My dark life with my Guinea husband and how I almost came back to Kenya without my children | LNN
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- When Carol embarked on a new life in Guinea with her bags packed and four kids in tow, all she envisioned was a fresh start with her beloved husband.
But destiny had a different script written for her. From integrating into new rituals to facing the harrowing loss of her husband in unforeseen circumstances, Carol's journey took a turn she never anticipated. After 15 years, this brave mother found herself fighting for her family's safety, far from what she once called home.
In today's gripping episode of the LNS Rebuilding series, Carol opens up about her rollercoaster life story - from love at first sight in Kenya, the adventurous leap to Guinea, to the heart-wrenching events that followed, leading to a quest for survival and lessons that changed her life forever.
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My take from this story is life is truly spiritual and wisdom is vital in life especially in marriage, and if one doesn't have, to ask God for it.
The moment they insisted on smelting your wedding ring (the symbol of your marriage), they were spiritually dissolving it. Life is indeed spiritual.
Pole sana to you and your kids. I send you love and light.
Can the geust be referred to LIFE IS SPIRITUAL
Hi Lynn, May God bless you for the good work you are doing🙏
How can I reach you? Please I'd like you to share a story of a lady called Rose Charles, interviewed by another a while ago(3 yrs ago)....this lady needs help, her 3 children were taken away from her.
MaThank you for
Life is spiritual, lets pray for our families, its sad, thank God you stil have your children alive atleast , God will comfort you , you have an intelligent son.
one thing am learning from this story is if your husband is keeping distance from his people ....dont force to be close...he knows why
This is soo true,and the husband tried to warn her
Million times abeg.
Exactly!!!if she had it would save her from all this trauma you never know what you save yourself from
She was young then, but her mother should've advised her..even when it came to buying or building a home right here at home, they had children so in case of anything the house would be left with her .there are so many lessons to learn from her story, praying that you will just get back to your feet like you did it before.
Sure. The almost the same happened to me but their is power in the name of Jesus. Sacrificed six people in my late husband's family and him, now seven people. I kept off completely from them, attacked my daughter spiritually but called on Jesus for deliverance and the the people who were behind it, have received God's judgement and am now active in ministry. It shall be well with you Siz. Stand with God and no evil shall cling to you and children.
Can we just acknowledge how powerfully this man loved his wife and children? I see Christians are the ones bashing her for leaving her faith to be married by a muslim man. Religion aside,this man loved his wife in the most noble way. He even sacrificed his own life for his family..Some same religion couples don't even get to experience love this way. True,pure and young love.Some of us wish we could get even a quatre of such kind of love. I pray that God will bless me with a husband who will love me just as selflessy.And..all things work together for good to them that love God. Lovely and well brought up children especially the son that we see here came from this beautiful union. Thankyou Carol for your story. All is well
Well said, Love knows no bounds
Well put. This man loved Carol right. May His soul RIP
You've spoken like 1000 wise men!
I agree with you he loved her
In all carol went through..God was still with her and husband..religion out of question..she was the light that God used on her husbands family to convey a message of love..see how even during critical moment the husband was praying for her..am moved and with time this prayers wont go in vain....we shall hear her come and testify
Thank you Carol for sharing your story. 4 things have learnt;
1. Obedience- husband gave lots of warnings.
2. Involve your immediate family I.e Mum/ dad/ siblings when making enormous decisions in this case travelling overseas with family. 3.Listening to the inside man and being aware of the red flags.
4. Most of all, Always Pray and ask God for his guidance, protection and to empower you with his discernment.
God bless you all.😊
💯
Carol God is faithful, atakushangaza, your son has made me w
You should feed your mum and dad, the rest should help themselves.
Very true
Moha literally brought tears in my eyes ....he's just an AMAZING son. May God provide for him and his siblings so that they go back to school. Carol..... you're in my prayers. You're a strong woman with a heart of gold.
This lady her life just opened...Mark this comment, someone will take her children to school..God will see her through business
Amen and Amen 🙏🙏
In Jesus name!!!!! Amen.
Amen
A big amen to this!
Amen thank you for your positive response
This boy is a perfect candidate for a scholarship from a Kenyan international school.
Kumbe uko huku comment section? 😂😂😂😂😂
@@cynthianina6594 😂😂😂😂😂
From this story please give your life to Jesus Africa is a dark place all of us need Jesus that only way to beat this evil deed s my sister go give you family to Jesus for their future
Not sure whether she is stupid or ignorant or she mightier than thou, the same uncles who sacrificed her husband 😮
@@ronkeiweibo9009we have Allah, Jesus was a messenger of Allah
Almost married a Guinean man but when I sensed his family preferred a Guinean woman I changed my mind best decesion ever
Ilived there when my country had war for three years, there is nothing they did not do to my country people
@@meldawilliams1636😳😳 omg! That’s crazy!
I got you, but the man you wanted to marry with, if he really wants you she have the last world, family thosent really matter, I’m also from Guine Bissau, and marry Kenyan woman from Mombasa
yes those are the fula tribes of guinea, the fulas are like that all over West Africa, light skins but very dark people's inside. too much evil Marabous stuff, the don't like to intermarriage they the West African jews
Seriously??!!! And how are people from Ivory Coast?
