Guys, listen, I'm going to be 45 yeara old this year. Dated a lot of attractive women in my younger past. The most important thing is if she makes it easy for you to talk to her. You shouldn't be chasing her. If she likes you, she'll orbit you, meaning hanging around you, hoping you'll indicate conversations. She'll make it easy for you to get her number, ask her out, etc. If she's dating another guy, she's NOT interested. If she put you in the friendzone, she's 100% not interested. You might as well be her gay friend. If a woman puts you in the friendzone, you put her ass in the goodbye zone! Learn the value of not being a simp. If she's sleeping/dating other guys, don't waste your time with her. Don't be afraid to inogre her. A woman isn't entitled to your time, free attention, help, or protection. That is a VERY valuable commodity and should only be given to women worthy of it! Never ask a girl out more than once. If a girl says no to you and rejects you she's showing you that she doesn't have any interest in you, doesn't see any potential in you. It's you job to prove her wrong and move on the the next girl.
I have a crush on a coworker who I think likes me back. After several small conversations with her I noticed she orbits me, hoping I make conversation and often blushes when I talk to her, talks softly to me and gives me long responses. One day she casually mentioned her boyfriend in conversation. Confused, I asked a coworker about this and they confirmed it to be true. Since then my crush for her has lessened but it still there. She still finds ways to be close to me when we are in the same department and excuses to talk to me. I have been ignoring her most of the time except for the casual “hello””good morning” Should I continue to ignore her?
@jqnnyb2676 That fact that you're questioning whether she likes you proves OP's point, lol. A woman that likes will let you know in some way or form and you'll know she likes you. She'll make it "easy" for you. Move on bro, and find someone else. She sees you as an acquaintance or someone pleasant to talk to. A lot of girls do that. Why? I don't know, but I doesn't matter.
don't ask her if she likes you, that makes it worse, just back away completly, if she sends a message in less than 2 weeks, then go ahead and pick it back slowly, otherwise just delete her number and get over it
Not all girls that are into you message u bro. And also girls that stick eye contact r outside of conversation is not right. But when she is talking 1-1 and gives eye contact could also mean shes normal. Best sign is how differently she treats u from everyone else. If shes loud with u but not loud with others. She likes u. If shes shy with u and communicative with others. She likes u. Pay attention to body language and what she does to try to grab ur attention
With my experience, heres my opinion on the matter. Always act like no one likes you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't cut everything and everybody off. Be social, be friendly. When a girl/boy gives you attention, act accordingly. If it progresses, act accordingly. You want to be approachable.
I've been talking to her for like a year now and she's been hanging out with some of my friends that are also her friends but she doesn't normally interact with them until like a few weeks ago whenever I'm with them 😂😂
I’d suggest getting yourself an older woman. They’re mature, they’re done with games, and they know what they want. You’ll never get confused bout whether or not they’re digging u. Now, when a girl is in her teens and 20s, those are the immaturity, game playing, mind game years so that’s a different animal altogether.
No she's just ignored all the good men, loved the attention and chase of the fuckboys and now they wanna settle down and have kids. who are they gonna choose? The pushover who is desperate and pretends he is a secure man by being overly caring due to his sensitive ass. You're main goal in life should be outside the barriers of relationships and women. Get your shit together, gather your career or job, stable your finances, hit the gym to improve your mental and physical well-being, explore hobbies. You must be able to live with yourself before another being. The problem with most men and their depressions is that they keep finding what they think they need. Attention, validation, 'love', relationships, drinking and having their egos validated. The problem with most men is that they need to understand they don't need these things. Men think they need women and sex because they need to feel validated. It isn't bad to be a person brought down by these things. It's unhealthy and should be changed. Do not pursue the woman, pursue your own needs, be secure in yourself, and the woman who you need, a woman also secure in herself, will come to you. It's hard to overcome your own emotions, but you will thank yourself in the long run.
