Thank you! I found out I was neurodivergent in 1977, and a wise psychologist introduced me to Krishnamurti. Not long after that, the journey began. I'm now sixty-four; aging doesn't stop the majesty of consciousness' from getting better and better. Every day is magic and full of synchronicity and manifestation. People don't understand. I've learned not to care.
I found the lone wolf life when I turned 5 but I was lucky I learned about different humans in Elizabethtown children's hospital. And the only person I have ever followed is Martin Luther King Nikola Tesla and Jesus. Now I can't stand Catholic Christianity and I deplore the fact that they nailed his ass to a cross. But I follow a man that was just kind. We can all believe we're lone Wolf but if you understand the real truth you're never alone. Everything you see everything you feel everything you experience is life and is also living creatures, so you are never alone. Holy Spirit of Humanity
You want to evolve here you go you're ready. The Milky Way galaxy is a living creature that we call God. Enjoy. Holy Spirit of Humanity and yes that means you are inside of God the Catholic Christians even told you that with the story about the whale.
Just like Jesus did. He often used to walk away from the group just to be alone. But then again Jesus understood what he was dealing with. I'll give you another idea people are afraid of aliens correct or afraid what aliens would do. Was God born on Earth? Because of the limited mindset that these humans do they don't even understand that the dark matter looking for is actually just gravity. Humans still need love and even when you're alone wolf you still have tons of love for everyone else you know that. My goal is to explain that everything is alive. Everything. Holy Spirit of Humanity
I find FEAR is useful - DOUBT is the MOST useful Confusion without effective communication breeds FEAR breeds ANGER Self - DOUBT is my superpower ... I let everybody else be "SURE" of themselves and quietly watch for the errors in logic Now, i only watch mistakes happen and offer to assist after the fact - I no longer attempt to CONvince anyone of anything 😂😂😂 No harsh judgement - none of us really know why we make mistakes - no one should care too much really They call me Intelli-gent 😂 They don't have a clue how much we all DON'T know
@BracaPhoto I've moved passed them all. I don't have them because I found the truth. Once i found the truth it took awhile to train my mind out what was falsely presented over a lifetime. Everything is a mind set and ultimately you have a choice in how you react. When I first realized the truth I felt the need to save everyone however eventually I realized they have to find it on their own. So I too set back and observe the absurd reality presented in front of me. I give advice when I feel it is wanted and needed.
@moparchris3827 godspeed to you comrade - I'm still learning about the interplay between EMBARRASSMENT JEALOUSY FEAR of too many choices I recently acquired unearned wealth and it allowed me personal freedoms I didn't expect to have -- i realized freedom is a Trap as well ... I'm trying to turn Fear into laughter - life is occasionally futile Truth is also vieled in the simplest words - it makes us sound foolish at times, but that is my code - I'll keep trying
@BracaPhoto Simplest way to start is to smile at it, after awhile you can see it coming and Laugh at whatever is trying to induce the fear. It takes dedication and daily exercises to stay on course. The work never stops however I find it more peaceful living this way.
Lol.. great talk. I'm 54, separated with 2 adult children. Walked away from several careers and my toxic relationship about 8 years ago. I've taken up bowmaking and spend much of my time by myself.. art, music, and nature are my guides. True happiness. Thanks :)
This is a new favorite video of mine. But how does her vision square with the fact that every complex system humanity needs is deep into Overshoot & demonstrably collapsing in an astounding hurry?!? It seems to completely ignore our very real existential, kinetic *crisis*. We are hurrying towards a population "correction" bigger than any humanity has ever seen. We've literally destroyed almost all wild life, the oceans and soil. Will we Ubermensch & Aware live off of good vibes? ..cuz the food, water & air are all dying. Demonstrably & immutably..
Yes. This is me. I’m 49-year-old male INFJ. I feel like life just started. Every day is brand new. Every day is more amazing than the day before. It’s a good place to be in life. I’m very happy. I’m very grateful for TH-cam and videos like this and such. I don’t know what I would do without this stuff. This is really empowering. it’s not that I don’t need validation. I just don’t need people to lie to me and bullshit me. I need clean information. You guys get it. I’ve been like this all my life but only for a couple years now that I realize I wasn’t alone. You know what I mean. It’s nice to know that there’s others out there. Keep your heads up and eyes open guys. All the best.
You absolutely need validation - friend - comrades - community etc SELF - CON-fidence is great if there is an emergency or fire to respond to when all alone CON-fiding with your Confidantes gives you BOTH confidence in your abilities Don't forget the other CO words🎉 I'm confident in you ! CON-grats - CONtinue Comforting your community with effective communication 🎉🎉🎉
@ I love you, Braca. Please CONtinue being co-laborative co-operative co-ordinative… When feeling confident my confederate let us convalesce. Coincidentally, Considering consciousness’ construction is conceivably both concave and convex ⭕️🔀💢fear not because it is all maximally correlated and contained ♋️✌🏽🤟🏽🤘🏽 🖤〰️🤍
@noslraclwehttam I'm now confident that you get it comrade 48yr old marred with marriage male 🫡🤪 You've quantized my thoughts about life being quantum ! You've out parroted me - i am only a puppet for lifes poetry - I succumb - you slayed me -
Thank you dear lady I'm 70 yo. and dealing with managing the fourth third of my life. I know, only recently, that I'm what's called differently wired, as I spent my first 3 years alone, as mother's neglect and father's absence, which had definitely defined my perceptions during my life, all along. I was always sure that I'm the one who is wrong, defect, disconnected, etc. Lately I realized how strong I've become, and how far away from all norms I've walked all my life. Now I find myself in an almost complete solitude, which I like and adore. Your words, the first time for me to listen, are the words I had to hear, exactly on spot in my journey. Thank you, lady. 🙏
62 years. I’m an empath healer shaman. Was a police officer for 23 years. A school resource officer and a rebel through and through. Keeping people out of jail instead of putting them in. Survived my childhood 💜
Well it sounds like we have something in common! Former Probation Officer of 20 years in Canada with the same goal of community corrections and rehabilitation. Rebel to the core! lol. Cheers to you fellow lone wolf empath!
@frayamortensen kaikoura New Zealand community of empaths it's going to be awesome, once I sort out the corrupt cops that sell meth and cover up a grape ring ,they are controlled by the satanic church here, sounds crazy 🤪 but ALL true
Well said! You're a wise woman. I'm 67 years old and have struggled with my need for aloneness all my life. But in the past 6 or 7 years, especially since retirement, I've finally been able to fully embrace it. My life is now like a constant meditation in a way. I've been able to learn and perceive so much more about myself and others. And yes, I believe that true lone wolves are an integral part of the evolution of this world.
I finally now feel like someone actually understands me. You definitely earned a loyal subscriber today. Literally I really don't have words to explain how to feel now. That was deeply interesting and hit right at home and close to my heart. Thanks and God bless
Greetings from Sweden! Thank you Fraya! As a little kid when my friends came knocking on the door I said to my mother, tell them Im not home, and then I would go out on my own in the woods, looking at birds, squirrels and play by my self with my rich inner life and fantasy. I never found myself belonging to any pack. Today I live in a cottage in the woods, I don't have any friends except for those I have at work, but I don't see them outside work. Im happy living this way, I do what I want and I do it the way I want. I never liked when other people have told me how to be, how to act, how to think, so I love my lonely life, but not lonely because I have a rich life within myself 😊
I'm a 80 year old lone wolf. I've been ahead of everyone for about that long. What is so interesting to see is how a lone wolf progresses through stages as a child to a fully interdependent adult. I was into outer space before we had a program...at 7! The last 17 years of my life have seen me doing the impossible! I am teaching remote viewing--a thoroughly mind boggling time travel skill, because I kept an open mind. I come from a scientific background, working around the cutting edge aircraft of my youth. What is cool, is watching it all come together....the things you dream of become realities!
I'm a 54 y.o. INFJ lone-wolf male. Experiencing being judged by *other* *"sleep-walking"* (i.e. mostly sub-conscious) *people* as a "loner" tells more about the person judging rather than the judged! I just silently laugh it off and shrug my shoulders. They can call me what they want - I will just keep following my own path.
47 y.o. INTJ/INFJ here. Following your own path is totally the way! Funny how so many friends/fam I've had over the years are not really "supportive" of this. It's like you seeking your own happiness is somehow a "threat" to them, or it seriously disturbs/bothers them. But yeah, it really does say more about their small-mindedness than it does about you. You do you!
