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I honestly don't feel sorry for chioma anymore. She knew what she signed up for. She always knew he was a womaniser. He already had a couple women pregnant while he was dating chioma. Marrying him won't make him faithful, it'll just make her legally bound to all his bs
Unfortunately for children of that age, drowning in swimming pools is a fairly common occurrence. The same thing happened to Debanji's son. And in Ifeanyi's case, his dad was just teaching him how to swim the week before so its possible that he was curious to get into the pool again. That apart, he was a very lovely hyperactive child from the videos posted. All it took, is a second to look away. May his soul continue to rest in peace.
One thing some men will always have is audacity. The audacity to entitlement, theaudacity to embarrass their woman and the audacity to think that they can get away with everything. I feel for chioma who just lost her beautiful son and is still grieving while davido is out there finding comfort in other women when he should be comforting her. I know deep down she feels like these babies are replacing their son. Sad sad sad situation
Chioma at this point has no self respect for herself because how can she lose a child and still stay with that character while he sows his wild oats everywhere like an unsolicited philander. Just ewwwwh
My father always says " marriage is not an antidote to womanizing" Chioma needs to realize she deserves better and want it. For a man to want to marry you only at the point of your child loss is not the best.
So people are jumping on her for being with a married man....saying she shoulda known. Didn't he know he was married? Why are people so quick to throw stones only at the woman?
They are not ino both parties are to be blamed. However sleeping with him is one thing, but to have a whole child by a married man is another level. You have to think about yourself and your child. Ask your self do I really want to raise my child with someone who is their for what a few minutes or maybe an hour or two. That would not be fair to you nor the innocent child
I believe her when she said she didn’t know he was married. Davido never posted wedding pictures and there’s nothing on his page indicating that he’s married. Mainly those in the African community know that Chioma and Davido did a traditional marriage mainly in order to properly burry their late son. It was a private ceremony.
@@sheca8699 Are you supporting/condoning abortion? What if, that's the only child she might ever have, or, lose her life/womb, in the process? Not condoning what happened, but it's happened, it's got to be lived with, periodt.
Chioma knew/knows the man she was getting with. To think he'll change just because he's married smh it's a joke. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. & Well said Fumi.
@@thespot2035How is he clown? mind your language . He is a young man and these ladies knew he got a lady called Chioma they still went ahead to sleep with him for whatever reason, All the stars do it Just because your husband's haven't been caught yet doesn't mean they don't sleep around.
He has the audacity. This is a sad case all around. I Hope she musters up the courage to leave him. She’s incredibly beautiful, resourceful and she’s still young. She needs to pack and Go
She will not go any where, he has money and she don’t feel that she deserves better. Rita Marley went through the same shit. We as black women don’t value ourselves. All these women knew about Chioma but don’t care because he has money.
@@patiencekonney4922 Yuo, so until she can care about herself, she is being foolish to stay. But she is a beautiful young girl and can find another man. She should be in a position to at least get alimony
Oh Fumi you are the epitome of black beauty love the look today. Looking for a summer makeup tutorial from you for the natural looking goddess glow. I’m here for it!!!😊
This Davido giving his stick to any woman who breathes his direction is low, dirty and disrespectful. It’s giving me Innocent 2Baba Idibia vibes. My heart bleeds for Chioma, over and above the tragic loss of her Son, this man is going to break her so badly she will not recognise herself if she doesn’t leave! This is just a marriage on paper because Davido is running the streeeeeeets, and not gloving it, busy having babies on her left, right and centre. He won’t stop. Run Chioma, Run! Aunt Fumi dishing gems as always ❤ from Durban, South Africa 🇿🇦
Chioma has decided to waste her youth on Davido he is a star and gives her the lifestyle she ain't leaving believe that and he'll stay with her out of guilt NOT love
SISTA FUMI!!!! You went all the way in, and I was here for it!!! I discovered myself soooo late in life. So much time wasted, I could of did so much better at parenting. If I had known the strength I needed, and I looked for in my husband, was in ME all the time. I was the one who always rose to the equation, while my husband retreated. My lesson was ==> nobody can love you all the way, if you don't even know yourself all the way. The entire real true mature you has to be presented, if you want to you to be loved. Unfortunately, I decided that I don't want to be in ANY relationship. I am 20 years into loving and discovering myself. My new love is knowledge. Learning about people, places, and things. Loving the world as a whole. Because really in the big picture, we're all in a relationship with each other. If we don't make this relationship work, there is no hope for humanity. So "I" decided that my love is wasted on 1 individual (with exception of my extended family). I took my love global. I don't want or need my love returned. I give my love freely and unconditionally to humanity. 1 Creator, 1 World, 1 Love.
Wow! This makes me feel reassured for choosing to continue to wait for a quality partner to have children with, I am 39. Wow, I have always said I wanted a partner/marriage/family. I have been doing the work over the past 4 years to heal, I have learned so much during this time and I am now praying that God will send my husband, a man who is emotionally healthy and healed as I will be too! Thank you for your comment @misspickles47
This is how it should be. Just be alert and careful so it doesn't lead to letting yourself go or getting involved with multiple people because one doesn't want to be hurt.
