Feels like its either extreme - eother pretty privilege, or being perceived as "pretty" gets you unnecessary unprovoked hatred from both inmates and COs
Or you just have a different experience. People are different. Either they get hated for being pretty or loved for being pretty. Others either wanna look at the beautiful person or be jealous and insecure around the beautiful person
@@sophiabreidfischer6242 at that level some people likez you and some are jealous. on a lower level, some people don't think you are pretty and some people like you
Wow lol only 310 likes because people apparently don’t realize that life is unfair for EVERYONE in some way or another, and that doesn’t give you the right to be a hateful person. I mean you can be, anyone can do anything- but if you do become that person, you’re a part of the problem- no matter how much you lie to yourself. That’s not my opinion btw that’s a fact. If there’s one thing I’ve experienced plenty in life it’s people screaming in my face about how unfair life is while consciously playing into that cycle. Then when they’re called out on it, start screaming in my face either all the flaws I have or their sob story, which we all have. Yes, whatever negative experience some has gone through, whatever it may be, shouldn’t have happened, and you are justified in your feelings. But you cannot use it as an excuse to stop growing, otherwise you’re letting that pain and anger win, you’re letting whoever hurt you, win- because you’ve turned into what you hated most.
@@Cultist-Cat spoken like a person who has never been perceived as conventionally attractive… being pretty doesn’t Change if people wanna be shitty towards you or not. Maybe with some men, sure but thats only because they expect something in return from said pretty person. Being conventionally attractive sure as hell doesn’t minimize anyones problems in life. So NO, some dudes wanting to fuck you doesn’t give enough benefits to make it worth getting treated like shit out of someone else’s bitterness.
this exemplifies something i wish ppl talked about more w pretty privilege it IS real and it does suck but the recipient isn’t even always aware they’re getting special treatment; what they see is how people randomly are hostile and bitter to them for no reason. this refers to someone who isn’t flexing deliberately or being manipulative w their looks. it’s not a pretty person’s fault they’re pretty 😅
The show 3D rock had an episode titled the bubble where Jon hamm from madmen was shown to get super nice treatment bc of his looks. really shows pretty privilege
“They don’t know they are receiving more.” They may not know, but anyone raised right with enough human decency can tell, I can do this and that without consequence, and notice what happens to other ppl who also do those things ESPECIALLY in a jail where your in the same 4 corners. Pretty Privilege is only upheld cause ppl today are so in-tune with their own life’s that they can’t dare to see the differences or let alone ask abt someone’s experience. That’s just simple conversation, and these bitter ppl will happily open their eyes but we can’t just keep accepting that you’re mad that I’m pretty. no one is mad at the person. I go home and not care, but I’m bitter when it’s constantly used as if it’s a normal part of life when 7 times out of 10 it’s an advance for the Male counterpart. Let’s not accept it entirely. It should be weird that any man you have no close or consistent connection with should be Good Samaritan for a task or ideal for a prettier woman and then not for the less than fortunate.
i haven’t changed that much in appearance but it was shocking how different i was treated once i went from blond to (unnaturally) red hair. i’m also non binary and express this through clothing. when i dress femininely i am met with a lot more kindness than when dressed masculine, this may be because i’m AFAB and it’s more natural or something? i don’t get it really
@@AlyssaK-tpwkI have teeny tiny glasses ive had them my whole life I was born crosseyed the tiny glasses are so cute then I had pink ones when I was a toddler what colors were urs if its ok I ask!
Orange is the new black one of the main characters has glasses & is perceived as beautiful ?? Tbh I haven’t seen this “glasses =nerdy” trope in a long time..except for like, older shows
I actually feel kind of bad for the pretty girl, she'll just be hated by everyone there because she gets treated differently by the COs. it's not fair at all, like how is that ever her fault at this point?
