I feel like a feisty American woman when I hear the guy who doesn’t talk to a lot of girls say he wants to date a Japanese woman because he HEARD they are good housewives. Boy bye. 😂
🗣️I really admire you as a fello black man ✊🏾for your courage to be able to go to a country that doesn’t have a great outlook on blacks in general, but your able to get them to open up to you and have a healthy experience with a black person for the first time. 🧑🏾You are helping to break down global racism each country at a time to create equality.✊🏾
I'm going to Korea next year, but dating doesn't seem like its something I'll do, even if I would like to. They are VERY conservative and if a man can't be open minded as a person, then its an immediate NO for me.
Girl, ignore this video. Just go ahead and date, there are whole lot of open minded people around even in Korea. You need experience these yourself first instead of forming an opinion based out of a few selected random guys showed in yt video.
@@ManAssome I'm basing this off of all women I know who have lived or currently live in S.Korea. defiently not just one youtube video 😅 but many many peoples experiences. My chances of finding an openminded guy in South Korea are second to slim af.
@@vnolan633 she said what she said. It is only on how she feels based on her research that she knows. Also she said it is not something that she would do anyway. So what is the big deal. Your high defensive off of one's personal feelings is quite harsh and ignorant don't you think.
The guy with white and blue short seems so nice and opened minded♡ i don't have a hip hop style or a 변호사 style, I think korean people cannot fall in love with me ^^
There are so many flavors of guys and gals in every ethnic group. Of course, everyone has their preference but don't apply stereotypes on a group, for example, American gals are feisty or they're all open-minded or Asians are conservative...etc. That's definitely not true. At the end of the day, we're all human beings with similar needs.
This was such a great episode and wished it went longer. I hope you do a 2nd part to this. The guests were also fun to listen to and I appreciate their candor! :)
I’d really like to see a video on black women specifically. A lot of the comments on previous videos I feel like talk about black men (which isn’t bad) but I’d like to hear more about us ☺️
😕 but you only asked Young people in there 20s‼️ It really would be nice if you varied the range of people and included middle aged 😭 30s and 40s please
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 The *ideal partner for the speaker is someone slightly shorter in height, with shared hobbies and a compatible taste in food.* 00:40 They *prefer someone who practices self-care, has high self-esteem, and values inner beauty over external appearance.* 00:55 The *speaker is attracted to a hip and unique style in clothing, particularly liking the fashion seen in Hongdae.* 01:09 They *appreciate a more feminine appearance, including dresses and high heels.* 01:38 Compatibility *is important, including shared values and hobbies.* 01:53 The *speaker's ideal height for a partner is around 160 to 170 cm.* 03:03 They *haven't had much experience with dating foreign women but are open to it if there's a shared vision and culture.* 04:13 The *speaker doesn't have a strong preference for nationality and is comfortable with various nationalities, including Asians and Americans.* 04:58 They *mainly meet people through university, friends, or potentially on the street or through dating apps.* 05:26 The *speaker is open to meeting potential partners at work but hasn't had such experiences yet. They value confidence and a positive attitude in a person's personality.* 05:54 When *interested in someone, the speaker asks for their contact information and appreciates open-minded and relaxed individuals.* 06:20 The *speaker doesn't have a specific fashion preference for potential partners but prefers a style that suits the individual's personality.* 07:05 They *describe themselves as liking clean and dandy styles, such as office looks, and don't have strong dislikes in fashion.* 07:20 The *speaker prefers modesty in dress when in a relationship to avoid drawing unnecessary attention.* 08:05 While *open to the idea of marrying a foreigner if they love them, the speaker currently leans towards marrying a Korean due to personal preference and societal factors.* Made with HARPA AI
Love the video, thanks. I am learning Korean and I do speak fluent English and Spanish but honestly how did you get so good at speaking Korean??? You sound like a native. I hope I get to be that good one day.
