I hate seeing women fight over an unfaithful man. Once I find out he’s been unfaithful, I’m out. I’m not stroking any man’s ego by fighting over his dusty unfaithful behind. ✌🏾
This has always been my mantra even when I had no self esteem. For everytime I was cheated on, I would think, "maybe if I were prettier, things would be different" but even then, I told myself I'd die before I fight or even exchange words with another woman over a man. I'd cry but I'm definitely not fighting over a man. Over my dead body!
It's usually a Close friend who is always hanging around you and your man. Never bringing her man or a man to your get togethers etc. Eyeballing 👀👀👀your husband/ man. Female relatives also, coworkers or sisters. Ex-wife etc. Some women can be so sleezy. Smiling in your face and all the time sleeping with your man. He is a no good trashy, slim ball. He is going to do her best friend the same way. Karma is REAL. Yes indeed.
It was the 'don't contact my man' from Adeola that also annoyed me. That man has two daughters, and he should take responsibility for them. Therefore, the mothers need to have contact with him, regardless of Adeola's words.
When one of my best friends lost her job, I paid her mortgage for three consecutive months, and supplied groceries for her and her two sons. One month after she found employment, she stole my boyfriend's number out of my phone, and called him multiple times, propositioning him for sex. He recorded her calls and let me listen. I was flummoxed, betrayed and beyond devastated.
I love this lady. She tells it like it is . She has so much class and elegance about herself that you set these two sisters straight. I hope both these girls learn their lessons and become better women
Adeola is so delusional, I'm almost embarrassed for her. I think this is why the term 'pick me girl' has become so popularised. Some women really do believe they are "different", or more "special" than everyone else. He's playing her like the fool she is and will spit her out once something better comes along. One thing she is right about though: she is definitely on a different level, but it's a level that nobody would be happy to brag about.
At the end, FUMI has said it. Once that health of the man starts to fail………………he will see his folly. It happens all the time. Men falling into “cracks” the colon C will find them. SMH. When will they learn?
Why would she attend her baby shower if they were not friends? Sounds like the boyfriend was reporting to the friend their pillow talks. She may have vented to her BD and he used it to turn them against each other (manipulation). You’re absolutely right Fumi, she will regret this condescending response.
I was thinking the same,she should tread lightly because that nasty relationship she is in,won't last at all!! What does she think he will marry her? Even if he does it is a plot,she should be very careful,karma is a true beast!!
My take is that this guy has overated control over his women , making them think he is the price to be fought over, i pity them, but he is the trash to be thrown out
I empathize for this woman. Its important to keep your circle small and pick a few good friends. It’s also important to choose the right spouse/partner.
My mom always told me if you want to see who your true friends are, bring them around your man. The sad truth is not everyone is your real friend. Some people only stick around to keep tabs on your life and secretly don’t wish you well. And some people see how well the man treats you and will try to steal him thinking they’ll get the same treatments. It’s beyond sad
Hmm.. this video brought back painful memories, just back in 2020 I walked out of a 6years old relationship cos he was cheating with a “friend” right under my nose and they got married few months after I ended it. I have given up on Karma, living my life now and waiting for my own blessings. Love you Aunty Fums 💜
It's alright to give up on Karma just don't give upon God Sis. I can testify, HE WILL not fail you. I've seen it happen myself, 10 years and I lived to see the cheater and person he cheated with, tear each other apart ( it was ugly!) and I'm in my corner just shaking my head. Let it go, leave it at HIS feet and you will get justice.
I've been something similar. The karma came when the other woman established herself, and the fake friend and husband were older. Years, right? But it turned out. The karma has been happening for years, but they fake it to hide the shame. Till it blew out of proportion it came out. Dont always believe that everything is rosy. But yes, sorry, sis. Better to focus on your blessing. Sure, that's what God wants, for you to focus. All the best sis
This story has awaken my tears. I went through somehow a similar situation, because of another woman. Some women are too heartless, eloping with someone else's man. I had the same experience, being left alone while pregnant. And I remember at the time of birthing, I had to get an emergency C_section, due to loss of amniotic fluid one week prior to my due date. And the cause of this, was due to stress, I almost lost my baby. I was mocked by the so called co-wife that the reason for c-section delivery was due to giving birth at an old age, you can imagine, yet at that time I was only 32. My girl is now 5. But karma is real and divine justice truly exists, it is just a matter of time. After one year, my co-wife also gave birth through a C-section. They say never to laugh at or mock the crippled, for you could go through a much worse situation.
She’s your co-wife? Does that mean that you are still with him and you both are married to the same man? Or is this what we refer to as “co-parenting” in America when the family is blended (couple divorces and starts dating new people, but everyone helps raise the children aka co-parents)?
See...that's why I think "girl code" doesn't exist. It's just more or less up to you as an individual woman to have morals and standards for your own behavior.
That's the thing for me where is her self-respect? She talked about being of a higher standard but failed to see that people will always look down on her for knowingly and proudly being the other women.
Fumi, you killed this! I wished Id had an advisor like you when I was growing up. You put that model in her place like nobodys business 🔥🔥🔥 so many women go around thinking they're superior to others. I can pretty much surmise, if you think that, then you are not that. Humility and gratitude are critical elements of true beauty
I love the way that you're calling this girls to order. You're so direct and frank it hurts! What a beautiful show! What a beautiful black queen! You're the best!