Yea. It's not her fault the CO'S are encouraging her to think that she can get whatever she wants. I'm pretty sure the pretty girl thinks others get treated the same as her. Idk why she's a threat to others if it's not even her fault she's getting treated better Than the others
Maricopa County jail only puts CSPAN, Food Network, ESPN or The Weather Channel on TV. It's the officer's choice and pretty much never gets changed. It was usually on Food Network. At the time I was there, we watched a lot of Chopped, but the volume was all the way down and we were starving so it was pretty evil lol
The very same for females in male prisons. They end up falling for some of them dudes and doing dumb shyt. Then, if some kind of crap goes down, she will be overpowered by the male prisoner, females shouldn't be in male prisons.
@@phoenixc7245 Dicks, not pants, that sounds stupid. But there are loads of female COs who fall for male prisoners and end up in a world of trouble... This is the second reason why females should not be working in male prisons, with the first being easily overpowered.
I just wanna say that youre awseome and you look so strong, not many people would be so open and honest about what they been through and have done. Many people have so much to leran from you and I hope no one ever gets to same place where you've been. All love for you❤️🤗🙏
Man I remember when I first went to rehab (don’t wanna compare to jail cuz we had so many nice things tbh) but there was this one girl who would be very like aggressive when she talked to staff and people living with us, and tbh staff was just nice to the people who were nice back, idk if it always has to do with pretty privilege but idk I never beeen in jail, I love your videos btw! Been following for awhile ❤
This is unrelated and im not sure if you made a video already but can you please tell how you got you ponytail like that is it the hair cut or the way you put it up i just think it looks so cute on you 😊
I mean the inmate was literally the one starting and continuing the fight while the one with the pretty privilege didn't rlly do anything so it makes sense why she's the only one getting the warning
Yea this actually happened to me in jail! What people didn’t know is I was in school for law enforcement and knew all the COs and police officers, I had to tell my friends to not call me to gate to chat me up bc it looks really bad but I did get away with a lot only bc they knew I wasn’t ever going to tell on them! One day my friend Who was the Sgt. came down with a bunch of Snitch forms in his hand and started calling every snitch by name out saying this is against our trustee!!! It was like 20 of them and they were all bs and he read all of them out and it made them girls look real bad and nobody would mess with them bc it was 3 of them sending in non stop snitch forms! He said IF I GET ONE MORE DAMN REQUEST YOURE GOING TO LOCKDOWN NOT MY TRUSTEE BUT YOOOOU!!!! I laughed and my buddies in there finally said what’s up with them protecting you so much and calling people out? I said the truth is I’ve known all of them since I was a child and were friends on the outside! They said wtttfff why didn’t you tell us we could have been getting anything we’ve wanted! I said that’s why I didn’t say anything bc this is their job and I didn’t want to put them in a predicament so this is their way of helping me.
when I was in jail my pretty privilege got me everything I wanted, the guys to protect me and even when I got out my privilege got me a job quicker and back on my feet faster than the others.
Wanna know something creepy? When in juvy at 14, the male COs would give special treatment to the girls that were pretrier or more developed. 15 and 16 year old girls. 30+ year old men.
Tina I have a question how can you possibly bring contraband into jail? Because I know that CO's constantly check it and even strip you of your clothing to check so I'm wondering if it's even possible
I think pretty privilege is worse when you yourself don’t think your pretty so then you have nice people and randomly rude people and you have no clue why.
I never understood why people get mad at the beneficiaries of petty privilege... They didn't ask for it lmfao. Why not be mad at the ppl playing favorites?
Could I ask what happened for you to be sent to prison? I'm really curious, and funnily enough, this happens in school so much. (Edit: Addiction is very sad, I'm glad you could overcome it. Keep making this amazing content!)
The cuter you are the worse they treat you in SB but one of the girls on max had one of the gards kids while she was on max he got fired his wife is now raising the baby she was also a guard the girls sed she was very cool thill that happened
Going to jail made me feel sooooooooooo good about my looks!! It’s crazy to see just HOW fat and ugly EVERYONE is so it’s best to not get down on yourself too much!!!
True....I had petty privilege...I also had Co's putting treats and things under my pillow ... flirting with me..looking g me up on fb...yes...this is true....
Listen.. I need an question answered. If I go to jail ask a lady if you wants to watch tv when her gay for the stay girl comes out and tries shit would “would you like to watch Tv with me too?” Would that work or would that start a fight
Many people think pretty privilege makes everyone give you special treatment when no you get hatred for no reason and everyone expects lot from you specially if your from a country and went to another one.
