Yes judge said "that stops your client alot", she can't use pot any during her parenting time which is 98% of the year he can't just for the week while he's with the kid😂😂
That interpretation was amazing. Spot on. He said everything exactly the way it was spoken. I mean exact. When someone said “old kid and other one”, he said exactly that. He didn’t say “older and younger”, he said it exactly as spoken. Very good. Wow.
wanting a months notice is crazy! A weeks notice should be ok, especially if dad knew when and if the mom was going on vacation etc...If she is in town with their child then a week is plenty. Having so much hate for your ex so that you keep your child from knowing both parents will only hurt your child and make them resent you in the future.
I like this judge. He has been doing this for so long he is done with everyone's b.s. Not only is the judge funny but he does everything efficiently. I would like to watch this judge all the time.
That Kent County canine coffee comment got me. I went and spent $60 on the website, and I am now hiding in my closet from my husband 😂😄 mmmmm coffee #NoRegrets
It appears to me that being a family court judge is tantamount to being teacher for adults still in kindergarten, while simultaneously herding cats and juggling chainsaws. NO THANK YOU
As a mother this judge would crush me… but with my age and experience- I’d say he’s absolutely GOLDEN.kudos to him for making reasonable requests from BOTH parties.
Can we get more from this judge? I love it!!! "I don't care, this has nothing to do with this, and you best have it together in 4 weeks or you're in trouble." Love it!
Gosh I really do like this grumpy old bloke 😂 He is awesome! I might not agree with every decision in its totality but he is so straight talking and down to earth! Love it 🥰
A month’s notice is excessive. Two weeks is enough time for notice. And is the mom’s goal to keep the dad in or out of their kids’ lives? It’s fair that the mom can’t smoke pot either, which I think backfired for her!
This was one of the best streams ever. I normally can’t bear to watch custody/parenting hearings but this session was instructive, interesting & frankly hilarious at times. Genius.
This is my favorite judge now!! I have a feeling his docket is NEVER running late. ❤ Takes no BS, and keeps things rolling. Wonderful. ❤❤ Side note: best interpreter I've seen yet. He was on the ball the whole time. 😊
@24:40 this judge cracks me up when he says "I don't care what you guys do outside of here." I would love to see a sovcit in his courtroom. It would be hilarious to watch online.
I feel bad for the guy that needed the translator. He likely works construction, I worked construction for years, I didn't get home until 9pm some days. No way I could ensure I was available to pick a kid up at 5pm without losing my job.
It's every second week, a babysitter, teenager or neighbor can pick the kid up until he's off work, duh. Plus it will show a dad's work ethic from an early start.
@magi267 He stated he didn't have anyone to pick up the child after school. His dad can after 5, and that's good. If my son wasn't self-employed, he couldn't get his child after school 2 days a week as he has joint custody. Construction is what he is in and probably this father, too.
@@a.rae. Exactly … why doesn’t she have her license? You’ve got a kid! That’s a major reason to have them and keep them in good standing, especially for emergencies. The amount of grown adults out there with kids who don’t even have a license or have had them suspended is absolutely ridiculous. It speaks volumes about the types of person they are. It’s one thing to be in a city and rely on public transportation, but once there is a kid involved, just get the damn things and keep them. It’s better to have them on hand and never use them as opposed to never having them and coming up on a situation where you do need them … like this situation where the mother could help greatly by just being able to take the kid herself at a set time without all the hassle involving the courts and demanding someone else put their job at risk.
This is the BEST judge. He acts like a real judge and judges and rules. He does not give people endless hours to spew nonsense. He calls people out if they say outrageous stuff. He does not give hysterical people extra time or bother to respond to them. Amazing.
I haven't made it to this part yet, but I'm still iffy on weed parenting. When you's responsibly I don't have a problem with it, but like alcohol if it's not used responsibly it can cause problems. I've seen it. It's not as big of a problem as alcohol can turn out to be, but nonetheless the problems can be there. The same goes for some prescription medications. When used responsibly there's no issue, but when you overstep that line it becomes an issue. I completely understand why some judges look down on it a little bit still. Whether it's legal or not.
@@lostineggsaisle as a child of heavy weed users, it is indeed a real issue for the kids. I’m sure there are a lot of people that use it reasonably, but there are many who don’t. It’s a tough call.
That first one seems weird. Both the mother and father were planning on moving to Hawaii. She backed out just prior to moving. The father didn't just up and leave. They were planning to move together. 30 day notice is ridiculous to see his child.
I agree 100%. Everyone saying this judge is good but to me it seems like he really doesn't care. The father didn't abandon the family. And her playing games with allowing him to see the kid shows that she is going out of her way to try to destroy the relationship. She should have to pay to take the kid down to see the father
It's hard to really make a judgement with the limited information given. But I would agree that the way it sounded is like the mother abandoned the family plan to move.
@@christking85Thank you for stating that. I felt the same watching it. He was incredibly dismissive and kept interrupting the first woman that was talking. It also seemed like he was blaming him for moving.
Well she's taking care of the kid full time, seen it once in a year, and wants overnights, that is scary what if he decided to jump on a plane and head back to Hawaii?? Doubtful since he apparently hasn't in 3 years but you never know.