Don't forget TRUST and INTEGRITY. Scandalous people like the sneakyness of it all 🙄 I hate when a EDUCATED woman doesn't have COMMON SENSE and let's a man run game. That's why you don't let your friends hang around you and your man
Ms. Fumi, what these women fail to understand is that what goes around comes around. Karma is a bi**h. She doesn't believe he is going to cheat on her, too? She is in for a rude awakening!!! Buckle up, girl, you are in for a bumpy ride!!!
That man probably already doing a number on her just afraid to say it. The truth is he is prob only there for the benefits of her status... We will see wont we. because modeling requires a lot and many are born every day. Today you in and tomorrow you out.
Exactly. What goes around, surely comes back around like a boomerang. 🎯💯 I've seen it play out numerous times in my life with others who wronged someone! ⚠️
Thank you for that Fumi. I was betrayed by my ex-husband & felt a way, still upon finding out he married the chick he left me for at the end of 2022. For some reason it bothered me. But, I also felt like they're both trash becaaue she knew he was married. It's just so sad that people are so disgusting & have seemingly lost any sense of morality & decency. And they have the unmitigated gaul to talk BIG about their wickedness like it's something to be proud of. Just straight garbage people.
That's terrible. Your ex husband treated you poorly and he and that "chick" will get theirs. 2022 was only 3 months ago. How are you feeling now? Better I hope.
He will just do it again. When the next woman he considers is hot, he will move on again that's what he's about. I've seen it before. I've had men come to me saying this that and the other and I don't jump to quickly because I want to see what's happening. Next thing, because I'm not playing their game, they've moved on another woman that was lined up. No loss to me as there was no physical/emotional contact. I've seen a couple of them and I've had to ask them how comes they look so old and mashed up? They have no words. Their nastiness has taken its toll. Fumi's advice is 💯 what goes around comes around, no one escapes.
A Nigerian read might be worse than an American read 🤣🤣 I love you Fumi, your terms and the way you read her cut deep with class, I’m here for it ❤️❤️❤️
Lol honestly the drama is so repetitive, it’s the narration by Fumi that gives me life😂😂😂 when she said “the tea is so hot the hair is falling” I fell out😂😂😂
Almost always, true. I've experienced betrayal a long my destiny, mostly by the closest individuals around me. It's sad, because although I'm a private person, I yearn so much to trust.
👏 👏 a round of applause for the fantastic analysis and advice. Excellent. You are a woman worthy of all of my respect. A woman of substance, a WOMAN indeed.
How did Fumi say, "You are on top of a garbage can, you're stupid, you're rubbish and I know you're mother is ashamed of you?" Then was like, "Moving along" after she went all the way IN!! Fumi spoke no lies! This is why she's Aunite Fumi, the wise Sage.
Oh Lord, I'm getting 2nd-hand embarrassment for Adeola when Fumi was talking. I was like "yes, ma'am, dutily noted!". I'm darked skined, but I'm like blushing of embarrassment for sister girl who thinks she scored... SMH
Your gift of sharing timeless wisdom, even in the midst of what could have been a shallow and juicy “ celebrity gossip” is underrated yet surprisingly refreshing and empowering. Thank you, Fumi.
Women like this make my blood boil. Lady Karma will come to collect eventually. It's disgusting. Many, many years ago, this happened to me. Found out they had gone to a dinner while I visited family in Chicago. It didn't go beyond that but, I'm sure it would have eventually. My fiance and best friend. I never saw it coming. I attribute some of it to my youth (very early 20's). I am now 30 years passed it. They had the nerve to want to continue to be in my life and ask for forgiveness. It is a pain like no other. But I got through it gracefully. I have gone on to have an amazing and blessed life. Ran into her years after and she still wanted a friendship? WTH? I didn't even show anger. I just walked away. I chose to walk in the light and moved away. She ended up having so many awful incidents in her life, he had even more loses. One being her own friend did the same to her with her man and had 2 secret babies with him! Can't say that I didn't gloat about at the time, I did. I am now in a healthy place and have been married for 21 years to a man that continues to love and amaze me. I always had good insight, but I didn't always pay attention to it. When I get that feeling about someone. I keep it moving. Human are the only animals that choose to ignore our insights. Think about how deer respond to things around them. They're cautious at all times. Be blessed everyone.
Good afternoon, Fumi. Betrayal is Extremely traumatic to endure. I agree tremendously that "The saddest thing about betrayal, is that it Usually comes from your closest friend or relatives" It's so difficult at times to heal, after experience being bitten, so hard.
God is Good She Don’t love and Respect Herself Enough She Needs To start praying Asking The Most I Forgiveness And Her Sister That She Betrayed God Is Good Bless 💯♥️🙏🏿💃🏿🕺🏿✨
You know you acted really bad when Aunty Fumi goes in on you like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, I had to comment! I saw the story and was so bafled by the gaslighting 😩😩😩😩! May GOD keep us away from this type of “friend"
Fumi!!! I have to say first of all I'm so happy that I found your channel. Secondly is I cannot put into words how gracious with a knife that you are you're like a surgeon performing delicate surgery. You have to cut through the bad,, to get to the good. It's heavy and it's informative. It's like going to a therapy session listening to something designed specifically for a person. I know that you have thousands of followers and I'm sure that they feel like I do as if you're talking to me.. talking to my inner best self. I love the sister 2 sister vibe. You keep it real and you keep it raw.. and most of all with CLASS. . THANK YOU SO MUCH. . You are definitely the big sister that all of us need. May your channel continue to grow... We will be here for it. Fumination forever...
