They’re so messed up that they leave you no choice but to leave them, then they’re shocked when you do. Like are you really surprised you treat people like crap and they leave 😅
@LuckiestStarByFar They dont see it coming because they're not very smart. They think they're so great that we cant do without them. in reality we are better off without them
The horror. Leaving is the only option. The problem is that until we leave our love holds us there. One more year, one more year, one more year. Until you are 45 like me and wonder what has happened to you life, endebted, alone and triangulated you wake up and discover that almost all of your friends and family are narcs only a few old ones are there shining like a bacon of light in the darkness and guiding you out of the tunnel of abuse from hell itself. @@mrblue___
Hi Dave & fam I wanted to share that God delivered me and my 2 dogs from the narc at 828 am. yesterday morning. I am in my season of isolation, and please know I couldn't have done it without this channel, subs, the Lord and His heavenly hosts. Glory to God. That pit the narc dug for me is his own grave. Anyone still going thru this, hang on, pray psalm 35 over your life & returned to the sender when you're under attack while God delivers you (&yours).❤😊
Way to go girl. Put those boundaries, put them fast, put them reletnlessly. Block the new offsprings of the devil. Im serious. They disguise as spiritual leaders, coaches and whatnot, but you recognise the abuse the instant it happens now only you need to follow through faster and more timely and just utter these words on the spot on location to the abusers face: "Thank you, but I do not like you blowing smoke into my face and I dont like this venue full of smokers you have taken me with your Exes hanging around watching us on our first date, I take my leave, dont call me please, Bye". It happened yesterday I kid you not without me uttering these words, because the boundaries do not exist yet as strong as I want the to be and after telling her that I was not ok with that on Chat the day after, she denied, blame/shifted, attacked and weaponised stuff I entrusted her with. She is dead to me the new devil, she is a Food Coach, Smoking like a Pro and eating two cream cakes for breakfast like a pig, congruence looks different, this is the devil ones again, latching on her fangs onto my flesh. Get away from me, I must use a repellent and if that means being alone for years to come, so be it, the devil shall not have a single bite of me ever again.
This! 💛 I even told him I've never allowed anyone to talk to me like you've been. So keep doing it and there gonna be issues. He stopped talking to me but he did it in other ways.
When you said little g that was prophetic, they want to be WORSHIPED! They can’t find the cure because that is JesusChrist and his salvation. They are too proud to bow at the throne.
I was discarded a little over two years ago after 27 years of marriage. At first I was concerned about being alone, but I have found I actually enjoy being alone. I turned to increasing my violin playing, and spending time with orchestra friends as my vice. Music is healing. I’m not sure where I would be without it. 🙂
I'm out of the military now but I was A Recon Marine and very proud to have served our Country. But I would never have thought a 5'5 110 pound woman could end up mentally and physically abusive to me to the point of harming myself. I had 3 choices, take it, fight back, which I never would do, or run. I chose to run after a physical rage on me out of know where. The physical scars have healed but the mental one's are very much still with me. It doesn't matter who you were or who you are, narcissists can take down anyone with a smile on their face.
I stood my ground every time he talked bad to me during the lovebomb, but he had me between a rock and a hard place. He knew it. He got me kicked out of where I was living by telling my ex that I was still living with, about me and him. I was homeless for a month and lost my pets. It got worse after that. I was SO isolated. Isolation is one of their main tools. You have no one to turn to and no one would even feel for you bc they don’t understand it! What a messed up devils game.
Everything that comes out of his mouth is negative put downs toward me. His nephew was 19 and was shot and killed. He didn't even shred a tear. My dad died and I was crying, he basically gave me a pat on the shoulder. No emotion
When you realize your partner has npd, run away immediately. Dont look back no matter at what cost should it be . Thats what you must do . watching this sort of videos trying to develop strategies ,tryin to figure out how to cope with them will only waste your time, drain you energy out and ruin your life eventually.
A Suggestion - Stop looking for a new relationship and start looking at ourselves and the root cause of why we are attracted to people like this. Codependency and Abandonment can be the root causes from our parents as the culprit. It's not easy to look at the Truth, but it will break you free from this vicious, abusive cycle. Food for thought?
Yes, exactly. I am going into a season of isolation so I never have to repeat this lesson again. It is only by the grace of God I woke up in the devaluation stage. Thsts where they want to leave you, permanently.
Absolutely true. These people are, what they are. And that’s their problem. But we drew this sort of personality to us and allowed the behavior to continue for a reason.
To think I was a friend for 5 years with my narcissist before I jumped into bed with her .. I KNEW it would turn out like this but not as bad as this . The shock factor isn't there now I'm in discarded territory about a month now she's with a crack and H dealer She knows how I'm feeling etc This channel is the difference between living and dying right now
My ex narc said "I can't wait yo see the real you". I was so confused. I was like " haven't you been paying attention?" It was weird to me because I was being me!!! Crazy.
