it’s time to LET GO and stop struggling…
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hello my angels ! today's video is a bit particular because I wanted to share with you some big mindset shifts I have had around letting go and releasing anxiety and control that have truly changed my life. I feel like especially as creatives we try to control as a way to feel a sense of being safe, when in reality we are keeping the magic of the universe out of the equation by sending the message that our ego can do it all on our own. Everytime I have ever attracted abundance or manifested something I was dreaming of, it was when I let go of attachment to a certain outcome and focused instead on feeling good and the process of getting there. Anyway, I hope you find my own personal story and experiences inspiring or motivational to your own journey. I know that we have been taught for so long that we need to hold on tightly and work hard or struggle to reach our goals, and now everyone is talking about lucky girl syndrome like it's a delusional self help idea, but truly in my experience anytime I have ever experienced abundance was when I was able to release and trust. anyway, thank you for watching! if you enjoyed you can subscribe for videos every Tuesday xx
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"when I was a little girl I used to spend hours looking for ladybugs. Finally, I'd just give up and fall asleep in the grass. When I woke up, they were crawling all over me." 🐞 (from under the tuscan sun). Happy birthday Shayna!!! ✨
Whew!! I love this so much 🥲❤ Thank you for sharing this beautiful and timely quote.
i love ladybirds :)
Love that!
No TH-cam channel has ever brought me as much emotional healing as yours. This year, I gave up my fear of failure and finally created an Instagram account. It sounds silly, but I stopped myself from doing it FOR YEARS. I let my perfectionism paralyze me. Your channel helped me to let go. I create from a place of joy and it has been one of the best decisions I've ever made for myself. Thank you for reminding me that it's okay to choose me, and to put joy first ❤️
Sam thank you so much for sharing. I feel so validated reading your comment. I’m hoping I will be like you next year and finally put myself out there. I’ve been so afraid to put my music on instagram and even post because of my fear of failure, perfectionism, shame. I’m hopeful I can get to the place where I let go and put joy first. It’s so nice to see I’m not alone- far from it. Sending you so much love. Thank you for validating me through your vulnerability. ❤️
You seem cool. What’s your insta lol just trying to have similar minded people on my feed.
@@MA-rk2om I can tell that you have a lot of passion that you want to share with the world! Can you imagine if you gave it your all? I have no doubt that you'll find your joy once you let yourself have it ❤️
so proud of you!!!!! I love you!!!
@@thepurplepalace85 I love you too, Shayna! Thank you for sharing your heart with the world and for helping samspantsandplants to happen ❤️
I had an affirmation come to me right before an intimidating interview with three senior producers from a big news org last week: "I am not attached to the outcome, I am PRESENT to the EXPERIENCE" --- it has low-key become my mantra in the last week!!
I was more relaxed/honest during the interview than I'd usually be and it worked in my favor -- I got out of the interview and had an email offer for a *different* job that I thought I'd been passed over for. I ended up choosing that different job, and the news org told me they'd have an offer for me in the spring (my work is project-based documentary). The new job has been amazing and I feel so surrounded by creative people who want the best for me! I used the same mantra before a first date last night. In the past I've held on really tight to what I thought I needed to be successful, but you're so right that letting go is the best way to unblock the energy! happy birthday, enjoy your time away
what a lovely mantra !~
Now I think I am finally clear on my goals for the year: Enjoy the process. Have fun. Let go. Hope you have a wonderful birthday, Shayna.
The message made me cry a little, because I am actually struggling so badly, I have forgotten myself, Im tired, and yes you're right I choose to let go... you are my angel actually, thanks for being here, have a wonderful birthday Shay!💝💌
Thank you for these words of wisdom. I don’t know or remember anything I let go of. I tend to overthink things, and cannot relax or be in the moment. So when I am impulsive, I go all out. Because it rarely ever happens. I played Minecraft yesterday, which I haven’t for a long time, and I just sat there and enjoyed myself, building and tearing down. And I stopped thinking so much and it was wonderful.
I was completely sobbing 3 minutes into this video, the energy you put out is so relieving 🕊
I am catching up on the videos of yours that I have not seen and I just wanted to say thank you from another Aquarius. This paradigm really resonated with me. This is exactly how I am living now and I have stopped being depressed and anxious the moment I chose to just have fun, be in the moment and make art without carrying about the outcome.
Shayna your videos bring so much clarity to my life. It's so hard for me to let go and is a constant theme in my therapy sessions, but what you say is exactly what I try to tell myself. But it's amazing to hear someone else voice those insecurities and desires. It's a relief to see that there's a community of people struggling with similar feelings and experiences to me.
