed me to think about it more and finally realize what my sexuality was.

  • @nejdlmenend3137
    @nejdlmenend3137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    I’m not sure if this is a sign but I’ve always hated those boy bands most girls were obsessed with in primary school. All my friend loved them and I didn’t.

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Me too!😱

    • @sophiewebb4549
      @sophiewebb4549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Leelee 12345634 actually tbh same

    • @toadleyasmr
      @toadleyasmr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro sammee

    • @jaysha8553
      @jaysha8553 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Is that a sign? Cuz that's me.

    • @adelynnbarney9885
      @adelynnbarney9885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      For me it wasn’t like I hated them, I just liked different ones better. I also don’t really like pop music, so that may be another reason.

  • @nataliehammond6105
    @nataliehammond6105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    My signs-
    There was a girl in the fourth grade and she got made fun of for liking girls. I just held her hand on the playground and chased the bullied away.
    In the 7th grade I was obsessed with Girl Meets World. (Because if Sabrina Carpenter)
    In primary school I hated dresses
    My first kiss was a girl (I was dating her cousin Rolando)😬
    I always looked at girls lips

    • @spaceflow1881
      @spaceflow1881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Smøkëq_Qūårtż Omg me too LMAO 😂

    • @____hammond9918
      @____hammond9918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like ur last name

  • @numerousfrogsinacoat607
    @numerousfrogsinacoat607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Me: I’m probs straight I bet I’m not gonna relate to much
    First thing: Wanted spy gear and magic stuff
    Me: *Went through intense spy and magician phases when younger*
    Edit: I’m also obsessed with the community, I’m in QSA and a strong ally who people always think is gay (I’m probably bi, have been questioning for like three years or so), I’m also more comfortable talking with guys, etc

  • @kotryna5979
    @kotryna5979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    Me: I'm probably not going to relate so much
    Aisha: I was obsessed with the LGBTQ+ community
    Me: *literally protests about gay rights and talks about the community*

    • @wolfiespeedpaints1708
      @wolfiespeedpaints1708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @pinkturtle2016
      @pinkturtle2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is this me lol

    • @sabrinaz9023
      @sabrinaz9023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ME.. I was HUGE ally.. then I was like.. wait maybe I'm gay.. sooooop now I'm a confused mess.. I do know ✨women✨ tho

  • @KYNGA100
    @KYNGA100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    My social life is shit, and I've always been into guys but since august there's this girl in one of my classes at university who is just so nice and cute and when we talk I feel so at ease ! And some weeks ago she started smiling at me everytime our eyes meet and suddenly it hit me. I... think I like her ? I mean, I've always seen myself as a straight girl but now I'm confused... I think about her quite often... and dreamed twice about kissing her and the me in my dream liked it... And I'm happy when I see her... It feels so weird to me but at the same time I'm ok with it.

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      That was exactly how I felt about liking girls! I was confused and awkward but I wasn’t mad about it. Explore this new discovery, but protect your heart too, until you know her sexual preference and relationship status 😉

    • @leyrianiecarrion9951
      @leyrianiecarrion9951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sameeeeeee that’s exactly my situation right now!! She’s an 11th grader and I’m in 10th but we have 2 classes together and we walk to our classrooms talking to each other and for me it feels so good being around her. I don’t think she’s into me but just being able to see her at least once a day makes me happy, and she seriously confuses me 😩😩😣😣

    • @queenamc2485
      @queenamc2485 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AishaMaysWay hey I need help because deep down I don’t want to be gay or bi I’m not homophobic and I think girls are pretty and could have good bodies but that’s it I don’t like girls in that way I also feel more comfortable say I’m straight I just have anxiety and not every boyfriend I had I connected with but I didn’t know them like that but most of my bf I did connect with and it felt good to be with them one more thing I kissed two of my friends that was girls before as a joke it didn’t make meh feel like this is what I want it was just funny vs when I kissed a boy I was really happy

    • @blessingosawaru1283
      @blessingosawaru1283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@queenamc2485 I think ur just straight

    • @moved768
      @moved768 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AishaMaysWay same.. this dumb kid game in gym to chain up and hold hands got me and that’s probably how i realized how gay i was lol

