Myka Stauffer's lame video broken down piece by piece - Who are you fooling?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 พ.ค. 2020
- I walk through the "explanation" video from Myka and James Stauffer. Here are the take-aways
1. It's Huxley's fault for being so damaged, they only shared 5% of how bad it was to "protect" Huxley
2. Their actions speak louder than their words
3. They're sorry they got called out for being bad parents
4. Influencers are the worst kind of people
5. Parents who exploit their children for social media status can F all the way off
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They’re not “re-homing” Huxley, they’re RE-ABANDONING him.
First he was abandoned by his birth family, then abandoned by his adopting family, he must feel absolutely hopeless now and how could he ever trust his new parents after being dumped twice?
Right! Also: why is there 5M views in THEIR video but only 1.5k pretty positive comments. Even on this video there’s 1/4 of the views but over 5k comments. Are they deleting them all?!
The worst thing is that authorities can't locate Huxley at all. Hope he's safe and well, though I can't think of the worst :(
Perfectly put! So sad for him. They are terrible! None of know what we sign up for when we have a baby.. we do we endure we love we never give up!
Yeah I saw Alex’s video too...
They should have to pay child support for the rest of his life.
They owe Huxley hundreds of thousands of dollars!
The owe all the money they earned from Huxley to Huxley.
Good idea!!
YES. THIS IS THE BEST IDEA.
They made money off of him! It's his money!
“It was so hard to abandon Huxley that we went on a vacation to Bali” 🙄
Insanely hypocritical
They should have used the money they spent on vacation as a donation to Huxleys new parents to help them get him the most help possible.
@@miaadams754 Tell that to them. Excellent idea. If only they thought of that.
They went on a family vacation to Bali and put him in temporary care until they got back! But yeah they tried everything to bond with him 🙄
Wow
They remind me of when they interview the parents whose kids go missing after they murdered them
Yes... Exactly. They disgust me me. I just heard about this story and I'm so disturbed.
They absolutely do. Luckily Huxley is safe with his new family!
I'm so disgusted of them. I hope karma gets them so good they never go a day without thinking about where they went wrong!!!
Lmao
@Andrea Allen That's it!!
“They’re literally blaming a four year old for all of their problems.”
Bingo!
Or China. Or the adoption agency. “They didn’t tell us about his ‘problems’”
It’s China. It’s the adoption agency. It’s Huxley. It’s not us!
@@heyidaroo and They were told he had a serious brain injury before they adopted him.
And then went to Bali to pamper themselves. And continue to cover up their dirty little secret. Sickening.
I just think there is more to this.
Jamie Robins some autistic children can become aggressive and harm the people around them. My son when he gets frustrated because he can not communicate his frustration will turn on his brother hit and scratch him. I help him calm down and get my other son out of the way. But I get the feeling she kept getting angry at him and blame him for how much pain he was causing
I can’t deal with the fake crying.
Exactly. As if they haven’t already planned out what they were going to say ahead of time
If your gonna cry do it off camera get yourself together and then come on camera otherwise no one believes
It was sooooo fake
I’m a terrible actress, I can’t act to save my life. But if even I find their “performance” cringe? If someone like me can impersonate them and get told it was spot on? Then they must be doing something wrong. It was that bad.
I have a BFA in Theatre Acting and I’ve taken film classes.. her crying was as fake as Trisha Paytas’ crocodile tears. Their voices went up an octave and yet really quiet and squeaky, like who actually talks like that?!
She's 'crying' the same way as Jennifer Pan during her interrogation, she's a psycho..
When a single mom who’s to young and to poor to raise a child gets rid of her baby we call it abandonment but when a rich happy couple gets rid of their adopted child we call it rehoming?
Disgusting, right?
The word "rehoming" is so offensive. Huxley is a human being not a pet. And THEY cry? they have so much, so many blessings and they had got rid of that poor child. They could afford a staff of nurses to work with Huxley, there is no excuse.
@Bezi know- awesome points
They do. We don't.
This 👏
How they said “respect our privacy” together at the end was so scripted. They. Are. Disgusting.
My adoptive parents adopted me when I was 3, and “gave me back” when I was 10, to the foster care system. I never found a “forever family” and ended up aging out of care. I cannot thank you ENOUGH for creating this feedback. Dissolution is real. The Stauffer’s will continue to live their life both online and off. Huxley’s birthday will come and go, holidays will pass and it will be as if he never existed in their lives to begin with. The dissolution will be with Huxley for the rest of his life. My parents said much the same things these assholes said, except there was no camera to record the fall out. As an Adoptee from a Dissolved Adoption, thank you for putting the burden directly where it needs to be, The Stauffer’s.
Ugh, this is heartbreaking.
Wow Erica thank you for your message
I'm so sorry, Erica. Every child deserves to be loved unconditionally! I hope, you're okay and found the persons you belong to.
Wow. I hope you are doing well now and have people that love you and I hope the selfish gits that decided to give you up get their come uppance in some way.
Wow. I'm so sorry for your experience. Sending you so much love from SC💔💔
One thing that’s not being discussed is why did they have another kid if they were struggling with him?
TH-cam content
Didn’t they have two more? The little blonde one looks younger than Huxley and they have a new baby... am I wrong? Idk I don’t follow these people....
Huxley wasn’t perfect and he needs his perfect son.... that’s my guess 🤷🏽♀️ it’s disgusting any way you hash it
Cole World they had three kids before adopting Huxley they adopted him when he was like two so he’s the same age as that younger boy. So can’t imagine having more or less a twin brother being “re-homed”
To replace him obviously.
