The Offspring - Kristy, Are You Doing Okay?

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  • @RancidShadow
    @RancidShadow 13 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    "Don't waste your whole life trying to take back what was taken away."
    The ending made me cry... to be honest.

  • @thehairyone666
    @thehairyone666 14 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    beautiful, powerful song, with so much meaning in it. for those that are wondering it's about someone he knew when he was younger. everyone knew she was being abused, but nobody did anything, and when he grew up he realised he should have done something, and this song is kind of an apology for not acting then.

  • @kataang222
    @kataang222 12 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My name is Kristy, and this song has touched me in such a way that one day when i was severly depresed i came across this song, i have had shingles and still do its been almost five years with ongoing pain. i have thought of suicide just to escape the pain and pressure, but i am ok now. It is hard to be depressed and still carry on when you are not very strong youself

  • @3percentforlife
    @3percentforlife 12 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I really like how this song branches off from The Offspring's usual dark tone and makes the band all that more deep.

  • @Hornet85
    @Hornet85 13 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My most favorite song off that album. Even though we don't hear this band on the radio as often now, they still make great songs.

  • @Seranov
    @Seranov 15 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The Offspring were the first band I ever really followed, and I've been a diehard fan since Americana, over a decade ago.
    This song shows how far they've come as a band, and it's really fantastic.

    • @frost4730
      @frost4730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you still a fan to this day tho

    • @johnhealey9217
      @johnhealey9217 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This comment being fourteen years old writing about a decade ago goes hard.

    • @Dr.Doctor560
      @Dr.Doctor560 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@johnhealey9217damn same

  • @whatsthematterhere
    @whatsthematterhere 13 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for this. Each day of high school, I yearned that somehow, someone would discover my secret, that someone would help save me from this nightmare. Nobody ever did. I had to live with the horrors of abuse and the feeling of being so dirty every day.
    I hope that your ability to recognize what Kristy was experiencing will awaken others to the nightmare that is childhood sexual abuse.
    I'm 22 now, but I still struggle to not waste my whole life trying to get back what was stolen from me.

  • @sirdodger
    @sirdodger 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The line, "I didn't know, because we were so young" really gets me. It fits awkwardly in the song, but it really exposes the regret in his voice. I get the feeling he would give up all he has, just to know then what he knows now.

  • @BlackcatWilson
    @BlackcatWilson 14 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think it shows real strength of character and true talent to be willing and able to perform such a powerful song so different from their usual stuff.
    Kudos.

  • @dpaschenbach
    @dpaschenbach 15 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a great song. I have a lot of musical interests, but this song just hits me real hard with my feelings. I myself, was abused as an infant. Offspring is not the only band I listen to. I love all of their cds though.

  • @mike3684
    @mike3684 15 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i realy belive that the offspring are 1 of the most underapreciated fascets of modern american music, their one of only a few band that made it to the top by truly having and original sound and working for what they love... being an independent lable band in an age where media and pop culture decides weather you sink or swim, its amazing the offspring made it as far as they did... i am greatful for their inspiration to me and everything they have done... keep on rockin! HALLAND FOR PRESIDENT!!

  • @kennethsoon5713
    @kennethsoon5713 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that this song has the most most replayed segments i have ever seen in the bar says everything that needs to be said about this song

  • @duduw1981
    @duduw1981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lyrics:
    There's a moment in time
    And it's stuck in my mind
    Way back, when we were just kids
    'Cause your eyes told the tale
    Of an act of betrayal
    I knew that somebody did
    Oh, waves of time
    Seem to wash away the scenes of our crimes
    For you this never ends
    Can you stay strong?
    Can you go on?
    Kristy, are you doing okay?
    A rose that won't bloom
    Winter's kept you
    Don't waste your whole life trying to get back what was taken away
    Though the marks on your dress
    Had been neatly repressed
    I knew that something was wrong
    And I should have spoke out
    And I'm so sorry now
    I didn't know 'cause we were so young
    Oh, clouds of time
    Seem to rain on innocence left behind
    It never goes away
    Can you stay strong?
    Can you go on?
    Kristy, are you doing okay?
    A rose that won't bloom
    Winter's kept you
    Don't waste your whole life trying to get back what was taken away
    Oh, clouds of time
    Seem to rain on innocence left behind
    It never goes away (It never goes away)
    It never goes away
    Can you stay strong?
    Can you go on?
    Kristy, are you doing okay?
    A rose that won't bloom
    Winter's kept you
    Don't waste your whole life trying to get back what was taken away
    Don't waste your whole life trying to get back what was taken away

