ExxP Anxiety: Demon Ni

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  • @Magani79
    @Magani79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Damn that's a great point! @5:04
    Different kinds of observer anxiety:
    ISxJ (Ne demon) = Something I cannot understand is happening/could happen!
    INxJ (Se demon) = Something I cannot see is happening!
    ESxP (Ni demon) = Reality has a limited end result/meaning which I cannot understand!
    ENxP (Si demon) = Ideas/possibilities are limited by reality!

    • @timo4258
      @timo4258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Basically observer demons: NANI???!!

    • @ranakonswa2169
      @ranakonswa2169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you

    • @katherineandrew714
      @katherineandrew714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great summary

    • @pointerdogmarketing2197
      @pointerdogmarketing2197 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about the Jumper types? INxP (Ne Demon) and ENxJ (Ni Demon)

    • @Lmaoeatrr
      @Lmaoeatrr 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      The ENxP thing is the same with demon Si IxxP’s. The thing is that they IxxP’s will blame the people. “THEY are limiting ME.”

  • @Wingedmagician
    @Wingedmagician 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is perfect. I relate so much. I’m always like ahhh all these options, I gotta figure this out. While my family and friends are like - hey just do your work, study, have some hobbies and plan a little. What? It’s not that simple *busts out the mindmaps and starts hyperventilating

    • @ramontavaresdacruz2256
      @ramontavaresdacruz2256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "Busts out the mindmaps" hahahahahahahahahahahaha, I couldn't not have related to this anymore than I did

  • @PRoseLegendary
    @PRoseLegendary 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    So I can totally see this in my ExxP partner. When stressed he'll look to the sensory for his answers, eg go to the GP, get on medication, do a lot of research, make plans, discuss all these ideas etc
    When I'm stressed, I withdraw and tend to try to come up with THE BIG REASON for everything, as if having that sudden catharsis will fix it all.
    We need a bit of both approaches.

    • @yogidevendrabiriyani1777
      @yogidevendrabiriyani1777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      huh i do the former and im isfp well.....except i withdraw as i do it hehe

    • @introvertedinfp
      @introvertedinfp 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      PRoseLegendary What’s your type?

    • @trollloloololooo
      @trollloloololooo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Esfp here and yeah I kinda panic and go to doctor if I see even a slight change in my body that could be a cancer and it was expensive last time and the doctor said they're red blood cells that are near the skin

  • @SuperCuriouss
    @SuperCuriouss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I am an ENTP, and YES, totally see unlimited options (never backed into a corner). But I experience this weird anxiety with clutter... damn Si !! clutter!! And the worst is... who causes the clutter?? ME!! in my Ne state... it feels like I will never get on top of everything, there's just more stuff. I can't get it all done, can't see the whole picture... and there are too many (unlimited) factors fucking with it all.

    • @mcee555
      @mcee555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That's so interesting! SAME! As an ENFP. I just keep discovering new stuff, and always have plans of deep processing + acting on this new, but then I get swept up in new things. I justify it by thinking that every new thing will add context to my prev things. Like I want the best big picture view with all the details. And then I just want to sit back and be able to tell you whatever is needed in critical moments. All my knowledge gathering is to eventually put it into action and help myself + others. I swear!!

    • @jom1718
      @jom1718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey so I think it might be the same with u guys (-ENTP)
      I have anxiety about not getting anything done. I for example wanna talk to somebody but then I suddenly come up with reasons why it would be awkward just before I would do it, so I just back out and tell myself 'maybe another time' to relieve the anxiety. Maybe I'm just afraid that I can't have an impact on something to get the best result.
      Also I'm used to messing things up just randomly like forgetting exams, losing my stuff, not paying attention to reality and just knocking things over 🙄.
      Yeah so I get anxious about school and people and I haven't made a single friend from my class since I got high school a year ago. Tho I'm intuitive and can come up with things quickly, I think there should be a way for me to settle down and take things slower, but I don't know if it's possible because school is so demanding nowadays.
      Now that I think about it there's really nothing stopping me, I just feel like I don't have enough options to do something about it. Maybe I should take less classes lmao.