My childs father also decided to CHOOSE and move well over 1,000 miles away and i could never hold her from him just because he didnt give me an entires months notice!!! Thats just crazy to me.....Even if he flew up here unexpectedly or on a whim for whatever reason, id still allow him to take her for the entirety of his visit! Holding your child from the other parent because you dont think a 2 weeks notice is an efficient enough amount of time, is a complete CROCK OF S**T in my opinion!
Im stuck in the hospital, and the hubby is with my kitten at home. I just found your videos and wanted to say thank you for your videos. Its bindge time.
You need to find the one about the football player his wife and mistress. I caught that hearing live from the courthouse by a fluke and it was crazy!!! 😂
Let me say I was sadly divorced when my daughters were 2 and 4 years old... For the first 2 months I had full custody with support of my family daily which made work and home time very easy.... My Ex was talked into filing for custody and it being the late 70's of course the Mother won anything and everything they would ask for unlike today. I was given first and third weekends, 4 days a month to see my children.... BUT found the mother was more than happy to allow me to take the girls more often allowing her to play instead of caring for the girls... I paid support for 16 years and ended with a great relationship with both my girls. I ended up paying for college also since the mother turned out to be a dead beat following how the term is used... Thank GOD they turned out great in spit of their mother and I being their parents... things are very different today. Fathers actually have rights that were never given back even in the 80's.
I hope there’re more old school judges like him in the pipeline lol - I don’t ever want to not have judges like Frederick! It’s like he’s herding cats but doing it just so smoothly & crankily 😂
You asked if the interpreter, Eduardo Romero, was doing a good job: He is the single-best Spanish interpreter I have ever seen on your, or any of the LawTubes channels, @LawTalkWithMike . It's a thing of beauty to hear him. He has a brilliant word-sense, knowing exactly what synonym to use to communicate subtle differences in mood.
Makes for great entertainment, however, because we can at least see these people for how they really are with the lack of self-respect and shame they display. Plus, we get to have them be forever immortalized on the internet.
viewers can also try to use these real life situations to think through the short term and long term pain children endure when parents separate/divorce. Understand the importance of letting the kids love both parents and not using as pawns against the other parent, nor as the go-between for the grown-ups.. Maybe see THEMSELVES, and feel ashamed, sad, and regretful over things they said and did during the divorce. Can't go back in time & change it but can seek ways to heal or make amends if appropriate- meaning won't bring up trauma. I had good friends who told me what I needed to hear, not what i wanted to hear during mine. Made changes, had to stay alert to not give in to anger/hurt. apologized to kids and asked for forgiveness. Both parents took ownership of individual contributions that led to divorce outcome. Didn't erase bad memories and feelings; but they knew they were loved, wasn't their fault, nothing to do with them, it was their parents decision. Its hard to watch many of these cases. Young children dont want either parent to hurt. Try treating other parent with respect and civility. If absolutely cannot, don't talk about the other in front of the kids.. doesn't mean other parent is right or the better person doesn't cost anything. Allow kids to be kids. Imho.
The second hearing is my new guilty pleasure.. I have rewatched it two times!! I laughed harder and harder each time.. if I was a family court Judge I would likely be like Judge Fredrick… cranky as “F”
I find the astoundingly high divorce rates to be insane. Don't marry and have babies if you're too immature to be in for the long haul. Something is terribly wrong here when people treat their dogs better than their kiddos.
The judge is wearing his cranky pants today. He isn’t taking anyone’s BS as he wants to get through the docket so that he can leave early and start celebrating the New Year. Auuwwww. He loves the puppers. Bummed I missed this hearing as @LTWM streamed.
Being a nurse was hard, being a secondary science teacher was difficult also but there’s no amount of money that would have me babysitting and refereeing these overgrown toddlers 🙄 That last case was off the chain! Both of those parents are bonkers. I feel sorry for the child.
I had a kid who decided in fifth grade that he didn't want to go to school anymore. We pulled him out and we never regretted it. But we didn't just let him stop doing school... we gave him a trial run of afternoon work to show him what homeschooling would be like. Then we pulled him home, but I taught him myself, full time -- and you better believe that I was a lot more rigorous than his public school teachers ever were!!! What's more, he loved it. He was never looking for a way out of schoolwork, he was looking for a way to get sufficient challenge not to be bored silly, as well as a way to avoid bullies who liked to pick on the small kid with the big mouth. We homeschooled him from 6th grade through 9th; then he went back to public high school because there was an international program he wanted to do. He's still in that and doing great. It's not always wrong to listen to a kid who says they want to leave school, but you have to listen to *why* they want to, and be realistic with them about what it's okay to change and what it isn't.
@@DomVonDoom He had friends via synagogue, whom he saw every week there; and also visited with after school hours during the week whenever we could arrange it. Besides that, we have a pretty big extended family including a lot of cousins that he spent time with. It got much harder during the last 18 months because of Covid, of course, but that would've been true whether he'd been in the public schools or not, since the public schools were running from home that year anyhow. He had actually originally requested to go back to high school in 9th grade, but his school was still doing things remotely by then, and we decided together that if he had to do school alone, he might as well do it with the setup that was *intended* for him to be working alone, rather than having him do school 'alone' at the same time as a lot of other kids, none of whom really knew how to work this way (nor did the teacher). So we kept him out one more year, and sent him back to brick and mortar school in tenth, when they'd started up in person again.
