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Hell yeah I‘m concerned! It’s like getting send unwanted Dick pics - only in real life. Imagine someone with breasts and a dick coming into a changing room where children are - they have a shock for life! This madness has to stop.
My answer is gone 🙄 I said I am concerned, it’s like getting send unwanted d..ck pics- only in real life. Now imagine a man with breasts and his Willy intact comes into a changing room where there are kids. They get a shock for life!
Yeah, a lot of trans folks saw people bringing this up as an attack on trans people. It's just reality that perverts will use any excuse and see the trans label as the social equivalent of a bulletproof vest.
Self-ID and granting transwomen the right to encroach on women's single-sex bathrooms, dorms, prisons, DV/SA Shelters, Lesbian circles, robs girls and women of our rights to association, safety, privacy and consent. Turns out that YES, it IS PIE 🥧.
On my Facebook feed was a man in his 60s wearing his granddaughter’s prom dress. People were all over him, so stunning. He has taken family memories surrounding the prom and his granddaughter and imprinted himself. It’s all they’ll think of now. 🙁 I don’t know a single woman who has taken photos of herself in her granddaughter’s special dress. So narcissistic and selfish of anyone to do, let alone an old man.
Have been part of the queer community for over 45yrs. Many trans friends over the years. But when I’m told “I feel like a woman” I still have to ask “how do you know”. Blank stares…
Yes. My experience of older trans women is that generally they're more thoughtful, and don't want to take anything away from the lived experience of biological women. It's worth asking that question without being hurtful. Most trans people make sense to me as "whole" people before and after transitioning. The exceptions are those who believe they can reinvent themselves in a couple of weeks. To be honest they probably can "feel like a woman" if they can get to grips with the idea that women spend most of their lives "feeling like a person". Another question I've asked over the years is about writing in the point of view of a different gender or sexuality. It used to be that you couldn't tell who the writer was, but you could try guessing and be willing to be proved wrong. Now the reader must know everything about the writer, they're forced to find meaning in the writing that might not actually be there.
@@GlasPthalocyanine Dear C C, Thank you for your thoughtful and well crafted response. And yes, of course you are right, we should all just feel like people. Whatever that means. I guess the point I was attempting was philosophical. It’s all so bloody subjective. Maybe we spend too much time navel gazing, fighting some new existential fear and then slapping labels on it. 🐈⬛
its such an important point. There was a trans woman on the BBC in the UK doing the whole "ask me anything" thing after having surgery. I asked about their experience of "being a woman" beyond cosmetic things like clothes and make up. No answer. If you remove biology from the equation then woman hood makes no sense. What can a trans woman have that they couldn't have as a man (again other than clothes)
I'm a random straight white man, but I agree 100% with Julie. Articulate, funny, and determined. I am in her corner for women's rights. My lovely wife deserves the same rights as I do, and protection from the predatory men that target women pretending to be women.
@@alvincente4080most of us have done our research Julie has stated indisputable facts the trans movement is a misogynist child mutilation movement masquerading as progress!
The women speaking out on this issue, Julie Bindel being one, have been some of the most intelligent and articulate speakers I have ever listened to. I find their calm, reasoned arguments so heartening. They show us that all is not lost after all. Thank you.
I used to really dislike Julie Bindel -- I think because of her stance on pornography. I don't use pornography, never have done, never will do. It hasn't ever appealed to me. I don't find the women attractive and I find the artificial nature of the whole thing really off-putting. The opposite to erotic, IMO. So my objections were really about censorship and who gets to decide what we can and what we can't see? I think those are decisions that, as adults, we get to make for ourselves. But over the last few years, since her focus has shifted from pornography to the trans ideology/agenda, I've started to find her much more interesting -- and I've actually come to enjoy her work. Where I used to see somebody who was strident and humourless, I now see somebody who is actually sensitive, intelligent and often very funny. I'm not sure which of us has changed -- her or me -- truth is, it's probably both of us.
A lesbian feminist activist who is saying nothing new. Just speaking truth to power as she always has. An amazing woman of integrity and intelligence who is still fighting the good fight.
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to declare feminism cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished nothing because of your parochial and inhuman myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full range of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
My concern is for women's safety. Women in prisons don't have a platform to be heard from. They are the most vulnerable and certain men love having sitting ducks to abuse. Women when you vote think of how your vote affects those women who are more vulnerable than yourself! Thank you to the men who are helping us! Andrew, Jason and Bill that she mentions as one of the people she looks up to. ❤
We should also be concerned with the emotional damage this is doing to little kids. Nobody seems concerned about their right to have some kind of sanity in their lives.
The stats on sex crimes is even more disturbing, with 'trans women' being 10x worse than men and over 100x higher than actual women for convictions for sex crimes! It's just an assault on womanhood, at its' core!
As a mum of a “trans identified” (Really a gay male ) Julie is right. This is the biggest medical scandal of our time. I fought with all my might. I lost because of the ridiculous capture of the NHS .
Good conversation- Have Dr Kate Coleman on Andrew, from KPSS (Keep Prisons Single Sex). Her knowledge and experience having worked in the prison sector is second to none. She’s often overlooked but has stories from the frontline that need to be heard.
Yes, I'm very concerned and won't accept this. I lost my job for standing up against this, but I still stand by what I did. I don't feel safe. It's had a huge effect on me, knowing women have now lost our right to privacy and more.
Good for you for being so brave. Losing a job for this reason is inconceivable. Yet here we are. I will not participate in this cult that wants to tell me what to think. Bravo!
What's ironic is some of these people who fired you would have complained if they saw a neo nazi out in the open. It's like they're bigots but they hide And try to justify but they also put down open racists too because they make the real racists look bad. And funny thing is it's still probably these people who had you fired. It's funny how when you're one way in life, you still have the same enemies as when you go the other. I'm the source of everything I am talking about.
I lived in transitional housing, women only, loaded with women who had been abused by men in the worst ways (sex trafficking included). Shared house, shared kitchen, bathrooms, hallways; your own room, simple lock. A trans woman lived there, which I was all for at first. However, she had anger issues and far more testosterone and sense of privilege than the rest of us. Several of the women in the house were terrified of "her." And she used it: when angered, suddenly the man's voice would come out. Suddenly, there was a man there, screaming, hitting, and terrorizing; all from a person who was physically stronger, more aggressive, and a natural born man with issues. There were women there who were afraid to ever come out of their rooms. All of this in a house that was designed to be a safe haven for women, many of them recovering from abuse, and even more of whom did not feel safe with "her" there.
it beggars belief that this is allowed to happen. there were cases in Spain where the guy who abused a woman then declared himself to be a woman and sought refuge in the same home where the woman he abused was staying. Its horrendous.
@@helendancelot yep. It was the feminists and lesbians that first sounded the alarm. The fact that so many were cancelled and ignored tells us a lot about the way women are viewed in society.
I have only recently discovered who Julie Bindel is. She articulates much better than I ever could, everything I have been thinking and was afraid to say. Not anymore. I am one liberal who is also speaking up now against this insanity. The misogyny behind the activism of trans women is loud and clear.
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to declare feminism cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished nothing because of your parochial and inhuman myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full range of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
@@Clint52279 That's the REAL danger about extremism... It has a tendency to snap right back to it's polar opposite! With characters like Andrew Tate, banging on about women needing to go back into the kitchen etc etc! Some members of the trans community... Have simply pushed Western Societies TOO far!!! And now the fallout begins... Which might actually undo everything they've accomplished in the past decade or so! Well... Expecting the mainstream to accept a zillion different genders... And pronouns... Rewriting the English Language... Indoctrinating our kids... And allowing biological men to infiltrate women only spaces was bound to break people's patience at some point! Change has to happen SLOWLY... And you can't rush change... Otherwise you will simply breed more extremism!
I believe that the world has gone completely nuts, when the Endometriosis campaign was spear headed by a trans man, I gave up, it's just too ridiculous and ubsurd
Isn't this just acknowledging that the trans man is inherently female though 🤔 I wouldn't have thought this is the problem. If the Endo Campaign was ran by a trans woman, then we have issues.
Thank you for this. I adore Julie Bindel, and Sall Grover, Moira Deeming, Meghan Murphy, Kelly-Jay Keen, Helen Joyce, Maya Forstater, Angie Jones, Julie Burchill, JK Rowling, Graham Linehan and the many other women and men who stand up to this nonsense.
The trans conversation is important. On Triggernometry Julie mentioned that something not being talked about is coercion in a certain age group of women and I would really like to see an expansion on the topic.
I'm a woman and categorically "Never, had a stiffy". I was born without a penis, 2 days ago my daughter gave us a beautiful granddaughter, I worry about her future with schooling indoctrinated, imo. 🇬🇧👵😥
All parents need to get the kids out of school .look up the voice of wales they where telling us aboutb3 years ago . everything they were bringing into the schools sexualising them .getting us ready for to lower age and maps .
Your granddaughter will need her wise, loving grandmother to led her and love her and tell her that no matter what anyone tells her, non, she's not "a boy."
Having a very secure relationship with your daughter(as your daughter hopefully has with you) is all the protection she needs. Any suffering i experienced as a teenager was shared with my mother first. Any thoughts or feelings were told to her before anyone else. My mother had a very strong connection to her mother too. Patriarchy has done an incredible number on the mother-daughter relationship, because when that relationship is strong, the world is a very different, more wonderful and humane place, where human wellbeing, which is directly connected to the wellbeing of nature, is placed far above the procurement of excess resources. If your daughter and your granddaughter have a deep connection, there is no reason your granddaughter would question who she is. She may suffer in other ways, but it won’t be due to extreme discomfort with herself. Girls believe they are who their mothers show them they are. If they show them they are loved and accepted unconditionally, they won’t want to be anyone else.
I am single gay mom of 5. Growing up, I hated being a girl. And I hated it because it seemed as women were there only to assist men climb to the top. Men were doctors, women were the nurses aiding the doctor. Men were pilots, women were flight attendants and so on. I also remember my brother and I doing activities, but when referring to me, they would always say SHE WANTS TO TRY. So in the eyes of everybody around, my brother was DOING, while I was TRYING; even though we were doing the same things, achieving the same results. Also, porn was available for boys, banned to girls. Sex was ok for boys to try, NOT for girls. etc, etc. I HATED having been born to a girl body. And when puberty hit, hated cannot even start describing what I felt. I could not swim when my brothers did, and would always have my father telling me: Why don’t you have fun as your brothers? Why are you always ruining vacation? I did not explain it was my body that prevented me from doing it, I did not explain I HATED my body for doing this to me… and I didn’t because this was my privacy. No one talked about my brothers’ first eyaculations! Why would everyone talked about girls having their first period? In addition, the pain I had indescribable! I hated society… But then, I became a mom.. and I was chosen… by life itself! to carry on the miracle of miracles! And I became enlightened! 5 kids and 3 (for now) grandkids later…. I’ve come to the conclusion there is simply NO WAY for a trans-woman to BE a woman.
If you've given birth to 5 children, then that means you've had sex with men a lot more than once. How does one have 5 kids and then suddenly decide that they are gay? Surely you are bisexual.
I hope your life has been full of so many achievements. I hope you came to feel more empowered in your body. The trans ideology is a gaintic step backwards for the world.
When I was younger, about 50 years ago. There was always the occasional girl who competed with the lads and were known as tomboys. There was also effeminate males, who were not as rough in play as the lads. We somehow all learned to accept our lot and deal with it.
@@nerojay2105 No, she says 'I went too far' (when when she was much younger) in suggesting 'women can do anything.' She admitted it with such good grace and honesty. If I've misinterpreted your comment, please do let me know.
@@ac1646 Andrew: “does that suggest you weren’t being honest before?” Julie: “I think it was more that I didn’t… Yeah, probably actually. I think that’s fair”
I was a young woman in the early 90's and I was helping this guys young daughter with her art, private lessons a couple of times a week. When he found out I was a lesbian he stopped her visiting me for her lessons. So yes, Julie is correct that is how some people sadly viewed lesbians. The mouthy young TRA's today haven't got a clue how hard women like Julie have fought for our rights, not a clue...
I am sorry you had experiences like that. If more people educated their children about their bodies, good touch/bad touch and stranger danger in the context of dangerous people instead of "bad men" and then focused on an open positive attachment style parenting, then you would not have been singled out and treated that way. My daughters had a Girl Guides leader who is a Lesbian. I had no issues with her or her sexual orientation. She often had her wife involved in Guiding activities. Again I had no problems. Not even on the overnight camps. However, I had to withdraw my daughters from Guides when their Leader found out from my daughter that we were Christians, after that my daughters were targeted and treated differently and she was openly hostile to me. I explained to my daughters that bigotry goes both ways and we are only responsible for how we treat people and that we should treat people as individuals and not make generalizations on people because of what "group" they are part of.