Adeola must have been jealous of the baby mama because she is absolutely stunning. Good luck Adeola with your sloppy seconds because you're gonna need it
Aunty Fumi, thank you for the deep lessons laced with humor. I hear you clearly. Karma is real no doubt. I love how you demonstrated the Nigerian way of kneeling down to beg😂😂
My God I am 65 yes of age an have never heard anyone put this topic in it's rightful place in this manner...Fumi I salute you...frank an brutal an truthful...keep it up Fumi the truth shall set you free ...I wish all young women could see this video...may God continue to bless you an your family ...thank you.
Fumi!!!!!!!!! Girl, Can I just adopt you in my family for all of your wisdom!----You hit the nail on all of it's heads.. When is the TV show coming?--Love you. Stay Blessed
Yes sister Fumi, what did she write 'you are not on my level'? I love how you always cut right through the BS. And you are always about women respecting ourselves. If miss tang respected herself she would not have gotten with this man even she was just pretending to be friends with the baby mama
If only one of her real friends caught on to this mess at the baby shower 👀 It would've been a problem if my tight friend circle peeped it while one of us was about to give birth 👊🏽 Everybody that's friendly isn't your friend, vet people accordingly before allowing them access you!
Truth be told more then likely she would not have believed it. I know because I was the one that peeped a similar situation in my friend group. I warned her that this was going on and instead of keeping it to herself and observing what I was telling her she went to her man, he told her I was jealous and that I just wanted him. He even went as far as telling her that I was trying to sleep with him. Long story short she smeared my name anywhere she could for years. Later her friend moved out of state and shortly after her husband was missing. Her friend that she adored had a three year old and a newborn bay by her man and he decided he wanted to be with her friend and left the state to be with her. About 12yrs later I received a message from her stating she was sorry and she missed our relationship
Aunty Fumi said “you know, you’re stupit, you have no common sense”with the African gestures and African accent 😂😂😂😂 she meant every word and I agree. Oooo I felt that one.
Auntyy Fumms, Aunty Fumi. At this point you would pass as a preacher. Because Mama you are spitting facts. I love how you praise the Lord we pray to!!! I love this.
Silly women it’s quite annoying when they fight over a man when they need to drop his foolish, scrubby and dusty self. He doesn’t care. The worst part is he’s probably basking in this drama. Finding people with integrity is such a rare thing these days. We are definitely missing this level of verbal reprimand from our elders..always love hearing your nuggets of wisdome Aunty Fumi!
I love this woman. I hope someone or even both sisters get this shared. It’s no way they would not learn and take this too heart. Momaduke gave it to them straight no chaser.
We as women think men don't know what they are doing. They do. Follow the actions. The end. We are not victims. We just need to stop making excuses and acting like men are dumb. They are not. Men can and will be with you while knowng the whole time you are not the one. When they find the one they move on. Regardless of how long you were together. It's sad but it is how they operate. Pay attention to men without the emotions and sense of morality. They are very easy to figure out.
@@QueenAmour8888 they’re not complex though. When it comes to marriage and men it’s all about timing. They’ll let their soulmate pass them by because they’re not ready to get married. Once they’re ready, they marry the next time woman who’s decent enough. Men don’t find mothers sexy, they seem to lose interest once you have their child. I believe this is because they’ve successfully captured you in every way. When you don’t desire marriage and children, they seem to want you more. Again, this comes back to capturing you. I have more. Men are pretty transparent to me and often time brutally honest. People just don’t believe them when they tell the truth and over analyze what they said.
SMH I could never do something like that, we don't even have to be friends. If you and your man is in the same room at the same event with me.. He is off limits. If she knew that girl did not like her why go around her, to me she was plotting probably was only showing up to entice that man... On a different note, Fumi amazing views on the topic.. It so delightful to here your view and great advice. I felt this.
Models are the ones that have the LOWEST self-esteems. Look at Leo he dates models gets what hecwants and then tosses them. Thecsame wull happen to her and she knows it. The fact that she came to the party and then say they were never friends is despicable. So then what were you to her? The Trojan horse with the steaming crotch?! Giiiiirrrrl!
The first time I saw this story was on Facebook and immediately thought about Auntie Fumi"s take on this and here she is covering the story 😱😱 thanks Auntie Fumie for your take on this Karma indeed does not play!
I was taught what goes around it will certainly come back around. People better know karma is real and she's really really mean. And she takes no prisoners. NONE. Love you so very much mz Fumi. Keep up your good work.
Ms. Fumi, thank you so much for all of your stories, encouragement and words of wisdom. "Pray for long life; so that your enemies live to see your success." I Truly and sincerely appreciate Everything I've learned from you, since subscribing to Fumination. You've uplifted and healed me; so much, since observing your tutorials.I wish I had someone as genuine as you, in my life.. I'm still holding on to see what the Lord does, during the remainder of my journey.
She might be a model but there’s a deep seated lack of self esteem that she needs to deal with. She should never have given this man who has no self control or respect an audience in the first place. Such a shame.
Fumi you are a RIOT "the tea is so hotttt, that your hair is falling apart," you have me laughing scandalously. In my part of the world we call that situation between the ladies "a bacchanal."
