17 Table Manners That Will Help You Avoid Awkward Dates! Blossom

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  • @kajorimukherjee6919
    @kajorimukherjee6919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4174

    I am sorry. But I personally believe that there is nothing wrong if you bend down and pick up the silverware (provided you are able to do so without causing a wardrobe malfunction). You must definitely ask for a new set, but nothing wrong with picking it up.

    • @rijupathak6879
      @rijupathak6879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Exactly!!

    • @patriciajump9511
      @patriciajump9511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      But see, you get floor germs on your hands while in the middle of your meal if you pick it up.

    • @agnivmajumdar215
      @agnivmajumdar215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +357

      Yeah... I think its pretty disrespectful to call the waiter and ask him to pick the silverware that you could've easily picked up

    • @noraiyu
      @noraiyu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +219

      @@agnivmajumdar215 actually, when you eat in a very expensive restaurant, it is highly recommend for you to not take it up and it obviously aren't disrepectful at all.
      Tbh, it is their job to begin with(especially in an expensive restaurant) they're supposed to keep you clean. Picking those up may cause you to touch germs on the ground.
      Also, you may experience stomache if you eat with germs from the ground and that will cause trouble to the owner. So it is better for you to just make them do it than "helping" them

    • @pointblank986
      @pointblank986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@noraiyu Nah, grab in the ground, wash your hands and ask for another one.

  • @ceyc.2404
    @ceyc.2404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4968

    You think I'm about to fold a damn salad leaf before I put it in my mouth LOL 🤣🤣🤣

    • @yasnaynavarrete7411
      @yasnaynavarrete7411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +304

      Honestly tho, who tf eats that way?! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @minahuntress
      @minahuntress 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      Bruh like 💀 that was to many folds for one leaf 😄😄😄and I've seen some people cut salad 🌿

    • @sweetgirl4u247
      @sweetgirl4u247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I was so lost on that one. 🥺😂😂😂

    • @user-ev2gv9zk2t
      @user-ev2gv9zk2t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      I mean he just showed the wrong way in which the man chugged a whole salad and the right way is just eating a leaf….. a LEAF

    • @ursaminor7318
      @ursaminor7318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      7 раз сложи, 1 раз съешь 😂😂

  • @pialee1475
    @pialee1475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    I can’t with the folding of the leaf before eating it 😂😂😂 This feels too much. I honestly wouldn’t want to be with someone who’d be put off by me not folding the damn leaf 😂😂😂

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I would never see that guy again if he folded his spinach, frickn psycho!

    • @danielacharco5802
      @danielacharco5802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      HAHAHA I do fold my leaves. Always. Now I feel weird 😂😂😂

    • @jassewalton1768
      @jassewalton1768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes I thought the single folded leaf was a bit over the top, but the general message was 'don't stuff your mouth' with bits of food hanging out... fair enough.

    • @chloe8140
      @chloe8140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@deenad3562 same here

    • @crazygirl-zs2no
      @crazygirl-zs2no 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea you are right

  • @Ai-YunaMusic
    @Ai-YunaMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +466

    I love how this became a diy napkin origami craft video half way through the video

    • @kirtitiwari2311
      @kirtitiwari2311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lol...damn so true 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Prernamehtaaa1155
      @Prernamehtaaa1155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 of no use

    • @paulinepeters6443
      @paulinepeters6443 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr 😅. They want to be recommended a lot because the longer the video, the more likely it's recommended

    • @antjobert
      @antjobert ปีที่แล้ว

      Right? I didn't come here to learn how to fold napkins. Dumb.

  • @PunkSolar22x
    @PunkSolar22x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Normal people just have fun, listen if your going for a real relationship the other person will see all your flaws, pretending to be something your not will never work. Being down to Earth is the best way to be.

    • @iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000
      @iwonderwhatmydognamedme4000 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well it’s also about first impressions. I’d definitely not like if someone shoved salad in their mouth or fished for their straw with their tongue like that😂 it’s good to have good manners then once your into the relationship that’s when people feel more comfortable

    • @A11ie_Russo
      @A11ie_Russo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I swirl spaghetti even if I eat at home. Having a sauce all over your face is now fun.
      Most of other rules are here for your own convenience.

