soda pop I know that you’re probably very confused, people like you obviously wouldn’t understand, since I’m just so smart and everyone else is stupid. See, I wasn’t comparing women to horses, I was being *metaphorical* I used a *metaphor* in which I simply *compared women* to *horses* , not once did I *compare women* to *horses* though... someday you’ll be able to understand 💕 😂
Little known fact: Pimps are commonly known to refer to their prostitutes as their “horses” in their “stable” so its obviously used as a metaphor to objectify and sexualize women already and that’s something he tapped into! Congratulations Russ buddy!!!
How badly can you misinterpret literally life, like everyday things. I get that he's misogynistic BUT DUDE PICK A STRUGGLE OH MY GOD YOU CAN'T BE THAT DENSE 😭😭😭
Does anyone have any idea what he's even referring too?! Cause all my mind can go to is like tampons and pads and I'm like "You CAN buy those dude, don't know what you're gonna do with em but you CAN buy them."
The lack of specificity really highlights how these fellas are just out here punching drywall. What do you need access to, boo? You want in on the pink tax? Nasty ass dudes groping you on public transit? What's got you down, baby boy?
Kurtis: don't call women horses Russ: Kurtis said that it's NEVER ok to EVER meet a woman in public UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. KURTIS DOESNT WANT MEN TO BE HAPPY.
yo and that "metaphor" is actually from a zac efron movie, and it also isn't even really a metaphor, he is actually just explaining how his dating-life works while calling his dating-roster a stable, and women mares, the closes he gets to an actual metaphor is "thorough-bred" but that isn't really a worthwhile comparison still, and is kind of disgusting.
Until a girl comes out and says that she was in a relationship with this man or is one of the girls he talks about, I will continue to believe he has never touched a woman.
LLLMMMFFFAAAOOO !!!!! I seriously believe that 99% of what comes out of his mouth is just LIES🤦♀️ He is DELUSIONAL. && To think there's impressionable people who actually believe/listen to him ??? I can't.
thoroughly confused/worried about the fact that he said he has shared pictures of the women he was in a poly relationship with in his newsletter but CAN'T SHARE THAT ON TH-cam BECAUSE IT'S INAPPROPRIATE. what. what the fuck are you sharing of these women in a newsletter???? good lord
I followed his private account and the dude doesn't even tag his supposed girlfriends. Like how do we know they are not paid, models? and the poor picture quality... my dad's 5-year-old android clicks better pics. he regularly promotes his course and it's basically about texting multiple women... like that's not a relationship. he is bragging about wearing a prada but how tf does he earn money? trust fund?
my favorite part of his horse analogy was when he said that after his partners realize he doesn't value the relationship they "go off to greener pastures." that phrase has always meant "leaving to find a better or more appealing situation." literally just tattling on himself from start to finish. i guess this is how he wants to perceive himself out to the world as 😔
& when he says that they "eventually realize it's not going anywhere" like okay Russ, tattling on yourself. Maybe just tell them that from the beginning, ya know?
That's why his defense of "it's just a metaphor bro" is so hilariously stupid. The advise in itself is manipulative and dehumanising regardless of what metaphor you use to illustrate it. The reason most of the mockery at him started with the metaphor was because of how hilariously transparent it was!
Was literally my exact reaction. Man's like "communication is important and if everybody knows what they're getting into it's fine" after saying "they start asking questions"
@@FionavanDahl I mean shit we don’t know what he’s doing. He could be trafficking people for all we know. People have pointed out the terminology he uses is literally what traffickers use.
Lol it is but ok keep living life on easy mode keep winning those court case, keep getting lower time for crimes you commit keep being put on a pedestal for being a women, keep making false rape claims and having every one believe you. Keep attack men’s rights and men’s health organizations keep getting custody of the kids.
“I’m not gonna make fun of him because that’s beneath me” **proceeds to make fun of kurtis throughout the whole video saying he’s too stupid to understand what he’s saying because clearly russell is the smart one here** “Obviously kurtis doesn’t know what a metaphor is” “To most people that may be obvious, but to kurtis, it’s not” “You get so triggered by a metaphor i mean how do you live your life” “That should be obvious, i mean i know that’s not obvious to kurtis” “that’s what half baked journalism gets you kootis conurs” “it’s not that i lied, it’s just that you, kurtis, have poor reading comprehension” “takes a certain amount of technical skill that i’m sure kurtis couldn’t even come close to” ...shall i go on? (btw i’m paraphrasing some of these so some aren’t direct quotes but you get the gist)
i feel like the fact that he tried to suddenly change his tune means he knows whats wrong and tries to cover it up and "explain" (aka totally change the context) when reactions are bad. i feel like its almost worse. like kurtis said, if his video was just him going "so what?" its almost more respectable than watching him clearly get what kurtis' points were and then try to gaslight and twist them to sound like a better person. its like when cops go (not to like back them up but just for the example) "if you didn't do anything wrong, why did you run/cover up your tracks/hide the weapon etc?". so here its more like russell if you genuinely didn't mean any harm than why did you go off twisting everything around to seem like you meant something different? if he really thought his opinion was ok, his video would've been a hell of a lot shorter smh. he's so skeevy.
The clips weren't even...relevant. They barely added to the "points" he was making, and as Mr. Miller said, this guy's sense of humor was pulled straight from 2015
it’s even worse when you realize that’s like…a good chunk of straight guys. I couldn’t say if it’s a majority or not but there’s a reason that the whole ‘I hate my wife’ rhetoric is so normalized. I’m a bi girl but everyday I get closer and closer to just limited myself to only women bc so many guys are just so much worse than any queer woman, it’s not even a competition.
Guy who promotes “confident men” gets confronted by an actually confident man. Guy who promotes “confident men” is so scared of the confident man that he doesn’t ever show a single clip from real confident man.
Guy who promotes “confident men” doesn’t let people see the like to dislike ratio on his videos along with his subscriber and follower counts while also routinely deleting videos and comments that do not praise him.
This was the craziest comment for a bit I forgot which Russel we were talking about (bc let’s be real, I don’t know a single person irl named Russel) and was thinking of Russel from Gorillaz? Bc that’s the only Russel I remember hearing of. But like since Russel Hobbs isn’t his real name, I thought they were having some fake joke beef about misogyny or something with the characters?? And then Kurtis clarified and I remembered but dude what in the actual fucc am I thinking, I was very confused Dude I literally just woke up and should prob go back to bed
ATTACKED by stupid *TRIGGERED* Kurtis Conner who also has MILLIONS OF FOLLOWERS but I have to remind you that I am a nice person and am above being an idiot... EDIT: this is a joke btw lmao
the bar is on the ground, but seeing Kurtis be so angry at this man and genuinel defending women,etc, made me tear up. So man guys pretend like it isn't a serious issue that there are sexists like these, but it _is_ . it hurts so much knowing that there are people who will never see you as anything other than a sex-object, a bitch or someone stupid. it _hurts_ and so many guys pretend it's just.. normal. Even guys who aren't sexist still sometimes play it of as if it isn't a big deal, but it is, it ipacts our every life, indirectly or directly. Seeing someone stand up against it should be normal, but it sadly isn't yet, and i'm so thankful Kurtis still did it.
Me too. And these dumb "alpha" guys think women want dudes like them. No we want funny creative men with integrity like Kurtis. I'm not even just saying that. (I am very happy for Kurtis and his wife with all due respect. ❤️) but Kurtis wipes the floor with these dudes fr
Agreed. Seeing men call out sexism and misogyny, or identifying as feminists, shouldn't be a point of high praise, it should be a bare minimum standard. But it always makes me happy to see men stand up for equality of the sexes/genders.
The more I learn about guys like Russel the more I appreciate my parents not being stupid, seeing so many men brake the bare, bare minimum is so sad. Every single reasonable man on the Earth would stomp on Russel’s testicles if given a good chance. Sorry for everyone in this comment thread who has had experiences with people like Russel, I really hope you never get to see people like him again. Have a great day
THANK YOU. I remember being like, 11, and I saw a video similar to russell heartly's content, and i straight up cried, because i realized that to some men I am simply worth nothing. It hurts so badly...
100% Agree, you have handsome guys like Russell and then your every day guy not what is considered handsome Kurtis, the fact that Kurtis actually called Russell on his mysoginy and explained how it's not ok makes him 1000% more attractive to me than the asshole with a pretty face, I cant help it that every guy that goes of their way to defend women seem like boyfriend material 😅
It hurts me to see Russell accuse Kurtis of "Taking his words out of context" while he himself commits more than 10 logical fallacies each time he opens his mouth
Metaphors aren’t just randomly assigning symbols, it’s a way to convey a point. When you say “her eyes were daggers” you’re trying to say she looked angry or intensely. When you say that women are horses, you’re saying they’re practically pets who are just there for your use, and you don’t see them as equals.
It's crazy how he didn't realize why Kurtis brought up that point. Obviously in the situation he was explaining, the girls wanted to go further in their relationship, while he just thought of them as tools for sex. That's the issue
I Am in a polyamorous relationship and I can tell you, its fucking weird to say you can only text eachother via group chat. It's super insecure to not let your girlfriends talk to eachother privately, its honestly abusive. My partners and I trust eachother, so we don't need to restrict each other's communication, it's super messed up to do that.
Oh yeahh. I'm poly and also pan so the way he not only did that, but also blatantly dismissed any relationship those women could potentially develop with eachother as justgirlythings that come after his own needs. Ew. So many layers of icky.
I'm glad to see this from someone who knows because I was sitting here thinking that sounds like using polyamory as an excuse to restrict your partners' privacy.
That would explain why he's on TH-cam. Don't get me wrong I love Kurtis but I don't want him to respond to that guy. I hope this is last video on him. That Russell guy is just trying to get more clout.
