how to master ✨quiet confidence✨

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  • @raider394
    @raider394 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +606

    This is what an introvert actually is not the antisocial people in today’s time have deemed it to be 🤝 great video

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      FACTS

    • @Jojo-mc7ku
      @Jojo-mc7ku 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It can be both

    • @Jojo-mc7ku
      @Jojo-mc7ku 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@raider394 my point is you can be both.

    • @emeeeeyy
      @emeeeeyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​​​@@Jojo-mc7ku You can be both and you can be one or the other. The original commenter is just talking about how people use introverted and anti social interchangeably when they're not the same thing :)

    • @Jojo-mc7ku
      @Jojo-mc7ku 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@emeeeeyy alright got it. My bad I guess I was being defensive

  • @phs15
    @phs15 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +319

    I saw this quote that's something along the lines of, "Fools speak because they feel like they have to say something, wise people speak because they have something to say."

  • @ellouisebadger849
    @ellouisebadger849 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    This video! I've grown up to feel I'm not enough. Not funny enough, not loud enough, not interesting enough. I'm tired of it because quiet people do bring value to the table

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      literally me, it's exhuasting

    • @princess_zulica
      @princess_zulica 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i personally love quiet ppl. used to dislike them but thats only cus i hated my iwn quietness. now i love them the mostttt.

    • @dannyadvice
      @dannyadvice 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes they bring the greatest value that everyone.

    • @jaquelinezelaznog355
      @jaquelinezelaznog355 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sometimes I feel like I'm not funny enough because I don't show myself as I am to my coworkers but honestly, I'm so much fun when I'm with my family, so the thing is, it's not that I'm not funny, it's just that I don't wanna be me with the wrong people, they mostly are just not my cup of tea and I think that could be your case too, it's not you, it's the wrong people

  • @catherine.rezzuto
    @catherine.rezzuto 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    i've found with quiet confidence comes this subtle leadership skill. once you do a certain action people will notice and follow your example. sometimes being the observer, whether that's at work or in your friend group, can help build up natural leadership qualities because you will know when to speak up, when to advocate for others, and have a firm grasp on how others communicate and in turn that helps you communicate better with that individual.

  • @trapicheena726
    @trapicheena726 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I still have trouble with the “act like you’re correct” because even though I know something I say is right, I still add “I think” at the end. I honestly hate that I do this, but ig I’m just scared to be seen like an arrogant person.
    I’m an indecisive person and have low self confidence, so I tend to act submissive to the other person I’m talking too. This was a bad choice to do because when I do better than a coworker, they become competitive and try to bring me down.
    Watching this video made me realized that I’m not forced to talk to my coworkers when work is slow.

    • @annekrusova
      @annekrusova 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeeeess me too

    • @jasmine-mi1mh
      @jasmine-mi1mh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I personally like to use the phrase "I believe" rather than "I think", just a small change that makes me feel a lot more confident while still basically saying the same thing

  • @Delulu_Charm
    @Delulu_Charm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    I love throwing stuff away too, I feel much cleaner when my room is like empty, someone gets me😭😍❤

    • @AmiMistry
      @AmiMistry 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      me too right now i am cleaning and throwing stuffs 😭

    • @crow1628
      @crow1628 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@AmiMistry me three haha :D

  • @stella.thursday
    @stella.thursday 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    literally found ur channel 5mins ago and I FEEL SO SEEEENNNN w this vid 😭 omg

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      when my channel finds the right ppl >>>

  • @Sxyin
    @Sxyin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    this video resonated with me so much omg every single point ESPECIALLY THE ENCYCLOPEDIA i will literally be scared to say anything if i’m not confident in being 10000% correct
    also i have a deeper monotone voice sometimes and i’m scared if i don’t sound bubbly and high pitched that people are gonna think i’m uninterested or being mean 😭😭

    • @97hanabi
      @97hanabi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      omg same and heavy on the second paragraph !! i feel you

    • @myrtila
      @myrtila 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Deep voice makes someone be respected. I would prefer to have deep voice

  • @TiaraClarese
    @TiaraClarese 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hate to be seen and love to be known is a beautiful way to say that. Double tap.

  • @chayenn607
    @chayenn607 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have one friend like this her aura is go beyond.

  • @moonchild5799
    @moonchild5799 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I love this ❤ I have the feeling that a lot of people think that you can only be confidence when you're extreme loud, extravert and talkative, but I think most confident people are in fact more on the quite side because they know that they are worthy and don't feel the need to impress anyone. Confidence is a feeling of accepting yourself just the way you are

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      that last line >>> 'confidence is a feeling of accepting yourself just the way you are' i couldn't agree more!