When she "cries," her face turns red, but her eyes don't, and she sheds no tears.
ok
Yeah i noticed that too Fake crying dont save her from the backlash people are really angry at them for this
I mean ITS a Adoption how oblivious are they Kids raising isnt easy but If you have a Chance to Love a child WHO had a Bad past you friggin Stick through with IT rather than give Up If they even Loved him they didnt Loved him enough to let him stay but Blacky Take the donated money thats Just Well i mean people will get one day over IT but the Fame they wanted they can forget since Well Kids are No Toys or dolls you get rid Off so Well but im at least ok with IT that He gets a other Family WHO treasures him and Support and they can Life Like they want but i think If they ever want again to adopt people will Rage over IT
She’s trying to force the tears out
Its cringy and embarrassing how hard she’s trying to squeeze at least one tear out
They didn't give Huxley back, they gave him away to yet someone else. Also, call a spade a spade, they didn't use Huxley, they exploited him.
I thought the same !!!!
Yessss!
Her crocodile tears sounded just like Laura Lee's "apology". Pathetic.
Oh my GOD YES THANK YOU!! I knew it sounded familiar but my brain went to Trisha Paytas on her kitchen floor 🤣
It's all so fake...
Aaaaah now it clicked, I knew I heard that before 😂
Yes!!!!! 100%
Omg, yes!!! Narcissism at its finest! Honestly glad he’s now safe from their exploitation. As a parent of a son with autism and a behavior technician, Huxley deserves better!!! I’ve had a couple of choice words for her.
I would like to see a lawyer on Huxley's behalf sue the Stauffer for
exploitation and give him his share of the money they made off of him in
those 3 or 4 years they used him for youtube, I will post this on any and all videos that talk about this because I really think this should be done, to show you can not use a child for social media money then toss them away like nothing
Pure and simple these people have committed fraud.
YES!!! Right there with you!
Omg how can we make sure this happens!?!
That was my first thought when I heard she continued to keep the monetized videos of him up until just the past couple days. How can that be legal?
Its child exploitation.. they should see court
Wait how do they say they didn't know about his "severe needs" when she literally talks about it in all her videos before adopting about how specialists almost discourage her from adopting him because his needs could be very severe?
“I hope your sock falls off into your shoe every day for the rest of your life” Me: clicks ‘subscribe’
Lol this is my reality and now I’m wondering who wished this on me and what I did to deserve it.
I absolutely loved that and subscribing too!
Yes me too 😜
Same !
100% same!!! Love this guy! His commentary is on point!
I find it interesting she kept calling him her “son” but yet she didn’t love him enough to keep him as a son, and deleted him off social media, and is no longer a “mommy of 5”. He was a tool for fame and money, plain and simple. Then when he became a “burden” to them, they got rid of him like a puppy. The tears and high pitch crybaby voice drive me up a wall 😑😑
Double thumbs up! You dont get the honor of calling him your son. Period. Ugh!
RIGHT? There are so many resources available for kids with Autism and the kid was 4!
litl giblet if it really was too hard to keep him, then she would be explaining how hard this would be for Huxley to transition into a new home. How his life is now turned upside down, and they need people to support him finding a family that truly loves him for who he is. She would be saying, he will always be my son to me, and still call herself a mommy of 5. If this honest to god was a traumatic reason they had to let him go. But I still call bullshit, a mothers love is unconditional no matter who their baby is or what they have. She would have never given him up if she loved him from the start. He was never her “son”. 😔
skyward360 she had AMPLE money, living in a massive house with everything in the home the best of the best. She had sponsorship after sponsorship so the money was not running dry. How else could they afford a lavish vacation to Bali? So the money and ability to take Huxley to a therapist and specialist was available. The key is, they didn’t want to. They wanted a kid with special needs and when they got him, they realized how hard it is to be there for their needs. And it bothered them, he took away from their Insta/TH-cam perfect life. He wasn’t perfect. And that breaks my heart in two, he couldn’t help anything. He was a baby, still learning to function as a human. He needs proper care and attention at all times, so they should have never adopted him. They weren’t capable to handle him. The new baby took his spot and his memory is erasable ☹️💔
She's the worst actress ever not one real tear!!
“I hope your sock falls off in your shoe every single day of your life.”
Co-sign. Hard co-sign.
This made me subscribe!
i also hope they step on a Lego everyday
I hope their sleeve falls down when they're washing their hands
i was looking for this comment because even though the topic was so serious... i kinda lost my shit at that kinda threat.
Hahahha i love this comment
*The word of the day is “Lie-cry”.*
*Definition:* When you are “crying”, but you are also lying.
*Example:* “Myka loves to lie-cry to fool people into thinking she actually has a heart.”
One thing that also stuck out to me was the husband states how much "she tried, she tried"... what about his ass???? Dad didn't try??
Apparently not, she posted something about his issues with eating and it was driving her husband bonkers.
Thank you
Finally someone who isn't just talking about Myka but also the husband. They both abandoned their child.
i can’t believe someone could do this why even do it in the first time.
A lot of the stories from people that know them say she rules the roost. That he would do everything with the kids. But that doesn’t change the fact that they are both to blame here. Absolutely shameful.
My mother is textbook NPD and she tends to have VERY unstable relationships with men who are complete doormats. Narcissists look for significant others that don't fight them on *anything*, defer to them and their judgment and are eventually sucked dry and damaged irreparably by it all (financially and emotionally). I definitely think her husband should share the blame, but to me, his role in this comes from a place of cowardice and conforming to his wife's wishes under any circumstances. He probably *actually does feel like shit* over this, unlike her, who is only pretending to. Just not enough to have protected his son apparently.
