Angie Martinez On How To GAIN RESPECT, Speak Up, Set Boundaries & Hold Your Ground

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  • @LisaBilyeu
    @LisaBilyeu  ปีที่แล้ว +80

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @caterinadelgalles8783
      @caterinadelgalles8783 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for the message! 😊

    • @heavensentheiress1041
      @heavensentheiress1041 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait how do you find your 3 core values?

    • @kiv_daniels
      @kiv_daniels ปีที่แล้ว

      I get it that some people want to be seen, heard are dealing with something, but you’re not taking that out on me. It seems some people, regardless of whether they’ve been traumatized or not target you when you allow it. I’ve been through a lot but it has made me want to treat people better (not disrespect or push them around) and have better boundaries(not letting them disrespect or push me around). I can understand from a different perspective that some people including myself, have very strong boundaries because of what we’ve been through which can be mistaken for been rude or disrespectful no matter how nicely you put it. I’m going to stand my ground when you come for me, but I wouldn’t just come at you for no reason. Thank you soo much, you always remind of who I am❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. We love and appreciate your hard work.

  • @selfretired3025
    @selfretired3025 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I always tell myself "Tomorrow is a new day". But we can shift our energy into a higher level as soon as we decide to. Allowing ourselves to suffer in the weight of gloom is a comfortable place to be... but allowing ourselves to feel Excited and Free is an even more comfortable place to Be. 👊❤

  • @seonaidcentz
    @seonaidcentz ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Angie Martinez is a Legend. From her music, being a DJ and all the wonderful interviews. Thank you for having her on.

  • @TeacherMom80
    @TeacherMom80 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    This is only temporary. You just got to ride it out. And you're gotta grow through it. And be better off in the end... Healthy boundaries. Responding with compassion & a willingness to understand & help disarms people. Everyone has the fundamental need to be seen, to be heard, to be loved, understood & never forgotten. God bless you guys! Beautiful interview!

  • @awatkins8429
    @awatkins8429 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This woman is legendary, yet so humble and down to earth. Love Angie!

  • @dearbreanna
    @dearbreanna ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Angie Marrr! Legend! I use to hear her on hot97 radio as a little girl in jersey. I think Angie is incredibly talented. Such a commanding voice. I can tell she moved through the industry with integrity. I have much respect for her and how she built her career over the years♥️

  • @carolellamuch9571
    @carolellamuch9571 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    You can tell Angie is really an amazing person

  • @djari3s412
    @djari3s412 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thats how I feel. Hustler mode is overrated.

  • @LashayneHampton
    @LashayneHampton ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Amazing conversation. Angie is so humble she replied to me on social media at a time I thought she wouldn’t. Her story is inspiring. I relate. Now let me go watch Ladies Night Remix. 🎶💃🏾 I miss that era ❤

  • @sarahkyle9457
    @sarahkyle9457 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Nice to hear someone who has the same mindset as me , I’m tired of fighting most the time 😅

  • @phoenixurbina7359
    @phoenixurbina7359 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I honestly didn’t know who Angie was because I’m not that into hip hop culture but she is THE MOST likable, relatable, down to earth person. I absolutely love her perspective and can really feel that she is a human with integrity and truly genuine! I really learned a lot from this interview and I’m now such a fan of hers.

  • @Tsailii
    @Tsailii ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Dropping 💎 s, as usual. Empathy is life! 💕🙌🏽💕

  • @habitualflair6509
    @habitualflair6509 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    LOVEEEEEEE Angie! She’s such a pioneer, icon, and has always seemed like such a genuine soul.

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I absolutely enjoyed this interview. Angie is a gem. 💛✨

  • @denee0213
    @denee0213 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg Lisa - thank you for much for having Angie on and speaking on “ladies Night” - having a beautiful strong, smart Latina being so dope to see as a teenager was incredibly important for me. ❤❤ butter pea honey got the suga got the spice ❤❤

  • @naomismile7595
    @naomismile7595 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you Liza for Everything you do🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    I am a RN , mother, and wife.
    I have been listening to you past one year almost everyday while I am driving, cleaning and breastfeeding.
    You have taught me so much and I became more outspoken and brave to speak up for me and my family.
    Can you also talk about motherhood and mother's mental health please
    🎉🎉🎉

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks homie and I so appreciate you telling me what you need! I’m here and listening! 🙌🔥❤️

  • @kekekiki3369
    @kekekiki3369 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    being nice to other... doesn't guarantee the same from others...so either create boundaries or learn being indifference towards other..