  • @thesecretsheholds
    @thesecretsheholds 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    HERE IN 30 SECS AND TSYMM NEEDED THIS ILYSMM

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      you were quicker than me lmaoo

  • @mutiahnoorm.j.1143
    @mutiahnoorm.j.1143 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just started uni in a very differrent part of the country from my family. I dont have any family members here, just some friends of my parents. I've been pressured by my family to make friends, and I'm really trying to. When actually, I'm really comfortable with myself. But because of their pressure, I have been trying really hard. I've been watching videos of how to socialize, how to make convorsations, and pretty much every social skill video. I've been hard on myself because I cant keep a conversation with people, because I feel that I'm not interesting. But this video made me realize that I could just be myself again, my quiet self with imperfections that needs improvement. Thank you very much for making this video, it helped me through this difficult time🥰

  • @ellouisebadger849
    @ellouisebadger849 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    You're just a minimalist if you like an empty space. I love having a clear out too 😊

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      that's the word! i just love the aesthetic

  • @evazts1379
    @evazts1379 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I relate so much to your quirk about throwing things away. I'm always on a quest to chuck things out of my room even though it's almost empty, and I've done a declutterung on my clothes like 10 times there's literally no more thigs that i can throw away😂😂

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FINALLY someone who gets me 😭😭

    • @lessthangraceful
      @lessthangraceful 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too 😂🥰

  • @asapbaby9275
    @asapbaby9275 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Its insane you pinpointed EVERYTHING in my life. I am in utter shock. Thank you for this video.

  • @Jiminsboost
    @Jiminsboost 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for this video and also as an introvert myself i feel like it’s not so hard for us to be confident when we are with the right people but than when we are around people we don’t know it’s like we shut down because we don’t know what to say or we feel that we won’t fit it. And sometimes we don’t and it’s okay to remove yourself from the situation or the group. But when I was in middle school I was antisocial and shy but then when I was around my friends I would be talkative so I think the older I got the more introverted I became and the less talkative I became as well. And by the way I love your accent 💕

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      exactly!! we become so animated and bubbly around the right people, and then the opposite around other people. imo all that matters is you keep those people close, bc it doesn't matter what acquaintances or strangers think, only what you think and the ppl close to you! 💕

    • @Jiminsboost
      @Jiminsboost 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ChristinaAaliyah thank you and so true 🥹💕

  • @Lafemmeforte5
    @Lafemmeforte5 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    You’re growing so fast :o!! I only subbed a few weeks ago and you were around 16k and now you’re already over 25k, keep it up

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ikr!! it's crazy 😭 i didn't realise this sort of stuff resonated with so many ppl

  • @Викуся-н7з
    @Викуся-н7з 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i love your advices please don’t die

  • @ChristinaAaliyah
    @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    what do we think of the new set up!!

    • @sofiachahbounia.
      @sofiachahbounia. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      strangeee but cozy❤

    • @Abracadabra-k3r
      @Abracadabra-k3r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Without the mic it looks like I am having a conversation with my close friend / older sister and they are giving me advice lol ❤

  • @Clxxdyyyyyyy
    @Clxxdyyyyyyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    You kinda remind me of a cartoon character. Same outfit everyday, almost empty room, ridiculously pretty. You just are a cartoon character

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      this made me laugh idk why 🤣🤣 thank you 😭

  • @myrtila
    @myrtila 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is random but a great synchronicity happened. You mentioned that the background changed because you moved in back to your mom’s place after finishing uni, and I’m literally finishing uni and moving back to my parents’ house in a few days

  • @zamcorcuera
    @zamcorcuera 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i automatically subscribed 10 mins in, girl u just described my problem rn😭

  • @nicolekoii
    @nicolekoii 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ive been reflecting on it lately but watching this video definitely brought to the forefront of my mind just how truly scared i am when it comes to social interactions and relationships. i honestly think im the type where when i feel very confident im more on the loud side so i dont thknk quiet confidence is exactly something i strive for but i appreciate this video to look into the mindset of a person who is confident.

