Yes! I believe the Maya Angelou quote, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." No one is perfect, but there are people out there who want permanent grace for their red-flag traits and are not working on changing them. Women must stop being rehabilitation centres for broken men who do not wish to fix/heal themselves. No, I did not say men because most of the time, it is women I see holding onto dead relationships that are draining them (no, that doesn't mean men don't, but odds are a woman will stay and try to hold onto good memories)
IT'S SOOOOO REFRESHIG TO HEAR & SEE OTHER WOMEN WHO HAVE OL SKOOL STANDARDS & BOUNDARIES LIKE MYSELF IN THIS DAY & AGE!!!!! YASSSSSSSS!!!! I appreciated this girl talk frfr!!!!!!
You’re right, love isn’t one-sided. I have a son and a daughter. I don’t want either of them to be mistreated nor used as a utility. My prayer is for both of them to acquire a teammate as their love interest. Together, a man and a woman can magic happen. Mutual respect.
This was a great discussion! Keep spreading your light and positivity. People have to understand that women’s empowerment doesn’t mean that we are negating men, but it’s about uplifting women to see the Queens that they are. Learning to love and support each other rather than tearing each other down.
Loved this conversation these men want to be the females so bad the dating world is 🗑️ and everything is sexualized or nobody wants to be committed just want to be situationships or women going after the 💰 and the men don't even have to work for it anymore yes Toya and drea can we have more of these talks
Good conversation Toya! I really needed to hear it as well. Pay these dusty ass pick me’s that’s obsessed with your daughter past relationship dust! You say what you want, when you want to your children! I wish I had a mother like you. My mom isn’t open and we don’t talk but I love the relationship you have with yours. Keep living, being blessed, and elevating! Most women have been through things throughout our life and we know exactly what you are saying and we get it! Those that don’t, they don’t. We ❤ ya Toya!
So refreshing to hear a lady speak about the ways women should be carrying themselves. This is how I was raised, and I have always been respected. My husband complimented me so much about how I carried myself when we started dating. He told me on our first date that he was going to marry me, and here we are going on 10 years of marriage, and 15 years of loving each other. You don't have to give or show a man everything you have when you first meet him. Make him ponder over you, desire to be around you, think about your smile while he's at work, etc. The right man will happily wait until you are ready to be intimate with him. He will adore you even more for having morals and values. This is also what I teach my son to look for in a woman.
I agree, relationships don't last because we are always ready to move on to the next thing. The next shiny, brighter and prettier/handsome , man/woman. We understood what you meant by representative!!! We is smart, 😃. But happy you elaborated further for the folks that lack comprehension skills (Aunties & Teeny Boopers ya'll heard her?! 😂😂😂🙄). What Rihanna said, " 🎶 How about a round of applause and standing ovation. You put on quiet a show, very entertaining. Curtains finally closing, now it's time go. It is over now. Go on and take a bow 🎶"
Okay if Toya had a SON I am sure she would have had the same values for her son. Being that she only have DAUGHTERS she can only speak of what she state to HER KIDS. Y’all making it an issue when it don’t have to be. Men know they are prize but she don’t have to state it because it DONT PERTAIN TO HER. It’s a shame women can’t have conversations about their experiences without yall problematic people finding an issue with things she is teaching HER DAUGHTERS. The values she is instilling in HER DAUGHTERS. Goodness she can’t even make a positive video without people being negative.
I LITERALLY COULD NOT AGREE MORE, Toya. I’m 30, but I fully believe and agree with everything you said….and I get a lot of push back when I try to tell people around my age these same exact things. These “men” are just terrible and want to be treated like women, and women are constantly being loose and giving men access to things they never earned just because he put a heart eyes emoji on a comment or something. They don’t have to work for anything and women mistakenly believe being promiscuous is giving them power. It’s a mess out here and unfortunately because this is the new normal, I most likely won’t find anyone. It’s crazy out here trying to date and I quit lol. Looks like I’ll be the single and child free auntie forever because I can’t take it no mo’!!!
I agree and want to add I feel we as female need to learn how to speak to our person. We can’t cuss them out and expect them to treat us like princess. It’s ok one-two x because you learning. After that you being disrespectful but refuse to apologize 😂
GM Toya, I truly enjoyed this video and you were talking all FACTS!!!! And I hope there will be young ladies who will watch this video. Grown women knew exactly what you meant by REPRESENTIVE!!!!! Because we all have been there and done that for sure! You are a beautiful woman, wife, mother,sister and daughter! Keep INSTILLING the KNOWLEDGE and LESSONS you learn into your DAUGHTERS regardless of who disagrees! Your LIFE your FAMILY. ❤❤❤❤
I was not going to comment until Toya said back in the day people really worked thru their problems and now they just give up and say "next". Remember,she told Reginae to not work on her relationship with Armon and just say "next". This convo she had on you tube surrounding their reality show when Reginae shared her breakup with Armon.