Why is my ex still trying to get a restraining order on me a year after I blocked her on everything and changed my number? Once I figured out what she was doing I cut her out of my life ..she won’t quit trying to put a restraining order on me for something I never did ..I live in Louisiana..she lives in Florida..she got exposed and can’t accept the consequences..
This was a good video. I really like the fact that you're a Christian talking about this topic. I don't know what it is about being a Christian that attracts dark people but without God I would not be able to get through the psychological harassment/torment narcissists have put me through. And you are right, it's IMPOSSIBLE for NARCS to be Christians. In facts the Narcs that harass me are into the occult. It's all a sick and twisted game to them. May the Lord Almighty be with all of you. God bless.
You are perfectly describing my former "pastor", the devil himself, sadistic bully and this is exactly how he make people to feel : like they are nothing, this is how I feel last 25 years of mental, emotional, spiritual bondage/abuse; its a prison without the walls. Horrible place to be... these monsters enjoy when people suffer coz of them, so sick, diabolic, demonic to the core. Please, pray for me to overcome that somehow. Ivana from Croatia, Blessings
Yes...I am learning. I was a Lamb being groomed for the slaughter. It hasn't taken long for my education to catch up, and now I see 'Them' everywhere. It was my own Ego that kneecapped me in her first leg of the Demonic Offensive. The 1st Red Flag that stuck, I couldn't ignore it, she was Gaslighting me to death over non-sense. I yelled, "You're Lying, and if you're going to Lie then you are running with the Devil." I saw her smirk under her breath... ... ... That's when Fear made it's 1st appearance in my thinking.
I have a question. Do narcissist run to family narcissist after a rage? She always ran to her dad or sister to tell them how horrible I was to her but it was the exact opposite. I could be sitting comfortably on the couch watching TV and she'd go in to a rage blaming and accusing me for everything that's wrong in this relationship but at the time I didn't know their was anything wrong with us. She was firing off so many accusations I couldn't process it, let alone defend myself. I would then start agreeing with her and telling her I'll do better just to get her to stop ragging. Next thing you know I have her family telling me to quit harassing her and treat her with decency. Know wonder I'm so confused .
3 months into no contact after a 5 year relationship. It was very difficult up until about 2 weeks ago when I notice i was feeling stronger and good about myself. The image of the monster in my mind is fading away. Don't even let myself say or think its name. It deserves no name or image in my mind. I looked in the mirror and noticed I was smiling. I'm finding myself with the help of your videos. Thank you. You pulled me out of the darkness.
pwBPD tend to be a lot like this as well. Such a fine line between pwNPD and pwBPD. I have found if your partners parents have any traits of cluster B on board, then their children have a much higher chance of being impossible later, after they "get used" to you. I am almost 50, and have dealt with these folks for over 40 of those years, with bullies and such. Nothing makes me see red more than a bully. Thanks for another timely post!
I have seen a few videos to were BPD is seriously a bad diagnossis and eventually it may be taken out from the dsm 5… 80 percent of bpd diagnossis are really ptsd and the other 20 percent were this is a lot of covert aggressive manipulation is actually covert narcissism .. makes sense that bpd is often comorbid with covert narcissism and covert narcissim is often comorbid with bpd .. if there is severe manipulation that isnt bpd but covert narcissism.. borderline more often then not is really ptsd….narcissists are hiding in the bpd diagnosis cause it has less stigma
When you said self delivered that hit home the same Journey I've been on for 2 years praying and pleading the blood over my subconscious daily for deliverance . it does give you strength because when my ex contacted me after 8 months of not hearing from him 3 weeks ago. I was able to hold to my resolve oh he wanted to come over he wanted to know where I lived now wanted to reminisce about sex of all things make me sick heartache... I said absolutely not but it has opened up an old wound like a skab being ripped off the past month now...... going to have to start pleading the blood again
Yes I told him he had NPD and asked if he would want to get help(not realizing at the time we should never do that). We sat down and looked at “help programs”😂🙈…..one month later I found out he grabbed onto low hanging fruit bar girl and trying to triangulating me. I immediately blocked him and haven’t looked back. It was the most painful thing I’ve ever been through. 4.5 years together and engaged. I’m so grateful to be out though. One year no contact on January 3, 2024. Thank you Jesus for getting me out!!!🙏🙏
Narcissists focus on the three S,s , sex adult games , services , supply , safety , and safety is priority , no not security , stability , reliability , susstainability , no their secret is safe , they fear exposure being found out , and their deception revealed , i made that mistake , focused on what they said , and not the why ? When they say i love you ? They really mean you have to love me unconditionally regardlessnof all my misbehavior , they need you to take complete responsibility for them , they demand it if you love them ? Self justification , what has God done for me , what have you done for me ? They will acknowledge nothing ! The devil, and the narcissist only grow angrier they cant rip you apart ! God intervened with me ! Dave my ex even made a point to let me know i was no one , i knew i was hearing the devil himself talking !
