If a medical examiner doesn't take photos during an autopsy then they should be immediately fired and disbarred from that profession. Absolutely unacceptable
Exactly!!! This medical examiner needs to be held accountable, not following through with taking important photos that could help the case. That is not okay
@@chelseag2124 honestly.. if Tamla's case is really getting reopened those photos would of been so helpful its not like they can just travel back in time to reinvestigate :( hope she gets the justice she deserves 💔
This case is disgusting. Those women were literally talking badly about her sweet gift. If I was given a hostess gift by a very sweet woman and it tasted a tad bit odd I would NOT be disrespectful about it. I would simply set it aside. Those women gave me terrible vibes. She NEEDS justice.
my first reaction. Like, she doesn't know you that well. How the hell is she supposed to know your personal tastes in everything. They couldn't even act grateful.
@@rosedolch8637 well if it was an accident related to Xanax given to her by someone who is prescribed it then they are also responsible. Regardless how you or anyone feels about this being race related.
I IMMEDIATELY disliked Jeanne as soon as she told the Tequila story.. Like someone brings u a gift & u tell them u don’t want it? Then mock how disgusting it is? Absolute TRASH.
@@tammymayo5566 Exactly!!! Who does that?!?! Sh*t If it were me I'd save it to give to someone else if I didn't want it. Imagine being so bigoted that you won't even take a free gift that you can pass on!
I’m convinced to this day that this was no accident. I really hate that Tamela didn’t got with her first instinct and not attend the sleepover. Those folks did something to her. No one can convince me otherwise.
If her “friends” aren’t guilty of her murder, they’re definitely guilty of not giving a shit. They acted like her death was such an inconvenience. So frustrating.
@@tessawood8244 Definitely Not so-called “friends”. Hearing situations like this remind me how grateful I am that I’m very selective with whom I socialize with.
@@Nwordscissorhands1738 not illegal correct but that callousness shows how cold they are leading to suspicion of guilt. Only issue is the police gave zero fu€KS to actually investigate
She gave the 911 operator an entire synopsis of the night before getting to the the reason for the call. While someone is laying dead in your backyard. Guilty people always over explain on 911 calls
i immediately was so upset when Tamla’s gift was disrespected. how could you do that to a person who gave you a very nice gift? these ladies are repulsive.
A few years ago, I was invited to a house party(gathering) by my so-called friend and colleague. I was the only black person there and only knew 2 people, including the one who invited me. They seemed fine in the beginning but all of a sudden the energy changed and one of the girls tried to attack me unprovoked. None of those yt people said anything or even tried to stop her. It was after 3-4am. I was so shaken up and scared. I called for a cab and left straight away. I thank God I got out alive. I learnt to never be the only person of colour in a social setting. Rip to this beautiful lady 😢💔🙏🏽
@OTU537 in a situation like that(Outnumbered, unprovoked attack,had to use your defense weapon), if you'd have SLUMPED everything coming at you, it'd be justifiable SELF DEFENSE...open shut case.😒💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
I’m so sorry that happened to you. That could have happened to me to years ago….when I was very young. I didn’t know any better. I’ve since taught my children.
The fact that Tamala is dead and these women still talk about how disgusting the tequila she brought was and the way they speak of her is soooo suspicious! This is so incredibly unfair Tamala and her loved ones 💔
No idea why they were so upset by the tequila. Could have said my goodness thank you for the gift and set it to the side just incase they did decide on it.
Tequila and I have a bad relationship but FFS if a new friend or acquaintance or, hell, complete stranger died at my house all I'd have to say is how horrified and sorry I am that it happened. The last fucking thing I'd have to say is I didn't like her hostess gift. These women are awful.
The way these women went on about the Tequila, even passing it around while she was smoking outside, is vile and *very* telling. These women give off mean girls who peaked in HS vibes.
they didnt even respect her enough the use her name after she died... “that woman”, “this funeral”, etc. so so heartbreaking. i hope her husband and their children get the justice they deserve.
It also sounds like those cases when people hurt/kill someone that they know and they stop using their name as a way to distance themselves from the situation. But yeah, whatever the reason they are all disgusting. How are you going to see someone lying on the ground and not try to help immediately? Even if you don't know that person, it's cold-hearted, and when you do know the person it's even worse.
The fact that Jeanne’s aunt remembered that Tamla was her « friend from the islands » but couldn’t bother to remember Tamla’s actual name speaks volumes to the way that entire family operates
And the fact that she wasted minutes walking up and down the stairs not even being urgent or direct when she went to their room like beating around the bush girl like HURRY UP??? What r u doing. So suspect also now that I think about it. She requested the guy specifically as if like he knew something and she was praying as if she was asking for forgiveness?. Weird. God bless
It's sad but I doubt that Jeanne's aunt was even that cordial. She probably just said "your black friend" or "that black girl"....she gives off that energy.
To my POC women, please don’t feel bad about being overly sensitive or quick to feel uncomfortable and leave a situation!!! Don’t worry about being NICE. Be SAFE.
They don’t care about her…treated her like she was just a dead animal. They didn’t see her as human. So so so frustrating. RIP Tamla. May karma come for them.
Bridget saying she had to go home because her anxiety would make her have to sleep with one eye open doesn’t sit right with me. Also why was anyone else welcome to leave but they all insisted she had to stay? Mmhmm. This case is so freaking sad & frustrating.
yes, i caught that part too. anxiety is horrible to deal with, but to say that she has to ''sleep with one eye open''? makes you wonder what she was so afraid of
It kills me that Bridget didn’t offer her a ride home too! She already knew Tamla wanted to leave-your husband is getting you- so offer to take her home too! I would!
@@kittikat2318 exactly my thought!! That's the most normal thing anyone would've done there. Especially knowing that she had to sleep alone that night.
The part that concerns me is how they INSISTED that she stay the night yet no one wanted to sleep with her and they made her sleep alone. Then they were incredibly rude about her gift and wouldn’t drink it. And then no one wanted to stay up with her yet insisted that she stays the night. They just allowed other people to go home when they wanted to go but begged her to stay???? Something about this feels extremely fishy. Seems like it might’ve been premeditated. Someone was extremely jealous of her and planned this. These were a group of jealous women who plotted on a beautiful woman.
One of the men may have been eyeing her. I sense miss Jeanne was the jealous one. Her snarky comment "she's the life of the party, she's ALWAYS the life of the party" tells it all.
@@dearfutureyou8580 I agree. She sounded like a jealous high schooler when she said that. The way they all talked about her gift behind her back is so gross. They way they all talked, when their friend had just died was really disgusting. Completely devoid of empathy.
I think it’s so weird that the one woman who went home didn’t offer her a ride. If they were worried about her drinking and driving, and her husband is already coming to pick her up, why the hell wouldn’t she offer that. That sketches me out so much especially since she was the last one up with tamla and claimed she was also uncomfortable at another persons house. Just weird as hell confusing behavior, at the very least inconsiderate
Their very first move should have been to run to her and see if she was okay. The fact that they all just stood there and gawked is sooo weird. It’s like they already knew she was dead.
Poor husband he’s been traumatized, I cried when he started crying recounting what an incredible person his wife was. That poor family. It’s devastating.
The way that Jeanne said that she “threw up in her mouth” and “she was the life of the party” really expressed the way she felt about her “friend” Tamla.
They way the tequila lady was talking goes on to show what kinda person is she. Even if you don't like something your guests bring in you don't be rude.
I do not drink alcohol at all, but I have never said ‘Oh no, I dont drink that’ when someone gives me a bottle as a gift. I smile and I kindly accept it. I am not a rude low life person and I have manners.
@@valnsky Right I mean damn it was a special imported bottle. I don't drink gin, but if somebody brought me a bottle, I'd just add it to my liquor collection for guests or whatever. They were acting like typical "mean girls" with that mess.
This case is so upsetting! Not a bit of empathy in the women’s voices when talking about her. 😡 Thank you for including clips of her husband. I feel terrible for the family.
@@amirashaweshify Right they had a very snarky and mean tone to their voices. It was nice of her to bring the tequila, and even if they didn't drink it they didn't have to advertise that point. They should have just said thank you and then shut up about it. It was probably a very nice bottle of tequila. They acted very classless. (At least the ones picking on the gift and using that tone when talking about it were acting classless IMO. I am not sure about the rest of them)
Took nothing to bribe the cops. This case is too creepy because it gives sundown town vibes and it feels like everyone was in on it. She really didn’t want to go and didn’t want to stay for a reason!
She didn't want to go but still went.. SmH.. The fact she went is that she trusted the women.. I feel bad at the same time.. I think it was stupid.. The real fact is they all were in on her murder.. I am writing you the while she is in the middle of the story.. I wonder if she goin to add in the possible rape theory..
Bingo. That one pic of Camera straddled on someone in this video may have enticed somone. And Jeanne boyfriend was definitely Hispanic yet disgusted by imported tequila. No way. Even if he was a non drinker which he is not how could he be disgusted by tequila. I think Jeanne was disgusted that was her gift because the boyfriend likes tequila. Also her free spirited ways caught his eye and he came downstairs to get a charger. How do we know that wasn't after the last lady left and after Jeanne was sleep or so he thought. Add to that he may have had one of the Xanax that they were getting from the Xanax lady and spiked the shot he decided to have with her after everybody was gone or in bed...
@@dianeross4522you’re spot on. I do think Jeanne and her boyfriend are responsible for her murder. The way that they moved from beginning to end was the most suspicious of all.
Right? Even if she were ALIVE after that night that behavior is disgusting. It reads like a clique of women trying to tear down somebody they've collectively decided to dislike.
I thought the exact same thing, I don’t get it. It’s weird and random to harp about tequila. Like just fishing for a reason to separate her from them. So disgusting. Also…. Who doesn’t like tequila!!! It’s one of the most commonly drank liquors!
It’s clear from the lack of empathy towards Tamla these lady’s did not like her so why hang out with her let alone invite her to a party? !?These lady’s are disgusting human beings. !!
The way they kept saying "life of the party" I feel like she was invited to be the butt of their jokes-at the least. They invited her as entertainment and it makes me sick.
Thank you for putting this into words. The whole interaction was super weird and deff did not seem like actual friends. I was thinking like what the f the entire time. Yeah it was weird
I agree I think she was lured. It was touched in that the sons played sports together. People are crazy when it comes to kids and sports. I bet Tams son was better at the game than all of these other women’s. Was she lured there to torture and kill because of the sport?? Sounds crazy…attend a little league game in the south and see for yourself how crazy sport mommas are.
The fact that the people at the party were referring to her as "that woman" like she was a stranger to them just shows they were dissociating themselves from Tamla and the situation. Very suspicious.
Yup! It’s a common language tactic like when Bill Clinton said “I did not have sexual relations with THAT woman”. It’s a classic distancing tactic, very very suspicious!
Jean is incredibly suspicious. The way she says “she passed the tequila around because you know she’s the life of the partyyy” in a mocking tone. I can sense visceral anger and resentment toward Tamala through the interview. I smell motive.
She had bad vibes about the situation. Always listen to that. Did Tamla believe she would be gaining something by attending the party? Why did she go through with it? I'd bet they were hanging a carrot of some kind.
honestly in my opinion, i’ve been the only POC in all white situations but never felt in danger or hurt. black women have done this type of thing to other black women. all in all, shady has no color.