@@Plantbasedlife248I understood fully and that’s exactly what she was saying! Reciprocating energy and she explained what she meant about a Representative and there was no shade in what she said at all periodt! 💯
This is her POV, and I respect her right to express it. I agree with some things and disagree with others. I have sons and a daughter. I taught them all about being respectful, commanding respect, carrying themselves with class in both their actions and appearance, love who loves and respects them, be financially responsible, choose your equal, etc. I think everyone represents the best version of themselves in the beginning. People with a known past can sometimes learn from their mistakes and change, and some people will still view them the same. Some people have a reputation for being kind and respectful, and people will continue to see them that way. At the end of the day, we can teach our children, but they will decide for themselves how to shape their own family that they build, including the spouse they choose. I think you have to have some in your friend circle who think differently from you to prevent blind spots. Sometimes. you don't know what you don't know. Respect your POV, but also respect those who see things differently.
Loved this conversation so so much miss Toya ! We as mothers, teenagers, girlfriends, wives, young adults can all learn from these life "gems" you shared. Love to see it ❤
I'll be 55 on November 1st! Happy birthday fellow Scorpio! I have two sons (they are 20 and 22) and I have always taught them to respect everyone, especially themselves and women. I also believe that women are the prize. The bible says, "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing" and that's simply saying women are the prize and men who find the prize (a wife) will be favored. I feel so bad for this generation. It seems like they don't really value marriage anymore. I pray that my sons find wives before they have children.
I knew what you meant by representative . You didn’t even have to explain . Glad you did for the slow ones. I’ve ran across a few in my time . Toya you’re a great mom. Nae and Reign are blessed to have you . This was an awesome Vlog . People like to throw your past in your face . But Toya Johnson had to grow through some bad ones to get to her one . Stop acting like you all don’t know how it goes . I LOVE YOU TOYA! Always keeping it 💯
Toya, you are most definitely on point, when I was your age I was preaching the same things to young women. I hope they hear ya...Please do me 1 favor? that nice breakfast looked so healthy until you shook the salt, please put that shaker down. People stayed on me about it and now that I'm in my 50's I'm paying for it. I began working on being more aware of my salt intake in my 40's, but it was too late. I am now on low dose of high blood pressure pills. The great thing is I can get away with not taking them all of the time because of my diet awareness, but I haven't figured out a way to not take them at all. I don't like man made medicines, but I did it to myself because I needed that Flavor. Much love Sista🙏🏽🙌🏽
Loved the vlog! We need more of these. Can't wait to see what you are working on for 2024. I really liked hearing about the values and lessons you are sharing with your daughters, and I can see these in Reginae. Please keep having these conversations because I've learned a lot more women would benefit from valuing themselves in all aspects of their lives.
Nowhere in this vlog was it said men should not be valued . This was a vlog with three women speaking from their experience as women. Toya spoke about her daughters. We know men can be the “prize” because no woman who values herself wants a dud. But based on some of the comments I’m starting to see why some of these men expect to be chased😅
Selective hearing, and women not truly valuing themselves and/or not being valued by men. Love Toya, what she stands for and how she raised Nae to be so confident ❤
@@samantham9056yes it was selective hearing! But we all know why the ones that are speaking negatively are over here trying to tell her what she can and cant say to her own children. There was nothing wrong with this conversation. When did it turn into this? It was so beautiful and peaceful at first. I’m tired
@@MariaT0330 I would be sooo embarrassed if I was some of these older women acting like this over a 20 something year old. Some are so disgusting they have shown they are lusting, real women, beautiful women would not be doing all this. if you don’t like Toya and Nae DONT watch, simple smh
@@samantham9056 thank you! It’s disgusting the way they behave especially on Twitter. I mean majority of his fanbase are 40 and over and they lusting after a 26 year old that wouldn’t spit on them if they was on fire. In other words, he don’t want y’all!! 😂😂 I am not a fan of his (my choice, I’m grown) but you never catch me on his pages or his family and friends bashing him. Again, I chose not to support so I don’t watch! Simple
@@MariaT0330 You have said nothing but facts, its pathetic, you support who you want, but like you said us real women don’t have time to go on no one page hating. These old women should be sooo embarrassed, I cringe for them, have some respect for yourself, you are older than his mother lusting over him, yuck. Enjoy your weekend sis ❤️
Thank you toya for this girl talk vlog I love you ❤ keep doing you're thang with WNM and beforebedheads I will forever support you and you're daughters
Yes Toya I totally agree. If i have to keep expressing the same thing over and over to you and you not doing anything to fix it then I have to go. Exactly one of the biggest reasons I walked away from my marriage. I gave it all I could so there was no regrets either.
