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  • Brand new series... LOVE, SEX, RELATIONSHIPS & I wanted to kick start it with a very open and honest video about my celibacy & getting to this point of celibacy... man it's been a journey and a half but I thank God it's not in my own strength! Looool I was actually super scared to upload this but ahhh well, this is just the real me!
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ความคิดเห็น • 110

  • @jenicasalvador9387
    @jenicasalvador9387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    As a Christian woman in today's society, most people make you feel as if you're missing out by choosing to not have sex! It's sooo refreshing to see the point of view of someone who has experienced sex & chooses to consciously abstain. It is so different to someone who preaches celibacy without prior experience! Great video💕💕

    • @curlss.3b289
      @curlss.3b289 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are missing out tho😂

    • @babydollcornwell
      @babydollcornwell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen I’m Christian as well and decided to Get Saved Again And Have Been Celibate for 3 Years Now, I’m 34 , And I’m happy about My Non Sexual Life, I’m working on my Relationship with Christ. Being A Better Friend, Daughter, etc When you seek Him, Make Time EVERYDAY, worship and Praise. You Aren’t dumb haven’t forgot what the act feels like, it’s Better with LOVE 💯💯

  • @norabiba6287
    @norabiba6287 6 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    As a Muslim woman this really spoke volumes. It's so refreshing to hear such a strong minded view on sex and religion. This links closely to Islam's teaching and what the majority believe in. I knew just from watching you on bkchat ldn that you were my favorite because you never tried to impress anyone and stayed true to yourself. I can't wait to binge on this series ❤️

  • @carly6549
    @carly6549 6 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Hearing this at 18, especially after a break up, just reminds me why I should commit myself to The Word. Thank you Nissy x

    • @msa617
      @msa617 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Carly Nunes good luck on your journey sis

    • @soniaflaggejack982
      @soniaflaggejack982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I pray that by GOD'S GRACE that u never give up .❤ I know it may be hard now but if GOD gave u this journey if celibacy to better your life u can do it ok. GOD will never give u challenges u cant handle so see how strong HE made you .

  • @FlowerxFierce
    @FlowerxFierce 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Yes SIS. It's beautiful being celibate. You are more aware...you feel clean and clear minded and you trust yourself much better. Last but not least it weeds out the negative boys quickly

  • @gennalnx7680
    @gennalnx7680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I really wish that I had came across your channel sooner because now its too late . Im 18 years old I will be 19 in 8 days and im practicing christianity. Im currently dating a Muslim and I lost my virginity to him about two months ago when I wasn't really ready I wanted to wait til marriage , we've been together almost two years. its crazy because right now we are going through a rough patch and im trying to figure out can we still work , I've watched this video and your other video being christian dating a muslim and I feel like god brought me right to your story to reveal the answer in my situation . im struggling right now and this will be the most hardest decision in my life . my virginity is something I truly value , he knew that, he always made me feel respected and valued. I appreciate the fact that Muslims value a woman's worth but now its like why did I do it I know this isn't living accordingly to gods word. sometimes I find myself blaming him almost as if he didn't really care or respect my faith , he wasn't a virgin so why did it pressure me , but I can't blame anyone but myself for letting it happen. before any of this I was saved , baptized and filled with the precious gift of the Holy Ghost , I never lost faith but I did stop seeking god and hanging around people I shouldn't have. I just wish I would've made better decisions . I love this guy so much but at this point I may have to let go im so sad , he never actually asked me to convert but it seems like that is what he want. I don't know what to do

  • @ti6659
    @ti6659 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I love how raw and open you are in this video that you were able to share your experience with us. Can’t wait for your next video for “Love Sex Relationships”. God bless x

  • @EbunZara
    @EbunZara 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Thank you for you honesty, it is helpful to go beyond the “No sex before marriage” to explain why xx

  • @daraoyedijo
    @daraoyedijo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    “Put your faith before your flesh “ Hmmn that hit me

  • @aizenosaimafidon1119
    @aizenosaimafidon1119 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    make sure to tell us the proper story with the guy 😂😂😂 i neeeeeed it!!!