No matter what you do it will never be enough if they want to leave let them go because you are going to better place sthat’s the reason there behind you tell them to jog there a joke remember if you leave them you had the last laugh 😂
Yes he gambled 🎲 but I won through Jesus my Lord. I left with my kids and I’m getting the knowledge & I’ll spend my last breath exposing this evil. The cost was high 😢❤️🩹but the peace and freedom and love from my Saviour is worth it. Brilliant video Dave and thx for your honesty brother ❤️🙏🏻, praying for you always!
I know one thing for sure with all my heart and soul that God saved me more times than anyone deserves. But this one time God exposed everything to me. It wasn't easy to swallow but he put everything in motion. It had to be becouse it happen so smoothly. Yes I get angry but I stepped out of my path. I was saved by God from drinking myself to death and then I stepped out of the mission to have a relationship with someone I knew didnt care for my relationship with God. Lust drove me off my path.
I remembered a narc quote from my own narc relationshit....he was looking at his phone and i was very concerned about getting scamned and hoped for his support he said ..." Are you really expectng me to stop what im doing because you need something? " 😅
ILOVE THIS ONE SO MUCH! Dave you know this so well; the spiritual warefare, the cons& tricks etc of the narcs! My narc was great looking dude- he knew it! He knew I had low self esteem! He played with me like a cat with a mouse! Still healing from trauma but your videos are REALLy helping me! I go to Gods throne constantly now! Keep em coming Dave! I love Christine A’s song-“Fighter”- thanks for making me stronger,wiser etc! Thanks Dave!🎉🎉🎉🙏🙏
Hey Dave, hit me up. I'm a Born -Again Christian who wants to avoid the actor you mentioned on your other web appearance. I have guesses on who it may be but want to be sure, so i I can avoid giving them my attention in the future. Thank you!
Dave you are a hoot! As you are speaking, the absolute, sad truth, I am cracking up! I love your line about the guy that comes back after years even though he’s married “Isn’t that nice.” And the hospital lines, “ Just hop you’ll make it I’m going to the neighborhood bar,” and “ Do I have to come to a complete stop can you just roll out.” I actually lived this when we were far out east with his flying monkeys in a bar after a comedy show when a call came in that a fire flood in my building had greatly affected my apartment. He couldn’t give a crap, and I had to drive far home by myself late at night totally stressed while he partied at that bar with his alcoholic friends and family. A horrible humiliating experience all around. I think a stranger would’ve treated me better. Thank you Dave for giving me the ability to laugh now. Always love, listening to you -you’re the best!
It's only too obvious when I call my voicemail who the narcissist is now. He's very talented and knowledgeable with technology and has Oklahoma County instead of Oklahoma City ( which is what he was using prior to Oklahoma County ) on my tablet and Dallas County in Texas for my phone. He thinks that by using the two different states it will throw everyone off. He happens to be a member of law enforcement and doesn't like the fact that I have a friend who is a male and that I still talk to him in spite of his attempts to intimidate me into not doing so. Usually, someone who is in cyber security would only be capable of being able to do the many highly illegal and very serious privacy violation crimes that have been committed against me by hacking into my devices for in order for anyone else to be able to do what he is doing, they would literally have to literally be able to physically have access to my devices.
I just love this chanel it's so healing ❤ . I am not in a relationship but I was traumatised by one two years ago and the healing is an ever evolving process that I deeply appreciate 🙏 but one I shan't 4 get ♥️ 😅 tha k you so much DAVID 🎉😊❤
I suffered for 17 yrs after my wife left. Til the Lord led me to Tiktok vids that explained what her behavior was " Narcissism"... She left me for a guy in italy that she only knew from the internet... I tried to love her through the issues. She just walked away, as a person i didnt know.I ask her why are you doing this, I Love You, she responded with " why do you say that like its supposed mean something". My eyes have now been opened to what i was actually dealing with.. Thank you, lord for all the lessons. In your time not mine. ❤😊
Narcissist, is a demon with a good disguise. It would do us good to call out demonic behavior for what it is and have great discernment to know the presence of evil.
Geez I don’t even know the full depths of what he put me through. I forgot about all the “errands” we would run together where he would drive me somewhere to pick up food for him. No taking the time to step out together walk in and just spend time together. I was his personal door dasher.