  • @venusrookey1769
    @venusrookey1769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I’m questioning myself but my biggest concern is that I’m faking it. I only started questioning after I joined a friend group mainly made up of LGBTQIA+ community members. Granted, I had never thought about relationships before that but the questioning only began after I surrounded myself with people within the community. The main issue is my irrational fear of faking it, it’s been holding me off on figuring out what I am for over a year.
    For example, am I actually questioning or am I subconsciously trying to “match” with other people I know? I did relate to most things in the video and I have even narrowed down my questioning possibilities but is that enough to prove what I am to myself? What I am questioning myself about is being Pansexual and or Demisexual. (I had a dream about questioning my sexuality as well, somewhat strange since I never remember dreams.).

    • @mintmaplecrossing7442
      @mintmaplecrossing7442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I relate to this so much! You're valid and I hope you're doing well

    • @mayipora4092
      @mayipora4092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      this comment PERFECTLY described my feelings into words! this has been really conflicting me for the past year.
      i hope you have been able to find more clarity with your sexuality! thank you for this comment

    • @Kiwi-np3sy
      @Kiwi-np3sy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg, I can relate to what you said so much, my friend was and is obsessed with LGBTQ+, and more friends too, before I was even friends with them I was questioning my sexuality. Something that kind of helped me figure out my sexuality was my friend made this slideshow just about a lot of the sexualities and that's when I started really questioning it. But that's still my number 1 fear, that I'm just faking it to be like them, I think I'm Pansexual, but still not sure if I'm fr or not, even though I feel like the label Pansexual fits me.

    • @fkfkrkfkkdkwkd
      @fkfkrkfkkdkwkd ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ARE YOU MY DOBELGANGER THIS IS ME

    • @Beetroot9934
      @Beetroot9934 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I RELATE TO THIS!!! So now I just dont identify as anything....if I fall for someone, I fall for them

  • @lushpinkaj348
    @lushpinkaj348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    so my signs:
    1. i loved spy things like i went to school as a spy one day 😂😂
    2. omg i felt sooo awkward making conversations with girls i got on so much better with guys
    3. i always used to have little crushes on girls when i was younger 😂 i said i liked someone and stuff to my mum
    4. i love watching kissing when it’s girls omg 😂😂
    5. i find it boring talking about guys
    6. my best friend is bi

    • @larsulrichfeetpics
      @larsulrichfeetpics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I relate to a lot of this 😭

    • @cinnamonroee07
      @cinnamonroee07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Okay so can you guys help me? Idk if I’m bi or straight like shmshwjwiwje
      1. I loved spy things too 😭 but I was also super girly when I was younger
      2. I actually feel more comfortable around girls, I never really feel nervous or like blushy like how I feel around guys. Like if a guy and I make eye contact I will literally start screaming on the inside and look away.
      3. I’ve only had crushes on guys
      4. I prefer watching a guy kissing a girl, it feels the most comfortable and relatable to me
      5. I only ever really talk about guys when it comes to romantic stuff. Girls when it comes to platonic things. Like my friend is bi and she’ll send pictures of this girl celeb she has a crush on and she’ll be like losing it and I’ll just be laughing at her and when she asks what I think about her I’ll just say something “she’s really pretty”
      6. My best friend tells me I look bisexual in terms of my outer appearance but i act straight?
      Also, one time when I was younger a girl I was friends with tried kissing me at the pool and I felt super weird so I pushed her away and told her I didn’t like it but something in my head told me “why don’t you just try it?” but after that I never really thought about it and we both continued to act normal around each other. Except she was being a little more shy but I didn’t really think much of it.
      SO HELP PLEASE

    • @larsulrichfeetpics
      @larsulrichfeetpics 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cinnamonroee07 it sounds like your straight to me

    • @Acatalepsyyy
      @Acatalepsyyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The girl gossip is something that put me off my school. I was a loner

  • @mariasteinst2706
    @mariasteinst2706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Thank you for the video. I related to at least half of the signs.

  • @simbathealmighty1111
    @simbathealmighty1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    When I was 5 I kissed this girl
    She kissed me back
    I’m confused
    I think I’m gay but I really don’t care
    I’m closeted

    • @katiekirks1253
      @katiekirks1253 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think I’m bisexual, but I’m hiding so far back in the closet, I’m practically in Narnia.