I've been put in TH-cam time out for calling men ugly and evil, but men have entire channels on sex trafficking women and abusing them, and comments calling women all types of names similar to what you mentioned. We have to protect men's wittle feelings.
It doesn't amaze me. 'Slags and whores' is a term used by (mostly) men to either justify their own behaviour towards women, or to denigrate women in retaliation for something, so it is acceptable. Calling women those words as an insult also reinforces to society (and women) that sexual freedom for women (which men don't want women to have - they want women to have a low or no body count), is unacceptable. 'Rape', however, is a term that reveals men in a negative light, so of course that word is censored. The same reason that all sorts of pejorative words against women are ok, but try and talk about any of the various _actual_ heinous crimes that men commit daily against women, children, (and animals) and they are censored. Basically it is ok to 'out' women for their 'evil' nature or behaviour, but men's much more evil nature and behaviours must be concealed, kept out of the public consciousness, and is not up for discussion (probably because it is indefensible). Misogyny is alive and well, and going nowhere.
What about the children who are being raised on identity politics? They really won't understand the difference between men and women. These children will really think that gender can be changed and is a choice.
Not so my grandson was brought up in Sweden Like tat but I tested him we were in a shop I asked him don’t you want a pair of pink fairy wings ! He said no I am a a boy!
My thanks to you, Andrew, for this wonderful interview with Julie, for listening and never interrupting, and for Heretics being my favourite place to come for intelligent conversation. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Julie is a woman with whom I fully agree on every aspect of real feminism, it's so rare that women are able to articulate the truth about the reality of being a woman, statistically and anecdotally, but she nails it perfectly. She's most definitely got the receipts! Love her.
@winston-smith Do you think she’s right in stating that most men think (regarding male violence on women) that “she asked for it?” I don’t agree with Julie Bindel. Her brand of feminism is misandrist and creates a gulf between the sexes. I am female and have experienced quite extreme domestic violence. I don’t believe for a second that most men would excuse the minority who abuse women.
@@gilly5094 I think it's easy to misinterpret her representation of statistical realities as a bias: I volunteered for Refuge for a while and I was genuinely shocked to hear that between the age of 16 - 44, the thing most likely to cause a woman's death, is DV. Some women laugh when you say it they genuinely can't believe it. I think she goes to great lengths in this interview to clarify, that this is not all men, so no, I don't think she's a misandrist at all - particularly if you listen to her discussion of lesbianism, as a choice, a positive one, not one 'because men are rubbish'. x
@winston-smith who else but a misandrist would claim that the majority of men would think “she asked for it” when it comes to SA. I spent time in a Refuge and have since worked indirectly with women who have experienced DV. It’s a complex issue. The perpetrators are mainly male, but women often stay with perps due to early trauma and low self-esteem. Seeing all men as potential r@p!sts is Bindels brand of feminism. That’s false and negative. It just widens the divide in understanding and makes each sex suspicious of the other.
I don't think they do now, but I think they did when Julie was growing up. Speaking to people of her (and my mother's) generation, yes this type of misogyny was rife.
I'm with Julie in that I think they absolutely do know what a woman is. They have mothers, wives, daughters and other female relatives and I simply do not believe that they get them confused with their fathers, husbands, sons etc.
Conservative elites are equally besotted with the ideology as well. Closeted cross-dressers of old had their little fetish clubs and parties, if anyone cares to remember, and they were primarily titled men who considered themselves upper-class and deserving of kink acceptance 🤢
@@powerhouse2024 I want to believe that politicians take bad stances out of an evil conspiracy too but I believe most of them just think saying this makes them popular with most of the loud people on the internet and don't consider how bad their choice could be.
Thank you for having Julie on. As a woman and a nurse this totally driven by ideology… as a woman I get shouted down for my opinions and as a nurse could lose my job by not believing the lies!
I’m on the same bus as you. Just retired nurse with the same issues. Many people don’t want to hear about it, unless their families are actually affected by the aggression and risks involved. As a nurse, knowing the anatomical differences, it simply doesn’t add up, regards male endometriosis/dysmenorrhea and female prostate exams. Pronouns!!! If my grandchildren are taught these ideologies by their parents, I feel I must question it. Another very informative interview. Just watched James Dreyfus interview yesterday. Thank you Andrew.
@@averrry maybe you should stop projecting your virtue signaling on others. She never said She doesn't want to help trans people - She said, RIGHTFULLY, that this whole thing doesn't make any medical sense and yet She could lose her job for saying anything other than "stunning and brave" 😒
She makes a v good point about the Yorkshire Ripper; if men had been given a curfew there would've been a national outcry, but potential victims should accept curfew and take the immplied blame if they become victims.
It's incredible that you think that's a good point. Individuals are responsible for the choices they make, everyone has agency to do or not do what they will for whatever reason they make their choices. If you're too afraid to go outside for fear of male violence, then don't go outside, that's completely your prerogative... that you think it would be reasonable to deprive men of the right to make their own choices because of YOUR fears is hardly what I'd classify as a "good point".
Julie, you are incredible. I admire your honesty about where you made mistakes in the past and the fact that you can reassess your ideas with hindsight. You have fought so hard for women's rights and have never yielded to the bullies. Thank you.
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to acknowledge the fact that feminism is a cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished exactly nothing because of your parochial and one-dimensional myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full picture of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
My very good male friend who has absolutely nothing against trans people was kicked off of bumble dating app in Canada when he matched with a trans woman and when “she” told him he politely wrote “I am so sorry but I’m only attracted to women.” He didn’t mean any harm and wasn’t trying to be mean and he had been sleeping on the major trans movement we have in Vancouver so he didn’t realize they were to be considered women and referring to them as their biological sex or seeing them as their biological is wrong in this city (which I don’t agree with). Now all the single ladies in Vancouver are down an attractive, kind and successful man ready to get married because he was kicks off the most used dating app in the city. It’s total bs.
@allytrudie864 •I had it multiples and men 🤮🤢🤮One asked me on the app to “help him out ?”Sent me a dick pick while I am ordering my lunch in Tescos -I nearly threw up ..I just told him “Not qualified,you need a sex therapist or Samaritans ..”I never went back on this was Hinge all these places supposed to be safe on Bumble I had more harassment than I had in my childhood and that included being a S/A Survivor saying S/A downplays the situation when your 7 Years Old so any form of this sort of unwarranted sexual harassment that’s what it is some person 6 ft 6 with size 12 shoes named 🌟Flipping heck -he proudly told me he was trans -Well I never would have guessed it should be more regulated these situations are very dangerous highly inappropriate I told my brother I don’t feel like I can even dress for me without getting totally unwanted sexual advances that actually terrify me .I don’t want this it scares my son I had a man ask me if I Rim all of this stuff I had to use flipping Dr Google whom would want to lick someone’s arse I am not a dog and they only lick there own -Even trying to sell second hand clothes online a man requested did I sell Worn Panties -I was joking with my friends about mass market for crusty knickers but I got him blocked anyone that thinks it’s acceptable to make totally unwanted sexual advances (Because I am talking off dating websites I deleted all my S/Media )Personally I think they do it for the thrill ..See what your reaction will be well mine is anger 😡 and fear none of these places are safe I am not safe walking down the road in the middle of the day or going to my sons Parents Evening one guy was totally ignoring his Daughter and Wife did not say anything to me but was simply stood there ogling my breasts for me it’s the complete opposite of how anyone should behave makes my son act like an armed guard me want to whack em with my crutches..Instagram is gone I had this issues in work with random Customers it’s seriously not funny not ok and totally inappropriate..The thoughts of what a time to be alive ..Indeed just don’t invite any of these’ perverts to my party when I die they are grossly offensive (Open marriage?)I am thinking if this is modern life ?Cheers but i shall go asexual as in none (Pan Sexual i shall carry a large heavy pan it’s ridiculous my son was told he could wear gender Neutral Uniform..The new uniform number one it’s really horrible someone colour blind invented it (Red and Coral ties )But they can mix and match so one day they could be a boy next day a girl and on the final day (Maybe a bit of both ?)I know my sons thoughts he is 15 years old there was actually a protest in the school the girls where refusing I told my son he resembled Cabin Crew it honestly is gross 🤢 it’s vile if I was working with red hair (He escaped he is half Sri Lankan but the issue lies partly with parenting ,we need teach our sons and daughters consent /Sexual Harassment .Online Dangers I had another letter stating what to do if your child sends a naked picture 🎥 (Don’t panic 😂🙅♀️🙄)Save us from all of this stupidity.Its down to us to teach right from wrong nothing wrong with being Transexual just keep to your own same with men .Stay in the place of respect..Morally I am not an object I am a woman with feelings and this situation terrifies me it brings back my worst situations from childhood.Makes me realise I was never safe and never will be .
I use Bumble and the fact is most men do not care unless they actually want children . Men are attracted to a phenotype not gametes, they are entitled to feel how ever including not being interested in the thousands of obese or manish women .
after living in Vancouver my whole life, with its many problems (affordability, housing) the whole trans debacle has become insane. as a women who is interested in other women, trying to meet other women has become impossible since all the apps are full of these tims and their handmaidens. i hope you and and friend are doing well.
@@ew_barf That's an unfortunate thing you are having to deal with on apps, not fair or reasonable but aren't they easily identifiable hence avoidable ? Handmaidens ? Really ?that is funny maybe you forgot ball palmers too ? Have you ever asked any heterosexual women how some of them feel about lesbians in "women's spaces" ? From what i have been told exactly the same as how most heterosexual men feel about homosexuals . Are political lesbians allowed on lesbian dating apps ? Quite curious where your line is . 💁
The crazy thing is here is that a Father naturally expects to stand outside the Women's toilets and wait when he is out with his young daughter and she needs to go to the toilet yet a great big hairy bloke wearing a frock can just walk in there without even being challenged.
How can you profess to want to help rape victims but then be so self centered that you'd rather shut down a vital, charitable organisation for the sake of your own ego?! It speaks volumes. No woman would behave in such a way.
I’ll never be able to accept that we’ve fallen this far this fast. It defies every fact that we’ve ever known for this to accelerate at the rate that it has. If this can be true then cancer and every other known disease has got to be curable. I’m holding on that.
@@evolassunglasses4673 Yes! And inevitable. If women don't want to be pushed back 100 years, they had better engage/complain/demand action/join Kelly J Keen's Party of women.
It's the internet, never before have ideas spread this fast and never before have perverts and fetishists had such enfettered access to support from each other
Great interview. Unfortunately, YT wants to censor my factual information, despite me censoring “bad” words, so I can’t give my entire opinion. I just want to say that I’m really proud of the men here for having Julie’s back. Well done, gents.
She's one of the greatest advocates for the version of feminism that most of us agree with. My guess is the adoption of identity politics across the board as a cynical power-grabbing tactic was the primary cause of this new version that's putting weird men's rights above real women. We need to recognise and negate the forces that foment division for their own purposes. A whole host of forces are pulling us apart when we desparately need to come together.
Maybe try again. It's annoying that YT censors certain words but at least it means we don't all have to scroll through the worst of inane abusive rants. It keeps the place relatively clean and readable. I don't think YT is clever enough (yet) to detect and censor sentiment though, so doubt you were censored on that basis, so maybe just try use different words for the sensitive ones.
>I’m really proud of the men here for having Julie’s back. Well done, gents. That's sexist and patronising. How would you like it if I said that I'm proud of all the women here for not making illogical comments, well done ladies?
@@fredjimbob2962 men patronize women all the time. What planet are you living on? 😂 What’s really sad is that I’m surprised when men have her back when she openly says men are responsible for grape and muhrr-derr of women.
EVERY kid feels daunted by the prospect of puberty and will express a wish to stay a kid. Then EVERY pubescent person feels awkward about their changing body morphing in weird ways. You could say teenage "body dysmorphia" is a fundamental and unavoidable rite of passage for ALL humans. Then they grow through it and get used to it and become normal healthy adults. We need to re-normalise this.
This is what I was told repeatedly as a kid while I was in severe pain and horror. It got so bad my face was tingly and it suppressed my breathing. What you're saying is cruel and callous for no good reason and guess what, I was still transgender and had to fight for medical treatment BEGGING for help to save my life as a teenager, on my own. If anybody had investigated and tried to find out what my health issues were, maybe I would not have stuck with transition and left alone to find answers. Maybe I would not have been so damaged by the abuse and health trauma that I would have healed from transgenderism sooner. How dare you diminish the suffering and pain of one of the worst disorders to be afflicted with. You have no idea how dire it is.