Hi Madame Fumi. Well said. New here watching you and I like every single thing you said here. I am American born Togolese, our African brothers I wish they learned our parents' mistake and be better husbands and treat their women better unfortunately some of them just carry on. Great job sister Fumi.
It's honestly mind boggling that he can sleep with all these women (and we only know the ones that got pregnant) without any form of protection. Even if you don't care about your wife, you should at least care about yourself.
So you believe all these stories, these other stories is just to try separate this couple. What happens to cut and past stories. When Rihanna was pregnant with. asap that's how they carried rumours about him going out with Rihanna.
@@josroberts9069Stop being a super fan. If he did not want his name in the streets then he should have been discreet. All of these women need to get an HIV test and some therapy.
Sad! What is even more annoying is how Nigerians are justifying Davido's behaviour. I think this is good to tame him a bit. As for Chioma, I want to believe she understood the memo from the beginning. She knew what she got herself into and I know she enjoys the luxury that comes with being with Davido and that alone is enough for her to get with everything that comes with it. The earlier we know that not all men are husbands, the better for us. As for Anita, just like aunty Fumi rightly said, she shouldn't bother herself responding to trolls. Her mental health should be her focus on this journey. She should not even bother coming to Nigeria, set the stage and do your interviews remotely.
Agreed. But altho Anita lied , that girl knew Davido was married. Everyone knew he was in a relationship. Davido is totally wrong. But Anita, slept without protection she also wants the attention. We are in 2023, before she started relationship with him I am such she looked him up🤔😒.
I adore this color scheme on you, Auntie Fumi! I feel like lavender/purple/blue look stunning on you the most! You’re oozing with radiance and vibrancy! Love ittttttttt!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I pray chioma find this video and the words you had for her You made me cry and I don’t even relate, my life is not bad I wished I had a mother or a aunty like you I take your wise words aunty Fumi God bless you 🤎
Yeah!!! Wonderful! So happy for you. I’ve been natural since I was 27 years old and I and 56 yers old now. It’s going to be a great journey for you. Happy day! 🤩🤩
😊of course she can. The first I hear her I smiled...I love that she speak it. Proud to be Nigerian 😊😊😊. English is to many words to make a direct point😂
Love the outfit ❤ Anita has a point 😂 when she says , “does he look married?” But i give her a side eye 👀 when she says she doesn’t know he is married. naah! Can’t believe that.
Exactly! If I was dating a very popular artist, I'd be googling his history. This reminds me of the time Megan Markle said she did not know who prince Harry was, like really? Even when you did find out, you need to do your due diligence to research who this person is and family history! It's 2023 people, I'm sorry but there are no excuses, she just likes the lifestyle and bag that comes with this man smh!
Truthfully I didn't know Davido married Chioma until this scandal came out. Plus she lives in another part of the world, it's normal to just know the surface stuff about certain celebrities.
Chioma probably listening to her family that probably say she must not leave because of the benefits they get from her being married to Davido. One day she will stand up for herself and leave.
@@knowz2367 where does it say she come from a rich family? She clearly comes from an average family. U can't come from from a rich family and tolerate that
As a proud Nigerian 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 I can relate with everything you have said aunty funmi. You did justice to this topic 💯. Big ups to you my beautiful Nigerian auntie . I love it when you speak naija pidgin 😜😜😜 .. it gives me LIFE❤️❤️❤️
Queen Fumi👸🏽!!! As usual, nobody does it like you!!! Where have you been all our lives!!!🤣🤣🤣 Perfecto👍🏾👏🏾🌸💖 Please we want more of indigenous English from you ooo, we your fans they gbadun you joo😄🥰🥰🥰
As much as I feel bad for chioma, she needs to be held accountable for her life choices. She knew very well what she was getting into. She will remain with Davido until she is fed up. Hope she is safe. Because Davido has already shown her that he has no regards for her safety.
This sounds Victim blamey friend. Why would we blame the woman for what her loved one has done in deceiving her? We are human. We are complex. We all get hurt and it’s not our fault.
Thank you 🙏 - Madam Fumi for sharing great words of *WISEDOM* , not just to Chioma - (the wife), but to alll womenfolk globally. We in KE 🇰🇪 wish Chioma all the best in her endeavors + a healthy gestational period. Please be strong, stay SANE, stay HEALTHY for yourself and the unborn child! 🙏
I've come to comment before even hearing about Davido to tell you you look stunning in that turban and the beat is immaculate👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I'm reminded that African women really are the beauty standard. You look stunning💯
I love you Fumi ❤ and I love how you’re so sensitive with cultural differences but still very much SPOT ON with the assessment of the situation! I can’t wait for a TALK SHOW!!!
This woman is so descriptive of men, she understands life. Money and fame is good, but the happiness you pass unto your spouse and people around is paramount. 😂
So true Fumi not all men are father’s, not all men are husbands . Wise words you’re an inspiration to us women. Wish these ladies all the best and a safe and healthy pregnancy! Please ladies focus on yourselves and your babies. Put you and your child first!
