Finally found time to go through comments & while some comments are respectful as this discussion SHOULD BE... Guess what, IF you think this is an opportunity to bash Muslims in ANY type of way shape or form your comment is getting deleted and you're getting reported! DO NOT FOR ONE SECOND THINK IT'S OKAY TO COME INTO THIS SPACE & BASH MUSLIMS. I am even angry that I even have to say this to some idiotic ignoramouses but just in case you're feeling foolish today, DON'T DO IT. Yes you can have an opinion on the conversation but NOT at the expense of respect & love towards those that may not have the same faith as you. I repeat DON'T DO IT.
Agree, if youre really religious marrying/dating outside your religion wouldnt even come up to your mind... so if a religious person dates a person from a different then theyre not really religious theyre hypocrites or theyre not religious enough... i know a lot of real religious people and they tell me that they love their religion first more than any man or woman thats they cant date someone who doesnt believe their religion
Sisters, I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as Christians when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals and read the bible? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage
You’re right that muslims don’t believe Jesus was the son of God and that instead he was a prophet. However, Muslims do believe he will resurrect and fight the anti-christ one day, they do believe he performed miracles in ways that no other prophet did, a lot of Bible stories are the same or very similar as Islam. Whist the Quran is the final book for muslims, they have 5 holy books in total (Moses/Musa’s torah, Jesus/Isa’s gospel, David/Dawud’s psalm, and the scroll of Abraham/Ibrahim) so I feel like muslim know a lot about Christianity but not vice versa. You’re right; there aren’t many differences, but the differences that there are are quite fundamental. And yes, I agree with your view on interfaith relationships ☺️
Im confused because if you believe hes just a prophet that will rise from the dead then why dont you believe that he is the son of God. Only God has the power to do that
Lifeofada exactly he will rise again into this world we believe you die and then it’s the afterlife, how can god die ? He created us god is not human with human characteristics, no holy book has described his being only his attributes because the human mind can not comprehend it. If Jesus does for ur sins then why are u here technically then u can do whatever u want and go to heaven.why does Jesus talk about the coming of another person who will tell the full truth, why does Jesus pray to god the father ? He was a prophet, prophets have certain powers given to them allowed by god to tell the nation of that time the message of god. They cannot become god that’s what we believe and we believe in the Old Testament the original one is almost identical in teaching to Quran humans destroy everything and that why the Quran is in Arabic the original text to preserve it x
Shifa Furqan Jesus could die because he was fully human and fully God. As you said the human mind can't fully comprehend everything including his concept. John 1:1 in the beginning was the word. The word was with God and the word was God. John 1:14 the word became flesh and dwelled among us. Jesus' "powers" go beyond the authority given to a prophet. Such as the fact that he had the authority to forgive the sins of others. Jesus was arrested and crucified on the cross for accusations of blasphemy. Claiming to be the son of God. So if he wasn't he wouldn't have been crucified. The Torah and the Old Testament are identical but the Quran is different to both. Jesus prays to the father because he is still fully man and therefore does everything through the guidance of the father who is still in heaven while Jesus is on earth. Philippians 2:7 explains this: "Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form" We have manuscripts of the Old Testament/Torah from hundreds of years before the Quran was revealed to Mohammed. And they are written in Aramaic or Hebrew not Arabic.
Muslims believe that Jesus (Isa) is still alive and that he didn't die on the cross but someone who god made to resemble him died on it instead, Jesus instead ascended to heaven by the permission of god and he will return when the dajjal (antichrist) comes to kill him and Muslims believe that every soul and creation must taste death so he will return then live until his time comes. God has the power to do all things and he enabled His creation to have miracles with his permission (like many prophets did e.g. Sulayman/Solomon communicating with animals) doesn't mean these miracles came from prophets themselves.. same way He says Be and it will be, like how the heavens were created and prophet Adam came to exist without parents, Jesus came about in the same manner through a miraculous birth (without a father). Hope that clears up your confusion 🙂 And because of their saying (in boast), "We killed Messiah 'Iesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary), the Messenger of Allah," - but they killed him not, nor crucified him, but the resemblance of 'Iesa (Jesus) was put over another man (and they killed that man), and those who differ therein are full of doubts. They have no (certain) knowledge, they follow nothing but conjecture. For surely; they killed him not [i.e. 'Iesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary)].." [Qur'an, Surah An-Nisaa 4:157]
I'm dealing with a breakup right now. Me and my ex literally broke up a few hours ago. He is Muslim and I'm Christian. I'm sad about it. But I feel as if it was part of God's plan. He knew it wasn't the right relationship for me. But all in all, I trust him and don't question what happened. I love God so much.
My mum is Cristian my dad is Muslim I chose to be a Muslim, I hade the exact the same experience with a guy I was seing he was Cristian, but we never had sex because I chose to save myself till marriage because of Islam, anyway it was so difficult to leave him as he was a wonderful person but I ended up leaving him and Allah reward me with the most amazing Muslim guy, I have been married for 5 years and I couldn't be happier ❤️peace to all human kind
@lord krishna So what do you think about a man supposedly led by God participating in child marriage and pedophilia like Muhammad the so called prophet did?
This video is so relatable. I'm Christian and was in an interfaith relationship so i know exactly what you meant when mentioning a part of you hoping your boyfriend would convert, i was there too, it just never worked. Yes, he encouraged me to read my bible and pray but at the same time we ALWAYS felt that void between us when it came to discussing God, even though it went unspoken. It was hard expressing spiritual encounters because he was an unbeliever, simple as. Respecting someones faith and BELIEVING in a faith are two different things
This is exactly what I’m going though. He is amazing and has no problem with my faith but he is unbelieving in anything and I just can’t fully be myself because he doesn’t understand... it’s so hard
Always, this is not about me bashing the faith I could NEVER. This is just about me sharing my opinion on who I'd want to walk in marriage with that's all x
To convert for someone else, yes, is very dangerous. It needs to be for yourself and yourself only. Nothing is permanent in this world. It’s just lust; lust is the issue.
Yes I visited a mosque before and a man who was an adviser not sure if he was an imnan told me if a woman converts to Islam she's only meant to do it for herself only nobody if she does it for her husband it will never work out. The worse thing you can do is convert for your spouse you do it for yourself and yourself only.
Looool I don't get it, this is what a few people have said 😂 ... to be fair I've grown up my whole life around loads of Muslims so I can't be getting it wrong 💖
Literally crying while watching this vid because this topic is what I’m dealing right now . Thank you for sharing your experience your words means a lot . God bless 💋
I dated two Muslims. Both left me utterly destroyed. I do not recommend dating one unless you want to stop believing Christ is God. I have never felt so much spiritual pain in my entire life.
For the Muslims there is one religion which is truth other religions they don't consider and respect as per their religious book. Especially girls don't get involved with Muslim boy's even though he is not practicing or serious about his religion as you don't know when he can get serious with religion and destroy your life.
@@NativeSpiritWolfI'm sorry you went through that but as a Muslim woman that's just so sad to see that some Muslims aren't honest about it from the get go for the other person to know what they're getting themselves into, I was put in a similar situation where a Christian liked me and had Strong feelings for me and I had the same feelings.. He was everything I search for in a man kindness, principles a man of words and even then I refused to not be honest and tell him the truth and he's the one that chose to try searching for my religion in fact insisted giving this hope and a chance and just time and see if it fits him(my religion) because my condition was for him to not change his beliefs for me that's just selfish to me but he wanted to search and be hopeful, to be honest I wasn't too hopeful he was catholic and he was convinced of his beliefs he's happy with them so I was just giving this a chance cause I loved him so much hoping, again telling him to not do it for me but to change his beliefs if he is convinced and he wants to do it for himself. Long story short I saw he couldn't do it which made me have to end it to not complicate our feelings even more and hurt each other.. The situation was gonna be hurtful either way if it didn't end by us being together but being honest is a right for the other person for them to make their own decision as an individual, I could've easily hidden the truth from him just to be with the person I love but I couldn't do that, I would feel like I'm betraying this person and hurting him intentionally and that's something I would hate to do to someone I love and now I just wish him the best and to find the person that cares for him and appreciates him and treats him well cause he deserves everything in the world.
Great video! I fell in love with someone who's Muslim. Been with him for 2 years. We care for each other alot but that's the one thing I can no longer compromise. I've decided to walk away from him...your video really helped put things in perspective for me. Thank you
I too am in love with a Muslim rn as we speak an this video has given me a big insite from a women's point of view on interfaith he doesn't mind me not converting but I find myself having to just to continue this relationship I truly hope it is all well for us all and that God will see us thru our endeavors
Depends on the Muslim person it seems...as I've heard otherwise. However, the main difference is how Jesus/Yashuah is viewed by Islam versus Christianity.
But you believe god put someone that looks like Jesus on the cross to fool everyone. We don’t believe this, nor do we believe Jesus is just prophet, if he was just a prophet the romans and Jews wouldn’t have killed him. They killed him because of what he claimed about himself. He called himself the light, he claimed you could only teach god by him. Our version of Jesus is the original we don’t believe in your version of Jesus that wasn’t shown anywhere in the ancient text or the Aramaic bible.
Idjati Iddris they don’t believe in Jesus is the son of God huge difference they follow the writing of a false prophet not the truth. Teaching of Jesus they do Polygamy. They said God said is allow and they don’t care really much of that they are nice but I felt Jesus Presence I didn’t understand God when he told don’t marry a Muslim I am suffering in the marriage but I’m Hurt 😢 because I married to a Muslim and it’s hard I cannot have kids with him because you want your kids be Muslim leave Jesus and follow Muhammad. The testimony believe in Jesus Christ is something else but it’s not the same .
They mainly follow written in the book of Muhammad Islam Tell About killing Christian . I know the Islam view it say it the Quran Kill the Christians and Jews . Muhammad say in Quran they don’t believe that Ishmael is the first heir and right Heir to God not Issac. Huge difference. They believe this they based everything in facts but sometimes we cannot explain God . Why he do the things he Do. Where did God come from why he truly created us it’s unexplainable these Muslim just make logic sense and proof they don’t believe that Jesus is the son of God or in Bible . They lie and say I believe in the Bible . I went to the mosque these woman told me . I said to them how can you believe in the Bible when you denied Jesus as the only prophet and the son of God . These Muslim believe in facts If they cannot find evidence or facts they will not believe . I know them truly . They cannot say I believe in The Bible they no believe Issac is the first true Heir to God calling . They believe all prophets are sinless People . I was talk To a Islamic Man who preachers Islam . Everything they believe in facts . I’m be honest with you Islam is unfair you can have more than one wife without the consent of you . If you no like it divorced. They want the kids to be Muslim. In Islam A man can take away the kids if a Islamic woman marry a man they think he is a rapist if she has daughter. They think cover themselves will be saved . They truly don’t follow the Bible the Quran is a replication of God First Bible the Bible Is book of translations yes but Islam is false even preacher of Islam convert to Christianity in Islamic state in a country Like Egypt KSA or Morrocco they will Kill you if your a born Muslim you know they will Kill You if you convert to Christianity that the law . Islamic Law . Read the Quran Muhammad Tell Islamic people if you no Believe I am the prophet is the last day destroy all non believers who don’t believe in God or the Quran . How can you do this . If you was in a Muslim Country they do that if your a Muslim girl want to marry a non Muslim It’s not allowed . You have to convert. Jesus say don’t kill love your enemy. But Muhammad say in Quran destroy all non believers who don’t believe in God or Muhammad Is the prophet . This is true .
I watched this video halfway through my one year relationship prayed and prayed to God and about 8 months later I finally broke things off and it’s still so hard. Thank you for making this video it has helped me so much and I don’t feel alone on this subject. Thank you 🙏🏼
I am so happy I came across this video! I’m going through a situation now where I’m dating a Muslim man and I’m a Christian woman. It’s VERY hard to end things because of this beautiful bond we’ve created even though I know deep down in my heart it’s not right.
a person who says they're a Christian but doesn't think being with a non Christian is not serious. God is not the priority in their life because they choose sin and the idol of a relationship over their relationship with God. especially for women, the man is the head of the family under Christ. the man is supposed to lead his family into a deeper relationship with The Lord so even being with a person who claims to be a Christian with no fruit is an issue. praise God that you put God first in this area.