  • @nscales20
    @nscales20 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WOW!!! I’m so glad you interviewed Angie. I’m so used to seeing her be the interviewer. So refreshing.

  • @janineplaatjies1404
    @janineplaatjies1404 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Note to self: God is working it out in my favour. If He brings you to it. He'll carry you through it. Just stand and watch the Lord see you through.
    Don't give up. Don't give in. There's an answer to everything ❤.

  • @Fitmamma_1
    @Fitmamma_1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always download your podcasts to watch during LOADSHEDDING which is a daily thing in South Africa, and as a result i forget to comment or like because i watch offline. There's been episodes where im just blown away and i just wish i was watching it live😅 i haven't watched this either but im going to download and watch later. Thank you Lisa for these talk ❤ they are impactful 🎉❤

  • @Ang-wu2bt
    @Ang-wu2bt ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Angie Martinez the Voice of NYC. Love her grew up listening❤❤ to her. ICON

  • @probi99
    @probi99 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This too shall pass! got me through a lot...

  • @mulan2010
    @mulan2010 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such a likable person.

  • @annaleon2897
    @annaleon2897 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG ANGIE MARTINEZ IS SO DOPE 🎉🎉🎉 so glad someone got to interview HER for once cause I already knew she was a powerful woman figure and now I am inspired to follow in her footsteps. Thank you so much Lisa. Angie, you are the realest and just so beautiful inside and out. Everything you said resonated with me ❤

  • @LivT04
    @LivT04 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lisa, thank you for these conversations ❤ Empowering us by letting us know that we have shared experiences! Your channel has helped me in more ways than I can put into words. Thank you 🙏🏼 this is another gem.

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you homie!! You have no idea how much that means to me!! 🥰❤️

  • @coralbrune
    @coralbrune ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so interested, appreciate it and how people are, to get through life and find each of our truths

  • @guadalupesilva9763
    @guadalupesilva9763 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She definitely inspire me and I learn a lot from her, specially to think is just a moment and is going to pass we just haven’t figure out yet, Powerful

  • @canny1485
    @canny1485 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank youuuu for empowering women

  • @robyn9617
    @robyn9617 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Words of wisdom from a hip hop icon thx for featuring her

  • @MisssAlexandriaJR
    @MisssAlexandriaJR ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women like you are the pioneers for female entrepreneurs everywhere. Thank you. 🥲💃🧠💪🌟💸🕊️🤸‍♀️🦹‍♀️🧘‍♀️🧗‍♀️

  • @pattyb199
    @pattyb199 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    LOVED THIS INTERVIEW!!! I’ve been a fan of Angie Martinez & how she described how the accident changed her perspective about her life & work rhythm it resonated with me. I also had a car accident & my work work work mentality changed. I could’ve died & feel God gave me a 2 life to have balance & make my dreams my true. Hugs to you both 😊

  • @beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470
    @beneath.the.rosesluciddrea8470 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am PRESENT for this message. Also, the F-bombs in your show really help me to tune back in and check my attention and brings me back into the present. I have gotten so much value from these interviews, you and your husband are just top notch interviewers.

  • @Elevatedpoetry
    @Elevatedpoetry ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those of us who do this are recently called Karen. It’s like once we are over 40 we should accept any kind of BS and say nothing. F&ck that!

  • @meganlove4075
    @meganlove4075 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is beautiful i luv this and feel so uplifted and motivated this conversation is real❤

  • @aprilwarren4004
    @aprilwarren4004 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow the comment about feeling content where you are as opposed to feeling like you won’t be happy til you reach that thing “over there”, is so on point. It’s good to have goals but it’s also important to feel happy in the moment, especially when life moves so fast.

