7:06. "My father was especially upset and said that I was treating him like a child." If he'd rather spend at least the night in jail and be charged for burglary, I suppose that could work, too.
2nd story. Show your boyfriend how to make fricassée. Throw a bunch of ingredient in a pot, some broth, vegetables, let it slowly stew on the stove of 3-4 hours. Eat when ready. BAM! Easiest meal to make.
the op from the first story has the best sense of humor. He handled it in the best way possible, i also love how the cops thanked the op for the situation that he got them in.🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some people really don't like cooking. Maybe it would be a good idea to split the chores a different way? Like if she's the one cooking. He's responsible for cleaning up, washing dishes, and putting everything away.
I’m one of those people who hate cooking and is happy with boxed and frozen meals, a crockpot or air frier isn’t a bad idea but the woman in the story should trade off with him. Like she does all the cooking and he does all the cleaning in the house seems like a fair trade
But here's the other thing about that story is it sounds like she wants really frou frou dishes and they can never have the same thing twice. Why does it need to be some fancy dish why does she have a problem with the slow cooker meals. Like everyday for almost a year all I had was cooked chicken and I'd pick a different barbecue sauce every time for a different flavor and that boil vegetables or I'd steam them I'd eat that like everyday it's healthy it's easy only took me like half an hour. Just throw the chicken in on low let it start cooking chop the vegetables up throw them in another pot boil them all together put the lid on it focus on the meat turn it up flip it, if you're not sure if it's cooked on the inside cut it in half. It's easy. I also used to grab a cooking tray put hamburgers on it and I sometimes just make hamburgers in the oven flipping them halfway through. With that though you have to scrape the fats away from the burgers when you flip them cuz they taste gross if you don't. Like even the way I make food is quick and dirty but I still enjoy to taste nice little bit of olive oil salt pepper sometimes a little bit of onion powder garlic powder. Honestly people are good with boiled chicken if you can learn how to mix spice and use sauce.
If my parents had been like the ones in story #1, off to jail they'd go. OP has the serenity of a trappist monk to build them a golden bridge out of their predicament...
My mom is an attorney and around 10 years ago her client's crazy husband who was divorcing threatened to break into my mom's house for some reason, and he even told her the address to prove that he knows where she lives. My mom got public records removed from the internet and had 4 cameras installed.
First story is upsetting. I’m a mother and I always want my son to be better than me. I can’t believe his father is upset because he was doing better. That’s jealousy from his parents. Hope he can stay away from them.
First story: I think it's the 2nd or 3rd time you guys posting it and it's not the only one that keeps getting repeated. Otherwise, I really love this channel. It's one of the very few halal ones that I can watch👌🏾🌻
Most parents would want their kids to have a better life than they ever did but these jerks parents want to take away their better life out of jealousy
Or the fact that they might enjoy seeing others suffer including their own children. I say this because of how angry they were and also jealous that OP got a better house than them and they were so mad at the fact that they were hoping Opie was living in a dilapidated home that I just drove them nuts. I think it’s just more about the superiority complex and when entitled people don’t get what they want they demand the world because they didn’t get the satisfaction of seeing somebody Miserable
The boyfriend in the 2nd story kinda reminds me of myself. I have little to no passion for cooking or food to the point that I kind of struggle to understand how people can be so into it. Even when I had to do cooking lessons in high school I never "got it" cause it never felt like all the effort to make something wasn't worth it compared to easy out of the box stuff. I think I'm on the autism spectrum (not tested but a number of stuff line up to suggest it) so I wonder if there is some relation.
my story is polar opposite. i am 17 year old boy and i love cooking. i regularly make simple and complex dishes for me and my family. i can spend 2 to 3 hours in kitchen and not be bored of cooking. I feel Cooking is a kind of a art and not a science. its subjective, you may like some other art like drawing or singing ,etc. while I hate it. but everybody should learn and practice basics like sautéing , frying, cutting veggies, etc.
I don't see any problem with not wanting to cook though, if the finances aren't a problem, then when you want to eat something different, just eat out, and the problem is solved. Anything you can cook at home is available in delivery or in store dining. There's no reason that a person must cook. If all the restaurants are closed, the grocery store is probably closed as well, and you might as well just boil vegetables and eat them however disgusting they taste, because if all the restaurants are closed, it probably means the country is in a state of anarchy.
Just do the vegetable cutting/peeling while watching youtube or whatever you'd be rather doing, and don't cook meat dishes (the hygenic needs are not worth it for a single person, IMO). Something simple like a thickened-with-potato vegetable soup (e.g. parsley, celery, carrot, leek) is easy (dice the celery into quarter-inch cubes, roast on high heat with a dash of vegetable oil in a pan until lightly browned (don't burn it, this just serves to develop some flavors), cut the rest into thin (1/8 inch max thickness) strips shaped like french fries (quarter the carrots, halve the leek, before cutting into slices), then throw in a pot, don't forget salt, and after bringing it to a boil, turn the heat down to where it just barely remains boiling. Leave it for an hour; take the pot on a pot insulating plate, and grab a spoon. (The roasted celery goes into the pot at least around 15 minutes before you take it off the stove, but aside from that, just put it in whenever.)) There's also a nice way to just brown up some sliced sweet potato, with some leek or spring onion, and/or some normal onion, and optionally some tomato/bell-pepper. Just fry in a pan under medium-high heat (as hot as you can still control without burning anything), using enough oil. Don't forget the salt. You can crack an egg or two into that after it's done and stir that in to get some protein in there/round out the taste.