I am painting my home and listening to your videos back to back. Such wise words. Thank you for sharing.
I was diagnosed with endometriosis. I was put on a bunch of pain killers basically telling me I really have no hope unless I get a hysterectomy....I have been really burdened with this and having Chronic fatigue syndrome after having covid the first time being a sick for a month and never full recovering my strength / energy. I was lost...depressed...I finally chose me and let go I can't solve all these issues by myself. I found a PT instructor to help me who gave guidance and winks of hope I could get better. I found a acupuncturist that almost serves as my therapist that I let go of that control and just melted being open in my healing process. Over finally letting go of that control and that nothing is wrong with me mindset I received the support I needed. The universe sent me little signals of hope even watching your videos I believe is another way of the universe sending hope, encouragement, and support too...
Thank you for being a powerful women spiritual guide. You do make a difference and hearing a fellow artist story and encourgement gives me motivation to keep pushing to keep just loving myself and allowing the path the universe has made for me to take effect.
no shayna... the whole part abt ur angels working thru u to help u accomplish ur dreams cos they'd do sm better than u is SO true. u do sound like phoebe from friends but i LOVED her and i LOVE you!! you remind me life isnt as constructed as capitalism makes it appear to be. there is magic and miracles and sustenance and it is meant to be fun and magical and serendipitous!! i find myself writing tonnes of quotes by you in my journal because you remind me to create magic everywhere i go and breathe magic and see magic and i am so in awe and inspired by you!! i am so grateful to exist along the same timeline as you!!! you r amazing and angels are our cowriters in this universe n the next!
Thank you for awakening the wisdom in my heart!
Yes, well, I wanted for so long to move in to a cottage and live a countrlife close to nature and the more I thought about it, the more it felt like it was slipping away from me ... but now that I've released that thought and let it be for a while, it has sort of worked on its own and now the vision is hatching and I am finally moving ...
Happy, happy birthday in advance!!
Wow, this is so strange for me. I literally wrote a massive journal entry a few hours ago that listed every single one of my fantasies of the future, so that I could let them all go.. Let them go without disparaging or disrespecting them, but just so I can be open to what is going to be, instead of letting my strong visions dictate all my present actions. ❤️☺️🔥 Enjoy Greece!
Thank you shining star for the kind words! Happy B Day!
This was exactly what I needed to hear today
wow, this video really shifted my perspective. a time when i let go of something was when i had a really big test. the first time i took it, i was so nervous and fearful, but the second time i took it i just let it go. i did a LOT better on the second time i took it!
This is literally, like, the best video ever. I feel courageous 🧝🏼♀️💫
Mine was similar in the way that I actually got what I "thought" I wanted and pushed For and once I did OMG! I hated it and pulled out! I was not sure what to do but I knew it wasn't for me and that something was better for me. So I stepped back and sure enough it has arrived and I am moving forward, grateful, thankful, peaceful and blessed. The doors are opening now better than I even could have planned. Example my new space, I knew I wanted to move and really REALLY wanted to move...but let it go (that's the short of it) and BAM! a place came TO ME that I never even know I could get!! But the universe has worked it so that I have and I am in this wonderful place. So, don't stop planning and dreaming but Let go...know but then don't know...Let it Go...Trust! 😊Keep you energy on you (headphone example good one).
HAPPY DAY TO YOU!! KEEP CREATING AND BEING YOU AND THE BEST WILL COME TO US!!
You always have PERFECT TIMING. Whew!!!!!! The trajectory of my life has changed. I’m so damn serious. Patreon here I come. Sign me up. This is THEE message I needed. I can’t thank you enough for taking the time making this video. I feel this radiating feeling like my brain and heart are evolving and UN-learning by hearing your words. Your life is truly art. The way you share and tap in is profound. Truly a gift. You are so beloved. So invaluable. Thank you for making this. I hope you have the most magical abundantly and sublime birthday/ new year.
I'm watching this whilst editing my video about facing fear, and I feel like I'm putting it on a pedestal, and not having fun with it and in general I haven't posted in a while because of what you said lol I needed to hear these words, thank you!
Omg same, except I’m procrastinating editing a collaging video that will be my first in about 6 years… It was so important to hear those words, and also see how many likeminded human beings are struggling with the exact same issues. I'm looking forward to your new video!
@@sofiiawithtwoeyes 👏 It is never too late to restart! I’m as well looking forward to see yours!
