I can validate this statement. My husband was the king of my heart. He left me and was in a 3 year live In relationship with his girlfriend. He came back to me in 2021 and left me again in 2022... this discard was more painful because I honestly thought GOD brought back my husband a changed man. But had to remember satan heard my prayers too!
Yes...the eyes can give them away during the love bombing. He had a sneaky demeanor, like a lion on the prowl. Kept saying, "You're in good hands with me." How I wish I had followed my intuition
I got panic attacks and intense insomnia, which had never happened before; even to this day, I am sensitive to high sounds and feel anxious about people who seem like him on the street. I notice that my body is reacting to high-intensity anxiety and fear.
So true. My blood pressure was so far out of control (almost stroke level) and my Crohn's Disease was so uncontrollable I didn't really feel like going anywhere, when around my first ex and her grandson.
I started bleeding from my uterus and it went on for four straight months. I went to the doctor and they couldn’t find anything wrong. The doctor told me to “reduce stress.”
I figured out he was a narcissist at the 5 months marker, so for then next month I engineered for him to discard me. I had dealt with his kind before and barely got out with my sanity, got smeared lost jobs etc ... I didn't want to suffer discarding him and causing him massive narc injuries. So I suffocated him with fakeness until, and i predicted it, he discarded me right on time. Two months out and I'm certain he will not hoover me. God helped me play the narc out of his own playbook 😂
Isn't it Nuts?!?! As well as we may know who they are or understand who they are we still really don't understand them. The Devil makes the most sense. Basically Satan piloting these Evil Vessels! If you've ever closely monitored the things they do, it's ALL based in the 7 deadly sins! All of them. All 7. I gotta say that when I was still with my last Ex we were in a time where she had started cheating on me, or I just starting noticing that she was but I thought at the time we were working on fixing things. I remember how we had a specific Music on, Basically Certain Church type music on, Love for and from God type music, was one of our favorite songs... I was behind her with my arms around her and I was singing it into her ear as we kinda danced swaying back n forth! After about 2 minutes she ended up freaking out and Ran upstairs and locked herself in the spare bedroom / her walk in closet. I think she started feeling real LOVE and got scared! She ran away lol.. all she said was you're getting too close!! So what does that sound like? Fear of love!
You’ll know you’ve healed when you forgive and forget them. Forgive them as they are unwell. They need their own awakening and it is not your responsibility. Forgive them and keep your thoughts about yourself happy and productive. ❤
Forget, the pain? Yes. Forget them as being on my universe? Yes please. Forget what they did? No, I need to be able to recognise in future. Forgive? No, this is not necessary for healing. That’s just something nice we like to tell ourselves.
I don't think they are capable of healing or change at all, as they deep inside are empty, void without the personality and have no sense of empathy; it is all just copy paste of behaviours from their environment.
I would also like to give a praise report.... the past 3 months I have been sick and my lungs were filling up with fluid or something. I got to where I almost couldn't breath lastnight.... I told the Lord that I needed his help and to heal me. I felt an icy hot feeling come across my back and my breathing eased off.... I no longer have the fluid in my lungs. It left... God healed me... thank you, Jesus!!!! 💓
Shape Shifters they mirror everyone because they have no Soul so they steal identities. They are actors/con artists. Liars, theives, demons. Stay far away as possible from Jezebel, Levithian Spirits. This is Spiritual Warfare 🙏🆘💯❤️
Is that the demon? I used to call my ex's face the "wolf face" it was absolutely terrifying honestly like he was or still is possessed by two demons or more.
@alpine_ashes7865 😂yep, narc abusive ex-husband was extremely boring. I was new to his state and had traveled more than him and we still stayed home. My gosh! I love traveling....his broke a$$😂.
In a way, I'm blessed that I don't really have much to offer anyone now. Because I don't think I could become that shallow enough to keep up with dating these days. It's a blessing at my age that I have my hobbies and peace of mind now.
26:08 that is so true, he discarded me without telling me it was over, his new supply posted a picture of themselves and he looks so old and haggard. His eyes empty and little grin was creepy, in pictures with me he looked so different, healthy happy not evil.
My mother, a textbook covert narcissist, once told me when I first started dating my now husband of 15 years, that “ he wouldn’t want me if he really knew me.” Yeah. She was talking about herself, because she thought and still thinks that I’m an extension of her. God, graciously separated me from her because I now live with my husband in Italy.
The whole relationship he was making confessions to me that he is a narc and at first i didn't know it until i started to analyze his every word and i got it! God was making him tell me! I realized Gods love for me ❤ and awaited the discard but to the narcs surprise i was geared up in prayer his demons came out in full anger but i rebuked them back to hell and walked away some what injured but not as he had planned! GOD IS SO GOOD ❤
"You can hear the devil laughing" ( while they wring their hands and are getting off on what they can do to cause you to stumble, fall or die next. Satan doesn't care and neither do they. They are busy doing the works of their father...the evil one)
I always wonder that as well because every time my ex narcissist boyfriend would come over my stomach would start hurting and I would have constipation issues. Every single time.. I even gained weight. And once he was out of my life, I lost 35 pounds because the stress was gone.
