Im pretty sure I’m bi. My family is catholic and it prevents me from accepting it. I feel like my family could never know. I saw the hell my cousin went through when he came out as gay I could never put myself through that unless I was 100% sure and I feel like I’ll never be able to be confident in myself.
I want to come out as bi to my mom so badly but she doesn’t understand and thinks bisexuals are confused and invalid :( it’s painful sometimes knowing I’ll never be able to fully be myself around her
My mom was the same way-she didn’t think bisexuality was real-but when I came out she said that it must be real if I am. Good luck telling her but make sure you are safe and ready!
I’m going to suggest anyone unsure of what to say, and not sure if they can get the word out, just load this video up, walk over to the parent or sibling you trust the most to understand, tell them you love them & play this video. If the reaction is positive, ask that person to sit beside you when you hand this video to the next family member. When they see it, and look over and you already have support beside you, it will get a bit easier. As the father of a gay kid, I could never understand what the big deal is. So what if he likes boys or girls or both, I’m just glad he is happy. ❤️
Came out to my mom yesterday and she was so happy for me and proud of me! It was hard but she is definitely rocking with me and supporting me all the way. She know I still like females more lol but she still loves me. It’s a big weight off my shoulders and I can finally be myself. You’re a true inspiration bro I always watch your videos! Keep doing what you’re doing and I’ll always support you bro!
The "Living for other people" comment was a good comment. Now coming out during the holidays is not always the best option for some. It can make things worse. Your other comments will help others and encourage them. You have a happy holiday as well.
I'm openly about my sexuality to my friends but never come out to my parents or sister because I'm afraid of my dad that is very homophobic I always thought to come out to my mom but I don't know how and especially know that I'm meeting another guy and maybe we could be a relationship and if that happens I'm very scared if I have to come out to my family.
So story short, I’m glad I didn’t come out a yr ago when I really wanted to pressure myself to finally come out before a certain time. And like it used to be like negative for me to keep holding it in cause I didn’t want to be more sad or it to get worse for my mood. But basically glad I’m more ready then ever and just came out to my sister like 5 months ago before my birthday. I really reflected how it will only matter for me to come out and not what my dad might think and I have friends and family to support. And my new gay camaraderie best friends I’ve made over the yrs are great, and experienced pride and pride parade for the first time. I’m celebrating new years with my best friends and I would think it would be a great idea to be out before Christmas and new years for 2020. It’s not really pressure anymore but more that it would be a good idea. Also like I don’t want to have that stress of hiding myself when everyone has many other things to stress about. My friends keep saying I’ll know when the time comes for me to come out. But it’s always the question when.. like for almost a yr now I imagine scenario when I’m spending time with family like my aunt or mom but never live that daydream.
I don't know about "when the time comes". I think you have to prepare yourself, there are some things you have to force yourself to do. I almost collapsed when i CAME out and i knew i would. I think you should pick a date and do It. I Don't think It comes naturally at all, it's very artificial. You sit with them and tell them something from nowhere...it's planned. In fact, i've told my mother ane one of my brothers and the rest of my family knew It before i told them. I think that's one of the reasons why telling them all together IS a good idea, and why you have to plan It out.
@Courtney-Jai, You are an amazing individual. Thanks for helping kids (and us adults) feel better about ourselves and making it a little easier for LGBTQ people to come out. Merry Christmas and a Happy, Prosperous New Year! PS - You're cute as fuck!
My parents know but none of the rest of my family or friends knows and I don't want to tell them because it seems easier for no one to know. It just seems easier to pretend and be straight
This is kinda irrelevant but, I just recently came out to my family as Bi and my mom was okay with it, but my brothers are always making rude comments, and disrespecting the LGBTQ+ community, and it's getting on my nerves. I tell them that it hurts me that they're always being so rude about it, but they don't care.
sorry, but I can't understand what's the matter with being bisexual. you can get married 'normally'. plus you can ENJOY yourself with both sexes. what's wrong? idk 🤷♂️ for the record, i'm not criticizing you. LOVE from Japan😃
Well, i'm not bi, but many bisexuals deny their LOVE for the same sex to fit in. That's hard, and It can make you miserable. In a way it's even harder to Accept bisexuality than homosexuality, because when you're bi you can always try to overcompensate with the opposite gender, and as i said that is no good. And you might get Married ""normaly"" but you might not. You don't choose Who you fall in LOVE with. LOVE from Spain
Im pretty sure I’m bi. My family is catholic and it prevents me from accepting it. I feel like my family could never know. I saw the hell my cousin went through when he came out as gay I could never put myself through that unless I was 100% sure and I feel like I’ll never be able to be confident in myself.
I want to come out as bi to my mom so badly but she doesn’t understand and thinks bisexuals are confused and invalid :( it’s painful sometimes knowing I’ll never be able to fully be myself around her
You coming out could change her point of my dad was slightly homophobic but since I've come out his views on the situation have dramatically changed
Courtney-Jai that’s good to hear, gives me some hope that maybe she’ll be the same if I ever get the courage to tell her
My mom was the same way-she didn’t think bisexuality was real-but when I came out she said that it must be real if I am. Good luck telling her but make sure you are safe and ready!