  • @solostrings4056
    @solostrings4056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3315

    His video feels like a adult trying to give me advice for my first date with someone, rather than hacks. *Blossom is my dad now.*

    • @solostrings4056
      @solostrings4056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I apologize for writing a comment that does not appeal to you. Have a good day!

    • @Official-fm2zk
      @Official-fm2zk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@helloitsme6347 No one asked u to answer too😅

    • @roastingsugardisciple4346
      @roastingsugardisciple4346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@helloitsme6347 she didn't tell that to you so get lost ... Second hand embarrassed

    • @Official-fm2zk
      @Official-fm2zk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@helloitsme6347 and who are u to ask her?

    • @Official-fm2zk
      @Official-fm2zk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@helloitsme6347 trying to be savage but u are just making a fool out of yourself

  • @sweetgirl4u247
    @sweetgirl4u247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    The tongue and straw had me rollin' 😂😂

    • @dkf315
      @dkf315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I sometimes drink like that especially at fast food places.

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I prefer the first way!🤣

    • @amendasutnga8077
      @amendasutnga8077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😆😆

    • @meettheartist5506
      @meettheartist5506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's a pretty fun way and not really counts in "table manners", I think. 😂 I'll continue to do that, no matter whether it's a date, friends outing or family dinner. Of course, I don't do that when I'm with my colleagues.

    • @wowpoopstaylorsversion3267
      @wowpoopstaylorsversion3267 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean, who does that?

  • @rainynight9028
    @rainynight9028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3068

    Bruh if someone can't even pick the fork themselves and they had to get a waiter to exchange the entire set, I can only imagine what living with that person will be like!🤣

    • @rijupathak6879
      @rijupathak6879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      True that

    • @joe-zu8ui
      @joe-zu8ui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      Made me click on the comments just to see if someone also thought it was weird

    • @vavaiva4080
      @vavaiva4080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      Ah, I know what you mean, but when eating at a restaurant that's actually a good table manner...

    • @patriciajump9511
      @patriciajump9511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Truly, you don't eat off silverware that fell on the floor. Especially in a restaurant, it is best to avoid getting floor germs on your hands while you are eating. That's why it is correct to leave the fork on the floor and ask for another one.

    • @Nash_589
      @Nash_589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@patriciajump9511 you could always use a tissue/handkerchief to pick it up and wash your hands after then ask for new utensils. Better still avoid dropping.

  • @prathibabhaskar8466
    @prathibabhaskar8466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    It’s really easy to make fun of table manners but these are important not to impress others, just to have bit more confidence and respect for us and others that are dining around you. 😊

    • @joybryant2874
      @joybryant2874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly people don't know any better

    • @businessmanbrute2211
      @businessmanbrute2211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah go into a public place and act how you like while not giving a shot about people there truly motivational quote

    • @businessmanbrute2211
      @businessmanbrute2211 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joybryant2874 at least they don't overlook

    • @robertwilliams9753
      @robertwilliams9753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You need to get a life

    • @daniellacipollone822
      @daniellacipollone822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @blahblahblah885
    @blahblahblah885 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    This is how people get an ugly surprise when they get married! Dating is not for you to put on a show, but for you to show openly who you are. Be yourself! That's fair for both of you.

    • @ThaoNguyen-yb6xq
      @ThaoNguyen-yb6xq ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Agree! These seem to be more for job interviews at a restaurant or something

    • @akilghosh
      @akilghosh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      If yourself if spilling soup all over your clothes and stuffing yourself and getting crumbs everywhere, then maybe you shouldn't be yourself

    • @shireads2954
      @shireads2954 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The point of etiquette is not to put on a show when there's people watching, it's supposed to be something you practice in everyday life.

    • @zoraackerman1684
      @zoraackerman1684 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shireads2954 yeah. Bit a lot of THIS. Is not etiquette.

  • @kleemiddlefinger7085
    @kleemiddlefinger7085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1217

    Next thing you know after putting your handbag behind your back....
    "WHERE'S MY HANDBAG?! DID SOMEONE JUST STOLE?!"

    • @mariabelen4011
      @mariabelen4011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Latinoamericans can relate

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Had the same thought. I put it by my foot

    • @margotm8574
      @margotm8574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is very common in my country 😒

    • @aightbet164
      @aightbet164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mariabelen4011 I think everyone can relate

    • @gracelingirl5087
      @gracelingirl5087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@priscillajimenez27 put it on your lap if you have small enough handbag and never carry it behind your back but infront of your body. Even by foot is dangerous.