Simmilar thing here, I have several strange stories of my trying to cook tho, like I always try, then I forget something and it ends up being well, impossible to eat, like for example my ,,cakes'' that litelary made a hole in the table when we tried to crush them... Or the pre made fish... I managed to make it disappear, by that I mean I just put it in the oven, forgot about it, the heat resistant plate broke from the heat, and the aluminum foil that the fish was covered in melted into the fish, oh and I realized I forgot something when I smelled the potatoes burning btw, or another thing, when me and my friend tried to make a cake, the cake ended up being raw, my third try of helping with cakes was when my friends girlfriend who is also my friend tried to make a surprise cake for him... I'm not delusional and so I knew we would fail as she is the kind of person wich uses a pan to heat up the food that you're supposed to boil... And then eats the raw food just to show us its not raw but we can hear the crunching of the thing that should be soft haha, ok so I caled for my another friend, hoping she can carry us and make the cake posible to eat... Yea so long story short it was chaos and the chocolate cake ended up being a banana one as we run out of the cake mass in the middle of the process as the friend 1 was eating the raw cake mass, I was furiously hitting the eggs with a fork trying to give them correct density (I'm a male btw so they decided that beating 10 eggs with a fucking fork is a good workout for me... And then obviously the friend 2 said I was too slow woth it as Ania already ate half of the mass while waiting for the eggs to be ready xd) the best part was that the cake ended up being raw and half of the guests getting diabetes from it hahaha so yea needles to say some people shouldn't cook for safety reasons
I don’t think it has to do with autism (I am also autistic) but not everyone likes cooking. You don’t have to like cooking. Cooking is a necessary part of being an independent adult and enjoying it does make it easier but not everyone likes it.
That mocking shit in #3 is one of the most hurtful things my family does to me, and any time I explain that it doesn’t help and just makes me feel like shit they insist that’s it’s what I need somehow. Zero respect or tolerance for someone who does that to me as a partner, personally.
your family is bullying you. i know this is 8 months since the comment but if you are still in this situation you should stand your ground not let them treat you like this because it can negatively affect your mental health and degrade you as a person.
2nd story. Some people just hate cooking. I find cooking a stressful waste of time that makes the kitchen a mess and results in as much cleaning as it did cooking all for something disappointing that I don’t enjoy eating anyway. There are few things in life I hate more than cooking. I’m happy to pay for restaurants, takeaways, and cook basic things, but that’s it.
I feel like that’s OK but if it’s physically putting down another person then is it really worth it a lot of people get stressed out with work but they still have to do it like that’s just eating if you can do the bare minimum in a relationship to make your partner happy then really what are you doing in a relationship Like if it’s just you OK that’s fine but when another person is involved that’s when it becomes a problem you don’t have to like cooking to do it and plus it’s not like she’s not helping him she’s offering to help him but she just doesn’t wanna do it every single day
@@sati5130 Well, he could just propose dining out if she doesn't want to cook and pay for it. If she disagrees then she's probably just obsessed with eating home cooked foods, and he has a choice to make.
@@sati5130 If she needs him to be miserable cooking to make herself happy, the relationship won't work anyway. If she wants cooked meals everyday, and he dread cooking, either she compromises and eats reheated food from when he makes large meals twice a week, or they need an arrangement where she cooks and he does other chores on the house. There are multiple ways to split responsibilities on o a relationship other than everyone doing everything every other month
Story 2: It was never implied in the story OP was forced to cook. In fact, OP said that the boyfriend was perfectly fine eating microwave meals and ramen everyday. OP CHOSE to cook for him then pretends to be the victim.
Yeah, it seems like she just really wants her fancy complex meals, but is getting tired of cooking them herself. Her boyfriend doesn't like to cook, he's never going to be happy trying to make what she makes. She needs to quit trying to force it on him. As long as he's pulling his weight in the relationship, him not wanting to cook shouldn't be THAT big of an issue. Either she should settle for simpler/easier to make meals, or keep doing the cooking herself. It's not him that wants these big meals, it's her.
Nah if the bf doesn’t want to learn anything outside of what he knows, then that’s just what it is. She’s trying to force him to cook, he’s not a chef and if you don’t like what he makes then you need to cook. What if he wanted he to learn fix things? He has what he likes, she needs to learn to deal with it.
2nd story: why does him not wanting to cook make him a jerk. a bit of a hypothetical here lets say that instead of cooking it was driving, and that the boyfriend really didn't want to drive but the OP kept trying to get them to learn how to drive. it is a skill that is pretty important but people can manage without it and like why does he need to know how to cook complex stuff like people can survive off of rice and people have so disagree with you on that one. P.S. you have already done a video with the first story.
Yeah, he made it clear from the start he doesn't like to cook. Maybe he should hassle her constantly about doing something she hates doing and said so right from the start?
I agree why is it always fancy dishes. I started buying those single butter chicken packets you cut up the chicken breast do you cook it you pour the sauce on top you continue to cook it on low temperature and then you just make rice. FaNcY
Some people are not for the kitchen.I like to cook, but my mom hates it. My dad and brother love cooking though. It's clear that this OP cares about food by the way she belittles the "easy to go" recipes her boyfriend CAN cook, but honestly? Never force your partner to do something they hate, just because YOU don't hate it and think you should both do it. This way you won't get him to change, you'll get resentment and a break up. I'm really happy that AITJ didn't rip into the boyfriend this time though. Because yeah. He's fine with easy to make and quick stuff. If she isn't then that is HER problem.
She could ask to eat out during nights she doesn't want to cook, and if she doesn't its probably something she is too concerned about, maybe her profession is a chef or something.
Can confirm, slow cooker recipes are easy, are not unhealthy (unless you want them to be), and a good way to figure out cooking. If he doesn't have the patience to bake chicken and put cheese on it though... i don't know how he has had the patience to do anything but especially maintain a relationship for multiple years.