I watched your testimony on another channel. Unless those things happen to you personally it’s hard to believe but I know you’re truthful because God worked with me in the same way a little over a year ago. He seems to use ‘coincidence’ to let you know for sure he’s real and interacting with you. I feel he intervenes when he wishes but he won’t do so in a way that you can PROVE it to other people as I think if he did it would defeat the whole object of this life and finding God on your own journey. I was prophesising and thinking of things which second or minutes later happened. Things that I KNEW was Gif but anyone else would say it sounds like coincidence. I’m in turmoil and have been a while. Loneliness and depression are ruining my life and causing me to continually backslide in to sin. I know God is real and don’t go a minute without thinking of him and the difference now for me with sin is I’m aware when I’m sinning and make no excuses and I feel shame more than I ever did since God visited. Yes the devil also visited I was demonically possessed for sure and only crying out Jesus name had any effect. Not only did it have an effect of blasting the devil away but it filled me with bliss that can not be measured. A taste of heaven I guess. My life’s not had anything supernatural happen since December 2022 and I’m scared God left like I just failed the test. It’s all so confusing but I want to ask people when you hear the gospel and your heart is the good soil as told in the sowers parable does the Holy Spirit stay with you? Does that bliss stay? I had spiritual warfare and now it’s all quiet and I suppose I shouldn’t expect God to just be on call to dose me up with bliss anytime I ask but I’m suffering a lot in life and I pray and things don’t change and i have nobody just my dog. I wish I could meet a person that what I went through would make sense to
💥I NEW HERE AND LOVE WHAT YOU SAID ❤ SO GOOD AND WRIGHT 👍 I'm not looking back! God give me multiple dreams, and I'm stubborn and not listening 😢 for long time...
Yes you can actually yucky while the ramble on. Sick of supplies. Bible is good d cover him . I think his version is sin much forgiveness come wired ha.
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A true sicko abuses their family then turns around and blames everyone else. Lunatics
Well put. Thank you.
Right after I left the narc I got a tattoo on my wrist to be reminded everyday.
Matthew 6:33. Seek first the Kingdom of God ❤
no offense but I feel like someone is spray painting our body temple. my narcissist ex-wife got a big play bunny tattoo on her back
“They’re using your love to destroy you” that gave me chills. Really hung onto me. I’m glad that I found you. Thank you! 🙏🏻
Same
That hits hard
They’re so messed up that they leave you no choice but to leave them, then they’re shocked when you do. Like are you really surprised you treat people like crap and they leave 😅
@LuckiestStarByFar They dont see it coming because they're not very smart. They think they're so great that we cant do without them. in reality we are better off without them
ALWAYS
These people are damaged from childhood and will never change. Parents can make or break you.
Thx Dave
Agreed. Now they want to spread their traumatic experiences on everyone. It's sick.
The horror. Leaving is the only option. The problem is that until we leave our love holds us there. One more year, one more year, one more year. Until you are 45 like me and wonder what has happened to you life, endebted, alone and triangulated you wake up and discover that almost all of your friends and family are narcs only a few old ones are there shining like a bacon of light in the darkness and guiding you out of the tunnel of abuse from hell itself. @@mrblue___
💥that is what he said!( just excuse!)
I prayed for her to come back now I pray for her to stay away forever! God does give you a new spirit man! 😊
So true
I did the same thing..cry and pray for them to come back..well,..not anymore...😅
Did she hoover?
@@loitongbamjanjitsingh2083 The Narcissit unblocked me on whatsapp but didn't reach out yet, i am not bothered either
She left me and found another narc and now her anxiety is through the roof. She knows what decision she made…Thank you Dave!
Hi Dave & fam
I wanted to share that God delivered me and my 2 dogs from the narc at 828 am. yesterday morning.
I am in my season of isolation, and please know I couldn't have done it without this channel, subs, the Lord and His heavenly hosts. Glory to God. That pit the narc dug for me is his own grave. Anyone still going thru this, hang on, pray psalm 35 over your life & returned to the sender when you're under attack while God delivers you (&yours).❤😊
Yes ! Don’t talk to me like that! Never again will I let a narcissist talk down to me
Way to go girl. Put those boundaries, put them fast, put them reletnlessly. Block the new offsprings of the devil. Im serious. They disguise as spiritual leaders, coaches and whatnot, but you recognise the abuse the instant it happens now only you need to follow through faster and more timely and just utter these words on the spot on location to the abusers face: "Thank you, but I do not like you blowing smoke into my face and I dont like this venue full of smokers you have taken me with your Exes hanging around watching us on our first date, I take my leave, dont call me please, Bye". It happened yesterday I kid you not without me uttering these words, because the boundaries do not exist yet as strong as I want the to be and after telling her that I was not ok with that on Chat the day after, she denied, blame/shifted, attacked and weaponised stuff I entrusted her with. She is dead to me the new devil, she is a Food Coach, Smoking like a Pro and eating two cream cakes for breakfast like a pig, congruence looks different, this is the devil ones again, latching on her fangs onto my flesh. Get away from me, I must use a repellent and if that means being alone for years to come, so be it, the devil shall not have a single bite of me ever again.