  • @ameliaisaacson5415
    @ameliaisaacson5415 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Oh gosh I went threw a huge phase of being obsessed with spy things when I was in 5th grade I relate so much to a lot of this stuff

  • @kristitill9730
    @kristitill9730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I always like gay ships more than straight ships so may that be a sign

  • @mckenzieehlers5328
    @mckenzieehlers5328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'm so confused right now. I'm a girl who has identified as straight up till now since I know I liked boys. But I've realized that I've had some experiences with girls before where I didn't know if I liked them or just really wanted to be friends with them. For example, in 3rd grade before I even knew about LGBTQ+ people, I thought a girl was so pretty that I wanted to be her friend really bad. In 6th grade, I always wanted to hang out with this other girl and I even got scared that I liked girls. I was worried my dad wouldn't accept me and didn't want to like girls. In 7th grade, there was another girl who I always wanted to hang out with and I got really excited whenever she would talk to me. I was also really nervous around her. Then, in 8th grade I had that experience with another girl again. The thing is, I've never really thought about kissing or dating these girls. But it is very similar to how I've felt with some of the guys I've had crushes on in the past since I got really nervous around them, always wanted to hang out with them, and fantasized about talking to them and spending time with them. I'm just so confused and don't know if I'm straight or bi.
    Sorry for how long it is.

    • @karlijackson8580
      @karlijackson8580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds like you could be a heteroromantic bisexual, (like me), because with the girls I've had a crush on, I never fantasized about them romantically like I did with my guy crushes, but I still knew I had a crush on these girls, it just wasn't intense like my guy crushes

  • @melindagacha7238
    @melindagacha7238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I was questioning.. Then I thought I was bisexual but now I'm thinking I'm straight IDK!!! I just feel super awkward near both genders and I find interest in both but im so confused

    • @vitap2910
      @vitap2910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      if you’re nervous in front of girls that’s a sign

    • @Elizabeth-qg8st
      @Elizabeth-qg8st 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vitap2910 or they're just awkward about being around people in general

    • @roryxd1454
      @roryxd1454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im also very awkward near any kind of gender 😂

  • @melvonjohnson5711
    @melvonjohnson5711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hate when people say that being gay is a "phase" in that case being straight is a phase.

  • @IdkIdk-fj2lw
    @IdkIdk-fj2lw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Second grade
    I idolized this girl (let’s call her Sandra) she was British and I thought she was just so pretty and so smart and so popular
    Then after I realized I was Pan when I was 11
    I just realized I had a crush on her now XD

  • @gracebeauty7285
    @gracebeauty7285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Her: I was OBSESSED with lgbt 🏳️‍🌈
    Me: watching ru Paul’s drag race and telling my friends every single drag queen from it....

  • @adiba8822
    @adiba8822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jade from victorious and halsey made me realize how gay I was

    • @_maddie_makes_music
      @_maddie_makes_music 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ah yes. jade from victorious. every 2000's kids awakening.

  • @growls4851
    @growls4851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’ve never had a crush or been in a relationship, so this is hard to figure out.

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aesthedits that’s okay, just know there’s no rush to figure anything out! Would a certain video help you?

    • @tamarac6882
      @tamarac6882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @leahparks9843
    @leahparks9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Honestly I've always thought I was bi but I realized I've never had an emotional connection with a woman and now I think I may be straight so now I'm just confused

    • @denkikaminari1268
      @denkikaminari1268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well, I've only had boy crushes my whole life, but now that I know I can like woman too (I already knew there were people in love with the same gender etc but I never thought I could too) I can't think about only liking boys. I need girls too in my life, in a romantic way. Ask yourself this question : Can you see yourself dating a woman ? Spending time with her, romantically loving her ? Or you can just see yourself being friends with them ?

