I agree. We are in survival mode. I am a widow. I see the younger girls in my workplace: working, studying trying to make something out of themselves not to depend on anyone. It starts with our fathers. We don’t feel safe anywhere.
Women were never safe. Women were safe maybe in post war U.S.A, but that's a small time frame and only one country in the world but they were still treated as second class citizens. It was not better for women in the past, the bible and my grandmothers history tells me so.
Hard to be vulnerable if a man is looking for his angle. I think men KNOW women are naturally more vulnerable. Hate to say it, but knowing this is useful to "be vulnerable" without being TRULY vulnerable if you know what I mean. Some of us can't be vulnerable until we KNOW it's safe.
The deepest desires of the masculine are to be trusted & respected and the deepest desires of the feminine are to be adored & cherished. Often the best way to shift your dynamic with men and have a man love and adore you is to show him trust and respect first through your openness & vulnerability (even if it feels scary). However I would add the *very important* caveat that if a man isn't showing care for your heart over time when you are truly in your feminine energy he is likely a "broken" man and you have to set a boundary with yourself in that situation and be willing to walk away. That is how you can truly be "The Queen" that is both highly vulnerable, open and respectful while also highly valuing and respecting herself.
In that sense, I didnt have to work hard to be vulnerable with men. My natural temperament was vulnerable. Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable than being with a man. When im alone or independent, I have nothing judging me, potentially rejecting me, and I only have safe practices. And then you be with men, and their presence is danger, they bring you to places you wouldnt otherwise go, they arent as anxious and cautious and walk around at night or leave their doors open. I feel i need their protection because they are bringing me to situations that need protecting. On one hand, its scary. On the other hand, its a leap of faith, with the hopes and dreams that he'd give me everything ive ever wanted. Companionship, a family, support, love, care, attention. I just gotta hold his hand and get out of my comfort zone. And in that sense, being vulnerable right off the bat makes things easier. You see that switch in the eyes of predators, oh, fresh meat, shes so easy to manipulate, so vulnerable. Then you can quietly make an exit and give a short and stern goodbye. I always try to make sure before going on a date with them, but they do always switch up their tune. Theres just a slight predatory nature in all men, especially when it comes to potential intimacy partners. They arent as invested in the long term. Short term benefits are more than okay for them. Thats why you gotta push back having sex as much as you can. Kiss and all that, but dont end that chase, because after that, its no longer a chase to get more of you. It becomes a chase of fulfilling his entertainment. Its better to go through that phase when theres kids and he doesnt have as much time in his hands.
This is very dangerous. The last thing a vulnerable person should do is put their vulnerability on a silver platter and hand it to someone regardless of how well they know them. No human being, let alone a man, is that safe.
My husband hates it when I show vulnerability. His single Mom used up that part of him. He forces me to go into my masculine energy and handle things. I’m so tired of it. He’s just a little boy all the time when there’s any trouble.
My ex was the same way - always letting me fall when I needed a soft place to land. I was in survival mode. After being single a long time, my new boyfriend is totally different in the best way. He was high-ranking in the military, and when I show vulnerability, that man IS my hero. He never talks over me, belittles, or argues. He is 6'6" in cowboy boots and he is so incredibly gentle and understanding with me. I swear he's the whole package. Our second date we were gazing into each other's eyes and it was like our hearts connected without saying a word just standing next to each other. I got emotional and cried a bit. He held me and teared up too. He said, "I hope this works out because I'm falling hard already." I said, "No one else will ever measure up to you. I am so thankful we met." I have never felt this with anyone before. He's not saying how amazing he is, he's showing me and I'm seeing it for myself. I just can't believe I finally met my prince ❤
you should do a video on how i want to respect my man, but his man-child of not closing food boxes and leaving dropped food over the floor. it's really frustrating.
