The narcissist can’t love, true. But, we empaths don’t love them either. The person who we “love” doesn’t exist since they are mirroring us. It’s codependency not love.
I'm going thru the Codependence problem and trying to get over the fake person. They were not the person I fell in Love with. I fell inlove with an image.
We also need to face that part of the reason we “loved” them is because we could not have them. We were in love with an illusion, and that is what was so appealing
I'll never settle for less than I give. I will never try and make anyone love me. People need to stop trying to find meaning in another person. Love yourself. Be kind and never allow anyone to make you feel like you are not enough. God bless.
Cath Walsh I'm very behind, which isn't unusual anyway and want to mention that I knew too! I also believe that I didn't love any of my highly narcissistic and dangerous exes, as they weren't even genuine in the first place. Another point is that the love bombing periods didn't last very long in my case either, hence why it's been easier for me to accept that they didn't love me and the last one "kindly" told me that, which I appreciated in the end. It doesn't mean that the healing process wasn't extremely painful though, especially my childhood trauma issues. ❤
This one is hands down the most important advice to anyone who’s thinking about dating. Sadly, once ensnared by the Narcissist these words will fall on deaf ears. It’s called trauma bonding.
@@hgtudor-theultra Believe me HG, I do my part in sharing your videos. You provide an amazing service, as only a survivor of Narcissistic Abuse can truly appreciate. Thank You!!!
Yes ladies, listen closely to HG's words! I know it is hard to imagine that someone is incapable of love, but it's true. My ex narc told me the following: I cannot love you. What you understand as love is alien to me. A relationship does not give me anything. The "love" that I'm looking for I find in my job because I was raised to receive "love" through performance and not through romantic relationships. Get out and stay out! 💪
I have this saying of Him to share with you :"Love? A man has to achieve his targets. Targets are more important than love. Its ALL about targets" He avoided to say the 3 words. He said:"i feel you" instead.
@@hgtudor-theultra HG are you human then? Love is a fundamental emotion on humans, unless you are just a psychopath just high on the spectrum of narcissism. I'm sure you are aware that psychopaths represent just a tiny percentage of the human population.
your comment makes me lol....my cousin won 15 million w one lottery ticket, a week after she got up the courage to leave him ! it was on Oprah but i digress...point is, he never stopped doing all the things she left him for....7 years after they drained the money down to 4 million, he finally left her for the side piece he had been seeing the ENTIRE TIME. He now lives w his other family ( wife was 20 years younger than h im) and the money is all gone.
They don’t love you. As you have explained many times. It’s just the usual cycle- like being stuck in a revolving door at Barneys. It’s just goes ‘round and ‘round and ‘round going nowhere.
WOW!!!!!!! I heard a teacher, a parent, a preacher, a professor and the manipulator I heard all those in that hard core truth! This was one of the top 3 for me! It was sharp, piercing, painful but so much respect because it was true! We know EXACTLY what we experienced throughout that time with the narcissist and either you know without a shadow of a doubt that you were in fact...dealing with a narcissist or the encounter was not with a narcissist. There is a never a question about what HG says because we were living it. Logical thinking has been a true testament of strength and of weakness for me, yet I wouldn’t change who I am for nothing in the world. This can be a hard pill to swallow, but it’s a necessary dose! Thank you for the brutal truth and still you presented with a little pull back because, you are aware cognitively that it does hurt and that if you are a true empath, we don’t deserve that type of treatment at all! Awesome message full of power, clarity and facts!
I seen the title and was intrigued to see what u we’re gonna say . This is something I could care less about whatsoever , the slop and him could run off into the sunset together and I would know for a fact what their future holds because narcs do not change they repeat the same behavior untill they die . PERIOD ! People please don’t wonder this u r so much better then that , we all are .
After the divorce from the X narc husband, he got thrown out of my 🏡 and property! No contact means no contact! Total mooch! Never paid any bills! Seriously, who in their right mind would want something like that back! Logical thinking only. Thanks for the videos HG! Best information around! 😉
I feel like I'm in some kind of alternate reality....it's happening RIGHT NOW he's blocked and calling and calling....it's creepy and frustrating.... your videos keep me steadfast....I wouldn't wish this on anybody... whomever wants that type of person in their lives I feel sorry and a little sick for them.
These charlatans should have their channels deplatformed for giving dangerous advice to people. If a so-called narc survivor coach/content creator has their own face as the title page for their video I seriously suspect them to be a narcissist. And all these people claiming to have PhDs in psychology who can't even use proper grammar...diploma mill?
I was listening to a couple of them b4 HG came up in the sidebar suggestions... Seems they begin to post on narcissists because they got involved with one, thru business, or romantically, or perhaps a family member is one even... And they did not realize what they were dealing with at the outset of their dealings with the person. PhD or not, they got duped themselves! So I think that their advice is somewhat colored by their personal experience. The uniqueness of HG Tudor imo is that being one himself, he is merely giving us the facts and nothing but! From his view and the victim's reaction as well.
I got involved with my narc when everything in my life was on the upswing. Career was fantastic. Social life was fantastic. Finance was excellent. I was my prettiest and highly, highly functional. I think it’s not that I want him as much as I want that place in life that existed at that time before I lost myself in him and everything else, too. Not totally lost, but it’s hard to reclaim time. I’m reminding myself of this every time I think we’re just reminiscing and in short order, he occupies my every thought and I’m trying to figure out how to tie myself into a pretzel to win him back when I left him to begin with. It’s you who’ve helped me see the illusion. My dad used to say, “Snooks, you see a barn full of horse manure so you keep shoveling because you’re sure a horse was in there deep down.” Dad was a narc, too. And he knew one when he met one.
Before I knew what I was entangled with I said to the narcissist let me have you. Meaning his heart ❤. He said you can not win Jeanette. I accepted what he said and let go. I began to distance myself emotionally. I began to get stronger and wiser! Thank you HG Tudor.
Your comment just pierced me for some reason. He said that you can not win because it's a game to them. Playing with our fucking hearts. It's like I feel sorry for my X and I can't stand his ass and want to see unfortunate circumstances to show up in his life.
@@TheBeautifullife04 Dear let love rule and forgive him. I tried to profess my love for him before I new what he is. He wouldn't accept love he kept saying you cannot manipulate me. I get to choose. Your opinion do not matter. HG is right when he tell us they like to feel empowered and control everything. They can not wrap their heads around someone wanting them because they know they are so mean and destructive. Now that I know what I know. I went no contact. It has been three years. Good luck on your journey.
