My friend geared up for a battle with her very strict, religious family. She was at dinner with her parents at their house when she was about 20. During the normal dinner conversation, she just stood up and said loudly, "I'm gay! There I'm out!" Her mother stood up and "This is the last of the milk! I'm out too! Now, can we continue dinner?" My friend was so shocked she couldn't move. Her mother finally said, "We knew your gay since you were 14. It's sad that it took YOU this long to figure it out. You need to be more honest with yourself. You know how the Lord feels about liars." And that was it. Their love never changed for her and they welcomed her partner a few years later.
@@pipoo1 literally Jesus words: “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn “‘a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law- a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’ “Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. So, yeah, if they love her they should tell her shes going to hell
As sweet as this scene is, I think it's important for parents to let their kids know far in advance that it's fine if they're gay. Saves a huge amount of anxiety on the part of the child who's literally terrified of being disowned.
True! We teach our kids about heterosexual love so early on, so why not gay love? Probably saves a lot of confusion for the kid too when they reach puberty and start getting crushes.
Mine did exactly that. Still didn’t stop me from having some anxiety. Some of the fear is about admitting it, that makes it real. Until then you can still persuade yourself it might not be real, might go away, you’re just experimenting etc. Telling the people that are the centre of your world, that makes it somehow more concrete.
My thoughts exactly. Our daughter told me she was gay at the age of 9. We were sitting on a rainbow bench during pride, and she said that's where she belongs too. I told her all we ever wanted was for her to be happy and hugged her. She replied "thanks mom... Can I try the go-cars now?" And we did 😄❤️
That's how my Mom reacted 49 years ago when she met my BF. He and I had thirty eight wonderful years, and I am still in love with him. Though I cant hold him any more.
"... will u, won't u, would u like to dance..." Sigh. Humans: ingest, digest, ohshitokembrace, love u... And then, the sun still revolves, the stars still do shine... and humans are still humans. Amazing ❤🕊️
When my daughter told me she was gay I said "okay" she said 'is that all you're not mad? " I replied " Heck no Im not mad, you have the worst taste in men I have ever seen. I am thrilled! " I also want to add that since coming out my daughter has turned into one of the most self confident, easy going and sober people I have ever met!
This, this is the absolute truth and should very well be common sense the fact that it’s not saddens me greatly. If you cannot love your kids unconditionally then don’t have kids period
@@Jranthony04 some gay people feel like they can't live their true identities (wether it be because of their circumstances, not being safe, having internalized homophobia etc.) and start straight relationships and even families. And also, bi and people with other queer identities exist so that's allso a possibility
at the age of 50, I told my son's that I was gay. (toughest conversation EVER!) My oldest son said "Geez Dad......I thought you were going to tell us you had Cancer!"
Does that mean you were straight once and turned gay or that you have always been gay and pretended to be straight and married a woman you never loved?
I remember a friend of mine came out in middle school to his parents. They're reaction made everyone chuckle. They congratulated him and then asked if he wanted a medal. They then said that there was a few new study buddy rule: no more study sessions upstairs and hands in full view all the time
I came out as bisexual to my mom when I was in my teens. She said she been knowing I am for years. She said she has always loved me and always will. Gave me a big hug and said she's proud of me.
This is how I wish my parents reacted. They told me never to come back home. Dad talked with me later, he said he was fine with everything no problems, but it was mom. I was surprised to hear him say that, I thought it would be the other way around.
My parents are split cuz I'm a pansexual leaning lesbian, with a trans gf and I am also trans and on hormones, let's just say that my parents are split, grandpa is yet to meet my gf, my mom and grandma hate us but they cannot kick us out cuz grandpa would be sad, he is the single one who really cared about me in his way, while my mom and grandma tried to gaslight amd brainwash me into being affraid and confused about myself for the sake of their image in front of our neighbors but yeah, we just don't play their game, sucess is the best type of revenge and we play it hard, gotta keep what I was promised as inheritance since we deserve at least that from our parents considering how shitty they treated us in general, narcissists and antisocials are the worst types of parents, being gay or trans or pan wasn't the problem, their mentality was
@@p.moorewilson7917 it's ok, I look at the bright side and feel like a champion for having survived all of that tbh though, and having learned soo many things about myself as well while at it
When my sister told me she was Bi, she told me she had something important to tell me and I was worried she had cancer, I was so relieved to find out she had finally found her true self. Our entire family has supported and embraced her and her fiancé and I couldn’t be more proud of her.
My friend came out to his parents and we were secretly on Skype at the time and all his parents said was You made out like it was a huge emergency! So what if you're gay that's how you were born. I seriously wish every LGBT person could have parents like his to support them
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Oh geez, I want parents like them :D And need friend like you :D
Thank you for sharing this! We had a blast making this movie, and it's amazing to see the wonderful reactions people have to this scene. Thank you all! :)
I'm an open minded old guy. I only had three nice daughters. I understood the issue very late due to the practically ''military'' education I was brought up. And I asked myself many times what would had been my reaction as a dad in a situation like this at my 45's. I admire those parents!
I remember coming out to my aunt and my step-uncle. I was staying with them for a few days, and she made her amazing pasta and meatballs, and she was collecting up the plates and I wrote in the leftover tomato sauce "I'm gay'. She came out with some cake bites and chocolate sauce and she had written tin the sauce 'no duh!'
Wait. A step-uncle? Is it your step-parent's brother? Your parent's step-brither? The aunt in question isn't married to the step-uncle, right? Then he would just be an uncle. I've never heard that term before!