@@thatONEmachine yeah, he is part of it too. they are a 2 parent household, they are both at fault. They even have post where the husband gets irritated for him just watching him eat.
@@SKY-ws6ph That's what she wrote though, it might not be true. She might have been the one annoyed and putting it on him.
So if she gave birth to this child... would they still have “re-homed” him? You’re supposed to treat and believe your adopted child IS THE SAME AS YOUR CHILDREN you gave birth to!!!! Disgusted! I will No longer watch them!
Finding out about this, I had the exact same thought: If you wouldn't do your biological children... don't adopt children period because if you're separating your kids by whether or not you adopted them or gave birth do them you have no right to call yourself an adoptive mother.
I didn't even know any of them before the drama but all tidbits I saw about them seemed either abusive (like duck tapping Huxleys hands) absolutely self absorbed/arrogant or fake.
What content did they create that people watched them? How did people not feel sick all the time seeing a bad she treats Huxley?
Then after they “found out” how bad his condition really was and had to pay for extra help. She PURPOSELY got pregnant AGAIN to add more to their plate. If you ask me she was getting pregnant again, because they were already talking about abandoning him again.
@@ducklingscap897 I watched the cleaning stuff for motivation 🙈 and to be honest I thought she's just over the top like many and just can't be real/authentic herself in front of camera..
I 100% agree. I unsubscribed. (Havent watched them for a long time) but went back to unsubscribed. That poor baby! I pray he really is in a good home now. But who knows! Just horrible!
I cant believe youtube still allows them to post and profit.
“what’s that tv show with the guy?” most dad line i’ve ever heard
whoever donated to the adoption fund should sue and get their money back
I was going to comment that that money should be donated into a trust for Huxley because that boy is going to need a lot of therapy.
@@catyfaurie9446 they Taped His hand i dont think He was that Happy about they handeled him i Jeanne cant Protest hes little
Idk who in their right mind would donate to behind with. If they can't afford to adopt then tough titties, that's a personal problem not a public one
I agree, all the monies donated needs to go to the child or returned. I think about the house they bought with the income they earned from Huxley’s story and image too. I’m not suggesting they go homeless but the house should be sold or they need to come up with a percentage that again goes into a trust fund for Huxley. The thing that pisses me off most is the sneakiness. It took concerned followers asking what happened to Huxley (where is he!) or they would have said nothing, swept him under the rug and moved on as if he never existed. That’s some really shady stuff and they deserve to be in hot water, I have no sympathy.
can anyone who ever sees them eating in public just stare at him please
😂😂
Totally Agree! Just watch them and shake your head and a loud hmm too.
Like how could u be annoyed at a child watching you eat I don’t even get mad at my dog watching me eat
Yes 😂what an asshole!!!! I bet they never once considered why he did that! That he wasn’t used to getting enough food
It’s unbelievable that he would ever say that and that it could even upset him. Huxley is a baby who is adjusting to knew people. Did he ever think maybe Hux is learning and imitating his “dad”? A title he does NOT deserve. Such scumbags!!
WHY would you have ANOTHER child after already having loads and adopting a special needs kid?!? selfish
Apperently they want to try to adopt again. Pretty much to wanting a kid still with special needs but not "difficult to take care of". They want the ass pats with out the work, they're nothing but terrible people both of em
For narcissistic supply
@@1uciddreams exactly!!
One thing that really bothered me was they said “there were more needs than were disclosed” when you have a baby of your own biologically you don’t know what kind of issues they’ll have!! It’s the same thing. Children don’t come with a manual that says “when the child turns 2 they will develop a biting issue” no!! That doesn’t mean you give up on your child. It means you work harder to provide them with the love and care they need and deserve.
Exactly, I know this is an old post but if this had been their biological children would the outcome had been the same? I highly highly doubt it. No matter biological or not children come with struggles, but that’s what you accept as a parent.
THE FACT THESE “PARENTS” WENT TO BALI RIGHT AFTER GIVING HUXLEY AWAY LIKE A DOG IS ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING!! **Guess it was their way to celebrate, while poor Huxley is feel abandoned af!!!
No one should give a dog away like that!
You have to be kidding me 😐 Dear god!
they did that WITH THE MONEY OF THE CHILD'S VIDEOS!!
That’s so heartbreaking I can’t handle...😪 Awful... This child will keep this scar and hurt inside for the rest of his life. He is damaged for life.
It pisses me off every time they say “our son” stop calling him your son. You don’t deserve him.
Thank you!!! I was going to say this.
She doesn't talk like a 16 year old girl; she talks like a karen trying to pretend she's not a karen.
I told my hubby this exact same thing!
I don’t know what a Karen is but she sounds like a 12 year old to me.
She talks like a basic 15 year old white girl
What is a Karen?
Ha🤣
I cried harder than this when my beta fish died. RIP Cthulu.
RIP Cthulu ❤
RIP Cthulhu 🙁 perhaps he/she will meet my first goldfish, Pierre....Though Idk if gold and beta fishes get along, but Pierre was pretty cool, so just give him a chance, Cthulu ❤️
OMG I did the same!! I woke up one morning & I looked over at my tank and my precious, little fish was gone 😭 I had never had a pet fish before & it nearly broke me when they passed. I could never get another fish bc it hurts so badly 😭😭
Dear Cthulu and Pierre: please welcome Boysenberry the sweet, engaging, fun betta with open fins. He recently swam over the Rainbow Bridge. Rest in peace, beloved pet fish of the world. 💗
RIP Cthulu❤ and same. RIP Marley ❤ you'll both be well missed.