They all are cute but they dont have much life experience outside their box. So many cliches about people ... fears about by hear say ... its a pity. First of all they needed education in human psychology and cultures. Seriously, 1. if a foreign woman wants to marry a korean she will learn the language before travelling and will have several experiences with koreans in her homecountry or via language provider, video conference cause she wants to talk to you 24h ... 2. she will have knowledge and interest about your culture, tradition and study or work in K 3. even she can not be a model or that height you demand she will do her best to be pretty and nice and adorable for you 4. women are women like men are men in the whole world. everybody wants to get respect, no lies, no cheating, no ghosting. Dont seek the difference but celebrate the common. It depends on the behavior and good manner, not on the nationality. (grazy and morons are everywhere). Like some of these men said. We are as cute as you.
"Aren't American women feisty." Mostly, but not always quite in the way I believe he thinks. We tend to be more direct and we don't mince words. I was a military NCO l, so I'm a rare breed of "zero fucks given" even amongst Americans.
gosh, your wife is not your servant. whenever a guy mentioned he like certain type of girl because she will be a housewife it just freak me out. so traditional
I have got to say the comments in this thread is very mature. I have read similar one in the past where people say bad things about the preferences of guys. What they don`t understand is that people like what they like and I like when guys are honest.
I hesitate to comment because usually the pacing of the english subs with the editing is fine. Maybe it's just me being a slow reader, but in this video, particularly when jumping between different people, when they had a large amount to say, I would be trying to read it and find that it disappeared from the screen too quickly and I needed to rewind at least 10-15 different times in this video just to be able to read what was being said.
So in short most korean men prefer korean girls cause they share the same culture/values in life, they also speak the same language which wouldn’t complicate things when communicating and they’re very submissive and respectful. Korean men views western girls more on dominant type(just like what the guy said on the vid “fiesty”) and i think thats why they prefer korean girls more cause korean men prefers to be the dom in the relationship they want someone who is very submissive thats why they usually like small, shy and cute girls. They want someone who will stay in the house and cook and clean for them. Unlike in western where girls are more on their dominant sides and prefer to work for themselves and be treated like queens.
Something that all countries seem to have in common is that height matters. If you are a woman, you want a guy who is taller than you. Then what a person is looking for and likes. Depends on your personality. What you think is attractive. Then for wise, religion also comes into play. And for others not. But the most important thing is to show each other respect. In Sweden, it is not unusual, for example, to live with a person who has a religion. Even if we ourselves are not so religious. And because there are so many people from different countries living in Sweden. So you don't even have to go abroad to find someone. 👍🏻 I meet my partner on a job course. And he is Arab. Luckily he is 190cm tall too. When I'm 182 cm.
The guy saying his reasoning for not dating a foreigner is childish, meaning he could not express himself as deep as he wanted to doesnt sound childish at all to me. Maybe he could still meet a foreign girl he can speak korean with.
Tattoo guy is hot and right about the height different. And the men about the language barrier if you're not fluent is correct. Imagine all these men dating "Russians" just for the experience is sad.
It seems that he tends to find short Korean guys because it feels easier for him to interview? I guess.. because i always thought there are many tall guys in Korea.
Yeah, when i hear them describing someone foreign, i aways assume they are talking about someone with lighter skin or skin close to their skin tone. Drives me insane as a black american that they assume america is full of mainly white people.
that's who they consider foreigners, black people are not someone they even consider in their mind because of parents, and culture that involves obsession with beauty standards like white pale skin etc.
@@brianle4330 no. The demographics in numbers in america for whites are skewed. Because they only count based on what people put down of what they want to identify as. Like we have groups of people who are latino, indian and mixed race that will identify as being white when they aren’t actually white. Which fluffs up the numbers for whites being accounted for in america. If we were to accurately account the actual percentage of whites in america, the number would be way lower as more people with ethnic backgrounds start to come and immigrate into america and that are already in america. Plus, native americans (indigenous people of america that were in north america first and actually owns the land) were not white or caucasian. So for them to assume americans are mostly white is pretty much excluding the fact that north american natives aren’t even white.