I checked Russell’s twitter and his last one is “Remember that guys marry who they want. Girls marry who they can.” And he thinks that’s NOT demeaning to women? Disgusting
and thats a fact😳 also mans didnt even address that all he addressed was shit that he could think of something to say back and half of the shit he rebuttled with didnt even make sense
Russell’s guide to being an average woman: 💜 Be attractive 💜 Be outgoing and social 💜 Have over 3 million followers on social media 💜 Get free things for being pretty 💜 Only go for alpha males Now you can live the woman life :)
shoot, if that's all i need, i'm gonna do it. (waits 5 minues) ...hey, this is harder than he said. i've only been a woman for five minutes and i've already received two dick pics, been called ugly by a guy i rejected who just called me hot not 30 seconds earlier, been told that my field of professional expertise isn't right for me by someone who's been doing it ony half as long as i have, and i got one angry demand that i make a sandwich from this guy i slaughtered mercilessly in dark souls pvp. i now feel russel may not be the best guide to modern womanhood.
I'm sure he feels fully victimized by them, as well. He strikes me as a "oh, you're mad, you must be PMSing" "my life sucks cuz my girlfriend's on her period" guy.
Russell: 'I had 13 people there. I packed the house!' *continues to explain what that means* Meanwhile Kurtis: *Releases new tour dates, because he literally packed the house*
@Descartes' Apparition Thank you! Unfortunately castration wouldn’t work because rape is mostly about control, not sex. That’s why you hear so many cases the women are assaulted with bottles, broom handles etc. I wish I knew the solution. But you have ppl freak out if a Gillette commercial depicts changing the violence/toxic masculinity so many young boys grow up with. But hopefully those ppl are heading into nursing homes soon.
Watching Russel's "response" video genuinely makes it hard for me to believe he's a real person with real thoughts and not just some social experiment to make the least likeable person.
@Olyvia Krisko Isn’t it funny that the guys who manipulate women’s emotions to get s*x, are also the guys that say women are crazy, manipulative, and only care about what they can get from a guy?
His condescension is insufferable. He comes off incredibly unlikable in that video. He thought he was “clapping back” but didn’t realize his hands were smacking himself in the face. He revealed his fruits, and his fruits are spoiled.
Imagine being in a relationship with him and getting upset that he keeps calling you a mare in a stable so he says "don't get triggered luv it's just a metaphor" and sits you down to explain metaphors like you're 4
Yes and there is this incredibly stupid person on TikTok called nick foster jokes we hate him because there was this one video where he was responding to a woman saying if we just refusing to have babies, and the world would literally collapse and in response to that he said the men could just tie them up and force them to have babies. Yes that is a rape joke. And when everyone was like “um that’s wrong” he responded with uh i just mean tie them into relationships and went on and on about how it’s just, dark humor, gaslighting at it’s finest, saying people can’t take a joke. Smh🤦🏽♀️
@@ReferToAsQuote he probably was or is, unfortunately. guys like this DO get women, and while they probably aren’t genuine relationships, we shouldn’t rule him out as a loser virgin who can’t get women when he likely manipulates and coerces women into being his girlfriend(s?). unfortunately men, especially those who were born rich or are in high power positions, are EXACTLY like this. and women who have nowhere else to go, have been manipulated to the point where they fully believe they love him, or are pick mes or misogynists themselves, could very well be dating him rn.
Notice how Russel’s always talking about all the girls he gets, but he never actually shows a single woman in his videos. Sure, Buddy, we definitely believe you.
And the girls he does have on his videos aren't very classy...like he claims to be. Not trying to be rude towards the women (make yo money honey) but DAMN MAN. He probably literally paid them to be in his videos 😂😂😂
Guys like Russell is literally why a lot of women think men are trash. I can't believe he even made this response video and thought that he was the one making sense. The part where he changed his website and accused Kurtis of not being able to read has me in tears. Alright that's all, I'll go back to my stable now.
He seems so incredibly insecure. His whole personally is "Hey guys, look how cool I am. Are you seeing how cool I am? Look, look! I date high-end models. I have 2 girlfriends! See?? I'm an expert about girls. I love when girls are super hard on themselves so they stay skinny. Hey, I can get into exclusive clubs. I'm cool right? Look at this fancy expensive suit i have, am i cool and stylish?. Oh, but don't make fun of me. *awkward weird insecure laugh*"
Russell also acts like “pretty privilege” is exclusive to women. Like if a guy is attractive and has a lot of followers, he’ll get the same privileges as an attractive women with a lot of followers would. So idk how he thinks its an advantage only woman can have??
It also comes with a lot of danger too. I can't speak for guys, but girls who are really pretty often have to deal with more unwanted sexual advances and worry about why people are hanging around them more. Ik all women experience that but people often see womens looks as an invite
@@bananabrain2996 yet it's "easy mode" right ;) there was that experiment/art project with the dress that could sense how many times strange men touched the model throughout her night at a club. it came down to more than once per minute that some guy she didn't know had his hand somewhere on her lower back, arm or backside. disgusting.
THANK YOU AND BOTH THE REPLIES ON THIS COMMENT I WANT TO PUNCH RUSSELL IN THE FACE FOR ALL HIS MISOGYNISTIC BEHAVIOR BUT ESPECIALLY T H A T. THINKING THAT THE ONLY THING THAT MAKES A WOMEN’S LIFE DIFFICULT IS HER PERIOD AND THINKING THAT MEN CAN’T GET FREE THINGS FOR THEIR LOOKS. I WANT TO SCREAM. PEOPLE LIKE HIM IS WHY WOMEN GET KIDNAPPED AND R*PED. WHY WE CAN’T WALK BY OURSELVES SAFELY. I DON’T WANT TO BE OBJECTIFIED ANYMORE
i think the "pretty privilege" he's talking about is just like, rich privilege, with a side of internet fame. rich enough to afford a good camera, good makeup, nice-looking clothes. there are tons of poor people who are pretty and don't get that type of stuff, obviously, geez
Okay I know it's been years since this video but as a polyamorous person in a relationship with multiple people, here's what I think about Russell's "communication." Communication is great! Limiting that communication to only in a space where everyone can see it is not so great. I guess it might've worked for them, but I feel like the right thing to do in that situation would be to ask everyone to communicate with everyone involved more. Completely restitricting communication to one channel can easily be abusive
I've been looking for a comment from another poly person! the idea that he's limiting conversation *between partners?????* psycho shit. if it's a "throuple" like he says, (not my favorite word personally, that's why the quotes) that would imply that the two women are also dating. which like, holy shit *don't do that they're also people?* like, man be explicit about the dynamic. if it was a hinge, I at least *kind of* get it. it doesn't make anything he said less mental, but it certainly would've shed more light. PS, cool name 😎
@@wildberryaj also I believe in the original video he said that one of the girls was straight and not into women and the other was Bi, so it didn’t sound like they were dating. In the original video it sounded like he was saying “having 2 girlfriends is great cause they can entertain each other with women stuff while you are out so you don’t have the think about them”
Russel would be such an abusive partner; can't admit when he's wrong, gas lighting, condescending tone, blatant lying, trying to devalue Kurtis's character, desperately trying to prove how great he is. Classic narcissist
He's admitted in a video before that he would go out with a past girlfriend who was bi. On their nights out he would get her drunk and coerce her into threesomes with other girls. He also said that she would wake up with regret and tell him multiple times that she didn't want it to happen again. He basically bragged about this and sexualized bisexual women the whole video on his tik tok.
You’ve gotta figure that he went out to a club and a woman recognized him from Kurtis’ video so he went right home and started angry filming this “rebuttal”
Sometimes things are taken out of context, it isn't a meaningless phrase. Someone could easily take clips out of Kurtis's vids to cut together an offensive compilation. Obviously it wasn't valid here, but it seems worth mentioning since you are asking why everyone uses it. Just tell them to provide the context if it was out of context, that simple. Easy to do if it is true, and they fall apart if it isn't.
The thing about Kurtis’ original video about Russel is that it was super funny and enjoyable to watch whereas in Russel’s video just seems like he’s angry like one of those people who are super angry but pretend they’re happy and laughing and are just in denial of how angry they are and it makes Russel seem kind of almost psychotic which I’m pretty sure he is.
, it isnt unusual^^ we know that?? just because its common doesn’t mean its not sexist and creepy? language is really important to the way we think about things from such a young age! so calling women girls is degrading because it leads to treating us like children. *language*is*important* anyway OP im glad you said it :)
Daniela Morgan some children don't like being treated as children. children are treated like their opinions or feelings are meaningless because of their age. children should be treated with as much respect as adults and adults should be treated with respect as well. (just adding on dont mind me)
Yeah of course he doesn't care about sexual harassment, workplace discrimination, wage discrimination, Reproductive Rights issues... ugh. The list goes on.
Does he even know how periods work and how you can get such extreme cramps that you can’t walk or live your normal life? But yeah... easy mode, right ladies and transfam
I just find it amusing that Russell’s “response” video is now deleted/private as of April 2022 but I can still watch all of the videos Kurtis made. Russell is so confident he’s right, yet keeps deleting his content or turning off comments when he gets some backlash. Who’s really the alpha male?? This whole thing is hilarious 😂😂 Keep killing it Kurtis!