GodsWordSaves 7 you clearly have not read the Bible ... god gives the permission to marry a non believer... but if the non believer wants to leave .. let them. God gives women 2 ways/reasons to remarry. 1 as a widow... 2 divorcing a non believer.
God's word saves7: You have read The Bible but I encourage a re evaluation of the conclusion of your interpretation of that scripture you are sharing with her based on 1 Corinthians 614 the commands a believer not to be unequally yoked with a non believer. So in 1 Corith 7:15 we are looking out a relationship where spouse probably comes to Christ during the marriage. Context of the scripture you refer to is partial true. But any prudent interpretation and application of scripture is based on deeper study where scripture interprets scripture. Thus even the assumption that the believing spouse is able to biblical remarry is speculative depending on the pastorial interpretation. Yes I know some Christians that have found pastors in churches that would remarry them, but they themselves were not trully christian during the marriage, but from a mixed marriage of jewish Catholic. In one when the man became really convicted in Christ his wife couldn't put up with it so as a Jew she left and divorced him. Rventually he remarried another Christian women and has a strong ministry now. Earlier I gave this lady's opposed and it was pretty inclusive not realising she already had left the marriage because I didn't read the whole title fully. 30 am doubtful that interpretation that was because of the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:31-32
@@kerdijacharles2490 you can do anything you want but bot all things are beneficial. The scripture clearly says don't be unequally yolked with an unbeliever.
@@selahchunem8447 agreed. The scripture in Corinthians pertains to two unbelievers who marry and in the course of the marriage one gets saved. If the unsaved one is happy to remain, it's not a sin seeing as they're already married. But if the unsaved person is unhappy, they're free to go.
I’ve been in the same situation and finally broke up with my Muslim boyfriend. I’m happy for you that you found the right man. Praying that this happens to me as well. Thanks for sharing this video :)
@@cAkE-tt8xc hey 👋🏻 it’s been a while since I shared that comment 🙃 I can tell you, that time helps a lot. For now I would recommend to spend time with friends, distance yourself even more from the guy (mentally as well as locally) and write down exactly what you are looking for in a man. That way, it helped me personally, to focus on me and what I wanted. 👍🏻 Today I have found the man I was looking for and am proud to be able to build a life together. Wishin’ you all the best! 🙌🏻💕🤗
@@rufflesinrose i’m so happy for you! i am currently going to call him monday and let him know we should cut off contact for a bit. we ended due to religious culture clash, but i am starting to realize that our relationship had so many more flaws and i’m better off this way. i wish you the best and thank you!
This revelation is so spot on. The entire video depicts my situation and it’s very hard, especially while carrying a child by this person. It’s made me seek God like never before. Never have I’ve sacrificed myself unto God and endured pain as such.
Thank you for posting this video. I'm a Christian who was not awoke when I married my ex-husband back in 2000. I didn't realize it would fail and like I said, I wasn't awoke. We were married until 2017. He used to always tell me that God woudn't have a son and I should use my head and realize there is only one God and Jesus was just a prophet. I was around a lot of Muslim people and a lot of the women would tell me to convert to make the marriage better. I couldn't imagine just giving up my beliefe in who Jesus is. I don't know, I was 30 and not aware of things now. Thank you for posting!! It took a lot of courage to submit this video. Thank you and God Bless You!
God's timing is incredibly perfect, I only just recently made a breakthrough in a VERY similar situation and seeing this video just proves the Lord is really placing conviction in my heart once and for all. Thank you again Nissy, truly.
👏 I'm Muslim, but I respect this so much! I was the same way when I was younger. Even though I was not really practicing my faith, I knew that I needed to not get invested in someone that wasn't on the same path as me. I actually went though a very similar situation with a guy that was Baptist. Literally I am married to the man that I prayed for when I have up the relationship that I knew was wrong for me. It is so crazy how your story is almost exactly like mine. I think that the only difference in our stories is that the belief system is flipped. Love ya, and God bless. 😊
@@fizasakhter Don't take any decision that you will regret for rest of your life. And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sabirun (the patient). Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: “Truly! To Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.”
I'm in the same situation and it's so hard because I have strong feelings for him and he's such a nice guy he is always by my side an he is my best friend but God is my father and I want to put him first so please pray for me I need his strength to do this
Miriam If you parents were true Christians they wouldn’t care if hes black... I understand different religions aspect because the Bible forbids it but your parents sound racist af
Zhar Butler yea I know, they are racist. I just don’t know what to do to change their mind, I really love my boyfriend and he is a really nice person. But I know they wouldn’t accept him
Crazy! Seconds ago I spoke to my sister about a man I was talking to, same tribe, same everything but we’re of different yokes and I have been battling in my heart on what to do. As God would have it, this was his way of speaking to me. All glory to the most high 🙏🏾
Going through the comments and seeing all these people saying yada yada about HER OPINION on interfaith relationships 🙄 seriously?! If it works for you go ahead! There’s nothing backwards about having the view that interfaith relationship isn’t for everyone i believe that the principle of do not be unequally yoked goes with the principle of iron sharpeneth iron so please not all of us believe in interfaith relationships
Looool girrrrrrrl don't even worry, I knew this would happen but that's fine, I will still make sure I share my own opinion on MY page, people will either just have to deal with it & we have respectful conversations or not watch my content... it's that simple tbh! xx
i agree with you bc when you have loved someone then both of you need to handle it when youre in a boat you can not just throw your partner to drown just bc that boat cant take both you then what kind of love is that when you cant even figure things out than leaving eachother ik leaving is the easiest option bc people dont wanna suffer for their love to make it possible . i have alot of christians who has married in the same religion but got divorced . i feel like uequally yoked means when you both cant figure things out then you wont even stay with eachother while being in a same religion
omg !!!!!! Literally my Ex broke up with him just over a month ago, same story. Knew that I had to break up with him because I finally realised that I wanted the perfect will of God but if that said he was an amazing but Im glad I walked away because I would rather cry now than later.
It goes to show that if you put GOD first... HE will reward you with a first-class gift. Even though you're young, girl you're intelligent. Continue to allow God to stay and day in you no matter how hard the situation is
What your pastor said to you in 17:00 was the upmost truth. When God uses people to speak to you it is incredible. Sometimes as believers we can forget the Holy Spirit is in us to guide and press us to do what is good. I'm so happy you did just that. Thank you for allowing God to use your situation to show forth His Glory! God bless.
I am dealing with this right now. I am a christian and he's a muslim. We're also have been together for 3 years. I was a mess and being with him improved me so much. Lately, my anxiety has returned and having trouble sleeping because of this issue. I live in Malaysia so I need to convert if I were to marry him and he's not willing to migrate. I think deep down we will not end together but I really love him dearly and wishes to marry him. He ticks all the boxes for me (and more) except for religion. It doesn't help that today's Good Friday and I don't know how I would feel no longer able to celebrate it.
Basically lol!! But finally he decided that we will keep dating and in the future Try to make it work with a marriage. At first his Muslim family refused to accept him dating and marrying a Christian but finally they came around too
This is what exactly happen to me right now....It's really hard....Acutely hard....He's Muslim and I'm Christian.😭😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 We've dated and broke up...Then, reconcile and now I don't know about our status. It's like hanging. Pray for me.
i was in the same situation, i was ready to break up with him, i took some time away to pray and fast on many occasions, he didn't force me he gave me my spaces during that time, he was also dealing with the same thing on his side; i tried dating other guys making sure that they are christian lol, it didn't work for some reason God was always bringing us back together, we met in 2011, we got engage in 2019; it was a lot of work and stress over all the years but i know God is in control! One day during they time that I was praying to God for an answer, my big border sent this to me ( i though he was going to be against my relationship like most people in my family, i really didn't expect him to be on my side) 1 Corinthians 7 New International Version (NIV) Concerning Married Life 12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. God servent in the bible gave this advice, and bless the day that i receive it!
Olivia Ornella then what did you do at the end? I don’t know what to do. I love my boyfriend so much and I want to marry him, but the only condition is that my kids would have to be Muslim. I’m scared that God is not gonna forgive me for not telling my kids about the Gospel.
Sara V in that condition specifically I think it wouldn’t matter, just as you were raised Christian you had the chance to decide if you want it to keep the religion or convert later and so they will. Just my opinion!
I agree but love is not enough for a mature relationship to work. If you’ve been in a real relationship you’d know it’s more than just the present and how lovey dovey it is. It’s more than that, aside from responsibilities you also have to think about the future you’ll both have, and as she saw they weren’t fully compatible she knew she had to let go.
Dayani Lazo if you can’t see a future together than did you really love him doe? I’m in a very real relationship and I know no matter what future I can envisage, he will be there regardless, no ifs or buts. Sure everyone has responsibilities, but to let go of ‘true love’ for a difference is faith is preposterous! Maybe I’m just naive and have had just good experiences in life but I still believe to this day, love conquers all and if you have that one special person by your side, come what may, you will defeat it together. I’ve found my one I hope everyone else can to because once you find him/her you will not let go, I promise you.
Whodatfellow I’m glad you’ve found someone who you love very much! It’s very hard haha. The thing though, for people who are very deep in their faith but also want to love at the same time, faith and love have to come hand in hand. Because faith is practiced everyday and it’s a daily thing & with faith most of the time comes family. If they’re both different religions and they make it work that’s amazing , but speaking from experience and assuming this girl too, she and I are deep in our faith and would also like to share and practice it with our partner. Also comes the responsibility of ‘what would our children’s religious views be’ etc , speaking from traditional families.
I’m in a similar situation, sister. Thank you for making this video. It’s such a struggle. I like this Muslim guy and we’re really good friends. We have feelings for each other but I can’t do it because I’m a Christian and I can’t date him cause I know we can’t marry. But I want to date him a lot. And things are going in that direction but I don’t want to dishonor God. I need prayer in this regard. Love and Peace follow you sister.
you will find Allah in Arabic bible because Al-Lah means The-God it's the same God who sent Adam to Jesus prophets. Jesus is a mighty prophet in Islam too. So now question is that why you think it's a different God, any reason ? Do Jews have a different God too ? No right ,same God right?
actually nah Islamically a Muslim man can marry woman of the book i.e Christian and Jewish woman only if they abstain from premarital sex. Because in most cases the Father is the religious head of the family so they most likely take the religion from him. Obviously it isnt recommended because of how risky it is but people choose to do so.
I'm sorry it Didn't work out, Nissy, I think you are so strong. In my case, my partner is a Libian muslim, but I think we have so many cultural clashes instead of religious ones, because I'm salvadorean, and we think so differently in many aspects, makes me think how we had chemistry in the first place. Sometimes love is just not enough.
I'm Christian and he's muslim too from Egypt. Been together for almost 4 years and about 1 year married . It does work for us somehow Ofcourse we have some really bad moments but we still together. Will do meet his family for first time very soon . Hopefully everything will work out too . It's just makes me really worried Because he knows that I'm not really believe in everything but he accept it . Hope his family will too.
Indre Lankaite Hi! I’m in a similar situation. I’m a catholic and my boyfriend is Muslim. The biggest thing we fight about is raising children. Can I ask how you guys plan on raising your future kids i.e under what religion. Or will you be teaching them both and letting them choose later? Thanks!
I love hun, as a Christian my self you didn’t obey the Lord and Jesus says if you love him you will obey what He commands. The problem is your husband isn’t sAved and is actually anti Christ. It says in the Bible that anyone who Denies Jesus as the Son of God is anti christ . Please read your Bible especially the gospel of John.
Also, praise God! You are now engaged and soon to be married. What a marvelous and faithful God we serve🙏🏾 Blessings upon you, your husband and your family-to-be❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for searching your experience. I had the same experience, but I needed 4 years to understand and it was so hard to let go. And now it's been almost 2 years and I think it was for the best. Having intercourse with someone really creates a bond between u & the person on a deeper level, people shouldnt underestimate that. Love your videos 😘
Blaq Rose I wish I knew he was who he was prior to marrying him they screw around and beat they wives and many be living double lives while mistreating their spouses behind close doors and in public at times and are crazy and treat mistresses like they’re the wife
you get real lovey....you can't pick and choose what Allah has commanded otherwise you pay the price on this earth and in the next life.....this day and age following Allah's commands, people think your a weirdo but hey we are heading towards the time of dajjal and our prophet fore warned us of this era....up to you
Every conversion is recent, we believe no one is born Christian. But every child is born innocent with the knowledge of Good and Evil. The Middle East has many people becoming Christian in fact many of the migrants are devout Christians, many of which couldn’t express their conversion in their native country.
