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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มี.ค. 2018
- Teenage sisters who live with their dad claim their mother spends all her time with her new boyfriend. She claims the girls gave her an ultimatum:
Break up with her new man, or they wouldn’t see her anymore.
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Can we all just agree that your kids getting bullied is not “drama”
It kind of is depending on the type and level of bullying.
@@tracim3080 I agree but dismissing it immediately is never good, as you can’t then evaluate the degree of bullying
@@elizabeththornton8982 ya but I don’t really trust these girls with their idea of getting blown off because they have complained that their mom went on vacation with her boyfriend family without them when it turns out they were supposed to go to but refused. So like they aren’t even trying to see their mothers efforts they want her to be the bad guy in the divorce. It could be the mom did try and talk about it but the daughter just has her moms evil blinders on so she didn’t see it.
@@tracim3080 You make a lot of sense
@@Launicanumba1 thank you comes from years of life experience that taught me the importance of understanding the difference between peoples perspective of a situation and the reality of a situation.
She's going to be a really lonely old woman.
Harsh ... but likely gonna die alone
Old people’s home 👋🏼
"I've asked the girl to tell Jon and I-"
That's the problem, there should be no Jon in that sentence. The girls obviously don't want to be involved with him, so don't include him talks about family.
Not only that ( not yelling in caps pointing out l) EVEN IF THEY TELL HER there problems and issues with John she PROVEN LONG before John that it wouldn’t do ANY GOOD because she would tell them I Don’t answer to you, I’m your mom you need to listen to me , or your father brainwashed you.
"Sadie is 19 and she feels like she's a grown up now." Bruh she's 19 she is a grown up
Lol yeah for sure but I also get it because many 19 year olds think they have the mind of a 40 year old.
U not grown at 19 bruh u barely even entered adulthood
@@user-ww7vt8se1m yes you are a grown up, bro its simple if you 18 and above your a legal adult
@@memymilk7740 But at 19 ya still young, dumb, and full of c*m as the saying goes...Just cuz you're legal, can get a tatt, and pay bills don't make you wise. 18 is the legal age cuz the government can't wait to make you pay taxes..
Legally, you are an adult. But you're still getting there, yknow?
Irrelevant, but I'm 13 and I feel like a grown up. This isnt even an ego issue, I have literally no confidence at all, I just matured rlly quick I suppose.
COMPLETELY UNRELATED BUT this whole family must spend a fortune at the hair salon! I’m a stylist and I can’t decide who’s cut and colour I like most 😍
You don't look so bad yourself!
I like how every family on Dr. Phil either has the worst-looking hair or the best hair!
Look at the neighborhood they are walking in. Looks like they have some money
Pretty sure the mom is a hair stylist! Or I miss interpreted another clip of this episode
@@valerierose19 I didn’t see that!
This mother is delusional. She blames her ex for how the girls feel about her. She’s mean to her own children no wonder they despise her. Probably has problems finding love and forming relationships because of her own personal mental health problems. She really didn’t care how her daughters felt. 😩
The ex admitted in another clip that he wanted his daughters to take his side in the divorce because he felt it makes him the winner. Now don’t get me wrong the mom does have some blame but the father definitely crossed the line himself.
The kids have been brain washed by their father.
Kids, especially grown ones, have NO right to dictate who their parents date.
@@e32368 They have a right to be mad when they get neglected
@@eli9492 how are they neglected because her mom has a boyfriend and she missed one thing that she claimed she never knew about…
She says that she's not choosing her boyfriend over the girls, and yet when they give her an ultimatum her response is, "I'm sorry you feel like that, the door is open if you change your mind." That...sounds like a choice to me.
Sounds just like my mom ! Its sad.
In all fairness, who likes an ultimatum though. That does seem like they are saying I will only be in a relationship with you when you do what I want. That is controlling. If a man were saying that to a woman, would you be as blase about it?
@@thewordistruth399 I think you missed my point
Would you want your children to have power over yo?
@@StellaMagic100 You missed my point. Go read my original comment and get back to me.
All of her daughters are so beautiful, sweet, smart, well rounded- this mother has three blessings and she's pissing it all away.
