INFP: Best, most honest advice I've ever gotten. I think INPs can benefit the most from blunt advice because even though we (especially INFPs) may get offended or butt hurt at first, we'll never stop thinking about what you said and will usually come to our senses. Don't worry about our gut reaction. We'll digest whatever you say.
is it common for INPs to always be underestimated? i find that most people don’t take me seriously or trust my judgement even when i explain my logic, or at least not until another party agrees with me
its because people don't respect us because we are non confrontational. we instinctually believe that someone who does not seam ready to fight for what they think is not worthy of credibility. people who are outspoken are on some level threatening and thus must be taken seriously.
Also keep in mind... Narcissism is at an all time high. People don't need facts... as far as they are concerned. Even if you give it to them... they'll just ignore it, or just... deny deny deny. Certainly "seems" like Narcissism to me.
i’m an intp, sometimes i’ll force myself out of my comfort zone and try to share my thoughts on something or opinion, and countless times people won’t acknowledge what i say.
Isn't sharing thoughts or opinions about *a subject* in an intp comfort zone? Doing something outside intp comfort zone would be to do something like travelling or sharing feelings or being a caretaker or commiting to something that isn't comfortable.
I am an INFJ and my best friend was an INFP. Looking back now, I can see that he helped me from becoming corrupt. But I always intentionally pushed he out of his comfort zone while we were growing up. I am glad to know we were doing the right things. Now I need to call him and get him out of his comfort zone again.
You are so right. Intp is all about energy efficiency and if its unappreciated, that energy will be used on something intp wants instead of helping an ingrate.
I'm a standard INFP, so the shame tactic made me cringe, viscerally. It was actually painful for me to imagine that happening. Also, agree on CSJ getting in people's heads. Worked with me.
Wow! Thanks for this video! INTP - direct INFP - both are introverts & value their quiet time 5:50 Control base people are outcome based. 7:10 Likes a specific process they follow for their outcome.Will take their time in doing it their process. Both are abstract. Possibilities of "what if? " 9:20 10:08 INTP are systematic. INFP are interest space (exchange of value,number driven, financial sense). 11:50 INFP are affiliative, authoratian, interdependent, go to college & get a job, etc. INTP are pragmatic. 15:13 you reap what you sow 19:58 both are solid ground people & brilliant. INP have the ability to outthink everybody, can be brilliant day traders,, core INP need to READ & not be lazy to execute, good philosopher 22:45 21:05 INTP have to create specific systems. 24:05 28:05 INFP are the backbone & foundation of a company but often don't speak up. Are usually overlooked. 29:50 The INP speak the least but should be listened to the most. 32:20 for people base, movement oriented then call the INFP. 32:30 If it's system based, then call the INTP. 34:00 both are in "I told you" Land & usually the foundation of the company 34:35 Waste of time to take them to a Tony Robbins session bc they see how people's will power are easily manipulated. How to motivate them? 35:10 39:40 both do not like to be in conflict so they will rarely speak out bc they silently judge. Should let them speak bc parent NE. They provide warnings. 41:40 Their hang ups - 41:45 INFP are hero FI - what they believe is bad or good. Make their decisions based on mood/beliefs 43:10 45:20 INFP- Si child - comfort zone, risk of the lazy zone. 46:50 INP allows people to take advantage of them. 48:55 Respect your elders, especially the INPs. 50:00 summary of INP 56:30 INTP need to read every day & focus on helping others. Stop being selfish 57:18 how do you motivate the INP? Parent function - Provide them an ultimatum. They're unwanted unless they change. All your privileges are going away. Make them uncomfortable so they have to change. 58:2259:40 Inferior function - you cannot make them want anything. GUILT THEM!!! They're lazy, selfish for not being better & harming other people . 1:00:00 INFP - Shame them . Expose their selfishness, ignorant behavior. They may hate you but they'll change. Maybe in 20 years, they may thank you. 1:06:40 If you ignore or not appreciate them INTP when they care, they stop caring. The foundation comes down. 1:13:00 Healthy habits, proper discipline, obligate them. 1:18:40 - You get back what you put into them.
Chase explaining the apathy super-ego of INTP hit home. At staff meetings (I was a teacher) problems would be discussed. Usually three or four minutes into the discussion I would propose the solution. No one listened. Then 30-45 minutes later someone else would propose my exact solution and everyone would act like they were brilliant. I literally would turn to the person next to me and ask if that was not what I had suggested ages ago? They would just nod and shrug. Before the end of my first year, I learned to use those staff meetings to grade papers and never interjected my ideas again. Resulted in a lot of bad decisions as a lot of time no one else arrived at the best solution. Oh well.
TJ Taylor yep... that’s what happened to me in grad school. So I left. Most colleges are filled with “niche minds” that don’t even understand that their minds are creating a grid that filters out the best minds by their plodding detail orientation and blinders to narrow assumptions and avenues of thought. I felt invisible there -because they thought in terms of prestige and power and social status and as a “student” I wasn’t authorized to think. (Read-be prestigious like they who had made it through the degree wielding fraternity initiation). They actually thought that it was good to maintain their stupid destructive culture so people like THEM could “win”. They destroyed the old idea of university and it had become something else. I want a refund for my student loan. I am 100% serious about that. 🤷♀️😐 Universities are run like corporations and you get the same behaviors. Any time you create an institution with social prestige and hurdles, you get the wrong people making it through. Even medical school which I attended, they were extremely competitive people. That’s great for corporations or lawyers but being a doctor requires an ART. It requires compassion, Not competitiveness. Everything we do creates filters for types, and creates environments for patterns. They can truly get out of hand. People view themselves as separate (most do) and so they get really competitive and nasty and create bad overall selfish patterns in society and it’s institutions. INTP is like a social programmer. That’s our role in essence. People seriously need to listen to us but they instead take it personally as an attack or something because they value prestige and worked so hard to get that. The true motive for a true university is TRUTH and meaning from objective truth. Period. Wow sorry... guess I am still upset because they are destroying civilization and I love people. 🤷♀️🥰
I learn to speak when it’s of the utmost importance. People will eventually notice you rarely speak, and when you do, it’s a jaw dropper type statement . I’ve had ppl come up to me and say I’m gifted w wisdom. Very few and far between ppl bc I’m selective about what I speak and to whom I speak. Regardless, it is noticed. Don’t give up speaking your mind. just develop a knack for knowing when your opportune mic drop moments are
This is so well done. So accurate. My brother and I are INTP and INFP, respectively. This explains our relationship, which is awesome. It’s like 50% of us is the same and 50% of us is different. We have deep and meaningful conversations about things we agree on and help each other grow and give advice where we see the other person has gaps. It’s probably the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had.
As an INTP (I think) we are definitely quiet and when we actually take the time to say something or offer our opinions in a group setting, it is incredibly important that we be heard. It is beyond frustrating to have people around me blow me off, like what I said just flew over their heads, or that they didn't care to take the time to ponder what I said (that usually causes people to stop and think in a new way). It's not that we have to have people do what we say, but at least entertain the ideas we put forward before discarding them.
As an intp no one gets my humour or like only my family cause I adopted it from them and sometimes I get so used to banter that I end up things awkward. Also social cues are not my forte and I just can’t read people but I was also diagnosed with asd level 1
This was sad for me to read. I almost began seriously dating an INTP years ago when I thought I was an INFJ. It wasn't until I married an ISFJ that I realised that I'm actually an INFP. I only dated her for like two weeks but I got scared off because most reports of male INFJ and female INTP relationships were negative. I often wonder what my relationship would have been like with her
@@catcollector1257 true but the way I see it is that mbti (the cognitive functions at least) is in a spectrum of truth. But in their case I felt like knowing them head on & solving out their problems while both being mature will have a good result even if you're with the opposite type, both of those types need to put their all to make it work. But Idk some people view love differently too, either what they feel in the moment, being completely emotionally intertwined that no problem can destroy it, or view love as something that needs to be maintained & dedicated to.
As an INTP, again I thank you so much for this. And I love your criticisms! To purify metal, you gotta burn the hell out of it. And I dont know why, but your sarcastic raging rants just fill me with inexplicable joy. They're my favorite parts! LOL
finally someone lays it down without sugar coating and shoving it in your face, with the precise amount of respect needed to get the point across. this guy is doing wonders. kudos to you and your team, Joseph. intp, out.
Being praised to the heavens and then roasted to bits in the same video, I can only find comfort in the absolute truth you are so unapologetically spilling here.
Almost same here, my infp friend is the most compatible friend I’ve had so far in my life, we enjoy talking to each other and we share a lot of the same interests and we both have a good understanding of what we talk about which is why i love discussing topics with him, we’re both relatively open minded and when we debate something we seem to disagree on we don’t aim to win but we seek the truth, he’s one of the very very few people I opened up to and allowed into my actual circle and im guessing it was the on his side, we both have a skeptical look of the world around us which kind of makes us connect and relate, we weren’t the kind of friends that would hang out just for the hell of it we were actually interested in what the other had to say
I’m intp and I have at least five infp around. We are very much different but after all, we can comfort each other most. I often feel like I have to interrupt infp, pull them out of their wonderland and say hei, look at me, please listen to me, and they suddenly start their caring mode. I don’t know if they feel the same.
@@lei_z I have an intp friend and I definitely feel like they ground me it might be because they know of grounding teqneqs because they themsefs can over think or I'm actsgoly not shure what makes us good friends I just rilly care about them and i feel they care about me and we are basicly oppisite when it comes to things we can do (I'm stronger they are faster, I understand others feelings and thoughts they are vary smart, and the list goes on) I'm not realy good at this puting my thoughts or feelings into words so sorry if this wasn't vary understandibol, to be honest I'm not shure I understand it myself
Keith Bagley Glad to see your comments. Maybe Si child makes intp and infp know how to please ourselves knowing such pleasure doesn’t have to be the same. Don’t worry, we are intps and we speak our intp language, right? ; )
as an Intp with a young infp bro who doesn't know who he is yet, I thoroughly enjoyed this. never thought my attention span would sit through an hour long video and not even feel the urge to put it on 2x speed.