Jade Marshall thank you sm
I’m going to suggest anyone unsure of what to say, and not sure if they can get the word out, just load this video up, walk over to the parent or sibling you trust the most to understand, tell them you love them & play this video. If the reaction is positive, ask that person to sit beside you when you hand this video to the next family member. When they see it, and look over and you already have support beside you, it will get a bit easier. As the father of a gay kid, I could never understand what the big deal is. So what if he likes boys or girls or both, I’m just glad he is happy. ❤️
You sound like a very understanding father. I'd be very proud to have you as my dad merry Christmas
Came out to my mom yesterday and she was so happy for me and proud of me! It was hard but she is definitely rocking with me and supporting me all the way. She know I still like females more lol but she still loves me. It’s a big weight off my shoulders and I can finally be myself. You’re a true inspiration bro I always watch your videos! Keep doing what you’re doing and I’ll always support you bro!
That's amazing I hope you enjoy your Christmas and have a very happy new year 😜
The "Living for other people" comment was a good comment. Now coming out during the holidays is not always the best option for some. It can make things worse. Your other comments will help others and encourage them. You have a happy holiday as well.
Great video courtney. You have help me so much in coming to term with being bisexual myself. Thank you and merry christmas😁❤❤❤
And a merry Xmas to you too my friend. 👍
Have a great Christmas Courtney x u r amazing
I'm openly about my sexuality to my friends but never come out to my parents or sister because I'm afraid of my dad that is very homophobic I always thought to come out to my mom but I don't know how and especially know that I'm meeting another guy and maybe we could be a relationship and if that happens I'm very scared if I have to come out to my family.
So story short, I’m glad I didn’t come out a yr ago when I really wanted to pressure myself to finally come out before a certain time. And like it used to be like negative for me to keep holding it in cause I didn’t want to be more sad or it to get worse for my mood. But basically glad I’m more ready then ever and just came out to my sister like 5 months ago before my birthday. I really reflected how it will only matter for me to come out and not what my dad might think and I have friends and family to support. And my new gay camaraderie best friends I’ve made over the yrs are great, and experienced pride and pride parade for the first time. I’m celebrating new years with my best friends and I would think it would be a great idea to be out before Christmas and new years for 2020. It’s not really pressure anymore but more that it would be a good idea. Also like I don’t want to have that stress of hiding myself when everyone has many other things to stress about. My friends keep saying I’ll know when the time comes for me to come out. But it’s always the question when.. like for almost a yr now I imagine scenario when I’m spending time with family like my aunt or mom but never live that daydream.
I don't know about "when the time comes". I think you have to prepare yourself, there are some things you have to force yourself to do. I almost collapsed when i CAME out and i knew i would. I think you should pick a date and do It. I Don't think It comes naturally at all, it's very artificial. You sit with them and tell them something from nowhere...it's planned.
In fact, i've told my mother ane one of my brothers and the rest of my family knew It before i told them. I think that's one of the reasons why telling them all together IS a good idea, and why you have to plan It out.
i came out as bi on my social media but i’m still scared to tell my parents.. what should i do🥺??
I love your videos ❤️.
@Courtney-Jai, You are an amazing individual. Thanks for helping kids (and us adults) feel better about ourselves and making it a little easier for LGBTQ people to come out. Merry Christmas and a Happy, Prosperous New Year!
PS - You're cute as fuck!
My parents know but none of the rest of my family or friends knows and I don't want to tell them because it seems easier for no one to know. It just seems easier to pretend and be straight
The child thing is relatable. My dad just says: “You’re a bit young for the sexuality thing.”
Unfortunately everyone's a kid to someone to a 50 year old I'm a kid but to a 17 year old I'm an adult , somtimes perspective never changes .
This is kinda irrelevant but, I just recently came out to my family as Bi and my mom was okay with it, but my brothers are always making rude comments, and disrespecting the LGBTQ+ community, and it's getting on my nerves. I tell them that it hurts me that they're always being so rude about it, but they don't care.
Woohoo I came out yesterday after like 20 years of repressing myself !
That's amazing
Love the video
Why am I watching this it's been just under a year since I came out to my parents as Gay. I mean the guys cute
Want to wish you a merry Christmas
COMING OUT: FAMILY DINNER?
My long time crush. #tbh 🖤
you look so handsome in your shirt😍😍😍
💖💜💙
bless be great to meet you xx😜😉😘
Nice to meet you to
@@Courtney-Jai thanks your nice spoken lovely guy xx
sorry, but I can't understand what's the matter with being bisexual.
you can get married 'normally'.
plus you can ENJOY yourself with both sexes.
what's wrong? idk 🤷♂️
for the record, i'm not criticizing you.
LOVE from Japan😃
Well, i'm not bi, but many bisexuals deny their LOVE for the same sex to fit in. That's hard, and It can make you miserable. In a way it's even harder to Accept bisexuality than homosexuality, because when you're bi you can always try to overcompensate with the opposite gender, and as i said that is no good.
And you might get Married ""normaly"" but you might not. You don't choose Who you fall in LOVE with.
LOVE from Spain
You look like Shawn Mendes in my opinion 😅
I pretty much look like any famous guy with brown hair haha
@@Courtney-Jai yeah, 😁😁😘