I really like the way you talk about both women. You are very respectful and not here to tear people down. For this reason, I will follow you in the future. I can tell you have reach crystallized intelligence. ❤
It's how he remembers his itinerary. I won't say lol because there are some women that are truly disadvantaged by his behavior. Wake up ladies - make yourselves top priority. Don't fall for the okey-doke.
❤❤❤❤Love the going back to natural hair. I'M HERE FOR IT!!!. I love it when black women embrace our own hair. Such a positive message for young black girls. I'm also 54 and went back to my natural hair last year.
Fumi!!!!!!!! When dont you look fabulous??? The whole look is amazing!! Loved the last episode at the hair studio and the turban is🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. God bless you Sister 💯❤❤❤❤
Aunty Fumi your Niece America is clapping at this episode! You laid down several golden nuggets of wisdom! Thanks for always speaking the truth! Love your videos❤!
Aunti Fumi went in on us ladies!! She is right! I’m thankful for a wonderful, responsible, loving husband! I’ll make my daughter watch her great-aunt Fumi when she is old enough ❤
Wow, you gave them beautiful advice. We need more knowledgeable women out here like you. You were fair and I felt that the words of advice came from your heart. This was my first time listening to you and I just subscribed.
I love this lady. I just stumbled on her on TH-cam. She’s the Aunty I didn’t know I needed. Stunning, beautiful, classy and smart. I had to hit subscribe straightaway!! ❤
Fumi you made me cry when you said that what you don’t get from the father of your child you get it from the child. My Nigerian baby daddy beat me black and blue and left me with his son and he never provided for us till this day my son is 10yrs old. Everybody said to me the boy is my blessing and hearing you say that made me cry. Thank you sista.
This is my first time here and I LIVE FOR YOUR ENERGY OMG!!!!!! YOU ARE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR!!!! Auntie when you spoke directly to chioma i felt every word in my heart im over here in tears , you gave us ALL words of wisdom and i needed to hear all of this . Thank you so much❤
I just felt that silent before saying "not all men are husbands, and not all men are fathers" 😢I love the way you analysed this topic FROM ANITA, DAVIDO AND CHIOMA. I love your honest opinion
Aunty Fumi, ah you just took the words out of my mouth 🔊🔊🔊👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. My heart goes out to Chioma, I pray she remains strong like the Lionness she is, and focus on this Rainbow Baby she is carrying. That should be her priority and her welfare and that of the baby should be paramount. I just hope that for Chioma's health and wellbeing, as well as the baby, Davido doesn't bring diseases to her. If he doesn't care about his own self and wellbeing, Aunty Fumi is right, Chioma needs to love him from a distance. Blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🤗🤗🤗
You look AMAZING! Your soul shines through your light is So bright... The woman should get together over some tea and decided how to coparent the new baby together as a strong unit. The more love baby has better for him/her
One of a husband's responsibilities is to protect his wife. Where is the protection of the wife when the husband has unprotected sex with other women? 🤦🏽♀️
I don’t know anything about this; however, my heart goes out to anyone who’s being cheated on. I was a wife that was cheated on. So I have first hand knowledge. It’s not a good thing. I’d say get out of that relationship. It’s beneath you. This man loves himself, no one else.
Gosh, I’m not pregnant for DAVIDO neither have I ever been with him. But this video was for me none the less and I’m sure plenty of you ladies can relate. Let us love and choose ourselves first.
Auntie Fumi, can you please do a social media etiquette video - especially for young women who still need to settle down and find employment in the real world?
Also Anita’s child should know ALL of its siblings, no matter the country. It’s not any of Davido’s children’s fault that he ‘s made such a mess. 🙏🏾😔❤️ To Chioma.
I don't know if I believe if she did not know that he was married. I knew he was married. However going after Anita ain't it. It's Davido's issue. Very sad that the wife is collateral damage,but she can choose to move on without him if she is wise.
Whether she believes it or not, the responsibility to be faithful is on him. I don't agree with seeing married men however the person in a committed relationship has the responsibility
My take home, not every man is a husband, not every man is a father. The advice to Chioma is th epitome of this video. Nice hearing Aunty Fumi in the Nigerian accent👌👌👌👌
Aunty Funmi, this advise you gave Chioma is meant for me... I have been in a toxic relationship for the longest time. I thought I won't get love from anyone else.I loved that soul with my every breath but I didnt get half of what I gave. I sat down one night and asked myself how long will I allow myself to be a toy in the hand of a confused Man? I walked away and never looked back
I can't help but think of Dominique Deveraux (Diahann Carroll) from Dynasty, as i watch you. The elegance, effortless style, poise, radiant skin, flawless make-up, compassion and wisdom! My sister, this is my first time watching your videos. Let me tell you, I'm hooked! As for our little sister, Chioma, my heart goes out to her, but she has to decide how much anguish she is willing to endure.