Five actually and she did piss it all away haha. (I’m the blonde one in this video haha)
@@zoegorham2790 ugh I’m so sorry. I have a very toxic mother as well and just recently went no contact again due to her behavior. I’m actually in a group on Facebook called the sisterhood- daughters of narcissistic and toxic mothers. Helps me out just being with other women that have been through the same terrible things. I hate that there are so many of us but I’m glad we can comfort and lean on one another.
@@zoegorham2790 oh wow. Can you give an update?
@@zoegorham2790 did it get any better?
@@myfirstaccount127 unfortunately not really. Tryna live everyday yk lol
When parents choose the partner over the child, pls it’s disgusting and shameful
The daughters just need to move on with their lives and excommunicate the mother.
They’re grown adults ...
@@radrose8673 not all of them
@@radrose8673 Even still my mother would never choose a man over me. I could be 34.
@ my mom
Her children are not 5. The mother acts like they are easily controlled and manipulated by her ex
already in the beginning of the clip they show of the mother talking, you can hear how she's making herself out to be the victim, she has no self-insight whatsoever
Again do you know her situation personally? ,, she raised five kids you have no idea what she went through in her marriage. In my opinion the only thing the mother is guilty of is not disciplining her kids enough ,why do they feel they could speak to her so disrespectfully? Spoiled little brats
@@Launicanumba1 i don't care about that dude, she's still making herself out to be the victim and has no self-insight, nothing is changing that lol
@@jj2220 I was raised and taught you respect your parents no matter what. They call their mom filthy names, & in my opinion the mom is wrong to be playing the victim , she should put her bratty daughters in line & show them she is the PARENT & they must respect her always.
@@Launicanumba1 nope. a child have no obligation to respect a parent who does not respect them back. Respect is something you have to give in order to recieve it 😛
@@jj2220 Wow no comment
I can’t wait until she’s cheated on by Mr. Grey.
Hey im not on the mother’s side but you wanting her to be cheated on is malicious and fcked up🤣 what you wish for others is what you wish for yourself watch your nasty mouth!
It happened a lot Hahahha
This video called out my relationship with my mom. Generally when all your kids feel the same way about your parenting then you should be concerned about changing that. If you're kids are telling you they don't feel like a priority don't argue with them about little details. Work on making them feel your love. Pay attention or ask them about what they want and need. Dont impose your own opinions about showing love
Unfortunately a lot of parents would rather play the victim card to excuse themselves of taking any responsibilities over their actions/behaviors and the emotional effect it has caused their children over the years.
“Sadie is 19 and she feels she’s a grown up now-“ yes, 18 is when you’re a legal adult and can make many more decisions without permission she is old enough to think for herself
I don't blame her children for giving her that ultimatum. She disgusts me just hearing the way she was speaking. They need to disown her
I agree (not yelling in caps pointing out) SHE ACTS LIKE A BRATTY ENTITLED TEENAGER. It’s always me me me me I’m the victim it’s Marcus fault and now it’s the girls fault. If I was one of the girls I would ask WHAT ABOUT YOU WHAT IS YOUR OWNERSHIP IN THE BREAK DOWN IN THE RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE WITH US. She seems to think that the relationship break down between them started because she started dating John NO HER RELATIONSHIP WAS BREAKING DOWN LONG BEFORE JOHN EVER CAME INTO THE PICTURE HER TRYING TO FORCE THEM TO SPEND TIME WITH JOHN AND JOHN MAKING REMARKS ABOUT THE GIRLS FATHER ARE THE STRAWS THAT BROKE THE CAMELS BACK.
This sounds to me like three spoiled kids wanting to run their mother's life. Well, at 19 + , the older two aren't even kids anymore. This sounds like a job for Supernanny, not Dr. Phil.
My mother is in a relationship with a man 11 years older than me and 11 years younger than her. I told her I don't like him as he was not old enough to even be my father and he would say bad things about me to her all the time. She had a baby with him 2 years later. When I was 17. I've been an only child my whole life. Point being these mothers are completely disregarding the needs of their own children
Some people just don't have values. It's sad
Greedy, selfish mother..
Calling her 'Mother' is a joke..
My mother was like this, never talked to her after high school .
totally unrelated, but the daughters are so so beautiful!!