My daughter is disabled and no doctor has ever told me to give her away because I can’t take care of her. That’s bullshit!!! These people suck!!
My daughter has autism, and it can get really hard, and I'm definitely not doing as financially well as these people. I work retail lol. However, I work my fucking ass off to give her the best life I can. The doctor NEVER fucking told me to give her to someone who can do more for her. That's an absolute bullshit excuse. I hope the little man is okay, and is with someone who loves him. I know how hard change is on autistic children. 😔
If the doctors believed that they would have been contacting CPS not just telling the parents to "re-home" him smh
Right I was thinking that sounded strange. I dont think a doctor can tell you, you have to get rid of your kid because they're to disable...
Loren Barnes I’m an autistic female (23) and “high functioning” but I still struggle being this way. But trust me when I say that when your parent understands you and helps you through the meltdowns and difficulties, it makes us feel so safe and okay knowing someone cares and understands. I’m sure you’re doing an amazing job ❤️
I said to myself...What doctor would tell them that? They didn't want the stress anymore
I have NEVER heard of a medical professional suggesting that a kid with ASD should be given to another family. NEVER. I have a child on the spectrum.
Yeah, let's see this person. I guarantee no self-respecting physician would say that. FYI, she is NOT an RN. She assaulted a co-worker on her first job. She did not maintain her two-year license, so to call herself an RN is an out and out lie!
@@thecommentpolice there a record from the hospital she worked at and she didnt just assault a coworker she THREW A METAL CART AT A PREGNANT COWORKER
I saw a video from a social worker, and her mom has been a social worker for over 20 years. She said the same thing. That s medical professional would never suggest that.
I feel like medical society is learning more about how abusive parents can be. Just finished up bingeing the Gypsy Rose case. I think Huxley was set up with a new family because the parents have narcissistic personality disorder. They have a history of fraud, assault, and exploitation of children. Willingly giving Huxley to a new home prevents these two from getting caught in a CPS case that would also damage their bio kids.
@@karenvincent5202 WOW! Did not know that! Do was she able to adopt?
These sorry excuse for parents should be held financially responsible for this kid FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE!!!
It's terrible what they did to Huxley, but imagine the trauma that their other kids went through, too. They just got rid of their brother. If I was their kid, I would be terrified that they'd get rid of me, too, if I was "bad." And they just lost their brother, so imagine that grief
You don’t “rehome” children. I work in this field. It’s not a thing. You abandon them and the state finds a new family once they obtain custody. This kid is in foster care. It’s called officially called “refusal to accept parental responsibility” and relinquishing your parental rights means yours rights are terminated. Only good thing is it should bar them from being able to adopt again. Let us pray. As an adopted person myself with adopted siblings with disabilities, this is beyond inexcusable. When their kids grow older, they will never forgive them for GIVING AWAY their sibling. Huxley deserves way better than them.
leaninglights actually this was a family to family transfer, no foster care. Not that it makes it anymore right
I am an adoptive mother, my son has autism. I totally agree with you. What adoption agency is it that accepts "rehoming" of a child that already is adopted??? Why wasn't some state agencies reacting to the fact that the parents suddenly were refusing or not coping with parenthood to this boy?
Should be no difference in treatment of adoptive parents and biological If we fail to be parents, there is no such thing as "giving a child back" to the adoption agency - or the hospital where you gave birth to it.
I read a horrible article about parents who adopt internationally and decide they don’t want want the child anymore and they basically just give them away to a stranger they find on the internet. I hope it wasn’t that sort of arrangement.
@@sinjon which is actually concerning cause by state statistics most family to family transfers normall end up in human trafficking
@@caffeinated_mom7388 it Was they said the meet the family in person but there lying scum so they probablyt just gave him to the first person they found who said yes which considering state statisics for family to family transfer basically gave him away to human trafficiking cause thats what MOST "family to family" transfers end up being fronts for human trafficking and selling
“They’re selfish dirty pricks, and those white shirts are opposite of their souls” -the dad challenge podcast. Couldn’t have said it better
Can we all go to James’s channel and post “ABANDONED A 4 YEAR OLD” on all of his videos? His channel is still operating and his subscribers haven’t dipped. He is EQUALLY guilty and deserves financial punishment for ruining a 4 year old’s life.
@emb3384
He deleted my comments
I agree his channel should be removed. He ruined Huxleys life why should he get to just move on
Would you believe that his idiot followers support him and are praying for him? SMH! nothing but sheep.
which one is his channel? the stauffer garage one?
They both are horrible, so I agree, what kind of person follows them?? It's scary they have support.
1. I hate how he says at the beginning that Myka “tried so hard” with Huxley - not “we”.
2. Anita Miron uploaded a video where she discussed that in a video, Myka refused to pay $700 for a therapist for Huxley, and instead chose a cheaper option. Evidently not taking care of him to the best of their ability considering their wealth and income.
3. I’m confused as to whether it was before they had abandoned Huxley or after, but they took a family trip to Bali WITHOUT HIM. They have a child that is younger than Huxley and one that is the same age that both went, yet he didn’t. Obviously a divide between biological and adopted :(
4. They are financially secure. They have unlimited resources. Myka’s a nurse! They were in the best possible position to offer Huxley what he needed! Totally agree with you.
