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The Hard Truth About Dating In The Navy... EXPOSED!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ม.ค. 2022
- In this video I discuss how dating in the navy usually goes...
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Hashim Alark is a US Navy Veteran that goes by the name "OfficialShim" or "Shim". He is most known for his military content and motivational approach to life.
He spitting facts im not even in the military i live by a AF base and the ladies be married nd all and be cheating like a crazy. Had a girl tell me her husband lame nd started buying me clothes with his money i feel for yall boys smh.
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Lmao wild
The guys be cheating too!
Damn
As an ex submariner before there was females allowed on subs I have no idea about this. Even now I can't imagine couples hooking up on subs. There is no room for privacy like on a carrier. But like anything, where there is a will there's a way. But the deployment situation is the same. Saw many guys cheat on their wives while overseas and saw a few wives waiting on the pier with divorce papers when we returned.
Divorce papers cuz the wives found out? If so how'd they know?
Marriages don't work so well when your husband is on the moon for months at a time. Or same as.
@@masieldubois6882 if the sailor gets caught cheating, usually they tell the spouse
Younger people think that Military relationships dont work out but if you both are mature enough and up Front with each other no matter how hard life is , it can work out , communication , understanding , and Love can conquer all . also its not about age and its not about that its about wisdom and understanding also mind set is the key , companionship is a great thing just have to be in the mind set and be honest with each other
Your wife is getting plowed while ur shipped off somewhere 😂
@@kennypowers9487😂
Exactly!
Good luck.
i'm 19 about to join the air force I'm honestly just tryna meet people and have fun but also get my bread up and use the benefits the military is offering, don't really have time for dating.
Literally me rn in like a month bmt but if shi happens it happens how it going for u now and what job u do?
@@jrock0block80literally about to join the Air Force. Are the females hoeing around like I heard?
@@jrock0block80what did you use to pass the afqt?
It’s good to see my boy uploading more and proud of him moving past this phase in his life
Thanks boss💪🏽
@@OfficialShim Nah g thank you for keeping it official 💯
I got out of the Navy years ago and these videos literally crack me up bc ITS STILL THE SAME!! 😂
Wish i was in platoon sailor 🫡
Did you do 4 years or more?, and how was it?.
is the gay stigma legit?
Going on 6 years. Being on a DDG I've seen so much dirty shit when it came to relationships. Have fun but DO NOT get serious with someone.
I know that life I agree don’t get in serious relationship ain’t worth it
I'm grateful for the fact that I remained single for most of my life. I don't plan on dating for a long time. My plan is to find a faithful church girl and take it from there! I'll leave the timing up to God 🙏😇
Do your thing brodie! Watch out for the church girls bro that doesn’t mean anything lol trust me bro! Trust your discernment 💯💪🏽
@@OfficialShim thanks for your advice! All of your videos have been extremely helpful for me 👊
@@OfficialShim Realest advice on earth
@Mr. Matt I’m a faithful church girl 😌
I’ve been in for 2 years and I’m TELLING YOU he speaking fax💯Focus on yourself king/queen.
Shim right! Hang out, have fun, hook-up. You joined the military to see the world and meet new people. DO NOT GET IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP OR GET MARRIED! Chase that TA and Rank!
Yessir in order to be a boss you gotta be a worker first and I’m definitely taking notes and learning so that I won’t have to do 20 keep up the vids dawg💯
I would recommend either not dating completely, or dating civilian. Good video big dog.
It’s flirts in Bootcamp caught kissing with a ring on rdcs called her husband and made her tell him
Date a civilian girl lol. these navy chicks crazy & they’re all mad flirty & shit regardless if they single or not lmao
All of em the same nigga
"Now this doesn't happen for us fellas!" aye good lookin out bro 😂
I may never experience a ship, but I peeped this in A School and I'm sure I'll see some interesting things on mob. You kept it all the way official, I'm with you on this Bro. 🤣💯👍🏾
Why might you never experience a ship? What's your rate?
@@nnennannakwe2741 most likely a SeaBee like I’m about to be 😂😂😂
He gives me the illustration that you build yourself. You become a 6 mile runner, get a bachelor degree and so on.
Young bro! I went in the Air Force back in 2000!!! Dating in the military is the WORST FKN THING I DID!!!!! I had nobody to school me bro so this is DOPE what yall are doing!!! Caught a article 15 behind a joint crashed out. That saying been around a LONG time "it's not yours, its just your turn!!"
When you see notification and it says officialshim. You know you gotta stay official 💯💯.
You speaking facts cause the amount of drama I see on a DDG 🥴😂
such great content, ive consumed hours of it this morning. thank you shim
I was on the Reagan wit you still there now don’t do that long distance shit it ain’t gonna work out fr
Shipping January 19 🔥 Your video helps fam.
Good luck bro
@@kevonyeayes1000 ✊🏿✊🏿 forsure
I was stationed at Pearl Harbor and he is speaking FACTS!!!
Nah cuz I used to talk someone in the navy and he would email me everyday next thing yk he got a gf and she texted me 💀
He definitely not lying I wasn’t even in the military long and it was going down in basic training. Like how y’all together you just finding out this person even exist in the world🙄
how does it go down in basic training, arent the instructors on ur ass?