Hello my beautiful FumiNation 💕 Below are all the links to my beauty and style look in this episode! 😊
EVERYTHING I WORE ARE "BLACK OWNED BRANDS' AND MOST ARE AFRICAN 🖤
JUVIS PLACE - Discount Code - FUMI - www.juviasplace.com/collections/eyes/products/the-coffee-eyeshadow-palette
COLOURED RAINE - Discount Code FUMI - colouredraine.com/en-gb/collections/eyes/products/rebellious-nudes-eyeshadow-palette
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TURBAN - aderemifaleye@gmail.com - instagram.com/adelori__
CHIFFON BLOUSE - instagram.com/waafashiononline/
UOMA BEAUTY - instagram.com/uomabeauty/
NECKLACE - tarocollection.co.uk/product-category/make-waves-jewels/ - instagram.com/tarocollection.co.uk/
I am LOVING you Auntie Fumi!!!! You’re not even old enough to be my Auntie, but you and all your FABULOUSNESS warrant respect. 🤷🏿♀️❤️🔥🔥🔥
Aunty Fumi ejo Ma, can we get the plug for your fabulous turban? 🙏🏾
This is great advise for Chioma
" Not all men are husbands , not all men are fathers". It's noted ma.
🔊🔊🔊 Speak on it
AMEN 🙏🏻
indeed!
🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️PERIOD!!
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I honestly feel bad for Chioma and still feel that the circumstances around her son's death were strange. I hope she finds herself.
@@BEGINNERFRIENDLY_SEWINGit’s common but not normal don’t say that.😢
I honestly don't feel sorry for chioma anymore. She knew what she signed up for. She always knew he was a womaniser. He already had a couple women pregnant while he was dating chioma. Marrying him won't make him faithful, it'll just make her legally bound to all his bs
Unfortunately for children of that age, drowning in swimming pools is a fairly common occurrence. The same thing happened to Debanji's son. And in Ifeanyi's case, his dad was just teaching him how to swim the week before so its possible that he was curious to get into the pool again. That apart, he was a very lovely hyperactive child from the videos posted. All it took, is a second to look away. May his soul continue to rest in peace.
The Big Auntie we all need❤❤❤
Well said 👏🏽
@stylebydebbie4912 there's nothing normal about that death. Shush!!
One thing some men will always have is audacity. The audacity to entitlement, theaudacity to embarrass their woman and the audacity to think that they can get away with everything. I feel for chioma who just lost her beautiful son and is still grieving while davido is out there finding comfort in other women when he should be comforting her. I know deep down she feels like these babies are replacing their son. Sad sad sad situation
Chioma at this point has no self respect for herself because how can she lose a child and still stay with that character while he sows his wild oats everywhere like an unsolicited philander. Just ewwwwh
If the table was turned he wouldn’t be able to handle it
@@snsn7251.Amen !!🙏❤
❤️❤️❤️🙌🙌🙌…My thoughts exactly!!…Couldn’t have said it any better !!!
@@snsn7251True, True, True. Preach ma'am! 100% totally agree. Women, open ya ears wide. Love yaselves. GOD bless.
My father always says " marriage is not an antidote to womanizing" Chioma needs to realize she deserves better and want it. For a man to want to marry you only at the point of your child loss is not the best.
Chioma is slowly becoming Ani Idibia. She is too young and too beautiful. She needs to want more for herself.
I thought they were planning their wedding before their child died.
She is so Beautiful
@@lilyifeyinwa3549exactly they was
Money ain’t everything.. you want peace, stability and security and commitment
Honestly, I love the interjection of Pigin in the conversation and I seriously love your Pigin english so much.
I was impressed too!!
So people are jumping on her for being with a married man....saying she shoulda known. Didn't he know he was married? Why are people so quick to throw stones only at the woman?
They are not ino both parties are to be blamed. However sleeping with him is one thing, but to have a whole child by a married man is another level. You have to think about yourself and your child. Ask your self do I really want to raise my child with someone who is their for what a few minutes or maybe an hour or two. That would not be fair to you nor the innocent child
I agree the women didn’t make any vows Davido did
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I believe her when she said she didn’t know he was married. Davido never posted wedding pictures and there’s nothing on his page indicating that he’s married. Mainly those in the African community know that Chioma and Davido did a traditional marriage mainly in order to properly burry their late son. It was a private ceremony.
@@sheca8699 Are you supporting/condoning abortion? What if, that's the only child she might ever have, or, lose her life/womb, in the process? Not condoning what happened, but it's happened, it's got to be lived with, periodt.
Chioma knew/knows the man she was getting with. To think he'll change just because he's married smh it's a joke. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. & Well said Fumi.
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@@thespot2035🙌❤️
Did she come and complain to you? Just give your opinion and let go.
@@thespot2035How is he clown? mind your language . He is a young man and these ladies knew he got a lady called Chioma they still went ahead to sleep with him for whatever reason, All the stars do it Just because your husband's haven't been caught yet doesn't mean they don't sleep around.
