BEING CELIBATE STORY | 6 YEARS CELIBATE

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  • @paulajarrett6227
    @paulajarrett6227 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I have been celibate for almost 3 years. No toys no masturbating no kissing no holding hands nothing. But this has been the most rewarding experience ever. I me and a person break up I don't feel anything and it's easy to move on.

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Isn't it so freeing? I feel like you don't really realize how blinding sexual intamacy can be out of the context of marraige until the scales are broken off of your eyes like Saul!

    • @sergioadrianzampa8166
      @sergioadrianzampa8166 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great comment

    • @gabrielangel8977
      @gabrielangel8977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How if I used to work hard and have sex as a stress reliever? I want to celibate but I keep working. I don't know what could please me more :( I dont wanna feel guilty again by having sex.

    • @rushyphillip4851
      @rushyphillip4851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am on a journey also!!!! Thank you for sharing. No masturbating kissing or physical contact for me either. God is so good.

    • @Anthony-yy3kc
      @Anthony-yy3kc ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rushyphillip4851 yes I used to think celibacy meant not having sex with a woman, but it's more than that! It means no sex with self, no fantasies, and no erotic touching. You can only do this by the power of the Holy Spirit!

  • @NISHATILOCS9
    @NISHATILOCS9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Ive been practicing celibacy for over 18 years now and its by the grace of God and keeping power of the Holy Spirit

  • @mkilu476
    @mkilu476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The wait is so real! 7 years and counting.

    • @Anthony-yy3kc
      @Anthony-yy3kc ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you planning on remaining single for life?

  • @Annabelleannabel
    @Annabelleannabel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    3 months celibate which is the longest I’ve gone without .

  • @blazingfebruary7693
    @blazingfebruary7693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I am so proud watching this!!! 6 Years for me too! This is so beautiful!

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Come on 6 years!!!! Thats amazing!

    • @sacing3512
      @sacing3512 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations and all the best for future

  • @Enheritance
    @Enheritance 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I’ve been celibate for 6 months so far and I’m feeling sooo good ❤️ this video really blessed me! Your story matters to the kingdom . Keep staying fired up ! Sis 🙏🏾🔥

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sis! You better be pure for 6 months! that is awesome!!! Keep fleeing from the devil! Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Enheritance
      @Enheritance 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shameless Sham just came back & watched this video again because I just made 1 year being celibate this month. I’m so proud of myself & how Christ has really changed my life 💛 I’m doing a celibacy video today to talk about my struggles & how I conquered temptation

  • @sistshwanelo
    @sistshwanelo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    As a young Christian minister, I am so inspired by these American woman of God. As a South African young woman, I feel like there aren't many of us on TH-cam preaching the gospel so I often look at these women for inspo... Thanks for this message Pastor 🎈💕🎊🎉 praying it may reach these shores too...

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm just a girl who's sharing her story! 🤗❤️

  • @gabriellamashiah979
    @gabriellamashiah979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    5 years Celibacy.
    😇🙏🙌💞

  • @paulajarrett6227
    @paulajarrett6227 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm walking it like I talk it. I can say I'm pure and clean again. I never seen so many people trying to get me laid. I really have no desire for sex anymore.

    • @VicReinz52
      @VicReinz52 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any tips?

    • @Anthony-yy3kc
      @Anthony-yy3kc ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VicReinz52 Yes surrender your life and will to Jesus Christ. I don't know any other way short of castration!

  • @alexandriaedwards1937
    @alexandriaedwards1937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm very proud of you! I'm gonna ne 30 this year and I'm a virgin and haven't kissed a man in 7 years. You continue to to keep God first and do His will for your life. God bless you 😇🙏🙌

  • @mumsydladla5956
    @mumsydladla5956 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm a preacher and proud to be celibate ...

  • @quinegbe735
    @quinegbe735 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel like crying because this video is too much on point. Especially the decentment about guys who come close to u, you easily decend their intentions right away

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad you could relate! :)

  • @Jesus2ga
    @Jesus2ga 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Keep strong, sister. I love seeing wise sisters like you being proud and knowledgeable of the word. Bless

  • @sergioadrianzampa8166
    @sergioadrianzampa8166 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God showed me the same path 6 years ago!lot of Benefits Celibacy IS absolutely Amazing!great video thank you very much God Bless You Greetings from Argentina!

  • @speerrituall1
    @speerrituall1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are maturing and very blessed!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Continue to do you!

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Glory to God always!

  • @msrose4
    @msrose4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this video so much! Yes, soul ties are very real! I have experienced it and yes it will make you bitter and OBSESSED! I have also been thinking about including videos about Christ on my TH-cam channel, you've inspired me to want to do it. Thanks for this video!

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girllll SO REAL! l completely understand, and definitely can relate to being bitter. & You definitely should sis! Let that light shineeee ❤️

  • @motivationalneeds
    @motivationalneeds 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Go ahead babe ! Love the video ! #TeamCelibate ❤️ love you and miss you

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aylisia!! #teamcelibate . I miss you too love ❤️

  • @diamondlynn
    @diamondlynn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New subscriber 😍 thank you for sharing this!

  • @jkalahfurlow9102
    @jkalahfurlow9102 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I’ve been celibate for going on 6 months

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YAAASS 6 months! Before you know it, it'll be a year, then 2. Keep pressing sis!

    • @lindawaweru74
      @lindawaweru74 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The struggle is real though it aint easy

  • @MarleeDecember105
    @MarleeDecember105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Are you still celibate in 2020?
    I've been celibate for five years now, I wont say the journey was always easy because the urges were naturally there. However, with God and time all things are possible.