I'm a 16yo ENTP who used to throw tantrums and Se demon rage a lot as a kid, and I still occasionally rage over things. It's good enough btw that you already know your type and how to go forward with it. Don't let other people be obstacles in your path. PS. forgive me for not being sympathetic, Fi trickster makes it really hard to do sympathy
The Tao Te Ching is literally the bible of INXPs. It teaches one how to be the foundation or potential of one's group. Highly recommend! Certainly helped me develop myself and escape my nihilistic cage.
Wow. What a coincedence. I discovered Taoism a couple of months ago, and it really resonated with me. I have listened to a lot of Alan Watt's theories and really liked his way of thinking, which has lead my mind to be more and more open to the direction of Taoism. That direction seems so natural and right instead of the western hierarchical and patriarchal ways of religion.
For an English version, I heard that Ursula LeGuin's translation is pretty good. After hearing what you said about it, I think that I'm going to grab a copy for myself!
@28:00 not listening to the INTP in your organization is a disaster. I'm an INTP and I co-own a business that pulls in a few million a year in revenue, and we lost a TON of money this year because my partners didn't listen to all of my Ne-based predictions (a lot to do with climate change, societal trends, etc). They are now [eyeroll], but we have to let a lot of employees go... My "I told you so" aspect was off the charts!!!
@@user-js5tk2xz6v Actually yes. We're in the food business so a lot of our base-ingredients are highly effected by temp, sunlight, mildews, etc. And then our customers tend to, ya know, not fucking go out when it's 90F or more for weeks on end. We're in a country that has mass-transit culture and not car-culture, so the people there walk and take the subway alot. When it's super hot in that kind of environment you'd rather just go home than stay out all the time.
As a 22 year old INTP who just got his 2 months ago after driving everyone else’s car illegally since 18...it’s overrated, but good to have😂 Eliminates that “I hope I don’t get arrested” feeling
with lyft and ubereats, i ain't getting no damn car! 😁 also, moving out the US where the infrastructures are updated to travel by train and bus and not just driving to work for 2 hours, one way.
As an INFP This is what i need to hear all this time, thx you're awakes me from my dream world.. look and see with your eyes, i'm gonna change this world to a better place, No matter how long does it take.. i'm not gonna change this conviction ever. You guys really doing great amazing work here, really appreciate it !
I am an INFP. I divorced my husband for treating me like a vending machine. If one were to try and manipulate me with shame, they will not get what they want, and they won't understand until years later, if ever, that I responded with an insult.
I somewhat agree. If someone is shaming me for something that I am actually guilty of and I have respect for them, then I may listen. If I find out they are actually wrong, then they better be prepared for what is coming. Either way, probably going to dislike them for it.
@@דיןהיכל to be fair, shame works on me when I fall short of acting in accordance with my value system... and everyone knows it. Ohh the shame can destroy me from the inside! However, if someone is trying to shame me for falling short of some bs standard I don't value, it won't work because to me it is like false shame, which is like super ineffective. :)
@@Jen-dk7ct Right. Shaming me from the position of a perspective that I don't respect has zero effect on me even if it is a societal norm that most people value. I'm proud of that fact, but I think it can make us look like sociopaths in the eyes of others and thus cause them to double down on the criticism and condemnation. Its a catch 22 situation: compromise my principles or be seen as unprincipled.
Fluffy Pancake I love fluffy pancakes ~ 💛~ I love this comment & I believe you must be a caring & mature role model to her. A lot of INFP girls need that, so thanks for being you for real
@@空内 I didn't realize I would bring such positivity with my simple comment. I really appreciate your reply, it made me feel great. My sister is older so she is more of a role model to me since I was little, but she always tells me that she learns a lot from me too and appreciates I'm her sister. We love each other very much and have a great time together.
You’re right about guilting the intp and shaming the infp. But I would make sure to know which type I’m dealing with. Wouldn’t recommend shaming an intp... just saying (little tip from an intp, so listen 😉
INFP here: I've always been susceptible to being guilted into doing things especially for others to keep the peace. You don't want them to feel bad by not doing this do You? I will oblige. When Chase talks about public shaming my blood boils and I would not respond positively toward that person (door slam). Once people have an opinion of you I rarely see them change it for anyone is my reason. 1 on 1 would be fine though as it is respectful but always helps to have a few good examples to prove the shaming is justified and not just a possible half thought through opinion. Ever ask why people feel badly about someone? Usually it starts with I don't know followed by something vague.
Yea ....I don’t respond well to public shaming as an infp. I will cut you off so quick. Him talking through the screen doesn’t bother me bc it’s very impersonal.
This episode is really great. What you say about INFP’s demon coming out is true. I (INFP) experienced it myself. I was in a male fraternity once, where I saw and heard a lot of things I silently judged as ‘wrong’. At the same time most SJs and SPs weren’t listening to my warnings. I finally broke at a certain very unhappy moment. I was in fact so angry that I wrote a letter insulting everybody around I didn’t like: ENTJs, ESTPs, ESTJs, etcetera. The letter was published, so everybody could read it. I didn’t care anymore, because I had left the fraternity already. I had a couple of unpleasant showdowns with people who threateningly asked me where a got those guts from (one ENTJ, really terrifying). But after a couple of years I was proven right. The fraternity went bankrupt. All those things I didn’t like and wrote about in the letter were signs of a structurally unhealthy environment. I was very young back then, and probably immature. But it teached me that my gut feeling is very often right and that I should trust on it. Thanks CS Joseph, I understand the distinguishment between the two INPs better now. Have a good day!
I'm an INFP but I feel like guilt tripping me would be more affective than shaming me because the only people who I care about what they think of me are my friends my friends mean a lot to me and it would devastate me if they left me, so in that way if you turn my friends agents me it is worse than gilt tripping but if you publicly shame me,unless people start coming up to me and telling me I'm an owfull human then I think gilt tripping is more affective(sorry if I repeated my point more than once righting is not my strong sute nether is spelling)
There's nothing better than reading IMO. I read 3 books a week, every week, since I was 5. I get made so much fun of but I feel sad for people who never read. I'm quite literally addicted to reading.
Came back to this today. Of all the INFP content on TH-cam I feel you are the only one who paints the full picture, and for whatever reason this video is the one that resonates most strongly even almost a year later. And I realized that even after watching this I still stayed in my comfort zone in certain ways while I have advanced out of it in others. Got a long way to go but I have made some progress. Cant wait for cognitively develop INFPs. Its also crazy how similar these two types are, in fact I find myself being stereotyped to being a nerd in the INTP archetypal mode, but the thing that has made the difference is the type grid and Te inferior allowing me to realize that I am an INFP and not an INTP. The INTP seems more similar to the INFP than even the ENFP.
If you're actually one of these two different personalities. You would have to learn how to get other person to think it was their idea. This should be a pure form of manipulation.. Unfortunately most people can't have any energy or enthusiasm for anybody else's idea. Everybody searches for their own truth . Unfortunately what everybody is searching for is a lie that works for them. And they believe it, so it must be true.
This is just the kick in the ass I needed to hear. Wisdom, knowledge and understanding are essential building blocks that all INP need to dedicate themselves to in order to fulfill their potential. Which is why reading is so absolutely necessary for both of these types. But sometimes wisdom wants to be gained by gathering your own experiences, which INPs often shy away from, because they are scared to leave their comfort zone. Words can only teach you so much, if you do not understand how to apply them in actuality. Test your theories and don't be scared to fail. Failure is just another set of data you can add to your library.
Best ever Chase. I watched my ideas being ignored while the company fell apart. Now that had us fill suggestion papers. I could have written 20 pages. You rock and show typology is practical
Thanks, I was struggling to figure out whether I was an INTP or an INFP, that cleared a lot up. I am definately an INTP. Also it's funny, I actually did what you said and ran away to China, where I lived in a small country town where I was the first white person to ever visit the town. Absolutely what INTPs should do to grow.
Reminds me of "River Town" by Peter Hessler Please write about it if you can! I am super interested in linguistics and anthropology, I hope you have a good and safe time.
@@ng3933 Copying and pasting something I wrote to another person in the comments just now: I'd say take a look at the inferior functions he explains in the videos. when he talks about shame vs guilt. I think that would be helpful in determining which one you are, I know it made a lot more sense to me the difference between these two when he explained that
Preach it! I love these Ti parent reality checks. Your work put into these videos has in all likelyhood fixed and saved lots of lives. There is a chronic lack of constructive and reasonable criticism as well as understanding of us INxPs and I am glad that people like you, as rare as you lot are, are filling that gap. Thanks.
Im an intp and i kicked myself out of the house at 28, i get along with my parents well, and there was always the argument of “saving money while you can”, “why rent when you can just stay at home”... but i started feeling stagnant and unhappy, i was basically living the same day for years with some minor changes like going from college to work. I knew it was time for me to go into the world even though it was a scary thought to leave the home where i grew up. I just formulated the idea and then waited for circumstances to popup that made each step toward this goal easier. Its been 4 months and im so happy with my life, I had some very lonely periods (even though its very difficult for me to feel lonely) sometimes depression kicks in and you fall into a little hole, but that was only once in the beginning, i never feel alone and i feel as though each discomfort each stressor is like a blade being sharpened, i welcome suffering because i can only learn from it. Recently got let go from a project as a consultant because i didnt jive with some people in the team, first time that has happened to me normally im very liked, this caused a lot of introspection and working on me accepting who i am, i myself didnt feel good in the team but i wasnt going to quit because of job market fears due to corona, but it turns out as often times is the case it was a blessing i disguise. I got hired before the contract even finished and talking to the lead developer was so different from this team i was used to, he is definitely an ntp of some sort, very objective and easy going. Sometimes the change that needs to happen will destabilise you and your worldview, but its in those crisis moments that you start evaluating everything and strengthening certain ideas about yourself and what you want, it never lasts forever, after the pains usually there is a reward if you follow your intuition and never forget to value yourself, if you wont then who will? You exist therefore you have value, even if you make mistakes that doesn’t devalue you as a person, you have innate value that cannot be taken away, and you are always loved. Sitting in silence is an important practice, dont let yourself be dragged forward by addictive technologies, they end up controlling your life, if you want to grow you need idle time to think and process your experience and clicking open a new link everytime just distracts you from yourself, it becomes an impulsive addiction. Since i live alone i read more books, they are a great way to regain focus and calm down the mind.