  • @greenfitz4928
    @greenfitz4928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    See one of my bisexual friends (male preference) asked if I wanted to ‘get married’ (like joking stuff) and we would jokingly talk about what we’d do if we were married and stuff. And now I’m constantly thinking about it, I was already questioning before but this really adds to it. (We’re both female)

    • @hosuloml
      @hosuloml 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sameeeee except I’m pretty sure my friend is straight and every time we joke about us dating she says she would definitely never date me ;-;

  • @mk_pew
    @mk_pew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OMGGGG I relate to the SPY THINGS And Magic Tricks when I was younger, also I used to make some Crafts but I used to say that I'm only Supporting. I'm so Confused rn!
    (I'm a Girl tho)

  • @intermedez
    @intermedez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I relate to this *entire* video on a spiritual level 😂

  • @danikabeard1366
    @danikabeard1366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Here's me in 2019 "I not bi " so I sign up for a all girls school get in and now I'm like "I'M VERY BI" I know right

  • @ilikedairy8539
    @ilikedairy8539 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *me knowing I'm bisexual already and still watching it*

  • @sunlightamber6542
    @sunlightamber6542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol I remember my friend asking me if I was gay (but like, joking) and I was like: uh- I- I meaaan of course not ha ha.. why would I ever be such a thing.. **laughs awkwardly**

  • @iamboredandcurious627
    @iamboredandcurious627 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Omg 😮 the signs were there
    I just never questioned it until last year (I’m 15 btw)

  • @emerson-rj5rn
    @emerson-rj5rn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    THE SPY TRICKS AND MAGIC TRICKS ONE OMGGGG

  • @alaynag6917
    @alaynag6917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had a spy set, I wanted a magic set, but I was quite happy with my $5 nigh vision goggles. My 10 year old self was CONVINCED those goggles showed me demons in my closet

  • @iamapproachingyourlocationfast
    @iamapproachingyourlocationfast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The "im not gay i just support it" hit me.
    Yes. Yes im definetely gay

  • @Boricuagoddess0831
    @Boricuagoddess0831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I knew since i was 14 when i was crushing over the singer Aaliyah i told my little sis and thank God she understood me and never said anything to our parents they still don't know i like girls

  • @Me-jr2jw
    @Me-jr2jw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m questioning and this helped thanksss

  • @Calilou52
    @Calilou52 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My doctor diagnosed me with severe scoliosis, so I guess im not straight I think

  • @arrrrrran3043
    @arrrrrran3043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    AHHH YOUR INTRO IS SO LOOUUUDD💀

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry 😂😂😭😭 I was young and couldn’t edit

  • @arpt3x299
    @arpt3x299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember when I was in grade one or two there was this beautiful girl that I didn't know at the time but I clearly had a massive crush on, I kept thinking "but your a girl, you can't like girls? Stop thinking like this!" I didn't fully understand the community as a child heh...

  • @chahathasija4414
    @chahathasija4414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Youuu so pretty! I recently came out to my close people that I’m bi

  • @michaelpage7036
    @michaelpage7036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Definitely questioning it just don't know how to go about it.

  • @Kiddyounot4977
    @Kiddyounot4977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are so PRETTY

  • @kotryna5979
    @kotryna5979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    when you relate but you don't feel bad about relating to it

  • @ellac613
    @ellac613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I once got super defensive for a friend, because another one was asking him (what to me sounded like) invasive questions about his sexuality (i'm pretty sure he's straight). I jumped in and said "isn't what you're asking a bit too personal? Leave him be". They both looked at me weirded out and I realized I f*cked up: I'd been thinking about it so much myself that I imagined the fright I'd get if someone were to interrogate me like that. :|

  • @3MB3Rx134
    @3MB3Rx134 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WHY THE F R I C K IS THIS PERSON SO UNDERRATED

  • @adelynnbarney9885
    @adelynnbarney9885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I relate to so many of these. I’m definitely gay.

  • @zarablack6813
    @zarablack6813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I used to be straight and had a boyfriend but I started to feel not right about it I didn’t know what it was for awhile. then I realised I liked girls more and I was a lesbien now in 2021 I am with a woman that I love sooooooo muchhh 🌈🥰❤️

    • @kavyamurali3479
      @kavyamurali3479 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it possible? Can your sexuality change over time?