I was rejected in my former workplace and denied a rightful promotion because of my lone wolf mentality. I chose a different path, and up-leveled 2 steps in one fell swoop. I am now the leader of the pack in my own courtroom. Learn to love yourself, and the glass ceiling shatters! Go for it! Mic 🎤 drop when I announced my new role. They’re still waiting for me to fail, those dark evil entities from my past. Right, I didn’t belong- thankfully! They did me a huge favor 🎉❤ I followed my heart’s desire. I once wanted to be part of the pack, but I came into it yet I had been the leader of the pack and was kept small. No more! I’m free!!! I agree with your 11:11 statements - ditto!
2:21 nails it. This is precisely how I came to learn far quicker than many of my fellow classmates in the earlier years. Observation, discernment, and integration.
This is exactly where I am in life. I’m walking my path alone, I practice radical self acceptance, I’ve been off social media for 4 years since I no longer seek external validation, and my peers feel my detachment and they’re doing everything they can to keep me in the low vibrational state that they’re in. One of my family members was upset when I told them their opinion of me is no longer my concern. When you’re on this journey, you realize how many people really live off the validation of others. It’s why the elites preach conformity so people don’t rely on their inner intuition but on external validation. SMH. This is confirmation that I am on the right path.
I'm so happy to read this comment from you because it's really something to make it this far and when you are no longer seeking external validation life takes on a different meaning - while other still seek to keep you in their low vibrational state as you say.
Yep! I think this stems from a deep insecurity that a lot of (most?) people have. Weird how most everybody seems to think that life is a zero sum game. Like if you're UP, that means by default someone else must be put DOWN. Not true! I strive to thrive in every aspect of my life, and I encourage others to thrive as well.
Like the voices in my head, from life experiance it's the only voice you can trust.. when and if you can't trust the inner voices you are broken and need to fix yourself..
A lone wolf Empath destroys more narcissist alone and save more people from their own vices people respect a lone wolf. Clint Eastwood taught that in his western movies 🎬
I live in Western North Carolina and this comment I’m putting out is about a month and a half after hurricane Helene brought devastation to this area. For about two weeks, I had no power or internet. I live alone with my dog and during those two weeks having no power no Internet I have never felt more alive trying to figure out how to survive with no water little food and to get more food. I learned a lot about myself during those two weeks that I’ve always known was there. I just hadn’t been able to use it being in our society that teaches reliance on each other. I find myself now trying to get back to those feelings of being alone. I felt stimulated and alive. I was diagnosed as a neurodivergent when I was in second grade on the extreme spectrum side. I’m extremely creative and always in survival mode which I enjoy. Thank you, Fraya for such a beautiful and well thought out video, especially from the heart.
Super excited to come upon this. Integrates yet cuts through all the pathologising of personality disorders and attachment theories . I guess that's where the backlash comes in. Psychology of the pack. This, and viewers' comments, really nourishes a vision of what security in one self looks and feels like. Thank you x
100% I’m so glad this video found you and you’re so right about the comments. It’s absolutely refreshing to read 🙏🏼 Thank you for being here for it and offering your support.
Thanks! I discovered the label "normal" adults (?) have for someone like me way back in high school was a lone wolf. Even though those "normals" don't consider a lone wolf as being capable of empathy I also knew that I wasn't some Saturday morning cartoon caraciture. Then I found mindfulness and started to learn to listen to myself and not care about others opinions about me. People aren't bad, they're just ignorant I believe the Buddha said.
I was a pro drummer in Miami in 1980s , my playing was so busy at times incomprehensible . Today I drum for me and the universe , now it is easy and fun. My mindfulness no one else.❤
Thank you for your explanation. I always felt like my way of expression emotions and love (especially) was the norm. I felt like everyone was capable of feeling this deeply. My awaking was a very hard lesson. I always refuse to let the world change me. Yes i did try to go back to the "pack." I thought something is wrong with me. I couldn't accept the act that i was so happy when being by myself. Going into nature, hiking, drawing and just be. I started to realize that i had to let go of that "something's wrong with me, i need others to be happy." Nothing is wrong me. A lot is wrong with the world. The world is splitting. One side is deeply feeling. The other side feels cold, like machines. They function but can't feel deeply. Their way of feeling, feels to me like an illusionary way of feeling. Just in the past couple years i questioned myself more often if i am neuro-divergent. When going for walks with others i noticed how they do not see small details in the world. Small bugs, beautiful butterflies and bird chirping. They don't look at trees and think they are beautiful. They are just mindlessly walking to get some "cardio." Which is baffling to me. The worst about this all is that the new wave of "spiritualism" is just a trend. People think they are spiritual but never truly just are. They think they are. While in reality you can't think you are. You just are. Trying to sort through a lot of people i realized it's wiser to stay alone than losing myself in their world ever again.
“YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG!” If I had a dollar for every time I did something a new way, and somebody told me that, thinking there’s only one way! Thanks for the uplifting video.
Thank you. You gave me the validation and encouragement I was not expecting to get. 😢😂. Bless you and I wish you greater success on your journey. And I hope you can handle the success.
Great listening. Very mindful and logical view on cognitive and social evolution. As an Asperger with very late diagnose, it now possible for me to accept my life, without feeling alone and lonely because I fit in no pack. I am no alfa, but I tale care of my self. I am alone responsible for my happiness…no blame games, no guilt and no excuses. God and prayers and thankfulness are my companions. The pack is often too loud and delusional. Daily exercise, independence and self love are a my connection to other wolfs. Neuro-normal persons are not able to survive, because of their ignorance, to much comfort and the braintrain-syndrome.
Hi. Thanks for this. You’re describing me, perfectly. I really needed to hear this 30 years ago. Still, grateful to hear it now. I subscribed. Anxious to hear more. Cheering for your success! 😊👍🏼
oh i know! I'm excited for you to hear more too. You're definitely gonna wanna watch all the videos in this Tales of a Lone Wolf playlist!! 🙏☺️ Thank you for being here.
At age 48 I am now happy in the realisation of how this video describes how I know my self. Have had now about 10 years of progress on insight of being this social lone wolf person. But having focused on my kids, my self, work and creating the life I want, I still long for a lasting relationship. But need to meet someone who also is open for other drivers in life than normal matrix thinking and someone who can look at them self or the world in an updated view of things. This makes it a little harder to find the one who the lone wolf in me can run long term with.
life is just about using people, that’s why neurotypical people connect. to manipulate and exploit others for their needs this child-like dream for a real lasting relationship is a trap. all adult relationships are transactional. depend on yourself only
Excellent points Fraya!! I left the pack years ago and from time to time have to go back and get a JOB... hate it, only do it until the cash flow issues change and then leave the pack again. I would rather be independently poor thank you. It was a lovely day outside here getting the homestead ready for winter.
Same! I really don't want to go back to the 9-5, I don't even know what I would do out there!! The weather has been superb!! Can't wait for a cold snowy winter to visit next ☺✌
Mike! My brother! If I didn't know better I'd think your words were typed from my own keyboard. Fraya, thanks for posting the vid. Helped crystallize some ideas that have been swirling within the ether of my soul..
I was getting ready to call you a NWO stooge when I clicked on this, but you did a solid job defining terms and making a good argument- well done. I'm already going full-out on what you're describing, and it worries people a bit, so I'm a little lonely. I don't need someone tied to my hip, but it'd be nice to have a pal to go out to dinner with once in a while or something- it was fine until my wife died, now I don't really know how to make new friends. I need a smaller house, though- One guy with a couple of dogs doesn't need four bedrooms. Yeah... I went to a three-day long concert festival alone this summer... the reality is that I care about the music more than I do companionship.
I totally get that! (About the music vs the company). Maybe you’ll sell your house and move into a walkable community where you can be a “regular” that runs into other regulars. If you know what I mean. Thank you for your candour regarding the assumption you made about me… and how you ended up resonating with what I said
Absolutely loved this. Resonated with me on so many levels. I grew up as a 1st generation American (son of Indian immigrants), army brat, and preacher's kid... which meant, we were constantly moving around every 3 or so years so I had to continually adapt to new environments -- environments where I didn't naturally belong. I had to cling to the religion I was raised with, along with military culture, and my parents/sister (these were the only "consistencies" in my life no matter where we relocated to). I always felt like an alien observing these rotating environments, figuring out how others acted and what I needed to do to conform -- play along to get along. I managed decently, and I look back at it all now as a valuable "skill" I've developed, but in recent years it's like I've left ALL of this behind in order to seek and embrace my own path in life. The signs were always there, and the development/evolution process was always occurring, whether I consciously realized it or not. (Hindsight really is 20/20!) But yeah, the "lone wolf empath", that does in large part sum up who I am today and how I live my life. I could go on and on about all this, but just wanted to say thanks for making this video... great start to my day, and I'm going to save this to rewatch periodically as a good reminder to be on my merry way and not slip back into ways of conformity. By the way, I've started a new podcast that I'd love to have you on as a guest. Granted, it's centered around creativity and productivity, but I think a lot of what you said in this video would resonate with my audience, since I'm always trying to encourage people to think for themselves and embrace more creativity in their lives in whatever shape or form that may take. If you'd be interested in being on, lemme know! Cheers, Jay.
