Top 5 Reasons People Flee 55+ Communities

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  • In this video, I'll share the top 5 reasons why people are choosing to leave 55+ communities. We'll discuss the challenges and surprises that lead to this choice. I'll provide tips on picking the best option for your life and needs. We'll cover topics like changes in families, personal goals, and the realities of aging. I'll also address common 55+ community misconceptions. I'll offer tips on how to find the right fit if you're considering this lifestyle.
    By the end of this video, you'll understand why people leave 55+ communities. You'll also learn the factors to consider when making your own housing choices. Subscribe to this channel. It will keep you informed about retirement living and lifestyle choices.
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  • @Southwest55Plus
    @Southwest55Plus  27 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @deedeew4040
    @deedeew4040 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I am sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis. Hugs. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thanks! It was a few years ago. I had great treatments and am now in remission. Thanks for your prayers. They're always appreciated!

  • @jepomer
    @jepomer หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I would never live in a 55+ community. It is not a natural environment to me. Nothing pleases us more than hearing the young children across the street sing songs, slide on the snow, bring over little gifts (the last one was a bird house she made).
    You can have the 55+ community. It would be pure hell for me.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like you're living in a great place! I'm so glad we all have choices! Thanks for watching.

    • @jepomer
      @jepomer หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Southwest55Plus - A vital society has all ages living in the same community. Segregating society by ages or gated communities is a sign of society in decline.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      You might not have a good understanding of how many 55+ communities are setup these days. Lots of them are integrated with all ages communities. The Verrado (Buckeye, AZ) community celebrations for July 4th included activities for all ages. The 55+ section of housing has some things for adults only over 55 but they also use things in the larger overall neighborhood. I don't see any decline in society from this at all. Our societal problems stem from things much worse than adults who choose to be active in their own community.

  • @lynnwilliams4006
    @lynnwilliams4006 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I've lived in my 55 community 18 years. Love it. We look out for each other. Have lots of recreational activities. Of course we see and hear children. Most of us have grandchildren who visit. As far as gossiping goes, if you don't participate in gossiping you don't ever hear any.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I love hearing this! So glad you love it as much as I love my community! I’m not sure why people think we don’t allow kids. My grandkids come over all the time. Appreciate you watching my channel!

    • @mistiinseattle
      @mistiinseattle 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      same here. My 55+ community is wonderful

  • @leilanihimmelmann9190
    @leilanihimmelmann9190 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Another great and informative video. Thank you! Glad to hear you’re n remission. And your glasses are fun! Nothing wrong with statement glasses. Love it!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks so much! I'm glad you thought the glasses were fun. I thought that when I picked them out. I like a bold touch now and then. I appreciate you watching my channel!

  • @janhatcher6991
    @janhatcher6991 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    my girlfriend is in Maryland lives in leisure world, a 55 and older. She pays $1044 a month just to live there. That is absolutely ridiculous. That is somebody's whole paycheck almost thank goodness or her husband have good retirement.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That’s excessive for sure. But if the cost of the homes is super low then maybe but I don’t advise people to purchase in those area. You have to buy smart!

    • @kathleenk2381
      @kathleenk2381 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Seizure World?

  • @lindag9975
    @lindag9975 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The main reasons why people leave my Phoenix area 55+ community are that they have to go into a nursing home or assisted living, they pass away, or they move in with adult children or in a guest house on the property of their adult children.
    I'm not sure about the glasses, but if you like them it's all that matters.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm not sure I like the glasses either. I'm happy to get your feedback so I don't look silly out in publice! Thanks for watching!!

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Southwest55Plus if you have to think about it, you don’t like them. In my opinion, they’re kooky and not flattering. They take over your face rather than enhancing your appearance.

  • @craigperryproductions313
    @craigperryproductions313 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So glad you're in Arizona. Not quite there yet but when I am I intend to reach out to you for an affordable single family residence in Surprise, AZ. Until then, may you be healed of all ailments and live to serve Arizona home buyers long into the future! Respectfully, a 64 year old veteran living in Arizona 🙂

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your kind words and healing thoughts! I'm doing great and plan to work for a long time! Call me when you're ready. Thank you so much for watching my channel!!

  • @peterhildebrandt2827
    @peterhildebrandt2827 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Excellent video. After five years our 55+ home is for sale. Craving diversity and worldview more humanistic instead of evangelical/ right wing/ white/ anti gay. Don’t get me wrong this is the nicest newest home I have ever lived in; perfect natural setting too on a creek full of life. Ready for a change, getting back to my roots in the northeast. Had some 35 years or so of the sunbelt.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think lots of people decide to make changes in their homes and communities. It helps when most of us have good home equity to take out when we sell. I’m happy to hear that you’ve got a plan. That creek sounds enticing as well. Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @chrisbayoumi8521
    @chrisbayoumi8521 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    glasses are nice... glad your in remission...awesome video

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Chris! Glad you like them. I'm still unsure. Appreciate your feedback!