MAMA AFRICA Look on a Map, Northen Nigeria forms the Arewa states. This region is geographically larger than the South and is Islamic going back to the Nigerian empires. The estimated population of this region is 90 million. In Nigeria Islam spans most of the major ethnic groups. You will find Igbo and Yoruba Muslims but less likely to say the same for Hausa and Fulani people being Christian..... e It's logical because Islam is so much older in Nigeria than Christianity that was brought by the British during slavery and colonization.......
MAMA AFRICA I ain't Muslim and I am not Nigerian. I have read this repeatedly especially coming from Nigerian Muslims that Islam is bigger in Nigeria than Christianity.....
“60% of Nigeria are Muslim” prove it please you supposed smartass. Oh wait you can’t!! You are saying Muslims are 90 million so what are Christians then?? Definitely more than 90 million aswell.. so how can Christianity be 30%?? You are a moron!! Get your facts right before you speak about what you know Nothing about!
As a muslim I can really appreciate the way you speak about islam. You are very respectful and honest about things you are uneducated about( the jesus matter)
To all Christian woman. Please do NOT date a Muslim. He will never trully respect you and your christian values. You are so precious!!. The things he will require from you during dating,… he will NEVER ask a muslim girl. Christian ladies…. Pleaseeeeeeee… “dont cast your pearls before swines”-Matthew 7:6-
very similar to my situation! I was with a wayyyyyy back slided 'Christian' for a year and half, who had technically become agnostic. I couldn't bring myself to break up with him, though I tried. But I prayed to God to have His will over my life and to bring this relationship to an end in the way that will hurt me the least if it was not His will for me to be in this relationship, and voilaa, he broke up with me, i got closure and its been fairly easy. we'll be friends though some day in the future
I'm so grateful and blessed with this video I'm going through a similar situation being a Christian and trying to figure things out, you have really helped me today
Ok so I was watching this and oh my.. I can relate in so many ways. Just wanna say ‘thank you’! I knew what to do, but I just couldn’t push myself to do it. But hearing how God blessed you with something better even when you used to think ‘this is what I want’ is amazing. This was the encouragement I needed.
You have just given a narrative of my life's story. Omds! Omds! I relate to everything you've said from the first minute! Just didn't go third base thankfully. Broke things off after 11 months together.
Time gathers maturity.. Love is love, no matter what culture you are.. If you both love God, then that is all that matters. God always works things out, God works out the impossible. You have a lot to learn especially about love, God bless x
Ahhh, exhilarating. God’ll will bless and reward you in ways that you don’t expect and can not anticipate nor quantify, not for letting the chap go necessarily, but for obeying Him. Much love.
Thanks for this video. I fell for a Muslim man, he was amazing but I knew that as a Christian woman I couldn't pursue it. I prayed and let it go. I found out he got married and my heart is broken. I know that God will send me His choice of husband to me. It just hurts that all.
T he trinity duhhh. There are three persons in God : God the father, God the son and God the Holy Spirit. There are not 3 Gods. But there is only one 1 God. Jesus Christ is God the son, made man for us. Jesus Christ is truly God because he has one and the same nature with God the father.
Emperor Shao Khan Jesus suffered under Pontus Pilate (by the Jews) for admitting to being the son of God. “yes it is as you say, but I say to all of you: in the future you will see the son of man sitting at the right hand of the mighty one and coming on the clouds of heaven”. (Mathews 26:64)
Emperor Shao Khan there were also testimony’s that Jesus is the son of God . For example : Followers of Jesus testified after he calmed a storm : “and when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. And those in the boat worshipped him saying , ‘truly you are the son of God’. (Mathew 14:32-33)
Did it say, truly you are the biological son, even in the bible is says "David, he begotten thee" meaning God beget david. why don't you call him the son of God to the same level you call jesus the son of God.
the fact that mate could possibly die and be in eternal damnation is too much for me. I would want my husband to attend church with and have a relationship with Christ.
Mi Ri a Muslim could say the same and want their husband/wife to attend the mosque and relation ship with God alone. I think that's ignorant of u to say. To each their own religion. Quran 109:6
I had to leave my long term relationship for different spiritual beliefs. But I pray Allah blesses her with a strong man that shares her faith and brings her peace and joy MashAllah 🤲🏾
My Boyfriend is a Muslim and I am a Christian. We never had an issue about religion but his family are really against me. I am a Filipina and they are Pakistani born and raised in US. He broke up with me cos I think he cant take the pressure anymore in their family. One day on our anniversary, he just told me on the phone that “Im done” and then his sister talked to me that the relationship cant go on anymore because of our differences. After that he never contacted me anymore. I know how we truly love each other, but i think he cant take how heavy the situation anymore. He gave up. And its really killing me.
@@thewholetruth5473 Allah says in the Quran (interpretation of the meaning): “Allah does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly.” [Al-Mumtahanah 60:8]
I am in exact situations. I am Christian and my boyfriend is Muslim. I am praying about it. I am struggling to break-up, i donot have the strength. I know it is not right deep down. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾
I am literally crying because this is what I am going through now. Let the holy spirit direct me so I can take a bow, I love him so much but I have to let go
Thank thank you so much for sharing your story 🙏🏻 I believe it was no accident that I came across your video.. it helped me see things a whole lot clearer. Even years later, your story is helping people, it helped me tremendously. Bless your your heart ❤
I'm currently in a similar crisis but mine is more "interdominational" than "interfaith". So we're both Christians but come from two different denominations. I was raised Presbyterian and he's Adventist (studying theology so he will be a practicing Adventist pastor at the end of his study program. It's an issue because our fundamental beliefs and doctrines are very different and they're differences that I can't look past. I know also deep in my heart that I'd rather die than allow my children be brought up in the ways of Adventism. But he loves me and I love him too and I would be honored to some day become his bride and give him beautiful babies 😭 provided of course that he agrees for us to find a new Bible-based denomination together (which I feel is highly unlikely). I know my situation is slightly different but the dilemma and frustration is the same as I'm quite rooted in my faith and even though my relationship with God is always in the works, I would give my life for what I know in my heart to be The Truth. Leaving makes sense, but feels almost unfair. Like just when I've found someone who makes me feel like a queen, we don't exactly believe in the same things. Anyway sorry for my very late and very long post. I guess I also kinda needed to vent.
Omg girl I’m an Adventist dating a Muslim and I’m on the same boat.The fact that your SO is studying theology makes it harder to compromise. I’ve dated Adventist men who didn’t treat me well and I ended up being unhappy, but behold a Muslim man comes in my life and makes me feel loved. Funny how God works...
I am also Adventist dating a Muslim! Can I just ask both of you a question? Do you ever feel like the relationship has no chance of surviving? And how do your families feel about bringing someone in from a different faith/domination. I’ve been dating my SO for over 2 years now and I am still unable to tell my family about his faith. And like you I would be uncomfortable for my child to be raised Muslim...
My grandmother married a Muslim and their lives turned into chaos. They do not worship God, they worship a different spirit. That spirit got invited into their home. I have no interest in closely tying my soul to people who aren't submitted to Christ. It would forever create a wall between us.
Viany Se omg sister God will bless you for this. This is my first time of reading this verse in the bible. I really wanna hug you right now cuz I’m in a similar situation. I’m a Christian and my bf is a Muslim. He is by far the best man I’ve ever been with. This has nothing to do with religion, it’s just the way God made him to be. I’ve been thinking a lot lately as I don’t know what to do but this verses is like a revelation to me. Thank you sis 🙏🏾
Wow! Thank you, for being obedient and sharing this. God just asked my prayers by putting this in my crossing. Even years later God is allowing this to be blessing to someone! 💕
With or without marriage, Islam recognises the people of the book! They are mentioned in many chapters across the book of Allah, the Quran. We deal with them in all sorts of areas of life and they are given specific rights when present in a place ruled by authentic Muslim leadership. They, people of the book, Christians and Jews worship Allah! Not only that, they recite Allah’s verses, the Bible and the Torah. About Muslim women not marrying from اهل الكتاب, people of the book. It’s about protecting the Fitra/in born nature to believe in the oneness of Allah alone of the Muslim woman! Muslim men are the protector naturally because they know this from a very young age and fellow Christain/Jewish men although our brothers, they can be somewhat unfamiliar with the concept of توحيد/ oneness of Allah almighty and Islam in general. Islam gives women so many rights which every Muslim man is more than familiar with. A non Muslim man obviously can’t rise up to it because it’s not necessarily part of his religion. The focus is on the Muslim woman and it’s not about spreading Islam by seducing Christian or Jewish women so that they convert, it’s simply because of protection of the God given rights of the Muslim woman. A woman of the book, chaste and a believer of the oneness of Allah enjoys these rights as well if married to a practicing Muslim man. Women in nature are easier and more tending to compromise and although this is beneficial totally and makes sure of the survival of the human society, it can be catastrophic in a mixed faith marriage from the part of the Muslim woman because she may lose her Iman/faith in the process by being feminine and nice. It’s non negotiable at all. Islam is the birth right of women and deserves tender intimate care by the male partner. Will this happen with a non Muslim nan. No. Will a muslim man care for the monotheistic nature of any woman. Yes. 💗🍇💖
Nissy Tee hey just to let you know it’s because women are deficient according to mohammad. therefore a man is capable of converting her (marrying someone of the book has the expectation of conversion), or at least ensuring the children are muslim. but a woman would not be capable of converting the husband.
Amen 🙏🏿. Yes, you can never change anyone. I've heard a similar story to yours. It was a girl who was Christian and her boyfriend was Muslim. They had been together for at least 6 years or so but her parents warned her. The guy on the other hand wanted to marry her but he said he won't go to church except on their wedding day. His family all converted to Christianity except him. I honestly don't know if they are together now. Great video 👍🏾😊
Interfaith relationships can work UNLESS, one side is muslim and then it's miserable. Constant struggle to jam their faith down to your throat. And as a Christians we tend to be mild and tolerant so we start to bend with time and simply not wanting to constantly argue. Fundamentals of Islam is so beyond intolerant and inflexible it's impossible to coexist nonetheless to build a relationship with someone. I've don't the leg work. Trust me. No matter how moderate they might be, they will always nag you about pork, alcohol, clothing...
ahmed koulougli and? As a Muslim you should know what it’s like to be hypocritical. A lot of Muslims refuse to eat pork but will pop pills, smoke , drink and engage in premarital sex!
That's so cute. Reached the bit with your answered prayer. This guy showed interest in me when I was 18-20. He wasn't Muslim and he liked me and I liked him back. I knew it was against my Islamic faith so I just ignored him. But then he started sexually manipulating me emotionally, taking advantage of the fact that I was facing racism at the time (it was the ISIS years and I am an Arab Muslim. He happens to be white lol) and suggesting to me that I need feminism:( He applied that weird Robert Green "The Art of Seduction" book on me ;v; when I found out I was grateful that I avoided him because that isn't how you treat someone you have respect for. And even typing this perhaps I'm realising I dodged a bullet, so God protected me.And yeah I never suggested to him that he should convert for the same reason- it's a bit disrespectful to the other person.
Pia Love that’s fine, but he isn’t allowed to be alone w. Her. There has to be someone of her family (father, brother etc.) or his family with them at all times. Also they aren’t allowed to touch. No hugs, now kisses, not even a hand shake. They also have to do so w. The intention of marriage. Marriage is the very near future.
crystal tøp and they are wrong. If they are not follow Islam by the understanding of the companions and the salaf they are following it wrong. These were the people who were the closest to the Prophet salalahu ilahi wasalam so if they were following wrong he would have corrected them.
