Honestly. This is what people wish for. Not moving part. Just positive and encouraging words. It did make my day. Remember everyone. Home is where your heart is. Don’t be scared to look for it.
Moving a lot. But the heart is where you feel that is your home. This was a lovely video. Hopefully i will visit Japan with my daughters in the springs. 娘たちの世話をしてください
wow loved this and this touched my heart too great video.. I def want to go explore Japan maybe make a partner there lmaoo but damn these were some good words like you said at least Japanese women still have love and respect towards men it seems
I liked where you ask if they would like to be liked only because of being Japanese and the person at around 11:00 minutes, also realized that Japanese women also tend to think of/prefer white guys when asked about foreign guys, bias being on both sides. Highlighting this through interviews could be a video in itself I think. Anyways, great job as usual, you are on a roll!!!🎉
She was pretty self aware, or at least wiling to be honest. A lot of western women wouldn't admit their double standards, or have that level of self reflection.
Your adding the word "only" changes the meaning significantly. All relationships start out with some superficial attraction. But in order to last, a deeper connection has to be made. I doubt that race is any worse or better than the other random reasons that initially bring people together. It's barely different from having a "type", but for some reason, people are eager to denounce it when the type is a race.
@@virtual-viking Yeah, good point. And as long as 'being japanese" is just a superficial aspect that you find attractive to simply make the first move, then it's ok. But it wouldn't be cool if you're gonna use that to your advantage, or if you had ulterior motives, like marrying them for legal benefits, creating content out of that relationship, showing off in social media, etc.
@@danielduarte6802 The only real problem I see can be summed up as: Don't tell anyone you love them, unless you _actually_ love them as a person. My "type" just so happens to be petite, fair skinned women with long dark har and smaller boobs. If I can find someone approximately like that, and her type fiths my 188cm (6'2") blue eyed Scandinavian - I see that as a win/win. The initial attraction only buys you a chance to discover if two personalities are compatible or not.
@@virtual-viking Yes I agree, it all starts with superficial attraction and then people tend to fall for each other's personality more. I was just trying to highlight how self-aware that person was. I didn't even pay that much attention to me typing "only" 😅. Just that superficial attraction definitely goes both ways and there's nothing wrong with it, so I was happy that the person around 11:00 pointed that out.
I came to Japan after being told by the Education department at York University in Toronto, Canada at my interview for the teacher's licensing program...(and I quote) "we're not currently accepting white males to the program".
@@deekay13 Yeah, it did. It didn’t happen at my interview for the education program at Rikkyo University though. They welcomed me with open arms. Anyway, it turned out to be a blessing in disguise as Canada has turned into a shithole and life in Japan has been far better than I expected.
I think that those of us who want to go to Japan aren't looking for a woman who is silent and reserved, we want to be in a culture that fosters respect and decency instead of the continued dive into debauchery that the west has become. Japan is appealing because the people are proud of their country, and they are proud to be in a culture that is based on respect.
I really enjoy and love the contents of each videos you update almost daily! I helps you a lot to improve Japanese listening and vocabulary skills. Thank you a lot and がんばりましょう！
I liked the girl with the glasses too. Her answers were the most well-thought out. And ultimately, women are women. If you don't care for your appearance, show some potential for status, and work on becoming more comfortable and confident around them, you won't have much luck wherever you go.
Not really I've met guys that went to China and Vietnam they seen it as an opportunity to reinvent themselves and start afresh - the so called "thirsty weiboo" those guys are deluded of reality,
I don't think most passport bros are looking at Japanese women when they plan where to go. Most of those men go to places where women strongly believe in getting in a serious relationship and getting married. A lot of japanese women just want to get with a foreign guy for a list to check off. Once they get bored or figure out that the local men they know are easier to deal with, they are the best at going ghost.
This is the truth. I never knew what ghosting was until I lived in Japan. I would have to imagine that men fed up with western women and feminism would want to go somewhere for something serious, marriage, and family. quality women that compliment the relationship, not fight and make drama for entertainment.
It seems to me that passport bros are more guys who are seeking for timid women to manipulate more than anything and these guys are hard to deal with as well. Ofc any logical Japanese woman would rather deal with her own men instead.
@@rokko_fable I see only a low compatability between western men and East Asian women - which shows in all the haafus I met and their parents not being together anymore. I also know a half-Korean half-European as well as half-Thai half-European, and again, the mothers are the Asians and fathers the foreigners. When I lived in Japan, the fetishization of Japanese women I saw was enough for me to draw my own conclusion as to why those marriages don't last.
@@NoctLightCloud The reasons are simply. Expectations vs reality. And not putting the marriage and kids above all else. culture definitely influences people and behavior, but fundamentally we're all compatible. it just requires effort and understanding.
Great video man. People who think Japanese women are feminine don't know at all what they're talking about lol Would be great if you do a video asking men/women if they cheat. Cheating is a huge problem here in Japan. Some say about 70-80% have cheated.
Yeah, I like Anime, but I think Japan is too different (at least from me) for me to consider dating there. Dating without some common ground, is an oil and water type situation.
The Japanese girls I dated were feminine. I was expecting that the girls would be like girls back in the states. Was expecting this sort of good treatment.
I feel like if you are a passport bro( name sounds cringe to me) go to a country you are interested in. It takes alot to assimilate to another country ( language , lifestyle, etc) Go to a country because you want to . Not for women . Have an interest in the culture genuinely .
That's generally what they do though. Most of the ones I know/chatted with are going for business opportunities, the experience, and were sparked by things like the culture, and had experience with the culture (i.e, going up in NYC, and being close to Chinatown). The culture being different/having different norms is usually enough to gatekeep more shallow pursuits.
@@prophetsparadise4463 what's wrong with genuinely interested in the women? why is it frowned upon to go after a country that produces feminine and charming women? it's no different than your so called "business opportunities" in this case you are just chasing money instead of looking to build a family. Which is the greater evil in the grand scheme of things? I think escaping masculine women is a male imperative. That is if you're a traditional man and not a blue haired gay liberal.
@@cristianhcm1914 yeah but what if you aren’t able to get the woman? Then your pursuits were in vain . At least then you’d still have the culture . Women come 2nd . If it happens it happens, if not , that’s cool too. Just my mindset I guess.
"picking up" and even marrying a Japanese woman is not at all difficult to do for many western men. The problem is AFTER you get married. It is hard for most Westerners to fully comprehend the man/woman relationship in Japan. Marriage is much more of a business contract in Japan than it is in the West. Affection and love, kind words, kisses, hugs, and even sex is a very small part of Japanese marriage, if it exists at all. The man works and works and works and provides money to the wife and kids. Yes, there will be sex UNTIL two children are born (exactly two children). That is the end of sex forever unless the man has sex outside of the marriage (which is no longer tolerated by Japanese women or society, so prepare for mostly never having sex again unless you divorce). It is also the end of any kind of affection or respect the man will ever receive from his family. From that point, he is an outsider with the binding social and legal contract that he will work nearly every waken hour of his life making money for his family. When he is at home, he will be treated as if he is taking up space and in the way. When he tries to talk to the children for whom he is working his life, he will be told that he is bothering the childrens' study and to leave them alone. Before you marry a Japanese woman, have a close look at the lifestyle of most Japanese men. The life of a Japanese husband is a horrible life of thankless and joyless toil from beginning until death. Don't make the mistake of living the life of a Japanese husband if you don't have to. Life is too short.
Men honestly should collectively stop giving a fuck and just go to brothels anyway. Who cares what women think. Women can get their sexual needs met any day of the week, yet we have to restrict ourselves? lol No way.
There are happily married Japanese men but they're successful for a reason. If a man is involved enough with his wife and family they do much better than a guy just focused on work. Perhaps not easy in Japan but possible. So the warning is appreciated but learning from success is just as important.
You shouldn't generalize. Yes, the majority are exactly as you describe, but there are also plenty of exceptions. And hopefully this will also change in the future, provided the new generation of Japanese doesn't blindly follow the old, "bad" traditions.
You shouldn't generalize. Yes, the majority are exactly as you describe, but there are also plenty of exceptions. And hopefully this will also change in the future, provided the new generation of Japanese doesn't blindly follow the old, "bad" traditions.
