SELENA GOMEZ ON: How To Accept Your FLAWS & IMPERFECTIONS To Love Yourself | Jay Shetty

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  • @simranology2001
    @simranology2001 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    Selena so rightly said - "There is a blessing in the breaking" which sums up everything 🥰🥰

    • @gemgen1016
      @gemgen1016 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Reminds me in her documentary, and in this speech, when she’s talking about Africa or visiting her school: it was sad to visit a school that eventually got shut down, but knowing that you connected with people, people who rose up from a metaphorical broken lake for two weeks, and still rise to teach your community that even through your pain, that connection alone she highlighted when we watching the documentary and that part, The beauty in that breaking of the school led to multiple connections worldwide of mental health, and a more fierce push towards mental health to the education level and presidential level…, even if the African branch got shut down.
      I think she was right, even in her own events and life; blessing in the breaking, and sometimes you don’t realize the blessing until we step back and realize what’s been broken.
      Thanks for capturing this beautiful quote of hers.

    • @vanessacarr6687
      @vanessacarr6687 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I LOVE HER AND I LOVE RASPAS

    • @allenwong5914
      @allenwong5914 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At the end of the day “Rejection is Prefection”

    • @SOMAA_11
      @SOMAA_11 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely

    • @roxanalatif949
      @roxanalatif949 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's a big loss for Justin that he lost Selena. I don't think he'll ever find a woman who loves him as much as she loved him. She loved him, respected him, and still respects him because after all she's done to him, she still doesn't speak ill of him or hate him. For her it is truly a victory. Justin didn't deserve Selena. Surely, Justin knows that there is no chance of him ever getting back together with her. He thought he could come back to her when he felt like it and she would forgive him as she had done so many times. Surely Selena will find her happiness and find someone who deserves it. She is wonderful and has a big soul❤❤❤

  • @Minmiumew
    @Minmiumew ปีที่แล้ว +258

    I wasn’t ever a big fan of Selena but I’ve come to realize how down to earth and real she is. She got a new fan ❤

    • @radientproductions9799
      @radientproductions9799 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      watch Only Murders In The Building , most underrated show on tv , she's so good in it :)

    • @chongkhemn
      @chongkhemn ปีที่แล้ว

      Add me too❤

    • @selenasuau2613
      @selenasuau2613 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Listen to her albums Revivile and Tara......u get some Experiance if u r in a relationship

    • @guillerminasolorio1619
      @guillerminasolorio1619 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here I never was a fan of her ❤ now I can see who she is❤❤❤

    • @carmelaes
      @carmelaes ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here, I only discovered her last week and now I am obsessed with her.

  • @perfectlessness
    @perfectlessness ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Selena is a real hero in my book, she went through a LOT and how she talks about all this is huge. Thank you Jay for bringing such amazing people for us to listen to!!

    • @emib343
      @emib343 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Many people went through even worse and never had a chance to become as rich as she did.

    • @stavrostzagarakis5139
      @stavrostzagarakis5139 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emib343 she is lucky for being rich(in my opinion well deserved) but that doesn’t make her less of a human being with her flaws. Mental illness makes us believe that our problems are bigger than other peoples problems. She is allowed to express her feelings as much as u do. Clad she did she is amazing.

    • @eirlur6748
      @eirlur6748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@emib343that's fair, she's too young when she's investing time put hard work to be one richer person today...

    • @laurieherman1215
      @laurieherman1215 ปีที่แล้ว

      Selena took a vital organ from her best friend and then ditched her right after the transplant. That's grimey on grimey on grimy shit. How would you feel if you gave a vital organ to your best friend only for them to turned around and treat it like some type of prize they won at a goddamn Fair for $10 bucks that ends up at the goodwill or in a rubbish bin. Such bs.

    • @annakatrinamagbanua4580
      @annakatrinamagbanua4580 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@laurieherman1215 UPDATE: They still are friends and are posting recent videos. Friends fall off sometimes and fight, like sibkings do but they reconcile and are now besties as ever. Keep posted. 😂😂

  • @cherylautry478
    @cherylautry478 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Selena Gomez you are so down to earth. You can tell you will never ever forget where you come from. When your in pain and hurting get excited because something really amazing fixing to happen in your life. Selena is my favorite Artist in the world 😊I admire this woman

  • @jval75816
    @jval75816 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I grew to become a fan of Selena I’m 47 my kids grew up watching her they are fans of her she is a role model that I can say to the younger generation they can look up to her she is kind and a caring woman. I pray for her health to get better and amazing things come her because she deserves it.