Never fkn ever. I don’t go where they are period on purpose 😂…seriously tho, I’m not built to even have a conversation with any of them let alone actually hanging out with them. Nah🙅🏾♀️
“Your friend from the islands” and “I didn’t remember her name” is extremely telling on the lack of respect these white women had for Tam. I feel so bad for her. All those people should be arrested
Exactly. I wish she had called her husband to pick her up😢. Giving these kind of people the benefit of the doubt is dangerous. A white woman is one thing but a group of white women changes everything
I get what you’re tryna say, but that’s not the way I’d word it. Yes always follow your gut feeling, because as someone with lots of trauma (human trafficking, rape) if I had followed my gut instinct I may of avoided myself of those situations. But also as someone with debilitating social anxiety, my first “instinct” every single day is to tell myself to never leave my house, never see my friends, isolate myself, if I’m in invited to something my first instinct will be to say “no”. There’s a difference between your true gut instinct telling you something, and you wanting to of course not voluntarily put yourself in uncomfortable situation, but then in return that means never stepping out of your comfort zone. And for someone like me, with social anxiety, that can be deadly. Don’t always follow your first instinct, but always follow your true gut instinct that’s not telling you what you do and don’t want to do, but what’s good and bad for you and sometimes life or death for you.
YES 👏🏾💥! I be tellin' my 36yo cuzin this but she won't listen 🙄!! Her a$$ went with a group of "friends" to Mexico 🪅 & she was the ONLY black person 🤦🏾♂️! It's a miracle she came back alive! But she continues to go out with them. I told her AND her momma: "Don't be surprised if you (she) comes up missing or 💀 one day!
I think it depends. My kids are half white. Hubby is white. So when we do things with his family, my inlaws, or his friends ( all white ) which is a weekly basis im always the only black person. I think it matters more if youre safe or feel uncomfortable. @booginas
The way that they're describing the smell of the tequila really upsets me because if you don't like Tequila then give Tamla back her bottle, why pass it around and talk crap about it. 😑😑😑 This group of people are pieces of crap
They are all very strange. I feel sick listening to them speaking. How can you be so unbothered by your friend drying in your home? This case is heartbreaking and leaves me with a lot of questions
Even IF (and that is a big if) there is no foul play involved, the lack of compassion, sympathy, and/or concern for this woman is heartbreaking! I don't know this exact group of women, but I now groups of women just like this, and I am so sorry that Tamla ever felt the desire to try to befriend any of them. They didn't deserve her friendship or time. Rest in peace!
These type of women are exactly the reason why I avoid most gatherings/parties. Rude, immature, not very intelligent and self absorbed describe these women perfectly.
@@lauriejohnstone8217 yup me to. Even church I started just staying home and trying to teach my children and be Christian without going. I can't handle ppl who just know they're better than others and being talked to like your pathetic and nothing. But as if they wanna befriend u just cause your there and idk. I just can't stand that.
These women dehumanized her immediately. What struck me is how Jeanne referred to her as 'that woman' during her interview while talking about seeing her body. They didn't see her as a person. The fact that the cops likely noticed that too, and clearly didn't care at all is HORRIFYING. Thank you for covering this, Kendall.
I don't know if anyone noticed Jeanne's tone of voice when she said, "cause she's the life of the party" at 13:00, but it sounded EXTREMELY vile and like she was making a mockery of Tamla's personality. I found it absolutely abhorrent and it really spoke volumes about her character and views of Tamla as a person.
@Emily Hyland I 💯% agree with you!! I caught that too and felt the same way. She comes across as actually jealous of her, sarcastic, and like such a mean girl. It's so sad for poor Tamla, especially since everyone described her as such a kind, caring person.
They killed her. Josè had a lot to do with it. He may have been the only other person of color but i have a feeling he didnt see himself in that way. So frustrating. The way they were so nasty about her gift. Who even does that.
I think he had everything to do with it. Notice how he said he saw her alone. Tamela was a beautiful woman and I think he saw an opportunity and she rejected it.
This case still haunts me. This women had babies and a husband... she was a human being. The way everyone at that party could CARE LESS and LAWYERED UP immediately is very telling. Prayers for her family and children 🙏💗
THIS! So many ill stories start with how someone felt uncomfortable and not wanting to go somewhere & in turn meet an effed up fate. We don’t want to feel messed up/shady/prejudice/stuck up or rude but if you’re uneasy, it’s not without good reason. We have to listen to our higher selves.
being born n raised in GA, even as a white female at birth, the amount of fake smiles and over friendly tactics to APPEAR genuine is overwhelmingly frustrating. very few are truely kind hearted.
I will never forget that day!! Or the days to follow! She was an amazing sweetheart!! She lived across the street from me. When her father came he went to the police and asked to see the pictures. He didn’t want to go alone. I went with him. Those pictures tell a whole different story than what the police and these girls say! This has haunted me for years!!
The weirdest thing is these girls brought Tams personal stuff to Lee. The police didn’t even keep any evidence. The gave these girls all Tams things to bring to Lee. The same morning.
Those women did it . They got the cops “gifts” but didn’t band together to help the new single father with child care or food ? That’s not the southern thing to do…
Imagine: you have a bunch of friends over and one DIES. Not one of those women had a quiver in their voice or expressed sadness. Even if Tamla was a complete STRANGER a normal person would have an emotional reaction.
I never want to go to sleepovers. My mother was protective of me too. But I don’t like sleepover. But would allow my friend to sleep over when I was little.
Sameee my mom didn’t trust people who came in and out the house so I never had sleepovers or went over to people houses unless it was a family members house .
I haven't even gotten to the murder yet and I'm disgusted. The way these women just talk about her and her gift is gross. It's heartbreaking that people like this exist
that story about them passing the tequila around like "you gotta smell this its awful".... what a catty, snotty thing to do. while she's turned away they're all talking about her like "get a load of what that woman drinks." it has such a nasty vibe to it.
Right.. It's 100% mean girls vibe how they were making fun of her. Tam brought it as a nice gesture and they sit there making fun of her openly and being snotty!! Tam's a better woman than me I wouldve been like u rude bitches 🤬
I don't think they killed her, but they definitely know who did or had an indirect hand in it, they should have got private investigators to investigate them and the police, another thing is it could have been an accident but if it was Tamala was drugged or something but the whole thing is extremely weird
Didn’t even think of that! That part didn’t make sense until you pointed this out! “I told her at least our phones could sleep together.” I’m like wtf does that even mean. But now I’m like omg so she can’t make emergency calls. Premeditated.
Her husband should file a lawsuit for negligence on the behalf of the police department. I’m sorry this was the way her family had to say goodbye. Rest well my sister ❤️
I cannot be the only one who noticed the snotty way, when discussing the tequila, Jeanne stated "Cause she's the life of the party. She's always been the life of the party." Jealousy is a disease.
Honestly it’s the “small” details that makes my blood boil, you just saw a dead body and you’re making cookies…during an investigation you decide to offer officers cookies? That would be the absolute LAST thing on my mind.
I feel like this needs a netflix documentary, maybe that will actually make something happen. It keeps going viral but nothing is really happening.. I feel so bad for Tamla and her family..
@@shirajai yea it made me sick!!!!! Seeing his hurt mom around town poor baby just jesus!!!! They did him so dirty and his friends they some fucking liars.
The women in the interview talking about the tequila just.. sound like they’d be prejudiced I’m sorry.. It felt gross to hear.. It just sounded like they didn’t like her from the get go.. Poor Tamla..
The way Jeanne says “that woman’s hands” when talking about Tamla’s body and the way they all acted repulsed by the tequila just does not sit alright with me. It’s soooo crazy to me that people are valuing a persons worth by their skin colour still. It’s so gross
I live in Forsyth and Tamla was my next door neighbor. I’m so glad you covered her case. She would come over to talk to my mom almost everyday just about her life and the other neighbor moms would sometimes join them… she was just always full of life and such a sweet mom to her kids (who are just as sweet). Tamla’s father came to our home and spoke to my parents after her death came out in the news and I just remember hearing the pain in his voice, and just how upset and confused I was. It was so sad having to drive up the street and not see her picking up her kids at the bus stop and walking them down the street. We always shared a wave hello… thank you for shining light of this case Kendall. I think about it all the time. Tamla was the most vibrant energetic woman and what happened to her was NOT fair.
It sounds like she was a wonderful person. You could see her light just from the pictures. Makes it all the more heartbreaking. It's not fair her children have to grow up without her. Her family deserves to know the truth and have justice served.
It sounds like you were definitely blessed to have known her. If you still see Tamla's family, please let them know about this site so they can see that her story will always keep going!!
Victoria I live in Norcross and my sister lives in Cumming Georgia and I heard of this case a few years ago! My heart feels so sad for her and her family😢 I pray she gets the justice she deserves!
Also that she smelled it and it made her throw up in her mouth. Like wouldn't the smell of almost any hard liquor do the same? She was just looking for an excuse to reject the tequila.
I can't stand how everyone is acting in this case. The women, the cops, the morticians... Tamala looked like such a sweet and energetic person. And the fact that her children had to loose their mother so soon... And don't get me started on her husband, poor guy. I could not believe he had to experience all of this injustice and couldn't even had a decent funeral for his wife....
Yes I feel the same way, this lovely sweet woman deserves so much better. These 'sundown towns' still exist and people just ignore them. It's not right.
These ladies were def the "popular mean girls" in high school who picked on other kids for being ANY type of different. "Holier than thou" type folks. The way she talked down about the gift of tequila, like she was way too good for that. Disgusting group of individuals.
Yes! They are literally having a sleepover because their plan was to get too drunk to drive home but they’re acting afraid and disgusted by tequila? “Wine? Yum! Vodka? Sure! Tequila?!? Eww! Who drinks that stuff? Disgusting!” Like really? Get a grip.
The way Jeanne says “cuz ya know Tamla was the life of the party, she’s always been the life of the party,” is so strange. She sounds bitter, jealous and angry of her. It’s so very mocking in tone.
Exactly! Especially when they are calling to arrange clothes for the deceased, they could have said "is there any makeup you would like to bring for your wife, we are having difficulty matching her makeup" which in my opinion would have been perfectly understandable cause even I have had trouble matching makeup. They could have LITERALLY asked her husband to bring it in with her clothing. It was clear that they didn't have experience with POC
Just awful, adding insult to injury.. it sounds like the funeral home couldn't be bothered to get the make up right . No wonder the poor husband was upset, so disrespectful. This whole story had me angry
They came out in advance and informed us they did the best they could with the amount of damage that was done to her. I've never heard a funeral make this announcement before. That's when I found out all the details. She was not the same person. I could hardly recognize her. He is still a mess to this day. He was just with my husband, and it's not getting any better. He will always be apart of our family. We need justice for her.
One thing about liars. They over OVER explain themselves and she did this on multiple occasions to not only get them to believe the story but to believe it herself while making it up.
I agree. The 911 call, you just ask for an ambulance. The ambulance call sounded like preemptive explanations like an investigation. Not an urgent call for ambulance. And why does Jose need to intervene with the 911 call. Is the lady who called special needs and needs help making a call? Lol
@@90sbaby1 isn't he trained in CPR? I am a medical professional... I'd grab the phone so I could clearly communicate and act in an appropriate manner. Regular people freak out and cannot often properly explain the condition of the patient.