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the fact that each individual that was asked, gave their own honest opinion of the question. No replicating answers of the person next to them, each girl thought about it for themselves. That alone is a difference between Japanese and western women, to have the ability to think for themselves, and not part-take in gang mentality....
what stupid take is this? asian people are more prone to group thinking and thinking first of the collective. i've seen hundreds of interviews and its a rare sight when the asian groups of friends don't look at each other first before answering the most milquestoast answer ever uttered in the universe.
I’d like to meet women 60+ years old. The majority on the Internet are too young for me. I speak a little Japanese and admire the Japanese culture. I wish success for the Japanese people. I hope to be in Japan in April I,m going to Osaka. I hope to make new friends. 🎉
Don't make the mistake to think Japanese women are timid, or that western women are strong. As a guy from Sweden with experience from both cultures, I say don't take rudeness and bad manners for strength, Swedish women are fragile on the inside with bad self confidence, while Japanese women may act reserved but are tough as steel and strong willed on the inside.
Passport bros are from America mostly because american women won't even look at them or give them a single chance because they think they deserve the successful man.
If you come to Japan thinking women are just gonna be an easy thing to pick up you might get your feelings hurt depending on where you are. I've seen plenty of now divorced guys who thought they could just turn up and didn't realize there's a massive cultural difference and we're miserable. They're still gonna expect a lot from you and will definitely voice their opinions. Plus you will really need to learn the language unless you plan on meeting only those who are more western and can speak English well. You may get more initial dates but in the long run it might not last if you see them as just "dating on easy mode". Just as an example one girl I dated hated the sound of men peeing and expected me to sit every time I used the bathroom. So yeah, they're not all these docile obedient lambs who you can boss around.
Yeah there's a fair share of domineering or demanding Asian women. Some might be very clingy and get jealous easy. Expectations for a relationship can be different too. They might want you to text or call them all the time and if you don't reply straight away there could be trouble. This is just something to be aware of. Being a westernised Asian and dating my overseas student wife we encountered alot of different expectations and values. Lots of arguing in the beginning and was not easy at all.
Ironic because the Western nations are all taking in millions of undesirable people from around the world (and their "popularity" is the least of our concerns)
I can say even In asia woman is woman in japan man and woman cheat lot they don't have morale or guilt. Maybe someone will find one faithful, its still rare.
Passport bros has more of a socioeconomic connotation attached to it. An American dating a Japanese isn't really "passport bro". An American dating someone from Colombia, the Philippines, Thailand, Bulgaria, etc, would match the description better. The idea of searching for more feminine women is the same, but there's no economic leverage between residents of first world countries.
This is a huge misconception that feminists tried to push. It's not about being able to get better, it's about there being better available.... Do not get it twisted. Searching for a suitable mate in the west is like looking for a nice lunch in the dumpster. You might find something to settle with but it's going to leave you feeling sick.
Not really the economic benefits from third world country's is just a bonus if your valuta spreads wider. Its pure about finding a more traditional and feminine woman.
Passport bro just means a man who migrated to a foreign country seeking a relationship with a foreign woman. Usually, this is to find someone who holds more conservative family values and traditional femininity. You can look it up yourself it'll pop right up if you google it. Primarily the definition I gave you pops up and I had to go pretty far down the page to find one article by a woman who uses it in the negative shameful context you're describing. The US dollar still goes about twice as far in Japan as it does in the US, obviously not ten times as far as in some of the countries you listed but still double can be significant. For example, someone who makes 30mil yen a year might prefer the lifestyle that affords them in Japan and not need to go to the Philippines. Would you consider this a Passport Bro by your view of the term as it's far more money than the general Japanese woman makes of 4mil a year? Asking for a friend. The only people using that term in a socioeconomic context are doing so to shame men who chose to go to another country where their money goes quite a lot farther so they tend to be wealthier than they are here, but there are plenty of already wealthy men who move to those countries as well. Consider that if someone goes to the Philippines for example, they cannot go there to get a job, they have a remote job, a large retirement or savings, or some form of foreign income to sustain themselves and a family for the rest of their lives. The average guy in the US who makes 40k a year isn't moving to the Philippines to do this, I know many lawyers, business owners, remote workers, and federal and military retirees who choose to move to countries like this. Most people just called these guys expats but this passport bro term became popular when the movement started seeing more traction with the rise of remote work and an increase in conservative men. The majority of the men going to these foreign countries are doing so to seek a traditional family life where they can enrich both their lives instead of staying here and just being part of a hook-up culture or being ignored because they are not part of the top 5% of guys getting all the attention now. Many of these guys have gone through failed marriages here, have too many assets to risk in the US to consider marriage, or just cannot find a traditional woman but have enough means to leave this country. I think men should seek happiness where they have the best chance of finding it and if it isn't in the Westernized world then I don't see why it's a problem for them to look beyond that.
I think they’re just being very polite. I knew a guy maybe even more than one who had an obsession with Japanese culture. He ran to that country. He thought he had a serious relationship with a girl in the end she dumped him and married a Japanese guy being a delusional person is never a flex. In fact it is quite pathetic. When that dude returned to America, I met him once more. He was one bitter ass guy, I kind of felt sorry for him, but I also felt like saying told you so😮
Such a fascinating topic. I’m so glad you covered it. I don’t think it’s about nationality/race for passport bros though. It’s more about an alignment of values. If you’ve spent enough time understanding the culture of where you plan to move to and it matches with what you expect out of your partner, there could be a solid match. I think those who are moving without having put in that effort will be severely disappointed. For example, as many in this video have indicated, if you are uncomfortable approaching women, you won’t find success. You need to develop skills and talents in communication with women regardless of culture/nationality. Basically, moving somewhere without any skills dealing with women won’t lead to solid results. It will simply improve your likelihood of having genuine interactions leading to long term prospects based on the lack of hostility and abundance mentality from western feminism. By default it’s a better situation, but you still need to be attractive to some degree to maximize results.
私は アメリカ人, Watching 日本人女性 become stronger, while retaining femininity, Is still attractive. it may be even more attractive than other cultures because it means that if i had dedicated myself to do something or commit to something that requires serious sacrifice, that means i would know she has what it takes to have my back, and carry my soul with the strength and femininity that most アメリカ人 have never experienced or ever had.
At 7:55 the interview seems to explain an old Japanese femininity. I cannot say anything for everyone, But i actually only view this for Cultural events. we all know at some point culture changes. i have paid attention to Japanese culture and its changes since the early 2000's. so to the people who have not? they might expect that old Japanese femininity. but the point above still stands for most Americans who wish to pursue the understanding of Japanese culture.
Uhh, interpersonal relationships in Japan are very difficult. Many young Japanese women kind of look at relationships like it,s Disneyland. Reach out and touch a shoulder too soon and it,s over before it ever starts. Uhh, want a date with a girl you meet she will say yes and bring a friend. I,ve lived here for 30+ years. Better learn to "read the air" and good luck with that.
Even if they are with friends, if the friend is cool with you they will act as a wing person and help you out. Few girls I dated that happened to me and never got c-blocked. Their friend was the one that suggest we go rest at a hotel. That is how I was introduced to a love hotel.
this was a great video actually lol. passport bros are gonna see this and move in droves to japan. the fact that japanese women are open to the idea of meeting new men and those men appreciating them is the whole point of it. if american women dont appreciate it, and the japanese women will, then the american women ultimately lose out.
@@ad.6472 You would be surprised. Plenty of Japanese women in their 30s and now 40s that are still interested in a foreign guy. The dating atmosphere is changing there, guys do not look for marriage and relationships as much as they did in the past. Language barrier can be gotten over.
Great video! I've placed my life on a track to move to Japan. I became fluent in Japanese in ~2.5-3 years, successfully changed my career field from military to cybersecurity for the remote work and job opportunities, and I'm still networking and improving myself so that very soon I can get out. Make no mistake: ALL guys know what's going on over in America is not normal. If you're even remotely above room temperature IQ, then you can barely stand living here. You can just turn on a random 4k shibuya night walk video and it will make you absolutely livid that it's impossible for us to have a society like that over here without a literal revolution (possibly a revolt). The best part is all the people I despise will NEVER set foot in Japan, and that's the way I want it. I don't care I won't be accepted as Japanese. I will live in the cleanest, safest, most unified country on the planet, and the women not being insane is just a side benefit.
@@JesusChrist2000BC You don't know anything about me aside from what I just told you clown. You're the type of loser that will stay here forever and deal with these nasty bitches. Enjoy brother they're all yours.