  • @carolinlovelifecoach
    @carolinlovelifecoach 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We need to accept others the way they are

  • @christina.shakula
    @christina.shakula 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Christina, love your thinking! ❤️ Hope your medical job treats you well. By the way, throwing things away or wearing the same clothes are signs of your practically, which is very useful. Decluttering is an extremely important thing nowadays. If you're in London, I would love to have a chat over a cup of tea. All the best with your life journey 🙏

  • @userfum
    @userfum 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is literally what i've been looking for

  • @jessicajovel5674
    @jessicajovel5674 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my god, THANK YOU, I literally always think "I need to say something interesting/funny and smile"

  • @uiohfiuszohda
    @uiohfiuszohda 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i needed this, i can't be social even if my life depends on it, love you queen

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      here for u 🦋

    • @uiohfiuszohda
      @uiohfiuszohda 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChristinaAaliyah 🤍

  • @manaljavid9624
    @manaljavid9624 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm a doctor too and I can relate so much.

  • @nellajoensalo2316
    @nellajoensalo2316 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    As an autistic person I find your friends comment super funny, because I totally wear ”the same” outfits all the time, lol.

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      haha it's just so reassuring to know i don't have to worry about what i'm gonna wear

  • @kennedisuniah7119
    @kennedisuniah7119 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    a good example of this is mimi vs. Samatha on love island, mimi has a lot of the quite confidence and sam is a bit louder and extroverted but not necessarily as confident.

  • @mgdancecovers8055
    @mgdancecovers8055 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for great advices and for your hardwork❤

  • @superpowergirltm
    @superpowergirltm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank youuu! It's so useful and cheerful. Your advices are really good and you're very beautiful💛

  • @catharsis3083
    @catharsis3083 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I so get the wanting to wear the same thing every day lol but yeah, the one of throwing things away is giving major sk vibes 😭 but perhaps it's because I'm the opposite and I always save things "because it could be useful later". my own sk trait (as my friend called it) is my bed placement, in the middle of my room or right next to the stairs LMAOOO

  • @SabrinaRizandya-ek6vs
    @SabrinaRizandya-ek6vs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The problem that u expound in this video resonates with me, I manifest I could be like u in university! I just graduated highschool and wish to get into medical school and be a doctor just like u, it will be a long and life-changing journey pls root for me so that the experience would be positive, life changing, and does not go south....❤

  • @samtheham1280
    @samtheham1280 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    LOLLLL having 9 of the same shirt is giving a bit of the tism ngl😭

    • @jadedpotato1574
      @jadedpotato1574 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      nothing wrong with that 🙏

  • @Strwberr1e
    @Strwberr1e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love ur content

  • @HoneyduckXD
    @HoneyduckXD 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Tysm I needed this 😭

  • @jessicajovel5674
    @jessicajovel5674 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    13:55 I'm having an identity crisis because in 1 year (I hope) I'll graduate, and I feel so lost with the idea of not studying anymore, but I'm also starting to see all the things I can do besides studying

  • @allysonwalker2084
    @allysonwalker2084 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent points all!

  • @TrinityHopkins-bn2df
    @TrinityHopkins-bn2df 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my goodness, I just discovered your channel and I'm in uni right now in nursing and I'm obsesseddd

  • @SleepySabASMR
    @SleepySabASMR 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love throwing stuff away and I love wearing the same things everyday 😭twinsies

  • @Leah_mrie
    @Leah_mrie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this!

  • @shalomchika5004
    @shalomchika5004 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate your vulnerability. It's relatable, and i've done the needful(subscribed).

  • @taiyodesu9554
    @taiyodesu9554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, I am not feeling lonely now 🎉

  • @defnelivass
    @defnelivass 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found your channel 2 minutes ago and it's so good!! These are actually helpful videos

  • @millysmanifestations
    @millysmanifestations 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    congratulations on getting your degree! So proud of you miss doctor!!! ahh that’s so big👩‍⚕️💚💚

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you!! i can't believe it's all done, officially an adult now

    • @lolade6687
      @lolade6687 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know right! Congratulations girl!
      The fact that Christina mentioned it so casually. I mean, being a doctor is a big deal.

  • @sfmmmo7599
    @sfmmmo7599 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank u for ur videos girl! 🫶✨️

  • @lincolnmcloud8460
    @lincolnmcloud8460 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey I really liked this video. I know I learned a lot of confidence and how to build it up. Ideally I would like to implement all of these different exercises to better improve my confidence; but the one I want to focus on the most is just saying no.

  • @electriss5111
    @electriss5111 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You just described me in the first 40 seconds🤩

  • @LeticiaPessoaa
    @LeticiaPessoaa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great content, watching your videos makes me more aware and less emotional about the phase I'm going through and motivates me to continue!!
    I only ask that the next videos have subtitles, as English is not my native language and sometimes the lines are too fast, I still love your videos!!

