I graduated as an undergrad one weekend and got married the next. I was 23 and my wife was 33. Been married 30+ years ...lost her to Alzheimer's/ dementia. Not typical, I know but it can work. 31:55 I was a male model on academic scholarship and did not care what other men think. Lol my wife was hit on all the time... Including members of Congress. Great video.
@@nsideoutn8439 Mark doesn’t need to repost his evergreen content but he probably has a good reason for it. Or it’s because I don’t know how TH-cam works from his perspective. If we were talking about Facebook pages, I would know. TH-cam is a much better platform and the earning potentials are way higher. I just don’t have experience with it yet Was your comment and attempt to be rude to me?
@@nsideoutn8439 I think the original commentator is trying to be funny too, so I don’t know. I hope you feel better. Seems like a really low tier, low level troll comment that wouldn’t even make it up the subreddit mildly interesting. But now I’m just here commenting away because I like Mark and this always helps with the algorithm.
why do people ALWAYS think a 10 has a bad personality and treat men poorly? I've had 2 girlfriends, one a 9 and another a near-perfect 10. both were good people (nicer than me) and treated me very well. likewise, I tried to be the best boyfriend too. there are beautiful women with good personalities and values. conversely, there are physically unattractive people with bad personalities too.
It has become that because modern society tells women they can always find better and not to help build relationships over time. It has to be prepared for them already. Then if they get bored, they feel they missed something, take half of the man's effort, and hope their "instincts" are right. These men, who have this ripped from them, refuse to enter the ring again.
Sadia and Mark are far superior people than ones like Codie. Ugh. This was one, like the majority of your podcasts is amazing, insightful, and a great conversation.
Preface: I enjoy and find value in many of your posts. Thank you for producing them. This post: Well it certainly generated some interesting feedback! My take: I'm rarely a commenter here - which can be seen as a good thing, because most often, only the disgruntled are moved to an effort to comment ... so (*sigh*) I'm going to take a strong exception to your dialog about men sexualizing women, as it should be something adult males need to manage. Which, realy is true in a general and generic context. My exception is that society as a whole, sexualizes women. It's an unavoidable consistant bombardment in all media. It's also a behavior women endorse themselves by behavior, even while many speak against it in word. This is a big deal, because it plays out as such a significant way in our everyday experience.
Oh my God I have a question about this topic, I hope it will be answered (even by anyone). In my environment, there's a strong opinion that said "Men are born with brain designed to think about sexual things all the time (about women). It's just depends on their control". Half part of me trained by society thinks that it actually make sense, but another part of me just thinks it's impossible. I mean, how could you see woman sexually all the time? That's just bad bad. And what makes it bad is that, I rarely found out about opinion denying this or at least saying that man has great control over this. Maybe some part of men can be like this, but it's not everyone right? Does this type of men just don't bother to argue? Esp on social media, it's either not talking about this but non verbally agreed, or a blatant show of men "dirtying" themselves saying their brain is trained to focus on sexual things. It's pretty terrifying because I'm a young single women. What's the point on having a man if all the time they thought about sexual things? To be honest, I'm asking this just for the sake of being proven wrong. Or at least getting more point of views. Thank you for reading.
Men are wired physically and visually. This is why men are good at architecture, building, and creating. For a young man to see a woman sexually comes from the desire for them to find one that is capable of carrying and bearing children. It used to be a strong suit for a young woman to bear as many children for her husband. Now society has shown the birth rate is dropping because women want to wait and have fun. The nuclear family is dying for the sake of selfishness and pleasure. Social media destroys more than it creates. It gives the illusion that sexual pleasure can be enjoyed more outside than inside a marriage. It needs to stop both ways, where women need to stop sexualizing themselves and certain men need to stop playing the game. Movies and media do nothing to solve the issue.
12:30 Also rating women about their actual looks with out filers and take in to consideration age. I am amazed at women that think they are a 9 or 10 and are now at best a 4 or 5. Then the Chads can take advantage of you.