  • @ysmnyz
    @ysmnyz ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I genuinely adore and love this woman since I was a kid. Now I'm 25 and I look up to her even more. Who she was, who she became, who she is. She deserves the world.

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My kids grew up watching her on tv n learning sooo many educational lessons on her tv children series with the purple dinosaur ... 🦕 😀 ⭐📺🏆

  • @vibhutisahu5376
    @vibhutisahu5376 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    my god her patience enhances her voice and maturity with deep meaning😍

    • @ritahnaggs355
      @ritahnaggs355 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so incredible woman, love you

  • @ellenjones6080
    @ellenjones6080 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I was never a fan of Selena but seeing how she handles adversity and doing it on her own is so inspiring for women and she’s a role model for young girls! I hope parents are guiding their little girls that beauty is only skin deep but courage and character is even more beautiful!

    • @jaqiofalltrades
      @jaqiofalltrades 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been indifferent and really didn't follow her, just knew some hit songs. But seeing her be so vulnerable, raw, and honest is such a nice pace! Celebrities, artists, etc. are always putting on a facade for the camera and she isn't. Love the calm soul, the honesty about her mental and physical health. Really becoming a supporter of her. (Her music is still just 'ok' to me, but as a person and what she's standing for is amazing.)

  • @petra4950
    @petra4950 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I always ask myself "who has decided what's perfect and what's imperfect?
    To me, everything is perfect in its imperfection. ❤️

    • @_.ewoma._
      @_.ewoma._ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is beautiful ❤

    • @petra4950
      @petra4950 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@_.ewoma._ 🙏🏻😇

  • @user-pd9zb2tt3j
    @user-pd9zb2tt3j ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She’s so elegant and so charming. The way she talks calms me in a way I can’t explain ❤

  • @thinklikequeenie
    @thinklikequeenie ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "We can always find it in our hearts to tap into our inner good and be compassionate, especially to ourselves" . This is so beautifully said! Selena is an inspiration 🤩. I love that she's talking so openly about the things she has been through.

  • @dariannyv765
    @dariannyv765 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It is good to know that everybody can go through all of this even when they have a lot of money. Thank you for teaching the importance of mental health ❤

  • @indirafisher2752
    @indirafisher2752 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Selena is so pure humble loving talented intelligent classy

  • @emms1184
    @emms1184 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Selena is a truly role model to look up to! She is so young but so wise at the same time that makes her so normal but so extra. She is just perfect! I love this queen 👸🏻

  • @meggiestephenson
    @meggiestephenson ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Selena Gomez makes me feel so safe. I can’t describe it. ❤

  • @Swearitsdajiavu
    @Swearitsdajiavu ปีที่แล้ว +62

    8:12 I’m embracing the uncomfortableness of change. I was and still am a little terrified of going out and being seeen but it’s getting better for me 😅 so proud of Selena 💛

  • @thelmaagondez6860
    @thelmaagondez6860 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I really love all Selena's interview..I learn a lot about myself ,how to accept all my imperfections...So great to know that she's not different from all of us..

  • @DiegoOrtiz-jx3ze
    @DiegoOrtiz-jx3ze ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I can relate to her so much. Everyday is a struggle but I’m trying

  • @olgasuner999
    @olgasuner999 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I felt her pain she has been hurt deeply that her emotions are desensitized. When a person gets hurt over and over again they became numb and that’s what I see and feel in her. She got all the fame and glamour , monetary but God is taking her through battle or as one calls it testing in life by giving illness, broken heart etc.. hope she finds Jesus in her heart and he will heal all your wounds and get you to a smooth sailing.

    • @missbrowniejay
      @missbrowniejay ปีที่แล้ว

      She's not numb. Maybe you're projecting?

  • @AloeVeraAxolotl
    @AloeVeraAxolotl ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One thing about Selena.. That is one humble woman. ❤️🙌 Life is precious, remember to take some time, and smell the flowers.

