POST-WEDDING Q&A! 💒 cruise elopement at sea, how we celebrated, favourite details & best advice ❤️
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 มิ.ย. 2024
- It's time for the BIG debrief on our Wedding Day! Grab your cuppa, let's catch up on the details of our Wedding. We had the most incredible, special day on P&O Cruises ship Arcadia, where we got married at sea just the two of us on 24th February 2024. If you're thinking about eloping or doing something different, I hope this gives you ideas but if you have any questions, leave them below! Big love, Brogan & Benji xx
• Our Wedding Day At Sea...
• Our Engagement & Weddi...
• Our World Cruise 2024 🛳️
0:00 we're home & married! 🏠
1:11 our 'non-traditional' Wedding 🛳️
3:21 did we both agree from the beginning? 🤔
4:53 do we feel guilty for having no family there? 👫
7:12 our favourite parts of the day ❤️
8:17 do we feel any different? ☺️
9:36 our wedding planners 👩🏻
10:48 when during the cruise did we get married? 🌊
11:29 pressures, beauty prep & being a bride-to-be 👰🏻♀️
14:59 getting ready together 🧴
15:38 favourite parts of our outfits 👔
16:53 preserving my Wedding dress 👗
18:10 the ceremony | legalities, vows, witnesses 💒
21:18 how did other guests react? 😯
22:28 after the ceremony 💃
24:02 our first meal 🍽️
24:45 the cake 🍰
26:23 first dance song 🎵
27:42 photographer & videography 📷
30:59 incorporating our families ❤️
32:02 what surprised us most? 🤯
32:59 what was unexpected? 🤨
33:52 tips for avoiding stress 😌
34:31 special touches ✨
35:08 invitations for the UK party 📝
37:47 planning the party 🥳
39:06 the party details | outfits, food & tips 💃
41:39 pressing my bouquet 💐
42:22 our rings 💍
42:51 any regrets? 🥰
43:47 one piece of advice 🫶
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The last Wedding-related video! After two years of planning, two months on an epic World Cruise and two special celebrations, today we are sharing all the details, moments and behind-the-scenes. We are so grateful to P&O Cruises Ceremonies at Sea and the crew onboard Arcadia, for making it so special for us. Thanks for watching! Brogan & Benji xx
I have a sense that you and Benji have what I call the thing. I know only two other couples that have the thing. It is a complete togetherness that will stand the tests and difficulties that life throws at you. There is a look between you that I recognise as the thing.
It was a perfect wedding but much more importantly the thing ensures it stays forever.
Lovely to share it.
How is it possible to be extremely fond of 2 strangers. But after watching lots of your vlogs I feel you are such a lovely couple . I had a big white wedding but also my second marriage was just me my husband , his friend and my friend . It was the best day xxx
Love that you did your day exactly as you wanted. Me and my husband were going to elope as we both hate being the centre of attention, and just wanted to get to the 'being married' bit. But at the last minute he changed his mind (only child so he felt sad for his mum missing out). So we had the smallest wedding possible - 4 parents and 3 siblings - and it was magical. In the past 5 years we've lost 3 of our parents, so we treasure the memories and photographs of that wonderful day. You don't have to have a huge, expensive day for it to be perfect ❤
This reminded me so much of mine and my husband's wedding. We eloped to Antigua just the two of us, he helped me with my dress on our wedding day, we walked to the ceremony together and spent the entire day with each other. It felt so much more intimate and more us. I had a little wobble after I had my hair and makeup done but a glass of Champagne (and a tot of vodka in it) helped loads x
I got so emotional watching this in my lunchbreak. I've been following you for years, and it's been so wonderful seeing you grow into the woman you are, meet Benji and develop this beautiful relationship. I can see the love and joy you have together, but also in the choices you make (from your normal videos to the extra special wedding ones). What a fabulous way to celebrate yourselves. ❤
Your happiness shines through on your vlogs and photos.
Thank you! xx
You guys looked amazing, and the day (and beyond) looked/sounds perfect. We're 5 years in, and I still love hearing 'wife' and saying 'husband'!