@unkopower7899 Obviously they are still women and there will be some basket cases, but it's just not as prevalent. It's just helping your odds to not be in America, that's all I'm saying. 1 in 4 women here are on head meds. Almost the same number have had or have STDs. Almost all of them are fat or obese. Almost none of them are virgins. Lots have tattoos or piercings. There is no reason to date for marriage here.
the girl with red hair and glasses gets it. i like her. as well with the others. also can you ask the girls why bangs is such a popular hairstyle over there?
" Wouldn't they find more obedient women in their own countries if they looked?" "I think all women wants the same, no matter what country they are from" That's some upright savagery right there which is hilarious. I like that.
Moving a lot. But the heart is where you feel that is your home. This was a lovely video. Hopefully i will visit Japan with my daughters in the springs. 娘たちの世話をしてください
That wouldn’t make you a passport bro. Passport bros travel for the purpose of finding women who will be more ignorant or forgiving of how trash they are.
I knew a white guy who used to say "I love you" to his girlfriend all the time and after he got married, he had an affair and divorced....these women will quickly know that "I love you" is just a string of words.
I don't think the point was how genuine it is, it was more about having it be told to you. Asians are typically more shy and won't say these words even to their own mother
Interesting. I'm a Passport Bro I speak 2 additional languages apart from English: Espanol and Nihongo. I'm 6"9, Black Male who loves hitting the gym. I work in Indie Game Development and IT Cloud Development and pretty soon AI Development. Never had a problem getting women in my country. Neither are most of the PassportBros we just want more Traditional, Conservative and Submissive women. A woman who basks in her softness instead of trying to compete with Men.
Agreed. This is a huge misconception that feminists tried to push. It's not about being able to get better, it's about there being better available.... Do not get it twisted. Searching for a suitable mate in the west is like looking for a nice lunch in the dumpster. You might find something to settle with but it's going to leave you feeling sick.
I'm one of those American white guys who has never been attracted to Western women. My wife, a Japanese woman I met when I was living and working in Japan is one of those Japanese women who had never been attracted to Japanese men. We've now been very happily married for the past forty years.
So they want men that are experts in picking up women, that will stop picking up women after they meet? Good plan! Really deep thinking going on there..
When the lady at 3:45 said, "That's their preference, so they're free to do as they please," it is something women in the United States wouldn't even say.
It's fascinating to me how strong the notion of, "No way! I'd never ask a guy out. That's too stressful!" is, while simultaneously thinking the guy must ask the girl out. I guess maybe it shows courage or something.
Ive dated 2 Japanese women, one was an Angel perfect in everyway possible except we were to young and I was a Marine who deployed often. The second woman was a insanely possessive stalker who would appear out of thin air when I was working or out. She also worked at the bank I used and would call me asking about transactions I made that one ended fast.
I’ve never had a problem with a “strong” woman it’s the aggressive attitude towards men that I have a problem with. They expect a man to be traditional, go to work make money provide and pay bills while they do nothing to support their man. They say “I’m not your mother I’m not doing dishes or cooking or cleaning or washing laundry” but still expect to be stay at home wife/mom. There’s no give and take for them it’s just take.
Just to clarify, Gaijin means White European and Americans, it doesn't mean Black Africans, South Asians or Arabs, or someone from perceived poor SEA countries like Philippines for example!
I still think the language barrier would be the biggest obstacle in starting a relationship with a Japanese woman as a foreigner who doesn’t speak Japanese unless they are somewhat fluent in English or your native language
You really have to learn japanese if you want to even have a chance. Most of them arent fluent and have difficulty translating their thought from japanese to english
Facts, When I decided to begin my journey into moving to Japan the first thing I started doing was learning the language. I feel like if you plan to move to any country though you should probably consider learning the language not just for dating.
Talking from experience my wife couldn’t speak English when we met and I still don’t speak Japanese married after 18 months together will be 19 years married this December it’s also chemistry she’s from Osaka and I happen to believe these people are unique in Japan more open more laid-back more relaxed
From my experience Japanese women are a lot more receptive to kindness than American women. I've never felt so appreciated in my life. My kindness gets repaid instead of taken for granted or taken advantage of. Japanese women can be quite sassy though so don't think they're 100% sweetness but I kinda like it. So my advice for dating Japanese women is be kind to them and respond to sassyness with humor and playfulness.
Could you elaborate a bit on our experiences? For example in which way does it get repaid and appreciated? How does that materialize? I'm very intrigued.
@@maiy8786 sure. I got her some small gifts and she would surprise me with a gift sometime later. At the end of the date I'll escort her to the train station and tell her to text when she's home so I know she's safe and she'll ask me to do the same. If she likes to subway surf then I'll catch her if she stumbles and she'll try to catch me too. I'm a 6'4" guy. I don't really need anyone to watch over my safety but it's nice. After eating I'll take her trash and she'll offer to do my dishes. Any kind words or actions she's repay. Not every woman is so sweet but some definitely are. Especially nerds. Nerdy women in Japan are surprisingly good looking just very shy and awkward.
It's ok to be desired for your race at first. That's how attraction works. At first it's shallow. And then you get to know the real person. This is how we ALL operate. We have "types". Liking Asian women is not different than liking tall blond guys. It only becomes a problem if you don't eventually learn to know and appreciate the individual personality of the person.
"obedient" is not a great translation for "otonashii" (おとなしい). "Quiet" or "Agreeable" is a better translation. "Reserved" is probably best. Great interviews though. Well done. Non-Asian guys (esp white) will definitely have a better chance with women in Japan than in their own country IF they learn Japanese. If you don't speak Japanese, it's iffy.
I love your videos however, I would like to point out one thing that I think you’re a little inaccurate about which would be Asian women are liked by Americans because they don’t speak their mind and that’s not the case I’m attracted to Asian women because they are not so much reserved, but respectful and Modest as American women because of feminism have grown to become more disrespectful towards men and not really understanding on the position or standpoint that we try to come from. It’s not so much we want someone who is obedient we just want someone who respects us, and understands that at the end of the day we don’t want to press them, but we would like to provide for them because that’s how I was raised a woman is someone that should be taken care of and cherish because that is the importance of her I show my love by taking care of the person that I I care about so it’s not because they’re shy reserved and don’t voice our opinions it’s more of that they are respectful and modest
I agree with everything you said and would like to add that incentivized divorce makes it way too appealing for women to leave you in the West taking everything you've created for any little inconvenience in their life. I am just looking for mutual respect and long-term commitment with fewer carrots dangling in front of a woman tempting her to divorce men for their resources. I looked at countries like Japan, Thailand, the Philippines, and such for these reasons. I know Japan is a bit more Westernized than the other two but it's still not like the US right now. I don't need to be treated like a king just like a human being. It's gone completely ridiculous in the US and even if I found a decent woman here I would never marry or have kids with her with the way the court system treats men right now.
What you see is not what you get . 95% of people will run away after realizing that the language barrier is real. If you do learn the language and are genuinely committed to staying put in Japan then you have a good chance.
I don't know what my problem is. I studied in Japan and have lived there on several occasions. I've done plenty well in America, but in Japan I never once had a gf. There is a kind of trope that it's easy for white guys, and by many of these responses that would seem to be the case. But that hasn't been my experience in the least.
You have to show off your whiteness more. Stand with your chest puffed up, and have your nose tilted slightly upwards at all times. Dye your hair blonde if you aren't already blonde. Win.
One rule to remember boys, women, regardless of race and location, usual changes the moment they get married. Its the nature of women. Its better to marry first and get to know them then to get to know them then marry as you will get two different person before and after marriage.
Depending on everything- there's quite a difference and, frankly, while I agree with him that they were mature- I simply put mire weight in the adults/women's perspective.
Lol date the person for a while before blindly marrying. You have time also to test her. Because she has boons and as* it does mot mean that you should marry straight away without getting to know her nature
Interesting reactions. Interviewer appears to have an issue with feminists/feminism. We wouldn't have feminists/feminism if everyone was treated equally in the first place.