  • @DuckieDGAF
    @DuckieDGAF 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always wanted to always play the dad too, haha. Or the teenage boy if we were playing high school and I would hit on all of my friends and I thought it was just a game but damn. 😂

  • @Katie-ww8qk
    @Katie-ww8qk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have social anxiety, but what if it’s just cause I’m attracted to everyone??? Is it my anxiety or is it also cuz I’m bi???

  • @steezyweezy4997
    @steezyweezy4997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who else knew they were straight until they just weren't, like one boy or girl came along and then you were like "i don't think it's supposed to work like this"

  • @mehaksaini2478
    @mehaksaini2478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im questioning if im bi rn & its so crazy that you and i are literally the same person bc thats EXACTLY how my elementary/middle school days were

  • @j4kerh4h4
    @j4kerh4h4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just started high-school and the last 2 years I convinced myself I was straight but I don't think so anymore

  • @shrutis.4974
    @shrutis.4974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My signs that I am bi:
    1. Had an obsession with power rangers and the lego ninjago series, dinosaurs, and spy stuff(Literally want to be an FBI agent) but also watched barbie and tinker bell
    2.Didn't really like Justin Bieber or One direction like other girls
    3.I don't really wear dresses or skirts, but still wear them sometimes
    I'm pretty sure I'm bi but I'm not sure.

    • @tamarac6882
      @tamarac6882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I never liked One direction or Justin Bieber either

    • @shrutis.4974
      @shrutis.4974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right one of my friends was obsessed i didnt understand the hype

  • @pzkitty6783
    @pzkitty6783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually also went through a spy gear and magician phase as a kid but it wasn’t that intense
    also pretty much all of my main story OCs are LGBT+ lmao
    I’ve had suspicions that i’m probably not straight but i’m still questioning it :P

  • @talajarmakani6134
    @talajarmakani6134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The whole reason I’ve been questioning myself was because of that hot riverdale kiss between Betty and Veronica and that was like 2 months ago and rn now I’m just super duper duper confused

  • @maggie_maggot
    @maggie_maggot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    *Me realizing I’m playing a Girl in red song on a rainbow ukulele while watching this video I found in my recommended*
    Huh... I SWEAR IM STRAIGHT

    • @tamarac6882
      @tamarac6882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I listen to Girl in red too and I’m questioning

  • @thatstraitbutsomehowgayfri3112
    @thatstraitbutsomehowgayfri3112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ok so when I was ten a good friend told me she was lesbian.
    And me thinking I was straight I got scared she was going to confess so I avoided her.
    Me now one year later I’m watching this video.

  • @RandomPerson-st8xc
    @RandomPerson-st8xc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have had atleast 2 dreams about dating a girl. One being my Ex best friend and the other being a girl from my school. I've also had crushes on boys to, So I think I might be Bi
    I will see how it goes tho whenever school is back up but I think Im bisexual =)

  • @jessicaammon8402
    @jessicaammon8402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always either have to be the grandma, villain which is my fave, or the boy characters
    I had to be five truck in boy people when we played descendents 😂😂😂

  • @xem_ity
    @xem_ity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Me knowing I’m pan: ... you never know! **clicks**

  • @hannah-shutt
    @hannah-shutt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i need help about my friend, she talks about the lgbtq+ community a lot recently and she said that she has some big news but she doesn’t know if she’s ready to tell, since her parents didn’t know. just before lockdown she came to my house and a lot of her actions made me feel like she was hitting on me or like she had a crush on me etc... at the time i thought it was nothing but with her posting a lot about lgbt recently and her saying she has news that her parents don’t know it kinda makes sense. also she posted a photo on insta crying, being called (offensive lgbt related word)is just as bad as being called (offensive racist word) someone help. i kinda feel like she likes me and idk what to do

    • @brutalbingewatcher0986
      @brutalbingewatcher0986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hannah Shutt you should tell her

    • @hannah-shutt
      @hannah-shutt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unicorn O'Brien okay thanks, she’s actually in the hospital rn so when she comes home I will💕

  • @gundhams5thdeva913
    @gundhams5thdeva913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel awkward making conversation with everyone 😔
    But I have lots of female celebrity crushes

  • @pastaapastaa6169
    @pastaapastaa6169 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou, I'm sure now that I'm straight
    I don't even know why I was questioning.