    • @Food12553
      @Food12553 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thxs

  • @Bsafe1stalways
    @Bsafe1stalways 14 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WOW. Thank you for writing and making this film. As a survivor I know the need for the silence to be broken. And we must continue to say it, as unfortunately the silence is not broken totally yet. I (with others) do this. So thank you again for adding this voice, for so many who still have no voice... but through us. Together, we can, and do, make a difference.
    All the best
    John

  • @wintersnowolves
    @wintersnowolves 14 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A beautiful song (and from reading the comments) very well done.
    Our hearts go out to you Kritsy if you are still alive and we hope you have had a good life despite the start you had. Peace out.

  • @shrinppy
    @shrinppy 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This song describes me. On the outside I look like a happy and confident person, but on the inside I'm constantly scared and worried and self conscious, constantly abused in my house and neglected and in school I'm always worrying about my grades and paranoid about my social life and worrying all the time about who I'm in love with. The last year really showed me what the worlds about

  • @krystinakoleen
    @krystinakoleen 15 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This song really hits me because A) my name is Krysti =D B) when I was 14 I was raped, and ended up pregnant with twins, who were born at 22 weeks and died...then my mom died 6 years later...My sons would be 7 this year, and my mom has been dead for almost 7 months...and this song is literally almost word through word what my husband has said to me....makes me cry everytime =)

  • @budyniowaaxdd
    @budyniowaaxdd 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Piosenka ponad czasowa. Najlepsza jaka mogła powstać ♥

  • @kristinasmith6469
    @kristinasmith6469 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    No, no I'm not okay

  • @Iwillnotbow44
    @Iwillnotbow44 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i saw someone post on one of their older songs that the offspring shouldnt be doing softer songs like this, but i think it sounds just as good as anything theyve ever put out, i love them

  • @006sick
    @006sick 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Since I heard this song it had become one of my favorite from this band, I know it's not typical punk song, but this ain't typical punk rock band either. These guys are truly amazing song writers

  • @Jaachi_Aaron-CJ041
    @Jaachi_Aaron-CJ041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I fell in love with this girl and She has a trick on her sleeve in school for making a video from The Offspring is my favorite song. 🖤😍🖤

  • @chadmccarty3444
    @chadmccarty3444 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a beautiful music video and song to go with it... Really makes you reflect on those girls in grade school who seemed to be popular or had "everything going for them" and in reality what they really might have been going through.

  • @Arwilq
    @Arwilq 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love The Offspring. I think, that Dexter have very, very, very wonderful voice. This song is beautifull. I hope, that come to the Polish.

  • @EntertainmentTrends
    @EntertainmentTrends 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Offspring has like so many different types of music, I hadn't heard of this one but it is beautiful and a touching story.

  • @gustavoniembro
    @gustavoniembro 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy to know that this kind of bands still play, I still have faith on music

  • @AsukaSwagleySoryu
    @AsukaSwagleySoryu 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song makes me cry so hard....Dexter is amazing

  • @emohoe33
    @emohoe33 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lived by this song when I was younger
    Amazing I love it

  • @th3musyk
    @th3musyk 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this song is beautiful. its amazing to me that anyone could dislike. i mean the video got the point across flawlessly and the topic brought a tear to my eye

  • @mayhem424
    @mayhem424 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been listening to this band since I was a teen and still do.

  • @SimonBoegedal
    @SimonBoegedal 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    The sound of this is absolutely amazing.
    Chills.

  • @MissNothing09
    @MissNothing09 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my favourite Offspring song, i love it so much

  • @MissNothing09
    @MissNothing09 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is definitely my favourite Offspring song. Dexter is so amazing. Just love this band so much :') and this song...this song is just AMAZING.

  • @ollukex
    @ollukex 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great song. It's nice, that Offspring makes songs like that. Their creation is much more versatile. And those lyrics and the story behind the song. Not just some random words ja thoughts. It has a point. And that what makes it so good. Just love it.
    Keep it up Dexter !