I was once a very sad Mrs. B. I used to think there was something valuable in trying to salvage a relationship with a tyrant. I can handle it, I can stay, no matter how hard it is...that's what love is. For better, and for worse. I was so incredibly wrong, because what is hard becomes unbearable. These empty vessels get worse, and worse and worse. If you stay, they think they have endless access to controlling you, cheating on you and hurting you. Then when you finally go leave for good, they act like a deer in the headlights. They just *can't* believe you're no longer there and willing to put up with their awful behavior. I've enjoyed the peace and tranquility I've had since leaving. My favorite quote: "The peace I feel from the absense of you in my life is worth being the bad guy in your story"
3 years of the strangest relationship I have ever been in, and I deeply loved him. I could see that he was hurting inside, and I had a great deal of compassion for him. It was kinda obvious he had some sort of personality disorder, but I’m no psychologist so I watched hundreds of videos, read through articles about attachment styles, and hoarding, and BPD, schizophrenia, but never found anything that really described his actions 100%. Then I watched videos about narcissism, and boom! It’s like they were talking about him personally! The thing is, even though he was cruel, bazaar, hurtful and confusing, I don’t want him to carry that pain inside. I understand that it is a disorder, developed in infancy and childhood. I pray for his salvation and I think that we could show a little more empathy towards these guys, a little more understanding and forgiveness. I haven’t talked to him in about 3 months, and I have moved on. But I do pray for him, it was easy to see he was hurting. I am so glad I found your Christian-based channel! Thank you so much for taking the time to educate us, and your understanding and sincerity ☺️
They have allowed themselves to be given over to a reprobate mind. They no longer exist as themselves. They are a demon in a meat suit. That’s it. They chose this path. Many people have really bad childhoods and don’t go this route. I have no empathy for them.
I resonate with your experience! You took the words right out of my heart. I loved him deeply, probably more than any other romantic relationship I’ve ever been in and I desperately wanted him to stop hurting. He clearly had many awful demons that spilled over and attacked the people closest to him. He hurt me in every way a person can abuse someone, and I still loved him. The roller coaster just got too exhausting for me so I did the final discard myself. I made every concession for him but he would not make any for me. It was a very one-sided relationship. I’m now five month no contact and I still hurt. I go between being disgusted by what he did to me to still loving him. It’s insane.
You can’t change him no matter how hard you try. You can literally record a video of him doing something and he would deny it. Its a huge huge issue that we don’t understand. Move on or he will make you insane
I disagree: they are soulless creatures, no empathy towards them! They hurt and destroy decent people, jeopardize their families and children's well-being, lying, cheating, transmitting STDs, doing unthinkable sadistic things etc. At this point, I am convinced they are possessed by evil spirits. They don't respect and fear God Himself
I am 3 years out not looking back and going strong. The 15 years I gave up I now choose to regard it as a movie series that I watched. It wasn’t me in that movie-it was a character he created, to think act and feel the way he programmed the character to behave in his script. But one day I woke up! I didn’t like the script! I don’t like horror movies Lol! After it was over(for me), he tried to make me watch his new movie with the “new leading lady”, unfortunately I made sure when I left that I closed every door, every person connected to him was eliminated from my life. Some movies are best donated to the thrift store, never to watch again🎉I’m enjoying my new adventure! Thank you Dave!
Not if they never cared in the first place. I’ve seen them skip off and never want you back. They keep moving bc there’s always another sucker to support them.
Have been with one. Trashed all his exs then obbbsssss as soon as I kicked his ass out he went back to all the horrible exs he trashed day and night. I think it all depends on age and whether they have opinions or not. Fuck them all
The only regret I have is not leaving sooner! I waisted 20 years nearly of my adult life waiting for a cheater and liar to change hoping he would with broken promises! All while having to keep telling myself it really ain't you or your fault... Don't listen to him! I don't remember one holiday birthday or any celebration that we actually got to celebrate or have peace or enjoy without something popping off from him! Thank you God! I'm not there ANYMORE!
thanks for sharing, thats intersting, mine ALWAYS ruined every event i was loking forward to as well. I now declare Joel 2:25 "I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten,....." on this long period where to be fair i had to dig deep and learn about myself.
Your channel is helping me so much right now. I learned a great deal about narcissism about 5 years in regards to my parents. However I was not a Christian at the time and became a Christian three and a half years ago. I completely missed the spiritual aspect of it which I think is honestly the most important thing to understand. I understood the psychology of it but there was always the nagging question. Why are these people so evil? I came to understand that my parents while having narcissistic qualities are not full scale malignant narcissists. Fast forward to now and I'm just coming out of a relationship with a covert narcissist woman. This time I got to see what a true narcissist looks like an action. It's terrifying. They truly have no remorse for their evil actions and get true pleasure out of our pain. Once you understand that it's demonic and the true evil exists in this world because the devil exists it's much easier to understand how and why they operate. Thank you for everything you do I'm still in a lot of pain and healing. God bless you.
It took me 5 years to find out what the heck a narcissist was! Better yet, I left him. Why was I always spending my money? Why didn't we plan a wedding after he gave me a ring? I heard this was being Future Faked. Wow, and that's WHY I got so sick! Yep, Therapy helped me a lot, especially when she was a narc survivor. I learned so much. It's been 12.8 years for me. I never saw him again. 👍
I discarded HIM 97 days ago. He reached out via TM twice. I didn't respond bcuz the TM was insignificant. He's made no attempt to call. Just two TM. LOL
Oh, man. I was definitely her "cure status" validation trophy throughout the course of the relationship. It really threw me for a loop at first, but God wised me up and gave me a way out.
I appreciate your biblical take on this issue. Through your advice, I have stayed off dating sites and I am in a season of aloneness right now. If there is to be someone special in my life, I’m going to let God hand-deliver him to me.
Yup, i have been there for over 7 years, it seems I only attract even more adept monsters. At this point I just assume others are hell. I do try to help others but they get downright violent when I hit them with a diagnoses of them. Narc injury is a real goocher for proud people.
My wife loved the film, The Notebook. Sometimes I think she believes im going to be waiting like Ryan reynolds, butthurt and bulding a new life/renovating the House for her to come back. I actually think they absorb films like this and try them in reality.
I wasted 4 years full of abuse. Oh yea I saw his new life plastered all over FB. Poor poor girl...it won't end well! The comment the absolute LOVE OF MY LIFE. Funny said the same thing to me..... Thank God I am healed and living my best life. They will not see the light of heaven Dave. There is a special place below hell for the narcissists of this world🔥
The narc I was with never ever posted me on social media. Instead he bought me expensive gifts like jetskis and a car and a house and would then brag in person to everyone. Looking back I wonder if he secretly hoped I would post these gifts on social media and I caused a narcissistic injury by not doing so. Who knows. And who cares. Hes a mess and he is the new supplies problem now. I hope she soon finds out that while she thought she was stealing a diamond from me, she was actually stealing a cubic zirconia. 😂 They deserve each other.