I came out when i was 19 to my Mother. Turns out, she asked me if i was gay. By then i was about to tell her anyway, so i said yes. Then she gave me a big hug, and said i LOVE YOU! Both my parents were just fine with it. What i would like to say to guys who are afraid to come out, just think of this. If you're in a loving family, and your parents have always told you they love you no matter what, i say come out. Parents tend to always surprise you, and never react they way you envisioned it. There will be that awkwardness for a bit, however it will be the best thing you will ever do in your life. For those who might think there parents may not accept you as you are after coming out, well, that's something they need to deal with, not you. Parents who toss their child out simply because they don't accept your lifestyle, they are the ones who failed as parents. I've seen it all, and let me tell you, even this does not end your relationship with your parents. Most Parents do come around, so have faith, and never ever think it's your fault. Be proud of you are, i know i am. :-)
good for you but my dad said if i ever bring home a boyfriend hes going to beat the shit out of me. at least im bi so mabey they will be ok with that aslong as im with a women.
Well you are an adult now, so thinking your folks will beat the crap out of you is absurd. Unless they're willing to go to jail. My opinion you're reading too much into it, just relax, stay calm, i'm sure things will be ok. Not saying things will be the same, they won't. However, your the same person prior to coming out, that hasn't changed. You are who you are, that doesn't change. Just remember, you are not alone, and millions of men and women are out there just like you. Always remember nothing is your fault, and you are not worthless. Best of luck to ya. :-)
ya im gonna tell them by video when i move out and my dad would probably still beat the crap out of me. hopfully ill be gone by the end of this or beggining of next summer they dont want me to leave home though they want their inhome babysitter.
When I told my parents my dad said this- Darn it! I was really hoping you were a lesbian, then I wouldn't have to worry about pregnancy. We then played xbox the rest of the night.
+Lexi awesome dad. When I told my dad I had a girlfriend (I'm pan) he said: "Nice. Where does she live? Oh, that's far away... I guess we'll have to do a family trip to her city soon..."
When I came out to my parents as pansexual, my mom was like "Don't make me cut a foo who'll hurt my baby" And my dad said that he didn't care who I was with, as long as I'm happy and they know about my boyfriend. I love their love and support :)
@@Jordancale11 it's fucking weird to say "i was born gay" or "i was born straight" i don't think ppl born with sexualitys. i think that they just figure out along the way who they love.
Spot on. As a father myself, I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiments expressed here. One of the saddest things I heard was a radio debate about how parents should react if their children came out. One caller in particular stuck in my mind with her response to another caller expressing the wish that her child wasn't gay. Her response was,'I just wish that my son (who had died in an accident) was still here. As the father said, love your children unconditionally while your lucky to have them in your life.
Does anyone else feel weird that although homophobics are a big deal, in the near future they will (hopefully) be looked down on like we look down on the racist people of the 1950's time
Remember there are still a lot of racists around. They are looked down upon though, as are homophobes by thinking people. they are small, scared and angry. They also tend to be amongst the least clever people in any room except one populated by bigots of all colours.
***** And certain politicians (in countries like Slovakia, but unfortunately also some parts of the U. S.) need to be put to shame. On the international level. For their referendum questions or for their bills that concern "religious freedom."
Two years ago a powerful and true statement. Two years later, we are back in the 50's with brand of racism that is joked and celebrated by the leaders of this country. I'm overwhelmed the America I once loved has been hi-jacked by fools.
Sweet. My dad threw his phone across the room and he held his broken phone in my face and said "Now look what you've done!" And my mom cried for a week.
I came out when I was 19. That was in 1987. I thought about all the things that could happen; rejection, hate etc... but I knew the only way I could find happiness in my life was to live it honestly. It's only in retrospect I realize what how big of a deal it was and I'm proud of my self for doing it.
It's a real honest to gods shame all parents, siblings, family couldn't react like this. When my brother came out to me I looked at him & said "DUH!!!!" then gave him a hug & told him you're my brother, my blood & nothing will EVER change that. I loved him. He was my brother & always will be. Period.
Dad's beard is epic, had me thinkin he was gonna be rude and im up here chuckling when he pulled a c-note out to give his wife lol, bro got a good poker face lol
I knew my Mum knew before I said anything or fully accepted it myself as one Christmas when I was about 17 I overheard heard her talking to my grandma about it downstairs. No big drama from them in the end, no pressures over grandchildren I was just told that all they wanted was for me to be happy. That was it. I was very fortunate even when I came out to my two straight best friends they were like, “yeah we knew”, we’re all in our 40s now and they are married with kids but we all still meet regularly.
I will never forget the day I told my parents. My dad said "thank you for telling us it means a lot that your open and honest with us" My mother got uo and disappeared. At first I thought she was mad at me but then she interrupted mine and my dads convo about 20 minutes later all dressed up and said come on were going shopping 😂😂
alex scudder maybe this sounds very weird( and i m sry for my bad english) arent you a german actor? i m nit sure but i think i see you once in a movie with a black man in jail? if u not i m sry for writing this
alex scudder maybe this sounds very weird( and i m sry for my bad english) arent you a german actor? i m nit sure but i think i see you once in a movie with a black man in jail? if u not i m sry for writing this
When my son came out, he did it in a public place with a large bench between me and him, all because of the attitudes and discrimination I had learnt as “Normal” in my day. I held out my hand, said “Congratulations, I still love you.” and left it at that. Shocked him more than a homophobic rant would have. When he asked me later that day why I was so calm about it, I said I had a decade of signs pointing towards his homosexuality, and I didn’t have a problem with it. Be you. You are not me, you do not have to be my shadow, you can be whatever you and your genetics choose. I’m not the one to judge. Now, he comes to me way more than his christian mother when he needs to offload. All because I just listen, maybe give some ideas, and never judge.
Did this exact same thing with my second son. I just knew it, even as a kid I just KNEW! He didnt even have to worry about coming out, he tried to subtly ask if I'd be pissed if any of my kids turned out to be gay and I just straight up said "I've known I have at least one gay child for years now, you don't have to worry about me. And yes, I'm talking about you" and he just said ".....oh....good..... Thanks Mum" and I told him I love him with all of my heart. Shame his Dad won't accept it but he cut him off years ago now.