  • @Anayr19
    @Anayr19 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this interview, is so true, everything "is just a moment" ❤

  • @lovealways1257
    @lovealways1257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "When you wake up in the morning, do you feel happy about how your day is gonna be?" Wow 😮

  • @mysmirandam.6618
    @mysmirandam.6618 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My problem has always been I physically am incapable of 💋ing butt 😢

    • @aubriellemorgan
      @aubriellemorgan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @mysmirandam.6618
      @mysmirandam.6618 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aubriellemorgan it gets you fired every time

    • @aubriellemorgan
      @aubriellemorgan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mysmirandam.6618 In my case, it got me respect, raises and bonuses. So I guess it depends on the field you’re in.

    • @mysmirandam.6618
      @mysmirandam.6618 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Aubrielle Morgan ya and who your boss is... see I can't fake like anyone so when one boss that I liked left and was replaced by one who didn't like me, my job was over

    • @mysmirandam.6618
      @mysmirandam.6618 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Aubrielle Morgan dam good job though! I need to work with you! 😆

  • @merisalvi3210
    @merisalvi3210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am a God pleasure not man ! Made my life complete with Christ praise God 🙏🏼🔥✝️🤍🕊️

  • @l1zzyV1
    @l1zzyV1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Angie.Her advice of telling yourself that whatever you're going through is temporary until YOU find a way to figure it out, is gold.I also appreciate the opinions on hussle culture-relate to what you said very much.

  • @LoveDandD
    @LoveDandD ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this chat. Two badass women. ❤Very inspirational. I love the advice on knowing your value and asking for what you are worth.

  • @annedunbar4598
    @annedunbar4598 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just finished writing my book! A wellness guide called Lessons from the Trees. And I have no idea where I should send it. Do you have any advice? Thank you ❤❤
    Peace and love to you

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes ma’am ❤ Trauma Informed Care ‼️🏆🏆🏆

  • @lianamatengu1445
    @lianamatengu1445 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometimes when you're a nice person you're taken as being too harsh😢

  • @r.p.8906
    @r.p.8906 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    very wise and so crystal clear! Thanks!! 3 values + 2 boundaries= brand new life!! 💯❣

  • @pamelabledsoe2635
    @pamelabledsoe2635 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We Love you over here Angie❤

  • @armettalandrum4942
    @armettalandrum4942 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    STAY NICE ---- JUST BE SMART

  • @KawaiiJenNeice
    @KawaiiJenNeice ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She has always been so inspiring. I love her.

  • @drebugsita
    @drebugsita ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Angie Martinez is a living legend!!! I am so glad you had her on your show, to hear her in the interviewee seat. She has so many bragging rights and yet she has the wisdom and humility to recognize that there are so many moving parts that are beyond our control in getting us where we are - and that shows her integrity. My favorite part is the end, around 1:05 on her two boundaries. That life lesson right there is something I recently had to learn via a group of "friends" of over a decade. I realized most of them were not actually rooting for my success, and I never felt good around them. It took one of them doing heinous to see that they really don't have my best interest at heart. I communicated my boundaries and differences and I have marked my distance and let me tell you the weight off of my shoulders and sense of peace - and actual opportunities and blessings in my life now are beyond words! I love that Angie is spreading this message because it can be literally life saving and yet it can seem so easy to dismiss in the name of maintaining the status quo and avoiding the discomfort of "loosing" people (it's really their loss). We must always check in with ourselves and stay true to our core needs to live and thrive

  • @latoyaloving1412
    @latoyaloving1412 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this interview......Angie is so dope❤ I Learn so much

  • @ambergibson7381
    @ambergibson7381 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooohhh!! Super, super excited for this Gurl!! LOLz😊 So much respect for Mrs. Angie M.🙌🏽 Lisa, much❤️to both of ya!! Blessings🙏🏼

  • @CB-jx9pw
    @CB-jx9pw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Lisa, although you still speak with passion, you are so much more relaxed, less tense and therefore so much more relaxing yet interesting to listen to, haha 😆💕 I can now take in the information of the conversation and I'm really happy for you because being more relaxed is so much healthier for you as well. I think you're an amazing woman and I love to see you so much more grounded and calm. It's a pleasure to listen to this podcast, you're doing amazing and very important work.