This happened to me. I had a roommate once, and she did just this! Thank God, I didn’t have any children with him, but not her. She married him, had two kids, then turned around and he had put her out of their home, moved another women in, threw their their clothes out of the home. I know a lot more happened, but I wasn’t interested in knowing. She’s foolish! That’s what she gets!
We all have girlfriends that will not listen to good advice. These two beautiful young women had to learn these hard lessons through experience. I wish them both well.
The pedestal is on top of the garbage can and you are leftover food… 😂 😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂 I love the way that you tell it. I was the victim in a similar situation with my husband of 20 years so this hit home. No one gets away with anything and everything does come back. Thank you for the laugh Beautiful Fumi. ❤
Hi Aunty Fumi 👋🏾🥰 Love you and youre right, I heard people in Nigeria 🇳🇬 say "You're illiterate!" when someone was in an argument. I visited Naija in 2015...miss it dearly. I miss my friends there. But I must say this... Why would any woman want someone's left overs? I'm confused. There are many men in the world, why did she have to sleep with her "friend's" baby daddy? Messy and un-lady like. Eww. That's not nice and karma has no expiration date.
Fumi you are a gem 💎, may God keep you safe so you can continue to enrich all of us with the daily knowledge that's so lacking in the society and the world at large.Karma is warming up for our model!!
Wow fumi you really know how to put the truth in perspective. You've said it well. Everything that you said is true. If people would wake up , what you do is coming back to you, and you don't know in what manner it's coming. I've seen some horrible things that my family members and non family members went through, I can never forget. Love peace and blessings to you fumi and family.
" And I know your mother is ashamed of you!" ..........Speechless
Fumi is a real daughter of many nations. This is the Nigerian part of her.
The way I screamed when she said that!!!😂
Honey! I was clutching my pearls during the entire read 😂 I love aunty Fumi
I died when she said that😂😂😂 then I imagined her mum’s face😂😂
Her mother probably thought her how to dig gold
I hate seeing women fight over an unfaithful man. Once I find out he’s been unfaithful, I’m out. I’m not stroking any man’s ego by fighting over his dusty unfaithful behind. ✌🏾
This has always been my mantra even when I had no self esteem. For everytime I was cheated on, I would think, "maybe if I were prettier, things would be different" but even then, I told myself I'd die before I fight or even exchange words with another woman over a man. I'd cry but I'm definitely not fighting over a man. Over my dead body!
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😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😥👍💯💯💯💯💯💯 I know that is right. Amen Amen
It's usually a Close friend who is always hanging around you and your man. Never bringing her man or a man to your get togethers etc. Eyeballing 👀👀👀your husband/ man. Female relatives also, coworkers or sisters. Ex-wife etc. Some women can be so sleezy. Smiling in your face and all the time sleeping with your man. He is a no good trashy, slim ball. He is going to do her best friend the same way. Karma is REAL. Yes indeed.
Agreed! Ewwwwwww
My mother always said. NEVER have a female friend around your man never.
Sister Fumi... I love that you preach a whole sermon, raw, brutal & truthfully...
Right!Fumi gives it unfiltered.
Yes she did!!!! I live, I love!!!💖💖💖
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Fumi had me clutching my chest!!!!!!!!!!!
It was the 'don't contact my man' from Adeola that also annoyed me. That man has two daughters, and he should take responsibility for them. Therefore, the mothers need to have contact with him, regardless of Adeola's words.
She really is dumb, just thinks at the moment and not in the future😂
The fact that he has daughters might in time, show this king, the throne of retribution he will eventually sit on.
💕Pax Amore et Lux 💕
I can’t with u “the tea so hot my hair is coming loose” 😂😂😂😂😂
When one of my best friends lost her job, I paid her mortgage for three consecutive months, and supplied groceries for her and her two sons. One month after she found employment, she stole my boyfriend's number out of my phone, and called him multiple times, propositioning him for sex. He recorded her calls and let me listen. I was flummoxed, betrayed and beyond devastated.
WOWOWOWOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m so sorry to hear this!! Thank God your boyfriend was sensible ❤
She must have thought the money was coming from him. So she wanted all of it. A lot of people do not deserve any kindness
Yuck 🤮
Thank you for sending this. So women can see man can do the right thing
Karma is coming for the ex-friend and ex-boyfriend! Fumi, you are absolutely right!
I love this lady. She tells it like it is . She has so much class and elegance about herself that you set these two sisters straight. I hope both these girls learn their lessons and become better women
It's called wisdom🌻
Adeola is so delusional, I'm almost embarrassed for her. I think this is why the term 'pick me girl' has become so popularised. Some women really do believe they are "different", or more "special" than everyone else. He's playing her like the fool she is and will spit her out once something better comes along. One thing she is right about though: she is definitely on a different level, but it's a level that nobody would be happy to brag about.
At the end, FUMI has said it. Once that health of the man starts to fail………………he will see his folly. It happens all the time. Men falling into “cracks” the colon C will find them. SMH. When will they learn?
There's a medical term for people who think they're different and more special than everyone else, and it's called narcissism.
📢 🔊 please
He is luring her in and as soon as she gets comfortable that's when it will all hit the wall
Whenever someones says "you're beneath me or beneath my level" I just keep silent because they will be humbled. Trust.
Why would she attend her baby shower if they were not friends? Sounds like the boyfriend was reporting to the friend their pillow talks. She may have vented to her BD and he used it to turn them against each other (manipulation). You’re absolutely right Fumi, she will regret this condescending response.