My mom reaction would have been: He can cook? So he can cook or not? I do not want that my little child starve! My dad would have said: it's your mom fault, is not? In any case...Go with the red wine!!!
Beautifully done. I wish that I'd had the nerve to come out to my parents when I'd planned to....maybe it is for the best. My dad would have come around eventually but he would have needed time....time no one knew he didn't have. 5 months later he was gone. 28 Father's Day's later...I still miss him.
This movie is my Xmas eve tradition, ever since coming out 7 years ago, every year whether I'm alone or with a partner/family, I watch this movie, good times.
I came out trans, my mother tried to have me committed, my grandparents died a few years later and she stole my inheritance. That women filled my life with beatings and gaslightings, I can't even imagine loving parents.
You deserved loving parents, you still do. Your worth is not measured by the opinions or actions of your parents. As a mother my heart goes out to you and I send you a mother’s love. As a daughter of a crappy mother I can tell you that it’s ok to grieve the parent you should have had and to let go of any sense of responsibility that you might have for having a shitty mom. I wish you peace and love.
I love it when the dad gives mom the $$. I told my son that love is hard enough to find, and it doesn't matter to me who it is , as long as they uplift each other and don't hurt each other.
I came out to my mom about a month ago and this was her reaction (I had my friend who is gay tell her.... he just said 'your daughter is lesbian'") "really? Did she tell you that? Because she hasn't told me yet. No wonder she always says she doesn't have a boyfriend" *looks at me* "so do you have a girlfriend?"
If my kid said they were gay I'd probably ask them what they wanted for dinner. "Hey mom,I'm gay." "Awesome honey. If that's who you are I accept it. Now what do you want for dinner. Pasta? Should we order in?"
This is a beautiful scene. When i came out to my Mom as gender fluid, she just looked at me and shrugged. She said "and? What's the big deal?' I was a bit surprised, but she just continued the conversation of whatever we'd been talking about before I blurted out my identity. Never batted an eye, my beautiful mother. We did discuss it in detail later, when I got over the shock that she had been so accepting as to be nonchalant.
This mother was a RIOT! The $100 bet, the nagging about grandchildren, her LAUGH, and, of course, "for crying in the sink!" Is it too late to nominate her for President of the United States?!
@@shaktimishra9710 it certainly is. Unfortunately, some people still interact with members of the LGBTQIA2S+ Community, as if it is still 1924, but I digress.
We all wish parents were this understanding...unfortunately this isn't the case for many and it's sad how many should be shown love and not hate. I am so thankful that there are parents like this in the world.
I watched a lot of coming out stories and this has to be near the top. The expression on the kid when his parents remained stoic was great. The Mom was absolutely hilarious. She let it out with honesty and humor. Dad was great also as it was a topic they probably frequently discussed.
As soon as I suspected my child was gay, I would start getting the balloons ready and glitter poppers an as soon as my child said it I'd get up pull the string I strategically placed and I'd be like "I RAISED A GAY!!" I've always wanted a gay child so even if they wasn't gay I'd still love them!!!!!!!!!
When my son came out, i was proud of him for being true to himself, a couple of years later he told me he was transitioning, i couldn't be anymore happier for her .
@@shaktimishra9710Fym that you’re smarter than her. I’ve seen you comment on loads of comments and just saying ‘het it’s 2024’. Totally unnecessary. One look at your phone and you will see the date, you don’t need to share your ‘ultimately rare’ knowledge to an entire comment section. Being ‘only twelve’ is not an excuse to be homophobic. I don’t believe any gay person has done anything wrong to you. Your comments are totally uncalled for ngl.
Nice to know that in a lot of ways people are becoming more accepting to people and things they don't understand or completely agree with, it isn't everywhere I know that but it is still nice to see that it is far better now than it really ever has been before. Be your best, happiest, truest self. By doing this you are better able to live your life and help other's and the world around you. Denying oneself and suppressing it only leads to long term stress and pain or worse it leads to ignorance and anger. It is important to be informed on proven facts and take information from reputable sources. Do not the words of other's or their perspectives control your life, I hope everyone reading this has a great day! We can grow and become better, kinder, more informed people. 😁
Wauw. I cried a very unexpected tear when the dad says "By telling us, you're proving what kind of man you are." ... I'm not gay myself, but I had this feeling that if I was, those would probably be the most wanted words from my dad. I don't know if I'm right about this though, i just realy felt it.
your job as a parent is to love and nurture your children and accept them for who they are no matter what differences they have, if you cannot love your child for who they are and try and change them, I'm sorry but that's not good parenting
My cousins daughter (they have 10 kids) came out at the dinner table too. Terrified and already had a suitcase packed for the aftermath. All that happened was ‘Yeah we all thought so, well you’d better bring her round for dinner soon’ and life went on just as smoothly as before. ❤😊 She was so relieved!
I remember when my granddaughter came out, I embraced it because I knew it already deep down inside. After 2 years of therapy, after my son, her father committed suicide, she came out as Trans. That was over 8 years ago, and He's never been happier. All I ever wanted for any of my children and grandchildren is for them to be happy💜💜💜💜
I watched this like 100 times, each time it made me cry when his mother said it was okay. First time I saw this I was like wait the dad got money and his hand, he maybe wants to tell him move out and good luck with $100. Then it turns out it was a bet on when he was going to come out. lol
When I was 18 my mom sent me an email titled “Over the Rainbow,” telling me “we haven’t had a chance to really talk in a while …” and told me she knew - and she’s started to suspect since I was THREE. All that worrying - and she’d known since I was THREE!! The only thing she had off was she thought I was dating my best friend … when really it was my best friend’s roommate I was seeing.
Thank you for sharing this! I know what to tell my dad when I fully come out to him, he appreciates honesty & even if it takes a wrong turn I'll just say that I'm being honest.
