I’m 64 and Just Found Out My Wife Is Pregnant
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Some people get older but not much wiser
Amen to that
Amen
Truer words have never been spoken.
find out who the baby's father really is
You can say that again. 💯
Married a woman 30 years younger while in retirement, disabled, and in debt - and then gets her pregnant. He apparently forgot that only rich old men get to behave like that.
Very true. Especially since most women don't marry men that much older than them unless they are rich.
welfare has made people too comfortable with behaving poorly
🤣
@@benjaminrosso2992Unlikely. But it’s more likely that she as a 37 year old women loves him than this grandpa age dude loving her. 😂
@@benjaminrosso2992
He wasn’t looking for love. He was looking for a vulnerable woman to take care of him.
He wanted a hospice wife - a lot of older men finally want to settle down after they have health problems because they want a caretaker for their old age and bad health, but he messed up and has a baby on the way now. So unfair to that poor baby.
yea, we call that hitting the wall for woman. she was slutting around and decided to settle for this old man thinking she would get a lot once he dies soon.
Exactly. Older men want a nurse or a purse
@@KeeekThaSneak Actually, I think they want a nurse WITH a purse.
What is she getting out of this???
He needs to do everything he can to set his wife and child up to be able to make it with out him . Because she will be a single parent real soon. Sell the house move to a more affordable state and buy a smaller home paid for . No mortgage he can watch the baby to safe on daycare . And start investing the rest of the money to life insurance or other things to make sure she an the child is taken care of after he is gone . Because that day is coming soon.
But it doesn’t sound like he make real good decisions if he marries a women 27 yrs younger , gets her pregnant and wants to move TO CA .. all of that is bad decision making.
This may be the first time i didn’t hear Dave tell an expectant father congratulations
Its because hes disgusted lol
My half sister was born to a man (not my father) who was in his mid 60s, sister is super weird and has problems, her father always got furious when strangers assumed he was grandpa. People having kids that age have a screw loose.
Mick Jagger, Billy Joel, and many others. I suppose I wouldn’t mind an old parent as long as I inherited a massive trust fund.
@@stephenabbott7259 It's different with rich men.
He usually says "Yaaaaaaaaay".
If you’re gonna get with a guy 27 years older than you at least make sure he is loaded. 😂
EXACTLY
100% right. This guy is full of health and financial issues...no thanks
@Mr_new_vegas You have no idea how PRICELESS your comment is. You are awesome. You are that wise and caring uncle, father , or brother that every young lady needs. Thank you for saying that. 💕💕❤🙏
Amen
Amen.
Loaded but shooting blanks. An Anna Nicole situation. This chick got knocked up by a broke senior citizen. 🤦🏾♀️
Beans and rice, rice and beans drive uber ,deliver pizza, sell the dog and when your 94 you can live and give like no one else. 😂😅😊
94 years after death when your $10 investment amounts to something.
🤭
Don’t ever sell the dog
Yeah let’s all be miserable losers eating rice and beans for 25 years. Sike
😂🤣
He needs to suck it up. Man up and take care of his baby. He made 35 year old decisions with a 64 year old body. He needs to live with it.
Something tells me he won't help financially with the kid. Must be the age and disability.
Exactly! The comment I was looking for, so no need for me to repeat!
👏👏👏
He can suck it up but it won’t change the fact that he’ll likely be dead or in an old folks home by the time baby is out of elementary school. His wife is screwed.
Why don’t you say the same thing to the wife for being equally irresponsible? Both of them were reckless, as usual no accountability for the woman.
64, mortgage debt, probably other debt, retires medically while impregnating 30’s wife who doesn’t work and is thinking about moving to the most expensive state to reduce living costs. This man has done everything to make his retirement a living hell. Congrats sir!
I misread regarded.
So after seeing this vid. You think your life is bad. Nope I'm trumping after this guy's story.
His muscle works good
A child of an SSA retiree gets a 50% check.
The mother gets a 30% check regardless of age.
Find out what his Family maximum is,
Maybe another kid is in the picture.
His wife was working until she got further along in her pregnancy and is planning to go back to work. Sounds like he was depending on her to take care of him. Now she’ll have a newborn and a sickly person at the same time.
So he’s 64 with health issues with a 37 year old wife. He thought he got him a nurse but now realizes her attention and energy needs to be directed on the new baby. 🤦
Bingo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Haha. 😂
Wonder if caller had a prior marriage with children that are now adults? Maybe he also already has grandchildren that are young, so his daughters/DIL's cannot volunteer to help him, their hands are already full (and maybe they resent his young wife?).
Caller really needs to consider staying right where he is at, not relocating to California. He needs to look into what resources are available in his area. He shouldn't be surprised if his wife needs to divorce him soon, so she & child don't drown financially due to his medical bills & lack of income. Life will be easier for her as a single mom.
Stupidity breeds at all ages
If you had gotten married to someone in your age group, you would not be in this dilemma. You made your bed.
or figured out how to make some real money. He can't afford to take care of himself, his wife or the baby. A nanny would solve this problem
@@Observer100-cn7gv whoop, there it is!
That's what you get for robbing the cradle!
So shall you lie on it 😅
Like old women don’t have debt. I am hearing the sound of hate
64 years old and has a young wife who he cannot support. Is he kidding me? It is incredible to me they dont think of these things.
Obviously a man that has no planning, what he is doing is selfish for the kid and wife.
@@creolelady182 My suspicion is this much-younger woman is from overseas, and he talked a big game about money he didn't have to lure her over.