Absolutely spot on I’ve been a loan wolf . Now they say I’m ortistic and I’ve got adhd I believe your spot . The world is too busy doing and not being . As a lone wolf I’ve survived the impossible I’m happy as I am
I’m a lone wolf now out of necessity. I’m on the spectrum and my social battery is so small at this point. I just can’t do the small talk as much anymore . I need so much time away from people
My dad sent me this video. He and i share alot of similarities on our paths. The subject you're talking about feel deeply resonating to my soul and needed hearing of this once again to see it as a blessing to carve my own path and everything that comes with it. Thank you❤🙏
@@randymccormack4259 you don't have to be alone all your life to be a l9ne wolf it's more of then a name ! It's our Acronym! You're An Independent Free Spirit Living Off New Experiences With Your Wisdom, Wealth , Opportunities, Life , Love , Self-Love, Family, Freedom And Fortitude ! 💯 You're The Protector Of Not Only Your Own Being But Also Your Tribe As Well
A Path Well Known - A Way Of Life - 61 Years Old Loving Life Alone - I Do Socialize When Need Be - Own My Own Business And Work Alone - Retiring Soon Alone - Feeling Good.
Beautiful ❤ When you are with yourself, your not alone. Being in nature, is amazing, magical, even spending time with a pet , observing, engaging with them, they are so in tune, so connected to their senses ❤
We are highly sensitive people .. we observe the world .. our society changes with technology , humanity itself hasn’t changed in 1000’s of years .. respect , trust , love . Damn it was a hard journey to become myself .
Most people are incapable of enduring the pain of change and transformation so they numb themselves by going to the default setting that their peers laid out for them because it is extremely risky.
Eloquently projected, Fraya. As always. I get labelled as a ‘leader’ - I hate it & I am not. The trouble is; people follow me, because of the enigma. I was once described as a force of nature……interesting concept, I thought. Then, the other day, I watched a teaching by Elkhart Tolle & he described this ‘force of nature’ as a ‘Frequency keeper’ or something like that. Anyway, I don’t do labels, I know who I AM. Namaste 🙏
indeed!! the frequency keeper is a keeper of their own life force energy and knows the external forces that will deplete and diminish it. We must not be diminished or demeaned to be less than who we are! Once found, keep it as it sounds like you have. The light in me acknowledges the light in you. 🙏
I love the way you explain it ❤ this is what I believe, what I see for the future. I’m so pleased for you, thank you for sharing your experiences and learnings. I’m transforming, my body is releasing right now. I am grateful for your message, thank you for being your true self. 🐺❤
Thank you for the validation, Fraya. Sometimes the path of the neurodivergent, lone wolf can be confusing and frustrating (to say the least). Learning to trust Intuition, listening to Source, and realizing that there are others like me out there helps me feel okay while standing in my power.
I’m glad I found your channel.U r the whole package.. beautiful, with a soothing voice, and incredible information. I rarely resonate with any channels like this. The things you are saying… I’ve got Goosebumps all over.
@frayamortensen I always find multiple aspects that I relate to in your videos, but this time, it was the whole video! It's just wonderful feeling understood and seen. 💜
@ awww that’s so great to hear Crystal! I hope you’ll be able to check out Episode 1 of The Fraya Show on Sunday !! Theme is “aloneness” not loneliness ☺️✌️
I’m a 47 year old lone wolf (and I’ve always been that way). I couldn’t agree with what you are saying more. I believe this is very true for a vast number of people, and has been increasingly steadily as the years have gone on. Although I noticed a huge increase with the pandemic for obvious reason. Forced helped many realize it was actually better for them.
I have so many thoughts in this video and it's not until after the 8 minute mark does it go deeper. Thank you for sticking around long enough to listen to the whole thing ✌️
I love you. Thank you. Practice telling your stories without telling people how hard or easy things are. These may be your observations, but they can program people to believe in the difficulty, or ease of things. Each individual will have their experience without the need for a judgement, or expectation. Wonderful job. Love you and thank you.
@ThegreatAwakening160 The unempathetic responses should tell all you need to know about individuals who identify as empaths as if having empathy somehow makes them special or superiors. The lack of receptivity to negative feedback is also a major red flag since it impedes growth and development. I do hope you find somewhere that appreciates what you have to offer.
Crying listening to her explain my brain. I’ve just felt crazy, been told I’m crazy, and thought I was alone since I was a child. Crazy speech, crazy moment in my life
I'm a lone wolf :D I love this, I'm 37 and have been in corporate world since 20. Lately I've been having a STRONG urge to make some big changes, specifically relating to my 9-5. I'm all but checked out in that office, I can't take it any longer. I'm happiest hiking on a trail or surfing (lone wolf). Question, I assume this path is without romance? I have a girlfriend currently, and that, too, is under scrutiny for change.
I don't follow... been learning in secret for decades... I will help people, but really, for the most part, I dislike their company. I hate explaining everything again and again. Makes me tired. Thus, alone. I only have so much patience, and thus, will do my best to express myself better and better in art and culture.
that makes sense -- once you find yourself explaining things over and over you're only explaining it for yourself at that point. Might as well go out there and do something creative instead. 🙏
*I like this a lot. I can imagine a world that follows this philosophy, producing humans who are less psychological and experiencing far fewer mental illnesses. As we saw in 2020, an alarming number of people cannot handle isolation. It’s easy to attribute one’s lack of peace to external sources: until there are no people around to shift the blame to.* _If the way we perceive life is as diverse and unique as all other natural things, then cultivating minds into unnatural shapes for most could lead to an imbalance of the mind._
good, because i am going to nonconform and not get up and start dancing. Also, be aware that change does not mean better, there are many paths to evolutionary dead ends; things are the way they are because it worked. When you are trying to evolve, i suggest you do it with an extremely heavy dose of humility.
Preach Sister Fraya, I loved this video, and I like all your videos. I am just like you and think and live in this world more happy and disconnected from what is considered the social norm. From one Lone Wolf Empath to another, I am sending positive energy and Love. Close your eyes, take a deep breath. Can you feel it? Thank you for the great content. Keep them coming!
@@sasaradetic2202 not puny at all, we are the masters of our universe that we create, against all the odds. PS I have seen videos suggesting that the so-called almighty God, is nothing but minnow God in the grand scheme of spirituality. That would explain the massive failure and shortcomings of humanity . Us lone wolfs realise this, we might not fully understand and comprehend since we are limited by our 3 dimensional 5 senses existence. But simply the awareness opens up our minds to what the other dimensions and senses are and seeking answers, if when we might not find them. That is how I see the path of the lone wolf, seekers of the unknown, that is what inspires me, even though that with every new piece of knowledge comes the realisation that there is more and more unknown, an ever expanding universe of knowledge.
@@robertholland7558 I have no intention to put you down , nor to reduce your hope. But i know the danger of arrogance and pride. All you who claim that we are gods, why you run away from being human so much? If you want to learn unknown, as you claim, why then you have the need to claim Godliness? If i have to assume, why is that so. I would say, it`s because of abuse. And a fear to look in to it. If you are excited about unknown, but you claim you are a God, haha, Jesus Christ. I`m talking to 2 year old. Help me. Haha. Why then you are so scared to look in to yourselves? I know you see my point. Odin denial is not gonna help you. Do you know the story about the frog that wanted to be a cow? Do you dump malaka`s ever think? Or you just repeat what catches your attention at any given moment and at out of any given reason? Like spoiled brats, fulfilling momentary egoic desires and animal uncontrolled urges? Gods, you say ???? Grow up kiddo.
@@sasaradetic2202 I have no intention… I already concluded that everything that is following is utter nonsense. Have a nice day, and be your own “ god”! And look in the mirror if you seek the two year old child!
Mindfulness without judgement went on vacation to another galaxy one day in Oaks, Pennsylvania. Dancing without movie the feet and legs is an absolute must for the the one who will sanctify everyone!
Why would a vote for Trump be so much worse for a Lone Wolf? At least the anti-woke arena, in lack of a better term, has a certain connection with individualism. In my opinion Lone Wolfs are made into the enemy by the left wing liberals. Not that right wing populism is that much of an improvement, but still...