@@anewagora I'm sorry that your doctors and other carers neglected your awful symptoms. But how is what I said wrong or callous and cruel? I didn't mean to imply everyone's experience of puberty is the same or that some children don't need extra help. Of course they do. It was a general statement. EVERYONE suffers through puberty, it's a shitty time of life. Most people grow through it and find who they want to be eventually. Should I have said, puberty makes some people go off the rails so far they never recover from it? If you'd like me to say that, yes I agree and I acknowledge I didn't say that initially. But it's relatively few. I hope you have got help for your issues now. Let me just assert, my comment was definitely not cruel. People who have different opinions from you are not hurting you. You don't have to agree, you can reply or move on. I did NOT hurt you. To think that I did is an extremely snowflakey way of seeing the world and I'd suggest you try overcome that mindset or you're in for a life of avoidable suffering.
Ricky Gervais has covered this "I love the new women we've been seeing lately - the ones with beards &...." EDIT: Well, I'll leave it there & let you hear Rick complete the sentence.
Cross dressing men may ‘feel” they are momen in the same way I “feel” I am a horse. Never having been a horse, you may say I can’t really know what it’s like to be a horse. But I FEEL I am a horse and with everything trans, feelings trump facts and truth.
I’ve said this for years. If you don’t know how it feels to be a woman you can’t say you feel like a woman. Also, a woman is not a feeling or a thought. Nor is she a body part or parts nor an estrogen level. The reductionist element of this is so stupid.
My sister was in a bus stop in the late 70s and there was a man dressed as a woman and my sister started feeling uncomfortable so she started to leave the bus stop to go back to her friends house and he started to chase her as she turned a corner she ran into her friends older brother who was a policeman and my dad went to the police to get my sister so she could tell them what he looked like i remember my dad coming home and shouting about it i had to sleep with my sister that night because she was terrified to go to sleep and thats why im so adament about what a women is and i dont trust government's to stand up for womans rights and keep the ideology out of nurseries and schools especially in scotland
It's horrifying. As parents and educators.. do not buy into this utter nonsense. I think the damage done to children and society is unforgivable. I think it's insulting to the 4% of intersex people who go through hell. The rest... are flaky naval gazers or perverts.
I agree with the arguments made by Julie Bindel regarding female-only spaces like changing rooms. It's true that women can't know which men pose a threat. So the presence of almost any man in such spaces is going to be intimidating and menacing - I totally get that. But actually there is a more basic reason why men shouldn't be there: it just grossly compromises the dignity and privacy which women have a right to expect in these spaces! (I think this is important, because I have seen the kind of sophistry that the t-activists engage in. They will come back and say things like: "oh, but how about a very old man? Or how about a physically disabled man? He wouldn't pose any threat, would he?")
I am in a women’s only AA meeting. The 6+ years I have been evolved it has been a women’s only space. We get new women who are very vulnerable , some of them are coming out of very violent, toxic relationships. Recently we have a trans woman attending. I have actually seen new women get up and leave after the trans member speaks. I live in a very progressive part of the West Coast US, I’m not sure if all of the other home group members are really fine with this or are just afraid to speak up? I know I am. Knowing the area I live in this person would never be asked to not attend the women’s meeting. I am extremely resentful that I’m being put in this position. It’s been weighing heavily on me lately.
That’s by design, that is why it’s dangerous to lie and say trans women ARE REAL women. They are not. Never will be. By allowing that 1 single lie it silences women. Look at how you have been silenced, and if you speak up you’ll be pegged a homophobe or a transphobic bigot. That is exactly how they have cornered women.
100% agree with Julie on this subject." Gender Critical " simply means living in reality, telling the truth and fighting to protect the rights and safety of women and children everywhere. Thanks ,Andrew xx
"how can society change to accoutfir the psychopaths?" That involved better public services, better training, better policing, more funding into all of those things and for the middle classes to realise how bad it is for working class women
Having been a working class woman and married up into a higher middle class (for love not money) I look around at the other private school Moms and think “your privilege is showing, better tuck that back in because you haven’t got a clue.” It’s so hard to relate to most, I don’t bother anymore unless I have to for my child’s sake.
Julie's honestly and totally grounded approach to trans ideology and associated nonsense, is refreshing and should be made part of the mandatory school curriculum.
Andrew, whenever I think common sense is making a come back…I make the mistake of going on reddit. And then I get very depressed…(obv reasons). Keep up the fantastic work. Looking forward to this next episode. ☮️💜
yea but reddit is for losers thst dont leave the house. Its hardly a representation of society. Its just mostly mental unwell who are unale to form real fave to face relationships
A lot of those mods are “trans women” who delete any slight critique of their movement. They become enraged when others won’t play along with their fantasies.
Reddit is very much an astroturfed hellhole that is heavily censored and moderated by the same few power users, many of whom are trans. Don't expect anything other than unhinged bullshit.
Oh yeah it's infuriating on there. Just saw a post today about how a young female wanted to go on testosterone but was told it was dangerous by a nurse because she had PCOS. I won't pretend to know medical stuff, but what angered me was that they were saying this nurse was transphobic and to not listen to her that they were being gaslit, and I'm not saying doctors and nurses are infalliable, but I can't help but think this person was probably leaving out a specific reason as to why the nurse advised against it in their personal situation, and it's honestly shocking how many of them just want to read and spread around only things they want to hear, giving each other confirmation bias because they "read it" once somewhere.
What I don’t understand is why people need to announce to the world what their preference is in the bedroom 🤷🏻♀️ They even ask sexual orientation on job forms. It should be completely irrelevant!
What country do you live in? Even in extreme left Canada it is illegal to ask that question on a job interview or application. I’m shocked there are western countries that allow that?! (Assuming you are from the western world).
@@allytrudie864 and that’s how it should be but sadly not here. I’m Scotland uk. I’ve never known it to be any other way since I qualified in nursing in 2002. It’s always baffled me that. Same goes with ethnicity on applications. I don’t see that matters if people are genuinely looking at qualification and skill 🤷🏻♀️
@@Construction_Girloh wow, Scotland?! This surprises me, thank you for educating me. We also have the ethnicity boxes which I think are wrong for the same reason you mention.
This nonsense is fizzling out slowly but surely. I’ll be interested to see how the proponents of it will justify themselves when they are held to account. Or will it all be a case of forgive and forget? (With the emphasis on forget where the MSM are concerned)
I have the same feeling about this. I'm deathly concerned about the consequences and the damage this will have done to the actual women's and gay rights movement. This trans lunacy is completely antithetical to both.
I really admire Julie but I disagree with her about "only men can r.pe". Because a woman also physically force another (maybe physically weaker) woman to unwanted sexual activities and that would be r.pe too. But I can understand why victims don't want a man in a support organisation.
Correct. And would we call a father who coerces, emotionally and verbally, his daughter into having sex with him without the need for physical force, a r.pist? I certainly would. Which means a mother (probably even more so than a father, as a mother has more emotional control over children than a father) is capable of the same thing, if she is so inclined. The majority of sexual predation is not done with physical force.
This was a fascinating interview, and now I’m going to read Julie’s book. Up to now I had not thought of this particular unintended (or maybe intended by some) consequences of some of the events now going on and how they can distract from feminism (I’m a woman of similar age and saw some of the same things she talked about, though I’m hetero). I’ve never been ok with doing irreversible hormonal therapy and surgery on children. I do support an adult’s decision to transition and don’t want to disrespect anyone. However, the argument about women’s-only spaces is interesting and again, something I hadn’t thought much about. Thanks for having intelligent discourse without hate and vitriol.
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to acknowledge the fact that feminism is a cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished exactly nothing because of your parochial and one-dimensional myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full picture of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
People might think I'm crazy, but I think misogyny exists in cultural views of gay men & lesbians. I've always heard about gay men, yet not much about lesbianism. Same with the trans communities. We now MOSTLY hear about trans women (formerly male) than trans men (formerly women). It's like biological males always get the attention in all arenas. Does anybody get the point I'm making and agree???
There is definitly a type of gay man that absolutley hate women , However gay men are as varied as straight men , Some are great and love and respect women , some are misogynistic A holes ,who see women as competition as they really fancy straight men, There are also straight and lesbian women who will bully other women through envy or insecurity ..l, However feminists have done themselves no favours with the constant misandry , Personally I don't hate all men , just like I don't like all women , both genders can be equally toxic and we should go back to seeing people as individuals , not groups,
Sheila Jeffreys has written and spoken on this subject for decades, about the MALE so called gay rights movement and how it is all about men and normalizing male zekual rights/behavior and patriarchy.
Great interview. Julie Bindel is Not afraid to speak the truth and is honest about the way her own views have evolved which makes her accessible. She articulates clearly why we should all be concerned about trans ideology.
I look forward to listening to this one, agree 100%. I just learned of Grayson Perry from your last podcast, who was allowed to appear at a children's event in drag and a visible dildo. I had to look up the photo of him just to see (and now I can't unsee it in my mind). I just can't believe that people are okay with this! So not appropriate for children is the bottom line. It's also so narcissistic and creepy. What the #@% is happening?? The world is upside down. I think you guys in the UK are a little ahead of us in America, it's still quite nuts here. (A little about me, straight woman, a liberal and not conservative, and against cancel culture).
That picture is disgusting! He has also said that be wears big puffy dresses because he admits he often gets turned on (AGP) and it helps hide his erection. 🤢
There have been a series of events here in the UK that indicate the beginning of the end of the insanity. The latest, the publishing of the Cass Report, has made criticism of gender ideology more socially acceptable it seems to me. The climate has definitely changed and I'm feeling very optimistic. We are so closely tied together culturally now, especially in the "Anglosphere" that I'm hopeful that the changes that have happened here will spread to the USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and elsewhere.
@@stumccabe Not the UK, just England and Wales (Norn Iron know how to look after themselves anyway). Scotland is total tranny insanity. Completely misogynist woman hating SNP and Greens that love girl dick and prostate menstruation more than saving the planet.
One thing that stands out to me with the guests on this show is that none of them are homophobic, in fact some have gay relatives who they love. What they are arguing is mental health and the social implications of allowing people to alter the law based on their fantasies. These are valid arguments. It's not about homophobic, and no one is saying trans people shouldn't have rights. We're saying don't force people to believe what you believe just because you believe it. You can believe what ever you want, but that's not anyone's business but yours.
Thank you Andrew for bringing all these amazing down to earth guest to share their knowledge. People like you give me hope that one day the delusion of trans ideology is going to end.
I am a center left female. I want trans people to have the right to present as they choose. I don't agree with the nonsense that a cross-dressed male is a woman. I don't agree with transitioning children.
Trans people DO have the right to present themselves as they want. A man in a dress is still a man in a dress, though. Trans people do NOT have the right to enforce their delusions on other people.
It doesn’t matter how the body is changed, unless you grow up and mature as male/female, you can never appreciate just what it does mean to be that sex. You will always have the mind set and ideals of your original beginning. IMO. 🧐🤔👍🏻🇨🇦🐉👩🏼⚖️
@@wannabrew8718 did I what. My Hebrew name Jacova is the female form of Jacob. My 25 year old son is in Jerusalem. You can ask me a more formed question.
I'm a groundskeeper and work out of a Maintenance Shop. There are 2 of us women and 7 men and now we are in the prime of planting season another 10 seasonal men. I know without a doubt that some of the manual labor is heavy-duty and too heavy of work for me. Fortunately, the men are always willing to help us women out. Lol 😄
It's so nice to listen to a sensible, calm interview from a sensible, calm person, I am so sick of the stupidty on other channels spouting such mad crazy ideals, love your programme its so much better to watch than the crazy tv media, with people never being truthful, keep up your much needed normality, on your programme
I wrote about 4 years ago, that the trans issue will be solved by women. Men are just not incentivized to make that fight, we don't have as much to loose as women, they just hadn't realized that back then. Here it goes!! It started. I also stated 4 years ago, that when women realize how dangerous this is to them, their retalliation will be absolutely brutal to the trans at one point.
We have always known how dangerous it was, but it was hard to be heard as they have power in high places and try to shut us down, but it was the coming for the kids that was there undoing. But the stupid women that go along with this are our biggest enemy.
Men have been feminized for quite some time, I feel. They are shunned when they stand up for women or show any real strength. So I don't feel women need to inpune men more. We all need to stand up to what is "right" and "just" to our neighbors. The strong men would have corrected the weak ones using trans to get at women. But we won't let them.
There are loads of women for ages who have realised this is the case for ages and have sounded the alarm. But nobody cared and were told there such a small majority why care. Men I believe to have a part to play because it’s men that are going into toilets and some the women affected are your wife or daughter.
Julie is a brilliant woman, I don't agree with everything the feminist movement stands for, but she is one of the very few advocates that has stood up for women's rights I know of. ❤
Thank you for that interesting and illuminating interview. Julie Bindel is blunt, honest, and an inspiration. Everything she says makes so much sense. I say this as a 64-year-old heterosexual man.
WHY is the word RAPE being disallowed - it is not a dirty word, it is not a cuss word, it is not offensive - it is a descriptive word of a violent action by one person on another person be it male towards a female, male, towards another male, a female towards a male. WHY sensor it.