Number three. Be alone for the right reasons is better than being with somebody for the wrong reasons. You are a capable competent person and can survive on your own without him. You should not have to walk on eggshells around your boyfriend, fiance. I wish you only the best and I wish him the best as well I pray that you both find the right people that will love up on you and that you will love up on as well
Story 2 i'd say OP is a bit of a jerk, Not everyone is going to like cooking and you can't really force them. I have a few friends who are cooks/chefs and they cook for a living but still go home and cook if their partner is bad at cooking. If they don't wanna cook, they order in then or make something simple. If someone doesn't like cooking, they aren't gonna try and the food won't be that good meaning sometimes people will just have to make something else anyway cause they will complain its not good enough. In all honestly OP and her boyfriend should just find something else he can do around the house while she cooks. Make him have to do dishes so she doesn't have to cook AND clean it then.
Story 2: HE HATES TO COOK. This wasn't anything new, she thought she was going to change him. I'v been with my wife for 24 yrs, i got 3 meals I make. In the summer it's all ME everything's on the grill or smoker.
For the second story I am a female but if I was with somebody made that big of a stink about an issue like cooking I break up with them. Imagine all the other stinky scenarios she’ll come up with as the years go by if they get married
1. totally fair 2. hm i hate cooking. so if my girlfriend demand that at that degree, we wont fit together 3. finances, arguments, his behaviour ect? break up asap! secure your money why is that even a question 4.yeah, she should ignore her. thats what they hating most
Oh god, the cooking one I could relate to as a guy. The only things I can make is a slow cooker roast beef with vegetables, oven baked fish, microwave burritos, oven baked burgers, oven baked fries, pancakes, eggs in a waffle maker(bacon egg and cheese waffle) cheese cake, cake, cookies. I legit can only make 1-2 healthy meals
I would be HAPPY to be able to cook for my family, and let my wife relax. Being not in a relationship as of now, I am picking up on cooking, so my future spouse can relax, and have a (hopefully) a great dinner
Story 2: I think the OP is being petty with the boyfriend, she has said that the boyfriend despises cooking (and going grocery shopping) and that you tried to make him enter in the cooking world various times, but he still despises cooking but at least he knows the basic, like making rice or chicken, but you are upset at him because he is not a complex cook. OP is being upset at him because doesn't like to cook complicated foods. Imagine this hypothetical scenario: the OP's boyfriend likes doing exercises to lost weigh, but the OP despises doing those exercises, and the boyfriend is trying to make the OP enter the world of exercise multiple times, but the OP still despises exercises but at least she does the basic ones to loose weight, but the boyfriend is upset at the OP because she is not an complex exerciser. Does the hypothetical scenario seem logical to you (probably not) well, that scenario is the same situation that is happening between OP and his boyfriend who despises cooking.
If you feel that your relationship is a competition, break up , get help , work on healthy choices for yourself then maybe try again a few years later because your parents fd you up... About 18 months ago I came to a conclusion that my behavior and my wife's was both hurting our relationship. I came up with a solution... We respect each other, we are a team , I won't take out anger on her or blame her when I'm mad , I'd try to keep a positive attitude and the most important was to always say " goodbye and I love you " no matter what. The stress of someone walking out without a word really eats away at you. We've had zero problems since this started, we are closer than ever , we enjoy each other instead of bickering and complaining. We take turns doing chores without even having to say a word . We treat each other nicely and with respect. It's been great and I realize I was 90% of the original problem but I had to be a man and make a fix and tell it as it is and follow through.
Being stressed about having lost a loved one is understandable but that's not an excuse to go around being an a******. The boyfriend doing the mocking voice impersonation thing with his girlfriend he absolutely needs to be called out on that behavior. Because some people they don't realize what they're doing unless they're told or called out. If my significant other was doing that mocking impersonation of my voice thing I would absolutely snap back with something. Show them how it feels give them a taste of their own medicine.
It's a slow cooker, not an electrical power grid synchroscope. How difficult can it get? In fact, i loved cooking. Since i'm 8. I have been preparing Cantonese Cuisine for my family.
I would assume the op did a hard work in making hia house better than his parents house. the parents who evicted him out of their home through legal paper work and they were jealous so they asked to trade places and when the op refused, they break in and steal his belongings as retribution. I AM IRRITATED WITH THE ENTITLED PARENTS WHO DID IT. YOU WANT A GOOD LOOKING HOME THEN WORK FOR IT My opinion only.
First story: is OP sure that man us his dad?!!!. It's the first time I hear a person saying that it's not fair for his Children to be better than him!!!. It's every father's dream horse his children to be better than him.
Seconds story: if the boyfriend hates cooking that much, maybe they should split the chores differently. If the standard division of labour doesn’t work for you, do what does. Maybe OP cooks and boyfriend does dishes or vacuums. I am a little concerned about him throwing literal tantrums over cooking (bit of a red flag to me). Story three: leave him. He is mocking and belittling OP and I can tell by the way she is talking that she has some codependency issues. The boyfriend seems very manipulative but OP can’t see is. She can tell there’s a problem but I don’t think she realizes how serious this could become.
So I would suggest a combination of both So she could sit him for a period of time where he should learn to cook with her help, of course And if he doesn't manage to tell him okay, you don't want to, then unfortunately we can't be together anymore either
Some people are really not for cooking.But if this is the hill she wants to die on, she doesn't deserve any relationship anyway. He should get out of there.
@@CidVeldoril same like why doesn't she listen to him. He told her from the beginning he disliked cooking but instead of listening she wants him to do what she wants. It's not like he doesn't make her simple pastas, rice and chicken. To me it's her was period.
@@izabellemarie7944 Also, being a hobby cook myself, I can confidently say that if you hate cooking, the result will be bad. Learning how to cook will do nothing if he hates it. OP is just entitled.
@@CidVeldoril what makes you think I hate cooking. Cooking has always been a passion of mine. I was agreeing with you on your take of the story. Dont know where you think I talked about myself. However I digress. If OP is hell bent on the bf to cook and he don't want to then she needs to be with someone who will cater to her wants and her needs.