    • @cecidoo4003
      @cecidoo4003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES THANK YOU I was starting to think I was the only ENTP struggling with this type of anxiety! (among others, ugh)

    • @1chienandalou
      @1chienandalou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      One more ENTP who can relate. Having to spend more time home in these coronavirus times was so hard! I didn’t acquire more stuff, but I found it incredibly difficult to deal with all the clutter despite having all of the motivation to deal with it... I know my Ne and other factors in life caused it, but I have to fix it but damn Si and anxiety Indeed. What I have done is managed to restrict the clutter to limited locations (if you have closets or rooms where you can close the door, or at least one part of the room so you can turn your back) so I have areas that don’t have any where I can look away. Clutter is like visual noise. It affects your thinking, mood, cognition, efficiency, but we can overlook it. For me I can have a similar response to too much email or things to do or people as well, but physical clutter probably affects me the worst and I’m the worst at dealing with it in tonight individual circumstances and I wanted to set up a system that will be scalable, rational, manageable, but that I am able to implement. I just give up before I begin.

    • @gistar22
      @gistar22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@1chienandalou go run at the second you wake, if you can't 'cause you too tired then walk, but never pass -- I'm an ENTP and it work for me just don't think about it just try to get more energized, it's easier that way then the task becomes easy.... Break the tasks by organizing your week, every week...Go Luck Bro
      Sideway : a gatherer shine by what he gathered...find the best entourage to complete and boost your functions... That worked for me

  • @GeekPsychology
    @GeekPsychology 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    What a fun couple

  • @yasminrei
    @yasminrei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This was me right now,
    i literally started crying, i didn’t know why at first, it felt like for no reason, i couldn’t understand why, because it feels like there are so many different options I can do but I don’t know which one to choose.
    I have anxiety related to social situations, for example, i want to be someone who could just experience everything, just be myself, but then should i tone it down a bit? am i too annoying? do i need to focus more on being interested in the other person? should i text my friend even tho i don’t feel fully ready because i am worried about making a mistake? etc etc etc
    do i focus on my past mistakes to try and not make the same mistakes again? or do i just be myself and see how it turns out? should i care whether others find me annoying?
    and i will go to google for this and search for hours and hours on reddit, youtube and other websites that can give me answers, i’ll call helplines, or i’ll distract myself and play games
    sorry for the rant, it’s just something i could relate to

  • @riasatomar9158
    @riasatomar9158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Hey guys, can you do one on IXXJ flexibility, please.

  • @MaverickJeyKidding
    @MaverickJeyKidding ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My anxiety is getting limited to one thing, getting locked down to sit and execute monotonous task without being able to wander in creative ways and learning and trying what i'm interested in. As you guys exactly say, i remember literaly crying when i got first time into a hospital whith some health condition - literal monotony, same walls, same ppl around, nothing to explore, nothing to watch, nothing even to talk about with those ppl (they all were old men with some shronical stuff and not fun to talk to). Same thing happened when i got the first job - sitting in the office 8 hours a day, doing the same thing that i've been told to do, processing lots of small details that i have little to no interest about. I was crying that evening in my room again too... NO! I want to enjoy the process of creative thought wander! Experimenting with music, drawing stuff, thinking about teories on youtube, watching MBTI memes :D Thinking out loud with ppl in Discord call, debating about something, provoke their reactions, learning new intersting stuff and share it

  • @luisguimaraes5682
    @luisguimaraes5682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That was me last year guys... Big depression hit me.
    I'm ESFP and I love your content so much
    So insightful

    • @tentzz
      @tentzz ปีที่แล้ว

      Espero que você esteja bem melhor atualmente, amigo.

  • @skidibidup
    @skidibidup 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The sudden double middle finger though Dave, lmao !
    Couldn't be held back by a Te user def.

    • @kyrlics6515
      @kyrlics6515 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're beautiful

  • @SnoozeTheRecluse
    @SnoozeTheRecluse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "So the day he died and they just found him laid out in a hotel room..."
    This lady: *smiles*

  • @Retrogamer71
    @Retrogamer71 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    No, it was the Red Bull.