It’s the fact that she completely ignored her husband’s warning about HIS family and decided to move against his wishes forsaking her family for his seeing the things they put her through already. She lacked the spirit of discernment and this is something we need to continuously pray for. God bless her and her kids and I’m thankful I heard this story. It taught me a valuable lesson! 🩷🙏🏽
Take time to research your spouse culture.- the good parts and the bad.
So her husband was the sacrifice, not the uncle.
Called the airline , book tickets immediately and leave the next day. The mother- in- law made it know that she was not fond of her as a daughter - in law. Why didn't she make haste to leave- to go home
Thats exactly what I said above. Her fault. The man told her from day one not to have anything to do with my family.
It sucks when your own mother is the evil monster in your life..effing sucks!!
Hi LNN
THANK YOU FOR LETTING MY NIECE POUR OUT HER HEART IN YOUR SHOW.
MAY THE LORD RESTORE YOU AND MY BELOVED GRANDKIDS IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST ❤❤❤
How are you helping her as a family?because since she came the kids are still home not going to school😢😮
@@najmanetworks3430 but what lf she is also facing financial challenges, she can support where she is capable to do lt, stay blessed.
@@najmanetworks3430 Really??? have some empathy!!! This isn't the right place to ask such questions plus the trauma they have been through they need time to heal!
@@najmanetworks3430seriously, why is it her responsibility to help her?
People will want to be related to you once you are in limelight
Honestly Mommy...This son of yours will make you proud. Listen to how he expressed himself...❤..God will make a way for you guys...At 15 years old he speaks like a man
He surpasses many adult men. They will go very far. God please help them.
He's brilliant.
Yeah. His dad really prepared him into becoming a man
Women don't go to the grave during the burial in lslam! Hearing this makes me to avoid Muslim men!
A real man
So sorry, I am a Jamaican in Kenya, I will support her and the kids by sending something. May God cover her and her family. What an amazing story and she is still able to forgive. I am not forgiving but ask God to forgive those who hurt me. I am not bitter but I will never forgive those that hurt me. I delegate that to my Almighty. Great going Lynn for bringing these stories, we all have our own. Bless you and the people of my country and Kenya who are fighting battles.
May GOD bless you.also I request a help for hospital plz
The LORD'S Prayers says forgive so that you can be forgiven by God
Everything happens with a reason ,trust me God will never leave you with your kids ,you will prosper in Jesus Name
@@JemimaKwamboka-iy4xq
Jemima, you want t 2:59:24 o have a hospital?
Thank you for your kindness to her.
I was married to someone from Guinea as well. He tried to kill me many times, since he couldn't, he and his sister killed my ONLY son. Until now, that family can not leave me alone. But my mother prayers and God are keeping me alive. I pray everyday to ask God to protect me and my family. Some people are VERY dangerous. Be careful who u know or meet or marry.
Sorry mum and still u are with the same family
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮 pole pole 😢 this is so heart breaking
Who will advise Kenyan women on west Africa. Avoid west Africa, eastern Europe, south America, Asia. What she can't be advised is that the husband used juju's all through from the day he brought seeds to her family. He was paying back.
@@johnmuiruri3390you are right those countries are a no go area! I hate this they must make it a law to marry their own women and leave our sisters. This is rubbish
May God keep protecting you and bless you
You are like Naomi who went back home without her husband and the two sons. But the Lord blessed her more and more. You'll be blessed and the emptiness filled by God. The vacuum of your husband will be filled by God. You are still the young hand working girl.. you shall rise again
Amen
Amen
Greater is our God
Gods grace is sufficent. He will do it for her, and children.
Amen Amen
Jealousy is the first sign of witchcraft. Terrible.
That's true
That's true
Very true I heard that jealousy is the final stage before becoming a witch 😢😢😢😢😢
@@periswagathiki heheheee...
Deadly even with friends and relatives Guard yourself by all means
Please Lynn, let your guest be careful. We are from Liberia and my friend's sister got killed the same way when she married a Guinea. Please let her not go after any property or anything. Let her stay in Kenya and never go back.
WOW WHAT A STORY..Thanks Lynn for such episodes i pray that the grace of God will cover them and restore them fully. Had to watch this in segments and truly a lot of lessons. May the Lord heal her and those kids may they become great.
Never trade your faith in God through Jesus Christ for anything, not even marriage, when the rubber meets the road, it's only Jesus Christ that can save you!
Say it again
That's true 💯❤
More volume
Very true. If you are christian always marry a fellow christian. Once a marriage has two different faith, trouble is inevitable.
💯 pewa kwa bill yangu🙌👏
She was brought up well,she didn't know other families are evil and that's why she was trying to unite her husband's family.Carol you did your best and never blame yourself for everything good you did for that family.May God come through for you and your kids🙏🙏🙏
Whata heartbreaking shumboqlina story.
Kama angekuwa mkamba angejua uchawi is real and to leave the Guinea family alone. I never used to believe in witchcraft especially because I grew up in the states, but my parents come from Kamba land and I can to understand that witchcraft is real after seeing with my very own eyes.
