The Commitment Process (For A Man) With John Gray
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024
- Dr. John Gray of MarsVenus fame and author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus shares how a woman can invite attraction, get her needs met, share her feelings with a man in a way that will make him feel successful, make her feel heard and draw a man closer to her! John Gray shares the stages of dating and how men and women move through the process of a relationship to the level of commitment, partnership or marriage. When a woman is on the masculine side she often gives too much and her feminine energy can be depleted.
John Gray says a key for a woman's happiness is to be in a receptive energy and be open to what a man can give to you. If you, as a woman, are giving too much to a man, you are unlikely to attract a high-quality masculine man. This is why learning more about how to invite his attention with your feminine energy is important as is balancing giving and receiving. If you are a single woman or woman in a relationship or marriage and want to enjoy a great relationship with a man, then polarity between a man and woman are essential! If a woman is showing up with masculine energy and like she is the better man it can be very hard for a man to feel attraction. Dr. John Gray from Mars Venus fame and author of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus answers this question about men and women and what his advice is so that you can enjoy a loving, passionate, committed partnership relationship or marriage with the right man for you.
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5:07 stages of relationship
1. Attraction
2. Doubting
3. Commitment (sex before this stage bares risk of being confusing)
4. Deeper intimacy (overcoming the stuff that comes up)
5. Proposal
6. Acting married (without the pressure of actually being married)
7. Getting married
Who says men are simple, I have to watch all these damn videos to figure him out
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i know right. lol
The more I learn, the more baffled I become......
Lolllllll😂
😂 true
2:44 when you know who you are, you will find the right person right away, because they will mirror who you are, and you love who you are, so you will love them! WOW!!!
That’s where I am at now ❤
Golden nugget of Truth…It starts here: 7:22 “Find a guy, who wants you more than you want him…he’ll be willing to play by your rules” 🙇🏻♀️
Isn't that manipulation though?
@@sharonbartley808 or it could be manipulate yourself to install boundaries on others but mostly yourself. It’s empowering to stand in who you are, rather than run and chase to the point of pleasing other, while not taking care of yourself and your own needs.
It started that way but then it changed
So basically as a woman you don’t get to choose. You have to contort yourself into somehow liking the ones who choose you. Sounds like a very slightly improved version of being married away without concern about who you are attracted to/ love.
Out of everyone who has interviews with John, yours are my favorite because you’re very good at interviewing people.
Thank you for your kind words and for watching too!
good points about "open-heart" it
just there if a person can. do it.
Agreed, you let the man talk and don't speak over him 💕
Love is not something 'magical' that just happens. Its a commitment you make with your mind when you find someone you think you can share life with. Then you stick to your commitment. Out of that comes respect then love and then you can both grow together and enjoy. Forgiving mistakes and enjoying wonderful times.
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Came across this video and your comment. You put it sooo well. I can hardly agree more!🤍
wow love that he states "Sex with just me, not with yourself, by yourself." Game changer! Thanks John
Yes! It's a game changer and very important in my opinion. Thanks for watching AnnMarie!
I absolutely adore Dr. John Gray. All his videos I have watched, I have connected, laughed, and understood things I had always been perplexed about. What a genuine Beautiful man!!
Thanks for watching Becca and for your kind words about John too! I'm so glad you're finding these videos helpful!
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson Thank you for your podcast your guidance too. It all is what we go through and stages to development. Bonding is so good but some people aren't open enough to have it and blame the other person. Intention is everything
@@BeccaSmith124 You're very welcome! Thanks for watching and for your comments. I'm so glad you find my work valuable!
Me too.
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Every word that comes out of John’s mouth is priceless. Thank you 🙏
Real truth of life..being true to one self... so so true!🙏
Thanks so much for watching Veena!
I read book Men from Mars Women from Venus since 1997, it was amazing, I just found a new perspective about me and the opposite sex. I am from Indonesia and probably not all the Westerns also understand with men and women. Due to internet access, I always update my knowledge from John Gray. Thank you John. You make light the world.
Oh wow, I did not know he broke up with his girlfriend and then married then broke up with that marriage and went back to his now relationship...
I just LOVEEEEE how John allows gods life to be an open book. It is definitely what is being called for in 2021 ~ and yet John has being doing this from the beginning 💝
Thank you Michelle for these!
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I read somewhere that his wife passed away 2 years ago! :(
Thanks for watching and for your comments too! After 37 years of marriage his wife Bonnie did pass away from cancer, but they shared a wonderful love for all of those years and John will always have her in his heart. Take care and thanks for watching too!
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson Thank you so much for this message. I wish him all the best.
I love this channel, Michelle!
Greetings from Germany
@@DIENEUEMAMA Thank you and hello to you too!