And no one else is getting the same things and treatment as her cause they’re not “pretty” babe💀but whatever helps those think pretty privilege gets them ahead in life forever❤
As someone who was considered the "ugly friend" in NYC these guys that sell fruit snacks on trains gave my then "friend" free snacks bc he said her face was pretty. I confronted the dude, and he said I was jealous. im not his type. Just because I wear glasses, I wasn't considered pretty in that fool's eyes. Brought up the fact that she has kids and a minor bro left mad quick. Come to find out girl kept me around so she can get noticed more and have someone always defending her when she couldn't handle it. Disgusting 😒
Feels like its either extreme - eother pretty privilege, or being perceived as "pretty" gets you unnecessary unprovoked hatred from both inmates and COs
Or you just have a different experience. People are different. Either they get hated for being pretty or loved for being pretty. Others either wanna look at the beautiful person or be jealous and insecure around the beautiful person
I feel like in life theres a little grey area where youre pretty enough ppl are nice to u but not jealous of u
"Being perceived as pretty" could you explain the difference please
@@trippykysa3470that’s literally what they said
@@sophiabreidfischer6242 at that level some people likez you and some are jealous. on a lower level, some people don't think you are pretty and some people like you
This is true but it's also equally annoying when people act shitty to the "pretty" person as well out of spite.
Wow lol only 310 likes because people apparently don’t realize that life is unfair for EVERYONE in some way or another, and that doesn’t give you the right to be a hateful person.
I mean you can be, anyone can do anything- but if you do become that person, you’re a part of the problem- no matter how much you lie to yourself.
That’s not my opinion btw that’s a fact. If there’s one thing I’ve experienced plenty in life it’s people screaming in my face about how unfair life is while consciously playing into that cycle. Then when they’re called out on it, start screaming in my face either all the flaws I have or their sob story, which we all have.
Yes, whatever negative experience some has gone through, whatever it may be, shouldn’t have happened, and you are justified in your feelings. But you cannot use it as an excuse to stop growing, otherwise you’re letting that pain and anger win, you’re letting whoever hurt you, win- because you’ve turned into what you hated most.
True but being pretty/handsome has enough benifits to make it worth it. Anybody would chose being hot over ugly any day.
@@Cultist-Cat spoken like a person who has never been perceived as conventionally attractive… being pretty doesn’t Change if people wanna be shitty towards you or not. Maybe with some men, sure but thats only because they expect something in return from said pretty person. Being conventionally attractive sure as hell doesn’t minimize anyones problems in life. So NO, some dudes wanting to fuck you doesn’t give enough benefits to make it worth getting treated like shit out of someone else’s bitterness.
Womp womp
@@WildHorizonbro what are you yapping about
this exemplifies something i wish ppl talked about more w pretty privilege
it IS real and it does suck but the recipient isn’t even always aware they’re getting special treatment; what they see is how people randomly are hostile and bitter to them for no reason. this refers to someone who isn’t flexing deliberately or being manipulative w their looks. it’s not a pretty person’s fault they’re pretty 😅
The only reason I'm aware is because I lost a lot of weight so I perceive the difference in how I was treated in 2022 vs 2023.
The show 3D rock had an episode titled the bubble where Jon hamm from madmen was shown to get super nice treatment bc of his looks. really shows pretty privilege
Went from ugly duckling to pretty in my 20s. It's very interesting how different I'm treated based on my appearance
“They don’t know they are receiving more.”
They may not know, but anyone raised right with enough human decency can tell, I can do this and that without consequence, and notice what happens to other ppl who also do those things ESPECIALLY in a jail where your in the same 4 corners.