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you Leticia! i can definitely upload subtitles in my next ones :)

  • @katherine5340
    @katherine5340 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos, they are very helpful!

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      than you katherine, this means more than u know

  • @Aplus_GAM1NG
    @Aplus_GAM1NG 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your content is amazing!

  • @binggo3740
    @binggo3740 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think it’s because my manager called me out for saying “like” so much so I’m more aware that you’re saying too many “like” also 😅

  • @angelapina
    @angelapina 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was amazing

  • @Briianswrld
    @Briianswrld 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The fact that I scrolled to see ur thumbnails is hilarious

  • @specsinmotion
    @specsinmotion 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i feel like we would be such good friends, i love your energy

  • @christinaregi3546
    @christinaregi3546 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another fab videoooo!!!

  • @doveslizleskiss2956
    @doveslizleskiss2956 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    literally was taking notes from that video, thanks so much for the advice. little question here: any tips on being respected by everyone? can i just delulu into it, and go in conversations with the mindset of ''i'm already respected''? xoxo

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      omg i'm literally planning a video on this. it's gonna be called something like 'don't aim to be liked, aim to be respected' or something like that. i've come to realise people respect you A LOT when you care more about approving of yourself vs seeking approval. but i'll elaborate more in the video. but yeah, like you said, defo walk in the room, confident af, you approve of yourself, you don't need anyone to validate you, win or lose, you always have your own back, you don't need anyone's validation 🙌

  • @jesuislechat__
    @jesuislechat__ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally get the "uniform" you wear every day ... even if everything around you changes, your clothing stays the same, so your reflection grounds you. Hope that makes sense 😅
    Wearing he same thing every day doesn't necessarily make you autistic, tbh

  • @Jd1156
    @Jd1156 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow dope content keep growing🔥🔥🔥

  • @Sxyin
    @Sxyin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    omg i feel like we’re so similar, i’m also only child parents divorced and likes to yap only when i want to 😭

  • @kylie0110
    @kylie0110 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    why tf did u EXACTLY describe me at the begginning

  • @lifeisthisway
    @lifeisthisway 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you give me so much hope, you can’t imagine… it’s like i’m listening to a future, wiser version of myself. I’m in med school right now, and throughout first three years of it all my personality was literally studying. Only recently I discovered that i also have other things i like to do 😆 Great video, as per usual 🩷

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      aw girl 🥹 you've got this !! med school has that affect on a lot of us 🥲 it's a slow process to unlearn but you can absoluelty thrive in your exams and irl too!

  • @Mary-f5f8p
    @Mary-f5f8p 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your face and your speech is sooooooooo beautifulllll wow 🫂🦋

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you're so kind, thank you 🦋

  • @Rishikarwa04
    @Rishikarwa04 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You speek in 1.75x speed 😭
    But your videos are great , as a introvert i can feel each and every word u told

  • @CYBER_FunkER
    @CYBER_FunkER 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stoicism

  • @2909XX
    @2909XX 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thought your "throwing away things" quirk was funny but why do you do that do you think? 🤔 I understand the clothes thing I identify with that it makes sense. Great video as always, glad you started a TH-cam channel.. valuable content 💪🏆🫡

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i think i get scared having too much stuff, like my worst nightmare is being a hoarder 😭🤣

    • @2909XX
      @2909XX 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ChristinaAaliyah This is very interesting 🤔

  • @acb3246
    @acb3246 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🍇

  • @eijustwannabehappy
    @eijustwannabehappy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @paomichibeadles
    @paomichibeadles 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🍇🍇

  • @chrisaguilar2681
    @chrisaguilar2681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Imma shoot my shot here. Does anyone want to go out on a date soon lol? Los angeles local here

  • @JhatemClaasen
    @JhatemClaasen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like u because u are from England 🎉 10:36

  • @chichi-ew3ts
    @chichi-ew3ts 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you said like so many times 😩😅

  • @hungrychat7304
    @hungrychat7304 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nah those girls were weird asf

    • @SuperMathsBeaver
      @SuperMathsBeaver 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They sounded so rude! You don't owe anyone a friendship but small talk 2 weeks into uni wouldn't have killed them.

  • @Babygirl758
    @Babygirl758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    steve jobs wears the same thing everyday

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      right ?? if it's good enough for steve it's good enough for me

    • @Babygirl758
      @Babygirl758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChristinaAaliyah i read somewhere intelligent people do that to save time in the morning trying to figure out what to wear