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You truly addressed Chioma like an aunty who cares it really brought me to tears.. the care and kindness woooow
That silent moment before ”not all men are husband’s“ thank you Auntie, NOTED.
Aunty Fums, your delivery on this one was EPIC. You sound so good speaking pidgin English.
He has the audacity. This is a sad case all around. I Hope she musters up the courage to leave him. She’s incredibly beautiful, resourceful and she’s still young. She needs to pack and Go
She will not go any where, he has money and she don’t feel that she deserves better. Rita Marley went through the same shit. We as black women don’t value ourselves. All these women knew about Chioma but don’t care because he has money.
EASILY SAID WHEN ITS NOT I YOUR SHOES..
@@patiencekonney4922 Yuo, so until she can care about herself, she is being foolish to stay. But she is a beautiful young girl and can find another man. She should be in a position to at least get alimony
She is ok looking and knows very well she will not bag another Davido,she's not interested in an average guy,she ain't leaving
Money money money money money money!
Women don’t like leaving wealthy men.
Oh Fumi you are the epitome of black beauty love the look today. Looking for a summer makeup tutorial from you for the natural looking goddess glow. I’m here for it!!!😊
YESSSSS We need that Summer makeup tutorial FUMI, ⭐
We all need an Auntie Funmi in our lives.
This Davido giving his stick to any woman who breathes his direction is low, dirty and disrespectful. It’s giving me Innocent 2Baba Idibia vibes. My heart bleeds for Chioma, over and above the tragic loss of her Son, this man is going to break her so badly she will not recognise herself if she doesn’t leave! This is just a marriage on paper because Davido is running the streeeeeeets, and not gloving it, busy having babies on her left, right and centre. He won’t stop. Run Chioma, Run! Aunt Fumi dishing gems as always ❤ from Durban, South Africa 🇿🇦
True
I think Chioma is fine..
Chioma has decided to waste her youth on Davido he is a star and gives her the lifestyle she ain't leaving believe that and he'll stay with her out of guilt NOT love
SISTA FUMI!!!! You went all the way in, and I was here for it!!! I discovered myself soooo late in life. So much time wasted, I could of did so much better at parenting. If I had known the strength I needed, and I looked for in my husband, was in ME all the time. I was the one who always rose to the equation, while my husband retreated. My lesson was ==> nobody can love you all the way, if you don't even know yourself all the way. The entire real true mature you has to be presented, if you want to you to be loved. Unfortunately, I decided that I don't want to be in ANY relationship. I am 20 years into loving and discovering myself. My new love is knowledge. Learning about people, places, and things. Loving the world as a whole. Because really in the big picture, we're all in a relationship with each other. If we don't make this relationship work, there is no hope for humanity. So "I" decided that my love is wasted on 1 individual (with exception of my extended family). I took my love global. I don't want or need my love returned. I give my love freely and unconditionally to humanity. 1 Creator, 1 World, 1 Love.
I love how you stated this. This is deep and not many will understand. I feel the same way❤
Feel exactly the same
Wow! This makes me feel reassured for choosing to continue to wait for a quality partner to have children with, I am 39. Wow, I have always said I wanted a partner/marriage/family. I have been doing the work over the past 4 years to heal, I have learned so much during this time and I am now praying that God will send my husband, a man who is emotionally healthy and healed as I will be too!
Thank you for your comment @misspickles47
This is how it should be. Just be alert and careful so it doesn't lead to letting yourself go or getting involved with multiple people because one doesn't want to be hurt.
Love this for you. Your words deeply resonate with me.
The softness and compassion you're giving to Chioma during your video... Thank you for this.
Hi Madame Fumi. Well said. New here watching you and I like every single thing you said here. I am American born Togolese, our African brothers I wish they learned our parents' mistake and be better husbands and treat their women better unfortunately some of them just carry on. Great job sister Fumi.
They will follow their upbringing regardless of the consequences
It's honestly mind boggling that he can sleep with all these women (and we only know the ones that got pregnant) without any form of protection. Even if you don't care about your wife, you should at least care about yourself.
So you believe all these stories, these other stories is just to try separate this couple. What happens to cut and past stories. When Rihanna was pregnant with. asap that's how they carried rumours about him going out with Rihanna.
@@josroberts9069these women have evidence he sent them money and dated, Oponu.
@@josroberts9069Stop being a super fan. If he did not want his name in the streets then he should have been discreet. All of these women need to get an HIV test and some therapy.
@@josroberts9069 stop making excuses. Anita gave us receipts of the texts with him admitting that there were others
You must not always showcase your stupidity on social media, keep your disgusting hands down if you don't know what to type Ewu.
You are funny, Fumi. You tell the truth and lighten it up with humor. Love you!❤
Sad! What is even more annoying is how Nigerians are justifying Davido's behaviour. I think this is good to tame him a bit. As for Chioma, I want to believe she understood the memo from the beginning. She knew what she got herself into and I know she enjoys the luxury that comes with being with Davido and that alone is enough for her to get with everything that comes with it. The earlier we know that not all men are husbands, the better for us. As for Anita, just like aunty Fumi rightly said, she shouldn't bother herself responding to trolls. Her mental health should be her focus on this journey. She should not even bother coming to Nigeria, set the stage and do your interviews remotely.