Pretty Privilege is only upheld cause ppl today are so in-tune with their own life’s that they can’t dare to see the differences or let alone ask abt someone’s experience. That’s just simple conversation, and these bitter ppl will happily open their eyes but we can’t just keep accepting that you’re mad that I’m pretty. no one is mad at the person. I go home and not care, but I’m bitter when it’s constantly used as if it’s a normal part of life when 7 times out of 10 it’s an advance for the Male counterpart. Let’s not accept it entirely. It should be weird that any man you have no close or consistent connection with should be Good Samaritan for a task or ideal for a prettier woman and then not for the less than fortunate.
i haven’t changed that much in appearance but it was shocking how different i was treated once i went from blond to (unnaturally) red hair. i’m also non binary and express this through clothing. when i dress femininely i am met with a lot more kindness than when dressed masculine, this may be because i’m AFAB and it’s more natural or something? i don’t get it really
i love how the pretty one was with glasses. Most of the time the character with glasses are a nerd
As a girlie who had glasses since I was 10 months old I definitely approve this message 💀
Yesssss
@@AlyssaK-tpwkI have teeny tiny glasses ive had them my whole life I was born crosseyed the tiny glasses are so cute then I had pink ones when I was a toddler what colors were urs if its ok I ask!
Orange is the new black one of the main characters has glasses & is perceived as beautiful ?? Tbh I haven’t seen this “glasses =nerdy” trope in a long time..except for like, older shows
@@sumbunniii8721frrr, i remember in a scene of oitnb when they called alex “the hot one”, instead of her actual name
damnnnn the ACTING in this one tina!!! i lowkey got a lil scared w those threats 😂 great video, thanks for sharing!
righhht ! amazing
i dont think shes acting, our girl can get down.
@@sabincloud222 😂😂😂 wouldnt put it past her! she strong 💪
I actually feel kind of bad for the pretty girl, she'll just be hated by everyone there because she gets treated differently by the COs. it's not fair at all, like how is that ever her fault at this point?
Yea. It's not her fault the CO'S are encouraging her to think that she can get whatever she wants. I'm pretty sure the pretty girl thinks others get treated the same as her. Idk why she's a threat to others if it's not even her fault she's getting treated better Than the others
Threatens violence to another inmate and is confused why shes the only one getting a warning, lmao some people are so crazy 😂
It’s supposed to be BOTH inmates involved in any kind of conflict. Its dumb but it’s a DONT START NO SHIT WONT BE NO SHIT thing.
Maricopa County jail only puts CSPAN, Food Network, ESPN or The Weather Channel on TV. It's the officer's choice and pretty much never gets changed. It was usually on Food Network. At the time I was there, we watched a lot of Chopped, but the volume was all the way down and we were starving so it was pretty evil lol
Were you in prior to 2017?
Food network seems like the lessor of those evils though
@@Phenobarbidoll. Yeah, 2014
@@iamsongforsomeone994 not when you only get 2 meals a day and one of them is literally called "slop" (a flavorless, tofu amalgamation of sorts) 😆
@@SStteeeevviiiiiiii fair enough
That's why you don't put men in charge there they don't always think with their head 😂
They think with their heads it’s just usually the wrong one. 😂
The very same for females in male prisons. They end up falling for some of them dudes and doing dumb shyt.
Then, if some kind of crap goes down, she will be overpowered by the male prisoner, females shouldn't be in male prisons.
More like they think with their pants 😂
@@katelyn9011lmaooo
@@phoenixc7245 Dicks, not pants, that sounds stupid. But there are loads of female COs who fall for male prisoners and end up in a world of trouble...
This is the second reason why females should not be working in male prisons, with the first being easily overpowered.
I just wanna say that youre awseome and you look so strong, not many people would be so open and honest about what they been through and have done. Many people have so much to leran from you and I hope no one ever gets to same place where you've been. All love for you❤️🤗🙏
the pretty one was so nice tho LIKE ITS NOT HER FAULT SHE'S PRETTY😭
Even with the privilege treatment, the guard was still such a dick....the fact that jail/prison is THAT AWFUL that THAT'S CONSIDERED PRIVILEGE!
Man I remember when I first went to rehab (don’t wanna compare to jail cuz we had so many nice things tbh) but there was this one girl who would be very like aggressive when she talked to staff and people living with us, and tbh staff was just nice to the people who were nice back, idk if it always has to do with pretty privilege but idk I never beeen in jail, I love your videos btw! Been following for awhile ❤
Imagine being pretty, but so insecure that you're oblivious to the special treatment
It happens though! I once met someone like that
how is she insecure?