@@KathleenEdge Where was he clearly communicating anything... and a cpr professional shouldn't even be on the phone. They...should be...oh I don't know...doing cpr?! Also. I don't know, nor care, if you're actually a "medical professional" or not.
That is exactly what I thought when one of the ladies explained, she came in the door and she was shaking her boots off so she didn't track in to the carpet and then she walked in and put her purse over here.. on and on. seemed shady to me. No one asked for a second by second replay.
The fact that she didn't want to go at first but didn't want to be rude makes it even more heartbreaking to me. Poor Tamla... I hope she rests in peace. These other women give me terrible vibes...
@@gavinvanvalkenburg8210 because "what does this pertain to" is such a hard thing for the cop to answer. "Sir there's been an accident, I need to know if this is you" is soooo hard for a police officer to say. Be a better person Gavin.
Well he couldn’t answer the simple yes or no question to confirm his identity, the police have to confirm who they are speaking to when it comes to something that serious. He gave them attitude from the start!
@@Areniapixie Wow, that's rude. Maybe this person genuinly doesn't know what that means, maybe they're from a different part of the world and english slang/ abbreviation isn't their forte. Maybe they're old, young, whatever. You could be nice and simply explain what it means, you don't need to be so condescending..
It wasn’t an accident. They were in on it and the fact that they were so close to the officers involved is what made it so easy for them to get away with it
There’s so many red flags in this story it makes me mad like her intuition was off that night because I’m always on guard even at the grocery store if I’m the “only one” there.
All of those people at that gathering know more than what they are saying. This is a blatant racially charged murder…. It’s plain to see. I hope we will find justice for this beautiful woman whom thought she could trust such horrendously horrible people. If this case is not found to be a premeditated murder by all involved here, then there will be no justice. Horrific crime here!!!!
The ladies are acting weird too. I wish she just go home instead of staying to these group, nobody wants to be with her and to "sleep buddy" her. i feel bad. And the tequilla thing i feel sad about her that they are showing how they didnt like it, I really feel sorry for Tamala.
There is NOTHING that says this murder was racially motivated!! It is however plain to see that the lack of investigation was DEFINITELY because she was a black woman! If a white woman was murdered by a group of black women this case would have been solved!!
@@cindywilbur4148 there’s a LOT that says this murder was racially motivated. Literally look at where it takes place. The people involved. Don’t be obtuse.
@@corimoon3360 Wow you're an idiot! Tell me exactly why you believe the murder was racially motivated! Why? Because there was a house full of white people? Her husband said when he was on video chat with her she was in a great mood and seemed to be having a great time. I guess that should tell you nobody was being rude or singling her out. Are the people in the house known racists? She was friends with the white woman who owned the house....tell me what is going through your tiny brain?
This whole story is extremely sad, but Tamala’s husband talking about how his wife was basically put in black face is completely sickening and maddening. Absolutely awful.
It infuriates me that Lee was treated with such disrespect. As a human being, how do you not have compassion for someone in his situation.. It’s sickening and my heart hurts for him.
It’s very easy for these people to be disrespectful when they don’t see black people as people or humans or when they don’t see the as worthy of sympathy or empathy.
“your friend from the islands” “i couldn’t remember her name” “HAD to be the life of the party” “that woman” i also read that they talk lightly about it on facebook. they didn’t care even a little bit. they’re all responsible for something and somebody is guilty of murder. i’m sick to my stomach.
I honestly feel like everyone had a part to play in this I don’t understand how the original plan was to “sleep Over “ and some how everyone had an excuse to leave home and the fact that you can see how cold they explain the story and how nobody tried to check if she was breathing right away !!! if i see someone I just chilled with laying out on the floor face down why won’t I check if she’s breathing very sus .
@@scarlencheco27 yeah that woman started praying instead of checking her then goes up stairs & lightly knocks on the host’s door bc she doesn’t want to disturb them?? There’s no excuse for her not checking her first, but then U bang on that door til it comes down to get some help ! Then she beats around the bush to get them to come downstairs 😑disgusting ppl. I don’t know how anyone could conduct themselves like this.. esp how they casually talk about it all afterwards as well. There’s no way I could walk thru life if I knew anything about what happened after that
@@TI77Y7ACE exactly ik I’m not bugging everything about this case screams sus . All I can think about is how the females bf that was smoking with tam got angry about her smoking with his girl I feel like that’s very interesting 🤨 if you know what I mean
It sounds to me that they were jealous of her This so called party was a way to bully and outcast her Some people smoke when they’re stressed, anxious. Someone else pointed out she stepped out several times to smoke. The times she called her husband in a good mood was possibly to reassure him, and maybe even help her get through the rest of the night. Idk what happened to this woman. It’s possible she could’ve very much fell over, but how everyone else is acting? Idk it’s so weird
These people are creepy af. “I didn’t make the coffee.” What an inconvenience for you. Weird af. “Those Dalmatian pajamas.” Just seems like their judging everything about her. I’m sick.
Baking cookies, offering them to officers, not performing any CPR even tho theyre trained. Moving 'evidence'. Just everything said by everyone involved.
For real. Everything they said about her is in such a condescending manner. At bare minimum they know what happened and it wasn’t an accident and at worst, they outright killed her. Absolutely disgraceful.
Whether they’re guilty or not, the way these so called “friends” are talking about this woman is disgusting. Who turns down and insults a gift someone brings you, especially when you don’t know them that well? And the way they called her the life of the party didn’t sound endearing at all, it sounded derogatory. What a terrible group of people.
The fact that they're going out of their way to express how disgusting the tequila (that was a GIFT) smelled doesn't sit right with me. I mean imagine someone being nice enough to bring you something and they just go on about how bad it smells?? Its freakin alcohol did they expect it was gonna smell like roses or ???
Agree 100%, IMO it seemed like people were mocking her, even in some of the interviews the others talked about Tamla in such a strange and rude(?) way, as well as the tequila etc.
I can’t believe how rude Jeanne was about the tequila to Tamla’s face. Even though she doesn’t like tequila she should’ve at least pretended to be grateful for the effort. And then she passes it around showing everyone how bad it smelt? Seriously so rude. I get bad vibes from that whole group.
I too am horrified with everything in this case, including just how unbelievably RUDE it is to complain about a hostess gift. The quote from Bambi (I believe spoken by Thumper) comes to mind here - "If you can't say something nice, don't say nuthin' at all." You don't drink tequila but someone buys an imported bottle from Mexico? Say thank you, put it with your other liquor, and if you really want, pour it out when she leaves. But there is NO need for such blatant disrespect.
@@crichards037 completely agreed! Authentic tequila from Mexico is a very thoughtful gift, she should at least appreciate the thought and generously behind it even if she doesn’t like to drink it
@@crichards037 if I bought somone a gift and they just pretended to like it I would be humiliated and horrified. You people need to grow up and learn to say and accept the truth (politely). This outdated idea that we can only say nice things is unhealthy and society needs to move past it. This is why people hide abuse and stuff. Because you have to pretend and only say 'nice' things. 🙄 Especially if you are a woman.
@@AngelDeed it's a gift. What good would come from saying you don't like it to the gift-giver's face? All that would result is awkwardness and hurt feelings. Not sure how you think being insensitive to others' feelings is somehow going to benefit society.
Her "friends" othered her in all their interviews. No one liked the tequila, no one else smoked, she was the only one who took a puff of weed, she was the only one who wanted to stay up..I have a feeling Tamla's death happened before everyone supposedly went to bed. Gives everyone an "alibi" especially since they all had a sleeping partner. I feel like Tamla's drink was possibly spiked with that Xanax. Bridgette was the first one to leave probably because of her anxiety, probably freaking out because Tamla had been murdered. Then someone went out once last time to clean up the crime scene or stage the body knowing the door would log it, so the last smoke break was invented. Then they staged everyone leaving at staggered times so it wouldn't look suspicious that no one noticed Tamla wasn't around. They are definitely all covering for each other. Hopefully one day one of them will grow a conscious and say what really happen. Also want to point out that falling 14ft I'm sure there would have been a scream and definitely a loud bang, everyone slept through that, even though they all had just gone to bed!?
Yes!, I also feel like if someone wants to go home you shouldn’t force them to stay, a friend could’ve said “call your husband to pick you up” or a family member.
The fact that she went even though she didn’t want to go…just to be nice….let that be a lesson to us all. If your gut is telling you not to go somewhere or hangout w someone, LISTEN TO IT!!! Rest In Peace, this case really saddens me. I just want answers🤦🏾♀️
My gut has ALWAYS saved me. I dodged so many bullets listening to my first mind. I’m sorry at the age I am now I don’t accepts no new friends. I don’t even let my kids sleep at friends house.
I thought that too. Gut feelings are usually quite spot on. Following it or not could mean the difference between life and death. To think if she had just listened to her gut, she'd still be alive . Heartbreaking.
Tamla’s actual friend speaking up for her calling out those people was amazing of her. This case needs to be more known, I wish there was something we could do. Justice for Tamla.
“your friend from the islands” “the tequila she brought was disgusting” “Is she breathing?” “I have no idea 🤷♂️ “ “this funeral” “I made you cookies and bought you gift cards.” “that woman” Good god.
@@boatymsboatface3929 yes, very well said indeed. A reckoning must come. Thank you for marching. I hope there is a march for Tamla soon, & I will contribute to that in any way I can 🙏🏿
Whenever someone is face down, and someone finds that person you usually are frantic, but everyone seems cool and without a care, moving slowly , wow! They was full of it, however, what go around come around eventually you get what you sow!
I also found it so disturbing. Should have remembered the name of a woman you spent whole night socializing with. It's not like there were 30 new faces to memorize everyone's name.
@T Williams yep that part about distancing is probably right too. I just can’t comprehend why someone their age would wanna do that when there’s no apparent motive? But i believe one of the dudes (parole officer) probably did it or some accident happened and they all decided to just cover it up :(((
I wish her husband would have told her to just use him as an excuse not to go. I never stay at other people houses and they are not offended by me not staying because it is known that I don’t. I never lost a friend because of this. You should also do a story on lake Lanier there too.
If you see a lifeless body laying face down on the ground, you’re not going to pray, lightly knock on the door of your niece before you run outside and call for help. How did she instantly know she was dead? She could’ve just passed out drunk or have been hurt? But somehow they knew she was dead
Yes, I am a pray-er and a believer. I would pray as I got the phone and called 911. BEFORE going to wake up other people. I would wake them up as I was on the phone.
@@suthrndaysi I hope you never have to be in the situation to decide help someone with action or help someone with your internal-private conversation with your chosen deity, but if it does & you believe in the Christian God, just know that you're called to act not simply pray from the sidelines. Your god does not need your first action to be prayer, maybe you were the answer to the person in needs prayers but because you choose not to act they are worse off. Just help people, it's not difficult.
The utter rage I felt while listening to Lee explain how the police informed him about Tamla’s passing and how they handled her body at the funeral home was un-fucking-believable. That poor man and his children deserve REAL answers. I hope they’re doing alright
Why was he refusing to give them his name 3 times and then get sarcastic giving them his NICKNAME instead when they had something that important to tell him??