2nd story. Dude I learn about making Home Made Pizza, Cake, Sandwitches, Rice, and easy to make foods, heck you can make a fruit salad with just some selected fruits
I’m pretty sure the original per poster from the first story could probably get a lot more out of it and they just made his parents pay for literally everything like say that I am you have to give me $10,000 write an apology
That first story is insane. Like..I'm sorry, as a parent your kid owes you nothing other than maybe a thank you (at most if you raised them right). Once they turn 18..let them take what belongs to them (basically things they bought themselves..and maybe their bed and clothes that you provided) and let them live their own life. That whole "I brought you into this world. You owe me!!" Mentality is so narcissistically toxic and just plain wrong. No one owes anyone anything unless it's debt.or a signed contract.plain and simple
".....I don't like to cook....." You like to EAT, don't you? It's everyone else's responsibility?! "...... I am above said menial tasks, but, others are not!"
10:45 oh my God I don’t know if it’s just me, but I personally would not care if someone else didn’t want to cook, but if they agreed to do the dishes, I would be 100% on board like God damn I hate doing them sure I clean my own plate once I eat but all the pots I need to clean even if it’s just one I’m so full by the end of the meal that I just want to take a nice nap😅
Parents should not ask for support from their children for raising them up since they also owe their mother and father (their kid's grandparents) who raised them up too. Raising kids is not an obligation but a responsibility.
1st Boyfriend story: this isn't about LIKING to cook. Some people enjoy cooking, yes, but for just as many people, cooking is just another chore. No one LIKES doing dishes, no one LIKES cleaning toilets or mopping, but they're necessary for proper hygiene and a healthy life, just like cooking. The "easy" box food is full of processed crap that really isn't good for your health, that's why fresh food is important. And it's really unfair of him to put all of the grocery shopping and cooking on her. If I was her, I'd make at least two other chores his full responsibility if he really refused to do it, and they'd have to be just as labor intensive as grocery shopping for a week's worth of food for two people and cooking proper meals. Like, sweeping and mopping and cleaning the bathroom. Fine, you don't want to help with cooking or grocery shopping? Cool, these other chores are your sole responsibility now. And if he wanted to get upset, I'd just tell him that this is the only way to make it fair. And if you don't like it, there's the door, I ain't your Mommy. 2nd boyfriend story: Dump. His. Ass. Grief is no excuse to treat your significant other like trash, don't let that stop you from doing what's best for YOU.
I give my sister the silent treatment all of the time because she has been a spoiled brat ever since we were kids. I refuse to do much with her but am always here for her 3 adult kids. She always bullied me growing up and treated me like her live-in babysitter(who she seldom paid).
Story one better man then me i would have pressed charges even after the apology to really drill the point home so good job to him and I know I'm a bit cold and i may and up regretting it later
Sorry 2: I've found that if you don't grow up in a household where cooking is a regular occurrence or something you participated in, picking up the skill later in life is torture.
I remember when one of my friends gave me the silent treatment and wouldn't tell me why when I asked them. Then everyone else in my friend group gave me the silent treatment when I had no idea what I did wrong since I don't talk much. Then there was a week when they liked me again and talked to me then the next few months, they did it again. I stopped asking them and stopped talking to them for a few months and now we are friends again. I'm still scared they're going to do it again though and now I don't feel like I can trust any of my friends. Just felt like sharing because i can relate to the last one and the best way to deal with it is definitely not to react. Just give them a taste of their own medicine lol. Btw sorry if this doesn't make much sense lol.
Parents: "Were evicting you."
Their child: *Gets a three bedroom house*
Parents: "This isn't how you're suppose to play the game!"
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Lmaooo
@@reconstructwhat gg
Didn’t expect someone I’m subscribed to to also watch something I’m subscribed to
Their child: Game over!
The first story is absolutely crazy, I mean who thinks you can take from someone with out consequences. Its a great thing when karma comes in clutch.
Yes😊
the first time i heard if cops having fun on duty tbh
Those cops had the time of their life lol
Did he give the cops soda too I just have to know
7:06. "My father was especially upset and said that I was treating him like a child."
If he'd rather spend at least the night in jail and be charged for burglary, I suppose that could work, too.
this satisfaction I get when people get what they deserve.... this feeling is unbelievable
2nd story. Show your boyfriend how to make fricassée. Throw a bunch of ingredient in a pot, some broth, vegetables, let it slowly stew on the stove of 3-4 hours. Eat when ready. BAM! Easiest meal to make.
in the 1st story id also be worried about the father making another key when he went to get new locks.
Lmao the parents got a taste of their own medicine. The OP was probably distraught but he was definitely trying hard not to smile during this.
the op from the first story has the best sense of humor. He handled it in the best way possible, i also love how the cops thanked the op for the situation that he got them in.🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some people really don't like cooking. Maybe it would be a good idea to split the chores a different way? Like if she's the one cooking. He's responsible for cleaning up, washing dishes, and putting everything away.
When he said I thought that was the end of it. Me no you didn’t no you didn’t
I am so guilty of story number 2!! I don't do cooking unless it is THAT simple which if I need a timer I would have a timer on hand
You can watch TH-cam video of cooking
@@dragonsanime1503 Yep
I’m one of those people who hate cooking and is happy with boxed and frozen meals, a crockpot or air frier isn’t a bad idea but the woman in the story should trade off with him. Like she does all the cooking and he does all the cleaning in the house seems like a fair trade
But here's the other thing about that story is it sounds like she wants really frou frou dishes and they can never have the same thing twice. Why does it need to be some fancy dish why does she have a problem with the slow cooker meals. Like everyday for almost a year all I had was cooked chicken and I'd pick a different barbecue sauce every time for a different flavor and that boil vegetables or I'd steam them I'd eat that like everyday it's healthy it's easy only took me like half an hour. Just throw the chicken in on low let it start cooking chop the vegetables up throw them in another pot boil them all together put the lid on it focus on the meat turn it up flip it, if you're not sure if it's cooked on the inside cut it in half. It's easy.