If he has a rare health condition, then its not entirely his fault, he wasn't planning on burdening her like that. He should be in a financially better position at his age, but none of us are perfect.
Is the wife broken? Why isn’t she working? Sounds like a match made in heaven. Neither of them know if they’re going or coming.
“Mama I’m coming home”. Rock song
"Relatives are busy." Relatives makes themselves busy because they don't want to be dragged into the mess that he's created. He was actively looking for problems. Sounds like he found himself a much younger woman to take care of him but forgot the fact that young women tend to get pregnant. What a disappointment!
They don’t listen to advice, proceed to make boneheaded decisions, then come crying to you when it blows up on their faces.
As a female relative, I wouldn’t want to raise his passport mail order bride baby either. The idea of my grandpa on top of someone his daughters age makes me want to hurt
@@og6433 Absolutely!!
Sounds to me like he wants to drop his problems on other people. He has no money, married a younger woman to be a nurse for him. Then he gets her pregnant and wants family to take care of the baby. Family is "busy" they have their own lives and aren't looking to take a baby of a 64 year old man in. Good lord it's hard enough if the person was 18 or 19... He's 64 and should know better.
She didn't get herself pregnant. Apparently neither were using protection....or common sense. Now she's stuck raising a child, caretaking a husband AND working a full time job to boot. And they expect family to drop what they are doing in their own lives to come and help. Utter nonsense. You guys really made your bed here.
I’m in my sixties and can’t imagine raising a child, and I’m in good shape for my age. Heck, I don’t even want to babysit anymore.
My Dad raised 5 kids and famously says that he's done raising kids. He is a fantastic grandpa to all the grandkids, but I'm so happy that he didn't pull this stunt and he's healthy & still makes good money. But just because you can doesn't mean you should!
I'd imagine his wife would be doing the bulk of the "raising". That's where the term "married single mother" comes from (when the husband/father of the child doesn't pull his weight in parenting)
I just turned 40 and I don’t even think I want to go through the process at this point. Living life on your terms has been nice.❤
I'm 59 with grown children and single. I don't even want to date.
Im 39 with a 5 month old and I regularly feel like death. This man is insane 😂😂😂
What does he expect his friends and family in CA to do for him? Baby sitting? Cleaning his house? Cooking meals? Everyone is busy working, no one has time to give u free help.
He is thinking about back in the day 😅
Right? Like who is going to pay these family member’s mortgages when they all quit their jobs to be there 24/7 for the caller? Hello? Of course they’re busy working, they live in California!
Even those that aren’t working or busy don’t want to be spending their days taking care of someone else’s problems.
Bingo! 🎯🎯
No one wants to take on someone else's problems for free. Even family members don't want to do that.
I can understand not helping out all the time, but if we can’t help family in need, I’m just not sure that’s a family I’d want to be part of.
Man is 20 years late to his vasectomy appointment.
Got to get that vasectomy that's for sure!
He should also check that the baby is his.
@@CoyoteAUS
Exactly
@@CoyoteAUS Why?
@@sabrinashelton1997 Well he's a lot older and disabled how do you know she hasn't had any one else on the side?
Just scheduled my Vasectomy.
Get urself a tube of lidocaine cream before … an hour before you go into the surgery rub ur nuts with it… thank me later
"Things" won't be the same afterwards. Trust me on this one.
Too late for him
Say bye bye to your manhood.
Right?!
My dad taught my brother and I that “you’re always on your own”, in other words, be prepared to take care of yourself financially and emotionally. It was hard to understand when I was a kid because he always took such good care of us, but now that I’m 60 I realize it’s the best advice I ever got. Sounds like this man wasn’t taught that😢
Aww I don’t know why but this really struck a cord with me & made me tear up. To have a good father like yours is truly one of the best blessing in life!!
Same age as you. Mom taught my sister and me the same thing. Sage wisdom.
Kudos to your Father because it's the same I tell my Children.
Amen! Great advice from your pops
I'm sure the California relatives are going to be thrilled when they hear that two dependents are headed their way. I have a feeling they'll end up being busy also.
Lets be real she's going to be a dependent also
@@FortuneSeek3rz lay in that bed now bro 😂
@@user-ww6sd4xe7e 🛌🛌🛌
That’s true and I hear what he’s not really saying. Honestly, they don’t want to be bothered with him and his problems or maybe they don’t really like him. Times r hard and folks don’t want added problems in their lives.
That’s true and I hear what he’s not really saying. Honestly, they don’t want to be bothered with him and his problems or maybe they don’t really like him. Times r hard and folks don’t want added problems in their lives.
Dont assume family is going to help or help much. Its not their baby and people say they will help but often dont follow through. They have their own things going on in their lives and might not want your baby dumped on them.
You are 100% right I don’t know why people think they can have babies and the family were just take it from there and be good with it. Sometimes that family has issues with their health… I know I can’t babysit eight hours a day for nobody… five days a week🥰
He expects his family to step in and help him after he knocks up his much-younger, now-unemployed wife while he has a health condition and is unemployed himself. Okay.
😂😂😂Right..Good luck😅
I think that's kind of what Dave was thinking. Like the awkwardness of his reply was basically to say "yeah dude I don't really have a good answer for you. Stupid move on your part.
I know right.
He made all these bad decisions but expect his family and friends to help him.
His health issues are out of his control but everything else is within his control.
And they probably told him to date someone his own age!
This is the best argument for marrying someone your own age. 64 year old women cannot typically get pregnant. Freedom.