Sis! Im so sad right now. I just recently stopped dating this guy who is Muslim. I like him ALOT and he was crushed but I don't wanna hurt Jesus either! 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
You sound like insecure and dramatic. I’m Muslim and my girlfriend is Christian. We both accept and respect each other‘s faith. We both go to church and mosque. We both have talked about our faith and agreed about each other’s faith. Which means I don’t have to convert to become Christian and she doesn’t have to convert to become a Muslim! Equality is a key. And yes she believes that Jesus is the son of God. And I believe that Jesus is a prophet of god, but we didn’t leave each other because of our different opinions. We both open minded and love each other‘s Faith. And treat each other equally🤷♂️
I'm in the same situation as you, my boyfriend is a Muslim and I am a Christian and we really love each other but he insists that we should have a Muslim wedding which I have not accepted to that yet ,and I don't really know what to do right now
Harry Anita I don’t think it’s fair. But I think it’s better to mix it up which is what I’m going to do in my wedding. He’s only trying to take control and benefits his culture and religion over your, which is very common thing and I really don’t like. So my advice to you is to make sure that you get treated fairly and not being taking advantage of!
Thank you SO MUCH for your awesome testimony! Praise God for your sacrificial obedience. The Lord indeed rewards exceeding abundantly about all we could ask or think!
I'm kind of angry, because I recently met someone online and we met in person and things went great. He revealed that he's Muslim after we had a connection. 😔 .
Same here sis! He is the sweetest man I ever met! the most intentional man I ever met, and is so kind. We make each other laugh as if we are long time friends. We shared many conversations and I realized on our first date he is Muslim and that honestly was surprising to me because I never met a Muslim before
Interfaith relationships or even friendships work only when people are tolerant on both sides. If you are tolerant and the other person is not then you eventually become very defensive and exhausted. “Find the right people who is not going to shame you for who you are is the point here”
The bitter truth is that interfaith relationships don't work. Even if between you and your partner you come to an understanding, You will do an injustice on your children. They will have no clear path, no real belonging to a community and will be neither here nor there very wishy washy and will probably end up not religious because of all the conflicting opinions they won't be able to work through when they are young. Now for something which is more controversial, I don't believe in inter-racial relationships either. Making it work means that you have to learn the others language, culture and have to remember marriage is never just about two people. It's two entire families and the children that will come from it. You would really have to commit to bringing them up in a certain way in one of your cultures because when you are someone "in the middle" it does not feel good and your children will be confused, have a lack of identity and feel like they don't belong in either side of the family. You can hate but that's my views 💁🏻
Jasmine A That's a lot of "probably's". They probably will be open minded people and SEEK god instead of following blindly behind the "clear direction" of their parents. Parents are just people that tripped thru life before you and love you enough to share what they value from those experiences. It does not mean they were right. It probably all can do a million different ways -- because that's how life works
T Mitch You are 100% right. Parents are never always right, but from a religious stand point, whatever your religion is, it's one of your Main purposes in life to create a Strong, Faith-based family unit. You are meant to guide and give your children the best chance at achieving what you believe in- coming with two sides of the same coin is just confusing. Some of my family is blended, and all I'm doing is saying my opinion from what I've seen and experienced personally and in others lives. Who is right? Only God knows. But in a society that is not geared towards God at all these days, the number one place to build that connection love faith and understanding with the creator is the Home- if you are receiving mixed messages at home, I think many young people will just go with the easy option that is pushed on people in the Uk- that religion is stupid and it's fake. Just my two cents from experience, and I would definitely give this experience onto my children one day too.
That's not true! Having been brought up in an interfaith marriage, I can tell you that LOVE DOES NOT CONQUER ALL. it will indeed affect ur children and it will cause a lot of tension. I didn't go to church or mosque for the first 18 years of my life. I only started going to church when I went to uni. A lot of people do not get the privilege of ever making a choice or even knowing the right choice to make.
Nissy, I admire your strength, integrity, your love for Jesus and your courage, that your love for Him and obedience to thus sayest the Lord trumped any love that you had for this man. So glad we were blessed with the man the Lord created for you and that you trusted, as you said that when you honor the Lord, He will honor you! ❤️
MAMA AFRICA She should learn because it means she is tolerant about other religions while being considerate about cultures. I would do the same. It doesn't mean that our religions would change. There is no harm in learning. Why don't you calm down and stop arguing with everyone over the Internet? It's not worth it.
There is a reason why we say no sex before marriage. The women gets attached after sex. The man wont commit after sex, he only commit after securing a marriage contract. The guy was non practicing muslim man...he played with your time, your body and left you empty. The worst part is you allowed it to happen.
Adila Aday or because the man wants power and freedom, which you can find EVERYWHERE on earth. Its called sexism.there is a reason why Saudi arabians had to fight for the right to drive a car.. Lets be real
Girrrrrrrl you are preaching to the choir. I dated an “open” Muslim for several months. He wasn’t even active. That should have been a sign but I just took it lightly. After a few months I decided to draw close to God, and he even supported me in everything especially when I was fasting but then things just didn’t work. Outside of religion, once I began to pull back (physically/celibacy) and seek a true walk with God, he respected me and said he was all for it but then our relationship lost its flare and he became more interested in hanging out with friends and pursuing his own things (like literally, buying a whole house) than building a relationship with me in a healthy manner. We are close to 30 so that just didn’t make sense to me. I prayed for him hard but I knew it wasn’t my job to “convert” him. We didn’t have an amicable break up though. Yours was definitely hard since you guys lasted for so long and he was willing. Mine just ghosted me so I was kinda forced to end it. I am so glad that God has honored your decision over the years. I am thoroughly encouraged. Stay blessed!!
Aaaaaaaaah Noko Bene! Hurry up and bala musai na yo! eza penza ya nzmabe well done on following the voice of the lord some of us can relate in this in different ways its not only about leaving a relationship it could also be leaving the wordly things and coming to God etc... Thanks again for sharing your videos keep them coming and be blessed
Thank you so much for posting this video. It has helped me and confirmed my decision to walk away from this type of relarionship was the right choice for me to make. You have given me renewed faith that my true, equally yoked husband is out there, and I will wait for God to reveal him to me ❣️
This was such a great video, I'm not sure if this topic is talked about a lot,but I'm glad you posted this, I'm a Christian woman this has really gave me an eye opener on this subject Thanks for your story. Much love sis 💕
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Finally found time to go through comments & while some comments are respectful as this discussion SHOULD BE... Guess what, IF you think this is an opportunity to bash Muslims in ANY type of way shape or form your comment is getting deleted and you're getting reported! DO NOT FOR ONE SECOND THINK IT'S OKAY TO COME INTO THIS SPACE & BASH MUSLIMS. I am even angry that I even have to say this to some idiotic ignoramouses but just in case you're feeling foolish today, DON'T DO IT. Yes you can have an opinion on the conversation but NOT at the expense of respect & love towards those that may not have the same faith as you. I repeat DON'T DO IT.
I have a lot of respect for you tbh thanks for standing up for other faiths some people let it slide by
Nissy Tee Thanks 🌸
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Interfaith relationships only work if you're not really religious
SenszR yes exactly
Absolutely
I agree it can work.. but there must be a compromise on one of their part
Agree, if youre really religious marrying/dating outside your religion wouldnt even come up to your mind... so if a religious person dates a person from a different then theyre not really religious theyre hypocrites or theyre not religious enough... i know a lot of real religious people and they tell me that they love their religion first more than any man or woman thats they cant date someone who doesnt believe their religion
Exactly
Sisters, I am a child of a Christian woman and a Muslim man. I can tell you it has caused so much confusion and distress for me and my siblings. We have grown up confused. I was even an Atheist for many years until one day, by the grace of God I was saved in Jesus name. Now my relationship with my dad is strained. He is 'ashamed' because in Islam a man's duty is to raise muslim children. How will you raise your children as Christians when you and your husband will be constantly fighting about how to raise the children? Will he allow your kids to celebrate your festivals and read the bible? Please think about your children and most importantly their souls! A marriage is not just about you, it is about God and the children you will raise together. Peace and love. I do not mean to cause distress just giving my experience from a child of interfaith marriage
Thank you for this one, I put my children as my Priority
💯Same
You’re right that muslims don’t believe Jesus was the son of God and that instead he was a prophet. However, Muslims do believe he will resurrect and fight the anti-christ one day, they do believe he performed miracles in ways that no other prophet did, a lot of Bible stories are the same or very similar as Islam.
Whist the Quran is the final book for muslims, they have 5 holy books in total (Moses/Musa’s torah, Jesus/Isa’s gospel, David/Dawud’s psalm, and the scroll of Abraham/Ibrahim) so I feel like muslim know a lot about Christianity but not vice versa. You’re right; there aren’t many differences, but the differences that there are are quite fundamental. And yes, I agree with your view on interfaith relationships ☺️
nm m yes they do!!!!!!!!!!🙄
Im confused because if you believe hes just a prophet that will rise from the dead then why dont you believe that he is the son of God. Only God has the power to do that
Lifeofada exactly he will rise again into this world we believe you die and then it’s the afterlife, how can god die ? He created us god is not human with human characteristics, no holy book has described his being only his attributes because the human mind can not comprehend it. If Jesus does for ur sins then why are u here technically then u can do whatever u want and go to heaven.why does Jesus talk about the coming of another person who will tell the full truth, why does Jesus pray to god the father ? He was a prophet, prophets have certain powers given to them allowed by god to tell the nation of that time the message of god. They cannot become god that’s what we believe and we believe in the Old Testament the original one is almost identical in teaching to Quran humans destroy everything and that why the Quran is in Arabic the original text to preserve it x
Shifa Furqan Jesus could die because he was fully human and fully God. As you said the human mind can't fully comprehend everything including his concept. John 1:1 in the beginning was the word. The word was with God and the word was God. John 1:14 the word became flesh and dwelled among us. Jesus' "powers" go beyond the authority given to a prophet. Such as the fact that he had the authority to forgive the sins of others. Jesus was arrested and crucified on the cross for accusations of blasphemy. Claiming to be the son of God. So if he wasn't he wouldn't have been crucified. The Torah and the Old Testament are identical but the Quran is different to both. Jesus prays to the father because he is still fully man and therefore does everything through the guidance of the father who is still in heaven while Jesus is on earth. Philippians 2:7 explains this: "Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position of a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form"
We have manuscripts of the Old Testament/Torah from hundreds of years before the Quran was revealed to Mohammed. And they are written in Aramaic or Hebrew not Arabic.
Muslims believe that Jesus (Isa) is still alive and that he didn't die on the cross but someone who god made to resemble him died on it instead, Jesus instead ascended to heaven by the permission of god and he will return when the dajjal (antichrist) comes to kill him and Muslims believe that every soul and creation must taste death so he will return then live until his time comes. God has the power to do all things and he enabled His creation to have miracles with his permission (like many prophets did e.g. Sulayman/Solomon communicating with animals) doesn't mean these miracles came from prophets themselves.. same way He says Be and it will be, like how the heavens were created and prophet Adam came to exist without parents, Jesus came about in the same manner through a miraculous birth (without a father). Hope that clears up your confusion 🙂
And because of their saying (in boast), "We killed Messiah 'Iesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary), the Messenger of Allah," - but they killed him not, nor crucified him, but the resemblance of 'Iesa (Jesus) was put over another man (and they killed that man), and those who differ therein are full of doubts. They have no (certain) knowledge, they follow nothing but conjecture. For surely; they killed him not [i.e. 'Iesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary)].." [Qur'an, Surah An-Nisaa 4:157]
I'm dealing with a breakup right now. Me and my ex literally broke up a few hours ago. He is Muslim and I'm Christian. I'm sad about it. But I feel as if it was part of God's plan. He knew it wasn't the right relationship for me. But all in all, I trust him and don't question what happened. I love God so much.
I’m in the same situation as you sis
Am in the same situation and I don't no how to go out 😢😢😢
Trust you are feeling better
My ex had to break up with me because of his religion and it hurt so much but it was for the best. :)
@@Maydstny I know how that feels.