  • @fancypens9025
    @fancypens9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +670

    Yeah everyone is talking about table manners. But I think nobody should change himself or herself just to avoid people judgement. I mean we should always be ourselves. The person will like me the way I am and not from my lifestyle or manners. But I really loved the video. A great way to learn table manners and those napkin folds were superb. I am definitely gonna try

    • @fancypens9025
      @fancypens9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@suhasyogish1206 yeah I understood your point and that's why I told in my comment that yes a great way of learning table manners I agree that everyone should learn manners to a limited stage where it is necessary. It's just that I told that we maybe clumsy or well mannered like everyone is different but people shouldn't judge them only for their manners. That's it and also I am not against you nor the video in fact I loved it

    • @VAN-mf8kz
      @VAN-mf8kz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@fancypens9025 Do not eat like the queen or something really exaggerate but properly OkEY

    • @fancypens9025
      @fancypens9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@VAN-mf8kz yeah yeah I was telling the same. Like some manners are truly we have to learn but extra is always....

    • @shamimsaiyyad1371
      @shamimsaiyyad1371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yup but we should be mannered if we are not mannered Nobody will respect us

    • @fancypens9025
      @fancypens9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shamimsaiyyad1371 Hay Allah I am not against it. I told that yes we should learn limited manners but not so that we forget ourselves

  • @nakashkites
    @nakashkites 2 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    The Real Partner Doesn't Embarrass us even we do mistake... Be Real... ✨

    • @VAN-mf8kz
      @VAN-mf8kz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Slurping soup like a savage hmmmm... sexy and authentic hahaha

    • @cainthings
      @cainthings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Nah, they'll still cringe.

    • @1jazzyphae
      @1jazzyphae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts😂

    • @merimero4420
      @merimero4420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yea, but its still important, coz what if our partner is our boss, or business partner-

    • @nakashkites
      @nakashkites 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@merimero4420 thats not date then, relationship doesn't need to be perfect, but it need to be real...

  • @Ethan-oy3gb
    @Ethan-oy3gb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    To the incredible person seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤️don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what "success" is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. keep pushing.

    • @chosenqueen5109
      @chosenqueen5109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for this beautiful Faith 💚

    • @SuperRiya16
      @SuperRiya16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks to you too ❤

  • @Reitz86
    @Reitz86 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The spaghetti spoon twirl was taught early in our household, my mother attended Nebraska back in the early 50’s, her roommate was Italian, needless to say our family owes our spaghetti etiquette to that gal❤

    • @Mster_J
      @Mster_J ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cultural appropriation

    • @eeaotly
      @eeaotly ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Mster_J Education.

    • @niklasrappl1752
      @niklasrappl1752 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm Italian and u do not use a spoon in Itali hahahaha. If u use a spoon in Italy, it looks like u don't know how to eat pasta

    • @JuniorStress95
      @JuniorStress95 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@niklasrappl1752 Exactly, I was actually looking for such a comment. You don't use spoon to eat pasta. Somehow it's common in many countries.

  • @rudika1991
    @rudika1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +716

    17 table manners that will help a to avoid awkwardness on dates.
    While Me who never went on date neither I can see myself going in future.
    Indians can relate😂😂

  • @megakaren2160
    @megakaren2160 2 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    If I ever went on a date with someone so touchy about little things, then our first date would also be our last.

    • @chloe8140
      @chloe8140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I'm gonna have to agree on Karen with this one

    • @stergacha9435
      @stergacha9435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ikr,it's just awkward.💀

    • @mrcoconut5077
      @mrcoconut5077 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Too many steps

    • @arjun.1751
      @arjun.1751 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did she agree to swap names?

    • @music_lover7837
      @music_lover7837 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same lol

  • @rochellec.1891
    @rochellec.1891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Wow helpful tips for our growing kids to learn about table manners before they go on their 1st date etc.. The napkin decors are absolutely amazing. Thank you. ❤

    • @CollectiveConsciousnessSociety
      @CollectiveConsciousnessSociety 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In Italy they are eating that whole piece of bread with bruschetta

    • @rochellec.1891
      @rochellec.1891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@CollectiveConsciousnessSociety Not just Italy but pretty much majority of people do this. But yeah it was eye opening to see it in this version

    • @SeranaKnight
      @SeranaKnight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yikes, I always break the bread apart, I would avoid specific foods too on dates just to be good to go.