  • @andrewd426
    @andrewd426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This one was very interesting. I can definitely see this guy (ESxP) struggling to make connections between different aspects of his life that he didn't think were previously connected. I wonder if it's somehow worse if you're Ti/Fi in the second, and you're used to being able to trust your own judgment about things, to then have your reality called into question. Adds to the anxiety about the future if you can't trust your own logic or your own values. Wonder also if having the corresponding Ti/Fi Polr adds to the Ni weirdness. Like there's this other you that's really in control.

    • @cassm7679
      @cassm7679 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is really interesting to think about, yes I think you are right

  • @KajsaBernhardina
    @KajsaBernhardina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have always wondered what demon Ni actually looks like! Thanks for the video :)

    • @dbnd2240
      @dbnd2240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s similar to demon Si, i think

  • @MrLuigiFercotti
    @MrLuigiFercotti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The challenge here is discerning anxiety that is sourced from cognition or from developmental issues.

  • @abraxadabra4224
    @abraxadabra4224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I just realized that my fear of limits (Ne) is the cause of my inability to build and focus (Si). I feel stuck. ENFP here.

    • @dbnd2240
      @dbnd2240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Insightful, thanks for sharing

  • @pauljackson6648
    @pauljackson6648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I AM THE PATTERN MASTER.

    • @wendybird7059
      @wendybird7059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you think there are unlimited options pattern master??

    • @pauljackson6648
      @pauljackson6648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I can't answer definitively because that would limit options.

    • @ifonlyunu994
      @ifonlyunu994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doesn't mean you don't have anxiety:)

    • @wendybird7059
      @wendybird7059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      More EP evidence. 😜

    • @pauljackson6648
      @pauljackson6648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have a large stack of that by now I'm guessing?
      ONLY KIDDING! SLEEP LAST LOLOLOLWHOAMIANDWHATISTHIS?1?1?1?2

  • @BethLucas
    @BethLucas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, this has to be my favourite video but i also feel attacked hahaha

    • @ElizIndRhythm
      @ElizIndRhythm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! I'm both excited about having a really plausible explanation of what is going on and yet really freaking pissed off with that explanation

  • @borderedge6465
    @borderedge6465 ปีที่แล้ว

    A great example of how incredibly insightful these guys can be. I have a family member who is exactly like the guy in the video. I mean he’s acting exactly like the guy, with the extreme immaturity when trying to make sense of the situation, when trying to figure out: what does it all mean? Inferior Ni, that’s what it is!!!

  • @oliveraklabs6035
    @oliveraklabs6035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dave, could you write a book on your, " 16 Personalities 512 Scientific MBTI ", the book will give us an in depth knowledge of your more advanced MBTI, It will help researchers and let your works be known. If the book is true, it will find an audience that is meant to read it. Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.
    You can always edit a bad page. You can’t edit a blank page. Start writing, no matter what. The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on.

  • @nicholassmith7473
    @nicholassmith7473 ปีที่แล้ว

    It sounds like every show is what are paying or not paying too much attention too.❤

  • @Vice_Verse0
    @Vice_Verse0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Savior Ne and Se tend to not like the idea that there are limited options."
    Understatement of the year Dave. Hoo boy is it. However, when you bring it up, you get the 'that is boring' response. Yeah, that wasn't apart of the point, but sure. You calling it boring is definitely a logical point full of well thought up value.

  • @dianadias3
    @dianadias3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    " the anixiety that I had was from all the anxiety that you had".. every men on earth

  • @kaizenzenkai402
    @kaizenzenkai402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can you do one on Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu? I think you can get a good grasp on them, with their relationship theory videos, because it's both of talking about relationship problems and answering viewer questions. I think you guys rock, my new favorite couple that digs deep into stuff. Much like Tom and Lisa.

  • @jefflaurence9957
    @jefflaurence9957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So that's weird. I totally felt that fear of the future. One of my first affirmations was "cheer up! sometimes the worst possible thing DOESN'T happen!". But it didn't make me try to achieve success. It made me play it safe. It made me stay in situations that were hell. It made me rather awkwardly try to solve problems because if I didn't I'd be screwed. Same fear, different effects, ayyy?
    It was the great transformation of my life to consciously switch from getting off my *ss to avoid bad things happening, to doing things for the good that they MIGHT do. It took over a decade and a lot of hard work. But hooboy was it worth it. It's not like flipping a switch, I'll say that. You have to go through all the intermediate stages, including the apathy in the middle.
    But I say go to it.
    I'd call myself an INFP with Fi/Ne. God knows what youall think. Prolly the opposite. You seem to do that.