My mum is Cristian my dad is Muslim I chose to be a Muslim, I hade the exact the same experience with a guy I was seing he was Cristian, but we never had sex because I chose to save myself till marriage because of Islam, anyway it was so difficult to leave him as he was a wonderful person but I ended up leaving him and Allah reward me with the most amazing Muslim guy, I have been married for 5 years and I couldn't be happier ❤️peace to all human kind
Kelly you done a terrible thing may God heal you from this filthy religion.
I see you spell Christian purposely wrong.
Well ur a idiot you chose to believe in the words of a pedophile ,warlord ,rapest ,slave owner prophet Muhammad .
@lord krishna No you can't compare any religion to islamic filth
@lord krishna So what do you think about a man supposedly led by God participating in child marriage and pedophilia like Muhammad the so called prophet did?
This video is so relatable. I'm Christian and was in an interfaith relationship so i know exactly what you meant when mentioning a part of you hoping your boyfriend would convert, i was there too, it just never worked. Yes, he encouraged me to read my bible and pray but at the same time we ALWAYS felt that void between us when it came to discussing God, even though it went unspoken. It was hard expressing spiritual encounters because he was an unbeliever, simple as. Respecting someones faith and BELIEVING in a faith are two different things
I def. agree ❤️
This is exactly what I’m going though. He is amazing and has no problem with my faith but he is unbelieving in anything and I just can’t fully be myself because he doesn’t understand... it’s so hard
I really like how you spoke with respect on Islam
Always, this is not about me bashing the faith I could NEVER. This is just about me sharing my opinion on who I'd want to walk in marriage with that's all x
To convert for someone else, yes, is very dangerous. It needs to be for yourself and yourself only. Nothing is permanent in this world. It’s just lust; lust is the issue.
YEP!
I am agree with you
Yes I visited a mosque before and a man who was an adviser not sure if he was an imnan told me if a woman converts to Islam she's only meant to do it for herself only nobody if she does it for her husband it will never work out. The worse thing you can do is convert for your spouse you do it for yourself and yourself only.
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The fact that you say “Muslim” correctly 😩❤️
Hxi i like LITERALLY said the same thing lol.
sajida Begum it’s so true 😂
I was thinking the same thing
Looool I don't get it, this is what a few people have said 😂 ... to be fair I've grown up my whole life around loads of Muslims so I can't be getting it wrong 💖
Hxi CORRECT WAY TO SAY IS " MOO SLIME"
I love how honest you are and your love for god. I’m a Muslim viewer who is always sending you ❤️❤️
Halal Eritrean give your life to Christ because Jesus is the true God it's not my option it's fact
KingD Michlle whatever you say darling😂
KingD Michlle Why should she give her life to Christ when Christ himself gave his life to God.
Thank you sooo much girl, this is sooo sweet!!! Thank you for watching, sending you nothing but love back sis 💖💖
Literally crying while watching this vid because this topic is what I’m dealing right now . Thank you for sharing your experience your words means a lot . God bless 💋
Same :(
@@zhariabutler6504 is it wrong...?
Same here 😭 he chose his family over me (2yr relationship)
Same!!!! :(
How’s it been going? Bc This situation only just happened with me yesterday. Does it get any better?
I dated two Muslims. Both left me utterly destroyed. I do not recommend dating one unless you want to stop believing Christ is God. I have never felt so much spiritual pain in my entire life.
Wow dated to muslim 3 time why . Why you not dating a Christian
For the Muslims there is one religion which is truth other religions they don't consider and respect as per their religious book.
Especially girls don't get involved with Muslim boy's even though he is not practicing or serious about his religion as you don't know when he can get serious with religion and destroy your life.
@@ZidankingElly Because they value abstinence and want marriage. They are upfront and strong in those values.
@@NativeSpiritWolfI'm sorry you went through that but as a Muslim woman that's just so sad to see that some Muslims aren't honest about it from the get go for the other person to know what they're getting themselves into, I was put in a similar situation where a Christian liked me and had Strong feelings for me and I had the same feelings.. He was everything I search for in a man kindness, principles a man of words and even then I refused to not be honest and tell him the truth and he's the one that chose to try searching for my religion in fact insisted giving this hope and a chance and just time and see if it fits him(my religion) because my condition was for him to not change his beliefs for me that's just selfish to me but he wanted to search and be hopeful, to be honest I wasn't too hopeful he was catholic and he was convinced of his beliefs he's happy with them so I was just giving this a chance cause I loved him so much hoping, again telling him to not do it for me but to change his beliefs if he is convinced and he wants to do it for himself.
Long story short I saw he couldn't do it which made me have to end it to not complicate our feelings even more and hurt each other..
The situation was gonna be hurtful either way if it didn't end by us being together but being honest is a right for the other person for them to make their own decision as an individual, I could've easily hidden the truth from him just to be with the person I love but I couldn't do that, I would feel like I'm betraying this person and hurting him intentionally and that's something I would hate to do to someone I love and now I just wish him the best and to find the person that cares for him and appreciates him and treats him well cause he deserves everything in the world.
@@NativeSpiritWolf It's good you mention that as a Chrsitian girl
Love the way u say Muslim instead of Muzlim
Krispy Kreme tbh I usually hear Americans say "Muz-lims"
its MOSLIM hahahaha
I say Muzlim like Americans. I like the way it sounds lol
They say Moslim instead. Loool I swear it cracks me up everytime they say it.
AF-P Queen no
“he’s always had his hand on my heart” - I feel that sis! God never stops pursuing us,
Great video! I fell in love with someone who's Muslim. Been with him for 2 years. We care for each other alot but that's the one thing I can no longer compromise. I've decided to walk away from him...your video really helped put things in perspective for me. Thank you
i’m in ur same shoes rn. how did u get thru it :(
I too am in love with a Muslim rn as we speak an this video has given me a big insite from a women's point of view on interfaith he doesn't mind me not converting but I find myself having to just to continue this relationship I truly hope it is all well for us all and that God will see us thru our endeavors
Muslims do believe that Jesus will come back
Depends on the Muslim person it seems...as I've heard otherwise. However, the main difference is how Jesus/Yashuah is viewed by Islam versus Christianity.
But you believe god put someone that looks like Jesus on the cross to fool everyone. We don’t believe this, nor do we believe Jesus is just prophet, if he was just a prophet the romans and Jews wouldn’t have killed him. They killed him because of what he claimed about himself. He called himself the light, he claimed you could only teach god by him. Our version of Jesus is the original we don’t believe in your version of Jesus that wasn’t shown anywhere in the ancient text or the Aramaic bible.
Cetus for you is your beliefs for us is our belief 😇
Idjati Iddris they don’t believe in Jesus is the son of God huge difference they follow the writing of a false prophet not the truth. Teaching of Jesus they do Polygamy. They said God said is allow and they don’t care really much of that they are nice but I felt Jesus Presence I didn’t understand God when he told don’t marry a Muslim I am suffering in the marriage but I’m
Hurt 😢 because I married to a Muslim and it’s hard I cannot have kids with him because you want your kids be Muslim leave Jesus and follow Muhammad. The testimony believe in Jesus Christ is something else but it’s not the same .
They mainly follow written in the book of Muhammad Islam
Tell
About killing Christian . I know the Islam view it say it the Quran
Kill the Christians and Jews . Muhammad say in Quran they don’t believe that Ishmael is the first heir and right
Heir to God not Issac. Huge difference. They believe this they based everything in facts but sometimes we cannot explain God . Why he do the things he Do. Where did God come from why he truly created us it’s unexplainable these
Muslim just make logic sense and proof they don’t believe that Jesus is the son of God or in Bible . They lie and say I believe in the
Bible . I went to the mosque these woman told me . I said to them how can you believe in the Bible when you denied Jesus as the only prophet and the son of God . These Muslim believe in facts If they cannot find evidence or facts they will not believe . I know them truly . They cannot say I believe in The Bible they no believe Issac is the first true Heir to God calling . They believe all prophets are sinless
People . I was talk
To a Islamic Man who preachers Islam . Everything they believe in facts . I’m be honest with you Islam is unfair you can have more than one wife without the consent of you . If you no like it divorced. They want the kids to be Muslim. In Islam A man can take away the kids if a Islamic woman marry a man they think he is a rapist if she has daughter. They think cover themselves will be saved . They truly don’t follow the Bible the Quran is a replication of God First Bible the Bible
Is book of translations yes but Islam is false even preacher of Islam convert to Christianity in Islamic state in a country Like Egypt KSA or Morrocco they will
Kill you if your a born Muslim you know they will
Kill
You if you convert to Christianity that the law . Islamic Law . Read the Quran Muhammad Tell
Islamic people if you no Believe I am the prophet is the last day destroy all non believers who don’t believe in God or the Quran . How can you do this . If you was in a Muslim
Country they do that if your a Muslim girl want to marry a non Muslim
It’s not allowed . You have to convert. Jesus say don’t kill love your enemy. But Muhammad say in Quran destroy all non believers who don’t believe in God or Muhammad
Is the prophet . This is true .
I watched this video halfway through my one year relationship prayed and prayed to God and about 8 months later I finally broke things off and it’s still so hard. Thank you for making this video it has helped me so much and I don’t feel alone on this subject. Thank you 🙏🏼
how did u get thru it :( going thru it
I am so happy I came across this video! I’m going through a situation now where I’m dating a Muslim man and I’m a Christian woman. It’s VERY hard to end things because of this beautiful bond we’ve created even though I know deep down in my heart it’s not right.
Maishunda Welborn question how does he treat you?
same here 😭
How did this go? 🥹
Mai Welborn how is it not right
@@ibrahimotukoya2679 it wasn’t right for me. My own beliefs, my opinion.
a person who says they're a Christian but doesn't think being with a non Christian is not serious. God is not the priority in their life because they choose sin and the idol of a relationship over their relationship with God. especially for women, the man is the head of the family under Christ. the man is supposed to lead his family into a deeper relationship with The Lord so even being with a person who claims to be a Christian with no fruit is an issue. praise God that you put God first in this area.
GodsWordSaves 7 you clearly have not read the Bible ... god gives the permission to marry a non believer... but if the non believer wants to leave .. let them. God gives women 2 ways/reasons to remarry. 1 as a widow... 2 divorcing a non believer.
Kerdija Charles It’s a sin ma’am.
God's word saves7: You have read The Bible but I encourage a re evaluation of the conclusion of your interpretation of that scripture you are sharing with her based on 1 Corinthians 614 the commands a believer not to be unequally yoked with a non believer. So in 1 Corith 7:15 we are looking out a relationship where spouse probably comes to Christ during the marriage. Context of the scripture you refer to is partial true. But any prudent interpretation and application of scripture is based on deeper study where scripture interprets scripture. Thus even the assumption that the believing spouse is able to biblical remarry is speculative depending on the pastorial interpretation. Yes I know some Christians that have found pastors in churches that would remarry them, but they themselves were not trully christian during the marriage, but from a mixed marriage of jewish Catholic. In one when the man became really convicted in Christ his wife couldn't put up with it so as a Jew she left and divorced him. Rventually he remarried another Christian women and has a strong ministry now. Earlier I gave this lady's opposed and it was pretty inclusive not realising she already had left the marriage because I didn't read the whole title fully. 30 am doubtful that interpretation that was because of the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:31-32
@@kerdijacharles2490 you can do anything you want but bot all things are beneficial. The scripture clearly says don't be unequally yolked with an unbeliever.
@@selahchunem8447 agreed. The scripture in Corinthians pertains to two unbelievers who marry and in the course of the marriage one gets saved. If the unsaved one is happy to remain, it's not a sin seeing as they're already married. But if the unsaved person is unhappy, they're free to go.
I’ve been in the same situation and finally broke up with my Muslim boyfriend. I’m happy for you that you found the right man. Praying that this happens to me as well. Thanks for sharing this video :)
hey i just did the same and i’m jewish. i don’t know how to move forward :(
@@cAkE-tt8xc hey 👋🏻 it’s been a while since I shared that comment 🙃
I can tell you, that time helps a lot. For now I would recommend to spend time with friends, distance yourself even more from the guy (mentally as well as locally) and write down exactly what you are looking for in a man. That way, it helped me personally, to focus on me and what I wanted. 👍🏻
Today I have found the man I was looking for and am proud to be able to build a life together.