4/10
@@SouthernSociology literally... who are you to rate women who are without a doubt 10x better than you in both personality and looks lmao
@@youseebiggirl debatable, anime pfp = no rights
@@SouthernSociology misogynistic man = be quiet
my pfp has nothing to do w it 😀👍 can't blame me for not wanting to show my face on the internet
@@youseebiggirl Who said i was male?
I was in the same kind of situation after my divorce. I chose my daughter's needs over my own...without het giving me any ultimatums. I have never regretted it for a second!
You're amazing 💙
You’re a good parent
the girls seem so cool and fun and really strong, I'd wanna be friends with them
My friend told me she was on dr phil and I didn't belive her, come to find out my friend zoe was on dr phil hahaha....
Oh, honey... when you turn 15 maybe you'll realize that the mean girls are not cool.
@@MarionetteMuse are they mean 😩 today's my berfday actually I'm 27 now ・ω・
@@memama4389 27 going on 13. Good for you.
@@MarionetteMuse thank you CopperCab threw me a virtual birthday party
The teens are more mature than their mother. Mother is childish and spiteful.
All that self-absorption and no insight. The fact that her daughters say they feel like mom's chosen Jon over them isn't enough for her to either kick him to the curb or make genuine efforts to reassure her daughters that she's not picking him is beyond me.
How do mothers this selfish exist? Everyone says being a parent is the most difficult and most rewarding thing you'll ever do. If that's true, how can any mother care so little about her children's thoughts, feelings, opinions, events, and lives?
It happens them not just wanting a partner but also disregarding their adult childrens feelings over their own friends needs because they don’t want to actually emotionally bond with their own adult children and starting to understand them as people, some parents are not comfortable with the transition and it shows where their priorities really were to have children, it was more conditional.
The adult kids thinking mom has to answer to them makes me sick
She acts like such a victim…. Jesus Christ 🥴 I can’t stand her. Acting like mother of the year, “you will not talk to me like that” ha!
Narcissism at its finest. No one ever actually looks into narcissistic personality disorders and it shocks me.
They want the mom not the boyfriend, the mom should have put two and two together and seem that they want her and only her
As a parent your children should always come first. This mom needs to get a reality check children come first no matter what.
Are these "children" over 18?
The mom is allowed to have a life too!
No I was 14 then and my sister was 12 and there for five kids she has. I’m one of them. Only two were over 18 at this time so her life then was ours too , back then.
The girls are old enough to make decisions and hteir mother at this time doesnt owe them anything. She can date who she wants. Children too young or old enough do not make rules for their mother.
When all her children are saying shes the problem and she just thinks THEYRE the problem 💀 girl look in the mirror.
“Sometimes I don’t know what my child’s needs are”… they need love. That’s all they need from you.
the girls need to stop getting involved in their parents marriage and stop trying to control their moms love life. we do t age and grow old with our kids, we need companionship
Lady [ mom in this case] they're not mad at you for dating a new man, they're mad because you're a flake and break promises to them.
She has the right to have a boyfriend and to see him often. The girls are grown up and need to move on with their lives and let her live her life in her own terms.
Otherwise, this is black mail case.
Skylar and Zoe are still children and she's neglecting them by choosing to spend time with her boyfriend INSTEAD OF, not in addition to, having dinner with her daughters and attending their events. The girls don't seem to be objecting to her having a boyfriend, they're objecting to THIS boyfriend. Their opinion should matter to their mother.
Also, how is it blackmail? They aren't threatening to spill her secrets in exchange for money, they gave her an ultimatum: Her boyfriend or them. They are letting her "live her life on her own terms", they just aren't willing to be a part of it if Jon is around. They have every right to hate the guy and refuse to spend time with him and their mom. That's not blackmail. That's living life on their terms, which they should get to do.
#1 Never choose a bf or gf over your kids. If the gf or bf can’t build a good close relationship with the kids, it ain’t gonna work worse after marriage.
It’s not just bf or gf. Never pick ANYONE over a child
Her kids are acting up.
New bf shouldn't even be an issue, because she should be going places and spending time with daughters and not having him there with them. Why would she unless it was a holiday party or they wanted to get to know him better? So mom is in the wrong here for helping make him an issue.