  • @betania8489
    @betania8489 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love how he re-uploaded this Selena Gomez podcast while the drama is happening. Jay is Team Selena!!!

  • @buffygrinXV
    @buffygrinXV ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Selena touches our hearts in different way. I know she knows how wonderful she is and she deserves all the things that she prayed for. ❤

  • @rebeccadaleartthecreativewande
    @rebeccadaleartthecreativewande ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m 72 yr. Love your podcast. Keeps me learning.

  • @chongkhemn
    @chongkhemn ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "I don't have to be perfect all the time....".....the thing that I often forget!I feel like all the process for my goals should be perfect,but there is no perfection, all the small mistakes that I am making in the process is something that shows that I am trying though I am not doing perfect like I picture,but somehow a little better than doing nothing

    • @AnnTsungMD
      @AnnTsungMD ปีที่แล้ว

      It's important to remember that progress is not always linear, and there will be ups and downs along the way.
      It's easy to get caught up in the idea that we need to be perfect all the time, but this kind of thinking can actually hold us back from achieving our goals. By embracing the idea that it's okay to make mistakes and learn from them, we can actually become more resilient and better equipped to handle the challenges that come our way.
      Your willingness to try and make progress, even if it's not always perfect, is commendable. Remember to be kind to yourself and celebrate the small victories along the way. You're on the right path, and with persistence and determination, you will reach your goals.
      Peace!

  • @vjairo1221
    @vjairo1221 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can listen to Selena talk for hours upon hours ❤

  • @tracy7436
    @tracy7436 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s the imperfections that make people perfect for who they are.

  • @lalalalululu521
    @lalalalululu521 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    She is amazing , thank you for this interview, I was really enjoying. She is so good and talented. Thank you for this opportunity to listen to this conversation.

  • @milanols
    @milanols ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Selena is the best. She's so down-to-earth and relatable. Thank you Sel, you make me feel hopeful and safe ❤

  • @TheCasfilms
    @TheCasfilms ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What a great interview. Jay and Selena are magic….such positivity.

  • @jeanshelbybooks4154
    @jeanshelbybooks4154 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I loved her cute examples of imperfection. It really shows how much we need to let go instead of being so critical of every little thing about ourselves. 😊

  • @deepalisinha9813
    @deepalisinha9813 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hope Selena knows she has millions of fans in India ..loads of love to the strong ,sexy,amazing Selena ❤ you are truly an original STAR ⭐

  • @fergusclarken8437
    @fergusclarken8437 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Selena is the only person in life I can respect that has wealth success and fame because she is ground with who she is normal but perfect but her

  • @tammysims8716
    @tammysims8716 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dearest beautiful Selena, you, my dear, are delightful and a triple threat! I pray that you know what a precious gift you are! God gave you your gifts, and you are sharing them with the world. Your singing voice is like that of an Angel. Jesus loves you, Selena.

  • @jennifernargiso5625
    @jennifernargiso5625 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You not being or acting perfect is what makes you perfect. You are truly a beautiful person ❤ #TeamSelenaforever❤

  • @senseiplazo9544
    @senseiplazo9544 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love Selena's words of wisdom

  • @bobbib3836
    @bobbib3836 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Selena you’re perfectly unperfect which makes you so relatable & loved ♥️🙏🏼

  • @jnrtepania4153
    @jnrtepania4153 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She's so empowering talented beautiful

  • @foxirin
    @foxirin ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She is lovely girl . I like her and her songs as well. That was nice conversation and cool experience to listen to both of you. Thank you for this opportunity ❤

  • @northerngirl468
    @northerngirl468 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    #selenagomez you have turned into a lovely young woman and great role model. Thank you for being real. People can’t relate to perfect. And most celebrities come across as though they have the perfect life. You being real is such a wonderful testimony to girls who look up to you.

  • @mommaboombam3764
    @mommaboombam3764 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you. I know I'm not perfect and I Love that I'm not perfect. Only trying to make myself better and never reaching perfection is just perfect for me. Love to everyone trying to be authentic 💗 mbba.