She's a good woman... I love how she smiles Everytime she mentions my husband... .it's really heartbreaking to know that she even pushed him to be close to these evil people out of love
@@user-mz9ob6hq9zlet me tell you, it's not about kujua uchawi, her mother was prayerful. And God delivered this lady and her kids from the hands of the enemy. I have learnt from my own experience that, so many obstacles we may not know, God has delivered us even without our knowledge. Hapa ni Mungu
Yes it's what gets you in trouble too. You don't understand the complexities of an evil person. You are so naive
Story is very well articulated. This should be taken by movie producers and pay the family the proceeds. Their story deserves a screen . It will also be a good lesson for those intending to marry out of their culture.
You have talked like a person who is a baby in spiritual matters. You can even marry a senior witch if not a sorcerer from your "culture" . Let me give you an elementary lesson in spiritual matters. Since we have two masters, Satan and the Creator of heaven and earth, you either belong to Satan's culture like carol or God's culture. What people who are not knowledgeable in spiritual matters call culture is actually idol worship
The narration and series of events sounds like a movie.
Fully agree with you...May hand of the Almighty God be upon this Family 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
God was with you Caro to be protected, your husband really loved you,and he gave his life instead of you and the children. You were too young and didn't believe you were leaving amongst lions and lionesses, especially the mother who punished him, by causing him that fall and fractured his leg so that he could stop him from his duty as a loving husband and a father to his kids. Don't worry. God will bless you again but don't compromise your faith again Jesus protected you all through your journey in this marriage.
Ogaoo, please take this.Great a movie with a lot of lessons.Nigerias actors, where are you?
When choosing a partner it is important to choose someone who is not oblivious to the fact that not all families embrace love and unity. It can be very dangerous to choose someone who doesn't understand the toxic family dynamics. At times people who stay away from their own family they do so for a very valid reason. Love and light to the guest❤🙏
He should have made her understand. She’s a very reasonable and sensible lady, the husband didn’t want to tell her much about his family. She comes from a good home, so she never expected such evil, if only this was discussed at the beginning of their relationship. She wanted to bring everyone together and support his family as well.
@@Zazezoo yes I agree, the discussion should have been indepth and clear from the beginning
What courage 🤔 leave my beautiful country to a foreign land not me
There is nothing for this lady to regret. There are many who got married to fellow kikuyus and found themselves in more darkness than this . The good thing about this experience is that the husband was never part of the wickedness.
True❤
give us an example please.. kikuyu women and kenyan women have become global and God knows what kind of spirits are bringing back to kenya..you are projecting, sister.
very sad i feel for her and the kids bt lets learn from this our girls be ware for this west african fellows uchawi is real there
@@orisyoungie728I went through well with a Merian like me... He used witchcraft on me and stole everything from me... The spiritual battle of being strungled in my sleep was real
Let God give you the grace to move on, He'll send the fourth man in this fire.
Oooh my, this young man made me cry. He's such a gentleman. I pray he gets all the help he needs with his education. If i had money, I'd take him to school without a second thought
From what i see, he was such a great husband and father to his kids.. the boys eloquence and expression show it all... He tried to protect you from his family coz he knew them really well... The best thing that came out of it are these great kids, they are your strength
If my husband tells me, 'leave my family alone, I know them...' I won't care about anything else... I'll listen to that man. 2. Before marriage ask questions about your spouse's family, culture, religious beliefs...it's very important to you. Pray fervently for the spirit of discernment, cos life is spiritual.
May God restore this family's peace and provide everything they need according to his riches in glory.
I really shed tears for this lady and her children. The great lesson we must learn here is to always know the family you are entering to, even though her husband tried to warn her beforehand about his family but her heart of gold made her not to pay attention to the warning signs. She had a wonderful husband, but the family he comes from is extremely evil. This is why he did not want the wife to have anything to do with his family. Your wife or husband can come from any part of the world but let God always be the center of your marriage. I come from West Africa and my wife is from Tanzania in East Africa. And the good thing is that we are both believers and pastors running our ministries here in Maryland, USA and in West Africa. We have a happy family because we belong to Jesus. Will continue to uphold Carol and her children in prayer and will save the number to connect with her. Thank you Lynn for your good job. You are such a blessing to the present and future generations May God continue to use you for his glory.
Be blessed 🙏
God is great above all He has a good plan for our lives ,,I love this ☝️, your destiny and your children are in God's hand , before the foundations of this world He new you His counsel still stands,,,even though we go through the shadows of death the Lord still remains our refuge and strength, restoration of our stolen territories
Amen
Be blessed
@aaMarthanyamburaSamuel
She is a STAR✨ who got married to a family grounded on witchcraft . Had they managed to sacrifice her, they would have stolen her star and gained wealth. She still has a very high chance of rising again but girl , you gotta be very very prayerful! Forgive that Guinea family . Poverty is their portion for many generations to come
This makes some sense... people seem so enlightened in this streets..weh
The husband knew what was going on after that politics interest he was told to sucrifice the wife soo sad prayers is the key
Women also need to listen to their husbands when they tell them about their own families because he knew his family but you always pushed him back to where he had run away from which I find so unfair because he wanted to please U me I only involve myself when he does and if he doesn't he always has his reasons and I always try not to ask much but women are women which I think sometimes U need to let go of husbands family since I have created your own I know she wanted them to love her but you can never force love even when U do your best if they won't they won't no matter what U do and it still ended in tears imagine their lives are OK without U all and you have the rest of your life in pain anyways may God see you through mostly the kids .