@@anonnnymousthegreatspeaking “american” nobody refers to natives. They refer “typical” american - white american. And I don’t think it is “cool” to be white in America. You’ll get more privileges if you identify yourself as non-white
i'm sorry but they are really conservative . i think some teen girls should stop idealizing koreans specially that house wife idea was on another level
Guy at the end 8:07 , is making excuses. You can even tell by his body language. Like just say you wouldn’t take a foreigner seriously and go. If he was being interviewed by a korean instead of a foreigner, he probably would’ve been more honest lol
didn't you watch the interview ? He said he was open to dating anyone and mentioned not having any plans to marry as of yet due to financial issues. Across all the guys he came across as the most open- minded.
@@joannejones363yes I did and those are the excuses I was talking about. Korean men are known for dating foreign women just for fun and not for marriage.
@@caycay3858 wtf. What part of it came as an excuse for you ? The dude's single and not with someone and choosing to marry when you are financially stable is a smart move not an excuse
@@joannejones363 I do agree that that is a smart move, but I would still take his reasons for not wanting to marry with a grain of salt because most Korean men are conservative and prefer to marry their own women for communication and cultural reasons.
could you please bring some diversity into your videos!! all heterosexuals!! bring some Gay korean guys in as well and ask them what they find attractive!!
Women do it all the time, as well. Everyone is allowed their preferences. Also, an ideal type in your head doesn't always equat to a "must have" list. It just means that's your ideal. Most people are reasonable enough to assume they'll never get the ideal.
@@chrystianaw8256 it's not their preference. Trust me. They just didn't have any chance to meet foreign women. They dont have any clue about them. That's all.
It's the other way around imo, japanese are the ones that are trying to be like koreans. They are the biggest consumers of hallyu which includes kpop and kdramas which puts forward attractive people that the japanese would like to emulate. In comparison, japanese has really just been putting out anime and games, which does not give much for koreans to try and emulate. It's why there are tons of japanese coming to korea to get plastic surgery, or becoming pop idols there, or talking about how they'd like to be like koreans in interviews like these, but it is hardly ever the same way around.
Striped shirt guy is so sweet, he'll make a good boyfriend one day.
I agree 🙌🏻 also a good friend
"...they look like pirates..." SENT ME INTO ORBIT. i love street interviews esp about mundane ish like this haha
I feel like a feisty American woman when I hear the guy who doesn’t talk to a lot of girls say he wants to date a Japanese woman because he HEARD they are good housewives. Boy bye. 😂
U’r a good example of why they prefer korean girls
🗣️I really admire you as a fello black man ✊🏾for your courage to be able to go to a country that doesn’t have a great outlook on blacks in general, but your able to get them to open up to you and have a healthy experience with a black person for the first time. 🧑🏾You are helping to break down global racism each country at a time to create equality.✊🏾
He lives there He didn't just visit for this interview
bro in stripes just genuinely wants to love and be loved
I'm going to Korea next year, but dating doesn't seem like its something I'll do, even if I would like to. They are VERY conservative and if a man can't be open minded as a person, then its an immediate NO for me.
Girl, ignore this video. Just go ahead and date, there are whole lot of open minded people around even in Korea. You need experience these yourself first instead of forming an opinion based out of a few selected random guys showed in yt video.
@@ManAssome I'm basing this off of all women I know who have lived or currently live in S.Korea. defiently not just one youtube video 😅 but many many peoples experiences. My chances of finding an openminded guy in South Korea are second to slim af.
@@marisabel5500 don't worry, conservative men have money and won't look your way
@@vnolan633 she said what she said. It is only on how she feels based on her research that she knows. Also she said it is not something that she would do anyway. So what is the big deal. Your high defensive off of one's personal feelings is quite harsh and ignorant don't you think.
@@vnolan633 You're not making sense at all.
The guy with white and blue short seems so nice and opened minded♡
i don't have a hip hop style or a 변호사 style, I think korean people cannot fall in love with me ^^
Tkt 😊
I love that white mask white tshirt "not normal" guy . And his voice is so damn nice
So honest and straight forward while being polite about it. Love it.