  • @andreavalentinaperez2734
    @andreavalentinaperez2734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg i relate to the project thingy

  • @internetgirl4617
    @internetgirl4617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn’t even know anything about sexuality when I was a kid compared to other people I look back on everything I was like back then and know I understand I wasn’t exactly straight ,I don’t have celebrity crushes so it makes it even more confusing

  • @firecrackerfanclubfanficti7118
    @firecrackerfanclubfanficti7118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Like I legit wanted to be a ninja , still do actually . I'm currently convincing my dad to make me some arrow and bows , daggers and darts . but I doubt he'll do it with my don't give a damn attitude .

  • @jamille101
    @jamille101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i relate to a lot of things you said. girls made me uncomfortable of course i tried and they just talked about boys. instead of talking about them why dont we just talk to them? and thats when i transitioned not being friends with girls anymore because i didnt like the same things as them like makeup and shopping and dressing up. i also felt like i didnt fit in but friends with guys is soooo much easier even to this day (im 22 now) i only have 2 friends that are girls and its funny because looking back i did in fact tell one of them if i was gay i would totally date her/ marry her and she felt the same way but now we both have boyfriends....maybe i am gay but that word doesnt necessarily fit me nor does bisexual...i guess ill figure it out

    • @tallahoramismo
      @tallahoramismo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This'll make you super gay 👉 Yoya Grey

  • @ihaveaname4109
    @ihaveaname4109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once at school we had a substitute teacher in and as soon as I saw her I was like, "Wow she's the most beautiful person I've ever seen etc. "
    And I still didn't realise I was gay until a year later.

  • @CM-hz6sh
    @CM-hz6sh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was OBSESSED with spy stuff too lmao

  • @emmapeterson3115
    @emmapeterson3115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i think i’m bi but idk bc when i play video games i always date girls and boys but i like dating girls better (i’m a girl). i can see myself with a girl but what if i date one or kiss one and i realize i’m not. also i’m really scared that if i say i’m bi then boys won’t want to date me

  • @gloriagavagnin2115
    @gloriagavagnin2115 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate 100% . I just need to have a greater love life

  • @elenaamalfitano1831
    @elenaamalfitano1831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I relate to everything...

  • @shaylawhyte3513
    @shaylawhyte3513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I find it hard to start conversation with girls so I was talking to boys all the time and it was so awkward talking to girls when the teachers split up the boy and girls

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shayla Whyte me too! It gets much easier don’t worry 🤗

  • @sophiestokes9394
    @sophiestokes9394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The spy thing is totally me 😂

  • @bshscly7020
    @bshscly7020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watched the video till the end🤣

  • @nehemiahyoungnicholirishon2885
    @nehemiahyoungnicholirishon2885 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love love love love love love your channel

  • @katiekirks1253
    @katiekirks1253 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When I was in elementary school, I would hang out with my 2 close friends every single day. One of my friends was a boy, and one was a girl (I am also a girl). Once we played a Pokémon version of house in a way. We were pretending that we were all Pikachus (don’t question it, we really liked Pokémon) and we had a mom, dad, and a daughter. Since there was an awards assembly we were pretending that the daughter was graduating school. Guess who was the dad? (It was me) And my friend who was a boy was the mom and my other friend was the daughter. I wouldn’t say that necessarily is what makes me bisexual, but I’ve always been comfortable in roles as a guy and girl. And as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that I also have attraction towards girls. Maybe even a bit more than I do towards boys. My mom doesn’t know though and I have no idea how I could EVER tell her (especially since she’s Christian). So that’s my life story lol.

  • @moominwithaknife4321
    @moominwithaknife4321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OML I used to play a kissing game with my bff wh-
    I used to play the dad eveyte we played house-

    • @tamarac6882
      @tamarac6882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. Which game are you referring to? The one I played was called Episode.