@@hgtudor-theultra 🤦🏾♀️🙂....I want to thank you first of all for taking the time to share this life saving content with us. Secondly, I want to thank you for your honesty and bravery for being so honest, open and transparent, it takes a lot of courage to do what you have done... exposing this type of abuse deserves all the thanks and appreciation I can give...it just doesn't seem like enough,....so THANK YOU MORE.
@@hgtudor-theultra is a cool drink of water in a parched desert. A refreshing drink that has liberating qualities as is provides a sense of empowerment when one has been completely un-empowered. His voice is hypnotic beyond it's truth, yet still completely hypnotizing because of the pure truth he provides. He is dangerous. He is delicious. He is appreciated.
I knew he didn’t love me. I didn’t understand it. Bc I am not what he says I am. But I tried to love him anyways. Bc my hear hurt for him so bad. He didn’t want my love. It made him hate me even more
I knew he didn’t love me. I didn’t understand it. Bc I am not what he says I am. But I tried to love him anyways. Bc my hear hurt for him so bad. He didn’t want my love. It made him hate me even more
Every time I hear they dont love us, didnt and will seek a new supply and go away, I get jittery, like all fuzzy with happiness inside, all I want is freedom and my peace and life back and it'll be a while before this fear diminishes, I feel shellshocked even 6 months after. A fear so deep its felt in my BONEMARROW. I will never talk to a guy again, holy crap I got scared from this. It really is better being alone than to have evil toying with your soul.
I had listened to enough of your presentations to know the answer to this before hand. He DID things for me, he was helpful but somehow I understood that there was an agenda - it was to make me dependent on him. But "love" - no. In fact I once told him that I knew what love was and this wasn't it. He said nothing. I always had a problem buying him an appropriate greeting card - the sentiments never quite rang true. Two months into the discard - I am doing well and have decided to tell myself that he died....because, in a way, he has.
@@Sky-720 he gets greater fuel! These comments worshipping him w/all this bragging about how loveless his kind is, it may be truthful but this shit “his kind” are sick individuals running around proud of who they are & what they do is so unfair, leaving genuine people who wanted nothing but to love these nut cases & the crazy part about this madness is it’s narcs every fuckn where! 🤮
HG I like your videos, I love me, more than I love him, once I found out who he was I had no problem walking away going no contact all the way💪 I love it HG because you know
If someone never receives love as a child then they grow into an adult searching for love but the moment they get within 10 miles of it,up comes the drawbridge to stop them losing control.Its like a litter of puppies bred in the wild,even if given a good home,under stress they revert back to defend themselves and you can get a bad injury.The narcissist wants what he wants on his terms and No one else's but at least he has the decency to put out a health warning.The empaths who go where angels fear to tread are probably not fully acquainted with the order of or the workings of the narcisstic psychopath and are thrilled at the initial benefits but it takes someone who has been there,done that to fully understand that this is not something they purposely do to hurt you, they can't live any other way. If you can accept the contract then go for it but if not then look after yourself first and heed the warning.
"Empaths" don't always love only their own reflection in the narc. Sometimes we are willing to extend love to the narc in return for the damage done in the alchemical moment when the narc was truly compelled to mirror us, that's all 💔 Sometimes it's about taking responsibility for this modern tragedy in human relationships and attachment between genders (you know, instead of being a passive victim in this). If an "empath" truly "loves" a narc, they need to ask themselves, what do they want from this person more: (#1) their "love" or (#2) for them to be free? (Hint: if it's not #2, then perhaps what you are motivated by is not really love) ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Haven't watched this but we already know you CANT make a narcissist love you! Edit: Man I'm in a mood today and not a good one. Think I've watched to many videos today.
Thank you HG, one can not make anybody loves another,but this goes to a different mental level. You need to open your own firm and heal the world I like the comfort of your voice ❤️
Love this one. I return often. Emotional thinking is sneaky. There’s envy in me wishing that I had no empathy. A narcissists life is so much easier. They are unfazed by anything. They do as they wish. They never get sick nor will they do sick. It’s quite amazing to watch narcissists in action. Maybe empathy is an evolutionary mistake?
Mine used to tell me all the time “I love you more than I’ve ever loved any man” She used to give me Hallmark cards several times a month with her own added script that was over the top. I finally asked her to stop the cards and show me with actions and not words. She got visibly miffed. I was with her for 10 long years and suffered immeasurably. I didn’t know what a narcissist/sociopath was until I started researching when I filed for divorce. I could have saved myself so much grief, had I only known.
Who would want a Narcs love or hate whatever they allegedly feel. Be strong n believe in urself n do not be needy. The best way to deal with a narc is to leave them n rebuild.
I knew it ☺️ Do you touch on how they will literally mimick you. He used my words and took on parts of my personality traits and sometimes I felt he was making fun of me. Other times I was endeared by it. 🤭 Is it echoism? Or just plain manipulation? Thanks HG 💗 You are amazing and your work is so important especially in these days.
He didn’t love me but he idealized me. The closest love a narcissist can feel. Hung on my every word. Analyzed every word I said to know if I liked him. But then when I started calling him out for stuff fighting with him, not worshipping him, his high came off. Then he was cold. Wouldn’t text as much. Seemed disinterested. Finally told me I don’t love you anymore when I broke it off and then tried to fix it. He never abused me tho. Never was rude to me. Always the sweetest. Even when I’d cuss him out. Even when I’d break up with him he’d beg to come back. Except the last time I broke it off. By then the idealization had worn off. At first he told me it was because of me. Because I didn’t give him enough love. That fucked with me and kept thinking if I could have changed it. I told him about narcissism and that he wouldn’t have gotten enough no matter how much I gave him. He was defensive but later agreed. When we talked after a while he told me it was his fault. Said it’s crazy how he was crazy about me but now he doesn’t even love me. That he’s the problem and even if I gave him more love it wouldn’t have changed anything. The closure I needed. After that I stopped feeling so much guilt. He said I’m a fallen angel :’). My sweet little narc lol
I fell for the facsimile that he has passed off as his legitimate self for his entire life. “There was no love, it was fakery” Thanks HG! Well done. Have stopped feeling jealous of the new victims. They will and are already experiencing the same toxic BS.
Wishing you a Very Merry Christmas HG, your videos are excellent and sharing your knowledge as a Narcissist yourself, is truly educational, inspirational and helping empaths understand the true nature of NPD.
You describe every guy I have ever known... lol.... I really know how to attract them... Im glad I like being with myself... Its easy for me to entertain myself. The more people I meet, the more I like myself .. Maybe I have just developed such a strong sense of self,, self worth; and reliance on myself in all areas of my life.. Life is good...Its not logical for me to mess any area of my life just for a relationship.... I know I have some strong addictions high adrenaline, (don't do drugs, alcohol) live a pretty healthy balanced life; mine are stemmed from "within" and as with the pre-disposition for narcissism, those traits can and do come out when somebody crosses me the wrong way.... There are some good intended folks when they meet me will say that I am an earth Angel. I respond with a smile, shake my head and reply, "oh no I say, you don't realize; I may have earned my angel wings, but..dont be fooled I have one wing that the color is white and the other wing, the color is gray and when provoked... turns black...