We were pretty non-traditional, too. There was no proposal (I'm autistic and hate surprises/not knowing what's going on etc), we just decided together that we wanted to get married. We bought semi-matching engagement rings, and both wore them.
Then we got married at the registry office on Halloween. Just us and my parents as witnesses. We got ready at home together, I wore a black dress and Nightmare Before Christmas Vans, he wore black jeans and a linen shirt. I drove us there and we got lucky rain. Then we went away for the night. Had food at Hard Rock and a drink in a local pub.
I cried the whole way through and was just happy when it was over haha. If we could have just signed the paper instead of having to say vows, I would have!
Our original Honeymoon got cancelled due to CvD so we eventually got our Honeymoon last October at DLP.
To us, marriage is, as Benji said, between two people. We don't really have any friends or family, so we didn't need or want a party, and I hate being the centre of attention, so I couldn't think of anything worse than a traditional big wedding!
Oh, and of course, Congratulations again. It's obvious how perfectly suited you guys are and I wish you all the happiness in the world!
We eloped but it didn’t work out that well and we got a lot of kick back from my husband’s family. I look back with some sadness which is a shame, though I wouldn’t have wanted a traditional wedding at all.
I’m so glad it worked out so beautifully for you. You both looked amazing! Such a special day. You both deserve the very best. ❤
I think it’s beautiful and so personal the way you did your wedding: you both love travel, and even the fact that the ship was registered in Bermuda ties in even more places! Good for you. I’m sure a lot of people will follow suit after watching your wedding.
All your vlogs have been fab, thank you so much for taking time out of your honeymoon to share it all with us too! xx
Loved this! So much fun to hear all about it.
This video just radiates joy ❤
The little Bonnie eating the cake is precious! 🥰
Such an awesome video. Loved getting an insight into the epic journey!! Congratulations to you both once again❤
I LOVE the way you did your union! As someone who was married in Vegas (I know cheesy lol) but it was us with a few witnesses and it was perfect! It was just for us and we just celebrated 20 years!! We have discussed a destination renewal for 25 with just us and our kids so I get it! You two are beautiful, congratulations and cheers to a long, happy, beautiful marriage!! ❤️❤️❤️🌺
What a beautiful wedding you both had. So glad you did what you both wanted. You both looked so beautiful and happy xx
So happy for you guys 💍💗
It's clear how much joy you both had & I love that you were able to get ready together. So special & perfect. ❤❤
You guys are so sweet together. Wishing you a lifetime of continued happiness!
As a wedding registrar myself, I and all my colleagues would probably agree that the small intimate ceremonies are our favourites. The words mean so much more when there isn’t a distraction of ‘what’s next’ and we find these are the most emotional ceremonies, especially a lot of the time for the grooms! We love how it always takes people by surprise and as you said it is most importantly about the two of you. Loved hearing all the details thanks for sharing and congratulations again 🥂 ❤ xxx
You both looked so beautiful and happy. I actually cheered when I first saw you in that dress 👌
Love a Saturday morning upload, sat watching eagerly with a cuppa and a crossaint! X
Aww yay, I love that! Enjoy! xx
oooh love this
Thanks so much for sharing! You both looked amazing. I found it interesting when you spoke about the weather being grey....I hadn't even noticed that in any of your pics because you're both glowing. Congratulations!
You guys are so cute! Congratulations again ❤
Why did I get emotional when you spoke about walking into the dining room and everyone clapping for you guys, glad it was everything you both wanted
Aww it was so emotional, I was a bit overwhelmed but it was so kind and special!
Same!!!
Love your approach to everything !
Thank you!
Meeting you before watching you has made me feel protective- Brogan and Benji you are blessed and a blessing 💕🙏
Love love love all your videos am soo happy for you both want too wish you a very happy marriage you are really are a great couple all the best thanks for sharing xx
Hehe happy to have been woken up at 5am 😊 loved the video! 💕
It has been so lovely to follow all your wedding plans and amazing travels. Massive congratulations to you both ❤
Thank you so much! xx
I have loved watching your vlogs for years. this wedding video made me a bit tearful, as it was just so lovely to see that you are both so happy with your special day and are so in love. Sending loads of love to you both xx
Absolutely loved the photo of you on the deck on your own ❤
Huge continued congrats - love hearing the behind the scenes!!