Keep up the good work shim!!!💯💪🏾
Appreciated it the advice!
2024 and that snipping noise aligned perfect wit the add bro😂
Im glad you back💪🏾 keep up the good work🖤
Appreciate you Shim for this advice, been thinking about joining the navy. 🤘🏽
All I know is when my ship docks in at Spain and or Colombia, I’m keeping my BlackKnight, on the ship.
I had a brother div across the hall and we would do sign language through the compartment windows on watch
I’m BOOTCAMP I remember I caught my boy getting top while I was on watch I ain’t snitch imma let my boy do his thing and I kept that eye out, and on my last deployment on the Nimitz I was T’d no ports and we was dry asf but that ain’t stop no one them little sandboxes we went to especially Bahrain yuh we was on demon time 💀
Yo I’m at Fort Sam Houston in A school rn, and this place is an absolute fuck fest😂😂💀
San Antonio??
Trust me just listen to what he’s sayin🤦🏾♂️ that man Jody is real 💯😂😂
U mean Jody from Baby Boy?
Yeah just don’t date while in the military! I was in a relationship with someone and they were gone at bootcamp for 7 months because they got hurt and after they came back, a month went by and I caught him attempting to cheat on dating and hookup apps and when I confronted hime, he wanted to go on a break and blocked me on everything. Now I’m going to navy bootcamp with his support and it sucks, so just don’t do it.
People fake love when there in the military so fuck relationship for right now, I’m on selfish shit now 😂
Can you repeat that I was looking at your hair the whole time 😂
That boy kneck looking good 💰
Shipping March 14th loves my g keep it up 💯🆙
March 14. Good for you
Shipping March 15👀
I’ma go the navy route gang 😂😂😭, aye you funny ash tho Nigga said “Jody” that shit real out here fr 😭💯
had a fling in boot camp but definitely cuffed in A school 😈
It definitely goes down in boot camp. I had a sister division so it was easy for me.
I coulda swore that u can be kicked out of bootcamp for having sexual relations with another individual.. is that true🤔
One of my fellow recruits in bc got caught passing notes I church and got ASMOD lmfao
What happens in the navy stays in the navy 😂
No
Funny thing is you left as soon as I got to The Reagan it would’ve been dope to meet you and everything you saying is complete facts
If there is more of a chance for you to lose then it is a gamble and if you date and/or go too serious OR WORSE Marry then you are simply a idiot. If you ain't got your heart into it and you ain't putting a ring on it then its fine to fuck around but don't get locked up don't Marry bc if you lose its worse or life changing. It isn't even worth it actually winning that gamble. Stay focused and keep grinding!
You are correct on that subject
i got out in 2017 aviation but i was shore duty the whole time but idk i've seen so much i'd say do not trust any woman in a uniform under age 35 with your heart. it was as if they dated dorks who took anything on purpose and just cheated at every opportunity. be throwing movie night in your room with dudes she hit 🤣🚫🧢
Dope video bro 💯! I mess with the cut too
Thanks 💯
If two people are married in the service of the same branch, who gets the BAH?
This is 2022 dating is not the same as the 70s and 80s. Social media has changed the dating game and all these women out here is cheating nonstop. Take it from me I been the relationship and side dude and been through some things. The best advice I can give is work on your goals in your 20s and 30s travel the world have some experience and then if you want to settle down, go overseas and find yourself a traditional foreign chick that’s not influenced by the modern feminist toxic culture like in the west [USA] and retire in her country and don’t bring her back to the USA, Marriages also end 50% in divorces initiated 70-80% of the time by women in the USA, There’s a reason many brothers are leaving the matrix of the USA and going overseas. 👍🏻
You've put it right. I'm from a different country but I want to serve in the US military. Setting goals first before anything else.
I’m Air Force bruh, don’t do it. Went thru 3 long distance relationships in 1 year as a First term airman.. I couldn’t believe em, but that shit does not work 😂 just do you fam
Dang bro 3…😂
@@OfficialShim ong 😂😂 I’m just chilling now I’m in Korea then Italy next I’m vibing
If you don’t mind answering, whats your career for the air force?
@@stinkmeaner8189 F-16 crew chief (Tactical Aircraft Maintenance)
@@Jyse_1how are the females in the Air Force bc I’m pretty good looking and I just wanna know what’s about to happen so that I can prepare myself lol
Ayy just arrived on the 76!!
Man You snapping bruh
Right right right yeah right I’m tracking yep right right I gotcha right right 🤦🏾♂️🤣
That shit happening to me with the A school thing shit sucks fr bruh
It’s not possible end of discussion lol
Im still trying to decide if I should go to the navy since once you go there’s no turning back
Do it bro. I'm 18 and been in 6 months and I have no regrets.
^^^^agreeeed
In A school I was talking to this one guy I knew and he was supposed to come see me from another state. He ended up ghosting me. Same thing with another dude when he went on leave. I thought we were gonna be serious but he ended up with another girl 🤣any long distance shit I've tried has never worked
You will learn. A girl in my A school in Pensacola met a another junior sailor in 2016, when I had first got in, they talked for a month. He proposed before he got his orders. And they broke up 4 days after the wedding LOL.