  • @AJLORACLE
    @AJLORACLE ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Completely agree!
    I’ve not always had this mindset but, but when I stopped judging others I was kinder to myself.
    Ce la ve ❤

  • @zabrinatheteacher
    @zabrinatheteacher ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Words of encouragement. I needed to hear this. Thanks Angie! RiseNY museum has paid homage to you. It was great seeing a picture of you there. Salute!
    👍🏼❤🎙

  • @052thirza
    @052thirza ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent!! Really intelligent content. Thank you for sharing such an insightful person in Angie Martinez! Wow, so glad to hear her speak of grace and boundaries. Very important message for women...everyone actually.

  • @PureEssenceResale
    @PureEssenceResale ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome interview!❤️

  • @PlushTress
    @PlushTress ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was such a great interview! Angie’s spirit and mentality is inspiring!

  • @bonitabonita3431
    @bonitabonita3431 ปีที่แล้ว

    18:30 The Joy of the Lord is my strength.
    Deliverance is vital 🙌
    In the name of the Father, Son & Holy Ghost🙏
    Bless you All♥️💐

  • @suhanamedappa2480
    @suhanamedappa2480 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great talk, very relatable. ❤

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also I realized I can't be passive aggressive with weirdo men. Some mad tried to mess with me and I was smiling at him and had to get out my box cutter at one point I even did and yet he still tried to come attack me I had to call the cops. You don't look at them all and they try to try something...nothing I can do and quite frankly it's annoying just leave me alone. Been putting up with dumb toxic men forever and a few select dumb woman I can't stand it. Plus woman are annoying to me and gossip all the time. I don't know why woman can't just focus on their goals especially at work. I've been out of work for two months and have to go get a job for rent and I'm in my 30's and am over it already. Someone suggested I just go on disability. I could care less about money all the gossip and games and drama I get so sick of it's annoying.

  • @dianatolian
    @dianatolian ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a video that came at a great time. Angie Martinez is my childhood so I am grateful that you brought her on and she hit points that I really needed some recalibration with! ❤

  • @Nicole-is-global
    @Nicole-is-global 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best advice! Slow down and relax, people. The "push hard" crap may be your biggest regret later.

  • @J---L
    @J---L ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Angie is an ageless beauty inside and out. thank you so much for this interview. A true gift of wisdom🙏

  • @dianakubebea
    @dianakubebea ปีที่แล้ว

    Angie has no idea how much impact she has had in my life, I got into radio presenting because of her and i dream of directing movies and reality shows and each time i watch her, i know that i must be doing something right. Thank you Angie for being my inspiration and my muse.

  • @lennya9211
    @lennya9211 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you.

  • @hananbeshir1009
    @hananbeshir1009 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what a beautiful woman

  • @rebeccalawrencethomascarte7829
    @rebeccalawrencethomascarte7829 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will watch this video but focus on the wall because that hair style bothering me on her kmsl

  • @crystalnyla
    @crystalnyla ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Ny sister✨👑✨🔐✨🙏🏼✨🥰✨EPIC 🔥

  • @thelightworkercoach
    @thelightworkercoach 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my I love this woman - yes we can learn from everyone no matter what their story.

  • @cryshelwhitehead309
    @cryshelwhitehead309 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Two of my faves in the same video!!! So excited to hear this conversation!!!

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 ปีที่แล้ว

    But it's not temporary for me it's a constant state of chronic depression.

  • @anaml3879
    @anaml3879 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can listen to her (Angie), not matching my vibe.

  • @zakiyaellis2347
    @zakiyaellis2347 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I go about fulfillment the sameeee way! When I don’t feel good I know I am not fulfilled yet. I love this podcast

    • @zakiyaellis2347
      @zakiyaellis2347 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also great guess! Second time I have watched her speak. One in her own videos with JT and now this one.