More Reasons as to Why Russell is Wrong: 1. Male influencers ALSO get free shit based off their looks and followings, it's not a "female" only thing. 2. As Madison Tucker said, if he's so southern and a horseman himself, he would've known that's not how fucking stables works. This just shows that he made the metaphor because he views women is objectable, lesser than men, which is why it's ok to compare half of the human race to horses that are, again, owned by Russell in this situation. 3. I also have never been in a polyamorous relationship, and yes communication is important, but the way Russel Cry Baby Boy goes about it is not good, open communication, and is extremely manipulative. Let's use an example I'm familiar with, a friend group, and apply it here (Not a romantic/sexual relationship but still a relationship dynamic none of the less). Everyone texts in the friend group because that in itself is a relationship unit containing multiple people. Everyone ALSO texts each other individually about certain things that pertain to only those two people, whether it's about their relationship as two people, which exists independently within the friend groups relationship, or a common interest. Not everyone is going to have the same exact things in common (interests, dynamics, problems, etc.) with all individuals in the group, so to say that it is a good style of communication to forcibly make everyone only talk to each other in the same space is insane. 4. He's a horrible public speaker and to say all of the people in the room should only want material things as the ultimate end goal in their life is idiotic. 5. Also, he's definitely lying in the first part where he "agrees" with pick up artists being cringey, especially since he uses Mystery as one who he later found cringey, in the fucking room as a flex for someone who was on his show. Curtis did a really good job with his rebuttal I just needed to get some of this off my big titty goth girlfriend chest. Towards the end, I literally just couldn't stand his voice anymore so I started tuning out. In conclusion, shut the fuck up.
as someone who is in a poly relationship and has been in prior poly relationships, that's exactly how communication works. we had a group chat for group subjects and one on one chats for stuff that didn't pertain to the other person. the way r*ssell words it as "they werent allowed to talk outside the chat" is so creepy because it means he Wanted to know what they were saying about him, which implies that he didn't want them communicating about him in a way he couldnt control. mega icky
@@merrowtooth It truly is. Glad you were able to add to this with your personal experience. It's great that you're able to have good communication with your partners, that's amazing.
“He sells like... courses on how to pick up women”. I heard “he sells like... horses on to how to pick up women” and honestly if some dude sold a guy a horse to use to “pick me up” yeah I’d probably go for it.
The fact that rustle could only come up with periods when listing women’s hardships says so much. He also sounds SO anxious during the video, being really loud, the fast talking and forced smile.
I mean I agree that people finding you attractive can get you things easier but that works for both genders and comes with it's own issues such as being harrassed. The way he frames it is clearly biased.
this is random but do any of u know why russell only has 6 commets. and ALL are positive?! i rlly want to respond to this misogynist but i dont wanna comment yet bc im really confused
Kurtis has a point about the misuse and way the word “triggered” has been made into a joke, like there’s people who actually have ptsd triggers and stuff like that. And we feel like we can’t even tell people what our triggers are or mention the word trigger because people automatically take you as a joke and make you feel like you’re just “too sensitive” or “a snowflake” just for being traumatized and trying to be open about it.
He gives me vibes of somebody who makes fun of disabled people. The way he was talking like everyone that's not him is stupid and degrading others is really disgusting and it reminds me of people who treated me like that because they knew I had a disability. He's legit talking about Kurtis in a way that's so reminiscent of that and also really shows off his massive ego
He’s pretty much like “I didn’t compare women to horses, I just used horses as a thing to compare women to🙄” ??? Does he realise the whole video was just him strengthening Kurtis’ arguments lmao
Oh my god, obviously women aren’t horses, and we all understood that. The thing about it was COMPARING us to horses. I’m not a horse, but the fact that’s what I am in your “metaphor” is what offends me.
Also all this "yeah if she wants to clarify what our relationship is i'll just kick that now useless Horse out of my stable 🤠" like wtf? Of course if you are in some kind of relation with someone, most people just want to know whats going on and the fact that he kicks women out who just want clarification just shows how he doesnt give a single shit about them. Just use them for s.. manipulate them to get them into bed and just leave them behinf then. There is nothing wrong with having a lot of s..ual partners but only when you keep things clear and not just use women when they are most vunerable and then toss them away
@@Ampm444 one would think that he'd think through a metaphor and think whether or not everyone would get it, since only people from the south would understand...
@@peachysandie the same man who compares women to horses, will never admit he was wrong and straight up lies to make his points actually thinking twice about the bullshit that comes out of his mouth lmaooooo
legit like the patronising explanation of a metaphor, followed by him thinking that that makes him in the right shows that he just completely missed the fucking point lmaooooo
@@Ampm444 as a southern lass, im talking deep south, I ain't ever heard anyone call people horses. I've heard people be compared to obscene parts of the human body, but never an animal.
Okay but Russell is so rude too? I'm a woman and I felt so disgusted by his comments already but watching this it's obvious he's talking about Kurtis and clearly addressing him and being SO CONDESCENDING as if he's stupid while Kurtis plainly talked about what was wrong with the TikToks on his main channel. It's so infuriating to see such a dipship get away with saying all this and being so obnoxious, and it's clear Kurtis sees it too and he's losing his temper, for which I don't blame him at all. edit: I'm glad you guys think similarly, and I'm glad Kurtis is calling him out on his bullshit, he's pathetic
Muskan Seth I feel like the way he talks to Kurtis is the way that many men talk to women. And gaslight them assuring them what they said isn’t what they said and they just took it out context. I feel like I can identify with Kurtis’s anger because it is position that a lot of women have been put in with smooth talking “charming” guys.
The only clip necessary is how he thinks it's great that women in LA are already hard on themselves because of unrealistic standards, and how it makes it even easier for him to pick up women.
@@victoriamcmahon7790 He probably hasn't. He gives me never got the attention he wanted from women in high school so he became a misogynist vibes. He's very insecure and it radiates from his Tiktok
i was listening to this while cleaning and my dogs name is russell and he thought you were talking to him. he was very confused why he couldn’t find you
The way he talks is so annoying and childish. Adults who "baby-talk explain" things to other adults to degrade and belittle them are soo annoying and immature!
weird how he said it was beneath him to insult another man... but every word he says seems chosen just to be condescending as shit. As if that isn't insulting as fuck.
What bugs me the most is him pretending like the girls theoretically are fully consenting but if they leave when they figure out he's not thinking long term implies he is misleading his "stable"
I find it so ironic that he’s criticizing kurtis for “being too stupid for a metaphor” when he doesn’t seem to be able to understand that he was joking the whole time???????
the fact that russell basically says "women are more sexualized so their lives are easier because they can get more followers" is kinda gross, unwanted sexualization is a huge issue
Russell: "communication is key" also Russell: "if a woman wants a real conversation send her out to pasture or take her to bed to keep her "dizzy" so she can't argue" 🤢🤢🤢
It's like something an ex (you'll see why he's in that group) once told me, "People can be hot without being pretty, just like you can want to have sex with girls but not really like them, at all. I don't want to have a conversation with her, just have sex with her. 🤷🏻♀️ " They just act as placeholders, vessels through which to enhance his confidence and self-worth, which is pretty sad, when you think about it.
A point that Kurtis didn't clarify: there's a difference between meeting people organically and "pick-up artistry." Russell and other pick-up artists treat meeting women as a game, where the actual women mean nothing to them, and they're only interested in trying to have sex with them. That's what is creepy and weird: having only the goal of picking up the women without showing any actual interest in her.
Either that or any girl that conversed with him/responded to any of the stupid shit he says toward them was just trying to be nice in hopes he would leave them alone after that
Russel openly said that he respects Kurtis and his opinions and then continues to be condescending and talk down to Kurtis for the entire video saying things that imply Kurtis is just plain stupid and “can’t read”.
That’s the strategy my two teenage sisters used on me for 10 years. You try and show your the bigger person then come at them with petty insults you can’t really say anything back about cause ull just validate it. He can’t hold in all that embarrassment that he can’t help but act like a little girl(which most little girls still act more mature) and embody the guy crying with a happy mask picture.
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Kurtis: don't compare women to horses
Russell: i wasn't comparing women to horses, i was making a metaphor in which i COMPARE WOMEN to HORSES
「 soda pop 」 no he was making a 🌈metaphor🌈 in which he COMPARED women to HORSES
@@alexpool9007 Yeah, we can't let it confuse us
Lmao actually true
As if this guy has ever understood subtlety in his life-
soda pop I know that you’re probably very confused, people like you obviously wouldn’t understand, since I’m just so smart and everyone else is stupid. See, I wasn’t comparing women to horses, I was being *metaphorical*
I used a *metaphor* in which I simply *compared women* to *horses* , not once did I *compare women* to *horses* though... someday you’ll be able to understand 💕 😂
The fact that this guy has to say, "I don't actually think women are horses," is sending me
Leslie Coronado same energy as Alfie Deyes saying ‘I’m not a Tory’
I know I was laughing so hard when you said that
Is that's the horse from horsing around?
I'm glad he cleared that up 😂
Same energy as hard rock nick's "I was not gay"
Little known fact: Pimps are commonly known to refer to their prostitutes as their “horses” in their “stable” so its obviously used as a metaphor to objectify and sexualize women already and that’s something he tapped into! Congratulations Russ buddy!!!
I didn't know that, wow, I didn't think it could get worse
*says “little known fact”*
*proceeds to say that pimps are ~commonly known~ to say something*
@Gabiii are you disagreeing with the statement?
@@annemajerus1796 nah just nitpicky grammatical stuff
Gabiii Probably it is:
“little known” = to ppl who don’t know pimps
“Commonly known” = to the “pimp community”
“Men feel discouraged that women have access to certain things men don’t” YOU’RE KIDDING 💀💀
How badly can you misinterpret literally life, like everyday things. I get that he's misogynistic BUT DUDE PICK A STRUGGLE OH MY GOD YOU CAN'T BE THAT DENSE 😭😭😭
Does anyone have any idea what he's even referring too?! Cause all my mind can go to is like tampons and pads and I'm like "You CAN buy those dude, don't know what you're gonna do with em but you CAN buy them."
ive had men jealous of my access to transition. well, they used to be
@@arthropodqueen if you already transitioned, CONGRATS :DDDD 🎉🌸💕
The lack of specificity really highlights how these fellas are just out here punching drywall. What do you need access to, boo? You want in on the pink tax? Nasty ass dudes groping you on public transit? What's got you down, baby boy?
Kurtis: don't call women horses
Russ: Kurtis said that it's NEVER ok to EVER meet a woman in public UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. KURTIS DOESNT WANT MEN TO BE HAPPY.