I don't think this is really a kind way to express what you wanna say.
That’s really rude bro.
Sad thing is pretty privilege works everywhere
The worse part is when the "pretty" girl doesn't even realize their getting special treatment bc of their looks
Can you do like “spoiled” pregnant lady on jail please?
Also I love your content! I watch you literally every day!
I got u. Thank u ❤️🩷❤️🩷
This is unrelated and im not sure if you made a video already but can you please tell how you got you ponytail like that is it the hair cut or the way you put it up i just think it looks so cute on you 😊
I miss my pretty privilege! You’re still young! Keep it together ladies
FR! I miss mine too. It doesn't last forever unfortunately
I hate it. I hate getting old In quite literally terrified the world is getting more shallow each day
I mean the inmate was literally the one starting and continuing the fight while the one with the pretty privilege didn't rlly do anything so it makes sense why she's the only one getting the warning
Such an
inspiration tina ❤❤❤
"Only me?" Ummm....yeah....you were the only one causing a problem. You were the one causing drama bc you were jelly.
love ur vids ❤❤❤
“Only me” you started the fight 💀
love you tina!!🖤
Hiiii tina and what about programs you can join in jail?
So wild how u play so many parts so perfectly
That is real shit in women's prisons it is very much set on favorites
Tina can you do a skit of what happens when the co goes to Jail
Pump up the jam 💃🏻✨🔥
Yea this actually happened to me in jail! What people didn’t know is I was in school for law enforcement and knew all the COs and police officers, I had to tell my friends to not call me to gate to chat me up bc it looks really bad but I did get away with a lot only bc they knew I wasn’t ever going to tell on them! One day my friend Who was the Sgt. came down with a bunch of Snitch forms in his hand and started calling every snitch by name out saying this is against our trustee!!! It was like 20 of them and they were all bs and he read all of them out and it made them girls look real bad and nobody would mess with them bc it was 3 of them sending in non stop snitch forms! He said IF I GET ONE MORE DAMN REQUEST YOURE GOING TO LOCKDOWN NOT MY TRUSTEE BUT YOOOOU!!!! I laughed and my buddies in there finally said what’s up with them protecting you so much and calling people out? I said the truth is I’ve known all of them since I was a child and were friends on the outside! They said wtttfff why didn’t you tell us we could have been getting anything we’ve wanted! I said that’s why I didn’t say anything bc this is their job and I didn’t want to put them in a predicament so this is their way of helping me.
my friends always tell me if i went to jail i’d still get pretty privilege 🤣🤣🤣🤣
when I was in jail my pretty privilege got me everything I wanted, the guys to protect me and even when I got out my privilege got me a job quicker and back on my feet faster than the others.
I really need to learn how u put your hair up like that girl! Looks like a pretty little bob! Anyway LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!
Hi Tina your vids are so good❤
early !! and i love your videos
Wanna know something creepy? When in juvy at 14, the male COs would give special treatment to the girls that were pretrier or more developed. 15 and 16 year old girls. 30+ year old men.
Tina I have a question how can you possibly bring contraband into jail? Because I know that CO's constantly check it and even strip you of your clothing to check so I'm wondering if it's even possible
What happens if you go to jail with nails on
Male staff should not be allowed in womens prison… women should seriously protest this. And pregnant women in jail need to be treated decently.
I love urs vids
I would've been like "oh I get special privileges? Well let me know if you need something and I'll get it for ya"
I need a hairdo tutorial!!
I love her nose. She's so cute.
❤
EARLY HII TINA💓💓
The biggest privelage is free coacaine
Lmao until it turns you into an addict for a while
@@etherealdeal1792 Is an even bigger benefit then cause you NEED THAT SHIT
I’m a tech kid and I know how true this is
lol i love watching tina fight herself 😂😂😂💖💖
Omg were so early 🤩❤❤
Actually im inclined towards informant more than pretty privelage, like does that really happen?
Where is the reforming bc this looks like an adult daycare.
