Parents Kicked Me Out While I Was Pregnant Because I Couldn't Afford Rent. After My Baby Was Born...

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  • Parents Kicked Me Out While I Was Pregnant Because I Couldn't Afford Rent. After My Baby Was Born, They Demanded to Meet Their Grandson, I Said No and Posted their Cruelty Online.
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  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +510

    Now that OP has taken down the post, she can throw the parents' words back at them: "it's in the past, so just move on and stop being immature! You're the parents, so you have to be the bigger people here!"

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +366

    They failed OP when she needed them the most, so they don't get to be in her life, or her kid's life, just because it's convenient for them now.

    • @DragonLawyer
      @DragonLawyer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Why are her parents still mad? That post was in the past! 😂

    • @poolwench4564
      @poolwench4564 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Amen!!

    • @danilove5994
      @danilove5994 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      EXACTLY!!

    • @dumbidea1007
      @dumbidea1007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I dont know it feels like a f up expecting to put all her failure on the parents back
      I mean she was a dumb single mother using her child as an emotional blacmail tool against her parents

    • @DarkEinherjar
      @DarkEinherjar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@dumbidea1007 All OP asked for was a few months of rent-free housing and she promised to repay all of it once she got back into work. The parents couldn't even do THAT for her.

  • @shortangel333
    @shortangel333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +230

    YTA for apologising. Heres what you should have done: Did they apologise to you? No? Well there's your answer then. They wrong'ed you first.

    • @shortangel333
      @shortangel333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      DEFAMATION?! FOR WHAT? DEFAMATION ONLY WORKS IF IT IS A LIE.

    • @wednesdayschildfullofwoe
      @wednesdayschildfullofwoe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      OP was was clear and specific to her parents about what she was apologizing for. She wasn't sorry for what she said, just for the excessive tagging. I wouldn't have removed the post, just the tagged names. Damage is done anyways 🤷‍♀️

    • @Burnsy12
      @Burnsy12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Doormat OPs are the worst.

    • @benny2125
      @benny2125 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It just sucks that OPs like this raise kids. Constantly needing love from people that disrespect/dislike you is pathetic.

  • @natrixxvision6997
    @natrixxvision6997 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Dont let your kid anywhere near that family.

    • @benny2125
      @benny2125 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Naw she will. She needs their love and attention.

    • @GurdeepSinghKhangura-l9q
      @GurdeepSinghKhangura-l9q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No mam the OP'S parents deserve punishment

    • @ThatNoobLad
      @ThatNoobLad 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she will because shes an entitled begger.

  • @smokinggnu6584
    @smokinggnu6584 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    "You need to move on because it's all in the past" the signature call of the asshole who knows they were an asshole but would just like the victim to let it go so they can be an asshole again in the future, because if they "let it go" enough times it becomes the law of the land in that relationship, which is what they want.
    Never agree to something like this, ever.

  • @kratosGOW
    @kratosGOW 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    It’s not defamation if it’s true.

    • @dragossusi
      @dragossusi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you prove it to be true*

  • @PaNiC_RR
    @PaNiC_RR 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    "blood can turn to poison" family is who u choose

    • @danilove5994
      @danilove5994 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This 💯

  • @Leisure_360X
    @Leisure_360X 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +172

    Why nobody is normal in such stories, like when parents demanded for the rent & got exposed later, all the relatives sided with them. Not even a single person was normal to think that it was wrong from the parent's side. Strange...

    • @CG-yb6zj
      @CG-yb6zj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Morals, family bonds, ans integrity means nothing to those tyoes. But public appearances? "How DARE she expose her parents, and by association, Us, to the world as the horrible people we are."

    • @dylanhunt4303
      @dylanhunt4303 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      They are the normal ones. It's obviously the OP who's yhe problem and the family knows it. 😂😂😂😂

    • @silentgamer88
      @silentgamer88 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Like you said, they're "relatives". The narcissistic traits exist in all of them. They would never see any fault in one of their own.

    • @marthajackson1388
      @marthajackson1388 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because she was 28 years old and they are that kind of family. I don't think they were upset about her staying for free but rather moving in without any discussion about the living situation. So you get a childish and incentive behavior from parents and daughter.