Agreed. But altho Anita lied , that girl knew Davido was married. Everyone knew he was in a relationship. Davido is totally wrong. But Anita, slept without protection she also wants the attention. We are in 2023, before she started relationship with him I am such she looked him up🤔😒.
@tayoosiyemi5130 my understanding is that they were on and off before he married with him even referencing her in a couple of his songs...
I agree 💯 with you Fumi.. with all the STD's out there; Why not protect yourselves ladies? Yes we as women have to make smart choices
I adore this color scheme on you, Auntie Fumi! I feel like lavender/purple/blue look stunning on you the most! You’re oozing with radiance and vibrancy! Love ittttttttt!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I spotted no lies. Auntie Fumi, your wisdom is exemplary
I pray chioma find this video and the words you had for her
You made me cry and I don’t even relate, my life is not bad
I wished I had a mother or a aunty like you
I take your wise words aunty Fumi
God bless you 🤎
you ate them all for breakfast lunch and dinner , with such class and wisdom. At some points i felt like you were talking to me. blessings
Spoken like a good mother to her naughty daughter. God bless you Ma'am. 🙏❤
Right!
True, told with so much love too❤
Yeah!!! Wonderful! So happy for you. I’ve been natural since I was 27 years old and I and 56 yers old now. It’s going to be a great journey for you. Happy day! 🤩🤩
Aunty Fumi- i didn't know you could speak pidgin so well! Great episode, and full of wisdom as always.
😊of course she can. The first I hear her I smiled...I love that she speak it. Proud to be Nigerian 😊😊😊. English is to many words to make a direct point😂
Love the outfit ❤
Anita has a point 😂 when she says , “does he look married?”
But i give her a side eye 👀 when she says she doesn’t know he is married. naah! Can’t believe that.
For real though 😅, everybody knows Davido was married 🤣.
Exactly! If I was dating a very popular artist, I'd be googling his history. This reminds me of the time Megan Markle said she did not know who prince Harry was, like really? Even when you did find out, you need to do your due diligence to research who this person is and family history! It's 2023 people, I'm sorry but there are no excuses, she just likes the lifestyle and bag that comes with this man smh!
@@samkaybeauty2862 everybody from Nigeria, not everybody cause i been listened to him for every but didn't know he's married.
Truthfully I didn't know Davido married Chioma until this scandal came out. Plus she lives in another part of the world, it's normal to just know the surface stuff about certain celebrities.
Me that I’m in Ghana that’s closer to Nigeria I didn’t know that he was married ooh 😂
How much more someone in USA
When Aunty Fums said "so Anita bye bye, Chioma take a seat " 😂😂😂
Chioma probably listening to her family that probably say she must not leave because of the benefits they get from her being married to Davido. One day she will stand up for herself and leave.
Doesn't Chioma come from a rich family? Isn't her father a multi millionare?
She too is there for the money
@@knowz2367don't think so afterall he would have paid for her school fee but he couldn't instead davido did yet she dropped out.
@@knowz2367 where does it say she come from a rich family? She clearly comes from an average family. U can't come from from a rich family and tolerate that
Her parents have no hand in it. She chose to be with him no matter what. We are from the same village.
As a proud Nigerian 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 I can relate with everything you have said aunty funmi. You did justice to this topic 💯. Big ups to you my beautiful Nigerian auntie . I love it when you speak naija pidgin 😜😜😜 .. it gives me LIFE❤️❤️❤️
Queen Fumi👸🏽!!! As usual, nobody does it like you!!! Where have you been all our lives!!!🤣🤣🤣
Perfecto👍🏾👏🏾🌸💖
Please we want more of indigenous English from you ooo, we your fans they gbadun you joo😄🥰🥰🥰
As much as I feel bad for chioma, she needs to be held accountable for her life choices. She knew very well what she was getting into. She will remain with Davido until she is fed up. Hope she is safe. Because Davido has already shown her that he has no regards for her safety.
Thank you! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
True. Chioma got some issues too.
So far that girl has not complained to anyone...
@@giftedchild9490 oh really...so should remain oblivious to the fact that she is highly at risk now
This sounds Victim blamey friend. Why would we blame the woman for what her loved one has done in deceiving her? We are human. We are complex. We all get hurt and it’s not our fault.
TRUE FACTS AUNTIE TOLD AND SAID NO LIES. And FUMI is and always gorgeous inside and out 👑🔥👏🏾🖤💜🧡❤✌🏾
The most beautiful advise to all us women no matter what colour or age...Thank you Fumi❤
When I say am proud of Nigerians; this is what I mean! Effortless, poise, beautiful and intelligent!! Can’t wait for the podcast and talk show!!!❤
Amen
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She sounds Sierra Leonean though
@@Themystergamerras a half Sierra Leonean, she does
But Fumi is also half Gambian I believe, so maybe that’s why her accent isn’t straight up Naija
Thank you 🙏 - Madam Fumi for sharing great words of *WISEDOM* , not just to Chioma - (the wife), but to alll womenfolk globally.