You are allowed to date as a single parent. You do not have to spend all your time with your kids especially teenagers. You do get to have a life after divorce, you can date, remarried blended family, all things families all around the world do and live with.
@@tracim3080 I agree with you
@@tracim3080 if you put a stranger to your house and life you should discussion with your family first..
And you should take the help of a psychologist about how to bring it to the table
They are her kids and whatever age they will be , they maybe sometime feel jealous and it's normal for those type of relationship (parent-kid) especially when there is a third person..
@@tracim3080 my mom is a single mom with 4 kids and I really agree with this, she hasn’t brought any boyfriends around and honestly I’d be happy for her if she found someone to take care of her and be nice to her, these “kids” are brats lol
@@tracim3080 okay well she didn’t spend ANY time with us so. At all. Only with John. And now they are married and she still does. She wasn’t taking care of us then that’s why it was a problem then. (Btw that’s my mom so I know what I’m sayin lol)
If this was a podcast I could correctly describe this woman's appearance. Why do women this age think that long blonde hair makes them look younger? It doesn't.
what color would look best on her
@@memama4389 I don’t think the blonde is bad, long hair on older women can look a little scraggly. I would chop off a few inches and add a few low lights and highlights to her hair.
thats subjective. it looks hot in my opinion.
Maybe, just maybe, she just likes having that hair, and she isnt trying to look younger.
@@maggiee639 Lol if an older woman has scraggly hair, it has nothing to do with her age. It simply reflects that she isn't doing enough upkeep on her hair.
This is what happens when you involve the children in adult business.
My son has a father like this. When the daughter said ,she wants the title of being a mom but doesn’t want the responsibility a mother has.
If my mom choose her boyfriend over me then I would be fine with that cuz once I get to college I'm not seeing her anymore until she thought of what she has done to her life and her family.
these girls are grown women at still live with her talking about never wanting to see her again wtf the kids would be homeless without the mom
I am on the moms side. I know what it’s like to be miserable in a long-term relationship and leaving for my mental health and happiness and having my kid upset with me. I feel that it’s much more important to separate the kids from the drama and be happy. I told my son the same thing that she says that it’s an open door policy and when he’s ready I’ll be here but he can’t be disrespectful to me.
I feel bad for your son
@@kitty6761 It’s always to judge when you’re outside of a situation
Well what about the things she says to them, like the girl being bullied and the mom saying she doesn’t have time for the drama
Yeah. This poor mom. Her ex is shaming her, her kids won’t listen. Her ex is damaging their future with their mother.
@@mariamontgomery748 once you have children it‘s not about YOU anymore. Simple as that…
Dr Phil is so cool!!
the mother is just self absorbed and hasn't acknowledged the fact that she had to mentally and physically take care of her kids. it's not just keep a house over their heads and feed them. those are their needs.
3:07 was my reaction to the mother trying to seem innocent
Needs and wants…
Children have needs, adults have wants
Being bullied is a serious thing.
This mom is delusional if she actually thinks that her ex husband is to blame for the girls not liking John and not wanting to be around her common sense 101 here If you daughters don’t your boyfriend don’t try and force them to be around him not only is that not gonna make them like him it’s gonna cause more damage to there relationship with you.
Just the way she stated things. I’ve asked the girls to tell Jon and I, the crying because she feels she can’t parent them which goes along with them saying she wants be a trophy wife. She words things that just sound like she’s putting on a show
What episode and season is this?? Y’all should start putting this so we can go look up the episode
Damn go sadie!!
I love these girls and they are so strong / beautiful! Their mother is a 16 year old inside of a 40 maybe 60 year old body
Sorry but kids have NO right to tell their Mom who she can and can't date. Kids are grown and need to get over it.
Where is the full episode
As if she is using ‘I didn’t know’ as a response for missing her daughter’s induction to the honours society, ofcourse skylar would’ve told her mum, like she said she did.