I have always felt different. I did not fit in family, at school, and most workplaces with colleagues. I prefer walking in the woods, reading, being in nature. I am a social worker and often seem to pick up on others' energy. I am hyper aware of my environment, the interactions of one thing on another, perceiving and intuitive. I can attune with almost anyone in need-I viscerally feel others' pain and suffering, so work extensively on system change, advocacy and sending tidal waves! This does not make you liked by systems....relate well with clients who often say I have saved their life, I am their angel, no one has ever listened before me, and disclose things hidden for years! Not bragging, this video describes many of us. Lone wolf, limited social interactions, easily drained and then energized helping others, but feel and perceive lots. I am glad I am hyper focused, aware, eager for knowledge, curious, creative, flexible and very active in human rights advocacy. I found my tribe on this channel. We need focus, empathy and compassion in difficult times ahead, division and hate. Thank you Fraya ❤
I'm nearly 54 and as I reflect on my life I realize how many people knew me better than I knew myself. So many conversations and things people said (I have a great memory) all the way back to elementary school indicated that others instinctively knew I was the lone wolf type before I ever had any clue that was even a thing. I had great struggles in life, not realizing I was not being true to myself, trying to fit in. I finally said to hell with it, I am going to be my own, uncompromising crazy self (I do music, art and film) instead of twisting myself into a pretzel to fit in and suddenly everything worked out and made sense.
@@frayamortensen I went back to school to finish my degree when I was about 40 and about halfway through I hit a wall. It was the first class where we were supposed to make a short film and they told us we were using a new story structure, essentially throwing out all we had learned thus far. I asked, "What is this? Some structure invented by Sydney Lumet or some other respected filmmaker?" They replied, "Oh, no, it's just something someone on the staff came up with last weekend." So I said, "No, I am not spending my time and money on something "someone on the staff came up with"." I went to the program director and he recommended I finish the degree in liberal arts, where I could do what I wanted. The only catch was, it was a ton more work. I had to devise my own curriculum, get it approved by the college as well as the department heads of each different college (Communication, Architecture, Digital Media etc) and then convince different faculty to take me on in a one-on-one situation for every single "class". I did all this. Then, I finished by completing an entire full-time semester in summer school, another thing for which I had to get approval, again from all the aforementioned. The work I did was the development, writing and partial preproduction and design of a feature-length film, which I did entirely by myself: writing, directing (myself), producing, preproduction, production design, wardrobe, cinematography, camera motion control, visual effects, sound design, editing, music composition and production, promotion/web design/distribution, all executed to completion and screened at a local theater. It's basically a zero-budget contemplative arthouse film, and it looks like it, but it is well-made for what it is and I learned enough to make something more accessible in the future. Since then I have also escaped from belonging to one music genre or another (from my industrial days in the 90s) and have found my voice there as well as in visual art. I tried working my way into the Hollywood system but that did not work, naturally, which is for the best; I am completely capable of doing my own thing my own way.
Competition and comparison in my opinion is a destructive force. There is nothing more frustrating to me than to see no value in the old ways of living while being endlessly stuck in living situations with people who do. I do not have the resources to live alone but if I did, what I would build would baffle people who are stuck in the past. God gave me great gifts and I pray that there will come a time and place where the things that bring me joy can become my life. I wish I had what has clearly begun to flourish within you. I don't know what neuro-divergent means but I have felt like Rain Man my whole life in this world. 54 years old and I feel like a 20 year old and an 80 year old at the same time. Feeling stuck for sure.
You sound like a North American, but you talk more like a Scandinavian. Most refreshing. So glad our paths crossed briefly one dark night in December while the wind howls and invades my den. Incidentally, my own neurodivergence didn't really begin to show until I was 30, and then the sea change swept me off in a completely different direction. Long live the einzelganger! (But please don't invade my space - except if you're desperately in need of me, and only as long as the need lasts - because it's mine.)
you are a hero I've been waiting for (without knowing) to arrive. thank you and danke (living in a German-speaking country is very challenging in this regard).
Excellent presentation [SUBSCRIBED!] I AM in the exact same "state" as you are..........I Love to hear this. Keep doing exactly what You are doing and keep "Being" of who You are. A beautiful being with "Words" that I needed to hear. It's a confirmation for Me. GOD Bless You, My Sister!
Thank you! I found out I was neurodivergent in 1977, and a wise psychologist introduced me to Krishnamurti. Not long after that, the journey began. I'm now sixty-four; aging doesn't stop the majesty of consciousness' from getting better and better. Every day is magic and full of synchronicity and manifestation. People don't understand. I've learned not to care.
I'm 32 rn, but I'm the same .found him at 27 and couldn't be happier ever since.
I found the lone wolf life when I turned 5 but I was lucky I learned about different humans in Elizabethtown children's hospital. And the only person I have ever followed is Martin Luther King Nikola Tesla and Jesus. Now I can't stand Catholic Christianity and I deplore the fact that they nailed his ass to a cross. But I follow a man that was just kind. We can all believe we're lone Wolf but if you understand the real truth you're never alone. Everything you see everything you feel everything you experience is life and is also living creatures, so you are never alone. Holy Spirit of Humanity
You want to evolve here you go you're ready. The Milky Way galaxy is a living creature that we call God. Enjoy. Holy Spirit of Humanity and yes that means you are inside of God the Catholic Christians even told you that with the story about the whale.
Just like Jesus did. He often used to walk away from the group just to be alone. But then again Jesus understood what he was dealing with. I'll give you another idea people are afraid of aliens correct or afraid what aliens would do. Was God born on Earth? Because of the limited mindset that these humans do they don't even understand that the dark matter looking for is actually just gravity. Humans still need love and even when you're alone wolf you still have tons of love for everyone else you know that. My goal is to explain that everything is alive. Everything. Holy Spirit of Humanity
Indeed my friend to be alone is to be all-one. 🙏
Stay on your path, be self sufficient. Have no fear, doubts, worries or anxieties. Keep seeking the Truth.
I find FEAR is useful - DOUBT is the MOST useful
Confusion without effective communication breeds FEAR breeds ANGER
Self - DOUBT is my superpower ... I let everybody else be "SURE" of themselves and quietly watch for the errors in logic
Now, i only watch mistakes happen and offer to assist after the fact - I no longer attempt to CONvince anyone of anything 😂😂😂
No harsh judgement - none of us really know why we make mistakes - no one should care too much really
They call me Intelli-gent 😂 They don't have a clue how much we all DON'T know
@BracaPhoto I've moved passed them all. I don't have them because I found the truth. Once i found the truth it took awhile to train my mind out what was falsely presented over a lifetime. Everything is a mind set and ultimately you have a choice in how you react. When I first realized the truth I felt the need to save everyone however eventually I realized they have to find it on their own. So I too set back and observe the absurd reality presented in front of me. I give advice when I feel it is wanted and needed.
@moparchris3827 godspeed to you comrade - I'm still learning about the interplay between
EMBARRASSMENT
JEALOUSY
FEAR of too many choices
I recently acquired unearned wealth and it allowed me personal freedoms I didn't expect to have -- i realized freedom is a Trap as well ...
I'm trying to turn Fear into laughter - life is occasionally futile
Truth is also vieled in the simplest words - it makes us sound foolish at times, but that is my code - I'll keep trying
@BracaPhoto Simplest way to start is to smile at it, after awhile you can see it coming and Laugh at whatever is trying to induce the fear. It takes dedication and daily exercises to stay on course. The work never stops however I find it more peaceful living this way.
Lol.. great talk.
I'm 54, separated with 2 adult children. Walked away from several careers and my toxic relationship about 8 years ago. I've taken up bowmaking and spend much of my time by myself.. art, music, and nature are my guides. True happiness.
Thanks
:)
So happy to hear that you've found your happy place!
@@WilliamKelly-ou2nm hi William gtsy.
:)
@dragonsage6909 Gtsyt!
Wow... great path, hope it works for everyone
it’s only « toxic » because you weren’t using those power dynamics
toxic doesn’t exist. it’s powerful vs powerless.
Society becomes toxic, we walk!
Society crumbles, we build a new one!
Others need us, but don't know it. We don't need others, but wan't them.
Truth 💯, kaikoura New Zealand community of empaths it's going to be awesome ❤🎉
77 7 angel wives Isaiah 4.1
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
This is a new favorite video of mine. But how does her vision square with the fact that every complex system humanity needs is deep into Overshoot & demonstrably collapsing in an astounding hurry?!? It seems to completely ignore our very real existential, kinetic *crisis*. We are hurrying towards a population "correction" bigger than any humanity has ever seen. We've literally destroyed almost all wild life, the oceans and soil. Will we Ubermensch & Aware live off of good vibes? ..cuz the food, water & air are all dying. Demonstrably & immutably..
toxic is a fake word. it’s only used by the powerless.
toxic is synonymous with powerful.
toxic is a fake word. it’s only used by the powerless.
toxic is synonymous with powerful.
Yes. This is me. I’m 49-year-old male INFJ.
I feel like life just started. Every day is brand new. Every day is more amazing than the day before.