We in KE 🇰🇪 wish Chioma all the best in her endeavors + a healthy gestational period. Please be strong, stay SANE, stay HEALTHY for yourself and the unborn child! 🙏
I died when she said “ if you open your legs he will come, it sweet, it’s soft …” 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😅
I've come to comment before even hearing about Davido to tell you you look stunning in that turban and the beat is immaculate👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I'm reminded that African women really are the beauty standard. You look stunning💯
I love you Fumi ❤ and I love how you’re so sensitive with cultural differences but still very much SPOT ON with the assessment of the situation! I can’t wait for a TALK SHOW!!!
Or listen to a pod cast with an occasional guest. I only want to listen to her, Fumi is all I need…she is EVERYTHING!
🙏🏿👌🏾
Can't wait.
I absolutely luv this wise woman and how she gathered all of them together and gave them a much needed word! Speak Fumi! 🖤🖤🖤
You are going to look stunning with your natural hair ❤
This woman is so descriptive of men, she understands life. Money and fame is good, but the happiness you pass unto your spouse and people around is paramount. 😂
Not all men are husbands. I think that says it all.
So true Fumi not all men are father’s, not all men are husbands . Wise words you’re an inspiration to us women. Wish these ladies all the best and a safe and healthy pregnancy! Please ladies focus on yourselves and your babies. Put you and your child first!
I really like the way you talk about both women. You are very respectful and not here to tear people down. For this reason, I will follow you in the future. I can tell you have reach crystallized intelligence. ❤
You look beautiful Fumi love your look.
Aunty Fumi coming with the facts and the tea! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
“Anywhere you go on tour you must get somebody pregnant “😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's how he remembers his itinerary. I won't say lol because there are some women that are truly disadvantaged by his behavior. Wake up ladies - make yourselves top priority. Don't fall for the okey-doke.
❤❤❤❤Love the going back to natural hair. I'M HERE FOR IT!!!. I love it when black women embrace our own hair. Such a positive message for young black girls. I'm also 54 and went back to my natural hair last year.
Oh…seems I missed that part. I’ll rewatch but can you give me the time. Thanks.
Fumi!!!!!!!! When dont you look fabulous??? The whole look is amazing!! Loved the last episode at the hair studio and the turban is🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. God bless you Sister 💯❤❤❤❤
Fumz! Enjoy the packing and unpacking. We will wait for you. I live for you. ❤
Aunty Fumi your Niece America is clapping at this episode! You laid down several golden nuggets of wisdom! Thanks for always speaking the truth! Love your videos❤!
Aunty Fuji, you are such a gem. Such wise, sage, heartfelt words to all involved. I love it here!
Aunti Fumi went in on us ladies!! She is right! I’m thankful for a wonderful, responsible, loving husband! I’ll make my daughter watch her great-aunt Fumi when she is old enough ❤
Wow, you gave them beautiful advice. We need more knowledgeable women out here like you. You were fair and I felt that the words of advice came from your heart. This was my first time listening to you and I just subscribed.
Well spoken Fumi. You always tell it like it is
I love this lady. I just stumbled on her on TH-cam. She’s the Aunty I didn’t know I needed. Stunning, beautiful, classy and smart. I had to hit subscribe straightaway!! ❤
makeup is chef's kiss! 💋
Thank you for breaking it down for both women. 💕💕
Such a beautiful message to Chioma! I hope she receives this and that God opens her eyes to her self worth 🙏🏾
15:53 that airport will humble you 😂😅 all the way regulated and checked 😅 trust and believe they will
Fuji you are such a beautiful black woman and you are here to inspire black women all around the world.
Aunty Fumi always come thru with the looks, and I am super loving the make-up.
Davido is married?! I did not even know that. It sound's Niga to me.
Fumi you made me cry when you said that what you don’t get from the father of your child you get it from the child. My Nigerian baby daddy beat me black and blue and left me with his son and he never provided for us till this day my son is 10yrs old. Everybody said to me the boy is my blessing and hearing you say that made me cry. Thank you sista.
This is my first time here and I LIVE FOR YOUR ENERGY OMG!!!!!! YOU ARE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR!!!! Auntie when you spoke directly to chioma i felt every word in my heart im over here in tears , you gave us ALL words of wisdom and i needed to hear all of this . Thank you so much❤
I just felt that silent before saying "not all men are husbands, and not all men are fathers" 😢I love the way you analysed this topic FROM ANITA, DAVIDO AND CHIOMA. I love your honest opinion
Aunty Fumi, ah you just took the words out of my mouth 🔊🔊🔊👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.
My heart goes out to Chioma, I pray she remains strong like the Lionness she is, and focus on this Rainbow Baby she is carrying. That should be her priority and her welfare and that of the baby should be paramount.