I had a similar conversation about most of these topics, especially sex being so easily accessible. That is so true 💯. But you definitely married the right person this time that man loves and respects you. He treats you like the Queen you are and I love that for you. 🙏🏽
Thats why i have always looked up to you when it comes to dating and standing on business.....all women should have your mentality....im taking notes baby❤❤❤
Toya keep it 100 💯 are you holding it down 10 toes strong long for your man❤100. Yall bond is genuine real and respectful and open communication towards each other and don’t let no negative toxic parts to say anything because y’all opinion matters towards y’all❤.toya the fact that you come on TH-cam and give TH-cam a little bit of what you wanna give them but outside of the U2 world you you have a strong bond towards your man and you do what you Gotta do is still be that go get a hustler, independent woman that you are. Toya Regina the independent strong woman that she is keep it 10 toes down, but always stay true to what you have taught her to believe in her bond, the legacy that you built and she’s making her own. thank you for giving her the independence. Thank you for letting to bring on this platform a legacy happy raw uncut videos like this because we need videos like this to help us young ladies and I’m only 33 years old. I have no kids but I love when you post I love how you speak true facts and honest honesty and thank you for being honest thank you for being raw and uncut real. Thank you, tell your mom I’m looking for the beignets when she dropped the videos. I’m looking for it and I love you for being raw uncut in real. Thank you. Toya Johnson 💯 💯 ❤
Why would women send a drink to a man at the club 😂 that’s a perfect example of you not giving them the chance to approach you if he don’t approach maybe he not interested in you
Good day ladies, this world is different we expect old ways with new habits with men and women . Men don't pay bills like grandpa use to, they are OK with women footing the bill on dates. They are ok with women taking on masculine roles. Women are not moving like women, the respect for self is no longer there. They are not taking care home like grandma. We are excepting less and wishing for the best. Time has changed and not for the best. Prayer raising your children the best you can with respect and teach them how to pray. Smh sad but this conversation needs to be had. Be blessed
I to agree wirh you Toya. We dont try to work through our problems. So quick to divorce, But!!! U got yo know when to hold and when to fold!! Lesson learned for me!! I holded, lol! Too long!
I love that Toya said “im a wife”. That’s exactly how i feel about myself so i refuse to settle. But i believe the dynamics of dating changed with social media and the words in music. Music is a lot less lovey dovey and more self-centered now days.
Toya you are a VERY WISE, YOUNG LADY! A REAL MAN GONNA COME AFTER YOU, IF RHEY WANT U. THE MAN RHAT GAVW HER THAT ADVIDE IS TEACHING U RO BE RHURSRY. EXACLY A LOT OF THIRTY WOMEN, MAKES IT HARD FOR THE GOOD WOMEN
I Love This Video I Wish Toya And Her Friends Do Some More Like Thes Y'all Spiting A Lot Of Wisdom I Just Hope A Lot Of These Young Ladies Are Listening God Bless 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😇😇😇😇💯
I agree with the nagging part. If I’m expressing it to you then it’s seriously bothering me. Please acknowledge it and don’t dismiss it. SMHHHH. Let’s work on the problem. Loved this conversation
amazing beautiful video and I rate a 20 out of 20 because I love watching positive love between beautiful daughter and mom I will always support both of them because they are amazing beautifully queens together with each other ❤️🌹🌹💯 percent
This was great conversation. I lost my husband 5 years ago and at 53 I’m not looking to date or get married anymore. We were married for 17 years,he was my person.
This is grown woman talking I'm 59 and you are right to set boundaries you have found your King 👑 I can see the Love between you and Mr Rushing 💕💕💕💕💕💕 I'm proud of your Growth God bless you and Mr Rushing on your journey 🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜
In a relationship both are the prize Men and Women. As mothers it is important to teach our daughters how to treat men as well as how to expect to be treated. Nobody should be worshipped but everyone should be Valued. It’s not a competition.
Yes and teach sons how to treat women. Seems like the people in the comments are the only people who are making it a competition. I also notice people making it about a past relationship as if these women do not have their own experiences to base this conversation on.
I know as a woman, sometimes we have to take a look in the mirror and know when we’re the problem in the relationship! and need to apply that same energy on ourselves! We have to know the difference. Great conversation!
I have been married twice also Toya.... I say to myself also I am wifey material. I do say i will not do it again. I also say to myself stop saying that over you and claim your soulmate. He is out there just claim it over yourself and believe it!!!
I agree with this show each other the same love & respect dnt play with one another feelings. As a mother of a boy they have to learn how to show emtions more. So with that being said, he's also a king and shall be treated as one. He must know this walk in it daily, and he will be respected as one. Me and my husband started off friends engaged married 11years now had him (only2 right now) its a way to show love for your self 1st then others can see and will do the same. Husband told me women who are easy dnt turn me on its those who respect them selves that shows and they not influenced easily. Those with no fight will snacth anyone im a king i need my Queen.A lot of women (lil girls) dnt want to have a certain kind of man approach them( sofft) but want a certain kind to talk to them in a different manor(rough). if y'all get it u do if not ok. but we all need to respect and show one another love as Queens & Kings.