Here, take this comment
like how the HELL did he come to that conclusion
To be perfect at lying means to believe ur own lies. If it doesn't make no sense tho u might have to pull out some ridiculous nonsense out yo ass...
yo and that "metaphor" is actually from a zac efron movie, and it also isn't even really a metaphor, he is actually just explaining how his dating-life works while calling his dating-roster a stable, and women mares, the closes he gets to an actual metaphor is "thorough-bred" but that isn't really a worthwhile comparison still, and is kind of disgusting.
Men dont have to talk to women to be happy... like gay and asexual men exist lmao
Russell seems like the kind of guy who thinks he can “turn a lesbian straight”
i feel like he’s said something along these lines before but 🤷🏻♀️
he thinks he can, but obviously cant
if anything, he turns straights lesbian
He's one of those "All women are bisexual, they just don't know it yet" kind of guys
@@sleepysheep420 what a burn lol.
Kurtis: "...and fetishizing-"
Me: "horses"
Kurtis: "-an entire gender-"
me: "oh shoot yeah that too"
I don’t know why this got to me but it has me cracking up
When someone fetishizes your gender but you actually forget
I think he said sexuality lol
hate to be that person, but he said sexuality
💀
Two years later. The fact that Kurtis single handedly made this clown embarrass himself off of the internet almost entirely gives me so much joy.
its been 4 years
this video is still hilarious
Russell is trying SO HARD to emulate Kurtis's editing style but he doesn't have a sense of comedy or timing so it just flops. sad.
Fr😭😭
it’s so cringe! the random irrelevant memes and clips he throws in
Oh crap, you’re right!
🤣
HE DELETED ALL THE COMMENTS BY KURTIS FANS 😂😂😂
At first I read that wrong and I thought u we’re making fun of kurtis and not Russell and I was sad for a sec
“I’m not gonna attack Kurtis’ character” continues to call him and idiot and imply he’s stupid “for not understanding a metaphor”
Honestly though, people like that suck
And says that all he does is bash, shame and bully people
FR Rusell rlly messed up
"I'm not going to attack him"
*a while later&
"The technical skills I have is something I'm certain Kurtis could never come close to "
“It’s not that I lied, it’s just that, you Kurtis have poor reading comprehension”
Until a girl comes out and says that she was in a relationship with this man or is one of the girls he talks about, I will continue to believe he has never touched a woman.
Lily Holmes and if he has he gaslighted the ever loving fuck out of her. it freaks me out how manipulative he is
LLLMMMFFFAAAOOO !!!!! I seriously believe that 99% of what comes out of his mouth is just LIES🤦♀️ He is DELUSIONAL. && To think there's impressionable people who actually believe/listen to him ???
I can't.
thoroughly confused/worried about the fact that he said he has shared pictures of the women he was in a poly relationship with in his newsletter but CAN'T SHARE THAT ON TH-cam BECAUSE IT'S INAPPROPRIATE. what. what the fuck are you sharing of these women in a newsletter???? good lord
i HOPE he has never touched a woman
I followed his private account and the dude doesn't even tag his supposed girlfriends. Like how do we know they are not paid, models? and the poor picture quality... my dad's 5-year-old android clicks better pics. he regularly promotes his course and it's basically about texting multiple women... like that's not a relationship. he is bragging about wearing a prada but how tf does he earn money? trust fund?
my favorite part of his horse analogy was when he said that after his partners realize he doesn't value the relationship they "go off to greener pastures." that phrase has always meant "leaving to find a better or more appealing situation." literally just tattling on himself from start to finish. i guess this is how he wants to perceive himself out to the world as 😔
Smh my head 😔😔 sebastian skittles-hair army cas balls would be so disappointed in him
& when he says that they "eventually realize it's not going anywhere" like okay Russ, tattling on yourself. Maybe just tell them that from the beginning, ya know?
That's why his defense of "it's just a metaphor bro" is so hilariously stupid.
The advise in itself is manipulative and dehumanising regardless of what metaphor you use to illustrate it.
The reason most of the mockery at him started with the metaphor was because of how hilariously transparent it was!
Was literally my exact reaction. Man's like "communication is important and if everybody knows what they're getting into it's fine" after saying "they start asking questions"
@@FionavanDahl I mean shit we don’t know what he’s doing. He could be trafficking people for all we know. People have pointed out the terminology he uses is literally what traffickers use.
Not only objectifying, but horsifying women
😂
he do be an underwater horse from the 50s doe 😳
I laughed out loud for a whole min. Thx 😂
💀💀💀
Stop horsifying us😢✋
he thinks being objectified and over-sexualised is a privilege
I was your 667th like and I feel bad but I couldn't not agree
the worst part is so many men think like him. this world is fucked.
ben he thinks of it as life on “easy mode” apparently 🤷♀️
Lol it is but ok keep living life on easy mode keep winning those court case, keep getting lower time for crimes you commit keep being put on a pedestal for being a women, keep making false rape claims and having every one believe you. Keep attack men’s rights and men’s health organizations keep getting custody of the kids.
Man in the Mask read the rest of these comments. you’re so very wrong. tell that to your mother or sister
“I’m not gonna make fun of him because that’s beneath me”
**proceeds to make fun of kurtis throughout the whole video saying he’s too stupid to understand what he’s saying because clearly russell is the smart one here**
“Obviously kurtis doesn’t know what a metaphor is”
“To most people that may be obvious, but to kurtis, it’s not”
“You get so triggered by a metaphor i mean how do you live your life”
“That should be obvious, i mean i know that’s not obvious to kurtis”
“that’s what half baked journalism gets you kootis conurs”
“it’s not that i lied, it’s just that you, kurtis, have poor reading comprehension”
“takes a certain amount of technical skill that i’m sure kurtis couldn’t even come close to”
...shall i go on?
(btw i’m paraphrasing some of these so some aren’t direct quotes but you get the gist)
Insert *crying man with happy face smask picture*
I feel so sorry for him(he’s delusional)😞 he should do himself a favor and just- shut up
Journalism?? So it was a journalism?? Wtf i don't understand him
My favorite thing is when he tells Kurtis his journalism is "half-baked" then immediately says his name incorrectly.
time stamp?
@@em14madz 8:20 and also 39:25
The worst thing about Russell is that he doesn’t realize what’s wrong with his opinion
majority of people know when their opinion is problematic unlike russell and his lose brain
Russell has a big ego
Why would he think he's wrong?
i feel like the fact that he tried to suddenly change his tune means he knows whats wrong and tries to cover it up and "explain" (aka totally change the context) when reactions are bad. i feel like its almost worse. like kurtis said, if his video was just him going "so what?" its almost more respectable than watching him clearly get what kurtis' points were and then try to gaslight and twist them to sound like a better person. its like when cops go (not to like back them up but just for the example) "if you didn't do anything wrong, why did you run/cover up your tracks/hide the weapon etc?". so here its more like russell if you genuinely didn't mean any harm than why did you go off twisting everything around to seem like you meant something different? if he really thought his opinion was ok, his video would've been a hell of a lot shorter smh. he's so skeevy.
@@alaurent2679 Exactly. His refusal to deny or even address any of the claims of misogyny tell us all we need to know.
and all people that try to tell him that he’s wrong are “HATERS”
His editing is painfully cringey, but still not as cringey as his entire worldview.
Agreed. Also, he’s being so insulting. The amount of passive aggression and condescension blows my mind. He’s treating Curtis like he’s below him.
it seems so narcissistic
The clips weren't even...relevant. They barely added to the "points" he was making, and as Mr. Miller said, this guy's sense of humor was pulled straight from 2015
ecosound34 not even. like 2004 humor mixed with 1950 misogynistic boomer humor. also yeah they didn’t make sense at all and added no laughter points
Ya he clearly paid someone to do it which is even worse
Nazis comparing Jews to rats: “woah hold on, it was a METAPHOR!”
😂 you said it before I could 👏👏
Apologize first, before making that comment so I won't get mad before you make that comment #teamballs
Sarah Faith oh my gosh he thinks iguanas can talk
those are two very different situations
Trol Lololol Bro they can have u ever seen Dora
I’m a gay male and it’s so odd seeing these guys that think being sexist gets them women
No fr like how is that gonna work bucko
it’s even worse when you realize that’s like…a good chunk of straight guys. I couldn’t say if it’s a majority or not but there’s a reason that the whole ‘I hate my wife’ rhetoric is so normalized. I’m a bi girl but everyday I get closer and closer to just limited myself to only women bc so many guys are just so much worse than any queer woman, it’s not even a competition.
@@macyskaggs3772 I'm in the same situation lol
does it not?
frr, like u hate women but ur homophobic? thats crazy
Guy who promotes “confident men” gets confronted by an actually confident man. Guy who promotes “confident men” is so scared of the confident man that he doesn’t ever show a single clip from real confident man.
Guy who promotes “confident men” doesn’t let people see the like to dislike ratio on his videos along with his subscriber and follower counts while also routinely deleting videos and comments that do not praise him.
Guy who promotes "confident men" deletes his "confident response" to an actual confident man
“He’s just some guy” bruh how could he disrespect a mayor like that 💀💀
DAMN RIGHT! 😂🌼
Why doesn't this comment have more likes?
M S HAHAHHA THANK YOU
EX A C T LY, and if he’s just “some guy on the internet” then why tF is he responding
Bruh Kurtis is the only government I want to respect.
Kurtis: how about we treat women as human beings and not objects?
Russel: how DARE you insult me in this way
This was the craziest comment for a bit
I forgot which Russel we were talking about (bc let’s be real, I don’t know a single person irl named Russel) and was thinking of Russel from Gorillaz? Bc that’s the only Russel I remember hearing of. But like since Russel Hobbs isn’t his real name, I thought they were having some fake joke beef about misogyny or something with the characters?? And then Kurtis clarified and I remembered but dude what in the actual fucc am I thinking, I was very confused
Dude I literally just woke up and should prob go back to bed
What should I name my channel shhhhh, go back to sleep.