I have an INTP friend who's experiencing a large transition, graduating from college, renting his own place, and working a remote job. He also misses alot of his friends here in Florida... he just turned 21 a few days after moving in... he often says it gets lonely where he is. "Scary" is the exact word he describes all of this. I've been talking to him, reassuring him that it takes time to adjust to large changes in scenery like this, that it's normal to be scared, and that the hardest part is getting started, after that things become a bit more routine and much easier. But here you offer specific advice and a good account on how you got over the hump. I think this would be extremely helpful for him, especially if it's coming from someone who's experienced this kind of transition. Thank you. - An INFP
I used to have second thoughts on whether I really was an INTP or not, and had a few trusted friends to verify my type by sending your videos and the type grid. But after this one, I really got to relate on the stuff you said regarding INTPs, so thank you for verifying. Hope to see more content from you because this stuff is very interesting.
Brutal as usual ;) I've also explored the differences between these two types, but taken a slightly different route to yourself - would be great to know your thoughts sometime! Keep up the great content my dude.
I would do anything to avoid public shaming, great motivator for the INFP. I have always felt a bit disappointed with my type and have expressed my opinions very judiciously. You are right about Ne parent, I can see what is coming from a mile away, I should give myself more credit
I saw this video and felt like you made this video just for my boyfriend and I. I’m an INFP and he’s and INTP and my friend is an ENTP like you so it sounded like him describing us in this video. Super entertaining
There is this misconception that INTP types are tech-oriented and heavily structured but there are a lot of us in social fields and carry about looser structures in our head. I get a lot of flak from ENTP types who cannot understand that and after pointing out logical fallacies or factual errors in their argument, they finally conclude that I am unethical or possess other worldly intelligence. The ideal engineer would be more of an Se and Te type, you need awareness of external data and mastery of sequential orders in order to get the job completed on time. Engineers are very different from theoretical (NT) types. They are more like artisans. The typical response an intellectual would get from these guys is "Who cares about what if?" or "You talk too much." Interactional styles and archetypes should by right be separated from these prevailing stereotypes because it is how you approach the subject matter that counts and not what the subject matter is. By the way I don't know why I am typing this because nobody really listens to me anyway.
Haha No Way As an INTP that loves art, I can relate. Also, the most irritating thing I find myself to have in conversations is when a discussion finally goes deeper, people immediately stop it, saying stuff like: “Whatever” or “Who cares?” and move on to superficial topics. There is also this misconception that INTP’s have no emotions. NOT TRUE. I, myself, an empathic INTP. They just find it difficult to deal with them and usually suppress them. Having no emotions doesn’t make you an INTP, it makes you a clinical psychopath.
A+ Your blanket statements of INTPs hit me at a very high percentage. I was stuck there agreeing with most. The video definitely made me feel far more like an INTP than an INFP. We will see if your statement of INTPs are the backbone to a business is correct. I'm currently in the process of starting my own head shop in Oregon. ^^ Trying to make a system so I can work 20 hours a week in 5 years lollll. God you truly hit the mark of how I want to make a business.
As an INP I love it when you criticize all of my bad habits because it does motivate. The motivation feels like waking up because when I am in a funk everything feels hazy. Like the physical world is far away from me. Like a dream. I don't like it when I'm caught in this state of mind for longer than needed.
For the "cite your sources" thing... I recommend having a digital knowledge base with references, notes, articles, all the stuff for heated online debates. Beautifully tagged in a simplistic, yet suggestive manner
Thank you for explaining and understanding INFP and Intp I’m INFP and this was the best. Thank you! The person doing the most talking is never the smartest person in the room.
"You reap what you sow." Hell yes. If you want it bad, you'll get it bad. When companies get very quiet about an IT meltdown, it's not uncommon to find out that the "rogue" IT guy had warned his bosses about the problem and proposed solutions. Tell an INTP to shut up enough times, they'll shut up alright. The problem with tilling the ground with ultimatums and obligations is that INTPs are told all their life: "If you don't do , no one will want/like you." When the INTP does it, it turns out that they weren't wanted or liked all along, and that's a lie that Fe inferior/Fi demon never forgets.
Ronald B. M. Irvin yooo how did you integrate your ENTJ shadow! I’m slowly starting to grasp it and I’m definitely making progress but if you happen to have any tips that could accelerate that I would very much appreciate it :)
Got any suggestions for INTPs with depression and anxiety? Guilting them, or kicking an INTP out of the parents home and comfort zone is all good in theory, but compatibility with depression and anxiety is rather poor.
Natalie Hughes hmm. He's actually worked with a lot of youth rally's teaching boys to do bottle, trash, can collecting to recycling centers to teach them how to make money
Everyone starts from somewhere. No shame in McDonald's, one of my good friends actually got rejected from McDonald's in high school, she needed a summer job, but accepted to MIT. 🙂
The bottom line for INTPs is: they're so smart & once they start putting themselves out there to be helpful to others, it will create the beginnings to happiness.
im an INTP, whos super lazy. doesnt want to be around people much but I get shit done when Im alone. only when Im alone as Id rather sleep when someones there who could possibly talk to me. i dont get it since Im fine when it comes to teaching.
INTP here!! Have watched almost all of your vids and I'm super glad I have gotten over the hang-ups you mentioned! Honestly, thank you and your team for this channel
One thing that wasn't mentioned that is probably the MOST IMPORTANT thing of all to getting them out of their comfort zones is GIVE THEM EXPERIENCES. The more they have, the more secure and comfortable they will be in the "real world", and in relationships. This is a much better idea than essentially imposing punishments on them. Other types like SJs tend to have resources they can use to provide the INTPs and INTJs with experiences, and they'll get so much back for it in the end in the form of ideas and future foresight. It's worth the investment. Even if you only have your own self, you can befriend an INXP and invite and cajole them into playing sports with you. Give them your TIME. A healthy INXP will have the energy to DO things, and you'll benefit by listening to them analyzing your life and offering suggestions to help you fix it. And you'll also make them happy. That alone might just be worth the investment, no?
It's so easy for me (INFP) to be lazy and ignorant. I think I need a mentor, or friends who will put the necessary pressure on me to spur me into action. Nobody ever criticizes me! And rarely do people engage with me and my ideas. Perhaps that's why I have no idea how I could help others or change the world for the better. For now, I will try to educate myself and get better at self-discipline.
I love you CSJ! You are so funny sometimes! I love your mini rants within lectures, that’s what makes them interesting! As an INTP I really appreciate this about you because you make the learning experience fun, I’m laughing I’m smiling I’m agreeing, I’m feeling your harsh truths, all the while I’m learning it’s #THEDOPEST
Thank you for this🙏❤️ as an INFP who was raised in a family consisting of SFJs mainly. I actually suffered from the opposite problem and that is they listened to me way too much. I mean I DESPERATELY wanted my opinions to be challenged and questioned and I wanted them to verify my beliefs but NOTHING. Most of the time they just went with I said that it made kind of arrogant but also responsible at the same time Lol responsible in that i had to verify everything on my own because I felt if I didn’t everyone just will do and say what i do and i say even if it’s false and that felt like a HUGE burden to have from a young age but it sharpened me. And arrogant because well I thought I’m the only one with a brain in my family because i was the only one who questioned and researched held beliefs and values so i kind of became ungrateful and entitled but I’m now aware of that and working on being humble and grateful that i had a powerful voice from a young age and was always given special treatment and loved and cared for more than I deserved. Now i show my appreciation to them thru words and actions.
Hi, Chase! I’ve been following your channel for years but I’m terrified of commenting publicly lol. This is amazing! I am an INFP and my boyfriend is an INTP. This was spot on. It’s validating to hear about our similarities and differences. We both dream big. I am a social worker and have 1000 artsy hobbies, and he is a controls/mechanics specialist. He fixes anything and I encourage him to! He’s a genius. He is basically figuring out how to redesign an entire system for a huge company in his free time. I am surely an idealist and have the highest of standards. He encourages me to read more (than just fantasy) and I encourage him to follow his dreams. Sometimes we seem so different but we are very similar really. Thankfully, we have both had a lot of challenges that encouraged us to seek self improvement, but there’s always room for growth.
I'm like between an INFP & INTP & I flip between & it is confusing. Some days I'm like bwahahahah let's start a million dollar empire!! Some days I'm like I just need to live one with nature in the woods with the bunnies.
I like the wand. It gives you something to fidget with while you’re talking. I tend to just play with random shit that I find in my pocket and some people get uncomfortable because they think I’m not paying attention to them (INTP)
I'm an INTP. What really sucks is that the people who are closest to me are the ones who ignore me the most. I can't tell you how many times I've given advice, been exactly right, and then be ignored again. To top it all off, they'll credit what I said to someone else.
Intp here. I got stuck in a terrible relationship for 14 years. It was comfortableish and I'd been so alienated by humans that I didnt think anyone else could ever deal with me. I had stopped pursuing my dream of saving the world and was just surviving. 2 years ago he kicked me out. Since then I've made such a startling impact on the humans I come in contact with and done so much good helping people. I have literally gained an ability to take in information at such a higher rate than before its almost impossible the difference. Thank you @csjoseph. You make sense of my human experiance and help me see where I have neglected to live to my full potential You are saving the world. 🖤 One of the reasons the relationship ended is because I was harming people by staying in my comfort. My friend of 17 years or so, over dosed and died. He contacted me 18 days before this on face book. Which I had stopped using because my S/O was using it to cheat. INTP people watching this- you are needed. Dont let anyone destroy your intent or ability to help others. Were not here to be suppressed. Were here to streamline exsistance. Get out of your hole. There is much to learn beyond it.