Love your interviews with John Gray. Today's interview really struck a chord with me. Ever have one of those moments where, somehow, a little nugget sneaks in and imbeds itself in you, and you have no idea how or why this became an "a ha!" moment? This was one of those for me. What I needed to hear, when I needed to hear, in the way I needed to hear. Wow, do I feel positive, enlightened, and empowered! Ordering "Mars and Venus On a Date" right now--- can't wait to read! And feeling extremely grateful...thank you Michelle and John. ❤
That's wonderful Linda! Thanks for watching and for your comment too!
Thank you so much, Dr Gray, for helping me immensely with the most important relationship of my life. You are wise beyond your years! ❤
Sooo helpful so effective. I do appreciate John for sharing his wisdom too.🙏💐
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!
Thank you for the interview Michelle. Have read all of your books, John and they have been helpful. This is the best interview I have seen so far. There is much wisdom and truth here. The open heart idea is the point that I have finally arrived at. Having fun dating for the first time in three years at 60. Thank you both for all you do to help others.
Thank you so much for your kind comments and kind words too! We hope the dating continues to go well! xo
I just recently came across John Gray on your site. I have his books but didn't understand things. Now since I am watching him I see things so much clearer. Thank you!
Glad you are finding it helpful Alina and thanks for watching too!
agreed
@@Sbannmarie thanks for watching!
70!!!! Years. Old.
And still sharp as a f@cking tack!!! 😁💎
His advice made me cry 🥲
Michelle, Thank you so much for bringing this information to us! I have learned so much from your videoes with Dr. Gray.❤
"Comparing is the thief of our happiness." Dr. John Gray
Brilliant!
Thank You so much Michelle I love your chats with John they are very helpful💖
Glad you like them! Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Anne!
I really do love this videos! thank you Michelle and thank you John, I get so much insight from them!
Men commit very quick if they need visa or someone to take care of then, or build on women’s back . But these are wrong type of men . The more men do for you and invest in you the more he will try to commit .
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"State of awareness that recognizes truth." -Vedas
I truly needed this information.
Thank you for your great relationship wisdom through this video. Thank you as well Michelle for helping in the making of this valuable video.
Appreciation and gratitude from the heart💯%👏👏👏
Thank you for watching and for your kind words too Ivorine! Much appreciated!
Thank you for this. I see ways I can be better as a man.
Sorry for the loss of your wife Bonnie
When you know the truth, you know what you deserve.
I am 72 years old.....I take pristine care of myself.....there isn't much of a playing field at my age....I am a successful artist/ musician /instructor......men get more complex as we age.....and so so many lose their testosterone.....my man thinks he has no problem....(especially with libido) and that's the problem....women take better care of themselves.....
Thanks a lot for this amazing video Michelle 🥰👌😘🇨🇵
Thanks so much for watching Victoria!
Thank you John.
Thank you SO much! I love this interview. ❤
Thanks so much for watching and for your kind words too Milena!
My 67 year old boyfriend dumped me cause I didn't have sex with him. We were dating for 4 months and I was just trying to get to know him. The very next day after he dumped me he was on a dating site and said he moved on!
Can anyone state simply...the commitment process for a man?
You're great, Mr John Gray!
Thank u yes your beautiful wife bonnie in heaven. N to u n your new wife tho u yes I no who I am now too. I had a real love at first sight with my ex but it was a so-called twin flame relationship in an out back-and-forth a really never cared about me I just felt really hard and had a very hard time letting go but now I have a wonderful soulmate he’s 20 years younger than me but he’s 38 and emotionally mature and yeah so thank you Laurafahey currently in PA
thank you
I’m curious if he’d say we might sometimes go through two stages more or less at once, like 1 and 2, or if we sometimes go to another stage and can or do go back to a pervious stage. I’m at the beginning of something, and questions about if I was going to go back to living in Vietnam (where I was living up until this trip back to visit my family that has gotten extended much longer) seemed to help push our budding relationship from attraction into questions/doubt regarding where I would be. Now that I’ve decided to stay here, I think we could benefit from pacing things and making sure that we take things light and have fun, which I think goes a lot along with stage 1 attraction. My thinking is about pace and I think returning there somewhat before possibly progressing will also help to better place the relationship for a possible commitment.
wow i actually new frm first sight to my new man. that he was the 1 :)
Love that!!
Excellent insights
Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Naz!
So many men lose interest after 3-4 dates so that it’s impossible to get to this “knowing” stage.
That means they are not the right man! Wait for the man who is there for you.
This one man is always there for me. I feel that he is the One!
Its impossible to find a guy who wants me more than I want him. Literally impossible, and I'm not desperate everyone says I'm too independent. So...I don't know what I think to this.
That's too bad that is your experience Sara. However, your belief that is the case could be an obstacle to finding that kind of man. Your thoughts and beliefs are very powerful. Thanks so much for watching!
if u r too independent u need to balance this masculine trait by being more feminine and asking ur man for help sometimes....men need to be needed...more they do for u more they bond to u
@@evka24 That's true!