It’s a good place to be in life. I’m very happy. I’m very grateful for TH-cam and videos like this and such. I don’t know what I would do without this stuff. This is really empowering. it’s not that I don’t need validation. I just don’t need people to lie to me and bullshit me. I need clean information. You guys get it. I’ve been like this all my life but only for a couple years now that I realize I wasn’t alone.
You know what I mean. It’s nice to know that there’s others out there.
Keep your heads up and eyes open guys. All the best.
It’s great to know you’re not alone ❤️
You absolutely need validation - friend - comrades - community etc
SELF - CON-fidence is great if there is an emergency or fire to respond to when all alone
CON-fiding with your Confidantes gives you BOTH confidence in your abilities
Don't forget the other CO words🎉
I'm confident in you !
CON-grats - CONtinue Comforting your community with effective communication 🎉🎉🎉
@ I love you, Braca. Please CONtinue being co-laborative co-operative co-ordinative…
When feeling confident my confederate let us convalesce. Coincidentally,
Considering consciousness’ construction is conceivably both concave and convex ⭕️🔀💢fear not because it is all maximally correlated and contained ♋️✌🏽🤟🏽🤘🏽
🖤〰️🤍
@ xoxoxo♾️
@noslraclwehttam I'm now confident that you get it comrade 48yr old marred with marriage male 🫡🤪
You've quantized my thoughts about life being quantum !
You've out parroted me - i am only a puppet for lifes poetry - I succumb - you slayed me -
Love this,its not being antisocial or disliking people,it just seems im more productive this way,the right people come my way in small spurts
@@steveelam2310 totally! 💯
Thank you dear lady
I'm 70 yo. and dealing with managing the fourth third of my life.
I know, only recently, that I'm what's called differently wired, as I spent my first 3 years alone, as mother's neglect and father's absence, which had definitely defined my perceptions during my life, all along.
I was always sure that I'm the one who is wrong, defect, disconnected, etc.
Lately I realized how strong I've become, and how far away from all norms I've walked all my life.
Now I find myself in an almost complete solitude, which I like and adore.
Your words, the first time for me to listen, are the words I had to hear, exactly on spot in my journey.
Thank you, lady. 🙏
@@Medura-ku6nx most welcome! Thank you for being here 🌸
62 years. I’m an empath healer shaman. Was a police officer for 23 years. A school resource officer and a rebel through and through. Keeping people out of jail instead of putting them in. Survived my childhood 💜
Well it sounds like we have something in common! Former Probation Officer of 20 years in Canada with the same goal of community corrections and rehabilitation. Rebel to the core! lol. Cheers to you fellow lone wolf empath!
@ Cheers my friend 💜🙏🏿
MUCH,MUCH RESPECT AND LOVE! If only the other 99% of cops had your "HEART"!💓🙏
@frayamortensen kaikoura New Zealand community of empaths it's going to be awesome, once I sort out the corrupt cops that sell meth and cover up a grape ring ,they are controlled by the satanic church here, sounds crazy 🤪 but ALL true
Mad respect, I love the police, none of my peers get it but that's their discomfort and fear to bear. Respect my man, word up.
Well said! You're a wise woman. I'm 67 years old and have struggled with my need for aloneness all my life. But in the past 6 or 7 years, especially since retirement, I've finally been able to fully embrace it. My life is now like a constant meditation in a way. I've been able to learn and perceive so much more about myself and others. And yes, I believe that true lone wolves are an integral part of the evolution of this world.
I love the term “constant meditation” - I’m with you on that 💯
I finally now feel like someone actually understands me. You definitely earned a loyal subscriber today. Literally I really don't have words to explain how to feel now. That was deeply interesting and hit right at home and close to my heart. Thanks and God bless
Thank you for being here ☺️✌️
Greetings from Sweden! Thank you Fraya! As a little kid when my friends came knocking on the door I said to my mother, tell them Im not home, and then I would go out on my own in the woods, looking at birds, squirrels and play by my self with my rich inner life and fantasy. I never found myself belonging to any pack. Today I live in a cottage in the woods, I don't have any friends except for those I have at work, but I don't see them outside work. Im happy living this way, I do what I want and I do it the way I want. I never liked when other people have told me how to be, how to act, how to think, so I love my lonely life, but not lonely because I have a rich life within myself 😊
Beautiful! Cheers to our rich inner worlds that we enjoy alone 🌼
Aren't orangutans the most genetically similar primates to humans? They aren't very social either.
Likewise 💫🩷💫 and greetings from Denmark 🇩🇰
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You are living my dream except for the work part. ❤ rural Sweden!
I'm a 80 year old lone wolf. I've been ahead of everyone for about that long. What is so interesting to see is how a lone wolf progresses through stages as a child to a fully interdependent adult. I was into outer space before we had a program...at 7! The last 17 years of my life have seen me doing the impossible! I am teaching remote viewing--a thoroughly mind boggling time travel skill, because I kept an open mind. I come from a scientific background, working around the cutting edge aircraft of my youth. What is cool, is watching it all come together....the things you dream of become realities!
This is my favourite comment so far! Thank you for being here and sharing your experience ✨☺️🙏🏼
@@RealmVector teach me your ways
@@RealmVector
If this is your dream that I love your work. I’m a big fan. Keep it up.
I'm a 54 y.o. INFJ lone-wolf male. Experiencing being judged by *other* *"sleep-walking"* (i.e. mostly sub-conscious) *people* as a "loner" tells more about the person judging rather than the judged! I just silently laugh it off and shrug my shoulders. They can call me what they want - I will just keep following my own path.
It sounds like what you experience is the insecurity of others which is a foreign state for you. Glad to have you here ✌️☺️
Your perception of me is a reflection of you.
50 year old lone wolf infj. May I join yalls pack?
Thanks so much for this video. I'm doing the same, hopefully I'll be better off financially soon but I'm at peace with it more 5han ever
47 y.o. INTJ/INFJ here. Following your own path is totally the way! Funny how so many friends/fam I've had over the years are not really "supportive" of this. It's like you seeking your own happiness is somehow a "threat" to them, or it seriously disturbs/bothers them. But yeah, it really does say more about their small-mindedness than it does about you. You do you!
Be Bold Fraya! You’re right on. Truths beautifully stated with compassion and passionate conviction. ❤
This is fantastic! From one lone wolf to another, thank you for this.
Right on!! Thank you for tuning in to watch.
I was rejected in my former workplace and denied a rightful promotion because of my lone wolf mentality. I chose a different path, and up-leveled 2 steps in one fell swoop. I am now the leader of the pack in my own courtroom. Learn to love yourself, and the glass ceiling shatters! Go for it! Mic 🎤 drop when I announced my new role. They’re still waiting for me to fail, those dark evil entities from my past. Right, I didn’t belong- thankfully! They did me a huge favor 🎉❤ I followed my heart’s desire. I once wanted to be part of the pack, but I came into it yet I had been the leader of the pack and was kept small. No more! I’m free!!! I agree with your 11:11 statements - ditto!
2:21 nails it. This is precisely how I came to learn far quicker than many of my fellow classmates in the earlier years. Observation, discernment, and integration.
This is exactly where I am in life. I’m walking my path alone, I practice radical self acceptance, I’ve been off social media for 4 years since I no longer seek external validation, and my peers feel my detachment and they’re doing everything they can to keep me in the low vibrational state that they’re in. One of my family members was upset when I told them their opinion of me is no longer my concern. When you’re on this journey, you realize how many people really live off the validation of others. It’s why the elites preach conformity so people don’t rely on their inner intuition but on external validation. SMH. This is confirmation that I am on the right path.
I'm so happy to read this comment from you because it's really something to make it this far and when you are no longer seeking external validation life takes on a different meaning - while other still seek to keep you in their low vibrational state as you say.
Thank you for this, truly.
They always assume, "you think you're better"
WHY OH WHY is that the first thought?!
Yep! I think this stems from a deep insecurity that a lot of (most?) people have. Weird how most everybody seems to think that life is a zero sum game. Like if you're UP, that means by default someone else must be put DOWN. Not true! I strive to thrive in every aspect of my life, and I encourage others to thrive as well.
Never alone, there is always me, myself, I, and all the voices in my head.
Sounds like alone to me
@ sounds? I don’t need others to entertain me, like others do, and that is true loneliness!
@@robertholland7558 fair enough.I only said it sounded alone to/for me.Everyome must have there own recipe for happiness✌️
Like the voices in my head, from life experiance it's the only voice you can trust.. when and if you can't trust the inner voices you are broken and need to fix yourself..
Hey, thought the same as you and it was great for a long time. Whats Sucks is when your at the End and its still just you.