    • @BrightElk
      @BrightElk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Where do you think the parents learned that behaviour? They learned it from their parents. This is why familial abuse is so awful. It’s almost always multi-generational. I got flack from my sister for calling our dad out for being abusive and then she only had the light bulb go off in her head when her husband punched her in the face while she was 8 months pregnant.

  • @turtleinvader2982
    @turtleinvader2982 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My step dad choked me several times and used the "it was in the past", past being about 4 months excuse multiple times. The way it fucks you up is genuine. It's not a excuse.

    • @BrightElk
      @BrightElk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      “I burned you house down and slept with your wife.” it’s all in the past! Gen x-er edition of “it was just a prank bro!

    • @HughJass_MarioFan_2009
      @HughJass_MarioFan_2009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you kick his ass the last time he did or try to do that?

    • @turtleinvader2982
      @turtleinvader2982 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@HughJass_MarioFan_2009 he was way stronger than me. He died due to unrelated reasons about a year ago but if he ever tried that shi* today then I would absolutely fight back.

  • @Capricious_Muse
    @Capricious_Muse 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I would have got the screenshots of the chat then shared that and remake the post about the parents with alllll the details. At that point just go scorched earth bc none of those people deserve kindness and need to be outed as two-faced wastes of space

  • @originalvenom1972
    @originalvenom1972 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    “This is between me and my parents”
    Proceeds to make a public post and tag parent’s coworkers 😂

  • @Oceana2257
    @Oceana2257 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Im super petty i'd wouldnt take the post down, in fact i'd add screemshots of all the horrible stuff the family said, about what the parents had said when OP and the parents argued ab her career, etc and i would tag all of my families coworkers and bosses

  • @jem2719
    @jem2719 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Now You A Single Mom Song is on repeat in my head when i started reading this lmao. she sounds like a handful just like her parents...explains alot

    • @dillanharris6654
      @dillanharris6654 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like there's no adults here

  • @Afrogirrl
    @Afrogirrl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Some people forget parenting doesn’t just end at 18. A kid is a life long commitment, just like a marriage

  • @angieakasara
    @angieakasara 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How the dad says he can file defamation suit. OP can actually file defamation suit against the parents cause there’s so much evidence

  • @Tris_.
    @Tris_. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OP is NTA but is massive doormat. Her own parents kicked her out when she was heavily pregnant. Also her pregnancy had clearly complications since she couldn't work at all. What if she lost the kid? What if something happened to her too? Why tf is SHE apologizing?????? The parents are toxic narcs. The rest of the family (excluding 1 cousin) are enablers at best.

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If that were me, there wouldn't even be a conversation.. they can forget their grandchild

  • @bigdot2355
    @bigdot2355 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    when you're in a fictional writing competition and your opponent is a redditor

  • @NussbaumBros
    @NussbaumBros 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    OP deleted the post 3 hours after so ITS ALL IN THE PAST

  • @jademarie784
    @jademarie784 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Tell the parents that the post was in the past & they just need to get over it. Oh and that your son is your future so there's no need for them to see him.

  • @royal-wolf
    @royal-wolf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They kicked out a pregnant homeless women and except her to apologize?!?!
    This family is toxic

  • @vikaastrakh2828
    @vikaastrakh2828 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OP's parents didn't care about their grandchild when they kicked OP out, so now they don't have the right to see said grandchild, seems fair

  • @RozaDarken
    @RozaDarken 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Just remember ppl, revenge can burn bridges, so if u dont want to burn a bridge then revenge may not be the solution you want.

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I think we're not getting a very accurate description of this situation.

  • @johnchen997
    @johnchen997 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't EVER feel guilty for taking revenge against these idiots.

  • @stephaniex90
    @stephaniex90 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    This op seems to make terrible decisions.
    Got pregnant and got dumped.
    Didn’t go to college and doesn’t have a stable job to pay rent.
    Actively chose to stay at her parents house, despite them not having a good relationship.
    Did not discuss payment/rent options and expected to be staying for free.
    Chose to keep answering her parents despite them abusing her all the time.
    Her parents are terrible but damn I find it hard to sympathize with her.

    • @Blurgamer17
      @Blurgamer17 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She's just a reflection of how her "parents" raised her. Now she'll be like every single mom stereotype you see on social media. (Primarily Facebook)

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup. She’s a pos. Got knocked up and decided she deserves to live for free. She makes poor decisions and of course everyone else has to pay for it. Now it will be welfare too. I don’t feel bad for these single mothers who expect special treatment. You deserve everything you get and I feel bad for the kids. You made bad decisions all over the place and it’s everyone else’s fault/ problem. Gfy

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Most people don’t expect to get kicked out by their parents at their rock bottom.