I always tell you this but I can literally listen to you talk all day,it’s so refreshing to hear grown folk talk without sugarcoating or being biase❤ keep it coming girl
Im Waiting to See Season 2 Cause Toya Talk About Real Life Problems , Family, Beauty, Health, Realtionship/ Marry IN Single , A Mother Role IN children Were Lot People Dont Wont Talk about Or Scare But There NO Perfect Family, Nor Realtionship PERFECT ❤ This
WOW! Men don’t approach women anymore!!! That’s crazy!! I’ve been married for 18 years!! Things have changed! I would never approach a man…what’s going on!!
This was cool nxt vlog we wld like you to have the same topic with Monica, Reginae zonique , tiny. The main challenge for this generation is communication, respect, egotism,pride. Good conversation 👏👏👏👏👍👍👌👌
Good morning ☕️Queen’s ❤ he was for you sweetheart🥂🍾. I dated my husband for five years and married for forty years. We had our ups and downs keeping it 💯. And still going strong 🙏🏽. I’m so happy for you 💝🙏🏽.
Nowadays, these men are something. Respect and have patience and boundaries and no with any gentleman you ain’t sharing. a real man gonna be a man no questions ask you stay strong he stay in so strong long as y’all are honest and ask and honest questions and keep it down and keeping your word 💯. Is it is that gentleman he gonna stay true and be open with his true woman no questions ask.
Gm Toya it’s good seeing and Toya this was Def and amazing good Convo keep thes vids coming Toya speaking facts💯❤️ & light. An I love transparent and it’s Great Tht You found Real,❤️ and you both just look great and Look At God he’s answer your prayers keep doing wat you guys are doing. But the key is Communication and growth and prayer together . I ❤️ being married it’s 25 years for us so yeah. You & Red got this thanks for vid ❤️ & light. Peace and blessings and happiness and keep on Manifest prosperity Amen P.s. continue to stand I. Your Happiness & Purpose
Great rising sun ☀️ as the Aries I’m 33 years old and I work at Kroger Union City and I’m just be very blunt and honest I’ve been watching you for the longest you from New Orleans but how do you know when you got a general general friend I’m loyal, respectable honest I’m a go get. I always put God first so my question is I’ve been asking to friends to me and I would like to become your friend Toya and yall reginea and beey friendship and learn from y’all and understand to have a great friendship as with your whole as a unit family y’all keep it ten ton down in your treasure each other’s opinions each of those you know devices. it 100% real yeah made debate but y’all family. Ps . Toya please 🙏 tell mama Nita to make the New Orleans gumbo soup and those beignets please and thank you because I love you some beignets from New Orleans but I’m from Brooklyn New York
@@BrittanyRover me too!! I’m tired of it! They stalk Nae, her family, and friends looking for any mention of ole boy (even though NO ONE has utter his name in a month) and try to defend him. It’s insane! I don’t care for him anymore therefore I don’t pay attention to him or anybody affiliated with him! It’s that simple!
Yes! I believe the Maya Angelou quote, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." No one is perfect, but there are people out there who want permanent grace for their red-flag traits and are not working on changing them. Women must stop being rehabilitation centres for broken men who do not wish to fix/heal themselves. No, I did not say men because most of the time, it is women I see holding onto dead relationships that are draining them (no, that doesn't mean men don't, but odds are a woman will stay and try to hold onto good memories)
IT'S SOOOOO REFRESHIG TO HEAR & SEE OTHER WOMEN WHO HAVE OL SKOOL STANDARDS & BOUNDARIES LIKE MYSELF IN THIS DAY & AGE!!!!! YASSSSSSSS!!!! I appreciated this girl talk frfr!!!!!!
You’re right, love isn’t one-sided. I have a son and a daughter. I don’t want either of them to be mistreated nor used as a utility. My prayer is for both of them to acquire a teammate as their love interest. Together, a man and a woman can magic happen. Mutual respect.
This was a great discussion! Keep spreading your light and positivity. People have to understand that women’s empowerment doesn’t mean that we are negating men, but it’s about uplifting women to see the Queens that they are. Learning to love and support each other rather than tearing each other down.
Loved this conversation these men want to be the females so bad the dating world is 🗑️ and everything is sexualized or nobody wants to be committed just want to be situationships or women going after the 💰 and the men don't even have to work for it anymore yes Toya and drea can we have more of these talks
Good conversation Toya! I really needed to hear it as well. Pay these dusty ass pick me’s that’s obsessed with your daughter past relationship dust! You say what you want, when you want to your children! I wish I had a mother like you. My mom isn’t open and we don’t talk but I love the relationship you have with yours. Keep living, being blessed, and elevating! Most women have been through things throughout our life and we know exactly what you are saying and we get it! Those that don’t, they don’t. We ❤ ya Toya!
This girl talk gave me so much perspective on things , I needed this . Thank you ladies for keeping it real 💗
So refreshing to hear a lady speak about the ways women should be carrying themselves. This is how I was raised, and I have always been respected. My husband complimented me so much about how I carried myself when we started dating. He told me on our first date that he was going to marry me, and here we are going on 10 years of marriage, and 15 years of loving each other. You don't have to give or show a man everything you have when you first meet him. Make him ponder over you, desire to be around you, think about your smile while he's at work, etc. The right man will happily wait until you are ready to be intimate with him. He will adore you even more for having morals and values. This is also what I teach my son to look for in a woman.