Lu McIntosh o my goodness true
her eyebrows lol
This mom sounds like my mother
My daughter also called me horrible names
A mom doesn't answer to her children, but at the same time, she should put time into building strong relationships with her children, by sacrificing time and effort with them. And the the girls shouldn't expect an ultimatum to be answered, thats never going to happen
Leverage with my children?
she’s just like my mom
I think they are ALL a bunch of narcissistic drama Queens and Kings!! It’s all for show, people!! Just trying to get noticed! Worst Dr. Phil episode I’ve ever seen and I watch them ALL!!!
typical ex-wife who doesn't understand what her actions mean to these young women and in fact the mother is breaking the contract these girls don't have to be (at their mother's boyfriend's house). they shouldn't have them because it violates the divorce agreement
Her girl”s are grown
Let mama have Fun
Having children is a lifelong commitment. Just because they’re “grown” doesn’t mean you should neglect them. Also, just because they are teens, it doesn’t mean that they’re grown. They still need her.
Plus she picked a men over them, which will always be wrong. Parents can have fun without destroying their relationship with their own children.
3 beautiful girls.
I think you can't give that ultimatum. They should have asked her to be less neglectful
Why does she remind me of Molly Shannon a bit haha
Do any of these girls have social media?
Shes blaming her x on how the girls feel about her.... yet on national tv said she'd pick her boyfriend over her 3 daughters.... oooookkkk
my kids hate my boyfriend so i told them to talk to him and myself yeah because that’s gonna work talk to them yourself grow tf up
Exactly ( not yelling in caps pointing) she wants to say John and I asked repeatedly to us what is wrong and why they don’t like us they refuse to do it. GIVEN THE RECEPTIVITY SHE SHOWN THEM on the stage and in the past is it any wonder why? SHE PROVED REPEATEDLY THAT SHE DOES NOT CARE THAT AND TRYING TO EXPLAIN THERE PROBLEMS TO HER is like trying to talk to Helen Keller BECAUSE SHE HAS NO INSIGHT AND IS UNWILLING TO HER ANYTHING SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR.
Sorry but these daughters are immature to give ultimatums of all or nothing. Just shows nobody can meet in the middle.
Adult children are way too possessive. Adult children willl find their own ways and life and will call you ONLY when they need you.
Stop bullying the mother.
Mark looks like a chad
The mom is so wrong for that. The kids aren’t wrong either
why the mom look like a who from whoville lol
Your children should have no power over you, you want to give me an ultimatum, fine enjoy life without me
Listen to your kids daughter being bullied stop car listen to her before it's to late and she commits sucide.Has for as the daughters when they are out with boyfriends and friends are they considering her feelings probably not .Set aside a day or two without mom's boyfriend and kids boyfriends and friends and cell phones .Enjoy each other now while younger because when you get older you for sure don't have time for each other.
3:33-3:34 … wtf?
One of them is trying to look like a boy.
Ok. So what?
2:26, when I move out, thats gon be. I'm gonna hv to cut my mum off if she doesn't leave her disgusting bf.
The girl with short red hair is attractive
They shouldn't be giving her an ultimatum.
They should be giving her the silent treatment.
Mom has put her needs last everytime she changed diapers housed fed clothed her kids and MOM HAS NEEDS AND DESERVES A LIFE. How long do these adult children need mommies UNDIVIDED ATTENTION?? SUPPORT YOUR MOTHER FOR A CHANGE
Her daughter urm ok
She deserves to be happy
Xoxo_Mar_ K no not if she chooses happiness with her bf over her own damn kids
@@slickmoneygaming7800 u are right it's disgusting to see a mother choose her boyfriend over he children
How old are these girls ? They should be focused on going to college and staying out of their mother’s business 🤦🏻♀️ maybe the mom ain’t perfect but these kids are damn near grown . She does need to make them a priority tho
Men are like buses if you miss one they'll be another one in 15 minutes families children are forever get a clue lady
God loves you
Jesus Christ saves
Give Him a chance
this mother is a bad mother
Marcus is just salty because he can’t find a new woman.
Your house
Dang 2 years and no comments
Wow Wierd
They recently opened the comments on a lot of videos the Dr Phil channel video comments used to always be closed
weird, right?
@@nestle7458 think someone in his pr department realised people didn’t like that there was no discussion
Children these days rule the house. No No No. if the 19 year old doesn’t like it, she can move out and start ‘adulting’. If they want to spend more time with their father than that is fine.
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They should grow up without a mom if that’s how they feel, dragging their poor mom in the streets, if this was a coloured home let’s be serious they’d be getting beatings. 😇