A lone wolf Empath destroys more narcissist alone and save more people from their own vices people respect a lone wolf. Clint Eastwood taught that in his western movies 🎬
I live in Western North Carolina and this comment I’m putting out is about a month and a half after hurricane Helene brought devastation to this area. For about two weeks, I had no power or internet. I live alone with my dog and during those two weeks having no power no Internet I have never felt more alive trying to figure out how to survive with no water little food and to get more food. I learned a lot about myself during those two weeks that I’ve always known was there. I just hadn’t been able to use it being in our society that teaches reliance on each other. I find myself now trying to get back to those feelings of being alone. I felt stimulated and alive. I was diagnosed as a neurodivergent when I was in second grade on the extreme spectrum side. I’m extremely creative and always in survival mode which I enjoy.
Thank you, Fraya for such a beautiful and well thought out video, especially from the heart.
I accept you. Don’t start falling out with yourself as my Grandpa would say. Don’t erase all the gain it took you to get here, just to lose again.
i love this comment. thank you for sharing the wisdom of your grandpa 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for this. Your words went straight into my soul. We are out here and we are listening.🙏
Thank you for being here 🌸
This is exactly what I longed to hear. I was told for such a long time I was antisocial yet extremely empathic
Special education professionals need to take a watch of this video!
All parents need to watch these videos tard.
i think humanity em needs to take a watch of this video 💐
Super excited to come upon this. Integrates yet cuts through all the pathologising of personality disorders and attachment theories . I guess that's where the backlash comes in. Psychology of the pack. This, and viewers' comments, really nourishes a vision of what security in one self looks and feels like. Thank you x
100% I’m so glad this video found you and you’re so right about the comments. It’s absolutely refreshing to read 🙏🏼 Thank you for being here for it and offering your support.
Thank you for speaking about us.
The key is in going back to Innocence (the ability not to be hurt) .
I learned that from Krishnamurti 💖
@@milade92 that is it right there!!!
Thanks! I discovered the label "normal" adults (?) have for someone like me way back in high school was a lone wolf. Even though those "normals" don't consider a lone wolf as being capable of empathy I also knew that I wasn't some Saturday morning cartoon caraciture.
Then I found mindfulness and started to learn to listen to myself and not care about others opinions about me. People aren't bad, they're just ignorant I believe the Buddha said.
I’m with you on that! Thank you for your support and taking the time to watch my video 🙏🏼
I was a pro drummer in Miami in 1980s , my playing was so busy at times incomprehensible . Today I drum for me and the universe , now it is easy and fun. My mindfulness no one else.❤
I never heard the like from another musician! I am infinitely better guitarist since becoming welcome in my own head. Great observation.
Thanks! You are truly inspiring; Grateful.
You are so 🙏🏼 welcome
Thank you for your explanation. I always felt like my way of expression emotions and love (especially) was the norm. I felt like everyone was capable of feeling this deeply.
My awaking was a very hard lesson. I always refuse to let the world change me. Yes i did try to go back to the "pack." I thought something is wrong with me.
I couldn't accept the act that i was so happy when being by myself. Going into nature, hiking, drawing and just be. I started to realize that i had to let go of that "something's wrong with me, i need others to be happy." Nothing is wrong me. A lot is wrong with the world. The world is splitting. One side is deeply feeling. The other side feels cold, like machines.
They function but can't feel deeply. Their way of feeling, feels to me like an illusionary way of feeling.
Just in the past couple years i questioned myself more often if i am neuro-divergent.
When going for walks with others i noticed how they do not see small details in the world. Small bugs, beautiful butterflies and bird chirping. They don't look at trees and think they are beautiful.
They are just mindlessly walking to get some "cardio." Which is baffling to me.
The worst about this all is that the new wave of "spiritualism" is just a trend. People think they are spiritual but never truly just are. They think they are. While in reality you can't think you are.
You just are. Trying to sort through a lot of people i realized it's wiser to stay alone than losing myself in their world ever again.
@@iAmNothingness so much truth here ✌️☺️
Uplifting, Thank you 👏❤🙏
You are very welcome! 🙏
“YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG!” If I had a dollar for every time I did something a new way, and somebody told me that, thinking there’s only one way! Thanks for the uplifting video.
It is my pleasure! Thank you for being here to watch it ✌️☺️
@@frayamortensen I just remembered the saying is actually "If I had a nickel.." Inflation eh.
Your energy,enthusiasm and presence is uplifting ❤ Thank you for posting!
Absolutely! Thank you for watching 🙏🏼
I've found the ability to be, joyfully alone allows me to truely interact with others much more humanely. Good video, thanks.
Thank you. You gave me the validation and encouragement I was not expecting to get. 😢😂.
Bless you and I wish you greater success on your journey. And I hope you can handle the success.
Great listening. Very mindful and logical view on cognitive and social evolution. As an Asperger with very late diagnose, it now possible for me to accept my life, without feeling alone and lonely because I fit in no pack. I am no alfa, but I tale care of my self. I am alone responsible for my happiness…no blame games, no guilt and no excuses. God and prayers and thankfulness are my companions. The pack is often too loud and delusional. Daily exercise, independence and self love are a my connection to other wolfs. Neuro-normal persons are not able to survive, because of their ignorance, to much comfort and the braintrain-syndrome.
I'm with you!!
Thanks! ❤
-Santiago
Hi. Thanks for this. You’re describing me, perfectly. I really needed to hear this 30 years ago. Still, grateful to hear it now. I subscribed. Anxious to hear more. Cheering for your success! 😊👍🏼
oh i know! I'm excited for you to hear more too. You're definitely gonna wanna watch all the videos in this Tales of a Lone Wolf playlist!! 🙏☺️ Thank you for being here.
Not sure how this came into my feed but you’re amazing. Would love to have you on our show.
At age 48 I am now happy in the realisation of how this video describes how I know my self. Have had now about 10 years of progress on insight of being this social lone wolf person.
But having focused on my kids, my self, work and creating the life I want, I still long for a lasting relationship. But need to meet someone who also is open for other drivers in life than normal matrix thinking and someone who can look at them self or the world in an updated view of things. This makes it a little harder to find the one who the lone wolf in me can run long term with.
life is just about using people, that’s why neurotypical people connect. to manipulate and exploit others for their needs
this child-like dream for a real lasting relationship is a trap. all adult relationships are transactional. depend on yourself only
I want to cry watching this! 🥹🥹Thank you for making this video 💗🥹🙏🏼
Awww it’s my pleasure. Thank you so much for being here for it and sharing your response 🙏🏼
Excellent points Fraya!! I left the pack years ago and from time to time have to go back and get a JOB... hate it, only do it until the cash flow issues change and then leave the pack again. I would rather be independently poor thank you. It was a lovely day outside here getting the homestead ready for winter.
Same! I really don't want to go back to the 9-5, I don't even know what I would do out there!! The weather has been superb!! Can't wait for a cold snowy winter to visit next ☺✌
Mike! My brother! If I didn't know better I'd think your words were typed from my own keyboard.
Fraya, thanks for posting the vid. Helped crystallize some ideas that have been swirling within the ether of my soul..
I was getting ready to call you a NWO stooge when I clicked on this, but you did a solid job defining terms and making a good argument- well done. I'm already going full-out on what you're describing, and it worries people a bit, so I'm a little lonely. I don't need someone tied to my hip, but it'd be nice to have a pal to go out to dinner with once in a while or something- it was fine until my wife died, now I don't really know how to make new friends.
I need a smaller house, though- One guy with a couple of dogs doesn't need four bedrooms. Yeah... I went to a three-day long concert festival alone this summer... the reality is that I care about the music more than I do companionship.
I totally get that! (About the music vs the company). Maybe you’ll sell your house and move into a walkable community where you can be a “regular” that runs into other regulars. If you know what I mean.
Thank you for your candour regarding the assumption you made about me… and how you ended up resonating with what I said
Absolutely loved this. Resonated with me on so many levels. I grew up as a 1st generation American (son of Indian immigrants), army brat, and preacher's kid... which meant, we were constantly moving around every 3 or so years so I had to continually adapt to new environments -- environments where I didn't naturally belong. I had to cling to the religion I was raised with, along with military culture, and my parents/sister (these were the only "consistencies" in my life no matter where we relocated to). I always felt like an alien observing these rotating environments, figuring out how others acted and what I needed to do to conform -- play along to get along. I managed decently, and I look back at it all now as a valuable "skill" I've developed, but in recent years it's like I've left ALL of this behind in order to seek and embrace my own path in life. The signs were always there, and the development/evolution process was always occurring, whether I consciously realized it or not. (Hindsight really is 20/20!) But yeah, the "lone wolf empath", that does in large part sum up who I am today and how I live my life. I could go on and on about all this, but just wanted to say thanks for making this video... great start to my day, and I'm going to save this to rewatch periodically as a good reminder to be on my merry way and not slip back into ways of conformity.