5. Privacy. I think you summed it up perfectly. Also, if the struggles they showed were only miniscule, I would hate to see how they dealt with Huxley’s major struggles. “Are you done now?”, along with complaining how difficult he was.
also smtg i saw, she says that the things he did bts was too hard so that’s why she “rehomed” him but she CLEARLY states on sm that her BIOLOGICAL youngest child was the hardest to deal with by far. this honestly just shows her heartlessness
In that video where Myka stated she's choosing a cheaper therapy option, she's wearing a fucking Cartier bracelet. Looks like one listed for $5500 on their site.
The guy seems so unbothered, & it’s disgusting. He says “Myka tried so hard”, but what about you, dude?!
Not taking up for either but he did everything for Huxley, she was lazy.
Exactly! Myka and James should have been helping Hux together! In her TH-cam videos it seemed like James spent more time with Hux then Myka did. James saying Myka has done so much and tried so hard. Yeah right!!!
Yeah I thought that was an odd statement to make also.
Seems like hes saying i was fine but she had to try to love huxley and try to deal and she couldnt
He’s a piece of shit, but let’s all be serious. She’s not at all bothered by anything that happened to Huxley. She’s putting on a show (none of those tear noises are real, and there are no tears). At least he’s not trying soooooo hard to deflect any criticism (he definitely is trying to shirk responsibility and avoid criticism, but she’s putting on a terrible show of acting in service of guilting people into not holding her accountable).
It’s so weird how they say “our son,” or “my son,” when they literally returned him like he was the wrong size shirt
They returend him like milk which had gone bad....
Laura Lee: I can fake cry
Mika and James Stauffer : hold my beer
None of them could fake a cry if fuming onions were worn as a hair wreath.
More like take our adopted son
she started playing with her hair. then realized she was “crying and feeling bad” and just put her head down pretending to be super emotional
Huxley has been out of their home for several months (January). They went on a long vacation to Bali in February. They took their baby with them. They are so FAKE.
Whaaaat?? 😡
That’s disgusting. Like they went on a celebration vacation.
yes and since january she kept filming home reorg/food videos etc and dance challenges on tik tok... :(
🤬
And Myka started a new channel about how to make money fast.
They owe him reparations for all of this. Including naming him Huxley
Huxley sounds like a pretentious name for a pet :P Also knowing that he is going to have a hard time readjusting again to another environment . it just :'( he needs much more yes, much more of your time, attention and acceptance.I have a younger sibling with Aspergers and I remember being really really jealous of how my mum spent more time with my sister i thought that she loved her more but i didnt understand that she needed more attention because she learns slower than others? plus my mum couldnt afford to pay for her to go for therapy session or attend a school with facilities and teachers who are trained to teach children with aspergers. My mum was already struggling to work to pay bills on top of that she has to take care of us make sure our homework was done and do the house chores. Felt that she should have read up and know what shes signing herself up for
Is Huxley a bad name?
I’m a foreigner and to me it sounds pretty good. Kinda classy and masculine. But again it might be because I’m from a different culture and language
@@vikkisims6364 huxley was a popular poet, but his name is used mostly as pet names nowdays
Barbara Laibuta Oh, I see, thank you for telling me!
It’s a shame, I think it’s a really good name. I really like the sound of it, I’ve never heard anything like it before!
On the plus side now I have a possible name for my future dog (if it’s a boy).
VikkiSims it’s not a bad name!!!! I was just being bitchy 😂 I just want the best for him 💜
She calls him her son but she GOT RID OF HIM! He was never her son. He was her income source.
You got yourself a new subscriber with the "I hope their socks fall down every day". This is the worst thing you wished upon them, and that pure dad energy came through there.
Why do they keep call him their son? If he was really their son, they wouldn’t have abandoned him. So sad!!
On instagram she already has in her bio that she is the mother of 4. Doesn't seem like the likes her "son"
Skye Campbell-Bower yeah on YT too..
I love how they're trying to cry, but no tears are coming out
Laura lee 2.0
Somebody said they took a great vacation to Bali & were happy & carefree right after they gave him away & before they announced he was gone. That is disgusting!
@Cristina Salas González jails to good for them so take them to a remote island dump them and leave them
Yeeesss!!! Super fake people
Lol
I don't trust people who play with their hair while "crying"
Lmao!!!
For some that's a copy mechanism.
@@marianabasilio2124 yeah I do This anytime I talk or cry
I heard narcissists tend to play themselves by saying "this specific example is definitely NOT why I did it", "I'm not at aaall a person who thinks like this" etc. Which is usually actually how they feel.
"I didn't adopt him to put him out there...."
Mkayyy....
My 2 year old “tastes” my food then spits it on my plate. I keep her.
😂👌🏽
My friends kids do this to me and I love them so much. I'd keep them if I could.
Yep! Mine digs it out of his mouth and throws it on the floor... like last night eating broccoli yet I
Still got him
Agree. It’s just typical kids behavior! They don’t mean harm, they just don’t know how to appropriately express their dislike toward the food >
Mine has exploded diarrhea all over me and vomited in my face. Couldn't live without him, he's the love of my life end of.
Can you imagine what they put him through when the camera was off? I hope they didn't damaged him for life. They blamed him for everything.
When she talks about "the new mommy" there is no emotion. She was supposed to be his mom. Even thinking about giving up my baby I break. And she is not even share a tear. So sick!
“I hope your sock falls off inside of your shoe every day for the rest of your life.” This is the best insult. Thank you for this
SPOT ON. And can anyone imagine a medical professional telling a parent: “you know, he’s got problems. You should probably give him away.”
I’m sure they were truthful, they were probably told he needed more but I think the doctor expected THEM to give him more.