    • @CollectiveConsciousnessSociety
      @CollectiveConsciousnessSociety 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@SeranaKnight Lol. Table etiquette differs by country/culture but politeness is 100% universal.

    • @rochellec.1891
      @rochellec.1891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SeranaKnight haha yeah like avoiding salads, wings, noodles unless its penne pasta

  • @dreamymami
    @dreamymami 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    This is probably an unpopular opinion but etiquettes matter to me. It shows that we respect each other, not because it's "shallow". I think being aware of manners and courtesy are signs of thoughtfulness and awareness - both are attractive traits imo.

    • @alicemelandri5085
      @alicemelandri5085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m Italian I don’t use the spoon for spaghetti but it doesn’t matter many people use it

    • @2Good2B4Gotten4Real
      @2Good2B4Gotten4Real 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Only 31 likes? This needs more likes

    • @alioshax7797
      @alioshax7797 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Well, it also makes it unnatural and very artificial, from my point of view. How could you trust someone's words if every actions they do in front of you is planned and calculated ?

    • @dewolf123
      @dewolf123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@2Good2B4Gotten4Real no it doesn't bot

    • @TatsuoYamashita.
      @TatsuoYamashita. ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It makes sense, but not every etiquettes matter.
      I think that the etiquettes will change in accord of the place you are, especialy from places where having too much etiquettes can make the impression of you being arrogant.
      I stick with the most basics etiquettes but i try my best to be myself more than follow the etiquettes (only following only the etiquettes that will make me not shame myself).

  • @sunshineejelonu6143
    @sunshineejelonu6143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Well .I don't know for others...I personally love this advice/hack . It's so worth it esp for someone like me that hates the feeling of being embarrassed or awkward

  • @hibamuneeb8928
    @hibamuneeb8928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Picking the dropped silver are called basic etiquette

    • @tirimrongpi8088
      @tirimrongpi8088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ya that's what I thought. Pick it up then ask for a clean silver like wtf, does she have a back pain? 😂. Y show off so much 😂

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Tell me about it. Others are saying it's nasty cuz it's on the floor with germs and you'll get sick. Bruh pick it up with a napkin then or go wash your hands lol

    • @indiomie
      @indiomie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@priscillajimenez27 true, like I mean wtf. A literal split second of just picking it up won't kill ya. Table manners shouldn't include being d**cks

    • @indiomie
      @indiomie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shadowx5916 I don't know what kind of table manners you would call something that only serves to make those who do that as pompous and helpless.
      You dropped it, now at least have the decency to pick it up if a waiter doesn't come to pick it up immediately.

    • @hibamuneeb8928
      @hibamuneeb8928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shadowx5916 if you do that at your home might as well do it outside and make it easier for the waiters

  • @rcasawi8751
    @rcasawi8751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I think this is about table manner etiquette for fine dining.

    • @ninaelsbethgustavsen2131
      @ninaelsbethgustavsen2131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is.
      In a way.
      It's actually about good behaviour.
      It pays off in the long run...
      😘🍽🍷

  • @johnstoica2266
    @johnstoica2266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This is an extremely good clip. Many people these days should watch and learn what at home,in the family they did not learn.

  • @redhotcandy6629
    @redhotcandy6629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Been married for going on 13 years in a few days, so at this rate he should be used to how my table manners are, but its never too late to improve. Thank you for the video, the napkins folding at the end was lovely and I will use them for holiday decor😁

  • @suzipam1234
    @suzipam1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I like people with manners - more people need to see this

    • @sarahkalonji2744
      @sarahkalonji2744 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mannerless people never search these videos they see us doing over acting

  • @douglasd327
    @douglasd327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Pfffft I haven't had a date in years- but if I ever do I will remember to watch this again.

    • @SC-gp7kt
      @SC-gp7kt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same! Do people even date anymore ??? Where I live nobody really wants to make the effort. (That was before the coof)

    • @douglasd327
      @douglasd327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SC-gp7kt my guess is not so much. Nowadays it's all this superficial hmu chill n w atch netflix is what I'm seein. I usually just keep to myself these days n quit to even botherin anymore.
      I'm happy in me own skin so I'll just keep along my merry way doin the wahtoosie though life. 😃

    • @SC-gp7kt
      @SC-gp7kt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@douglasd327 Right-o! Same here.