@@BeckieLaurineI truly appreciate this comment ❤
@@BeckieLaurine YOU SPOKE EVERYTHING SOOO WELL...many Kenya ladies never want to be advised even with their fiancées/ husbands until the problem erupts that is when they come in their senses
As a Born again believer. Watching from Guyana South America 🇬🇾, a couple of things we as believers must always remember, that the Word of God is always true and we must obey. 1. Not to be unequally yoked.
2. What business has light with darkness.
3. We are the ones to lead people to Christ, not people leading us away from Christ.
I pray that all of us believers learn from this young lady ' s experience.
Exactly it never ends well i can relate
You are really right. May the Lord help us.
I fought back tears when mom narrate. I literally gushed out when the son spoke. He is empathetic and intelligent. . Lynn you are such a great listener and inteviewer. Bless you
What a traumatic experience. The goat was a blood sacrifice to a demonic altar, the uncles were the priests of that demonic altar, and the rings were the point of contact of the persons on whom the curses were invoked. Unfortunately, the husband in a bid to protect his family, pronounced words that sealed his fate, that any evil should befall him not his family. The 11-month pregnancy, the lost twin, the child who was rejected by the grandmother & family, the extreme poverty of the Guniean family, the jealousy of the mother-in-law, all hallmarks of the spirit of witchcraft. It's like the family wanted to sacrifice the children but to do that they had to get the parents out of the way...How wicked is the wickedness of the wicked! Only the Name & blood of Jesus can set us free. Pole sana dada. May the Lord restore to you the years the locusts have eaten. Joel 2:25.
Who are you? You have summarized it well. Very deep. You are very spiritual. Identified all the red flags.
Amen
Very true,you summarize it...life is spiritual...oooh
It's truly sad may the wrath of the lord be upon that wicked mother - in -law
The first pregnancy was in Kenya, before she knew his family,the child will be a great blessing. An 11 month pregnancy is unusual usually hindered by external forces.
I taught this boy at Light International School. I interacted with his dad, so sad that he passed. He was truly a gentleman.
Tf? Have some respect for peoples privacy
Kamara, as intelligent as always. I am proud of the young man you have turned into. May God come through for you.
I knew Ibrahim Kamara he was a gentleman .
I knew him when he lived in hamza,I thought he was tanzanian.its sad that he died and left his family to fight battles they do not understand, Carol may you rise again.
It is in past tense@@amandal1450
This story had me crying. The lady went through so much, you are very strong. I hope you are blessed like job was. Your son is a sweetheart, such smart, brilliant young man, so proud of him. I wish you exceeding joy and happiness! God have you sis, it is well.
The whole story is so touching. I am learning about love and courage. What has gotten to me is the innocent kids brought to this. I am clapping for Carol that even though they had everything they still taught their children manners and all that. Because how does a 15 year old know that peace comes above all other material things. I pray they get back to school as these are the future leaders! They just had to come back to Kenya as they will be some of the best citizens! I wish them the best. Please Lyn we will be waiting for another episode from them once they start school and all.even if it’s five years from now but that will be nice to watch. Love from Malawi
we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, powers, rulers of darkness, evil spirits, spiritual wickedness....
Eph 6:12
And when u battle physically u will loose it big time.
How the bible is unfolding before our eyes is scary😢
@@Diana-SkinCare You’ve hit the nail on the head. The older generation was so secretive but Jesus is Lord over all the earth. He said you shall know the truth and the truth will set you free; and whom the son sets free is free indeed. The testimonies that are coming out these days are a Godsend 🙏♥️
This lovely lost everything simply because she was a good, supportive wife and wanted her husbands family to thrive. God will remember her and restore everything she lost 🙏.
Your son is an incredible young man, so loving, caring and mature. He became an adult before it was time and I pray someone will support him to go back to school to continue to stand by his family. His father was a good model of love for his family. Stay strong 💪🏽 hang in there and trust in the Lord. My heart breaks for the other children who are traumatized and dealing with the loss of their dad and the toxic relatives
Hi, Carol, i feel for you! I feel your pain and your trials so much! I am glad you came out of this evil place. God bless you and your family. I'll send my support shortly.
Jealousy is the last qualification to becoming a professional Witch
Sure
So true, it breedsevil feelings, hatred, unhealthy competition, desire to harm or see the other person fail.
Not last but first level of being a witch or a wizard
Jealousy is a normal human feeling.Since you're jealous of your friends are you a wizard or just stupid?......Kenyan stupidity leaves wondering what is going on in this republic!