"They look like pirates" really got me off gard 😂😂😂
For scientific reasons i need the contact of the guy in the white tshirt and long hair
There are so many flavors of guys and gals in every ethnic group. Of course, everyone has their preference but don't apply stereotypes on a group, for example, American gals are feisty or they're all open-minded or Asians are conservative...etc. That's definitely not true. At the end of the day, we're all human beings with similar needs.
yeahh definitely
the boy in the white tshırt ıs so calm ı like his vibe
This was such a great episode and wished it went longer. I hope you do a 2nd part to this. The guests were also fun to listen to and I appreciate their candor! :)
The guy in the stripe shirt is perfect for the koreaboos 😂 he likes everything
He is so honest and cute❤😂
Frr but seriously he caught my attention help-
They seem to have a lot of requirements yet don't seem to offer much in return. 😂
THE GUY WITH STRIPED SHIRT IS SO ADORABLE OH MY GOODNESS 😭💖
The 2 guys who didn't mind height were the only green flags to me lmao
i like white shirt guy with bun answers its so genuine
Ok tattoo guy has my vote😊
Finally, a few guys that are ok with taller women. Always seeing guys saying 5'5" or shorter and I am like... what's wrong with taller women? lol
My g how long did it take you to get so good at korean?
I’d really like to see a video on black women specifically. A lot of the comments on previous videos I feel like talk about black men (which isn’t bad) but I’d like to hear more about us ☺️
Why do you feel that way. When he was talking about black people in general. Which is consistent of men and women. So I don't understand?!
😕 but you only asked Young people in there 20s‼️
It really would be nice if you varied the range of people and included middle aged 😭 30s and 40s please
3:24 It might sound childish(X)
Even if I am fluent in a foreign language(O)(외국어를 유창하게(fluently)해도)
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 The *ideal partner for the speaker is someone slightly shorter in height, with shared hobbies and a compatible taste in food.*
00:40 They *prefer someone who practices self-care, has high self-esteem, and values inner beauty over external appearance.*
00:55 The *speaker is attracted to a hip and unique style in clothing, particularly liking the fashion seen in Hongdae.*
01:09 They *appreciate a more feminine appearance, including dresses and high heels.*
01:38 Compatibility *is important, including shared values and hobbies.*
01:53 The *speaker's ideal height for a partner is around 160 to 170 cm.*
03:03 They *haven't had much experience with dating foreign women but are open to it if there's a shared vision and culture.*
04:13 The *speaker doesn't have a strong preference for nationality and is comfortable with various nationalities, including Asians and Americans.*
04:58 They *mainly meet people through university, friends, or potentially on the street or through dating apps.*
05:26 The *speaker is open to meeting potential partners at work but hasn't had such experiences yet. They value confidence and a positive attitude in a person's personality.*
05:54 When *interested in someone, the speaker asks for their contact information and appreciates open-minded and relaxed individuals.*
06:20 The *speaker doesn't have a specific fashion preference for potential partners but prefers a style that suits the individual's personality.*
07:05 They *describe themselves as liking clean and dandy styles, such as office looks, and don't have strong dislikes in fashion.*
07:20 The *speaker prefers modesty in dress when in a relationship to avoid drawing unnecessary attention.*
08:05 While *open to the idea of marrying a foreigner if they love them, the speaker currently leans towards marrying a Korean due to personal preference and societal factors.*
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Love the video, thanks. I am learning Korean and I do speak fluent English and Spanish but honestly how did you get so good at speaking Korean??? You sound like a native. I hope I get to be that good one day.
They all are cute but they dont have much life experience outside their box. So many cliches about people ... fears about by hear say ... its a pity. First of all they needed education in human psychology and cultures. Seriously, 1. if a foreign woman wants to marry a korean she will learn the language before travelling and will have several experiences with koreans in her homecountry or via language provider, video conference cause she wants to talk to you 24h ... 2. she will have knowledge and interest about your culture, tradition and study or work in K 3. even she can not be a model or that height you demand she will do her best to be pretty and nice and adorable for you 4. women are women like men are men in the whole world. everybody wants to get respect, no lies, no cheating, no ghosting. Dont seek the difference but celebrate the common. It depends on the behavior and good manner, not on the nationality. (grazy and morons are everywhere). Like some of these men said. We are as cute as you.