Exactly, but some men are proud and perverts
Yup, and who wants to have sex with a 64 year old w-m-n? Most w-m-n over 40 are so unattractive a guy would have to be drunk or on drugs or just out of prison
😂
Dude, a vasectomy is $700. Best money I ever spent 10 years ago.
@@wadesuhr if you want to live with that. I would rather have a dog. I have zero interest in sex with women past 45. I would rather watch porn.
It’s probably cheaper to move to the Midwest and then pay for a caregiver to help you out, than to move to California and hope the family will donate their free time to help you for free.
Yep. Lots of relatives who DO NOT LIVE in the Midwest are showing up to help him for free. He may need an assisted living place
Thats what I was thinking. Unless they get unlimited free babysitting and child rearing (which they can rescind at any time) with the high COL it is very unlikely that selling a paid off house is worth moving to CA.
These old dudes need to learn to keep it in their pants. The 60+ guys at my job always trying to holler at the young women like they ain't got a truck loan and 2 ex-wifes an paying child support on a pre-teen
wym its his wife?
@@djtomeson okay and? You're old why would you be trying to bring a child into this world? Only to potentially expire so soon into their life?
@@whothouno law against that.
He doesn’t need to keep it in his pants w/ his wife. If he didn’t want anymore children, he should have gotten fixed. Especially with a child-bearing aged wife.
@@whothouhe can do what he wants with his junk lol don’t worry about it
The most precious relationship I ever saw was my science teacher and his wife. They had 3 kids already. One day in his late 60's he found out they were having a 4th. She was in her 50's. They stressed and worried over the babies health. Was born very healthy and looked just like him.
They played Russian Roulette and got VERY lucky. The risk of health problems for the baby was extremely high. I guess they didn't believe in using protection.
@@backtoasimplelife , They were a very happy family, with plenty of money. Aware and ready for any healthy problems that could occur. I don't think age is a good reason to not have kids if you want. There are also many health problems associated with methods of avoiding such and protection. I wont go into it as it's easily searchable. Most women are having "geriatric" pregnancies now. The average woman are having babies in their mid thirties now. I hope everyone has many children so we can get back on track as a society.
I like the part “ looks just like him” … 😮😮; was he thinking it was the Milkman or Plumber ??!!! LOL 😂 😂😂; was that going to be his way OUT ??!!
@@bingatos1879 , The students did a good job making him worry about it. LOL
@@CS_Star-w4i were his Students BLACK ? if the baby was MOCA ; then he could claim it was a Science Experiment 🧪 🔬 . Maybe he was teaching them TOO Much Biology 🧬. Was he offering them PRIVATE LESSONS at Home after school ??!!
How is it a person can live for over six decades and still not have any damn sense? Lord help that poor child with goofball parents like that.
When did he say he didnt want the baby. I think he does.
😂
Just watch the next few generations coming up, they will all be in the "goofball category'!
Dave’s look after he said that he’s 64 with a pregnant wife😂
Exactly, you read my mind.
Dave said, "cool." 😢😂
😂😂😂😂 Dave's thinking" I just added a new baby step 8" 😂😂😂
The look on both of their faces... priceless 😂😂😂
@@euphrates74 lmaooo he said cool but Dr. John's face did not say cool. 😂
It’s stories like this that make me soooo happy to be a crazy cat lady
Its stories like this that make me crazy.
Or no it’s stories like this that make me feel sane!!!
I have a dog but yes. I have my freedom and my kids are adults.
.Takes 2 love stay with your own age group 🎉🎉
I don't have a cat but I am definitely happily alone with beautiful grown up daughters 😃God id GOOD!
😂
Dude didnt ever hear of a vasectomy? He'll be 82 when that kid is ready to leave the house.
That kid is never leaving the house … mommy will need company… and that child will be born with 2 jobs
Be mommy’s bestie and a carer for daddy.
Utterly selfish
@@JDAfricaSlam doink
I got a vasectomy at 35 and it was great. Highly recommend it for anyone who is having doubts
@@JDAfrica my husband was born into a similar situation and his mom told me “I never expected him to get married and have a family” 😳
E G O: it’s disturbing really.
64 years old, health condition, pregnant wife that doesn’t work, lives in buffalo ny this screams a disaster!
He states her age, but not his
@@katyedwards3935 He states it.
Agreed. Shocked she married an older man if she wanted children.
This is why abortion needs to be legalized
@@littlesongbird1 When?
He doesn’t realize that his wife is leaving him. She’ll go to CA, the baby will be born there and she will stay with her family. He’s an old man with health problems and no income. She’s done with him. Sounds like his own family doesn’t like him either. He married her for a nurse and a purse and she reversed Uno ed him.
💯. It rarely works out for old rolling stones like him.
Where’s this energy for your narcissistic mom & dad, your pimp employer, your backstabbing friends, your vindictive siblings?
@@sosafromscarface6732
Old men are predatory towards younger women. Don’t hate the younger women who eventually leave, hate the game.
@@God-Love-Freedom we can call any wife a “hospice wife” since most men pass earlier than their wives, regardless of age, can’t we?
@@sosafromscarface6732
In marriages where both partners married early and stayed together, those men usually pass suddenly, quickly. Old men targeting healthy women (of any age) AFTER he gets sick is another predatory move. Don’t get mad at the women when they abandons their sickly, predatory men - hate the game.
“Im stuck “ ladies, they either want a nurse or a purse!!! Stay away from these geezers
Ladies want a 401k and an atm. Stay away from the older ones then.
And guys, all they want is an ATM!