  • @seebunlim
    @seebunlim หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love the glasses! Fun 😬

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you like them! Thanks for watching my channel 🙂

  • @2MasterBuilder2
    @2MasterBuilder2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have family that live in one of these parks and there's a ton of gossip. LoL. Love the glasses; you remind me of my HS art teacher. Awesome woman ❤

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the compliment! I appreciate you watching my channel.

  • @colleensmith3374
    @colleensmith3374 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Blessings on your heath. Glasses: try peepers, super cute styles.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the tip! I'll check those out. Thanks for watching!!

  • @genekostcruiser
    @genekostcruiser หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your glasses are very artsy, very scottsdale paradise valley. Hope you get better soon

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your kind words! I'm not sick now--in remission for the past few years. Appreciate you watching my videos!!

  • @dennisbaker1003
    @dennisbaker1003 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You didn't mention dissatisfaction with the community HOA board of directors or the incompetent management company overseeing the community. Sometimes HOA fee go up to higher levels.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some HOAs can be a challenge for sure. I’ll have a totally separate video for that. Stay tuned and thanks for watching!

  • @ElhamD1968
    @ElhamD1968 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, that was an unexpected story at the end - sad. 😥
    My opinion on those glasses probably would be to get something a little more subtle. But that's just my taste, doesn't mean it's right.😆
    I love your content, thank you!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Something more subtle could be good. I'm experimenting with lots of styles. Glad you watched this video! I appreciate it so much.

  • @darlenesouthern9439
    @darlenesouthern9439 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the Magoo glasses. Very Iris Arpel.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s what I was thinking as well!

  • @CrucesNomad1
    @CrucesNomad1 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I want to move out of state close to my grand kids. But we have it made here. For now I will stay put.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally understand that feeling! Glad you found my channel. Thanks for watching. 🙂

  • @christopherclarke6642
    @christopherclarke6642 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thumbs up on the glasses!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I thought you'd like them! You're a man with style!! Thanks for the input. 🙂

  • @helenmorley8016
    @helenmorley8016 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good video. We live in a retirement community in Australia and we find most leave due to declining health and death. That is life of course and they all loved their time here over the years. Re your glasses, I think they are hiding your face, as in your glasses are wearing you rather than the other way around. Maybe try some alternative frames as you do have a beautiful face. 🙂

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for watching and love your comment! As for the glasses, now that I see myself on my big TV I know I will only use them at home. Too goofy! On to the next pair soon!

  • @teriscott685
    @teriscott685 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AZ native here,i live in a 55 community,belive me the places are Not cheap

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      55+ Communities in AZ are fantastic but we have definitely seen a run up in prices. Still some affordable options though even in the most popular areas. Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @penniephillipp936
    @penniephillipp936 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No to the glasses

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      100% agree with you! Thanks for watching my channel!!

  • @susanstandard8727
    @susanstandard8727 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Agree with your kids! 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes I think you and the kids are right! Gone with the glasses! Thanks for watching.

  • @mistiinseattle
    @mistiinseattle 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    depends on the community. I live in a 55+ apartment complex and one of my wisest decisions ever. Fantastic community. lol and you only hear gossip if you participate in it. We are totally spoiled here by management

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So glad you like it! Generally speaking, 55+ communities are wonderful places. Thanks for watching my channel!

    • @mistiinseattle
      @mistiinseattle 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @Southwest55Plus My community is wonderful! I sold a condo in Seattle and moved to a less expensive place. I absolutely love living in my 55+ community. We are not isolated with just other old people as some seem to think. Most of us are very active in our churches and wider communities.

  • @bluesteel48
    @bluesteel48 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’d have to see the glasses while you were playing the piano.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well you can’t see that now. Elton John called and made me give them back to him. 🤣

    • @bluesteel48
      @bluesteel48 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Southwest55Plus 😂

  • @russhendrix9674
    @russhendrix9674 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The largest retirement community in Florida made the news for having the fasted growing STD rate of any population. I have heard it's pretty wild. This may have something to do with the Gray divorce.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good point! We have a video coming soon to address that topic. Thanks for watching!

    • @theartistcherrypi6454
      @theartistcherrypi6454 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The Villages lol. However, Margaritaville in Daytona Beach is a cesspool of alcohol and debauchery. Old, drunk swingers 24/7 who act like they’re back in middle school.

    • @suebotchie4167
      @suebotchie4167 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Geriatric brothel, no thanks.

  • @creativelady7
    @creativelady7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are cute! But NO on the Magoo glasses.😊

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh thanks for saying that! I agree that these glasses are ridiculous. I'll save them for an emergency only and keep trying to find some that don't look so goofy! Thanks for watching.

  • @feliciasampson8032
    @feliciasampson8032 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The glasses don't flatter your pretty face. Maybe try with your bangs lifted off your face.
    Excellent video!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for the tip! It was so hot that day that my hair fell flat and those bangs are a disaster! Thanks for watching!

    • @feliciasampson8032
      @feliciasampson8032 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We're experiencing a heatwave here in Reno...my hair will soon need a therapist!!

  • @YoungAtHeart9
    @YoungAtHeart9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hard pass on the glasses. They don’t fit your face.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Totally agree! They’re now in the “only use when desperate” pile. Thanks for watching!

