As someone who is born and raised here, I can say that a decent Filipina begins a good relationship with pure FRIENDSHIP (with no money involved). There is absolutely no shortcut to this slow, careful approach.. and it goes both ways. if a man is not willing to wait and invest his time in trying to know her, well don't expect it is going to work.
Filipinas don't want to be rushed!.. A relationship webbed-out of Trust and Determined Commitment shouldn't be rushed!❤❤❤ ..and Money shouldn't be an issue!!
@@marjunmarcelocristobal2678 Truth. You're a Filipina too? Do you ever wonder why in foreign vlogs about Filipinas, they always talk about MONEY, and the guy thinking of supporting the girl's family?? MONEY MONEY MONEY! This puzzles me a lot, because in a Filipino-Filipina REALationship,. money isn't discussed esp in the early stages. In fact, in our household, my father fully entrusts his salary to my Mom who handles our finances and my dad was NEVER required to support my mom's side ----which is quite common to Filipino families too. its hardly a problem. With foreigners tho, it has always been an issue. The Western men seems to show off their money, as if it were their only asset. 🙄 I dont get it.
What many of these Utubers forget to mention is that the Filipinas are also people. Not cookie cutter stereotypes. And every person is diferent and will react different depending on the situation. The vast majilority of them don't even want to date a foreigner. And that is partially due to foreigners having some pretty bad stereotypes too. Don't go to the Philippines looking for a woman. Gals can smell desperation a mile away. Go for the beauty. The beaches, the mountains, the climate. And if you happen to find a great gal then awesome. But if you're just looking for a gal you will probably find one that is not necessarily what you want.
Lol. I disagree , the Philippine people are human too and yes they judge people too , I've lived here in Solano Nueva Vizcaya with my Philippina and I get judged if I take our daughters out to the market , I got a case of booze the other day for my girlfriends sari sari store and got judged 3 times bringing it home to her .
I think what people mean when they say it’s ‘easy’ to get Filipinas isn’t coming from a derogatory or disrespectful place, maybe some are talking like that. I have no doubt there is always someone out there making us men look bad. But from a general perspective, I believe people say that because, women from the Philippines are generally more open, willing and honest with foreigners. Approaching them feels more comfortable, talking about serious matters feels genuine, and dating them doesn’t feel like a mind numbing game that never ends. They aren’t “easy” people to get, they are however EASIER to connect with on an emotional level. Which produces a lot less stress and more success with a woman you’re attracted to. Women of the west are not easy. They are more difficult to connect with on an emotional and physical level. They play mind games constantly, they end relationships for any small reason. And dating feels like a chore rather than a relaxing experience for both parties. I have said many times to my own friends and family how easy it has been to be with my own Filipina. It is not in any way a bad thing. This is a high compliment to the ladies of the Philippines. Dating and a relationship should never feel like a painstaking task for either person. So when it is Easy and people say that about Filipinas, I now know why. Because women here are so much more likely to be open and honest with themselves and with the men interacting with them. And THAT is why people say they are easier to be with.
I personally think one of the major pluses for the Philippines is the fact that the majority of people have some sort of English. The only other places would be Singapore or Malaysia!
Classic Western thing to think about the idea of choosing between their partners family and themselves. It's great to have family there as backup in times when 2 partner need backup
As an American I will say that it would be difficult for me to be in a relationship with someone like your guest because of the disparity in the ability to speak proper English.😝😝😝 In this case however it would be ME who was the deficient one. Holy crap, who taught her perfect diction, grammar, inflection, accent and tone? She could be a news anchor on any American TV network and no one would ever suspect that she wasn't native American. I know that the vast majority of Filipinos speak English, but not as well as her. Serious question; how many Filipinos speak English as well as her 1%, 5%, 10% ? I have heard hundreds of Filipinos speaking English. She even beats out (only by a little) The Filipina Pea. Congrats good lady congrats.
Female nature is female nature. If you know and understand how female attraction works then meeting and dating is not an issue. A girl will let you know where she is at with the relationship if you know the signs to look for. It is the girls job to define the relationship. It is the guys job to hang out and have fun. If you do this right she will be in love with you within 2 months or so. In that time as a guy you should be watching everything she does to decide if she meets your morals and values. If she does not then move on.
