We can all feel your pain brother. May Allah swt swiften the coming of ease after your hardship. Please continue to try and keep peace between you and your son, leave the path clear for him to return; inshaAllah this phase will pass, and you will find him by your side again in sujood.
But he is still alive , so you did not really loose him.And as a Muslim I suppose you believe that Allah decides on all matters, so even if you loose him ,isn't it Allah's decision that you must submit to ? But despite that it is sad he is not with you, strengh and courage with that.
He says has some valid points..However from my experience having lived in Malaysia & other so called Muslim countries as well as Western countries. There are many Muslims who live in the so called Islamic countries who are not practising with knowledge & sincerity, just fitting into the culture..And there are many Western Muslims living in the West who practise with great knowledge & sincerity..Allah guides who he chooses..Many learn from hard experiences & challenges..That's life! Our beloved Prophet Muhummad (Peace Be Upon Him) was an orphan..Abraham the son of an idol maker! Yes they were Prophets but also very human! Witnessing & seeing the darker side of life can often be the trigger of propellling one towards the light & truth..Hence why we must take great care not to jump into deciding who is who & boxing in their destiny..Night falls into day & day into night..Is that not also symbolic?
Assalamu alaikum As he said..it depends very much on whether you have a Muslim community around you or not...We live in a big city in Germany and there are schools, mosques, many events for Muslims . This is definitely easier I guess.
Thanks for the comment. I lived in a littlle town in East Germany where I didn't have access to a mosque and a muslim community. We had a refugee camp in another town close by where I could go for Friday prayers in a converted container set up but once this corona nonsense started everything just shut down. Single parenting made the situation even worse. I am glad being back to Malaysia, Alhamdulillah. Idris
When he reaches adulthood its his choice the direction he takes no religion will liberate you its a crutch...maybe you should look at your own inner psychic why you need something to believe in....regardless like a lot of adolescents he will revolt agianst the prevailing established order...give him the space to do so and stay close to him when possible... don't expect him to believe what you do.
Our Prophet has commanded us to guide our children so when they grow up they stay on the right course. Also, Bible says" train a child in the way he should go so when he grows up he would not depart from it." Both religion don't say, let the kid have his own space to choose! Yes, once adult, it is up to him and no longer the parents' responsibility.
Keep praying for your son, your prayers will bring him back to Islam. Don't give up hope on Allah Subhanata'la.
May Allah guide his child. The father must keep hope he hasn’t lost his kid. He’s only 14. Allah has power over our hearts ❤
Brother has best thought about democracy. follow the book of Islam
Be strong my German Muslim brother, may Allah guides you and your son ... Aameeen Ya Allah 🤲
We can all feel your pain brother. May Allah swt swiften the coming of ease after your hardship. Please continue to try and keep peace between you and your son, leave the path clear for him to return; inshaAllah this phase will pass, and you will find him by your side again in sujood.
But he is still alive , so you did not really loose him.And as a Muslim I suppose you believe that Allah decides on all matters, so even if you loose him ,isn't it Allah's decision that you must submit to ? But despite that it is sad he is not with you, strengh and courage with that.
He says has some valid points..However from my experience having lived in Malaysia & other so called Muslim countries as well as Western countries. There are many Muslims who live in the so called Islamic countries who are not practising with knowledge & sincerity, just fitting into the culture..And there are many Western Muslims living in the West who practise with great knowledge & sincerity..Allah guides who he chooses..Many learn from hard experiences & challenges..That's life! Our beloved Prophet Muhummad (Peace Be Upon Him) was an orphan..Abraham the son of an idol maker! Yes they were Prophets but also very human! Witnessing & seeing the darker side of life can often be the trigger of propellling one towards the light & truth..Hence why we must take great care not to jump into deciding who is who & boxing in their destiny..Night falls into day & day into night..Is that not also symbolic?
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...... How and what to do now ......
May 💙Allah 💙 make things right for both
He is praying for him and glad he is saving himself!
Assalamu alaikum As he said..it depends very much on whether you have a Muslim community around you or not...We live in a big city in Germany and there are schools, mosques, many events for Muslims . This is definitely easier I guess.
Thanks for the comment. I lived in a littlle town in East Germany where I didn't have access to a mosque and a muslim community. We had a refugee camp in another town close by where I could go for Friday prayers in a converted container set up but once this corona nonsense started everything just shut down. Single parenting made the situation even worse. I am glad being back to Malaysia, Alhamdulillah. Idris
Oh no. Anyway.
When he reaches adulthood its his choice the direction he takes no religion will liberate you its a crutch...maybe you should look at your own inner psychic why you need something to believe in....regardless like a lot of adolescents he will revolt agianst the prevailing established order...give him the space to do so and stay close to him when possible... don't expect him to believe what you do.
Our Prophet has commanded us to guide our children so when they grow up they stay on the right course. Also, Bible says" train a child in the way he should go so when he grows up he would not depart from it." Both religion don't say, let the kid have his own space to choose! Yes, once adult, it is up to him and no longer the parents' responsibility.
he inherited his delusion from you