  • @user-cx6xn8jl5y
    @user-cx6xn8jl5y 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Like glasses❤️👌

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks! Appreciate your comment!

  • @yassss5114
    @yassss5114 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There are much better choices for glasses!! Life is to be lived, no one is promised a certain amount of years, live life to the fullest and expect to meet your maker, that is not sad, but a certainty.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have to agree I think. These will be ok at home when I can't find the others. Thanks for watching!

  • @russellfisher2895
    @russellfisher2895 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You definitely don't want to be harrased by an
    HOA when you are aging!!! That's the last thing you would want!!! 5:22

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m not thinking that most HOAs will “harass” their residents if they simply follow the rules agreed to at time of purchase. It hadn’t been my experience at all.

  • @h.f.4095
    @h.f.4095 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Not a fan of the glasses..

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm torn but I don't think I'll wear them out. You know how it is though--you lose them all the time. I order a ton of them so I've always got a pair handy. These are different for sure. Thanks for the input!!

  • @cindyfreihofer2093
    @cindyfreihofer2093 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Can find a more flattering pair of glasses

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m currently on the hunt for a cuter pair! Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @jerryhantz7233
    @jerryhantz7233 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you tried contacts? Just a suggestion.Sorry about your situation

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have contacts but still need readers. One of the consequences of getting older darnnit! Thanks for watching my channel 🙂

  • @billylambert9650
    @billylambert9650 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mister magoo is the first thing I thought of

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yep. And now I really hate them after I see them
      On my large TV! Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @joniangelsrreal6262
    @joniangelsrreal6262 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    👁👁 the eye ware:
    More in keeping with Groucho Marx ..
    Have a professional choose the proper fit and shape …it’s your face we’re talking about …

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      These are cheap readers. I have a highly trained pro for my real glasses. And yes they’re reminiscent of Groucho for sure. Not wearing them out of the house again. 🙂 Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @kathleenk2381
    @kathleenk2381 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Glasses are a big nope.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree! Thanks for watching!

  • @carolynw3602
    @carolynw3602 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good video. To be honest, those glasses are too big and heavy and hide your beautiful eyes, which you should show off 👀👁

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for your honesty! They looked good online but wow not so good on my face! Still trying to find some that are fun but not wacky. Stay tuned for the nect version that I try! Thanks for watching.

  • @stevenkaskus6173
    @stevenkaskus6173 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Glasses not your style, reminds me of Edith Head

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I didn’t even think of Edith Head but you are so right! Either way they’re better on her. 🤣

  • @Cheryl-yt8ee
    @Cheryl-yt8ee หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Try a different style glasses. Sorry!

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't be sorry at all! I agree that they are not for me. Thanks for watching my channel! I really appreciate it

  • @MarkPurnell-er1lx
    @MarkPurnell-er1lx 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Change the glasses …. they are too 70s 😊

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are SO right! Currently on the hunt for better styles. Thanks for watching!

    • @MarkPurnell-er1lx
      @MarkPurnell-er1lx 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Southwest55Plus It takes time to find that pair that coordinates with our bone structure, skin tones and personality. Have fun and keep the videos coming 🎥

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're so right! I'm always looking for my next pair! Stay tuned!!

  • @DianeMarcus
    @DianeMarcus 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I don’t care for the glasses on you

  • @stephenharvey5932
    @stephenharvey5932 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Too much like HOA

  • @LauraVee63
    @LauraVee63 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sounds like you could be living anywhere....whether it be a 55+ community or a rented apartment, what's your point? You don't say much about 55+ communities........this could happen anywhere you live. Again what's your point?

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The point is that people ask me all the time why there are so many For Sale signs in 55+ communities that we look at. The purpose of this video was to explain why people leave. Many people buy in a community thinking it will be their "Forever Home." It doesn't always turn out that way. Thank you for watching and for your comment!

  • @avoiceinthechoir5791
    @avoiceinthechoir5791 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Find another eyeglass frame that better flatters you. Your current glasses are terrible.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They’re no longer my glasses. Just a brief fling with them to see what I thought. I hated them and so do you. 🤣 Thanks for watching my channel!

  • @frankthewriter5937
    @frankthewriter5937 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ‘Terrible lockdown states’
    Huh???

  • @user-kw5hx7ji8h
    @user-kw5hx7ji8h วันที่ผ่านมา

    Once you buy in you can't get out. Financial suicide.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not true in our Arizona single family communities. You might be thinking of the manufactured home communities which I would NEVER recommend!

  • @MsGenXodus
    @MsGenXodus หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I turn 55 in a few months and have been considering moving to a 55+ community because it's cheap and I figure I will get my money's worth if I move in early into my retirement years.

    • @Southwest55Plus
      @Southwest55Plus  หลายเดือนก่อน

      These communities can be amazing and yes very affordable! Thanks for watching my channel. 🙂

    • @jerryhantz7233
      @jerryhantz7233 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Where is this cheap 55 plus community that you speak of?

    • @bettyb1581
      @bettyb1581 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'd like to know too​@@jerryhantz7233