It’s a trigger word for many and so unfortunately people being dipsheets will complain about being “sensitive” to it. We wouldn’t be here If people didn’t get offended by everything
I agree 100% with everything except for her saying, that women cannot commit rape. !!! But in the manner she is speaking of she is correct. And the gab in-between female rapists and male rapists is like comparing Jupiter to half of our moon!!!!!
Yes, a majority of domestic violence is committed by men. However, as a man I have been the victim of domestic violence from my ex wife (she was prosecuted). My solicitor (soon to be ex-solicitor) said 'You're big enough to look after yourself' which wasn't very helpful or even true. Also it is true that SOME mothers will lie and try every trick to prevent the children's father from getting visitation or custody of the kids. There needs to be balance in the arguments here.
To add to the balance: just because more reports about crimes occur, doesn't mean what was reported was actually a crime. So to say that because more abuse is reported doesn't have to cause more convictions. They correlate, but they aren't fully causation.
That part of the conversation annoyed me and showed the toxicity within feminism. Men are indeed victims of DV as well, to a lesser degree but more prevalent than we are led to believe. The family courts are extremely biased towards women. Decent fathers are being stopped from seeing their children and bled dry by the mother and the court system.
@@jemmah4723 Yes. It's fairly common that even when a father gets granted good access / visitation, the ex moves to the other end of the country with the children thereby pretty much stopping them seeing the kids. I was fortunate in that I got 50/50 custody of my children because they asked for it - The judge "didn't like the arrangement" for some stupid reason, but had no choice but to listen to the children's wishes. Still had to pay my ex child support, even though we had equal custody, because the CSA calculation is also biased against men too.
I’m a transsexual male, and I was four when I didn’t have a word for what I painfully went through for too many years and later in life I received much relief that lesbians was a thing and I could still be a female and be with other females brought me much relief mentally bc I thought as a child when I grow up I could never be loved by a female if I was female- so at such a young age I didn’t understand what homosexuality was and as I aged I read everything I could read to better understand my feelings of being in the wrong body- and absolutely nothing was wrong with my body, as females go, I was above normal in looks, but I didn’t identify with being female- and as a kid I got into religion, I fought against my feelings and I sought therapy for numerous years and still couldn’t fight this feeling that I should have been born male-and finally as and adult I had surgeries, one of many and was finally able to breathe- I will and cannot ever be a man but I at least can now identify with the man I see reflecting in the mirror. And that was several years ago, now as a man in transsexual male of sixty I am very happy with my appearance and my problems today are not about my appearance but just problems that arise in normal life- I am hugely against transsexual men in women safe places or incarcerated in women’s places if they still have their penis- or are not authentically transsexual but are men trying to be in women spaces for nefarious reasons- or trans-trenders because true transsexual are such a very small number, when I was growing up I didn’t know one other person whom felt as I did and suffered from-when I grew up I grew up as a Thom boy and as I entered teen years was still dressing masculine, and into adulthood still dressed masculine but in my adulthood I was able to transition so all I had to change was shoes as my feet grew two inches- my male friends didn’t change my habits or life style did not change- and if you looked at me today you would never know I am biologically female and I traverse the world as a man- and I can die knowing I am finally at peace with my appearance and how I am looked upon in public and alone
Every preteen and teenager on the planet goes through an attention seeking faze. The difference with this, is that the adults start taking them seriously and start acting upon their attention seeking. I’m fully aware that there is such a thing as gender dysphoria but the real figures are very low. In Spain there was a case that a wife left her husband because of domestic violence and ran to a shelter. He followed her, and because he said he identified as a woman was able to gain access. Where on earth does this end?
DV shelters should exclude violent women, too. They aren't for *all* women. It's just an assumption that XX chromosomes (or legal definition of "woman") gets you through the door. Women who are violent don't get in. If they have older children who are aggressive, they don't get in either. It's sad but necessary, and more necessary now than it used to be. There's a massive range of gender dysphoria that's a normal part of growing up. Most people develop a resilience when they grow up in societies that don't sexualise and adultify children.
Among the Summer help at the Cemetery: "Theresa you can't drive the dumptruck you're a girl." (Big whoop i have a hard time climbing into it anyway I'm really short) Alfred drives the dumptruck to said dump and backs it over a cliff. 👍 I'll just keep cutting the grass and burying people. I'm too short to work the jackhammer neither. 😅
Julie makes a lot of sense. My daughter has two friends who have transitioned. One who has had top surgery and put on testosterone. He is happy but is aware of his limitations - could not enter into male halls of residence at university. I hope he will be happy and successful in his life going forward.
I am absolutely concerned and I am fearful for my daughters and granddaughters. It is a struggle just to get through life without being preyed upon, sexually harnessed and sexually interfered. I experienced this all before the age of 16. I try not to even think of the number of occasions this all occurred. There has been rape and even pregnancy because of rape, in women I know. I am very fond of men in general but I always try to stay safe and only men have penises!! I don’t want anything to do with their penis except by my choice. Baby boys become men and baby girls become women. The End
I'm getting so sick of this conversation. The whole damn thing revolves around a coopting of the word "woman". Some weird nut jobs (apparently with infinite amounts of activist energy) are saying that you are whatever you want to say you are. So, in that context, if you are a man who says you are a woman then you ARE a woman ..... BY THE NEW DEFINITION of what a woman is. Maybe this is too subtle for some people to get? The whole thing is just a debate about the definition of the word "woman". And we're constantly getting derailed off of this main point.
It's not just a debate over language, unfortunately. There is a lot of magical thinking going on in activist-types, and they're not all honest people. They change language on the fly to confuse and manipulate others (the motte and bailey strategy), and they know they're doing it. But many of them also have irrational and inconsistent beliefs about the things they lie about. It's been noticed "woke" seems like a cult, and that's because it is. It shouldn't be surprising that the cult contains people with irrational and self-contradictory beliefs ("trans women are women," for example).
My ex is now a Trans woman, he's had the full op including having his hairline moved and Adams apple shaved. I would never call him a female and he doesn't expect me to. Not all Trans want to take womans rights.
It’s but about what you think because they went and got that operation themselves. And I’m pretty sure they don’t care how you refer to them because y’all are not together anymore. It seems your bitter passive aggressive because you couldn’t use them for money anymore or force them to fulfill a role in your life they living their life while your venting to strangers who could care less
@@averrryuse them? Don't care how you refer to them? ...here's me thinking how "they" are referred to is the whole point of this dialogue ..? I might be muddled though
Do you agree with Julie Bindel? Are you concerned about men with stiffies in women's spaces? Let me know below, and hit that like button if you appreciate my work.
Women's stiffies (bigot) 😬
Rocky Horror Picture show tried to warn us lol
Hell yeah I‘m concerned! It’s like getting send unwanted Dick pics - only in real life.
Imagine someone with breasts and a dick coming into a changing room where children are - they have a shock for life!
This madness has to stop.
My answer is gone 🙄
I said I am concerned, it’s like getting send unwanted d..ck pics- only in real life. Now imagine a man with breasts and his Willy intact comes into a changing room where there are kids. They get a shock for life!
My comments keep disappearing 🙄 Yeah I am concerned. 💯💯
When it comes to women and girls privacy, predatory men can and WILL take advantage of any loopholes.
Exactly 💯 right! We’ve known this for at least a century or more.
Yeah, a lot of trans folks saw people bringing this up as an attack on trans people. It's just reality that perverts will use any excuse and see the trans label as the social equivalent of a bulletproof vest.
Any hole goes
All cross dressing men are simply men who are sexually excited by wearing women’s clothes.
Self-ID and granting transwomen the right to encroach on women's single-sex bathrooms, dorms, prisons, DV/SA Shelters, Lesbian circles, robs girls and women of our rights to association, safety, privacy and consent. Turns out that YES, it IS PIE 🥧.
On my Facebook feed was a man in his 60s wearing his granddaughter’s prom dress. People were all over him, so stunning. He has taken family memories surrounding the prom and his granddaughter and imprinted himself. It’s all they’ll think of now. 🙁 I don’t know a single woman who has taken photos of herself in her granddaughter’s special dress. So narcissistic and selfish of anyone to do, let alone an old man.
They often "come out" when the wife is pregnant or their daughter starts to blossom in their teenage years. The jealousy is real.
Typical AGP.
INternational women's day is all about males wearing dresses in front of school kids round me.
This is vile. Bc you know he was aroused and likely wanked while wearing that dress. That's disturbing and frightening for the granddaughter.
But it's ok for a woman to do that? It's ok for a woman to be narcissistic is what I'm getting?
Of course I agree with Julie Bindel. Men , even if they are wearing dresses, should not be anywhere near womens' spaces.
I'm a woman and I very rarely wear dresses. From what I've seen, trans women wear dresses way more often than the average woman does.
Yeah just because you wear a dress doesn’t make you a woman
@@Avarcirith Because they’re always, constantly performing. Performing to be a woman.
Have been part of the queer community for over 45yrs. Many trans friends over the years. But when I’m told “I feel like a woman” I still have to ask “how do you know”. Blank stares…
Yes. My experience of older trans women is that generally they're more thoughtful, and don't want to take anything away from the lived experience of biological women. It's worth asking that question without being hurtful. Most trans people make sense to me as "whole" people before and after transitioning. The exceptions are those who believe they can reinvent themselves in a couple of weeks. To be honest they probably can "feel like a woman" if they can get to grips with the idea that women spend most of their lives "feeling like a person".
Another question I've asked over the years is about writing in the point of view of a different gender or sexuality. It used to be that you couldn't tell who the writer was, but you could try guessing and be willing to be proved wrong. Now the reader must know everything about the writer, they're forced to find meaning in the writing that might not actually be there.
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Dear C C,
Thank you for your thoughtful and well crafted response. And yes, of course you are right, we should all just feel like people. Whatever that means. I guess the point I was attempting was philosophical. It’s all so bloody subjective. Maybe we spend too much time navel gazing, fighting some new existential fear and then slapping labels on it. 🐈⬛
Very many thanks, and respect, to yez
That is a brilliant reply!! Thanks!
its such an important point. There was a trans woman on the BBC in the UK doing the whole "ask me anything" thing after having surgery. I asked about their experience of "being a woman" beyond cosmetic things like clothes and make up. No answer.
If you remove biology from the equation then woman hood makes no sense. What can a trans woman have that they couldn't have as a man (again other than clothes)
I'm a random straight white man, but I agree 100% with Julie. Articulate, funny, and determined. I am in her corner for women's rights. My lovely wife deserves the same rights as I do, and protection from the predatory men that target women pretending to be women.
Yes, but you can’t possibly agree with all things she says unless you do your own research
@@alvincente4080most of us have done our research Julie has stated indisputable facts the trans movement is a misogynist child mutilation movement masquerading as progress!
The women speaking out on this issue, Julie Bindel being one, have been some of the most intelligent and articulate speakers I have ever listened to. I find their calm, reasoned arguments so heartening. They show us that all is not lost after all. Thank you.
Absolutely agree
I used to really dislike Julie Bindel -- I think because of her stance on pornography. I don't use pornography, never have done, never will do. It hasn't ever appealed to me. I don't find the women attractive and I find the artificial nature of the whole thing really off-putting. The opposite to erotic, IMO. So my objections were really about censorship and who gets to decide what we can and what we can't see? I think those are decisions that, as adults, we get to make for ourselves.
But over the last few years, since her focus has shifted from pornography to the trans ideology/agenda, I've started to find her much more interesting -- and I've actually come to enjoy her work. Where I used to see somebody who was strident and humourless, I now see somebody who is actually sensitive, intelligent and often very funny. I'm not sure which of us has changed -- her or me -- truth is, it's probably both of us.
@@twatmunro her views on pornography don't concern censorship but rather the exploitative nature of the business.
A lesbian feminist activist who is saying nothing new. Just speaking truth to power as she always has. An amazing woman of integrity and intelligence who is still fighting the good fight.
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to declare feminism cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished nothing because of your parochial and inhuman myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full range of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
My concern is for women's safety. Women in prisons don't have a platform to be heard from. They are the most vulnerable and certain men love having sitting ducks to abuse. Women when you vote think of how your vote affects those women who are more vulnerable than yourself! Thank you to the men who are helping us! Andrew, Jason and Bill that she mentions as one of the people she looks up to. ❤
We should also be concerned with the emotional damage this is doing to little kids. Nobody seems concerned about their right to have some kind of sanity in their lives.
The stats on sex crimes is even more disturbing, with 'trans women' being 10x worse than men and over 100x higher than actual women for convictions for sex crimes!
It's just an assault on womanhood, at its' core!
@@LadyIarConnacht Not only the emotional damage but the literal permanent physical damages being done to the kids getting caught up in this ideology
As a mum of a “trans identified” (Really a gay male ) Julie is right. This is the biggest medical scandal of our time. I fought with all my might. I lost because of the ridiculous capture of the NHS .