"Life is spiritual "that's what Erica and Bamboo tells us everytime
It is and Pst James also preaches the same
Very true
Yes, it truly is spiritual
@@hanahAlfredwhich pastor James kindly
James kawalya@@maulineillonda1383
The way she's a good story teller. It felt like I was watching a horror movie. I couldn't finish the whole thing I had to switch off as I was getting anxieties. God will bless you Ma. The little I took with from the story was, you are a very strong powerful woman who loved her man dearly. see how you raised your kids. well done Ma. Much love from South Africa.
Too long for real
This lady has a personality I simply lovvvve! Jumping into the ambulance, storming into the pumwani bed. She's going far in life ❤❤
That boy is so grown up and articulate......he will be going far in life. A bit of counselling may help the children. May God bless this lady and her children. Great RESPECT to you, Lynn ...
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My mother married to guinea man before and my mother she's from Sierra Leone and this guinea husband sacrifice my mother but luckily my mother is prayerful and my mother get blind so she comes back to Sierra Leone and go to the church but thanks God she's okay now 🙏🙏🙏
So this sacrifice thing is a norm in Guinea.
@@margretratemo yes you can see them doing animal sacrifice all the time but is human people will die
Oh my God
This is really sad 😔
Christ have mercy 😢
Dearest for some reason I just dabbled onto this show and was so touched by the story of this young lady and amazed at the young son.
Indeed God is at work in their life.
I’m not sure what the numbers on the screen is depicting but will surely try to call it and give my little support.
Thanks so much for this educative and informative show
Please Lynn give us a follow-up of how this lady is doing and the children
One of the saddest story I’ve watched in your show😢😢 Our God is the Father of the fatherless and protector of widows. Do not fear, the Lord is with you. Jeremiah 49:11
Wish Carol listened to her hubby and stayed in kenya. May God lift you
Women feel proud to get marriage abroad .
@@zenjibar64they had many issues in Kenya, he couldn’t buy a house or do business without papers. What kind of abroad is Guinea? Kenya is much more developed! She wanted a simple life without visa drama for her hubby!
Me too, I would trust him.
Things can happen, even in your mother's own arms.
@@zenjibar64
What about men? Is there anything wrong?
Weuh,.. I have watched and listened keenly.. such a moving story.
The love you two had was incredible and you're such a strong woman. It feels like your husband sacrificed himself for the family to be left alone. He loved you till the end.
God will surely remember Carol. She is a good person, and the Lord rewards those who do good. I pray that the kids find a way of resuming their studies.
Can we normalize accepting not being loved/liked by our in-laws .... They are not your blood and they never will be. There are a few blessed to be genuinely loved by them but most pretend. Their true feelings will show once your husband dies...Maya Angelou said "when someone shows you who they are believe them the first time". Pole sana my sister for what you've been through.. I know your story will save so many from making the same mistakes.
Praying that you guys make it in life under God’s protection
Even your own siblings can turn on you when it comes to 💰.
This is sad but true...
Sure
Very true especially the in-laws part
No one is talking about how beautiful this lady is. I have really wept walking through her story. May God help her smile again. I pray God provides for her and her children
It is not a place to talk how beautiful She is even if She is. If you missed this is about how She lost her husband and difficulties. What kind of a human are you?
😢😢😢😢
Indeed, she is!
Amen
Amen
So beautiful. So courageous. So bold. She'll for sure build again. May God be with her and Lynn, God bless. She'll definitely come again with a story of victory. Her and kids future is so bright
The power of a woman’s love can transform a man. Thank you Lynn and Caroline for this amazing episode. Soulmates are few in this life. If one finds a soulmate, the rest is just easygoing irrespective of whatever circumstances. Soulmates hardly argue because they’re considerate of each other’s feelings before they speak. They always settle their differences peacefully. The opposite is the same in majority of relationships that are held together by other factors. Yelling and screaming that leads to many breakups. Young folks learn something here. The beginning must be established on nothing but genuine and mutual love for each other.
But just because you are soulmates it doesn't mean you should be together there is more to life than love
@@portiashava3023
It’s impossible not to be together if you discover each other in the beginning. What you’re trying to say doesn’t make sense when you consider my argument. I’m not discussing extramarital relationships where one may come across a true soulmate…….
She is a lucky girl. She experienced true love, it is rare. Happy for her.
The husband really really Loved her
True
Not lucky but blessed and loved by God our Creator
Another lesson from this is when you meet someone who tells you not to do certain things with their family, listen to them; they were born in it. You can never know another person's family more than they know it.
We all know that women have this tendency of acting like mediators especially in their husband's family.
I feel soo upset.. Why didn't she listen and stop fixing what she didn't break
She was craving for in-laws validation, approval and love. She forgot that you cannot force people to love you!
This is why a MEDIATOR is always a must prior to marrying into someone & their family! This is a lesson to every Kenyan, its also better to stick with your own! They could have sacrificed her!
I believe she was the sacrifice but God intervened.