I’ve heard this concept before but I never heard it broken down in such a well and easy understandable manner. Makes sooo much sense and yes it also sounds very scary 😩😮💨
I abruptly woke up this dawn cos of anxiety I took my phone and texted him on WhatsApp I knew he was asleep but texting him brought me comfort He replied me in the morning Called me a little later to question me why I didn’t call him but only texted He is always looking for ways to solve my problems It’s so beautiful
If you operate out of fear and protect your heart, you aren't operating out of the soft strength of feminine energy, you WILL attract exactly the kind of men you don't want to.
I liked this content up until this ridiculous video. You're saying women with low self worth arent vulnerable? I'm pretty sure you have that backwards my dude. The higher your self worth rises, the more you will protect yourself. Lack of protecting oneself is actually low self worth. Take a psychology course or 10 before you come online trying to explain how people work.
Only a woman who has a high-self worth believes her heart is worthy & deserving to be cherished and is willing to share her feelings and ask for help (while also being willing to walk away if someone isn't showing that care back.) If she doesn't believe that then she will keep her heart closed in her masculine energy and live a life of having to do everything "on her own" unfortunately.
As a woman who used to have low self worth, I can say that he has a point. When you are hurting, you want to appear strong, you put on a mask, you build walls so others won't see you for who you are: weak and pathetic. There was just too much shame that acted as a shield. So yeah, you hide and run and you cannot allow yourself such a luxury as being vulnerable because you are too scared of getting hurt
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Well, let me tell you bro, she doesn't feel safe, or valued or respected, at large. That's a state not a concept. When she have time to be that? Yall, environment, stress, not dependable, not honest, not trustworthy-from the top. Choose exploitation, mind games, compromising positions to put her in to make her feel LESS SAFE. Amd THEN tell us yoi like vulnerable. Honey--yall are going about it the wrong way. And no, you cant force her. Nooo, that's not how that works, either. NOT ONE WOMAN, IN THE USA, THIS APPLIES TO, THIS MOMENT. She aint got TIME to mess with your trifling a** OR BE "VULNERABLE". CHILE, PLEASE. 😅 And THEN you wanna kill pregnant women, too? WTF?!! Suuure, let us go ahead and be "vulnerable" for you. Not if she values her self respect dignity, OR LIFE! (Im sure you're well intentioned. Trying to elicit MORE out of her. Already compromised. And NOT FEELIN IT.) You dont strap someone down and say, "honey, be vulnerable for me."😦😳 Put it on the list of things to get to. Considering survival is #1 and that requires safe environments, it might take a minute. Masculine energy. It's not a switch, like on a lamp. We're NOT ROBOTS. Be vulnerable he said. HOW?
True vulnerability activates the Hero instinct in a man (unless he is a "broken" man which is about 10% of men, in which case it will not work and you will have to walk away). That is the only way to activate that protector & provider energy in the men around you and in "your" man if you have one, otherwise a woman will only tend to attract "boys" looking for a mommy or men who don't value her or treat her well unfortunately. It takes courage and a leap of faith but over time it will bring a beautiful shift in your relationships.
Of course they're attracted to our vulnerability, they can take advantage of our feelings a lot easier when we have our guard down. Never again will I put myself in that position.
to imply that a man who watches basketball or plays video games is a form of escapism that a woman should provide is such a strange take... i want a man i can do those things with
Women have been in SURVIVAL MODE since the dawn of time. Read the bible. It gives an accurate description of the desperation most women were living under, then, and every generation since then. Maybe post war U.S.A. was different but that was an anomaly not the standard throughout time.
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I agree. We are in survival mode. I am a widow. I see the younger girls in my workplace: working, studying trying to make something out of themselves not to depend on anyone. It starts with our fathers. We don’t feel safe anywhere.
Women were never safe. Women were safe maybe in post war U.S.A, but that's a small time frame and only one country in the world but they were still treated as second class citizens. It was not better for women in the past, the bible and my grandmothers history tells me so.
