My Partner Deliberately Infected Me With HIV(Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Episode 47 |Season 3
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ย. 2021
- 2 Guests share their stories on how their lovers intentionally infected them with HIV.
Studio Guest: Zandile Simelane & Matthew Bongani Lani
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Who else came back here after the bogus Dr story...I'm starting to wonder if anything he told us here is true or it was for clout....to think I fell for his story
Lol I’m here with you😂😂to even think that I cried a lot that day feeling sorry for him Mxm
Also here with you 😭😭😭😭
There were also red flags here guys 😖 ,we never paid attention 😢
Me🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@thatolesolopo even on TikTok babe,we just ignored the red flags 😅
His sitting there waiting for his turn to lie to to us 🥺😂
Yazi😂 yoooo Mara
Wena 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂jonga!
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The internet doesnt forget. 🤣
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Who’s here after Matthew was exposed for being a bogus doctor 😂😂😂
literally analysing the video attempting to find the gaps we missed 🤣
Lalela ngila👋😅😅
How does he know campus life this one if he was never enrolled with wits 🙄this guy has a degree in audacity 😂 probably had friends in wits, wow look how he narrate this story as if it's true.
😂😂,,😂😂😂
Ngilapha😂😂😂
As a 17 year old watching this show i have learned a lot ❤️❤️😭
Watch this more you wil gain lots of wisdom and you be wise and matured
@@erenceletsufi1172 All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
Same. I am 18
Sherry Simpson I'm happy for you I'm still waiting for one who can say they gonna help me I'm two years knowing that I'm positive since that i hate man I don't know what to do with this
@@kizalin is there anything to laugh🤔😥
Am here for Dr Mathew the scammer😂
Like I'm so confused shem. Psychology. Medicine... it's a lot.
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POV you came here after the drama in twitter and tik tok.
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“I was 20 and I was doing my 5th year of university” haibo Dr Matthew👀👀
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Lord !! 💔.
I was just talking to my boyfriend, about how careless we are as human beings in that we are so trusting of people who we don’t even know, engaging in sex with someone just based off of love. Can have such dire effects and/or consequences!
I think we should start normalizing having HIV tests as being part of our first dates these days.
You literally took ever word out of my mouth. And I learned so much in my past, and I'm 2yrs now single and healing myself.
Yes ma'am!!!! It should be a must before having sexual relations! 😔
I don’t think people are as concerned about HIV/AIDS as they were 20-30 years ago. That could be because we’re so far removed from when it was considered a serious threat and getting infected was seen as a death sentence. Today treatments are simplified and there are drugs like PrEP to prevent infection in the first place. I remember a time when it was common for people newly dating or in new relationships to get tested together before they had sex. That being said even when it was a public health crisis people still had unprotected sex with multiple partners. That has always happened and will continue to happen.
@@MsMufet03 people definitely worried about it.. they just stupid!
They worry about it, but after they've had sex or hearing rumors of the person they slept with having it, both are too late for something so important.
If I could advise my younger self or Young people ... I'd tell them to delay dating....when you date without financial and mental capacity, the other partber will use you and leave you worse off. Just focus on your studies
Can’t stress this enough!!
Well said💙
True very true
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Agreed
This guy has a serious lying problem.. it has reached a dangerous level…😢
They say he was a psychology student, he knows how to play around with people’s minds 😂😂😂
Haike ziyakhala mntase ziyakhala 🔥🔥🤣
I blame us for growing dumb by the day, seating there stuffing ourselves with only the sensational online content, if it not a buzzword it doesn't exist. Now everyone knows what a narcisist is, had we read more books, carry more intellectually uplifting conversation ,I don't know ... wacth more documentaries we could have learned to spot a mithomaniac person let alone kleptomaniac, a bipolar ect...
See it all comes back to us, we are loosing.