This young man is a blessing!!! Very brilliant, articulates himself very clearly. May God bless him so much IJMN. May you fulfil your destiny IJMN. Amen x
One thing I have learnt from this story… As a married woman, be guided up in prayer and word. Praying about/over everything. Consult God in every step. May discernment be part of you and don’t let anything put fear in you.
Also, May God help each and every woman out there to find the right partners. May God also help them to get married into the right families 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Living with in-laws is not a good idea. Ladies let’s take this big lessons
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Never ever ever a good idea, not even being neighbors. And im talking about much better in-laws.
True,mine came up with pangas and knives to kill me and my kids. Oh,wicked inlaws.
Even if you don’t live with them they can be dangerous. One my sister in laws almost dies because of spiritual warfare from her MIL. She was sick for years and the Doctors never could find what was wrong with her. She almost died but God rescued her.
@@ChristopherMose-oo2tj😮
Got married at 20 years. Convinced husband to move to Guinnea. Sent money to his family and relocated. 😢
Lord give me the spirit of discernment in dating, marriage and decision making.
Imagine
Seriously
It urks me. He told her so many times about his family but she just wouldn't listen.
I'm originally from guinea, i learned a lot from this interview, this lady is exceptional, very strong, great mom and wife. Everything your late husband left in this planet should be for your kids. May God bless your kids, great admiration for you, specially when you said i forgive them for everything they done to me... that's not given to any human beings. Be strong .
What’s wrong with your people? This is very wrong for them to treat people like this
Weauh this Boy has an excellent Spirit.
Sending my small help on the way.
God bless u
If the husband tells you to keep off from his people, please keep off.He knows them better than you.Try to find out his reasons kwa ubali.Wacha kiherehere ya kupendwa na in-laws .Your husband loves, you are rich, you are in your country.Huruma wachia estate .
I love this 😊
Sad to say she's cause of all this ... pushing her husband to go back there and yet alikuwa anamshow .....
Mine tell me most of the time to keep off, reasons are because they rejected me so it's clear now. I will keep off completely.
Watu wajipende kwanza
I totally agree with you.
Just the other day i atarted dating a west African who has refused to tell me what He worships. let me flee before i involve myself in things that i don't understand
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@Evalian 198, seriously now , 😂😂😂😂, it's not a laughing but allow me to ,woooi, this life no balance ⚖️. Let's remain with God .
Baby gal resist the devil he will flee from you plz run usikuje kutafuta lyn
Murifeeeeeeee
Which country is he from
❤❤Lyn sponsor one of her kids please. That boy is very brilliant.
This woman is a daughter of Zion....she is a woman with a very very big star ✨...awesome story...I took notes and learnt alot...men marry a wife with a shining glory that's true beauty..it will always reflect outside.
Knowing Jesus Christ in our life is the best thing ever despite our different community ( cultures) I'm so sorry for you carol 😭
❤❤❤ Hallelujah,you can say that again .
There's supernatural protection that comes with knowing Christ Jesus and the level of peace amidst the troubles it's everything 🙏
May God come through for her in Jesus mighty name amen
Amen Amen Amen ❤I wish and pray eveone can have him as their Lord and accept him in their lifes
@@rodahmusyoka831i)¥+
😂😂😂 look at the ignorance. Islam has nothing to do with all these shenanigans. This is the culture of these people.
Polè sauna mama so sad omg❤ from. New Jersey
This is the most intelligent 15 old I have met in my life. May God make a way for you. I can see right away that you have a very bright future
Exactly
Exactly
Very intelligent, uay God open ways he goes back to school.He will be a great man.
I thank God for my mom. God rest her soul in peace. She saved my life and that of my kids. Same script, different casts. But the guy is from kenya still alive but his family is weeeh!? How my single mom smoked me and my kids from there, now in US? He cant do anything. A senior very senoir govt official, naciaist, controlling, but here i am with my babies all grown doing very well. Papa asante kweli wewe ni Mungu
Thanks be to God, it was a happy ending 🙏🏽
For those bashing on religion i guess this is about black magic and toxic family not about religion
She is such a courageous woman! I would advise her to get a strong spiritual backup/ altar. It's so evident that even her decisions to invest and go guinea were spiritually manipulated. May the same lord that protected you continue to be with you and your children.
My thoughts too
Amen
Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes!
She was manipulated spiritually.
And since she had abandoned God,the holyspirit would not alert/convict her before all these problems befell upon her.
Agreed
Right about now, I don't think Carol and the kids need the bashing portrayed in some insensitive comments regarding her experience. It's a process she went through and as they say experience is the best teacher. Let her heal, clearly we can all see that she is still grieving so she requires our moral support as well. I am sure if some of the people commenting went through her experience they would either be in a mental health institution or six feet under. Respect is fundamental especially if you are unable to wear her shoes. Carol and kids, God will see you through, the bible says he NEVER leaves us nor forsake us, He is the Father to the fatherless and the husband to the widows. Be strong for the kids, Ibrahim left you beautiful kids who will carry on his legacy. They will make you proud. Put your trust in God Almighty and you will pass the test. God bless you richly!
Very well said. She’s beaten herself enough & living in pain & loss. She doesn’t need additional bashing.
People are always in a hurry to comment and bash without understanding the situation she is going through.