Good conversation- Have Dr Kate Coleman on Andrew, from KPSS (Keep Prisons Single Sex). Her knowledge and experience having worked in the prison sector is second to none. She’s often overlooked but has stories from the frontline that need to be heard.
Yes, I'm very concerned and won't accept this. I lost my job for standing up against this, but I still stand by what I did. I don't feel safe. It's had a huge effect on me, knowing women have now lost our right to privacy and more.
Good for you for being so brave. Losing a job for this reason is inconceivable. Yet here we are. I will not participate in this cult that wants to tell me what to think. Bravo!
That must have been difficult for you, I hope you've landed on your feet.
Would Maya Forstaters case help you now I wonder?
What's ironic is some of these people who fired you would have complained if they saw a neo nazi out in the open. It's like they're bigots but they hide
And try to justify but they also put down open racists too because they make the real racists look bad. And funny thing is it's still probably these people who had you fired. It's funny how when you're one way in life, you still have the same enemies as when you go the other. I'm the source of everything I am talking about.
The tide is turning. Thank you for your bravery and ethics ❤
I lived in transitional housing, women only, loaded with women who had been abused by men in the worst ways (sex trafficking included). Shared house, shared kitchen, bathrooms, hallways; your own room, simple lock. A trans woman lived there, which I was all for at first. However, she had anger issues and far more testosterone and sense of privilege than the rest of us. Several of the women in the house were terrified of "her." And she used it: when angered, suddenly the man's voice would come out. Suddenly, there was a man there, screaming, hitting, and terrorizing; all from a person who was physically stronger, more aggressive, and a natural born man with issues. There were women there who were afraid to ever come out of their rooms. All of this in a house that was designed to be a safe haven for women, many of them recovering from abuse, and even more of whom did not feel safe with "her" there.
Utter madness
This is the kind of thing that terrifies me. I feel for you and the other women 😢
it beggars belief that this is allowed to happen. there were cases in Spain where the guy who abused a woman then declared himself to be a woman and sought refuge in the same home where the woman he abused was staying. Its horrendous.
You and the other women went along with it until it backfired. And there lies the problem.
@@ttblade definitely women’s fault, not society in general. Not politicians or law makers, just the women.
I have found being intelligent in the last 7 years very painful. I am glad the tide has changed.
My god, yes.
*not insane
She was one of the first people to be cancelled over trans ideology.
Ohhh. Oy
Funny how she wasn't cancelled for saying she wanted men put in concentration camps. And that was before the trans insanity.
Germain Greer was an early one
@@helendancelot yep. It was the feminists and lesbians that first sounded the alarm. The fact that so many were cancelled and ignored tells us a lot about the way women are viewed in society.
I don't consider her canceled :) She's brilliant. People need to listen.
I have only recently discovered who Julie Bindel is. She articulates much better than I ever could, everything I have been thinking and was afraid to say. Not anymore. I am one liberal who is also speaking up now against this insanity. The misogyny behind the activism of trans women is loud and clear.
Well put, very articulate too. 😊
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to declare feminism cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished nothing because of your parochial and inhuman myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full range of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
No such thing as a female stiffy 😂 it's a man 😢
Please let the insanity be over. We can't take it anymore.
It will be OVER. Trust the process 🙏🏽🫶🏽🙌🏽
it wont be over until we repeal the 19th
@@Sunshiine305even if the process involves a pendulum swing back towards more traditional values?
Oh, you can and will, because this has only just begun you have the rest of your life to deal with it now that the dogs are out. Who let the dogs out?
@@Clint52279 That's the REAL danger about extremism... It has a tendency to snap right back to it's polar opposite! With characters like Andrew Tate, banging on about women needing to go back into the kitchen etc etc!
Some members of the trans community... Have simply pushed Western Societies TOO far!!! And now the fallout begins... Which might actually undo everything they've accomplished in the past decade or so!
Well... Expecting the mainstream to accept a zillion different genders... And pronouns... Rewriting the English Language... Indoctrinating our kids... And allowing biological men to infiltrate women only spaces was bound to break people's patience at some point!
Change has to happen SLOWLY... And you can't rush change... Otherwise you will simply breed more extremism!
I believe that the world has gone completely nuts, when the Endometriosis campaign was spear headed by a trans man, I gave up, it's just too ridiculous and ubsurd
Even in the world of female body issues, a man has the voice. Is this not misogyny by another name?
Isn't this just acknowledging that the trans man is inherently female though 🤔 I wouldn't have thought this is the problem. If the Endo Campaign was ran by a trans woman, then we have issues.
The world went nuts about 12,000 years ago, when humans started trying to be gods instead of animals.
@@katieandnick4113Wrong, get over yourself.
@@yorkshirehousewife784 Apparently so. I am a woman and mother. I have mammaries and a Uterus
Thank god for Julie Bindel. Intelligent and supporting of women without a voice.
So is su- e- side, you have to say things like they committed non life.
Thank you for this. I adore Julie Bindel, and Sall Grover, Moira Deeming, Meghan Murphy, Kelly-Jay Keen, Helen Joyce, Maya Forstater, Angie Jones, Julie Burchill, JK Rowling, Graham Linehan and the many other women and men who stand up to this nonsense.
And Kara Dansky, Kathleen stock, Sharron davis, Angela Jones, Suzanne Moore, Mara Yamauchi, Ani O'Brien, Holly Lawford-Smith
Lineham used to enjoy cancelling people.
Great list ❤ I would also add, Riley Gaines. ❤
The brilliant James Dreyfus who is a friend of Julie Bindel should be on that list as well.
Y’all missed Stella O’Malley!
Julie Bindel is fabulous and just tells it as it is. A great podcast.
The trans conversation is important. On Triggernometry Julie mentioned that something not being talked about is coercion in a certain age group of women and I would really like to see an expansion on the topic.
I'm a woman and categorically "Never, had a stiffy". I was born without a penis, 2 days ago my daughter gave us a beautiful granddaughter, I worry about her future with schooling indoctrinated, imo. 🇬🇧👵😥
All parents need to get the kids out of school .look up the voice of wales they where telling us aboutb3 years ago . everything they were bringing into the schools sexualising them .getting us ready for to lower age and maps .
Home schooling.
Its so transphobic that you have never had a raging hard on. 😂
Your granddaughter will need her wise, loving grandmother to led her and love her and tell her that no matter what anyone tells her, non, she's not "a boy."
Having a very secure relationship with your daughter(as your daughter hopefully has with you) is all the protection she needs. Any suffering i experienced as a teenager was shared with my mother first. Any thoughts or feelings were told to her before anyone else. My mother had a very strong connection to her mother too. Patriarchy has done an incredible number on the mother-daughter relationship, because when that relationship is strong, the world is a very different, more wonderful and humane place, where human wellbeing, which is directly connected to the wellbeing of nature, is placed far above the procurement of excess resources. If your daughter and your granddaughter have a deep connection, there is no reason your granddaughter would question who she is. She may suffer in other ways, but it won’t be due to extreme discomfort with herself. Girls believe they are who their mothers show them they are. If they show them they are loved and accepted unconditionally, they won’t want to be anyone else.
I am single gay mom of 5. Growing up, I hated being a girl. And I hated it because it seemed as women were there only to assist men climb to the top. Men were doctors, women were the nurses aiding the doctor. Men were pilots, women were flight attendants and so on. I also remember my brother and I doing activities, but when referring to me, they would always say SHE WANTS TO TRY. So in the eyes of everybody around, my brother was DOING, while I was TRYING; even though we were doing the same things, achieving the same results. Also, porn was available for boys, banned to girls. Sex was ok for boys to try, NOT for girls. etc, etc. I HATED having been born to a girl body. And when puberty hit, hated cannot even start describing what I felt. I could not swim when my brothers did, and would always have my father telling me: Why don’t you have fun as your brothers? Why are you always ruining vacation? I did not explain it was my body that prevented me from doing it, I did not explain I HATED my body for doing this to me… and I didn’t because this was my privacy. No one talked about my brothers’ first eyaculations! Why would everyone talked about girls having their first period? In addition, the pain I had indescribable! I hated society… But then, I became a mom.. and I was chosen… by life itself! to carry on the miracle of miracles! And I became enlightened! 5 kids and 3 (for now) grandkids later…. I’ve come to the conclusion there is simply NO WAY for a trans-woman to BE a woman.
If you've given birth to 5 children, then that means you've had sex with men a lot more than once. How does one have 5 kids and then suddenly decide that they are gay? Surely you are bisexual.
Do you have boys? Do you punish them for being male or do you support them at living successfull lives?
I hope your life has been full of so many achievements. I hope you came to feel more empowered in your body. The trans ideology is a gaintic step backwards for the world.
Have you taught your male children to be comfortable with their gender and not to hate themselves?
When I was younger, about 50 years ago. There was always the occasional girl who competed with the lads and were known as tomboys. There was also effeminate males, who were not as rough in play as the lads. We somehow all learned to accept our lot and deal with it.
You are SO sharp to invite Bindel! She's my North Start of integrity. She's a powerhouse, with her wit, integrity, and intellect.
She literally admits to being dishonest in the first 10 mins of this lol “integrity”.
@@nerojay2105explain please?
@@nerojay2105 No, she says 'I went too far' (when when she was much younger) in suggesting 'women can do anything.' She admitted it with such good grace and honesty.
If I've misinterpreted your comment, please do let me know.
@@ac1646 Andrew: “does that suggest you weren’t being honest before?”
Julie: “I think it was more that I didn’t… Yeah, probably actually. I think that’s fair”
@@nerojay2105 There you go, honesty and good grace. 😊😊
I was a young woman in the early 90's and I was helping this guys young daughter with her art, private lessons a couple of times a week. When he found out I was a lesbian he stopped her visiting me for her lessons. So yes, Julie is correct that is how some people sadly viewed lesbians. The mouthy young TRA's today haven't got a clue how hard women like Julie have fought for our rights, not a clue...
I am sorry you had experiences like that. If more people educated their children about their bodies, good touch/bad touch and stranger danger in the context of dangerous people instead of "bad men" and then focused on an open positive attachment style parenting, then you would not have been singled out and treated that way. My daughters had a Girl Guides leader who is a Lesbian. I had no issues with her or her sexual orientation. She often had her wife involved in Guiding activities. Again I had no problems. Not even on the overnight camps. However, I had to withdraw my daughters from Guides when their Leader found out from my daughter that we were Christians, after that my daughters were targeted and treated differently and she was openly hostile to me. I explained to my daughters that bigotry goes both ways and we are only responsible for how we treat people and that we should treat people as individuals and not make generalizations on people because of what "group" they are part of.
it amazes me that the words "slags and whores" are ok but "rape" is censored
The "B" and "C" words are OK, too...
I've been put in TH-cam time out for calling men ugly and evil, but men have entire channels on sex trafficking women and abusing them, and comments calling women all types of names similar to what you mentioned. We have to protect men's wittle feelings.
FYT
It's ridiculous ANY words are censored. Please don't advocate for anymore to be bleeped out.
It doesn't amaze me. 'Slags and whores' is a term used by (mostly) men to either justify their own behaviour towards women, or to denigrate women in retaliation for something, so it is acceptable. Calling women those words as an insult also reinforces to society (and women) that sexual freedom for women (which men don't want women to have - they want women to have a low or no body count), is unacceptable. 'Rape', however, is a term that reveals men in a negative light, so of course that word is censored. The same reason that all sorts of pejorative words against women are ok, but try and talk about any of the various _actual_ heinous crimes that men commit daily against women, children, (and animals) and they are censored. Basically it is ok to 'out' women for their 'evil' nature or behaviour, but men's much more evil nature and behaviours must be concealed, kept out of the public consciousness, and is not up for discussion (probably because it is indefensible). Misogyny is alive and well, and going nowhere.
What about the children who are being raised on identity politics? They really won't understand the difference between men and women. These children will really think that gender can be changed and is a choice.
Not so my grandson was brought up in Sweden Like tat but I tested him we were in a shop I asked him don’t you want a pair of pink fairy wings ! He said no I am a a boy!
My thanks to you, Andrew, for this wonderful interview with Julie, for listening and never interrupting, and for Heretics being my favourite place to come for intelligent conversation.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Julie is a woman with whom I fully agree on every aspect of real feminism, it's so rare that women are able to articulate the truth about the reality of being a woman, statistically and anecdotally, but she nails it perfectly. She's most definitely got the receipts! Love her.
This is the world she and her likes helped to create. A frankensteined version that turned against it's creators.
@winston-smith Do you think she’s right in stating that most men think (regarding male violence on women) that “she asked for it?” I don’t agree with Julie Bindel. Her brand of feminism is misandrist and creates a gulf between the sexes.
I am female and have experienced quite extreme domestic violence. I don’t believe for a second that most men would excuse the minority who abuse women.