  • @musicandhappinessbyjo795
    @musicandhappinessbyjo795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    I have a better advice. Go to a restaurant where nothing like this even matter and you can enjoy the food whole heartedly.

    • @zoey6812
      @zoey6812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Agree 100%

    • @nurulazmi939
      @nurulazmi939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agreeee

    • @merimero4420
      @merimero4420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Well sometime there are just occasions where people want to try how it feels to eat in luxury~

    • @gkt13
      @gkt13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Like KFC

    • @damusdeshi622
      @damusdeshi622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This manner only for High society level restaurant, if you know ratatouille movie, that kind of restaurant this video was aimed for 👍

  • @carmenchak375
    @carmenchak375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Please make a shorter version for “eating with the boss”, omitting the folding (which was cool).

  • @read_to_me_a_book_with_samira
    @read_to_me_a_book_with_samira 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thanks for the advices 😀👍

  • @veemajor1721
    @veemajor1721 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ordering spaghetti on the first date takes a special type of confidence

  • @m.a6724
    @m.a6724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I can't help but disagree on not picking up the utensil you dropped🙄

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @eileenmcdonald1599
      @eileenmcdonald1599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So you want to touch what others have walked in

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@eileenmcdonald1599 use a napkin

    • @shadowx5916
      @shadowx5916 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@priscillajimenez27 But still the fork/spoon did touch the ground

    • @shadowx5916
      @shadowx5916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      C'mon it's just a table etiquette

  • @ShandaP018
    @ShandaP018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Now I'm glad no one asks me out on dates.

  • @Noname-1695
    @Noname-1695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    When someone covers their face with the menu book, they don't want someone to see their crumpled face. 😂😂😂

    • @nargess8521
      @nargess8521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂👌

  • @kookiejeonn
    @kookiejeonn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's very helpful, but 2:51 got me rolling on the floor 😂

    • @ac9938
      @ac9938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ME TOO 🤣

    • @saarahor.8281
      @saarahor.8281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes 😂😂😂

  • @therealplaguedoctor
    @therealplaguedoctor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Everyone talking about silverware, meanwhile I'm like damn who eats bread like that? Your date thinks you are a psycho if you break the bread like that instead of eating it like a normal human

    • @RachelPun
      @RachelPun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      plus taking a chunk of butter to your own plate smh

    • @cherryblossomfics1927
      @cherryblossomfics1927 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RachelPun it can be taken as we have to take the amount which we need

    • @Ashley-lm4nv
      @Ashley-lm4nv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Breaking the bread is a thing in some European cultures, but this whole vid is so pretentious. But sitting for food and putting your hand on your leg or lap is a no go.

    • @lyfisgud6984
      @lyfisgud6984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And dat leaf folding... My goodness! R they telling us to do sum art work wd d food before eating it or wat!!

    • @goodshiro10
      @goodshiro10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lyfisgud6984 I red ur sentence in frst try smh 😂

  • @massimo2853
    @massimo2853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Loved this video. Hope you all and your families are very well in these holidays ❤️

  • @IslanderloverBKK
    @IslanderloverBKK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Italians won't approve of the spoon twirling lol. My Italian relatives or side of the family, eats any type of pasta clean! Glad I learned it an early age though😉😆😆

    • @TheNunakun
      @TheNunakun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know some Italians do it, but it's my top pet peeve.
      I literally will leave the table if someone does it.

    • @mapleacer9925
      @mapleacer9925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Flora GoodVibes exactly my thoughts 😂

    • @saarahor.8281
      @saarahor.8281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm italian and I approve the spoon

    • @IslanderloverBKK
      @IslanderloverBKK 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@saarahor.8281 Other Italians say those Italians who approve of the spoon aren't the classy ones🤣

    • @Flugkaninchen
      @Flugkaninchen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm not Italian, but I learned that using a spoon is uncultured. I also hate the feeling of metal on metal when twirling a fork on a spoon. 😬

  • @Jay-on2on
    @Jay-on2on 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You aren’t there to impress them you are there to enjoy yourself

  • @maxmaroni7175
    @maxmaroni7175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! Great advice for people who dont know better!