@@norarivkis2513 Thank you for the thoughtful response. I bet he is further ahead than his peers in some ways. Covid home school was really hard for some kids but I bet yours definitely excelled, helping hit the ground running in some unexpected ways.
@@DomVonDoom Thank you! I really tried to be the best teacher I could be, and I think the most important thing was that I made very sure *before* I removed him from regular school that he was asking for good reasons that made sense, and that he had a realistic view of what it actually was going to be like. In fact, the moment I made the final decision to go ahead and homeschool him the following year was one afternoon, when we were doing the 'practice homeschooling' after his regular schoolday was finished, to help him understand what it would be like to work under me and help me understand whether he was serious. I had asked him to write a short essay, and we were going over it together. I wasn't being harsh with him or anything, but I was definitely coming down much tougher on mistakes than his fifth grade teacher ever did, or probably any other teacher he'd ever had, either. My son had never done badly on an essay before, and even though I assured him that on the whole, it *wasn't* bad, I also stopped at every single place I thought it could be improved and we talked about them. By the end of the session, we had been working on a one-page essay for an hour and a half, and my poor son was in tears. This was nothing like any review of his schoolwork that he'd ever had, because I'm a stricter teacher than he'd ever had. When I saw he was crying, I stopped and asked if he was okay, and then gently reminded him that this was an example of the way I teach. Did he still want to work with me instead of the school system, I asked? It was okay if he didn't; the whole point of this was to figure out what he really wanted. Without hesitating a single moment, tears still running down his face, my eleven-year-old instantly nodded hard. He was sure. The fact that it hurt to be held to a higher standard than he was used to didn't mean he didn't *want* to be held to a higher standard, it just meant he needed to adjust to it, I saw. If he could sit there in tears and still tell me this was what he wanted to do, I knew he meant it. And if he didn't want to back out right now, when it was hard enough to make him cry, he wasn't going to want to back out when he was really doing it just because it was hard, or because I asked more of him than he expected. I talked to his father that night, and we agreed the next day to pull him from school after the end of that school year. He absolutely thrived in four years of homeschooling, and he's thriving just as much in brick and mortar school now that he's back there. I honestly don't know whether he could have done the international baccalaureate program he's in right now, if he had tried to do it after going straight through the American middle school system... it's very tough work, and he has enjoyed getting his teeth into it, but he needed all that experience doing hard academic work to a high standard before he ever started the program... and there's no way he would have received that experience in the middle school he'd have attended.
I wish you or someone like you would have taught me. I was a good child in public school, a fair student with A's, B's, and C's. I was very shy and insecure. But I loved science class, learning about chromosomes and such. I was 14, female, 10th grade, really getting into the subject when I unconsciously raised the 2 front legs of my chair off the floor, maybe 2 inches. I did not fall, teeter, rock, or disturb anyone. But, I was held after class. The 4 teachers waited till the next 2 classes were waiting to come in before they made me bend over and paddled me‼️ I can not describe the damage that did. Shamefully, I let that moment dictate my life for several years. I could not drop out of school but I quit participating. I did the very barest amount of work to keep a D and E average to graduate. I started drinking, smoking pot, and skipping classes. That was 43 years ago. I will always wonder if I had it in me to be a Scientist or college material or anything better than I was. In short, your son is very blessed that you listened to him and gave him what he needed. I wish every child could be so lucky 💞
Several decades ago, parents started wanting to be their kids’ “friend,” now it seems like they want their kid to be the parent (decision-maker)… Their job is to parent their kids.
My dad was disabled and raised me at home while mom worked. When I was ~15, it was expected that I'd mostly make decisions for myself, and I stopped getting feedback and/or help from them. Yet I still had to take care of dad and still do, 20 years later. He tried the friend thing, and got me started smoking weed. I'm fairly responsible with things like that, and I barely ever drink, but he started allowing that stuff far too young, imo. He had a stroke in 2004, and has been slowly degrading mentally and physically since then. I still can't get any reasonable help or advice from my family, everything is so centered around him. It's been pretty difficult to figure out how to actually adult, because I don't really have a good example within my family. I think I'm doing OK now, but it's still hard
Shaunda is coming out of the gate swinging. She is hollering her points, judge won't put up with this. Then she says she's homeless. Please, let us keep following this case.
Mothers can make it so difficult for the fathers of their children to have a relationship with their kids, and it only hurts the kids! Courts need to do better.
He CHOOSE to move across the ocean. Not saying I agree with the mom but is no one considering that he choose to leave. If the tables were turned and she was going to Hawaii and leaving the kids with him on mainland ….. she would be charged with abandonment.
At one stage she was a first time Mum and didn't know what she was doing and nobody took the child away from her because of it. You learn by hands on. To say you want a month's notice is crazy. All sorts of things could come up in a month.
I did the same to my ex. He wanted every other weekend, I wanted every other week. His excuse was also work. So the Judge mentioned what about your ex wife’s work, se also has to work around that. So the Judge made an order, 50/50. This went on for about 10 years, they are all grown up now. He was not happy to begin with, but a couple of years ago he thanked me for pushing it through. Al 3 kids have a great relationship with their dad and me😁 P.S. I also wanted 50/50 so that the kids could never accuse me of not letting them see their father.
I'll 1:18:26 be tuning in for more of Judge Frederick. Great management of the courtroom, witnesses and lawyers through quickly getting to the point. He is admirable.