I also used to grab a cooking tray put hamburgers on it and I sometimes just make hamburgers in the oven flipping them halfway through. With that though you have to scrape the fats away from the burgers when you flip them cuz they taste gross if you don't.
Like even the way I make food is quick and dirty but I still enjoy to taste nice little bit of olive oil salt pepper sometimes a little bit of onion powder garlic powder.
Honestly people are good with boiled chicken if you can learn how to mix spice and use sauce.
I have been learning to cook more recently.
If they needed those AC units so bad they could have bought their own now
If my parents had been like the ones in story #1, off to jail they'd go. OP has the serenity of a trappist monk to build them a golden bridge out of their predicament...
I hope this channel gets to 10 million subscribers
No 200 million
@@drakofox1362 yeah lol 😅
No 7.5 billion
@@Nikash123- man I wish they would lol
I love how the friend in the first story fell over laughing😂 it’s how I would react too
My mom is an attorney and around 10 years ago her client's crazy husband who was divorcing threatened to break into my mom's house for some reason, and he even told her the address to prove that he knows where she lives. My mom got public records removed from the internet and had 4 cameras installed.
First story is upsetting. I’m a mother and I always want my son to be better than me. I can’t believe his father is upset because he was doing better. That’s jealousy from his parents. Hope he can stay away from them.
1:23
"It was s cheap that i couldn't turn it down"
Babadook waiting in the attic: >:)
The cops in the first story sounded pretty chill
First story: I think it's the 2nd or 3rd time you guys posting it and it's not the only one that keeps getting repeated.
Otherwise, I really love this channel. It's one of the very few halal ones that I can watch👌🏾🌻
One offer story got posted twice
Most parents would want their kids to have a better life than they ever did but these jerks parents want to take away their better life out of jealousy
Or the fact that they might enjoy seeing others suffer including their own children. I say this because of how angry they were and also jealous that OP got a better house than them and they were so mad at the fact that they were hoping Opie was living in a dilapidated home that I just drove them nuts. I think it’s just more about the superiority complex and when entitled people don’t get what they want they demand the world because they didn’t get the satisfaction of seeing somebody Miserable
For the first one, I probably would have pressed charges anyway.
The boyfriend in the 2nd story kinda reminds me of myself. I have little to no passion for cooking or food to the point that I kind of struggle to understand how people can be so into it. Even when I had to do cooking lessons in high school I never "got it" cause it never felt like all the effort to make something wasn't worth it compared to easy out of the box stuff. I think I'm on the autism spectrum (not tested but a number of stuff line up to suggest it) so I wonder if there is some relation.
my story is polar opposite. i am 17 year old boy and i love cooking. i regularly make simple and complex dishes for me and my family. i can spend 2 to 3 hours in kitchen and not be bored of cooking. I feel Cooking is a kind of a art and not a science. its subjective, you may like some other art like drawing or singing ,etc. while I hate it. but everybody should learn and practice basics like sautéing , frying, cutting veggies, etc.
I don't see any problem with not wanting to cook though, if the finances aren't a problem, then when you want to eat something different, just eat out, and the problem is solved. Anything you can cook at home is available in delivery or in store dining. There's no reason that a person must cook. If all the restaurants are closed, the grocery store is probably closed as well, and you might as well just boil vegetables and eat them however disgusting they taste, because if all the restaurants are closed, it probably means the country is in a state of anarchy.
Just do the vegetable cutting/peeling while watching youtube or whatever you'd be rather doing, and don't cook meat dishes (the hygenic needs are not worth it for a single person, IMO).
Something simple like a thickened-with-potato vegetable soup (e.g. parsley, celery, carrot, leek) is easy (dice the celery into quarter-inch cubes, roast on high heat with a dash of vegetable oil in a pan until lightly browned (don't burn it, this just serves to develop some flavors), cut the rest into thin (1/8 inch max thickness) strips shaped like french fries (quarter the carrots, halve the leek, before cutting into slices), then throw in a pot, don't forget salt, and after bringing it to a boil, turn the heat down to where it just barely remains boiling. Leave it for an hour; take the pot on a pot insulating plate, and grab a spoon.
(The roasted celery goes into the pot at least around 15 minutes before you take it off the stove, but aside from that, just put it in whenever.))
There's also a nice way to just brown up some sliced sweet potato, with some leek or spring onion, and/or some normal onion, and optionally some tomato/bell-pepper. Just fry in a pan under medium-high heat (as hot as you can still control without burning anything), using enough oil. Don't forget the salt. You can crack an egg or two into that after it's done and stir that in to get some protein in there/round out the taste.
Simmilar thing here, I have several strange stories of my trying to cook tho, like I always try, then I forget something and it ends up being well, impossible to eat, like for example my ,,cakes'' that litelary made a hole in the table when we tried to crush them... Or the pre made fish... I managed to make it disappear, by that I mean I just put it in the oven, forgot about it, the heat resistant plate broke from the heat, and the aluminum foil that the fish was covered in melted into the fish, oh and I realized I forgot something when I smelled the potatoes burning btw, or another thing, when me and my friend tried to make a cake, the cake ended up being raw, my third try of helping with cakes was when my friends girlfriend who is also my friend tried to make a surprise cake for him... I'm not delusional and so I knew we would fail as she is the kind of person wich uses a pan to heat up the food that you're supposed to boil... And then eats the raw food just to show us its not raw but we can hear the crunching of the thing that should be soft haha, ok so I caled for my another friend, hoping she can carry us and make the cake posible to eat... Yea so long story short it was chaos and the chocolate cake ended up being a banana one as we run out of the cake mass in the middle of the process as the friend 1 was eating the raw cake mass, I was furiously hitting the eggs with a fork trying to give them correct density (I'm a male btw so they decided that beating 10 eggs with a fucking fork is a good workout for me... And then obviously the friend 2 said I was too slow woth it as Ania already ate half of the mass while waiting for the eggs to be ready xd) the best part was that the cake ended up being raw and half of the guests getting diabetes from it hahaha so yea needles to say some people shouldn't cook for safety reasons
I don’t think it has to do with autism (I am also autistic) but not everyone likes cooking. You don’t have to like cooking. Cooking is a necessary part of being an independent adult and enjoying it does make it easier but not everyone likes it.