True even here he's lying 🤥
Dr Matthew Lani is sitting there in silence cooking up his lies ! Ke sure he was listening to the girls story to see how he is going to make his better
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 no man
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We came back here 😂😂😂
I’m here again because of Dr Matthew 🤣🤣🤣
Haike Sanna we are within 🤣🤣🤣🔥🙌🏽💔 yifilm ngoku
And Matthew had the audacity to say that they got the intro mixed up😂😂😂😂
GIRL!!!!
xhabanga 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He puts so much effort in lying I wish he would redirect that energy into positivity...he can lie that boy
Im here to check that mix up😂😂
@@amandamgobhoza2882 can you believe the nerve!!!
Here for Dr Matthew
Poverty is the root of all evil. Both these people took advantage of their financial vulnerability 😔
Facts
Well said💯
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
Seriously 😭😭😭
What about poor women who refuse to date broke men? Are they also vulnerable?
I AM ABOUT TO WATCH AND KE KWATILE BLIND BY JUST LOOKING AT THE CAPTION!!
I felt so sorry for this young man...I think Relo must do a research before she calls people on her show
I now don't believe anything the Fake Dr Matthew said in this interview 😢 also i think he needs serious professional help, something is just not right with him😢
Had to come back and watch because of what's threading on Tiktok and Twitter.
The hurt in Zandile's voice. I'm sorry sisi
Ohw yes I can hear that too.
Healing is a process...I'm healing everyday..thank you for watching ❤
@@zandilesimelane4898 you are a beautiful soul and yes healing does take time and I am glad you are embarking on that journey..
eish😔
@@charmainequma3555 That's break's my heart 💔💔
Yazin this boy is not well...Dr Lani/Matthew 😢
Now I don’t trust what the Dr is saying since he is apparently bogus. also he says the partner paid his tuition, clearly there wasn’t any since he is uneducated. I hope he deals with this better though and follow his dreams for medicine
Dealing with grief is something else. Her voice yoh
I grieved a loss my brother, I can't even imagine loosing your mother as the only child that's trauma 💔
Her voice 💔
Oh gosh..,this man just took advantage of this beautiful kid back then at 17yrs old.,he should be in jail.
POV: Watching this after seeing Dr Matthew Lani trend😂
Me too😂😂😂
Here they say he is a psychology student 😢. Hayini
Girl, haike “Dr Lani”🌚
@@Naughtorious this is so weird... how does anyone go through all these lengths just to lie like this. Especially for the future of his pharmaceutical company
😂😂😂is not make sure
Me looking for the disclaimer Matthew spoke about:
Athi you swapped their intro😭🤣🤣💔
I had to come back to this episode just to make sense after allegations against Dr.Matt....vele is not make sure
One thing about ZanD, HONESTY! I love and respect this girl so much man 🥺🤞🏿
I blame the family. You can’t disown a child, especially one who is an orphan 💔
She caused it.
HERE FOR "DR LANI."
DR Lies you mean..😩
Can we please get Matthew back please
Here he says his mother lost her job. On Tik Tok he said she had to stay home because her son is now a doctor and can afford to take care of her 😂😂😂yah noh 🙌
Zandile don't ever feel you could have been more responsible in protecting your self coz you were a teenager and he was an adult so the power dynamics were never in your favour. I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through and no child deserve such betrayal from family. I just wish as black people we would understand grief and mental health better coz what you going through was a cry for help.
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@UCrT8oLdFkTq9NVv18d6xMFQ shut up you are annoying people
Stop the lies
@@shanicejones8332 this is my life story
Amazingly Dr Abiola home TH-cam gave me herbal medication and now I am HIV negative #drabiolahome
Yet they claim to love you !? This is heartbreaking 💔
I'm from Swaziland, Manzini and the lady really looks familiar. Strength and light to all the guests. I cannot even imagine how it's like to lose a mother at a young age.
Dr Matthew are you telling the truth about your status?
The moment he said "i was so defeated my heart jus broke into pieces.Cant wait for part 2 .The lady is so real and honest , such a strong young woman.
Oh Zandi u reminded of your mum
Every time I watched Unpacked I always thought "Zandie would be a great guest here"... Imagine my excitement when I saw this!!!! Proud of you Always cuz :)
Ai, you can hear Dr Lani's story is manufactured!