I agree, relationships don't last because we are always ready to move on to the next thing. The next shiny, brighter and prettier/handsome , man/woman.
We understood what you meant by representative!!! We is smart, 😃. But happy you elaborated further for the folks that lack comprehension skills (Aunties & Teeny Boopers ya'll heard her?! 😂😂😂🙄). What Rihanna said, " 🎶 How about a round of applause and standing ovation. You put on quiet a show, very entertaining. Curtains finally closing, now it's time go. It is over now. Go on and take a bow 🎶"
Okay if Toya had a SON I am sure she would have had the same values for her son. Being that she only have DAUGHTERS she can only speak of what she state to HER KIDS. Y’all making it an issue when it don’t have to be. Men know they are prize but she don’t have to state it because it DONT PERTAIN TO HER. It’s a shame women can’t have conversations about their experiences without yall problematic people finding an issue with things she is teaching HER DAUGHTERS. The values she is instilling in HER DAUGHTERS. Goodness she can’t even make a positive video without people being negative.
👏🏾Thank you! People are just miserable and look for anything to complain about.
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The thumbnail is Reginae all day! She’s looking more and more like you! Just beautiful! ❤❤❤❤
I LITERALLY COULD NOT AGREE MORE, Toya. I’m 30, but I fully believe and agree with everything you said….and I get a lot of push back when I try to tell people around my age these same exact things. These “men” are just terrible and want to be treated like women, and women are constantly being loose and giving men access to things they never earned just because he put a heart eyes emoji on a comment or something. They don’t have to work for anything and women mistakenly believe being promiscuous is giving them power. It’s a mess out here and unfortunately because this is the new normal, I most likely won’t find anyone. It’s crazy out here trying to date and I quit lol. Looks like I’ll be the single and child free auntie forever because I can’t take it no mo’!!!
I agree and want to add I feel we as female need to learn how to speak to our person. We can’t cuss them out and expect them to treat us like princess. It’s ok one-two x because you learning. After that you being disrespectful but refuse to apologize 😂
lol Toya that representative word don’t sit right with these folks.🤣 But we the people get it.
That representative word sends them in an uproar every time 🤣
@@candycandy9098They’ll be okay..They just need to drink some water.🤣
GM Toya, I truly enjoyed this video and you were talking all FACTS!!!! And I hope there will be young ladies who will watch this video. Grown women knew exactly what you meant by REPRESENTIVE!!!!! Because we all have been there and done that for sure! You are a beautiful woman, wife, mother,sister and daughter! Keep INSTILLING the KNOWLEDGE and LESSONS you learn into your DAUGHTERS regardless of who disagrees! Your LIFE your FAMILY. ❤❤❤❤
Enjoyed the conversation. Our generation definitely needs this
I was not going to comment until Toya said back in the day people really worked thru their problems and now they just give up and say "next". Remember,she told Reginae to not work on her relationship with Armon and just say "next". This convo she had on you tube surrounding their reality show when Reginae shared her breakup with Armon.
@@Vickie-kc8fd is that what she said or did she talk about reciprocating energy?
@@Plantbasedlife248I understood fully and that’s exactly what she was saying! Reciprocating energy and she explained what she meant about a Representative and there was no shade in what she said at all periodt! 💯
I love how transparent toya is I felt everything you said you speak your mind your not afraid to open up and set boundaries ❤❤❤
This is her POV, and I respect her right to express it. I agree with some things and disagree with others. I have sons and a daughter. I taught them all about being respectful, commanding respect, carrying themselves with class in both their actions and appearance, love who loves and respects them, be financially responsible, choose your equal, etc. I think everyone represents the best version of themselves in the beginning. People with a known past can sometimes learn from their mistakes and change, and some people will still view them the same. Some people have a reputation for being kind and respectful, and people will continue to see them that way. At the end of the day, we can teach our children, but they will decide for themselves how to shape their own family that they build, including the spouse they choose. I think you have to have some in your friend circle who think differently from you to prevent blind spots. Sometimes. you don't know what you don't know. Respect your POV, but also respect those who see things differently.
Loved this conversation so so much miss Toya ! We as mothers, teenagers, girlfriends, wives, young adults can all learn from these life "gems" you shared. Love to see it ❤
Toya this was definitely a good conversation. Can’t wait to see what you have in store for 2024 and this new generation.
Great conversation Toya speaking the truth 💯 always been transparent and speaking her mind ❤
And that’s the problem , in this generation everyone thinks everyone is replaceable. Toya be spitting facts💖
I'll be 55 on November 1st! Happy birthday fellow Scorpio! I have two sons (they are 20 and 22) and I have always taught them to respect everyone, especially themselves and women. I also believe that women are the prize. The bible says, "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing" and that's simply saying women are the prize and men who find the prize (a wife) will be favored. I feel so bad for this generation. It seems like they don't really value marriage anymore. I pray that my sons find wives before they have children.