@@waitwaitwaitno3182 you really should go to bed, there is something wrong with your head
ATTACKED by stupid *TRIGGERED* Kurtis Conner who also has MILLIONS OF FOLLOWERS but I have to remind you that I am a nice person and am above being an idiot...
EDIT: this is a joke btw lmao
uDevil06 were all here rn, huh
the bar is on the ground, but seeing Kurtis be so angry at this man and genuinel defending women,etc, made me tear up. So man guys pretend like it isn't a serious issue that there are sexists like these, but it _is_ . it hurts so much knowing that there are people who will never see you as anything other than a sex-object, a bitch or someone stupid. it _hurts_ and so many guys pretend it's just.. normal. Even guys who aren't sexist still sometimes play it of as if it isn't a big deal, but it is, it ipacts our every life, indirectly or directly. Seeing someone stand up against it should be normal, but it sadly isn't yet, and i'm so thankful Kurtis still did it.
Me too. And these dumb "alpha" guys think women want dudes like them. No we want funny creative men with integrity like Kurtis. I'm not even just saying that. (I am very happy for Kurtis and his wife with all due respect. ❤️) but Kurtis wipes the floor with these dudes fr
Agreed. Seeing men call out sexism and misogyny, or identifying as feminists, shouldn't be a point of high praise, it should be a bare minimum standard. But it always makes me happy to see men stand up for equality of the sexes/genders.
The more I learn about guys like Russel the more I appreciate my parents not being stupid, seeing so many men brake the bare, bare minimum is so sad. Every single reasonable man on the Earth would stomp on Russel’s testicles if given a good chance. Sorry for everyone in this comment thread who has had experiences with people like Russel, I really hope you never get to see people like him again. Have a great day
THANK YOU. I remember being like, 11, and I saw a video similar to russell heartly's content, and i straight up cried, because i realized that to some men I am simply worth nothing. It hurts so badly...
100% Agree, you have handsome guys like Russell and then your every day guy not what is considered handsome Kurtis, the fact that Kurtis actually called Russell on his mysoginy and explained how it's not ok makes him 1000% more attractive to me than the asshole with a pretty face, I cant help it that every guy that goes of their way to defend women seem like boyfriend material 😅
This guy is extra cringe because he’s trying so hard to act like he’s confident but his insecurities shine BRIGHT
Like a diamond 🎶
He deleted all the comments criticizing him on his video 😂
😂 exactly
Hero Protagonist there’s 144k views and only 6 comments. It’s insane
Ivanka Kaboza like a diamond with a disco light shining on it
It hurts me to see Russell accuse Kurtis of "Taking his words out of context" while he himself commits more than 10 logical fallacies each time he opens his mouth
Not to mention he doesn’t show any of Kurtis’s video
"your youth and beauty, let me suckle on your youth and beauty" - Kurtis Conner
( ( 18:36 ))
This comment sent me so far into space omg lmao thank you for this
This comment taught me what the word fallacy means
@@cartkart1 such an honor to do so *curtsy*
Metaphors aren’t just randomly assigning symbols, it’s a way to convey a point. When you say “her eyes were daggers” you’re trying to say she looked angry or intensely. When you say that women are horses, you’re saying they’re practically pets who are just there for your use, and you don’t see them as equals.
exactly
facts
It's crazy how he didn't realize why Kurtis brought up that point. Obviously in the situation he was explaining, the girls wanted to go further in their relationship, while he just thought of them as tools for sex. That's the issue
Yeah, he talks like we can all be trained and can be easily talked into sex. Like dude... No. We have personalities and preferences just like men do.
He’s the only one who didn’t know how to use a metaphor to convey his true message. He’s an idiot.
I Am in a polyamorous relationship and I can tell you, its fucking weird to say you can only text eachother via group chat. It's super insecure to not let your girlfriends talk to eachother privately, its honestly abusive. My partners and I trust eachother, so we don't need to restrict each other's communication, it's super messed up to do that.
Oh yeahh. I'm poly and also pan so the way he not only did that, but also blatantly dismissed any relationship those women could potentially develop with eachother as justgirlythings that come after his own needs. Ew. So many layers of icky.
Damn y’all living the life.
I'm glad to see this from someone who knows because I was sitting here thinking that sounds like using polyamory as an excuse to restrict your partners' privacy.
Thanks, I was pretty confused since I know nothing of poly relationships 😅
400th like, but thats super awesome!
“He’s banned from posting? Oh that sucks.. *giggles*“
Emma Vidal ugh i think the live was referring to tik tok being banned. i wish he was banned from posting
let's report his tiktok😍😍
That would explain why he's on TH-cam. Don't get me wrong I love Kurtis but I don't want him to respond to that guy. I hope this is last video on him. That Russell guy is just trying to get more clout.
@@beefar0ni mmmm Tru. Nvm then 😂
@@beefar0ni not all men incapable of seeing women as equals are incels. there's definitely some intersection there, but it's not the same thing
Russell: “I don’t want to attack Kurtis personally”
Also Russell: “Kurtis is stupid because he doesn’t understand metaphors and can’t read”
fr
And also uses a cut-out picture of him and mocks him in a squeaky voice with dumb versions of his argument.
Right! And then has the nerve to call Kurtis a bully.
@@farkleberry867 he obviously knows who kurtis is because he took the time to animate the cut out like the canadians from south park lmao
Hahahahah
I checked Russell’s twitter and his last one is “Remember that guys marry who they want. Girls marry who they can.” And he thinks that’s NOT demeaning to women? Disgusting
Me, who rejected a proposal and called off an engagement: 👁👄👁
I can't even wrap my head around the fact that someone, still today thinks that, that's insane
That’s basically saying: LOl gIrl DeSperaTe AnD mArRy bIg haIry mAnlY hot duDe But hOt duDe noT Want!
I c k y b o i
🤮🤮🤮
"It's below me to insult a man" *proceeds to continuously insult Kurtis*
He's trying to act like he's handling this so well but you can tell by his tone and gestures that he's _super_ offended by Kurtis lmaooo
Also the way he’s trying so hard to make Kurtis and everyone who agrees with him feel stupid just speaks volumes about who he really is
he’s literally about to burst into tears and scream, you can hear it
@@riverdaisy4215 Agreed. Like, no, we do not stand a gaslighting king.
Look at russel’s comments he deleted SO many of them lol
I found him so annoying in the video because of that, somehow hiding his anger makes him look more angry.
Russell: Kurtis’s channel is all about shaming people
Kurtis’s channel: Look I’m a magician
How do I like this multiple times
Hahahahahaha
Hahhhahhaha
@@katiaportante7022 I think you just did
*~magic mike~*
the fact that he's openly said "capitalize on bisexual women" and worse shit and still believes he's in the right
periodt 🤢🤢🤢
fr🤢🤢
As a bi man thats a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge yikes 🤢🤢🤢
and thats a fact😳 also mans didnt even address that all he addressed was shit that he could think of something to say back and half of the shit he rebuttled with didnt even make sense
i bet he has a fucking fetish for lesbians like many guys and it'd make sense since he was with 2 women
Russell’s guide to being an average woman:
💜 Be attractive
💜 Be outgoing and social
💜 Have over 3 million followers on social media
💜 Get free things for being pretty
💜 Only go for alpha males
Now you can live the woman life :)
💜 Be a horse
@@amyhughes2149 BAHAHH YES
💜 live underwater
@@Live_Laugh_Loathe I just love your Username and pfp 😌💀
shoot, if that's all i need, i'm gonna do it.
(waits 5 minues)
...hey, this is harder than he said. i've only been a woman for five minutes and i've already received two dick pics, been called ugly by a guy i rejected who just called me hot not 30 seconds earlier, been told that my field of professional expertise isn't right for me by someone who's been doing it ony half as long as i have, and i got one angry demand that i make a sandwich from this guy i slaughtered mercilessly in dark souls pvp.
i now feel russel may not be the best guide to modern womanhood.
"Confidence is key" Also him: _deletes all negative comments leaving only _*_3_*
I checked his video all his 4 comments were defending him😭
I think he finally just turned his comments off completely 🤦🏻♀️
Bruh. Definitely confident, lol.
I was on his live and people were commenting "BARK BARK" and "💩💩💩💩" for 5 min long the first comment I left was 💩💩💩💩💩 and he blocked me
He also made it so we can’t see the likes and dislikes
Don't forget that he disabled likes and dislikes. What a big, confident, alpha male
And he deletes comments, such a strong man!
That's not fair I was gonna go and dislike his video :(
he blocked me on instagram bc i called him a piss baby
@@ilikeartsandfarts8452
Well done, soldier. You’ve done us proud. Keep fighting the good fight. 🎖
@@emmer23 u still can. we just cant see it but russel can ;)
this man thinks that the only problem women face is having monthly periods
I'm sure he feels fully victimized by them, as well. He strikes me as a "oh, you're mad, you must be PMSing" "my life sucks cuz my girlfriend's on her period" guy.
I bet he's one of those people who still thinks that girls pee blood on their periods and that PMS lasts throughout the entire cycle.
And the goes on to say that's what Kurtis believes smh
Menahil Ahmad he really likes to put words in kurtis’s mouth
@@meljstephan fr he thinks other people's pain somehow is affecting him morr
Russell: 'I had 13 people there. I packed the house!' *continues to explain what that means*
Meanwhile Kurtis: *Releases new tour dates, because he literally packed the house*
he tries to play off how hes happy a big channel is talking about him but you can just tell hes foaming at the mouth with jealousy lol
i feel like if kurtis was a woman russell would use every sexist insult in the book. he would absolutely not care about "respecting" kurtis' content
Omgg yeah R I P
Oh god I’d hate to even think about what Russel would say to her
And he would’ve called him sweetie a lot. Js.
If Kurtis was a woman he wouldn’t have made a response.
gleefulsunset im pretty sure he would but he would like not take ”her“ seriously
Kurtis: he’s objectifying women.