Hi CS! An INTP trader here. I didn't expect a comment about trading in your video. What you've said about both types and trading is quite accurate. By the way, I wouldn't say that the systematic approach of an INTP is so brilliant, only effective. The thing is that this industry, big institutions or academia have unbalanced SJ values and they tend to focus on irrelevant well-sounding trivia, they don't know what they're doing; they do it by rut. Some approach becomes trendy and everybody follows it because it's what everybody does. Also, it seems that the majority of people take part into financial trading in order to satisfy an emotional or intellectual lack. Security or thrill, prestige, self-esteem, complex words and jargon... Winning or losing, everybody gets what they want out of the market; some seem to win by losing. This is a quote. I deeply admire INFPs, their trading is brilliant. But the systems of INTPs are only about doing what works, not sheer brilliance there. It's my understanding that the very best traders are INTPs and INFPs, and that INTJ is the most likely type to be a successful trader. Sensing types are doomed. Keep up the good work. You are a blessing in my life, CS. Being a continuous and unnoticed outlier entails grief, and your explanation of the INTPs' ways sheds a light of understanding not usually enjoyed. Thank you!
I'm being a selfish as an INTP because the people in my life refuse to listen to reason. If they refuse to accept my help I find them undeserving and therefore I will sit in my hobbit hole until humanity is ready to accept it
@Señor Encore same as a intj is people like copy what i do (make a trend out of my wants for my self) but the dont gravitate to the info im telling them about future event/disasters. i guess this is an issue over the internet. noone want to replie to me, but they take my info. but when im out in public not bothering anyone that random people give me attention( girls would say how cute i am,and men will just blurt out shit just so that they notice that i acknowledge them. or they just stare at me . like im a celebrity . what make even weird is that it still happen if im walking down the street with two or three of my male friends. girls will pick me out of the group to "catcall" . they would yell (what ever i would be wearing that day, to descibe the diffeence between me and my homeboys, letting us know im some special person in the group. older people would at me as we walk past , like im not with four other people. i used to ignore it , but now i gathered the patterns these situations throughout my life many years later. but it doesnt add up to why people dont notice my online presence ,well my website account are always private, and i use social media mostly for farthering future growth and keeping tabs on those assigments. man im in one big ass catch22.
Really good video! My older sister is a psychologist and really likes the Myers-Briggs personality stuff. She also says I would probably be an INTP. I can relate to a lot of what you said. At times I feel personally complimented and at others called out lmao. I'm lucky to say that I don't have people who take advantage of me. But I think that's also because I refuse to let it happen. Sometimes I worry about not wanting things, as it tends to lead to demotivation and apathy in general. Really, the major thing I want out of life is self-actualization.
Great video. Hands down probably the most perceptive video breaking down INPs I’ve ever heard. At a moment I even got emotional. You really reminded me of what we can accomplish. Thank you for seeing us. By the way, to explain the “I felt like it” or “I wanted to” … for me it’s often one of two things: (1) shorthand for making a decision completely based on intuition. Much later, I’m able to explain with precise detail why the decision made sense logically as well (as logic usually backs up intuition, which is often based on Ne gatherings). Some decisions can be explained in hindsight (months, years later), but not in the moment. Or (2) we do understand in the moment why we’re making the decision, but it’s a complex detailed explanation based on decades of subtle perceptions, hunches, feelings, observations and weighing of potential choices and outcomes that is not worth it (or potentially not possible) to explain. 😅 This is why communicating in prosaic language often comes up short for the INFP. We resort to poetry, art, song, or other abstract ways to express ourselves. It’s much more efficient, beautiful and accurate 😊… not to mention more fun. You forgot the best way to motivate the INFP and INTP. Inspiration. Capture our curiosity, our fascination, intrigue us, give us a challenge worth taking on? We are yours forever… loyal and unstoppable.
I lol'd so damn hard when you said that it's impossible to motivate an INP. I'm so called out 🤣. Every "motivational" seminar I've been to has made me cringe so bad. Also, thanks for making me feel so important. Love, An INFP
I haven't listened to this video for about a year and a half, and I can't believe how accurately you describe INFPs. I didn't know a lot about the functions when I first watched it, so I listened but really didn't understand. I know a bit more now, at least how they work in relation with each other, and the four sides of the mind. But I haven't seen anyone explain it like this. I am one of those INFPs that is stuck in their comfort zone, not doing anything. Want to, but always go off of how I feel, so I've been stagnant for so long. Just hope I can actually do this and follow what you said. Anyway, thank you for this.
My sister is INFP and I'm ISFP. We used to be very close, but when I was in my 30s, I out-matured her. She's 7 years older than me but still so childish and sooo dependent on everyone else to think for her. I don't know what happened, but so much for being what you discussed here. 🤔
I think a great example of an INTP who felt unappreciated in literature/movies, would be Dennis Nedry from Jurassic Park. Because he felt under appreciated, he essentially caused the entire park’s meltdown. Not only was he doing the work of an entire crew by himself, but he also had to endure some condescending remarks by his employer. Just my thoughts.
As an INTP, I've always thought that Dennis was an ESFP who hated his job. He seemed motivated by greed & hedonism (Artisan tendencies). I've always thought that the reason he finally screwed over his employer was that he knew he was a dumbass, a well-trained trained dumbass nonetheless, yet if John Hammond and company couldn't even take the advice of a dumbass who knew other people who were smarter than him when it came to genetic engineering and park safety, then why should he give a damn about Jurassic Park?
INFP: Best, most honest advice I've ever gotten. I think INPs can benefit the most from blunt advice because even though we (especially INFPs) may get offended or butt hurt at first, we'll never stop thinking about what you said and will usually come to our senses. Don't worry about our gut reaction. We'll digest whatever you say.
exactly
Well developed INFP’s done become butt hurt by blunt honest opinions, as they are very open minded and very intelligent. -INTP
@@sylviaowega3839 you have eyes that see! 🙏
This accurate
I usually do the opposite of the advice I get.
“The people that speak the least are the ones you need to listen to” - thank you for validating what I’ve felt all my life!
Someone once told me they were very interested in what I had to say because "Silent waters run deep."
That in combination with - ask them!
Sooo dont listen to ENTPs aka Cs joseph then...?
Facts
@@winterbird4447 So you are hating on him because you do not agree with him? Sad
is it common for INPs to always be underestimated? i find that most people don’t take me seriously or trust my judgement even when i explain my logic, or at least not until another party agrees with me
yes
dude i felt this..
its because people don't respect us because we are non confrontational. we instinctually believe that someone who does not seam ready to fight for what they think is not worthy of credibility. people who are outspoken are on some level threatening and thus must be taken seriously.
Also keep in mind... Narcissism is at an all time high.
People don't need facts... as far as they are concerned.
Even if you give it to them... they'll just ignore it, or just... deny deny deny.
Certainly "seems" like Narcissism to me.
Yet when we ARE confrontational for the sake of defending ourselves we are punished and made an "example" of...
i’m an intp, sometimes i’ll force myself out of my comfort zone and try to share my thoughts on something or opinion, and countless times people won’t acknowledge what i say.
Me too.
Me too. I just stopped sharing and let them figure it out and watch the negative outcome.
It's a double edged sword. I stopped caring about talking to people but then they think you're stuck up if you dont constantly small talk with them.
Man I have bad experience with sharing thoughts and feelings as it always went badly, sometimes they misunderstand me and don't talk to me.
Isn't sharing thoughts or opinions about *a subject* in an intp comfort zone?
Doing something outside intp comfort zone would be to do something like travelling or sharing feelings or being a caretaker or commiting to something that isn't comfortable.
"Maintaning long lasting relationships"
*laughs in INFP*
pragmatic thinkers: what and how?
affiliative feelers: who and why?
Yes exactly!! So funny, how I keep coming across your brilliant comments again and again Eryn haha!! :D
What about pragmatic feelers? I'm an ISFP.
@@lannypopcorn9429 still what and how. I'm ISFP too. Lol
@Raylin lol thanks. Btw, are you the Raylin Chase talks about in the video?
@@lannypopcorn9429 What and why, I'd say! If you find yourself asking what and how more often, you're probably a thinker type in my book.
I am an INFJ and my best friend was an INFP. Looking back now, I can see that he helped me from becoming corrupt. But I always intentionally pushed he out of his comfort zone while we were growing up. I am glad to know we were doing the right things. Now I need to call him and get him out of his comfort zone again.
Yes, we settle into our comfort zones very easily.
You are so right. Intp is all about energy efficiency and if its unappreciated, that energy will be used on something intp wants instead of helping an ingrate.
As an INFP who has well developed T, I have never felt so called out in my entire life. Thank you.
"You guilt the INTP"
Damn! My deepest secrets was exposed.This CSJ guy is scary.
love it.
I'm a standard INFP, so the shame tactic made me cringe, viscerally. It was actually painful for me to imagine that happening. Also, agree on CSJ getting in people's heads. Worked with me.
Yes guilt is the worst feeling for me, it signals me that im a failure and needs to work harder.
honestly parts of this videos made me feel like he was actively trying to guilt me into getting other people to guilt me
Wow! Thanks for this video! INTP - direct
INFP - both are introverts & value their quiet time 5:50
Control base people are outcome based. 7:10 Likes a specific process they follow for their outcome.Will take their time in doing it their process.
Both are abstract. Possibilities of "what if? " 9:20
10:08 INTP are systematic. INFP are interest space (exchange of value,number driven, financial sense).
11:50 INFP are affiliative, authoratian, interdependent, go to college & get a job, etc. INTP are pragmatic.
15:13 you reap what you sow
19:58 both are solid ground people & brilliant. INP have the ability to outthink everybody, can be brilliant day traders,, core INP need to READ & not be lazy to execute, good philosopher 22:45
21:05 INTP have to create specific systems. 24:05
28:05 INFP are the backbone & foundation of a company but often don't speak up. Are usually overlooked.
29:50 The INP speak the least but should be listened to the most. 32:20 for people base, movement oriented then call the INFP.
32:30 If it's system based, then call the INTP.
34:00 both are in "I told you" Land & usually the foundation of the company
34:35 Waste of time to take them to a Tony Robbins session bc they see how people's will power are easily manipulated. How to motivate them? 35:10
39:40 both do not like to be in conflict so they will rarely speak out bc they silently judge. Should let them speak bc parent NE. They provide warnings.
