‘That’s How I Win Life,’ Claims Man Admitting He Says Negative Things About His Ex To Their Kids

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  • A father of five admits he’s said negative things about his ex-wife to their children to get them to choose him over their mother. The former couple’s teenage daughters react to seeing a photograph of their mom on vacation with her new boyfriend....
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  • @ewjiml
    @ewjiml 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Why is everyone blaming the teen girls? If you actually watched the full episode, you would know it’s the mother in the wrong. She completely neglected the girls when they were younger and now that they are older, you expect them to just go on vacation with their mom and her boyfriend? There’s a reason they don’t like her….the father didn’t help but he’s not as fault. The mother stated, “I choose my boyfriend over you guys.” Many of the comments here are beyond misinformed.

    • @beanybabyrabie
      @beanybabyrabie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They’re likeminded individuals. That’s why. That’s the only way you could actually empathize with her manipulative, selfish BS inflicted upon those kids.

    • @ewjiml
      @ewjiml 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@beanybabyrabie it’s called parental alienation. The fact that you can’t see that is obvious.

    • @LindsayD228
      @LindsayD228 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly, everyone sucks in this situation.

  • @cv5686
    @cv5686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Those girls are drama mamas for sure.

  • @morganaluthor
    @morganaluthor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    i really feel for the girls. I do hope they are feeling and doing better now.

  • @littlered5035
    @littlered5035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Then Sadie broke down i cried with her I’m so sorry girls! You deserve better ❤️❤️

  • @alliesinger297
    @alliesinger297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    At least this guy is honest

  • @Tropicana323
    @Tropicana323 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    No their being dramatic af . Their mother invited them on that trip , they didn’t wanna go 🤷🏻‍♀️ so is she supposed to sit at home and look at their miserable father to appease them ? I think tf not ! Momma gotta have a life too 🤷🏻‍♀️ also … these kids are entitled af and their teenagers ! I’m sure the mother tries to spend time with them but it’s hard keeping up with teenagers 😒 they probably want her to work around their schedule , when they free up time ans have nothing to do then they want her available to them im sure . Nope ! She needs to set boundaries with this girl . Their old af ! That man spoke up because he’s dating for the long run he’s basically saying … I’m here and I’m not going no where and they need to except it

    • @donnamiller4324
      @donnamiller4324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree!

    • @shishi3776
      @shishi3776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏻 👏🏻 I feel that the crying when they looked at the pictures was unnecessary and was to draw more sympathy for themselves and their father probably said something about being “replaced” and they’re verbalizing it and mirroring his feelings as well as some of their own.

    • @melodyclore8312
      @melodyclore8312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreeeeeee

  • @samanthamoore8693
    @samanthamoore8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The girls chose not to go on that trip

    • @sydney4779
      @sydney4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      if they did i don’t blame them obviously they don’t want that man in their life considering their mom chose him over them.

    • @allyb3510
      @allyb3510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My bio went on many trips without me because I could not be around his mentally abusive wife longer than a weekend. 🤷🏽‍♀️ mental and physical health above a fake family trip.
      Am I sad to have missed out on time with my bio? Sure but he made the choice to be with his wife and I made the decision to put myself first.

  • @TheMkenna
    @TheMkenna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The DRAMA from these girls. 🙄

    • @beanybabyrabie
      @beanybabyrabie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You mean from their mother?

    • @TheMkenna
      @TheMkenna 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beanybabyrabie I mean ALL of the adult aged women on that stage.

  • @e.rosenfeld4193
    @e.rosenfeld4193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Parental alienation 101

    • @beanybabyrabie
      @beanybabyrabie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nope. They’re old enough to know how she makes them feel and old enough to see right through her. You must be similar minded to the mother

  • @smeraarkalgud5703
    @smeraarkalgud5703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Kay, I’m not siding with anyone. But calling your mom a gold digger with out solid gold proof is wrong. I suppose they’re saying it out of anger, and I feel for them. But idk, this whole situation seems like everyone is sort of giving the story with half a lie inserted.

    • @sydney4779
      @sydney4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i mean they did say she was going on millionaire matching sites

    • @smeraarkalgud5703
      @smeraarkalgud5703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sydney4779 yeah, but are they really telling the truth? That’s what’s bugging me.

    • @kinzixo326
      @kinzixo326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not everyone had a good relationship with their mother. And usually when teens / kids say things about their parents it’s usually true .

    • @joedavon3290
      @joedavon3290 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@smeraarkalgud5703 she literally is with another man and her ex husband divorced obviously this was true if you watched the whole thing you’d see the ex husband was genuinely a nice guy. No offense I’m assuming you’re like 12

  • @MarionetteMuse
    @MarionetteMuse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I agree with a lot of the comments; these daughters are awful! I don't buy their tears; they're fake! They're textbook mean-girls and bullies. And the father is the captain of the ship. I don't blame the mother one bit. I wouldn't want any of them in my life unless and until they could treat me with respect.

    • @degreecelsius6142
      @degreecelsius6142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Respect is earned it is not given for free.

    • @sydney4779
      @sydney4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you don’t know their life before though. this was their moms doing. she chose a man over them and barely pays attention to them because she’s always trying to play victim

    • @doffy2686
      @doffy2686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So you condone cheating on your spouse, now I know why you don’t blame her, you’re just like her

    • @maxitupacademy
      @maxitupacademy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely. But the father is the worst.The father is using his daughters.