So spot on. No doctor would ever say a child needs a better home without considering the child is endangered. I also watched another video from another TH-camr who pointed out that the Stauffer’s posted a video where she was not going to spend $700 on therapy and decided to chose the $70 therapy. Clearly they didn’t chose the best therapy yet they can afford two bentleys, an $800k home and taking all of their kids to Bali. They just constantly put all the burdens on poor Huxley but never take any blame at all.
Jessica Lopez I saw that too. And using duct tape on his hands to stop him from sucking his thumbs.
Right
They're legally not allowed to say that in most states in america
Is she was stressed out and stuggleing with Huxley, why have another baby then?
Right!
Right!? Omg I can't stand her! I want to delete love Meg for referring her to us/me. I'm that discussed
Money.
she doesn't know of a little thing called birth control
Wtf??!! She’s a nurse! She should have training and medical knowledge. What a disgrace. I’m a student nurse and I’m just beyond disgusted. I hope Huxley is safe somewhere.
"He needed more...." shes a nurse, they're loaded, they both stay home, but they gave him all they had....even though there are single parents working two jobs to afford one solid therapist for their special needs child. No you didnt want to give him more!
The fact these people took a lavish vacation in Bali immediately after they “re-homed” him is disturbing. Absolutely disgusting 🤮
Amanda Hostetler , funded by Huxley.
It was their celebration vacation
What 😱😱😱really ? They went on a vacation to Bali after this 😱 oh my God , what the hell , This people are just wow.. Oh my God .. this is just so upsetting , they have no remorse for their actions
vegan cherry that thought makes me so sick to my stomach, but you’re probably right. 🤢
Itsjustme she deleted all of them
I’ve been struggling to have a child. Being low on fertility, having miscarriages for 8 years. I adopted my little girl and I don’t need a biological child, she is my world. She threw fits, she would scream especially when it was bath time she hated bath time. I adopted her when she was 4, she was so scared and angry. But I knew she has been through so much. She trusted me after a month and a half (I used ice cream, I would eat ice cream with her and watch cartoons) and when she stopped calling me maam and called me mom.. I cried. I love my daughter nothing she could have ever done would have made me hurt her they way they hurt Huxley. now she sings to me as she does my hair. It’s been 5 years since I’ve adopted her and every time I hear mama come her mouth I feel the same way I felt that day. I still tear up sometimes but we laugh about it and she says “mama you are such a baby” she’s so happy. Her smile, i couldn’t imagine not seeing her smile everyday. I’m not ready for her to go to college even though it’s years away
Beautiful story. 🧡 im so happy for you.
this is amazing you are both so beautiful and strong
The comment about the husband finding Huxley watching him eating drives him bonkers just drew a picture in my mind of how clearly he detested that poor child. Can you imagine the tension and hatred that would have been felt in the air in those moments. You can imagine him running off to report how annoyed he was to Myka after dinner. What I wouldn’t give to be able to adopt, I’ve always wanted to adopt a child with special needs ever since completing work experience with a special school and it was the most incredible place to work. Very very sad these two still haven’t been cancelled though🤷🏻♀️😔🤬
They keep saying.. they tried. NO, you gave up on a child. And "new forever home" - YOU literally were his forever home.
HOLD ON!!! SO IT MEANS THEY GOT RID OF HIM IN THE MIDDLE OF A PANDEMIC!!!! TH-cam CANCEL THEM PLISSSSS
And went to Bali??????????????
Marina Romanelli yep , they literally got rid of him and went on an expensive family trip to Bali. Fking disgusting people
@@huixianhu2474 They are like those people who abandon their pets when they go on vacation and then just get new ones after they return. It's evil enough doing this with animals, but a child?
And they still have over like 704k followers! If someone did not unfollow on all their platforms after this they have no hearts.
I also feel bad for their other kids. They're probably seeing that "if we give mummy and daddy a hard time they'll get rid of us too".
I agree! I feel like I haven’t heard anything about how it would affect their other kids... I think they’ll probably be scared for life
I'm actually worried that they'll grow up to think that it is acceptable to throw someone out or give up on someone if they look and act different. I'm not gonna worry about their well-being. The douches can't get enough of their biological children.
Yuri Seo I feel like they have enough kids that it could effect them differently like they might have some that side with parents some that miss Huxley and are extremely hurt
Nah I bet for that to happen and from the duct-taped thumb thing, Huxley was always treated differently...
they should be fine as long as they don't watch their dad EAT. As soon as that happens, they're getting re-homed in no time.
Hello sir, I just want to say that you touch me a lot by being that way advocating for a little one that cannot speak. I was once a little one like him. Nobody defended me. Thank you a lot.
This sounds so much worse knowing that she's lying about using agencies
They didn't "rehome" a child. They dumped a child whom they promised to love and support into the foster care system. I usually don't support cancel culture but DAMN I hope they lose all their youtube revenue and followers.
They didn't go through local cps agencies rather they independently gave the child away to a new family with their personal agent.
You don't "re-home" people, you "re-home pets
Laura Lee: I made the world's worst apology video.
Myka and Jim: ***enters the chat***
Omg 😂😂😂 totally agree.
Myka, hold my beer
Who is Laura Lee? Maybe I shouldn't have asked...
Hold me drink... lol
Colleen Ballinger "hold my beer" 😂
"My kids watch me take a dump". I didn't need to hear that but the brutal honesty was hilarious man.
She kept saying she’s thinking about his future...the only thing I can guarantee for my kids’ future is that I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE for them as long as I’m breathing.
I think they wore white to portray an “angelic” or “godly” look.
It’s not working. lol 😆 but I hear ya
white symbolizes innocence, peace, purity. These sickos are none of the above
Don't forget the big glasses she's wearing.
poison is white too!