@@gilly5094 I think it's easy to misinterpret her representation of statistical realities as a bias: I volunteered for Refuge for a while and I was genuinely shocked to hear that between the age of 16 - 44, the thing most likely to cause a woman's death, is DV. Some women laugh when you say it they genuinely can't believe it. I think she goes to great lengths in this interview to clarify, that this is not all men, so no, I don't think she's a misandrist at all - particularly if you listen to her discussion of lesbianism, as a choice, a positive one, not one 'because men are rubbish'. x
@winston-smith who else but a misandrist would claim that the majority of men would think “she asked for it” when it comes to SA.
I spent time in a Refuge and have since worked indirectly with women who have experienced DV. It’s a complex issue. The perpetrators are mainly male, but women often stay with perps due to early trauma and low self-esteem. Seeing all men as potential r@p!sts is Bindels brand of feminism. That’s false and negative. It just widens the divide in understanding and makes each sex suspicious of the other.
I don't think they do now, but I think they did when Julie was growing up. Speaking to people of her (and my mother's) generation, yes this type of misogyny was rife.
Our Liberal elites don't even know what a woman is.
What a time to be alive.
I'm with Julie in that I think they absolutely do know what a woman is. They have mothers, wives, daughters and other female relatives and I simply do not believe that they get them confused with their fathers, husbands, sons etc.
They full well know. They are using this to keep women from being able to organize in any way. Erasing women.
Conservative elites are equally besotted with the ideology as well. Closeted cross-dressers of old had their little fetish clubs and parties, if anyone cares to remember, and they were primarily titled men who considered themselves upper-class and deserving of kink acceptance 🤢
It’s not just the elite, but your average Joe who is causing all this nonsense. Stupid parents who are brainwashing their children.
@@powerhouse2024 I want to believe that politicians take bad stances out of an evil conspiracy too but I believe most of them just think saying this makes them popular with most of the loud people on the internet and don't consider how bad their choice could be.
Thank you for having Julie on. As a woman and a nurse this totally driven by ideology… as a woman I get shouted down for my opinions and as a nurse could lose my job by not believing the lies!
I’m on the same bus as you. Just retired nurse with the same issues. Many people don’t want to hear about it, unless their families are actually affected by the aggression and risks involved. As a nurse, knowing the anatomical differences, it simply doesn’t add up, regards male endometriosis/dysmenorrhea and female prostate exams. Pronouns!!! If my grandchildren are taught these ideologies by their parents, I feel I must question it. Another very informative interview. Just watched James Dreyfus interview yesterday. Thank you Andrew.
Then shut the hell up mind your business and do what you get paid to do. Your a nurse don’t you have patients to tend to ?
Then maybe you should find another occupation because it seems like you don’t want to help a trans person
@@averrry clown
@@averrry maybe you should stop projecting your virtue signaling on others. She never said She doesn't want to help trans people - She said, RIGHTFULLY, that this whole thing doesn't make any medical sense and yet She could lose her job for saying anything other than "stunning and brave" 😒
She makes a v good point about the Yorkshire Ripper; if men had been given a curfew there would've been a national outcry, but potential victims should accept curfew and take the immplied blame if they become victims.
It's incredible that you think that's a good point. Individuals are responsible for the choices they make, everyone has agency to do or not do what they will for whatever reason they make their choices. If you're too afraid to go outside for fear of male violence, then don't go outside, that's completely your prerogative... that you think it would be reasonable to deprive men of the right to make their own choices because of YOUR fears is hardly what I'd classify as a "good point".
So basically punish all men for something one man was doing?? You must be for a police state and socialism. Wow. Did you have fun during C0vid too?
@@BettyWhite2171why was it ok to punish all women when we accept it wouldn’t have been ok to do it to all men?
@@BettyWhite2171 covid curfew didn't bother me, maybe if you would've found some hobbies and worked on improving relationships you'd have had fun too
“Lesbianism isn’t something lesbians do for men.” Spot on!
Julie, you are incredible. I admire your honesty about where you made mistakes in the past and the fact that you can reassess your ideas with hindsight. You have fought so hard for women's rights and have never yielded to the bullies.
Thank you.
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to acknowledge the fact that feminism is a cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished exactly nothing because of your parochial and one-dimensional myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full picture of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
Wow what a lovely lady. I'm a straight 74 yr old male and learnt an awful lot ! Good luck with your endeavours.
And don’t you dare become a woman! 😂
What is lovely about looking for erections on men, sounds perverted to me.
"They have been convinced that that's what they should say" - spot on
My very good male friend who has absolutely nothing against trans people was kicked off of bumble dating app in Canada when he matched with a trans woman and when “she” told him he politely wrote “I am so sorry but I’m only attracted to women.” He didn’t mean any harm and wasn’t trying to be mean and he had been sleeping on the major trans movement we have in Vancouver so he didn’t realize they were to be considered women and referring to them as their biological sex or seeing them as their biological is wrong in this city (which I don’t agree with). Now all the single ladies in Vancouver are down an attractive, kind and successful man ready to get married because he was kicks off the most used dating app in the city. It’s total bs.
@allytrudie864 •I had it multiples and men 🤮🤢🤮One asked me on the app to “help him out ?”Sent me a dick pick while I am ordering my lunch in Tescos -I nearly threw up ..I just told him “Not qualified,you need a sex therapist or Samaritans ..”I never went back on this was Hinge all these places supposed to be safe on Bumble I had more harassment than I had in my childhood and that included being a S/A Survivor saying S/A downplays the situation when your 7 Years Old so any form of this sort of unwarranted sexual harassment that’s what it is some person 6 ft 6 with size 12 shoes named 🌟Flipping heck -he proudly told me he was trans -Well I never would have guessed it should be more regulated these situations are very dangerous highly inappropriate I told my brother I don’t feel like I can even dress for me without getting totally unwanted sexual advances that actually terrify me .I don’t want this it scares my son I had a man ask me if I Rim all of this stuff I had to use flipping Dr Google whom would want to lick someone’s arse I am not a dog and they only lick there own -Even trying to sell second hand clothes online a man requested did I sell Worn Panties -I was joking with my friends about mass market for crusty knickers but I got him blocked anyone that thinks it’s acceptable to make totally unwanted sexual advances (Because I am talking off dating websites I deleted all my S/Media )Personally I think they do it for the thrill ..See what your reaction will be well mine is anger 😡 and fear none of these places are safe I am not safe walking down the road in the middle of the day or going to my sons Parents Evening one guy was totally ignoring his Daughter and Wife did not say anything to me but was simply stood there ogling my breasts for me it’s the complete opposite of how anyone should behave makes my son act like an armed guard me want to whack em with my crutches..Instagram is gone I had this issues in work with random Customers it’s seriously not funny not ok and totally inappropriate..The thoughts of what a time to be alive ..Indeed just don’t invite any of these’ perverts to my party when I die they are grossly offensive (Open marriage?)I am thinking if this is modern life ?Cheers but i shall go asexual as in none (Pan Sexual i shall carry a large heavy pan it’s ridiculous my son was told he could wear gender Neutral Uniform..The new uniform number one it’s really horrible someone colour blind invented it (Red and Coral ties )But they can mix and match so one day they could be a boy next day a girl and on the final day (Maybe a bit of both ?)I know my sons thoughts he is 15 years old there was actually a protest in the school the girls where refusing I told my son he resembled Cabin Crew it honestly is gross 🤢 it’s vile if I was working with red hair (He escaped he is half Sri Lankan but the issue lies partly with parenting ,we need teach our sons and daughters consent /Sexual Harassment .Online Dangers I had another letter stating what to do if your child sends a naked picture 🎥 (Don’t panic 😂🙅♀️🙄)Save us from all of this stupidity.Its down to us to teach right from wrong nothing wrong with being Transexual just keep to your own same with men .Stay in the place of respect..Morally I am not an object I am a woman with feelings and this situation terrifies me it brings back my worst situations from childhood.Makes me realise I was never safe and never will be .
I use Bumble and the fact is most men do not care unless they actually want children . Men are attracted to a phenotype not gametes, they are entitled to feel how ever including not being interested in the thousands of obese or manish women .
after living in Vancouver my whole life, with its many problems (affordability, housing) the whole trans debacle has become insane. as a women who is interested in other women, trying to meet other women has become impossible since all the apps are full of these tims and their handmaidens.
i hope you and and friend are doing well.
@@ew_barf That's an unfortunate thing you are having to deal with on apps, not fair or reasonable but aren't they easily identifiable hence avoidable ? Handmaidens ? Really ?that is funny maybe you forgot ball palmers too ? Have you ever asked any heterosexual women how some of them feel about lesbians in "women's spaces" ? From what i have been told exactly the same as how most heterosexual men feel about homosexuals .
Are political lesbians allowed on lesbian dating apps ? Quite curious where your line is .
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@@non_ideological_transexual7414 Totally different case. A lesbian is a woman and as such of course has complete right to be in women's spaces.
She makes perfect sense, and no doubt that's why she's been cancelled and labelled heretic.
The crazy thing is here is that a Father naturally expects to stand outside the Women's toilets and wait when he is out with his young daughter and she needs to go to the toilet yet a great big hairy bloke wearing a frock can just walk in there without even being challenged.
Julie Bindel is awesome! I’m so glad you interviewed her. She’s a boss.😊
How can you profess to want to help rape victims but then be so self centered that you'd rather shut down a vital, charitable organisation for the sake of your own ego?!
It speaks volumes. No woman would behave in such a way.
He did not want to help women, he wanted to force himself on them.
I’ll never be able to accept that we’ve fallen this far this fast. It defies every fact that we’ve ever known for this to accelerate at the rate that it has. If this can be true then cancer and every other known disease has got to be curable. I’m holding on that.
Late stage Liberalism.
@@evolassunglasses4673 Yes! And inevitable. If women don't want to be pushed back 100 years, they had better engage/complain/demand action/join Kelly J Keen's Party of women.
It's the internet, never before have ideas spread this fast and never before have perverts and fetishists had such enfettered access to support from each other
It shows how a population can be cowed into submission by fear. Remember the Nazis.
It's being done on purpose, to a previously decided plan. What we're seeing now is the result of near a century of planning and maneuvering.
Great interview. Unfortunately, YT wants to censor my factual information, despite me censoring “bad” words, so I can’t give my entire opinion. I just want to say that I’m really proud of the men here for having Julie’s back. Well done, gents.
She's one of the greatest advocates for the version of feminism that most of us agree with. My guess is the adoption of identity politics across the board as a cynical power-grabbing tactic was the primary cause of this new version that's putting weird men's rights above real women. We need to recognise and negate the forces that foment division for their own purposes. A whole host of forces are pulling us apart when we desparately need to come together.
Maybe try again. It's annoying that YT censors certain words but at least it means we don't all have to scroll through the worst of inane abusive rants. It keeps the place relatively clean and readable. I don't think YT is clever enough (yet) to detect and censor sentiment though, so doubt you were censored on that basis, so maybe just try use different words for the sensitive ones.
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Trying again and censorsing words got my shadowbanned.
Now 90% if not all comments get insta-deleted
>I’m really proud of the men here for having Julie’s back. Well done, gents.
That's sexist and patronising.
How would you like it if I said that I'm proud of all the women here for not making illogical comments, well done ladies?
@@fredjimbob2962 men patronize women all the time. What planet are you living on? 😂 What’s really sad is that I’m surprised when men have her back when she openly says men are responsible for grape and muhrr-derr of women.
I love julie b. Can't wait to watch this. You have awesome guests.
EVERY kid feels daunted by the prospect of puberty and will express a wish to stay a kid.
Then EVERY pubescent person feels awkward about their changing body morphing in weird ways.
You could say teenage "body dysmorphia" is a fundamental and unavoidable rite of passage for ALL humans.
Then they grow through it and get used to it and become normal healthy adults.
We need to re-normalise this.
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This is what I was told repeatedly as a kid while I was in severe pain and horror. It got so bad my face was tingly and it suppressed my breathing. What you're saying is cruel and callous for no good reason and guess what, I was still transgender and had to fight for medical treatment BEGGING for help to save my life as a teenager, on my own. If anybody had investigated and tried to find out what my health issues were, maybe I would not have stuck with transition and left alone to find answers. Maybe I would not have been so damaged by the abuse and health trauma that I would have healed from transgenderism sooner. How dare you diminish the suffering and pain of one of the worst disorders to be afflicted with. You have no idea how dire it is.
God, after every bloody Disney princess movie came out, I was in anguish over my non-princess-like body for weeks.
@@anewagoraspare us the drama.
@@anewagora I'm sorry that your doctors and other carers neglected your awful symptoms.
But how is what I said wrong or callous and cruel?
I didn't mean to imply everyone's experience of puberty is the same or that some children don't need extra help. Of course they do. It was a general statement. EVERYONE suffers through puberty, it's a shitty time of life. Most people grow through it and find who they want to be eventually.