I knew what you meant by representative . You didn’t even have to explain . Glad you did for the slow ones. I’ve ran across a few in my time .
Toya you’re a great mom. Nae and Reign are blessed to have you . This was an awesome Vlog . People like to throw your past in your face . But Toya Johnson had to grow through some bad ones to get to her one . Stop acting like you all don’t know how it goes .
I LOVE YOU TOYA!
Always keeping it 💯
Great conversation..The young girls need to hear this for sure..
The new generation needs help! Lots of it!
That’s one thing I had to learn once a person show you multiple red flags you better run
Like ShaCarri Richardson🏃🏽♀️😂
Toya, you are most definitely on point, when I was your age I was preaching the same things to young women. I hope they hear ya...Please do me 1 favor? that nice breakfast looked so healthy until you shook the salt, please put that shaker down. People stayed on me about it and now that I'm in my 50's I'm paying for it. I began working on being more aware of my salt intake in my 40's, but it was too late. I am now on low dose of high blood pressure pills. The great thing is I can get away with not taking them all of the time because of my diet awareness, but I haven't figured out a way to not take them at all. I don't like man made medicines, but I did it to myself because I needed that Flavor. Much love Sista🙏🏽🙌🏽
Loved the vlog! We need more of these. Can't wait to see what you are working on for 2024. I really liked hearing about the values and lessons you are sharing with your daughters, and I can see these in Reginae. Please keep having these conversations because I've learned a lot more women would benefit from valuing themselves in all aspects of their lives.
I loved this video. You got the ding bats on twitter going crazy lol. Know your worth and know you are the PRIZE.
Chile they need oxygen tanks..breathe bih!😂
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Great communication brings more understanding and openness to both sides' feelings 🙌 ❤
Nowhere in this vlog was it said men should not be valued . This was a vlog with three women speaking from their experience as women. Toya spoke about her daughters. We know men can be the “prize” because no woman who values herself wants a dud. But based on some of the comments I’m starting to see why some of these men expect to be chased😅
Selective hearing, and women not truly valuing themselves and/or not being valued by men. Love Toya, what she stands for and how she raised Nae to be so confident ❤
@@samantham9056yes it was selective hearing! But we all know why the ones that are speaking negatively are over here trying to tell her what she can and cant say to her own children. There was nothing wrong with this conversation. When did it turn into this? It was so beautiful and peaceful at first. I’m tired
@@MariaT0330 I would be sooo embarrassed if I was some of these older women acting like this over a 20 something year old. Some are so disgusting they have shown they are lusting, real women, beautiful women would not be doing all this. if you don’t like Toya and Nae DONT watch, simple smh
@@samantham9056 thank you! It’s disgusting the way they behave especially on Twitter. I mean majority of his fanbase are 40 and over and they lusting after a 26 year old that wouldn’t spit on them if they was on fire. In other words, he don’t want y’all!! 😂😂 I am not a fan of his (my choice, I’m grown) but you never catch me on his pages or his family and friends bashing him. Again, I chose not to support so I don’t watch! Simple
@@MariaT0330 You have said nothing but facts, its pathetic, you support who you want, but like you said us real women don’t have time to go on no one page hating. These old women should be sooo embarrassed, I cringe for them, have some respect for yourself, you are older than his mother lusting over him, yuck. Enjoy your weekend sis ❤️
Thank you toya for this girl talk vlog I love you ❤ keep doing you're thang with WNM and beforebedheads I will forever support you and you're daughters
Yes Toya I totally agree. If i have to keep expressing the same thing over and over to you and you not doing anything to fix it then I have to go. Exactly one of the biggest reasons I walked away from my marriage. I gave it all I could so there was no regrets either.
Absolutely agree because I did the same period point blank 💪🏾🫶🏽
I had a similar conversation about most of these topics, especially sex being so easily accessible. That is so true 💯. But you definitely married the right person this time that man loves and respects you. He treats you like the Queen you are and I love that for you. 🙏🏽
Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs to get your prince!
Thats why i have always looked up to you when it comes to dating and standing on business.....all women should have your mentality....im taking notes baby❤❤❤
Now I’m seeing how much Toya, Beedy and Nay look alike.