Time Share companies give you a runaround. They lose paperwork and don't have an incentive to do anything unless there is a court order forcing them too. Also, I was wondering if Shaundra is single, I'm asking for a friend.
A judge telling this man he has to give a month's notice to see his child is ridiculous. This judge needs to be disbarred and never allowed to practice law again
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The fucking side eye from the mom when the lawyer got her banned from weed🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Yes judge said "that stops your client alot", she can't use pot any during her parenting time which is 98% of the year he can't just for the week while he's with the kid😂😂
If one’s weed use trumps or competes with the precious little time with one’s child, that’s a person who has serious issues.😣
Yup, loved that. Can't wait until until he's here and he requests hair follicle tests.
Glad I wasn’t the only one to notice 😂
That interpretation was amazing. Spot on. He said everything exactly the way it was spoken. I mean exact. When someone said “old kid and other one”, he said exactly that. He didn’t say “older and younger”, he said it exactly as spoken. Very good. Wow.
I’m more shocked that she had the opportunity to move to Hawaii from Michigan and opted out of it!!! 🤦🏾♀️
No Fr that was my very first thought lmfao like wtf
why? Hawaii isn't really such a great place to live.
@@truthspeaker1269 It’s not? I was under the impression that it was a dream compared to some places.
@@misandristmayhemif you are really really making great money because its crazy expensive and there's homeless on every corner.
Some people like to stay were they are comfortable. And close to family.
Judge Frederick and his K9 coffee cup insertion, as well as his efficiency, just became my favorite judge.
wanting a months notice is crazy! A weeks notice should be ok, especially if dad knew when and if the mom was going on vacation etc...If she is in town with their child then a week is plenty. Having so much hate for your ex so that you keep your child from knowing both parents will only hurt your child and make them resent you in the future.
She just wanna be controlling of their son.
Absolutely.
The translator deserves a medal. That was some amazing work. Spanish was my first language, and he spoke about 90mph under battle conditions.
Oh, you sped it up.
Never mind.
I was thinking dayum he's talking fast!! Lol
@@MrPrincetrumpet You're so cute. The "Never mind" is something I've said many a time in my life, upon realizing what's really up. 😆
Omg, Mike! I love you but you talk too much while everyone else is talking and it’s impossible to understand anything!
I agree for real
This guy needs to be in the regular rotation.
I like this judge. He has been doing this for so long he is done with everyone's b.s. Not only is the judge funny but he does everything efficiently. I would like to watch this judge all the time.
That Kent County canine coffee comment got me. I went and spent $60 on the website, and I am now hiding in my closet from my husband 😂😄 mmmmm coffee #NoRegrets
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this resonates with me deep in my soul 🤣
I laughed so loud at this comment😂 I was literally hiding in the closet yesterday after I went gnome crazy at Our local farm and garden store 😂
@@amandaadkins799😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oof…the spicy mom…struck me as “it’s everybody else’s job to take care of things for me”.
It appears to me that being a family court judge is tantamount to being teacher for adults still in kindergarten, while simultaneously herding cats and juggling chainsaws. NO THANK YOU
Kindergarten kids are much easier than junior high students.
Yes!😂😂 I taught 1&2 grade for 18 years and that was my first thought! 😂👍 ………kids are smarter!!
Why do you think Judge Judy was so mean? She was a family court judge for 20 years, give or take. That'd make any of us testy.
I hope you watched this whole video before making a judgement about 50% of the population and didn't just jump to a conclusion in the first 45 seconds
It's tantamount to being a preschool teacher, for sure. All that education for this😢😂
As a mother this judge would crush me… but with my age and experience- I’d say he’s absolutely GOLDEN.kudos to him for making reasonable requests from BOTH parties.
Frederick is my new fav! HE GETS SH** DONE!!! Grumpy, but efficient!
Yes!!
I think he’s grumpy cause he’s tired of people’s sh!t! He seems to be so over petty bickering!
Sounds sort of like Steinbrenner from Seinfeld! Maybe it's more of his cadence then tone. Or maybe Bookman!! Funny.
Can we get more from this judge? I love it!!! "I don't care, this has nothing to do with this, and you best have it together in 4 weeks or you're in trouble." Love it!
This is my new favorite judge. He is NOT messing around. LOL
Judge Fredrick. He is just over us mere mortals propensity to bicker amongst themselves. Love this man. He is just over all the pettiness. Lol
These trials are making me realize all the crazies that live in my town.
Gosh I really do like this grumpy old bloke 😂
He is awesome! I might not agree with every decision in its totality but he is so straight talking and down to earth!
Love it 🥰
JUDGE FREDERICK is quickly becoming a top contender for my favorite judges. He is so over the bs that comes before him. He sees it and calls it out. ❤
He’s a referee, not a judge.
Motion to get him elected Judge.
A month’s notice is excessive. Two weeks is enough time for notice. And is the mom’s goal to keep the dad in or out of their kids’ lives? It’s fair that the mom can’t smoke pot either, which I think backfired for her!
Judge Frederick needs his own playlist Mike!!! I could watch him all day and your commentary is hilarious 😂👍
Yes!😂👍 More Judge Frederick!! ❤ Reminds me of a Doctor cutting out the crap!! 😂😂😂😂 👍
This was one of the best streams ever. I normally can’t bear to watch custody/parenting hearings but this session was instructive, interesting & frankly hilarious at times. Genius.