with eye contact personally I would for a few seconds and then look away because I was nervous so if its like eye contact on and off then on and off most likely its them being nervous around you
Bruh this chick had mad energy when I start texting her but her energy shifted to 12 hours in. Low effort text, One liners, took 4 hours on average to respond. Just moved on
Ok im writing this because i need to know so i got a coworker that i didnt really showed attention at first because i told my friends that im gonna act as if i didnt care and it kinda worked here´s why she got a boyfriend who doesn’t work or does anything else except playing video game and i saw this as an opportunity to get her to quit him soo i invited her to my house she accepted we ended up talking instead of watching a tv show i got to know her better but i kinda feel in the friendzone because i bet she thinks i actually wont try a move on her since a the beggining i acted as if i didnt care yk but its really complicated for me also im not the best with girls soo for me ive never been this far and im always asking my friends if i should keep going and they actually thinks i could win this !!!
The thing with me is… I tell people I’m not interested and obviously that means “Try harder” in their mind and after that I just distance myself. I don’t like to but when you actually do tell people that you’re genuinely not interested and they’re not trying to hear it, what else is there to do? 😭
Stumbled xrs this I'm a mature guy been there done that. I need to get through to u guys.. if a girl acts like she doesn't cu that means she's scared or protecting her relationship w her bf.. I'm from the old school.. I'm telling u all our options are not endless so if u see a girl it into do not take her signs as rejection. You simply need to be persistent even if it pisses her off. Many girls will go to that extreme . Wat do in care piss her off. She will in time see ur soft and strong side. Be humoring. She will be so flattered that u wer si persistent she will have no choice but to fall in love w u.. look guys ur young so r they. If u don't do as I say you'll fail. The hardiest thing is waking up to ur 30th bd. You then don't have access to young hot ones...and the older u get the uglier they get. Your selves th He hot babes sex will end. Don't play w time or you'll wake up to a discusting fat older woman that makes u want to through up
Guys never ask a girl if she likes you or not before you start dating. You have to learn to be extremely indirect if you want to have success with girls.
@@Tom-cp6yj Women as well, I mean, when I say girls I'm referring to all females. You should never ask a chick if she likes you or not before you start dating, if you don't believe me just keep doing it and you will suck for your entire life unless you get a low interest one.
@@Tom-cp6yj I mean, females in general, you should never ask if a chick likes you or not before dating. If you don't believe me keep doing it and you will suck in your entire life unless you find a low interest one.
Lack of eye contact can also be a signe of autism, auties cant maintain eye contact very well, or it could be just nevrvousness, i like get that if im nervous, especially if the guy is hella hot
You know it's over when ur watching this
Why’d you have to come for me?
That hurts a bit but it's the truth.
meh i never dated but i watch this out of curiosity
@@adhamelzeny3374yeah this is not a good feeling :/
It's over. I'm sad now lol
Guys, listen, I'm going to be 45 yeara old this year. Dated a lot of attractive women in my younger past. The most important thing is if she makes it easy for you to talk to her. You shouldn't be chasing her. If she likes you, she'll orbit you, meaning hanging around you, hoping you'll indicate conversations. She'll make it easy for you to get her number, ask her out, etc. If she's dating another guy, she's NOT interested. If she put you in the friendzone, she's 100% not interested. You might as well be her gay friend. If a woman puts you in the friendzone, you put her ass in the goodbye zone! Learn the value of not being a simp. If she's sleeping/dating other guys, don't waste your time with her. Don't be afraid to inogre her. A woman isn't entitled to your time, free attention, help, or protection. That is a VERY valuable commodity and should only be given to women worthy of it! Never ask a girl out more than once. If a girl says no to you and rejects you she's showing you that she doesn't have any interest in you, doesn't see any potential in you. It's you job to prove her wrong and move on the the next girl.
I have a crush on a coworker who I think likes me back. After several small conversations with her I noticed she orbits me, hoping I make conversation and often blushes when I talk to her, talks softly to me and gives me long responses. One day she casually mentioned her boyfriend in conversation. Confused, I asked a coworker about this and they confirmed it to be true. Since then my crush for her has lessened but it still there. She still finds ways to be close to me when we are in the same department and excuses to talk to me. I have been ignoring her most of the time except for the casual “hello””good morning” Should I continue to ignore her?