That’s exactly what he was doing. I experienced this before. I no longer pillow talk. Sometimes you can’t trust a soul!!!
It may not have been pillow talk. He might’ve made the whole thing up. Triangulation.
I was thinking the same,she should tread lightly because that nasty relationship she is in,won't last at all!!
What does she think he will marry her?
Even if he does it is a plot,she should be very careful,karma is a true beast!!
My take is that this guy has overated control over his women , making them think he is the price to be fought over, i pity them, but he is the trash to be thrown out
I empathize for this woman. Its important to keep your circle small and pick a few good friends. It’s also important to choose the right spouse/partner.
My mom always told me if you want to see who your true friends are, bring them around your man. The sad truth is not everyone is your real friend. Some people only stick around to keep tabs on your life and secretly don’t wish you well. And some people see how well the man treats you and will try to steal him thinking they’ll get the same treatments. It’s beyond sad
Very true.
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Hmm.. this video brought back painful memories, just back in 2020 I walked out of a 6years old relationship cos he was cheating with a “friend” right under my nose and they got married few months after I ended it.
I have given up on Karma, living my life now and waiting for my own blessings.
Love you Aunty Fums 💜
It's alright to give up on Karma just don't give upon God Sis. I can testify, HE WILL not fail you. I've seen it happen myself, 10 years and I lived to see the cheater and person he cheated with, tear each other apart ( it was ugly!) and I'm in my corner just shaking my head. Let it go, leave it at HIS feet and you will get justice.
I've been something similar. The karma came when the other woman established herself, and the fake friend and husband were older. Years, right? But it turned out. The karma has been happening for years, but they fake it to hide the shame. Till it blew out of proportion it came out. Dont always believe that everything is rosy. But yes, sorry, sis. Better to focus on your blessing. Sure, that's what God wants, for you to focus. All the best sis
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Thanks so much everyone 💕
@@dragon_empress_1 thanks so much for sharing your story. I’m definitely in a good place now, thank God
This story has awaken my tears. I went through somehow a similar situation, because of another woman. Some women are too heartless, eloping with someone else's man. I had the same experience, being left alone while pregnant. And I remember at the time of birthing, I had to get an emergency C_section, due to loss of amniotic fluid one week prior to my due date. And the cause of this, was due to stress, I almost lost my baby. I was mocked by the so called co-wife that the reason for c-section delivery was due to giving birth at an old age, you can imagine, yet at that time I was only 32. My girl is now 5. But karma is real and divine justice truly exists, it is just a matter of time. After one year, my co-wife also gave birth through a C-section. They say never to laugh at or mock the crippled, for you could go through a much worse situation.
that is so true
Amen Amen 👍💯
😮 whoa happy you made it sis
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She’s your co-wife? Does that mean that you are still with him and you both are married to the same man? Or is this what we refer to as “co-parenting” in America when the family is blended (couple divorces and starts dating new people, but everyone helps raise the children aka co-parents)?
See...that's why I think "girl code" doesn't exist. It's just more or less up to you as an individual woman to have morals and standards for your own behavior.
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It definitely doesn’t exist.
The way you got him is the way you will lose him.
That's the thing for me where is her self-respect? She talked about being of a higher standard but failed to see that people will always look down on her for knowingly and proudly being the other women.
She should remember what happened to Neyo and his ex-wife. How you get them is how you lose them....
Fumi, you killed this! I wished Id had an advisor like you when I was growing up. You put that model in her place like nobodys business 🔥🔥🔥 so many women go around thinking they're superior to others. I can pretty much surmise, if you think that, then you are not that. Humility and gratitude are critical elements of true beauty
The read fumi gave them…I never want to get a “talking to” by my African auntie 😂😂
I love the way that you're calling this girls to order. You're so direct and frank it hurts! What a beautiful show! What a beautiful black queen!
You're the best!
Don't forget TRUST and INTEGRITY. Scandalous people like the sneakyness of it all 🙄 I hate when a EDUCATED woman doesn't have COMMON SENSE and let's a man run game. That's why you don't let your friends hang around you and your man
Ms. Fumi, what these women fail to understand is that what goes around comes around. Karma is a bi**h. She doesn't believe he is going to cheat on her, too? She is in for a rude awakening!!! Buckle up, girl, you are in for a bumpy ride!!!
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My Grandma used to say, " If he did it with you, he'll do it to you."
That man probably already doing a number on her just afraid to say it. The truth is he is prob only there for the benefits of her status... We will see wont we. because modeling requires a lot and many are born every day. Today you in and tomorrow you out.
@@kathynicholson103mine said that as well…
Exactly. What goes around, surely comes back around like a boomerang. 🎯💯 I've seen it play out numerous times in my life with others who wronged someone! ⚠️
Thank you for that Fumi. I was betrayed by my ex-husband & felt a way, still upon finding out he married the chick he left me for at the end of 2022. For some reason it bothered me. But, I also felt like they're both trash becaaue she knew he was married. It's just so sad that people are so disgusting & have seemingly lost any sense of morality & decency. And they have the unmitigated gaul to talk BIG about their wickedness like it's something to be proud of. Just straight garbage people.
So sorry
That's terrible. Your ex husband treated you poorly and he and that "chick" will get theirs. 2022 was only 3 months ago. How are you feeling now? Better I hope.