The internet has affectionately named this Referee “Judge Crankypants”
Haha 😂 Northwest haha 😂 wooo lmfao 🤣
The colorful grandma is hysterically funny. She reminds me of an exotic bird preening in a mirror!! 😂😂😂❤❤❤
All i can say is if you're a father , dont give up ive battled twice for my son and won
Lol, the mom is yelling AND eating at the same time, while in court? Oh no, that's not okay. Lol.
Judge Frederick is a new favorite of mine- total no nonsense and a softy at heart
This judge is great! Doesn't put up with any bs! 😂
This is my favorite judge now!! I have a feeling his docket is NEVER running late. ❤ Takes no BS, and keeps things rolling. Wonderful. ❤❤
Side note: best interpreter I've seen yet. He was on the ball the whole time. 😊
He ISN'T fit to be a JUDGE of ANYTHING!!!
This was one of the best streams I’ve seen in a while. Definitely need more of this judge.
The system needs more judges like this, no nonsense and cut through the crap and get to the heart of the issues!
This judge says everything we are thinking. I like him. 👏👏
@24:40 this judge cracks me up when he says "I don't care what you guys do outside of here." I would love to see a sovcit in his courtroom. It would be hilarious to watch online.
Coffee judge is kicking my ass lol im dying over here! "How are we supposed to know" what you need. Hahaha😂
One of the best judge voices ever.
They named their child Maverick? Well, that’s a slam dunk case of child abuse. Sickening.
I feel bad for the guy that needed the translator. He likely works construction, I worked construction for years, I didn't get home until 9pm some days. No way I could ensure I was available to pick a kid up at 5pm without losing my job.
Isn’t it just two days every two weeks? The mom does it everyday! Right?
It's every second week, a babysitter, teenager or neighbor can pick the kid up until he's off work, duh. Plus it will show a dad's work ethic from an early start.
@magi267 He stated he didn't have anyone to pick up the child after school. His dad can after 5, and that's good. If my son wasn't self-employed, he couldn't get his child after school 2 days a week as he has joint custody. Construction is what he is in and probably this father, too.
@magi267 yeah I agree. Total bs. He has to work, and it wouldn't be nearly as much of an issue is mom drove.
@@a.rae. Exactly … why doesn’t she have her license? You’ve got a kid! That’s a major reason to have them and keep them in good standing, especially for emergencies.
The amount of grown adults out there with kids who don’t even have a license or have had them suspended is absolutely ridiculous. It speaks volumes about the types of person they are.
It’s one thing to be in a city and rely on public transportation, but once there is a kid involved, just get the damn things and keep them. It’s better to have them on hand and never use them as opposed to never having them and coming up on a situation where you do need them … like this situation where the mother could help greatly by just being able to take the kid herself at a set time without all the hassle involving the courts and demanding someone else put their job at risk.
This is the BEST judge. He acts like a real judge and judges and rules. He does not give people endless hours to spew nonsense. He calls people out if they say outrageous stuff. He does not give hysterical people extra time or bother to respond to them. Amazing.
Wow, mom's laywer just got her banned from weed.. lol and it's legal there. Lol
Yup
I haven't made it to this part yet, but I'm still iffy on weed parenting. When you's responsibly I don't have a problem with it, but like alcohol if it's not used responsibly it can cause problems. I've seen it. It's not as big of a problem as alcohol can turn out to be, but nonetheless the problems can be there.
The same goes for some prescription medications. When used responsibly there's no issue, but when you overstep that line it becomes an issue. I completely understand why some judges look down on it a little bit still. Whether it's legal or not.
Hahaha. Right! What a dum dum.
Yup, that back fired on her big time !!!😊😅😂
@@lostineggsaisle as a child of heavy weed users, it is indeed a real issue for the kids. I’m sure there are a lot of people that use it reasonably, but there are many who don’t. It’s a tough call.
I love this judge Craig Frederick we need to see more of him
That first one seems weird. Both the mother and father were planning on moving to Hawaii. She backed out just prior to moving. The father didn't just up and leave. They were planning to move together. 30 day notice is ridiculous to see his child.
I agree 100%. Everyone saying this judge is good but to me it seems like he really doesn't care. The father didn't abandon the family. And her playing games with allowing him to see the kid shows that she is going out of her way to try to destroy the relationship. She should have to pay to take the kid down to see the father
It's hard to really make a judgement with the limited information given. But I would agree that the way it sounded is like the mother abandoned the family plan to move.
@@christking85Thank you for stating that. I felt the same watching it. He was incredibly dismissive and kept interrupting the first woman that was talking. It also seemed like he was blaming him for moving.
I thought the same thing.
Well she's taking care of the kid full time, seen it once in a year, and wants overnights, that is scary what if he decided to jump on a plane and head back to Hawaii?? Doubtful since he apparently hasn't in 3 years but you never know.