He didn't post pics of you in his social media because he didn't want to scare of his other supply. I was dating a very attractive women and in 3yrs she never posted a picture of me or a picture that symbolized her being in a relationship. Because she has alot of men orbiting her. But boy will she bother me to post pics of her on my social media. Its their way of controlling you. She is very attractive and will have no issue getting her next victim. She has men falling all over her. But not this guy. I left her, I showed her I ain't like the other idiots that orbit her. She could have them all, and they could use her for her pretty face and body. I'm going no contact.
@@joeoreo2498you right about the harem scared off. Divorced one and it ended badly with them discarding me but they still hoovering but I ain't listening.
A new matrix to play tricks on themselves continually, as We witness them from the mezzanine . . . They can have their new identity . . . And, leave me be, to BE free for eternity . . . They Do Not Matter . . . And, they never will ! TrUth! Be in it to win it ! . . . Thank you Father . . . thank you Dave, you are “A”inspiration brother! Peace, ~Dwd.
Great "seeing" you again, Dave. Still narc free here. Just been spending time with God alone more. I can't believe now in hindsight how I fell for all of this. Sometimes I miss these 2 people that I really cared for, but God had to open my eyes that the feelings weren't mutual and that I didn't need that drama in my life. I don't miss what they did, just that I had them in my life for so long. It's hard to just forget about them all at once, but with time and God I feel much much better. I blocked, but felt it wasn't enough... I changed my number..(smiles) God bless!
Dave - when someone explodes into rage on the regular i find that they’re a narcissist .. normal caring empathic people don’t scream at people on the regular.. a lot of narcissists scream daily and even multiple times a day .. thats a huge redflag and usually a great indicator ..
Forgiving and forgetting is not the hard part for some of us who are, by the grace of God, officially aware. The difficulty is they seem to lack the capacity to move on, even though they despise rejection worse than anything-they keep setting themselves up for it. Bah-freaking-zarre.
They have what are called monitoring spirits. It is not them, it is another type of energy that cannot manifest it's own body. Look up monitoring spirits and what attracts them, it is very enlightening to say the least.
The one I was seeing refused to even mention me on social media. They hid me from their social circle and the few times I was seen by someone I was never introduced because I was just a situationship. Turns out they had at least one side piece I found out about. I went no contact this past summer and we havn't spoke since. Did I love this person? I did and am still trauma bonded but they had no love in them to give. They were a dark hole with no empathy or ability to pair bond. Your channel keeps me grounded so that if they ever hoover, which I don't see happening because they deemed me not good enough for them, I know what I'm dealing with. Thank you Dave for this channel!
Everyone gets stagnant, too bad the narco wack job's never get this. ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE CURE; AND WILL NEEEEEVER FIND IT. Thank God above, I know how to love ❤️ 🙏
By that time, I lived at long Island a place that I love to live in New York or Yonkers . I can't stand this noise City. People are rude and disrespectful.
My Narc was my best friend of 40 years. But he fell in love with my wife. So he was love bombing my wife. Craziest thing I have ever seen in my life. I threw my best friend out of my life and never went back
I have graphed my successful periods, over a year and one half, and they correlated with times I was not speaking to an aging, alcoholic narc. He hovered me several times but only after I unblocked him (just to see how long it would take him to contact me, usually two days even after several weeks of no contact). It was worse and worse each time. I am totally done this time.
I’m 6 weeks into being discarded, (wish I’d never learned all this terminology) I’m waiting for you to be completely wrong about what I’ve allowed her to have of the last 7 1/2 years of my life. Hope I will start feeling better soon. Looking to the hills. Thank you for your honest insight. I am armed with the truth but it’s hard to accept.
Cheers Dave‼️🕊️ I wish I knew what I know now back on my marriage started to go really downhill. Throughout the marriage and with the birth of three children... I was the one who organized to go to church I was the one who organized to get a pastor to give us marriage counseling in our home in exchange for cleaning the church on Saturdays before Sunday service and of course, premarital Christian counseling before marriage....AND THIS IS WHERE I GOT WARNED...By the pastor. Ooh how we don't want hear the painful REALITY but ...it's for our own good and our children's as well.
Thank you for everything. You have open my eyes and in one month i went from B to A and even tough im not ideal yet now i see Narcs at 100 miles. Keep doing this, you are saving lifes! And your stories are hilarious!
It's refreshing to hear the truth! Real quick my guest on Thanksgiving showed up late and came full and manifested in front of my family! Didn't even stay for an hour? It literally broke my heart!! Two days prior to Thanksgiving tells me I love you did not answer do to the fact I showed my love only to be played like a fiddle.
When many Rock Stars were on top, with 10s of thousands waiting in line they seldom had time for even an autograph. But after they've ridden out the ride for all its worth playing at the local dives and beer gardens for peanuts suddenly it's, No stick around hang out with us. You can buy the next round or 2......Or 3.
All the cluster B's I know are addicts or alcoholics. And therapists worst patient is the cluster B's because the patient want's someone else to do the work for them. It really does boil down to poor parenting and a lack of accountability. My folks really tried to get me to own their broken parts, thank God my sisters owned all that BS, they still do and will not talk to me for fear of accountability. My mother was the malignant ( she died when I was 14) and Dad was the covert, he died in 2018. I was so relieved when he went. There was no more unrealistic expectations for a man he never bothered to teach how to survive in this world. Self made and forever the scapegoat! I tell folks all the time "this goat cannot be killed by mere mortals, so keep trying and wear yourself out!" it really helps them heal or puts them into narc injury, either way, not my circus, not my monkey's!
YES! I HAVE BEEN THE SCAPEGOAT ALL MY LIFE...NOT ANYMORE. Narc abusive ex-husband used me as the scapegoat or pawn. I checkmated that ahole. Marriage lasted only six months and I experienced DV. Retribution is happening now.