12:26 - This is the real Japan that no one talks about when it comes to dating here. Japanese women might find foreigners attractive, might even imagine something about dating them when they pass by you on the street, but they will rarely approach you, and even more rarely make any eye contact or hint in any way that they are interested. Of course, it's different at night around certain districts in big cities. But day to day? Eye contact is avoided like the damn plague. For real. She'll see you coming and when you get close enough to meet eyes, the women will literally turn their head to look away from you. Happens more often than you would imagine. I can promise you that. Who would want to approach any girl like that? Hell nah. That's a sure fire way to get rejected on top of the insecurity of you being a foreigner and the girl's English or foreign language level problems. Trust me, I'd love to do a podcast about real life in Japan but I'm just a nobody. You'll find out for yourself if you live here, not just visit.
Japanese girls are truly the cutest and most beautiful of all the Asian races. I think the main problem though with dating Westerners is at least for me the language barrier it’s just too much effort to try and communicate and since you have very little in common there’s not a whole lot to talk about, once the physical attraction wears off you are done
@@hananokuni2580 In politics or in location? Because GU is neither. Japan was once our colonizer though...but just like JPN colonized Korea too - it doesn't make it any more Japanese. I love Japan though FYI, regardless. But it's just wrong what you are saying. Trying to give peeps a clue.
That whole question about, "would you like to be desired for your race or nationality," is a little bit unfair. Every relationship starts for superficial reasons, and the depth comes with time and familiarity. You can't know the person before you know the person after all. I think people travel to a specific place, because they want to meet people with certain similarities, but they're going to choose the person they like for that person's particular attributes.
I think you are misrepresenting the passport bro's motivation for seeking relationships with women overseas. In the past decade or so, western women have increasingly adopted unrealistic standards for what they expect in a mate. They all want a man that's at least six feet tall, makes $100k or more per year, drives a nice car, is very handsome, etc. Unfortunately, only a small percentage of men can meet these standards. As a result, men are going overseas to countries where they are seen as attractive by the women in those countries. Many Asian women find western men to be particularly attractive, and Asian women are, on average, shorter than western women, so a western man that's 5''8" - 5'10" is seen as tall. Passport Bros are simply looking for a place where the local women will find him more attractive. That's it.
@@orvos1459 Japan have one of lowest birthrates in world, loneliness and suicide rates are still rising - you think its good country to look for faithful wife there? Also cheating and sex culture, promiscuity rates are same or even worse then "western countries"
@@user-oh6ky3xq1e yeah. I see. As a complete loner myself who struggles with this uneasy state, I’ve dreamt of traveling to Japan as a distraction…only to see other people in a state like mine. lol
Dude is completely misconveying what the whole passport bros is about. It's not about a specific race or nationality, nor is it about looking for women who don't voice their own opinions. 🤦
A lot of the dating problems men face is that the West is in a 304flation epidemic. An average man has to put forth 10x effort for a woman who is 1/10th of the quality. Basic Bob and Cubicle Carl, who are 6/10 on the attractiveness scale, can NOT compete on dating apps. The top 5% of men get 80-90% of the matches. Even the 4/10's do NOT want the 6/10 Basic Bob or Cubicle Carl. The 3's and 4's think they qualify for the top 5% of men.
@@orvos1459 The man doesn't "have" to go to Japan specifically. There are many, many, many countries to choose from. But he WOULD have a better dating experience overseas. If his plan is to commit LONG TERM (marriage, co-habitation, common law, and/or kids), then he should weigh the pros and cons. For "Passport Bros," there are 2 main categories. We have the "PPBs" who are willing to integrate into the culture, learn the language, etc. They want to have a family, etc. They wish to STAY in the target country. And then there are the "Passport Pookies." Their purpose is s3ggs. If he is wanting quick $3ggs, then NO, he should NOT go to ANY country. With 304, h0okup culture, if he has money to travel, he has money to be a 9/10 for a week. He can get $3ggs in the West.
Approaching to women is hard for men to do i think based on other interviews I watched like you can't just approach them (unless you're handsome or ikemen) it will make them creeped out. Also they don't trust strangers unless you have connections? i hope I'm wrong, but all I can say is wear proper clothes and should make your self at least handsome at your best. I don't have experience yet but hope someone share your stories
Honestly. This is what people wish for. Not moving part. Just positive and encouraging words. It did make my day. Remember everyone. Home is where your heart is. Don’t be scared to look for it.
Moving a lot. But the heart is where you feel that is your home. This was a lovely video. Hopefully i will visit Japan with my daughters in the springs. 娘たちの世話をしてください
wow loved this and this touched my heart too great video.. I def want to go explore Japan maybe make a partner there lmaoo but damn these were some good words like you said at least Japanese women still have love and respect towards men it seems
The older couple are hilarious. It looks like they can have good banter like English couples. 😄👍
100%, they were great 👍🎉
But notice that he did all of the talking while she stood there saying nothing, but she did have fun with the exchange.
@@demef758 I did notice that, but she looked a bit shy to be on camera. I'm sure she gives as good as she gets off-camera. 😅
I liked where you ask if they would like to be liked only because of being Japanese and the person at around 11:00 minutes, also realized that Japanese women also tend to think of/prefer white guys when asked about foreign guys, bias being on both sides. Highlighting this through interviews could be a video in itself I think. Anyways, great job as usual, you are on a roll!!!🎉
She was pretty self aware, or at least wiling to be honest. A lot of western women wouldn't admit their double standards, or have that level of self reflection.
Your adding the word "only" changes the meaning significantly. All relationships start out with some superficial attraction. But in order to last, a deeper connection has to be made. I doubt that race is any worse or better than the other random reasons that initially bring people together. It's barely different from having a "type", but for some reason, people are eager to denounce it when the type is a race.
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Yeah, good point. And as long as 'being japanese" is just a superficial aspect that you find attractive to simply make the first move, then it's ok. But it wouldn't be cool if you're gonna use that to your advantage, or if you had ulterior motives, like marrying them for legal benefits, creating content out of that relationship, showing off in social media, etc.
@@danielduarte6802 The only real problem I see can be summed up as: Don't tell anyone you love them, unless you _actually_ love them as a person.
My "type" just so happens to be petite, fair skinned women with long dark har and smaller boobs. If I can find someone approximately like that, and her type fiths my 188cm (6'2") blue eyed Scandinavian - I see that as a win/win. The initial attraction only buys you a chance to discover if two personalities are compatible or not.
@@virtual-viking Yes I agree, it all starts with superficial attraction and then people tend to fall for each other's personality more. I was just trying to highlight how self-aware that person was. I didn't even pay that much attention to me typing "only" 😅. Just that superficial attraction definitely goes both ways and there's nothing wrong with it, so I was happy that the person around 11:00 pointed that out.
Just be careful gents, Japanese women can be a special kind of crazy too.
In what way do you mean?
@wrx111 hyper possessive and jealous, for brevity sake.
True, my friend's ex Japanese gf was verbally and physically abusive. She also took all his money. Very controlling as well.
@@kayla_kitsune abusive in English or japanese? Women are women. If you play silly games, you win silly prizes.
Oh yeah, gotta love that ever-present tatemae aspect of things.@@UserUser-zc6fx
These videos are a treasure trove of insightful information, presented in a way that is both stimulating and thought-provoking. Thank you :]
I came to Japan after being told by the Education department at York University in Toronto, Canada at my interview for the teacher's licensing program...(and I quote) "we're not currently accepting white males to the program".
and I'm sure a decision made by the white management
Racism's been getting pretty bad recently 🥴
@@UnimportantAcc I see there are now “whiteness” courses in universities, demonizing white people. I got out at the right time
No way that happened lol
@@deekay13 Yeah, it did. It didn’t happen at my interview for the education program at Rikkyo University though. They welcomed me with open arms. Anyway, it turned out to be a blessing in disguise as Canada has turned into a shithole and life in Japan has been far better than I expected.
I think that those of us who want to go to Japan aren't looking for a woman who is silent and reserved, we want to be in a culture that fosters respect and decency instead of the continued dive into debauchery that the west has become. Japan is appealing because the people are proud of their country, and they are proud to be in a culture that is based on respect.
Exactly
this
oh man, you've got some overly romanticized view of japan lol
good luck with that, ur gonna need it hahaa
I really enjoy and love the contents of each videos you update almost daily! I helps you a lot to improve Japanese listening and vocabulary skills. Thank you a lot and がんばりましょう！
The. girl with the glasses had great depth. The 50 year old couple was charming too.
The new generation of Japanese woman.