I love my male narcissistic coworker for a whole different reason. I was raised by 2 narcissistic parents and had many narcissistic relatives. I was never really able to understand why I always was physically and mentally abused. My male narcissistic coworker came into my life Hoovering me And some mild love bombing He showed me depths of narcissism that I never knew was actually possible The 1st time I felt in seeing a blackness in his eyes. I felt I went to a black dimension or a black hole I wasn't scared when he stared into my eyes I was fascinated the second time he stared into my eyes I even went in deeper And it felt incredible. Most people are afraid of the narcissistic stare. I'm used to the narcissistic stare I had family members that gave me the narcissistic stare. I became obsessed with what he showed me. Thanks to him I found out I was raised by narcissistic parents by narcissistic parents and I have many narcissistic managers and coworkers long before I ever met him. I was never able to understand why I actually was so obsessed with him and I'm glad I was he brought clarity into my life and understanding I'm going to love my coworker for the rest of my life even though he does a lot of bad things He's a serial cheater.
This goes for the next supply right 😞 See mine came back to beg and want validation that I loved him yet during I was crying and so much trauma from him and myself I stayed .. I told him all the time .. it’s like he knew what he was doing watching me cry but play victim to his own pain he caused me .. now I’m left to pick it up.. he couldn’t breathe without me.. wanted this whole life and future and “knew what to do” then left me again accept this time the words of I don’t love u anymore come out and can’t feel it. I’m sure cause of supply .. and the wife across the country .. I’m guessing they can’t regulate what they want and emotions and always get tired when they feel your a threat I knew who he was and I’ve told him about NPD but then later on used it more on me then I did .. he started saying I was manipulating him and projecting he never knew those words .. it’s insane .. we tried therapy for him and myself to help me get over what he did to me but knew my past now .. and now I saw a full glismp of what he did to his wife and me and tried to deflect his past off of him onto me to make me think I’m crazy .. just cause I’ve been and seen one before DOESNT mean I don’t know what he was doing it’s off and scary
I want to write several things here. My ex husband is a psychopathic narcissist, - as you say you are. As a new subscriber and a person who lives in an extremely heightened sense of awareness I feel uneasy writing those thoughts to you - I figured just this revelation would be useful to your legacy as per your “Why am I doing this” video - although possibly not such a revelation at all. After 25 years of hell, from the few posts I have listened to by you, my immediate impression is you only give a small percentage of what is really happening. Which from my experience both lived and studied is very accurate. But just a sliver of the whole peice. Perhaps I must watch more or perhaps my basic instincts have been correct for the greater part of my life, thus nothing you say comes as a surprise and the more intricate workings are not something you cover. Regardless I thank you sir for your dedication and your channel. Eager to learn more to keep sharp
This might be important if love was just a feeling, a hormonal flood; but, it’s not regardless who you are. Love is a decision, a covenant, a contract, an agreement. Feelings come and go and are unreliable but agreement and respect are lasting. Doesn’t matter the personality type.
My in-laws are midrange narcissists. They are unbearable bullies who triangulate,gaslight, devalue and shower me with all the false trappings of their false selves. I realized that they will never love me because they can't.I have countered them as a secondary psychopath. In order to subdue them I had to bind the strongman. I now toy with other narcissists coworkers. I manipulate them with seduction tactics. Thank you Mr.Greene !!!( I would love to be your coquettish ingenue ,HG!!)
One of the coaches I was listening too Self-love U is all over the news cause she was part of the Riots in Washington lmao 🤣 ....im like where have I seen this lady before?? Then I remembered lol
This is your best video. I really needed to hear all of these things from the mouth of a narcissist to help break my addiction and thanks for providing your insight to focus on logical thinking...in a balance with emotional thinking from now on.
i just can't imagine "making" an intimate partner do or be anything. my bpd partner would storm off and leave me at regular intervals, although i'd already stipulated that she could come and go exactly as she pleased with no need to explain herself. I tried to always give a fond farewell and welcoming arms whenever she decided to return, it wasn't difficult.
A narrsasist cares for them selves. Is that a form of love. They also fear death or injury , so is that a form of love. Even a person that does not fear, alledgidly has care for their lives. So is that a self love. ?
I wish I where a psychopath. Not caring about shit like this. Maybe being able to play games on that level too. Hurting her like she hurt me by throwing me away after all that future faking for the first gym bro she could find. I had to find out about him myself. She, who was carrying our contact and communication for 50 percent, instead told me that it was just me pushing too hardly. Me... I rejected her first, because even for someone with ADHD her advances where too fast at first. I came back because I thought I made a mistake. In the year she was focused on me, she was the only person outside of my family showing interest in me. I was there for her when she had a medical emergency. I said yes to a friendship, because I didn't know why she rejected me. Maybe because I was never seen as a primary source. Maybe the gym bro had a better status than me. I still invested, wanted her to feel appreciated as a friend. She reacted with the bare minimum or ignored me. But she criticed me for posting pictures and meeting friends like I wouldn't care about her rejecting me. While she was fucking the Gym Bro... Since I confronted her, told her that I know, the story about the motivation why she did what she did changed multible times. "I don't want to lose you." /// "Between him and me it was some unhealthy and strange dynamic. I couldn't tell you about it" /// But first, her affective answer right that moment: "And? Of course I met someone else. I do that often. I have nothing to be sorry for! I never said we where in a relationship! I do nothing out of calculation!" She was future faking, she enjoyed erotic and romantic text messages, after her first date with the gym bro she contacted me to tell me about it, told me it was a meeting with a buddy. Then she started to compliment me, to tell me how sexy my mind is, how perfect we are. Now I'm trapped in a friendship I can't leave. A friendship where she dumps her problems on me and says I should be glad for the trust she has in me. She tells me how much she wants to have dates, how many people are interested in her. When I compliment her and tell her how much she means to me as an entity in my life, she tells me: "Strange I can't get loving sentences like that from others." How a buddy of hers is always pushing her personal boundaries in a sexual way. She told me, she was r*ped three years ago. So of course my instinct go in alarm mode, when she says things like that. I get pushed aside and ignored every time she has a new facebook friend, her messages sound like they where written by some AI in that moments, if I even get some. She demands I shall talk about my life. But when I do, there is 50/50 chance she ignores it. When I make suggestions of talking on the phone or meeting somewhere, they are ignored. But she says I should continue to ask. I want this to end, but as someone with ADHD I'm full on dopamine whenever I hear her voice. I hate her for what she did, but she is all I want. The distance between as is pretty great, it's the other side of germany. So, no. She didn't need sex to get me. She never slept with me. I kissed her forehead and hold her hand. It was the best day in years for me. And for her? Visiting me? Meeting my family she claimed to be part of? A trick to trigger her stalking ex. Or maybe to make her Gym Bro jealous to motivate him.
