Comment what was helpful about this video, and let me know what else you would like us to talk about!🫶 To watch pt 2 of the vid and what NO one else will say about waiting for marriage, click here: th-cam.com/video/3UOub-bvLlI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Jsl6VmJWEiGp4vys
How much talk about sex you should have with your partner, meaning like boundaries and what is okay and not okay before marriage but also including why something’s are sinful
This vids great, recently watched a similar one by different people and they didn't give a single Faith based example, they just put themselves under the law it was a major let down. Your vid was actually done by Faith with good advise like being careful of music, movies, shows, alcohol, helpful to be around other Christians with similar values, temptation is not Sin only giving into it is. Also not having to figure it all out, just walk by Faith and communicate. Honestly all great advise that makes sense, 10/10 vid, thank you!
i am a virgin but i’ve struggled with sexual sins for a while. please pray that God would continue to purify me and help be fight the temptations. i want to save myself for my husband and know that God can help me and him!
I would pray for you because me and my husband had those lusting temptations because we both was virgins but we wanted to serve God so we was very patient to wait until marriage to break our virginity. He was my first love and we respect each other's boundaries after we made our mistake and kiss. He's a hearing person and I'm deaf with autism, I have to wear cochlear implants and hearing aids. We're into an interracial marriage because I'm white and he's black, we had some mean stares but we didn't care because our love is genuine through Jesus.
Dear Camryn, I pray for you AND your future husband that you both find the strength, wisdom, perseverence, loyalty, faithfulness and willpower to be and stay victorious over ALL temptations that the enemy may throw your way. I declare that your body is healed, holy and holified and so is your future spouse's his body. I also pray for a hedge of protection over both of your minds that keep you FAR away from sexual sin, lust or any other type of sin or attack from the enemy in Jesus name. and it is also in Jesus His mighty and miraclous name I pray, amen amen and amen again
I am 17, and my boyfriend and I tried to wait, and we did for a few months, but then we fell into temptation and we've been together for over a year now, and still struggle with that. We just re-made the decision to wait, and involved a mentor from church to be our accountability partner. Praise God!
Im 32 virgin, im not sure if i'm going to get married, but if i am 😄 i just want to experience it within marriage blessed by God, may God protect me and guide my future husband
It’s hard as a 21 year old male. I’m a virgin and my curiosity would often lead me to watching p*rn but now I’m recovering from that addiction. I also feel ashamed some times for being so unexperienced with women because as a man to be “cool” you are expected to go to parties and get girls. I just hope some day I will meet a woman who won’t judge me for being a virgin and believing in what I believe in. Jesus is the way ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Same exact boat here brother. 21 as well and all. I get the same thoughts constantly, but that just paying attention to the conformities of the world and how we “think” we should be like because of what we see in others. Do what you know in your heart to be true. Only way to fight sin is with scripture. God bless my brother. Jesus loves you abundantly. Stay strong 💪
That's nothing to be ashamed of...if anything you should be proud of it, just not in a prideful way, but confident in doing the right thing. It takes more courage to stay true to your values than to sleep around. As a 26 y.o. woman who is also a virgin (and proud of it :) (thanks to the grace of God and my godly upbringing) I respect you for being a virgin, and I also hope to marry a virgin in the future. :) God bless ❤
Don't allow what others think get to you. As long as you have joy and confidence about your choices you're good to go. Always ask the Holy spirit for help to remain pure and HE will help you. Keeping yourself pure is a blessing and God is proud of you. Also, you will meet a lady who loves you sincerely. Like I said take all things to God in prayer. Am proud of you and rooting for you as well. God bless and help u always.
I’m a 23M virgin and I’ve struggled for years with porn due to loneliness and a hunger for female affection. My best advice, don’t party and hang around ungodly people. People who look down on virgins regret giving theirs away or were corrupted by the “sexually liberated” society we live in. What I’ve learned is that like Joseph we can’t beat temptation and must flee which means avoiding and looking away. Be patient and seek Jesus and God will give you a virgin wife and the wait will no doubt be worth it for both of you. Also, don’t rush into marriage as many are deceived by their impatience and hunger for sex without truly knowing who they are dating or courting.
It is extremely encouraging to see Christian men in these comments that are virgins. As a woman who has strived to be pleasing in God's eyes her entire life and save herself for marriage, sometimes it feels discouraging when all the mean you see are worldy and not living in the same way. It makes you feel like there may not be another person out there for you who has the same values as you, so it is very encouraging to see that there are men in this world that still hold these biblical values.
It's kind of a positive feedback loop. Sexuality is so common in today's society that those within it further promote it. So the sexually active/"successful" men and women are the ones most noticed when looking at "the average person in society". Those who endeavor to remain pure often become practically invisible as a result.
Because a lot of men are fatherless or have fathers that never set or lived by that standard it’s not considered the norm which makes abstinence that much harder to control almost impossible especially without God in it so we must pray for everyone because lust is something serious not something that can be simply prayed away must fight it by any means necessary
I’m glad to see it too. I’m a male approaching 30 and still a virgin. I’ve had 4 situations where I almost lost my virginity but God gave me immovable strength in those moments that I remember so well it clearly didn’t come from me. His power is made perfect in weakness… My weakness… I’ve had nothing but failed relationships with woman and it discouraged me to the point where I threw the idea away to pursue marriage and just be a lone wolf. But that’s not good. It’s not good that man should be alone. So I’m intentionally trying to open my mind back up to it and pursue it. I don’t get lonely so it’s easy for me to be alone but I desire intimacy with a woman and suppressing it will lead me to regret. I just know it. Pray for me
i'm 24yo, lost my virginity due to peer pressure at 21yo, which i regret, for the boys growing up if i could give my younger self an advice is don't engange in sexual encounters just so u can be "the man". resisting temptation and doing gods will is the most badass thing one can accomplish. cool video btw.
The advice about not watching romance movies is 1000% true. I would add not to read romance books or anything that could lead one to think of sex and stir feelings of lust. I’m a married woman now but was not a virgin upon marriage and I realize that I struggle with sexual perversion and what caused/amplified that feeling is reading the romance novels(I was reading Harlequin romances at 10, and watching Soap Operas) and watching the romance movies or TV shows. If anyone’s desire is to be holy then anything that contradicts God’s holiness will lead to unholy actions. So I strongly encourage anyone trying to stay pure or dealing with sexual sin is to stay away from anything that is sexualize.
Sim - a bíblia diz para não colocar COISAS impuras diante dos olhos- que são as janelas da alma- as mulheres que fazem filmes impuros são falsas e muitas mães solteiras que vomitam- usam drogas- alcoolismo e depressão e representam um papel fictício de romance para levar quem assiste ao inferno eterno!
That’s true, but some romances are good like Pride and Prejudice. It just needs to be clean and you need to make sure you’re both developing unreasonable expectations.
See I read clean romance novels. I don't think there is an issue with those. I didn't realize there were unclean ones until I read one. Now I always check before reading.
I've never dated anyone, never had a boyfriend, never even held hands with a man before. Wasn't too interested in dating up until the end of college and now being 26, I can't wait until God brings me my husband. I will wait and wait patiently. But, oh Lord, the waiting is so hard.
Im teen christian, Born in a christian fam and i have never seen any sexual video until somedays before, I decided to research about it n came across p*rn video which was terrifying 4 me cuz just u know right the holy spirit inside me is the spirit of righteousness. i suffered alot to erase that memory from my mind and prayed about it. Thank God i no longer think about those things. Besides, Praying n reading The HOLY BIBLE every day helps us to increase the bond(fellowship)we have with God. Thanks for dropping alerting video to repent n get back to the right path (God's way)🙏🙏💙
You are one blessed man, I grew up in an atheist household and my mom did not care about keeping my purity, the movies she would watch when I was like 8 were horrendous, about a 2 and a half year long addiction before I finally decided to start breaking free
May God help you not get tempted to go back watch them because they are addiction, once you are in, you will face a blockage to abandon them. Avoid them as possible as you can.