Wishin’ you all the best! 🙌🏻💕🤗
@@rufflesinrose i’m so happy for you! i am currently going to call him monday and let him know we should cut off contact for a bit. we ended due to religious culture clash, but i am starting to realize that our relationship had so many more flaws and i’m better off this way. i wish you the best and thank you!
@@cAkE-tt8xc also all the best to you! 😊💕
am i the only one fawning over Nissy because she says the word "muslim" the correct way?
anon ymous nope :)
Loooool damnnn do people really get it wrong that often?
@@NissyTee no they really don't
@@NissyTee I've rarely heard people say it correctly . I really don't get it. Theres Clearly an S in there!
This revelation is so spot on. The entire video depicts my situation and it’s very hard, especially while carrying a child by this person. It’s made me seek God like never before. Never have I’ve sacrificed myself unto God and endured pain as such.
Thank you for posting this video. I'm a Christian who was not awoke when I married my ex-husband back in 2000. I didn't realize it would fail and like I said, I wasn't awoke. We were married until 2017. He used to always tell me that God woudn't have a son and I should use my head and realize there is only one God and Jesus was just a prophet. I was around a lot of Muslim people and a lot of the women would tell me to convert to make the marriage better. I couldn't imagine just giving up my beliefe in who Jesus is. I don't know, I was 30 and not aware of things now. Thank you for posting!! It took a lot of courage to submit this video. Thank you and God Bless You!
Your child following which religion
@@SafwanPathan-rl4uj Hello. We didn't have children and if we did they would be Christian as he never even followed Islam. God bless you!
He has a good point, how can God be Jesus the man and God at the same time lol. And if Jesus is God then how can he be weak?
God's timing is incredibly perfect, I only just recently made a breakthrough in a VERY similar situation and seeing this video just proves the Lord is really placing conviction in my heart once and for all. Thank you again Nissy, truly.
I love how you articulated this video, you spoke about your experience without coming across as disrespectful.
👏 I'm Muslim, but I respect this so much! I was the same way when I was younger. Even though I was not really practicing my faith, I knew that I needed to not get invested in someone that wasn't on the same path as me. I actually went though a very similar situation with a guy that was Baptist. Literally I am married to the man that I prayed for when I have up the relationship that I knew was wrong for me. It is so crazy how your story is almost exactly like mine. I think that the only difference in our stories is that the belief system is flipped. Love ya, and God bless. 😊
hi, i’m in a similar situation but i wanted to ask was the man you prayed for christian?
@@fizasakhter The Baptist was her ex and current husband Muslim
@@fizasakhter Don't take any decision that you will regret for rest of your life.
And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sabirun (the patient). Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: “Truly! To Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.”
I'm in the same situation and it's so hard because I have strong feelings for him and he's such a nice guy he is always by my side an he is my best friend but God is my father and I want to put him first so please pray for me I need his strength to do this
Trying to convince him is an option.
I'm in the same boat as you. My parents don't approve and I don't know what to do.
Mina Moneer same here, i don’t know what to do. Plus he is black and my parents don’t want me to be with a black guy or/and a Muslim
Miriam If you parents were true Christians they wouldn’t care if hes black... I understand different religions aspect because the Bible forbids it but your parents sound racist af
Zhar Butler yea I know, they are racist. I just don’t know what to do to change their mind, I really love my boyfriend and he is a really nice person. But I know they wouldn’t accept him
Crazy! Seconds ago I spoke to my sister about a man I was talking to, same tribe, same everything but we’re of different yokes and I have been battling in my heart on what to do. As God would have it, this was his way of speaking to me. All glory to the most high 🙏🏾
Going through the comments and seeing all these people saying yada yada about HER OPINION on interfaith relationships 🙄 seriously?! If it works for you go ahead! There’s nothing backwards about having the view that interfaith relationship isn’t for everyone i believe that the principle of do not be unequally yoked goes with the principle of iron sharpeneth iron so please not all of us believe in interfaith relationships
Badee M yada yada where
Lara Smith i said comments look for them, if it’s not yada yada to you then great
Looool girrrrrrrl don't even worry, I knew this would happen but that's fine, I will still make sure I share my own opinion on MY page, people will either just have to deal with it & we have respectful conversations or not watch my content... it's that simple tbh! xx
i agree with you bc when you have loved someone then both of you need to handle it when youre in a boat you can not just throw your partner to drown just bc that boat cant take both you then what kind of love is that when you cant even figure things out than leaving eachother ik leaving is the easiest option bc people dont wanna suffer for their love to make it possible . i have alot of christians who has married in the same religion but got divorced . i feel like uequally yoked means when you both cant figure things out then you wont even stay with eachother while being in a same religion
omg !!!!!! Literally my Ex broke up with him just over a month ago, same story. Knew that I had to break up with him because I finally realised that I wanted the perfect will of God but if that said he was an amazing but Im glad I walked away because I would rather cry now than later.
stacy moak amen ✨
It works if you really practice Christianity and not the modern version.
It goes to show that if you put GOD first... HE will reward you with a first-class gift. Even though you're young, girl you're intelligent. Continue to allow God to stay and day in you no matter how hard the situation is
What your pastor said to you in 17:00 was the upmost truth. When God uses people to speak to you it is incredible. Sometimes as believers we can forget the Holy Spirit is in us to guide and press us to do what is good. I'm so happy you did just that. Thank you for allowing God to use your situation to show forth His Glory! God bless.
Its mad how we let these ancient tribal beliefs guide our lives
A I it’s in the DNA
When Our verses are recited to him, he says, "Legends of the former peoples."
83:13
Chase Dontoni Man this was a complete knock out punch against the filthy atheist. You have my respect.
Chase Dontoni destroyed
You don't know how much this video has blessed me. Thank you so much. I'm literally going through the same thing!!!! God bless you sis
I am dealing with this right now. I am a christian and he's a muslim. We're also have been together for 3 years. I was a mess and being with him improved me so much. Lately, my anxiety has returned and having trouble sleeping because of this issue. I live in Malaysia so I need to convert if I were to marry him and he's not willing to migrate. I think deep down we will not end together but I really love him dearly and wishes to marry him. He ticks all the boxes for me (and more) except for religion. It doesn't help that today's Good Friday and I don't know how I would feel no longer able to celebrate it.
Omggg please please reach out to me on Instagram @whitney_large
I’m in a similar situation as yours and I really would like to talk
Whitney Large Wow are we all living the same lives 😂
Basically lol!! But finally he decided that we will keep dating and in the future Try to make it work with a marriage. At first his Muslim family refused to accept him dating and marrying a Christian but finally they came around too
Lol thiss
This is what exactly happen to me right now....It's really hard....Acutely hard....He's Muslim and I'm Christian.😭😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 We've dated and broke up...Then, reconcile and now I don't know about our status. It's like hanging. Pray for me.
Lucky Love Girl, I feel you, I’m on a similar situation. I pray your relationship ended up working. I’d love to hear about your experience.
i was in the same situation, i was ready to break up with him, i took some time away to pray and fast on many occasions, he didn't force me he gave me my spaces during that time, he was also dealing with the same thing on his side; i tried dating other guys making sure that they are christian lol, it didn't work for some reason God was always bringing us back together, we met in 2011, we got engage in 2019; it was a lot of work and stress over all the years but i know God is in control!
One day during they time that I was praying to God for an answer, my big border sent this to me ( i though he was going to be against my relationship like most people in my family, i really didn't expect him to be on my side)
1 Corinthians 7 New International Version (NIV)
Concerning Married Life
12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
God servent in the bible gave this advice, and bless the day that i receive it!
Lucky Love how is it now?
Olivia Ornella then what did you do at the end? I don’t know what to do. I love my boyfriend so much and I want to marry him, but the only condition is that my kids would have to be Muslim. I’m scared that God is not gonna forgive me for not telling my kids about the Gospel.
Sara V in that condition specifically I think it wouldn’t matter, just as you were raised Christian you had the chance to decide if you want it to keep the religion or convert later and so they will. Just my opinion!
Great video Nissy. Really encouraging. Thanks for sharing, it's not easy to share such a personal life story. Your openesss is appreciated!!!
The truth is if you really loved him, or he really loved you, you both would still be together. Love is love is love is love.
Whodatfellow Exactly my point. She’s a fucking liar about not wanting to let go...
I agree but love is not enough for a mature relationship to work. If you’ve been in a real relationship you’d know it’s more than just the present and how lovey dovey it is. It’s more than that, aside from responsibilities you also have to think about the future you’ll both have, and as she saw they weren’t fully compatible she knew she had to let go.
Dayani Lazo if you can’t see a future together than did you really love him doe? I’m in a very real relationship and I know no matter what future I can envisage, he will be there regardless, no ifs or buts. Sure everyone has responsibilities, but to let go of ‘true love’ for a difference is faith is preposterous! Maybe I’m just naive and have had just good experiences in life but I still believe to this day, love conquers all and if you have that one special person by your side, come what may, you will defeat it together. I’ve found my one I hope everyone else can to because once you find him/her you will not let go, I promise you.
Whodatfellow I’m glad you’ve found someone who you love very much! It’s very hard haha. The thing though, for people who are very deep in their faith but also want to love at the same time, faith and love have to come hand in hand. Because faith is practiced everyday and it’s a daily thing & with faith most of the time comes family. If they’re both different religions and they make it work that’s amazing , but speaking from experience and assuming this girl too, she and I are deep in our faith and would also like to share and practice it with our partner. Also comes the responsibility of ‘what would our children’s religious views be’ etc , speaking from traditional families.
Melanie Lazo Yesssss!
I’m in a similar situation, sister. Thank you for making this video. It’s such a struggle. I like this Muslim guy and we’re really good friends. We have feelings for each other but I can’t do it because I’m a Christian and I can’t date him cause I know we can’t marry. But I want to date him a lot. And things are going in that direction but I don’t want to dishonor God. I need prayer in this regard. Love and Peace follow you sister.
Rachel Abby Is Jesus a god or a son of god ?
DALI He’s God in the flesh. Look up the trinity :)
Constantine made up Trinity.
you will find Allah in Arabic bible because Al-Lah means The-God it's the same God who sent Adam to Jesus prophets. Jesus is a mighty prophet in Islam too. So now question is that why you think it's a different God, any reason ? Do Jews have a different God too ? No right ,same God right?
Someday he will say he wants to marry a virgin and leave you . Dont fall for it
Just a side note: Muslim men can marry christian and Jewish women.
Icemissa Yh if the convert
actually nah Islamically a Muslim man can marry woman of the book i.e Christian and Jewish woman only if they abstain from premarital sex. Because in most cases the Father is the religious head of the family so they most likely take the religion from him. Obviously it isnt recommended because of how risky it is but people choose to do so.
Yeah because in Islam that man has dominance in the household. For the man that conflict would't be so much of a issue in that regard.
MAMA AFRICA No they don't have to convert.
Under certain circumstances
I'm sorry it Didn't work out, Nissy, I think you are so strong. In my case, my partner is a Libian muslim, but I think we have so many cultural clashes instead of religious ones, because I'm salvadorean, and we think so differently in many aspects, makes me think how we had chemistry in the first place. Sometimes love is just not enough.
I'm Christian and he's muslim too from Egypt. Been together for almost 4 years and about 1 year married . It does work for us somehow
Ofcourse we have some really bad moments but we still together. Will do meet his family for first time very soon .
Hopefully everything will work out too . It's just makes me really worried
Because he knows that I'm not really believe in everything but he accept it . Hope his family will too.
Indre Lankaite Hi! I’m in a similar situation. I’m a catholic and my boyfriend is Muslim. The biggest thing we fight about is raising children. Can I ask how you guys plan on raising your future kids i.e under what religion. Or will you be teaching them both and letting them choose later? Thanks!
Am Christian and dating a Muslim man....we chose Love and the rest we leave to God!
I love hun, as a Christian my self you didn’t obey the Lord and Jesus says if you love him you will obey what He commands. The problem is your husband isn’t sAved and is actually anti Christ. It says in the Bible that anyone who Denies Jesus as the Son of God is anti christ . Please read your Bible especially the gospel of John.