As a dating researcher, I have to disagree heavily with one thing the two of them say, meaning that older men should not sexualize young women. It is biologically totally normal! Sexual attractiveness almost 1:1 correlates with fertility. Men should, biologically speaking, go for the most fertile women. The instinct, the sexual desire is always there. Of course, the likelihood that a 30 year younger women is not a suitable partner is obvious. That is why getting older is so frustrating. Personally, I don't find women in my age range not sexually attractive. There is nothing I can do about it. It is not something we can decide. Either there is a sexual attraction or not! Of course, older men want also deep connections with a partner. But if the sexual component is missing, it is probably a good friendship with a woman, which is great, but it is NOT a romantic, sexual relationship. Also, opposite to what both of them claim, the vast majority of men do NOT date hot girls to impress their friends. This may be a thing in Hollywood or among rich Americans in Dubai, but not with 'normal' people. Most men who are able to date much younger women (98% of men can't do that), do it because they are attracted to these women. Thats it. Most rich men I know who date much younger women do not tell anyone, they even keep their relationships secret or at least do not boast with it.
Why is then that they eat the most amount of antidepressants, and as marriage rates have gone down, women are in general less and less happy? Women might be more *stimulated* (esp s"xually) but there's no actual meaning or joy when people give up their natural roles.
@@edheldude Wait until they're pushing 50, especially those who were never married and had no children. An empty home every night for social creatures like women gets tough to be alone.
American moralising worldview fascinates me. Let's put you all in an opportunity and a hidden camera :D. At least we here in Europe don't need all these stories, we are liberated and live as we want, sorry for you all in US :D.
I graduated as an undergrad one weekend and got married the next. I was 23 and my wife was 33. Been married 30+ years ...lost her to Alzheimer's/ dementia. Not typical, I know but it can work. 31:55 I was a male model on academic scholarship and did not care what other men think. Lol my wife was hit on all the time... Including members of Congress. Great video.
Nice that they're interviewing each other
These constant reuploads are making it difficult to know what I already watched and what is new 😢
ahhhh I didn't realize what was going on. Thanks
Oh man the struggle is real. So sorry to hear
@@nsideoutn8439 Mark doesn’t need to repost his evergreen content but he probably has a good reason for it.
Or it’s because I don’t know how TH-cam works from his perspective.
If we were talking about Facebook pages, I would know.
TH-cam is a much better platform and the earning potentials are way higher.
I just don’t have experience with it yet
Was your comment and attempt to be rude to me?
@@nsideoutn8439 I think the original commentator is trying to be funny too, so I don’t know. I hope you feel better. Seems like a really low tier, low level troll comment that wouldn’t even make it up the subreddit mildly interesting.
But now I’m just here commenting away because I like Mark and this always helps with the algorithm.
I agree 💯
excellent discussion on the problems that young men face on the dating scene
This video was more informative than the latest one with sabrina.
why do people ALWAYS think a 10 has a bad personality and treat men poorly? I've had 2 girlfriends, one a 9 and another a near-perfect 10. both were good people (nicer than me) and treated me very well. likewise, I tried to be the best boyfriend too. there are beautiful women with good personalities and values. conversely, there are physically unattractive people with bad personalities too.
Marriage is a scam... Just have love.
It has become that because modern society tells women they can always find better and not to help build relationships over time. It has to be prepared for them already. Then if they get bored, they feel they missed something, take half of the man's effort, and hope their "instincts" are right.
These men, who have this ripped from them, refuse to enter the ring again.
Mark is trying to get more dates for drew😂 openly.
Sadia and Mark are far superior people than ones like Codie. Ugh. This was one, like the majority of your podcasts is amazing, insightful, and a great conversation.
I love this women
Preface: I enjoy and find value in many of your posts. Thank you for producing them.
This post: Well it certainly generated some interesting feedback!
My take: I'm rarely a commenter here - which can be seen as a good thing, because most often, only the disgruntled are moved to an effort to comment ... so (*sigh*) I'm going to take a strong exception to your dialog about men sexualizing women, as it should be something adult males need to manage. Which, realy is true in a general and generic context. My exception is that society as a whole, sexualizes women. It's an unavoidable consistant bombardment in all media. It's also a behavior women endorse themselves by behavior, even while many speak against it in word. This is a big deal, because it plays out as such a significant way in our everyday experience.