Toya keep it 100 💯 are you holding it down 10 toes strong long for your man❤100. Yall bond is genuine real and respectful and open communication towards each other and don’t let no negative toxic parts to say anything because y’all opinion matters towards y’all❤.toya the fact that you come on TH-cam and give TH-cam a little bit of what you wanna give them but outside of the U2 world you you have a strong bond towards your man and you do what you Gotta do is still be that go get a hustler, independent woman that you are. Toya Regina the independent strong woman that she is keep it 10 toes down, but always stay true to what you have taught her to believe in her bond, the legacy that you built and she’s making her own. thank you for giving her the independence. Thank you for letting to bring on this platform a legacy happy raw uncut videos like this because we need videos like this to help us young ladies and I’m only 33 years old. I have no kids but I love when you post I love how you speak true facts and honest honesty and thank you for being honest thank you for being raw and uncut real. Thank you, tell your mom I’m looking for the beignets when she dropped the videos. I’m looking for it and I love you for being raw uncut in real. Thank you. Toya Johnson 💯 💯 ❤
Why would women send a drink to a man at the club 😂 that’s a perfect example of you not giving them the chance to approach you if he don’t approach maybe he not interested in you
Good day ladies, this world is different we expect old ways with new habits with men and women . Men don't pay bills like grandpa use to, they are OK with women footing the bill on dates. They are ok with women taking on masculine roles. Women are not moving like women, the respect for self is no longer there. They are not taking care home like grandma. We are excepting less and wishing for the best. Time has changed and not for the best. Prayer raising your children the best you can with respect and teach them how to pray. Smh sad but this conversation needs to be had. Be blessed
I feel you Toya I'm going through that now
This conversation was definitely needed. I’m looking forward to more glam talk!
Toya do more videos like this it’s refreshing ❤
Toya you should start a mentoring program like ages 9-18
I to agree wirh you Toya. We dont try to work through our problems. So quick to divorce, But!!! U got yo know when to hold and when to fold!! Lesson learned for me!! I holded, lol! Too long!
Yes! That's the key
I love that Toya said “im a wife”. That’s exactly how i feel about myself so i refuse to settle. But i believe the dynamics of dating changed with social media and the words in music. Music is a lot less lovey dovey and more self-centered now days.
Respect yourself❤️🙏🏾
Facts! 💯Condoms sales sure did go down. I missed the good ol fashioned love days
Toya you are a VERY WISE, YOUNG LADY! A REAL MAN GONNA COME AFTER YOU, IF RHEY WANT U. THE MAN RHAT GAVW HER THAT ADVIDE IS TEACHING U RO BE RHURSRY. EXACLY A LOT OF THIRTY WOMEN, MAKES IT HARD FOR THE GOOD WOMEN
I Love This Video I Wish Toya And Her Friends Do Some More Like Thes Y'all Spiting A Lot Of Wisdom I Just Hope A Lot Of These Young Ladies Are Listening God Bless 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿😇😇😇😇💯
I agree with the nagging part. If I’m expressing it to you then it’s seriously bothering me. Please acknowledge it and don’t dismiss it. SMHHHH. Let’s work on the problem. Loved this conversation
THIS IS GREAT.. I hope you’re working on a podcast! You have so much wisdom! ❤️❤️❤️
I love Toya she has so much wisdom & speak on nothing but truth. I stand on everything you saying💯
Three times coming back to watch this video….Toya these men is not no man no more n that’s why they can’t keep a relationship
amazing beautiful video and I rate a 20 out of 20 because I love watching positive love between beautiful daughter and mom I will always support both of them because they are amazing beautifully queens together with each other ❤️🌹🌹💯 percent
18:55 Girl I pray for my son like please make the right friends.
Me too!
I definitely feel where you’re coming from Toya great video and BTW your skin is absolutely beautiful 🩶
Yesssss Pretty Toya your speaking all facts❤
I love this grown up conversation ❤❤
This was great conversation. I lost my husband 5 years ago and at 53 I’m not looking to date or get married anymore. We were married for 17 years,he was my person.
"Guys don't want to approach us nomore" ..Welp, say thank you to "ME TOO"
I so enjoyed this conversation! I pray many young lady’s listen to this . Good information
Love toya !!!! Such a beautiful lady !!
This is grown woman talking I'm 59 and you are right to set boundaries you have found your King 👑 I can see the Love between you and Mr Rushing 💕💕💕💕💕💕 I'm proud of your Growth God bless you and Mr Rushing on your journey 🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜
Loved this Toya!! You need to start a podcast for this generation ❤
GREAT VLOG❤ + GREAT CONVO💯🔥
Momma T, Mr. Red has found his Rib! It's like that, and that's the way it is! 🎶🎶🎶🎶
In a relationship both are the prize Men and Women. As mothers it is important to teach our daughters how to treat men as well as how to expect to be treated. Nobody should be worshipped but everyone should be Valued. It’s not a competition.
Yes and teach sons how to treat women. Seems like the people in the comments are the only people who are making it a competition. I also notice people making it about a past relationship as if these women do not have their own experiences to base this conversation on.
No sometimes it’s only one prize
Why are y’all still stalking these people that y’all sit on Twitter all day and say y’all don’t like please go find you some peace Cookie!
Toya block this page. This is cookie she has been bashing Reginae on twitter. Also talked about your parenting skills. I have proof :)
@@tmp108oh yeah, that bat is full of it.
I know as a woman, sometimes we have to take a look in the mirror and know when we’re the problem in the relationship! and need to apply that same energy on ourselves! We have to know the difference. Great conversation!
I have been married twice also Toya.... I say to myself also I am wifey material. I do say i will not do it again. I also say to myself stop saying that over you and claim your soulmate. He is out there just claim it over yourself and believe it!!!