That mocking shit in #3 is one of the most hurtful things my family does to me, and any time I explain that it doesn’t help and just makes me feel like shit they insist that’s it’s what I need somehow. Zero respect or tolerance for someone who does that to me as a partner, personally.
your family is bullying you. i know this is 8 months since the comment but if you are still in this situation you should stand your ground not let them treat you like this because it can negatively affect your mental health and degrade you as a person.
lol damn she wants that dude to be a 5 star gourmet chef 😂😂 most men can survive off of hot pockets and cereal
Your parents should be proud if you. Instead if so jealous
I can already tell this is gonna be good
For the 1st story every time OP mentioned anything following with Arizona I chuckled bc I also know what op talking about
That first story was good especially the drinking and smoking comment
2nd story. Some people just hate cooking. I find cooking a stressful waste of time that makes the kitchen a mess and results in as much cleaning as it did cooking all for something disappointing that I don’t enjoy eating anyway. There are few things in life I hate more than cooking. I’m happy to pay for restaurants, takeaways, and cook basic things, but that’s it.
I feel like that’s OK but if it’s physically putting down another person then is it really worth it a lot of people get stressed out with work but they still have to do it like that’s just eating if you can do the bare minimum in a relationship to make your partner happy then really what are you doing in a relationship Like if it’s just you OK that’s fine but when another person is involved that’s when it becomes a problem you don’t have to like cooking to do it and plus it’s not like she’s not helping him she’s offering to help him but she just doesn’t wanna do it every single day
@@sati5130 Well, he could just propose dining out if she doesn't want to cook and pay for it. If she disagrees then she's probably just obsessed with eating home cooked foods, and he has a choice to make.
Or they could split the chores in another way. She can cook and he can do dishes or laundry or vacuum. Do what works for you and your partner.
@@sati5130 If she needs him to be miserable cooking to make herself happy, the relationship won't work anyway.
If she wants cooked meals everyday, and he dread cooking, either she compromises and eats reheated food from when he makes large meals twice a week, or they need an arrangement where she cooks and he does other chores on the house. There are multiple ways to split responsibilities on o a relationship other than everyone doing everything every other month
I'm willing to bet the cops in the first story were enjoying this.
Story 2: It was never implied in the story OP was forced to cook. In fact, OP said that the boyfriend was perfectly fine eating microwave meals and ramen everyday. OP CHOSE to cook for him then pretends to be the victim.
Yeah, it seems like she just really wants her fancy complex meals, but is getting tired of cooking them herself. Her boyfriend doesn't like to cook, he's never going to be happy trying to make what she makes. She needs to quit trying to force it on him. As long as he's pulling his weight in the relationship, him not wanting to cook shouldn't be THAT big of an issue. Either she should settle for simpler/easier to make meals, or keep doing the cooking herself. It's not him that wants these big meals, it's her.
Nah if the bf doesn’t want to learn anything outside of what he knows, then that’s just what it is.
She’s trying to force him to cook, he’s not a chef and if you don’t like what he makes then you need to cook.
What if he wanted he to learn fix things?
He has what he likes, she needs to learn to deal with it.
2nd story: why does him not wanting to cook make him a jerk. a bit of a hypothetical here lets say that instead of cooking it was driving, and that the boyfriend really didn't want to drive but the OP kept trying to get them to learn how to drive. it is a skill that is pretty important but people can manage without it and like why does he need to know how to cook complex stuff like people can survive off of rice and people have so disagree with you on that one.
P.S. you have already done a video with the first story.
Yeah, he made it clear from the start he doesn't like to cook. Maybe he should hassle her constantly about doing something she hates doing and said so right from the start?
That's what I was thinking
I agree why is it always fancy dishes. I started buying those single butter chicken packets you cut up the chicken breast do you cook it you pour the sauce on top you continue to cook it on low temperature and then you just make rice. FaNcY
not everyone likes cooking meals for themselves.
Not wanting to drive isn't a problem, public transport exists, busses and trains exist, they can do the transport for you.
Some people are not for the kitchen.I like to cook, but my mom hates it. My dad and brother love cooking though. It's clear that this OP cares about food by the way she belittles the "easy to go" recipes her boyfriend CAN cook, but honestly? Never force your partner to do something they hate, just because YOU don't hate it and think you should both do it. This way you won't get him to change, you'll get resentment and a break up.
I'm really happy that AITJ didn't rip into the boyfriend this time though. Because yeah. He's fine with easy to make and quick stuff. If she isn't then that is HER problem.
She could ask to eat out during nights she doesn't want to cook, and if she doesn't its probably something she is too concerned about, maybe her profession is a chef or something.
Love all these videos
Can confirm, slow cooker recipes are easy, are not unhealthy (unless you want them to be), and a good way to figure out cooking.
If he doesn't have the patience to bake chicken and put cheese on it though... i don't know how he has had the patience to do anything but especially maintain a relationship for multiple years.