Not a virgin I have a one year old son, but I am 8 months celibate. And amen to falling short of the glory of God. In addition to us not being here to convict/ condemn anyone, but instead to lead to Christ to show his love, grace, and mercy. Amen ❤️❤️
9:10 In South Africa we have the saying, 'Vry in die bondel', which translates to, 'Kissing in the bunch'. It basically means when your dating someoone or your engaged, try to exclusively socialize in your group of friends rather than being alone together(which would place you in compromising situations).
I'm currently on the tail end of beating an almost 10 year porn addiction, I've been dealing with a pretty strong urge the past hour but decided to watch this video (that I've had queued up for a few days) instead of giving in and it was absolutely the right decision. I've been looking into the topic of boundaries before marriage a lot in the past few years and it was great to hear your insights. The things you mentioned are very much in line with the points I've heard so far from a variety of people so that tells me that they are indeed well based in scripture and that I'm on the right track. This video has further reinforced and refreshed my resolution to keep resisting temptation to beat the last few remainders of this addiction and to keep pursuing a godly path towards marriage, thank you for contributing to my journey!
@@niceguysayshi5765 I don’t know how to confess to people though, I’ve only been a Christian for 3ish months now, most of my friends are atheists, and I’m afraid of what people will think of me whenever I do confess what I’m going through
I've been struggling for over 10 years as well with Porn. I got set free miraculously 3 times in this time. Fell back into it, but countless times relapsed while doing it on my own. I never could do it on my own. But recently when I experienced deliverance again, I got freed. The urges aren't completely gone. It's manageable, but I really gotta renew my mind. Sometimes I cry out of loneliness, but try to refresh myself again in Gods love. Thats the difference vs when doing it on my own. On my own I couldn't do it. I couldn't sleep for days, got heart racing, tensed up, suicidalness, severe depression. Maybe go seek deliverance, as Lust can oftentimes in a Porn addiction be caused by spiritual bondage or Demons. Fasting may help too and try to renew your mind. I now also really really hate that sin. I think that's where the holy Spirit renewed my mind aswell. If a temptation comes, I just tell myself of that rabbit hole I was in and can lay the urge easily aside again. God bless you!
It’s important to note that a bibical marriage is genius 2:24. Which is a covenant of your love and with God, a wedding or a ring does not make you married becoming one flesh makes you married and there is nothing wrong with a wedding, it is a celebration of your love and rings aren’t pegan it’s just, the question is “where is your heart?” do you place the rings above God? Or is it the covenant with God that’s making you married. Don’t fall into idolatry brothers and sisters in messiah!
Im 22, and just got divorced last year from an abusive woman in church. The lust has definitely been tough especially since I was so sexually involved with my ex-spouse. Staying celibate and running from porn now and relaunching my ministry. Keep ya boi in prayer. I believe the right one will come in his time, and will be worth it! 🙏
22, your ministry ? Did you divorce over sexual immorality. You struggle with porn aswell ? Brother the sentence is harsh if you do not lead well, I would turn to God and strengthen your walk with him.
@JamFlexx i am not bound to religion. I have a relationship with the father. And he has forgiven me. I have surrendered my life and died to myself. I cannot take back the past. That's why we all need a saver
I'm a Muslim and all three Abrahamic religions are just so similar so the way you guys spoke in this video was a so relatable and so insightful to me. Thanks for spreading the word of God, this generation I'm part of needed to hear this. Its hard for all of us especially with social media and things got really mixed up and heavy on our hearts but the real freedom and peace remains in the word of Almighty God. Amen 🤍🪽 peace and love to y'all
Thanks for this video. Im a 29 going on 30 Single male. Iv never had sex, it almost happened once but I couldn't go through with it. I was exposed to pornography in like 6th grade i was 12 or 13 and that started an addiction for the next 12 years until 2020. God has brought me quite far in this journey. While I havent viewed "hard core" pornography in a few years I struggle will sexually themed stuff usually its images or videos, there's no sex or nudity in these images/video's but its still sin im not sugar coating it. I know healing from a 12 year struggle is a Journey not a quick fix. The struggle also stems from wanting to meet a Godly woman and wanting to be with someone and it mixes with old memories and its like my brain wants to "fix" the lonely feeling its one big bad concoction. Its like ill be completely fine for a month or so, even longer than one thing triggers another and im back to struggling for a week or so. Anyways thank you for this video again. To my Brothers and Sisters in Christ Jesus or even if youre not a believer. Please know God our Father will meet you right in the midst of your struggle. Jesus bought and paid for the Grace and Forgiveness we have, His word says thag He is slow to anger and eager to forgive. His Mercies are new every single morning. To my fellow believers whether your day is good and filled with delight and fellowship or if its horrible and filled with shortcomings we are only Saved by Grace through Faith in Jesus in the first place. If youre an unbeliever, the Love God has for you in Jesus Christ is unfathomable and surpasses all understanding. He loves you more than anyone on earth ever could. No matter the issue or sin struggle. Go to Him. He stands ready to be Recieved and to Recieve you all by Faith. ❤ "Sirs what must I do to be Saved? They replied, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be Saved." -Acts 16:30-31
Sim - a bíblia diz para não colocar COISAS impuras diante dos olhos- que são as janelas da alma- as mulheres que fazem filmes impuros são falsas e muitas mães solteiras que vomitam- usam drogas- alcoolismo e depressão e representam um papel fictício de romance para levar quem assiste ao inferno eterno!
i recently watched some p*rn videos for the first time and bro im 18,now,i wish i never watched it cuz it keeps runnin in my mind n couldn't even pray.Thank God after some struggle i was able to erase that memory.here after i don't wanna get my self into such stress lol,i'll just keep praying and praying no more such social medias for me .
It’s just crazy but I was asking for confirmation on the limits for intimacy. And this is the confirmation. I just limit it to a peck on the lips, a hug and cuddles. No being alone in a room. 😂I love how God placed this video into my life at the right time
I wish I would had seen this video for 6~ years ago. So many young girls give themselves away for validation of men but they don’t care about you at all, come to God he has the love for you. He will never leave you and you will always be his princess. The world says that your value is your body but you’re so much more than that.The Christian community needs to talk about this more often in youth groups !👏
I needed this, I have been falling in to the sin of lust and it is like my emotions have found a new height and it is getting worse, I needed to hear this.
me personally i don't like to say i regret anything i did in the past because i believe God lets you go through certain phases so that in future you are the manifestation of an authentic testimony.
To not regret your past is to not learn from your mistakes. You can recognize something as a mistake/wrong, regret it, yet still accept that it happened and move past it. God can turn anything into an opportunity for good, but that doesn't mean everything that happens is good. Regret/shame are what prompt learning and improvement. But again, no mistake is so large that God cannot handle it. A regretful past does not make one irredeemable. Regret, repent, and follow God toward betterment.
Loved this video so much very helpful when walking with Christ and understanding sexual sins ! I am getting baptised soon, my significant other is all for me giving my life to Christ, only thing is we are not married but I know God will guide us.
We need to pray for the salvation of every person on the planet. God is willing for none to perish. We also need to pray that God will speed up the saintification of His children and that we all will be walking out our callings. That God will turn us into a spiritual army and that we all will reach a new level in Him.