Yep. And those halo filter lights they're using bounce off white to create that look.
My son has autism and these two remind me of a preschool we sent him to. His therapist and I were careful to explain about his special needs to see if they felt able to take him on. (For two hours a day, two days a week.) They were enthusiastic for the first couple of months and it seemed a good fit, but when he wasn’t “cured” within six months, they got nasty. I took him out of there instantly. He’s going to a wonderful school now that meets his needs. This couple seem to be the same as that preschool. They resent Huxley because he wasn’t “cured” by their showy so-called “love” within a given amount of time. Stupid, self-centred narcissists. The poor boy didn’t fit in with their narrative. He deserves so much better.
you hit the nail on the head. They didn't want a disabled child, they wanted a fixer-upper - when that didn't happen they dumped him.
zencat55 “fixer upper” right said! Ugh makes me sick to think these people think like that 😢
Yes! These are my thoughts exactly!
@@zencat55 yes i didn't know this family before this terrible story but everything sounds like a bit of a "savior complex", they wanted a special need kids to be the savior family who helped and when it was too hard or when it didn't fit their "perfect family image" they "dumped" him...
@Katerina so happy you found a good school, people and teachers ( and i'm one of them) are so uneducated and uninformed about autism...
I have 2 Autistic children, you are spot on.
It's like they thought they could buy a child like an old piece of furniture and paint over the cracks and place it in the corner, but then the cracks started to reappear again and the style didn't fit the decor anymore so it was easier to give it to goodwill after you tried it out for a little.
Another thing that bothers me, is that they have mentioned a lot that Huxley was always attached to James. And for him to be bothered over him eating or staring while he eats is so sad. That’s something so small that could have been looked over. If they need to make a post about something little like that, then I’m sure they were bothered by all kinds of things he did..Little Hux didn’t understand that he was so annoyed by him, when he’s just being little and innocent. I pray Huxley has the best parents ever now...because he truly deserves it.. that boy needs love. Real genuine love.
THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING OUT FOR THIS LITTLE BOY!!!
The other children in this family must be so confused. Where is their brother? If I do something wrong will I be next? Those poor baby’s, This is horrible.
Tbh I think from what I've seen I think her other kids didn't want to be around him 😢
I doubt they ever really saw him as their brother, considering the attitudes of the parents. But who knows.
Even if the other replies are true that they never bonded with him or didn’t want him around those kids are going to grow up and eventually the awfulness or what their parents did is going to kick in. Never mind how awful it’s going to be for those kids to grow up having been dragged all over social media too. Even though they treated their other kids better they’re friggin TERRIBLE parents.
@@khakis69 They didn't! In the videos you could see them disciplining Huxley, the all thing was just sad.
@@TziporaRaphaella yeah I feel bad for all the kids, i think the fact they just leaped in and adopted a child and were more interested in having him on TH-cam rather than protecting him, shows he was just a commodity in their eyes and nothing more, their other children are to be pitied because they are being raised by narcs and they will learn those behaviours, I agree with you I really dont like children being used for youtube views
WHO GETS UPSET AT THEIR KIDS FOR WATCHING THEM EAT. this is so gross. also, when you give birth to a kid, you dont know all the issues the kid may have. but most parents still adapt and care for their kid? why is it different for an adopted kid? because they dont see him as a person.
Right?! That’s part of my sons therapy. Apraxia makes it so he doesn’t even know how to chew. It’s not automatic. I literally have to demo eating and chewing for him every day. That’s how all kids learn.
This kid was trying to learn more about his surroundings and all they felt was intruded upon :(
Exactly. Shes sees him as an accessory. He was like a bag or pair of shoes to her.
I know! Insane, but if it was one of her "bio" kids, they would've been "That's so cute, she is watching us!", they are a fraud!, but internet justice is so sweet!...they are done!
I think those complaints she had about huxley were just her justifying giving him up later. Start complaining now so it doesn’t seem so sudden.
Sadly a lot of ppl give up their bio kids when they are special needs at birth.
They had a fundraiser asking their followers to help pay for his adoption 😡
Hearing your passion and compassion for this child and the way you articulated your thoughts definitely won me over as a subscriber. I appreciate you covering this and adding your perspective as a father.
"I hope that your sock falls off in your shoe every day for the rest of your life" is the most beautiful curse I've ever heard. Subscribed!
Same!!!!
My favorite passive aggressive curses are "May you develop a persistent itch on the inside of your nose.", "May you forever feel the onslaught of a sneeze that never comes", and "May your chair always produce a fart sound, but only once, such that you cannot reproduce it to prove it was just the chair".
Just because he probably couldn't express himself very well, that doesn't mean he doesn't understand what happened. Just because he's autistic doesn't mean he isn't self-aware. There's a person in there. Poor kid.
I have autism and I’m offended by these people. Ik I’m not the one who was abandoned by a shitty family but...the things they say about his disability...is an insult to an autistic.
ITS better He gets a Family WHO treasure him they gave him already Back so but i think they didnt think through what a Adoption IS some are Born to be parents some Not
*screaming internally* it’s so frustrating to watch the apology video. Both of them don’t deserve Hux and he deserves so much love 😭
If they loved him, they will not give up. If Huxley their biological child, I don't think they will "rehome" their kids.
Myka never looks directly at the camera for more than a second. Her eyes dart everywhere. A strong telltale sign of a liar.
Also, her voice is so annoying. And she's got bad vocal fry.
The fact that they wanted a “damaged” kid is disgusting. No matter what is what is “wrong” with him he is still a person and not damaged.