Number three. Be alone for the right reasons is better than being with somebody for the wrong reasons. You are a capable competent person and can survive on your own without him. You should not have to walk on eggshells around your boyfriend, fiance. I wish you only the best and I wish him the best as well I pray that you both find the right people that will love up on you and that you will love up on as well
Story 2 i'd say OP is a bit of a jerk, Not everyone is going to like cooking and you can't really force them. I have a few friends who are cooks/chefs and they cook for a living but still go home and cook if their partner is bad at cooking. If they don't wanna cook, they order in then or make something simple. If someone doesn't like cooking, they aren't gonna try and the food won't be that good meaning sometimes people will just have to make something else anyway cause they will complain its not good enough. In all honestly OP and her boyfriend should just find something else he can do around the house while she cooks. Make him have to do dishes so she doesn't have to cook AND clean it then.
If having a boyfriend who loves cooking as much as her is important to her, she needs to hold herself accountable for making the wrong choice.
Cooking nightly is so mentally and physically exhausting?! 🤣 OMG What drama!
Story 2: HE HATES TO COOK. This wasn't anything new, she thought she was going to change him. I'v been with my wife for 24 yrs, i got 3 meals I make. In the summer it's all ME everything's on the grill or smoker.
1st story: not the jerk
2nd story: confused on who the jerk is
3rd story: also confused
I got so happy when he got the boat lmao
What I think Cooking is An essential skill and really fun awsell
For the second story I am a female but if I was with somebody made that big of a stink about an issue like cooking I break up with them. Imagine all the other stinky scenarios she’ll come up with as the years go by if they get married
Bro from the 2nd story is a badass
1. totally fair
2. hm i hate cooking. so if my girlfriend demand that at that degree, we wont fit together
3. finances, arguments, his behaviour ect? break up asap! secure your money why is that even a question
4.yeah, she should ignore her. thats what they hating most
#2 - he can stay on dishes duty since he refuses to help with the food
Parents: Get out
When he actually does
Parents: HOW RUDE!
Oh god, the cooking one I could relate to as a guy. The only things I can make is a slow cooker roast beef with vegetables, oven baked fish, microwave burritos, oven baked burgers, oven baked fries, pancakes, eggs in a waffle maker(bacon egg and cheese waffle) cheese cake, cake, cookies. I legit can only make 1-2 healthy meals
9:21 its funny beacause i could cook since 10 and now i cook and watch youtube at the same time and the meals come out perfect
I would be HAPPY to be able to cook for my family, and let my wife relax. Being not in a relationship as of now, I am picking up on cooking, so my future spouse can relax, and have a (hopefully) a great dinner
These stories make me angry until the entitled person gets what they deserve
Number three too many signs that you need to walk away. Just because you love somebody doesn't mean it's going to work out.
"Wow, nice house! Can I have it?"
Story 2: I think the OP is being petty with the boyfriend, she has said that the boyfriend despises cooking (and going grocery shopping) and that you tried to make him enter in the cooking world various times, but he still despises cooking but at least he knows the basic, like making rice or chicken, but you are upset at him because he is not a complex cook. OP is being upset at him because doesn't like to cook complicated foods.
Imagine this hypothetical scenario: the OP's boyfriend likes doing exercises to lost weigh, but the OP despises doing those exercises, and the boyfriend is trying to make the OP enter the world of exercise multiple times, but the OP still despises exercises but at least she does the basic ones to loose weight, but the boyfriend is upset at the OP because she is not an complex exerciser.
Does the hypothetical scenario seem logical to you (probably not) well, that scenario is the same situation that is happening between OP and his boyfriend who despises cooking.
If you feel that your relationship is a competition, break up , get help , work on healthy choices for yourself then maybe try again a few years later because your parents fd you up...
About 18 months ago I came to a conclusion that my behavior and my wife's was both hurting our relationship.
I came up with a solution...
We respect each other, we are a team , I won't take out anger on her or blame her when I'm mad , I'd try to keep a positive attitude and the most important was to always say " goodbye and I love you " no matter what.
The stress of someone walking out without a word really eats away at you.
We've had zero problems since this started, we are closer than ever , we enjoy each other instead of bickering and complaining.
We take turns doing chores without even having to say a word . We treat each other nicely and with respect.
It's been great and I realize I was 90% of the original problem but I had to be a man and make a fix and tell it as it is and follow through.
Being stressed about having lost a loved one is understandable but that's not an excuse to go around being an a******. The boyfriend doing the mocking voice impersonation thing with his girlfriend he absolutely needs to be called out on that behavior. Because some people they don't realize what they're doing unless they're told or called out. If my significant other was doing that mocking impersonation of my voice thing I would absolutely snap back with something. Show them how it feels give them a taste of their own medicine.
It's a slow cooker, not an electrical power grid synchroscope.
How difficult can it get?
In fact, i loved cooking. Since i'm 8. I have been preparing Cantonese Cuisine for my family.
I would assume the op did a hard work in making hia house better than his parents house. the parents who evicted him out of their home through legal paper work and they were jealous so they asked to trade places and when the op refused, they break in and steal his belongings as retribution.
I AM IRRITATED WITH THE ENTITLED PARENTS WHO DID IT. YOU WANT A GOOD LOOKING HOME THEN WORK FOR IT
My opinion only.
As soon as you destroy anything I'm having you locked up
They didn’t have enough money to buy a new AC unit; they just stole it from someone else.
Sue them into Oblivion! Sue them for so much that their descendants in the 30th Century will still be paying!
To me whole Western society is crazy.
First story: is OP sure that man us his dad?!!!.
It's the first time I hear a person saying that it's not fair for his Children to be better than him!!!.
It's every father's dream horse his children to be better than him.
Seconds story: if the boyfriend hates cooking that much, maybe they should split the chores differently. If the standard division of labour doesn’t work for you, do what does. Maybe OP cooks and boyfriend does dishes or vacuums. I am a little concerned about him throwing literal tantrums over cooking (bit of a red flag to me).
Story three: leave him. He is mocking and belittling OP and I can tell by the way she is talking that she has some codependency issues. The boyfriend seems very manipulative but OP can’t see is. She can tell there’s a problem but I don’t think she realizes how serious this could become.