My friend geared up for a battle with her very strict, religious family. She was at dinner with her parents at their house when she was about 20. During the normal dinner conversation, she just stood up and said loudly, "I'm gay! There I'm out!" Her mother stood up and "This is the last of the milk! I'm out too! Now, can we continue dinner?" My friend was so shocked she couldn't move. Her mother finally said, "We knew your gay since you were 14. It's sad that it took YOU this long to figure it out. You need to be more honest with yourself. You know how the Lord feels about liars." And that was it. Their love never changed for her and they welcomed her partner a few years later.
Ah a strict religious family that actually understands the teachings of Jesus.
@@pipoo1A rare fucking circumstance.
Right, then everyone clapped 😪
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@@pipoo1 literally Jesus words: “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn
“‘a man against his father,
a daughter against her mother,
a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law-
a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’
“Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.
So, yeah, if they love her they should tell her shes going to hell
Nathan is my spirit animal. "I'm gay too if that wasn't clear- it was clear- okay."
+Nebunie Reaper same.
What is his name in real life ???
same
The actor's name is Adamo Ruggiero.
Nebunie Reaper same. Well I'm bi but other than that, it's the same
"I'm gay too if that wasn't clear, it was clear. okay, okay." 😂😂😂 hahaha
To be fair he could have been Bi or pan 😆
LOL Nathan is a sweet soul.
love that line
LOVED THAT PART!
Would G.it was that easy. I know parents are supposed to just be delighted but some parents will be racked with suffering for years.
As sweet as this scene is, I think it's important for parents to let their kids know far in advance that it's fine if they're gay. Saves a huge amount of anxiety on the part of the child who's literally terrified of being disowned.
True! We teach our kids about heterosexual love so early on, so why not gay love? Probably saves a lot of confusion for the kid too when they reach puberty and start getting crushes.
True, tell your kids you love them unconditionally! Life is stressful enough without having to worry about what your parents think of your identity.
Mine did exactly that. Still didn’t stop me from having some anxiety. Some of the fear is about admitting it, that makes it real. Until then you can still persuade yourself it might not be real, might go away, you’re just experimenting etc. Telling the people that are the centre of your world, that makes it somehow more concrete.
My thoughts exactly. Our daughter told me she was gay at the age of 9. We were sitting on a rainbow bench during pride, and she said that's where she belongs too. I told her all we ever wanted was for her to be happy and hugged her.
She replied "thanks mom... Can I try the go-cars now?"
And we did 😄❤️
I totally agree. In general kids know it s okay to be straight, they should know it's okay to be gay, bi, non binary, etc
That's how my Mom reacted 49 years ago when she met my BF.
He and I had thirty eight wonderful years, and I am still in love with him. Though I cant hold him any more.
I am so sorry for your loss x
Thats very sad indeed.. I feel like crying.
Harvey I'm very sorry for your loss. His memory will always be with you
I'm so sorry, bud. RIP.
I am bi
"Now go put on your real clothes, and do something with that hair, you look like a Mormon!" LMAO love that mom :)
Hey it's 2024
I thought she said mourner 🤣🤣🤣🤣 4:34
I mean. She ain't wrong. XD
"By telling us, you've proven what kind of man you are: an honest one."
This should *definitely* be the philosophy of all parents. :)
2:48
One of my favorite lines in movie history.
There is no love without honesty.
Ehhh that’s not really the same ballpark
That had me in tears.
When I told my parents they pushed me in a closet, helped me out, asked me if I was relieved to be out of the closet, and laughed about it.
That’s so cool! I want that.
Lmaoooo 😂😂😂
"... will u, won't u, would u like to dance..." Sigh. Humans: ingest, digest, ohshitokembrace, love u... And then, the sun still revolves, the stars still do shine... and humans are still humans. Amazing ❤🕊️
They saw an opportunity for the ultimate pun, and they grabbed it.
Respect
When my daughter told me she was gay I said "okay" she said 'is that all you're not mad? " I replied " Heck no Im not mad, you have the worst taste in men I have ever seen. I am thrilled! " I also want to add that since coming out my daughter has turned into one of the most self confident, easy going and sober people I have ever met!
This is unconditional love. And if you’re not 100% ready to give it to your children, then don’t have any.
This, this is the absolute truth and should very well be common sense the fact that it’s not saddens me greatly. If you cannot love your kids unconditionally then don’t have kids period
"Now let's enjoy your mom's turkey."
"Dad, I'm also vegan."
"YOU UNGRATEFUL LITTLE..." *flips the table*
😂😂😂😂😂
This is exactly how my parents reacted. Except my mom betted 300$ XD
+hailey lambert Your mother is beautiful.
+hailey lambert She bet $300 on what? That you were gay? Because if so, your father's gotta make sure he's already payed up.
+hailey lambert Oh, sorry, I wasn't at that part of the video. lol
@hailey ..u r so lucky not like me...My parents would kill me if I coming out...but it's my fate😟😟😟😟😟
Dinesh D same well my great nan would not sure about my mom or dad
My mom threw glitter on me when i came out.
Carlie Reid Stop.
Stop what
Stop being too fabulous....we cant catch up
mom goals
I'm gonna do this to my child if he/she comes out to me.
"I'm gay too if that wasn't clear, it was clear. Ok."...ROFLMGAO
Karen Patterson rolling on the floor
ROTFACGU
The fuck kind of abbreviations were we using nine years ago 😂 I think I'll stick with "lmao"
@@KingDarksider ijbol believers stay winning
Rolling on the floor laughing my … gay? … ass off
"HI GAY, I'M DAD"
For some reason, your comment made me think of this wonderful headline from The Onion: "Homosexual Tearfully Admits To Being Governor Of New Jersey."
Onion is peak@@tomh.2405
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Love this joke. I can almost hear my now-bf-eventual-husband saying this to our future kid if they ever come out as gay 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
When I told my sons, they said, "Whatever makes you happy, Dad."