@@bargainhuntbricks420 Passport bro is a thing for a reason
What did he honestly expect marrying a woman of child-bearing age? Didn't they even talk about children before marriage or anything? 🤦♀️
@@sandraferreira428 She was probably abused growing up and was told later she couldn't bare children or she has a condition which usually women can't carry children. Health conditions are a factor but if God wants you to have a baby no health condition stands a chance to stop that destiny.
@Mar.....O The fault is on him, not on her. A 60+ old man should already know how babies happen.
Also, why would you marry someone who is in her 30s if you are in your 60s? Damn, I mean I feel kind of a creep for beeing into 20s years old women even though I'm in my late 30s (don't worry guys, I'm single so it's ok for me to be into other women 😂).
@@sfappetrupavelandrei Ask him.
Come on folks. She AND he know how babies are made. She done played him. The government will pay for that kid. She will get monthly reparations from the state of California in food stamps, section 8 housing, free healthcare.
@@kristenahubbard3338wow you sure do presume much. Awful person you appear to be.
Wife worked before and can work again. He didnt say he was destitute.
Why do people make these unilateral decisions to have kids they can't afford then expect the village to bail them out?
No advice in the world will fix stupid. If this man were open to any kind of advice he wouldn’t be where he’s at. It’s fun to hear yourself on the radio though.
I'm happily married. 28 years. I'm 61. My wife 57. Retired. No debt. None. I still take no chances. Don't need any miracle babies.
i think you can stop pulling out. you're good.
@@mrod0855Has the wife been through menopause?
There's zero chance bro, you don't need to worry. Just being married to someone age appropriate unlike the caller you'll never find yourself in his position.
Good for you, i think your wife is past her prime
About the debt part, do you need an applause?
He went right into this situation, not once thinking of his retirement much less his health. He wasn't that sick to procreate... good luck!
That's the fastest I have clicked on a video after reading the title😅
I know right 😂😂😂
Right! Me too..
Same!
Same.😂
Same 😂😂😂
Well that is what happens when you get a young wife. He wanted a young wife to help him in his old age, but something happened
My 72 year old father is trying to impregnate his 28 year old wife. I'm almost 23 and constantly trying to explain to him why it's a terrible idea.
Gotdamn..! 😮😮
@@lexi.j he may be smarter than you think. He’s probably had a vasectomy decades ago but knows no 28 year old woman will sleep with him without being promised a little something 😂😂😂
OMG....I pity you.
@@lexi.j Really???
Wow...
I live in Riverside, CA. It’s very expensive but still cheaper than LA! There’s traffic everywhere, it’s always congested, people I know are struggling to keep their head above water. Only the strong survive over here. Don’t come over here with your baggage and health problems. The stress will kill you.
Fellow Buffalonian here! I'm sorry for your situation- praying for you for wisdom and encouragement and that the Lord will provide immense support in your time of need!
You are so kind and compassionate!! There are so many hateful comments on here. This proves that Jesus' love makes people beautiful. God bless you!❤
Is there an extended version of this call???
I have questions.
1. How yall meet?
2. Have you been married before?
3. Has she been married before?
4. Do you have kids? If so, how many?
5. Does she have kids? If so, how many?
6. Where was the wife working?
7. How long did yall date b4 marrying?
8. Did yall discuss procreation & prevention?
9. Do you have life insurance and long-term care insurance?
10. Exactly what kind of "help" does he need???
I need more details...
No details needed. He can’t afford it
He probably was one of those older guys that listened to Kevin Samuel’s when he was living and started thinking he could attract a younger wife with his money and assets. A lot of women will date someone older than them just because of this, especially if they don’t come from much themselves. it’s sad because the trade-off that you see here seems like a lot of unnecessary stress.
My nosy self is starved
@@tam6011😂😂😂😂😂😂
@RDCFemmes imjs. He in it
Wife is going to have clean two people's diapers between work shifts 😅😅😅
Under what rock did this guy not know CA is sooo freaking expensive?
I think he is from AOC's district. Only the brightest minds come from there. She said she is still working on fart bags to put on cows to save the ozone layer!
@MyLifeThai371 right.... everything has to be made political. 🙄 You're not too bright either because you think Buffalo is even close to the Bronx or Queens.
....Or not to realize that Buffalo is one of the most affordable housing markets in the country.
@@MyLifeThai371take your meds.
@@MyLifeThai371Next time you’re in the real world talking random politics I want you to realize the person you’re talking to is just being polite and they have ZERO interest in what you’re saying.
No regular person cares.
Perfect example of the wrong head making the decisions
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Yeah, no, I can't muster any sympathy for an older man to be having a baby with a younger woman.
Most of his *friends* may be in ill health as well or in their own financial constraints. This is TRULY an image of you are laying in the bed you made.
Do you have any for the woman? Seems like she made some choices as well
@@anibaldamiaoeven less sympathy for her what did she think was gonna happen? Seems like shes probably taking advantage of him to an extent.
@@anibaldamiao she's got the rest of her life in front of her. Him? Not so much.
I can... especially if the man has plenty of health and vitality left in him... has plenty of resources and is well connected socially. Why shouldn't he? The only potential down-side is higher risk of fetal abnormalities, but modern genetic testing is easily available nowadays.
"I'm 64 and my wife is pregnant."
Dr John Delony: "Are you safe?"
😂
That's what he'd ask the woman... He'd put this guy through the wringer. Baloney is the biggest simp.
He didn't say that.
Lmao!!!
😂
Why would you bring a child into the world when you know you won't be around to see them graduate from high school?