@@rosedolch8637 Because the cops were being rude and obnoxious and rude to him Like a lot of cops are to any people of color. It's on the news in the states all the time. Lee could have being harassed for something stupid and had every right to k ow what it was pertaining to. And police SHOULD have responded appropriately.
@@rosedolch8637 people usually become defensive if they are being met with aggression. Instead of showing empathy they came at him like that! I think anyone would feel that way if they came to your house asking rudely.
If a guest brings something to your party that you don't like, you say "thank you very much" and put it to the side or re-gift it later. Lack of manners these women have is astounding. Is there a petition or somewhere to donate to help bring Tamla justice?
Way to make her feel like her gift wasn’t good enough. You’re right Jeanne could have easily just said thank you and put it aside like a normal person.
Sign the petition asking for the FBI to handle the investigation of this case: bit.ly/3GkjMA6
just signed :)
Signed and may This be brought to Justice ⚖️ and may the higher up being all this to light
It only has 710,000 signatures. SAD.
"Many people feel they were bribed ... " with what? Donuts and cookies?
Signed !
If a medical examiner doesn't take photos during an autopsy then they should be immediately fired and disbarred from that profession. Absolutely unacceptable
Exactly!!! This medical examiner needs to be held accountable, not following through with taking important photos that could help the case. That is not okay
@@chelseag2124 honestly.. if Tamla's case is really getting reopened those photos would of been so helpful its not like they can just travel back in time to reinvestigate :( hope she gets the justice she deserves 💔
Written up etc. Or something.
You can’t disbar a doctor. That’s purely a professional legal punishment
They were
This case is disgusting. Those women were literally talking badly about her sweet gift. If I was given a hostess gift by a very sweet woman and it tasted a tad bit odd I would NOT be disrespectful about it. I would simply set it aside. Those women gave me terrible vibes. She NEEDS justice.
my first reaction. Like, she doesn't know you that well. How the hell is she supposed to know your personal tastes in everything. They couldn't even act grateful.
If it was a 3 times over the legal limit drunken accident and they were all in shock that something that nuts even happened.. then justice over what?
@@rosedolch8637 well if it was an accident related to Xanax given to her by someone who is prescribed it then they are also responsible. Regardless how you or anyone feels about this being race related.
@@growuptame amen
They have no class. Just say thank you and give it to someone who does like tequila later, problem solved.
I IMMEDIATELY disliked Jeanne as soon as she told the Tequila story.. Like someone brings u a gift & u tell them u don’t want it? Then mock how disgusting it is? Absolute TRASH.
Exactly. Accept the gift. You don’t have to drink it
WHO refuses a gift ....you can always throw it away later.. fucking rude
EXACTLY! She could’ve just kept it and had it for another day for other guests who do enjoy tequila. Soo weird.
@@tammymayo5566 Exactly!!! Who does that?!?! Sh*t If it were me I'd save it to give to someone else if I didn't want it. Imagine being so bigoted that you won't even take a free gift that you can pass on!
And talking as if that very person hasn’t passed! Like they all sound super nonchalant
I’m convinced to this day that this was no accident. I really hate that Tamela didn’t got with her first instinct and not attend the sleepover. Those folks did something to her. No one can convince me otherwise.
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Justice for Tamla
I agree!!! 🤨 I pray this family will get justice one day!! This is so sad!! 😢
Agreed !!!!!
The way the other attendees talk about her is very strange. Something isn’t right.
If her “friends” aren’t guilty of her murder, they’re definitely guilty of not giving a shit. They acted like her death was such an inconvenience. So frustrating.
It’s disgusting . They weren’t her friends period
upsetting and immoral but not illegal
@@tessawood8244
Definitely Not so-called “friends”. Hearing situations like this remind me how grateful I am that I’m very selective with whom I socialize with.
They are hateful pieces of garbage
@@Nwordscissorhands1738 not illegal correct but that callousness shows how cold they are leading to suspicion of guilt. Only issue is the police gave zero fu€KS to actually investigate
She gave the 911 operator an entire synopsis of the night before getting to the the reason for the call. While someone is laying dead in your backyard. Guilty people always over explain on 911 calls
This this this!!! 💯 That was suspect as hell
I was thinking that! And everyone over explained everything.
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i peeped like girl!?! she’s not serious
That’s a sure tell
i immediately was so upset when Tamla’s gift was disrespected. how could you do that to a person who gave you a very nice gift? these ladies are repulsive.
Exactly. I wish she would have just turned around and walked out. She deserved better "friends."
Right. That is super strange. Why not just accept it and say thank you?
@@JustMarian right? like saying thank you isn’t that hard.
I was thinking the same!
@@mrsjacobtiner same tho i would have been like “uh excuse me?” smashed the bottle and then left but that might be my anger issues talking LOL
A few years ago, I was invited to a house party(gathering) by my so-called friend and colleague. I was the only black person there and only knew 2 people, including the one who invited me. They seemed fine in the beginning but all of a sudden the energy changed and one of the girls tried to attack me unprovoked. None of those yt people said anything or even tried to stop her. It was after 3-4am. I was so shaken up and scared. I called for a cab and left straight away. I thank God I got out alive. I learnt to never be the only person of colour in a social setting. Rip to this beautiful lady 😢💔🙏🏽
@OTU537 in a situation like that(Outnumbered, unprovoked attack,had to use your defense weapon), if you'd have SLUMPED everything coming at you, it'd be justifiable SELF DEFENSE...open shut case.😒💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
Exactly u were way out of you leave certain people don't play u know
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I’m so sorry that happened to you. That could have happened to me to years ago….when I was very young. I didn’t know any better. I’ve since taught my children.
NEVER GET OUT VIBES
These women had more emotion describing tequila than they did for the “friend” who died in their presence
Totally agree 💔
Them weman were probably never her friends in the first place
I said the same thing!
True, That!
She was not their friends
The fact that Tamala is dead and these women still talk about how disgusting the tequila she brought was and the way they speak of her is soooo suspicious! This is so incredibly unfair Tamala and her loved ones 💔
Hearing them call her “that woman” 😓
No idea why they were so upset by the tequila. Could have said my goodness thank you for the gift and set it to the side just incase they did decide on it.
Tequila and I have a bad relationship but FFS if a new friend or acquaintance or, hell, complete stranger died at my house all I'd have to say is how horrified and sorry I am that it happened. The last fucking thing I'd have to say is I didn't like her hostess gift. These women are awful.
Agreed, they sound like a group of snotty/mean girl type women.
it screams mean girls peaked in high school. the way they passed around the bottle gagging at it while tamla was outside
The way these women went on about the Tequila, even passing it around while she was smoking outside, is vile and *very* telling. These women give off mean girls who peaked in HS vibes.
“Oh… I smelled it and barfed in my mouth” Who cares, she is dead! At this point ladies it’s not who is the queen bee
I thought High School vibes also.
I thought the same thing
Yeah I felt she was being kind of sarcastic when she said tamla was the life of the party
@@JohnJacobSchmidtt yeah I picked up on that as well.
I’ve never been angry enough to want to sign a petition before, until now. The way this whole thing was even handled is disgusting.
Yes I am do mad with them they was all in on it I don't trust white people especially a whole group of them and no one there to defend her😵🥺😱
Yes!! Someone knows something. This needs to be reopened
Why were both investigations closed so quickly? They just wanted this to go away,it seems like half the town was involved in covering it up
It's amazing we still live in a society that allows this type of shit to happen
they didnt even respect her enough the use her name after she died... “that woman”, “this funeral”, etc. so so heartbreaking. i hope her husband and their children get the justice they deserve.
It also sounds like those cases when people hurt/kill someone that they know and they stop using their name as a way to distance themselves from the situation. But yeah, whatever the reason they are all disgusting. How are you going to see someone lying on the ground and not try to help immediately? Even if you don't know that person, it's cold-hearted, and when you do know the person it's even worse.
Why would they use her name. They don’t know her personally
@@Sanretros wdym?? they were her “friends”. they invited her to their party…
@@Sanretros they knew her name at the party bozo 🤦🏽♀️
@@Sanretros They know her name, they invited her to their sleepover but suddenly now that she’s dead they forget her name.
The fact that Jeanne’s aunt remembered that Tamla was her « friend from the islands » but couldn’t bother to remember Tamla’s actual name speaks volumes to the way that entire family operates
So true smh
And the fact that she wasted minutes walking up and down the stairs not even being urgent or direct when she went to their room like beating around the bush girl like HURRY UP??? What r u doing. So suspect also now that I think about it. She requested the guy specifically as if like he knew something and she was praying as if she was asking for forgiveness?. Weird. God bless
That spoke volumes to me too.
It's sad but I doubt that Jeanne's aunt was even that cordial. She probably just said "your black friend" or "that black girl"....she gives off that energy.
Yes exactly. So sad especially because Tamla didn’t really wanna go anyway but thought it would be rude if she didn’t. So sad.
To my POC women, please don’t feel bad about being overly sensitive or quick to feel uncomfortable and leave a situation!!! Don’t worry about being NICE. Be SAFE.
Amen.
It’s obvious these ppl murdered her !!!
I'm not even going.... sorry not sorry
@@missnene6879 samething I was saying like now Tamla wtf did you go in the first place
RIGHT!!!!
They don’t care about her…treated her like she was just a dead animal. They didn’t see her as human. So so so frustrating. RIP Tamla. May karma come for them.
Bridget saying she had to go home because her anxiety would make her have to sleep with one eye open doesn’t sit right with me. Also why was anyone else welcome to leave but they all insisted she had to stay? Mmhmm. This case is so freaking sad & frustrating.
yes, i caught that part too. anxiety is horrible to deal with, but to say that she has to ''sleep with one eye open''? makes you wonder what she was so afraid of
It kills me that Bridget didn’t offer her a ride home too! She already knew Tamla wanted to leave-your husband is getting you- so offer to take her home too! I would!
@@kittikat2318 exactly my thought!! That's the most normal thing anyone would've done there. Especially knowing that she had to sleep alone that night.
yeah thats weird. she must’ve picked up on weird vibes.
@@kittikat2318 ya that’s where things felt super fishy to me. I’m guessing she knew what was going to happen and decided she didn’t want to be there.
The part that concerns me is how they INSISTED that she stay the night yet no one wanted to sleep with her and they made her sleep alone. Then they were incredibly rude about her gift and wouldn’t drink it. And then no one wanted to stay up with her yet insisted that she stays the night. They just allowed other people to go home when they wanted to go but begged her to stay???? Something about this feels extremely fishy. Seems like it might’ve been premeditated. Someone was extremely jealous of her and planned this. These were a group of jealous women who plotted on a beautiful woman.
One of the men may have been eyeing her. I sense miss Jeanne was the jealous one. Her snarky comment "she's the life of the party, she's ALWAYS the life of the party" tells it all.
Could have been Tom and Stacey. If they wanted to try to get Tamla into a threesome, that would explain why they were urging her to stay.
@@dearfutureyou8580 I agree. She sounded like a jealous high schooler when she said that. The way they all talked about her gift behind her back is so gross. They way they all talked, when their friend had just died was really disgusting. Completely devoid of empathy.