This! 💛 I even told him I've never allowed anyone to talk to me like you've been. So keep doing it and there gonna be issues. He stopped talking to me but he did it in other ways.
When you said little g that was prophetic, they want to be WORSHIPED! They can’t find the cure because that is JesusChrist and his salvation. They are too proud to bow at the throne.
I stand corrected
She came back around
And I was Mrs A
They messed with Gods Kid!
NOW COMES THE JUSTICE!
Wow, I started drinking after narc relationship, feeling unlovable, stupid for being blindsided and dumped my narc. Drinking numbed the sadness.
I was discarded a little over two years ago after 27 years of marriage.
At first I was concerned about being alone, but I have found I actually enjoy being alone.
I turned to increasing my violin playing, and spending time with orchestra friends as my vice.
Music is healing. I’m not sure where I would be without it. 🙂
I'm out of the military now but I was A Recon Marine and very proud to have served our Country. But I would never have thought a 5'5 110 pound woman could end up mentally and physically abusive to me to the point of harming myself. I had 3 choices, take it, fight back, which I never would do, or run. I chose to run after a physical rage on me out of know where. The physical scars have healed but the mental one's are very much still with me. It doesn't matter who you were or who you are, narcissists can take down anyone with a smile on their face.
I stood my ground every time he talked bad to me during the lovebomb, but he had me between a rock and a hard place. He knew it. He got me kicked out of where I was living by telling my ex that I was still living with, about me and him. I was homeless for a month and lost my pets. It got worse after that. I was SO isolated. Isolation is one of their main tools. You have no one to turn to and no one would even feel for you bc they don’t understand it! What a messed up devils game.
I can see why he’d want you nothing better than hot broke chix with no options he must have been on you like white on rice
“The father is our conscious” that blew me away ❤
same. beautifully stated.
Everything that comes out of his mouth is negative put downs toward me.
His nephew was 19 and was shot and killed. He didn't even shred a tear.
My dad died and I was crying, he basically gave me a pat on the shoulder. No emotion
When you realize your partner has npd, run away immediately. Dont look back no matter at what cost should it be . Thats what you must do . watching this sort of videos trying to develop strategies ,tryin to figure out how to cope with them will only waste your time, drain you energy out and ruin your life eventually.
A Suggestion - Stop looking for a new relationship and start looking at ourselves and the root cause of why we are attracted to people like this. Codependency and Abandonment can be the root causes from our parents as the culprit. It's not easy to look at the Truth, but it will break you free from this vicious, abusive cycle. Food for thought?
Yes, exactly. I am going into a season of isolation so I never have to repeat this lesson again. It is only by the grace of God I woke up in the devaluation stage. Thsts where they want to leave you, permanently.
Absolutely true !!!!
Absolutely true. These people are, what they are. And that’s their problem. But we drew this sort of personality to us and allowed the behavior to continue for a reason.
LMAO!!
"Can you just jump out of the car while it's still rolling!!!"
😂😂😂😂😂😂
After you have seen behind the mask you can't ever unsee what you've seen.
God uses people and so does the devil.
Believe it
🙏
To think I was a friend for 5 years with my narcissist before I jumped into bed with her .. I KNEW it would turn out like this but not as bad as this .
The shock factor isn't there now I'm in discarded territory about a month now she's with a crack and H dealer
She knows how I'm feeling etc
This channel is the difference between living and dying right now
My ex narc said "I can't wait yo see the real you". I was so confused. I was like " haven't you been paying attention?" It was weird to me because I was being me!!! Crazy.
Why is my ex still trying to get a restraining order on me a year after I blocked her on everything and changed my number? Once I figured out what she was doing I cut her out of my life ..she won’t quit trying to put a restraining order on me for something I never did ..I live in Louisiana..she lives in Florida..she got exposed and can’t accept the consequences..
This was a good video. I really like the fact that you're a Christian talking about this topic. I don't know what it is about being a Christian that attracts dark people but without God I would not be able to get through the psychological harassment/torment narcissists have put me through.
And you are right, it's IMPOSSIBLE for NARCS to be Christians. In facts the Narcs that harass me are into the occult. It's all a sick and twisted game to them. May the Lord Almighty be with all of you. God bless.
You are perfectly describing my former "pastor", the devil himself, sadistic bully and this is exactly how he make people to feel : like they are nothing, this is how I feel last 25 years of mental, emotional, spiritual bondage/abuse; its a prison without the walls. Horrible place to be... these monsters enjoy when people suffer coz of them, so sick, diabolic, demonic to the core. Please, pray for me to overcome that somehow. Ivana from Croatia, Blessings
🙏 ❤ ✌
@@alchemicalone5012 Thanks
Hang in there Ivana❤❤❤ You have made it but you have not realized yet.