It happens to me every time. I forget about what I was trying so hard for and then it pops right into my life. I’m a person who is very goal oriented, but it’s hard to make goals when you don’t know what the end result will be. I guess that’s where the idea of just having fun with what you are called to do or create comes in and the universe will take care of everything else. Yep! That’s the plan Shayna, you got it! Have fun in Greece! 🎂
Letting go, being present, celebrating yourself, and enjoying the process of it all is so honorable whilst we out this short & magical life we live. So much love to you now and especially for your birthday, you sweetheart of an aquarian. Thank you for enlightening everyone. I think you sound wise, clever, and insightful.
I needed this video. I'm preparing for an audition at a school I really want to get into and have been putting too much pressure on the outcome. Thank you for this reminder to let go.💐
Just be. You are already in your perfection, and always have been, even when pretending otherwise.
Happy Birthday Shayna! Thank you so much for your Love, xo 🦋💗🎉🥂🎂👑💃
Loooove love love love the analogy with trying to chase a dog. I have a cat and the situation is even worse! You very consciously have to adjust your energy and convince yourself and the cat that you're just "joining them" to see what interesting thing has caught their eye. Any attempt at capture/control means they're escaping into a hiding spot you can't even physically access!
thank you so much for this video... I am applying this year for the 3rd time in a row at two art schools in Berlin and I am constantly so anxious about getting the results and whether they take me or not... I am also working on my portfolio everyday right now. I will keep doing it till the end of March, but maybe also put a bit more trust into the universe as you said. sending you a virtual hug! and thank you again for those words of wisdom. they came in the right time Xx
You speak to my HEART!! Just received your journal in the mail a few days ago and have been loving it so much. Thank you for being you and for healing through words, art, and writing 💖🫶🏻
You are such an angel. Your channel is where I come when I want to feel safe and supported. Love you 🤍
I think this mentality goes for anything in life. If you just let go and trust yourself, you'll be able to tackle anything life throws at you. I had such horrible anxiety last year and I had to learn that I couldn't control the outcomes, the only thing I could control was my reaction to it. And I found that this helped in the creative process as well. Its this free, chaotic, wild energy that I can easily tap into now because I just think "You have everything you need." I don't have to wait for something to happen or for myself to be good enough, I can just start and then everything else will fall into place. Whether we believe that's powered by ourselves as individuals or by "angels" I think at the very least that type of mentality can give us peace of mind.
That's so true!!! Aaaaaaa you are so right, thank you for the reminder, I will save this video for every time I start to get too much in control of things in my head ❣️
I really like the one week challenge. I am currently looking for a job and i am so impatient. I was refused for some ordinary job, and the guy told me to not give up because i can find something better. I see this as a sign that there is something better meant for me, even though i wanted that one (its just shelf stocking). Sometimes we cling onto things that are really not meant for us
Your spirit is so refreshing and authentic. Love your rambles 😄 Eloquent message this one. So true, learn to let go and revel in the moment. Do what I love and have faith that my Goddess has my back 👍 Happy Birthday beautiful soul and enjoy your Grecian adventure 🥰🎂🍾🥂
Happy Birthday, beautiful soul! :) Thank you for this valuable lesson. I often found myself holding smth with my teeth, but when I finally let go, good things started happening. I find it especially hard to let go when you are a constant stressed person as I am...so I need to work on that!
i looooved the style and message of this vid, it's something i've been thinking about a lot too. The last couple of years my husband and I tried to get a homestead SO BAD and the more desperate we got the further it got. But now that we realigned our goals to just move out of the country and travel instead, I fully believe this is the right thing for us and the universe was protecting us :) it's shifted my mindset a lot in regards to letting things happen and what i "think" I need. happy birthday and enjoy greece!!
Such a beautiful l video, thank you Shayna! ❤
i really loved what you said about "choosing yourself', and "let go of your ego"...this is soooo true. I had cases where i was really clinging on to a goal, for a very important matter in my life, and at some point i thought...wait a minute...who I am to demand something from life? why should i be so greedy or spoilt in that sense. life is so large and there are so many other beautiful thing out there to do! if one door is closed, there must be a reason for it, or is not a good time. so let's go back to love ourselves and love where we are already and what we have achieved so far. be proud of who we are now.
i loved the way you put it, to let the energy flow. 🙏thank you! x
girl... your energy is so incredible, really. thank you so much for all your wisdom and time and effort!!!
happy birthday fellow aquarius! hope you have the best time!
I let go of adopting a cat, which I've wanted for 24 years. & for some reason, one month later, my mom said she'd get me one for my 25th birthday. Let go & Let God & you shall receive. Pure magic!! Her name is Boo and she is black with green eyes. I couldn't recommend rescuing a kitty more, so I hope you are still considering it!