  • @corinne_islove
    @corinne_islove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    EVERYTIME I hear stories like this this I am inspired to continue on my journey. We are worthy of more than we have previously been accepting. Great content 😊

  • @ladyabigurl
    @ladyabigurl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Honesty and transparency is a virtue. Appreciate you Nissy!

  • @BlondelleFezadoSantos
    @BlondelleFezadoSantos 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love how open you are about your journey. May God continue to bless you and use you in all of His ways!

  • @StephGump
    @StephGump 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I really loved the honesty of this video, very sincere 🙏🏾

  • @Dd1NlyB3B3
    @Dd1NlyB3B3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    But how did your current bf take the celibacy aspect at first?

  • @mm-ev8mq
    @mm-ev8mq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very blessed! Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability❤ It is nice to see that even as saved christians, people are eager to admit that they don't have it all together. Buuuut what a saviour and what a friend we have in Jesus😍😢. Looking forward to your marriage girl 🙄stay blessed!

  • @kerenkeziaofficial
    @kerenkeziaofficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I love how truthful you are in this video!

  • @Mysranne
    @Mysranne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm glad you made this video, a lot of people don't talk about things like sex and celibacy and all of that...Intimacy clouds a lot of things and changes a lot of decisions.

  • @ThashaPN12
    @ThashaPN12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Could relate to so many parts of this and definitely was snapping my fingers throughout the end of this video. God bless you ♥️ p.s.: Personally, when I (finally) *willingly* decided to make the commitment of celibacy, a switch just turned: I didn’t even have to say anything, but the rate of guys that moved to me dropped dramatically. God cleared the road one time 😂😂😂 If we surrender to Him, He will also make our life easier.

  • @GracefullyKaren
    @GracefullyKaren 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Haha to the note to your mom. Loving your background. Thank you for sharing your experience ✨☺️

  • @NourishedWomanHQ
    @NourishedWomanHQ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for this video, I almost fell off that train of celibacy till I watched this, God Bless you sis 🙏🏾

  • @optikospoet8248
    @optikospoet8248 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really enjoyed this video. Honestly being celibate has been a difficult rollercoaster and i'm learning that a lot of people go through the same thing - but like you said, by the grace of God all things are possible. Thanks for sharing your story

  • @NorahslifeShowGodfidencenorah
    @NorahslifeShowGodfidencenorah 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is exactly why Nissy is one of my favourite TH-camrs, so real and open 💯 I felt the Holy Spirit was speaking through you to me, like you said “ there’s a spiritual side of sex” part of that person lives in you and part of you lives in them. Soul tie is real girl. Thanks for the encouragement. Looking forward to to the next episode

  • @MiraaSpeaks
    @MiraaSpeaks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the honesty and the beauty in you the way you articulated the message! I am muslim but it is still touching and inspiring to here - thank you for sharing x

  • @konajide07
    @konajide07 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's been a long time since I watched your videos. I liked the video. Celibacy is definitely something we all need to do before marriage in order to truly build a good foundation for a strong relationship.

    • @ashleycrystal9719
      @ashleycrystal9719 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      DiamondKid not celibacy. Complete virginity.

  • @danni8037
    @danni8037 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This spoke to me differently. Wow. Thank you so much for your honesty, speaking God's truth, and sharing your story 💗

  • @bernicen145
    @bernicen145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 3 years late lol but wonderful video! Thank you for the vulnerability and sharing your testimony! This is so inspiring, and our young generation needs to see this💖

  • @manval96
    @manval96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I loved how truthful you were in this video ❤️❤️

  • @laaaaaaaa533
    @laaaaaaaa533 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    loved listening to your story💯 soo relatable😭

  • @Vic-ht8go
    @Vic-ht8go 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love how honest you are in this video

  • @natashacampbell5200
    @natashacampbell5200 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nissy, respect for this. Love the transparency.
    In case you felt that certain ppl may be offended by this...dont concern yourself with what they think of your situation/testimony as it is personal to you!
    By the way Nissy, which church do you attend now? Do you mind sharing?
    And my last question Nissy, now that you and your bf are both waiting until marriage, do you find it easier to remain celibate?