  • @snowowl777
    @snowowl777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    And yet another reason why I don't have social media.

    • @BrightElk
      @BrightElk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same! I deleted mine when I got pregnant because it finally dawned on me that social media was only bringing me constant stress.

    • @snowowl777
      @snowowl777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @BrightElk Good on you. I honestly don't understand why put yourself out there for potential slander and online drama.

  • @allMinabe
    @allMinabe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    OP knew what type of guy she got pregnant by. She shouldve asked before moving into their what the rent will be. Shes 28yrs a full grown adult. Her parents aren't obligated to pay to take care of her even if they are wealthy. They might want to spend their money on other other things 😭 That's why she should've gotten a stable career before going into something so unstable. She's messy for posting to FB.

    • @mihailyantsen7598
      @mihailyantsen7598 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      And she isn’t obligated to have them in her life after they thrown her away.

    • @Dayday-xj3hc
      @Dayday-xj3hc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is what I was thinking throughout this post. Like fair enough she has every right to cut contact between her parents and her son, they aren’t good people so she doesn’t need to have them around her kid. It’s just a parent protection there child from bad influences.
      HOWEVER, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Red flag 1, she got pregnant by her ex, and when he dumped her she, put him on child support before the baby was even born. Luckily for him payments didn’t start until it was proven he was the father and the baby was born. Op didn’t actually say this, but based on how she typed it, it looks like she expected child support to be paid before the child was born, which is crazy.
      Red flag 2, she expected to live rent free with her parents, she should have had a discussion before moving back in with them. I understand she was in a hard opposition because she worded her pregnancy as a high risk one, but people who have been worse position than op have made it out of the other side with better results.
      Red flag 3, she post this on social media for everyone to see,m. Now I get it, I’m a petty person too, but somethings just need to stay off FB. I feel like post messy stuff on FB, SC or IG is just asking for trouble. I would have been less concerned with this last red flag, but OP isn’t that much better than her parents.
      She 28 grown a$$ woman behaving like a teenager. If she was 16, 17, 18, 19 or even 20 I would have given her grace, but no, she screwed up the moment she got pregnant and her entitlement started to show. Play stupid games win stupid prizes!

  • @boo1318
    @boo1318 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    If it’s not your family’s business and only you and your parents then why post it for them to see

  • @derpaderpy4931
    @derpaderpy4931 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd have texted my parents with two pictures: One of planks of wood and DIY tools, and one of a pair of drinking straws. I'd then add this caption:
    "You've cried ne your river. Now you can suck it up, build a bridge and get over it."
    Then block them.

  • @sinistersaiyan7531
    @sinistersaiyan7531 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I side with OP with how the way her parents treated her but she’s the one who brung a child into the world without being stable enough

  • @melany2474
    @melany2474 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’d put the post back up as well as one with how your family is speaking about you after its posting. Toxic fam to the max. Nta.

  • @sheepshoe
    @sheepshoe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She should have tell them to pay a visiting fee for seeing her son, lol

  • @maebell227
    @maebell227 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just apologize to the workers u tagged. Not them. Forget them they basically betrayed u when u needed them

  • @redconvoy
    @redconvoy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Defamation suit? You can't sue someone for telling the truth!

  • @ComeliaO7
    @ComeliaO7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So was anyone actually listening. She apologized to the workers. She was just doing that outta spite and then she realize she did fucked up at and she apologized for that. She was going through tough financial time. Was she wrong for asking her parents for help? Hell no. Hell I had to suck up my pride and move back in with my mother. Shit happens. my mother had a discussion about bills and rent. I’m assuming she did as well. she wanted to be pitching in for groceries that count for something. I mean you need food, right.

  • @Saphira1001fanfic
    @Saphira1001fanfic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Everyone is the Asshole in this story. The parents charging rent and not allowing a differed payment after not talking about rent before their daughter moved in was wrong. But the daughter also seems pretty entitled, she takes little accountability for her post, thinking a half apology is enough.

    • @dylanhunt4303
      @dylanhunt4303 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I suspect that the parents were driving home the point that she fked up her life with a weak carrier, an absent father and unable to sustain herself. In return she probably did serious dmg to their carriers with that post. I think the extended family who knew her best in this world were probably angry for a food reasons.