Russell: he doesn’t want me to be happy. He doesn’t want men to be happy. He’s a bully he attacc.
It really says a lot about Horse Boy that he thinks not objectifying women is something that oppresses all men and makes them unhappy.
Awww wussle gon go cwyy, he a wittle piss baby owwwww. Curtis Konnors went and buwwied him 😢
Bee Joy
Poor thing 😢 he got bullied on the internet 😓😓 I’m gonna call the police because my poor Russel got bullied for being a cweep 😭🤬🥺😾
dude gets off from being mysoginistic. men like him needs to disappear
Russell “i never said women dont have hardships” also him: “WOMEN LIVE LIFE ON EASY MODE”
I like how he's trying to paraphrase Kurtis, but the only problem he can come up with that hot women might face is "periods."
*”and women dont have that luxury”*
Jesus how I’d love to be able to just hike on trails by myself without fear of being dragged into the bushes. Or walking anywhere in the night time.
@Descartes' Apparition Thank you! Unfortunately castration wouldn’t work because rape is mostly about control, not sex. That’s why you hear so many cases the women are assaulted with bottles, broom handles etc. I wish I knew the solution. But you have ppl freak out if a Gillette commercial depicts changing the violence/toxic masculinity so many young boys grow up with. But hopefully those ppl are heading into nursing homes soon.
the fact that Russell really thinks that the biggest struggle for all women is just their periods is straight up bonkers tbh
Watching Russel's "response" video genuinely makes it hard for me to believe he's a real person with real thoughts and not just some social experiment to make the least likeable person.
Fun fact: Russell deleted his response video, what an alpha male ✨
✨That's what alpha males do✨
@꧁⟭⟬are you pressed⟭⟬꧂ the most omega thing
Very confident
Can confirm!!! Sus
What a strong beta male
Holy shit. Russel is so insecure that he deleted his rebuttal video. That’s incredible.
He did? Was it filled with only dislikes?
@@gs2782
I don’t know, but it’s not on his channel anymore.
@@awesometown1000 I just checked and it’s really gone lolololol
he had over 100k views and exactly 3 comments. yeah, that sure reeks confidence
@@ayaso_fia how much do you wanna bet the views were inflated and most of his followers are bought 😂
This guy is literally soooo manipulative this is why girls are scared of dudes lmao
I love that your profile pic is a horse lmao
Amira yea lol it would probably confuse Russell, he might think that’s me 🤦🏻♀️😂
Olyvia Krisko HAHAH underrated 🤣🤣
@Olyvia Krisko Isn’t it funny that the guys who manipulate women’s emotions to get s*x, are also the guys that say women are crazy, manipulative, and only care about what they can get from a guy?
@@bluegirl278 They are projecting
“i think we're gonna be friends!“
“no😐”
His condescension is insufferable. He comes off incredibly unlikable in that video. He thought he was “clapping back” but didn’t realize his hands were smacking himself in the face. He revealed his fruits, and his fruits are spoiled.
Imagine being in a relationship with him and getting upset that he keeps calling you a mare in a stable so he says "don't get triggered luv it's just a metaphor" and sits you down to explain metaphors like you're 4
512 - I feel my blood pressure rising just thinking back to his 🌈 “metaphor” 🌈 talk
@@DearestFandoms Sorry reminded you, he's quite insufferable.
this is poetry
I completely agree I’d just like to say that I read condescension as condensation
- He blocked Kurtis
- He turned off likes/dislikes
- He has a private instagram account
woowwwwwwww
and his youtube bio is still “confidence is key!” ironic
chenlechime 😂
He also removed any negative comments on his video so theres only 6 comments
@@elliedoesntwanttobehere I only see three, as of now. The idiots in his comments, though.
(They also appear to be all men, so...)
@@therealcannon7450 sort them by newest first and you can see more
his entire “clap back” video is just him trying to gaslight you, it’s really embarrassing tbh
I’m at 22:35 and XX chromosomes are screaming
probably how he handles every relationship
YES! It’s *definitely* gaslighting omfg!
Yes and there is this incredibly stupid person on TikTok called nick foster jokes we hate him because there was this one video where he was responding to a woman saying if we just refusing to have babies, and the world would literally collapse and in response to that he said the men could just tie them up and force them to have babies. Yes that is a rape joke. And when everyone was like “um that’s wrong” he responded with uh i just mean tie them into relationships and went on and on about how it’s just, dark humor, gaslighting at it’s finest, saying people can’t take a joke. Smh🤦🏽♀️
Sahi At home what the f u c k.
As a polyamorous person, we do not claim him
Don’t worry you don’t need to, he clearly was never in a poly relationship lmao
@fart63 i doubt he was in ANY relationships at all lol
@@ReferToAsQuote he probably was or is, unfortunately. guys like this DO get women, and while they probably aren’t genuine relationships, we shouldn’t rule him out as a loser virgin who can’t get women when he likely manipulates and coerces women into being his girlfriend(s?). unfortunately men, especially those who were born rich or are in high power positions, are EXACTLY like this. and women who have nowhere else to go, have been manipulated to the point where they fully believe they love him, or are pick mes or misogynists themselves, could very well be dating him rn.
so Russell is a "women are only valid when they've been sexualized" person. got it
women don't exist unless they are sexy 20something instagram models!
Omfg finally the description i was looking for!!!🌺🌺🌺🌼🌼🌼🌸🌸🌸🌈🌈🌈
Kid what the actual f-
He’s the kind of guy who assumes women and men can never just be friends
Lily Heckenkamp pack it up TateSpeech
I think he actually did.
this may have been another guy but I remember him saying something about men only being friends with women for sex
Kaylen Is smol Probably from D’Angelo Wallace’s video on Elliott Hulse
WoMmeNZ r thE bAd TheY R Not SeNd bOb anD R NOT LYK WHEN I SND MESSEG TO THMS AKSING FOR NUS THEN THEY POST SCREENSHOT
@@rahulmenon4357 k
Notice how Russel’s always talking about all the girls he gets, but he never actually shows a single woman in his videos. Sure, Buddy, we definitely believe you.
There's some videos on his tiktok where he's with a lady, but it's only one lady not MILLIONS as he'd like people to think
Miriam Halpern
“You’re just jealous i got 30 gfs and you got only one 😎😎”
**doesnt show a single female in any videos**
except for that one girl he payed to twerk on him lmao
Yesss! WHERES THE RECEIPTS?! 😂
And the girls he does have on his videos aren't very classy...like he claims to be. Not trying to be rude towards the women (make yo money honey) but DAMN MAN. He probably literally paid them to be in his videos 😂😂😂
Russel Hartley is genuinely the most insecure guy I’ve ever seen in my entire life
How do you see it, that he is insecure?
Guys like Russell is literally why a lot of women think men are trash. I can't believe he even made this response video and thought that he was the one making sense. The part where he changed his website and accused Kurtis of not being able to read has me in tears. Alright that's all, I'll go back to my stable now.
TheSwedishKiwi NOT THE STABLE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😂
He seems so incredibly insecure. His whole personally is "Hey guys, look how cool I am. Are you seeing how cool I am? Look, look! I date high-end models. I have 2 girlfriends! See?? I'm an expert about girls. I love when girls are super hard on themselves so they stay skinny. Hey, I can get into exclusive clubs. I'm cool right? Look at this fancy expensive suit i have, am i cool and stylish?. Oh, but don't make fun of me. *awkward weird insecure laugh*"
And guys like Kurtis are why I keep giving men chances but I’ll probably never meet someone like Kurtis irl. See you at the stables :)
😂😂😂😂😂 party at my stable if ya wanna join 💁🏼♀️
Is he deleting comments ? Cause the dislike/like ratio is turned off and only 9 positves comments....but over 100k views yeah LMAO
anyways i hope kurtis knows he’s right about everything. i hate that this guy is trying to make him feel dumb for correctly calling out sexism.
its cus kurtis is a real man lmao
It's hilarious that Kurtis calls him out on every point though. Those gaslighters wanna feel so smart lmao
that's so low n immature lmfao. like the dude couldn't defend himself in any other way other than making kurtis "look stupid"
100% agree but also i love your pfp
Quenby Wilson yay taste
Russell also acts like “pretty privilege” is exclusive to women. Like if a guy is attractive and has a lot of followers, he’ll get the same privileges as an attractive women with a lot of followers would. So idk how he thinks its an advantage only woman can have??
It also comes with a lot of danger too. I can't speak for guys, but girls who are really pretty often have to deal with more unwanted sexual advances and worry about why people are hanging around them more. Ik all women experience that but people often see womens looks as an invite
@@bananabrain2996 yet it's "easy mode" right ;) there was that experiment/art project with the dress that could sense how many times strange men touched the model throughout her night at a club. it came down to more than once per minute that some guy she didn't know had his hand somewhere on her lower back, arm or backside. disgusting.
THANK YOU AND BOTH THE REPLIES ON THIS COMMENT I WANT TO PUNCH RUSSELL IN THE FACE FOR ALL HIS MISOGYNISTIC BEHAVIOR BUT ESPECIALLY T H A T. THINKING THAT THE ONLY THING THAT MAKES A WOMEN’S LIFE DIFFICULT IS HER PERIOD AND THINKING THAT MEN CAN’T GET FREE THINGS FOR THEIR LOOKS. I WANT TO SCREAM. PEOPLE LIKE HIM IS WHY WOMEN GET KIDNAPPED AND R*PED. WHY WE CAN’T WALK BY OURSELVES SAFELY. I DON’T WANT TO BE OBJECTIFIED ANYMORE
and if hes talking about the benefits of being an instagram influencer.. why not say that? why generalize to all women
i think the "pretty privilege" he's talking about is just like, rich privilege, with a side of internet fame. rich enough to afford a good camera, good makeup, nice-looking clothes. there are tons of poor people who are pretty and don't get that type of stuff, obviously, geez
Okay I know it's been years since this video but as a polyamorous person in a relationship with multiple people, here's what I think about Russell's "communication." Communication is great! Limiting that communication to only in a space where everyone can see it is not so great. I guess it might've worked for them, but I feel like the right thing to do in that situation would be to ask everyone to communicate with everyone involved more. Completely restitricting communication to one channel can easily be abusive
I've been looking for a comment from another poly person!
the idea that he's limiting conversation *between partners?????* psycho shit. if it's a "throuple" like he says, (not my favorite word personally, that's why the quotes) that would imply that the two women are also dating. which like, holy shit *don't do that they're also people?* like, man be explicit about the dynamic. if it was a hinge, I at least *kind of* get it. it doesn't make anything he said less mental, but it certainly would've shed more light.