Pray Psalm 35 over your life everyday. All day long. I am still praying too. You're not alone.
@@pipers-lildogadventures5360 Thank you
Self aware narcs make my stomach churn…
my ex narc went cold on me and i never got why but now i do. it was when i called him out on being a bully so interesting thanks!
Yes...I am learning. I was a Lamb being groomed for the slaughter. It hasn't taken long for my education to catch up, and now I see 'Them' everywhere. It was my own Ego that kneecapped me in her first leg of the Demonic Offensive. The 1st Red Flag that stuck, I couldn't ignore it, she was Gaslighting me to death over non-sense. I yelled, "You're Lying, and if you're going to Lie then you are running with the Devil."
I saw her smirk under her breath... ... ... That's when Fear made it's 1st appearance in my thinking.
I have a question. Do narcissist run to family narcissist after a rage? She always ran to her dad or sister to tell them how horrible I was to her but it was the exact opposite. I could be sitting comfortably on the couch watching TV and she'd go in to a rage blaming and accusing me for everything that's wrong in this relationship but at the time I didn't know their was anything wrong with us. She was firing off so many accusations I couldn't process it, let alone defend myself. I would then start agreeing with her and telling her I'll do better just to get her to stop ragging. Next thing you know I have her family telling me to quit harassing her and treat her with decency. Know wonder I'm so confused .
3 months into no contact after a 5 year relationship. It was very difficult up until about 2 weeks ago when I notice i was feeling stronger and good about myself. The image of the monster in my mind is fading away. Don't even let myself say or think its name. It deserves no name or image in my mind. I looked in the mirror and noticed I was smiling. I'm finding myself with the help of your videos. Thank you. You pulled me out of the darkness.
👍Another good message, this is one subject can't be to repetitive with.
pwBPD tend to be a lot like this as well. Such a fine line between pwNPD and pwBPD. I have found if your partners parents have any traits of cluster B on board, then their children have a much higher chance of being impossible later, after they "get used" to you. I am almost 50, and have dealt with these folks for over 40 of those years, with bullies and such. Nothing makes me see red more than a bully. Thanks for another timely post!
I had to double check ✔️ to make sure I didn't have narcissistic tendancies but I do have empathy thank God
It's all cptsd fluid. The disorder is like a phase cycle so you see transitions
Amen same here
I have seen a few videos to were BPD is seriously a bad diagnossis and eventually it may be taken out from the dsm 5… 80 percent of bpd diagnossis are really ptsd and the other 20 percent were this is a lot of covert aggressive manipulation is actually covert narcissism .. makes sense that bpd is often comorbid with covert narcissism and covert narcissim is often comorbid with bpd .. if there is severe manipulation that isnt bpd but covert narcissism.. borderline more often then not is really ptsd….narcissists are hiding in the bpd diagnosis cause it has less stigma
Not everyone knows what pwNPD or pw means. Thanks for sharing
Just "HOP!"
"Just "roll" out of the car while it's moving"!!!!!!
LMAO!!!! 😂😂😂😂
When you said self delivered that hit home the same Journey I've been on for 2 years praying and pleading the blood over my subconscious daily for deliverance . it does give you strength because when my ex contacted me after 8 months of not hearing from him 3 weeks ago. I was able to hold to my resolve oh he wanted to come over he wanted to know where I lived now wanted to reminisce about sex of all things make me sick heartache... I said absolutely not but it has opened up an old wound like a skab being ripped off the past month now...... going to have to start pleading the blood again
missed your videos! please post more. it’s soothing to my heart and soul ❤
Yes I told him he had NPD and asked if he would want to get help(not realizing at the time we should never do that). We sat down and looked at “help programs”😂🙈…..one month later I found out he grabbed onto low hanging fruit bar girl and trying to triangulating me. I immediately blocked him and haven’t looked back. It was the most painful thing I’ve ever been through. 4.5 years together and engaged. I’m so grateful to be out though. One year no contact on January 3, 2024. Thank you Jesus for getting me out!!!🙏🙏
I've watched all of your videos and yet they aren't repetitive and just get better and better.
Thank you for helping us! You are a light to this world! You have a wonderful purpose. Can't wait to see what my purpose will be😊
❤the biblical perspective on this
It's also a reality..I was only a half believer at first but all becomes clear
The narrcisist internalizes everything. So, anything that reveals weaknesses to themselves makes them angry and a cause for retribution.