I think pretty privilege is worse when you yourself don’t think your pretty so then you have nice people and randomly rude people and you have no clue why.
I never understood why people get mad at the beneficiaries of petty privilege... They didn't ask for it lmfao. Why not be mad at the ppl playing favorites?
Hating women for the way men choose to treat them is just you being an extention of misogyny. Dont do the dirty work for them.
They always want the size smalls no matter what 😂
Could I ask what happened for you to be sent to prison? I'm really curious, and funnily enough, this happens in school so much.
(Edit: Addiction is very sad, I'm glad you could overcome it. Keep making this amazing content!)
The cuter you are the worse they treat you in SB but one of the girls on max had one of the gards kids while she was on max he got fired his wife is now raising the baby she was also a guard the girls sed she was very cool thill that happened
Yeah pretty privilege is real my class mate is pretty and we have the same personality but I get shamed for it but everyone loves her
Your pic is in my biology book 😭😭
Going to jail made me feel sooooooooooo good about my looks!! It’s crazy to see just HOW fat and ugly EVERYONE is so it’s best to not get down on yourself too much!!!
Weird ass comment. Are you drunk?
Kinda what happens when you’re fed literal garbage and given less than adequate grooming supplies but sure, keep feeling good about yourself
@@celestialtaco2626 What are you yapping about?
@@tmoneynjug4306 Do you know how to read or are you just dyslexic?
Ur so weird
True....I had petty privilege...I also had Co's putting treats and things under my pillow ... flirting with me..looking g me up on fb...yes...this is true....
i love the music. pump pump it up pump the jam
Listen.. I need an question answered. If I go to jail ask a lady if you wants to watch tv when her gay for the stay girl comes out and tries shit would “would you like to watch Tv with me too?” Would that work or would that start a fight
How do you see in those curtains like fake lashes?😂
This crap is why jail is so annoying.😂
Early! Love you Tina! ❤❤
there’s tv in jail?
What if a person with diabetes ends up in prison?
She's made a video on that recently
I've made those videos they're in the jail playlist
@@tinassee alr i will cheek it out, btw you are very sweet 💜💜💜
Same in the male cells lol 😅
what is the name of that background song?
😮😮
Love your videos!
Many people think pretty privilege makes everyone give you special treatment when no you get hatred for no reason and everyone expects lot from you specially if your from a country and went to another one.
It can be both getting things and hatred/jealousy. I added both to the video
@@tinasseethats why we love you❤❤❤
Girl is asking just like everyone is in jail if u have chance take it it's not her fault they don't get allowed same things.
And no one else is getting the same things and treatment as her cause they’re not “pretty” babe💀but whatever helps those think pretty privilege gets them ahead in life forever❤
id take it as a compliment
No ones talking about "pump up the jam" playing in the background 😔
I absolutely hate pretty privilege
This is better than orange is the new black
When you get to blue you should do gumball
Wait you get a TV in Jail?????😂
POV school:
For real though!
The pretty girl seems to not even recognize her privilege
They never do
Their privilege can be your privilege if youre smart about it
I don't think you can do much in jail tho
😮😮 ladiessss chilllllll
How to find out you have pretty privilege lmao
Have her been in prison
Is it the pretty person fault?
This is why you should stay out of the clink
😂punchy 👊 good luck
Pretty privilege but then you get a lot of "random" aggression directed at you and you're like damn I must have a really punchable face
Enjoy pretty privilege while you have it :) the acting is so good!
you should talk about property
This one got me!
Good to know my face still works as my VIP card in jail/prison I won’t be visiting anytime soon like ever but it warms me to know it
As someone who was considered the "ugly friend" in NYC these guys that sell fruit snacks on trains gave my then "friend" free snacks bc he said her face was pretty. I confronted the dude, and he said I was jealous. im not his type. Just because I wear glasses, I wasn't considered pretty in that fool's eyes. Brought up the fact that she has kids and a minor bro left mad quick. Come to find out girl kept me around so she can get noticed more and have someone always defending her when she couldn't handle it. Disgusting 😒
😂
The targeted audience for this clip is extremely small.
Girly pip😢