Much love xxxx :)
I CAN NOT tell you HOW MUCH I needed this video, you are awesome!! Keep shining, smiling, and thriving!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
it's late at night where I live and I feel like we're having a sleepover discussing life lol 💗 I needed to hear everything you said in this vid right now, thank you so much
You are unforgettable! Take that week, girl, and Happiest Birthday to you! Xx
I took a break for a year because I was in a really stuck/physically unwell place and watching was going to cause ugly feelings of envy but now I’m re-enrolled in school and feeling the creative flow again!
Glad to be back and glad to be able to put some good energy into this community again!!
This was so helpful and I neeeeeeeeeded this.
Thank you for your videos!!!
Happy birthday Shayna! I am proud of you, and I am proud of myself,too. Love you.
This def impacted me! Thanks and happy bday!
I’ve come back to this video 3 times in these past few weeks and likely will continue. Great message!
Just what I needed to hear today, thank you for this message !
I really resonated with this video, especially as someone who struggles with putting myself out there and letting fear dictate my life. Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities surrounding this topic. One thing I’ve always admired about your channel is the positive messages you so openly share with others/your audience - I’ve always appreciated that.
Thank you Shayna!!! You are on the spot! And happy birthday!!! Hugs
Thank you for these words ahhhh my heart feels happy💖🙏🏻 For my school I could get selected to be part of an exhibition (here at stedelijk in amsterdam), but your idea needed to be chosen. I put in a lot of work but when I send it in, I felt completely free and like whatever, I did my best, I like my idea and will create it anyways, if I get chosen or not. And then I got chosen! So yesss resonates a lot forsure🌈✨✨
This totally spoke to me today!! Something I've been working on more recently is being specific with my goals, but not being attached to the "how", which I think is what you're saying here. Put it out there in the universe, then sit back and trust the process, even if it doesn't look like what you expected
I really needed to hear this perspective today 💕 thank you 💕
Preach Girl Preach I luv that I saw this video Great message
Happy birthday and thanks for all the great videos :) you are so authentic its so refreshing.
love you shayna and happy early birthday!!!! so grateful for your wisdom and creative inspiration
❤ thank you so much! For all the inspiration and for just being you. Happy Birthday Shayna! 🎊
This brought me so much comfort. Thank you so much, Shayna ❤
Happy Birthday! Enjoy Greece. Love you! 🌸
Happy 🎂Birthday Beautiful 🥳Shayna! 🎉 May all your wishes and dreams be filled with lots of fun and lots of blessings. God and the Angels Bless you, Queen of the Purple Palace. 💖💝💜
I love the juxtaposition of all the video snippets. A beautiful message and a beautiful video.
thank you so much for this shayna. i really need it. happy birthday to you :)
you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. thank you for sharing. and happy birthday!!!
Happy birthday, Aquarius Queen! Thank you so much for this video. You are a treasure ❤
this video honestly made my day/ in school for art therapy & sooo needed to hear this
Thank you SO much for this video, Shayna. I'm so grateful for your channel and your energy.
This hits so close to home! I'm in a very (publishing) career oriented uni program and one time we had to interview each other on like career goals and where we see ourself in the future. I noticed when talking to my partner that I did not really have a lot of concrete goals - and at first I saw this as a negative thing. But talking to my interview partner I realized it's a good thing: I am open to any opportunity that feels good and I trust that things will go right for me. My partner had many concrete goals like being in a book jury, but admitted she felt very stressed and burnt out because of the pressure she puts on herself.. :(
Thank you so much perfect timing working on letting go and taking expectations off a pedestal and this is the perfect reminder to go deeper into meditation and journalling for trust and deserving
I've been watching you for quite some time and never actually expressed my gratitude for all the positivity and inspiration you provide, so THANK YOU. I've just ordered your beautiful "Dreams come true" journal to celebrate my essay being published :-) It was really hard for me to overcome the fear of sharing my words with anyone and I'm actually proud of myself for going through with it. I'm going to use your notebook to write my second novel, can't wait to get my hands on it :-) ps. Happy Birthday !
Thank you for your upbeat vibe and encouragement Shayna! from a fellow artist who has been spending too much time on the couch watching youtube (it's minus 20 degrees here) anyway I'm putting on my dungarees now and working on a painting that's been sitting on my easel basically untouched for weeks. You're right and I know that being creative is soul food. Have a fantastic birthday week! :)
Thank you for be the authentic version of yourself Shayna ❤ You are truly magical 💕✨
Thank you for this video. Made my day!
well this was more beneficial than therapy!
Thank you so much for your words, Shayna!
Happy birthday 💕 have a magical holiday! 🤗
I feel like I really needed to hear these thoughts you presented to the world
I’ve gotten into a situation that I’ve been trying to force to have an outcome I want but I don’t think it’s going to happen
It may be difficult to deal with but hopefully like you said things will get taken care of if I just let things be ❤
I relate so hard to this, love your energy in this video!