He will just do it again. When the next woman he considers is hot, he will move on again that's what he's about. I've seen it before. I've had men come to me saying this that and the other and I don't jump to quickly because I want to see what's happening. Next thing, because I'm not playing their game, they've moved on another woman that was lined up. No loss to me as there was no physical/emotional contact. I've seen a couple of them and I've had to ask them how comes they look so old and mashed up? They have no words. Their nastiness has taken its toll.
Fumi's advice is 💯 what goes around comes around, no one escapes.
A Nigerian read might be worse than an American read 🤣🤣 I love you Fumi, your terms and the way you read her cut deep with class, I’m here for it ❤️❤️❤️
Lol honestly the drama is so repetitive, it’s the narration by Fumi that gives me life😂😂😂 when she said “the tea is so hot the hair is falling” I fell out😂😂😂
Your enemies are the ones closest to you..watch out
Almost always, true. I've experienced betrayal a long my destiny, mostly by the closest individuals around me. It's sad, because although I'm a private person, I yearn so much to trust.
@@cherylblake6455 it’s well my love not only you 🥺🥰
👏 👏 a round of applause for the fantastic analysis and advice. Excellent. You are a woman worthy of all of my respect. A woman of substance, a WOMAN indeed.
she sure is. Her husband is one lucky man 👏🏽
Hats off for Fumi
How did Fumi say, "You are on top of a garbage can, you're stupid, you're rubbish and I know you're mother is ashamed of you?"
Then was like, "Moving along" after she went all the way IN!! Fumi spoke no lies! This is why she's Aunite Fumi, the wise Sage.
Oh Lord, I'm getting 2nd-hand embarrassment for Adeola when Fumi was talking. I was like "yes, ma'am, dutily noted!". I'm darked skined, but I'm like blushing of embarrassment for sister girl who thinks she scored... SMH
Your gift of sharing timeless wisdom, even in the midst of what could have been a shallow and juicy
“ celebrity gossip” is underrated yet surprisingly refreshing and empowering. Thank you, Fumi.
My God, Fumi, you have spoken like the mother we all need.
Women like this make my blood boil. Lady Karma will come to collect eventually. It's disgusting. Many, many years ago, this happened to me. Found out they had gone to a dinner while I visited family in Chicago. It didn't go beyond that but, I'm sure it would have eventually. My fiance and best friend. I never saw it coming. I attribute some of it to my youth (very early 20's). I am now 30 years passed it.
They had the nerve to want to continue to be in my life and ask for forgiveness. It is a pain like no other. But I got through it gracefully. I have gone on to have an amazing and blessed life. Ran into her years after and she still wanted a friendship? WTH? I didn't even show anger. I just walked away.
I chose to walk in the light and moved away. She ended up having so many awful incidents in her life, he had even more loses. One being her own friend did the same to her with her man and had 2 secret babies with him! Can't say that I didn't gloat about at the time, I did. I am now in a healthy place and have been married for 21 years to a man that continues to love and amaze me. I always had good insight, but I didn't always pay attention to it. When I get that feeling about someone. I keep it moving. Human are the only animals that choose to ignore our insights. Think about how deer respond to things around them. They're cautious at all times. Be blessed everyone.
Amen.
If you weren’t her friend why be at her baby shower?🤨
Good afternoon, Fumi. Betrayal is Extremely traumatic to endure. I agree tremendously that "The saddest thing about betrayal, is that it Usually comes from your closest friend or relatives" It's so difficult at times to heal, after experience being bitten, so hard.
God is Good She Don’t love and Respect Herself Enough She Needs To start praying Asking The Most I Forgiveness And Her Sister That She Betrayed God Is Good Bless 💯♥️🙏🏿💃🏿🕺🏿✨
Honestly it takes the grace of GOD to heal
You know you acted really bad when Aunty Fumi goes in on you like this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, I had to comment!
I saw the story and was so bafled by the gaslighting 😩😩😩😩! May GOD keep us away from this type of “friend"
Glad she didn't go with her to Mexico. The hate there is real.
Uh-oh Fumi did her research 😮
Receipts please 😢 Go in Fumi!!! Go in!!!😺
This happens more than we think it's sad the girl code is completely out the window nowadays
Fumi!!! I have to say first of all I'm so happy that I found your channel. Secondly is I cannot put into words how gracious with a knife that you are you're like a surgeon performing delicate surgery. You have to cut through the bad,, to get to the good. It's heavy and it's informative. It's like going to a therapy session listening to something designed specifically for a person. I know that you have thousands of followers and I'm sure that they feel like I do as if you're talking to me.. talking to my inner best self. I love the sister 2 sister vibe. You keep it real and you keep it raw.. and most of all with CLASS. . THANK YOU SO MUCH. . You are definitely the big sister that all of us need. May your channel continue to grow... We will be here for it. Fumination forever...
Welcome Sis❤️
the fake friend will get her karma, real happiness never comes at someone else's misery
Apparently they're both fake friends to each other
You did not loose instead you gained more than you could ever know..Fumi you are a blessing.
A cheating boyfriend is one of my biggest fears.... And for it to be done by a FRIEND??? 💔💔💔💔💔💔
FRENEMY
Unfortunately, they are everywhere this days
Sis don't be scared, Pray about it then use your brains first and your feelings second. Please don't put your feelings first
@@sengegrace5980 solid advice. Thank you!