Age is literally just a number in some circumstances. I used to work with the elderly and there were plenty who were old in age but their health was still pretty darn good. There are many younger people who have medical issues etc. And pass away way too soon.
Why is he looking for help from family and friends? He got himself into this mess. Wife needs to get a job and he needs to work in whatever capacity he can.
He said she was a working woman. He said she quit when she got further along in her pregnancy.
A warning for men always hunting for much younger women. These two people are in very different life stages. This is a sad, unfortunate, and predictable potential outcome for the both of them.
His choice in a much younger wife is also possibly why his family has chosen to not show up for him.
Half your age plus 7 years
It's ridiculous to be romantically involved with someone young enough to be a child that you had at a responsible age.
I mean anytime I talk to a girl 25 years younger than me she seems like a child due to the generation gap.
If you’re an SSA retiree,
You get money for kids,
50% of your FRA amount AND
The mother gets 30%
Another kid ~$3000/month
@@stephenshelton4267
It is a retirement strategy,
SSA will pay 50% of your FRA amount for a child and the mother gets 30% regardless of age.
A second child might bring in $3000/month.
Good point LovelaceRN. His absent family and friends may be turned off to his poor decision making history.
He married a 30 year old, he had sex with her. He got her pregnant. It’s your problem bud in my opinion.
You don't know for a fact WHO got her pregnant.
@@melissachartres3219I didn’t want to say it 😂😂😂
@@melissachartres3219so what are you trying to say? 😂👀
It's THEIR problem. Apparently neither were using protection.
@@backtoasimplelife Protection... like a firearm or pepper spray?
The median house price in Riverside is $647,000; in Buffalo, it's $230,000.
Thank you! I'm from Cali and I was shocked that he said his house was only $240k.
To think he wants to move out here is crazy.
Hustling backwards at this big age
If he had married within his age bracket he would not have this challenge.
He thought it would be cool to be a sugar daddy.
Exactly. If a man this age marries a woman this much younger, I would assume it's because he wants to have a child. If he doesn't might as well just marry an older woman. She can still be younger but past menopause like 45 or 50.
Caller is old enough to be the baby's grandfather,let alone its father. 😮😮😮
It's a muscle condition, didn't you hear him?
@@cantstandcamilla I heard him,duh
This guy's ONLY issue is the family he has made. Everything else is a management issue.
What a jerk. [Imaginary] "muscle issues," at his age looking for family members to "help" him, wants to move to California with money issues (???!!!) and I wonder if they'll be happy to see him. There's a reason most of his family is "busy." There's an agenda here he's not sharing and Dave knows it. At his age he doesn't need to be looking for extended family to support him; he should be the guy doing the supporting.
He's a passport bro
I am 47 and finally empty nester with two kids in college....so excited!
Ran into an older 50 year old coworker last month ...was asking him when he's retiring.....he said can't....he is expecting his 4th kid later this year....said wife wanted another girl....I shook his hand and congratulated him.
"Dang" ....is all I could think deep down inside to be honest....
50 is still early for retirement..
Dang!😂
My grandmother was 30 when she married my grandfather who was 60. His first wife had died. Together they had 10 children. This was back in the 40s and 50s. My mother was the 2nd child. She always said it was like living with a grandfather than a father.
I’m 57, very good health, active military and raising three …. 6,4 & 1….Love them dearly, wouldn’t change a thing
I’m sure your kids would change it when you’re gone by the time they’re in their 20’s. Having babies that late in life is doing a disservice to your children and your health can change at any moment
@@LunaSugar I’m sure my kids will be happy that they have their lives to live in the first place…Most fathers don’t invest a quarter of what I give them in attention and love so please, go kick your dog again and find some other worthy cause to denigrate…
@@LunaSugaromg! That’s a terrible thing to say!!! You’ve got people who have kids young and are crappy parents. This person is probably a great parent and giving their kids lots of great memories! No one know when they will die!! Good grief! Let them enjoy their life!
@@karenjohnson5634 It’s not a horrible thing to say, they’re straight up facts. He’ll be 75 by the time his youngest is 18. His wife is probably a lot younger than him and he’s going to be leaving her to raise and take care of these children by herself. If he gets sick, then she has to take care of 3 young kids AND him. What a shitty thing to inflict upon people you’re supposed to love. You don’t start a whole family when you’re nearing your 60’s. He doesn’t care because he’ll be gone, while everyone else is left to pick up the pieces.
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“Ok…cool.”
{{Dave thought it was, in fact, not cool…}} 😂😂😂
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Dave’s go to response.
What does he mean by "help" from others? He can't expect others to watch the baby or give money. Can he stay home and watch the baby while wife works? I feel badly being so judgmental of this man, - but his decisions make my head spin. Bad things happen to all of us, and we all make bad decisions, but this man makes my head spin
He means … someone to watch the baby so his wife can go to work. He doesn’t work, but he’s “disabled” so can’t watch a baby.
Clearly not too disabled to make a baby - just too disabled to care for it or provide for it
@@JDAfrica Well said
Men look for beauty. Women look for security. Sad but true.
Sounds like he got youth (so maybe beauty) and she got nothin'.
@@Pondapple very sad and stupid. She may not have even been beautiful to him, just the idea that she's much younger, he thought was a flex in itself. He probably didn't even want a baby. But since he picks younger, that's one of the things he has to look forward to especially if she had no other kids. He's regretting his choices 😂
Strikes me as someone who has never jumped on a computer and checked house prices, nor done up an excel spreadsheet to track expenses. Someone get this man a computer, or a smartphone at least.....