I think it’s so weird that the one woman who went home didn’t offer her a ride. If they were worried about her drinking and driving, and her husband is already coming to pick her up, why the hell wouldn’t she offer that. That sketches me out so much especially since she was the last one up with tamla and claimed she was also uncomfortable at another persons house. Just weird as hell confusing behavior, at the very least inconsiderate
@@amandao9869 no it doesn’t but you’re a grown ass women so say thank you and set it aside dont trash talk it with all them other ladies
The fact that nobody in that house cared enough to try to revive her is appalling, especially when one of them was trained in CPR
They knew she was dead; they did it imo.
When she said her first reaction was to pray. I knew then .you was praying not to get caught.
They all should go to jail, because if they would have checked her, she might have still been alive.
Their very first move should have been to run to her and see if she was okay. The fact that they all just stood there and gawked is sooo weird. It’s like they already knew she was dead.
@@Letthembelightpeaceonelove YUP !!!!!
Poor husband he’s been traumatized, I cried when he started crying recounting what an incredible person his wife was. That poor family. It’s devastating.
@@klaus99637 lmao 🤣
The way that Jeanne said that she “threw up in her mouth” and “she was the life of the party” really expressed the way she felt about her “friend” Tamla.
Agreed. Really, really bothered me.
yeah, what an awful person
Seriously sickening
Yes! Especially her tone when saying "she was the life of the party" like she was mocking Tamla! Smh...
AGREED I thought I was the only one that caught that.
They way the tequila lady was talking goes on to show what kinda person is she. Even if you don't like something your guests bring in you don't be rude.
Exactly. I have accepted “thank you/hosting” gifts several times for things I don’t drink or eat but I take them, smile, say thank you, and go on.
Yea so rude to the point that she “threw up in her mouth” over tequila, at a party? Okay? Lol
I do not drink alcohol at all, but I have never said ‘Oh no, I dont drink that’ when someone gives me a bottle as a gift. I smile and I kindly accept it. I am not a rude low life person and I have manners.
@@valnsky Right I mean damn it was a special imported bottle. I don't drink gin, but if somebody brought me a bottle, I'd just add it to my liquor collection for guests or whatever. They were acting like typical "mean girls" with that mess.
When she spoke about the tequila I had a bad feeling never seen such negative ppl so full of herself
This case is so upsetting! Not a bit of empathy in the women’s voices when talking about her. 😡 Thank you for including clips of her husband. I feel terrible for the family.
For real. They were talking about her tequila in disgust. Like the woman died at least use different words and tone to describe the situation
@@amirashaweshify Right they had a very snarky and mean tone to their voices. It was nice of her to bring the tequila, and even if they didn't drink it they didn't have to advertise that point. They should have just said thank you and then shut up about it. It was probably a very nice bottle of tequila. They acted very classless. (At least the ones picking on the gift and using that tone when talking about it were acting classless IMO. I am not sure about the rest of them)
This don’t sound right
I'm a latina woman, and kinda white passing. I would feel sooo unsafe around these people.
“This funeral”. Seriously?!?
Took nothing to bribe the cops. This case is too creepy because it gives sundown town vibes and it feels like everyone was in on it. She really didn’t want to go and didn’t want to stay for a reason!
She didn't want to go but still went.. SmH.. The fact she went is that she trusted the women.. I feel bad at the same time.. I think it was stupid..
The real fact is they all were in on her murder.. I am writing you the while she is in the middle of the story.. I wonder if she goin to add in the possible rape theory..
Bingo. That one pic of Camera straddled on someone in this video may have enticed somone. And Jeanne boyfriend was definitely Hispanic yet disgusted by imported tequila. No way. Even if he was a non drinker which he is not how could he be disgusted by tequila. I think Jeanne was disgusted that was her gift because the boyfriend likes tequila. Also her free spirited ways caught his eye and he came downstairs to get a charger. How do we know that wasn't after the last lady left and after Jeanne was sleep or so he thought. Add to that he may have had one of the Xanax that they were getting from the Xanax lady and spiked the shot he decided to have with her after everybody was gone or in bed...
@@dianeross4522you’re spot on. I do think Jeanne and her boyfriend are responsible for her murder. The way that they moved from beginning to end was the most suspicious of all.
That is a sundown town and I don't understand why they lived in that area.
Even worse, Cumming GA and Forsyth County is where the KKK used to be headquartered
Someone dies and they talk more passionately about the f-ing tequila than her and her death. To me that shows how little they really, "liked," her.
Right? Even if she were ALIVE after that night that behavior is disgusting. It reads like a clique of women trying to tear down somebody they've collectively decided to dislike.
Yea, the one B told the cop she made cookies for them. Disgusting!
I thought the exact same thing, I don’t get it. It’s weird and random to harp about tequila. Like just fishing for a reason to separate her from them. So disgusting. Also…. Who doesn’t like tequila!!! It’s one of the most commonly drank liquors!
Yea but not liking someone doesn't mean kill them. It's just so odd.
They actually only talked about it for a couple mins …..
Refusing her gift was so incredibly rude….”threw up in my mouth” I’m embarrassed for you Jeanne
She and Madeline are nasty hateful women.
I would have just accepted the bottle and placed it on a shelf for decoration if the bottle that was shown in this video was the same.
These ladies have no heart 🖤😢😢
this happened to me from the mother of someone i was dating. apparently my wine choice was cheap.
She didn’t want a little Mexican in her mouth 😂
It’s clear from the lack of empathy towards Tamla these lady’s did not like her so why hang out with her let alone invite her to a party? !?These lady’s are disgusting human beings. !!
They were probably planning to kill her
The way they kept saying "life of the party" I feel like she was invited to be the butt of their jokes-at the least. They invited her as entertainment and it makes me sick.
Thank you for putting this into words. The whole interaction was super weird and deff did not seem like actual friends. I was thinking like what the f the entire time. Yeah it was weird
I agree I think she was lured. It was touched in that the sons played sports together. People are crazy when it comes to kids and sports. I bet Tams son was better at the game than all of these other women’s. Was she lured there to torture and kill because of the sport?? Sounds crazy…attend a little league game in the south and see for yourself how crazy sport mommas are.
It was a setup😒
I’m Black and would have never accepted this invite. This was not a safe space for her.
So incredibly sad that there are places and situations that are unsafe for black people 😢
The fact that the people at the party were referring to her as "that woman" like she was a stranger to them just shows they were dissociating themselves from Tamla and the situation. Very suspicious.
Yeah I agree.
Yup! It’s a common language tactic like when Bill Clinton said “I did not have sexual relations with THAT woman”. It’s a classic distancing tactic, very very suspicious!
Especially bc no native English speaker would EVER use that verbiage otherwise
Y was she there who was her friend she looks out of place
yeah typical sociopath white person trying not associate with their crimes
Jean is incredibly suspicious. The way she says “she passed the tequila around because you know she’s the life of the partyyy” in a mocking tone. I can sense visceral anger and resentment toward Tamala through the interview. I smell motive.
I caught that too
Yes I caught that immediately she said it with so much hate & jealousy
Yes yes yes!!! The tone was redicous... :(
I think all of them knew what was going on. Two didn't want to stay. I believe John, Tom and Jeanne planned this.
THISSSSS!! the life of the party comment was red flag enough for me
A woman, a person, a HUMAN BEING is dead and they go out of their way to talk about how bad the tequila was/smelled. WTH is up with that.
I thought the exact same thing. All of the “ friends “ talked about the most stupid things in their interviews. It’s infuriating.
Microaggression. I'm assuming she doesn't drink tequila because of it's origins.
Bitches don't know what good Tequila smells like.
I think that tells you a lot about the kind of people they are
@@Siyrehn But she's with Jose!
The fact that her closest friend was threatened for questioning what happened to Tamala is so unimaginable. Rip Tamla you deserve justice
Because they killed her that's why. These "people" are evil and were never her friends
This is a prime example of why I’ll never be comfortable with myself or my child being the “only one” in any setting; party, sleepover, trip.
She had bad vibes about the situation. Always listen to that. Did Tamla believe she would be gaining something by attending the party? Why did she go through with it? I'd bet they were hanging a carrot of some kind.
honestly in my opinion, i’ve been the only POC in all white situations but never felt in danger or hurt. black women have done this type of thing to other black women. all in all, shady has no color.
thank you!!
Yep giving me sus vibes
Never fkn ever. I don’t go where they are period on purpose 😂…seriously tho, I’m not built to even have a conversation with any of them let alone actually hanging out with them. Nah🙅🏾♀️
“Your friend from the islands” and “I didn’t remember her name” is extremely telling on the lack of respect these white women had for Tam. I feel so bad for her. All those people should be arrested
exactly my thoughts too.
First thing I thought was : you spend the entire evening with her. I'm sure you'd remember her name... Nasty women.
“Your friend from the islands” sounds so racially charged
I agree.
Just goes to show how some white women easily dismiss us, or count black women as unimportant.
Always follow your first instinct. She didn't want go. It's a shame this has to be said but never be the only one in the group.
Exactly. I wish she had called her husband to pick her up😢. Giving these kind of people the benefit of the doubt is dangerous. A white woman is one thing but a group of white women changes everything
@@stingray0033psychopathic!
I get what you’re tryna say, but that’s not the way I’d word it. Yes always follow your gut feeling, because as someone with lots of trauma (human trafficking, rape) if I had followed my gut instinct I may of avoided myself of those situations. But also as someone with debilitating social anxiety, my first “instinct” every single day is to tell myself to never leave my house, never see my friends, isolate myself, if I’m in invited to something my first instinct will be to say “no”. There’s a difference between your true gut instinct telling you something, and you wanting to of course not voluntarily put yourself in uncomfortable situation, but then in return that means never stepping out of your comfort zone. And for someone like me, with social anxiety, that can be deadly. Don’t always follow your first instinct, but always follow your true gut instinct that’s not telling you what you do and don’t want to do, but what’s good and bad for you and sometimes life or death for you.
Yeah she shouldn't have gone
Never alone! Always buddy up! Always say, yea I'll come but I'm bringing someone with me, or don't go at all.
I always tell my kids and nieces/nephews to never be the only black friend. This happens way too often
Exactly
Sad it’s got to be that way but I definitely don’t blame you because of shit like this
YES 👏🏾💥! I be tellin' my 36yo cuzin this but she won't listen 🙄!! Her a$$ went with a group of "friends" to Mexico 🪅 & she was the ONLY black person 🤦🏾♂️! It's a miracle she came back alive! But she continues to go out with them. I told her AND her momma: "Don't be surprised if you (she) comes up missing or 💀 one day!
I think it depends. My kids are half white. Hubby is white. So when we do things with his family, my inlaws, or his friends ( all white ) which is a weekly basis im always the only black person. I think it matters more if youre safe or feel uncomfortable. @booginas
Facts!
You can literally hear the disgust in the women voice that’s talking about the tequila. It’s actually insane.
for real like calm down..it’s just tequila..take it and say thank you
@@tenngonzales946 That’s exactly what I thought
The way that they're describing the smell of the tequila really upsets me because if you don't like Tequila then give Tamla back her bottle, why pass it around and talk crap about it. 😑😑😑 This group of people are pieces of crap
To be fair, I know a lot of people who speak ill of certain drinks. She may have had too much tequila in college like my BFF
They are all very strange. I feel sick listening to them speaking. How can you be so unbothered by your friend drying in your home? This case is heartbreaking and leaves me with a lot of questions
Even IF (and that is a big if) there is no foul play involved, the lack of compassion, sympathy, and/or concern for this woman is heartbreaking! I don't know this exact group of women, but I now groups of women just like this, and I am so sorry that Tamla ever felt the desire to try to befriend any of them. They didn't deserve her friendship or time. Rest in peace!