Thank you so much for this video. I enjoy writing and I'm currently at University, as a mature student. Your video is helping me a LOT. :D All the best for you.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABEEEE!
I had to watch/listen to this video again cuz I needed my Shayna fix!! I know you’re off to Greece enjoying some time away for your birthday!! Can’t wait to see what you share next!!! Miss you! 💖U
Happy Birthday!💜
WOW. I can't express enough how much I needed this exact message, and how deeply it resonates with me right now. I think it's the combo of the start of a new year, and my 29th birthday coming up that has had me feeling a lot of internal pressure to make EVERYTHING happen with my music right this moment; it has been weighing heavily on my shoulders. But, you are so spot on that when you loosen your attempt to control life, you allow the magic to flow. At leasttt for a more positive & enjoyable energy behind the creative process, because we ALL deserve to enjoy creating, just as we are right now. It is truly such a gift.
I appreciated your anecdote about not getting into the first art school and coming up with this whole other plan of how to go about your artistic path. I feel the same way about myself as a musician: there is absolutely nothing in the world that could stop me, I just find ways to adapt. I will always be an artist no matter what, it's in the blueprint of my soul.
I have some important recording sessions to finish up my 3rd album tomorrow, and I'll be carrying the message of this video with me. You have been such a friend to me on my journey, I can't thank you enough. I have never commented a big thing like this before, but you inspired me to be open. I love this community and always get inspired by the whole comment section as well, so thanks for reading to anyone who has stumbled across my comment, too!
Much love to you and happy birthday Shayna!!
I have problems with letting go, and this was really helpful. Your videos are always the day before my therapy session, and they are always so thought provoking that I end up bringing up something you've mentioned in my session. I'm an artist too, and the way you approach art and life is inspiring to me, because you are so positive. I can be very cynical, and you remind me that beneath my cynicism and sometimes bitterness, there is a sensitive, sweet person under there that is okay and safe to bring out of hiding.
Just wanted to share a bit about how you impact people.
Wishing you A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY WITH ENDLESS BLESSINGS SHAYNA 💝💖🎂🍭
I'm so glad I chose to watch this video today of all days during breakfast. Your thought-provoking theories always make me reflect on myself and my fast-paced life, when I forget what it feels like to take a step back in a constant cycle of worry and stress. I really appreciate what you do and how much you inspire everyone here ❤️❤️❤️
Wow this video is so fitting right now ❤ it’s like you made it just for me lol thank you 🥰 I’m going to stop chasing the bloody dog lol. Keelan x
Needed this so much. Ty ❤️
I needed to hear this as an artist ❤ thank you 🙏🏻
Happy birthday Shaynaaaaa!! You are our Aquarian queeeeeeen
Thank you so much ❤️ this was all I needed after this week :)
I will let go of choosing the “right” department in art school. Every single one I decide to choose will guide me towards the path I will enjoy and learn from. I can’t wait for this new experience and will turn the anxiety into excitement 🥰
Thank you for this video, I really needed to hear this ❤ 🌈
Happy Birthday, My Bday is this week too. Its interesting, sometimes I have already done the things you are suggesting without realizing it. Then you mention that thing and I think "Oh yeah, that DID work". Like putting money on a pedestal. I have lived for a long time with that fear and panic around money and my worth of it. Then in the last few years when I have felt that panic start up, I switched gears and told myself, "It will be fine, the money will come and you ARE valuable." and then a check will show up in the mail or a person will by a piece of furniture I have flipped at a higher price than I have ever charged and talk about the amazing deal they are getting - making me realize I am even more valuable than I gave myself cred it for. The big shift in thinking, for me, came when I realized, there are plenty of people in the world who will discourage, dislike and devalue me...I refuse to be one of them. I would never do it to someone else. Why would I do it to me?
You are a constant sort of inspiration and affirmation. Enjoy your Bday!
This is so inspiring as usual. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and experiences so generously.
Thanks for watching!
enjoy your break!! thank you for sharing your truth 💗🥀✨️🌿🎶
Happy birthday when it arrives have a fabulous day x
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Shayna, I cannot thank you enough for the beautiful and enlightening energy that you spread to everyone on TH-cam. I'm so glad you use your gifts and genuine good heart to uplift and help others. I've never felt so happy and inspired watching any other person on TH-cam
Happy birthday! Hope it’s great.
I needed this today, happy early bday
Can you make a video on dealing with being impatient? I'm the type of person who wants fast results and I struggle with letting go and just trusting in the universe.