He told me yesterday I spent my last money on you and took you out. He does when he’s around bc I stood my ground. He doesn’t give me all I need to be safe as I want in regards to social media. He moved in the same day we had s*x two months after meeting. I am accepting he won’t love now I am giving him what he wants to get what I want. I hope I am not becoming a narcissist. It isn’t hurting anymore. Or maybe I am getting ready to cut him off and I know he won’t be able to let go idk…. He can keep idolizing the other women. He ain’t touching me though unless he fixes my roof this weekend. This shit is stupid.
I know I can't make the narcissit love me...I fell in love with me so they are treated like they are loved..since my empathy is weaponized I know the narcissist can't love so we don't get attached. The narcissist detects that we can't be taken for their so called love so it makes them want us more and more so they get attached...that's not really being in love they are attached so we know we are then being obsessed over not loved and that's when the narcissist turn into challenge fuel for the empath especially the super ones like me..yes sir..I said this before I finished the video..let's see how close I am to being right according to our Mentor Mr. Tudor.. Being attached is mere obsession.
We’re suppose to love someone more than ourselves . Love someone who’ll never love us more than themselves. We are weird. Just add a little more balance I have a farm that grounds me. I’ll never risk it for a narcissus.
You tell these truths as if your proud of you & your kind. We’re human beings just like you we’re not objects or fuckn robots.. all this fuel your getting from these comments, you should want to change you should look in deeper inside yourself & want to love & be loved & not loved for the false self. Empaths? We are falling in love w/ourselves & once we realize this (bc these mf’s can’t find their own identity so they mirror ours) self love we should allow it to better ourselves & be aware that these monsters are lurking around wanting our energy bc they lack that & so many other treasures we own. I fell in love w/a narcissist & this shit right here makes me wanna be a narc serial killer & I didnt have a wicked bone in body until I found about this sick shit! Being a super empath yeah I feel like some fleas, or sprinkles has hit me heavy fuckn w/these assholes. I know “your kind” don’t believe in karma but it knows your address & be smirking when it hits y’all asses..
HG is it possible for them ever be able to do a partnership? For example I'm going to curse my ex into oblivion with satanic black magick as revenge unless she ever wanted to stop the war and play on the same side . I know the answer is no but I wonder why not considering logic dictates if you cant beat em join and there is nothing that can stop me. I am a creature unlike any other and empath 😈
When me and he started out. I advised FWB or an open relationship bcuz I just had gotten divorced. But he love bombed me and said- no I want u to be my lady.. This scared me. Once we talked about love. I said- I don't believe. He Hugged me tight and said- I love u! Tell me u love me. I didn't. But in time he brain washed me and I couldn't get him out my head. Knowing when he ghost me he was with others. But I didn't care. As long as I had him sometimes, I was OK. Then I kept pointing out his actions were sociopathic/narcissistic. He took it as a challenge and flipped it and called me psycho or weird. But after knowing what he did to his new supply to have sex with him. I am now. No contact
The narcissist can’t love, true. But, we empaths don’t love them either. The person who we “love” doesn’t exist since they are mirroring us. It’s codependency not love.
Amen Amen. You said it. This is pure truth. Better than gold.
I'm going thru the Codependence problem and trying to get over the fake person. They were not the person I fell in Love with. I fell inlove with an image.
It's a trauma bond, actually.
Yes! I knew it!
We also need to face that part of the reason we “loved” them is because we could not have them. We were in love with an illusion, and that is what was so appealing
Knew without watching the video 😂 no contact: instant love. Break no contact: another cycle of devaluation and discard
Well done. Now make sure the clowns who make people think this can be done know the reality.
@@hgtudor-theultra I will thanks for sharing your wisdom
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Same here. 😂
HG you're a god send . Love your work
“I can’t make you love me if you don’t. I can’t make your heart feel something it won’t...”. 🎶
that song is currently killing me
It's a great song, sung by bonnie Raitt and also sung beautifully by Adele. Worth a listen, because it's also true.
@@pamelamacneil1331 teddy swims has a great cover.
Never waste this time. LOVE YOURSELF. That drives them insane. :)
I'll never settle for less than I give. I will never try and make anyone love me. People need to stop trying to find meaning in another person. Love yourself. Be kind and never allow anyone to make you feel like you are not enough. God bless.
Thank you. I KNEW this....but thank you❤️ needed reminding
I knew without even playing the video that you can’t make one love you. But I’ll listen anyway 🤗
Logic and then some more.
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@@hgtudor-theultra 💯👏👏👏
Cath Walsh I'm very behind, which isn't unusual anyway and want to mention that I knew too! I also believe that I didn't love any of my highly narcissistic and dangerous exes, as they weren't even genuine in the first place.
Another point is that the love bombing periods didn't last very long in my case either, hence why it's been easier for me to accept that they didn't love me and the last one "kindly" told me that, which I appreciated in the end.
It doesn't mean that the healing process wasn't extremely painful though, especially my childhood trauma issues. ❤
“No one will love you like I do” were his words when I left him...How ironic!
Sounds like the 50.shades of grey song lyrics..
Love me like you do..lo.lo love me like U do. What r u waiting foooor?
He said the same to me when I left him.
For anyone who loves or is stuck on a narcissist. Go to 6:45. Again and again, until it sinks in..!
You can’t. They don’t love. They use, abuse, rinse and repeat. GOSO.
How sad is that.
It makes sense. Somebody that has never experienced love felt unloved and unlovable can not express a feeling that he or she has never experienced.
This one is hands down the most important advice to anyone who’s thinking about dating. Sadly, once ensnared by the Narcissist these words will fall on deaf ears. It’s called trauma bonding.
All the more reason to ensure that people know about this material and to counter the misinformation.
@@hgtudor-theultra Believe me HG, I do my part in sharing your videos. You provide an amazing service, as only a survivor of Narcissistic Abuse can truly appreciate. Thank You!!!
And unawareness or ignorance of narcissism, like I was. A trap was set, I was ensnared and he never lets me get away.
Narcissists LOVE to Hate & HATE to Love💔
Love YOURSELF❤
I want the narcissist stay away from me
Wise words. Use my work and you will force the narcissist to have no choice but stay away from you.