Awwww i never even thought abt it like this were u previously in a straight relationship? Cuz i thought they would’ve already known 😂😂
@@Jranthony04 some gay people feel like they can't live their true identities (wether it be because of their circumstances, not being safe, having internalized homophobia etc.) and start straight relationships and even families. And also, bi and people with other queer identities exist so that's allso a possibility
at the age of 50, I told my son's that I was gay. (toughest conversation EVER!) My oldest son said "Geez Dad......I thought you were going to tell us you had Cancer!"
@@chucklaclair6338That’s awesome. I’m glad you have such supportive children!
Does that mean you were straight once and turned gay or that you have always been gay and pretended to be straight and married a woman you never loved?
I remember a friend of mine came out in middle school to his parents. They're reaction made everyone chuckle. They congratulated him and then asked if he wanted a medal. They then said that there was a few new study buddy rule: no more study sessions upstairs and hands in full view all the time
Lol!
I came out as bisexual to my mom when I was in my teens. She said she been knowing I am for years. She said she has always loved me and always will. Gave me a big hug and said she's proud of me.
Proud of ya 😊
This is how I wish my parents reacted. They told me never to come back home. Dad talked with me later, he said he was fine with everything no problems, but it was mom. I was surprised to hear him say that, I thought it would be the other way around.
I feel sorry for you. Well, at least they didn't burry you in the backyard. My parents is totally fine with me. Wish you doing well.
My parents are split cuz I'm a pansexual leaning lesbian, with a trans gf and I am also trans and on hormones, let's just say that my parents are split, grandpa is yet to meet my gf, my mom and grandma hate us but they cannot kick us out cuz grandpa would be sad, he is the single one who really cared about me in his way, while my mom and grandma tried to gaslight amd brainwash me into being affraid and confused about myself for the sake of their image in front of our neighbors but yeah, we just don't play their game, sucess is the best type of revenge and we play it hard, gotta keep what I was promised as inheritance since we deserve at least that from our parents considering how shitty they treated us in general, narcissists and antisocials are the worst types of parents, being gay or trans or pan wasn't the problem, their mentality was
I’m so sorry 😔💕
Look at dad snitching on mom lol but I hope mom come around
@@p.moorewilson7917 it's ok, I look at the bright side and feel like a champion for having survived all of that tbh though, and having learned soo many things about myself as well while at it
"you look like a mormon for crying in the sink" LOL
"*lifts finger* I'm gay too if that wasn't clear, oh it was clear, okay..."
Hey it's 2024
When my sister told me she was Bi, she told me she had something important to tell me and I was worried she had cancer, I was so relieved to find out she had finally found her true self. Our entire family has supported and embraced her and her fiancé and I couldn’t be more proud of her.
🩷💜💙
My friend came out to his parents and we were secretly on Skype at the time and all his parents said was
You made out like it was a huge emergency! So what if you're gay that's how you were born.
I seriously wish every LGBT person could have parents like his to support them
Oh geez, I want parents like them :D
And need friend like you :D
"That's how you're born," gosh that made me tearing up ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing this! We had a blast making this movie, and it's amazing to see the wonderful reactions people have to this scene. Thank you all! :)
Is there a sequal ?? Now iam hooked Ive seen this movie like 3 times now
@@pheanix69 They were going to make one, but I think the project got shelved. There is a book sequel, tho.
What's the name of the movie?
@@Tradairnmake the Yuletide gay
Thank you, this is one of my favorite movies ever.
I love the boyfriend's laugh at 2:20 after mom says "oh lord no, sophomore year in HIGHSCHOOL" and he just breaks from the tension of the situation. 🤣
When my son "came out", everybody was like, "No shit". We were stunned that he thought we thought anything else. Love him very much
2:00 "He lost the bet, and I won!" When Anya declared her triumph, I could not stop laughing for the remainder of the scene.
This is from "Make the Yuletide Gay". Love that movie. Wish my parents reacted like that.
I'm an open minded old guy. I only had three nice daughters. I understood the issue very late due to the practically ''military'' education I was brought up. And I asked myself many times what would had been my reaction as a dad in a situation like this at my 45's. I admire those parents!
Hey it's 2024
Are you still alive:)
I don’t know how someone would feel if you just asked them: are you still alive
I will be that mother.
with that mind set you're kids will have the best mother in the world
MRtoast Thank you
Second that: Best mother!!! :)
DaisyJr93 Ha thanks!
soilofk Thank you!
When my son came out at 15 hubby and I asked "and?" Couldn't possibly reject any part of this kid. We love all of him!
When my daughter finally told me when she was a senior in high school, I just thought, “It’s about time!” I had known for years. 🥰
I remember coming out to my aunt and my step-uncle. I was staying with them for a few days, and she made her amazing pasta and meatballs, and she was collecting up the plates and I wrote in the leftover tomato sauce "I'm gay'. She came out with some cake bites and chocolate sauce and she had written tin the sauce 'no duh!'
Wait. A step-uncle? Is it your step-parent's brother? Your parent's step-brither? The aunt in question isn't married to the step-uncle, right? Then he would just be an uncle. I've never heard that term before!
@@aawillma it likely just means the aunt's next husband after the one that she had when op was born.
"I-I'm gay too, if that wasn't clear- it was clear, okay"
I always laugh at that part.
Hey it's 2024
I came out when i was 19 to my Mother. Turns out, she asked me if i was gay. By then i was about to tell her anyway, so i said yes. Then she gave me a big hug, and said i LOVE YOU! Both my parents were just fine with it. What i would like to say to guys who are afraid to come out, just think of this. If you're in a loving family, and your parents have always told you they love you no matter what, i say come out. Parents tend to always surprise you, and never react they way you envisioned it. There will be that awkwardness for a bit, however it will be the best thing you will ever do in your life. For those who might think there parents may not accept you as you are after coming out, well, that's something they need to deal with, not you. Parents who toss their child out simply because they don't accept your lifestyle, they are the ones who failed as parents. I've seen it all, and let me tell you, even this does not end your relationship with your parents. Most Parents do come around, so have faith, and never ever think it's your fault. Be proud of you are, i know i am. :-)
good for you but my dad said if i ever bring home a boyfriend hes going to beat the shit out of me. at least im bi so mabey they will be ok with that aslong as im with a women.