There are many, much worse things in this world to be afraid of.
Adeola must have been jealous of the baby mama because she is absolutely stunning. Good luck Adeola with your sloppy seconds because you're gonna need it
"Pussy 😹 whiskers and jungle pox." Fumi killing me. Lol
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It as the vanilla sauce that got me
@@cherylmoore747 ikr 🤣🤣🤣
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😆 🤣 😂 pussy cat whiskers
ILLITERATE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I laughed so hard from South Africa. Yeap in Africa, being called illiterate is a big insult. Love you aunty Fumi
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Omo, this tea really pushed out the Nigerian in Aunty Fumi o, she called that girl "Ode buruku"💀😭
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Azin ehn!!! 😂 😂 I had to rewind and watch that part again 😂
@@DumebiLea me too 😂😂
Aunty Fumi, thank you for the deep lessons laced with humor. I hear you clearly. Karma is real no doubt. I love how you demonstrated the Nigerian way of kneeling down to beg😂😂
What dose it mean?
My God
I am 65 yes of age an have never heard anyone put this topic in it's rightful place in this manner...Fumi I salute you...frank an brutal an truthful...keep it up Fumi the truth shall set you free ...I wish all young women could see this video...may God continue to bless you an your family ...thank you.
You’re full of wisdom Auntie ❤
Fumi!!!!!!!!! Girl, Can I just adopt you in my family for all of your wisdom!----You hit the nail on all of it's heads.. When is the TV show coming?--Love you. Stay Blessed
You hit everything right on the nail! I love your wisdom and commentary❤
Yes sister Fumi, what did she write 'you are not on my level'? I love how you always cut right through the BS. And you are always about women respecting ourselves. If miss tang respected herself she would not have gotten with this man even she was just pretending to be friends with the baby mama
If only one of her real friends caught on to this mess at the baby shower 👀 It would've been a problem if my tight friend circle peeped it while one of us was about to give birth 👊🏽 Everybody that's friendly isn't your friend, vet people accordingly before allowing them access you!
Truth be told more then likely she would not have believed it.
I know because I was the one that peeped a similar situation in my friend group.
I warned her that this was going on and instead of keeping it to herself and observing what I was telling her she went to her man, he told her I was jealous and that I just wanted him. He even went as far as telling her that I was trying to sleep with him.
Long story short she smeared my name anywhere she could for years.
Later her friend moved out of state and shortly after her husband was missing.
Her friend that she adored had a three year old and a newborn bay by her man and he decided he wanted to be with her friend and left the state to be with her.
About 12yrs later I received a message from her stating she was sorry and she missed our relationship
Aunty Fumi said “you know, you’re stupit, you have no common sense”with the African gestures and African accent 😂😂😂😂 she meant every word and I agree. Oooo I felt that one.
My favorite part😂😂😂
Dying at “Ode” 🤣🤣🤣 Come through with the Yoruba, aunty Fumi 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love you Fumi . You always speak the truth🇯🇲❤
My Good Sister Fumi has given us the raw uncut version of real hard truth and facts!!!
Not Fumi reading Adeola’s message like she wrote it herself 😂
I lived for it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Auntyy Fumms, Aunty Fumi. At this point you would pass as a preacher. Because Mama you are spitting facts. I love how you praise the Lord we pray to!!! I love this.
Fumi. You are a STORY TELLER!😂. We learn, we learn. We learn from you. ❤️👍🏽
Silly women it’s quite annoying when they fight over a man when they need to drop his foolish, scrubby and dusty self. He doesn’t care. The worst part is he’s probably basking in this drama. Finding people with integrity is such a rare thing these days. We are definitely missing this level of verbal reprimand from our elders..always love hearing your nuggets of wisdome Aunty Fumi!
It really is a crying shame.
You can’t take him if he doesn’t want to go.
My mummy Fumi who I’ve never met but gives me life everytime she speaks. May Gods spirit continue to reside in and around you. 🇬🇧❤️
I really pray that the younger generation of sisters hear you. All wisdom here y’all💯
NC USA
🇿🇦✊🏾,I am in SA.Thanks Fumi for this story always, well dissected and disseminated.
I love this woman. I hope someone or even both sisters get this shared. It’s no way they would not learn and take this too heart. Momaduke gave it to them straight no chaser.
We as women think men don't know what they are doing.
They do.
Follow the actions.
The end.
We are not victims. We just need to stop making excuses and acting like men are dumb.
They are not.
Men can and will be with you while knowng the whole time you are not the one.
When they find the one they move on. Regardless of how long you were together.
It's sad but it is how they operate.
Pay attention to men without the emotions and sense of morality.
They are very easy to figure out.
How do you figure out?
It's interesting because they come across easy to figure out but are very complex too.
I kind of admire how they live their life in their own terms without any regard for how anyone feels about it.
@@QueenAmour8888 they’re not complex though. When it comes to marriage and men it’s all about timing. They’ll let their soulmate pass them by because they’re not ready to get married. Once they’re ready, they marry the next time woman who’s decent enough. Men don’t find mothers sexy, they seem to lose interest once you have their child. I believe this is because they’ve successfully captured you in every way. When you don’t desire marriage and children, they seem to want you more. Again, this comes back to capturing you. I have more. Men are pretty transparent to me and often time brutally honest. People just don’t believe them when they tell the truth and over analyze what they said.