Word of wisdom, especially since your a girl, most guys are only gonna look at you for a quick fuck. Especially once you get to the fleet. I wouldn't get hot and heavy with a man (as another man whose witnessed and experienced this) until your 1 year out before you get out to use the GI bill. If you staying in, then any percentage of long term marriage lasting as a military wife/couple decreases by 10% each year.
Just giving you the statistics.
Good luck!
Lmao I know what you mean bro😂😂😂😂 I’m in Virginia ain’t much out here to do all that 😂😂😂😄😉
love this video!!😁
I would like to hear the story on how you and your girl met. Thanks
coast guard better, I respect your hustle tho, dope video
Hey love i just wanna say I discovered you because i was dating my ex bf who was based in yokosuka as well . I just wanna thank you for being so nice reply to my questions and when i was asking for some advice.
While i do agree that dating in the military especially while your assigned in a ship is not ideal. I wanna say props to the people who stuck it out.
He right I experienced it the hard way🤣🤣🤣
Crazy my ex cheated on me in A school never thought them stories were true 😂. Funny thing I’m joining as an IT soon.
Life full of lessons bro😂 1st time on her 2nd time on you boss💯 Just stack yo bread and overall improve yourself physically and mentally 💪🏽
@@OfficialShim Facts just gonna focus on these racks. Money never cheated me 😂. Investing and crypto my bread and butter shit to easy.
It’s the same in the army
just found out he had a wife the whole time😍😍😍😍
What about dating or marrying someone who’s locked up or a felon, does that change anything? 😭🤣
Yup for the one on the outside not for the one that’s locked up as much
I started watching your vids before I joined nd now I’m here watching them with a year in a half in, I’m in a relationship now wit a civilian lol going to Japan in a month Shii finna be hard lol anyways I met u in Pensacola two of my friends were in you forex classes, at the time I was having fun nd smashing chicks😭so I was slacking but now I’m on it nd thanks your channel and energy is a huge part of it
Dawg you was living life! We all do boss , im glad you on this mission for true freedom now💪🏽 let’s get it bro 💯
Yessirrr it’s grind time🙌🏾💸
watching from Yokosuka CVN 76 GANG!!!!
ayy i'm there too!! What department are u I'm AIMD.
You said "rubber ring" and my mind went elsewhere...
Discipline sailor right here 9th day of January Christmas tree still up!!!! It's algorithm not logorithm homie!!
Your significant other IS DEFINITELY INCLUDED
Also, don't marriage a chick for BAH. Doesn't end well people.
Hey shim if u know anything about the delay in entry program can you tell us about it because I'm planning on going into that to help me train and get fit
Finish a 1.5 mile in under 12:30 , finish the plank with atleast 1:45, do atleast 60 push-ups in under 2 minutes , work on that everyday
Hey bro I need some more info
Don’t know what to go for I’m just tired of my life
Keep going up. I liked and subscribed!
Yoooo I remember when I was boot camp and I was ina brother and sister div ain’t nothing krazy happened but I most def could have linked but shawty was in Alaska 💀
Here at the sub base I’m at , lmao they got this saying “if she has a cac , step back” 🤣.
Again I’m on subs , the same thing happens too 🤣
Me and my girlfriend made a year on the 24 of January should we just break up before I go or just getted marry
give it a try first but pray for best and prepare for the worst
I went to Texas for A school it was for Master at arms now I’m in pensacola Florida working security
I had an intergraded division and the aroc and rpoc was dating the whole time
AIMD tunnel lol aka the Mac tunnel
Long distance relationship do not work in the Navy see if first hand all the time with my homies
When you pick a rate in the navy how long do u have to wait to get a different one??
Prob already found out but it's 2 years
idk if you've done a video on birthdays but, i wonder if they do anything or what it was like when your birthday came around?
Praise God!💪
Do you Brother
Wise man once said "deez hos ain't loyal".
I’m tryna go to the navy but I’m tryna learn and shoot guns and artillery
bro go for army or marine if u wanna shoot stuff.
people straight wildn after bootcamp. It aint no joke lol every body sneaking in others room hotel parties. hahaha funny times
I’m not thinking negative bout it ima stay down idgaf ain’t that much sex in the world people slinging pipe like dat but what about the air forces tho is it the same
Yeah shi the same
Best thing to do while in the military is to be single. Is like if you get locked up, just leave your girl bro lol
I’m 22 rn if i enlist this week am i too old? I don’t want to be around a bunch of 18 year olds
It’s going to feel a little weird lol I enlisted at 22 I signed a 3.5 year contract I’m 25 and people call me a “old head”😹
@Kdoffaxan Yes 🤣🤣🤣 most of The lower enlisted are 18-23 i’m older than most of these cats in it feels weird a little bit “ yeah I was born in 2002!” I’m like Wtf? 😅
@@JHUNTUNR I was born in 1999 and I’m 23 it doesn’t feel weird for me. I guess it just depends
What’s that on your finger? Is it broken?
What’s your job in the navy ? Rate ?
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