16 mos free after 28yrs, rejected his hoover in august now he has disgarded me for a narc who is worse than him. Watching him and his family from here it all blows my mind. I never even knew any of them.
Ive known him 30yrs and i dont recognize him. He dont look or sound the same. I was grade a, the one he has now is all he could get and he thinks im going come fight for him, he is 50 we arent kids but he is forever 5
I’m gonna tell you this right now between the British guy and Dr. Romney you’re somewhere in the soft in between and I very much appreciate it because every question that I’ve ever had that required. What am I supposed to be feeling or during this situation has been answered and not only do you do that you have the understanding that the difference between the human flesh and the higher power is the difference between falling for this stuff again or understanding that there’s a way to get out I very much appreciate you please never stop making videos. Bless you.
YES THIS "MOTH. FUC." TOOK ME TO HIS WORK.. GOD I REGRET I DID IT.. IT WAS EXHOUSTING!! Dave .Sorry for my big letters im not screamming .. Im just so chocked you named this like you knew ...I promise you Dave i wanted to leave this piece of shit but i couldnt call authorities. He was threating and stalking me and screamming outside my window for 10 hours a day. I was scared loosing my appartment. If my neighbours get angry at me so i opened the door. If i could turn time back and knew what i know now I would have call so they can take him away ... and get a restraining order on this garbadge
A friend of mine from Texas one time, taught me a way to abbreviate that, so that it still gets it's point across without spelling it out. Was cleaver, because when some people say it fast it sounds like "MoFo"
4 1/2 Y E A R S narc- F R E E ! I'm so happy!!! My life is filled with J O Y a n d P E A C E and plenty of T R U T H , not lies. Thank you, JESUS CHRIST for giving me an opportunity to dodge that bullet and live a HAPPY and HEALTHY life. Thank you Dave for sharing your videos and wisdom.
I believe this specific video yours David is your master piece ! Right on everything that u describe, from a to z in the board ! 3 👍👍👍up ! Wow right on the target 🎯 !!!
They'd leave you for the dog hiking his leg on the hydrant out somewhere if the dog was looking in their direction........why do dogs lick their own hind ends? BECAUSE. THEY. CAN. Thanks Dave!!!!
21 days demon dave free. It used to see like his face changed...not in a bad way...like somehow he got more handsome! I'm thinking a spirit enhanced his beauty to keep me addicted...he looks way better in person...and different.. hard to explain. Devil in disguise. Handsome devil. Wolf in sheeps clothing. I used to call him Dreamy Davey...now it's denon dave.
Mine posted him on one knee proposing to the new supply literally one day after we got divorced ….. saying “ this is my new soul mate “ I thort …. You mean another victim and thankgod it’s not me now 🙏
I don't want her to experience agony. I just want to stop thinking about her. I hope she gets better and finds the happiness she has been seeking but never finding.
This just means how these narcissist look at your looks and compare you to their idol … and you are clearly no one but your authentic self unless their new supply is a narcissist.. then the two narcissists they will illusion each other I guess .
Trauma bonding, love bombing, future faking, ghosting, breadcrumbing, discarding, hoovering, denying affection. No more torture!
Every time u get back together, they have less & less & less respect for u.
I can validate this statement. My husband was the king of my heart. He left me and was in a 3 year live In relationship with his girlfriend. He came back to me in 2021 and left me again in 2022... this discard was more painful because I honestly thought GOD brought back my husband a changed man. But had to remember satan heard my prayers too!
I'm so sorry! How r ya now? I'm 21 days demon dave free.@@anitabuckley2496
Your body really does tell you. My eczema and autoimmune issues became worse. The stress. The uneasy, unsettled spirit.
Yes...the eyes can give them away during the love bombing. He had a sneaky demeanor, like a lion on the prowl. Kept saying, "You're in good hands with me." How I wish I had followed my intuition
I got panic attacks and intense insomnia, which had never happened before; even to this day, I am sensitive to high sounds and feel anxious about people who seem like him on the street. I notice that my body is reacting to high-intensity anxiety and fear.
So true. My blood pressure was so far out of control (almost stroke level) and my Crohn's Disease was so uncontrollable I didn't really feel like going anywhere, when around my first ex and her grandson.
Yes, my fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue were bad during the relationship.
I started bleeding from my uterus and it went on for four straight months. I went to the doctor and they couldn’t find anything wrong. The doctor told me to “reduce stress.”
I figured out he was a narcissist at the 5 months marker, so for then next month I engineered for him to discard me. I had dealt with his kind before and barely got out with my sanity, got smeared lost jobs etc ... I didn't want to suffer discarding him and causing him massive narc injuries. So I suffocated him with fakeness until, and i predicted it, he discarded me right on time. Two months out and I'm certain he will not hoover me. God helped me play the narc out of his own playbook 😂
Dangerous game. Glad you got out unscathed.
Good one 👍
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Isn't it Nuts?!?! As well as we may know who they are or understand who they are we still really don't understand them. The Devil makes the most sense. Basically Satan piloting these Evil Vessels! If you've ever closely monitored the things they do, it's ALL based in the 7 deadly sins! All of them. All 7. I gotta say that when I was still with my last Ex we were in a time where she had started cheating on me, or I just starting noticing that she was but I thought at the time we were working on fixing things. I remember how we had a specific Music on, Basically Certain Church type music on, Love for and from God type music, was one of our favorite songs... I was behind her with my arms around her and I was singing it into her ear as we kinda danced swaying back n forth! After about 2 minutes she ended up freaking out and Ran upstairs and locked herself in the spare bedroom / her walk in closet. I think she started feeling real LOVE and got scared! She ran away lol.. all she said was you're getting too close!! So what does that sound like? Fear of love!
@@davidhancock5529 wow well played !
You’ll know you’ve healed when you forgive and forget them. Forgive them as they are unwell. They need their own awakening and it is not your responsibility. Forgive them and keep your thoughts about yourself happy and productive. ❤
Forget, the pain? Yes.