41:40 Their hang ups -
41:45 INFP are hero FI - what they believe is bad or good. Make their decisions based on mood/beliefs 43:10
45:20 INFP- Si child - comfort zone, risk of the lazy zone.
46:50 INP allows people to take advantage of them.
48:55 Respect your elders, especially the INPs.
50:00 summary of INP
56:30 INTP need to read every day & focus on helping others. Stop being selfish
57:18 how do you motivate the INP? Parent function - Provide them an ultimatum. They're unwanted unless they change. All your privileges are going away. Make them uncomfortable so they have to change. 58:22 59:40 Inferior function - you cannot make them want anything. GUILT THEM!!! They're lazy, selfish for not being better & harming other people .
1:00:00 INFP - Shame them . Expose their selfishness, ignorant behavior. They may hate you but they'll change. Maybe in 20 years, they may thank you.
1:06:40 If you ignore or not appreciate them INTP when they care, they stop caring. The foundation comes down.
1:13:00 Healthy habits, proper discipline, obligate them.
1:18:40 - You get back what you put into them.
Chase explaining the apathy super-ego of INTP hit home. At staff meetings (I was a teacher) problems would be discussed. Usually three or four minutes into the discussion I would propose the solution. No one listened. Then 30-45 minutes later someone else would propose my exact solution and everyone would act like they were brilliant. I literally would turn to the person next to me and ask if that was not what I had suggested ages ago? They would just nod and shrug. Before the end of my first year, I learned to use those staff meetings to grade papers and never interjected my ideas again. Resulted in a lot of bad decisions as a lot of time no one else arrived at the best solution. Oh well.
TJ Taylor yep... that’s what happened to me in grad school. So I left. Most colleges are filled with “niche minds” that don’t even understand that their minds are creating a grid that filters out the best minds by their plodding detail orientation and blinders to narrow assumptions and avenues of thought. I felt invisible there -because they thought in terms of prestige and power and social status and as a “student” I wasn’t authorized to think. (Read-be prestigious like they who had made it through the degree wielding fraternity initiation). They actually thought that it was good to maintain their stupid destructive culture so people like THEM could “win”. They destroyed the old idea of university and it had become something else. I want a refund for my student loan. I am 100% serious about that. 🤷♀️😐 Universities are run like corporations and you get the same behaviors. Any time you create an institution with social prestige and hurdles, you get the wrong people making it through. Even medical school which I attended, they were extremely competitive people. That’s great for corporations or lawyers but being a doctor requires an ART. It requires compassion, Not competitiveness. Everything we do creates filters for types, and creates environments for patterns. They can truly get out of hand. People view themselves as separate (most do) and so they get really competitive and nasty and create bad overall selfish patterns in society and it’s institutions. INTP is like a social programmer. That’s our role in essence. People seriously need to listen to us but they instead take it personally as an attack or something because they value prestige and worked so hard to get that. The true motive for a true university is TRUTH and meaning from objective truth. Period. Wow sorry... guess I am still upset because they are destroying civilization and I love people. 🤷♀️🥰
May be because you are an introvert, people thought nothing productive can come out of u
not really specific to intps though. :D i think it's a smart person thing!!! or a ti user generally?
They dont deserve u....
I learn to speak when it’s of the utmost importance. People will eventually notice you rarely speak, and when you do, it’s a jaw dropper type statement . I’ve had ppl come up to me and say I’m gifted w wisdom. Very few and far between ppl bc I’m selective about what I speak and to whom I speak. Regardless, it is noticed. Don’t give up speaking your mind. just develop a knack for knowing when your opportune mic drop moments are
This is so well done. So accurate. My brother and I are INTP and INFP, respectively. This explains our relationship, which is awesome. It’s like 50% of us is the same and 50% of us is different. We have deep and meaningful conversations about things we agree on and help each other grow and give advice where we see the other person has gaps. It’s probably the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had.
As an INTP (I think) we are definitely quiet and when we actually take the time to say something or offer our opinions in a group setting, it is incredibly important that we be heard. It is beyond frustrating to have people around me blow me off, like what I said just flew over their heads, or that they didn't care to take the time to ponder what I said (that usually causes people to stop and think in a new way). It's not that we have to have people do what we say, but at least entertain the ideas we put forward before discarding them.
As an intp no one gets my humour or like only my family cause I adopted it from them and sometimes I get so used to banter that I end up things awkward.
Also social cues are not my forte and I just can’t read people but I was also diagnosed with asd level 1
Intp married to an infp and I love infps no one else gets me like they do
This was sad for me to read. I almost began seriously dating an INTP years ago when I thought I was an INFJ. It wasn't until I married an ISFJ that I realised that I'm actually an INFP. I only dated her for like two weeks but I got scared off because most reports of male INFJ and female INTP relationships were negative. I often wonder what my relationship would have been like with her
@@TheNVideon INTPs and INFJs are great together
TheNVideon No offense but why would you ever base the success of an intimate relationship on mbti? That’s not realistic
@@catcollector1257 true but the way I see it is that mbti (the cognitive functions at least) is in a spectrum of truth. But in their case I felt like knowing them head on & solving out their problems while both being mature will have a good result even if you're with the opposite type, both of those types need to put their all to make it work. But Idk some people view love differently too, either what they feel in the moment, being completely emotionally intertwined that no problem can destroy it, or view love as something that needs to be maintained & dedicated to.
INFP married to INTP here :)
As an INTP, again I thank you so much for this. And I love your criticisms! To purify metal, you gotta burn the hell out of it.
And I dont know why, but your sarcastic raging rants just fill me with inexplicable joy. They're my favorite parts! LOL
finally someone lays it down without sugar coating and shoving it in your face, with the precise amount of respect needed to get the point across.
this guy is doing wonders.
kudos to you and your team, Joseph.
intp, out.
Where's that avatar from?
Yeah I found this video easier to follow because he does not sugarcoat.
Patrick Earthridge
Haha me too!!
Mostly because the sarcasm isn't directed towards us INxPs 😉
Being praised to the heavens and then roasted to bits in the same video, I can only find comfort in the absolute truth you are so unapologetically spilling here.
CSJ: "INPs are brilliant!"
Me (INFP): "This is a rare case where a 'half-truth' is exactly 50% truth."
lol
"INP's ARE BRILLIANT" oh, my ego! it swells more than it should! bummer that i'm one of the non-brilliant INFP's. lol great video, i'm subbing!
1 hour 20 minutes with no script it looks like? very impressive.
the rant on useless INTPs was brutal but very much what I needed to hear.
Right? Damn ENTP talkers...
I’m an INTP. My bestie is an INFP...I’ve been waiting for this 😂
Zane Good same
Almost same here, my infp friend is the most compatible friend I’ve had so far in my life, we enjoy talking to each other and we share a lot of the same interests and we both have a good understanding of what we talk about which is why i love discussing topics with him, we’re both relatively open minded and when we debate something we seem to disagree on we don’t aim to win but we seek the truth, he’s one of the very very few people I opened up to and allowed into my actual circle and im guessing it was the on his side, we both have a skeptical look of the world around us which kind of makes us connect and relate, we weren’t the kind of friends that would hang out just for the hell of it we were actually interested in what the other had to say
I’m intp and I have at least five infp around. We are very much different but after all, we can comfort each other most. I often feel like I have to interrupt infp, pull them out of their wonderland and say hei, look at me, please listen to me, and they suddenly start their caring mode. I don’t know if they feel the same.
@@lei_z I have an intp friend and I definitely feel like they ground me it might be because they know of grounding teqneqs because they themsefs can over think or I'm actsgoly not shure what makes us good friends I just rilly care about them and i feel they care about me and we are basicly oppisite when it comes to things we can do (I'm stronger they are faster, I understand others feelings and thoughts they are vary smart, and the list goes on) I'm not realy good at this puting my thoughts or feelings into words so sorry if this wasn't vary understandibol, to be honest I'm not shure I understand it myself
Keith Bagley Glad to see your comments. Maybe Si child makes intp and infp know how to please ourselves knowing such pleasure doesn’t have to be the same. Don’t worry, we are intps and we speak our intp language, right? ; )
I am an INTP/INFP 50/50 on different tests. Now I think I am more INFP because you called my insecurities spot on. Thank you for your GREAT WORK!
the same thing happened to me lol
as an Intp with a young infp bro who doesn't know who he is yet, I thoroughly enjoyed this. never thought my attention span would sit through an hour long video and not even feel the urge to put it on 2x speed.
(i'm infp) Me too😂👌i don't know how i survived this 1h 20m video without 2x speed
As a 15yo intp who today cried in class because nobody was listening to her, thank you.
Eli Papa hugs 🤗
Don't feel down, know your own value and practice standing up for yourself if needed.
Respect for knowing your mbti type with this age
i felt that. when ur in charge of organizing a graduation in less than a month and no is doing what ur telling them to do
I'm a 16yo ENTP who used to throw tantrums and Se demon rage a lot as a kid, and I still occasionally rage over things.
It's good enough btw that you already know your type and how to go forward with it. Don't let other people be obstacles in your path.
PS. forgive me for not being sympathetic, Fi trickster makes it really hard to do sympathy
I have to keep the people who listen to my ideas close. They mean the world to me.
Thank you for this lecture! This is amazing.
❤️️
you are most welcome
The Tao Te Ching is literally the bible of INXPs. It teaches one how to be the foundation or potential of one's group. Highly recommend! Certainly helped me develop myself and escape my nihilistic cage.
Thank you! I heard it before, but now I will pick it up, do you have more recommendations?
Carl Jung’s Red Book. Specifically the chapter titled “The Magician”. Might refer more to INTP than INFP though.
Wow. What a coincedence. I discovered Taoism a couple of months ago, and it really resonated with me. I have listened to a lot of Alan Watt's theories and really liked his way of thinking, which has lead my mind to be more and more open to the direction of Taoism. That direction seems so natural and right instead of the western hierarchical and patriarchal ways of religion.
For an English version, I heard that Ursula LeGuin's translation is pretty good. After hearing what you said about it, I think that I'm going to grab a copy for myself!
@@aniokay THAT'S NO COINCIDENCE!