  • @dianaoliva1385
    @dianaoliva1385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely amazing! What a creativity! 💖💖💖💖

  • @TheNunakun
    @TheNunakun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    If my female date picks up her dropped silverware before requesting/thanking the waiter, she's a keeper!

  • @j.b.6722
    @j.b.6722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    Hahaha if you get offended on the first date from something as simple as how someone eats, they are so shallow, you don't need them

    • @trusfratedarmybecauseofhaters
      @trusfratedarmybecauseofhaters 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      There are some restaurant etiquettes

    • @Mint_River11
      @Mint_River11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Good partner know how to not embarrassed you in the public, honey

    • @trusfratedarmybecauseofhaters
      @trusfratedarmybecauseofhaters 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@Mint_River11 Correct, these ppl just say everything is okay while there are manners for everything. If you eat like an animal, obviously it's not good and you and your date can get embarrassed

    • @VAN-mf8kz
      @VAN-mf8kz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@trusfratedarmybecauseofhaters absolutely correct

    • @VAN-mf8kz
      @VAN-mf8kz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Spitting olive seeds on the table hmmmm... sexy hahaha

  • @nejlaandme9698
    @nejlaandme9698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is total act, if you think about sharing your life with the person please don't act. Just be comfortable. I'm not saying don't care about anything but please don't act. Show them who you are not what they wanna see 👍🙏

  • @ananyade368
    @ananyade368 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful creative foldings of the napkins.

  • @rohan3_official
    @rohan3_official 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    People like you making the world so complicated..!!!

  • @sgt_waddle
    @sgt_waddle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I don't know why tf this is so funny to me😂😂

  • @helloyoutube6555
    @helloyoutube6555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is the funniest video I’ve watched in a while 😂😂

  • @amandaphillips6684
    @amandaphillips6684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is awesome but needs to be renamed. Tips on how to behave at a super fancy, expensive, extravagant only one percent of people can afford restaurant. Not your local Pizza Hut. (I may be wrong about the percentage but math was never my best subject)

    • @Flugkaninchen
      @Flugkaninchen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's just about not eating like a pig. Nothing super fancy.

    • @Elen.88
      @Elen.88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Да ладно, это стандартное поведение за столом, даже дома

  • @ridirih9807
    @ridirih9807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really enjoyed this couple! They looked as though they had fun making this video. Manners are there to show respect to others around you. I don’t really think they are straitjacketing your individual style, as some commenters seem determined to take it! The napkin folding at the end was rather strange to add to this.

  • @honeyboodreams6878
    @honeyboodreams6878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good table manners are really important specially tons of people lacks manners which is very annoying
    Having manners is impressive u will never feel embarrassed

  • @holyexperience1976
    @holyexperience1976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What I love about my current boyfriend is he chews with his mouth closed, does not lip snack when drinking things, and for most part does not lick fingers or suck of fingers in place of using napkins or wipes. He does not chew gum, but I trust if he were to, he would not snack it.
    I'm from time and place where doing the opposite was considered impolite and proud of it.

    • @philipkoster648
      @philipkoster648 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You need to lick off your fingers. The sauce that is stuck on your fingers is normally the tastiest.

    • @gravityVL1485
      @gravityVL1485 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. I know when it's time and place to behave certain ways and some things are extremely appreciated like the things you said about your (still, i hope) bf!

    • @Elen.88
      @Elen.88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Не встречала людей которые вели бы себя по-другому

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A year later, is he still your boyfriend? Watch ASMRbro for never ending no napkin finger sucking.

  • @Katya_Lastochka
    @Katya_Lastochka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This should be called Fancy Restaurant Etiquette. I get it, it's an experience, one most people will never have.

  • @princejasper6697
    @princejasper6697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    thanks for the tips, I learned a lot, now I just need a person to date

    • @ishaingle16
      @ishaingle16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @cinderling5472
    @cinderling5472 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I naturally do most of these things, but the latter parts were still mysterious. Thank you for enlightening me! Taking notes ❤

  • @renobliss98
    @renobliss98 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your video tips is so wonderful and follows the rules of elite and elegant societies. Keep it up and bless you

  • @Angel-z5h
    @Angel-z5h ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This dating never ends. They need to spend whole day to finish their plate 😂😂

  • @NMS1805
    @NMS1805 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a nice video, you guys truly know your table manners, I am impressed 😊👍

  • @hehe-be9fu
    @hehe-be9fu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2:53 I didn't see the straw at first. It was quite weird 😂

  • @TheRhythmOfLife1972
    @TheRhythmOfLife1972 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The napkin folding was the bomb, leaf, roses++. Manners are Everything it shows your cultured & mature enough to enjoy food. Love Tabouli but the parsley is all over the teeth.