SMH I could never do something like that, we don't even have to be friends. If you and your man is in the same room at the same event with me.. He is off limits. If she knew that girl did not like her why go around her, to me she was plotting probably was only showing up to entice that man... On a different note, Fumi amazing views on the topic.. It so delightful to here your view and great advice. I felt this.
Chin on the floor Fumi read her to pieces Omg, but 1000% right on all 3 of them
This is messy!! What’s with these models thinking they can get away with UGLY behavior, smh?!🤦🏻♀️
Models are the ones that have the LOWEST self-esteems. Look at Leo he dates models gets what hecwants and then tosses them. Thecsame wull happen to her and she knows it. The fact that she came to the party and then say they were never friends is despicable. So then what were you to her? The Trojan horse with the steaming crotch?! Giiiiirrrrl!
The first time I saw this story was on Facebook and immediately thought about Auntie Fumi"s take on this and here she is covering the story 😱😱 thanks Auntie Fumie for your take on this Karma indeed does not play!
I was taught what goes around it will certainly come back around. People better know karma is real and she's really really mean. And she takes no prisoners. NONE. Love you so very much mz Fumi. Keep up your good work.
Just the topic alone had me pissed
Hi Fumi! Shout out from Jamaica we love u
Ms. Fumi, thank you so much for all of your stories, encouragement and words of wisdom. "Pray for long life; so that your enemies live to see your success." I Truly and sincerely appreciate Everything I've learned from you, since subscribing to Fumination. You've uplifted and healed me; so much, since observing your tutorials.I wish I had someone as genuine as you, in my life.. I'm still holding on to see what the Lord does, during the remainder of my journey.
Damn sister Fumi. You told it how it is. Preach it girl!😮
Fumi was handing out wisdom and spankings TODAY!!!
Amen, Karma will find anyone who does dirt toward another. My brother had 11 kids and died without them. Not one out of the 11 was by his side.
Sister Fumi you have fans from around the world, please hail us out when you greet Nigeria and US fans. I’m one of your UK fans😊
She might be a model but there’s a deep seated lack of self esteem that she needs to deal with. She should never have given this man who has no self control or respect an audience in the first place. Such a shame.
Fumi you are a RIOT "the tea is so hotttt, that your hair is falling apart," you have me laughing scandalously. In my part of the world we call that situation between the ladies "a bacchanal."
Imagine two grown ass women fighting each other over a man. One who doesn't deserve it at that!? SMH.
Thank you Fumi...
Beautifully said about the man...
God bless you you 🙏🏻 ❤️
Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦
Your message to Adeola is loud and clear!!!
Aunty Fumi speaks the truth….she is unfiltered….God bless you 🤍🤍🤍🙏🏾
Look at the man they are fighting over though, wow!! lol
Preach and teach your wisdom with class my Beautiful Classy Sista Fumi! Love ya❤
I Love You for this episode Funmi. You hit the freaking Nail on the head! Good job 👌 You flogged everybody well accordingly 🤣
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Everybody was flogged well well 😂😂
Fumi your blouse is beautiful
Styles always on Point
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This happened to me. I had a roommate once, and she did just this! Thank God, I didn’t have any children with him, but not her. She married him, had two kids, then turned around and he had put her out of their home, moved another women in, threw their their clothes out of the home. I know a lot more happened, but I wasn’t interested in knowing. She’s foolish! That’s what she gets!
Oh dear 🤭😭😂😂😂
We all have girlfriends that will not listen to good advice. These two beautiful young women had to learn these hard lessons through experience. I wish them both well.
The pedestal is on top of the garbage can and you are leftover food… 😂 😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂 I love the way that you tell it.
I was the victim in a similar situation with my husband of 20 years so this hit home. No one gets away with anything and everything does come back. Thank you for the laugh Beautiful Fumi. ❤
There are plenty of older lonely dead beat dads now with no family to help them.
No grandchildren and my grandkids are the light in my life now.
I've been waiting for this sister 2 sister episode since you first posted the story on instagram.. Thanks auntie for the video 🤗 xoxo
Hi Aunty Fumi 👋🏾🥰 Love you and youre right, I heard people in Nigeria 🇳🇬 say "You're illiterate!" when someone was in an argument. I visited Naija in 2015...miss it dearly. I miss my friends there. But I must say this...
Why would any woman want someone's left overs? I'm confused. There are many men in the world, why did she have to sleep with her "friend's" baby daddy? Messy and un-lady like. Eww. That's not nice and karma has no expiration date.
My god I just love you and the advice you have given to that young lady leave it in god’s hands ❤
Aunty Fumi killed me when she started calling her stupid with no sense😂😂
Such beautiful girls fighting that guy is so sad. Why not fight with him, not each other. Get a grip and move on with good brothers out there.
When it comes to betrayal. I always tell people Judas betrayed Jesus. Sooooo. We shouldn’t expect too much from others.
As always, this was a good session. Thank you, you're very good at this, keep it coming.
Fumi you are a gem 💎, may God keep you safe so you can continue to enrich all of us with the daily knowledge that's so lacking in the society and the world at large.Karma is warming up for our model!!
Wow fumi you really know how to put the truth in perspective. You've said it well. Everything that you said is true. If people would wake up , what you do is coming back to you, and you don't know in what manner it's coming. I've seen some horrible things that my family members and non family members went through, I can never forget. Love peace and blessings to you fumi and family.