@@nataliewalters2759 let be fair,are you ever read Bible yourself specially old testament?
How did it go?
Also, praise God! You are now engaged and soon to be married. What a marvelous and faithful God we serve🙏🏾 Blessings upon you, your husband and your family-to-be❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for searching your experience. I had the same experience, but I needed 4 years to understand and it was so hard to let go. And now it's been almost 2 years and I think it was for the best. Having intercourse with someone really creates a bond between u & the person on a deeper level, people shouldnt underestimate that. Love your videos 😘
Blaq Rose I wish I knew he was who he was prior to marrying him they screw around and beat they wives and many be living double lives while mistreating their spouses behind close doors and in public at times and are crazy and treat mistresses like they’re the wife
@@rjaqueline2378 Untrue.Usually muslim men are very kind and helpful to their wives.
@@arabimerciful8361 thats why they marry 4 women 😂
@@sb_____ oh shut up
"God had convicted me and I'm gonna go by my conviction" amazing ❤️ x
as a muslim that guy should not have been dating in the first place
butty249er get real
you get real lovey....you can't pick and choose what Allah has commanded otherwise you pay the price on this earth and in the next life.....this day and age following Allah's commands, people think your a weirdo but hey we are heading towards the time of dajjal and our prophet fore warned us of this era....up to you
60% of Nigeria are Muslim. Islam is ancient in West Africa. Although the majority of the conversions to Islam are recent......
Every conversion is recent, we believe no one is born Christian. But every child is born innocent with the knowledge of Good and Evil. The Middle East has many people becoming Christian in fact many of the migrants are devout Christians, many of which couldn’t express their conversion in their native country.
IT IS NOT 60%. How can u make up a fake statistic? It's not 60%. Nigeria = 45% Christian 45% Muslim and 10% Other (traditional beliefs)
MAMA AFRICA Look on a Map, Northen Nigeria forms the Arewa states. This region is geographically larger than the South and is Islamic going back to the Nigerian empires. The estimated population of this region is 90 million. In Nigeria Islam spans most of the major ethnic groups. You will find Igbo and Yoruba Muslims but less likely to say the same for Hausa and Fulani people being Christian.....
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It's logical because Islam is so much older in Nigeria than Christianity that was brought by the British during slavery and colonization.......
MAMA AFRICA I ain't Muslim and I am not Nigerian. I have read this repeatedly especially coming from Nigerian Muslims that Islam is bigger in Nigeria than Christianity.....
“60% of Nigeria are Muslim” prove it please you supposed smartass. Oh wait you can’t!! You are saying Muslims are 90 million so what are Christians then?? Definitely more than 90 million aswell.. so how can Christianity be 30%?? You are a moron!! Get your facts right before you speak about what you know Nothing about!
As a muslim I can really appreciate the way you speak about islam. You are very respectful and honest about things you are uneducated about( the jesus matter)
Nissy may God honour you and your relationship this is a testimony to my ears you have definitely increased my faith 🙏🏾🙏🏾I will continue to press on
To all Christian woman. Please do NOT date a Muslim. He will never trully respect you and your christian values. You are so precious!!. The things he will require from you during dating,… he will NEVER ask a muslim girl. Christian ladies…. Pleaseeeeeeee…
“dont cast your pearls before swines”-Matthew 7:6-
Their quran and hadiths are extremely, EXTREMELY slanderous and hateful against Christians and the true Christ.
@@thewholetruth5473 Have you even read your Bibles before pointing fingers?
@@aminaaden2921show me in bible is hate full speech to Muslim?
This is 100% accurate
very similar to my situation! I was with a wayyyyyy back slided 'Christian' for a year and half, who had technically become agnostic. I couldn't bring myself to break up with him, though I tried. But I prayed to God to have His will over my life and to bring this relationship to an end in the way that will hurt me the least if it was not His will for me to be in this relationship, and voilaa, he broke up with me, i got closure and its been fairly easy. we'll be friends though some day in the future
Wow!! The exact same thing happened to me! God answers prayers!!
Gosh, I’m joining everyone in the comments to say this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing your experience!!!
I'm so grateful and blessed with this video I'm going through a similar situation being a Christian and trying to figure things out, you have really helped me today
Ok so I was watching this and oh my.. I can relate in so many ways. Just wanna say ‘thank you’! I knew what to do, but I just couldn’t push myself to do it. But hearing how God blessed you with something better even when you used to think ‘this is what I want’ is amazing. This was the encouragement I needed.
im in the same situation... this is the most painful ive ever been. we love each other so much but he's just a strong Muslim...
I’ve never heard of a Muslim converting to a Christian before wow
Someone xx very common
Isn’t there a punishment for it I did some research and asked a Muslim guy himself he said that you would get killed and it’s very very complicated
Razel Tactacon punishment for apostasy in Islam is death
MAMA AFRICA so is it possible for Muslim man to convert to Christianity or Judaism??? Sorry to ask such a question it’s just a curiousity
MAMA AFRICA 😱 Thank you very much for explaination
I'm loving this segment omds!🙌🏾
Me too gworl!
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Thank you lovely 💖
I needed this! Even in 2020... this is good content hunni!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
I’m a Christian woman married a Muslim man. Works for us.
You have just given a narrative of my life's story. Omds! Omds! I relate to everything you've said from the first minute! Just didn't go third base thankfully. Broke things off after 11 months together.
Time gathers maturity.. Love is love, no matter what culture you are.. If you both love God, then that is all that matters. God always works things out, God works out the impossible. You have a lot to learn especially about love, God bless x
I was in a similar situation. He was beautiful inside and out but I knew it wasn’t going to work so had to lock it off quickly.
This is really difficult
Ahhh, exhilarating. God’ll will bless and reward you in ways that you don’t expect and can not anticipate nor quantify, not for letting the chap go necessarily, but for obeying Him. Much love.
Thanks for this video. I fell for a Muslim man, he was amazing but I knew that as a Christian woman I couldn't pursue it. I prayed and let it go.
I found out he got married and my heart is broken. I know that God will send me His choice of husband to me. It just hurts that all.
How are you doing now? I am hoping I don’t doubt my decision later bc he was a great man.
@@sel6451how are u doing now? Did u leave him
John 12:49 -
“For I have not spoken on my own authority; but the Father who sent me has himself given me a commandment-what to say and what to speak.”
Shifa Furqan Yh because Jesus is the son of God, not a bloody prophet.
T he trinity duhhh. There are three persons in God : God the father, God the son and God the Holy Spirit. There are not 3 Gods. But there is only one 1 God. Jesus Christ is God the son, made man for us. Jesus Christ is truly God because he has one and the same nature with God the father.
Emperor Shao Khan Jesus suffered under Pontus Pilate (by the Jews) for admitting to being the son of God. “yes it is as you say, but I say to all of you: in the future you will see the son of man sitting at the right hand of the mighty one and coming on the clouds of heaven”. (Mathews 26:64)
Emperor Shao Khan there were also testimony’s that Jesus is the son of God . For example :
Followers of Jesus testified after he calmed a storm : “and when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. And those in the boat worshipped him saying , ‘truly you are the son of God’. (Mathew 14:32-33)
Did it say, truly you are the biological son, even in the bible is says "David, he begotten thee" meaning God beget david. why don't you call him the son of God to the same level you call jesus the son of God.
sis is speaking straight facts. as a muslim i hate how people continue to say how alike christianity and islam is. they're far from it.
the fact that mate could possibly die and be in eternal damnation is too much for me. I would want my husband to attend church with and have a relationship with Christ.
Mi Ri a Muslim could say the same and want their husband/wife to attend the mosque and relation ship with God alone. I think that's ignorant of u to say. To each their own religion. Quran 109:6
I had to leave my long term relationship for different spiritual beliefs. But I pray Allah blesses her with a strong man that shares her faith and brings her peace and joy MashAllah 🤲🏾
My Boyfriend is a Muslim and I am a Christian. We never had an issue about religion but his family are really against me. I am a Filipina and they are Pakistani born and raised in US. He broke up with me cos I think he cant take the pressure anymore in their family. One day on our anniversary, he just told me on the phone that “Im done” and then his sister talked to me that the relationship cant go on anymore because of our differences. After that he never contacted me anymore. I know how we truly love each other, but i think he cant take how heavy the situation anymore. He gave up. And its really killing me.
Yes it’s hard his family probably encouraged him
In our religion, our Holy Quran tells us that Christians are "the worst of creatures".
"Mohamed" is right. Their quran is a book of extreme hate.
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Allah says in the Quran (interpretation of the meaning):
“Allah does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly.”
[Al-Mumtahanah 60:8]
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Nissy your doing bits though I appreciate this for real
Thank you so much love
I am in exact situations. I am Christian and my boyfriend is Muslim. I am praying about it. I am struggling to break-up, i donot have the strength. I know it is not right deep down. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾
Me too girl. I am in the same boat currently. 😢
@@saltysydneyyygeez, if this is not me too😢
@@fajimeyeemmanuela1207 real😭😭 I pray for strength and guidance bc I don’t know if this is the right path but I’m in so deep..
@@fajimeyeemmanuela1207 same, I really want to talk to people who are going through the same thing, would yous be open to a group chat ?
I am literally crying because this is what I am going through now. Let the holy spirit direct me so I can take a bow, I love him so much but I have to let go
Powerful stuff lil sis, please keep it coming. Never be afraid to share your truth. THANK YOU!
Thank thank you so much for sharing your story 🙏🏻 I believe it was no accident that I came across your video.. it helped me see things a whole lot clearer. Even years later, your story is helping people, it helped me tremendously. Bless your your heart ❤
I'm currently in a similar crisis but mine is more "interdominational" than "interfaith". So we're both Christians but come from two different denominations. I was raised Presbyterian and he's Adventist (studying theology so he will be a practicing Adventist pastor at the end of his study program. It's an issue because our fundamental beliefs and doctrines are very different and they're differences that I can't look past. I know also deep in my heart that I'd rather die than allow my children be brought up in the ways of Adventism. But he loves me and I love him too and I would be honored to some day become his bride and give him beautiful babies 😭 provided of course that he agrees for us to find a new Bible-based denomination together (which I feel is highly unlikely). I know my situation is slightly different but the dilemma and frustration is the same as I'm quite rooted in my faith and even though my relationship with God is always in the works, I would give my life for what I know in my heart to be The Truth. Leaving makes sense, but feels almost unfair. Like just when I've found someone who makes me feel like a queen, we don't exactly believe in the same things. Anyway sorry for my very late and very long post. I guess I also kinda needed to vent.
Omg girl I’m an Adventist dating a Muslim and I’m on the same boat.The fact that your SO is studying theology makes it harder to compromise. I’ve dated Adventist men who didn’t treat me well and I ended up being unhappy, but behold a Muslim man comes in my life and makes me feel loved. Funny how God works...
I am also Adventist dating a Muslim! Can I just ask both of you a question? Do you ever feel like the relationship has no chance of surviving? And how do your families feel about bringing someone in from a different faith/domination. I’ve been dating my SO for over 2 years now and I am still unable to tell my family about his faith. And like you I would be uncomfortable for my child to be raised Muslim...
@@vianitadarlyn2741how did it work out for you?
My grandmother married a Muslim and their lives turned into chaos. They do not worship God, they worship a different spirit. That spirit got invited into their home. I have no interest in closely tying my soul to people who aren't submitted to Christ. It would forever create a wall between us.
I mean I understand her point of view, BUT let’s not disregard 1 Corinthians 7 vs 12-16 and 1 Peter 3 vs 1-2 on this topic
Viany Se omg sister God will bless you for this. This is my first time of reading this verse in the bible. I really wanna hug you right now cuz I’m in a similar situation. I’m a Christian and my bf is a Muslim. He is by far the best man I’ve ever been with. This has nothing to do with religion, it’s just the way God made him to be. I’ve been thinking a lot lately as I don’t know what to do but this verses is like a revelation to me. Thank you sis 🙏🏾
Wow! Thank you, for being obedient and sharing this. God just asked my prayers by putting this in my crossing. Even years later God is allowing this to be blessing to someone! 💕
Great topic, Real life problems... we've all been there ❤
Islam recognizes Christianity and Judaism, they’re the people of the book! But It’s not vise versa lol
So thissss I've heard a lot of people say, but why is it that? Why can't a Muslim woman also marry someone who is of the book?