By the way, I've started a new podcast that I'd love to have you on as a guest. Granted, it's centered around creativity and productivity, but I think a lot of what you said in this video would resonate with my audience, since I'm always trying to encourage people to think for themselves and embrace more creativity in their lives in whatever shape or form that may take. If you'd be interested in being on, lemme know! Cheers, Jay.
That's totally me!! A lone wolf empath :)
@@King_of_Sofa yes! You got it 🙌
Thanks
Absolutely spot on I’ve been a loan wolf . Now they say I’m ortistic and I’ve got adhd I believe your spot . The world is too busy doing and not being . As a lone wolf I’ve survived the impossible I’m happy as I am
can I get a loan wolf so I can go to great wolf lodge?
I feel so understood through watching your videos. Thank you! 🙏🏿 This found me at a good time.
I'm so happy it landed in your path! 🙏
Im on the spectrum and aspies I've been used to being a lone Wolf for as long as i can remember. Im a proud Lone Wolf.
Here here 🙌
I’m a lone wolf now out of necessity. I’m on the spectrum and my social battery is so small at this point. I just can’t do the small talk as much anymore . I need so much time away from people
you have to be a narcissist/sociopath, or at minimum a liar to have typical human connections that’s society values
My dad sent me this video. He and i share alot of similarities on our paths. The subject you're talking about feel deeply resonating to my soul and needed hearing of this once again to see it as a blessing to carve my own path and everything that comes with it. Thank you❤🙏
Totally alone for my whole life.
im empath whole life no boundaries
Same.i am numb now.emotionaly neglected from birth
@@randymccormack4259 right bro
@@randymccormack4259 you don't have to be alone all your life to be a l9ne wolf it's more of then a name ! It's our Acronym! You're An Independent Free Spirit Living Off New Experiences With Your Wisdom, Wealth , Opportunities, Life , Love , Self-Love, Family, Freedom And Fortitude ! 💯 You're The Protector Of Not Only Your Own Being But Also Your Tribe As Well
A Path Well Known - A Way Of Life - 61 Years Old Loving Life Alone - I Do Socialize When Need Be - Own My Own Business And Work Alone - Retiring Soon Alone - Feeling Good.
Beautiful ❤
When you are with yourself, your not alone.
Being in nature, is amazing, magical, even spending time with a pet , observing, engaging with them, they are so in tune, so connected to their senses ❤
Getting rid of all social media permanently FEELS wonderful!!
*writes this on social media. Yes yt IS social media!
I broke away decades ago. I'm self sufficient and happy as can be.
Right on! ✌️
We are highly sensitive people .. we observe the world .. our society changes with technology , humanity itself hasn’t changed in 1000’s of years .. respect , trust , love . Damn it was a hard journey to become myself .
Most people are incapable of enduring the pain of change and transformation so they numb themselves by going to the default setting that their peers laid out for them because it is extremely risky.
narcissism is easy. human nature is to chose the path of least resistance. embrace the zeitgeist.
Thank you for this video, I'm grateful I found this. Subscribed 🙏
Thank you for being here ☺️✌️
Eloquently projected, Fraya. As always. I get labelled as a ‘leader’ - I hate it & I am not. The trouble is; people follow me, because of the enigma. I was once described as a force of nature……interesting concept, I thought. Then, the other day, I watched a teaching by Elkhart Tolle & he described this ‘force of nature’ as a ‘Frequency keeper’ or something like that. Anyway, I don’t do labels, I know who I AM.
Namaste 🙏
indeed!! the frequency keeper is a keeper of their own life force energy and knows the external forces that will deplete and diminish it. We must not be diminished or demeaned to be less than who we are! Once found, keep it as it sounds like you have. The light in me acknowledges the light in you. 🙏
I love the way you explain it ❤ this is what I believe, what I see for the future. I’m so pleased for you, thank you for sharing your experiences and learnings. I’m transforming, my body is releasing right now. I am grateful for your message, thank you for being your true self. 🐺❤
Refreshingly articulate and intelligent. Sovereign Lone Wolf Empaths, anyone? 🙂
@@INFP-Insights here here 🙌
Infj here. Started to put myself in order now. Hey.👋
Thank you for the validation, Fraya. Sometimes the path of the neurodivergent, lone wolf can be confusing and frustrating (to say the least). Learning to trust Intuition, listening to Source, and realizing that there are others like me out there helps me feel okay while standing in my power.
Don't settle. Break the cycle. Rebel. We got this. Let's go! 😉
@@mikejarrells431 absolutely 💯
What if you tried to break the cycle, but you chose people along the way who interfered with that?
@Job.Well.Done_01 Don't settle (distance yourself).
I’m glad I found your channel.U r the whole package.. beautiful, with a soothing voice, and incredible information. I rarely resonate with any channels like this.
The things you are saying… I’ve got Goosebumps all over.
Thank you for that beautiful comment. 💖
Good one, thank you 🌸💕 Entering the age of Aquarius amplifies individualism and innovation and will turn current ‘education’ systems upside down ❤️💕🌸
Thanks!
Most appreciated 🙏🏼☺️
I've been subscribed for a while, but for some reason, this video resonated with me the most 💜 Thank you
Awesome! Any particular aspect of what I said, or just the whole thing in general ?
@frayamortensen I always find multiple aspects that I relate to in your videos, but this time, it was the whole video! It's just wonderful feeling understood and seen. 💜
@ awww that’s so great to hear Crystal! I hope you’ll be able to check out Episode 1 of The Fraya Show on Sunday !! Theme is “aloneness” not loneliness ☺️✌️
@frayamortensen Will do! Thank you 💜 😊
I’m a 47 year old lone wolf (and I’ve always been that way). I couldn’t agree with what you are saying more. I believe this is very true for a vast number of people, and has been increasingly steadily as the years have gone on. Although I noticed a huge increase with the pandemic for obvious reason. Forced helped many realize it was actually better for them.
YES! Thank you for this! Very validating! I just used the word "evolution" today and this is confirmation!
Right on! 💯
Your Insights are Soooo Profound! I love it. It IS the start of something real... thank you🎉❤😂
very good stuff!!! thank You Fraya!..... ps. this is just continues to get better as you keep on listening.
I have so many thoughts in this video and it's not until after the 8 minute mark does it go deeper. Thank you for sticking around long enough to listen to the whole thing ✌️
@@frayamortensen Fraya.., this video is an entire book in itself...
Wow, this is the best, and most validating, thing I've heard in a long time! Thank you! 🙏
Thank you so authentic/clear.
Real, thank you for this. This is the balance we need. Also need to realize everyones path is different.
I love you. Thank you. Practice telling your stories without telling people how hard or easy things are. These may be your observations, but they can program people to believe in the difficulty, or ease of things. Each individual will have their experience without the need for a judgement, or expectation.
Wonderful job.
Love you and thank you.
ahhhh yes manipulation… social skill = manipulation.
Sad way to look at it
Sad way to look at it
@@PatienceLashly it is what it is tho…
@ThegreatAwakening160 The unempathetic responses should tell all you need to know about individuals who identify as empaths as if having empathy somehow makes them special or superiors. The lack of receptivity to negative feedback is also a major red flag since it impedes growth and development. I do hope you find somewhere that appreciates what you have to offer.
Crying listening to her explain my brain. I’ve just felt crazy, been told I’m crazy, and thought I was alone since I was a child. Crazy speech, crazy moment in my life
I'm a lone wolf :D I love this, I'm 37 and have been in corporate world since 20. Lately I've been having a STRONG urge to make some big changes, specifically relating to my 9-5. I'm all but checked out in that office, I can't take it any longer. I'm happiest hiking on a trail or surfing (lone wolf). Question, I assume this path is without romance? I have a girlfriend currently, and that, too, is under scrutiny for change.
Walk your walk, regrets from the dying are never. I wished i would have worked more!❤
The true romance is the one that unfolds within yourself. That is yours to discover my friend. ✌️☺️
That’s just what I needed to hear this morning. Thank you ❤
HELL YES!!!!!!!!!!! I freaking love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this is exactly it!!!
Yaaaassss!!!!! 🙌
Never seen self as lone, but felt alone , but at peace with it, and donot need a narcissist around period.
"Humans are social creatures"
@@dcktater7847 isn’t it crazy!!!!
This! As a 50 year old lone wolf I feel seen and understood. Thank you!
I don't follow... been learning in secret for decades... I will help people, but really, for the most part, I dislike their company. I hate explaining everything again and again. Makes me tired. Thus, alone. I only have so much patience, and thus, will do my best to express myself better and better in art and culture.
that makes sense -- once you find yourself explaining things over and over you're only explaining it for yourself at that point. Might as well go out there and do something creative instead. 🙏
*I like this a lot. I can imagine a world that follows this philosophy, producing humans who are less psychological and experiencing far fewer mental illnesses. As we saw in 2020, an alarming number of people cannot handle isolation. It’s easy to attribute one’s lack of peace to external sources: until there are no people around to shift the blame to.*
_If the way we perceive life is as diverse and unique as all other natural things, then cultivating minds into unnatural shapes for most could lead to an imbalance of the mind._
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good, because i am going to nonconform and not get up and start dancing. Also, be aware that change does not mean better, there are many paths to evolutionary dead ends; things are the way they are because it worked. When you are trying to evolve, i suggest you do it with an extremely heavy dose of humility.