Hard to be vulnerable if a man is looking for his angle. I think men KNOW women are naturally more vulnerable. Hate to say it, but knowing this is useful to "be vulnerable" without being TRULY vulnerable if you know what I mean. Some of us can't be vulnerable until we KNOW it's safe.
exactly. men need to work for my vulnerability
The deepest desires of the masculine are to be trusted & respected and the deepest desires of the feminine are to be adored & cherished. Often the best way to shift your dynamic with men and have a man love and adore you is to show him trust and respect first through your openness & vulnerability (even if it feels scary). However I would add the *very important* caveat that if a man isn't showing care for your heart over time when you are truly in your feminine energy he is likely a "broken" man and you have to set a boundary with yourself in that situation and be willing to walk away. That is how you can truly be "The Queen" that is both highly vulnerable, open and respectful while also highly valuing and respecting herself.
Exactly
In that sense, I didnt have to work hard to be vulnerable with men. My natural temperament was vulnerable.
Nothing makes me feel more vulnerable than being with a man. When im alone or independent, I have nothing judging me, potentially rejecting me, and I only have safe practices.
And then you be with men, and their presence is danger, they bring you to places you wouldnt otherwise go, they arent as anxious and cautious and walk around at night or leave their doors open. I feel i need their protection because they are bringing me to situations that need protecting.
On one hand, its scary. On the other hand, its a leap of faith, with the hopes and dreams that he'd give me everything ive ever wanted. Companionship, a family, support, love, care, attention. I just gotta hold his hand and get out of my comfort zone.
And in that sense, being vulnerable right off the bat makes things easier. You see that switch in the eyes of predators, oh, fresh meat, shes so easy to manipulate, so vulnerable.
Then you can quietly make an exit and give a short and stern goodbye. I always try to make sure before going on a date with them, but they do always switch up their tune.
Theres just a slight predatory nature in all men, especially when it comes to potential intimacy partners. They arent as invested in the long term. Short term benefits are more than okay for them. Thats why you gotta push back having sex as much as you can. Kiss and all that, but dont end that chase, because after that, its no longer a chase to get more of you. It becomes a chase of fulfilling his entertainment. Its better to go through that phase when theres kids and he doesnt have as much time in his hands.
The guy I was dating didn’t appreciate my vulnerability, he ghosted me when I poured my heart out 😂. Never again 👎
I agree. Been there 2 years ago. He wasn't emotionally available and dishonest about his past and what he was doing behind my back. Never again.
It wasn't your vulnerability that caused an issue - you were with the wrong person.
Maybe you said too much and too soon.
Yeah and then they lie, use and abuse you. So be careful who you open up to.
This is very dangerous. The last thing a vulnerable person should do is put their vulnerability on a silver platter and hand it to someone regardless of how well they know them. No human being, let alone a man, is that safe.
My husband hates it when I show vulnerability. His single Mom used up that part of him. He forces me to go into my masculine energy and handle things. I’m so tired of it. He’s just a little boy all the time when there’s any trouble.
My ex was the same way - always letting me fall when I needed a soft place to land. I was in survival mode.
After being single a long time, my new boyfriend is totally different in the best way. He was high-ranking in the military, and when I show vulnerability, that man IS my hero. He never talks over me, belittles, or argues. He is 6'6" in cowboy boots and he is so incredibly gentle and understanding with me. I swear he's the whole package.
Our second date we were gazing into each other's eyes and it was like our hearts connected without saying a word just standing next to each other. I got emotional and cried a bit. He held me and teared up too. He said, "I hope this works out because I'm falling hard already."
I said, "No one else will ever measure up to you. I am so thankful we met."
I have never felt this with anyone before. He's not saying how amazing he is, he's showing me and I'm seeing it for myself. I just can't believe I finally met my prince ❤
you should do a video on how i want to respect my man, but his man-child of not closing food boxes and leaving dropped food over the floor. it's really frustrating.
I’ve heard this concept before but I never heard it broken down in such a well and easy understandable manner. Makes sooo much sense and yes it also sounds very scary 😩😮💨
I really need a hero/ king in my life to be happy again.