  • @elaineschow5700
    @elaineschow5700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I nuuuuuuu I'm only 4 min in and I'm super relate

    • @elaineschow5700
      @elaineschow5700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why did u like dis I'm just curious about.......stuff🤐

  • @ash_2dope
    @ash_2dope 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Question: when I was a little girl I loved boys and still now at 6 grade but scene we’ve been on lock down I don’t know now pls answer

  • @starrynight_reverie
    @starrynight_reverie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey don't worry about your orientation cause if you find someone you love or you figured out you aren't comfortable being a girl or boy it's okay and you are you and your orientation shouldn't define you. Thanks for coming to my tedtalk👉🌚👉

  • @tw6rn
    @tw6rn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i find it hard to talk to literally anyone

  • @idontknowwhattochooseforau6160
    @idontknowwhattochooseforau6160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have a big question, can you think a girls pretty without being gay or bi or anything?

  • @taekookjandrew8161
    @taekookjandrew8161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm straight girl tho 😂😂but still confused with it so watch it idk what to say 😂😂😂 lol and when I was kid I kissed a 2 girls and they kissed me too and when I'm in 4th class I had a crush on a girl because I consider myself as boy so I like her idk why she is pretty tho but now I'm so confused with my sexuality idk now I have a crush on boy so I'm so confused ❤️🥺

    • @tallahoramismo
      @tallahoramismo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This'll turn you gay: Yoya Grey

  • @coral8164
    @coral8164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ik im lesbian but i want to see if my friend is straight or closeted

  • @sunnicorran9244
    @sunnicorran9244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now that I think about it, I used to play with barbie and barbie more often then I did with a barbie and ken.

  • @oliviab536
    @oliviab536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    so i’m 14 and confused.... i know i’m not straight for a fact but idk i don’t want to label myself because i feel i’m “too young” and when i’m older i’ll think damn i thought i likes girls or something idk i’ve never had a male crush in my life i always had crushes on the female characters in movies and stuff and things like that but i don’t want to slap the label lesbian on myself cause i feel you know i’m too young but i don’t want to slap bi on myself because men 🤮 i lie and say i’m confused but probably straight idk
    i almost don’t want to tell anyone i’m 14 and idk the social stigma (if that the right word) around being lesbian or bisexual well not straight from a young age is frowned upon i’m just scared and confused

  • @Maddy_Clare
    @Maddy_Clare 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a tomboy. All my friends are boys. I've always loved being outside, I was a soccer player. When I was 6 or 7 years old I made up this holiday called Rainbow Day.

  • @alextaylor1365
    @alextaylor1365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a question so I am confused I would date a non bi person and like a gender fluid person does that mean I am pan?

    • @AishaMaysWay
      @AishaMaysWay  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great question! Well by definitiin terms, yes this would make you pansexual. However I have noticed people tend to identify as whichever word seems to feel better for them. My only advice would be to not stress about labels too much!

  • @fortnite_qu33n54
    @fortnite_qu33n54 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is this a sign of bisexual?
    I have a friend that Is bisexual and when I'm with her I kinda get butterflies in my stomach worrying I'm going to end up liking her. Is that a sign?

  • @helena3297
    @helena3297 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know I am late so I think I am bi cause I like girls when there is a beautiful girl I am nervous and stuff but around my girl best friends I am not feeling nervous and also not around the other girls in my class ( I am also friends with them) and they are also not my type but around the boys in my class I feel more nervous cause I don’t talk to them. So am I bi or not? I hope you can help me

  • @jawin_
    @jawin_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought I was Bi at first then when I really thought about dating a girl I was like nope I prefer boys 100% so I thought I was straight. But now I think I’m Pan because I still find myself feeling attracted to girls sexually.. but I’m not sure! For now I’m going to remain straight thought.

  • @chickennoodlesoup9989
    @chickennoodlesoup9989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I honestly don’t know I mean I’m talking to a girl now but I’m just curious and I didn’t have these signs so I don’t think I am but I never really thought about being bi

  • @someonedripsy8444
    @someonedripsy8444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I had them all but the last one HOW DID YOU KNOW

  • @BuffStarfish
    @BuffStarfish ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I go to a private Christian school. 😬 I’m a girl in eighth grade and there’s this new girl in sixth grade. The first day of school I saw her and felt so dumb because I couldn’t stop smiling. I thought it was just that I wanted to be friends with her. But now I think I may have an idea… it makes more sense. I feel kind of embarrassed that I have a crush on this girl though, because I literally don’t even know her name. I don’t even know what to do now… like I have a crush on a girl. Im a girl. I go to church… what do I do..?