We need more Judge Cranky. So funny lol. Another masterpiece, LTWM 🎉🎉🎉
Ref Cranky ☝🏻
@@Sidney-g5f Yes we need a shirt with Ref Cranky on it Lol. He’s the best lol
The judge sounds like Johnny Carson. 😂
32:55 mr Harris hasnt been a single parent yet. . . Give him time, and he'll be begging for weekend visitation with grandma! 😂
The judge sounds EXACTLY like Johnny Carson from The Tonight Show of the 60’s 😅
Tell us your age without showing us your age 😂
I like this Judge, no BS in his court room
I love this judge. He's so up front & very blunt to the point. But I would honestly hate to be before him in any case. 😂
Look at him throwing in some shoutouts, and supporting local furbabies!
Every other judge should watch this judge as part of a training program!
Right?!?😂
Agree
In what NOT TO DO
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Agreed! That’s how you control your court room and be reasonable!
This is why all custody communications should be by text or email. If you have a conversation follow up with written summation of that conversation.
Agreed. It's so obvious. There is no good reason for all the time wasted on people with a history of FTA.
May be just me but it sounds like dad's lawyer is constantly on the verge of tears and it's very distracting.😂
My childs father also decided to CHOOSE and move well over 1,000 miles away and i could never hold her from him just because he didnt give me an entires months notice!!! Thats just crazy to me.....Even if he flew up here unexpectedly or on a whim for whatever reason, id still allow him to take her for the entirety of his visit! Holding your child from the other parent because you dont think a 2 weeks notice is an efficient enough amount of time, is a complete CROCK OF S**T in my opinion!
That shows what a great mother you are.
I agree. The fact she is more worried about the child’s nap time instead of the time with the child’s entire father.. micromanaging at its finest
Is the mother's lawyer barren? Geeeee
Exactly!!
Kids lives shouldn’t be shaken up on a whim bc daddy wants to live in Hawaii.
The fact that the absolute CHAD of a Judge who is looking out for the doggos selling mugs has my utmost RESPECT!!
This judge is too practical for the all this nonsense!
Im stuck in the hospital, and the hubby is with my kitten at home. I just found your videos and wanted to say thank you for your videos. Its bindge time.
You need to find the one about the football player his wife and mistress. I caught that hearing live from the courthouse by a fluke and it was crazy!!! 😂
Let me say I was sadly divorced when my daughters were 2 and 4 years old... For the first 2 months I had full custody with support of my family daily which made work and home time very easy.... My Ex was talked into filing for custody and it being the late 70's of course the Mother won anything and everything they would ask for unlike today. I was given first and third weekends, 4 days a month to see my children.... BUT found the mother was more than happy to allow me to take the girls more often allowing her to play instead of caring for the girls... I paid support for 16 years and ended with a great relationship with both my girls. I ended up paying for college also since the mother turned out to be a dead beat following how the term is used... Thank GOD they turned out great in spit of their mother and I being their parents... things are very different today. Fathers actually have rights that were never given back even in the 80's.
Well, it was great of her to allow you extra time with them no matter if it was selfish reasons .Alot of moms try to prevent that
Some are spiteful. Just like its deadbeat dads the children suffer and its crazy
@@Aioki.GermanySadly, some moms allow “extra time” as long as their child support doesn’t change. Control and money drive choices.
@@texasproud8822They learn to rely on that money. It's hard on both ends, paying and receiving.
Mike that was the best! Thank you!😂😂😂
That was fun 🤩
More Frederick! I love this guy. No tolerance for nonsense. ❤️🔥
Yes more judge Frederick !!!!😊😅😂
I hope there’re more old school judges like him in the pipeline lol - I don’t ever want to not have judges like Frederick! It’s like he’s herding cats but doing it just so smoothly & crankily 😂
Judge Frederick is such a legend 👏
You asked if the interpreter, Eduardo Romero, was doing a good job: He is the single-best Spanish interpreter I have ever seen on your, or any of the LawTubes channels, @LawTalkWithMike . It's a thing of beauty to hear him. He has a brilliant word-sense, knowing exactly what synonym to use to communicate subtle differences in mood.
Love Judge Frederick! Bring him back please!
These zoom meetings take away the dignity of a court appearance that’s why the attendees don’t give it the gravitas it should demand.
Absolutely ridiculous. People are so disappointing
Makes for great entertainment, however, because we can at least see these people for how they really are with the lack of self-respect and shame they display. Plus, we get to have them be forever immortalized on the internet.
viewers can also try to use these real life situations to think through the short term and long term pain children endure when parents separate/divorce. Understand the importance of letting the kids love both parents and not using as pawns against the other parent, nor as the go-between for the grown-ups.. Maybe see THEMSELVES, and feel ashamed, sad, and regretful over things they said and did during the divorce. Can't go back in time & change it but can seek ways to heal or make amends if appropriate-
meaning won't bring up trauma. I had good friends who told me what I needed to hear, not what i wanted to hear during mine. Made changes, had to stay alert to not give in to anger/hurt. apologized to kids and asked for forgiveness. Both parents took ownership of individual contributions that led to divorce outcome. Didn't erase bad memories and feelings; but they knew they were loved, wasn't their fault, nothing to do with them, it was their parents decision.
Its hard to watch many of these cases. Young children dont want either parent to hurt. Try treating other parent with respect and civility. If absolutely cannot, don't talk about the other in front of the kids.. doesn't mean other parent is right or the better person doesn't cost anything. Allow kids to be kids.
Imho.
It's a shame that a mother would do this to a child. She should be happy that a dad is wanting to spend time with his child.