    • @GeezSus
      @GeezSus 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd do the same thing if this was me, heck OP would be a saint compared to me. Tagging the co-workers instead of dm'ing this to their boss is the only wrong thing OP did. She definitely did not need to apologize to the parents, rather the coworkers. If she's honest throughout the story, her parents totally deserve to be shunned by the society, it's either that or getting the cops involved for trespassing on her property which OP was generous enough to not do so.

  • @billjacobs2799
    @billjacobs2799 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OP go NC with any family that is talking bad about you and post that none of them will ever see your child. OP's parents reaped what they sowed and will never see their daughter or grandchild again.

  • @ladyweasellou3367
    @ladyweasellou3367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She keeps saying that it's none of their business, that it's just between her and her parents... So they need to keep their mouth shut and back off...
    ... But she's the one that made it their business.
    She's got no one to blame but herself.
    I think posting the story and venting wasn't too bad as far as venting goes ...but I do think tagging coworkers and family was a bit much.
    She has made her bed, she needs to lay in it.
    ****"I think we're getting a VERY different story than what actually happened here.

  • @fl-ri-
    @fl-ri- 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OP and her parents all seem unhinged, honestly.

  • @slayermoon666
    @slayermoon666 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sounds like their ‘love’ was conditional… op double down, go no contact… I hate these gaslighting idiots

  • @fameasser123
    @fameasser123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    First!!! But moving onto more important things, hot damn that's crazy.

  • @zeekay3205
    @zeekay3205 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand maturity and pacifism especially when it comes to family. I also understand the trashiness of airing out the dirty laundry.
    But honest to God I was disappointed when she said she took it down - and PISSED when she apologized to her meecenary, opportunistic parents!!
    Im glad it happened though because it revealed her trash relatives to her too. Now she knows where she stands and who is and isnt her family.
    A post doesnt compare with kicking out your own heavily pregnant daughter after 2 months!!!

  • @khalborg
    @khalborg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If they can charge you a fee for staying at their house, you can charge them a fee for seeing your baby.

  • @ali12921
    @ali12921 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They all sound suuuuper entitled

  • @I3urton
    @I3urton 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The AI really loves to create characters who take all their fights to social media now, huh?

  • @mairaaromero9284
    @mairaaromero9284 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Whats gets me is that she is an only doughter...

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who decided to get knocked up with a pos and thinks she deserves to live for free. She’s entitled and makes bad decisions and everyone else’s fault. Her parents are not required to let her free,pad because she chose to mess her life up. Now she will be a drain on tax payers too.

  • @DragonArbock
    @DragonArbock 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    OP: Doesn't have money
    OP: Has baby anyway
    Why are people stupid.

  • @absolem04
    @absolem04 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Id laugh at even the threat of defamation lawsuit but id also been getting evidence to prove its truth

  • @Permenantlyexhaustedghost115
    @Permenantlyexhaustedghost115 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ll never get why people shit on single parents. Specifically single mothers. It’s so stupid to me. Another thing Ops parents abandoned her when she needed them. They should’ve discussed rent first if they didn’t want a “freeloader”. They aren’t sorry and they’ll never be sorry. Op should honestly just walk away.

  • @akuna_star
    @akuna_star 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Who ever said they have watch it full is a liar...

  • @dennisavery58
    @dennisavery58 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    relatives do actually have a point there

  • @rowan5335
    @rowan5335 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They literally didn't care if you lost your baby, and they are guilt tripping you. What you did was fair, and the family didn't care how you were treated

  • @Tylery97
    @Tylery97 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not gonna lie, it’s weird that the women can decide wether or not the baby can live or not. That’s completely her choice, but the father has to have the obligation to the child even though he doesn’t get to make that decision. If he doesn’t want the child and she does, so him not wanting to raising it or pay for it, should almost be the same as her saying she doesn’t want to raise and pay for it so she just deletes it

  • @lilianageissler2963
    @lilianageissler2963 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A part of me thinks that even her cousin wasn't in her side and is just playing both sides, but I don't know. I think you are stupid for apologizing and you definitely should have elaborated a few details as to how poorly they treated you on the post. Your parents failed you and should have taken the hint when they kicked you out. My grandma kicked my own mother out of her house when she was pregnant with me so even though I don't know exactly how you feel. I know how your child must feel because of the stress you are going through because of them. What needs to happen is, you need to get a restraining order against them. And go no contact with the rest of your family, because they aren't any better than your parents.