PS, cool name 😎
@@wildberryaj also I believe in the original video he said that one of the girls was straight and not into women and the other was Bi, so it didn’t sound like they were dating.
In the original video it sounded like he was saying “having 2 girlfriends is great cause they can entertain each other with women stuff while you are out so you don’t have the think about them”
Russel would be such an abusive partner; can't admit when he's wrong, gas lighting, condescending tone, blatant lying, trying to devalue Kurtis's character, desperately trying to prove how great he is. Classic narcissist
apparently he forced one of his partners into sleeping w another girl when she was full straight. she even told him she didn’t want to 🤢
@@tlnimwah what a horrible human being
He definitely is
He's admitted in a video before that he would go out with a past girlfriend who was bi. On their nights out he would get her drunk and coerce her into threesomes with other girls. He also said that she would wake up with regret and tell him multiple times that she didn't want it to happen again. He basically bragged about this and sexualized bisexual women the whole video on his tik tok.
@@maggiew6234 god almighty. he BRAGGED about that? how shitty can a person get, honestly
He “doesn’t care” while his whole video is him being defensive
You’ve gotta figure that he went out to a club and a woman recognized him from Kurtis’ video so he went right home and started angry filming this “rebuttal”
Haha yet he claims to be so confident 🤣
Yeah, you know, caring is uncool and probably FEMININE (yuck!).
Kat Videl his ego is so fragile and it shows
kurtis got actually *angry* in this video and it was terrifying because it’s like the cool teacher finally getting fed up
It's admirable he got angry though.
he so fine when he's angry like that like damn
@@petrichor3561 YESSSS, THAT'S WHAT I THOUGHT 😳
@@petrichor3561 Daddy Humorous turned Daddy Fed up 🚶💕
@@petrichor3561 👁️👄👁️
He didn’t even do a metaphor, he used a simile
thank you so much I was looking for this comment
wasn’t it a metaphor?
@@-chirpchirp-similes use “like” or “as” in their comparison. A simile is a type of metaphor.
He acts like the character in a movie that is meant to be disliked
How is this so accurate? 😂 Also, stellar eye makeup! Kudos!
The vulture in Brooklyn 99
Micah from rdr2
He’s Joshu from jojolion
Like kokichi from Drv3
LMFAO “it was taken out of context” WHY IS THAT PEOPLES FAVOURITE THING TO SAY TO EXCUSE SOMETHING OFFENSIVE
Because they want to gaslight ✨
maybe he's a trump supporter 😳
Sometimes things are taken out of context, it isn't a meaningless phrase. Someone could easily take clips out of Kurtis's vids to cut together an offensive compilation.
Obviously it wasn't valid here, but it seems worth mentioning since you are asking why everyone uses it.
Just tell them to provide the context if it was out of context, that simple. Easy to do if it is true, and they fall apart if it isn't.
i mean shane dawson got away with doing that for a while
They’re like “I hate women” then say that like-
The thing about Kurtis’ original video about Russel is that it was super funny and enjoyable to watch whereas in Russel’s video just seems like he’s angry like one of those people who are super angry but pretend they’re happy and laughing and are just in denial of how angry they are and it makes Russel seem kind of almost psychotic which I’m pretty sure he is.
He literally never refers to women as women. He’s talking about adult women and yet he calls them girls. Creepy and uhhh so sexist.
Not trying to defend him but thats not really unusual or bad.
he calls women horses and chimpanzees too 👁👁
, it isnt unusual^^ we know that?? just because its common doesn’t mean its not sexist and creepy? language is really important to the way we think about things from such a young age! so calling women girls is degrading because it leads to treating us like children. *language*is*important* anyway OP im glad you said it :)
Daniela Morgan some children don't like being treated as children. children are treated like their opinions or feelings are meaningless because of their age. children should be treated with as much respect as adults and adults should be treated with respect as well. (just adding on dont mind me)
I’m 21 and I prefer to get called a girl
Being called a woman makes me uncomfortable 🙃
BUT Russel is a creep and stays a creepy horseman either way
i literally can’t get over how bitter russell is and how hard he’s trying to play it off like he doesn’t care
Probably had to film the video many times to get that right, and not look like he's about to cry
Exactlyyy his overly-cocky tone really annoys me
he’s so condescending and obviously butthurt
he has hate accounts that he just says r in love w him as if anyone would love him 😻
He has the vibe of artists who constantly say they don’t care about their haters while featuring haters in almost every song they write
LOL the fact that he only heard ” women have periods and stuff” when Kurtis brought up things women struggle with is so funny to me
THIS
Yeah of course he doesn't care about sexual harassment, workplace discrimination, wage discrimination, Reproductive Rights issues... ugh. The list goes on.
kurtis: “women have to worry about their l i v e s every day”
russell: “yeah they have periods so what”
Does he even know how periods work and how you can get such extreme cramps that you can’t walk or live your normal life? But yeah... easy mode, right ladies and transfam
Very in character lol
I just find it amusing that Russell’s “response” video is now deleted/private as of April 2022 but I can still watch all of the videos Kurtis made. Russell is so confident he’s right, yet keeps deleting his content or turning off comments when he gets some backlash.
Who’s really the alpha male?? This whole thing is hilarious 😂😂 Keep killing it Kurtis!
More Reasons as to Why Russell is Wrong:
1. Male influencers ALSO get free shit based off their looks and followings, it's not a "female" only thing.
2. As Madison Tucker said, if he's so southern and a horseman himself, he would've known that's not how fucking stables works. This just shows that he made the metaphor because he views women is objectable, lesser than men, which is why it's ok to compare half of the human race to horses that are, again, owned by Russell in this situation.
3. I also have never been in a polyamorous relationship, and yes communication is important, but the way Russel Cry Baby Boy goes about it is not good, open communication, and is extremely manipulative. Let's use an example I'm familiar with, a friend group, and apply it here (Not a romantic/sexual relationship but still a relationship dynamic none of the less). Everyone texts in the friend group because that in itself is a relationship unit containing multiple people. Everyone ALSO texts each other individually about certain things that pertain to only those two people, whether it's about their relationship as two people, which exists independently within the friend groups relationship, or a common interest. Not everyone is going to have the same exact things in common (interests, dynamics, problems, etc.) with all individuals in the group, so to say that it is a good style of communication to forcibly make everyone only talk to each other in the same space is insane.
4. He's a horrible public speaker and to say all of the people in the room should only want material things as the ultimate end goal in their life is idiotic.
5. Also, he's definitely lying in the first part where he "agrees" with pick up artists being cringey, especially since he uses Mystery as one who he later found cringey, in the fucking room as a flex for someone who was on his show.
Curtis did a really good job with his rebuttal I just needed to get some of this off my big titty goth girlfriend chest. Towards the end, I literally just couldn't stand his voice anymore so I started tuning out.
In conclusion, shut the fuck up.
theres not enough clap emojis in the worldt
this deserves to be top comment 👏
as someone who is in a poly relationship and has been in prior poly relationships, that's exactly how communication works. we had a group chat for group subjects and one on one chats for stuff that didn't pertain to the other person. the way r*ssell words it as "they werent allowed to talk outside the chat" is so creepy because it means he Wanted to know what they were saying about him, which implies that he didn't want them communicating about him in a way he couldnt control. mega icky
@@merrowtooth It truly is. Glad you were able to add to this with your personal experience. It's great that you're able to have good communication with your partners, that's amazing.
Well-worded response :)
When Russel is explaining his metaphor of women and horses, he literally admits that he only uses women as sex objects
👏👏
“I don’t think women are horses”. Best pickup line he’s ever made.
this made me laugh so much
Proud to be 666th like
“He sells like... courses on how to pick up women”. I heard “he sells like... horses on to how to pick up women” and honestly if some dude sold a guy a horse to use to “pick me up” yeah I’d probably go for it.
It’s so funny in a morbid way that he had to even clarify that
Possibly the nicest thing he’s said about a woman.
The fact that rustle could only come up with periods when listing women’s hardships says so much. He also sounds SO anxious during the video, being really loud, the fast talking and forced smile.
Pretty sure gaslighting to that extent is considered arson.
Literally
that was funny
If he gaslights this hard on the internet, I can only imagine how he acts in his personal relationships.
it would be impressive how good he is at it if it weren't so terrifying
Frrrrrrr
He's just reinforcing the idea that women's value is determined by how attractive they are to men and he really thinks he's doing something
I can’t imagine the women who put up with him lmao. Like girl, your bar is far too low if you consider him anything more than a 🤡.
this comment. you intelligence is immaculate ma'am.
I mean I agree that people finding you attractive can get you things easier but that works for both genders and comes with it's own issues such as being harrassed. The way he frames it is clearly biased.