I liked the girl with the glasses too. Her answers were the most well-thought out. And ultimately, women are women. If you don't care for your appearance, show some potential for status, and work on becoming more comfortable and confident around them, you won't have much luck wherever you go.
0:53 Be honest: how great did it feel to say "Eigo jouzu"?
Yes - it was very rude of the interviewer. I would have reposted with いいえ、日本語御上手ですねー。
Chris Broad of Abroad in Japan said it best. "If you're Davey Smith in UK then chances you'll still be the same Davey Smith in Japan. "
Not really I've met guys that went to China and Vietnam they seen it as an opportunity to reinvent themselves and start afresh - the so called "thirsty weiboo" those guys are deluded of reality,
Dude is mid looking and he knows back home in the UK he would have found nobody especially not a woman half as attractive.
I wouldn't take advice on Japan from someone that barely speaks Japanese, has 2 or 3 Japanese friends and married a westerner.
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He speaks Japanese very well to be honest@@ulqui0rra
I don't think most passport bros are looking at Japanese women when they plan where to go. Most of those men go to places where women strongly believe in getting in a serious relationship and getting married. A lot of japanese women just want to get with a foreign guy for a list to check off. Once they get bored or figure out that the local men they know are easier to deal with, they are the best at going ghost.
This is the truth. I never knew what ghosting was until I lived in Japan.
I would have to imagine that men fed up with western women and feminism would want to go somewhere for something serious, marriage, and family. quality women that compliment the relationship, not fight and make drama for entertainment.
It seems to me that passport bros are more guys who are seeking for timid women to manipulate more than anything and these guys are hard to deal with as well. Ofc any logical Japanese woman would rather deal with her own men instead.
Really interesting and revealing. You ask great questions and are a talented interviewer, Thanks for your work.
I know several haafus and none of their parents (all foreigners on the guy part) are together anymore. I see a pattern.
Hapas?
Unfortunately divorce has become quite common in Japan as well. such a shame.
@@rokko_fable I see only a low compatability between western men and East Asian women - which shows in all the haafus I met and their parents not being together anymore.
I also know a half-Korean half-European as well as half-Thai half-European, and again, the mothers are the Asians and fathers the foreigners.
When I lived in Japan, the fetishization of Japanese women I saw was enough for me to draw my own conclusion as to why those marriages don't last.
@@NoctLightCloud The reasons are simply. Expectations vs reality. And not putting the marriage and kids above all else.
culture definitely influences people and behavior, but fundamentally we're all compatible. it just requires effort and understanding.
Now that I think about it, all half-Asians I know have Asian moms.
(9:40) Scary woman may be more common than he thinks. I heard Japanese woman become much more bold once they are married.
Epic video! :)
Really interesting video!
Thanks for sharing their opinions.
Great video man. People who think Japanese women are feminine don't know at all what they're talking about lol
Would be great if you do a video asking men/women if they cheat. Cheating is a huge problem here in Japan. Some say about 70-80% have cheated.
Yeah, I like Anime, but I think Japan is too different (at least from me) for me to consider dating there. Dating without some common ground, is an oil and water type situation.
@@KatanaKamisama but everyone is same horizontal they say
Theres already a video about that.
The Japanese girls I dated were feminine. I was expecting that the girls would be like girls back in the states. Was expecting this sort of good treatment.
I don’t think you’ve dated Japanese girls lol
I feel like if you are a passport bro( name sounds cringe to me) go to a country you are interested in. It takes alot to assimilate to another country ( language , lifestyle, etc) Go to a country because you want to . Not for women . Have an interest in the culture genuinely .
Hey news flash maybe women are part of the culture and one way of assimilation is to pro create with one...
That's generally what they do though.
Most of the ones I know/chatted with are going for business opportunities, the experience, and were sparked by things like the culture, and had experience with the culture (i.e, going up in NYC, and being close to Chinatown).
The culture being different/having different norms is usually enough to gatekeep more shallow pursuits.
@@prophetsparadise4463 what's wrong with genuinely interested in the women? why is it frowned upon to go after a country that produces feminine and charming women? it's no different than your so called "business opportunities" in this case you are just chasing money instead of looking to build a family. Which is the greater evil in the grand scheme of things? I think escaping masculine women is a male imperative. That is if you're a traditional man and not a blue haired gay liberal.
No... go for the women! Learn the culture along the way.
@@cristianhcm1914 yeah but what if you aren’t able to get the woman? Then your pursuits were in vain . At least then you’d still have the culture . Women come 2nd . If it happens it happens, if not , that’s cool too. Just my mindset I guess.
"picking up" and even marrying a Japanese woman is not at all difficult to do for many western men. The problem is AFTER you get married. It is hard for most Westerners to fully comprehend the man/woman relationship in Japan. Marriage is much more of a business contract in Japan than it is in the West. Affection and love, kind words, kisses, hugs, and even sex is a very small part of Japanese marriage, if it exists at all. The man works and works and works and provides money to the wife and kids. Yes, there will be sex UNTIL two children are born (exactly two children). That is the end of sex forever unless the man has sex outside of the marriage (which is no longer tolerated by Japanese women or society, so prepare for mostly never having sex again unless you divorce). It is also the end of any kind of affection or respect the man will ever receive from his family. From that point, he is an outsider with the binding social and legal contract that he will work nearly every waken hour of his life making money for his family. When he is at home, he will be treated as if he is taking up space and in the way. When he tries to talk to the children for whom he is working his life, he will be told that he is bothering the childrens' study and to leave them alone. Before you marry a Japanese woman, have a close look at the lifestyle of most Japanese men. The life of a Japanese husband is a horrible life of thankless and joyless toil from beginning until death. Don't make the mistake of living the life of a Japanese husband if you don't have to. Life is too short.
Men honestly should collectively stop giving a fuck and just go to brothels anyway. Who cares what women think. Women can get their sexual needs met any day of the week, yet we have to restrict ourselves? lol No way.
There are happily married Japanese men but they're successful for a reason. If a man is involved enough with his wife and family they do much better than a guy just focused on work. Perhaps not easy in Japan but possible. So the warning is appreciated but learning from success is just as important.
You shouldn't generalize. Yes, the majority are exactly as you describe, but there are also plenty of exceptions. And hopefully this will also change in the future, provided the new generation of Japanese doesn't blindly follow the old, "bad" traditions.
You shouldn't generalize. Yes, the majority are exactly as you describe, but there are also plenty of exceptions. And hopefully this will also change in the future, provided the new generation of Japanese doesn't blindly follow the old, "bad" traditions.
@@HSNPSA45 "You shouldn't generalize. Yes, the majority are exactly as you describe,"
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love your interviews 🥰👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Can we just take a moment to appreciate the fact that each individual that was asked, gave their own honest opinion of the question. No replicating answers of the person next to them, each girl thought about it for themselves. That alone is a difference between Japanese and western women, to have the ability to think for themselves, and not part-take in gang mentality....
what stupid take is this?
asian people are more prone to group thinking and thinking first of the collective.
i've seen hundreds of interviews and its a rare sight when the asian groups of friends don't look at each other first before answering the most milquestoast answer ever uttered in the universe.
:D You have yet to be in Japan I guess.
I’d like to meet women 60+ years old. The majority on the Internet are too young for me. I speak a little Japanese and admire the Japanese culture. I wish success for the Japanese people. I hope to be in Japan in April I,m going to Osaka. I hope to make new friends. 🎉
I learned a new word today: "skinship"
It's a great word, isn't it?!
Don't make the mistake to think Japanese women are timid, or that western women are strong. As a guy from Sweden with experience from both cultures, I say don't take rudeness and bad manners for strength, Swedish women are fragile on the inside with bad self confidence, while Japanese women may act reserved but are tough as steel and strong willed on the inside.
Passport bros are from America mostly because american women won't even look at them or give them a single chance because they think they deserve the successful man.
If you come to Japan thinking women are just gonna be an easy thing to pick up you might get your feelings hurt depending on where you are. I've seen plenty of now divorced guys who thought they could just turn up and didn't realize there's a massive cultural difference and we're miserable. They're still gonna expect a lot from you and will definitely voice their opinions. Plus you will really need to learn the language unless you plan on meeting only those who are more western and can speak English well. You may get more initial dates but in the long run it might not last if you see them as just "dating on easy mode". Just as an example one girl I dated hated the sound of men peeing and expected me to sit every time I used the bathroom. So yeah, they're not all these docile obedient lambs who you can boss around.