Oh congratulations your wedding looked amazing ❤
Such a great celebration of the two of you! Honestly so lovely to see you both so so happy! ❤❤
Thank you so much Sarah! xx
I’ve absolutely loved watching all your wedding-related videos ❤ and I don’t even plan on ever getting married myself 😅 The love and respect you and Benji have for each other shows - you two are true couple goals 🙏🏻
Yayyyy been looking forward to seeing this. Thankyou for a lovely surprise on a Saturday morning xx
Thanks Rochelle for watching! xx
I love going back and opening our fragrance bottles! Best wedding tip ever.
Adorable couple ❤❤
Wonderful video, I have enjoyed every minute of it....thank you for sharing all about your magical day and party. Wishing you both every blessing for the future...x
I absolutely love you two and all that you stand for. You are one of the most lovely, perfect couples and were made for each other. The love between you is so apparent and long May it last. The perfect wedding for the perfect couple. I wish you all the love & luck in the world xx❤️🎊🎉🥂🍾xx
Ah so lovely to see my question/not question included! 1:12
Love the ‘you do what’s right for you’ vibe throughout this! So refreshing!! ❤
Love this ❤ xx
What an amazing trip you must have had, so happy for you both 😊 x
It was incredible, I still can't believe we did it to be honest!! x
Huge congratulations to you both. Your content is fabulous and its so clear how much you both enjoy your life together. Keep being you xxx
Thank you, Samantha! xx
What a lovely video this was! I love hearing how you both please yourselves and prioritise yourselves as that truly is what a marriage is all about! Each other ❤
Loved watching xxx ❤
Brilliant vlog again! The love and togetherness shines from both of you! Your wedding was amazing! We have been married 43yrs and the choices weren't there in those days, our traditional style wedding meant we didn't spend any time together on the day, would have LOVED to do it your way!
Huge congratulations to you both and hope 43yrs later you still do things the way YOU want to! ❤
Loved this so much, you’ve made me feel so at ease with doing things our way when we get married so thank you! So happy for you both 🤍🤍🤍
I loved to hear all the details about your weddingday en weddingparty. Made me relive mine a little bit, 18 years ago 😊. Also loved the vlogseries on the cruise. Looking forward to future vlogs from mr and mrs Lever 😃.
We also eloped in NYC 🙋🏼♀️ and absolutely loved that you’re normalising this ❤
I think you did the wedding perfect for you guys. You guys look so very happy.
You look so happy and radiant!! Congratulations again❤️
Thank you so much!! xx
Stunning from Start to finish… I’m so so sorry about Bonnie!!! Bless your hearts ❤️🩹
Lovely! The perfect getting ready for work video that I need this morning.Can’t wait to listen to this XX
Aww enjoy! Have a good day! xx
What a lovely vlog Brogan you had the best wedding of your life and just what you wanted. You are an amazing couple and you can see you were made for each other. Congratulations once again and now you can look towards a wonderful life together.❤️❤️
I have loved all your wedding content . I got married 35 years ago this year and I would do so many things differently now if i had my chance again as it was expected to have the big wedding /reception back then! It has been lovely to see you do everything that is right for you . Congratulations again Mr & Mrs Lever❤
Thank you so much! xx
Aw congratulations both of you. Your dress is beautiful ❤🎉😊
Congratulations Guys! Love watching your videos! am glad you both did what felt right for you as a couple!💖💖👍
Love hearing all about your day, I'm an Independent Travel Agent and I'm currently helping someone to book there wedding in Cyprus for next year, they are struggling with the hotel as everyone wants different things. So organising a wedding for 35 people is 100% new to me so your tips are helping me with my client and her wedding, like you say its about you and no one else on the day ❤
Y’all are such a sweet couple! You both looked absolutely stunning on the big day! Thank you for sharing so much. We all can see how genuine you two are and the deep love you share.❤
Just amazing and beautiful 🥰 it has been so so lovely to follow along on your wedding journey and I am so happy for you both 😃❤️🥂🍾 xxxxxx
Such a perfect vlog to end your wedding journey! Thank you for all the videos youve done! 2 weeks to go until i become a mrs and i cant wait to feel all of these emotions 🥹❤️
Congratulations you two!! It was so wonderful to hear your experience. Your love for each other just radiates. I'm so happy to see that you went for a wedding that was perfect for the two of you. It inspires us to look for the same ❤️ Cheers to many many wedding anniversaries!