@28:00 not listening to the INTP in your organization is a disaster. I'm an INTP and I co-own a business that pulls in a few million a year in revenue, and we lost a TON of money this year because my partners didn't listen to all of my Ne-based predictions (a lot to do with climate change, societal trends, etc). They are now [eyeroll], but we have to let a lot of employees go... My "I told you so" aspect was off the charts!!!
I'm sorry, but is your company revenue dependent on avr. global temperature ?
@@user-js5tk2xz6v Actually yes. We're in the food business so a lot of our base-ingredients are highly effected by temp, sunlight, mildews, etc. And then our customers tend to, ya know, not fucking go out when it's 90F or more for weeks on end. We're in a country that has mass-transit culture and not car-culture, so the people there walk and take the subway alot. When it's super hot in that kind of environment you'd rather just go home than stay out all the time.
I’m a 24 year old INFP without my license. I feel called out lol
Shame on you.
As a 22 year old INTP who just got his 2 months ago after driving everyone else’s car illegally since 18...it’s overrated, but good to have😂
Eliminates that “I hope I don’t get arrested” feeling
18 almost 19 😔 same as u
with lyft and ubereats, i ain't getting no damn car! 😁
also, moving out the US where the infrastructures are updated to travel by train and bus and not just driving to work for 2 hours, one way.
I got mine at 16...not by choice. Didn't use it until I was 26.
I’m an INFP and my best friend is an INTP, this will be interesting!
I like ur username
💛
me too
And I'm an INFP as well and my brother is a INTP.
'Hispanic" at the disco lmfao
You're becoming scary.
-INFP
As an INFP This is what i need to hear all this time, thx you're awakes me from my dream world.. look and see with your eyes, i'm gonna change this world to a better place,
No matter how long does it take.. i'm not gonna change this conviction ever.
You guys really doing great amazing work here, really appreciate it !
Faris Arata 📌 pin that dream to the hall of fame for all to see 💛
Honey I don't know what I am.. Help 🤧
This is like the third time I come to this video and I always check the comment section but how come I just found your comment now 🤧
Wow, you are doing awesome things with TH-cam. I love the format. I love your lectures and your entire channel. Thank you for your hard work.
As a lazy and unmotivated INFP, the question "Are you being a waste?" totally hit me the hardest. Thank you for waking me up. ⏰☀️
This is a highly underrated channel. Thanks for the extremely informative video even though it may have hurt a little to hear.
-INFP
I am an INFP. I divorced my husband for treating me like a vending machine. If one were to try and manipulate me with shame, they will not get what they want, and they won't understand until years later, if ever, that I responded with an insult.
As a fellow INFP I second that notion. Shame would never work on someone like me
I somewhat agree. If someone is shaming me for something that I am actually guilty of and I have respect for them, then I may listen. If I find out they are actually wrong, then they better be prepared for what is coming. Either way, probably going to dislike them for it.
Ditto!
@@דיןהיכל to be fair, shame works on me when I fall short of acting in accordance with my value system... and everyone knows it. Ohh the shame can destroy me from the inside! However, if someone is trying to shame me for falling short of some bs standard I don't value, it won't work because to me it is like false shame, which is like super ineffective. :)
@@Jen-dk7ct
Right. Shaming me from the position of a perspective that I don't respect has zero effect on me even if it is a societal norm that most people value. I'm proud of that fact, but I think it can make us look like sociopaths in the eyes of others and thus cause them to double down on the criticism and condemnation. Its a catch 22 situation: compromise my principles or be seen as unprincipled.
I'm an INTP and my sister is an INFP and we make such a great duo, I love it. Thanks for the lecture I appreciate it
Fluffy Pancake ;-; thanks for saying this
Fluffy Pancake I love fluffy pancakes ~ 💛~ I love this comment & I believe you must be a caring & mature role model to her. A lot of INFP girls need that, so thanks for being you for real
@@空内 I didn't realize I would bring such positivity with my simple comment. I really appreciate your reply, it made me feel great. My sister is older so she is more of a role model to me since I was little, but she always tells me that she learns a lot from me too and appreciates I'm her sister. We love each other very much and have a great time together.
@@blairhaze4629 ty
You’re right about guilting the intp and shaming the infp. But I would make sure to know which type I’m dealing with. Wouldn’t recommend shaming an intp... just saying (little tip from an intp, so listen 😉
INFP here: I've always been susceptible to being guilted into doing things especially for others to keep the peace. You don't want them to feel bad by not doing this do You? I will oblige. When Chase talks about public shaming my blood boils and I would not respond positively toward that person (door slam). Once people have an opinion of you I rarely see them change it for anyone is my reason. 1 on 1 would be fine though as it is respectful but always helps to have a few good examples to prove the shaming is justified and not just a possible half thought through opinion. Ever ask why people feel badly about someone? Usually it starts with I don't know followed by something vague.
Yea ....I don’t respond well to public shaming as an infp. I will cut you off so quick. Him talking through the screen doesn’t bother me bc it’s very impersonal.
And maybe also bc he is mixing it with compliments idk
I'm an INFP and I think Jordan Peterson sums it up best "If you have something to say, silence is a lie"
This episode is really great.
What you say about INFP’s demon coming out is true. I (INFP) experienced it myself. I was in a male fraternity once, where I saw and heard a lot of things I silently judged as ‘wrong’. At the same time most SJs and SPs weren’t listening to my warnings.
I finally broke at a certain very unhappy moment. I was in fact so angry that I wrote a letter insulting everybody around I didn’t like: ENTJs, ESTPs, ESTJs, etcetera. The letter was published, so everybody could read it. I didn’t care anymore, because I had left the fraternity already.
I had a couple of unpleasant showdowns with people who threateningly asked me where a got those guts from (one ENTJ, really terrifying).
But after a couple of years I was proven right. The fraternity went bankrupt. All those things I didn’t like and wrote about in the letter were signs of a structurally unhealthy environment.
I was very young back then, and probably immature. But it teached me that my gut feeling is very often right and that I should trust on it.
Thanks CS Joseph, I understand the distinguishment between the two INPs better now.
Have a good day!
I'm an INFP but I feel like guilt tripping me would be more affective than shaming me because the only people who I care about what they think of me are my friends my friends mean a lot to me and it would devastate me if they left me, so in that way if you turn my friends agents me it is worse than gilt tripping but if you publicly shame me,unless people start coming up to me and telling me I'm an owfull human then I think gilt tripping is more affective(sorry if I repeated my point more than once righting is not my strong sute nether is spelling)
The masses are actually quite dismissive of the intp (especially other women). When that happens I just withdraw and laugh at the ensuing calamity.
true
Relatable
Most INTPs should read for about 2-3h hours a day. Seriously.
My 128 gig memory card is full of audiobooks and is constantly running.
There's nothing better than reading IMO. I read 3 books a week, every week, since I was 5. I get made so much fun of but I feel sad for people who never read. I'm quite literally addicted to reading.
Many people think that simply reading is enough. I digress. It matters more *what* you read then in what amounts you read.
@@B4llsD33p69_OwO Yeah well, sometime you read good stuff and sometime you read bad stuff
@@B4llsD33p69_OwO true enough
Came back to this today. Of all the INFP content on TH-cam I feel you are the only one who paints the full picture, and for whatever reason this video is the one that resonates most strongly even almost a year later. And I realized that even after watching this I still stayed in my comfort zone in certain ways while I have advanced out of it in others. Got a long way to go but I have made some progress. Cant wait for cognitively develop INFPs. Its also crazy how similar these two types are, in fact I find myself being stereotyped to being a nerd in the INTP archetypal mode, but the thing that has made the difference is the type grid and Te inferior allowing me to realize that I am an INFP and not an INTP. The INTP seems more similar to the INFP than even the ENFP.
Thank you for being a part of this community.
If you're actually one of these two different personalities.
You would have to learn how to get other person to think it was their idea. This should be a pure form of manipulation..
Unfortunately most people can't have any energy or enthusiasm for anybody else's idea.
Everybody searches for their own truth .
Unfortunately what everybody is searching for is a lie that works for them. And they believe it, so it must be true.
Now they should manipulate people conciously otherwise it'd be a waste of talent.
This is just the kick in the ass I needed to hear.
Wisdom, knowledge and understanding are essential building blocks that all INP need to dedicate themselves to in order to fulfill their potential. Which is why reading is so absolutely necessary for both of these types. But sometimes wisdom wants to be gained by gathering your own experiences, which INPs often shy away from, because they are scared to leave their comfort zone. Words can only teach you so much, if you do not understand how to apply them in actuality. Test your theories and don't be scared to fail. Failure is just another set of data you can add to your library.
Watching again. Love that you quoted Genesis and Tower of Babel. Supernatural event.
Yes, the Elder Wand World Tour
Wow, that was a brilliant analysis. That was probably the longest TH-cam video I have ever watched.
Best ever Chase. I watched my ideas being ignored while the company fell apart. Now that had us fill suggestion papers. I could have written 20 pages. You rock and show typology is practical
Dave Fenzel PRACTICAL 👏👏👏👏👏👏
you are most welcome sir
Thanks, I was struggling to figure out whether I was an INTP or an INFP, that cleared a lot up. I am definately an INTP.
Also it's funny, I actually did what you said and ran away to China, where I lived in a small country town where I was the first white person to ever visit the town. Absolutely what INTPs should do to grow.
Reminds me of "River Town" by Peter Hessler
Please write about it if you can! I am super interested in linguistics and anthropology, I hope you have a good and safe time.
@@空内 I'm more than happy to write about it. What are you looking for exactly, the why I went or the what it was like?
@@camerontrompf5602 Positively both, actually. Sounds suitable.
I'm still not fully sure about mine. Can you tell me how you came to your conclusion?
@@ng3933 Copying and pasting something I wrote to another person in the comments just now: I'd say take a look at the inferior functions he explains in the videos. when he talks about shame vs guilt. I think that would be helpful in determining which one you are, I know it made a lot more sense to me the difference between these two when he explained that
Preach it!