  • @relisaabenir8545
    @relisaabenir8545 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the way she handled the situation,, humble down to earth amazing lady

  • @claudiabraga9291
    @claudiabraga9291 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Selena Gomez é única. Que sorriso lindo!!. Olha que mulher maravilhosa ❤️🇧🇷

  • @fergusclarken8437
    @fergusclarken8437 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Selena is amazing human ❤

  • @BrendanWoolwine
    @BrendanWoolwine ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love how this is edited! Not a lot of podcasts cut to reactions this often. I get to see the entire conversation and facial expressions of both people. We’ll done!

  • @wendylbranchfield7959
    @wendylbranchfield7959 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Brava Selena Gomez. You are a very wise, young woman!♥️🙌🏽🙌🏽👏👏👏👏👏

  • @ekasaria.9127
    @ekasaria.9127 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are so perfect Selena. You are beautiful, kind, and have warm heart. Thankyou

  • @pearlch74211
    @pearlch74211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel emotional and calming at the same time

  • @jennypsarra
    @jennypsarra 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We always grow, we always evolve! Growth is the goal!!! We will never be perfect and we should learn from mistakes! ❤❤❤

  • @eriva6
    @eriva6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fame didn’t ruin her just helped the rest of us see that fame fortune and influence can still equal humble, humanitarian and a genuine gentle presence.

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Selena Gomez so elegant and beautiful 👑👸❤️❣️❤️💫😊

  • @anaclaudiacarvalho1678
    @anaclaudiacarvalho1678 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She is precious!❤

  • @danabrown7163
    @danabrown7163 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Selena is wonderful and so thoughtful, thanks for always providing such awesome work

  • @jacey_melody
    @jacey_melody ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Our differences MAKE US who we are 💙 we should celebrate ourselves for who we are 💜

  • @mariavacacela8314
    @mariavacacela8314 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you Selena. You are a beautiful human being. Keeps spreading love everywhere you go 🙌🏽♥️

  • @user-oi2gy8cs9c
    @user-oi2gy8cs9c 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    selena is such a beautiful and strong person. she doesn't claim to be perfect or that she has everything figured out. I really wish her family nothing but the very best for the rest of their lives.

  • @miximumpop2278
    @miximumpop2278 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would definitely marry Selena in the next life 🧬 So matured thinking and concious human beyond status ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @roya250
    @roya250 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is a very strong woman... I am proud of her

  • @zuardfejer
    @zuardfejer ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I liked her before,now I love her ❣️very inspiring

  • @VeeAmericanEagle
    @VeeAmericanEagle ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At work and listening to Selena ❤

  • @odomholden1647
    @odomholden1647 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She's a strong woman she's been to a whole lot

  • @leahannwhite1111
    @leahannwhite1111 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Flaws and imperfections are imagined.

  • @nfbconnect
    @nfbconnect ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She's inspiring.

  • @Andre778.9
    @Andre778.9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s a beautiful Angel who inspires the world 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️💐😍

  • @Rider-hw2ts
    @Rider-hw2ts ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you soooo much Selena…my favourite celebrity of all time ❤

  • @ElisaReclaLisa-wl8zy
    @ElisaReclaLisa-wl8zy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In ever pain that we HAVE, WE, should think that there is a purpose on it.just remember that there is God who sees everything. Our enemy would really try hard for us to be discouraged and depressed and think of negative but our God is great and can do anything for us. have always faith in our GREAT GOD.

  • @Israelmama404
    @Israelmama404 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you Selena Gomez you matter 😍

  • @gripsimpson
    @gripsimpson ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Selena Gomez Rules in Personality, she accepts and works through adversity, she gives, she loves, she lives.

  • @clairevillanueva2393
    @clairevillanueva2393 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you, Selena! 😘

  • @arianaaguilar3548
    @arianaaguilar3548 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is so beautiful inside and out 😍❤️

  • @shireenramnarain4005
    @shireenramnarain4005 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Selena IS an inspiration to all
    Her condition allows her to promote pain ,anxiety, stress to millions of chronically ill
    The message is :its ok to be sick n people R gonna torment u
    BE STRONG AS LONG AS YOU CAN ❤

  • @aline21o85
    @aline21o85 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love selena so much

  • @sigmarule_s
    @sigmarule_s ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you 🙏
    Jay for everything