  • @Butterfly_757.
    @Butterfly_757. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Ladyl Speak🙏🏽🌹💟🦋🙌

  • @SkkyyC
    @SkkyyC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just hit six years 2 days ago and staying strong. God is good!!!!

  • @rushyphillip4851
    @rushyphillip4851 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your video. I love God so much and I’m so grateful for his blessings of freeing me from my struggles. I am on a celibacy journey until marriage!!!! Thanks again for your amazing video. God bless you!!!!

  • @oziomaokeke665
    @oziomaokeke665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel so condemned. I always start and fail and worst is it is hard to pray these days😢

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww no! No condemnation sis/bro! Grace on Grace on Grace! I pray that the Lord will give you strength to overcome, & the right community to hold you accountable in this season!

    • @oziomaokeke665
      @oziomaokeke665 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen. Thank you.

    • @wangminzhangwie1177
      @wangminzhangwie1177 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is the enemy trying to keep you from trying....God does not want you when you are clean, he wants you just the way you are...so he can heal you. None of the miracles of Jesus were to those who were good or whole or well, they were for the lepers, the sick and the dead. Come to him with your weakness, Read 2 Cor 12: 9. Keep trying dont let the enemy rob you of your blessing using discouragement. No said it would be easy, but it gets better if you trust God. Be blessed and please dont give up. Also read ps 91:1 . Keep dwelling in Gods presence and he let you abide under his shadow.
      And also when you see the enemy fighting you like this so you can give up, then know you are on the right path. He wants you to give up from the blessing in store for you...God bless you so much.

  • @Girlintheewild
    @Girlintheewild 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this! Could you make more videos about your celibacy and spirituality!

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl yes!! Its definitely the Lord has been tugging on my heart to do! More videos are coming!

  • @aniklarsen4823
    @aniklarsen4823 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sisstaa!! I love this! Just happened to see this video and decided to watch it! You’re such a light and encouragement to those who watch your videos and who surround you! Keep putting God first and being unashamed of the gospel!!! It can be scary putting yourself out there, but it’s honestly the greatest thing ever because it means you’re stepping out into faith. Much love!💙

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anik! such sweet words! Thank you so much! To God be the Glory! Stayed tuned for more transparent videos like this!

  • @gabbyjeannot8471
    @gabbyjeannot8471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Go ahead sis!! So happy for you! Praying for you and your journey

  • @sylmanyeki9323
    @sylmanyeki9323 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, I’m an atheist and I’m considering being celibate, for me it’s not about religion or spirituality. Im just tired of the culture these days. Im getting a divorce soon and I just want a fresh start with my life. Im also choosing to be single.

  • @kelseyhagon3699
    @kelseyhagon3699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wise beyond years

  • @chrisclausen5447
    @chrisclausen5447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look very healthy and happy. Almost 3 years here.

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! I appreciate that!

  • @celicawindow
    @celicawindow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6 months celibate 🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @kaylajoseph8334
    @kaylajoseph8334 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are amazing! Thanks for sharing

  • @VicReinz52
    @VicReinz52 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. I'm starting out and trying to keep my feet under me from going too far in the opposite extremes, and from ending up going in circles... It's hard.

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got this! It is hard but you can do it. Even if you fall, get up and keep at it :)

  • @bridgittjones9074
    @bridgittjones9074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen

  • @hoodpriestessphilosophy7669
    @hoodpriestessphilosophy7669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @cerberuscrux963
    @cerberuscrux963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    💜💛

  • @kissandmakeupxmorg3143
    @kissandmakeupxmorg3143 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww I love this ❤️

  • @cupcakely997
    @cupcakely997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    9 months was the longest. Need to stick to it.

  • @sergioadrianzampa8166
    @sergioadrianzampa8166 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    6 For me NOPMO IS AMAZING THANK YOU LORD!

  • @itsmesia2469
    @itsmesia2469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In celibate about 3 yrs...(but I'm not religious!)

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats great! I'm glad that you're saving yourself! ❤️

  • @renewedinchristromans12
    @renewedinchristromans12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I honestly don't think it's wise to go to each others house sis. There's no accountability in the house with no other ppl around.

    • @laidbaqq
      @laidbaqq 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had learned from a Nigerian man and from a woman (separately) that no woman should meet with a man where their actions held accountable.
      It promptly eliminates confusion about who is with whom, and with whom they are doing 'what'.

  • @ebonyrushharrington4980
    @ebonyrushharrington4980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so beautiful

  • @ABLOVE211
    @ABLOVE211 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this vid ty sis

  • @siobhanmcgregor2557
    @siobhanmcgregor2557 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 6 years celibate 😀😀😀😀 and I'd like it to be a decade.

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s amazing! 😇 6 years is a long time

  • @teehill2340
    @teehill2340 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes no stds

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LOL, this comment blesses me so much tee hill!

  • @christensanders340
    @christensanders340 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Twin flame dark knight of the soul baby

  • @htownandre7385
    @htownandre7385 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still celibate?

  • @Mturner450
    @Mturner450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sex is overrated

  • @jasminejohnson9884
    @jasminejohnson9884 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to handle not masturbating all the time?

    • @Anthony-yy3kc
      @Anthony-yy3kc ปีที่แล้ว

      Constant, ongoing surrender of that desire to God! Yes it is difficult to resist the urge, but it is necessary, because masterbation is addictive and destructive!

  • @mkilu476
    @mkilu476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The wait is so real! 7 years and counting.

    • @SHAMELESSSHAM
      @SHAMELESSSHAM  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      7 years! Thats amazing!!!!