Woooooww I’m speechless. I love how you guys simply told the truth. You guys left no stone unturned and this is what we need in our world. The truth, thank you.😊
I m 26 years old girl and I still not even engaged, I have bad luck with boys, usually short relationships, not serious boys when I m serious, i dont know maybe I will be single forever. The worst thing is social pressure, family and friends, age pressure about marriage, spouse, having someone. I feel sometimes like bad person because always alone and everywhere couples.. Pray for me and hapiness please 😍😍😍😍
I hope you find your person, but I will say God is either protecting you, or if you are over and over again getting in relationships with the wrong people there is only one common factor, which is yourself. Hope this doesn’t come off as rude. I wish you the best of luck!
I do agree with this a lot, I am a virgin, and plan to stay that way till marriage, but also remeber to not beat yourself up if you slip on any of your boundaries or have sex, we all sin everyday, god will still love you and forgive you. What matters is that you stay on the path of being more christ like and keep your faith.
Beautiful message guys ❤ I love how you set boundaries from the beginning. It's important to start with this. Like u said, it'll let you know if he/ she is really for you or not. Level of patience, self control and commitment will also be tested. Also,keep away from clothing that will make you feel any sexual way. Some under wear,also makes you wna look at yourself or touch yourself in a certain way . So stay away from any form of evil or any form of sexual immortality to protect yourself.🇿🇦
7:48 ooo you got me there😂😭My ex respected my boundaries but like you guys said it wasnt because God said no to sex its because I said no🥲I thank God that my ex betrayed me because deep down i had a feeling he wouldnt be able to wait for me for that long
Your husband is amazing! I can tell from the way he talks he is really a man after God's own heart. May a marry a man like that. Thank you for this video! So helpful!
I’ve been someone’s temptation before. I had been alone my whole life up until I met her and I was scared I wouldn’t find anyone else. We did it, and I regret it. I feel like people judge me for it. Whenever I meet a godly woman she always asks me about if I have a past to worry about or if I’m still a virgin, and answering honestly I always say I’m not because that’s true. After that pretty much every time they find a reason to leave. I guess it was a self fulfilling sort of thing. Me worrying that I’ll never find someone else has made it impossible to find someone because of what I did with her. Don’t make my mistake folks. You will regret it.
You both are true examples of representing Jesus's love and messages. Your introduction of releasing any possible shame people may feel and reminding us that we are renewed through Christ brings great humility, gentleness , unconditional love in your teaching the word of God. I pray for both of you to be blessed abundantly, protected, at peace, and in joy of your sacred union. Thank you so much.
I am a virgin who struggled with porn during my high school timeframe and got scammed 3 years ago and have been free from porn ever since. When I was in high school I was a student level leader within my youth group and snuggling was one thing I got into kids about. And about drinking, I am very against it altogether personally so that I don’t have to worry about setting a limit and/or possibly getting in trouble with law enforcement or destroy my liver.
I never mention this before ! But I’m 24 years old lover and follower of Jesus Christ. I recently got into a relationship with my boyfriend who was my bestfriend. We are long distance but we are both struggling with Lust. I want to stop masturbation completely but sometimes I feel as if I don’t know my body I’m a virgin who also has these desires. Guys pray for our relationship so we both can over come this lust we made a pack to wait to marriage, but I also don’t want to do any personal sexual things. (also he is a virgin)
This is what a lot of teens and young adults need to hear nowadays, And I'm just glad that you two are kind enough to spread the truth like this. God bless you, Amen🙏
I'm only 17 and I wish I was still a virgin. I struggle with the idea now that I have to hold someone else to that standard when I couldn't hold the first to that standard. I can't even play it off as a one time thing because I struggled my way through more than 2 months of this and when it all came crashing down, that was one of my biggest convictions. to anybody reading this, please don't do what I did.
Once you repented, it doesn't matter anymore. You were just reborn and sins are forgiven once you acknowledge and stay away from repeating them. God is gracious and oftforgiving
Two minutes in and the strength of your points from God’s word is dying the death of a thousand qualifications. Sometimes it’s best to just say what’s true without caveat or apology.
I was someone who had struggled with Masturbation for years and now am free. It's not just about protecting yourself and your relationship with God but also to protect your future spouse. I will never slip back into that lifestyle and I don't want to drag whoever I'm with into that lifestyle either. It's not worth it.
Gods law is love. His rules are so hard to follow these days but they protect us from so much pain. My future wife this waiting will be worth it some day.
I desire to be married one day. Yet i desire to please God with my vessel. This conversation is so needed for Gods sons and Gods daughters! God willing I pray over my future husband and over myself to be disciplined and care for our vessels
Thanks be God such a blessing to see a young beautiful husband and wife speaking on God's biblical standards before marriage...i definitely will be sending this to my 21yr daughter and 19yr old son and I pray it blesses them as it has blessed me...ps im a 42yr man who's been married 20yrs and was very encouraged by your message...be blessed!
I am 17, and lost my virginity in my last relationship. I knew of God, but i did not know him. We broke up, and I’ve grown closer to God more than ever. I still struggle with Lust even without a partner, and im struggling to find my way right now. I know God is the way and that i should talk to Jesus when i feel tempted, but it’s still hard. Idk if my faith is strong enough or what.
Me and my hubsand was struggling with lusting temptations because we was virgins but we was very patient and waited until marriage. We made a mistake and kiss each other in the mouth because of our attraction to each other. All glory to our lord and savior Jesus.
Sim - a bíblia diz para não colocar COISAS impuras diante dos olhos- que são as janelas da alma- as mulheres que fazem filmes impuros são falsas e muitas mães solteiras que vomitam- usam drogas- alcoolismo e depressão e representam um papel fictício de romance para levar quem assiste ao inferno eterno!
@@purelightapologetics4930yeah, that’s never made sense to me. I can understand not wanting to get so in the mood that you stop thinking clearly, but a kiss doesn’t have to involve passion to the point you’re just begging to take your pants off 😐.
Great content. I am 40 and divorced. For the first time I love Jesus and will wait fir marraige this time. I have no interest in any woman that isn’t a Christian who strives to be like Jesus. Thank you
Me (18) and my girlfriend (18) have been dating for over 2 and a half years now and have made a vow since we started dating to wait till marriage. We still have our temptations and it is very hard but still going strong! Love these videos, it’s really relatable and inspiring to see y’all and hear y’all’s story.
Why would fighting the most basic human need make you stray from god? No hate but I honestly believe you should question ur religion in order to truly find faith and im quoting the second council of the vatican here so please I beg you become a better man and stop following blindly
@ Why do you think that pre-marital sex is the most basic human need? God tells us in the Bible that pre-marital sex is a sin and that you should save yourself for marriage to keep yourself and your marriage pure. We walk with God and Satan tries to tempt us, but we should stay pure in our faith to honor God. I’m a better man because I follow in His footsteps and my faith in Him is strong because He will never lead us wrong. He knows what’s best for us and He knows what’s best for you.
@ So you tell me you prefear to follow rules written in a book which have been reinterpreted countless amount of times instead of following your better judgement? Animals have sex with no marriage, our ancesters did too and so do we. In what world is sex an impurity while it is the single act your brain is wired towards? Please try to educate yourself on biology and you'll see how stupid refraining yourself from the one thing you are made for sounds
The point on research is really pertinent to me. Something I’ve struggled with as a 23 year old man. Seems innocent as it’s not necessarily explicit content, but still fills my mind with unhelpful thoughts. I think it can be helpful to realise that for centuries people have managed to have children without prior internet research, so it’s really not necessary and really only serves to create temptation by setting your mind on the flesh. There’s nothing you “need” to know in advance. Such a helpful exhortation to refuse temptation by referring to the word of God. May the Lord help me.
Omgg thank you ❤️❤️🙏🙏 Ally, I feel inspired to get Christian perspective out on a channel too 🙏 so greatful you help me with this so glad you are raw and honest and truthful 💗 I pray this channel flourishes and many blessings x
Thanks for putting this kinda content out there. We need to keep reminding ourselves that irrespective of the changes in the world, God's standard never changes.