Yes, ladies in Japan, Korea, and China are a bit more Westernized than women in Philippines or Thailand.
I heard an Asian woman saying Passport bros are into women who are naturally sweet, not women who are just obedient.
Yeah there's a fair share of domineering or demanding Asian women. Some might be very clingy and get jealous easy. Expectations for a relationship can be different too. They might want you to text or call them all the time and if you don't reply straight away there could be trouble. This is just something to be aware of. Being a westernised Asian and dating my overseas student wife we encountered alot of different expectations and values. Lots of arguing in the beginning and was not easy at all.
Even speaking Japanese, most girls won’t date you. Lol. I’ve tried dating apps using Japanese only to get shot down often. Lol
Passport bros don't necessarily look for easy dates, but rather for women that aren't trashy like the western type.
自国でモテない残りかすみたいなのが日本に溜まってくるのは嫌だね
Are you referring to the unwanted Western men?
That's how it goes down the totem pole😂
Ironic because the Western nations are all taking in millions of undesirable people from around the world (and their "popularity" is the least of our concerns)
well said
im about to book a ticket a week from now after watching this lmaooo sign me up passport bros who else coming lets goo???!!
I can say even In asia woman is woman in japan man and woman cheat lot they don't have morale or guilt. Maybe someone will find one faithful, its still rare.
Passport bros has more of a socioeconomic connotation attached to it. An American dating a Japanese isn't really "passport bro". An American dating someone from Colombia, the Philippines, Thailand, Bulgaria, etc, would match the description better. The idea of searching for more feminine women is the same, but there's no economic leverage between residents of first world countries.
This is a huge misconception that feminists tried to push. It's not about being able to get better, it's about there being better available.... Do not get it twisted. Searching for a suitable mate in the west is like looking for a nice lunch in the dumpster. You might find something to settle with but it's going to leave you feeling sick.
Not really the economic benefits from third world country's is just a bonus if your valuta spreads wider. Its pure about finding a more traditional and feminine woman.
Passport bro just means a man who migrated to a foreign country seeking a relationship with a foreign woman. Usually, this is to find someone who holds more conservative family values and traditional femininity. You can look it up yourself it'll pop right up if you google it. Primarily the definition I gave you pops up and I had to go pretty far down the page to find one article by a woman who uses it in the negative shameful context you're describing.
The US dollar still goes about twice as far in Japan as it does in the US, obviously not ten times as far as in some of the countries you listed but still double can be significant. For example, someone who makes 30mil yen a year might prefer the lifestyle that affords them in Japan and not need to go to the Philippines. Would you consider this a Passport Bro by your view of the term as it's far more money than the general Japanese woman makes of 4mil a year? Asking for a friend.
The only people using that term in a socioeconomic context are doing so to shame men who chose to go to another country where their money goes quite a lot farther so they tend to be wealthier than they are here, but there are plenty of already wealthy men who move to those countries as well. Consider that if someone goes to the Philippines for example, they cannot go there to get a job, they have a remote job, a large retirement or savings, or some form of foreign income to sustain themselves and a family for the rest of their lives. The average guy in the US who makes 40k a year isn't moving to the Philippines to do this, I know many lawyers, business owners, remote workers, and federal and military retirees who choose to move to countries like this.
Most people just called these guys expats but this passport bro term became popular when the movement started seeing more traction with the rise of remote work and an increase in conservative men. The majority of the men going to these foreign countries are doing so to seek a traditional family life where they can enrich both their lives instead of staying here and just being part of a hook-up culture or being ignored because they are not part of the top 5% of guys getting all the attention now. Many of these guys have gone through failed marriages here, have too many assets to risk in the US to consider marriage, or just cannot find a traditional woman but have enough means to leave this country.
I think men should seek happiness where they have the best chance of finding it and if it isn't in the Westernized world then I don't see why it's a problem for them to look beyond that.
What sincere honesty
I think they’re just being very polite. I knew a guy maybe even more than one who had an obsession with Japanese culture. He ran to that country. He thought he had a serious relationship with a girl in the end she dumped him and married a Japanese guy being a delusional person is never a flex. In fact it is quite pathetic. When that dude returned to America, I met him once more. He was one bitter ass guy, I kind of felt sorry for him, but I also felt like saying told you so😮
Japanese Lady: _"Cool"_
Interviewer: _"eigo jouzu desu ne! "_
Such a fascinating topic. I’m so glad you covered it. I don’t think it’s about nationality/race for passport bros though. It’s more about an alignment of values.
If you’ve spent enough time understanding the culture of where you plan to move to and it matches with what you expect out of your partner, there could be a solid match.
I think those who are moving without having put in that effort will be severely disappointed. For example, as many in this video have indicated, if you are uncomfortable approaching women, you won’t find success. You need to develop skills and talents in communication with women regardless of culture/nationality.
Basically, moving somewhere without any skills dealing with women won’t lead to solid results. It will simply improve your likelihood of having genuine interactions leading to long term prospects based on the lack of hostility and abundance mentality from western feminism.
By default it’s a better situation, but you still need to be attractive to some degree to maximize results.
私は アメリカ人, Watching 日本人女性 become stronger, while retaining femininity, Is still attractive. it may be even more attractive than other cultures because it means that if i had dedicated myself to do something or commit to something that requires serious sacrifice, that means i would know she has what it takes to have my back, and carry my soul with the strength and femininity that most アメリカ人 have never experienced or ever had.
At 7:55 the interview seems to explain an old Japanese femininity. I cannot say anything for everyone, But i actually only view this for Cultural events. we all know at some point culture changes. i have paid attention to Japanese culture and its changes since the early 2000's. so to the people who have not? they might expect that old Japanese femininity. but the point above still stands for most Americans who wish to pursue the understanding of Japanese culture.
you're a bit misguided there my friend. the 'stronger' they become, the less they have your back. that's female nature.
wow great stuff
Nice interview at the Dotonbori bridge (Tokyo people might be less friendly though)
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Uhh, interpersonal relationships in Japan are very difficult. Many young Japanese women kind of look at relationships like it,s Disneyland. Reach out and touch a shoulder too soon and it,s over before it ever starts. Uhh, want a date with a girl you meet she will say yes and bring a friend. I,ve lived here for 30+ years. Better learn to "read the air" and good luck with that.
Even if they are with friends, if the friend is cool with you they will act as a wing person and help you out. Few girls I dated that happened to me and never got c-blocked. Their friend was the one that suggest we go rest at a hotel. That is how I was introduced to a love hotel.
so many "Charisma Man" in Japan
this was a great video actually lol. passport bros are gonna see this and move in droves to japan. the fact that japanese women are open to the idea of meeting new men and those men appreciating them is the whole point of it. if american women dont appreciate it, and the japanese women will, then the american women ultimately lose out.
18:11. the girl busy stuffing her face was super cute.
Yeah, but the girls are imagining Andrew Garfield type of "foreigners" lol
@@mrskwrl yeah its annoying. its always some white guy they are envisioning. thats PR and Marketing from the west though.
Most of these girls are very young and naive. People are going realise pretty quickly that language barrier is the real thing.
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You would be surprised. Plenty of Japanese women in their 30s and now 40s that are still interested in a foreign guy. The dating atmosphere is changing there, guys do not look for marriage and relationships as much as they did in the past. Language barrier can be gotten over.
Great video! I've placed my life on a track to move to Japan. I became fluent in Japanese in ~2.5-3 years, successfully changed my career field from military to cybersecurity for the remote work and job opportunities, and I'm still networking and improving myself so that very soon I can get out. Make no mistake: ALL guys know what's going on over in America is not normal. If you're even remotely above room temperature IQ, then you can barely stand living here. You can just turn on a random 4k shibuya night walk video and it will make you absolutely livid that it's impossible for us to have a society like that over here without a literal revolution (possibly a revolt). The best part is all the people I despise will NEVER set foot in Japan, and that's the way I want it. I don't care I won't be accepted as Japanese. I will live in the cleanest, safest, most unified country on the planet, and the women not being insane is just a side benefit.
You are exactly the type of people they don't like 😂😂 that's the funny part.