  • @phishcatt
    @phishcatt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't know what to think of this. I always associated inferior Si with hypochondria and internalising imagined physical sensations, and inferior Ni to inflexibility regarding values or dogma.

  • @MrMatt-qs2ck
    @MrMatt-qs2ck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is gold!

  • @JanKatrinaGuanzon
    @JanKatrinaGuanzon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't understand why they say Ni is great in handling anxiety. I know people who are INTJ and INFJ having panic attacks because their goal is getting stumble down by a lot of overthinking. I know an INTJ who is very anxious in her interview presentation for her job, and I know an INFJ friend who is going RN into depression, crying every night because of anxiety. I mean, I don't know but anxiety is a chemical imbalance in the brain while we experience things that overwhelm us, anyone can have anxiety and not just for a particular MBTI type.

  • @superioropinion7116
    @superioropinion7116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For me anxiety comes not from "why" but "how",the failure in execution.

  • @TheMeacrocks
    @TheMeacrocks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m an ENTP and I was wondering if you can you talk about their consume, blast, sleep, and play? I’m really curious, I’ve tried to put it together myself but I’m a newbie and would like to hear your thoughts on it. thank you!

    • @emailgothacked
      @emailgothacked 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like your question! I would love to see a video on this as well.

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      @jewelyJewels 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @jewelyJewels
      @jewelyJewels 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      These are the videos where Dave talks about it. DaveSuperPowers that is, not me. Lol.

  • @malcolmmacinnis247
    @malcolmmacinnis247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Seeing some comments in here. Why do y'all identify yourselves by mbti types. Like its a title. Like being like "FEMALE ENTP" doesn't make you right nor justify who you are as an individual. Sincerely MALE ENTJ

    • @mutantmacrophage6653
      @mutantmacrophage6653 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      you used 'its' when u meant 'it's'. ISFP confirmed!

    • @soniac2156
      @soniac2156 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thi answer is sooo my husband. He's also ENTJ :)))))

    • @dbnd2240
      @dbnd2240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. It’s obnoxious and extremely limiting.

  • @MidnightAssass1n
    @MidnightAssass1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know you have issues when you get mad at people taking rubbish out of your room

  • @silaakkidumma
    @silaakkidumma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Any suggestion on books to be a mature ESTP?

  • @ucjapecuch9094
    @ucjapecuch9094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh, that is so much me. Thank you ;)

  • @basic-decaf
    @basic-decaf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Been through the same panic attack thing, went to the ER, etc. I hadn't eaten that day, had tons of coffee, stressed with a project I was working on. Called an ambulance, and when it arrived, the panic attack stopped. They didn't think anything was wrong with me. And as the ambulance drove away, the panic attack started again. This has nothing to do with personality type. People across the spectrum have panic attacks. It's a physical thing but entirely artificial in your brain in that it's not linked to anything. An overwhelming sense of doom about... nothing. It's panic. Not about anything, panic by itself. Trying to link this to personality type is sad, I doubt Shan has actually had a panic attack.

    • @basic-decaf
      @basic-decaf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Mr. Spaghetti There are a lot of correlations that you can attempt to draw between experiences and personality type. You can even attempt to do it with panic attacks. But, I'm absolutely certain there is no correlation. If, however, you tried to link panic attacks to cortisol, you'd have some luck. Steroids, sleep deprivation, stimulants, low blood sugar, etc. You might say, oh, let's correlate all of those things to personality type. Haha. No. A stretch is a stretch. This is supposed to be objective personality typing, and as far from pseudoscience as possible... within this realm of pseudoscience. It would be smarter to act like it. Saying ESxPs get panic disorders because they can't see patterns is the most idiotic thing I've seen recently, and yes, I've seen the GoT finale.

    • @basic-decaf
      @basic-decaf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Mr. Spaghetti Why did you delete your comment? No. Panic attacks have nothing to do with emotional states. It is entirely physiological.

  • @morningstarhomestead
    @morningstarhomestead 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Alex Jones....ESTP with poor Ni.