How old are you?
21
Well you are an adult now, so thinking your folks will beat the crap out of you is absurd. Unless they're willing to go to jail. My opinion you're reading too much into it, just relax, stay calm, i'm sure things will be ok. Not saying things will be the same, they won't. However, your the same person prior to coming out, that hasn't changed. You are who you are, that doesn't change. Just remember, you are not alone, and millions of men and women are out there just like you. Always remember nothing is your fault, and you are not worthless. Best of luck to ya. :-)
ya im gonna tell them by video when i move out and my dad would probably still beat the crap out of me. hopfully ill be gone by the end of this or beggining of next summer they dont want me to leave home though they want their inhome babysitter.
When I told my parents my dad said this- Darn it! I was really hoping you were a lesbian, then I wouldn't have to worry about pregnancy.
We then played xbox the rest of the night.
+Lexi awesome dad.
When I told my dad I had a girlfriend (I'm pan) he said: "Nice. Where does she live? Oh, that's far away... I guess we'll have to do a family trip to her city soon..."
When I came out to my parents as pansexual, my mom was like "Don't make me cut a foo who'll hurt my baby" And my dad said that he didn't care who I was with, as long as I'm happy and they know about my boyfriend. I love their love and support :)
Lexi lol
Exactly what my husband said when our daughter brought her first girlfriend home!
It's 2024
That's gonna be me if my kid turned gay lol! I would welcome him/her and their partner with open arms!
And nag about grand kids too!! xD
omg xD that's sweet and cute
That's great! But your kid doesn't "turn gay" it's the way they're born :)
@@Jordancale11 it's fucking weird to say "i was born gay" or "i was born straight" i don't think ppl born with sexualitys. i think that they just figure out along the way who they love.
@@ileftmyfamilyinchinatoget561 it's because the whole "turn gay" is associated with the "being gay is a choice" narrative and it isn't a choice so...
Same here yo
Im 15 and i came out to my parents. They both hugged me and told me that they'd love me no matter what. Still doesn't beat this reaction though :3
When I came out to my mum and dad, my mum said, "Are you happy with that?"
I replied, "Yeah!"
And she offered me a cup of tea! Haha!
Dante Fox did you come out as furry to (if you are) if so how did that go ?
Actually ya i did, Just kinda went down without a hitch. No accusations of bestiality to be found so for that im happy
ah good
im a furry also but still haven't come out and im also 15
Ha well im almost 17 but cool
Spot on. As a father myself, I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiments expressed here. One of the saddest things I heard was a radio debate about how parents should react if their children came out. One caller in particular stuck in my mind with her response to another caller expressing the wish that her child wasn't gay. Her response was,'I just wish that my son (who had died in an accident) was still here. As the father said, love your children unconditionally while your lucky to have them in your life.
Does anyone else feel weird that although homophobics are a big deal, in the near future they will (hopefully) be looked down on like we look down on the racist people of the 1950's time
Remember there are still a lot of racists around. They are looked down upon though, as are homophobes by thinking people. they are small, scared and angry. They also tend to be amongst the least clever people in any room except one populated by bigots of all colours.
***** interstingly inmoscow a lot of people don't care if you are gay or not. Sadly putin does.
***** And certain politicians (in countries like Slovakia, but unfortunately also some parts of the U. S.) need to be put to shame. On the international level. For their referendum questions or for their bills that concern "religious freedom."
If you haven't seen anything gay people are looked down on and that's not something to hope about you should hope that they will be treated as equal
Two years ago a powerful and true statement. Two years later, we are back in the 50's with brand of racism that is joked and celebrated by the leaders of this country. I'm overwhelmed the America I once loved has been hi-jacked by fools.
Hahahahaha!!! "You look like Mormon, for crying in the sink"! Too funny!!!!!
Hey it's 2024
Sweet. My dad threw his phone across the room and he held his broken phone in my face and said "Now look what you've done!" And my mom cried for a week.
Shame on them! ((HUGS))
I came out when I was 19. That was in 1987. I thought about all the things that could happen; rejection, hate etc... but I knew the only way I could find happiness in my life was to live it honestly. It's only in retrospect I realize what how big of a deal it was and I'm proud of my self for doing it.
Are you still alive?
Hey it's 2024
It's a real honest to gods shame all parents, siblings, family couldn't react like this. When my brother came out to me I looked at him & said "DUH!!!!" then gave him a hug & told him you're my brother, my blood & nothing will EVER change that. I loved him. He was my brother & always will be. Period.
Hey it's 2024
My mother cried and cried and cried and kept asking "what did I do wrong!?"
I’m so sorry your mom reacted that way. :(
Poor mother:( .
@@shaktimishra9710 ???
@@AFVfan1 i felt bad her .
@@shaktimishra9710 Why?
Hahahahaha sophomore year in high school lol. That way his boyfriend started laughing was hilarious.
Hey it's 2024
Dad's beard is epic, had me thinkin he was gonna be rude and im up here chuckling when he pulled a c-note out to give his wife lol, bro got a good poker face lol
I so want all parents to react like this.
Hey it's 2024
I knew my Mum knew before I said anything or fully accepted it myself as one Christmas when I was about 17 I overheard heard her talking to my grandma about it downstairs. No big drama from them in the end, no pressures over grandchildren I was just told that all they wanted was for me to be happy. That was it. I was very fortunate even when I came out to my two straight best friends they were like, “yeah we knew”, we’re all in our 40s now and they are married with kids but we all still meet regularly.