  • @13whitingn
    @13whitingn 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    beautiful song by dex and has a strong meaning

  • @MetalGames95
    @MetalGames95 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song is beautiful, kristy's beautiful and the lyrics are beautiful

  • @DarkGhstProductions
    @DarkGhstProductions 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is by far the song to hit me the most...... I knew a girl who was abused like that. And actually look alot alike the girl who was depicting kristy. I tried to reach out and help her but it failed because like I said I " knew" her. About 2 years ago, her junior year she commuted suicide. I lost a good friend and a love that day. Offspring.... You guys rock

  • @Whatsername325
    @Whatsername325 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    For some reason, and idk y, but I love it when a band shows their "soft side". Like this song and Green Day with Good Riddance and Wake Me Up When September Ends. I guess it's just a constant reminder that we are all human.

  • @morochagallagher
    @morochagallagher 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this song! Dexter's voice is great!

  • @jonbeebop
    @jonbeebop 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song is so sad it just shows how all our actions affect the ones closest or not so close to us.

  • @1AngelWings2
    @1AngelWings2 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I stayed strong. I'm moving on. I'm doing ok. I'm starting to bloom. Winter won't hold me back. I'm gonna live my life. To any of you that have shared a similar experience like Kristy and I, do the same. Things will get better.

  • @Iobjectyourreality
    @Iobjectyourreality 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know a girl who I had been talking to for a few months, she was always 'good'. so the first time she said she was 'ok', I knew there was something wrong. I asked her what was wrong and she told me so I helped her figure out what to do and she thanked me!:)

  • @MissNothing09
    @MissNothing09 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favourite Offspring song

  • @fahrulrozi1408
    @fahrulrozi1408 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Who's here still listen this a masterpiece 😢

  • @CallMeWhatsername
    @CallMeWhatsername 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't even explain how much the song speaks to me.

  • @Omar13Z
    @Omar13Z 14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song always will be one of my favorites.

  • @Wesley-uk1dx
    @Wesley-uk1dx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this music helped me a lot :3
    😢

  • @ImaginationDreamer16
    @ImaginationDreamer16 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely LOVE this song!
    It's so powerful and just amazing

  • @flyslaier
    @flyslaier 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    im in a party and i just came to see the name of the song
    this is amazing! the offspring still in my life. :)

  • @togibrahimli
    @togibrahimli 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Song and Great Voice. I Love You Offspring

  • @LMikeShinodaP
    @LMikeShinodaP 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great song. Thanks to Offspring for that !

  • @kristicarouth5085
    @kristicarouth5085 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely hits home as a Kristi❤

  • @Punkster222
    @Punkster222 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this Song - And thats from an Old Skool Offspring Fan!

  • @fearcontrolsfate
    @fearcontrolsfate 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song is simply amazing

  • @Delta_Dream
    @Delta_Dream 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great song. Great Band. Oh and that girl is really cute too. ;)

  • @jessetran6599
    @jessetran6599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im listenin to random old songs, then the guitar sound reminds me so much of this song. Luckily I still remember its name 😂 feel so so so so nolgastic right nowww :((( havent heard this song fr a long time

  • @PauzeP2
    @PauzeP2 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for all the advice :) i had the courage to talk to her and first she was like '' no there is nothing'' but i knew she didn't want to talk about it. so i sayd that she could tell me anything anytime and i would listen and yesterday she told me about her problem
    TY youtube pople for helping her out!

  • @scottyh007
    @scottyh007 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow.. only discoverd this song a few days ago and cant stop listening to it.

  • @kamp86
    @kamp86 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS
    touched my heart

  • @bigblackjackcat
    @bigblackjackcat 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    look around, don';t we all know someone in need??? from this Christi, Thank You Offspring...Peace to u all and yours....

  • @spaka
    @spaka 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    My friend posted this song to me recently... I think that The Offspring is my favourite band, I grew up on their music. I'm sorry that I don't listen them so often... And this song... Well, maybe it's because of my name and everything... but I love it! ( :

  • @philodactyl
    @philodactyl 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this song
    it shows that sometimes school can be fucking horrid even if you have friends and you seem happy
    i know it's about a girl who got abused but it has somthing from everyone in it

  • @atahtra
    @atahtra 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    i dont know why i love this song too much !

  • @mbolt89123
    @mbolt89123 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love love love this video they never play that song anymore and its my favorite

  • @mirnakim5654
    @mirnakim5654 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kristy seems like me in another way, great song!

  • @rosarino81
    @rosarino81 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    me encanta y sos los mejores aguante the offspring los vancon hasta el fin

  • @NoBaDy-ut1cg
    @NoBaDy-ut1cg 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song gives me goosebumps every time i listen to it.