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@@hgtudor-theultra can you make video about how to make narcissist stay away from me? If it possible
@@xrouagial he has made hundreds of videos. I am sure it is already made.
Yes ladies, listen closely to HG's words! I know it is hard to imagine that someone is incapable of love, but it's true. My ex narc told me the following:
I cannot love you. What you understand as love is alien to me. A relationship does not give me anything. The "love" that I'm looking for I find in my job because I was raised to receive "love" through performance and not through romantic relationships.
Get out and stay out! 💪
Absolutely.
Thank goodness for honesty. Used to think emotion is a weakness. Only if you can't control it.
I have this saying of Him to share with you :"Love? A man has to achieve his targets. Targets are more important than love. Its ALL about targets"
He avoided to say the 3 words. He said:"i feel you" instead.
Wow
Thank you HG...another truthful heartbreaking video. 💔
My heart is broken but with your wisdom and insight I will smile again 😊
You are welcome.
@@hgtudor-theultra HG are you human then? Love is a fundamental emotion on humans, unless you are just a psychopath just high on the spectrum of narcissism. I'm sure you are aware that psychopaths represent just a tiny percentage of the human population.
I think we have more chance in winning the lottery.
your comment makes me lol....my cousin won 15 million w one lottery ticket, a week after she got up the courage to leave him ! it was on Oprah but i digress...point is, he never stopped doing all the things she left him for....7 years after they drained the money down to 4 million, he finally left her for the side piece he had been seeing the ENTIRE TIME. He now lives w his other family ( wife was 20 years younger than h im) and the money is all gone.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They don’t love you. As you have explained many times. It’s just the usual cycle- like being stuck in a revolving door at Barneys. It’s just goes ‘round and ‘round and ‘round going nowhere.
WOW!!!!!!! I heard a teacher, a parent, a preacher, a professor and the manipulator I heard all those in that hard core truth! This was one of the top 3 for me! It was sharp, piercing, painful but so much respect because it was true! We know EXACTLY what we experienced throughout that time with the narcissist and either you know without a shadow of a doubt that you were in fact...dealing with a narcissist or the encounter was not with a narcissist.
There is a never a question about what HG says because we were living it. Logical thinking has been a true testament of strength and of weakness for me, yet I wouldn’t change who I am for nothing in the world. This can be a hard pill to swallow, but it’s a necessary dose! Thank you for the brutal truth and still you presented with a little pull back because, you are aware cognitively that it does hurt and that if you are a true empath, we don’t deserve that type of treatment at all! Awesome message full of power, clarity and facts!
Disturbing af
Narcissists aren't capable of love. Don't waste your time ☺️
I seen the title and was intrigued to see what u we’re gonna say . This is something I could care less about whatsoever , the slop and him could run off into the sunset together and I would know for a fact what their future holds because narcs do not change they repeat the same behavior untill they die . PERIOD ! People please don’t wonder this u r so much better then that , we all are .
After the divorce from the X narc husband, he got thrown out of my 🏡 and property! No contact means no contact! Total mooch! Never paid any bills!
Seriously, who in their right mind would want something like that back! Logical thinking only. Thanks for the videos HG! Best information around! 😉
I feel like I'm in some kind of alternate reality....it's happening RIGHT NOW he's blocked and calling and calling....it's creepy and frustrating.... your videos keep me steadfast....I wouldn't wish this on anybody... whomever wants that type of person in their lives I feel sorry and a little sick for them.
These charlatans should have their channels deplatformed for giving dangerous advice to people. If a so-called narc survivor coach/content creator has their own face as the title page for their video I seriously suspect them to be a narcissist. And all these people claiming to have PhDs in psychology who can't even use proper grammar...diploma mill?
Bravo. HG approves.
@@hgtudor-theultra now I can’t watch no mother channel . They’re like clowns
Get bent newb bubble
I was listening to a couple of them b4 HG came up in the sidebar suggestions... Seems they begin to post on narcissists because they got involved with one, thru business, or romantically, or perhaps a family member is one even... And they did not realize what they were dealing with at the outset of their dealings with the person. PhD or not, they got duped themselves! So I think that their advice is somewhat colored by their personal experience. The uniqueness of HG Tudor imo is that being one himself, he is merely giving us the facts and nothing but! From his view and the victim's reaction as well.
I got involved with my narc when everything in my life was on the upswing. Career was fantastic. Social life was fantastic. Finance was excellent. I was my prettiest and highly, highly functional. I think it’s not that I want him as much as I want that place in life that existed at that time before I lost myself in him and everything else, too. Not totally lost, but it’s hard to reclaim time. I’m reminding myself of this every time I think we’re just reminiscing and in short order, he occupies my every thought and I’m trying to figure out how to tie myself into a pretzel to win him back when I left him to begin with. It’s you who’ve helped me see the illusion. My dad used to say, “Snooks, you see a barn full of horse manure so you keep shoveling because you’re sure a horse was in there deep down.” Dad was a narc, too. And he knew one when he met one.
Omg I'm right there too. Thankyou for sharing. I'm trying to get him out of my mind. It's so hard.
I hope after your comment that you're doing much better now and that you didn't get back with him.
Before I knew what I was entangled with I said to the narcissist let me have you. Meaning his heart ❤. He said you can not win Jeanette. I accepted what he said and let go. I began to distance myself emotionally. I began to get stronger and wiser! Thank you HG Tudor.
Your comment just pierced me for some reason. He said that you can not win because it's a game to them. Playing with our fucking hearts. It's like I feel sorry for my X and I can't stand his ass and want to see unfortunate circumstances to show up in his life.
@@TheBeautifullife04 Dear let love rule and forgive him. I tried to profess my love for him before I new what he is. He wouldn't accept love he kept saying you cannot manipulate me. I get to choose. Your opinion do not matter. HG is right when he tell us they like to feel empowered and control everything. They can not wrap their heads around someone wanting them because they know they are so mean and destructive. Now that I know what I know. I went no contact. It has been three years. Good luck on your journey.
I can't thank you enough for this.
Go on, try.
@@hgtudor-theultra
🤦🏾♀️🙂....I want to thank you first of all for taking the time to share this life saving content with us.
Secondly, I want to thank you for your honesty and bravery for being so honest, open and transparent, it takes a lot of courage to do what you have done... exposing this type of abuse deserves all the thanks and appreciation I can give...it just doesn't seem like enough,....so THANK YOU MORE.
@@hgtudor-theultra is a cool drink of water in a parched desert. A refreshing drink that has liberating qualities as is provides a sense of empowerment when one has been completely un-empowered. His voice is hypnotic beyond it's truth, yet still completely hypnotizing because of the pure truth he provides. He is dangerous. He is delicious. He is appreciated.