Literally to even make him get a lawyer and go to court just for some time w his kid when he seems to be totally normal is crazy. For what.
It's never about the child's best interest. It's always about the mother getting her way.
That mom wanting to get rid of her kids all day on Friday. I wonder what she is really up to? LOL
Turning tricks?
The second hearing is my new guilty pleasure.. I have rewatched it two times!! I laughed harder and harder each time.. if I was a family court Judge I would likely be like Judge Fredrick… cranky as “F”
I was told that Judge Frederick does stand-up comedy on the weekends. LOL
It's unbelievable the length couples go to for a simple change in location for a pickup and drop off. I never had to go through this kind of shite
I find the astoundingly high divorce rates to be insane. Don't marry and have babies if you're too immature to be in for the long haul. Something is terribly wrong here when people treat their dogs better than their kiddos.
I love it, grandma can’t get rid of that grandbaby fast enough to Dad, at first I thought she was going to fight him for it
The judge is wearing his cranky pants today. He isn’t taking anyone’s BS as he wants to get through the docket so that he can leave early and start celebrating the New Year. Auuwwww. He loves the puppers. Bummed I missed this hearing as @LTWM streamed.
This judge is 💯 Mike's spirit animal/judge
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Ok. After supporting the dogs, maybe he isn't so grumpy.
Being a nurse was hard, being a secondary science teacher was difficult also but there’s no amount of money that would have me babysitting and refereeing these overgrown toddlers 🙄 That last case was off the chain! Both of those parents are bonkers. I feel sorry for the child.
I had a kid who decided in fifth grade that he didn't want to go to school anymore. We pulled him out and we never regretted it. But we didn't just let him stop doing school... we gave him a trial run of afternoon work to show him what homeschooling would be like. Then we pulled him home, but I taught him myself, full time -- and you better believe that I was a lot more rigorous than his public school teachers ever were!!! What's more, he loved it. He was never looking for a way out of schoolwork, he was looking for a way to get sufficient challenge not to be bored silly, as well as a way to avoid bullies who liked to pick on the small kid with the big mouth.
We homeschooled him from 6th grade through 9th; then he went back to public high school because there was an international program he wanted to do. He's still in that and doing great. It's not always wrong to listen to a kid who says they want to leave school, but you have to listen to *why* they want to, and be realistic with them about what it's okay to change and what it isn't.
How did you handle socialization during that time period?
@@DomVonDoom He had friends via synagogue, whom he saw every week there; and also visited with after school hours during the week whenever we could arrange it. Besides that, we have a pretty big extended family including a lot of cousins that he spent time with. It got much harder during the last 18 months because of Covid, of course, but that would've been true whether he'd been in the public schools or not, since the public schools were running from home that year anyhow. He had actually originally requested to go back to high school in 9th grade, but his school was still doing things remotely by then, and we decided together that if he had to do school alone, he might as well do it with the setup that was *intended* for him to be working alone, rather than having him do school 'alone' at the same time as a lot of other kids, none of whom really knew how to work this way (nor did the teacher). So we kept him out one more year, and sent him back to brick and mortar school in tenth, when they'd started up in person again.
@@norarivkis2513 Thank you for the thoughtful response. I bet he is further ahead than his peers in some ways. Covid home school was really hard for some kids but I bet yours definitely excelled, helping hit the ground running in some unexpected ways.
@@DomVonDoom Thank you! I really tried to be the best teacher I could be, and I think the most important thing was that I made very sure *before* I removed him from regular school that he was asking for good reasons that made sense, and that he had a realistic view of what it actually was going to be like. In fact, the moment I made the final decision to go ahead and homeschool him the following year was one afternoon, when we were doing the 'practice homeschooling' after his regular schoolday was finished, to help him understand what it would be like to work under me and help me understand whether he was serious.
I had asked him to write a short essay, and we were going over it together. I wasn't being harsh with him or anything, but I was definitely coming down much tougher on mistakes than his fifth grade teacher ever did, or probably any other teacher he'd ever had, either. My son had never done badly on an essay before, and even though I assured him that on the whole, it *wasn't* bad, I also stopped at every single place I thought it could be improved and we talked about them.
By the end of the session, we had been working on a one-page essay for an hour and a half, and my poor son was in tears. This was nothing like any review of his schoolwork that he'd ever had, because I'm a stricter teacher than he'd ever had. When I saw he was crying, I stopped and asked if he was okay, and then gently reminded him that this was an example of the way I teach. Did he still want to work with me instead of the school system, I asked? It was okay if he didn't; the whole point of this was to figure out what he really wanted.
Without hesitating a single moment, tears still running down his face, my eleven-year-old instantly nodded hard. He was sure. The fact that it hurt to be held to a higher standard than he was used to didn't mean he didn't *want* to be held to a higher standard, it just meant he needed to adjust to it, I saw.
If he could sit there in tears and still tell me this was what he wanted to do, I knew he meant it. And if he didn't want to back out right now, when it was hard enough to make him cry, he wasn't going to want to back out when he was really doing it just because it was hard, or because I asked more of him than he expected.