First story: castle defense laws go brrrrrrr
here is a qucik life lesson, grief of loseing a loved one dosent go away, it just gets easier to mannage
For the second story… if yo can get him a grill, it’s easy, fast and the food is good too
So I would suggest a combination of both So she could sit him for a period of time where he should learn to cook with her help, of course And if he doesn't manage to tell him okay, you don't want to, then unfortunately we can't be together anymore either
Some people are really not for cooking.But if this is the hill she wants to die on, she doesn't deserve any relationship anyway. He should get out of there.
@@CidVeldoril same like why doesn't she listen to him. He told her from the beginning he disliked cooking but instead of listening she wants him to do what she wants. It's not like he doesn't make her simple pastas, rice and chicken. To me it's her was period.
@@izabellemarie7944 Also, being a hobby cook myself, I can confidently say that if you hate cooking, the result will be bad. Learning how to cook will do nothing if he hates it. OP is just entitled.
@@CidVeldoril what makes you think I hate cooking. Cooking has always been a passion of mine. I was agreeing with you on your take of the story. Dont know where you think I talked about myself. However I digress. If OP is hell bent on the bf to cook and he don't want to then she needs to be with someone who will cater to her wants and her needs.
Story 3: I was waiting for the climax "WHAT SHOULD I DOOOO?"
Yes
Yes
For the second story, just decide that each person should cook for themselves.
Story #3 The mocking 💩, is a deal breaker ,
Yeah it's a wrap I'm OUT‼️
2nd story. Dude I learn about making Home Made Pizza, Cake, Sandwitches, Rice, and easy to make foods, heck you can make a fruit salad with just some selected fruits
I’m pretty sure the original per poster from the first story could probably get a lot more out of it and they just made his parents pay for literally everything like say that I am you have to give me $10,000 write an apology
We need to know the game of all the videos lol most of them seem fun
Nice
That first story is insane. Like..I'm sorry, as a parent your kid owes you nothing other than maybe a thank you (at most if you raised them right). Once they turn 18..let them take what belongs to them (basically things they bought themselves..and maybe their bed and clothes that you provided) and let them live their own life. That whole "I brought you into this world. You owe me!!" Mentality is so narcissistically toxic and just plain wrong. No one owes anyone anything unless it's debt.or a signed contract.plain and simple
".....I don't like to cook....." You like to EAT, don't you? It's everyone else's responsibility?! "...... I am above said menial tasks, but, others are not!"
Spending 30min up to hours of cooking just to eat in within a few minutes is not worth it.. and neither is the additional costs of foods needed
@@v.crowley Don't you get hungry?
10:45 oh my God I don’t know if it’s just me, but I personally would not care if someone else didn’t want to cook, but if they agreed to do the dishes, I would be 100% on board like God damn I hate doing them sure I clean my own plate once I eat but all the pots I need to clean even if it’s just one I’m so full by the end of the meal that I just want to take a nice nap😅
Parents should not ask for support from their children for raising them up since they also owe their mother and father (their kid's grandparents) who raised them up too. Raising kids is not an obligation but a responsibility.
Story 3: My dad is exactly like the boyfriend.
Story one HEYYY I LIVE IN ARIZONA TOO
1st Boyfriend story: this isn't about LIKING to cook. Some people enjoy cooking, yes, but for just as many people, cooking is just another chore. No one LIKES doing dishes, no one LIKES cleaning toilets or mopping, but they're necessary for proper hygiene and a healthy life, just like cooking. The "easy" box food is full of processed crap that really isn't good for your health, that's why fresh food is important. And it's really unfair of him to put all of the grocery shopping and cooking on her. If I was her, I'd make at least two other chores his full responsibility if he really refused to do it, and they'd have to be just as labor intensive as grocery shopping for a week's worth of food for two people and cooking proper meals. Like, sweeping and mopping and cleaning the bathroom. Fine, you don't want to help with cooking or grocery shopping? Cool, these other chores are your sole responsibility now. And if he wanted to get upset, I'd just tell him that this is the only way to make it fair. And if you don't like it, there's the door, I ain't your Mommy.
2nd boyfriend story: Dump. His. Ass. Grief is no excuse to treat your significant other like trash, don't let that stop you from doing what's best for YOU.
yooooooooo am here
The first sentence of the 3rd story sounds like my dad
Also, don't have door hinges or screw holes on the outside of your house.
Story 3: Dude is a walking red flag. OP should dump him as it will not get better.
I give my sister the silent treatment all of the time because she has been a spoiled brat ever since we were kids. I refuse to do much with her but am always here for her 3 adult kids. She always bullied me growing up and treated me like her live-in babysitter(who she seldom paid).
yes
Story one better man then me i would have pressed charges even after the apology to really drill the point home so good job to him and I know I'm a bit cold and i may and up regretting it later
Story 2: get him a grill every man falls in love the moment they light it up
Sorry 2: I've found that if you don't grow up in a household where cooking is a regular occurrence or something you participated in, picking up the skill later in life is torture.
Cheap , entitled parents are the worst
On story 1 I would've been glad if His parents were arrested
I remember when one of my friends gave me the silent treatment and wouldn't tell me why when I asked them. Then everyone else in my friend group gave me the silent treatment when I had no idea what I did wrong since I don't talk much. Then there was a week when they liked me again and talked to me then the next few months, they did it again. I stopped asking them and stopped talking to them for a few months and now we are friends again. I'm still scared they're going to do it again though and now I don't feel like I can trust any of my friends. Just felt like sharing because i can relate to the last one and the best way to deal with it is definitely not to react. Just give them a taste of their own medicine lol.
Btw sorry if this doesn't make much sense lol.
That sounds to me like you need to find new friends
LoL I'm eating ramen while watching this video
parents are supposed to want their kids to do better than they did
I would have just pressed charges and tried to get them to rot in jail