@@hgtudor-theultra touche!
What a sad existence. Being unable to love or accept love.
Agree!!
I knew he didn’t love me. I didn’t understand it. Bc I am not what he says I am. But I tried to love him anyways. Bc my hear hurt for him so bad. He didn’t want my love. It made him hate me even more
I knew he didn’t love me. I didn’t understand it. Bc I am not what he says I am. But I tried to love him anyways. Bc my hear hurt for him so bad. He didn’t want my love. It made him hate me even more
It's not a sad existence at all!
*what’s love got to do, got to do with it? What’s love but a second hand emotion.
Ya, who needs a heart when a heart can be broken.
Every time I hear they dont love us, didnt and will seek a new supply and go away, I get jittery, like all fuzzy with happiness inside, all I want is freedom and my peace and life back and it'll be a while before this fear diminishes, I feel shellshocked even 6 months after. A fear so deep its felt in my BONEMARROW. I will never talk to a guy again, holy crap I got scared from this. It really is better being alone than to have evil toying with your soul.
I had listened to enough of your presentations to know the answer to this before hand. He DID things for me, he was helpful but somehow I understood that there was an agenda - it was to make me dependent on him. But "love" - no. In fact I once told him that I knew what love was and this wasn't it. He said nothing. I always had a problem buying him an appropriate greeting card - the sentiments never quite rang true. Two months into the discard - I am doing well and have decided to tell myself that he died....because, in a way, he has.
You’re absolutely amazing.. I appreciate all your work.. it pulls me through...thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you. Here is where you receive everything you need.
@@hgtudor-theultra But what do you get out of it?
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@@Sky-720 he gets greater fuel! These comments worshipping him w/all this bragging about how loveless his kind is, it may be truthful but this shit “his kind” are sick individuals running around proud of who they are & what they do is so unfair, leaving genuine people who wanted nothing but to love these nut cases & the crazy part about this madness is it’s narcs every fuckn where! 🤮
HG I like your videos, I love me, more than I love him, once I found out who he was I had no problem walking away going no contact all the way💪 I love it HG because you know
Another cold hard facts to swallow . I feel used and played . I am devastated and hurt HG TUDOR .
If someone never receives love as a child then they grow into an adult searching for love but the moment they get within 10 miles of it,up comes the drawbridge to stop them losing control.Its like a litter of puppies bred in the wild,even if given a good home,under stress they revert back to defend themselves and you can get a bad injury.The narcissist wants what he wants on his terms and No one else's but at least he has the decency to put out a health warning.The empaths who go where angels fear to tread are probably not fully acquainted with the order of or the workings of the narcisstic psychopath and are thrilled at the initial benefits but it takes someone who has been there,done that to fully understand that this is not something they purposely do to hurt you, they can't live any other way. If you can accept the contract then go for it but if not then look after yourself first and heed the warning.
Action speaks louder rhan words ask if you can borrow his phone because you've lost yours and watch there eyes bulge out there head,enough said
"Empaths" don't always love only their own reflection in the narc. Sometimes we are willing to extend love to the narc in return for the damage done in the alchemical moment when the narc was truly compelled to mirror us, that's all 💔 Sometimes it's about taking responsibility for this modern tragedy in human relationships and attachment between genders (you know, instead of being a passive victim in this).
If an "empath" truly "loves" a narc, they need to ask themselves, what do they want from this person more: (#1) their "love" or (#2) for them to be free? (Hint: if it's not #2, then perhaps what you are motivated by is not really love) ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Love urself! Invest in urself their love is fake illusion fabricated manipulated nothing but excruciating pain!
Haven't watched this but we already know you CANT make a narcissist love you!
Edit: Man I'm in a mood today and not a good one. Think I've watched to many videos today.
I know the feeling. That was me yesterday. Hang in there!!
@@itsAngieMarie same here .
Thank you HG, one can not make anybody loves another,but this goes to a different mental level.
You need to open your own firm and heal the world
I like the comfort of your voice ❤️
Love this one. I return often. Emotional thinking is sneaky. There’s envy in me wishing that I had no empathy. A narcissists life is so much easier. They are unfazed by anything. They do as they wish. They never get sick nor will they do sick. It’s quite amazing to watch narcissists in action.
Maybe empathy is an evolutionary mistake?
Mine used to tell me all the time “I love you more than I’ve ever loved any man” She used to give me Hallmark cards several times a month with her own added script that was over the top. I finally asked her to stop the cards and show me with actions and not words. She got visibly miffed. I was with her for 10 long years and suffered immeasurably. I didn’t know what a narcissist/sociopath was until I started researching when I filed for divorce. I could have saved myself so much grief, had I only known.
Who would want a Narcs love or hate whatever they allegedly feel.
Be strong n believe in urself n do not be needy. The best way to deal with a narc is to leave them n rebuild.
Thankyou for these videos. I really appreciate your time, energy and truth.
I knew it ☺️ Do you touch on how they will literally mimick you. He used my words and took on parts of my personality traits and sometimes I felt he was making fun of me. Other times I was endeared by it. 🤭 Is it echoism? Or just plain manipulation? Thanks HG 💗
You are amazing and your work is so important especially in these days.
Goodness! You’re on fire lately. Thoroughly entertaining, thank you 💛
Thank you HG.
Lesson understood.
He didn’t love me but he idealized me. The closest love a narcissist can feel. Hung on my every word. Analyzed every word I said to know if I liked him. But then when I started calling him out for stuff fighting with him, not worshipping him, his high came off. Then he was cold. Wouldn’t text as much. Seemed disinterested. Finally told me I don’t love you anymore when I broke it off and then tried to fix it. He never abused me tho. Never was rude to me. Always the sweetest. Even when I’d cuss him out. Even when I’d break up with him he’d beg to come back. Except the last time I broke it off. By then the idealization had worn off. At first he told me it was because of me. Because I didn’t give him enough love. That fucked with me and kept thinking if I could have changed it. I told him about narcissism and that he wouldn’t have gotten enough no matter how much I gave him. He was defensive but later agreed. When we talked after a while he told me it was his fault. Said it’s crazy how he was crazy about me but now he doesn’t even love me. That he’s the problem and even if I gave him more love it wouldn’t have changed anything. The closure I needed. After that I stopped feeling so much guilt. He said I’m a fallen angel :’). My sweet little narc lol
I'm glad you said what you said in this video, because when I read the title, the first thing I said was "You can't. They don't love."