I talked to his father that night, and we agreed the next day to pull him from school after the end of that school year. He absolutely thrived in four years of homeschooling, and he's thriving just as much in brick and mortar school now that he's back there. I honestly don't know whether he could have done the international baccalaureate program he's in right now, if he had tried to do it after going straight through the American middle school system... it's very tough work, and he has enjoyed getting his teeth into it, but he needed all that experience doing hard academic work to a high standard before he ever started the program... and there's no way he would have received that experience in the middle school he'd have attended.
I wish you or someone like you would have taught me. I was a good child in public school, a fair student with A's, B's, and C's. I was very shy and insecure. But I loved science class, learning about chromosomes and such. I was 14, female, 10th grade, really getting into the subject when I unconsciously raised the 2 front legs of my chair off the floor, maybe 2 inches. I did not fall, teeter, rock, or disturb anyone. But, I was held after class. The 4 teachers waited till the next 2 classes were waiting to come in before they made me bend over and paddled me‼️ I can not describe the damage that did. Shamefully, I let that moment dictate my life for several years. I could not drop out of school but I quit participating. I did the very barest amount of work to keep a D and E average to graduate. I started drinking, smoking pot, and skipping classes. That was 43 years ago. I will always wonder if I had it in me to be a Scientist or college material or anything better than I was.
In short, your son is very blessed that you listened to him and gave him what he needed. I wish every child could be so lucky 💞
The poor child: the mother "interfers with her education" by sitting on the school's parking lot.. and the father seems to be crazy.
Several decades ago, parents started wanting to be their kids’ “friend,” now it seems like they want their kid to be the parent (decision-maker)… Their job is to parent their kids.
My dad was disabled and raised me at home while mom worked. When I was ~15, it was expected that I'd mostly make decisions for myself, and I stopped getting feedback and/or help from them. Yet I still had to take care of dad and still do, 20 years later. He tried the friend thing, and got me started smoking weed. I'm fairly responsible with things like that, and I barely ever drink, but he started allowing that stuff far too young, imo. He had a stroke in 2004, and has been slowly degrading mentally and physically since then. I still can't get any reasonable help or advice from my family, everything is so centered around him. It's been pretty difficult to figure out how to actually adult, because I don't really have a good example within my family. I think I'm doing OK now, but it's still hard
Shaunda is coming out of the gate swinging. She is hollering her points, judge won't put up with this. Then she says she's homeless. Please, let us keep following this case.
I agree !! Ahhh juicy
Something wrong with her, and her eating in court geez.
I love old Judge Krachet, he's great!
Mothers can make it so difficult for the fathers of their children to have a relationship with their kids, and it only hurts the kids! Courts need to do better.
He CHOOSE to move across the ocean. Not saying I agree with the mom but is no one considering that he choose to leave. If the tables were turned and she was going to Hawaii and leaving the kids with him on mainland ….. she would be charged with abandonment.
Judge is wrong. She was going to move to Hawaii with him and bailed 1 week before. Give him standard parenting time.
Absolutely! She bailed on him. He didn’t just leave them.
At one stage she was a first time Mum and didn't know what she was doing and nobody took the child away from her because of it. You learn by hands on. To say you want a month's notice is crazy. All sorts of things could come up in a month.
Did you see her eyes when Judge said no weed for either parent tho?? 😂😂
"yeah aloha take the hat off" KILLED ME LOL love your comments Mike!
I did the same to my ex.
He wanted every other weekend, I wanted every other week.
His excuse was also work. So the Judge mentioned what about your ex wife’s work, se also has to work around that.
So the Judge made an order, 50/50. This went on for about 10 years, they are all grown up now.
He was not happy to begin with, but a couple of years ago he thanked me for pushing it through.
Al 3 kids have a great relationship with their dad and me😁
P.S. I also wanted 50/50 so that the kids could never accuse me of not letting them see their father.
@annnariebarratt4213 I appreciate folks like you who act in the kids best interest. Thank you from a random person!
I love judge Frederick!!! “I’m not buying it”
#3 is why you never buy a timeshare, #5 interpreter should do Corona commercials
Good lord on the dad in the last hearing. Hope there is a follow up. Clearly you can see what mind set he is.
I'll 1:18:26 be tuning in for more of Judge Frederick. Great management of the courtroom, witnesses and lawyers through quickly getting to the point. He is admirable.
Nevada could use this judge and any brothers he may have! I hope he becomes a regular.
Mike, you really do have too much fun! I enjoy LTWM every time. 😊
I’ve been watching you channel for like a month and I LOVE this judge!!
Grumpy Judge matches my vibe this morning 😅
I love no nonsense judges. He has the wisdom of experience .
Time Share companies give you a runaround. They lose paperwork and don't have an incentive to do anything unless there is a court order forcing them too. Also, I was wondering if Shaundra is single, I'm asking for a friend.
I was a telemarketer for time shares and they are a scam 😅
This judge is a hoot! 😂😂
Good morning Mike. Short time lurker here. Love your vids😊 -lurking from Las Vegas 👋🏼
Hey there!
I like this Judge too. Short and sweet..no nonsense 😊😅😅😅
Fantastic coffee stream today 👍
Thank you
Love this judge
Mike was having so much fun with this one. Love it!!❤
A judge telling this man he has to give a month's notice to see his child is ridiculous. This judge needs to be disbarred and never allowed to practice law again
You go from sleeping in the same bed to calling each other by last name 😂😂😂😂 Jesus
You mean "She could use some mascara but she isn't totally unfortunate looking" from Legally Blonde