I agree with this show each other the same love & respect dnt play with one another feelings. As a mother of a boy they have to learn how to show emtions more. So with that being said, he's also a king and shall be treated as one. He must know this walk in it daily, and he will be respected as one. Me and my husband started off friends engaged married 11years now had him (only2 right now) its a way to show love for your self 1st then others can see and will do the same. Husband told me women who are easy dnt turn me on its those who respect them selves that shows and they not influenced easily. Those with no fight will snacth anyone im a king i need my Queen.A lot of women (lil girls) dnt want to have a certain kind of man approach them( sofft) but want a certain kind to talk to them in a different manor(rough). if y'all get it u do if not ok. but we all need to respect and show one another love as Queens & Kings.
I always tell you this but I can literally listen to you talk all day,it’s so refreshing to hear grown folk talk without sugarcoating or being biase❤ keep it coming girl
Im Waiting to See Season 2 Cause Toya Talk About Real Life Problems , Family, Beauty, Health, Realtionship/ Marry IN Single , A Mother Role IN children Were Lot People Dont Wont Talk about Or Scare But There NO Perfect Family, Nor Realtionship PERFECT ❤ This
Great conversation! ❤❤❤❤
Toya, this real good💗💫💗💫💗
There's No such thing of being a Gentleman nowadays🤨
Definitely agree for some not all
Toya speaking facts!!
Ok with the consistency Toyaaaaa ❤️
I love this Toya. Great conversations us woman need that
This is a great video. I love Toya and how she parents. 💪🏾
Love this so much!
I am the first one here Good Morning 🥰
WOW! Men don’t approach women anymore!!! That’s crazy!! I’ve been married for 18 years!! Things have changed! I would never approach a man…what’s going on!!
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Good morning 🌄, have a great day #Toyajohnson ☺️!!
LOVE this much needed convo!!!❤️
This was cool nxt vlog we wld like you to have the same topic with Monica, Reginae zonique , tiny. The main challenge for this generation is communication, respect, egotism,pride. Good conversation 👏👏👏👏👍👍👌👌
Gurl Memphis is gay. Redd is a man
Good morning ☕️Queen’s ❤ he was for you sweetheart🥂🍾. I dated my husband for five years and married for forty years. We had our ups and downs keeping it 💯. And still going strong 🙏🏽. I’m so happy for you 💝🙏🏽.
Toya I agree 💯 💯 and your consistent 💯
Great convo💯
Nowadays, these men are something. Respect and have patience and boundaries and no with any gentleman you ain’t sharing. a real man gonna be a man no questions ask you stay strong he stay in so strong long as y’all are honest and ask and honest questions and keep it down and keeping your word 💯. Is it is that gentleman he gonna stay true and be open with his true woman no questions ask.
I'm trying not to fumble a bag as well Mrs Toya 😂😂love your content as always 💜
Red flags!!! Pay attention to rhe red flags!!
Young LADIES AND OLDER, LISTEN TO TOYA!! SHES VERY WISE!!
Gm Toya it’s good seeing and Toya this was Def and amazing good Convo keep thes vids coming Toya speaking facts💯❤️ & light. An I love transparent and it’s Great Tht You found Real,❤️ and you both just look great and Look At God he’s answer your prayers keep doing wat you guys are doing. But the key is Communication and growth and prayer together . I ❤️ being married it’s 25 years for us so yeah. You & Red got this thanks for vid ❤️ & light. Peace and blessings and happiness and keep on Manifest prosperity Amen P.s. continue to stand I. Your Happiness & Purpose
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Loved the Glam Talk
Love u Toya 😊
Great rising sun ☀️ as the Aries I’m 33 years old and I work at Kroger Union City and I’m just be very blunt and honest I’ve been watching you for the longest you from New Orleans but how do you know when you got a general general friend I’m loyal, respectable honest I’m a go get. I always put God first so my question is I’ve been asking to friends to me and I would like to become your friend Toya and yall reginea and beey friendship and learn from y’all and understand to have a great friendship as with your whole as a unit family y’all keep it ten ton down in your treasure each other’s opinions each of those you know devices. it 100% real yeah made debate but y’all family. Ps . Toya please 🙏 tell mama Nita to make the New Orleans gumbo soup and those beignets please and thank you because I love you some beignets from New Orleans but I’m from Brooklyn New York
You mean the representative K Michelle warned you about when it came to Memphitz? 😢
No she meant the representative that y’all think y’all defending and got y’all over here mad in her comments. 🤣
@@BrittanyRover who?
@@BrittanyRover😂😂😂😂😂
@@MariaT0330They all get on my damn nerves Over here talking about Men being the prize and a damn representative. She said what she said!!!
@@BrittanyRover me too!! I’m tired of it! They stalk Nae, her family, and friends looking for any mention of ole boy (even though NO ONE has utter his name in a month) and try to defend him. It’s insane! I don’t care for him anymore therefore I don’t pay attention to him or anybody affiliated with him! It’s that simple!