These type of women are exactly the reason why I avoid most gatherings/parties. Rude, immature, not very intelligent and self absorbed describe these women perfectly.
This
Facts
@@lauriejohnstone8217 yup me to. Even church I started just staying home and trying to teach my children and be Christian without going. I can't handle ppl who just know they're better than others and being talked to like your pathetic and nothing. But as if they wanna befriend u just cause your there and idk. I just can't stand that.
@Lisa
I completely agree with your comment. These ppl are so shady, it’s truly disgusting.
These women dehumanized her immediately. What struck me is how Jeanne referred to her as 'that woman' during her interview while talking about seeing her body. They didn't see her as a person. The fact that the cops likely noticed that too, and clearly didn't care at all is HORRIFYING. Thank you for covering this, Kendall.
Yes that's usually something that would alert a detective
Same thing I noticed
Absolutely horrifying. It's clear the cops didn't care about this case at all. It needs to be reopened!!
I don't know if anyone noticed Jeanne's tone of voice when she said, "cause she's the life of the party" at 13:00, but it sounded EXTREMELY vile and like she was making a mockery of Tamla's personality. I found it absolutely abhorrent and it really spoke volumes about her character and views of Tamla as a person.
@Emily Hyland I 💯% agree with you!! I caught that too and felt the same way. She comes across as actually jealous of her, sarcastic, and like such a mean girl. It's so sad for poor Tamla, especially since everyone described her as such a kind, caring person.
They killed her. Josè had a lot to do with it. He may have been the only other person of color but i have a feeling he didnt see himself in that way. So frustrating. The way they were so nasty about her gift. Who even does that.
I think he had everything to do with it. Notice how he said he saw her alone. Tamela was a beautiful woman and I think he saw an opportunity and she rejected it.
This case still haunts me. This women had babies and a husband... she was a human being. The way everyone at that party could CARE LESS and LAWYERED UP immediately is very telling. Prayers for her family and children 🙏💗
Yes!!! And who is this police department who "investigated" and let all this go???
They didn’t even need to have good excuses because of the area they live, either. Even with how suspicious they are, it all gets overlooked.
I agree these people are suspicious AF but getting a lawyer when someone is found dead shouldn't be considered suspicious, on its own.
She was the only human being at the party
The fact that she didn’t really feel like going… I wish she would have not cared about offending anyone and not gone.
Same. I’m learning with age to listen to my intuition.
THIS! So many ill stories start with how someone felt uncomfortable and not wanting to go somewhere & in turn meet an effed up fate. We don’t want to feel messed up/shady/prejudice/stuck up or rude but if you’re uneasy, it’s not without good reason. We have to listen to our higher selves.
Exactly cause they didn’t even care about offending her when they didn’t except her gift💯
You always gotta listen to that.
me too that intuition is a mf we gotta listen
Southern hospitality at its finest. Pretty smiles and manners cover hateful and horrible souls.
Yes experiencing it myself smiles and manners coverd raciest hatful people
@@mariselag4997 yup experience this multiple times in Arkansas
Define pretty
No souls
being born n raised in GA, even as a white female at birth, the amount of fake smiles and over friendly tactics to APPEAR genuine is overwhelmingly frustrating. very few are truely kind hearted.
I will never forget that day!! Or the days to follow! She was an amazing sweetheart!! She lived across the street from me. When her father came he went to the police and asked to see the pictures. He didn’t want to go alone. I went with him. Those pictures tell a whole different story than what the police and these girls say! This has haunted me for years!!
The weirdest thing is these girls brought Tams personal stuff to Lee. The police didn’t even keep any evidence. The gave these girls all Tams things to bring to Lee. The same morning.
Do something about it !! You know they murdered her!!
Hope you and your towns people have enough conscience to defend Tamla
@@crookedfingersgirl7356 I have always stood behind her and her family!
@@RochelleWinnwhat’s going on now
Those women did it . They got the cops “gifts” but didn’t band together to help the new single father with child care or food ? That’s not the southern thing to do…
They did the southern thing alright….
Absolutely. A gift card for Dunken and homemade cookies, definitely a bribe.
@@sunnyboknow fr i haven’t finished the video yet but why isn’t anyone pointing out that it’s giving racially motivated
I agree Kaitlyn
Fscts
Imagine: you have a bunch of friends over and one DIES. Not one of those women had a quiver in their voice or expressed sadness. Even if Tamla was a complete STRANGER a normal person would have an emotional reaction.
And the fact that the operator had to ask SEVERAL times to check if she was breathing...so upsetting to listen to that call.
Because they don’t consider Tamla and people like her and myself as true human beings. I feel sorry their kids have them for mothers.
@@SmartStart24 😞
@@SmartStart24 it's sickening 😪
I’m so disgusted I don’t understand. No empathy what so ever. 😔
Now I see why my mom did not let me go to sleepovers as a kid, and why she still worries about me at 27.
I'm sorry that's something she had to worry about 😞
I never want to go to sleepovers. My mother was protective of me too. But I don’t like sleepover. But would allow my friend to sleep over when I was little.
You my mom too but for good reason
Sameee my mom didn’t trust people who came in and out the house so I never had sleepovers or went over to people houses unless it was a family members house .
FACTZ!!!
I hope ppl never let these people forget this.
I haven't even gotten to the murder yet and I'm disgusted. The way these women just talk about her and her gift is gross. It's heartbreaking that people like this exist
I said same thing. They’re horrid beings
Yes
You noticed that too ?! Sharp .
I agree!!
Why would you alienate her not a sleep partner? They know exactly what they was doing
that story about them passing the tequila around like "you gotta smell this its awful".... what a catty, snotty thing to do. while she's turned away they're all talking about her like "get a load of what that woman drinks." it has such a nasty vibe to it.
Right.. It's 100% mean girls vibe how they were making fun of her. Tam brought it as a nice gesture and they sit there making fun of her openly and being snotty!! Tam's a better woman than me I wouldve been like u rude bitches 🤬
I just wonder why they invited her to the party in the first place, since they clearly didn't like her.
Such trash human beings.
Yeah very houtie toutie pish posh bull.
God and we call MEN Immature? This takes the cake on high school mentality
They killed her. I pray more evidence comes to light and everyone involved is brought to justice. It’s disgusting how they handled her case.
I don't think they killed her, but they definitely know who did or had an indirect hand in it, they should have got private investigators to investigate them and the police, another thing is it could have been an accident but if it was Tamala was drugged or something but the whole thing is extremely weird
@@dootzombieking9984 if they didn’t kill her but someone else did, who else would have? Definitely them, imo.
@@miss.heatherr they killed her! No doubt about it! They get away with everything! Can’t wait until the tables turn on them!
@@dootzombieking9984 they DEFINITELY killed her come on now
@@miss.heatherr I understand but if they killed her why would they discredit the police saying that they found her with her hands by her side?
This was A HOMCIDE and not an Accident!!! Hopefully The Truth Will Come Out
There is a reason she didn’t have a sleeping buddy and her phone wasn’t with her. May she RIP and get the justice she deserves.
Didn’t even think of that! That part didn’t make sense until you pointed this out! “I told her at least our phones could sleep together.” I’m like wtf does that even mean. But now I’m like omg so she can’t make emergency calls. Premeditated.
@@krystinas8828 100%
Omg yes i didnt notice it 😮
she did have her phone though 😢 the other woman left her phone with tamla… so technically she had two phones with her.
@@elizajduclosthey still killed her
Her husband should file a lawsuit for negligence on the behalf of the police department. I’m sorry this was the way her family had to say goodbye. Rest well my sister ❤️
Yup
💯💯
Wait- you mean they should sue the police
You make it sound like you want the lawsuit to benefit the police…..
@@dmmedic34 uh what? Where’d tf you got thah from??
@@dmmedic34 negligence on behalf of the police. 🤪 So you see the neglectful conduct that the police demonstrated.
I cannot be the only one who noticed the snotty way, when discussing the tequila, Jeanne stated "Cause she's the life of the party. She's always been the life of the party." Jealousy is a disease.
Yes, the way she said it was jealous
That really struck me….as if she wants to make sure it’s known that this woman was out of control…however none of them truly knows her?!
I noticed too !! 🤬
That definitely stuck out to me. You can just hear it in her voice. Sad.
You aren’t the only one
The fact that everyone else could leave but she couldn't is disturbing very sad case and I hope they get justice these woman are disgusting
Honestly it’s the “small” details that makes my blood boil, you just saw a dead body and you’re making cookies…during an investigation you decide to offer officers cookies? That would be the absolute LAST thing on my mind.
These people smell like nervousness because they are all guilty
Exactly, wouldn’t she be more inclined to cook for her children and husband.
Not only that but bought the Investigating officers gift cards! Like why??? That’s deff suspicious!
Exactly! These grown women are full of shite
Wicked
I feel like this needs a netflix documentary, maybe that will actually make something happen. It keeps going viral but nothing is really happening.. I feel so bad for Tamla and her family..
My friend antonio had one and tips started coming in he had a episode on unsolved mysteries. His friends came back but he didnt from lacygna ks
That part!
@@l.austin2371 I saw this episode, It was so sad!
@@shirajai yea it made me sick!!!!! Seeing his hurt mom around town poor baby just jesus!!!! They did him so dirty and his friends they some fucking liars.
@Jesus is Lord and Saviourdumbest thing I’ve ever read
“Because she’s the life of the party” sounded so off-putting. You can hear the hatred in just that line.
Right? She was jealous of Tamla's sparkle.
Yeah! Like sarcastic making fun of her or resentful
Just what I was thinking 🤔
I RAN to the comments to see if anyone picked up on that tone she had when she said that.
Exactly
To whom it may be concern,
Don't ever be the only Black Person at the party. Especially when alchol is involved!
The women in the interview talking about the tequila just.. sound like they’d be prejudiced I’m sorry.. It felt gross to hear.. It just sounded like they didn’t like her from the get go.. Poor Tamla..
Someone brings a drink you don’t like, you thank them and add it to the provisions. How weird!
Yes! That part makes me so upset. The way they talked about the tequila while she was out smoking.
Omg I immediately was irritated by the disgust in their voice talking about a gift she brought 🤬🤬
These grown women sound like "Mean Girls"
yes! i had such a disgusted look on my face listening to those women sound like they were soooo above the generous gift Tamla brought
The way Jeanne says “that woman’s hands” when talking about Tamla’s body and the way they all acted repulsed by the tequila just does not sit alright with me. It’s soooo crazy to me that people are valuing a persons worth by their skin colour still. It’s so gross
It's how southern people talk. They say woman alot. Js
:'(
Omg yes!