Thank you to the moon and back for the first minute introduction.. my heart was beating so fast since I struggle with guilt issues for a while now and you gave me the exact words I needed from God in order to get back on my feet .. words that I look for since forever and just heard them now thank you so much
Personally, I have been single for life. I had a crush which I havent recovered from (didnt have a relationship with). With all that stuff that needs to be done, this significantly decreases the dating pool. I don't want to find someone who is "good enough" because that will be very bad for both me and her as well. So, I will be stay single. I will cope with my friends, my hobbies and my career. This is something that I wanted from a small age, but I know that it will never happen. And dont start telling me crap that everything is possible and it will happen etc. Congratulations for you, it's very good that you have worked it out. But some of us need to cope with a different path
Bro I love this message. You spoke so clearly and God bless your sweet heart. God will bless you and your marriage and it makes my heart happy that you guys are making an impact on this new generation. God bless and take care 💯
Im catholic but I like this Cristian girl. Thank you for the advice and now I know the standard that I should hold myself and my relationships, thank you brother and sister.
25 and waiting til marriage, I've received a lot of backlash even from the men who claimed to love, because they have not decided to wait they begin to make me feel like I'm doing the most but hear this, what Jesus did on the cross of Calvary was more than enough and staying pure is what the Biblical standard.. I believe God will bring me that man who will be on the same path as me and we'll represent the kingdom well❤
I love this, I'm trying to be the best man for my girlfriend right now and we talk about this kinda topic and it's really awesome seeing this video. Thanks for sharing your wisdom guys! I love to see your marriage and you guys putting God first. God bless your work
I pray the lord bless and keep your marriage in purity, peace and love. Thank you for being so open and honest while sharing to us the truth. I Love you guys already.
Right now im struggling so much with a situation with my girlfriend. I had been saving myself for marriage but then I knew I met the one and we had sex, I felt disgusted but special because it was something new. Turns out she had lied to me about being a virgin and I had to find through someone else, I am trying so hard to get over it but I cant. I know her sexual experiences dont define her, but it was so special to me because I thought it was the first time for both, and now it has ruined it for me and its anything but special
What's in the past remains in the past. What's actually bothering me in your testimony is not the fact that she wasn't a virgin too but the fact that she lied to you about something this important to you. If you guys love each other and other aspects of your love life is healthy than moving past this is the solution. The fact that it's your 1st time still makes it special regardless of your gfs experience before. This is something you both shared and that's enough to make special. Good luck
24 years old here! Still virgin! Even though I went to church and sometimes go to church, don’t drink, don’t party, or I don’t do what the world do I wouldn’t say I’m a Christian, since even though I try my best I keep failing God by falling in porn and masturbation. I had rejected multiple options of having sex with girls but unfortunately it’s been quite hard to resist porn and masturbation
Hey. I'm also 24 and it's also a very difficult fight for me. But remember. You are not defined by your failures. God loves you all the same. He forgives you and He doesn't care that it happens so often. He just wants you to do your best and come closer to Him. And I know this for a fact because I had a lot of very similar thoughts but He reassured me time and time again
Great points! 100% agree with the romance novels! Insane what is popular and normalized for young women to read, I find it crazy how even in the secular world; porn is taboo, but yet romance novels aren’t even questioned! I chose at a young age to avoid romance novels- even the religious ones!- and never watch a sex scene, even foreplay scenes, until after I was married. Even now that I am happily married, I still avoid sex scenes just because I prefer my husband to be what I’m thinking about, not some random set of actors. I’d encourage all single unmarried young women to stay away from any entertainment that will give you Hollywood fantasies, expectations, and also baggage you don’t even realize you’re accumulating. Sex is a beautiful thing, and when you walk into it knowing only the few raw facts, you have the freedom to be completely yourself and do whatever the two of you enjoy.❤
Comment what was helpful about this video, and let me know what else you would like us to talk about!🫶 To watch pt 2 of the vid and what NO one else will say about waiting for marriage, click here: th-cam.com/video/3UOub-bvLlI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Jsl6VmJWEiGp4vys
How did God tell you talk about this?
Jesus loves you:)❤
@@danielpleitez-martinez7638 he can talk to you through
:feeling
:prayer
:signs
:dreams
And more ❤❤❤
How much talk about sex you should have with your partner, meaning like boundaries and what is okay and not okay before marriage but also including why something’s are sinful
This vids great, recently watched a similar one by different people and they didn't give a single Faith based example, they just put themselves under the law it was a major let down. Your vid was actually done by Faith with good advise like being careful of music, movies, shows, alcohol, helpful to be around other Christians with similar values, temptation is not Sin only giving into it is. Also not having to figure it all out, just walk by Faith and communicate. Honestly all great advise that makes sense, 10/10 vid, thank you!
i am a virgin but i’ve struggled with sexual sins for a while. please pray that God would continue to purify me and help be fight the temptations. i want to save myself for my husband and know that God can help me and him!
I would pray for you because me and my husband had those lusting temptations because we both was virgins but we wanted to serve God so we was very patient to wait until marriage to break our virginity. He was my first love and we respect each other's boundaries after we made our mistake and kiss. He's a hearing person and I'm deaf with autism, I have to wear cochlear implants and hearing aids. We're into an interracial marriage because I'm white and he's black, we had some mean stares but we didn't care because our love is genuine through Jesus.
Praying!
@@EmilyW-2000it's not a temptation it's just living life Lol
You are not alone I pray that you surrander and get deeper in to the word of god, in jesus name I pray, Amen
Dear Camryn, I pray for you AND your future husband that you both find the strength, wisdom, perseverence, loyalty, faithfulness and willpower to be and stay victorious over ALL temptations that the enemy may throw your way. I declare that your body is healed, holy and holified and so is your future spouse's his body. I also pray for a hedge of protection over both of your minds that keep you FAR away from sexual sin, lust or any other type of sin or attack from the enemy in Jesus name. and it is also in Jesus His mighty and miraclous name I pray, amen amen and amen again
Waiting till marriage as a 22yr old man is hard especially in this world but i know one day it will be worth it.
You’re absolutely right, but the woman you marry will appreciate it SO MUCH.
Find an accountability partner.. someone older than you
@purelightapologetics4930 Thank you I definitely want her to know that i waited for only her and would feel happy to know the same
@priscillachinsembu4669 Thank you I'm currently not seeing anyone but when I do I will have my sister as my accountability partner.
Me too bro! May God help us all
I am 17, and my boyfriend and I tried to wait, and we did for a few months, but then we fell into temptation and we've been together for over a year now, and still struggle with that. We just re-made the decision to wait, and involved a mentor from church to be our accountability partner. Praise God!
Beautiful 🎉
Glory to God
pray together
Jesus loves you:)😊❤
Amen this is great keep seeking Jesus
Im 32 virgin, im not sure if i'm going to get married, but if i am 😄 i just want to experience it within marriage blessed by God, may God protect me and guide my future husband
You are amazing!
@@OpalsZonna-bb8hj thank you so much, that really made me feel better, All credit to God, my father, may family, All Praise and Glory to God 🙌
Jesus loves you:)😊❤
Don't doubt the power of God He can do all things
Respect
"You are not someone's quick fix." That was deep.
Jesus loves you:)❤
@@InJesusName-Amen❤❤
It’s hard as a 21 year old male. I’m a virgin and my curiosity would often lead me to watching p*rn but now I’m recovering from that addiction. I also feel ashamed some times for being so unexperienced with women because as a man to be “cool” you are expected to go to parties and get girls.
I just hope some day I will meet a woman who won’t judge me for being a virgin and believing in what I believe in.