@@jqnnyb2676whats your progress now ?
@jqnnyb2676 That fact that you're questioning whether she likes you proves OP's point, lol. A woman that likes will let you know in some way or form and you'll know she likes you. She'll make it "easy" for you. Move on bro, and find someone else. She sees you as an acquaintance or someone pleasant to talk to. A lot of girls do that. Why? I don't know, but I doesn't matter.
@@walter9243 thanks alot Man for giving me clearity.
It could even be your wife at 45. They fade away and get bored. Let her go.
The fact that i'm here says everything, Damn this hurts :/
you can only have so many dead-end interactions …
She may be a dismissive avoidant,or a fearful avoidant,and that’s where things get very complicated
a hot goth girl, showed interes, then went back and forth, at the end she was narcissist, i dodged a huge bullet
RIP I love hot goth girls
If she doesn't approach you, she's not interested.
I knew she wasn’t into me when I looked into the mirror this morning. No further investigation required 😂
Same 🥲
Well, gotta keep moving forward
Just ask her once and for all. If she's interested then it's good, if not then it's also good, on to the next. Simple as that, don't overthink things.
Never directly ask a girl if she's interested, because you're never going to get a straight answer. And if you're confused, the answer is NO, anyways.
Not me overthinking before I even message her again.🤦♂️
I'm too scared to ask
due to gossip
Dealing with the same thing twin
It's painfully obvious BUT we just don't want to admit it.......
don't ask her if she likes you, that makes it worse, just back away completly, if she sends a message in less than 2 weeks, then go ahead and pick it back slowly, otherwise just delete her number and get over it
Not all girls that are into you message u bro. And also girls that stick eye contact r outside of conversation is not right. But when she is talking 1-1 and gives eye contact could also mean shes normal. Best sign is how differently she treats u from everyone else. If shes loud with u but not loud with others. She likes u. If shes shy with u and communicative with others. She likes u. Pay attention to body language and what she does to try to grab ur attention
So if she's loud and talk with everyone use to greet me in the beginning but now she don't say a single word to me 🤣 what you call that 😂
With my experience, heres my opinion on the matter.
Always act like no one likes you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't cut everything and everybody off. Be social, be friendly.
When a girl/boy gives you attention, act accordingly. If it progresses, act accordingly.
You want to be approachable.
When she doesn't laugh at the memes you send her anymore OR when she doesn't send you any more memes.
Im with u when you said you think shes interested with u but its not
I've been talking to her for like a year now and she's been hanging out with some of my friends that are also her friends but she doesn't normally interact with them until like a few weeks ago whenever I'm with them 😂😂
Thanks bro now I know she's not into me 😩
I’d suggest getting yourself an older woman. They’re mature, they’re done with games, and they know what they want. You’ll never get confused bout whether or not they’re digging u. Now, when a girl is in her teens and 20s, those are the immaturity, game playing, mind game years so that’s a different animal altogether.
An older woman might as well have her biological clock over
No she's just ignored all the good men, loved the attention and chase of the fuckboys and now they wanna settle down and have kids. who are they gonna choose? The pushover who is desperate and pretends he is a secure man by being overly caring due to his sensitive ass.
You're main goal in life should be outside the barriers of relationships and women. Get your shit together, gather your career or job, stable your finances, hit the gym to improve your mental and physical well-being, explore hobbies. You must be able to live with yourself before another being. The problem with most men and their depressions is that they keep finding what they think they need. Attention, validation, 'love', relationships, drinking and having their egos validated. The problem with most men is that they need to understand they don't need these things.
Men think they need women and sex because they need to feel validated. It isn't bad to be a person brought down by these things. It's unhealthy and should be changed. Do not pursue the woman, pursue your own needs, be secure in yourself, and the woman who you need, a woman also secure in herself, will come to you. It's hard to overcome your own emotions, but you will thank yourself in the long run.
It's hard to realize she's not into you
with eye contact personally I would for a few seconds and then look away because I was nervous so if its like eye contact on and off then on and off most likely its them being nervous around you
TH-cam recommend me this video that means it's over.