Forget them as being on my universe? Yes please.
Forget what they did? No, I need to be able to recognise in future.
Forgive? No, this is not necessary for healing. That’s just something nice we like to tell ourselves.
Forgiveness is not necessary in order to heal. It’s also toxic to suggest that it is.
I don't think they are capable of healing or change at all, as they deep inside are empty, void without the personality and have no sense of empathy; it is all just copy paste of behaviours from their environment.
This ♥️
You have to pray for them which is hard to do until you've let go of the anger and betrayal
I got discarded because I wasn't falling for her BS, and I kept calling her out. She almost had me a few times with the gaslighting and guilt trips.
I would also like to give a praise report.... the past 3 months I have been sick and my lungs were filling up with fluid or something. I got to where I almost couldn't breath lastnight.... I told the Lord that I needed his help and to heal me. I felt an icy hot feeling come across my back and my breathing eased off.... I no longer have the fluid in my lungs. It left... God healed me... thank you, Jesus!!!! 💓
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Amen! Praise God! He's soo good!
You should still be checked by your Dr just to be sure . God Bless you !
Amen
I've had the same thing. Only one lung. I need Jesus to heal me too.
Yes they hate everyone
Yes demons are literally everywhere
I've recently experienced the "stranger" persona. It's almost like their face morphs into a new shape. They look at you differently.
Shape Shifters they mirror everyone because they have no Soul so they steal identities. They are actors/con artists. Liars, theives, demons. Stay far away as possible from Jezebel, Levithian Spirits. This is Spiritual Warfare 🙏🆘💯❤️
Is that the demon? I used to call my ex's face the "wolf face" it was absolutely terrifying honestly like he was or still is possessed by two demons or more.
He threatened to kill me if I wouldn't comply to his every want and need
I literally escaped with my life at 56 years old. Bless Jesus 🙏
And the eyes go black! Absolutely terrifying!
“Their taste is admiration.” Man is that a perfect summary of these demonic creatures.
Welllllll said.
Wow!😊
There very dark
Narrsasists ARE SO BORING!!!!
Very. So many times I wanted to state, " if you want admiration so badly do something admirable! " 🙄😂😝
@alpine_ashes7865 😂yep, narc abusive ex-husband was extremely boring. I was new to his state and had traveled more than him and we still stayed home. My gosh! I love traveling....his broke a$$😂.
Facts!!!! I had to do all the planning when it comes to outings. All he enjoyed doing was drinking and smoking hookah
In a way, I'm blessed that I don't really have much to offer anyone now. Because I don't think I could become that shallow enough to keep up with dating these days. It's a blessing at my age that I have my hobbies and peace of mind now.
Outstanding!! I’m feeling you! ❤️💪🏾
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26:08 that is so true, he discarded me without telling me it was over, his new supply posted a picture of themselves and he looks so old and haggard. His eyes empty and little grin was creepy, in pictures with me he looked so different, healthy happy not evil.
My mother, a textbook covert narcissist, once told me when I first started dating my now husband of 15 years, that “ he wouldn’t want me if he really knew me.” Yeah. She was talking about herself, because she thought and still thinks that I’m an extension of her. God, graciously separated me from her because I now live with my husband in Italy.
We only have to endure the abuse that we allow. That's how I've always kept myself accountable.❤
No one has to take their shit
@@prosto_potomuwtoDamn ☝️
The whole relationship he was making confessions to me that he is a narc and at first i didn't know it until i started to analyze his every word and i got it! God was making him tell me! I realized Gods love for me ❤ and awaited the discard but to the narcs surprise i was geared up in prayer his demons came out in full anger but i rebuked them back to hell and walked away some what injured but not as he had planned! GOD IS SO GOOD ❤
"You can hear the devil laughing" ( while they wring their hands and are getting off on what they can do to cause you to stumble, fall or die next. Satan doesn't care and neither do they. They are busy doing the works of their father...the evil one)
I always wonder that as well because every time my ex narcissist boyfriend would come over my stomach would start hurting and I would have constipation issues. Every single time.. I even gained weight. And once he was out of my life, I lost 35 pounds because the stress was gone.
I was once a very sad Mrs. B.
I used to think there was something valuable in trying to salvage a relationship with a tyrant. I can handle it, I can stay, no matter how hard it is...that's what love is. For better, and for worse. I was so incredibly wrong, because what is hard becomes unbearable. These empty vessels get worse, and worse and worse. If you stay, they think they have endless access to controlling you, cheating on you and hurting you.
Then when you finally go leave for good, they act like a deer in the headlights. They just *can't* believe you're no longer there and willing to put up with their awful behavior.
I've enjoyed the peace and tranquility I've had since leaving.
My favorite quote:
"The peace I feel from the absense of you in my life is worth being the bad guy in your story"
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Ooh and they pick up woman or men at wakes and funerals! It's so sick
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Yup.. or they ask your bf if they want to f..k in front of you. Totally demonic and empty inside
And weddings in the church infront of you. Demons.
😮 10:13
Ugh!!😮
3 years of the strangest relationship I have ever been in, and I deeply loved him. I could see that he was hurting inside, and I had a great deal of compassion for him. It was kinda obvious he had some sort of personality disorder, but I’m no psychologist so I watched hundreds of videos, read through articles about attachment styles, and hoarding, and BPD, schizophrenia, but never found anything that really described his actions 100%. Then I watched videos about narcissism, and boom! It’s like they were talking about him personally! The thing is, even though he was cruel, bazaar, hurtful and confusing, I don’t want him to carry that pain inside. I understand that it is a disorder, developed in infancy and childhood. I pray for his salvation and I think that we could show a little more empathy towards these guys, a little more understanding and forgiveness. I haven’t talked to him in about 3 months, and I have moved on. But I do pray for him, it was easy to see he was hurting. I am so glad I found your Christian-based channel! Thank you so much for taking the time to educate us, and your understanding and sincerity ☺️
They have allowed themselves to be given over to a reprobate mind. They no longer exist as themselves. They are a demon in a meat suit. That’s it. They chose this path. Many people have really bad childhoods and don’t go this route. I have no empathy for them.