Should I have said, puberty makes some people go off the rails so far they never recover from it? If you'd like me to say that, yes I agree and I acknowledge I didn't say that initially. But it's relatively few.
I hope you have got help for your issues now.
Let me just assert, my comment was definitely not cruel. People who have different opinions from you are not hurting you. You don't have to agree, you can reply or move on. I did NOT hurt you. To think that I did is an extremely snowflakey way of seeing the world and I'd suggest you try overcome that mindset or you're in for a life of avoidable suffering.
Agreed. This Iman Kelif gold medal is outrageous. I certainly hope that the IOC will rectify their error and withdraw his medal
wHEN WE SAY "SHE" HAD A STIFFY, WE ARE AS CRAZY AS THEY ARE!
@@kerrycampbell3924he was joking
Ricky Gervais has covered this "I love the new women we've been seeing lately - the ones with beards &...."
EDIT: Well, I'll leave it there & let you hear Rick complete the sentence.
Yes, and he made it a headline, which made it look like she said it. @@AmanitaWoodrose
@@kerrycampbell3924 He was paraphrasing the Ricky Gervais joke I think.
He was joking--perhaps a reference to Ricky Gervias' bit.
Looking forward to this, Julie is a legend ❤
Cross dressing men may ‘feel” they are momen in the same way I “feel” I am a horse. Never having been a horse, you may say I can’t really know what it’s like to be a horse. But I FEEL I am a horse and with everything trans, feelings trump facts and truth.
I’ve said this for years. If you don’t know how it feels to be a woman you can’t say you feel like a woman. Also, a woman is not a feeling or a thought. Nor is she a body part or parts nor an estrogen level. The reductionist element of this is so stupid.
I felt like a coffee once, so I had one😊
My sister was in a bus stop in the late 70s and there was a man dressed as a woman and my sister started feeling uncomfortable so she started to leave the bus stop to go back to her friends house and he started to chase her as she turned a corner she ran into her friends older brother who was a policeman and my dad went to the police to get my sister so she could tell them what he looked like i remember my dad coming home and shouting about it i had to sleep with my sister that night because she was terrified to go to sleep and thats why im so adament about what a women is and i dont trust government's to stand up for womans rights and keep the ideology out of nurseries and schools especially in scotland
It's horrifying. As parents and educators.. do not buy into this utter nonsense. I think the damage done to children and society is unforgivable. I think it's insulting to the 4% of intersex people who go through hell. The rest... are flaky naval gazers or perverts.
I agree with the arguments made by Julie Bindel regarding female-only spaces like changing rooms. It's true that women can't know which men pose a threat. So the presence of almost any man in such spaces is going to be intimidating and menacing - I totally get that. But actually there is a more basic reason why men shouldn't be there: it just grossly compromises the dignity and privacy which women have a right to expect in these spaces! (I think this is important, because I have seen the kind of sophistry that the t-activists engage in. They will come back and say things like: "oh, but how about a very old man? Or how about a physically disabled man? He wouldn't pose any threat, would he?")
yes he would. men are more likely violent and sexually aggressive. even old disabled men.
And children use those toilets, traumatising
I am in a women’s only AA meeting. The 6+ years I have been evolved it has been a women’s only space. We get new women who are very vulnerable , some of them are coming out of very violent, toxic relationships. Recently we have a trans woman attending. I have actually seen new women get up and leave after the trans member speaks. I live in a very progressive part of the West Coast US, I’m not sure if all of the other home group members are really fine with this or are just afraid to speak up?
I know I am. Knowing the area I live in this person would never be asked to not attend the women’s meeting. I am extremely resentful that I’m being put in this position. It’s been weighing heavily on me lately.
That’s by design, that is why it’s dangerous to lie and say trans women ARE REAL women. They are not. Never will be. By allowing that 1 single lie it silences women. Look at how you have been silenced, and if you speak up you’ll be pegged a homophobe or a transphobic bigot. That is exactly how they have cornered women.
It's fair to bar the trans if his presence and behaviour is causing women to leave.
Every one should walk out
Start a new group. Invite the women who have left the old one.
100% agree with Julie on this subject." Gender Critical " simply means living in reality, telling the truth and fighting to protect the rights and safety of women and children everywhere. Thanks ,Andrew xx
"how can society change to accoutfir the psychopaths?"
That involved better public services, better training, better policing, more funding into all of those things and for the middle classes to realise how bad it is for working class women
Having been a working class woman and married up into a higher middle class (for love not money) I look around at the other private school Moms and think “your privilege is showing, better tuck that back in because you haven’t got a clue.” It’s so hard to relate to most, I don’t bother anymore unless I have to for my child’s sake.
Love her honesty. It's really refreshing and makes her argument all the more convincing, knowing she can question her own past views
Julie's honestly and totally grounded approach to trans ideology and associated nonsense, is refreshing and should be made part of the mandatory school curriculum.
Andrew, whenever I think common sense is making a come back…I make the mistake of going on reddit. And then I get very depressed…(obv reasons). Keep up the fantastic work. Looking forward to this next episode. ☮️💜
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yea but reddit is for losers thst dont leave the house. Its hardly a representation of society. Its just mostly mental unwell who are unale to form real fave to face relationships
A lot of those mods are “trans women” who delete any slight critique of their movement. They become enraged when others won’t play along with their fantasies.
Reddit is very much an astroturfed hellhole that is heavily censored and moderated by the same few power users, many of whom are trans. Don't expect anything other than unhinged bullshit.
Oh yeah it's infuriating on there. Just saw a post today about how a young female wanted to go on testosterone but was told it was dangerous by a nurse because she had PCOS. I won't pretend to know medical stuff, but what angered me was that they were saying this nurse was transphobic and to not listen to her that they were being gaslit, and I'm not saying doctors and nurses are infalliable, but I can't help but think this person was probably leaving out a specific reason as to why the nurse advised against it in their personal situation, and it's honestly shocking how many of them just want to read and spread around only things they want to hear, giving each other confirmation bias because they "read it" once somewhere.
Ooooh, love Julie Bindel.❤ Looking forward to this! 😊
Andrew has one of the best channels on TH-cam along with Triggernometry.
What I don’t understand is why people need to announce to the world what their preference is in the bedroom 🤷🏻♀️ They even ask sexual orientation on job forms. It should be completely irrelevant!
That is actually mad that they ask you that on job forms. Like what, why do you need to know that? It's scary.
@@ridleyroid9060 absolutely agree 👍🏼
What country do you live in? Even in extreme left Canada it is illegal to ask that question on a job interview or application. I’m shocked there are western countries that allow that?! (Assuming you are from the western world).
@@allytrudie864 and that’s how it should be but sadly not here. I’m Scotland uk.
I’ve never known it to be any other way since I qualified in nursing in 2002. It’s always baffled me that.
Same goes with ethnicity on applications. I don’t see that matters if people are genuinely looking at qualification and skill 🤷🏻♀️
@@Construction_Girloh wow, Scotland?! This surprises me, thank you for educating me. We also have the ethnicity boxes which I think are wrong for the same reason you mention.
Julie Bindel makes the most complex ideologies clear and unambiguous…such skilled ability is to be lauded
Julie is the best: fearless and fierce.
She said she wanted men put in concentration camps. She's disgusting.
Totally agree
Julie speaks so well on this business. Respect.
This nonsense is fizzling out slowly but surely.
I’ll be interested to see how the proponents of it will justify themselves when they are held to account. Or will it all be a case of forgive and forget? (With the emphasis on forget where the MSM are concerned)
I have the same feeling about this. I'm deathly concerned about the consequences and the damage this will have done to the actual women's and gay rights movement. This trans lunacy is completely antithetical to both.
I I don't know that it is. Germany just made self ID legal, for instance. In the US, it's dividing red States from blue.
They will never admit their wrongdoing
It won't just fizzle out. This is the time for people to speak out about it wherever we can.
@@jan9562oh it will
Thank you for posting this. People with common sense are needed.
I really admire Julie but I disagree with her about "only men can r.pe". Because a woman also physically force another (maybe physically weaker) woman to unwanted sexual activities and that would be r.pe too. But I can understand why victims don't want a man in a support organisation.
Correct. And would we call a father who coerces, emotionally and verbally, his daughter into having sex with him without the need for physical force, a r.pist? I certainly would. Which means a mother (probably even more so than a father, as a mother has more emotional control over children than a father) is capable of the same thing, if she is so inclined. The majority of sexual predation is not done with physical force.
She's saying that because the legal definition of grape is pen*s entering a vagina.
It wouldn't. In the UK, rape involves a penis. That's the law. Rape is a male crime!
This sounds interesting….Andrew I listened to your book on audible, it was really good, and lovely to hear your British accent. Well done. ❤
This was a fascinating interview, and now I’m going to read Julie’s book. Up to now I had not thought of this particular unintended (or maybe intended by some) consequences of some of the events now going on and how they can distract from feminism (I’m a woman of similar age and saw some of the same things she talked about, though I’m hetero). I’ve never been ok with doing irreversible hormonal therapy and surgery on children. I do support an adult’s decision to transition and don’t want to disrespect anyone. However, the argument about women’s-only spaces is interesting and again, something I hadn’t thought much about. Thanks for having intelligent discourse without hate and vitriol.
Make sure to get my book after! 😆 thank you for the kind words.
20:03 - Her callousness is absolutely astonishing. You, Julie, are the reason why I'm not even a little bit reticent to acknowledge the fact that feminism is a cancer. You have spent your entire life "fighting" against male violence and you have accomplished exactly nothing because of your parochial and one-dimensional myopia; you refuse to allow yourself to see the full picture of human complexity, and it has resulted in your total inability to understand even the highly particular issues that you claim to care about. Also, John Money was a feminist, he abused David Reimer and his brother in order to prove the insipid notion that masculinity is an arbitrary patriarchal construct, he proclaimed his abhorrent experiment a success and declared the social construction of gender as an absolute fact, Kate Millet utilized his finding to make exactly the arguments about socialization that you do... but sure, gender identity is a "men's rights movement", I'm sure David Reimer felt empowered by the shotgun he put in his mouth. Also, the way you speak of male violence, and male sexual violence in particular, is really quite disturbing. It's clear you have absolutely no understanding of the warped psychologies which drive such violence in those few deranged men, but you speak about them as if they are just average men who have failed to suppress the urge, the implicitly common urge among men, to inflict all manner of violence and abuse upon women; you tacitly speak of male violence as if the men who are violent are deriving personal benefit from their deranged behaviors, as if you believe that the self-interest of men is somehow served by inflicting harm upon women. Contrary to what you seem to believe, I don't think Ted Bundy lived his best life... news flash, to be a bad man is a BAD way for a man to be, it is rather, contrary to your misanthropic fatalistic bullshit, good for a man to be a good man. Your ideology doesn't have a monopoly on the human condition you so desperately desire to cut men and boys out of, problem is, men and boys aren't going anywhere anytime soon, your inevitable failures to effect any positive change in the world because you'd rather wallow in resentment and contempt than actually engage with the real struggles of humanity aren't going to make for a very respectable legacy.
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People might think I'm crazy, but I think misogyny exists in cultural views of gay men & lesbians. I've always heard about gay men, yet not much about lesbianism. Same with the trans communities. We now MOSTLY hear about trans women (formerly male) than trans men (formerly women). It's like biological males always get the attention in all arenas. Does anybody get the point I'm making and agree???
You could also say you always hear about the men in these situations more in a NEGATIVE light.
There is definitly a type of gay man that absolutley hate women , However gay men are as varied as straight men , Some are great and love and respect women , some are misogynistic A holes ,who see women as competition as they really fancy straight men, There are also straight and lesbian women who will bully other women through envy or insecurity ..l, However feminists have done themselves no favours with the constant misandry , Personally I don't hate all men , just like I don't like all women , both genders can be equally toxic and we should go back to seeing people as individuals , not groups,
FtM aren't a problem
They are not a threat to cis men, they are taking nothing away from cis men
The only time transmen get any attention, is if they get pregnant. The most female thing there is... so mysoginistic
Sheila Jeffreys has written and spoken on this subject for decades, about the MALE so called gay rights movement and how it is all about men and normalizing male zekual rights/behavior and patriarchy.
Julie is such a strong communicator, and honest too. Thanks for such an interesting chat.
Great interview. Julie Bindel is
Not afraid to speak the truth and is honest about the way her own views have evolved which makes her accessible. She articulates clearly why we should all be concerned about trans ideology.
thank you Andrew for platforming so many interesting people! Love the quality of your broadcasts!
I look forward to listening to this one, agree 100%. I just learned of Grayson Perry from your last podcast, who was allowed to appear at a children's event in drag and a visible dildo. I had to look up the photo of him just to see (and now I can't unsee it in my mind). I just can't believe that people are okay with this! So not appropriate for children is the bottom line. It's also so narcissistic and creepy. What the #@% is happening?? The world is upside down. I think you guys in the UK are a little ahead of us in America, it's still quite nuts here. (A little about me, straight woman, a liberal and not conservative, and against cancel culture).
