Woman Says She Wants Family To 'Back Off' And Let Her Raise Her Kids

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  • A woman says her mother and sister “gang up” on her and accuse her of being a bad parent. Why does she also say they blackmailed her?
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  • @Inuko15
    @Inuko15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    If you are smoking weed around your kids, and you’re currently living in a minivan, you should be thankful to your family taking those beautiful children in to a safe and secure home.

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Her children need to be better off to adopted to another better family that homeless family of hers homeless man is one of him and if she plain to join him being in the tent or in the van together

  • @ysabella3259
    @ysabella3259 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    “how many kids have you watch grace”
    “of mine none, of yours two”
    icon

    • @anngoldberg7857
      @anngoldberg7857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let you? Go damn do that!

    • @RebeccaNichelle
      @RebeccaNichelle หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That was perfectly savage.

  • @christinaluna2055
    @christinaluna2055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    This woman has no standards

    • @teachingtechnologyy
      @teachingtechnologyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Women like men they can control
      She likes that she can control him, even if he does nothing all day

  • @kandykate163
    @kandykate163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    If she's working 50 hours a week and lives in a mini van, where are her paychecks going to?

    • @teachingtechnologyy
      @teachingtechnologyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Marijuana ain’t cheap lol

    • @anngoldberg7857
      @anngoldberg7857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Its not expensive, either.

    • @justonemori
      @justonemori หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@teachingtechnologyy at today's prices I bet she's spending more on food

    • @queenb7899
      @queenb7899 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@justonemori, This was 7 years ago.

  • @leonkennedy6133
    @leonkennedy6133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    If my daughter/son ever tells me to back off I'm just going to laugh at them because I'm the one who's raising their kids

  • @londonm3546
    @londonm3546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Wait, she actually sleeps with a man in a van who is unable to not only work and find housing, but who cannot give her $27? Moreover, if she is working 50 hours a week, where is her money? She could not save $26?

  • @animefan2454
    @animefan2454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I'm a stoner and even I know I would not smoke in front of kids

    • @SunBunz
      @SunBunz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Stoners with standards. 👊😎

  • @swimfast724
    @swimfast724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    If they butt out who is going to take care of your kids? Lady you should be so thankful that you have them

  • @britneybij3997
    @britneybij3997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Her: I never choose my boyfriend over my kids...
    Also her: **Proceeds to name all the times she went out of her way for a man that isnt even doing anything with himself**

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No child support for his two kids and no moneys and no job and he living in his tent and then in the van

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@suzyra1212
      I think the older child isnt his

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@notwerkinginthishouse8634 She has homeless man that only live in the tent and car

    • @robettgriffin1904
      @robettgriffin1904 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@notwerkinginthishouse8634do you want a boyfriend

  • @jojomakes
    @jojomakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Imagine having two children, working two jobs, while your boyfriend and the father of ur children hang out in ur van all day playing games on ur phone.

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    i've been going through serious mental stuff the last 10 years and i've kept working and even managed to buy a house.

  • @iampekkairl1417
    @iampekkairl1417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I watched this a million times

    • @pedroquinonez8039
      @pedroquinonez8039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. I’m not sure why the mom is with a stoner that doesn’t get help or work 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @tfpauliina
      @tfpauliina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joo no mä kans

    • @NKitty96
      @NKitty96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

  • @danielsayers8665
    @danielsayers8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    You can't blame someone for working night shift or not wanting to quit their job.

    • @missolesoul
      @missolesoul ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If it reeks havoc for your kids or fami!y, you certainly can blame them.

    • @ef7558
      @ef7558 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Find another job then" Yeah we can just get another job by magic! If she wasn't working all these hours they'd be calling her lazy!

  • @mike47734
    @mike47734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    LOL why did the crown go “ooohhh” when she asked Dr Phil if he’s the same person he was last year?

  • @penelopeb1370
    @penelopeb1370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    He said he's over thinking and not focused. Dude, that's the weed. Stop smoking and get a damn job.

  • @12345678911675
    @12345678911675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Her boyfriend is so clingy. Ew

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I don’t think they should be shaming her for working. The rest , yes

    • @yhyhyhhh
      @yhyhyhhh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes they should

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 ปีที่แล้ว

      He look really disgusting and she loves homeless man both need to be homeless together and be outside together and kids finds better family that don’t live outside 😵‍💫

  • @natalie9884
    @natalie9884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    She is delusional thinking that she doesn’t need anyone to assist her and can provide her children with the stability needed. They deserve better.