I just hope that for Chioma's health and wellbeing, as well as the baby, Davido doesn't bring diseases to her. If he doesn't care about his own self and wellbeing, Aunty Fumi is right, Chioma needs to love him from a distance.
Blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🤗🤗🤗
Thanks!
You look lovely Fumi. I love the look. I love Uoma also. I have the foundation and concealer.
Daaaang Fumi !!!
You broke that all the way down to the flat ground Lady Fumi❣️
DAVIDO IS NOW A JOKE 😂
IT IS PITY .😢
No be so. His IG is flooded with love. His talent supersedes all of this I was soo surprised 😮
You look AMAZING! Your soul shines through your light is So bright... The woman should get together over some tea and decided how to coparent the new baby together as a strong unit. The more love baby has better for him/her
You nailed it ma’am 👏👏” the Miss France” made me laugh 😂
Aunty Fums 💯❤️ you've done it again, you hit the spot... "Money, fame... What is that?"
This is my first time here and I’m honestly stunned by how beautiful you are!
Fumi, you are full of grace and wisdom. They way you broke this down.. perfect timing with the sprinkling of jokes. Many blessings
One of a husband's responsibilities is to protect his wife. Where is the protection of the wife when the husband has unprotected sex with other women? 🤦🏽♀️
Love how you treated this topic Aunty Funmi. I have no regret following you.
I don’t know anything about this; however, my heart goes out to anyone who’s being cheated on. I was a wife that was cheated on. So I have first hand knowledge. It’s not a good thing. I’d say get out of that relationship. It’s beneath you. This man loves himself, no one else.
He doesn't love himself, not even his health
@@applecandyfolks7979 that’s so true!
So so True. He is, beneath you. Hopefully, you respect/love yourself enough to see/understand that. GOD bless.
@@applecandyfolks7979Oh he does, they do what they want when they want and don't think of anyone else
@@aselyne5631AGREED 👍 Some men are SELFISH!!!
Gosh, I’m not pregnant for DAVIDO neither have I ever been with him. But this video was for me none the less and I’m sure plenty of you ladies can relate. Let us love and choose ourselves first.
To do this, while your wife is mourning the death of her son, less than a year after he died...omo, wickedness abounds oo
Your content, advice, and genuine vibe is so needed. I'm American, don't know these characters but you were dead on🥰
This is exhausting because apparently there is another possible French one too 😢. Haibo … Fumi - your advice has always been timeless
Wow!! Much respect to you Funmi. I totally respect you. You’re such a wise, wise woman. Your advice to Chioma is empathetic but priceless!!!!
The makeup is gorgeous. And those words of wisdom spoke to a lot more of us ❤
Chioma in everything you do just know that God is with you...and he loves you so much..
Congratulations my hero.
Love You...Stay strong.
Auntie Fumi, can you please do a social media etiquette video - especially for young women who still need to settle down and find employment in the real world?
Also Anita’s child should know ALL of its siblings, no matter the country. It’s not any of Davido’s children’s fault that he ‘s made such a mess. 🙏🏾😔❤️ To Chioma.
I don't know if I believe if she did not know that he was married. I knew he was married. However going after Anita ain't it. It's Davido's issue. Very sad that the wife is collateral damage,but she can choose to move on without him if she is wise.
She actually knew she reveal a text message of her telling Davido she still desire him even though he marry to chioma this lady lies too much
Whether she believes it or not, the responsibility to be faithful is on him. I don't agree with seeing married men however the person in a committed relationship has the responsibility
@@gracefullyme7350: Both have responsibilities -- the married person to their marriage, the single person to verify who they're dealing with
My take home, not every man is a husband, not every man is a father. The advice to Chioma is th epitome of this video. Nice hearing Aunty Fumi in the Nigerian accent👌👌👌👌
I love you so much Aunty Funmi. Your takes on issues enlighten me more. Much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ mum.
Aunty Funmi, this advise you gave Chioma is meant for me... I have been in a toxic relationship for the longest time. I thought I won't get love from anyone else.I loved that soul with my every breath but I didnt get half of what I gave. I sat down one night and asked myself how long will I allow myself to be a toy in the hand of a confused Man? I walked away and never looked back
Aunty Fumi you have said it all, thank you so much for this video, very very well said
Fumi...u make my days...ur wisdom, story telling is something else....
Some of the most UNATTRACTIVE men do the most to get woman to make theirself larger in life than they are.❤
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His wallet is not unattractive and that's why chioma ain't going nowhere
I can't help but think of Dominique Deveraux (Diahann Carroll) from Dynasty, as i watch you. The elegance, effortless style, poise, radiant skin, flawless make-up, compassion and wisdom! My sister, this is my first time watching your videos. Let me tell you, I'm hooked! As for our little sister, Chioma, my heart goes out to her, but she has to decide how much anguish she is willing to endure.
I’m American. I’ve been a Davido fan for 7-8 years. I did not know he was married until about a week ago.
You looked so alive, your skin is so glowing in this video... thank you