That picture is disgusting! He has also said that be wears big puffy dresses because he admits he often gets turned on (AGP) and it helps hide his erection. 🤢
There have been a series of events here in the UK that indicate the beginning of the end of the insanity. The latest, the publishing of the Cass Report, has made criticism of gender ideology more socially acceptable it seems to me. The climate has definitely changed and I'm feeling very optimistic. We are so closely tied together culturally now, especially in the "Anglosphere" that I'm hopeful that the changes that have happened here will spread to the USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and elsewhere.
@@stumccabe Not the UK, just England and Wales (Norn Iron know how to look after themselves anyway). Scotland is total tranny insanity. Completely misogynist woman hating SNP and Greens that love girl dick and prostate menstruation more than saving the planet.
The event was in aid of a children cancer charity and was a celebrity ball. Only adults in attendance.
Agree with you 100%
Thank you Andrew that was a great edition.
One thing that stands out to me with the guests on this show is that none of them are homophobic, in fact some have gay relatives who they love. What they are arguing is mental health and the social implications of allowing people to alter the law based on their fantasies. These are valid arguments. It's not about homophobic, and no one is saying trans people shouldn't have rights. We're saying don't force people to believe what you believe just because you believe it. You can believe what ever you want, but that's not anyone's business but yours.
Thank you Andrew for bringing all these amazing down to earth guest to share their knowledge. People like you give me hope that one day the delusion of trans ideology is going to end.
I love this woman , thank you for having her on your show
I am a center left female. I want trans people to have the right to present as they choose. I don't agree with the nonsense that a cross-dressed male is a woman. I don't agree with transitioning children.
Trans people DO have the right to present themselves as they want. A man in a dress is still a man in a dress, though. Trans people do NOT have the right to enforce their delusions on other people.
You are like me then, considered Far Right now.
@@nealgrimes4382 How did you dream that up?
once you open the door to insanity even a little bit its too late
@@funicon3689exactly. It has to be a big NO to all of it. I don’t even agree with “dress as you please” anymore.
It doesn’t matter how the body is changed, unless you grow up and mature as male/female, you can never appreciate just what it does mean to be that sex. You will always have the mind set and ideals of your original beginning. IMO. 🧐🤔👍🏻🇨🇦🐉👩🏼⚖️
Wrong. You didn't invent the human genome
@jacovawernett3077 did u? Arrested development much
@@wannabrew8718 did I what. My Hebrew name Jacova is the female form of Jacob. My 25 year old son is in Jerusalem. You can ask me a more formed question.
@wannabrew8718 Sure, try to form a sentence. I recommend that if you have a question, attempt to form a sentence.
@jacovawernett3077 I agree with Susan brown. Your comment is idiotic. Peace
The fact that her views are considered heretical only proves how insane things have become.
Yeah I agree with the majority buts it’s fucked up how she thinks only men can rape
I'm a groundskeeper and work out of a Maintenance Shop. There are 2 of us women and 7 men and now we are in the prime of planting season another 10 seasonal men. I know without a doubt that some of the manual labor is heavy-duty and too heavy of work for me. Fortunately, the men are always willing to help us women out. Lol 😄
It's so nice to listen to a sensible, calm interview from a sensible, calm person, I am so sick of the stupidty on other channels spouting such mad crazy ideals, love your programme its so much better to watch than the crazy tv media, with people never being truthful, keep up your much needed normality, on your programme
I wrote about 4 years ago, that the trans issue will be solved by women. Men are just not incentivized to make that fight, we don't have as much to loose as women, they just hadn't realized that back then.
Here it goes!! It started.
I also stated 4 years ago, that when women realize how dangerous this is to them, their retalliation will be absolutely brutal to the trans at one point.
We have always known how dangerous it was, but it was hard to be heard as they have power in high places and try to shut us down, but it was the coming for the kids that was there undoing. But the stupid women that go along with this are our biggest enemy.
Good point. Oh the irony. We've fought for generations and thought we were getting somewhere...
Oh yes. It will be.
Men have been feminized for quite some time, I feel. They are shunned when they stand up for women or show any real strength. So I don't feel women need to inpune men more. We all need to stand up to what is "right" and "just" to our neighbors. The strong men would have corrected the weak ones using trans to get at women. But we won't let them.
There are loads of women for ages who have realised this is the case for ages and have sounded the alarm. But nobody cared and were told there such a small majority why care. Men I believe to have a part to play because it’s men that are going into toilets and some the women affected are your wife or daughter.
Julie is a brilliant woman, I don't agree with everything the feminist movement stands for, but she is one of the very few advocates that has stood up for women's rights I know of. ❤
Thank you for that interesting and illuminating interview. Julie Bindel is blunt, honest, and an inspiration. Everything she says makes so much sense. I say this as a 64-year-old heterosexual man.
I’ve never understood how you can be punished for a phobia. Something you are afraid of??!!
WHY is the word RAPE being disallowed - it is not a dirty word, it is not a cuss word, it is not offensive - it is a descriptive word of a violent action by one person on another person be it male towards a female, male, towards another male, a female towards a male. WHY sensor it.
It’s a trigger word for many and so unfortunately people being dipsheets will complain about being “sensitive” to it. We wouldn’t be here If people didn’t get offended by everything
youtube makes us do it. it's insane.
@@andrewgoldhereticswhy is TH-cam making you censor these words?
@@Stumpybear7640 They're ridiculous!
@@andrewgoldheretics No other channel censors like this, they just say 'rape' when they need to 🤷♀
What a wonderful woman she knows her stuff thank you for trying to keep women safe
I agree 100% with everything except for her saying, that women cannot commit rape. !!! But in the manner she is speaking of she is correct. And the gab in-between female rapists and male rapists is like comparing Jupiter to half of our moon!!!!!
Yes, a majority of domestic violence is committed by men. However, as a man I have been the victim of domestic violence from my ex wife (she was prosecuted).
My solicitor (soon to be ex-solicitor) said 'You're big enough to look after yourself' which wasn't very helpful or even true.
Also it is true that SOME mothers will lie and try every trick to prevent the children's father from getting visitation or custody of the kids. There needs to be balance in the arguments here.
To add to the balance:
just because more reports about crimes occur, doesn't mean what was reported was actually a crime. So to say that because more abuse is reported doesn't have to cause more convictions. They correlate, but they aren't fully causation.
I would imagine that was more difficult to prove to. In my experience many men say nothing.
That part of the conversation annoyed me and showed the toxicity within feminism. Men are indeed victims of DV as well, to a lesser degree but more prevalent than we are led to believe. The family courts are extremely biased towards women. Decent fathers are being stopped from seeing their children and bled dry by the mother and the court system.
@@jemmah4723 Yes. It's fairly common that even when a father gets granted good access / visitation, the ex moves to the other end of the country with the children thereby pretty much stopping them seeing the kids.
I was fortunate in that I got 50/50 custody of my children because they asked for it - The judge "didn't like the arrangement" for some stupid reason, but had no choice but to listen to the children's wishes.
Still had to pay my ex child support, even though we had equal custody, because the CSA calculation is also biased against men too.
Oh my god this is not about you!! Typical man to come in and make it all about you. Go away!
I’m a transsexual male, and I was four when I didn’t have a word for what I painfully went through for too many years and later in life I received much relief that lesbians was a thing and I could still be a female and be with other females brought me much relief mentally bc I thought as a child when I grow up I could never be loved by a female if I was female- so at such a young age I didn’t understand what homosexuality was and as I aged I read everything I could read to better understand my feelings of being in the wrong body- and absolutely nothing was wrong with my body, as females go, I was above normal in looks, but I didn’t identify with being female- and as a kid I got into religion, I fought against my feelings and I sought therapy for numerous years and still couldn’t fight this feeling that I should have been born male-and finally as and adult I had surgeries, one of many and was finally able to breathe- I will and cannot ever be a man but I at least can now identify with the man I see reflecting in the mirror. And that was several years ago, now as a man in transsexual male of sixty I am very happy with my appearance and my problems today are not about my appearance but just problems that arise in normal life- I am hugely against transsexual men in women safe places or incarcerated in women’s places if they still have their penis- or are not authentically transsexual but are men trying to be in women spaces for nefarious reasons- or trans-trenders because true transsexual are such a very small number, when I was growing up I didn’t know one other person whom felt as I did and suffered from-when I grew up I grew up as a Thom boy and as I entered teen years was still dressing masculine, and into adulthood still dressed masculine but in my adulthood I was able to transition so all I had to change was shoes as my feet grew two inches- my male friends didn’t change my habits or life style did not change- and if you looked at me today you would never know I am biologically female and I traverse the world as a man- and I can die knowing I am finally at peace with my appearance and how I am looked upon in public and alone
Leave lesbians alone you sick freak, no lesbian wants a biological male, that's rape rhetoric you are just an agp pervert and a heterosexual man.
Every preteen and teenager on the planet goes through an attention seeking faze. The difference with this, is that the adults start taking them seriously and start acting upon their attention seeking. I’m fully aware that there is such a thing as gender dysphoria but the real figures are very low. In Spain there was a case that a wife left her husband because of domestic violence and ran to a shelter. He followed her, and because he said he identified as a woman was able to gain access. Where on earth does this end?
DV shelters should exclude violent women, too. They aren't for *all* women. It's just an assumption that XX chromosomes (or legal definition of "woman") gets you through the door. Women who are violent don't get in. If they have older children who are aggressive, they don't get in either. It's sad but necessary, and more necessary now than it used to be.
There's a massive range of gender dysphoria that's a normal part of growing up. Most people develop a resilience when they grow up in societies that don't sexualise and adultify children.
This is a great discussion 😊 I wish Feminists was stand up for women who want to be stay at home mums ✌️☺️
Why can't you stand up for yourselves?
Among the Summer help at the Cemetery: "Theresa you can't drive the dumptruck you're a girl." (Big whoop i have a hard time climbing into it anyway I'm really short)
Alfred drives the dumptruck to said dump and backs it over a cliff. 👍 I'll just keep cutting the grass and burying people. I'm too short to work the jackhammer neither. 😅
Julie makes a lot of sense. My daughter has two friends who have transitioned. One who has had top surgery and put on testosterone. He is happy but is aware of his limitations - could not enter into male halls of residence at university. I hope he will be happy and successful in his life going forward.
What a lovely, sensible, intelligent person Julie is. I’m a fan now.😊😊😊
I am absolutely concerned and I am fearful for my daughters and granddaughters. It is a struggle just to get through life without being preyed upon, sexually harnessed and sexually interfered. I experienced this all before the age of 16. I try not to even think of the number of occasions this all occurred. There has been rape and even pregnancy because of rape, in women I know. I am very fond of men in general but I always try to stay safe and only men have penises!! I don’t want anything to do with their penis except by my choice. Baby boys become men and baby girls become women. The End
Technically, baby boys become monsters... evidently.
I'm getting so sick of this conversation. The whole damn thing revolves around a coopting of the word "woman". Some weird nut jobs (apparently with infinite amounts of activist energy) are saying that you are whatever you want to say you are. So, in that context, if you are a man who says you are a woman then you ARE a woman ..... BY THE NEW DEFINITION of what a woman is. Maybe this is too subtle for some people to get? The whole thing is just a debate about the definition of the word "woman". And we're constantly getting derailed off of this main point.
It's not just a debate over language, unfortunately. There is a lot of magical thinking going on in activist-types, and they're not all honest people. They change language on the fly to confuse and manipulate others (the motte and bailey strategy), and they know they're doing it. But many of them also have irrational and inconsistent beliefs about the things they lie about. It's been noticed "woke" seems like a cult, and that's because it is. It shouldn't be surprising that the cult contains people with irrational and self-contradictory beliefs ("trans women are women," for example).
I agree. So long as the definition is clear there is no need for any disagreement
Superb conversation. Thank you.
I absolutely agree that it’s the biggest medical scandal in a long time. People once thought lobotomies were a good idea.
Keep up the great work Andrew going from strength to strength with the channel! ❤
My ex is now a Trans woman, he's had the full op including having his hairline moved and Adams apple shaved. I would never call him a female and he doesn't expect me to. Not all Trans want to take womans rights.
But they all do when they do what shouldn’t be allowed ever.
It’s but about what you think because they went and got that operation themselves. And I’m pretty sure they don’t care how you refer to them because y’all are not together anymore. It seems your bitter passive aggressive because you couldn’t use them for money anymore or force them to fulfill a role in your life they living their life while your venting to strangers who could care less
@@averrryuse them? Don't care how you refer to them? ...here's me thinking how "they" are referred to is the whole point of this dialogue ..? I might be muddled though
Yes but they are all delusional
@@AutomaticDuck300 here here, to that can people stop acting like it’s just fine and dandy to be a pathological liar.