I resonate with your experience! You took the words right out of my heart. I loved him deeply, probably more than any other romantic relationship I’ve ever been in and I desperately wanted him to stop hurting. He clearly had many awful demons that spilled over and attacked the people closest to him. He hurt me in every way a person can abuse someone, and I still loved him. The roller coaster just got too exhausting for me so I did the final discard myself. I made every concession for him but he would not make any for me. It was a very one-sided relationship. I’m now five month no contact and I still hurt. I go between being disgusted by what he did to me to still loving him. It’s insane.
You can’t change him no matter how hard you try. You can literally record a video of him doing something and he would deny it. Its a huge huge issue that we don’t understand. Move on or he will make you insane
I disagree: they are soulless creatures, no empathy towards them! They hurt and destroy decent people, jeopardize their families and children's well-being, lying, cheating, transmitting STDs, doing unthinkable sadistic things etc.
At this point, I am convinced they are possessed by evil spirits. They don't respect and fear God Himself
I saw in my brother who is a Narc those demonic black eyes … this was so scary to witness. Much praying for him ….
I am 3 years out not looking back and going strong. The 15 years I gave up I now choose to regard it as a movie series that I watched. It wasn’t me in that movie-it was a character he created, to think act and feel the way he programmed the character to behave in his script. But one day I woke up! I didn’t like the script! I don’t like horror movies Lol! After it was over(for me), he tried to make me watch his new movie with the “new leading lady”, unfortunately I made sure when I left that I closed every door, every person connected to him was eliminated from my life. Some movies are best donated to the thrift store, never to watch again🎉I’m enjoying my new adventure! Thank you Dave!
I got constantly sick because of my Narc … thank you so much for your videos 🙏🏻✝️
Not if they never cared in the first place. I’ve seen them skip off and never want you back. They keep moving bc there’s always another sucker to support them.
Isn’t that the truth.
Have been with one. Trashed all his exs then obbbsssss as soon as I kicked his ass out he went back to all the horrible exs he trashed day and night. I think it all depends on age and whether they have opinions or not. Fuck them all
The only regret I have is not leaving sooner! I waisted 20 years nearly of my adult life waiting for a cheater and liar to change hoping he would with broken promises! All while having to keep telling myself it really ain't you or your fault... Don't listen to him! I don't remember one holiday birthday or any celebration that we actually got to celebrate or have peace or enjoy without something popping off from him! Thank you God! I'm not there ANYMORE!
"Wasted"
thanks for sharing, thats intersting, mine ALWAYS ruined every event i was loking forward to as well.
I now declare Joel 2:25 "I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten,....." on this long period where to be fair i had to dig deep and learn about myself.
Your channel is helping me so much right now. I learned a great deal about narcissism about 5 years in regards to my parents. However I was not a Christian at the time and became a Christian three and a half years ago. I completely missed the spiritual aspect of it which I think is honestly the most important thing to understand. I understood the psychology of it but there was always the nagging question. Why are these people so evil? I came to understand that my parents while having narcissistic qualities are not full scale malignant narcissists. Fast forward to now and I'm just coming out of a relationship with a covert narcissist woman. This time I got to see what a true narcissist looks like an action. It's terrifying. They truly have no remorse for their evil actions and get true pleasure out of our pain. Once you understand that it's demonic and the true evil exists in this world because the devil exists it's much easier to understand how and why they operate. Thank you for everything you do I'm still in a lot of pain and healing. God bless you.
I watch Little House on the Prairie and The Walton’s. Amazing how great both those Dads and husbands were. ❤
Hopefully I find good man as I really am running out of time to have kids
That’s an accurate way to put it. At the beginning we were the “cure” and that the end we were the opposite of that
One of My Favorite part is always when you deter us from going to the dating site. I was Thinking about that everyday. Don’t go to the dating site 😊
It took me 5 years to find out what the heck a narcissist was! Better yet, I left him. Why was I always spending my money? Why didn't we plan a wedding after he gave me a ring? I heard this was being Future Faked. Wow, and that's WHY I got so sick! Yep, Therapy helped me a lot, especially when she was a narc survivor. I learned so much. It's been 12.8 years for me. I never saw him again. 👍
I discarded HIM 97 days ago. He reached out via TM twice. I didn't respond bcuz the TM was insignificant. He's made no attempt to call. Just two TM. LOL
My wedding ring finger got scaly and pus oozed out and i had to take it off. My body knew way before i woke up. They are tragedy incarnate.
Oh, man. I was definitely her "cure status" validation trophy throughout the course of the relationship. It really threw me for a loop at first, but God wised me up and gave me a way out.
I appreciate your biblical take on this issue. Through your advice, I have stayed off dating sites and I am in a season of aloneness right now. If there is to be someone special in my life, I’m going to let God hand-deliver him to me.
Yes! It’s worth it. He is faithful. Enjoy this season as you spend time with Him and be patient:)
Yup, i have been there for over 7 years, it seems I only attract even more adept monsters. At this point I just assume others are hell. I do try to help others but they get downright violent when I hit them with a diagnoses of them. Narc injury is a real goocher for proud people.
I feel like dating sites are where they find all their cures!! They are predators and dating sites feed them! Good luck to you!
My wife loved the film, The Notebook. Sometimes I think she believes im going to be waiting like Ryan reynolds, butthurt and bulding a new life/renovating the House for her to come back. I actually think they absorb films like this and try them in reality.