Yeah my mom does that and it's extremely irritating. I can't stand people that say stuff like that.
this is random but do any of u know why russell only has 6 commets. and ALL are positive?! i rlly want to respond to this misogynist but i dont wanna comment yet bc im really confused
i bet the worst part of this for him is that you didn’t even give him the honor of another main channel video
literally 😭😭
𝓽𝓱𝓪𝓽𝓼 𝓻𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓱 𝓫𝓾𝓭𝓭𝔂
Lol 😂
Kurtis really slapped Russell through the internet
{Dumpster Fire} MY FIRST GIRLFRIEND TURNED INTO THE MOON
Kurtis has a point about the misuse and way the word “triggered” has been made into a joke, like there’s people who actually have ptsd triggers and stuff like that. And we feel like we can’t even tell people what our triggers are or mention the word trigger because people automatically take you as a joke and make you feel like you’re just “too sensitive” or “a snowflake” just for being traumatized and trying to be open about it.
blames you for “bullying” because he can’t take accountability for his words and actions lmao
Reminds me of Cody Ko and the Paul brother
Reminds me of jeffree star
sounds like gabby hannah
Simultaneously says Kurtis is attacking/bullying him while actually lying and gaslighting Kurtis is peak creepy asshole
yes
Russel: “it’s way beneath me to bash his character” Also Russel: implies that Kurtis is stupid the entire video
The way he literally change his website and implied that Kurtis couldn't read
He gives me vibes of somebody who makes fun of disabled people. The way he was talking like everyone that's not him is stupid and degrading others is really disgusting and it reminds me of people who treated me like that because they knew I had a disability. He's legit talking about Kurtis in a way that's so reminiscent of that and also really shows off his massive ego
He’s pretty much like “I didn’t compare women to horses, I just used horses as a thing to compare women to🙄” ??? Does he realise the whole video was just him strengthening Kurtis’ arguments lmao
I don't think I've hated someone as much as I hate russel
the whole horse saying wasn’t even correct, he literally made that shit up to compare women to horses😭
“someone talks shit to you, you just start breakdancing” hits different post breakdancing deadbeat dad
Oh my god, obviously women aren’t horses, and we all understood that. The thing about it was COMPARING us to horses. I’m not a horse, but the fact that’s what I am in your “metaphor” is what offends me.
Yessss 😍
We are not horses. Only horse girls. YeeYEE
Also all this "yeah if she wants to clarify what our relationship is i'll just kick that now useless Horse out of my stable 🤠" like wtf? Of course if you are in some kind of relation with someone, most people just want to know whats going on and the fact that he kicks women out who just want clarification just shows how he doesnt give a single shit about them. Just use them for s.. manipulate them to get them into bed and just leave them behinf then.
There is nothing wrong with having a lot of s..ual partners but only when you keep things clear and not just use women when they are most vunerable and then toss them away
anddd the fact that he keeps girls in his ‘stable’ and once they want a relationship he’s gone
@@chloe._. The fact that I can listen that while reading it😭
it’s the fact that he had to clarify that he “doesn’t actually think women are horses” and still doesn’t see the problem for me
But HeS FrOm ThE SoUTh 🤪 so it makes sense we just don't get it 🙄
@@Ampm444 one would think that he'd think through a metaphor and think whether or not everyone would get it, since only people from the south would understand...
@@peachysandie the same man who compares women to horses, will never admit he was wrong and straight up lies to make his points actually thinking twice about the bullshit that comes out of his mouth lmaooooo
legit like the patronising explanation of a metaphor, followed by him thinking that that makes him in the right shows that he just completely missed the fucking point lmaooooo
@@Ampm444 as a southern lass, im talking deep south, I ain't ever heard anyone call people horses. I've heard people be compared to obscene parts of the human body, but never an animal.
Okay but Russell is so rude too? I'm a woman and I felt so disgusted by his comments already but watching this it's obvious he's talking about Kurtis and clearly addressing him and being SO CONDESCENDING as if he's stupid while Kurtis plainly talked about what was wrong with the TikToks on his main channel. It's so infuriating to see such a dipship get away with saying all this and being so obnoxious, and it's clear Kurtis sees it too and he's losing his temper, for which I don't blame him at all.
edit: I'm glad you guys think similarly, and I'm glad Kurtis is calling him out on his bullshit, he's pathetic
Muskan Seth I feel like the way he talks to Kurtis is the way that many men talk to women. And gaslight them assuring them what they said isn’t what they said and they just took it out context. I feel like I can identify with Kurtis’s anger because it is position that a lot of women have been put in with smooth talking “charming” guys.
Muskan Seth same its honestly so hard for ne to imagine that russell has actually met a woman before and had a conversation with one
The only clip necessary is how he thinks it's great that women in LA are already hard on themselves because of unrealistic standards, and how it makes it even easier for him to pick up women.
Also nick foster, I feel sorry for his wife and his daughter who’s gonna be born soon..
@@victoriamcmahon7790 He probably hasn't. He gives me never got the attention he wanted from women in high school so he became a misogynist vibes. He's very insecure and it radiates from his Tiktok
i was listening to this while cleaning and my dogs name is russell and he thought you were talking to him. he was very confused why he couldn’t find you
I have a cat named Sirius and we call him Siri. I also have an iPhone. He’s always very confused when I ask him to set me a timer while I’m cooking.
Its been a year but please give your dog pets for me. He is a good boy.
stop this is the cutest 😭
The way he talks is so annoying and childish. Adults who "baby-talk explain" things to other adults to degrade and belittle them are soo annoying and immature!
Yeah, I hate how he speaks
That’s it!! I was wondering why his way of talking is annoying me
Hot Bunsss same
@23:20 he goes in with the mansplaining and even more sexism! Woooooooo
weird how he said it was beneath him to insult another man... but every word he says seems chosen just to be condescending as shit. As if that isn't insulting as fuck.
“for anyone who doesn’t know who kurtis conners is” everyone watching is from kurtis’ channel-
pastel ron for real, kurtis is the only reason he has any views 💀
Guys like him crack me up. “I guess some people are just too STUPID to get my metaphors” no we got the metaphors and that’s why we’re mad.
right? like the metaphors were insulting and objectifying and he doesn’t get why they’re wrong
exactly! Like, he compared women to an animal that is owned by someone. Why wouldn't we be mad?
What bugs me the most is him pretending like the girls theoretically are fully consenting but if they leave when they figure out he's not thinking long term implies he is misleading his "stable"
I find it so ironic that he’s criticizing kurtis for “being too stupid for a metaphor” when he doesn’t seem to be able to understand that he was joking the whole time???????
He explained that he knows women aren't actually horses....as if that was the issue. Lol
Connor: Russel is secretly a horse and he dates his phone!
Russel: And I took that personally.
who the hell is connor ☠️☠️
@@th4nky0uf0rth3ven0m I DON'T KNOW 😭😭
@@iampidgeon6923 ITS KURTIS we don’t mention his last name
@@jamberrytoastie that’s not even his last name tho 😭
@@th4nky0uf0rth3ven0m one of his three last names
the fact that russell basically says "women are more sexualized so their lives are easier because they can get more followers" is kinda gross, unwanted sexualization is a huge issue
exactly, thank you!
Exactly!! As a woman, the last thing I want is to be sexualized!
Men don’t understand that when we make tiktoks we make them to have fun. We don’t make them for men or for them to sexualize us.
i dont feel like it’s “kinda” gross but just straight up disgusting
it’s also so gross how he bring up “youth and beauty” specifically because of the sexualization and infantilization of women
Russell: "communication is key"
also Russell: "if a woman wants a real conversation send her out to pasture or take her to bed to keep her "dizzy" so she can't argue" 🤢🤢🤢
and don't let them communicate with each other unless u the man is present 🤠 men really have not evolved in 1000 years
I literally almost vomited when he said that. Ugh so sexist
The keeping her dizzy part is horrible and kind of horrifying. Correct me if i'm wrong, but isn't that kind of completely manipulative.
@@burningtrash6330 yeah that's the whole point lol
@@alexrose20 ye. You right
i thought the whole point of being straight was to like women
EXACTLY
It's like something an ex (you'll see why he's in that group) once told me, "People can be hot without being pretty, just like you can want to have sex with girls but not really like them, at all. I don't want to have a conversation with her, just have sex with her. 🤷🏻♀️ " They just act as placeholders, vessels through which to enhance his confidence and self-worth, which is pretty sad, when you think about it.
Amara Jordan thank goodness he’s an ex
Amara Jordan ewww throw the whole man away
This comment is so powerful haha you’re so right!
In a poly relationship
It's totally healthy to talk one at a time in dialogue.
You can talk individually. That's good communication.
A point that Kurtis didn't clarify: there's a difference between meeting people organically and "pick-up artistry." Russell and other pick-up artists treat meeting women as a game, where the actual women mean nothing to them, and they're only interested in trying to have sex with them. That's what is creepy and weird: having only the goal of picking up the women without showing any actual interest in her.
I don't think that there's anything inherently wrong with only meeting with someone for sex, but the way that pick-up artists do it is sleezy as hell
@@enotsnavdier6867 Exactly! They view women as prey, not as actual people.
Agreed, huge difference between meeting someone out and using manipulation tactics that "pick-up artists" try
he did clarify it, tho.
The subplot of New Girl in a nutshell
I’m absolutely positive this man has never met a human woman.
Either that or any girl that conversed with him/responded to any of the stupid shit he says toward them was just trying to be nice in hopes he would leave them alone after that
Sure has met some horses though
Deadass thought you meant kurtis for a second
I really hope not
"confidence is key" *blocks kurtis on tiktok and deletes the video*
Right...confidence. Yeah. “Confidence”
hes so insecure like what :sob:
I am literally in love with the fact that after all that Russel went and took his video down 💀💀
And now he only gets like 200 views a video 💀 hes such a loser
Russel openly said that he respects Kurtis and his opinions and then continues to be condescending and talk down to Kurtis for the entire video saying things that imply Kurtis is just plain stupid and “can’t read”.
That’s the strategy my two teenage sisters used on me for 10 years. You try and show your the bigger person then come at them with petty insults you can’t really say anything back about cause ull just validate it. He can’t hold in all that embarrassment that he can’t help but act like a little girl(which most little girls still act more mature) and embody the guy crying with a happy mask picture.