The problem I have is a woman leaves her family to become ONE with her man, NOT the man becoming one with her family. The package deal is a toxic trend that most foreigners aren't aware of. Supporting a whole family is a ridiculous financial abuse and having people interfere in one's relationship is a deal breaker. Not to mention unannounced visits and uninvited guests to come freeload is disrespectful and insensitive. A man should have his culture honored not the other way around.
A Filipina who is a Hooker is easy to get..BUT!! ..A FILIPINA WORTHY FOR KEEPS IS NOT EASY TO GET!! DETERMINED LOVE with HEARTFELT PASSION ( W/ NO MONEY INVOLVED!)... ARE THE CHARACTERISTICS NEEDED FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP TO FURTHER ON! NO WALKING ATM's HERE!
Hello, Sounds like your guest isn’t Christian/Catholic, like the “majority” of “all” Filipinas. Because she doesn’t seem to know, that once a woman is married, the Bible makes it very clear, that husbands “AND” wives, must be subject to, and submit to each other, meaning, parents & siblings come second, and wives come “first”, to each other. But I think, Filipina women. “AND” their parents, are aware of this, but ignore it. Furthermore, Filipina vloggers, have “admitted” that many Filipina parents “guilt” their children from birth, they’re responsible to give it their all, to parents first, forever, 😔😔😔. Fortunately, that’s beginning to change, and it’s not until the dead weight of their parent’s lifted from them, that Filipinas will finally be able to improve their quality of life, 😎😉👍🏼…
my son moved to New York to live with his Filippina OFW nurse, hes a EMT.
OH NO!!! A NURSE?!
As someone who is born and raised here, I can say that a decent Filipina begins a good relationship with pure FRIENDSHIP (with no money involved). There is absolutely no shortcut to this slow, careful approach..
and it goes both ways. if a man is not willing to wait and invest his time in trying to know her, well don't expect it is going to work.
Filipinas don't want to be rushed!.. A relationship webbed-out of Trust and Determined Commitment shouldn't be rushed!❤❤❤
..and Money shouldn't be an issue!!
@@marjunmarcelocristobal2678 Truth. You're a Filipina too? Do you ever wonder why in foreign vlogs about Filipinas, they always talk about MONEY, and the guy thinking of supporting the girl's family?? MONEY MONEY MONEY!
This puzzles me a lot, because in a Filipino-Filipina REALationship,. money isn't discussed esp in the early stages. In fact, in our household, my father fully entrusts his salary to my Mom who handles our finances and my dad was NEVER required to support my mom's side ----which is quite common to Filipino families too. its hardly a problem.
With foreigners tho, it has always been an issue. The Western men seems to show off their money, as if it were their only asset. 🙄 I dont get it.
Good to know that you have a supportive friend. She explained it really fairly. Like this topic😊
What many of these Utubers forget to mention is that the Filipinas are also people. Not cookie cutter stereotypes. And every person is diferent and will react different depending on the situation. The vast majilority of them don't even want to date a foreigner. And that is partially due to foreigners having some pretty bad stereotypes too. Don't go to the Philippines looking for a woman. Gals can smell desperation a mile away. Go for the beauty. The beaches, the mountains, the climate. And if you happen to find a great gal then awesome. But if you're just looking for a gal you will probably find one that is not necessarily what you want.
Lol. I disagree , the Philippine people are human too and yes they judge people too , I've lived here in Solano Nueva Vizcaya with my Philippina and I get judged if I take our daughters out to the market , I got a case of booze the other day for my girlfriends sari sari store and got judged 3 times bringing it home to her .
I think what people mean when they say it’s ‘easy’ to get Filipinas isn’t coming from a derogatory or disrespectful place, maybe some are talking like that. I have no doubt there is always someone out there making us men look bad. But from a general perspective, I believe people say that because, women from the Philippines are generally more open, willing and honest with foreigners. Approaching them feels more comfortable, talking about serious matters feels genuine, and dating them doesn’t feel like a mind numbing game that never ends. They aren’t “easy” people to get, they are however EASIER to connect with on an emotional level. Which produces a lot less stress and more success with a woman you’re attracted to. Women of the west are not easy. They are more difficult to connect with on an emotional and physical level. They play mind games constantly, they end relationships for any small reason. And dating feels like a chore rather than a relaxing experience for both parties.