@@JesusChrist2000BC You don't know anything about me aside from what I just told you clown. You're the type of loser that will stay here forever and deal with these nasty bitches. Enjoy brother they're all yours.
well except for the last part - what makes you think Japanese women are immune from "being insane" ?
Cope @@JesusChrist2000BC
@unkopower7899 Obviously they are still women and there will be some basket cases, but it's just not as prevalent. It's just helping your odds to not be in America, that's all I'm saying. 1 in 4 women here are on head meds. Almost the same number have had or have STDs. Almost all of them are fat or obese. Almost none of them are virgins. Lots have tattoos or piercings. There is no reason to date for marriage here.
the girl with red hair and glasses gets it. i like her. as well with the others. also can you ask the girls why bangs is such a popular hairstyle over there?
" Wouldn't they find more obedient women in their own countries if they looked?"
"I think all women wants the same, no matter what country they are from"
That's some upright savagery right there which is hilarious. I like that.
Very "low key" savage.
Yes, women are women.
Remember- they're 16-!!
@@orpheuscrutchfield9343 your saying it like 16 year olds are disabled. there is no difference between 16 and 18 mentally
finding an obedient woman in the west, especially in America is nigh impossible. chances are much greater elsewhere.
Moving a lot. But the heart is where you feel that is your home. This was a lovely video. Hopefully i will visit Japan with my daughters in the springs. 娘たちの世話をしてください
I plan on moving to Japan permanently in a couple years or less for work. So I guess I'll be an unconventional passport bro.
That wouldn’t make you a passport bro. Passport bros travel for the purpose of finding women who will be more ignorant or forgiving of how trash they are.
I knew a white guy who used to say "I love you" to his girlfriend all the time and after he got married, he had an affair and divorced....these women will quickly know that "I love you" is just a string of words.
Exactly this!
yeap but not too quickly ))))))))) ahha
I don't think the point was how genuine it is, it was more about having it be told to you. Asians are typically more shy and won't say these words even to their own mother
Interesting. I'm a Passport Bro I speak 2 additional languages apart from English: Espanol and Nihongo. I'm 6"9, Black Male who loves hitting the gym. I work in Indie Game Development and IT Cloud Development and pretty soon AI Development. Never had a problem getting women in my country. Neither are most of the PassportBros we just want more Traditional, Conservative and Submissive women. A woman who basks in her softness instead of trying to compete with Men.
その通りです。
Tbh, black men are not popular..
Agreed. This is a huge misconception that feminists tried to push. It's not about being able to get better, it's about there being better available.... Do not get it twisted. Searching for a suitable mate in the west is like looking for a nice lunch in the dumpster. You might find something to settle with but it's going to leave you feeling sick.
Single mother maker
I love your topics
I'm one of those American white guys who has never been attracted to Western women. My wife, a Japanese woman I met when I was living and working in Japan is one of those Japanese women who had never been attracted to Japanese men. We've now been very happily married for the past forty years.
I am heading to Japan around September
Dont be creepy like how you are in your home country.
So they want men that are experts in picking up women, that will stop picking up women after they meet? Good plan! Really deep thinking going on there..
When the lady at 3:45 said, "That's their preference, so they're free to do as they please," it is something women in the United States wouldn't even say.
Cause it’s a cringe preference. If your preference is for your partner to not be equal to you, then you should get judged and ridiculed for that.
It's fascinating to me how strong the notion of, "No way! I'd never ask a guy out. That's too stressful!" is, while simultaneously thinking the guy must ask the girl out. I guess maybe it shows courage or something.
Ive dated 2 Japanese women, one was an Angel perfect in everyway possible except we were to young and I was a Marine who deployed often. The second woman was a insanely possessive stalker who would appear out of thin air when I was working or out. She also worked at the bank I used and would call me asking about transactions I made that one ended fast.
I’ve never had a problem with a “strong” woman it’s the aggressive attitude towards men that I have a problem with. They expect a man to be traditional, go to work make money provide and pay bills while they do nothing to support their man. They say “I’m not your mother I’m not doing dishes or cooking or cleaning or washing laundry” but still expect to be stay at home wife/mom. There’s no give and take for them it’s just take.
The moment the guy said "Eigo ga jōzu desune." It was time the time for him to leave the earth (At least Japan). 😸
Just to clarify, Gaijin means White European and Americans, it doesn't mean Black Africans, South Asians or Arabs, or someone from perceived poor SEA countries like Philippines for example!
Very few non-Japanese people know this
Someone should make a video of them cold approaching japanese girls to test the hypothesis.
As a sidenote, "skinship" is wasei-eigo and not a real English word.
I still think the language barrier would be the biggest obstacle in starting a relationship with a Japanese woman as a foreigner who doesn’t speak Japanese unless they are somewhat fluent in English or your native language
You really have to learn japanese if you want to even have a chance. Most of them arent fluent and have difficulty translating their thought from japanese to english
@@Ravitas3 I agree. I don't see how it would work otherwise
Facts, When I decided to begin my journey into moving to Japan the first thing I started doing was learning the language. I feel like if you plan to move to any country though you should probably consider learning the language not just for dating.
Talking from experience my wife couldn’t speak English when we met and I still don’t speak Japanese married after 18 months together will be 19 years married this December it’s also chemistry she’s from Osaka and I happen to believe these people are unique in Japan more open more laid-back more relaxed
So, The firefighter married Godzilla. 🇺🇸
😂😂 savage
From my experience Japanese women are a lot more receptive to kindness than American women. I've never felt so appreciated in my life. My kindness gets repaid instead of taken for granted or taken advantage of. Japanese women can be quite sassy though so don't think they're 100% sweetness but I kinda like it. So my advice for dating Japanese women is be kind to them and respond to sassyness with humor and playfulness.
and you are kind?
@@TOOTOO-f6v that's what I've been told. I'm not perfect but I do my best to be kind to others.
@@TOOTOO-f6vis probably kinder than you.
Could you elaborate a bit on our experiences? For example in which way does it get repaid and appreciated? How does that materialize? I'm very intrigued.
@@maiy8786 sure. I got her some small gifts and she would surprise me with a gift sometime later. At the end of the date I'll escort her to the train station and tell her to text when she's home so I know she's safe and she'll ask me to do the same. If she likes to subway surf then I'll catch her if she stumbles and she'll try to catch me too. I'm a 6'4" guy. I don't really need anyone to watch over my safety but it's nice. After eating I'll take her trash and she'll offer to do my dishes. Any kind words or actions she's repay. Not every woman is so sweet but some definitely are. Especially nerds. Nerdy women in Japan are surprisingly good looking just very shy and awkward.
It's ok to be desired for your race at first. That's how attraction works. At first it's shallow. And then you get to know the real person.
This is how we ALL operate. We have "types". Liking Asian women is not different than liking tall blond guys.
It only becomes a problem if you don't eventually learn to know and appreciate the individual personality of the person.
Fetishism is never a good thing. It means you are looking too much at the physical.
@@JesusChrist2000BC Attraction starts at the physical, you dope.
@@JesusChrist2000BC i have a huge fetish for my black fiance. Now kick rocks.
@@JesusChrist2000BC Only a truly ignorant and unintelligent person could say something so devoid of any sense with so much confidence.
As the old say goes: see what they do not what they say, so I take all with a grain of salt.
"obedient" is not a great translation for "otonashii" (おとなしい). "Quiet" or "Agreeable" is a better translation. "Reserved" is probably best. Great interviews though. Well done. Non-Asian guys (esp white) will definitely have a better chance with women in Japan than in their own country IF they learn Japanese. If you don't speak Japanese, it's iffy.
I love your videos however, I would like to point out one thing that I think you’re a little inaccurate about which would be Asian women are liked by Americans because they don’t speak their mind and that’s not the case I’m attracted to Asian women because they are not so much reserved, but respectful and Modest as American women because of feminism have grown to become more disrespectful towards men and not really understanding on the position or standpoint that we try to come from. It’s not so much we want someone who is obedient we just want someone who respects us, and understands that at the end of the day we don’t want to press them, but we would like to provide for them because that’s how I was raised a woman is someone that should be taken care of and cherish because that is the importance of her I show my love by taking care of the person that I I care about so it’s not because they’re shy reserved and don’t voice our opinions it’s more of that they are respectful and modest
I agree with everything you said and would like to add that incentivized divorce makes it way too appealing for women to leave you in the West taking everything you've created for any little inconvenience in their life. I am just looking for mutual respect and long-term commitment with fewer carrots dangling in front of a woman tempting her to divorce men for their resources. I looked at countries like Japan, Thailand, the Philippines, and such for these reasons. I know Japan is a bit more Westernized than the other two but it's still not like the US right now. I don't need to be treated like a king just like a human being. It's gone completely ridiculous in the US and even if I found a decent woman here I would never marry or have kids with her with the way the court system treats men right now.