5:27 who was not shocked that this man had no experience? Bless his heart
Blue stripes is so cute 😂
몇명의 인터뷰일뿐. 일반화하지는 말아주세요~😊
man with tattoo were pretty specific. Dude are you hiring someone lol
"Aren't American women feisty."
Mostly, but not always quite in the way I believe he thinks. We tend to be more direct and we don't mince words. I was a military NCO l, so I'm a rare breed of "zero fucks given" even amongst Americans.
Yeah but he said Japanese and American who typically have totally opposite personality
그 striped tshirt guy 찾아야겠어요 ㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎ 너무 쉬트하다야~~~
I just fell in love with the guy who said his ideal type should like and play video games 😢
gosh, your wife is not your servant. whenever a guy mentioned he like certain type of girl because she will be a housewife it just freak me out. so traditional
people's reactions to this video are different from the female version. Even the same thing, women think it's cute, but men don't. As I expected.
Where is that cheerful, shy, and cute guy with a striped shirt? I think I fell in love 😂
I have got to say the comments in this thread is very mature. I have read similar one in the past where people say bad things about the preferences of guys. What they don`t understand is that people like what they like and I like when guys are honest.
Tantan is a good app to find a Korean man 😂🤣
😂😂 he said American woman are feisty 😂😂😂 I’m DEAD 😂
Great episode! It seems like you picked a nice broad range of guys to talk to.
I am love with Korea after watching several episodes of this channel. Korean people are amazing!!!
How about their mom? Apparently if mom doesn’t approve the girl then it’s done
Hmm. It varies depending on person. Idk, some parents(rich) may not be pleased, if they bring a Korean from a poor family.
Niceee!!
I hesitate to comment because usually the pacing of the english subs with the editing is fine. Maybe it's just me being a slow reader, but in this video, particularly when jumping between different people, when they had a large amount to say, I would be trying to read it and find that it disappeared from the screen too quickly and I needed to rewind at least 10-15 different times in this video just to be able to read what was being said.
So in short most korean men prefer korean girls cause they share the same culture/values in life, they also speak the same language which wouldn’t complicate things when communicating and they’re very submissive and respectful.
Korean men views western girls more on dominant type(just like what the guy said on the vid “fiesty”) and i think thats why they prefer korean girls more cause korean men prefers to be the dom in the relationship they want someone who is very submissive thats why they usually like small, shy and cute girls. They want someone who will stay in the house and cook and clean for them. Unlike in western where girls are more on their dominant sides and prefer to work for themselves and be treated like queens.
Korean women aren’t submissive. No more than any other country’s women at least. It’s a stereotype.
Nah bro 1 of them caught my attention help ☠️☠️☠️
Something that all countries seem to have in common is that height matters. If you are a woman, you want a guy who is taller than you. Then what a person is looking for and likes. Depends on your personality. What you think is attractive. Then for wise, religion also comes into play. And for others not. But the most important thing is to show each other respect. In Sweden, it is not unusual, for example, to live with a person who has a religion. Even if we ourselves are not so religious. And because there are so many people from different countries living in Sweden. So you don't even have to go abroad to find someone. 👍🏻 I meet my partner on a job course. And he is Arab. Luckily he is 190cm tall too. When I'm 182 cm.
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The guy saying his reasoning for not dating a foreigner is childish, meaning he could not express himself as deep as he wanted to doesnt sound childish at all to me. Maybe he could still meet a foreign girl he can speak korean with.
Tattoo guy is hot and right about the height different.
And the men about the language barrier if you're not fluent is correct. Imagine all these men dating "Russians" just for the experience is sad.
Where’s the full please??
4:10 W man
I'd be too scared to go over there as a native woman. I'd be afraid i'd get racist remarks.
the black dude probably stopped hundreds of people on the street until he found some kids to talk to him on camera
It seems that he tends to find short Korean guys because it feels easier for him to interview? I guess.. because i always thought there are many tall guys in Korea.