  • @DataNiks
    @DataNiks ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely wonderful video !!❤

  • @beninformato9040
    @beninformato9040 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love it! Finally a video that gets to the point regarding manners WITH live examples! Even though I enjoyed the napkin folding, I was a bit disappointed it took up half the video. I would have much rather seen more of the first half manners examples all the way through. These should be two separate videos.

  • @gracielabravo4315
    @gracielabravo4315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Amei a forma de dobrar os guardanapos. Não conhecia a dica das ostras porque nunca experimentei.

  • @Abell_lledA
    @Abell_lledA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    One doesn’t experience self-transcendence, the illusion of self only dissipates.🎈

  • @florad629
    @florad629 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3:52 very beautiful napkins styles. I'd definitely try some

  • @sharmishthach685
    @sharmishthach685 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People here thinking about only one situation .
    These tricks are very useful in business meeting meals .

  • @Ray3D
    @Ray3D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Parents would teach me this as a kid all the time lol.

  • @norha1139
    @norha1139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I am Asian and I don't ever follow any of these rules 😂 I enjoy my food that's it ❤️

    • @Candyy248
      @Candyy248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well, that is not exclusive to asians

    • @lifemlbbsoloplayer
      @lifemlbbsoloplayer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Eat with hand is so good, why must have spoon ahahahaha (i'm Indonesian)

    • @damusdeshi622
      @damusdeshi622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The slurp part actually against Ramen restaurant rules 😂

    • @GreenLeafUponTheSky
      @GreenLeafUponTheSky 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same except I’m ‘Murican

    • @train_xc
      @train_xc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We slurp

  • @kitkat3548
    @kitkat3548 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I tried to be cautious within first half a year with my future spouse when we were dating. But I knew I won't be able to pretend to be better than I was, so gradually I started to relax and be more casual. 🤔
    I think it made me like him more, bc you feel free and that's an amazing feeling

  • @train_xc
    @train_xc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Etiquette is all about making others comfortable.
    I eat with spoon, forks and knife when going alone or in a date(Mechanic, always has grease in hand). When with my parents I never touch those.

  • @DeemsTheMemes
    @DeemsTheMemes 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1:30 I’m eating that whole bread slice and no one will stop me.

  • @stha03
    @stha03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    2:51 no one drinks like that period😐

    • @darkages8932
      @darkages8932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      eh. that's me when my mom buy me a drink in a restaurant

    • @dkf315
      @dkf315 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I drink like that when driving or when really bored

  • @eury5405
    @eury5405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If my date folds his lettuce leaves and eats them one at a time.... then I know for sure he's not interested in me.... he's probably more interested in my brother.

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣😂😂💯💫

  • @senzee4862
    @senzee4862 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alot of these manners seem superficial... just done be sloppy and have fun . You can be respectful yet yourself simultaneously

  • @raschelelliott7667
    @raschelelliott7667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this guy! I think I do that straw thing . I really like how they show the proper way to do it

  • @sucharya8927
    @sucharya8927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Not picking up when something falls ? Nah i would still do it😂 Its jjust more awkward for me to tell the servants to do it. Thts not nice ryt

    • @debosmitaroy8326
      @debosmitaroy8326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Servants? They are just waiters they serve people.. do their job there..wtever a person's job might be no one should be called as a servant that is disrespectful..atleast they are working doing something for their life

  • @meettheartist5506
    @meettheartist5506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    No matter what anyone tells me, I'm always going to lean into my drink to draw from straw. It's fun! Other person deserves to see my fun and childish side 😂
    Also, this video was good. I'm definitely using this in future with my family. You know, throw a special dinner night and will do these napkins and decoration.

  • @justdaddrums2704
    @justdaddrums2704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The first time I knew I loved her we were eating bbq ribs. Sauce on her face...she used a bread roll as a napkin, ate the roll, and ordered us a pitcher. Been married for years. That's my boo.