  • @ryandjelloul6744
    @ryandjelloul6744 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a beautiful lady Selena by the way God loves you cause he is helping you working on your inner part while others are focused only on the outside ... your on top in and out ❤❤❤❤❤ our realy tour on earth is your inner part and you already know that...true it's a very hard work to clean you SOUL

  • @chasingthedreams751
    @chasingthedreams751 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Selena ❤❤

  • @vickieaustin3128
    @vickieaustin3128 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are a great person, stay with Zayn

  • @HuongNguyen-ck5cc
    @HuongNguyen-ck5cc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This girl is beautiful, talented and brave

  • @ashwingonsalves474
    @ashwingonsalves474 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love Selena ♥️

  • @adrianachavez8911
    @adrianachavez8911 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We love you Selena!!!!❤🥲🙏🏻 Eres una admiradora para muchas mujeres en verdad gracias por tu ejemplo de mujer Gracias mi niña Dios te bendiga siempre y sabes. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Eres bella por dentro y por fuera. Lloraste sufriste reíste caíste pero dijiste si a Dios y vas por el buen camino si una buena mujer amiga hermana eres increíble Selena. En verdad te admiro mucho adelante mi niña y ser fuerte valiente y Dios está siempre contigo. Que nuestra madre la virgen María te cuide y te protege con su bendito manto. ❤❤❤

  • @aryanalfa2444
    @aryanalfa2444 ปีที่แล้ว

    She's not just a great songer but she haa a lovly "talking" voice!

  • @Verdeverdev
    @Verdeverdev ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE YOU QUEEN 👑 SELENA GOMEZ 💞💞💞💞💞

  • @theresawest1696
    @theresawest1696 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is such an AMAZING message(s) what a real person!!!! I just subscribed!!!

  • @snowylim6818
    @snowylim6818 ปีที่แล้ว

    People who realize the weight of the world and try to handle them,instead of ignoring them anyway, always live happier,this shows they care what happens surrounding them,not chose to pretend not seeing anything

  • @Jen-M.
    @Jen-M. ปีที่แล้ว +3

    she is beautiful!

  • @Naonicat
    @Naonicat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love her so much ❤ love her character in only murders in the building. It’s a fun show too

  • @joandmike
    @joandmike ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been waiting for this!

  • @roseanneelliott3817
    @roseanneelliott3817 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you Selena. You are truly an inspiration ❤

  • @shiprasiingh
    @shiprasiingh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loveeeeee her and so proud of her ✨🫶🏻

  • @kennyaguerrero8636
    @kennyaguerrero8636 ปีที่แล้ว

    I save to gonto New York for 4 days and I didn't want to leave. It is so Beautiful!! And Selena spend months there without enjoying. Life is not fair.

  • @ainoh6403
    @ainoh6403 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you and I love her OMG, I am so excited to listen to this episode!😍🙏

  • @MaryJane-rz9ry
    @MaryJane-rz9ry ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are lucky Selena you have a filipino spirit in you. ❤

  • @isalopez2682
    @isalopez2682 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're beautiful more power to you and God bless you always amen

  • @ro-fz1jt
    @ro-fz1jt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been doing that for years I e always LOVED MYSELF

  • @user-cr9qi4dn5d
    @user-cr9qi4dn5d ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You should accept other people's flaws and imperfections instead of calling them out...than you can love yourself and be kind!!!!

  • @Peep_peep3
    @Peep_peep3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She inspired aboundently 🤍🤍🤍

  • @marianameri8322
    @marianameri8322 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We love Selena very much from Ethiopia💚💛❤

  • @happyami102619
    @happyami102619 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jesus is always there with answers. ❤❤❤

  • @celestesantiago280
    @celestesantiago280 ปีที่แล้ว

    Selena, I love you as a sister and that’s the true keep being wonderful on in the inside and outside, I have lupus too how do I handle it,
    Love, your spiritual sister Maria. God bless you ❤

  • @plugged4937
    @plugged4937 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Here before this blows up

  • @guillerminasolorio1619
    @guillerminasolorio1619 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome ❤ Selena you're my favorite person ❤💙 best wishes ❤ to.you😊😊❤

  • @vickieaustin3128
    @vickieaustin3128 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a sweet 💗