The hurt in Zandi's voice💔💔😥thank u for sharing your story with us and may God continue giving you strength🙏
God hasn't done anything for her so far. I hope she finds strength in herself
It’s baffling and sad just what kind of darkness can inhabit the human soul. How do you intentionally infect someone you claim to love? How many people do such people go on to infect? I am broken for these two 💔
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Heartbreaking for a so called human being to be so reckless and evil….. smh and sending prayers hugs and prayers for both of you and those others( I’m sure there are) that didn’t or haven’t come forward. ❤️🤗🙏🏽
I meant to add that there are many others….. God has you in his arms and his blood shall cover you all!! Amen hallelujah Blessing’s🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
Devilish heart💔 the devil try to bring human down with him because he's condemn there's no redemption for him it's the same behaviour these people are showing they already have one feet in the grave and don't want to go alone
Just watchiing this , I realise that someone's head was cooking up stories and emotions. 😥😥
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“On campus” 🙄 he’s a good lier 😫😂
Matthew himself here he said he is studying psychology
He forgot his own lies😂😂😂😂
We really need help to deal with grieve as black people. My grandmother passed away 3 years ago, I'll never forget how my mom screamed till today when she laughs to hard it sounds like that day😭😢i pause to listen if she's really crying or laughing
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Sending you hugs ❤❤❤💖🤍
Omg😭😭 That's traumatizing. Sending hugs your way.i pray you heal from this
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
Relebogile can see through his lies🤣🤣🤣🤣 she’s just continuing with the interview because it has already started😭SAD times
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He was 20 years old doing 4th year in varsity 😭
Uyambona nawe the way ambeke ngakhona😂😂
It's frankly sickening how all of the adults failed her. She was just a child. She needed them to protect and care for her. They either abandoned her or took advantage of her.
Honestly! How do you just give up and abandon a child??? These people aren't family
Being a orphan really means you are independent hun !
@@zinhleceenclairemhlanga4399 life s hard
Family will abandon you when you need them the most. Most people who live in the streets come from well off families
@@noxoloradebe7973 q
This comes to the fact that as family or friends we need to be there for each other truly. We sure can do better. Thanks for sharing
So very true
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola❤️❣️
The strength needed to give these stories...
I applaud you guys
Dr Matthew starts at 15:52
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Ah you mean the lies start at 15:52!!
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😂😂😂😂 we never forget
Hayibo this guy was studying psychology 😢😢😮
Allegedly 😅. Also, I've never seen a psychologist walking around in scrubs in real life nor on TV 😂... also...stethoscope ke seo ge 😂
💔💔this really broke my heart I remember her in High School…she was the life of the party,I remember the bunking etc etc and am so sorry you had to go through so much alone and we just all thought awuva….❤️❤️🇸🇿🇸🇿
Relebogile must interview him again man😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I agree
“This is your punishment for leaving me”??????? 😳😳😳😳😳😳🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭 people are sickos out here!!!
Sana I had to come back and watch lo mfana qha!
Some wounds never heal 💔some people are so broken 💔from inside in such way that breaking other's 💔makes them feel better and bigger
True but It's really a sickness, I someone has done me. Should I atleast be considerate to someone else and say I will not do what was done to me.
You can say that again and it’s very sad
@@thandiletonisi6065 All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola❤️❣️
Very true people have unresolved issues and instead of solving them they use other people to feel better by abusing them.
ZanD is sooo intelligent and I admire her courage to tell her story and keep it together at the same time
Kelebogile is glowing 🔥😍. The guests are also clean. It's good to see young people being vocal about this
Loved every minute, cannot wait for part two.
My heart broke when she said “i did not need to have an abortion anymore and luckily it meant that I was gonna use that money for school”. How sad maan 🥺🥺
This takes us back to the era where our mothers, aunts, and grandmothers stayed in abusive relationships because their partners were their providers hence giving them the liberty to abuse or treat them anyhow. these relationships got them killed, died of heart attacks, and infected with all STIs. I just hope my generation learns a lot from this session . #UnpackedWithRelebogile
Oh ZanD, your eloquence is so onpoint. We will forever respect and cherish the memories your mom gave us. Thank you for sharing her with us❤️❤️❤️❤️
Is this Zandi former Mjingo high headmistress child? She looks familiar 🤔
Maa'm Zaba's daughter OMG!!!