Jesus is the way ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Same exact boat here brother. 21 as well and all. I get the same thoughts constantly, but that just paying attention to the conformities of the world and how we “think” we should be like because of what we see in others. Do what you know in your heart to be true. Only way to fight sin is with scripture. God bless my brother. Jesus loves you abundantly. Stay strong 💪
Don't worry. The best is yet to come. Be a bit more patient.🙏🙏🙏
That's nothing to be ashamed of...if anything you should be proud of it, just not in a prideful way, but confident in doing the right thing.
It takes more courage to stay true to your values than to sleep around. As a 26 y.o. woman who is also a virgin (and proud of it :) (thanks to the grace of God and my godly upbringing) I respect you for being a virgin, and I also hope to marry a virgin in the future. :)
God bless ❤
Don't allow what others think get to you. As long as you have joy and confidence about your choices you're good to go. Always ask the Holy spirit for help to remain pure and HE will help you. Keeping yourself pure is a blessing and God is proud of you. Also, you will meet a lady who loves you sincerely. Like I said take all things to God in prayer.
Am proud of you and rooting for you as well. God bless and help u always.
I’m a 23M virgin and I’ve struggled for years with porn due to loneliness and a hunger for female affection. My best advice, don’t party and hang around ungodly people. People who look down on virgins regret giving theirs away or were corrupted by the “sexually liberated” society we live in. What I’ve learned is that like Joseph we can’t beat temptation and must flee which means avoiding and looking away. Be patient and seek Jesus and God will give you a virgin wife and the wait will no doubt be worth it for both of you. Also, don’t rush into marriage as many are deceived by their impatience and hunger for sex without truly knowing who they are dating or courting.
It is extremely encouraging to see Christian men in these comments that are virgins. As a woman who has strived to be pleasing in God's eyes her entire life and save herself for marriage, sometimes it feels discouraging when all the mean you see are worldy and not living in the same way. It makes you feel like there may not be another person out there for you who has the same values as you, so it is very encouraging to see that there are men in this world that still hold these biblical values.
It's kind of a positive feedback loop. Sexuality is so common in today's society that those within it further promote it. So the sexually active/"successful" men and women are the ones most noticed when looking at "the average person in society". Those who endeavor to remain pure often become practically invisible as a result.
Because a lot of men are fatherless or have fathers that never set or lived by that standard it’s not considered the norm which makes abstinence that much
harder to control almost impossible especially without God in it so we must pray for everyone because lust is something serious not something that can be simply prayed away must fight it by any means necessary
I’m glad to see it too. I’m a male approaching 30 and still a virgin. I’ve had 4 situations where I almost lost my virginity but God gave me immovable strength in those moments that I remember so well it clearly didn’t come from me. His power is made perfect in weakness… My weakness…
I’ve had nothing but failed relationships with woman and it discouraged me to the point where I threw the idea away to pursue marriage and just be a lone wolf. But that’s not good. It’s not good that man should be alone. So I’m intentionally trying to open my mind back up to it and pursue it. I don’t get lonely so it’s easy for me to be alone but I desire intimacy with a woman and suppressing it will lead me to regret. I just know it. Pray for me
This!!! 😮💨🙌🏾
Reeeeal
thanks for having me on the channel babe love you
Aww I love you dear! Thank you for joining me❤️
Aaawwwww 😂
You won the lottery she is beautiful Idk you but I'm proud of you
thank you guys for setting a good example of real love for young people!! all the joy to you, God bless you!!
i'm 24yo, lost my virginity due to peer pressure at 21yo, which i regret, for the boys growing up if i could give my younger self an advice is don't engange in sexual encounters just so u can be "the man". resisting temptation and doing gods will is the most badass thing one can accomplish. cool video btw.
I am in the same boat as you man, it was a relationship where she put on a mask which I was in love with, but turned out it was not the real her.
same... learn from us younger men, and older men be encouraged... we very much wish we were in your standing. Nothing about it was worth it
The advice about not watching romance movies is 1000% true. I would add not to read romance books or anything that could lead one to think of sex and stir feelings of lust. I’m a married woman now but was not a virgin upon marriage and I realize that I struggle with sexual perversion and what caused/amplified that feeling is reading the romance novels(I was reading Harlequin romances at 10, and watching Soap Operas) and watching the romance movies or TV shows. If anyone’s desire is to be holy then anything that contradicts God’s holiness will lead to unholy actions. So I strongly encourage anyone trying to stay pure or dealing with sexual sin is to stay away from anything that is sexualize.
Yeah I'm 22m and I recently stopped watching romance movies with sex scenes because i knew I was really watching it for not holy reasons
Sim - a bíblia diz para não colocar COISAS impuras diante dos olhos- que são as janelas da alma- as mulheres que fazem filmes impuros são falsas e muitas mães solteiras que vomitam- usam drogas- alcoolismo e depressão e representam um papel fictício de romance para levar quem assiste ao inferno eterno!
That’s true, but some romances are good like Pride and Prejudice. It just needs to be clean and you need to make sure you’re both developing unreasonable expectations.
See I read clean romance novels. I don't think there is an issue with those. I didn't realize there were unclean ones until I read one. Now I always check before reading.
@@PupAndPotsAdventuresplease recommend some books pleaseeeee
Get to know their brain. Fall in love with their soul. No touching is needed.
Yes ❤
Jesus loves you:)😊❤
Agree.
"you don't need to know everythings" is just amazing quote
Honestly,It is❤
Amazing quote for christian dogmatism for sure
I've never dated anyone, never had a boyfriend, never even held hands with a man before. Wasn't too interested in dating up until the end of college and now being 26, I can't wait until God brings me my husband. I will wait and wait patiently. But, oh Lord, the waiting is so hard.
why dont you go looking for one?
You have to help by doing something with it too 😂
I hope the Lord gives you the urge to start looking for one and outing yourself in positions where it’s possible to find someone
It’s better to wait for everything. When the time comes it will come.
literally
❤
When the time comes, YOU will COME too.
Im teen christian, Born in a christian fam and i have never seen any sexual video until somedays before, I decided to research about it n came across p*rn video which was terrifying 4 me cuz just u know right the holy spirit inside me is the spirit of righteousness. i suffered alot to erase that memory from my mind and prayed about it.
Thank God i no longer think about those things. Besides, Praying n reading The HOLY BIBLE every day helps us to increase the bond(fellowship)we have with God.
Thanks for dropping alerting video to repent n get back to the right path (God's way)🙏🙏💙
You are one blessed man, I grew up in an atheist household and my mom did not care about keeping my purity, the movies she would watch when I was like 8 were horrendous, about a 2 and a half year long addiction before I finally decided to start breaking free
May God help you not get tempted to go back watch them because they are addiction, once you are in, you will face a blockage to abandon them. Avoid them as possible as you can.
Hi😊can we be friends?I feel like we might have a few things in common😅from reading yur comment.
oh,thanks for y'alls' reply🙏
@@PinkSmithChante ikr lol,sure why not😁the Bible doesn't say we (christians)never get tempted but we shall break free of it in Jesus name!
I am a 30 years old virgin Catholic woman. I am currently dating a 32 years old virgin Catholic man.
Not a virgin I have a one year old son, but I am 8 months celibate. And amen to falling short of the glory of God. In addition to us not being here to convict/ condemn anyone, but instead to lead to Christ to show his love, grace, and mercy. Amen ❤️❤️
9:10 In South Africa we have the saying, 'Vry in die bondel', which translates to, 'Kissing in the bunch'. It basically means when your dating someoone or your engaged, try to exclusively socialize in your group of friends rather than being alone together(which would place you in compromising situations).