I found this video very helpful! I really appreciate it! Thank you! 😊
Thank you so,so much for absolutely perfect and encouraging advice
I abruptly woke up this dawn cos of anxiety
I took my phone and texted him on WhatsApp
I knew he was asleep but texting him brought me comfort
He replied me in the morning
Called me a little later to question me why I didn’t call him but only texted
He is always looking for ways to solve my problems
It’s so beautiful
If you operate out of fear and protect your heart, you aren't operating out of the soft strength of feminine energy, you WILL attract exactly the kind of men you don't want to.
hmm thats weird, when I was "soft" open and naive af, thats when i attracted narcissists.
@@lovepeacejoyhappinessYou probably were not able to set boundaries?
You’ll get the weirdos no matter how you are.
I really like your videos ❤
I liked this content up until this ridiculous video. You're saying women with low self worth arent vulnerable? I'm pretty sure you have that backwards my dude. The higher your self worth rises, the more you will protect yourself. Lack of protecting oneself is actually low self worth. Take a psychology course or 10 before you come online trying to explain how people work.
He’s actually right - the smaller you feel- the harder the shell
Only a woman who has a high-self worth believes her heart is worthy & deserving to be cherished and is willing to share her feelings and ask for help (while also being willing to walk away if someone isn't showing that care back.) If she doesn't believe that then she will keep her heart closed in her masculine energy and live a life of having to do everything "on her own" unfortunately.
As a woman who used to have low self worth, I can say that he has a point. When you are hurting, you want to appear strong, you put on a mask, you build walls so others won't see you for who you are: weak and pathetic. There was just too much shame that acted as a shield.
So yeah, you hide and run and you cannot allow yourself such a luxury as being vulnerable because you are too scared of getting hurt
Awesome message! Thank you!
You're so welcome, glad it's helpful!
Thank you so much for this amazing video! I need some advice: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?
Well, let me tell you bro, she doesn't feel safe, or valued or respected, at large. That's a state not a concept. When she have time to be that? Yall, environment, stress, not dependable, not honest, not trustworthy-from the top. Choose exploitation, mind games, compromising positions to put her in to make her feel LESS SAFE. Amd THEN tell us yoi like vulnerable. Honey--yall are going about it the wrong way.
And no, you cant force her. Nooo, that's not how that works, either.
NOT ONE WOMAN, IN THE USA, THIS APPLIES TO, THIS MOMENT.
She aint got TIME to mess with your trifling a** OR BE "VULNERABLE". CHILE, PLEASE. 😅
And THEN you wanna kill pregnant women, too? WTF?!!
Suuure, let us go ahead and be "vulnerable" for you. Not if she values her self respect dignity, OR LIFE!
(Im sure you're well intentioned. Trying to elicit MORE out of her. Already compromised. And NOT FEELIN IT.)
You dont strap someone down and say, "honey, be vulnerable for me."😦😳
Put it on the list of things to get to. Considering survival is #1 and that requires safe environments, it might take a minute. Masculine energy. It's not a switch, like on a lamp. We're NOT ROBOTS.
Be vulnerable he said. HOW?
agree. bs like this is teaching men that smart women arent feminine. what a joke
True vulnerability activates the Hero instinct in a man (unless he is a "broken" man which is about 10% of men, in which case it will not work and you will have to walk away). That is the only way to activate that protector & provider energy in the men around you and in "your" man if you have one, otherwise a woman will only tend to attract "boys" looking for a mommy or men who don't value her or treat her well unfortunately. It takes courage and a leap of faith but over time it will bring a beautiful shift in your relationships.
Of course they're attracted to our vulnerability, they can take advantage of our feelings a lot easier when we have our guard down. Never again will I put myself in that position.
awesome
good
to imply that a man who watches basketball or plays video games is a form of escapism that a woman should provide is such a strange take... i want a man i can do those things with
Women have been in SURVIVAL MODE since the dawn of time. Read the bible. It gives an accurate description of the desperation most women were living under, then, and every generation since then. Maybe post war U.S.A. was different but that was an anomaly not the standard throughout time.
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Listen at this man. He won't lie to you.
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