It feels a bit burdensome for me to show my face, and my opinions to so many people. Introverts staying in home
Yeah, when i hear them describing someone foreign, i aways assume they are talking about someone with lighter skin or skin close to their skin tone. Drives me insane as a black american that they assume america is full of mainly white people.
Even if they are not native to America, white people are dominant there, so I guess that’s why but it’s dumb to think that there is only white people😕
that's who they consider foreigners, black people are not someone they even consider in their mind because of parents, and culture that involves obsession with beauty standards like white pale skin etc.
Is it not demographically mostly those of recent white ancestry doe? (America)
@@brianle4330 no. The demographics in numbers in america for whites are skewed. Because they only count based on what people put down of what they want to identify as. Like we have groups of people who are latino, indian and mixed race that will identify as being white when they aren’t actually white. Which fluffs up the numbers for whites being accounted for in america. If we were to accurately account the actual percentage of whites in america, the number would be way lower as more people with ethnic backgrounds start to come and immigrate into america and that are already in america. Plus, native americans (indigenous people of america that were in north america first and actually owns the land) were not white or caucasian. So for them to assume americans are mostly white is pretty much excluding the fact that north american natives aren’t even white.
@@anonnnymousthegreatspeaking “american” nobody refers to natives. They refer “typical” american - white american.
And I don’t think it is “cool” to be white in America. You’ll get more privileges if you identify yourself as non-white
i'm sorry but they are really conservative . i think some teen girls should stop idealizing koreans specially that house wife idea was on another level
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Guy at the end 8:07 , is making excuses. You can even tell by his body language. Like just say you wouldn’t take a foreigner seriously and go. If he was being interviewed by a korean instead of a foreigner, he probably would’ve been more honest lol
didn't you watch the interview ? He said he was open to dating anyone and mentioned not having any plans to marry as of yet due to financial issues. Across all the guys he came across as the most open- minded.
@@joannejones363yes I did and those are the excuses I was talking about. Korean men are known for dating foreign women just for fun and not for marriage.
@@caycay3858 wtf. What part of it came as an excuse for you ? The dude's single and not with someone and choosing to marry when you are financially stable is a smart move not an excuse
@@joannejones363 I do agree that that is a smart move, but I would still take his reasons for not wanting to marry with a grain of salt because most Korean men are conservative and prefer to marry their own women for communication and cultural reasons.
@@caycay3858 that's an assumption .
Can you put interviewees names please? Specifically the guy in white with white mask ("unusual ideal type")
could you please bring some diversity into your videos!! all heterosexuals!! bring some Gay korean guys in as well and ask them what they find attractive!!
I think it’s weird people come here fetishizing korean men cause kdrama. They us block women wanna get mad when they do same to us.
Same mentallity of indian girls
I havent seen 1 true man...
Hasn’t this topic been covered?
That was women. This is men
They don't know they're limiting their options. Lol let the young men dream. 🤣
It's their preference
Women do it all the time, as well. Everyone is allowed their preferences. Also, an ideal type in your head doesn't always equat to a "must have" list. It just means that's your ideal. Most people are reasonable enough to assume they'll never get the ideal.
@@chrystianaw8256 it's not their preference. Trust me. They just didn't have any chance to meet foreign women. They dont have any clue about them. That's all.
I'm really cute pero mido 1,58 jajajajaja 😭😭😭😭😭
Lol
I would like to know the Japanese opinion about that! I like Japan more than Korea since Koreans pretend to be like them!
It's the other way around imo, japanese are the ones that are trying to be like koreans. They are the biggest consumers of hallyu which includes kpop and kdramas which puts forward attractive people that the japanese would like to emulate. In comparison, japanese has really just been putting out anime and games, which does not give much for koreans to try and emulate. It's why there are tons of japanese coming to korea to get plastic surgery, or becoming pop idols there, or talking about how they'd like to be like koreans in interviews like these, but it is hardly ever the same way around.
Kkk hope staying in korea won't be hard for me
who cares
Iam here to give a view but am not interested in the subject