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ew ... different strokes

  • @eltonamponsah446
    @eltonamponsah446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful piece.. learnt a lot.. Thank you!!!

  • @lone_eye_4107
    @lone_eye_4107 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The fact this started with the spoon twirl told me all I need to know about this video 😂

    • @mediterraneanworld
      @mediterraneanworld ปีที่แล้ว

      That is an American thing - in Italy you could go to jail for that!

  • @passingthrough6433
    @passingthrough6433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Me: *having a date with an obnoxious person
    *proceeds to do all donts*
    Plotwist: my date liked it

  • @alexgarner1271
    @alexgarner1271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Who tf is folding a piece of spinach before eating it XDDDDD

    • @ac9938
      @ac9938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @vamshivijaykumar5111
      @vamshivijaykumar5111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The Europeans or perhaps the royal family of looters from England 🤣🤣🤣🤣 lol

  • @MeowUnderBlanket
    @MeowUnderBlanket 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me who don't even have a girlfriend to go on a date with : _I have no such weaknesses_ !!

  • @justme_1111
    @justme_1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best table etiquette video I've seen in a while.

  • @ceo_-
    @ceo_- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    " *Thanks I don,t know before* "😂

  • @rarapost6146
    @rarapost6146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But I got my wife doing the wrong ones. She found it very amusing and lovely.

  • @DaianeBitencourtt
    @DaianeBitencourtt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    SE FICAR DIFÍCIL ENFRETE
    E QUANDO FICAR FÁCIL AGRADEÇA.🙏🙌 BOM DIA DEUS ABENÇOE TODOS

  • @stejan2915
    @stejan2915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Nice advices but people should be more spontaneous, not programed to do what is allowed and what not. Do not be artificial. No one is perfect. That is point. 😊

    • @sslike3204
      @sslike3204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes but there are still things that are done in public and private. For me, these tricks are really good. ( Tho I don't use them 😂😅 )

    • @SC-gp7kt
      @SC-gp7kt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      These are manners the vid is trying to teach.

  • @englishvinglish6439
    @englishvinglish6439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best video on entire youtube platform❤️

  • @aviwedyantyi5535
    @aviwedyantyi5535 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so amazing, your art of using the napkin❤❤. Thank you.

  • @keishas6162
    @keishas6162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was raised with these table manners, I thought everyone ate like this. And our dining table is always set. I just don't know anything about the handkerchief folding. We have candles on our table. And gold place mats, nothing expensive, you could purchase them at the dollar tree. I don't fold my salad though just take smaller bites. Now after reading some of the comments I feel weird. 😆. Now, I understand why my cousin was like, " You still eat the same way". To be honest I thought I was a messy eater. I'm very expressive in everything I do. 😆 I don't know what I look like when I eat. I'm just happy to be eating 😌. 😆 🤣 Gosh I'm so greedy. I just love food!

  • @Alushaun
    @Alushaun 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2:38 if you do this regularly, stop eating soup. its too advanced for you.

  • @aaryangholap6318
    @aaryangholap6318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    His reaction when his button shoots was priceless and really good advice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

  • @preetisarala3851
    @preetisarala3851 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful

  • @jenjosh
    @jenjosh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally there's still classiness being taught🙏🙏🙏

  • @mohammedtanveer6288
    @mohammedtanveer6288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Now Dating is Gonna be a simulation Game,where everyone is following a certain Set of Rules...😂😂😂
    Imagine in a restaurant everybody is Following the same procedure,It's Gonna be Deja Vu 😂😂😂😂

  • @scootergirl3662
    @scootergirl3662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you can't handle me at my spaghetti sauce on face, you won't be able to handle me in general tbh

  • @eleniklosd7637
    @eleniklosd7637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Come to Greece and eat as you like 😂😂😂💖.

  • @VJ38
    @VJ38 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect Food by eating with hands...connecting to your soul. 🙏

  • @tiphinieworley8746
    @tiphinieworley8746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is old school proper etiquette that I have personally never seen any regular person do. Is my date going to be do this too??? Cause if not than who’s on trial here, just me!!!

  • @zaid8957
    @zaid8957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Place your purse behind you to not find it after the food 😂 because someone took it while you were busy showing etiquettes 🤪