I love these Ti parent reality checks. Your work put into these videos has in all likelyhood fixed and saved lots of lives. There is a chronic lack of constructive and reasonable criticism as well as understanding of us INxPs and I am glad that people like you, as rare as you lot are, are filling that gap. Thanks.
Im an intp and i kicked myself out of the house at 28, i get along with my parents well, and there was always the argument of “saving money while you can”, “why rent when you can just stay at home”... but i started feeling stagnant and unhappy, i was basically living the same day for years with some minor changes like going from college to work. I knew it was time for me to go into the world even though it was a scary thought to leave the home where i grew up.
I just formulated the idea and then waited for circumstances to popup that made each step toward this goal easier. Its been 4 months and im so happy with my life, I had some very lonely periods (even though its very difficult for me to feel lonely) sometimes depression kicks in and you fall into a little hole, but that was only once in the beginning, i never feel alone and i feel as though each discomfort each stressor is like a blade being sharpened, i welcome suffering because i can only learn from it. Recently got let go from a project as a consultant because i didnt jive with some people in the team, first time that has happened to me normally im very liked, this caused a lot of introspection and working on me accepting who i am, i myself didnt feel good in the team but i wasnt going to quit because of job market fears due to corona, but it turns out as often times is the case it was a blessing i disguise. I got hired before the contract even finished and talking to the lead developer was so different from this team i was used to, he is definitely an ntp of some sort, very objective and easy going.
Sometimes the change that needs to happen will destabilise you and your worldview, but its in those crisis moments that you start evaluating everything and strengthening certain ideas about yourself and what you want, it never lasts forever, after the pains usually there is a reward if you follow your intuition and never forget to value yourself, if you wont then who will? You exist therefore you have value, even if you make mistakes that doesn’t devalue you as a person, you have innate value that cannot be taken away, and you are always loved.
Sitting in silence is an important practice, dont let yourself be dragged forward by addictive technologies, they end up controlling your life, if you want to grow you need idle time to think and process your experience and clicking open a new link everytime just distracts you from yourself, it becomes an impulsive addiction.
Since i live alone i read more books, they are a great way to regain focus and calm down the mind.
fasting keeps one from depravity
I have an INTP friend who's experiencing a large transition, graduating from college, renting his own place, and working a remote job. He also misses alot of his friends here in Florida... he just turned 21 a few days after moving in... he often says it gets lonely where he is. "Scary" is the exact word he describes all of this. I've been talking to him, reassuring him that it takes time to adjust to large changes in scenery like this, that it's normal to be scared, and that the hardest part is getting started, after that things become a bit more routine and much easier. But here you offer specific advice and a good account on how you got over the hump. I think this would be extremely helpful for him, especially if it's coming from someone who's experienced this kind of transition.
Thank you. - An INFP
I used to have second thoughts on whether I really was an INTP or not, and had a few trusted friends to verify my type by sending your videos and the type grid. But after this one, I really got to relate on the stuff you said regarding INTPs, so thank you for verifying. Hope to see more content from you because this stuff is very interesting.
Oh wait, nevermind, looks like I'm still not sure about my type. Guess I have to verify again and again and again.
Just do the test lol
As an INFP, this was a wake-up call to my habits but I feel so motivated and inspired now. Thanks!
the best video yet! (as a biased infp in need) I loved the motivation part! It actually motivated me to try to change
123 456 okay I'm glad I'm not the only INFP that feels so 💛
Half because INTPs feel like my other half ~ for comradery & beyond 💛🚀
The best thing about these lectures is we also get a lecturing aswell. Great video and thanks for all the information joseph ❤
- INTP
Brutal as usual ;)
I've also explored the differences between these two types, but taken a slightly different route to yourself - would be great to know your thoughts sometime! Keep up the great content my dude.
I would do anything to avoid public shaming, great motivator for the INFP. I have always felt a bit disappointed with my type and have expressed my opinions very judiciously. You are right about Ne parent, I can see what is coming from a mile away, I should give myself more credit
I saw this video and felt like you made this video just for my boyfriend and I. I’m an INFP and he’s and INTP and my friend is an ENTP like you so it sounded like him describing us in this video. Super entertaining
There is this misconception that INTP types are tech-oriented and heavily structured but there are a lot of us in social fields and carry about looser structures in our head. I get a lot of flak from ENTP types who cannot understand that and after pointing out logical fallacies or factual errors in their argument, they finally conclude that I am unethical or possess other worldly intelligence. The ideal engineer would be more of an Se and Te type, you need awareness of external data and mastery of sequential orders in order to get the job completed on time. Engineers are very different from theoretical (NT) types. They are more like artisans. The typical response an intellectual would get from these guys is "Who cares about what if?" or "You talk too much." Interactional styles and archetypes should by right be separated from these prevailing stereotypes because it is how you approach the subject matter that counts and not what the subject matter is. By the way I don't know why I am typing this because nobody really listens to me anyway.
Haha No Way As an INTP that loves art, I can relate. Also, the most irritating thing I find myself to have in conversations is when a discussion finally goes deeper, people immediately stop it, saying stuff like: “Whatever” or “Who cares?” and move on to superficial topics. There is also this misconception that INTP’s have no emotions. NOT TRUE. I, myself, an empathic INTP. They just find it difficult to deal with them and usually suppress them. Having no emotions doesn’t make you an INTP, it makes you a clinical psychopath.
@@manuj2868 You mean clinical psychopath right? Not medical
Treelo Yess, thank you. I’ve corrected it.
If it weren't for my ESTP mother I still wouldn't have my driver's license lol
A+ Your blanket statements of INTPs hit me at a very high percentage. I was stuck there agreeing with most. The video definitely made me feel far more like an INTP than an INFP.
We will see if your statement of INTPs are the backbone to a business is correct. I'm currently in the process of starting my own head shop in Oregon. ^^ Trying to make a system so I can work 20 hours a week in 5 years lollll. God you truly hit the mark of how I want to make a business.
You’re soooo funny your sarcasm is great!! I love this!! I like the way you explain things so well you’re so raw and don’t hold back, i admire that!
(: yeah he's pretty dope with his accumulated knowledge & wit
much appreciated
I am super excited for the chart based on earth, wind, water etc symbolism!
Lacie Buckwild same
As an INP I love it when you criticize all of my bad habits because it does motivate. The motivation feels like waking up because when I am in a funk everything feels hazy. Like the physical world is far away from me. Like a dream. I don't like it when I'm caught in this state of mind for longer than needed.
For the "cite your sources" thing...
I recommend having a digital knowledge base with references, notes, articles, all the stuff for heated online debates. Beautifully tagged in a simplistic, yet suggestive manner
That's the goal!
I m an INTP ...and i would like to thank you to be so painfully direct
Thank you for explaining and understanding INFP and Intp I’m INFP and this was the best. Thank you! The person doing the most talking is never the smartest person in the room.
¨INTPs speak the least¨
My debate teammates: Oh, I wish . . .
Oh, I quite liked the lighting, not so bright as most channels, which is too abrasive.
Humanity is a sinking ship, so be it. At least we're last one to drown.
Honestly, that's how I recently since I became aware of how people act, think and make decisions.
"You reap what you sow."
Hell yes. If you want it bad, you'll get it bad.
When companies get very quiet about an IT meltdown, it's not uncommon to find out that the "rogue" IT guy had warned his bosses about the problem and proposed solutions. Tell an INTP to shut up enough times, they'll shut up alright.
The problem with tilling the ground with ultimatums and obligations is that INTPs are told all their life: "If you don't do , no one will want/like you." When the INTP does it, it turns out that they weren't wanted or liked all along, and that's a lie that Fe inferior/Fi demon never forgets.
Ronald B. M. Irvin heh hope you're alright
I can definitely state that it's better to walk out than burn out.
Also, ENTJ shadow gets things done. :)
It sure does 💓
Ronald B. M. Irvin yooo how did you integrate your ENTJ shadow! I’m slowly starting to grasp it and I’m definitely making progress but if you happen to have any tips that could accelerate that I would very much appreciate it :)
@@treetop2425 cutest username :)
1:00:40 Now I know I'm an INFP because my jaw dropped when you talked about shaming me in front of everyone :o I was like yup that's my weakness
As an INTP I would also react to that. I think everyone would.
No one should shame others, IMO. It doesn't necessarily spur change.
Got any suggestions for INTPs with depression and anxiety? Guilting them, or kicking an INTP out of the parents home and comfort zone is all good in theory, but compatibility with depression and anxiety is rather poor.
Natalie Hughes hmm. He's actually worked with a lot of youth rally's teaching boys to do bottle, trash, can collecting to recycling centers to teach them how to make money
He also promotes young men to get their forklift license #oshacertified
Also hopefully your friend can apply for food stamps and health care
Everyone starts from somewhere. No shame in McDonald's, one of my good friends actually got rejected from McDonald's in high school, she needed a summer job, but accepted to MIT. 🙂
The bottom line for INTPs is: they're so smart & once they start putting themselves out there to be helpful to others, it will create the beginnings to happiness.
im an INTP, whos super lazy. doesnt want to be around people much but I get shit done when Im alone. only when Im alone as Id rather sleep when someones there who could possibly talk to me. i dont get it since Im fine when it comes to teaching.
I so relate to this! I kick butt and get stuff done when I'm alone. Someone comes into the room and I lose all concentration.
Lol same here.
INTP here!! Have watched almost all of your vids and I'm super glad I have gotten over the hang-ups you mentioned! Honestly, thank you and your team for this channel
cloudrabbit cool x)
Congrats 🙂
yo uare most welcome
Your enthusiasm is contagious. Keep up the good work.
One thing that wasn't mentioned that is probably the MOST IMPORTANT thing of all to getting them out of their comfort zones is GIVE THEM EXPERIENCES. The more they have, the more secure and comfortable they will be in the "real world", and in relationships. This is a much better idea than essentially imposing punishments on them.
Other types like SJs tend to have resources they can use to provide the INTPs and INTJs with experiences, and they'll get so much back for it in the end in the form of ideas and future foresight. It's worth the investment. Even if you only have your own self, you can befriend an INXP and invite and cajole them into playing sports with you. Give them your TIME. A healthy INXP will have the energy to DO things, and you'll benefit by listening to them analyzing your life and offering suggestions to help you fix it.