Exactly. Hes autistic, not damaged.
Just this whole situation is so manipulative and I feel bad that this poor innocent kid became their victim
You're amazing. You voiced everything I couldn't. Thank you for putting words in my thoughts. I cannot believe people like those exist.
I know this is a serious topic but when you said you hope his socks fall off in his shoes everyday, I had to subscribe.
the dad cried and said "I really loved him" past tense, it says it all
Yes!!! He LOVED him.
@@catherinerintamaki8617 bro it was in a past tense tone
The Dad is a dousche. Omg, I am so grateful for the Man of a Husband I have! My daughter had a brain tumor, which led to cancer, 3 brain surgeries, & after removed she is blind, except a tiny corner of one eye. Can you imagine. It is hard and she has new personality traits. She is biological yes, but do I just put her somewhere ...no Jesus! I LOVE HER MORE AND DEEPER AMD REASSURE HER.. NOT GET MAD LIKE THIS DOUSCHE OVER A CHILD WATCHING HIM EAT. Maybe show him Asmr eating sounds.. I don't know. You build on things that comfort your children. If he is autistic he needs comfort. Whatever that is. If the eating situation was sooo bad, why wouldn't Mykka do more research and let him watch those eating videos. It may sound wierd, but autism is a very intense condition.. My nephew is autistic & things that mean nothing to me, he may be obsessed with.. Anyway. What is wrong with people. He is not a fucking toy. He needed more. So you can't give more love and find what comforts him . No they wanted to travel and he was messing up THE LIVES HE MADE RICH! and protecting him.. Huxley will see this one day. They should delete. Absolutely.
The douches bag just uploaded a video at STAUFFER GARAGE
I just didn’t love him when he stared at me when I was eating. Like he’s a dog. These 2 are scumbags. Evil. Pathetic. Deplorable
“You are a bad person. I hope your sock falls off in your shoe for the rest of your life.” I FELT THIS IN MY SOUL, and I second that.
That just happened to me today! A fitting curse!
That’s the worst 🙄 especially when running
Loved this so much!
"We did everything we could," sobs the woman, who proudly told the world that she downgraded her kid's therapy to the cheapest option while wearing a $4000 Cartier bracelet.
"It's been so hard for me," sobs the man, who begged for donations to afford the kid before happily buying a multi million dollar home, then had another baby while supposedly being overwhelmed with this fourth.
"We're so upset, please respect our privacy!" cries the couple who went to Bali on the money they got for pimping out their white savior complex and extorting a literal disabled child for years.
Just came across your channel and subscribed right away, love your opinions and how straight forward you are
I hate hate HATE when grown people do the "I'm crying" voice and they're not actually crying. How do they not know that everyone is onto that already and it's the #1 sign that you're putting on a show?
Yea that sounded so fake
unfortunately some people still fall for it :/ If you check their "crying" video, you'll see that people are feeling bad for them
People who have the crying voice in 100% of the scenario proceed to cry. Their nose swells up and their eyes turn red. Who is believing these people? I saw zero tears.
You see that a lot, and it's awful!
These are true narcissist. You got two popular youtubers who just erased a kid and actually thought it would be okay and nobody would care and sympathize with them. They just can’t understand how we can’t see this is acceptable.
And probably never will. The sooner every follower moves on, and let justice take over (there needs to be an investigation), the sooner these youtubers will relate to their version of 'suffering'. When no one PAYS attention to them, that will cause a level of suffering that just may scratch the surface of Huxley's and by extension, his siblings.
Not only narcissists, their issue is much deeper
And replaced it with a baby. She has a punchable face, seriously. Had to make room to care for more exposure. She's a scumbag and so is her husband. Her and Acacia Brinley deserve a horrible parent award.
Before she deletes everything she said that the doctors and his teacher said he is gonna be kinda normal or catch up in 2 years only
Thank you!!! Forever home and re-home ARE DOG TERMS!!!
The more I listen to these weirdos it seems that they are actually trying to BLAME Huxley.... Like he did something horrible and they want to "protect his privacy".... Unbelievable. They are just so so mean and evil.
I was just thinking the exact same thing.
Right! They wanna play the victim because they can't take responsibility for their actions so they have to blame someone, so they blame a little kid they choose to bring into their lives! They are such scum.
Even if it was a “safety” issue against them or one of their other kids from Hux. The kid has disabilities. He’s very young still so therapy is NOT going to work right away. Those types of things take YEARS to get under control. They are the parents in the household. They are totally responsible in the end. Those are some horrible “parents”. There’s other instances where her bio kids are sucking their thumbs freely but Hux had duct tape on his fingers?! I’m sure that wasn’t the only thing they did to him. Hux is honestly better off away from these people and I hope they’re miserable for what they’ve done to that little boy.
“We gave up, we couldn’t do it. We didn’t bond with him and couldn’t get to the level where he was fully considered a part of our permanent family. We tried to push through bc we were getting heaps of views, but we couldn’t actually love him as much as our biological children so we’ve moved him on to a new home”
I could have maybe respected the honesty lol
Not gonna lie it’s still a really scummy thing to do but it is more respectable than blaming a 4 year old for all their issues and making up stories.
I still wouldn’t like them but at least they would have been honest
Kate Troughear Exactly
you nailed it
I think their biological children are more compliant with the image they want to portray, plus they look like them. if any of them tried to be independent or take a different view point from their mother, they'd be cut off in different ways, emotionally, financially, something. It seems like a very unloving household.
Word! 🙌🏼
She really just pulled a Laura Lee cry because she abandoned a child!