  • @bryanekers3472
    @bryanekers3472 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Somebody in this situation better start acting like an adult before the kid is high school.

  • @miraclewilfred9540
    @miraclewilfred9540 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I pray you make it big IJN

  • @Yamyatos
    @Yamyatos 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Crazy, unnecessary drama. Both sides.

  • @goatkiller666
    @goatkiller666 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    While I think OP was kind of an asshole for tagging her parent’s coworkers… she owes an apology to the coworkers, not to her parents. Truth is an absolute defense of defamation, and she told no lies about her parents. But those coworkers didn’t sign up for drama. They just want to work and go home to live their lives. Apologizing to the parents just means their gaslighting is working. And they are clearly much better at the -stops game than OP is. They gaslit for a bit, then they go silent. First to get her riled up, then go silent to deny her the satisfaction. They’re narcissists, so any attention feeds them, and OP is falling into their trap.
    As Matthew Broderick taught us, the only way to win is not to play.

  • @Vikashar
    @Vikashar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She should have posted goatse images in the family thread then blocked them all. Perfect revenge

  • @TheCodeHunter
    @TheCodeHunter 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    at first the OP would be NTA but after proving her emotional intelligence isn't that great and made an awful decision to involve their co-workers, I have to say that OP is YTA now. That is pretty uncool, posting family problems and tagging people who aren't related is just too much.

  • @adjustableWench
    @adjustableWench 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    are some people really so idiotic that they dont know how to block people on their phones and social media? this chick would have nothing to complain about or any texts or calls to ignore if she would have just blocked her parents to begin with

  • @CG-yb6zj
    @CG-yb6zj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If it were really about the money, and it wasn't, they could've brought it up long before OP made the trekk to their house and moved in..
    To lie that it would've been "Tacky" when they both work with money in their careers that deal with demanding money UPFRONT, but not when they waited till she was situated to spring that on her is lousy excuse.
    They forfeited their right to see OPs baby as the father forfeited his, but at least HE was upfront about it from the jump and worked it out.

  • @eniqmo6144
    @eniqmo6144 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Of course the family will have opinions on the matter . You made it public information

    • @dylanhunt4303
      @dylanhunt4303 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep. AH OP probably did serious dmg to her parent's reputation.

  • @princefiggy
    @princefiggy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm on the parents side. No one gets to live for free. It's arrogant to think that you , as an adult, should be able to. And you had the money to pay rent, but chose not to

    • @reaperwithsorrow4559
      @reaperwithsorrow4559 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So you’ll kick out a heavily pregnant woman….no matter what…there is a very very HOT ASS PLACE FOR YOU LMAO

  • @Justheretowatch321
    @Justheretowatch321 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s crazy to post family drama to people at their work. It’s crossing a line. And just as she thinks she can feel or let go if and when she wants. Her parents can also feel that her career choice is trash and they can also want her to act like an adult and pay rent. They do not owe her anything. And using your kid to punish your parents is quite immature. I’m sure this is an unpopular opinion but there is more going on with her and this whole thing just sounds like she is full of drama and hasn’t learned to grow up. Her parents sound like they are at the end of their rope with her

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    and of course like these little girls who put the cart before the horse they expect everyone else to pay them to play house. and until they get back on their feet? not always. that is how one ends up with freeloaders as well. I don't always have sympathy for these situations. all because they get baby rabies. or a deliberate oopsie. I don't buy that it was accidental.

  • @codygraham4237
    @codygraham4237 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    has op ever heard of a job?

  • @dylanhunt4303
    @dylanhunt4303 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I suspect that the parents were driving home the point that she fked up her life with a weak carrier, an absent father and unable to sustain herself. In return she probably did serious dmg to their carriers with that post. I think the extended family who knew her best in this world were probably angry for a food reasons. To all those people who forget that the narrator is the OP and not impartial, try to use some critical think skills 😂😂😂😂

  • @ThePawerStation
    @ThePawerStation 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would've made another post with all the trash-talking behind her back.