  • @merisalvi3210
    @merisalvi3210 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was someone that I needed people arround me constantly I needed to give EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE CONSISTENTLY!!! Then November 2018 to all the people I gave consistently to I needed n NOT 1 was there ..! Then Jesus showed up in my life .! 2022 I gave my life to him now I’m someone that has joy peace n true love n I adore spending time alone with Jesus ! That’s true fulfilment to me .. I’m chasing after Christ ! Christ told me you Obbey my laws and all your desires will chase after You ! That was a game changer to me today ! Praise Jesus 🙏🏼✝️🤍🕊️

  • @diose0078
    @diose0078 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about when you are a "TARGETED INDIVIDUAL'' and you know your situation is not temporary?

  • @danielamishkovska2833
    @danielamishkovska2833 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching this while doing my physical therapy 😅 with subtitles on so I won't bother others 😊 Great interview thank you, and You both are badasses 💪💪💪💪

  • @CC-kr3mr
    @CC-kr3mr ปีที่แล้ว

    This was beautiful
    I’ve saved this video under my category called “soul food”.

  • @jhoniikemp
    @jhoniikemp ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally said “that looks like Angie Martinez” then I clicked and was like DUHH lmao. Didn’t even read first

  • @angelamossucco2190
    @angelamossucco2190 ปีที่แล้ว

    Angie M: Thank you for your boundless empathy and authenticity. You are truly cool. You see humanity, give grace to yourself and others, and set boundaries too. Wow. So damn healthy.

  • @lydiafischer9419
    @lydiafischer9419 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Lisa, thx again for this great talk. I am so moved and ispired by your show. I´d like to start kind of the same thing here in Germany, a talk show for anything that contributes to mental health, mindset, growth and awareness. However without a title or name there´s not much chance I get te opportunity to work with renowned people. Do you have any advice for me? Cheers Lydia

  • @DollfaceDasia1
    @DollfaceDasia1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Needed this - right on time.

  • @MisssAlexandriaJR
    @MisssAlexandriaJR ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re one of the most beautiful women ever Lisa, inside and out!!
    I loved this talk!
    I would love a lady like that on my business team- omg, this is the type of female leadership I want to see more often in the future!!
    Thank you both!!

  • @blah7834
    @blah7834 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This really helped me in my journey

  • @traceylennon1204
    @traceylennon1204 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love her!! 😍 I'll actually sit through an hour THIS time!!

  • @lilibethnieto55
    @lilibethnieto55 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the amazing interview... Very powerful 💕

  • @muhumuzabernadette1122
    @muhumuzabernadette1122 ปีที่แล้ว

    oh my gosh Lisa the point that you said that you dnt know if you would be where you are if you didn't work so hard is so true. Thankyou for being so honest ♥️

  • @Millennialhome
    @Millennialhome ปีที่แล้ว

    Angie is that girl!

  • @kristinwornum7126
    @kristinwornum7126 ปีที่แล้ว

    Trying to become a fan of the show Angie being on definitely makes me click. i subscribe anyway because i love impact theory

  • @leilagomulka5690
    @leilagomulka5690 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤ her honesty is infectious. In a good way. Like an antidote to a real emotional virus we can’t seem to shake.

  • @Truthseeker0926
    @Truthseeker0926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Love this interview ❤❤❤

  • @zenlenzmedia
    @zenlenzmedia ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great show, Lisa. Btw you look freaking amazing! ❤

  • @realmomsdontclockout
    @realmomsdontclockout ปีที่แล้ว

    #4THELOVEOFFILM
    You ..ALREADY KNOW .....
    THANK YOU NEEDED HER ON .#LONGOVERDUE 🌹

  • @darlenesaldana6665
    @darlenesaldana6665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the best Angie❤

  • @elledemain6646
    @elledemain6646 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great episode thank you ✨

  • @iamthedaughteroftheking3704
    @iamthedaughteroftheking3704 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is motivating

  • @behroozshahdaftar4209
    @behroozshahdaftar4209 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is true for men as well.

  • @magzbeautiful
    @magzbeautiful ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Angie!! She is one of the most credible women!!

  • @NS-tl7gt
    @NS-tl7gt ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this ! ❤️🤟All of it!

  • @XSLS73
    @XSLS73 ปีที่แล้ว

    A very inspirational lady. Love her outlook on life.

  • @louises6729
    @louises6729 ปีที่แล้ว

    It comes at a huge price to just survive