He's so mature and self aware
I'm currently on the tail end of beating an almost 10 year porn addiction, I've been dealing with a pretty strong urge the past hour but decided to watch this video (that I've had queued up for a few days) instead of giving in and it was absolutely the right decision. I've been looking into the topic of boundaries before marriage a lot in the past few years and it was great to hear your insights. The things you mentioned are very much in line with the points I've heard so far from a variety of people so that tells me that they are indeed well based in scripture and that I'm on the right track. This video has further reinforced and refreshed my resolution to keep resisting temptation to beat the last few remainders of this addiction and to keep pursuing a godly path towards marriage, thank you for contributing to my journey!
I haven’t been doing it for 10 years, I think this summer marked 2 and a half years, any tips to help me? Help a brother out please 🙏🙏🫶✝️✝️
@@Faithfulfilled1the first step is to tell somebody and don't keep it for yourself. Going to confession is probably the best way
@@niceguysayshi5765 I don’t know how to confess to people though, I’ve only been a Christian for 3ish months now, most of my friends are atheists, and I’m afraid of what people will think of me whenever I do confess what I’m going through
I've been struggling for over 10 years as well with Porn. I got set free miraculously 3 times in this time. Fell back into it, but countless times relapsed while doing it on my own. I never could do it on my own. But recently when I experienced deliverance again, I got freed. The urges aren't completely gone. It's manageable, but I really gotta renew my mind. Sometimes I cry out of loneliness, but try to refresh myself again in Gods love. Thats the difference vs when doing it on my own. On my own I couldn't do it. I couldn't sleep for days, got heart racing, tensed up, suicidalness, severe depression. Maybe go seek deliverance, as Lust can oftentimes in a Porn addiction be caused by spiritual bondage or Demons. Fasting may help too and try to renew your mind. I now also really really hate that sin. I think that's where the holy Spirit renewed my mind aswell. If a temptation comes, I just tell myself of that rabbit hole I was in and can lay the urge easily aside again. God bless you!
you got it bro, keep going, you will be so joyful to be free.
There’s nothing wrong with hugging, cuddling or kissing before marriage
Exactly
i agree. but be very careful as especially cuddling can quickly lead to sex if they have little self control.
I agree @@backroomslover
I'm ok with hugging or even cuddling, but I will hold myself from a kiss until marriage.
@@dpere565 kissing isnt bad but if u fall into temptation while u do it then yeah better to stay far from it
It’s important to note that a bibical marriage is genius 2:24. Which is a covenant of your love and with God, a wedding or a ring does not make you married becoming one flesh makes you married and there is nothing wrong with a wedding, it is a celebration of your love and rings aren’t pegan it’s just, the question is “where is your heart?” do you place the rings above God? Or is it the covenant with God that’s making you married. Don’t fall into idolatry brothers and sisters in messiah!
The chemistry between you two is so beautiful
God bless you for sharing
Im 22, and just got divorced last year from an abusive woman in church. The lust has definitely been tough especially since I was so sexually involved with my ex-spouse. Staying celibate and running from porn now and relaunching my ministry. Keep ya boi in prayer. I believe the right one will come in his time, and will be worth it! 🙏
22, your ministry ?
Did you divorce over sexual immorality. You struggle with porn aswell ? Brother the sentence is harsh if you do not lead well, I would turn to God and strengthen your walk with him.
@JamFlexx i am not bound to religion. I have a relationship with the father. And he has forgiven me. I have surrendered my life and died to myself. I cannot take back the past. That's why we all need a saver
22 female virgin here ,i wish it was easy and i wish i had a good relationship with God to make it a bit easier
He’s with you.
I'm a Muslim and all three Abrahamic religions are just so similar so the way you guys spoke in this video was a so relatable and so insightful to me. Thanks for spreading the word of God, this generation I'm part of needed to hear this. Its hard for all of us especially with social media and things got really mixed up and heavy on our hearts but the real freedom and peace remains in the word of Almighty God. Amen 🤍🪽 peace and love to y'all
Muslims don't believe in the same God as Christians. We are not similar at all.
Im an eastern orthodox christian and this was very helpful, convicting if you will! Thank you for being bold in this ungodly world.
Thanks for this video. Im a 29 going on 30 Single male. Iv never had sex, it almost happened once but I couldn't go through with it. I was exposed to pornography in like 6th grade i was 12 or 13 and that started an addiction for the next 12 years until 2020. God has brought me quite far in this journey. While I havent viewed "hard core" pornography in a few years I struggle will sexually themed stuff usually its images or videos, there's no sex or nudity in these images/video's but its still sin im not sugar coating it. I know healing from a 12 year struggle is a Journey not a quick fix.
The struggle also stems from wanting to meet a Godly woman and wanting to be with someone and it mixes with old memories and its like my brain wants to "fix" the lonely feeling its one big bad concoction. Its like ill be completely fine for a month or so, even longer than one thing triggers another and im back to struggling for a week or so. Anyways thank you for this video again.
To my Brothers and Sisters in Christ Jesus or even if youre not a believer. Please know God our Father will meet you right in the midst of your struggle. Jesus bought and paid for the Grace and Forgiveness we have, His word says thag He is slow to anger and eager to forgive. His Mercies are new every single morning. To my fellow believers whether your day is good and filled with delight and fellowship or if its horrible and filled with shortcomings we are only Saved by Grace through Faith in Jesus in the first place. If youre an unbeliever, the Love God has for you in Jesus Christ is unfathomable and surpasses all understanding. He loves you more than anyone on earth ever could. No matter the issue or sin struggle. Go to Him. He stands ready to be Recieved and to Recieve you all by Faith.
❤ "Sirs what must I do to be Saved? They replied, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shalt be Saved." -Acts 16:30-31
Sim - a bíblia diz para não colocar COISAS impuras diante dos olhos- que são as janelas da alma- as mulheres que fazem filmes impuros são falsas e muitas mães solteiras que vomitam- usam drogas- alcoolismo e depressão e representam um papel fictício de romance para levar quem assiste ao inferno eterno!
I am in the exact same position and age bro.
I will be 30 in less than a week.
Inspiring
Testimonies help a lot, thanks for sharing
i recently watched some p*rn videos for the first time and bro im 18,now,i wish i never watched it cuz it keeps runnin in my mind n couldn't even pray.Thank God after some struggle i was able to erase that memory.here after i don't wanna get my self into such stress lol,i'll just keep praying and praying no more such social medias for me .
“When you understand what it is, you Only want the real” ❤ that was amazing 4:30
It’s just crazy but I was asking for confirmation on the limits for intimacy. And this is the confirmation. I just limit it to a peck on the lips, a hug and cuddles. No being alone in a room. 😂I love how God placed this video into my life at the right time
I wish I would had seen this video for 6~ years ago. So many young girls give themselves away for validation of men but they don’t care about you at all, come to God he has the love for you. He will never leave you and you will always be his princess. The world says that your value is your body but you’re so much more than that.The Christian community needs to talk about this more often in youth groups !👏
I needed this, I have been falling in to the sin of lust and it is like my emotions have found a new height and it is getting worse, I needed to hear this.
me personally i don't like to say i regret anything i did in the past because i believe God lets you go through certain phases so that in future you are the manifestation of an authentic testimony.
Ok Rasputin 😂
Very well said, I completely agree
To not regret your past is to not learn from your mistakes.
You can recognize something as a mistake/wrong, regret it, yet still accept that it happened and move past it. God can turn anything into an opportunity for good, but that doesn't mean everything that happens is good.
Regret/shame are what prompt learning and improvement.
But again, no mistake is so large that God cannot handle it. A regretful past does not make one irredeemable. Regret, repent, and follow God toward betterment.
Mr Gabe MAY GoD strengthen you to continue being the leader in this marriage . Mrs Ally may God continue to bless you as a virtuos wife amen!!
I love how honest you are. A true christian is honest. God bless you and your marriage.
Y'all are the bomb cause the truth is the bomb! 🥰❤️🔥✝️
Thank you so much! God bless you!