    • @pauljackson6648
      @pauljackson6648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I hear they're putting frogs in the chemicals to turn the water gay.

    • @baaf777
      @baaf777 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most ESTP's still make sense of the world and make connections with Ti.
      The ESFP's in my life tend to have anxiety or fear issues.

    • @trollloloololooo
      @trollloloololooo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@baaf777 i agree as esfp with big social anxiety and panic disorder or whatever tf it is when in crowds

  • @estherreinert6607
    @estherreinert6607 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooo i just learned that reality has a limited end result? what the heck. Is this true? I feel so dumb now.
    And yeah this video is so relatable for me as an esfp.

  • @yasminrei
    @yasminrei 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have another question, which types are most likely to be afraid of being bored and having nothing to do?

  • @joevaghn457
    @joevaghn457 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:04 - honestly kinda felt something
    - ESFP

  • @abdkayali9574
    @abdkayali9574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait a minute it's limit ?!!!

  • @FlowState
    @FlowState 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting video. That dude's got it bad! Lol

  • @bshrful
    @bshrful 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve Jobs, Elon Musck, Bill Gates - it did not go the same way for many people , also they are Se, Ne

  • @jlk6916
    @jlk6916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After one of the EJ videos, I thought she was an ENFJ and he was an INTJ. What are their types?

    • @celebrity_rooster7488
      @celebrity_rooster7488 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ENTJ PC/S and INTJ SB/P

    • @ifonlyunu994
      @ifonlyunu994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She is ENTJ and Dave is INTJ. Neither have Fe. No way. There is a darkness that there content kind of brings imo.

    • @luijsderoth8835
      @luijsderoth8835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Mr. Spaghetti Dave is SB/P(C)

    • @skidibidup
      @skidibidup 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ifonlyunu994 Reality* Te, yes...

    • @surpingbutterfly
      @surpingbutterfly 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol he is INTJ she is ESTJ

  • @adhistie1694
    @adhistie1694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shan, why you sound like an ENTP on the last part? Gathering new stuff and not organizing it as a conceptual pattern? It's fascinating to learn that ENTJ can be like that?

  • @YB7517167
    @YB7517167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    some people who live under the tree are happier than some billionaires, but that doesn't matter because there's only one world view that everyone knows that you were conditioned into since childhood but now I'm just sounding crazy right??? (work will set you free)!!!

    • @YB7517167
      @YB7517167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      mental health is becoming common as seeing birds, something is not working just sayin...

    • @SCREAMOguy413
      @SCREAMOguy413 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      truth!

  • @SykeeNot
    @SykeeNot 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What makes your opinions so...Objective?

  • @shelleywinters6763
    @shelleywinters6763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't get it

  • @SirThanksalot_1
    @SirThanksalot_1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you guys follow another theory? Because I have the impression you're confusing the inferior function with the Demon, which is Ne for ESTP and ESFP (and the Hero for ENFP and ENTP)

    • @KayKayBayForever
      @KayKayBayForever 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lord Thanksalot They basically have a whole different system, although based off MBTI functions. When they say Demon, they usually mean either of the two inferior functions.
      So for ESTP, assuming that means SeTiFeNi, the Demons would be Fe and Ni, and the Saviors Se and Ti.

  • @celiasleigh2805
    @celiasleigh2805 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:04 giving everyone the finger

  • @superdjaction
    @superdjaction 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tony Stark is an ESTP

  • @craigmiller1870
    @craigmiller1870 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you have an enlarged athlete's heart and drink 6 red bulls a day, but still don't have a panic attack? What should I (I mean you) do next? Drink seven and hope for a miracle? Great, no one will understand my twin broke under a tree praying to god his father doesn't help him. Brudtha, you gotta get a move one!
    Anxiety, IMO, is a good thing, forcing you to act even when you don't want to, but know it's for you own good.

  • @ofsash
    @ofsash ปีที่แล้ว

    holy shit this is the reason why i'm seeing a therapist, does this mean i'm demon ni/si? :/

  • @epipany3677
    @epipany3677 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fuck. That me...

  • @weirddingus4620
    @weirddingus4620 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm RNBP, what personality does that mean again?

  • @nex3555
    @nex3555 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    DaveSuperPowers is an ENFJ.