Out of the frying pan and into the fire!
What you see is not what you get . 95% of people will run away after realizing that the language barrier is real.
If you do learn the language and are genuinely committed to staying put in Japan then you have a good chance.
Yeah those earthquakes and tsunamis bother me.
@@fullcircle4723 They never bothered me to be honest. I have experienced an earthquake in Japan but it was on a smaller scale.
I don't know what my problem is. I studied in Japan and have lived there on several occasions. I've done plenty well in America, but in Japan I never once had a gf.
There is a kind of trope that it's easy for white guys, and by many of these responses that would seem to be the case. But that hasn't been my experience in the least.
You have to show off your whiteness more. Stand with your chest puffed up, and have your nose tilted slightly upwards at all times. Dye your hair blonde if you aren't already blonde. Win.
because "Gaijin" in most Japanese women's mind = Hollywood movie star or K-Pop star.
18:40 with the glasses... she gets it.
One rule to remember boys, women, regardless of race and location, usual changes the moment they get married. Its the nature of women.
Its better to marry first and get to know them then to get to know them then marry as you will get two different person before and after marriage.
Depending on everything- there's quite a difference and, frankly, while I agree with him that they were mature- I simply put mire weight in the adults/women's perspective.
Lol “Marry first”
Lol date the person for a while before blindly marrying. You have time also to test her. Because she has boons and as* it does mot mean that you should marry straight away without getting to know her nature
Not my case and I can say that after 9 years of marriage with my wife.
How many divorce proceedings do you want to endure until you find the right woman? lol
Super advanced country, lovely charming people but what's up with dental care?
I was a passport bro before I'd even heard that phrase
Same. So much better quality abroad!
I was the same but I prefer to be called an expat or traveler.
I think loser is the more accurate word.
@@arctic5177probably accurate, but I don't care
Passport bros are mostly swarthoids
Interesting reactions. Interviewer appears to have an issue with feminists/feminism. We wouldn't have feminists/feminism if everyone was treated equally in the first place.
12:26 - This is the real Japan that no one talks about when it comes to dating here. Japanese women might find foreigners attractive, might even imagine something about dating them when they pass by you on the street, but they will rarely approach you, and even more rarely make any eye contact or hint in any way that they are interested. Of course, it's different at night around certain districts in big cities. But day to day? Eye contact is avoided like the damn plague. For real. She'll see you coming and when you get close enough to meet eyes, the women will literally turn their head to look away from you. Happens more often than you would imagine. I can promise you that. Who would want to approach any girl like that? Hell nah. That's a sure fire way to get rejected on top of the insecurity of you being a foreigner and the girl's English or foreign language level problems. Trust me, I'd love to do a podcast about real life in Japan but I'm just a nobody. You'll find out for yourself if you live here, not just visit.
Nice Osaka shots ^^
It was so cool episode. My favourite girl was who had mask and also who had baseball cap. Both of them are tempting
Japanese women are so much hotter than English women.. even if I can't understand them 😂
@@N_Loco_Parenthesis Yeah like in most countries there's a range of women from 1 to 10
Japanese girls are truly the cutest and most beautiful of all the Asian races. I think the main problem though with dating Westerners is at least for me the language barrier it’s just too much effort to try and communicate and since you have very little in common there’s not a whole lot to talk about, once the physical attraction wears off you are done
As an Asian I disagree
The most cap 🧢
The 16 year old girls said come talk to me in the streets. Wouldn't have guessed.
Be careful passport bros, don't wanna be in jail.
What’s funny is in your video thumbnail, that girl is clearly on a beach in Tumon, Guam - USA Territory. Just FYI.
Guam is closer to Japan than to the US Mainland.
@@hananokuni2580 And yet its still not Japan ahahaha. Cali is close to the Tijuana border and yet it doesn't make it Mexico.
@@hananokuni2580 In politics or in location? Because GU is neither. Japan was once our colonizer though...but just like JPN colonized Korea too - it doesn't make it any more Japanese. I love Japan though FYI, regardless. But it's just wrong what you are saying. Trying to give peeps a clue.
That whole question about, "would you like to be desired for your race or nationality," is a little bit unfair. Every relationship starts for superficial reasons, and the depth comes with time and familiarity. You can't know the person before you know the person after all. I think people travel to a specific place, because they want to meet people with certain similarities, but they're going to choose the person they like for that person's particular attributes.
It's not so much macho as anti-men, dismissal/disrespectful of them or hostile.
Yamotonadesiko will not marry a foreigner, in my opinion. One has to have a Japanese cutural and deep language understanding.
イエローキャブと思われてるだけやぞ
Well boys book your tickets
What city is that? Tokyo?
Osaka.
Don’t give me hope 😂
Well Ladies I’m here, who wants to have an international relationship 😂😊
I think you are misrepresenting the passport bro's motivation for seeking relationships with women overseas. In the past decade or so, western women have increasingly adopted unrealistic standards for what they expect in a mate. They all want a man that's at least six feet tall, makes $100k or more per year, drives a nice car, is very handsome, etc. Unfortunately, only a small percentage of men can meet these standards. As a result, men are going overseas to countries where they are seen as attractive by the women in those countries. Many Asian women find western men to be particularly attractive, and Asian women are, on average, shorter than western women, so a western man that's 5''8" - 5'10" is seen as tall. Passport Bros are simply looking for a place where the local women will find him more attractive. That's it.
Passport bros dont go to Japan.. More like Philippines and Thailand. Japanese woman are too westernised already
How exactly?
@@orvos1459 materialism, hypergamy, corporate-slave
They don't go to Japan because it's more expensive than South East Asia and they can't find a good job there.
@@orvos1459 Japan have one of lowest birthrates in world, loneliness and suicide rates are still rising - you think its good country to look for faithful wife there? Also cheating and sex culture, promiscuity rates are same or even worse then "western countries"
@@user-oh6ky3xq1e yeah. I see. As a complete loner myself who struggles with this uneasy state, I’ve dreamt of traveling to Japan as a distraction…only to see other people in a state like mine. lol
Dude is completely misconveying what the whole passport bros is about. It's not about a specific race or nationality, nor is it about looking for women who don't voice their own opinions. 🤦
A lot of the dating problems men face is that the West is in a 304flation epidemic. An average man has to put forth 10x effort for a woman who is 1/10th of the quality.
Basic Bob and Cubicle Carl, who are 6/10 on the attractiveness scale, can NOT compete on dating apps. The top 5% of men get 80-90% of the matches. Even the 4/10's do NOT want the 6/10 Basic Bob or Cubicle Carl. The 3's and 4's think they qualify for the top 5% of men.
So should the 6/10s go to Japan, then?
@@orvos1459
The man doesn't "have" to go to Japan specifically. There are many, many, many countries to choose from. But he WOULD have a better dating experience overseas. If his plan is to commit LONG TERM (marriage, co-habitation, common law, and/or kids), then he should weigh the pros and cons.
For "Passport Bros," there are 2 main categories.
We have the "PPBs" who are willing to integrate into the culture, learn the language, etc. They want to have a family, etc. They wish to STAY in the target country.
And then there are the "Passport Pookies." Their purpose is s3ggs.
If he is wanting quick $3ggs, then NO, he should NOT go to ANY country. With 304, h0okup culture, if he has money to travel, he has money to be a 9/10 for a week. He can get $3ggs in the West.
Japanese passport if the strongest in the world. This passport bro bs doesn't apply in Japan.
Wht are you trying to say?
Approaching to women is hard for men to do i think based on other interviews I watched like you can't just approach them (unless you're handsome or ikemen)
it will make them creeped out. Also they don't trust strangers unless you have connections? i hope I'm wrong, but all I can say is wear proper clothes
and should make your self at least handsome at your best. I don't have experience yet but hope someone share your stories
Can't help to think Frieren kiss at the thumbnail.
that guy at 11:25 in the background😂
11:25 ハーロ 👋🏾
what city and area is this