And you'll also make them happy. That alone might just be worth the investment, no?
It's so easy for me (INFP) to be lazy and ignorant. I think I need a mentor, or friends who will put the necessary pressure on me to spur me into action. Nobody ever criticizes me! And rarely do people engage with me and my ideas. Perhaps that's why I have no idea how I could help others or change the world for the better. For now, I will try to educate myself and get better at self-discipline.
This channel is my attempt at growing my Si Child.
I love spending my evenings learning with you =)
Taekwondoista oh same 💆🏻
Chase is... inevitable
Uber Chap double that
Should have gone for the head...
@@Hawkido wait is this an inside GOT joke
@@空内 MCU actually
I love you CSJ! You are so funny sometimes! I love your mini rants within lectures, that’s what makes them interesting! As an INTP I really appreciate this about you because you make the learning experience fun, I’m laughing I’m smiling I’m agreeing, I’m feeling your harsh truths, all the while I’m learning it’s #THEDOPEST
Thank you for this🙏❤️ as an INFP who was raised in a family consisting of SFJs mainly. I actually suffered from the opposite problem and that is they listened to me way too much. I mean I DESPERATELY wanted my opinions to be challenged and questioned and I wanted them to verify my beliefs but NOTHING. Most of the time they just went with I said that it made kind of arrogant but also responsible at the same time Lol responsible in that i had to verify everything on my own because I felt if I didn’t everyone just will do and say what i do and i say even if it’s false and that felt like a HUGE burden to have from a young age but it sharpened me. And arrogant because well I thought I’m the only one with a brain in my family because i was the only one who questioned and researched held beliefs and values so i kind of became ungrateful and entitled but I’m now aware of that and working on being humble and grateful that i had a powerful voice from a young age and was always given special treatment and loved and cared for more than I deserved. Now i show my appreciation to them thru words and actions.
Ok but, I always wanted to be a water/earth bender.
INFP, and I wanted to be earth bender.
Me too, both elements and Im INFP.
Hi, Chase! I’ve been following your channel for years but I’m terrified of commenting publicly lol.
This is amazing! I am an INFP and my boyfriend is an INTP. This was spot on. It’s validating to hear about our similarities and differences.
We both dream big. I am a social worker and have 1000 artsy hobbies, and he is a controls/mechanics specialist. He fixes anything and I encourage him to! He’s a genius. He is basically figuring out how to redesign an entire system for a huge company in his free time. I am surely an idealist and have the highest of standards. He encourages me to read more (than just fantasy) and I encourage him to follow his dreams.
Sometimes we seem so different but we are very similar really.
Thankfully, we have both had a lot of challenges that encouraged us to seek self improvement, but there’s always room for growth.
All good
I'm like between an INFP & INTP & I flip between & it is confusing. Some days I'm like bwahahahah let's start a million dollar empire!! Some days I'm like I just need to live one with nature in the woods with the bunnies.
明 same haha
I am the exact same!!
I like the wand. It gives you something to fidget with while you’re talking. I tend to just play with random shit that I find in my pocket and some people get uncomfortable because they think I’m not paying attention to them (INTP)
I'm an INTP. What really sucks is that the people who are closest to me are the ones who ignore me the most. I can't tell you how many times I've given advice, been exactly right, and then be ignored again. To top it all off, they'll credit what I said to someone else.
Intp here. I got stuck in a terrible relationship for 14 years. It was comfortableish and I'd been so alienated by humans that I didnt think anyone else could ever deal with me. I had stopped pursuing my dream of saving the world and was just surviving. 2 years ago he kicked me out. Since then I've made such a startling impact on the humans I come in contact with and done so much good helping people. I have literally gained an ability to take in information at such a higher rate than before its almost impossible the difference. Thank you @csjoseph. You make sense of my human experiance and help me see where I have neglected to live to my full potential
You are saving the world. 🖤
One of the reasons the relationship ended is because I was harming people by staying in my comfort. My friend of 17 years or so, over dosed and died. He contacted me 18 days before this on face book. Which I had stopped using because my S/O was using it to cheat.
INTP people watching this- you are needed. Dont let anyone destroy your intent or ability to help others. Were not here to be suppressed. Were here to streamline exsistance. Get out of your hole. There is much to learn beyond it.
Hi CS!
An INTP trader here. I didn't expect a comment about trading in your video. What you've said about both types and trading is quite accurate.
By the way, I wouldn't say that the systematic approach of an INTP is so brilliant, only effective. The thing is that this industry, big institutions or academia have unbalanced SJ values and they tend to focus on irrelevant well-sounding trivia, they don't know what they're doing; they do it by rut. Some approach becomes trendy and everybody follows it because it's what everybody does.
Also, it seems that the majority of people take part into financial trading in order to satisfy an emotional or intellectual lack. Security or thrill, prestige, self-esteem, complex words and jargon... Winning or losing, everybody gets what they want out of the market; some seem to win by losing. This is a quote.
I deeply admire INFPs, their trading is brilliant. But the systems of INTPs are only about doing what works, not sheer brilliance there.
It's my understanding that the very best traders are INTPs and INFPs, and that INTJ is the most likely type to be a successful trader. Sensing types are doomed.
Keep up the good work. You are a blessing in my life, CS. Being a continuous and unnoticed outlier entails grief, and your explanation of the INTPs' ways sheds a light of understanding not usually enjoyed. Thank you!
you are welcome
Hey, do you use time price oppertunity for trading?
I'm being a selfish as an INTP because the people in my life refuse to listen to reason. If they refuse to accept my help I find them undeserving and therefore I will sit in my hobbit hole until humanity is ready to accept it
@Señor Encore same as a intj is people like copy what i do (make a trend out of my wants for my self) but the dont gravitate to the info im telling them about future event/disasters. i guess this is an issue over the internet. noone want to replie to me, but they take my info. but when im out in public not bothering anyone that random people give me attention( girls would say how cute i am,and men will just blurt out shit just so that they notice that i acknowledge them. or they just stare at me . like im a celebrity . what make even weird is that it still happen if im walking down the street with two or three of my male friends. girls will pick me out of the group to "catcall" . they would yell (what ever i would be wearing that day, to descibe the diffeence between me and my homeboys, letting us know im some special person in the group. older people would at me as we walk past , like im not with four other people. i used to ignore it , but now i gathered the patterns these situations throughout my life many years later. but it doesnt add up to why people dont notice my online presence ,well my website account are always private, and i use social media mostly for farthering future growth and keeping tabs on those assigments. man im in one big ass catch22.
Really good video! My older sister is a psychologist and really likes the Myers-Briggs personality stuff. She also says I would probably be an INTP.
I can relate to a lot of what you said. At times I feel personally complimented and at others called out lmao. I'm lucky to say that I don't have people who take advantage of me. But I think that's also because I refuse to let it happen.
Sometimes I worry about not wanting things, as it tends to lead to demotivation and apathy in general. Really, the major thing I want out of life is self-actualization.
Great video. Hands down probably the most perceptive video breaking down INPs I’ve ever heard. At a moment I even got emotional. You really reminded me of what we can accomplish. Thank you for seeing us. By the way, to explain the “I felt like it” or “I wanted to” … for me it’s often one of two things: (1) shorthand for making a decision completely based on intuition. Much later, I’m able to explain with precise detail why the decision made sense logically as well (as logic usually backs up intuition, which is often based on Ne gatherings). Some decisions can be explained in hindsight (months, years later), but not in the moment. Or (2) we do understand in the moment why we’re making the decision, but it’s a complex detailed explanation based on decades of subtle perceptions, hunches, feelings, observations and weighing of potential choices and outcomes that is not worth it (or potentially not possible) to explain. 😅 This is why communicating in prosaic language often comes up short for the INFP. We resort to poetry, art, song, or other abstract ways to express ourselves. It’s much more efficient, beautiful and accurate 😊… not to mention more fun. You forgot the best way to motivate the INFP and INTP. Inspiration. Capture our curiosity, our fascination, intrigue us, give us a challenge worth taking on? We are yours forever… loyal and unstoppable.
I lol'd so damn hard when you said that it's impossible to motivate an INP. I'm so called out 🤣. Every "motivational" seminar I've been to has made me cringe so bad.
Also, thanks for making me feel so important.
Love,
An INFP
I haven't listened to this video for about a year and a half, and I can't believe how accurately you describe INFPs. I didn't know a lot about the functions when I first watched it, so I listened but really didn't understand. I know a bit more now, at least how they work in relation with each other, and the four sides of the mind. But I haven't seen anyone explain it like this. I am one of those INFPs that is stuck in their comfort zone, not doing anything. Want to, but always go off of how I feel, so I've been stagnant for so long. Just hope I can actually do this and follow what you said. Anyway, thank you for this.
I hope that I can motivate myself to read as an INFP. A struggle that knows no end.
shame on you for not reading
Yeah shame on you.! You heard what Joseph said.
@@NicoleQuimper hahaha, shaming me doesn't seem to work 😅
@@alsvik2407 A good try 😄
My sister is INFP and I'm ISFP. We used to be very close, but when I was in my 30s, I out-matured her. She's 7 years older than me but still so childish and sooo dependent on everyone else to think for her. I don't know what happened, but so much for being what you discussed here. 🤔
Viva la INxP's! tries to run through brick-wall but ends up knocking self unconscious because of Se trickster
I think a great example of an INTP who felt unappreciated in literature/movies, would be Dennis Nedry from Jurassic Park. Because he felt under appreciated, he essentially caused the entire park’s meltdown. Not only was he doing the work of an entire crew by himself, but he also had to endure some condescending remarks by his employer. Just my thoughts.
As an INTP, I've always thought that Dennis was an ESFP who hated his job. He seemed motivated by greed & hedonism (Artisan tendencies). I've always thought that the reason he finally screwed over his employer was that he knew he was a dumbass, a well-trained trained dumbass nonetheless, yet if John Hammond and company couldn't even take the advice of a dumbass who knew other people who were smarter than him when it came to genetic engineering and park safety, then why should he give a damn about Jurassic Park?