Narcissists focus on the three S,s , sex adult games , services , supply , safety , and safety is priority , no not security , stability , reliability , susstainability , no their secret is safe , they fear exposure being found out , and their deception revealed , i made that mistake , focused on what they said , and not the why ? When they say i love you ? They really mean you have to love me unconditionally regardlessnof all my misbehavior , they need you to take complete responsibility for them , they demand it if you love them ? Self justification , what has God done for me , what have you done for me ? They will acknowledge nothing ! The devil, and the narcissist only grow angrier they cant rip you apart ! God intervened with me ! Dave my ex even made a point to let me know i was no one , i knew i was hearing the devil himself talking !
He said that exactly he said I will never change this is just who I am … like it was so simple
This message was so good, I had to watch it twice.
So true..Being in the faith for over 30 years really kept me from leaving because I believed Husband would come back in and home after backsliding
No matter what you do it will never be enough if they want to leave let them go because you are going to better place sthat’s the reason there behind you tell them to jog there a joke remember if you leave them you had the last laugh 😂
Patience is vurture
Your ability to minister with truth, humor and great storytelling is effective and such a blessing! Godbless you and your family ❤
I love this channel. I hate narcs.
I love being alone! But I’m really not, cause I feel Jesus presence. Thru prayer and your TH-cam channel is a blessing!
❤ thank you for your advice
Yes he gambled 🎲 but I won through Jesus my Lord. I left with my kids and I’m getting the knowledge & I’ll spend my last breath exposing this evil. The cost was high 😢❤️🩹but the peace and freedom and love from my Saviour is worth it. Brilliant video Dave and thx for your honesty brother ❤️🙏🏻, praying for you always!
Seek ye first the kingdom of God. And all things will be added onto you. Just scrolled down Amen!
I know one thing for sure with all my heart and soul that God saved me more times than anyone deserves. But this one time God exposed everything to me. It wasn't easy to swallow but he put everything in motion. It had to be becouse it happen so smoothly. Yes I get angry but I stepped out of my path. I was saved by God from drinking myself to death and then I stepped out of the mission to have a relationship with someone I knew didnt care for my relationship with God. Lust drove me off my path.
You said everything that I have experienced, Thank you for your talks!! 💕
I remembered a narc quote from my own narc relationshit....he was looking at his phone and i was very concerned about getting scamned and hoped for his support he said ..." Are you really expectng me to stop what im doing because you need something? " 😅
Love your talks Dave. 😊🙏
22:15 This part was so funny. They are OBSESSED lol.
God bless you Dave….🙏❤️⭐️
I want to ask this again. Having 30 years invested in marriage, joint everything.
Please say its ok to cut my financial losses and just start new.
It's okay. Watch Dr David E Clarke. He's a Christian counselor who specializes in giving you scripture to leave the narc. He has a channel.
A great video!I’ve been watching since spring of 2019. May God bless you.
You are amazing. Thank you. Your videos helped me more than you know ❤️
ILOVE THIS ONE SO MUCH!
Dave you know this so well; the spiritual warefare, the cons& tricks etc of the narcs!
My narc was great looking dude- he knew it! He knew I had low self esteem!
He played with me like a cat with a mouse!
Still healing from trauma but your videos are REALLy helping me!
I go to Gods throne constantly now!
Keep em coming Dave!
I love Christine A’s song-“Fighter”- thanks for making me stronger,wiser etc!
Thanks Dave!🎉🎉🎉🙏🙏
😂 can you just roll out 😂seriously maybe one of your best videos! Thank you so much for the many many reminders!
Hey Dave, hit me up. I'm a Born -Again Christian who wants to avoid the actor you mentioned on your other web appearance. I have guesses on who it may be but want to be sure, so i I can avoid giving them my attention in the future. Thank you!
When I was on drugs she put fentanyl in my gear I very nearly died she denied it if course.
They will kill you and not think twice.
Powerful wisdom, thqnk you, I needed this message, thank you for understanding.
Dave you are a hoot! As you are speaking, the absolute, sad truth, I am cracking up! I love your line about the guy that comes back after years even though he’s married “Isn’t that nice.” And the hospital lines, “ Just hop you’ll make it I’m going to the neighborhood bar,” and “ Do I have to come to a complete stop can you just roll out.” I actually lived this when we were far out east with his flying monkeys in a bar after a comedy show when a call came in that a fire flood in my building had greatly affected my apartment. He couldn’t give a crap, and I had to drive far home by myself late at night totally stressed while he partied at that bar with his alcoholic friends and family. A horrible humiliating experience all around. I think a stranger would’ve treated me better. Thank you Dave for giving me the ability to laugh now. Always love, listening to you -you’re the best!
I love you Dave! Your stronghold videos are my healing prayers
This is a break trough! Thank youu
I feel bad I overshared on finding out outhe was and talking sick supplies. There finding out dumping them i feel so the supplies.