    • @lindarice9159
      @lindarice9159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She lives in a van for crying out loud. She and her kids need to live in a nice, warm secure home. Her boyfriend needs to get a job or he can leave. He is a bum with a million excuses

  • @Virgin_Succubus642
    @Virgin_Succubus642 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Doug: I’m here to support her
    Translation: She’s my ride.

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You want them to butt out, but the only furniture and bedroom they have is at her mother's house? So you want your kids to be homeless too?

  • @Labrli
    @Labrli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    He’s higher than a damn kite 😅

    • @jainicboo
      @jainicboo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

  • @suzyra1212
    @suzyra1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Her mom call homeless man a tick because he does look like one 😆

  • @bonnienero9415
    @bonnienero9415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This woman is temporarily insane.She will look back years from now, wonder what was she thinking.

  • @maxfranklinmeans
    @maxfranklinmeans 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "I work 50 hours a week." For God's Sake, are you delusional?!

  • @rachelraquel758
    @rachelraquel758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Let me live my life… in your driveway

  • @franktrandicostacomedy3370
    @franktrandicostacomedy3370 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ive never seen two people more in need of a blunt than the sister and mother

  • @EmilyAdams_theAltaCreative
    @EmilyAdams_theAltaCreative 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I think it’s pretty obvi that she holds the sister not having kids over her sisters head. She can get knocked up. Good for her. She also totally bosses her BF around. She’s with him because he makes her feel superior.

  • @fawnieee
    @fawnieee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    My sister has ended up with a guy like this :/ she was incredibly smart and completed a degree in criminology and had hopes of being a forensic scientist.
    And then she met a guy like this and now she's working in a wine shop, no longer allowed to contact us (due to her bf) and she's not even living with him nor does he ever visit her... It's always her that puts in all the effort. It's really sad when you see someone you love brought down by someone else.

    • @pinkyydolltv3064
      @pinkyydolltv3064 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is she still with the guy?

  • @Clouditivity
    @Clouditivity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This guy is so cringy lmao.

  • @victoriamarx3267
    @victoriamarx3267 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wonder if she ever dumped this loser and moved on, he was dragging her down. She's a beautiful competent young woman that could so so much better

  • @cottonkittencandy
    @cottonkittencandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i dont see what he offers her in their relationship. if she works 2 jobs why cant they afford an apartment? even if it was a studio apartment. i mean i was a single parent i worked and went to school at the same time and was still able to afford a crummy tiny apartment but i had power, running water and a roof over my head and still had time for my baby at the end of the day. couldn't afford a car but thats what the bus is for. i would rather have the apartment than the car any day

  • @johnub4
    @johnub4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is what happens to women who simp for a man

  • @pointofcrew
    @pointofcrew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    wow she works an extra shift a week. craaaaaazy

  • @MiamayaJones
    @MiamayaJones 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    The boyfriend may be a bum. But I hate how people use smoking weed to call someone a bum. Like a mom can smoke weed and still be a good mom. A mom can work nights and still love her kids. The argument is so stupid. They are going after her for working nights....like they need to get their own life

    • @WaffleAssasinX3
      @WaffleAssasinX3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Seriosuly, t's only a problem because shes with a bum. otherwise I doubt they would grill her about working so much lol

    • @amberlacey7482
      @amberlacey7482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      you can smoke weed and be a good mom for sure but for some people it makes them unmotivated and have very poor decision making skills. but i look at it as it shouldnt be done right in front of your kids

    • @Lele-gs9mh
      @Lele-gs9mh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Depending on the strain it makes some people more productive. Typical puritan thinking

    • @janiceanne
      @janiceanne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They are asking her to change jobs or change her hours so she can be with her kids in the afternoon, give them showers, teach them table manners, tuck them in bed, read them a bedtime story, etc. If she lives in the house of her mother and dependent on her, she is obligated to follow the rules. She can move out if she doesn't want to follow rules.

    • @audhdcreativity5899
      @audhdcreativity5899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@amberlacey7482 I think sometimes people already are those things before they smoke weed and thd weed just makes them feel not so horrible.

  • @madiarabella2589
    @madiarabella2589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The sisters hairline is crazy low

  • @c_kaoi7660
    @c_kaoi7660 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A spoiled little princess or a responsible adult 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @steroidbarney8273
    @steroidbarney8273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    What happened to her sisters forehead? It goes immediately from her hair to her eyebrows.. I dunno if I've ever seen that before.