Oh my God I have a question about this topic, I hope it will be answered (even by anyone).
In my environment, there's a strong opinion that said "Men are born with brain designed to think about sexual things all the time (about women). It's just depends on their control".
Half part of me trained by society thinks that it actually make sense, but another part of me just thinks it's impossible. I mean, how could you see woman sexually all the time? That's just bad bad. And what makes it bad is that, I rarely found out about opinion denying this or at least saying that man has great control over this. Maybe some part of men can be like this, but it's not everyone right? Does this type of men just don't bother to argue? Esp on social media, it's either not talking about this but non verbally agreed, or a blatant show of men "dirtying" themselves saying their brain is trained to focus on sexual things. It's pretty terrifying because I'm a young single women. What's the point on having a man if all the time they thought about sexual things?
To be honest, I'm asking this just for the sake of being proven wrong. Or at least getting more point of views. Thank you for reading.
Men are wired physically and visually. This is why men are good at architecture, building, and creating. For a young man to see a woman sexually comes from the desire for them to find one that is capable of carrying and bearing children.
It used to be a strong suit for a young woman to bear as many children for her husband. Now society has shown the birth rate is dropping because women want to wait and have fun. The nuclear family is dying for the sake of selfishness and pleasure.
Social media destroys more than it creates. It gives the illusion that sexual pleasure can be enjoyed more outside than inside a marriage. It needs to stop both ways, where women need to stop sexualizing themselves and certain men need to stop playing the game. Movies and media do nothing to solve the issue.
12:30 Also rating women about their actual looks with out filers and take in to consideration age. I am amazed at women that think they are a 9 or 10 and are now at best a 4 or 5. Then the Chads can take advantage of you.
So basically the expert doesn’t know where single people meet…
As a dating researcher, I have to disagree heavily with one thing the two of them say, meaning that older men should not sexualize young women. It is biologically totally normal! Sexual attractiveness almost 1:1 correlates with fertility. Men should, biologically speaking, go for the most fertile women. The instinct, the sexual desire is always there. Of course, the likelihood that a 30 year younger women is not a suitable partner is obvious. That is why getting older is so frustrating. Personally, I don't find women in my age range not sexually attractive. There is nothing I can do about it. It is not something we can decide. Either there is a sexual attraction or not!
Of course, older men want also deep connections with a partner. But if the sexual component is missing, it is probably a good friendship with a woman, which is great, but it is NOT a romantic, sexual relationship.
Also, opposite to what both of them claim, the vast majority of men do NOT date hot girls to impress their friends. This may be a thing in Hollywood or among rich Americans in Dubai, but not with 'normal' people. Most men who are able to date much younger women (98% of men can't do that), do it because they are attracted to these women. Thats it. Most rich men I know who date much younger women do not tell anyone, they even keep their relationships secret or at least do not boast with it.
12:44 e Harmony does this
Mark, glad to hear you grew up. How many men don’t . I know a man at 80. Still think sex every 3 seconds. I said THINK. Haha.
The happiest people statistically are single woman and married men… ladies stay safe out there 🙂↕️✨
I'm sure its actually married men then single men, gay men, straight men, employed men, unemployed men, and then single women
Why is then that they eat the most amount of antidepressants, and as marriage rates have gone down, women are in general less and less happy? Women might be more *stimulated* (esp s"xually) but there's no actual meaning or joy when people give up their natural roles.
we got live laugh love over here haha.
@@edheldude
Wait until they're pushing 50, especially those who were never married and had no children. An empty home every night for social creatures like women gets tough to be alone.
American moralising worldview fascinates me. Let's put you all in an opportunity and a hidden camera :D. At least we here in Europe don't need all these stories, we are liberated and live as we want, sorry for you all in US :D.
Liberated = falling birth rates and the same popu1ation co1lapse.
Yes we men are all the same model have the same likes and goals for women.
Please talk about % please I relate nothing to this.