It's only too obvious when I call my voicemail who the narcissist is now. He's very talented and knowledgeable with technology and has Oklahoma County instead of Oklahoma City ( which is what he was using prior to Oklahoma County ) on my tablet and Dallas County in Texas for my phone. He thinks that by using the two different states it will throw everyone off. He happens to be a member of law enforcement and doesn't like the fact that I have a friend who is a male and that I still talk to him in spite of his attempts to intimidate me into not doing so. Usually, someone who is in cyber security would only be capable of being able to do the many highly illegal and very serious privacy violation crimes that have been committed against me by hacking into my devices for in order for anyone else to be able to do what he is doing, they would literally have to literally be able to physically have access to my devices.
I just love this chanel it's so healing ❤ . I am not in a relationship but I was traumatised by one two years ago and the healing is an ever evolving process that I deeply appreciate 🙏 but one I shan't 4 get ♥️ 😅 tha k you so much DAVID 🎉😊❤
I love the pouring everytime 😂
„I love this video already“ 😀😀😀😀 Great! And so do I 🧡
Exactly.
She was a friend but she was messing around with a married man now she's in jail and is love bombing me. 🤣 nope reality will set in soon
Thank you so much ♥️
Danke!
Thanks Goldmarie!
I suffered for 17 yrs after my wife left. Til the Lord led me to Tiktok vids that explained what her behavior was " Narcissism"...
She left me for a guy in italy that she only knew from the internet...
I tried to love her through the issues.
She just walked away, as a person i didnt know.I ask her why are you doing this, I Love You, she responded with " why do you say that like its supposed mean something".
My eyes have now been opened to what i was actually dealing with..
Thank you, lord for all the lessons.
In your time not mine. ❤😊
Narcissist, is a demon with a good disguise. It would do us good to call out demonic behavior for what it is and have great discernment to know the presence of evil.
God sent me this video
Geez I don’t even know the full depths of what he put me through. I forgot about all the “errands” we would run together where he would drive me somewhere to pick up food for him. No taking the time to step out together walk in and just spend time together. I was his personal door dasher.
Do you think it’s a good idea to ask a narc if they know if they have npd and bpd?
It won't matter, they're very delusional. Love yourself, move on and heal. ❤
I watched your testimony on another channel. Unless those things happen to you personally it’s hard to believe but I know you’re truthful because God worked with me in the same way a little over a year ago. He seems to use ‘coincidence’ to let you know for sure he’s real and interacting with you. I feel he intervenes when he wishes but he won’t do so in a way that you can PROVE it to other people as I think if he did it would defeat the whole object of this life and finding God on your own journey. I was prophesising and thinking of things which second or minutes later happened. Things that I KNEW was Gif but anyone else would say it sounds like coincidence. I’m in turmoil and have been a while. Loneliness and depression are ruining my life and causing me to continually backslide in to sin. I know God is real and don’t go a minute without thinking of him and the difference now for me with sin is I’m aware when I’m sinning and make no excuses and I feel shame more than I ever did since God visited. Yes the devil also visited I was demonically possessed for sure and only crying out Jesus name had any effect. Not only did it have an effect of blasting the devil away but it filled me with bliss that can not be measured. A taste of heaven I guess. My life’s not had anything supernatural happen since December 2022 and I’m scared God left like I just failed the test. It’s all so confusing but I want to ask people when you hear the gospel and your heart is the good soil as told in the sowers parable does the Holy Spirit stay with you? Does that bliss stay? I had spiritual warfare and now it’s all quiet and I suppose I shouldn’t expect God to just be on call to dose me up with bliss anytime I ask but I’m suffering a lot in life and I pray and things don’t change and i have nobody just my dog. I wish I could meet a person that what I went through would make sense to
💥I NEW HERE AND LOVE WHAT YOU SAID ❤ SO GOOD AND WRIGHT 👍 I'm not looking back! God give me multiple dreams, and I'm stubborn and not listening 😢 for long time...
Yes it WAS a sronghold. Glad I woke up. Don't jump from stronghold to stronghold. Stay home and read the Bible. God time
Isn't that right yes haughty as look and no refect hi and mighty that's the way think no remorse😊
777 likes when I watched this video🙌🏻🤍🙏🏼
Yes💯💯💯💯
Morning son ❤❤❤😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉 god is good all the time.
and all the time...
The narcissist is like the fig tree that Jesus cursed.
She* also my bro.
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Just hop 😂😂😂😂
Dave HG Tudor is Amazing .. He’s a Psycopath Narcissist with insights that are off the chain … God uses the lost for Good things sometimes..
What are your credentials?
Are female narcissists the same as males
Pretty much. Probably more covert tho
I saw the black guys twice first time she destroyed my second time I just left that was over 16 years a waste l of my life
Yes you can actually yucky while the ramble on. Sick of supplies. Bible is good d cover him . I think his version is sin much forgiveness come wired ha.