Loved this video so much very helpful when walking with Christ and understanding sexual sins ! I am getting baptised soon, my significant other is all for me giving my life to Christ, only thing is we are not married but I know God will guide us.
We need to pray for the salvation of every person on the planet. God is willing for none to perish. We also need to pray that God will speed up the saintification of His children and that we all will be walking out our callings. That God will turn us into a spiritual army and that we all will reach a new level in Him.
Woooooww I’m speechless. I love how you guys simply told the truth. You guys left no stone unturned and this is what we need in our world. The truth, thank you.😊
We need more people like you two in this diabolical world.
I’m 26 years old and I’m still looking for my perfect woman.
Are you the perfect man?
I bet you won’t be her perfect man though, so you’ll never find that
Everyone is perfect till you get close to them 🥲😊
@@CarolyneseWambui-pw4xw yea if you're a kid and don't know how people are.
@CarolyneseWambui-pw4xw No one is Perfect nor Good only God is
I'm glad there are still people who share my values and beliefs out there cause that's hard to find nowaday
I did all that. It's no guarantee the marriage will last. Ppl need to deal with their emotional wounds and mindset and devotion to faith.
I m 26 years old girl and I still not even engaged, I have bad luck with boys, usually short relationships, not serious boys when I m serious, i dont know maybe I will be single forever. The worst thing is social pressure, family and friends, age pressure about marriage, spouse, having someone. I feel sometimes like bad person because always alone and everywhere couples.. Pray for me and hapiness please 😍😍😍😍
I hope you find the one you looking for GOD will bless you, just ask with faith dear sister
I hope you find your person, but I will say God is either protecting you, or if you are over and over again getting in relationships with the wrong people there is only one common factor, which is yourself.
Hope this doesn’t come off as rude.
I wish you the best of luck!
I like how you start. “ God told me to talk about it, so we’re talking about it”🥺
I’m a 20 yr old Christian and I’m glad I’m waiting
I do agree with this a lot, I am a virgin, and plan to stay that way till marriage, but also remeber to not beat yourself up if you slip on any of your boundaries or have sex, we all sin everyday, god will still love you and forgive you. What matters is that you stay on the path of being more christ like and keep your faith.
Beautiful message guys ❤ I love how you set boundaries from the beginning. It's important to start with this. Like u said, it'll let you know if he/ she is really for you or not. Level of patience, self control and commitment will also be tested. Also,keep away from clothing that will make you feel any sexual way. Some under wear,also makes you wna look at yourself or touch yourself in a certain way . So stay away from any form of evil or any form of sexual immortality to protect yourself.🇿🇦
Oh my gosh this video is so powerful! Thank you guys so much and praise God for the wisdom he has given you
Thank you for making this video and for emphasizing not to let the enemy make us feel ashamed after we have been made new in Christ.
7:48 ooo you got me there😂😭My ex respected my boundaries but like you guys said it wasnt because God said no to sex its because I said no🥲I thank God that my ex betrayed me because deep down i had a feeling he wouldnt be able to wait for me for that long
Your husband is amazing! I can tell from the way he talks he is really a man after God's own heart. May a marry a man like that. Thank you for this video! So helpful!
I’ve been someone’s temptation before. I had been alone my whole life up until I met her and I was scared I wouldn’t find anyone else. We did it, and I regret it. I feel like people judge me for it. Whenever I meet a godly woman she always asks me about if I have a past to worry about or if I’m still a virgin, and answering honestly I always say I’m not because that’s true. After that pretty much every time they find a reason to leave. I guess it was a self fulfilling sort of thing. Me worrying that I’ll never find someone else has made it impossible to find someone because of what I did with her. Don’t make my mistake folks. You will regret it.
You both are true examples of representing Jesus's love and messages. Your introduction of releasing any possible shame people may feel and reminding us that we are renewed through Christ brings great humility, gentleness , unconditional love in your teaching the word of God. I pray for both of you to be blessed abundantly, protected, at peace, and in joy of your sacred union. Thank you so much.
Am 28 years old still searching for my match, searching for a God fearing lady 👩
Keep pushing, man. You will be so happy for waiting, and God will provide the perfect person for you!
The Lord is capable of answering the desires of our heart. He is the one who gives a prudent wife or husband (Prov 19:14) and we trust Him
@@paidiaabohnteh6986 amen
@@calebhenderson6766 amen
@@calebhenderson6766 amen
THANK YOU GOD!!! 🙏🙌
🔥🔥🔥 Praise the Lord!!! I see the light of Jesus shining SO bright in you both!!! Wow!!!!
I am a virgin who struggled with porn during my high school timeframe and got scammed 3 years ago and have been free from porn ever since. When I was in high school I was a student level leader within my youth group and snuggling was one thing I got into kids about. And about drinking, I am very against it altogether personally so that I don’t have to worry about setting a limit and/or possibly getting in trouble with law enforcement or destroy my liver.
I never mention this before ! But I’m 24 years old lover and follower of Jesus Christ. I recently got into a relationship with my boyfriend who was my bestfriend. We are long distance but we are both struggling with Lust. I want to stop masturbation completely but sometimes I feel as if I don’t know my body I’m a virgin who also has these desires. Guys pray for our relationship so we both can over come this lust we made a pack to wait to marriage, but I also don’t want to do any personal sexual things. (also he is a virgin)
Thank you for this and for the encouragement. I came to Christ in my mid twenties and it was after so much heartbreak but the Lord has healed me ❤
This is what a lot of teens and young adults need to hear nowadays,
And I'm just glad that you two are kind enough to spread the truth like this.
God bless you, Amen🙏
I'm only 17 and I wish I was still a virgin. I struggle with the idea now that I have to hold someone else to that standard when I couldn't hold the first to that standard. I can't even play it off as a one time thing because I struggled my way through more than 2 months of this and when it all came crashing down, that was one of my biggest convictions. to anybody reading this, please don't do what I did.
Once you repented, it doesn't matter anymore. You were just reborn and sins are forgiven once you acknowledge and stay away from repeating them. God is gracious and oftforgiving
Two minutes in and the strength of your points from God’s word is dying the death of a thousand qualifications. Sometimes it’s best to just say what’s true without caveat or apology.
I was someone who had struggled with Masturbation for years and now am free. It's not just about protecting yourself and your relationship with God but also to protect your future spouse. I will never slip back into that lifestyle and I don't want to drag whoever I'm with into that lifestyle either. It's not worth it.
I love how respectful of each other y'all are💙 So beautiful and God honouring
Gods law is love. His rules are so hard to follow these days but they protect us from so much pain. My future wife this waiting will be worth it some day.
Amen! God’s message through God messagers 👏🏽🙌🏽
I hear God through you sister .
May God bless your marriage.
I desire to be married one day. Yet i desire to please God with my vessel. This conversation is so needed for Gods sons and Gods daughters! God willing I pray over my future husband and over myself to be disciplined and care for our vessels
Thanks be God such a blessing to see a young beautiful husband and wife speaking on God's biblical standards before marriage...i definitely will be sending this to my 21yr daughter and 19yr old son and I pray it blesses them as it has blessed me...ps im a 42yr man who's been married 20yrs and was very encouraged by your message...be blessed!
Aww thank you! Praise God! That’s amazing! Tell them we said hello!
I am 17, and lost my virginity in my last relationship. I knew of God, but i did not know him. We broke up, and I’ve grown closer to God more than ever. I still struggle with Lust even without a partner, and im struggling to find my way right now. I know God is the way and that i should talk to Jesus when i feel tempted, but it’s still hard. Idk if my faith is strong enough or what.
My favorite online couple! Blessings to you both.
blessings
Me and my hubsand was struggling with lusting temptations because we was virgins but we was very patient and waited until marriage. We made a mistake and kiss each other in the mouth because of our attraction to each other. All glory to our lord and savior Jesus.