  • @CoCo-yv3hl
    @CoCo-yv3hl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He’s a lazy bum that doesn’t want to work w/o responsibilities

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wonder where she is now

  • @railwaychristina3192
    @railwaychristina3192 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fight for your kids by stopping the weed and getting a job which means you can care for them.

  • @junechoi7595
    @junechoi7595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I work 50 hours a week as that's my light week. I don't know why she thinks it's some kind of honor to work 50 hours a week. Many people do that with no problem.

  • @Usedw0tm8
    @Usedw0tm8 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow my sister does the exact same thing, and I'd bet my car she says the same thing about me being "spoiled". She isn't raising her two children. She sees her son maybe twice a year, and she pushes her replacement daughter (after she ran away across the country with her boss) off onto her grandparents as much as possible. When she WAS primarily taking care of that baby, she developed advanced ringworm and a diaper rash so bad she had open bleeding sores. There's no excuse for that.
    We no longer speak, I get updates from her grandmother. That beautiful little girl deserves the world, and instead ended up with immature, toxic, abusive trash. I have no interest in ever seeing my dear sister again, and that's only one of many reasons why.

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i hope its not down by the river

  • @greatestever247
    @greatestever247 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The reason that dude isn’t working is because he is lazy!

  • @lex_7529
    @lex_7529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the tick looks like he's from whoville

  • @viviannahernandez2032
    @viviannahernandez2032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this reminds me so much of my sister.

  • @chucker625
    @chucker625 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If that were my sister, I wouldn't go to her for help either.... Seems like the type of person that would hold every little thing over your head for the rest of your life.

  • @up2nogood670
    @up2nogood670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tell me there is more of this guy

  • @42031x
    @42031x 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    U work 50 hours a week but you live in ur car in ur moms drive way, u should be able to manage living on ur own

  • @8888-9
    @8888-9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    No no no
    All the nesting we do as expectant mothers.
    That keeps growing.
    Being motivated to do better.
    The family are alienating her, why not drop the superiority hat, and ask how can we help?
    What do you need to get ahead?

  • @maxfranklinmeans
    @maxfranklinmeans 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman needs to turn her life around, be a mother, and lay off the weed.

  • @yoshimills9814
    @yoshimills9814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chile they take smoking weed to another level. Smoking weed does Not make one ok with living in a van.

  • @TheGokusupersayian
    @TheGokusupersayian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow

  • @user-we2rq1ql4w
    @user-we2rq1ql4w 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Second copy on your ipod duplicated how relateable

  • @captain_xap1218
    @captain_xap1218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Why are there soo less comments

    • @firebird6522
      @firebird6522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The channel only opened up comments about 3 months ago. This was up for four years before people could comment.

    • @captain_xap1218
      @captain_xap1218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@firebird6522 thx for helping

  • @alexdungan9816
    @alexdungan9816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What season and episode

  • @pattielliott1378
    @pattielliott1378 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    the video cuts off and you don't know what happened, that sucks and I am less likely to bother looking at these knowing they cut off with no ending

  • @MrBobbo18
    @MrBobbo18 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doug has the chronic! Weed so strong you forgot to raise your kids.

  • @ladiilexx8533
    @ladiilexx8533 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She saying 50 hrs a week like it's 80 lol. Girl that's only an extra 2 hrs daily on top of everyone else's standard workweek

    • @j-rodthelibrarykid1166
      @j-rodthelibrarykid1166 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Different people can handle different things. Not everyone wants to work 12 hrs days like you.

  • @prettyparanormaljess
    @prettyparanormaljess หลายเดือนก่อน

    This " mom " is dangerous. You see on the news daily where a mom chooses her man over the safety of her children, it ends badly usually an I am hoping that this woman will wake up or the family did intervene...this is scary! ALSO ITS NOT ABOUT THE MARIJUANA! Smoke or don't, not in your house, or car an don't let it stop you from living but if you work an take care of your kids you wouldn't be on Dr. Phil

  • @ssbdodi8718
    @ssbdodi8718 ปีที่แล้ว

    the sister is actually annoying

  • @MrBobbo18
    @MrBobbo18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My goal is $27……………. ;)

  • @sassygreen5024
    @sassygreen5024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    u have no home got kids a jobkessless so called boyfriend....and u can afford weed??????? why????

  • @lindaowens2959
    @lindaowens2959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would get rid of an overbearing family like that!

    • @paradoxic7869
      @paradoxic7869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Well, they can find a new driveway to park in. She isn't raising her kids, her mom is! CPS would take those kids away in a minute.