How can narcissists love ? They can’t love - they can only love bomb
You can only make the narcissist love bomb you via narcissistic mirroring
You see her like an object, a servant! But treat her like a treasure(a treasure is an object, with ULTRA value)!😉
I fell for the facsimile that he has passed off as his legitimate self for his entire life. “There was no love, it was fakery”
Thanks HG! Well done. Have stopped feeling jealous of the new victims. They will and are already experiencing the same toxic BS.
Keep bringing the truth ,hg🙌
Narcissist Don't Love.
They will Never be in Love with You!
Been treating my narcissist like shit and he been chasing my validation for 5 years already. Went completely grey rock
Wishing you a Very Merry Christmas HG, your videos are excellent and sharing your knowledge as a Narcissist yourself, is truly educational, inspirational and helping empaths understand the true nature of NPD.
You describe every guy I have ever known... lol.... I really know how to attract them... Im glad I like being with myself... Its easy for me to entertain myself.
The more people I meet, the more I like myself .. Maybe I have just developed such a strong sense of self,, self worth; and reliance on myself in all areas of my life.. Life is good...Its not logical for me to mess any area of my life just for a relationship.... I know I have some strong addictions high adrenaline, (don't do drugs, alcohol) live a pretty healthy balanced life; mine are stemmed from "within" and as with the pre-disposition for narcissism, those traits can and do come out when somebody crosses me the wrong way....
There are some good intended folks when they meet me will say that I am an earth Angel. I respond with a smile, shake my head and reply, "oh no I say, you don't realize; I may have earned my angel wings, but..dont be fooled I have one wing that the color is white and the other wing, the color is gray and when provoked... turns black...
I love these HG videos with titles like this, because you already know he’s going to be like, “SYKE!!! You can’t, suckaaaa 😂🤣🤣😂🤣”
I love my male narcissistic coworker for a whole different reason. I was raised by 2 narcissistic parents and had many narcissistic relatives. I was never really able to understand why I always was physically and mentally abused. My male narcissistic coworker came into my life Hoovering me And some mild love bombing He showed me depths of narcissism that I never knew was actually possible The 1st time I felt in seeing a blackness in his eyes. I felt I went to a black dimension or a black hole I wasn't scared when he stared into my eyes I was fascinated the second time he stared into my eyes I even went in deeper And it felt incredible. Most people are afraid of the narcissistic stare. I'm used to the narcissistic stare I had family members that gave me the narcissistic stare. I became obsessed with what he showed me. Thanks to him I found out I was raised by narcissistic parents by narcissistic parents and I have many narcissistic managers and coworkers long before I ever met him. I was never able to understand why I actually was so obsessed with him and I'm glad I was he brought clarity into my life and understanding I'm going to love my coworker for the rest of my life even though he does a lot of bad things He's a serial cheater.
This goes for the next supply right 😞
See mine came back to beg and want validation that I loved him yet during I was crying and so much trauma from him and myself I stayed .. I told him all the time .. it’s like he knew what he was doing watching me cry but play victim to his own pain he caused me .. now I’m left to pick it up.. he couldn’t breathe without me.. wanted this whole life and future and “knew what to do” then left me again accept this time the words of I don’t love u anymore come out and can’t feel it. I’m sure cause of supply .. and the wife across the country .. I’m guessing they can’t regulate what they want and emotions and always get tired when they feel your a threat I knew who he was and I’ve told him about NPD but then later on used it more on me then I did .. he started saying I was manipulating him and projecting he never knew those words .. it’s insane .. we tried therapy for him and myself to help me get over what he did to me but knew my past now .. and now I saw a full glismp of what he did to his wife and me and tried to deflect his past off of him onto me to make me think I’m crazy .. just cause I’ve been and seen one before DOESNT mean I don’t know what he was doing it’s off and scary
That blank look on her when being questioned, scrutinized right at the beginning told me it was a production.
Excellent video. Really great advice within and particularly the last 40 seconds.
For someone without empathy or love you sound very kind & understanding of our plight. How is this so?!
I want to write several things here. My ex husband is a psychopathic narcissist, - as you say you are. As a new subscriber and a person who lives in an extremely heightened sense of awareness I feel uneasy writing those thoughts to you - I figured just this revelation would be useful to your legacy as per your “Why am I doing this” video - although possibly not such a revelation at all. After 25 years of hell, from the few posts I have listened to by you, my immediate impression is you only give a small percentage of what is really happening. Which from my experience both lived and studied is very accurate. But just a sliver of the whole peice. Perhaps I must watch more or perhaps my basic instincts have been correct for the greater part of my life, thus nothing you say comes as a surprise and the more intricate workings are not something you cover. Regardless I thank you sir for your dedication and your channel. Eager to learn more to keep sharp
This might be important if love was just a feeling, a hormonal flood; but, it’s not regardless who you are. Love is a decision, a covenant, a contract, an agreement. Feelings come and go and are unreliable but agreement and respect are lasting. Doesn’t matter the personality type.
Ha ha ha! Thank you. I wish I’d had access to this type of information a few decades ago.
Yet another big pat on the back to you HG. Thank you 👍🏻😁
My in-laws are midrange narcissists. They are unbearable bullies who triangulate,gaslight, devalue and shower me with all the false trappings of their false selves. I realized that they will never love me because they can't.I have countered them as a secondary psychopath. In order to subdue them I had to bind the strongman. I now toy with other narcissists coworkers. I manipulate them with seduction tactics. Thank you Mr.Greene !!!( I would love to be your coquettish ingenue ,HG!!)
Exactly what I was hoping to hear.
I fucking love this video. Finally someone who can speak truth
Breaks my heart. I had really hoped she would have been a good woman. Oh well, next.
Can't make anyone else do a damn thing. Only have power over oneself
Well Dam Sir. Don't Hold Back.
Some cold hard truth every empath of hear.
One of the coaches I was listening too Self-love U is all over the news cause she was part of the Riots in Washington lmao 🤣 ....im like where have I seen this lady before?? Then I remembered lol
I came by tonight for a dose of realism... thank you HG... I heard exactly what I needed; wisdom.
Something i needed to hear thank you ❤
😂😂😂 it's funny now, that I know what is going on. This is very informative.
This is your best video. I really needed to hear all of these things from the mouth of a narcissist to help break my addiction and thanks for providing your insight to focus on logical thinking...in a balance with emotional thinking from now on.
i just can't imagine "making" an intimate partner do or be anything. my bpd partner would storm off and leave me at regular intervals, although i'd already stipulated that she could come and go exactly as she pleased with no need to explain herself. I tried to always give a fond farewell and welcoming arms whenever she decided to return, it wasn't difficult.
A narrsasist cares for them selves. Is that a form of love. They also fear death or injury , so is that a form of love. Even a person that does not fear, alledgidly has care for their lives. So is that a self love. ?