Sim - a bíblia diz para não colocar COISAS impuras diante dos olhos- que são as janelas da alma- as mulheres que fazem filmes impuros são falsas e muitas mães solteiras que vomitam- usam drogas- alcoolismo e depressão e representam um papel fictício de romance para levar quem assiste ao inferno eterno!
It’s not a sin to kiss before marriage, just don’t do it if it causes temptation
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@@purelightapologetics4930yeah, that’s never made sense to me. I can understand not wanting to get so in the mood that you stop thinking clearly, but a kiss doesn’t have to involve passion to the point you’re just begging to take your pants off 😐.
@@_Sloppyham I can’t really speak from experience since I haven’t had my first kiss yet. 😅
Ally you’re beautiful ❤
Your husband is so wise, you’re both blessed
It is so nice to hear real Christian advice on relationships! Thanks so much for sharing!
If you ask me, the advice is impractical.
Great content. I am 40 and divorced. For the first time I love Jesus and will wait fir marraige this time. I have no interest in any woman that isn’t a Christian who strives to be like Jesus. Thank you
Wow may God give you the right person for you who loves Jesus the same way you do 🙏
Me (18) and my girlfriend (18) have been dating for over 2 and a half years now and have made a vow since we started dating to wait till marriage. We still have our temptations and it is very hard but still going strong! Love these videos, it’s really relatable and inspiring to see y’all and hear y’all’s story.
Why would fighting the most basic human need make you stray from god? No hate but I honestly believe you should question ur religion in order to truly find faith and im quoting the second council of the vatican here so please I beg you become a better man and stop following blindly
@ Why do you think that pre-marital sex is the most basic human need? God tells us in the Bible that pre-marital sex is a sin and that you should save yourself for marriage to keep yourself and your marriage pure. We walk with God and Satan tries to tempt us, but we should stay pure in our faith to honor God. I’m a better man because I follow in His footsteps and my faith in Him is strong because He will never lead us wrong. He knows what’s best for us and He knows what’s best for you.
@ So you tell me you prefear to follow rules written in a book which have been reinterpreted countless amount of times instead of following your better judgement? Animals have sex with no marriage, our ancesters did too and so do we. In what world is sex an impurity while it is the single act your brain is wired towards? Please try to educate yourself on biology and you'll see how stupid refraining yourself from the one thing you are made for sounds
The point on research is really pertinent to me. Something I’ve struggled with as a 23 year old man. Seems innocent as it’s not necessarily explicit content, but still fills my mind with unhelpful thoughts. I think it can be helpful to realise that for centuries people have managed to have children without prior internet research, so it’s really not necessary and really only serves to create temptation by setting your mind on the flesh. There’s nothing you “need” to know in advance.
Such a helpful exhortation to refuse temptation by referring to the word of God. May the Lord help me.
I just want to say thank you. I will for sure be watching more videos to learn more
God is so good
Omgg thank you ❤️❤️🙏🙏 Ally, I feel inspired to get Christian perspective out on a channel too 🙏 so greatful you help me with this so glad you are raw and honest and truthful 💗 I pray this channel flourishes and many blessings x
Thanks for putting this kinda content out there. We need to keep reminding ourselves that irrespective of the changes in the world, God's standard never changes.
It’s not about doing something right again to right the wrong. But I would rather learn from it
Thank you to the moon and back for the first minute introduction.. my heart was beating so fast since I struggle with guilt issues for a while now and you gave me the exact words I needed from God in order to get back on my feet .. words that I look for since forever and just heard them now thank you so much
Personally, I have been single for life. I had a crush which I havent recovered from (didnt have a relationship with). With all that stuff that needs to be done, this significantly decreases the dating pool. I don't want to find someone who is "good enough" because that will be very bad for both me and her as well. So, I will be stay single. I will cope with my friends, my hobbies and my career. This is something that I wanted from a small age, but I know that it will never happen. And dont start telling me crap that everything is possible and it will happen etc.
Congratulations for you, it's very good that you have worked it out. But some of us need to cope with a different path
I absolutely adore you! This was such a touchy topic! It starts in the mind first. 🌷🌷✨🌸 the tips you provided definitely will helps us!
God bless you two. You are what makes America the greatest place on earth 🙌🙏
Bro I love this message. You spoke so clearly and God bless your sweet heart. God will bless you and your marriage and it makes my heart happy that you guys are making an impact on this new generation. God bless and take care 💯
New creation he made me new ❤
Covered in the blood of Jesus
Thank you for the video
Im catholic but I like this Cristian girl. Thank you for the advice and now I know the standard that I should hold myself and my relationships, thank you brother and sister.
I do believe God this honest advice will be reach to everyone 🎉🎉🎉
25 and waiting til marriage, I've received a lot of backlash even from the men who claimed to love, because they have not decided to wait they begin to make me feel like I'm doing the most but hear this, what Jesus did on the cross of Calvary was more than enough and staying pure is what the Biblical standard.. I believe God will bring me that man who will be on the same path as me and we'll represent the kingdom well❤
I love this, I'm trying to be the best man for my girlfriend right now and we talk about this kinda topic and it's really awesome seeing this video. Thanks for sharing your wisdom guys! I love to see your marriage and you guys putting God first. God bless your work
Keep doing what you are doing as long as you keep God as your standard for Life
10:24 1 Corinthians 10:13! i love that verse so much. Awesome video :)
This video is amazing! So glad you guys are spreading this message.
I pray the lord bless and keep your marriage in purity, peace and love.
Thank you for being so open and honest while sharing to us the truth.
I Love you guys already.
Right now im struggling so much with a situation with my girlfriend. I had been saving myself for marriage but then I knew I met the one and we had sex, I felt disgusted but special because it was something new. Turns out she had lied to me about being a virgin and I had to find through someone else, I am trying so hard to get over it but I cant. I know her sexual experiences dont define her, but it was so special to me because I thought it was the first time for both, and now it has ruined it for me and its anything but special
What's in the past remains in the past. What's actually bothering me in your testimony is not the fact that she wasn't a virgin too but the fact that she lied to you about something this important to you. If you guys love each other and other aspects of your love life is healthy than moving past this is the solution. The fact that it's your 1st time still makes it special regardless of your gfs experience before. This is something you both shared and that's enough to make special. Good luck
24 years old here! Still virgin! Even though I went to church and sometimes go to church, don’t drink, don’t party, or I don’t do what the world do I wouldn’t say I’m a Christian, since even though I try my best I keep failing God by falling in porn and masturbation. I had rejected multiple options of having sex with girls but unfortunately it’s been quite hard to resist porn and masturbation
Hey. I'm also 24 and it's also a very difficult fight for me. But remember. You are not defined by your failures. God loves you all the same. He forgives you and He doesn't care that it happens so often. He just wants you to do your best and come closer to Him. And I know this for a fact because I had a lot of very similar thoughts but He reassured me time and time again
May the Grace and strength of God be with you dear
Great points! 100% agree with the romance novels! Insane what is popular and normalized for young women to read, I find it crazy how even in the secular world; porn is taboo, but yet romance novels aren’t even questioned!
I chose at a young age to avoid romance novels- even the religious ones!- and never watch a sex scene, even foreplay scenes, until after I was married. Even now that I am happily married, I still avoid sex scenes just because I prefer my husband to be what I’m thinking about, not some random set of actors.
I’d encourage all single unmarried young women to stay away from any entertainment that will give you Hollywood fantasies, expectations, and also baggage you don’t even realize you’re accumulating. Sex is a beautiful thing, and when you walk into it knowing only the few raw facts, you have the freedom to be completely yourself and do whatever the two of you enjoy.❤
Thank you so much lord bless y’all bunches hugs and blessings hugs and prayers have a blessed weekend love y’all
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