  • @paulkiernan9129
    @paulkiernan9129 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    For all of you that are confused about what this song is really about, there are a couple metaphors throughout the song that show what the real meaning of the song is. 1. Cause your eyes told a tale, of an act of betrayal... Meaning that she's getting abused by someone close to her, most likely her dad. It really is betrayal when you abuse your child. 2. Though the marks on your dress, had been neatly repressed. 'Dress' is being used as her body, so she's trying to hide all the bruises and scars

  • @elizabethmignone4775
    @elizabethmignone4775 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great song. So underrated. It’s so good and so sad too.❤😢

  • @awakeandalive999
    @awakeandalive999 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely love this song.

  • @ApOcAlYpSe12109
    @ApOcAlYpSe12109 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    even if it seems she doesn't want the help you should always try to help a person who needs it. it doesn't hurt to try

  • @MissNothing09
    @MissNothing09 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a moving video. This is by far my favourite Offspring song.

  • @TheKridz
    @TheKridz 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never have heard it-- But i really Love it. A new fav I reckon.

  • @marizzi6
    @marizzi6 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is my first time listenin to this song. i really like it

  • @KRIS10FASHO
    @KRIS10FASHO 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    my names kristen and my best guy friend showed me this song when it came out and we've known each other since we we're kids and one night i was soooo depressed and he picked up my guitar and started to play this song. i'm glad to say i've been dating him for a year today. :)

  • @LeesaLovesYou13
    @LeesaLovesYou13 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    THEY REALLY NEED A NEW ALBUM! OR ATLEAST A NEW SINGLE!!!

  • @WawaSC
    @WawaSC 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song is so great it hurts..

  • @blogan77
    @blogan77 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great song, and message...

  • @crazyquacker75
    @crazyquacker75 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    heard my first offspring song in 1st grade it was walla walla i have loved them ever sense this is one of my favorite songs from my favorite band

  • @FullHouseGames
    @FullHouseGames 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, i really want to give that girl a hug and tell her its ok

  • @honeystar6
    @honeystar6 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    ;A; i allmost cryed i love this song!im glad i was on a page that had your gonna go far kid on it and at the end of the video it had this liked i really loved it!

  • @WishesSailorMoon
    @WishesSailorMoon 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this song!!!

  • @calvinguevara
    @calvinguevara 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. Great song.

  • @stelkokki
    @stelkokki 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    the greatest song ever

  • @heavymetaldeath4life
    @heavymetaldeath4life 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    After watching this video, I'm feeling a little nostalgic. Damn, I miss high school!

  • @Metaldrumboy13
    @Metaldrumboy13 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the offspring. They were my first fav band when i was like 6. And I still love them. Offspring forever :)

  • @NlNER
    @NlNER 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song is awesome and I just love the name Kristy =)

  • @CManH89
    @CManH89 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Personally, I like the slower acoustic side of the Offspring. I wouldn't mind a few other songs like this. Good Stuff.

  • @acdc1721
    @acdc1721 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    cool song, cool voice, cool band, cool guitar

  • @chocochipcookiez
    @chocochipcookiez 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this song, and her hair :)

  • @vilestine
    @vilestine 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    True fan agrees with everything the band makes :)

  • @VinceStrategy
    @VinceStrategy 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song is awesome.

  • @angelitomimodo
    @angelitomimodo 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    amo sta banda!!!!!!!

  • @TheRocklover41
    @TheRocklover41 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    Epic Awesomeness for Us Rock Lovers
    ! My Name says it

  • @DavidAntoro91
    @DavidAntoro91 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    THE OFFSPRING = LEGENDS

  • @ItsRelytsmh
    @ItsRelytsmh 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song Reminds me of myself.. I got to school everyday, you know i have all the friends and what not, But I'm not happy, But I put up that front like she does to make the people around me happy.. They really don't know, What is behind this mask.. I can really relate to this song..

  • @ROBTX18
    @ROBTX18 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    EXCELENTE VIDEO Y CANCION!

  • @uptheirons1996
    @uptheirons1996 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    great song by the way.

  • @vinnie01
    @vinnie01 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    @BeddyTearBigBearAndI oh man.... that sux glad to see that you have been able to come out the other side of it why do some people persist on screwing up someones life

  • @krzysiekz28
    @krzysiekz28 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    one word SUPER