Omg!!!! Ppl will always be ppl .shame on all those negative comments.
Ivam sadden to hear the journey you have been on . i am also glad that you managed to share this beautiful love. Our God is able and it shall be well with your family❤
Mama you are such a star bless you
This young boy will go very far in life. Mum, don’t worry. There is a light at the end
Of the tunnel..You have a smart boy. God Bless You All. You have each other
Thank you for sharing your story. God's grace and mercies kept you, Sis. Always put God first. He never leaves us or forsake us. I can relate. My husband's was proud of me and always spoke about his love for me. There was jealousy. My husband's family also got him involved with witchcraft. My husband never wanted me to get close to his family. Like Caroline said When he passed away, I understood why he kept me away. I also experienced conflicts with family demanding his phone and wanted to covet what he had, So Sad. Thanking God for comforting and strengthening you Caroline and your children. Take care of yourself and your children. Cherish the memories of your loving husband 🙏
Lynn you and your team are amazing. Your presentations are truly inspiring. From the very first time i watched and listened to your guest who was a Dr. Charles from South Africa. You certainly bring comfort to others. You demonstrate an authentic love snd concern for others. May you always be guided by the Lord! blessings of the Lord be
@LYNN NGUGI. I am screaming here and crying.
The WEIGHT on this child needs to be addressed ASAP.
He has taken on a responsibility no child should have and as a young man he needs to be guided. He needs to be A CHILD. The sister who hides really needs help and the third born too. This trauma is not going away and the witchcraft business the mama needs to watch Erica and Bamboo. These children need major prayers and covering.
The boy is not overweight..Both his parents are tall and big boned..Not everybody has to be skinny…The emotional weight is too heavy for his little shoulders..
@@Tmacpherson I think she means the weight of responsibility not physical weight.
@@wairimugathungu if that is what she meant its true..
@@TmacphersonThe context of weight here means burden not physical weight in pounds/kilograms :)
@@wanjafaith Hope it won’t burden you to read my above comment:) The comment above yours for context :)
I dated this Guinea man for 1year but the way he was shouting at me during a video call,, I sensed something wrong will happen,, I told him I will not continue with the relationship, soo he got mad at me and blocked me, and I Thank God it ended like that.😢😢
Even Bible days,they had to send spies to check where their daughter's will get married.West Africans even South Africans have Culture's,that one should study 1st bfre jumping in.Esp digging deep throught Prayer,and learning the immediate families,culture should be 1st priority.
I believe you were very lucky.
This is such a touching story. I pray this family will be successful. I truly pray that the kids will get back to school to overcome the trauma and pain they have been through. Carolyn, you are a great mother. You Will overcome. God bless you all.
It is written ,"my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge"Hosea 4:6.Just play Psalm 91 in a loop in your house and see ppl and things just take off or freeze.Anybody in these kind of situation just record even recite this Psalm 91 which is for divine Protection and see what happens.I have seen it for myself either the individuals just freeze or take off very fast and the evil spirits too make it a habit and they will not even come near you again.Just that surely guys what is so hard.God has given you protection you only have to receive it and take action.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have done this before and it saved our lives
True. I got alot of discernment from Psalms 91.. My prayer for God's protection
Yes, powerful word of protection
@@Babygal1234 Or even on telephone,when i know someone is not in my favour I play it in the background,I did it and the one on the other end was in a hurry to end the conversation cause they had evil intentions.Or even play it on your phone when going to an appointment which you think all should be in Gods hands 🙌🏿.Like these ladies in the gulf play it and the next day they book you a tickets on the next plane ✈ before you even play it cause thats how the spiritual world functions.
I agree with you mwendapole. The word of God is a sword and we all know what a swords does Ephesians 6 from verse 10. The armor of the spirit. People, know how to read and meditate on the word of God it works wonders.
I wish the husband shared everything I mean everything to her about his family.
True
I WISH THERE WAS AN UNDERSTANDING FROM YOUR HUSBAND ,,, SOMETIMES MISTAKES CAUSES PAIN AND ALOT OF PAIN...
Yes more details of the evil deeds she would've pressed him to go
Exactly! Secrecy never helps anyone !
She was gonna insist, if the mom said don’t name me and she still wanted to name after the mom I don’t understand. Maybe the had tupiad her something
Life is deeply spiritual.
What if the husband knew the details of all that and was only doing what he'd done before for wealth and this time backfired?
The many cars???
I wondered as well.
Exactly! Because what kind of sacrifice is this? And was it for politics? SMH!
😭I got so emotional in such a way that I was in tears while I was listening this story ,my sister God was with you the time you were treated bad by your in-laws He's
also gonna be with you even now with your kids ,you are a strong woman just have faith 🙏❤️
It's like am watching a movie, I can't imagine this happened to our Kenyan Lady. May the blood of Jesus restore everything that was taken from her.
Amen and to anyone else...