With or without marriage, Islam recognises the people of the book! They are mentioned in many chapters across the book of Allah, the Quran. We deal with them in all sorts of areas of life and they are given specific rights when present in a place ruled by authentic Muslim leadership. They, people of the book, Christians and Jews worship Allah! Not only that, they recite Allah’s verses, the Bible and the Torah.
About Muslim women not marrying from اهل الكتاب, people of the book. It’s about protecting the Fitra/in born nature to believe in the oneness of Allah alone of the Muslim woman!
Muslim men are the protector naturally because they know this from a very young age and fellow Christain/Jewish men although our brothers, they can be somewhat unfamiliar with the concept of توحيد/ oneness of Allah almighty and Islam in general.
Islam gives women so many rights which every Muslim man is more than familiar with. A non Muslim man obviously can’t rise up to it because it’s not necessarily part of his religion. The focus is on the Muslim woman and it’s not about spreading Islam by seducing Christian or Jewish women so that they convert, it’s simply because of protection of the God given rights of the Muslim woman. A woman of the book, chaste and a believer of the oneness of Allah enjoys these rights as well if married to a practicing Muslim man.
Women in nature are easier and more tending to compromise and although this is beneficial totally and makes sure of the survival of the human society, it can be catastrophic in a mixed faith marriage from the part of the Muslim woman because she may lose her Iman/faith in the process by being feminine and nice.
It’s non negotiable at all. Islam is the birth right of women and deserves tender intimate care by the male partner. Will this happen with a non Muslim nan. No. Will a muslim man care for the monotheistic nature of any woman. Yes.
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Islam as a religion began with Muhammad, so the bible cannot mention a religion that didn’t officially begin until 500 plus years post Christ.
Nissy Tee hey just to let you know it’s because women are deficient according to mohammad. therefore a man is capable of converting her (marrying someone of the book has the expectation of conversion), or at least ensuring the children are muslim. but a woman would not be capable of converting the husband.
@@NissyTee if they do how will they increase their numbers then?? 😀
Amen 🙏🏿. Yes, you can never change anyone. I've heard a similar story to yours. It was a girl who was Christian and her boyfriend was Muslim. They had been together for at least 6 years or so but her parents warned her. The guy on the other hand wanted to marry her but he said he won't go to church except on their wedding day. His family all converted to Christianity except him. I honestly don't know if they are together now. Great video 👍🏾😊
WOW! Amen! I hope he did too IJN
Interfaith relationships can work UNLESS, one side is muslim and then it's miserable. Constant struggle to jam their faith down to your throat. And as a Christians we tend to be mild and tolerant so we start to bend with time and simply not wanting to constantly argue. Fundamentals of Islam is so beyond intolerant and inflexible it's impossible to coexist nonetheless to build a relationship with someone. I've don't the leg work. Trust me. No matter how moderate they might be, they will always nag you about pork, alcohol, clothing...
You say god says no to different religion marriages didn’t he say no to adultery and sleeping with men you are not married to ????
ahmed koulougli yes. He did say that. Lol
Yes and ?
MAMA AFRICA it’s hypocritical of her to say that
ahmed koulougli and? As a Muslim you should know what it’s like to be hypocritical. A lot of Muslims refuse to eat pork but will pop pills, smoke , drink and engage in premarital sex!
MAMA AFRICA thing is in talking about her not other Muslims she was saying and acting religious all the Muslims that have committed adultery are not
That's so cute. Reached the bit with your answered prayer. This guy showed interest in me when I was 18-20. He wasn't Muslim and he liked me and I liked him back. I knew it was against my Islamic faith so I just ignored him. But then he started sexually manipulating me emotionally, taking advantage of the fact that I was facing racism at the time (it was the ISIS years and I am an Arab Muslim. He happens to be white lol) and suggesting to me that I need feminism:( He applied that weird Robert Green "The Art of Seduction" book on me ;v; when I found out I was grateful that I avoided him because that isn't how you treat someone you have respect for. And even typing this perhaps I'm realising I dodged a bullet, so God protected me.And yeah I never suggested to him that he should convert for the same reason- it's a bit disrespectful to the other person.
Tbh he shouldn’t have even been with you. It’s against in Islam to even have a girlfriend.
Ibn Dawud what if they're not having premaritial sex?
Pia Love that’s fine, but he isn’t allowed to be alone w. Her. There has to be someone of her family (father, brother etc.) or his family with them at all times. Also they aren’t allowed to touch. No hugs, now kisses, not even a hand shake. They also have to do so w. The intention of marriage. Marriage is the very near future.
Ibn Dawud thank you so much I understand it better now
Ibn Dawud actually some muslims believe that they are allowed to touch and that, but not kiss or anything sexual before marriage
crystal tøp and they are wrong. If they are not follow Islam by the understanding of the companions and the salaf they are following it wrong. These were the people who were the closest to the Prophet salalahu ilahi wasalam so if they were following wrong he would have corrected them.
Sis! Im so sad right now. I just recently stopped dating this guy who is Muslim. I like him ALOT and he was crushed but I don't wanna hurt Jesus either! 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
You sound like insecure and dramatic. I’m Muslim and my girlfriend is Christian. We both accept and respect each other‘s faith. We both go to church and mosque. We both have talked about our faith and agreed about each other’s faith. Which means I don’t have to convert to become Christian and she doesn’t have to convert to become a Muslim! Equality is a key. And yes she believes that Jesus is the son of God. And I believe that Jesus is a prophet of god, but we didn’t leave each other because of our different opinions. We both open minded and love each other‘s Faith. And treat each other equally🤷♂️
I'm in the same situation as you, my boyfriend is a Muslim and I am a Christian and we really love each other but he insists that we should have a Muslim wedding which I have not accepted to that yet ,and I don't really know what to do right now
Harry Anita I don’t think it’s fair. But I think it’s better to mix it up which is what I’m going to do in my wedding. He’s only trying to take control and benefits his culture and religion over your, which is very common thing and I really don’t like. So my advice to you is to make sure that you get treated fairly and not being taking advantage of!
@@john4iraq thank you so much for your reply and for your world of wisdom I really appreciate it
Harry Anita You’re welcome.
@@john4iraq you are man of wisdom and kindness..
Thank you SO MUCH for your awesome testimony! Praise God for your sacrificial obedience. The Lord indeed rewards exceeding abundantly about all we could ask or think!
I'm kind of angry, because I recently met someone online and we met in person and things went great. He revealed that he's Muslim after we had a connection. 😔 .
Same here sis! He is the sweetest man I ever met! the most intentional man I ever met, and is so kind. We make each other laugh as if we are long time friends. We shared many conversations and I realized on our first date he is Muslim and that honestly was surprising to me because I never met a Muslim before
Interfaith relationships or even friendships work only when people are tolerant on both sides. If you are tolerant and the other person is not then you eventually become very defensive and exhausted.
“Find the right people who is not going to shame you for who you are is the point here”
The bitter truth is that interfaith relationships don't work.
Even if between you and your partner you come to an understanding, You will do an injustice on your children.
They will have no clear path, no real belonging to a community and will be neither here nor there very wishy washy and will probably end up not religious because of all the conflicting opinions they won't be able to work through when they are young.
Now for something which is more controversial, I don't believe in inter-racial relationships either.
Making it work means that you have to learn the others language, culture and have to remember marriage is never just about two people. It's two entire families and the children that will come from it. You would really have to commit to bringing them up in a certain way in one of your cultures because when you are someone "in the middle" it does not feel good and your children will be confused, have a lack of identity and feel like they don't belong in either side of the family.
You can hate but that's my views 💁🏻
Jasmine A
That's a lot of "probably's". They probably will be open minded people and SEEK god instead of following blindly behind the "clear direction" of their parents. Parents are just people that tripped thru life before you and love you enough to share what they value from those experiences. It does not mean they were right. It probably all can do a million different ways -- because that's how life works
T Mitch
You are 100% right. Parents are never always right, but from a religious stand point, whatever your religion is, it's one of your Main purposes in life to create a Strong, Faith-based family unit.
You are meant to guide and give your children the best chance at achieving what you believe in- coming with two sides of the same coin is just confusing.
Some of my family is blended, and all I'm doing is saying my opinion from what I've seen and experienced personally and in others lives.
Who is right? Only God knows.
But in a society that is not geared towards God at all these days, the number one place to build that connection love faith and understanding with the creator is the Home- if you are receiving mixed messages at home, I think many young people will just go with the easy option that is pushed on people in the Uk- that religion is stupid and it's fake.
Just my two cents from experience, and I would definitely give this experience onto my children one day too.
That's not true! Having been brought up in an interfaith marriage, I can tell you that LOVE DOES NOT CONQUER ALL. it will indeed affect ur children and it will cause a lot of tension. I didn't go to church or mosque for the first 18 years of my life. I only started going to church when I went to uni. A lot of people do not get the privilege of ever making a choice or even knowing the right choice to make.
Dami A thanks for ur brave words 💞
Jasmine A 100% true
Nissy, I admire your strength, integrity, your love for Jesus and your courage, that your love for Him and obedience to thus sayest the Lord trumped any love that you had for this man. So glad we were blessed with the man the Lord created for you and that you trusted, as you said that when you honor the Lord, He will honor you! ❤️
The divorce rate in Christian marriages are ridiculously high as well! Interfaith relationships can work but there must be compromise..
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You should honestly learn about Islam . Learning don’t hurt you 🌹
Sure it does. There's a reason god let Adam eat from every tree BUT the tree of KNOWLEDGE. We LEARNED about EVIL.
T Mitch you’re so ignorant. I don’t even want to converse with you .
Why should she learn
MAMA AFRICA calm down honey, why not? I’d like to learn more about other religions, why not? Plus knowledge is power.
MAMA AFRICA She should learn because it means she is tolerant about other religions while being considerate about cultures.
I would do the same. It doesn't mean that our religions would change. There is no harm in learning.
Why don't you calm down and stop arguing with everyone over the Internet? It's not worth it.
There is a reason why we say no sex before marriage. The women gets attached after sex. The man wont commit after sex, he only commit after securing a marriage contract. The guy was non practicing muslim man...he played with your time, your body and left you empty. The worst part is you allowed it to happen.
Adila Aday or because the man wants power and freedom, which you can find EVERYWHERE on earth. Its called sexism.there is a reason why Saudi arabians had to fight for the right to drive a car.. Lets be real
Girrrrrrrl you are preaching to the choir. I dated an “open” Muslim for several months. He wasn’t even active. That should have been a sign but I just took it lightly. After a few months I decided to draw close to God, and he even supported me in everything especially when I was fasting but then things just didn’t work. Outside of religion, once I began to pull back (physically/celibacy) and seek a true walk with God, he respected me and said he was all for it but then our relationship lost its flare and he became more interested in hanging out with friends and pursuing his own things (like literally, buying a whole house) than building a relationship with me in a healthy manner. We are close to 30 so that just didn’t make sense to me. I prayed for him hard but I knew it wasn’t my job to “convert” him. We didn’t have an amicable break up though. Yours was definitely hard since you guys lasted for so long and he was willing. Mine just ghosted me so I was kinda forced to end it. I am so glad that God has honored your decision over the years. I am thoroughly encouraged. Stay blessed!!
Aaaaaaaaah Noko Bene! Hurry up and bala musai na yo! eza penza ya nzmabe well done on following the voice of the lord some of us can relate in this in different ways its not only about leaving a relationship it could also be leaving the wordly things and coming to God etc... Thanks again for sharing your videos keep them coming and be blessed
Thank you so much for posting this video. It has helped me and confirmed my decision to walk away from this type of relarionship was the right choice for me to make. You have given me renewed faith that my true, equally yoked husband is out there, and I will wait for God to reveal him to me ❣️
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This was such a great video, I'm not sure if this topic is talked about a lot,but I'm glad you posted this, I'm a Christian woman this has really gave me an eye opener on this subject Thanks for your story. Much love sis 💕