27 age difference 😮. He's already grandfather age. And health problems, he gonna leave his too young wife a single mother widow.
What? What makes you think she won’t divorce him way before that? She thought she would have it made, gold digger, but then he got sick. She’s out the door as soon as she’s near her family. She will take him for whatever she can.
normal
Widowed mother as opposed to single mother, but yes... you're absolutely right. Worse still- this woman is old enough to be considered a geriatric pregnancy and he is old enough to be considered "high risk" for autism or other genetic defects with his old D.N.A.
I meant to say that the FETUS is at high risk for those defects with old parents like that.
Hope his life insurance is paid up and the term won't end before he keels over.
A lot of people stop practicing safe sex as they get older. Nursing homes are actually one of the highest rate communities for STDs. This guy was like, "I'm 64. What the hell is gonna happen?"
Wife is 37 really men can get a woman pregnant in there 80s!
She's 37 well in child bearing year's!
That's very true, I worked in nursing homes for many years, and I know of one instance of an affair with an elderly resident and a staff member.
@@js5787 Wow
@@stuartpierce121I wonder how long they have been married without her getting pregnant and all of a sudden he’s 64 and she is pregnant. He definitely should get a DNA test
I wonder who the father really is.
Wow! This is the first time I ever seen Dave stumped😢 Crazy.... Didnt think it could be done! My heart breaks for this man and his life decisions.
I would invest in life insurance for the wife and baby.
Hellz yes!
He may not qualify now due to his recent health problems.
cost of life insurance for a 60 year old man with health problems is $1000’s per month
Dave's a huge fan of Whole Life, just ask him!
@@praytrust9385 Very true, plus his age would make it harder to get life insurance. Usually, you need to be under 40 to get life insurance cause after that, at any time your dead meat cause everything starts to go wrong.
27 year age difference. What do you expect ? Of course you will make a baby without birth control ? 🤦♀️
Lots of old people seem to think they don’t need protection anymore and because of this the highest STD rates are actually in retirement communities. In this case though, she’s of childbearing age and men produce sperm until they die basically (although it does degrade over time.) so it’s like yeah what did he do expect?
Wondering WHAT would make a woman in her thirties settle for a 64 year old man knowing he cannot take care of you if you were to have his child.
Settle? What a way to express a complex series of desires, choices, and priorities. We don't even know for a fact that she "settled" biologically. The fetus could theoretically belong to anyone. We know that she "settled" for this 64 year old man's provisions and resources (and possibly his company). I guarantee that she had no idea he was ill or on his way toward becoming ill when she hitched her cart to his horse. Look up Briffault's Law regarding female behavior if you're interested.
I have a feeling this 37 year old girl isnt a looker, has low self-esteem and has daddy issues.
He did say his illness was sudden
As a woman, i put this on her. At 37, you know how to prevent birth! She did this on purpose.
@@melissachartres3219great point. He should get a DNA test
Dude, if you ain’t figured out where babies come from by now I’m not sure a call to Dave Ramsey is going to help you very much.
LOL
Love it!!
Best comment of the day!
He's not healthy enough to work but he can go to poundtown on his wife?
He seems to have good blood circulation.
yea it is pretty easy to make the love. You should try it.
No illness will stop a man from doing this. None.
His little soldiers are still active.
At least one of his limbs is working
This sounds like a sugar daddy situation that is no longer sweet.
Yep!
Passport bro
64 and having a kid, totally irresponsible. Poor child will end up having to clean daddies diaper too.
Lol can you imagine they can now both sit in the playpen with their diapers on well mommy changes them both 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Kysen10 Abraham and Sarah tho
His wife will be doing that lol. She's 37
@@herbertscott9575
Oh, so this kid was conceived in a miracle directly from God because He promised he’d be one of Jesus’ ancestors?? WOW!! 😂
That was the Old Testament, dude… it’s all free will, audiaphora, and personal consequences from here on out until Jesus comes back. Sacrificed a goat lately? Eat bacon or shrimp? 😂 Please learn context.
@@herbertscott9575 Not the same! Sarah was the senior citizen and Abraham lived to 175 years. He was old enough to witness his son getting married. This is not the same situation
In my opinion this 64 year old man use to be a player. He later saw that he was getting older. Needed a HOSPICE wife, young or same age to take care of him as he is getting older. But it backfired, the 37 year old wife is pregnant and he has a lot of health problems.!
He could have simply avoided this by going for a younger woman but who is at least past menopause like 45 or 50. Some people mistakenly believe the women in their 30's are much less fertile, but I've gotten pregnant more times in my thirties than I did in my twenties.
@@The-Oneness11average age women enter menopause is 52
@@theagenticvoice.podcast Some women do enter in their 40s though. My mother had me at 38 but she entered menopause at the age of 42.
And I can hear his voice. He’s black. Typical of them
@@The-Oneness11 even MORE simply, he could have gotten a vasectomy himself!
“I had no idea there are so many idiots on this world until I got an internet… “ Stanislaw Lem.
That’s what happens when an older guy thinks with the wrong head and gets a young trophy wife.😂
dude she's 37
@CokefishR, exactly, she is young. Too young for him. He is 64.
@@Observer100-cn7gv Lol what. You think 37 is young?
@@CokefishR yes, 37 is young
@@CokefishRThe older you get, the older “young” gets. At 40ish , a “ boy” was a man in his 20s, at 60ish, a boy was a guy in his 30s or even 40s.