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I’m finally healed still more to learn but thank god for waking me up and bring me home
I wasted 4 years full of abuse. Oh yea I saw his new life plastered all over FB. Poor poor girl...it won't end well! The comment the absolute LOVE OF MY LIFE. Funny said the same thing to me..... Thank God I am healed and living my best life. They will not see the light of heaven Dave. There is a special place below hell for the narcissists of this world🔥
The narc I was with never ever posted me on social media. Instead he bought me expensive gifts like jetskis and a car and a house and would then brag in person to everyone. Looking back I wonder if he secretly hoped I would post these gifts on social media and I caused a narcissistic injury by not doing so. Who knows. And who cares. Hes a mess and he is the new supplies problem now. I hope she soon finds out that while she thought she was stealing a diamond from me, she was actually stealing a cubic zirconia. 😂 They deserve each other.
He didn't post pics of you in his social media because he didn't want to scare of his other supply. I was dating a very attractive women and in 3yrs she never posted a picture of me or a picture that symbolized her being in a relationship. Because she has alot of men orbiting her. But boy will she bother me to post pics of her on my social media. Its their way of controlling you.
She is very attractive and will have no issue getting her next victim. She has men falling all over her. But not this guy. I left her, I showed her I ain't like the other idiots that orbit her. She could have them all, and they could use her for her pretty face and body. I'm going no contact.
@@joeoreo2498you right about the harem scared off. Divorced one and it ended badly with them discarding me but they still hoovering but I ain't listening.
A new matrix to play tricks on themselves continually, as We witness them from the mezzanine . . .
They can have their new identity . . . And, leave me be, to BE free for eternity . . .
They Do Not Matter . . . And, they never will ! TrUth! Be in it to win it ! . . . Thank you Father . . .
thank you Dave, you are “A”inspiration brother!
Peace,
~Dwd.
Great "seeing" you again, Dave. Still narc free here. Just been spending time with God alone more. I can't believe now in hindsight how I fell for all of this. Sometimes I miss these 2 people that I really cared for, but God had to open my eyes that the feelings weren't mutual and that I didn't need that drama in my life. I don't miss what they did, just that I had them in my life for so long. It's hard to just forget about them all at once, but with time and God I feel much much better. I blocked, but felt it wasn't enough... I changed my number..(smiles) God bless!
Dave - when someone explodes into rage on the regular i find that they’re a narcissist .. normal caring empathic people don’t scream at people on the regular.. a lot of narcissists scream daily and even multiple times a day .. thats a huge redflag and usually a great indicator ..
Forgiving and forgetting is not the hard part for some of us who are, by the grace of God, officially aware. The difficulty is they seem to lack the capacity to move on, even though they despise rejection worse than anything-they keep setting themselves up for it. Bah-freaking-zarre.
They have what are called monitoring spirits. It is not them, it is another type of energy that cannot manifest it's own body. Look up monitoring spirits and what attracts them, it is very enlightening to say the least.
And fake the love Facebook cuz that's were there they all are
The one I was seeing refused to even mention me on social media. They hid me from their social circle and the few times I was seen by someone I was never introduced because I was just a situationship. Turns out they had at least one side piece I found out about. I went no contact this past summer and we havn't spoke since. Did I love this person? I did and am still trauma bonded but they had no love in them to give. They were a dark hole with no empathy or ability to pair bond. Your channel keeps me grounded so that if they ever hoover, which I don't see happening because they deemed me not good enough for them, I know what I'm dealing with. Thank you Dave for this channel!
Everyone gets stagnant, too bad the narco wack job's never get this.
ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THE CURE;
AND WILL NEEEEEVER FIND IT.
Thank God above, I know how to love ❤️ 🙏
I remember when I watched this video three years , and it caused me fear and vulnerability 😂
Not anymore. I been through so many shit, that I do not fucking care anymore.
You use the word of God to destroy people's life.
By that time, I lived at long Island a place that I love to live in New York or Yonkers . I can't stand this noise City. People are rude and disrespectful.
Thank you!! Please continue posting these videos in 2024! Happy Holidays
Will do!
BLESS YOU DAVE FOR YOUR DEDICATION. MERRY CHRISTMAS.
My Narc was my best friend of 40 years. But he fell in love with my wife. So he was love bombing my wife. Craziest thing I have ever seen in my life. I threw my best friend out of my life and never went back
Good evening Dave and everyone cheers have my lemon tea 😊
We were the only ones that ever brought them up and actually gave them good energy.
Can testify to this no matter we were financially stable or broke.
The New Identity! That makes sense to some of what I went through. Thank you
I have graphed my successful periods, over a year and one half, and they correlated with times I was not speaking to an aging, alcoholic narc. He hovered me several times but only after I unblocked him (just to see how long it would take him to contact me, usually two days even after several weeks of no contact). It was worse and worse each time. I am totally done this time.
well done, please block him for good. nothing good comes out of it. I wasted 5 years i could have been doing way more productive stuff with my life.
21 years with him. Strange how I felt he wanted to be me. Scary.
I’m 6 weeks into being discarded, (wish I’d never learned all this terminology) I’m waiting for you to be completely wrong about what I’ve allowed her to have of the last 7 1/2 years of my life. Hope I will start feeling better soon. Looking to the hills. Thank you for your honest insight. I am armed with the truth but it’s hard to accept.
Cheers Dave‼️🕊️ I wish I knew what I know now back on my marriage started to go really downhill. Throughout the marriage and with the birth of three children... I was the one who organized to go to church I was the one who organized to get a pastor to give us marriage counseling in our home in exchange for cleaning the church on Saturdays before Sunday service and of course, premarital Christian counseling before marriage....AND THIS IS WHERE I GOT WARNED...By the pastor. Ooh how we don't want hear the painful REALITY but ...it's for our own good and our children's as well.
I was warned also and missed so many fire red flags.
Thank you for everything. You have open my eyes and in one month i went from B to A and even tough im not ideal yet now i see Narcs at 100 miles. Keep doing this, you are saving lifes! And your stories are hilarious!
You Rock! Thank You:)
the part you mentioned about being posted on the web even during a fight resonated.