Yes, change does not necessarily mean better. Change is not linear and can lead to dead ends but that’s all part of the journey.
Preach Sister Fraya, I loved this video, and I like all your videos. I am just like you and think and live in this world more happy and disconnected from what is considered the social norm. From one Lone Wolf Empath to another, I am sending positive energy and Love. Close your eyes, take a deep breath. Can you feel it? Thank you for the great content. Keep them coming!
I just took a massive dump.
A most beautiful sharing
And I'll bet you did it all by yourself. Good job
@@bryanhuseboe539 thanks ;)
Great, stick to what you're good at.
@@theodavies8754 thanks for the encouragement. God bless you. :)
We are blazing new neural pathways for the collective.
Way-Showers
Trail Blazers
☀️♾️🌏
Just remember...
Don`t make it a religion.
Our metaphor stories are just that, metaphor stories. Don`t take it too far.
Take care.
God bless you.
God? We are our own God!
@@robertholland7558 Yes, i know.
Puny Gods.
@@sasaradetic2202 not puny at all, we are the masters of our universe that we create, against all the odds. PS I have seen videos suggesting that the so-called almighty God, is nothing but minnow God in the grand scheme of spirituality. That would explain the massive failure and shortcomings of humanity . Us lone wolfs realise this, we might not fully understand and comprehend since we are limited by our 3 dimensional 5 senses existence. But simply the awareness opens up our minds to what the other dimensions and senses are and seeking answers, if when we might not find them.
That is how I see the path of the lone wolf, seekers of the unknown, that is what inspires me, even though that with every new piece of knowledge comes the realisation that there is more and more unknown, an ever expanding universe of knowledge.
@@robertholland7558 I have no intention to put you down , nor to reduce your hope.
But i know the danger of arrogance and pride.
All you who claim that we are gods, why you run away from being human so much? If you want to learn unknown, as you claim, why then you have the need to claim Godliness? If i have to assume, why is that so. I would say, it`s because of abuse. And a fear to look in to it. If you are excited about unknown, but you claim you are a God, haha, Jesus Christ. I`m talking to 2 year old. Help me. Haha. Why then you are so scared to look in to yourselves? I know you see my point. Odin denial is not gonna help you. Do you know the story about the frog that wanted to be a cow? Do you dump malaka`s ever think? Or you just repeat what catches your attention at any given moment and at out of any given reason? Like spoiled brats, fulfilling momentary egoic desires and animal uncontrolled urges? Gods, you say ????
Grow up kiddo.
@@sasaradetic2202 I have no intention… I already concluded that everything that is following is utter nonsense. Have a nice day, and be your own “ god”! And look in the mirror if you seek the two year old child!
You somehow popped up in my feed. I’m so glad because you’re speaking my language!
The lone wolf is outnumered. Look who the pack just voted for !
Just what i was thinkin
Mindfulness without judgement went on vacation to another galaxy one day in Oaks, Pennsylvania. Dancing without movie the feet and legs is an absolute must for the the one who will sanctify everyone!
And does a Lone Wolf vote? Do they partake in poli-tics? What do you think!
Why would a vote for Trump be so much worse for a Lone Wolf? At least the anti-woke arena, in lack of a better term, has a certain connection with individualism. In my opinion Lone Wolfs are made into the enemy by the left wing liberals. Not that right wing populism is that much of an improvement, but still...
@@frayamortensen Hard to say. "They havent establish their own party yet, and whether they ever will do is an open question".
I have always felt different. I did not fit in family, at school, and most workplaces with colleagues. I prefer walking in the woods, reading, being in nature. I am a social worker and often seem to pick up on others' energy. I am hyper aware of my environment, the interactions of one thing on another, perceiving and intuitive. I can attune with almost anyone in need-I viscerally feel others' pain and suffering, so work extensively on system change, advocacy and sending tidal waves! This does not make you liked by systems....relate well with clients who often say I have saved their life, I am their angel, no one has ever listened before me, and disclose things hidden for years! Not bragging, this video describes many of us. Lone wolf, limited social interactions, easily drained and then energized helping others, but feel and perceive lots. I am glad I am hyper focused, aware, eager for knowledge, curious, creative, flexible and very active in human rights advocacy. I found my tribe on this channel. We need focus, empathy and compassion in difficult times ahead, division and hate. Thank you Fraya ❤
I'm nearly 54 and as I reflect on my life I realize how many people knew me better than I knew myself. So many conversations and things people said (I have a great memory) all the way back to elementary school indicated that others instinctively knew I was the lone wolf type before I ever had any clue that was even a thing. I had great struggles in life, not realizing I was not being true to myself, trying to fit in. I finally said to hell with it, I am going to be my own, uncompromising crazy self (I do music, art and film) instead of twisting myself into a pretzel to fit in and suddenly everything worked out and made sense.
@@unknownfilmmaker777 I’m so happy to hear that! When did you finally say “to hell with it” ?
@@frayamortensen I went back to school to finish my degree when I was about 40 and about halfway through I hit a wall. It was the first class where we were supposed to make a short film and they told us we were using a new story structure, essentially throwing out all we had learned thus far. I asked, "What is this? Some structure invented by Sydney Lumet or some other respected filmmaker?" They replied, "Oh, no, it's just something someone on the staff came up with last weekend." So I said, "No, I am not spending my time and money on something "someone on the staff came up with"." I went to the program director and he recommended I finish the degree in liberal arts, where I could do what I wanted. The only catch was, it was a ton more work. I had to devise my own curriculum, get it approved by the college as well as the department heads of each different college (Communication, Architecture, Digital Media etc) and then convince different faculty to take me on in a one-on-one situation for every single "class". I did all this. Then, I finished by completing an entire full-time semester in summer school, another thing for which I had to get approval, again from all the aforementioned. The work I did was the development, writing and partial preproduction and design of a feature-length film, which I did entirely by myself: writing, directing (myself), producing, preproduction, production design, wardrobe, cinematography, camera motion control, visual effects, sound design, editing, music composition and production, promotion/web design/distribution, all executed to completion and screened at a local theater. It's basically a zero-budget contemplative arthouse film, and it looks like it, but it is well-made for what it is and I learned enough to make something more accessible in the future. Since then I have also escaped from belonging to one music genre or another (from my industrial days in the 90s) and have found my voice there as well as in visual art. I tried working my way into the Hollywood system but that did not work, naturally, which is for the best; I am completely capable of doing my own thing my own way.
@@unknownfilmmaker777 quite the journey. Thank you for sharing 🙌
Competition and comparison in my opinion is a destructive force. There is nothing more frustrating to me than to see no value in the old ways of living while being endlessly stuck in living situations with people who do. I do not have the resources to live alone but if I did, what I would build would baffle people who are stuck in the past.
God gave me great gifts and I pray that there will come a time and place where the things that bring me joy can become my life.
I wish I had what has clearly begun to flourish within you. I don't know what neuro-divergent means but I have felt like Rain Man my whole life in this world.
54 years old and I feel like a 20 year old and an 80 year old at the same time.
Feeling stuck for sure.
You sound like a North American, but you talk more like a Scandinavian. Most refreshing. So glad our paths crossed briefly one dark night in December while the wind howls and invades my den. Incidentally, my own neurodivergence didn't really begin to show until I was 30, and then the sea change swept me off in a completely different direction. Long live the einzelganger! (But please don't invade my space - except if you're desperately in need of me, and only as long as the need lasts - because it's mine.)
you are a hero I've been waiting for (without knowing) to arrive. thank you and danke (living in a German-speaking country is very challenging in this regard).
Neurodivergent cycle breaker here ⛓️💥 ⛓️💥 ⛓️💥 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🐺 🐺 🐺
Excellent video!!! 💕 🖤 I really resonate with everything you said . Thank you! ❤
Amazing! Thank you for watching and chiming in 😁✌️
Excellent presentation [SUBSCRIBED!]
I AM in the exact same "state" as you are..........I Love to hear this.
Keep doing exactly what You are doing and keep "Being" of who You are.
A beautiful being with "Words" that I needed to hear.
It's a confirmation for Me.
GOD Bless You, My Sister!
Welcome! Sending warm wishes your way my friend.
Very strong: I have self acceptance for what I do, I don't need any outside approval. (You have the voice, I have found many)