I hope one day God enlightens the narcissist
I wish I where a psychopath. Not caring about shit like this. Maybe being able to play games on that level too. Hurting her like she hurt me by throwing me away after all that future faking for the first gym bro she could find. I had to find out about him myself. She, who was carrying our contact and communication for 50 percent, instead told me that it was just me pushing too hardly. Me... I rejected her first, because even for someone with ADHD her advances where too fast at first. I came back because I thought I made a mistake. In the year she was focused on me, she was the only person outside of my family showing interest in me. I was there for her when she had a medical emergency. I said yes to a friendship, because I didn't know why she rejected me. Maybe because I was never seen as a primary source. Maybe the gym bro had a better status than me. I still invested, wanted her to feel appreciated as a friend. She reacted with the bare minimum or ignored me. But she criticed me for posting pictures and meeting friends like I wouldn't care about her rejecting me. While she was fucking the Gym Bro... Since I confronted her, told her that I know, the story about the motivation why she did what she did changed multible times. "I don't want to lose you." /// "Between him and me it was some unhealthy and strange dynamic. I couldn't tell you about it" /// But first, her affective answer right that moment: "And? Of course I met someone else. I do that often. I have nothing to be sorry for! I never said we where in a relationship! I do nothing out of calculation!" She was future faking, she enjoyed erotic and romantic text messages, after her first date with the gym bro she contacted me to tell me about it, told me it was a meeting with a buddy. Then she started to compliment me, to tell me how sexy my mind is, how perfect we are. Now I'm trapped in a friendship I can't leave. A friendship where she dumps her problems on me and says I should be glad for the trust she has in me. She tells me how much she wants to have dates, how many people are interested in her. When I compliment her and tell her how much she means to me as an entity in my life, she tells me: "Strange I can't get loving sentences like that from others." How a buddy of hers is always pushing her personal boundaries in a sexual way. She told me, she was r*ped three years ago. So of course my instinct go in alarm mode, when she says things like that. I get pushed aside and ignored every time she has a new facebook friend, her messages sound like they where written by some AI in that moments, if I even get some. She demands I shall talk about my life. But when I do, there is 50/50 chance she ignores it. When I make suggestions of talking on the phone or meeting somewhere, they are ignored. But she says I should continue to ask. I want this to end, but as someone with ADHD I'm full on dopamine whenever I hear her voice. I hate her for what she did, but she is all I want. The distance between as is pretty great, it's the other side of germany. So, no. She didn't need sex to get me. She never slept with me. I kissed her forehead and hold her hand. It was the best day in years for me. And for her? Visiting me? Meeting my family she claimed to be part of? A trick to trigger her stalking ex. Or maybe to make her Gym Bro jealous to motivate him.
I love a rich narcissist
He told me yesterday I spent my last money on you and took you out. He does when he’s around bc I stood my ground. He doesn’t give me all I need to be safe as I want in regards to social media. He moved in the same day we had s*x two months after meeting. I am accepting he won’t love now I am giving him what he wants to get what I want. I hope I am not becoming a narcissist. It isn’t hurting anymore. Or maybe I am getting ready to cut him off and I know he won’t be able to let go idk…. He can keep idolizing the other women. He ain’t touching me though unless he fixes my roof this weekend. This shit is stupid.
I know I can't make the narcissit love me...I fell in love with me so they are treated like they are loved..since my empathy is weaponized I know the narcissist can't love so we don't get attached.
The narcissist detects that we can't be taken for their so called love so it makes them want us more and more so they get attached...that's not really being in love they are attached so we know we are then being obsessed over not loved and that's when the narcissist turn into challenge fuel for the empath especially the super ones like me..yes sir..I said this before I finished the video..let's see how close I am to being right according to our Mentor Mr. Tudor..
Being attached is mere obsession.
Those that don't have a heart can't love... So wake up empaths and walk.
Love is a foreign concept to narcissists. Anything they give won’t be done out of love but with strings attached
It took a long time to accept this fact. It's almost impossible to get your mind around.
It does take a considerable time for some people but it is necessary to accept this is the case and to avoid those who feed misinformation.
I agree
We’re suppose to love someone more than ourselves . Love someone who’ll never love us more than themselves.
We are weird. Just add a little more balance
I have a farm that grounds me. I’ll never risk it for a narcissus.
You tell these truths as if your proud of you & your kind. We’re human beings just like you we’re not objects or fuckn robots.. all this fuel your getting from these comments, you should want to change you should look in deeper inside yourself & want to love & be loved & not loved for the false self. Empaths? We are falling in love w/ourselves & once we realize this (bc these mf’s can’t find their own identity so they mirror ours) self love we should allow it to better ourselves & be aware that these monsters are lurking around wanting our energy bc they lack that & so many other treasures we own. I fell in love w/a narcissist & this shit right here makes me wanna be a narc serial killer & I didnt have a wicked bone in body until I found about this sick shit! Being a super empath yeah I feel like some fleas, or sprinkles has hit me heavy fuckn w/these assholes. I know “your kind” don’t believe in karma but it knows your address & be smirking when it hits y’all asses..
That was probably the best advice for love in general....and its from a psychopath lol. Thank you HG you are saving lives!
Treat 'em like shit.... Tale as old as time........ hahahhahahaaa
That last comment I wrote to you on this particular audio is true
I don't want my ex narcissist husband to love me, thank you very much, I left him.
Hi HG, does the narcissist keep repeating
The cycle over n over their whole life?
Yes hence why you remove yourself from the cycle.
Absolutely 👈
HG is it possible for them ever be able to do a partnership? For example I'm going to curse my ex into oblivion with satanic black magick as revenge unless she ever wanted to stop the war and play on the same side . I know the answer is no but I wonder why not considering logic dictates if you cant beat em join and there is nothing that can stop me. I am a creature unlike any other and empath 😈
@@skyblaizepleiadianhighcoun9993 hi, did it work in the end or is it too early to say?
When me and he started out. I advised FWB or an open relationship bcuz I just had gotten divorced. But he love bombed me and said- no I want u to be my lady.. This scared me. Once we talked about love. I said- I don't believe. He Hugged me tight and said- I love u! Tell me u love me. I didn't.
But in time he brain washed me and I couldn't get him out my head. Knowing when he ghost me he was with others. But I didn't care. As long as I had him sometimes, I was OK. Then I kept pointing out his actions were sociopathic/narcissistic. He took it as a challenge and flipped it and called me psycho or weird. But after knowing what he did to his new supply to have sex with him. I am now. No contact
Another Great Insight HG
Right and true, thank you HG.
An Ultra BRAVO. ...
True just what I needed