Why would you have a child at 64? I'm 51 years old and have a 19 year old son. There's no way I'm taking care of a child at my age. Been there, done that. Time to enjoy my life.
Ejaculation isn't always intended to impregnate. It doesn't at all sound like this was something they planned for.
@@bufficliff8978ejaculation anywhere near a fertile woman’s cervix means pregnancy is ALWAYS a possibility.
Shit im 32 and no way in hell do I see myself pregnant, EVER again. (I have 2 kids)
Amen sister!
My dad remarried around age 40 just after myself and a younger sister left for college aged 18/19.. ideally would have been on track to retire and take it easy...new wife had twins right away...she left after about 5 years and he raised the kids on his own. Now he's in mid 60's and BROKE.
Seriously, if you get yourself pregnant by a 64 y.o man, you plan to act as a single mom. Yes, there are a lot of healthy 64 year olds however, things can begin to happen. There are a lot of single moms out there that do a fabulous job. She just needs to plan to work to help support the family. Between her working and him having half of his income, they should be able to manage. They would need to look at their finances and possibly downsize to a smaller home that is on one level.
He married a woman of child bearing age so the possibility of her getting pregnant was very high. He should have thought about that before and planned for the likelihood of it happening. He’s gonna have to go back to work.
She can work and he can stay with the baby
@@georgewagner7787 no he can work she can still wait the baby there are plenty of remote jobs
😂...she will find a new man in the process. Not sure how r y she got tangled up with a paw paw. Unfortunate for the kid. I mean, at least the baby will have a father.
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It sounds like he wants nothing to do with raising a kid at his age if he wants to push his wife off on relatives while he figures stuff out. But that’s what he signed up for. Bless his retirement raising a baby.
Of course he doesn't but wanted a young woman so got what he deserved.
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While working near full-time.
Yep that's what I heard. What a mess!
Men should think with the big head instead of the little head.
Abraham and Sarah tho😅
It’s so hard…though😂
There is a minor procedure done in the doctors office to prevent this.
The number of single mothers in this country shows that women need to think a bit too before having coitus.
@@genxx2724 first thing I booked once my second child was born. Went in the next week, drove myself there and back … not too sore, and took any risk off the table.
For a guy, it’s an easy procedure … for a woman, it’s a lot more dangerous. No brained - get it snipped
I laughed out loud when he said California (Riverside).
Right!
Same. I’m from Anaheim. My first response was to laugh.
The housing market is practically closed for people who didn’t buy 10-20+ years ago. Friends that moved can’t come back and repurchase their properties at the same price. Many of the prices have doubled or tripled.
Wife can go to work after the baby is born. By the time the kid is 10 dad will be 75, the kid should be old enough to roll pops over to change his diaper. Children are not arm chairs or house plants, they should require a little more thought prior to being concieved.
Ew,ew,ew
Getting a strong whiff of "passport bro" who got himself a cutie-pie younger wife from overseas. Clearly the little head was doing all the thinking because this younger woman hasn't adjusted her expectations or compromised to sustain the family through difficult times (e.g. quitting her job instead of keeping an income coming in). She's not invested in the marriage and is clearly gonna pursue her own plans regardless of his wishes and capabilities. He needs to retrain for some computer-based work he can do from home if he's disabled. He can forget about retirement. Relying on his family to "help" (give him money, I'm guessing) isn't going to work. He's going to have to be self-sustaining and a lot smarter than he has been, especially about women. Don't be a passive spectator in your own life.
Catwiskering- Very good insight why would an American mid 30's woman marry a man twice her age? . You answered my question. Answer is they don't, but a lot of older men get young Philippine wives who gladly marry them
@@macpduff2119 ...and not for love. For money. This old man's thinking this younger woman married him for love, and now he's learning she has her plans, and she's going to follow those plans regardless of his changes in circumstance and health.
I've been thinking this is probably the case. A mail-order bride from the Phillipines, which you see a lot with older, skeevy men in Buffalo. Possibly also from Central America and has family in California.
Let's imagine they fell madly passionately in love.
Bless that 37 yr old woman's heart. She's got a baby OTW, a 64 year old man to care for AND he's relying on her income to still work?! Im tired for her. 🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵 Good luck Sis! 😳
Must be tough. He's not only concerned about his health, but his unborn child as well. Praying for you and your family. Dave is right, California is not a solution. I live here in California, and it is a very expensive.
praying is very very helpful lolololo
@@jamesjames5715Have you ever met God
We had 3 kids and the wife and I who were still young decided together we didn’t want any more kids. I immediately scheduled a vasectomy because I knew I couldn’t risk 10-15 years go by and wife and I get a surprise.
Best part of getting a vasectomy, if 5-7 years go by and wife gets baby fever, I know I will never change my mind and end up in this situation. Imagine being a senior citizen and having a newborn, hard pass for me
Vasectomy still isn't a guarantee. My cousin is in the military with 2 kids already and has a new one coming.
@@Gromitz101
It’s a 99.85% success rate. I’ll take my chances
Your wife can look forward to GRANDKIDS.
@@Pondapple
Amen!
My co worker is 72 with a six year old. All he does is complain about working and how much child support he pays.
He was healthy enough to get his wife pregnant. Now he's crying about how there is no one to help him....are you kidding me??? 😂😂😂
He's asking for guidance, he's got plenty of options . Abortion and stuff.
Abortion needs to be an option on the table
He married , What is the problem oh he 84 and she 30 that the problem. yall need to just stop. The man is not asking for a hand out he asking for david to help him and there is nothing wrong with that.