How is it that so often they already knew? What clues could there possibly be?
@@MrMyzelI don’t exactly know, but they’re correct I guess lol
Not me crying at 3:00...
"For crying in the sink"....ahhhh how beautiful thank you for sharing. May everyone of us get to experience that same thing!!
Hey it's 2024
When I came out, my family and friends said, "It took you this long to figure that out? We thought you were smarter than that!"
Me: Oh this is nice
Me:*sees guy who played marco in degrassi*
Me:OMDGUSJIFAJ
Same! I was like hmm this is pretty drama- MARCO!!!! :O
Holy fuck why does this have so many likes
Exact same reaction LOLLL. MARCO!!!!!!!!!
izzyisbusy OMG same 😂😂😂😂
SAAAAAMMMEEEEEEE
LOL Nathan is such a sweet soul. He couldn't help but laugh & his family is so supportive. ❤
I wish all parents where that supportive
Me too we need more parents like them in the world 😊❤
I will never forget the day I told my parents.
My dad said "thank you for telling us it means a lot that your open and honest with us"
My mother got uo and disappeared. At first I thought she was mad at me but then she interrupted mine and my dads convo about 20 minutes later all dressed up and said come on were going shopping 😂😂
I'm completely happy with anyone being gay I'm straight but being any sexuality is not a problem
Ross sketchley As a straight person as well, I am supremely happy about having two gay friends. They have enriched my life with another dimension.
good for you :)
Pavlína Antošová the gay dimension hmmm
Non toxic masculinity....I LOVE IT ❤️❤️
Any one else’s sexuality is none of my concern! As long as they’re happy, I’m good with it.
If my kid says dad im gay im responding with " hi gay im dad"
i like the part at 0.50 im gay too if that wasn't clear..........lol
So do I !!!
Chris Noddin
ha ha i get it!!!!!!!!!!!
Chris Noddin You are way cute!!!!!
alex scudder maybe this sounds very weird( and i m sry for my bad english) arent you a german actor? i m nit sure but i think i see you once in a movie with a black man in jail? if u not i m sry for writing this
alex scudder maybe this sounds very weird( and i m sry for my bad english) arent you a german actor? i m nit sure but i think i see you once in a movie with a black man in jail? if u not i m sry for writing this
When my son came out, he did it in a public place with a large bench between me and him, all because of the attitudes and discrimination I had learnt as “Normal” in my day. I held out my hand, said “Congratulations, I still love you.” and left it at that. Shocked him more than a homophobic rant would have. When he asked me later that day why I was so calm about it, I said I had a decade of signs pointing towards his homosexuality, and I didn’t have a problem with it. Be you. You are not me, you do not have to be my shadow, you can be whatever you and your genetics choose. I’m not the one to judge. Now, he comes to me way more than his christian mother when he needs to offload. All because I just listen, maybe give some ideas, and never judge.
Did this exact same thing with my second son. I just knew it, even as a kid I just KNEW! He didnt even have to worry about coming out, he tried to subtly ask if I'd be pissed if any of my kids turned out to be gay and I just straight up said "I've known I have at least one gay child for years now, you don't have to worry about me. And yes, I'm talking about you" and he just said ".....oh....good..... Thanks Mum" and I told him I love him with all of my heart.
Shame his Dad won't accept it but he cut him off years ago now.
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I love the part where he's like "Oh yeah! im gay too...if that wasn't..clear enough...ok.." XD XD XD
When i came out to my parents, they looked at me and said, "Duh, we've known since you were 6. Now, when are we meeting your boyfriend?"
😂😂
My mom reaction would have been: He can cook? So he can cook or not? I do not want that my little child starve!
My dad would have said: it's your mom fault, is not? In any case...Go with the red wine!!!
Hey it's 2024
Beautifully done. I wish that I'd had the nerve to come out to my parents when I'd planned to....maybe it is for the best. My dad would have come around eventually but he would have needed time....time no one knew he didn't have. 5 months later he was gone. 28 Father's Day's later...I still miss him.
Sad :(
Do you still miss him
It's year 2024 by the way
I told my mum in 1972, she simply said “I’m your mother, I knew”
This movie is my Xmas eve tradition, ever since coming out 7 years ago, every year whether I'm alone or with a partner/family, I watch this movie, good times.
I came out trans, my mother tried to have me committed, my grandparents died a few years later and she stole my inheritance. That women filled my life with beatings and gaslightings, I can't even imagine loving parents.
I'm so sorry. ((HUGS))
You deserved loving parents, you still do. Your worth is not measured by the opinions or actions of your parents. As a mother my heart goes out to you and I send you a mother’s love. As a daughter of a crappy mother I can tell you that it’s ok to grieve the parent you should have had and to let go of any sense of responsibility that you might have for having a shitty mom. I wish you peace and love.
I love it when the dad gives mom the $$.
I told my son that love is hard enough to find, and it doesn't matter to me who it is , as long as they uplift each other and don't hurt each other.
No, the most appropriate response is obviously “Hi, Gay! I’m Dad!”
My favorite video on here. I’ve watched it a trillion times. I was blessed to have parents that felt the same way, unconditional love
I came out to my mom about a month ago and this was her reaction (I had my friend who is gay tell her.... he just said 'your daughter is lesbian'") "really? Did she tell you that? Because she hasn't told me yet. No wonder she always says she doesn't have a boyfriend" *looks at me* "so do you have a girlfriend?"
Hey it's 2024
Well did you? Or do you now have 1 haha
My friend was actually livid that his folks didn’t make a fuss when he came out. It was hilarious 😂
As it should be
I loved the boyfriends reaction to the parents
Hey it's 2024
@@shaktimishra9710 Hey it's 11/30/2024
This is the example of real parents who love their children unconditionally.
If my kid said they were gay I'd probably ask them what they wanted for dinner.