  • @sarukegirl
    @sarukegirl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sorry but her thinking that her family has no reason to be talking about her/gossiping and need to keep their mouth shut when she posted it PUBLICLY (even for 3 hours) is pretty naive. Like you can't have your cake and eat it too. If someone ELSE posted about you... that's a different story.
    But also... if her family is "close" like she says they are. Her family probably has a lot of mutuals or overlapping circles so her post could've been spread all over and now they're stuck being asked about it or hearing people whisper about it. And sorry, but if you post it PUBLICLY you can't go and tell people its none of their business and keep your mouth shut.

  • @cubbybonez1133
    @cubbybonez1133 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I mean yes tagging co workers of your parents was not smart but op should have made all her parents did so they shut it and work on mistakes

  • @jamiepetersen6153
    @jamiepetersen6153 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't pay rent but I pay the electricity bill and food shopping

  • @meeksdabear
    @meeksdabear 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my standerds of revenge story may have gotton a bit high after watching the do it for dan movie

  • @ianimations1656
    @ianimations1656 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    why tf did she suddenly start caring about how her parents felt AFTER having cut them off. This feels like it was written by an AI that does not understand human emotions. These stories have fallen off hard. Usually out of the three daily uploads, there's at least 1 that feels like it was written by a genuine human, but these last few days they've all been unbelievable.

  • @caitlinkehler2708
    @caitlinkehler2708 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Id have reposted it and added the screenshots. It's only defamation if it's not true.

  • @YuGiOhPlayer
    @YuGiOhPlayer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Parents fault icl

  • @yasY0L0
    @yasY0L0 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nono OP your post was "all in the past"

  • @DemonLucifer875
    @DemonLucifer875 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why take this bull crap for so long could have ended this long ago

  • @kennycai8695
    @kennycai8695 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know this is not an AITA story, but if it was, it's an ESH verdict.
    OP, I have to give you a douchebag score for dragging other people into your family drama, but at the very least, I see your perspective. Your parents, though, seems like they are the type who are very image conscious, hence why they keep taking digs at you behind your back. I also strongly doubt they were sincere with visiting your son, cause it's clear they want to cause drama to say "woe is me, our daughter is being so disrespectful cause she refuses to let us control her". They are not narcissists per se, but the fact they value their pride and public image more than their own flesh and blood, that is the real damning statement about your parents' true selves. At the very least, OP is no longer in contact with those pompous snobs, and if they want to keep sniping at OP to play the victim, let's just say the family group will eventually tire of this crap and turn on them.

  • @tritussithis2449
    @tritussithis2449 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ngl Kinda hope Op and cousin are uploading the group chat and we shall see what the world have to say to that..Ha

  • @hypergirlxnx2005
    @hypergirlxnx2005 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm just under an hour

  • @jadesterbaby
    @jadesterbaby 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “My relatives have nothing to do with this, so they need to keep their mouths shut” lol okay but you brought them AND your parents’ coworkers into this by making a public post on social media.
    What’s funny to me is how OP says her parents’ silence bothered her more than when they were blowing up her phone, because it seems like that’s exactly how her parents felt when she was ignoring them after the baby was born.
    Obviously I disagree with her parents forcing her to leave when she was 7 months pregnant, especially with the compromises she was willing to make, like signing a legal agreement as a promise to repay them.
    Both the parents and the woman are in the wrong for the various things they’ve done to each other, and it’s interesting how they seem to do the same type of wrongs back and forth with one another without ever considering how they’re making each other feel. They only think about how they’ve been made to feel, never their own impact.
    It’s sad to see families break like this, and I wish the world was a kinder, more patient, more understanding place. Family is supposed to be the bare minimum of the foundation of what we have in life, but unfortunately we’re all only human and we are not perfect.
    Edit to add: these stories are so frustrating because the parents never seem to be able to admit when they’ve fcked up, and they ALWAYS expect their children to “be the bigger person” and blindly forgive and move on, even though the parents never behave the way they demand their children to do. Maybe it makes me sad because that’s a parallel to my own relationship with both of my parents, and it bothers me that so many of us have to walk around knowing that we weren’t “worth” legitimate reconciliation to our parents. The only “reconciliation” they’ll accept is basically complete obedience - they can’t seem to love us unless we walk their very demanding line and stay silent about how negatively they impact us.

  • @zeyneepsenaa
    @zeyneepsenaa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Asking YOUR OWN CHILD to pay rent??