Congratulations. You had a beautiful wedding and all about you and Benji and what you both wanted. I love watching all your adventures. You are a beautiful couple. 💜💙
This was honestly the sweetest video ever 😍 Am a recent newlywed too and definitely echo the excitement you mention about calling each other "my husband / wife"! Huge congratulations to you both - wishing you a long and happy life together ❤️ 🎉
Love really is everything, doing what makes you happy is definitely the best idea. You looked so beautiful Brogan and Benji looked amazing too. You looked so relaxed and happy...perfect 🩷❤️🩷❤️
It's lovely that you did everything in a way that felt personal to you. Congratulations!
It’s so right to do what is right for you! Also what an EPIC adventure that you’ll remember forever! Has been great having a glimpse of it through your amazing vlogs! How amazing that everyone stood up clapped for you at the evening meal on your wedding day! Great to hear more about your day ✨
Missed you Brogan! Loved this vid. You give such brilliant big sister vibes 🥰
25 yrs after the fact and I still have no regrets about our wedding. You and Benji created the perfect day to start your lives together and I loved being along for the ride. I hope my boys will do the same with their partners when the time comes. ❤ congratulations 🍾🥂
Brogan you are so inspiring and positive I just love watching you. I suffer from depression and your videos make me feel better on those hard days. So I just want to thank you for being such a beautiful person. Congratulations on your wedding. Thank you Jennifer 😊
Your both a joy to watch, what ever your doing....you bounce off each other so naturally, I have enjoyed watching this wedding cruise and still catching up on past stuff now I know you so well 🤭
Omg my question! Hehe - so glad you had a beautiful day you deserve it xx
Thanks for asking it! Aww thank you xx
i'm only ten minutes into this video but hearing you guys talk about your love literally makes me tear up with happiness, it's just so beautiful and genuine. i'm so happy for both of you 💖
Huge Congratulations again B and Benji!!! Ye are such a beautiful couple and best friends! Love ye
Thank you so much!! xx
Our wedding was a bit less traditional but it really suited us and this year we celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. I really think people should do it their way as what is important is the couple,their day and their future ❤ congratulations again x
I love what benj says at the beginning about why you did your wedding your way❤Definitely inspired us to elope and do it in a non traditional way! Your wedding dress was one of the most beautiful ive seen it suited you so well and looked stunning 😍
Amazing! I hope you had a wonderful day. Thank you so much! xx
Aww I'm so happy for you and benji, you's make an amazing couple😁 love your videos, keep up the great work 👍
Thanks so much! xx
You both look so happy 😃 ❤ x
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such a beautiful but very factual video, so cute so happy to see you both so happy xx
Hey sweetie 🤗 loved watching this Q&A 😊 I’ve always been able to see the special bond both you and Benj have for each other and just seeing you both at the beginning of this video filled my heart. From what you have shared about your wedding we can all see how perfect and truly special your day / honeymoon cruise was. I cannot wait to stay on this amazing adventure with you both and I am truly excited for what is next for Mr and Mrs Lever ☺️ Sending so much love to you both ♥️ xxx
So happy for you both 💓 💗 💖 I love your channel , so fun and relaxing to watch.. stay happy u both. Your wedding dress is perfect for u.. you look stunning. ❤ CONGRATULATIONS 🎊
Thank you so much!! That is so kind of you xx
You’re totally right about doing what YOU want. My parents wedding was hijacked by their parents and they ended up having a big wedding when they’d have rather done it close family only.
When we got married my parents made the point that it was our day and that we should do exactly what we wanted and not be pressurised by others’ opinions.
The only downside was that they then had to be really pushed to provide an opinion when we asked for one! 😂
Our day was exactly what we wanted though. We had such a good day and I’ll always look back on it fondly.
Congratulations again to you both!