"Hey mom,I'm gay."
"Awesome honey. If that's who you are I accept it. Now what do you want for dinner. Pasta? Should we order in?"
Hey it's 2024
Flawless .... I love it. Not what my comming out was, but then again Im 63 yrs old, and it was a differnt time.
This is a beautiful scene. When i came out to my Mom as gender fluid, she just looked at me and shrugged. She said "and? What's the big deal?' I was a bit surprised, but she just continued the conversation of whatever we'd been talking about before I blurted out my identity. Never batted an eye, my beautiful mother. We did discuss it in detail later, when I got over the shock that she had been so accepting as to be nonchalant.
Oooohh!!! I'm so GLAD it went so GOOD like that!!! It's about honesty.
This mother was a RIOT! The $100 bet, the nagging about grandchildren, her LAUGH, and, of course, "for crying in the sink!" Is it too late to nominate her for President of the United States?!
Hey it's 2024
@@shaktimishra9710 it certainly is. Unfortunately, some people still interact with members of the LGBTQIA2S+ Community, as if it is still 1924, but I digress.
We all wish parents were this understanding...unfortunately this isn't the case for many and it's sad how many should be shown love and not hate. I am so thankful that there are parents like this in the world.
I watched a lot of coming out stories and this has to be near the top. The expression on the kid when his parents remained stoic was great. The Mom was absolutely hilarious. She let it out with honesty and humor. Dad was great also as it was a topic they probably frequently discussed.
That silence at first would be terrifying though
As soon as I suspected my child was gay, I would start getting the balloons ready and glitter poppers an as soon as my child said it I'd get up pull the string I strategically placed and I'd be like "I RAISED A GAY!!" I've always wanted a gay child so even if they wasn't gay I'd still love them!!!!!!!!!
Hey it's 2024
When I told my mom that I was--I'm saying WAS, since I'm pansexual now--, she literally screamed and laughed, because she knew all along. 😂
When my son came out, i was proud of him for being true to himself, a couple of years later he told me he was transitioning, i couldn't be anymore happier for her .
Bro wtf 🤣
Even though i am 12 , i am still smarter than him 😂
He is still he not she . Americans have gone crazy
@@shaktimishra9710Fym that you’re smarter than her. I’ve seen you comment on loads of comments and just saying ‘het it’s 2024’. Totally unnecessary. One look at your phone and you will see the date, you don’t need to share your ‘ultimately rare’ knowledge to an entire comment section.
Being ‘only twelve’ is not an excuse to be homophobic.
I don’t believe any gay person has done anything wrong to you.
Your comments are totally uncalled for ngl.
Nice to know that in a lot of ways people are becoming more accepting to people and things they don't understand or completely agree with, it isn't everywhere I know that but it is still nice to see that it is far better now than it really ever has been before. Be your best, happiest, truest self. By doing this you are better able to live your life and help other's and the world around you. Denying oneself and suppressing it only leads to long term stress and pain or worse it leads to ignorance and anger. It is important to be informed on proven facts and take information from reputable sources. Do not the words of other's or their perspectives control your life, I hope everyone reading this has a great day! We can grow and become better, kinder, more informed people. 😁
Wauw. I cried a very unexpected tear when the dad says "By telling us, you're proving what kind of man you are."
... I'm not gay myself, but I had this feeling that if I was, those would probably be the most wanted words from my dad.
I don't know if I'm right about this though, i just realy felt it.
Hey it's 2024
your job as a parent is to love and nurture your children and accept them for who they are no matter what differences they have, if you cannot love your child for who they are and try and change them, I'm sorry but that's not good parenting
Hey it's 2024
My mom looked me right in my eyes with a sweet smile, took hold of my chin and said "duh". Miss you momma. 🥰😇🥰
"for crying in the sink" 😂
Most American thing I've heard since "thoughts and prayers "
That daddy is a good strong man. I loved seeing this
That was such a great movie. OMG! The girlfriend was hilarious!
My cousins daughter (they have 10 kids) came out at the dinner table too. Terrified and already had a suitcase packed for the aftermath.
All that happened was ‘Yeah we all thought so, well you’d better bring her round for dinner soon’ and life went on just as smoothly as before. ❤😊 She was so relieved!
I'd be like, "HELL YAH!! MY SON IS GAY!!! YAS YAS YASSSS!!!! FUCK YES!!! I LOVE YOU SON!!! FUCK YAH!!!" Cuz I'm gay as well.
Me too!! I'm not gay but if I ever have a son I would be so happy :)
Raya Nura hy would you be happy your Son wasn't going to carry on your name?
Cramer Long Well because I'm not going to have only one kid :)
Raya Nura at i the others girls: Not sure why you'd wish your child such anguish
Wake up man we live in the 21th century not the 18th.
I remember when my granddaughter came out, I embraced it because I knew it already deep down inside. After 2 years of therapy, after my son, her father committed suicide, she came out as Trans. That was over 8 years ago, and He's never been happier. All I ever wanted for any of my children and grandchildren is for them to be happy💜💜💜💜
I watched this like 100 times, each time it made me cry when his mother said it was okay. First time I saw this I was like wait the dad got money and his hand, he maybe wants to tell him move out and good luck with $100. Then it turns out it was a bet on when he was going to come out. lol
I love this film. It's now part of my required viewing during the holiday season.🎄☃️🎁🎅
When I was 18 my mom sent me an email titled “Over the Rainbow,” telling me “we haven’t had a chance to really talk in a while …” and told me she knew - and she’s started to suspect since I was THREE. All that worrying - and she’d known since I was THREE!! The only thing she had off was she thought I was dating my best friend … when really it was my best friend’s roommate I was seeing.
Thank you for sharing this! I know what to tell my dad when I fully come out to him, he appreciates honesty & even if it takes a wrong turn I'll just say that I'm being honest.
His bf is adorable.