Ey man!
Zandi is so beautiful and strong. Thank you both for sharing ❤️
Am here for the mixed up intro
This just got to show that there's nothing for nothing. If someone is is too good to be true they're probably are
Even if that the case it doesn't give anyone a right to be abusive and infect someone with HIV, these are kids who crazy men identify and use them so let be kind and compassionate. A 17 year old or even early 20s they still discovering their lives we should protect them than saying they deserve it. It wrong
@@sizakelediya4080 they refuse to date broke men.
@@ELLIOT8209 so true 😤💯
@@ELLIOT8209 and we will keep refusing dating broke men. You can still get HIV from dating broke men
@@florahangel1718 that much I already know. That's why I don't have sympathy when the rich ones have HIV and access to many of you. It's a rotation system. It's your personal choice after all. Enjoy
Beautifully open and honest reflection . So relatable for many vulnerable young people .
I’ve been waiting for this topic forever.Because I know people who are HIV positive but still hv unprotected sex with others.It’s both criminal n evil.
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
Isn't it the responsibility of the other to insist on protection?
It is both yours.Infecting someone KNOWINGLY is a crime.And inhuman
@@sherrysimpson9536 tsek
@@kopangletaoa7008 protect YOURSELF. that's it.
We are within this show is an eye opener
I'm grieving the loss of my Dad who passed away 2 months back, Feeling empty and alone is real.
I'm so sorry for your loss, I so much relate to you I lost my Mom 4 months ago. It's not easy but we keep going and pushing every day.
Stay strong, love & light 💐💖
Lost mine 4 months ago
@@thepriestess5969 thank you
We're not alone,
You are not alone. God is with you. Sending you warm hugs and kisses
Yooohhhhh!! I can't wait for part 2.... Oh these guests just know how to articulate themselves shem..they made the job easier for Relebogile
Hey Bitso❤️
wait did you say Kimberly born and psychology student ? this guy mara yesterday he was saying that the lady she was interviewed with is a psychology student they actually mixed the intro's and i thought he is from mafikeng yooooh hai at this point ke sharp ka mateu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Pathological liar: the compulsive urge to lie about matters big and small. A pathological liar is unable to control their lying due to the underlying mental health issues.
Ha se nna, ke Google but he fits the discription. This guy, however, has mentioned that he had suffered some mental health issues in an interview I saw on IG.
I shan't say anymore
@@gagoangwemoroka7993 oh yes you are right this guy has mental issues
Will there ever come a point in life where someone helps another person without looking for sexual favours? this is such a sad situation where a whole entire grown man (or should I say a predator) taking advantage of a young person just because they feel that their lives have come to an end and they choose to end others. It is sickening and disgusting.
It’s extremely sad. They do it all the time. And they’re in our families and our circles. No worries, karma taking care of all of it. Agh!
@Marry Fatima I don't have sti's mam Fatima
@@achatwithgoitseSometimes karma needs a helping hammer, as in sledgehammer.
@@achatwithgoitse😅mmmkmmmkl m
😩😩😩 poor girl. He took advantage of her because she was young & needed help.
Apparently that guy has been lying of being a Dr there by tik-tok 😭😭😭
Wena😭 this situation is dusting me yoh, I even followed him on tiktok. I'm shocked
That story is what brought me here😂
Thank you both of you to be so brave to share your story. There something called Karma, what you project to someone else it's comes back to multiple so definitely they will get what is suitable for them. They were suppose to protect but they just nasty human beings. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom I can't imagine how you would have felt. I always think South African we so good on attending funeral but after the funeral every is gone you just left with the deep pain that you have to deal grieve, no one bother to even ask how are you feel instead we have so much expectations that you should bounce and be yourself again. We really need to look into this, I rather have a family in the funeral and have check ups more often for a family serious. We as human we lack to support a person after losses including myself but I pray to do more when I see the need.