It's refreshing to hear the truth! Real quick my guest on Thanksgiving showed up late and came full and manifested in front of my family! Didn't even stay for an hour? It literally broke my heart!! Two days prior to Thanksgiving tells me I love you did not answer do to the fact I showed my love only to be played like a fiddle.
I watched other video on narcissism, yours by far has single handedly brought my clarity back, your a god send. Thank you so much.
We are in the end days. Love is missing. Yes sir! Biblical.
When many Rock Stars were on top, with 10s of thousands waiting in line they seldom had time for even an autograph. But after they've ridden out the ride for all its worth playing at the local dives and beer gardens for peanuts suddenly it's, No stick around hang out with us. You can buy the next round or 2......Or 3.
Do narcs ever NOT put supply on Social Media?
All the cluster B's I know are addicts or alcoholics. And therapists worst patient is the cluster B's because the patient want's someone else to do the work for them. It really does boil down to poor parenting and a lack of accountability. My folks really tried to get me to own their broken parts, thank God my sisters owned all that BS, they still do and will not talk to me for fear of accountability. My mother was the malignant ( she died when I was 14) and Dad was the covert, he died in 2018. I was so relieved when he went. There was no more unrealistic expectations for a man he never bothered to teach how to survive in this world. Self made and forever the scapegoat! I tell folks all the time "this goat cannot be killed by mere mortals, so keep trying and wear yourself out!" it really helps them heal or puts them into narc injury, either way, not my circus, not my monkey's!
You are speaking to me…thank you, and God bless you❣️
Her cousin was one of the dudes she was having an affair with of the many I found out about.
YES! I HAVE BEEN THE SCAPEGOAT ALL MY LIFE...NOT ANYMORE. Narc abusive ex-husband used me as the scapegoat or pawn. I checkmated that ahole. Marriage lasted only six months and I experienced DV. Retribution is happening now.
I don’t even care anymore, so that’s a big plus🎉
Dave has some intense eyes. This man is serious about helping us. His ex narc must have melted like the wicked witch of oz under that gaze.
16 mos free after 28yrs, rejected his hoover in august now he has disgarded me for a narc who is worse than him. Watching him and his family from here it all blows my mind. I never even knew any of them.
Ive known him 30yrs and i dont recognize him. He dont look or sound the same. I was grade a, the one he has now is all he could get and he thinks im going come fight for him, he is 50 we arent kids but he is forever 5
I’m gonna tell you this right now between the British guy and Dr. Romney you’re somewhere in the soft in between and I very much appreciate it because every question that I’ve ever had that required. What am I supposed to be feeling or during this situation has been answered and not only do you do that you have the understanding that the difference between the human flesh and the higher power is the difference between falling for this stuff again or understanding that there’s a way to get out I very much appreciate you please never stop making videos. Bless you.
😅😅😅😅😅😅 Dave your so funny. “ I don’t mean to pick on the narcissist “
TRUE WORDS 👏🔥
YES THIS "MOTH. FUC." TOOK ME TO HIS WORK.. GOD I REGRET I DID IT.. IT WAS EXHOUSTING!! Dave .Sorry for my big letters im not screamming .. Im just so chocked you named this like you knew ...I promise you Dave i wanted to leave this piece of shit but i couldnt call authorities. He was threating and stalking me and screamming outside my window for 10 hours a day. I was scared loosing my appartment. If my neighbours get angry at me so i opened the door. If i could turn time back and knew what i know now I would have call so they can take him away ... and get a restraining order on this garbadge
A friend of mine from Texas one time, taught me a way to abbreviate that, so that it still gets it's point across without spelling it out. Was cleaver, because when some people say it fast it sounds like "MoFo"
Ghosted for 6 months then Happy Weekend. Ghosted after marriage
Sickkkk
4 1/2 Y E A R S narc- F R E E ! I'm so happy!!! My life is filled with J O Y a n d P E A C E and plenty of T R U T H , not lies. Thank you, JESUS CHRIST for giving me an opportunity to dodge that bullet and live a HAPPY and HEALTHY life. Thank you Dave for sharing your videos and wisdom.
Dave, welcome back, so good to see you and your content. 🙏🏻
Im not jealous at all. I moved on a veryyyyyy long time ago.
These are the end times.not the end of existence. Only of non sense
I believe this specific video yours David is your master piece ! Right on everything that u describe, from a to z in the board ! 3 👍👍👍up ! Wow right on the target 🎯 !!!
13 years to long!
They'd leave you for the dog hiking his leg on the hydrant out somewhere if the dog was looking in their direction........why do dogs lick their own hind ends? BECAUSE. THEY. CAN.
Thanks Dave!!!!
I don’t call it a relationship…It’s feels like it never happened it was non existent…I really turn my back on this mess…He a snake evil demonic…
21 days demon dave free. It used to see like his face changed...not in a bad way...like somehow he got more handsome! I'm thinking a spirit enhanced his beauty to keep me addicted...he looks way better in person...and different.. hard to explain. Devil in disguise. Handsome devil. Wolf in sheeps clothing. I used to call him Dreamy Davey...now it's denon dave.
I think he got off on me not having a family and him having his own to his ex
This is so true 😢
Heram garage gets me every time lol
Wild. Good one 😁Thank you.
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I've lost my explanation point 😂
Mine posted him on one knee proposing to the new supply literally one day after we got divorced ….. saying “ this is my new soul mate “ I thort …. You mean another victim and thankgod it’s not me now 🙏
The right mate. ✅️ ‼️💍💍
Nice pour Dave
Yeah, they attach themselves to your butt🐠, like a plecostomus fish.😂
Oh my gosh indeed 🫣
I don't want her to experience agony.
I just want to stop thinking about her.
I hope she gets better and finds the happiness she has been seeking but never finding.
Agreed
When they met you for the first time like the narcissist I met , the new cure is Miranda Lambert . Really , it is the snap shot cure
This just means how these narcissist look at your looks and compare you to their idol … and you are clearly no one but your authentic self unless their new supply is a narcissist.. then the two narcissists they will illusion each other I guess .