I have said many times to my own friends and family how easy it has been to be with my own Filipina. It is not in any way a bad thing. This is a high compliment to the ladies of the Philippines. Dating and a relationship should never feel like a painstaking task for either person. So when it is Easy and people say that about Filipinas, I now know why. Because women here are so much more likely to be open and honest with themselves and with the men interacting with them. And THAT is why people say they are easier to be with.
This channel always makes relevant topics and straightforward discussions. Keep it up!
my 28 yrs younger Filippina been in usa 10 yrs.
Good conversation. Helpful advise Heidi.
Glad it was helpful!
Nice from Philippines
Heidi looks great, well you too, but it is different you know.🥰
An excellent and most informative discussion. Thank you both. 🙏😊
I personally think one of the major pluses for the Philippines is the fact that the majority of people have some sort of English. The only other places would be Singapore or Malaysia!
Classic Western thing to think about the idea of choosing between their partners family and themselves. It's great to have family there as backup in times when 2 partner need backup
Bisaya ka mam? 😊🤩👍
Good info how are things going. Hedi how's the coffee ☕️.
As an American I will say that it would be difficult for me to be in a relationship with someone like your guest because of the disparity in the ability to speak proper English.😝😝😝
In this case however it would be ME who was the deficient one. Holy crap, who taught her perfect diction, grammar, inflection, accent and tone? She could be a news anchor on any American TV network and no one would ever suspect that she wasn't native American.
I know that the vast majority of Filipinos speak English, but not as well as her. Serious question; how many Filipinos speak English as well as her 1%, 5%, 10% ? I have heard hundreds of Filipinos speaking English. She even beats out (only by a little) The Filipina Pea.
Congrats good lady congrats.
@@hiraya_means_hope Hahaha...the average call center worker doesn't even have as good of English as she does.
Female nature is female nature. If you know and understand how female attraction works then meeting and dating is not an issue. A girl will let you know where she is at with the relationship if you know the signs to look for. It is the girls job to define the relationship. It is the guys job to hang out and have fun. If you do this right she will be in love with you within 2 months or so. In that time as a guy you should be watching everything she does to decide if she meets your morals and values. If she does not then move on.
great video
The problem I have is a woman leaves her family to become ONE with her man,
NOT the man becoming one with her family.
The package deal is a toxic trend that most foreigners aren't aware of.
Supporting a whole family is a ridiculous financial abuse and having people interfere in one's relationship is a deal breaker.
Not to mention unannounced visits and uninvited guests to come freeload is disrespectful and insensitive.
A man should have his culture honored not the other way around.
If I understood her correctly , the Pea thinks not putting man before family can be a red flag or a problem. (I agree)
❤❤❤😊😊
Find a women that eduacated that has a good job
location dictates outcome
A Filipina who is a Hooker is easy to get..BUT!!
..A FILIPINA WORTHY FOR KEEPS IS NOT EASY TO GET!! DETERMINED LOVE with HEARTFELT PASSION ( W/ NO MONEY INVOLVED!)... ARE THE CHARACTERISTICS NEEDED FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP TO FURTHER ON!
NO WALKING ATM's HERE!
Don't go looking for partners in bars in the Philippines
Yep, there's a lot of gold diggers in the West!
A fisherman should never consult a fish on how it wants to be caught 😂
In west yes. But not in SEA. Unless you go to bar. Many in SEA have much more decent ladies than in the West.
Repent and pray to Jesus. He will guide us always.
1 in 25 americans have no conscience/says Martha Stout, phd Harvard university instructor// philippines might be higher..
Hello,
Sounds like your guest isn’t Christian/Catholic, like the “majority” of “all” Filipinas. Because she doesn’t seem to know, that once a woman is married, the Bible makes it very clear, that husbands “AND” wives, must be subject to, and submit to each other, meaning, parents & siblings come second, and wives come “first”, to each other.
But I think, Filipina women. “AND” their parents, are aware of this, but ignore it. Furthermore, Filipina vloggers, have “admitted” that many Filipina parents “guilt” their children from birth, they’re responsible to give it their all, to parents first, forever, 😔😔😔.
Fortunately, that’s beginning to change, and it’s not until the dead weight of their parent’s lifted from them, that Filipinas will finally be able to improve their quality of life, 😎😉👍🏼…
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