@@shelbyhammons476 I’m southern, born & bred. I never call someone I’m even remotely familiar with, “woman”
@@shelbyhammons476 no the fuck we don’t
I live in Forsyth and Tamla was my next door neighbor. I’m so glad you covered her case. She would come over to talk to my mom almost everyday just about her life and the other neighbor moms would sometimes join them… she was just always full of life and such a sweet mom to her kids (who are just as sweet). Tamla’s father came to our home and spoke to my parents after her death came out in the news and I just remember hearing the pain in his voice, and just how upset and confused I was. It was so sad having to drive up the street and not see her picking up her kids at the bus stop and walking them down the street. We always shared a wave hello… thank you for shining light of this case Kendall. I think about it all the time. Tamla was the most vibrant energetic woman and what happened to her was NOT fair.
It sounds like she was a wonderful person. You could see her light just from the pictures. Makes it all the more heartbreaking.
It's not fair her children have to grow up without her. Her family deserves to know the truth and have justice served.
It sounds like you were definitely blessed to have known her. If you still see Tamla's family, please let them know about this site so they can see that her story will always keep going!!
Victoria I live in Norcross and my sister lives in Cumming Georgia and I heard of this case a few years ago! My heart feels so sad for her and her family😢 I pray she gets the justice she deserves!
What do you think happened? And what do the locals think?
@@ShadeVictoria I thought the same thing, wondering what the locals think about the case.
He said “She was the last one I saw”…I bet she was. She and her family deserves justice!
The fact that they were being mean to her over tequila says a lot!! That must’ve been embarrassing 😭
Also that she smelled it and it made her throw up in her mouth. Like wouldn't the smell of almost any hard liquor do the same? She was just looking for an excuse to reject the tequila.
@@Gaby-me5hyexactly!! I gotta hold my nose anytime I drink anything but fruity drinks
Thank you
Exactly!! It seems they were very upset about that!! Smh. That was the set up!!!
No it doesn't. I mean the smell of Tequila is really strong. Once you ever puked from drinking to much of it the smell becomes unbearable.
I can't stand how everyone is acting in this case. The women, the cops, the morticians... Tamala looked like such a sweet and energetic person. And the fact that her children had to loose their mother so soon... And don't get me started on her husband, poor guy. I could not believe he had to experience all of this injustice and couldn't even had a decent funeral for his wife....
I agree. She seemed like she was a great person! She deserved so much better.
Yes I feel the same way, this lovely sweet woman deserves so much better. These 'sundown towns' still exist and people just ignore them. It's not right.
My x hasbund named his private parts Tamala Skylab cause well it's like ....
@@onelove5095 Dear God, please save me from using my time like this.
This whole case is shady. They did something to her or they know what happened. She didn’t jump off the balcony.
These ladies were def the "popular mean girls" in high school who picked on other kids for being ANY type of different. "Holier than thou" type folks. The way she talked down about the gift of tequila, like she was way too good for that. Disgusting group of individuals.
That’s Forsyth county for ya
Well not everybody likes tequila she should of never got smashed so she be more aware of things going on
@@unicorngaby8968 Are you one of the women that were there? I’ve seen you talk shit about Tamla several times. Weirdo
That’s exactly what I was thinking. They seemed disgusted at the fact that the gift was from Mexico.
Yes! They are literally having a sleepover because their plan was to get too drunk to drive home but they’re acting afraid and disgusted by tequila? “Wine? Yum! Vodka? Sure! Tequila?!? Eww! Who drinks that stuff? Disgusting!” Like really? Get a grip.
The way Jeanne says “cuz ya know Tamla was the life of the party, she’s always been the life of the party,” is so strange. She sounds bitter, jealous and angry of her. It’s so very mocking in tone.
I felt that too! She seemed condescending asf!
This is 100% a race issue. That poor family deserves justice
It's not
It definitely is
Absolutely! Which is so sad in 2022. It’s sad always, but when are we going to get past this crap?
Jealousy I think
It is they were races
The funeral home black face incident was so heartbreaking. Hearing Lee talk about this made me cry, I cannot even imagine what they’re going through.
Exactly! Especially when they are calling to arrange clothes for the deceased, they could have said "is there any makeup you would like to bring for your wife, we are having difficulty matching her makeup" which in my opinion would have been perfectly understandable cause even I have had trouble matching makeup. They could have LITERALLY asked her husband to bring it in with her clothing. It was clear that they didn't have experience with POC
Just awful, adding insult to injury.. it sounds like the funeral home couldn't be bothered to get the make up right . No wonder the poor husband was upset, so disrespectful. This whole story had me angry
@@Zoehh473 💯💯💯
They came out in advance and informed us they did the best they could with the amount of damage that was done to her. I've never heard a funeral make this announcement before. That's when I found out all the details. She was not the same person. I could hardly recognize her. He is still a mess to this day. He was just with my husband, and it's not getting any better. He will always be apart of our family. We need justice for her.
That part made me so damn angry.
One thing about liars. They over OVER explain themselves and she did this on multiple occasions to not only get them to believe the story but to believe it herself while making it up.
Absolutely
I agree. The 911 call, you just ask for an ambulance. The ambulance call sounded like preemptive explanations like an investigation. Not an urgent call for ambulance. And why does Jose need to intervene with the 911 call. Is the lady who called special needs and needs help making a call? Lol
@@90sbaby1 isn't he trained in CPR? I am a medical professional... I'd grab the phone so I could clearly communicate and act in an appropriate manner. Regular people freak out and cannot often properly explain the condition of the patient.
@@KathleenEdge Where was he clearly communicating anything... and a cpr professional shouldn't even be on the phone. They...should be...oh I don't know...doing cpr?! Also. I don't know, nor care, if you're actually a "medical professional" or not.
That is exactly what I thought when one of the ladies explained, she came in the door and she was shaking her boots off so she didn't track in to the carpet and then she walked in and put her purse over here.. on and on. seemed shady to me. No one asked for a second by second replay.
The fact that she didn't want to go at first but didn't want to be rude makes it even more heartbreaking to me. Poor Tamla... I hope she rests in peace.
These other women give me terrible vibes...
Yes. That still small voice of God.
The way the police spoke to Leander when they told him Tamla had passed away is absolutely sickening 🤬
@@gavinvanvalkenburg8210 because "what does this pertain to" is such a hard thing for the cop to answer. "Sir there's been an accident, I need to know if this is you" is soooo hard for a police officer to say. Be a better person Gavin.
@@gavinvanvalkenburg8210 he has a reason to be wary of the police. go spit your vitriol elsewhere.
Yes!!! So disgusting that the officers had no human decency! May she Rest In Peace. Her husband did not deserve this.
He kept refusing to give his name for no reason. Which is pretty suspicious and irritating for no reason.
Well he couldn’t answer the simple yes or no question to confirm his identity, the police have to confirm who they are speaking to when it comes to something that serious. He gave them attitude from the start!
I AM SO GLAD YOUVE COVERED THIS CASE. No one was talking about this nearly as much as they should’ve.
Because she’s blCk
@@KF-cx8bm Black. You knew what they were trying to say.
@@KF-cx8bm Whatever could that mean 🤔 I’m sure you can figure it out, don’t hurt yourself though
@@Areniapixie Wow, that's rude. Maybe this person genuinly doesn't know what that means, maybe they're from a different part of the world and english slang/ abbreviation isn't their forte. Maybe they're old, young, whatever. You could be nice and simply explain what it means, you don't need to be so condescending..
@@KF-cx8bm okay smart ass you know what’s she talking about let me help her
BLACK 😡
It wasn’t an accident. They were in on it and the fact that they were so close to the officers involved is what made it so easy for them to get away with it
Exactly
Yeah and the Duncan donuts gift cards before the case ended🤔
Totally agree 💯
This seems so similar how people are treating me as we speak
No one to really talk to about how I feel
There’s so many red flags in this story it makes me mad like her intuition was off that night because I’m always on guard even at the grocery store if I’m the “only one” there.
All of those people at that gathering know more than what they are saying. This is a blatant racially charged murder…. It’s plain to see. I hope we will find justice for this beautiful woman whom thought she could trust such horrendously horrible people. If this case is not found to be a premeditated murder by all involved here, then there will be no justice. Horrific crime here!!!!
The ladies are acting weird too. I wish she just go home instead of staying to these group, nobody wants to be with her and to "sleep buddy" her. i feel bad. And the tequilla thing i feel sad about her that they are showing how they didnt like it, I really feel sorry for Tamala.
There is NOTHING that says this murder was racially motivated!! It is however plain to see that the lack of investigation was DEFINITELY because she was a black woman! If a white woman was murdered by a group of black women this case would have been solved!!
@@cindywilbur4148 yup esp because of this places history... :(
@@cindywilbur4148 there’s a LOT that says this murder was racially motivated. Literally look at where it takes place. The people involved. Don’t be obtuse.
@@corimoon3360 Wow you're an idiot! Tell me exactly why you believe the murder was racially motivated! Why? Because there was a house full of white people? Her husband said when he was on video chat with her she was in a great mood and seemed to be having a great time. I guess that should tell you nobody was being rude or singling her out. Are the people in the house known racists? She was friends with the white woman who owned the house....tell me what is going through your tiny brain?
This whole story is extremely sad, but Tamala’s husband talking about how his wife was basically put in black face is completely sickening and maddening. Absolutely awful.
But that has more to do with incompetence at the funeral home than it has to do with a possible crime. ….
:...( I shouldn't read comments before finishing. It's breaking my heart more than it already is.
My heart is broken. 💔
@@mortyjansen399 she didn't say it didn't. ....
@@mortyjansen399 It is still an awful thing that happened.
It infuriates me that Lee was treated with such disrespect. As a human being, how do you not have compassion for someone in his situation.. It’s sickening and my heart hurts for him.
It’s very easy for these people to be disrespectful when they don’t see black people as people or humans or when they don’t see the as worthy of sympathy or empathy.
Someone professionally trained to do cpr and not perform it is mind boggling
“your friend from the islands” “i couldn’t remember her name” “HAD to be the life of the party” “that woman”
i also read that they talk lightly about it on facebook. they didn’t care even a little bit. they’re all responsible for something and somebody is guilty of murder.
i’m sick to my stomach.
I honestly feel like everyone had a part to play in this I don’t understand how the original plan was to “sleep
Over “ and some how everyone had an excuse to leave home and the fact that you can see how cold they explain the story and how nobody tried to check if she was breathing right away !!! if i see someone I just chilled with laying out on the floor face down why won’t I check if she’s breathing very sus .
@@scarlencheco27 yeah that woman started praying instead of checking her then goes up stairs & lightly knocks on the host’s door bc she doesn’t want to disturb them?? There’s no excuse for her not checking her first, but then U bang on that door til it comes down to get some help ! Then she beats around the bush to get them to come downstairs 😑disgusting ppl. I don’t know how anyone could conduct themselves like this.. esp how they casually talk about it all afterwards as well. There’s no way I could walk thru life if I knew anything about what happened after that
@@TI77Y7ACE exactly ik I’m not bugging everything about this case screams sus . All I can think about is how the females bf that was smoking with tam got angry about her smoking with his girl I feel like that’s very interesting 🤨 if you know what I mean
It sounds to me that they were jealous of her
This so called party was a way to bully and outcast her
Some people smoke when they’re stressed, anxious. Someone else pointed out she stepped out several times to smoke. The times she called her husband in a good mood was possibly to reassure him, and maybe even help her get through the rest of the night. Idk what happened to this woman. It’s possible she could’ve very much fell over, but how everyone else is acting? Idk it’s so weird
This. These women are disgusting…. Who talks about a person that way?!?!?