Waaaa it is like a horror movie I tell you but why did she leave her country to go to funny funny countries 😢😢😢
@@jenniekinyua4235 eti funny funny countries😂
@@jenniekinyua4235 even the husband tried to warn her but she couldn't listen, it's so sad she put him into grave 😭😭
@@jenniekinyua4235siumesikia akisema yeye ni kichwa ngumu
Something i have learnt is , when you partner says leave my people alone, please listen. I have heard many stories about su h and us women always want to change people but lets listen .
So true
So so so true.....
They are HIS people he knows them better
Thankyou😢
This story is a real eye opener for real. Thank you for sharing your story to raise awareness!
May GOD provide for you and your family🙏🏾
I cried for her and once you keep praying its all well. You have to listen to your husband. I sometimes hard headed too when my husband talk. I always like to help. He told me not to bring his daughter here to stay just bring them for vacation because i am goid hearted. I didnot listen to him, my stroy didnot come with death, but it came with the darkness and pain. As she said dont forget Yah he always there and will walk you the right way. Thank you for sharing. He will continue to bless this family. He said them fir all of us to see how great is. I pray more and more. Shalom
All i want to ask Caroline is Sister please go back to God,He will comfort you and help you raise your children and restore you.
She is with God
She's here declaring how God has protected her and you're saying?
@@aceconsultingandtrainingse2522Amen
@@chirryegAmen sister
This is a husband that I can praise for loving this woman ♥️,I just watched the show with a heavy heart no words can summarize my feelings 😢 your cup will be filled by us emotional, physically and financially 🙏
Hello Carol, shetani alikuibia aje! I remember myself being in the same situation many years ago. But the Name of the Lord is a strong tower, the righteous run into it and are safe. They put charms in my food to initiate me when I was 8 months pregnant, and food I prepared with my own hands (so that if anything should hurt me, then I should be the one to blame). But the strong tower saved me by, guess what, an abrupt malaria attack, Vomiting and fever such that I could not eat. The result? Kufukuzwa. So Carol then, just thank the Lord that He allowed it for the glory of His great Name.
And even as you speak, I feel like kupiga nduru for you, like hawo nduru ndio ingewasort. My sister, cheer up. The Lord God knew why it had to be you to take that. The Lord give you grace, much grace, in Jesus' great Name.
Lynn, kukiumana nje, NYUMBANI NI KENYA. We have a country worth being prayed for and proud of. Kenya nchi yetu tukufu.
Oh Mohammed 😢 he’s been forced to grow up at such a young age. He’s putting his mom’s feelings before his own. God bless him ❤
This woman refused to listen to her husband. He warned her about his people.
She pushed him to his grave unknowingly
I wish she listened to her husband,he knew his people better
She dug her grave
No, she was young and didn't know much. Your statement also seems like you're implying blame on her. People are different, and so are circumstances. The point of this interview is also to create awareness for others. What's done is done!
@@Neil_09some people Ni kama hawanaga sense
@Lynn you are always the inspiration to my wife,,when you upload any video she's the one to call me asking have you watched about this story,I feel so blessed,we did our wedding last year, and all the formula needed in marriage Lynn we have gathered them all from you channel..we love you Lynn keep on with the good work enlightening usanf the world.and those having partners outside country and even in the country,it's your day to gather more of what you need to learn from you partners culture, to avoid all things that's may happen later,,,I feel sorry for that lady and her children but God is great and He protect her and the children from all evils.
Sending big hugs to Carol and Family.
Amazing Testimony!
The boy is a genius.
Will get in touch.
May God Bless you, always.🤗
The story was giving afrosinema 😮o my gosh, can’t believe this actually happened to our sister, so sorry
Moha brought such a smile to my face. I hope I get such a son. So much love ❤❤
The son is brilliant,very eloquent and a better story teller his narration made so much sense. May God give the mother grace to raise her children. Because raising 4 children is no joke!!! You HV to put in tripple or double the effort.
Muha brought a breeze of fresh air to the show.
Muha is a vibe and very positive about life despite all. He deserve his own episode please,there are a lots to learn from children especially in Africa settings where children opinions/advice don't really count as much.
The wedding 💍????????????
Best lessons I got
1. Never forget God
2. Always listene to your partner
3. Always work hard and be positive
You forgot not to love money. One cannot serve both money and God Almighty. Some people will do absolutely anything for money
Sasa who left God
if the husband would have told her the truth about the family she would not have been this curious to meet the family
Lesson 4 NEVER FORGET GOD
LESSON 5 ONWARDS, NEVER EVER EVER FORGET GOD
4. Stay away from evil family members 😢
Lynn, this story has touched me. I also recommend counselling for this family. God protect them.
Omgoodness what a story 😢😢. Mama you are a strong and determined Lady ❤. May God bless you and your beautiful children 🙏🙏. Mama please allow your spirit of discernment to lead you in everything you do.
Such an eloquent first born ! May God open doors for you that No One can shut! May you be the destiny connector for your lovely mom and siblings ! May Gods grace be sufficient and his peace for you as your bear your dad’s place/role as the guardian of your family ! ❤
This child is so intelligent. I pray he gets to continue with his system of education. Carol i admire your resilience. Thank you for encouraging me❤
Awesome Lynn. We cover you and the family with prayers. May God bless us all.