  • @mike47734
    @mike47734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’m a kid of divorce and I’ve been in a lot of situations as a kid where both my parents bad mouthed each other. These girls are beyond over dramatic🙄

    • @angela-d9799
      @angela-d9799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      swearrr 😭 they’re crying because a grown woman went on vacation...like guess after the divorce she was meant to stay home and knit

  • @claudianeymour2010
    @claudianeymour2010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I wouldnt claim these three rude gals

    • @MarionetteMuse
      @MarionetteMuse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me neither. They're terrible people.

    • @sydney4779
      @sydney4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      they have every right if their mom chose a man over them

    • @BadriahAbdullah
      @BadriahAbdullah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sydney4779 she didn’t choose anyone over them. She can’t stay with their father they are not meant to be together and now the girls are grown up girls two more years and they all will live with their boyfriends. Their father is a jealous stupid human being who use his own kids to ruin the mother life. He could just let the life goes on but noooo lets tell may kids your mother left you all & she is happy without you. Btw the mother invited them to the trip but the drama queens refused to go. She calls them and every time they hurt her with bad words that’s why the father is very happy in the show he knows that she is a broken soul because of his doing.

    • @sydney4779
      @sydney4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BadriahAbdullah they didn’t want to go bc they don’t like him. and she chose him over the girls. she knows what she’s doing and she knows the girls don’t like him but she’s still with him because she chose him over her kids. the father is also in the wrong for saying some wrong things about the mother.

    • @CandyQuackenbush911
      @CandyQuackenbush911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sydney4779 so she shouldn’t go on a vacation bc they don’t want to go? Goh

  • @madalynmull1681
    @madalynmull1681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I can't feel bad for them if they said no to going on the trip. Their mom was offering them what they said she wanted.

    • @sydney4779
      @sydney4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      because they don’t like him. it’s not hard to understand

    • @beanybabyrabie
      @beanybabyrabie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yay, instead of quality time they get to be obligated to interact with some creepy guy she chose over them. Stop making excuses for a wanna be victim manipulator. She guilts them for being their mother before and now completely ignores how they feel

  • @Idkaboutthisone
    @Idkaboutthisone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What this man is doing is parent alienation and its WRONG. He should be ashamed of himself.

  • @lilbreezy5840
    @lilbreezy5840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Big yikes

  • @msmichelle746
    @msmichelle746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The girls are pushing mom away and hateful towards her but then upset because mom "wants a better family"

    • @MarionetteMuse
      @MarionetteMuse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed. I don't blame the mother.

  • @vacheriedevacherie1959
    @vacheriedevacherie1959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You don’t win dude, you are just making mean manipulative girls. You lose.

  • @lilliansikes3946
    @lilliansikes3946 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is everybody calling these poor girls drama mamas? They’re not creating drama. They’re just upset about the fact that their mother doesn’t spend time with them. It’s always about John.

  • @c4tze
    @c4tze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    those brats chose to dump their mother and are pissed when she connects with another man? what?

    • @MarionetteMuse
      @MarionetteMuse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was thinking the same thing. Those daughters are awful people!

    • @searchingfororion8237
      @searchingfororion8237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MarionetteMuse No thats not it. They feel betrayed and left out I'm guessing. To them it feels like shes putting her boyfriend above her children.

    • @sydney4779
      @sydney4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they chose too because they felt she wasn’t being good to them. she chose a man over her children and they just wanted her attention.

    • @MzElaineMarie
      @MzElaineMarie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@searchingfororion8237 nope. They were given the chance to be included.

    • @beanybabyrabie
      @beanybabyrabie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You mean she dumped them to be a middle aged sk@nk on the back of a motorcycle instead of showing up to an honors induction or performances or sharing dinner with the kids? Keep making excuses for her. You must be a similar person to not see they feel second best after the mom cheated and changed many specific parts of her personality for a man she barely knows.

  • @joedavon3290
    @joedavon3290 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Somebody put a ring on those three kids that’s a true women right there

  • @e32368
    @e32368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kids are being ridiculous. They have no right to tell the Mom who she can or can't date. I do understand the Mom only because I am separated after 20 years of marriage because you grow apart and I just want different things. It's not about the kids. I got married young and now I want to experience life. Kids are making it about themselves.

  • @williamhufnagel7327
    @williamhufnagel7327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The daughters all have her jaw line..

  • @marissawilson2211
    @marissawilson2211 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do we know what the updates are for this situation?

  • @BadriahAbdullah
    @BadriahAbdullah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wtf . Those girls are mean. They are grown girls and their parent are divorced because they can’t be with each other anymore. So yeah the mother needs a vacation, she need to live her life. 🙄 Drama queens. Their father is a jealous stupid human being who use his own kids to ruin the mother life.

  • @suzyra1212
    @suzyra1212 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How can their mom act like that and she goes with white male john what a jerk both are their three daughters has unlucky mom

  • @Orion227
    @Orion227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The father is turning their kids against their mum. They are all adults, shouldn’t be living at home, but living their own life.

    • @noemibalbuena1319
      @noemibalbuena1319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If you're talking about the daughters being adults, the eldest daughter is 19 at the time. So I don't think that would be enough for any of the girls to move out on their own.

    • @beanybabyrabie
      @beanybabyrabie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah. She’s doing that by herself.

  • @villathalia7377
    @villathalia7377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The one with the orange hair probably loves kitty talking about her mom like that

  • @sophiadecemberrr
    @sophiadecemberrr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    They are all grown they need to go somewhere chile.

  • @dabitodoroni2340
    @dabitodoroni2340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is 2 years ago and only 3 comments seriously

    • @eileengalvin4201
      @eileengalvin4201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They only just opened up the comments