These people are creepy af. “I didn’t make the coffee.” What an inconvenience for you. Weird af. “Those Dalmatian pajamas.” Just seems like their judging everything about her. I’m sick.
Right! So sickening! What kinda people are they?
Baking cookies, offering them to officers, not performing any CPR even tho theyre trained. Moving 'evidence'. Just everything said by everyone involved.
It’s obvious someone did something to her and it’s not obvious if any of them have any sort of remorse about it, which is really gross and sad.
For real. Everything they said about her is in such a condescending manner. At bare minimum they know what happened and it wasn’t an accident and at worst, they outright killed her. Absolutely disgraceful.
They’re creepy AND they were BFFs with the cops! I’m sick too.
Whether they’re guilty or not, the way these so called “friends” are talking about this woman is disgusting. Who turns down and insults a gift someone brings you, especially when you don’t know them that well? And the way they called her the life of the party didn’t sound endearing at all, it sounded derogatory. What a terrible group of people.
Right, I think if nothing else they could be guilty of neglect in the situation. It's just so confusing though really cuz it just doesn't make sense
Yes! I felt that undertone too. Especially the one lady who made it a point she was the only smoker. SMH
They must’ve have been jealous of her or her sons! Maybe her sons were better players on the team. Psychos
@@Myaccount923 lol literally
Right! They are talking down on her so so much
They beat her death. WTF. I feel ao much frustration and anger. I hope the family gets their justice.
They wouldn't let her leave. They probably took her phone. Like a kidnap. Unbelievable
The fact that they're going out of their way to express how disgusting the tequila (that was a GIFT) smelled doesn't sit right with me. I mean imagine someone being nice enough to bring you something and they just go on about how bad it smells?? Its freakin alcohol did they expect it was gonna smell like roses or ???
And then that person DIES THAT NIGHT and they STILL decided to talk that way about her fuckinh gift????
Ikr.. that part dint just sit right with me at all.. gosh,. So superficial they are..
Same thought.
Agree 100%, IMO it seemed like people were mocking her, even in some of the interviews the others talked about Tamla in such a strange and rude(?) way, as well as the tequila etc.
Right… I’m glad I found this comment cause I didn’t know how to word it
I can’t believe how rude Jeanne was about the tequila to Tamla’s face. Even though she doesn’t like tequila she should’ve at least pretended to be grateful for the effort. And then she passes it around showing everyone how bad it smelt? Seriously so rude. I get bad vibes from that whole group.
I too am horrified with everything in this case, including just how unbelievably RUDE it is to complain about a hostess gift. The quote from Bambi (I believe spoken by Thumper) comes to mind here - "If you can't say something nice, don't say nuthin' at all." You don't drink tequila but someone buys an imported bottle from Mexico? Say thank you, put it with your other liquor, and if you really want, pour it out when she leaves. But there is NO need for such blatant disrespect.
@@crichards037 completely agreed! Authentic tequila from Mexico is a very thoughtful gift, she should at least appreciate the thought and generously behind it even if she doesn’t like to drink it
@@crichards037 if I bought somone a gift and they just pretended to like it I would be humiliated and horrified. You people need to grow up and learn to say and accept the truth (politely). This outdated idea that we can only say nice things is unhealthy and society needs to move past it. This is why people hide abuse and stuff. Because you have to pretend and only say 'nice' things. 🙄 Especially if you are a woman.
@@AngelDeed it's a gift. What good would come from saying you don't like it to the gift-giver's face? All that would result is awkwardness and hurt feelings. Not sure how you think being insensitive to others' feelings is somehow going to benefit society.
Same. I'm happy if people bring anything to a gathering lol
Her "friends" othered her in all their interviews. No one liked the tequila, no one else smoked, she was the only one who took a puff of weed, she was the only one who wanted to stay up..I have a feeling Tamla's death happened before everyone supposedly went to bed. Gives everyone an "alibi" especially since they all had a sleeping partner. I feel like Tamla's drink was possibly spiked with that Xanax. Bridgette was the first one to leave probably because of her anxiety, probably freaking out because Tamla had been murdered. Then someone went out once last time to clean up the crime scene or stage the body knowing the door would log it, so the last smoke break was invented. Then they staged everyone leaving at staggered times so it wouldn't look suspicious that no one noticed Tamla wasn't around. They are definitely all covering for each other. Hopefully one day one of them will grow a conscious and say what really happen. Also want to point out that falling 14ft I'm sure there would have been a scream and definitely a loud bang, everyone slept through that, even though they all had just gone to bed!?
This makes sooooo much sense to me! These people are pure evil.
Yeah that last sentence is a very HUGE statement. This case doesn't make any sense 😕
I like your points… none of this makes sense but all of a sudden everyone’s on the same page. It’s too clean.
Yes!, I also feel like if someone wants to go home you shouldn’t force them to stay, a friend could’ve said “call your husband to pick you up” or a family member.
@@alejandraaguilar6284 exactly! Bridget was “allowed” to leave!
This has just confirmed to me again, that the US is a weird, dangerous place.
The fact that she went even though she didn’t want to go…just to be nice….let that be a lesson to us all. If your gut is telling you not to go somewhere or hangout w someone, LISTEN TO IT!!! Rest In Peace, this case really saddens me. I just want answers🤦🏾♀️
Right IDC to please no body else. Wish she followed that feeling :( r.i.p to a beautiful woman
My gut has ALWAYS saved me. I dodged so many bullets listening to my first mind. I’m sorry at the age I am now I don’t accepts no new friends. I don’t even let my kids sleep at friends house.
I thought that too. Gut feelings are usually quite spot on. Following it or not could mean the difference between life and death.
To think if she had just listened to her gut, she'd still be alive . Heartbreaking.
And even brought a really nice gift 😔
Yes! Growing up my mom always told me if I have a feeling to not go, DON’T go!
Tamla’s actual friend speaking up for her calling out those people was amazing of her. This case needs to be more known, I wish there was something we could do. Justice for Tamla.
All I could think to do was start getting it back out there again. I’m so glad Kendall actually tries to tackle peoples case requests.
She should of listened to her gut feeling, and left. The gut feeling is your body's intuition, giving you a warning.
I believe it has been reopened by the GBI
I agree justice for tamla something should be done ,those women know something.
And they are trying to shut her up. Seems suss to me.
“your friend from the islands”
“the tequila she brought was disgusting”
“Is she breathing?” “I have no idea 🤷♂️ “
“this funeral”
“I made you cookies and bought you gift cards.”
“that woman”
Good god.
I can't stop thinking about this case. How this lovely person died alone, among those creatures. 💔
@@boatymsboatface3929 very well said. what a disturbing and sad reality.
Don't forget that time Jeanne referred to tamla as "that woman"
@@boatymsboatface3929 yes, very well said indeed. A reckoning must come. Thank you for marching. I hope there is a march for Tamla soon, & I will contribute to that in any way I can 🙏🏿
Dont forget “ you know she always had to be the life of the partyyy” the way she said it made my stomach turn
Whenever someone is face down, and someone finds that person you usually are frantic, but everyone seems cool and without a care, moving slowly , wow! They was full of it, however, what go around come around eventually you get what you sow!
Why did they call her « That woman » ? Seems like they didn’t see her as a friend or an equal even if it was the first time they met her
I also found it so disturbing. Should have remembered the name of a woman you spent whole night socializing with. It's not like there were 30 new faces to memorize everyone's name.
Was thinking the same thing 🤦🏽♀️
@T Williams yep that part about distancing is probably right too. I just can’t comprehend why someone their age would wanna do that when there’s no apparent motive? But i believe one of the dudes (parole officer) probably did it or some accident happened and they all decided to just cover it up :(((
This story is maddening, disgusting. Can we help to bring more light to the case… petitions, reshares!!! She deserves justice
I agree 🤍JUSTICE ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿✊🏽
Share share share. Hopefully there will be a petition or something soon. Or people can find and contact the local DA there
I just sing the petition ! Hope it helps bring justice 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I wish her husband would have told her to just use him as an excuse not to go. I never stay at other people houses and they are not offended by me not staying because it is known that I don’t. I never lost a friend because of this. You should also do a story on lake Lanier there too.
If you see a lifeless body laying face down on the ground, you’re not going to pray, lightly knock on the door of your niece before you run outside and call for help. How did she instantly know she was dead? She could’ve just passed out drunk or have been hurt? But somehow they knew she was dead
Yes, I am a pray-er and a believer. I would pray as I got the phone and called 911. BEFORE going to wake up other people. I would wake them up as I was on the phone.
@@suthrndaysi I hope you never have to be in the situation to decide help someone with action or help someone with your internal-private conversation with your chosen deity, but if it does & you believe in the Christian God, just know that you're called to act not simply pray from the sidelines. Your god does not need your first action to be prayer, maybe you were the answer to the person in needs prayers but because you choose not to act they are worse off. Just help people, it's not difficult.
@@pagecarlee626 the person is literally saying they wouldn’t stop to pray
Exactly. Too odd.
@@pagecarlee626 you misread their comment
The fact nobody attempted to check her body or give her CPR says everything.. they tryna set up a scene for the police
This ain’t no accident. Tamla was absolutely murdered. Please sign this petition so she and her family can get Justice!!
Facts!!!
How do we sign?
@@princessmitchell5913 it's in the title. There's a link in there. I just signed it.
@@vayoha02 Ty so am I
I honestly think it was an accident this has a lot of moving piceses that invlove these group of individuals it’s sick
The utter rage I felt while listening to Lee explain how the police informed him about Tamla’s passing and how they handled her body at the funeral home was un-fucking-believable. That poor man and his children deserve REAL answers. I hope they’re doing alright
Why was he refusing to give them his name 3 times and then get sarcastic giving them his NICKNAME instead when they had something that important to tell him??
@@rosedolch8637 Because the cops were being rude and obnoxious and rude to him
Like a lot of cops are to any people of color. It's on the news in the states all the time. Lee could have being harassed for something stupid and had every right to k ow what it was pertaining to. And police SHOULD have responded appropriately.
@@rosedolch8637 also he gave them his full name the third time as he explains, because they kept asking for “Lee”, not “Leander”.
@@rosedolch8637 people usually become defensive if they are being met with aggression. Instead of showing empathy they came at him like that! I think anyone would feel that way if they came to your house asking rudely.
@@rosedolch8637 you’re definitely white
If a guest brings something to your party that you don't like, you say "thank you very much" and put it to the side or re-gift it later. Lack of manners these women have is astounding. Is there a petition or somewhere to donate to help bring Tamla justice?
The way she proudly declared that she visibly and audibly gagged at Tam's gift. The egos of these women, my god.
I agree. Very bad manners to turn your nose up at a gift like that. Just put it aside for guests or for future guests.
Way to make her feel like her gift wasn’t good enough. You’re right Jeanne could have easily just said thank you and put it aside like a normal person.
yes it breaks my heart! that must’ve hurt poor tam :( she never deserved any of this
Yeah I can't imagine...my son has always had better manners than that... even now at 13.