Well, it doesn't take much to get a wife pregnant, regardless the disability.The main fact is this health issue came on him as a surprise ! Which can be scary. He's talking without saying to much that this muscular disease that's rare can debilitate him for life. Another words his muscles will go into atrophy over time. This is really sad because he's still fairly young enough to still work. God bless him and his family. I hope he can find a solution. California is not a place you want to move too. It's terribly expensive!!!!!
I know - I'm born and raised here in California and it's every bit expensive.
@@oscarg.3330abortion is not his option. It's her option. If she doesn't want an abortion, there is nothing he can do.
No one to help him? How people treat you is EXACTLY what they think of you!
How about a dose of Accountability?
Was his friends or family in the same room cheering him on saying “ We all “ are going to have a baby? Seriously?
When he laughed I had the impression he is not living in the real world and looking for others to look after him goodness me. Babyman wanting to be the centre of focus isn’t going to get his wants or needs met.
He will be last now.
Baby first.
Wife second.
Babyman last.
Harsh but real.
Helping him with what though? In his situation, he needs substantial assistance consisting of either money, hands on assistance to help him directly or with the baby later on, or a time machine. You can’t ask people to give up their time and money for your poor decisions. Besides, this is an ongoing situation. A one time assistance won’t do much for him and his family.
Not true. I live in a state where my only family is my mom’s two disabled sisters who can’t help. Don’t be quick to judge.
I think the caller was suggesting California because he'd qualify for a lot State benefits. He should just pretend he's a "refugee" and he'd get everything for free.
Hate to say this but if the wife's family is in CA, she's going to CA with or without him. Sounds like he knows it too.
Imagine 20 years of child support STARTING at age 64????
Yes, she will. Because she's about to have a newborn, an elderly husband with health issues and a full time job all the way in Buffalo by herself.
She is not gonna be able to cope.
@@Aquaria2291but this old husband can be child's daycare, which will help a lot
@@aeterna581 Nope, he just said she has been taking care OF HIM.
@@cyoohoos Don't know how much child support you can take from a disabled un-employed person.
No baby help is worth moving to California. Get a maid it will cost less than a California move on a fixed income.
What are you talking about?
@@analyticalchick3064 When you listen to his story, he was thinking of selling his home in buffalo and move to California where some other family is located, so that they can get family help. His local family is busy. Didn't you listen to the call? Apparently you have never moved into the California housing market. Well there is no case where he could sell his house, dump his mortgage and just buy a house in California. If he was thinking about Virginia or Tennessee, it might be possible, but not California.
I saw a similar case happened in China. This couple had twins during their 60s and they committed suicide one day both of them when the kids were 5 due to the financial and emotional stress. It’s very sad.
i think he should get a paternity test first and foremost.
If he had been thinking with his big head and got his little head snipped, he’d know if it was his baby or not.
@@anndeecosita3586😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👍
@@anndeecosita3586 Snip, snip, before you unzip.
My immediate thought
Not a bad thought there, trust but verify 😂
This is super sad. His wife must be really stressed as well. Praying for them both.
The only non judgmental comment
@@audreyt3251sometimes judgment is warranted though. How is he 64 and nobody his whole life has talked any damn sense not his head.
@@mssophiad03 it is what it is. He called for advice on a situation that no one can change with their judgmental comments. Help him or shut up 🤷🏼♀️
@@audreyt3251 I think Dave is right. Don’t move to cali if you’re in financial trouble, also why isn’t his wife working? She’s only 37 and unless she’s disabled she should be.
@@mssophiad03 well we don’t know why shes not working and im sure theres a reason for it
Listening to this story is the reason why I aim to pay off my mortgage as quickly as possible.
Are you planning on having a kid in your 60s
@@sarahann530 Hell-to-the-no!
My brother's friend is 65 and married to a 36-year-old woman who has used him for money. She even had a baby with another man, but he still loves her. It’s amazing how some older men think younger women are interested in them for love. I can’t believe it! I don’t feel sorry for the caller at all, he left his wife for a younger woman, and now he's dealing with the results of his own choices.
Probably not his child. Sperm goes bad after 40. The reason why old men like Pacino and DeNiro don't get paternity tests is because they don't want to be publicly humiliated that they got cheated on. Remember Anna Nicole Smith. It wasn't her very elderly husband's child either. Old men usually get cheated on. They are too stupid to acknowledge facts.
My husband had a friend (mid 50s) that had his vasectomy reversed bc his 30 something bride wanted a baby. 🤪
Mu dad married a woman right after he ditched my step mom and she got pregnant to "lock it down". He was early 40s and almost ready to retire, myself and my sister were 17/18,and leaving for college. He cut is off financially and moved her extended family into the home. 5 years in, after all his money was gone, she lefr for another man and relinquished custody of my half siblings to him. He's now in mid 60's and BROKE.
@@ST-gf2ms 😮
Im happy I'm not the only one who felt the vibes he left his wife for this woman. Probably have to pay support and alimony and now have a new baby. He is rich to complain when he got what he wanted. Young wife means fertile.
🗣️ No fool like and old fool ☠️
Dogs will be dogs!
They both played each other. She did not get a sugar daddy and he is going to be a baby daddy. 👶
64 year old with a 37 year old wife. What a player.
Broke on top of it. He's obviously swingin d
In the words of Ramsey, “You just described a Sugar Daddy” 😂
I don't think they said anything about how old anyone is.
@@katyedwards3935 yea they did.
Yeah, he’s 64 and she’s 37. @@katyedwards3935