    • @jerkfan123
      @jerkfan123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's a grown ass woman with a child

    • @Dayday-xj3hc
      @Dayday-xj3hc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Uhmmm if your child is over 21 and working there isn’t nothing wrong with children paying rent to their parents. Why should a parent be solely responsible for bills if their kid is an adult and has money. I live at home and I pay my parents rent to help towards bills, it’s definitely cheaper than renting a shared home with strangers in my area. Plus when I finally move out it will teach me to be responsible.

    • @zeyneepsenaa
      @zeyneepsenaa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Dayday-xj3hc I agree, an adult should not live likea leech but OP's situation is different. I live with my parents too, however, I don't think paying rent/providing financial support are the same thing. Maybe it's a cultural difference, I'm not American/European.

  • @aundreawilliams1211
    @aundreawilliams1211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Both sides were wrong. OP was being petty, and i think the parents were trying too teach her a lesson. As a person who always has some relative trying to stay with them and bite help out, i can see it from the parents side. Just because she was helping a little doesn't mean that it was enough. Yeah they should have told her what they expected at first, but also, OP shouldn't have gotten pregnant from the beginning😅

  • @clowncorpze
    @clowncorpze 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ayooooo new telltales vid!!!

  • @MARIN-sx5qs
    @MARIN-sx5qs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The post is just the past, right? 6:18

  • @shuichisaiharasimp
    @shuichisaiharasimp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a dumb OP, seriously.

  • @cynreiusacari3163
    @cynreiusacari3163 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OP is being entitled and childish. What right does she think she has to her parent’s resources indefinitely and practically free because of the situation her and her boyfriend got themselves in? OP didn’t even mention attempting to get a remote job or anything when they expressed wanting rent. Are the parents wrong for disliking her choice of career? Absolutely, but OP isn’t taking accountability for a life lesson many people fail to learn. She also assumed the rent money would be gone instead of her parents potentially setting it off to the side for her and the baby. With the mention they were “well off” it shows fiscal responsibility.
    Hope the parents have the kid as the beneficiary and that the money can’t be accessed until 25-30 until OP gets her shit straight.

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      OP was dealing with a high risk pregnancy with complications, you are recommended by doctors to not work. In general pregnant woman are expected to not work, so especially a high risk one. And when you give birth to a child, it’s a life long commitment not just till their 18 years old. Much commitment than even a marriage. Plus all these people knew about OP’s health and decided not to assist in anyway. High risks pregnancies aren’t only risky for the baby but also the mum. And they didn’t even bother checking up with OP. Despite her mistakes, what kind of parents would do this? The irresponsibility of OP is clearly a result of her own parents. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

    • @cynreiusacari3163
      @cynreiusacari3163 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Afrogirrl There’s a lot we don’t know based on the post, parents age and if OP even bothered to use the multiple resources available for pregnant women especially when they’re classified as high risk or even just single. If this incident happened in the last few years many people are in unfavorable situations and can’t help out but the places that exist for that are still around. Going back the ability to work, there’s nothing concrete that meant she cannot work at all. Accommodation exists and likely not for photography but other jobs.
      Yes, children are a lifelong commitment and that doesn’t mean not having boundaries or expectations. What types of parents do this? Many from the bad ones to the ones that are tired of being taken advantage of by their kids. Unfortunately, the cycle often continues with their kids following in the same footsteps and is evident in the charts of socioeconomic status. As for her parents not checking OP was the one seeking to benefit and assumed it would be free. We don’t even know how much she contributed compared to the full utility and grocery bills. She is the one that needed to research anything and everything available to her as single and high risk. What’s sad is that she’s just one among millions like this with the advantage of having living parents whether she’s happy with them or not.

    • @Afrogirrl
      @Afrogirrl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cynreiusacari3163 having expectations and boundaries is fine as a parent, but not when it literally puts your kid and future grand child is danger when it’s completely avoidable. I feel like parents should’ve set up these boundaries and expectations a while ago and they know that, that’s why their overcompensating for it now by going above and beyond. Which in turn is creating more harm than good. And even if you negate away from the health risks of working during a high risk pregnancy, employers avoid employing pregnant woman in general. Why would you hire someone who could literally go into maternity leave weeks after being hired, leaving you stranded? Yes there a organisations that help pregnant woman, but it varies greatly on your area.
      But I also think unwanted pregnancies are easily avoidable and OP is irresponsible for ending up in the position she is now. Sometimes as a kid you have those “damn i need my parent” moments, have you ever had that, I’m asking human to human. And her parents abandoning her in that moment is greatly gonna severe any future relationship they have. I just think in general this whole family is childish and irresponsible.