We didn’t have a traditional wedding as we were both married in uniform , Keith bulled my shoes , you could see the colour of your eyes in my shoes ! We’ve been married since 1980 ! Loved that you both did the wedding on your terms ! The vlog was absolutely beautiful and you both looked stunning ! Congratulations x
What an lovely Q & A!!! And I'm CAUGHT UP!!! 😍😍😍 Your wedding was so beautiful!!! You both looked amazing and I'm so happy you made it the day you wanted!!! My husband and I did non-traditional also. We had been living together for nearly fourteen years and shortly after we went into covid lockdown, in March of 2020 we decided to write a ceremony to handfast ourselves. Nothing was done legally, but we still call ourselves husband and wife and feel married. We may have a legal ceremony at some point, but we haven't felt the need for one yet. Our ways of incorporating family members was to each wear nearly associated with them. Thank you for sharing your wedding details! Continued love and health to you and Benji from across the pond!!! 💜💜💜
i woke up early to watch this video! so so happy for you and benji, you’re both made for each other xx💗
You're so sweet! Thank you so much! xx
Well the wedding is over on to the next chapter as a married couple can't wait to join you in your journey as a married couple
You are the perfect match. Heres to many more years together x
Congratulations Brogan and Benji! ♥️. Brogan you are beaming during the whole video!!!! 🙂🌸🙂🌸 you and Benji are so lovely 🥰 take care. Sending all the love 💕
O this brought back happy memories. Our day was very long with lots of driving. But we arent a traditional couple so it was still lots of fun. Very true the husband and wife thing still throws me. We also had a party a few days after the wedding day so glad did it that way and saved a fortune. Finally having our honeymoon on Norwegian fjords on iona next year. Fab video. X
congratulations. you guys are amazing inside and out. God bless you both love Tania UAE
Thank you for this Q&A ❤️ Watching your whole journey from engagement to wedding has been really refreshing and engaging and it's made me realise just how much control both me and my gf can have over our future wedding one day (we're not engaged but have discussed us being married). We're a lesbian couple anyway so our wedding will never be traditional but there's also a lot of things we don't agree with either in traditional weddings nor do we have loads of friends so seeing you and Benji do it all for yourselves is really eye opening and inspiring 🥰 Because I agree, a marriage is about you two not about anyone else and doing the wedding with exactly what you want is such a brilliant way to set that foundation for the start of your marriage and life together 🎉
Thank you so much! We love to hear that! I hope whatever day you choose to have is so special. Sending love and the same to you both! xx
I enjoyed your wedding series. I was a new subscriber. Well done you both looked very beautiful precious gorgeous on your day. Still wouldn't go on a cruise but loved watching you both enjoy your journey. Fantastic series from someone who doesn't want to be in the water for more than is necessary. Your energy is infectious and I wish you both the best, love, and light future possible
Thank you so much, big warm welcome and thank you for subscribing! That is so kind, sending the best to you too! x
We’ve been married now for 43 years and we did it our way in 1980 ,so I totally understand why you chose to do it your way ! Your vlogs were beautiful and a lasting memory for you both x
I absolutely enjoyed watching your whole cruise vlog. Congratulations to you both. My two sons both had " unconventional weddings". One with an afternoon tea in a hotel with both sets of parents, siblings, and 3 guests. Both weddings were perfect. My daughter had a conventional wedding and that was also beautiful. The choice of wedding should always be personal.
You and Benj so remind Amanda and myself of us.As you know we got married in New York went out alone and every word you have said was us. 25 years later in October. Wishing you both a wonderful life together ❤
Loved that q&a ,I've been married 35 years in June to my 1st boyfriend 😊 watching you video was lovely your such a special couple ,huge congratulations 🎊
Looking forward to the next video 😊
Love your journey. Make me feel like I was there
Aww thank you!
Congrats again on your wedding 🥂🍾 , you looked beautiful Brogan the dress was amazing and benji look handsome you both looked like you had a wonderful day , I loved the part in the wedding video of you both walking away of the deck it was really nice ……..❤❤❤❤ thanks for sharing the cruise and the wedding ❤
Thank you so so much! xx