How to take control of your life with small choices | POM 2

The best way to win an argument is to avoid it.
Sure, you can 'win' it.
But by 'winning' it, you will only have made an enemy full of resentment.
And when it comes to family, there is too little life to hold grudges.
Why let the fact that they may have had a bad day affect the way you interact with them?
When you argue back, they 'confirm' a truth to themselves that wasn't really true before: They are angry at you.
When you smile through their criticisms, you allow them to reflect and look on the inside.
Learn to utilise this gap, between stimulus and response: The freedom to choose.
With each small choice, and big change is being made.
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