    • @cynreiusacari3163
      @cynreiusacari3163 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Afrogirrl The type of danger you are considering is not a guarantee. We know this by the number of successful high-risk pregnancies. When the doctor provides that information it is for the parent (OP) to take precautions and make adjustments. Employers, at least in America, cannot discriminate against pregnant women. If the doctor informed the OP that she could not work because her pregnancy was high-risk then they failed to assist her with the information that she could apply for temporary disability if worked was deemed not medically safe.
      I understand people will feel a particular way about topics but it doesn’t remove personal responsibility for continuous problem solving. As far as dating expectations go, it just proves once again that the main problem is communication. Children learn directly and passively from the adults in their lives. Not only is OP an adult, she has enough agency to ask the questions herself. I understand that many children in the home are uncomfortable talking about those subjects be it fear or just the the idea that their parents have sex, but parents raising their children need to explain the reasons and whys behind the the yes/no and the do’s/don’ts behind the answer.

    • @Dayday-xj3hc
      @Dayday-xj3hc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cynreiusacari3163 i agree with you 1000%. Op is the definition of an entitled person. Her parents are not good people either but clearly the apple did fall far from the tree. Not sure if anyone else count on but when she explained how the CS would work with her ex, it sounded like she was expecting before the baby was born. That’s the moment I was raising eyebrows.

  • @jle256
    @jle256 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is this renting from your parents thing, a white thing or do all cultures do this bs

  • @Gauthamkz
    @Gauthamkz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Under 1 hour gang 👇

  • @saramccormack3025
    @saramccormack3025 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    U should have posted all the nasty txts past n present on social media n c hw many people take their side.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let’s not forget how op is irresponsible, entitled and makes very poor decisions, then expects everyone else to solve her problems. SHE chose to be a single mother and who with. She chose a guy who as NOT her husband and then thinks she’s deserves to freeload. Nope. Now she will be freeloading off tax payers I’m sure. Op is like every other single mother who gets handouts while the rest of us responsible people pay for it.

  • @MrRealGreenn
    @MrRealGreenn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Both parents and op are the ah, op thinks just because shes pregnant she can live for free, parents are being rude and un apologetic, op says she didnt do anything and deleted the post within hours, but that doesnt matter because people still saw it.

  • @RoxanneSharbono-mb8ol
    @RoxanneSharbono-mb8ol 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Story 1 put the post back up.if they complain say it's in the past. Also send screenshots everywhere.

  • @truenecro
    @truenecro 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It would be nice to get the other side of this story, it is all over the place. The DB don't want the baby... so OP wanted to struggle as a single mom? Something is not adding up, at 5months pregnant, COULD not work(disabled), or CHOISE to not work? Parents took you in for 2 months before giving you a choice, work and pay rent or get out? (sounds like OP paid for her own food AND eat whatever she could find). OP put the parents on blast for kicking OP out because OP refused to pay rent, but not demanding the first 2 months payments though? The WHOLE FAMILY thinks OP is difficult to be around? Did OP ever give them a reason to talk GOOD about OP? This whole thing sounds ENTITLED.
    It sounds like OP is A bitter baby mommy but towards the Grandparents. OP was hurt and now everyone gets to suffer including the innocent child who won't get to have grandparents.

  • @maigrande-wang696
    @maigrande-wang696 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Greedy banker parents? How semitic of them

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would probably be kicked out. But I don't have to worry about that...at least not for now. Sometimes you have to be on their good graces. Understandable to some extent how they're feeling. Cause they been through it. While us kinda have to do some chores here and there even though we don't like it at all.

  • @Tempest27
    @Tempest27 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "Oh no another i got knocked up now my parents me kicked so i took revenge brrrr"
    Annoying story as usual i see

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Then don't watch it

    • @C.G.Gaster
      @C.G.Gaster 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Actually -cocks gun-
      You're gonna watch it and like it... get in the chair...

  • @gatordragon8824
    @gatordragon8824 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You sound like the entitled AH..

  • @Thatonecrazyviewer
    @Thatonecrazyviewer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    24th commentor!!!