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson I have a friend that says this too. Men passed her by and have stated she is mean.The other comments was doesn't like men. People don't realize the light others see them in when they have these ways of showing up.
@@evka24 what's the difference between wanting to be needed & being needy? Isn't it the same thing?
I’m not sure if I misunderstood this, but did he say that if a man ejaculates more than once a week he will have eyes for other women or is that only in the early stages?
find a man who loves you more than the other way around ... should I leave the bf now? im much more committed into him than he is to me :(
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How can you turn the steer the rudder of a bad marriage in the right direction?
Specifically: communication and you want him more than he loves you
That's a tough one, but I do recommend you check out John's books because I think you could find some help there. Thanks for watching!
Hi I have a question, say you’ve been in a long relationship 5-7yrs. Have a child together. You breakup at year 5 mark due to indiscretion of your partner then both realise after the hurt stages that actually there is genuine love there and it’s like bonding is still together on familiarity but there’s been so much hurt mess distrust that you don’t know how to move it forwards to start fresh again even though we’ve spent time in counselling the past year individually and getting self help. How do you take day a committed relationship that’s broken back into a newness state where maybe you’ve grown learned to love yourself but want to implement new boundaries and make say him work to earn the new you and ensure he’s understood the process and that it’s not just he gets all the benefits without true commitment again! (Baring in mind we’ve never married) but have a child.
It seems that both men and women have become kind of chemically deformed because of society and chemicals in our food and water. It's nice to know that Dr. Gray and other researchers have discovered much of what we need to be healthy and feel fulfilled.
how do we know our heart is fully opened?( how can I tell that my heart is opened fully) I don't understand this part fully. thank you🙏
So Michelle what's the final answer to your original question....shall we share the fact with our dating partner that we reading this book and if we can read together ?
The answer is that most couples don't read it together, although if the man is interested open to it, that could be fun. However, if a woman or man reads the book it helps to avoid some of the pitfalls that can happen so you can navigate the relationship more effectively. Thanks for watching Nikita!
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson thanks a lot for your prompt response !
14:35 this happened in my relationship what can I do as a woman? He’s no longer romantic
Aah so doubt is a normal stage ... having it now after two / 3 weeks ...
Yes, it is a normal stage. Give things a little time to see how you feel. Take care!
I texted/email with an ex here and there for the last 10 years. I wish our conversion is more open and connect as friend, not just “hi, how are you?”. How do I approach that?
Be direct . Take the lead .
yeah don't give him sex until after you're married (if marriage is your goal), otherwise he will park his car in whichever stage you gave him sex and then he'll tell you "you deserve better" and bail.
So true!
@@SheenaRea even John Grays daughter Lauren has been dating a guy for 12+ years and he hasn't proposed!!!!!
She moved in with the guy when he hadn't proposed and 12+ years and a baby later dude hasn't popped out the question! I meeeaaaannn...No thanks.
This is why I'm hesitant to buy Lauren's classes. I would buy John's classes (and I have) but not Lauren's. I want to be married, not unmarried living together with the baby daddy and the baby!
5:00 starts the juice!
7:40
I don't think there is such a thing as meeting someone you can "grow and learn with and move on". That's wasted time and energy particularly for women. We lose valuable reproductive time with each partner and having children with one person destroys your relationship potential with other people. Women mate for life. So do men. Having multiple relationships is not healthy. It decreases your ability to bond.
Hasn't he been married like 5 times?
3 times. First brief marriage was a divorce. His second wife passed from cancer after 2 decades plus of marriage. He is no remarried to his third wife.
What about men with illnesses that prevent sex?
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There are many ways to have sexual experiences. Intimacy is what people seek.
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Hmm.. don’t think that’s going to work if you have a high sex drive as a woman
I totally agree
as long as these videos exist: no one is buying his books🤷🏻♀️just sayin 🤣
His books are still extremely insightful tbh! I think they’re totally different than the videos
If a guy you know texts you one day our of the blue. You like him. You haven't heard from them in a while.
We texted few shirt messages back and forth.
Do I reach with a how are the next day? Or Do I not make contact? I'm confused on what to do.
I wouldn't contact him. Live your life. If he really wants you, you'll know it because he will come towards you.
All games
Just contact him, treat him like your friend. Nothing to loose, put that in your mindset. Call him if you want, dont call if you dont want to. If he still doesnt take the clue, leave him and just be friend
Love at first site. " It's not that common."
Good point.
If a man is addicted to porn it won't work. Not judging men at all. Just saying it won't work.
Thank you Dr John Gray. I truly appreciate your expertise on relationships.
Glad you like them Angie! Thanks for watching!