  • @Benekitoko
    @Benekitoko 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really loved this ❤️ Thank you for sharing your story, you're a truee inspiration💕

  • @aniberry6347
    @aniberry6347 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love you nissy.. First comment

    • @kymberlycourage
      @kymberlycourage 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Renes Schwartz you say you are lonely yet you chat shit like this? Okayyy.

  • @tracywanett3194
    @tracywanett3194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love this! May God continue to use you 🙏🏾

  • @patriciachloe8667
    @patriciachloe8667 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great video Nissy! ❤️💋

  • @TemitayoMLasisi
    @TemitayoMLasisi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love your honesty throughout this video

  • @ariana2526
    @ariana2526 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like I can relate to you on so many levels😭🧡 Lookin up to you sis

  • @naomi6372
    @naomi6372 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the realness of this vid ❤️

  • @lx9414
    @lx9414 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I look at you like a big sis man❤️I honestly look up to you and seek advise from you. As a Christian young black woman there’s so many young Christian black girls like me that really look up to and learn from your experiences

  • @AudAkos
    @AudAkos 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is so nice to watch you talk about your story. I wish you luck on your celibacy and your future relationship.

  • @sonugaayomikun4931
    @sonugaayomikun4931 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bless you for being so transparent!

  • @anthonia5697
    @anthonia5697 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love you Nissy❤️

  • @b.enshira885
    @b.enshira885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well done for filming this video💕💕

  • @funmiroyalty9236
    @funmiroyalty9236 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved the video girl! I appreciate your honesty 💕

  • @rbraxton00
    @rbraxton00 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Amen, great video

  • @truthb3told122
    @truthb3told122 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for sharing Nissy 😊 xx

  • @kwayy.dbifutu129
    @kwayy.dbifutu129 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mans a fan ❤️‼️

  • @__lauriee4039
    @__lauriee4039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg these comments about many of you women being celibate. I just wanted to say you guys are so powerful and strong ❤️ finding strength in God. I have little knowledge on celibacy but I just want to comment that God sees you❗️

  • @stevenadebayo7401
    @stevenadebayo7401 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks this was very encouraging and inspiring... bless you sis 🙌🏾❤️

  • @4uCraziie
    @4uCraziie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this video, I could relate so much.. thanks for sharing this

  • @TishaTheBrave
    @TishaTheBrave 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really appreciate this!! I've been on a journey myself and girl this is not easy!!! Bless you for speaking up about this

  • @therealadaeze
    @therealadaeze 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Found my soul sister!!!...God bless you for this girl. Fellow RCCGians

  • @esperance3751
    @esperance3751 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Nissy! I really needed to hear this

  • @Kinjha10
    @Kinjha10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching this now! And I go to RCCG Chappelle de la Résurection in Gatineau, QC

  • @JummyAdejonwo
    @JummyAdejonwo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video Nissy! You are such a great person, continue to be an inspiration to us all!

  • @Adelaide621
    @Adelaide621 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much! This really encouraged me!

  • @riyahgrace2949
    @riyahgrace2949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for uploading this video sis. We acknowledge that it can be uncomfortable to be so honest and open so I just want to thank you for making that sacrifice, it is never in vain. If you are able to help at least one person other than yourself, it is a sacrifice worth making. So proud of you Queen Nissy

  • @becks26
    @becks26 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is my favourite video on youtube. it’s really helped me find clarity in myself and in God and i thank you so dearly for allowing me to have this experience💕

  • @eniolaosi
    @eniolaosi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this Nissy !

  • @ibkmax
    @ibkmax 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best video ever

  • @SHussein
    @SHussein 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you preached your point/ journey without degrading others

  • @Mscursed2
    @Mscursed2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this series

  • @bwoss422
    @bwoss422 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yess Nissy... I love this video i can relate. Thank you x

  • @mayebrown9411
    @mayebrown9411 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Nissy! 💕

  • @CurlyFryTV
    @CurlyFryTV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for making this video i needed that message at the end to help me on my journey

  • @Akos91
    @Akos91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Outside of attending church, how did you build up your relationship with God?