I'm here for Dr Matthew's story
bro was doing his fifth year at the age of 20 💀
Yet he began varsity ka 17. 😅
He said fith😂😂😂
The story is manufactured 😂😂😂😂
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Thank you for sharing Zand... We need people like you in this world.
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola❤️❣️
Its always so scary when i think about my past.. Its all Luck that im hov negative. Was honestly reckless
I watch this show everyday, and today I was blessed with a story from someone from my home town-Christiana 🙌😊
So proud of you Lani for sharing you story🌻It is really eye opening and beneficial to a lot out there.
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
An eye opening interview ❤️
Trust no one
Can we please get Nozibele Qamngana on the show bc of her story
Yess, i love that lady
If you want to know the reality of the systems in this universe come to this show, you will learn the animosity and the be opened about societal issues. The Bible says be wise as serpents and be gentle as doves
Nnete fela
So Nela
@@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 what do you mean
This Lani whole story of going to shop and meeting a guy on the queen and dating is a lie as well.😅😅 None of it happened, at least now in hindsight, we can see hell nooo
So proud of you Zandy for sharing your story ❤️
I relate so much to this lady.. I was told we need to stop using condom. I was 20 and a virgin and he was 35. I knew nothing about sex and relationships. I was very naive at the time. Then I felt pregnant and he left to his wife which I didn't know existed. I still hate him to this day 😭
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
Please do forgive him and pray God heals your broken heart.
I hate him too!!!!! I don’t even know him
Nxese cc❤️ is he maintaining his child ?
@@phumelelekunju5563 No he doesn't.. And worse the child always asks about him 😭
Thanks Sis for your eye opening and educational stories.
Watching this is soo heartbreaking 💔💔.
Let's ALL teach our kids, even neighbors' kids Financial independence. Let dating either financially benefiting or not be the last thing on our kids' minds.
OMG sound scary. You really brave. I appreciate you sharing your story. Quite inspiring. Here to supporting dear 100%. Keep more coming
This is a crime that should be punishable 😪
I agree!
It actually is. Deliberate transmission of HIV is punishable under criminal law. If I am correct, it is sentenced like the crime of rape.
Stealthing, yes. Being mutually reckless can't be a crime. It is incumbent on each to protect themselves
@@ELLIOT8209 maybe the HIV negative one is reckless whilst the one who knows they are HIV positive but insists on Sex without protection is malicious and dangerous!!!
@@BlueButterfly83 can the same thing be said about women who trap men with babies? The men are reckless but the other party is malicious and dangerous, right? Forcing someone to be a father
😭😭😭😭 I’m so sorry for what you people went through but may the Might God give you people strength and courage💖
The unfortunate thing is that this is still happening today.
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You are strong my sister Addington hospital is the best when it come to mental illness I've been diagnosed with bipolar disorder since 2013 so yah kuyaphileka ne staff sakhona🙌💯👏😍💖
Respect to the youngsters..until it's on yr doorstep u cannot comprehend..as for caregiver ..witnessing the deterioration...a journey I'll never forget...never...I live with WHAT IF😭😭
This guy is playing with us . Why his name is confirmed to be Matthew Lani whereas now is saying this is a fake name 🤔
Matthew articulated himself beautifully ❤
Indeed
Both of them
Kanti yisgebengu! 😂
@@sfisomkhwanazi8705tshini😭😭😭
@@sfisomkhwanazi8705🤣🤣🤣🤣yazini 😂😂😂
The intro is fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Sis Relebogile articulates english so well, I'll listen to you and never get tired.. Sending love to the two guests ❤️
So South Africans are still obsessed with the Queens language wow
The Death of a loved one🙏🙏I so understand ...and I Thank God for my Dad everyday..he stepped up and raised me..without him..I definitely would have been lost😭😭🙌🙌❤️❤️
Wena Matthew… ngizokshaya!!!!