Lol 😂
Sure, read all the signs, because women just can't use words....
Great vid man like always you will be big
Thank you brother
Thanks bro I just saved myself the pain and heartache and so much time over someone who doesn’t want me
Its funny but the second you get rejected it's like a huge relife
She called the police; is she interested in me?
I will added as a woman tired of a man when you don't invite them to your house and u don't care about what how their day went.
I feel sorry for the guy that she really is into have a nice life
Bruh this chick had mad energy when I start texting her but her energy shifted to 12 hours in. Low effort text, One liners, took 4 hours on average to respond. Just moved on
Yes she is silence is insecurity and ignoring you means highly interested! Don't give up on her
Thank you for the wisdom!
Ok im writing this because i need to know so i got a coworker that i didnt really showed attention at first because i told my friends that im gonna act as if i didnt care and it kinda worked here´s why she got a boyfriend who doesn’t work or does anything else except playing video game and i saw this as an opportunity to get her to quit him soo i invited her to my house she accepted we ended up talking instead of watching a tv show i got to know her better but i kinda feel in the friendzone because i bet she thinks i actually wont try a move on her since a the beggining i acted as if i didnt care yk but its really complicated for me also im not the best with girls soo for me ive never been this far and im always asking my friends if i should keep going and they actually thinks i could win this !!!
I want to mentionned that she does not do anything mentionned in this video
Yeah thank u for reminded me she not interested 😊
I am a huge victim of leading myself on 😅
The thing with me is… I tell people I’m not interested and obviously that means “Try harder” in their mind and after that I just distance myself. I don’t like to but when you actually do tell people that you’re genuinely not interested and they’re not trying to hear it, what else is there to do? 😭
Sad cuz us men have to face rejection more then yall
@@xxfranknittyxx2270 Exactly, they have it easy, unlike us.
You look so charismatic
That “NAH” 💀😂
Stumbled xrs this I'm a mature guy been there done that. I need to get through to u guys.. if a girl acts like she doesn't cu that means she's scared or protecting her relationship w her bf.. I'm from the old school.. I'm telling u all our options are not endless so if u see a girl it into do not take her signs as rejection. You simply need to be persistent even if it pisses her off. Many girls will go to that extreme . Wat do in care piss her off. She will in time see ur soft and strong side. Be humoring. She will be so flattered that u wer si persistent she will have no choice but to fall in love w u.. look guys ur young so r they. If u don't do as I say you'll fail. The hardiest thing is waking up to ur 30th bd. You then don't have access to young hot ones...and the older u get the uglier they get. Your selves th
He hot babes sex will end. Don't play w time or you'll wake up to a discusting fat older woman that makes u want to through up
only if i watched this 2 weeks ago
Guys never ask a girl if she likes you or not before you start dating. You have to learn to be extremely indirect if you want to have success with girls.
Ya "girls" not WOMEN.. 🤷♂️
@@Tom-cp6yj Women as well, I mean, when I say girls I'm referring to all females. You should never ask a chick if she likes you or not before you start dating, if you don't believe me just keep doing it and you will suck for your entire life unless you get a low interest one.
@@Tom-cp6yj I mean, females in general, you should never ask if a chick likes you or not before dating. If you don't believe me keep doing it and you will suck in your entire life unless you find a low interest one.
Lack of eye contact can also be a signe of autism, auties cant maintain eye contact very well, or it could be just nevrvousness, i like get that if im nervous, especially if the guy is hella hot
What if she is shy?
The best way to find out if she likes you or not is asking
Sorry bro...but I don't need to support someone telling me she's not in to me.
they reponded with idk😢
calling the police is not there...
So... im good !
Yup 💀
gg guys gg
I will Never be loved .
Man just get to it
She see message and say nahhh😂😂😂 you make me smile
She want me, she want meeee ahahahaha
😂😂😂 so what! 😂😂 I don't care.
Ok ok Just mentally admit fix it she isnt interested on you
From day one 😂