  • @emmadaniel5533
    @emmadaniel5533 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Appreciate this video so much omds 👏🏾

  • @theresamanso556
    @theresamanso556 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had A similar story. Love this!

  • @daniellemclean4332
    @daniellemclean4332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like u telling my story😥

  • @leopardprints14
    @leopardprints14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey babe where is your hair/wig from? Could you do a video on it pls?x

  • @damitolaoluwa
    @damitolaoluwa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this video Sis! Keep erm' coming x

  • @Nikki-oh3mm
    @Nikki-oh3mm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen Amen Amen! God bless you

  • @divinethembo
    @divinethembo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I could so relate to the story , the weight loss journey, the ugly duckling , the no sex before Marriage ! Yup.. thank you for your transparency my Congolese sis 🇨🇩 💜

  • @lutayimayika2885
    @lutayimayika2885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stratford 😁

  • @opeyemiobe6990
    @opeyemiobe6990 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how real and honest you were in this, you offered such amazing advice - I felt like I was talking to my big sister. (Im Age:18 btw)
    Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️
    New subscriber here 👩🏿

  • @FemmeSim
    @FemmeSim 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You look so pretty sis 😍

  • @modupe89
    @modupe89 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re an inspiration

  • @elidyah9558
    @elidyah9558 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are PHENOMENAL 👏🏾❤️❤️

  • @rinalovesbags8788
    @rinalovesbags8788 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @tammyreal271
    @tammyreal271 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nissy what are your views/Christian view on masturbation?

  • @amikahs
    @amikahs 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Faith before flesh 2020.

  • @AfriScents
    @AfriScents 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you girl, it so amazing to hear from someone who is on the same journey!!!!

  • @LoveYourBarbs
    @LoveYourBarbs 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow such s genuine and real video. Love this

  • @joyigbeka38
    @joyigbeka38 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    IF THIS IS NOT THE WHOLE TRUTH !!!!!

  • @maryimhogiemhe4408
    @maryimhogiemhe4408 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🧡🧡🧡

  • @tsungai8192
    @tsungai8192 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much

  • @allyalison7070
    @allyalison7070 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    John 14 :15,21,23 the love of God comes from keeping his commandments and pursuing Him, Thank God you have fully found God now but it's misleading to those who are watching for you to say you loved God but you were still able to do certain things while you were younger xx i dont mean this to be rude at all btw it's just something that people are misinformed of

  • @ArayoAjeigbe
    @ArayoAjeigbe 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nissy, you're amazing ❤️

  • @KayKudiwa
    @KayKudiwa 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much💕

  • @Amanda-nj7pp
    @Amanda-nj7pp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I think people assume that you're that perfect person because you give off this holier than thou persona and I don't think it's intentional but I have felt that from you sometimes.

    • @cutasz
      @cutasz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      i disagree, she lives her life for Christ and it shows plain and simple.

  • @VENIKA
    @VENIKA 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Here for this! ✋🏾

    • @VENIKA
      @VENIKA 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It takes so much courage to tell your story, thank you for sharing this sis!

  • @francesfiam-coblavie2180
    @francesfiam-coblavie2180 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this!

  • @maryselemvi03
    @maryselemvi03 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci ya nissy nanga na lela yo fort

  • @jennifer-xh9cr
    @jennifer-xh9cr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are your opinions on masturbation?

  • @xxsugarlipsxx
    @xxsugarlipsxx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Nissy! Your words have helped with my baby walk with Christ as I continue to grow stronger and wiser. You had me writing notes! Lol 🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽

  • @bazodee2
    @bazodee2 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happened to the "no sex please, we're british" thingy?

  • @ghanaianprincee
    @ghanaianprincee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is her song intro please ?

    • @rebeccaa9261
      @rebeccaa9261 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeffz Pattz Khaliowe-Love for the soul

    • @ghanaianprincee
      @ghanaianprincee 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rebecca A .thank you